A conversation between loving parents sharing perspectives and experiences of family, raising children and all things life.
In this episode, we explore the sensitive topic of death and dying, reflecting on recent personal experiences with the passing of a family member. We discuss the emotional and practical challenges faced during this time, including navigating the healthcare system, the importance of advocating for patients, and the different ways people experience and deal with grief. Additionally, we share our own encounters with death, and offer insights into how to support loved ones and oneself during the grieving process. We also touch upon explaining death to young children in a comprehensible manner. Join us as we dive deep in the topic of death and dying.If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
In this episode, we'll be diving deep into something we've all experienced: sibling relationships. Yep, we're talking about how to make them better by tackling that age-old issue of sibling rivalry.We'll be breaking down to discuss the causes of all that rivalry and creating strategies on how to break free from that type of relationship. We'll chat about why it's super important for parents to show unconditional love and really listen to their kids' feelings. In addition, we emphasize the pivotal role of unconditional love, validation of children's emotions, and the cultivation of an environment where each child feels valued and respected.So, if you've ever wondered how to turn those sibling spats into lasting bonds, stick around! Our aim is to guide listeners in creating a nurturing family culture rooted in kindness and mutual respect. Join us as we dive deep in discussing all about creating a chill, loving sibling vibe that everyone can get behind. Let's get into it!If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
Do you want a big family but you just don't know at times? Are you weary of the unknown? In this episode we discuss our journey in deciding to have a third child by following our intuition and having deep consideration of practical aspects. We share experiences on how we used our deep listening, synchronicities, and the impact on our current children and how that helped in making our final decision. Join us as we dive deep in our discussion about how we decided on trying for our third child. If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
Have you ever wondered how you can communicate with your partner better? Don't you wish there's a magical formula that you can follow to have a better relationships? Well, look no more! In this episode we talk about how to communicate effectively and deepened your relationship with your partner. Life can be challenging at times but coming home to a lovely home environment can be such a blessing. Join us, as we dive deep in how to cultivate meaningful communications with your partner. If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
In Episode 69, we explore the topic of parenting roles for busy parents, aiming to help you easily manage and divide responsibilities. We discuss the ways to share insights on effective communication between partners to prevent misunderstandings. We also delve into the art of task division, emphasizing crystal-clear communication, flexibility, and considering who's best suited for certain tasks. Join us, as we dive deep in providing practical tips to create a smooth daily life routine.If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
In this episode, we dive into a deeply personal journey that touches the lives of countless individuals: miscarriage. As someone who has experienced this profound loss firsthand, I understand the devastation, the grief, and the overwhelming emotions that accompany it. Miscarriage is a topic often shrouded in silence and stigma, leaving many feeling isolated in their pain. But by fostering open and compassionate dialogue, challenging stigmas, and providing support and resources for those affected, we can create a more inclusive and empathetic society where individuals feel seen, heard, and valued in their journey toward healing and hope in the wake of pregnancy loss. Join us as we explore the complexities, challenges, and resilience that define the journey through miscarriage, offering hope and understanding to those who have walked this path. If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
Here we dive into the secret key to lasting love – holding space for your partner. In this episode, Akko and Tamo take you through their experiences and stresses the importance of an open communication within a relationship. They talk about their journey into the heart of relationship as they explore the challenges and nuances of holding space, sharing valuable insights on the emotional intricacies involved. They delve into the significance of maturity, courage, and the delicate balance of staying present without succumbing to defensiveness.Join us as we dive deep in exploring the depths of emotional connection, understanding, and resilience. If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
We embark on a journey through the intricate stages of toddlers and preschoolers. In this episode, Tamo shares his fascination for developmental models, describing them as maps that guide us through the panoramic landscape of growth. From personal experiences to popular personality tests, he emphasizing their role in fostering self-awareness. Join us as we connect these models to to our children. In a world where each child's journey is uniquely their own, Tamo and Akko encourage parents to embrace individual paces, savoring the nuances of their child's distinctive growth.If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
In this insightful episode, Akko and Tamo delve into the transformative journey of becoming a calmer, more patient parent. The discussion starts off with a more introspective tone as Tamo shares his recent struggles with parenting frustrations. Recognizing a recurring cycle of irritation and the negative impact it has on the family, Tamo reveals his breakthrough moment. This leads to an exploration of intuitive writing as a powerful tool for self-reflection and emotional release. Tamo details his process of setting intentions, unburdening surface thoughts, and probing deeper into the subconscious to understand and address the root causes of his frustrations.Join us as we extend an invite to all listeners to engage in intuitive writing and share their experiences, fostering a community of growth and self-improvement.If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo .❤️
In this podcast we dive into the world of Raising Emotionally Intelligent Toddlers and exploring crucial steps in fostering these emotional intelligence for your little ones. We discuss the essential process of naming and acknowledging toddlers' emotions. We emphasizes the importance of providing emotional support, reassurance of normalcy, and waiting for the right moment to guide them through coping strategies.We touch on redirection as a useful tool and the significance of unconditional love during emotional challenges. Our goal is to equip parents with practical insights for nurturing emotional intelligence in toddlers—a crucial life skill for healthier relationships and mental well-being.If you find this episode helpful, please share it. Subscribe for more insightful discussions, and join the conversation on our website at AKKOANDTAMO.com or Instagram at Akko and Tamo..❤️
Today, we're bringing you an episode that's about a milestone that every parent eagerly anticipates and dreads at the same time - THE FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL. The excitement had been building for months, weeks, and days as we prepared for our daughter's grand adventure into the world of education. We painted a vivid picture of school as an exciting place filled with new friends, playful learning, and endless possibilities. But as the day finally arrived, the truth hit us like a tidal wave - it wasn't just our daughter embarking on this journey, but us parents too.As we waved goodbye with a mix of pride and apprehension, we quickly realized that our emotions were far more tangled than we ever expected. The notion of our kids growing up clashed head-on with the bittersweet realization that they're venturing into a world where we won't be there to hold their hand every step of the way.In this episode, we're opening up about the raw, unfiltered truth of what happens when the day we've been hyping up finally arrives. So, whether you're a seasoned parent who's been through it all or a soon-to-be parent gearing up for this inevitable rite of passage, join us as we peel back the layers of this emotional experience. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Communication is a fundamental aspect of any healthy relationship, and updating your partner about what's going on in your life is crucial. By sharing your experiences, thoughts, and emotions, you can create a deeper sense of understanding and connection with your partner. It also helps to prevent misunderstandings, and allows your partner to support you during difficult times. Keeping your partner in the loop also helps to build trust and transparency in the relationship, which are essential for long-term success. Ultimately, keeping your partner updated shows that you value their input and opinion, and that you prioritize your relationship. Join us as we dive deep as Tamo shares his life updates with Akko. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Parenting is one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences in life. It is a journey filled with joy, love, and happiness, but it also comes with its fair share of challenges, frustrations, and anxieties. As a parent, having a supportive partner who can help you navigate this journey together can make a difference when times are tough and when times are good. Join us as we dive deep in talking about why we recommend setting aside time to talk to each other about parenting and find alignment. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
As parents, we all want to provide the best possible environment for our children to grow and thrive. One of the most effective ways to achieve this is through playful parenting - using play as a means of building attachment and security, reducing stress and anxiety, and creating learning and practice opportunities. Join us as we dive deep with all the benefits of playful parenting. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
As parents, we have the responsibility to teach our children how a healthy relationship can look by example. One way to do this is by modeling respectful behavior towards our partners, which includes speaking from our hearts and well of each other in front of our children. Join us as we dive deep on how speaking positively about our partners in front of our children sets an example of how to treat someone we care about. This shows our children that we value and respect each other, and it also helps the children develop a positive attitude toward relationships and to each parent.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Parenting is a complex and challenging journey that requires us to constantly adapt and evolve as our children grow and develop. As parents, we strive to make decisions and take actions that result in positive change for our children and the parent-child relationship. Sometimes our best intentions can lead to unforeseen and undesirable outcomes.It is important for us as parents to be self-reflective and teachable in these situations, and to admit when our methods have not worked. Join us as we dive deep in how this self-awareness and willingness to learn can set us on the path towards continuous improvement as parents. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
As a parent, it can be difficult to know how to handle physical aggression from your child. It's understandable to feel frustrated or overwhelmed when your child is hitting, biting, or pushing others. However, it's important to remember that your child's behavior is not a reflection of your parenting or your child's character. Addressing your child's physical aggression with love and compassion can help to create a safe and supportive environment for them to learn and grow. Join us as we dive deep in a few tips to help you approach the situation with empathy and understandingPlease subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Parenting is a crucial responsibility for individuals and is considered essential for the well-being of the next generation. It shapes the character and values of children, helping them develop into responsible and successful adults. By providing a supportive and loving environment, parenting also supports a child's emotional, psychological, and physical growth. Thus, we prioritize want to parenting for its impact on both the individual and society as a whole. Join us as we dive deep in why parents need to take a step back at times to see the bigger picture. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Temperament is an important feature of social and emotional health. The word “temperament” refers to the way we approach and react to the world. Simply put, temperament refers to a child's innate personality traits, such as their level of activity, adaptability, distractibility, sensitivity, and emotional reactivity. Oftentimes, people say they can tell the temperament of a child from the cry when they make their way into the world. In this podcast we'll be talking about understanding your child's temperament and how it can affect your parenting. We'll discuss the benefits of being aware of your child's unique temperament, as well as the challenges that can arise when there is a mismatch between parent and child temperament. Join us as we dive deep to share tips on how to navigate these challenges and create a harmonious home.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
As parents, we all know that toddlers can get easily bored with their toys. They may play with something for a few days, but then quickly lose interest and move on to something else. While this is completely normal and to be expected, it can also be frustrating for parents. Not only do we want our children to be entertained and engaged, but we also want to make sure that they're getting the most out of their playtime. Come join us as we dive deep in how we can create this environment of constant engagement. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Establishing a bedtime routine can be a game changer for both children and parents. It can help kids wind down, feel more secure and comfortable, and ensure a good night's sleep. To make the bedtime routine as smooth and stress-free as possible, consider using a timer. Having a visual countdown can establish a clear understanding of how much time is left for certain activities and can help children transition smoothly into bedtime and avoid any power struggles. Join us as we dive deep in our experience of using a timer during bedtime routine.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Creating special memories with your child is one of the most important things you can do as a parent. One of the best ways to do this is through regular outings and quarterly outings with just the two of you, whether it's a father-daughter date or a parent-child adventure. These one-on-one experiences can help strengthen the bond between parent and child, improve communication and understanding, and provide opportunities for meaningful conversations and shared laughter. They also give children the opportunity to see their parents as individuals, with their own interests and passions, and to feel valued and special. In this podcast, we talk about Tamo and our daughter's outing as they ventured out from Hawaii to California. Join us as we dive deep to the importance of making time for parent-child outings and cherish the moments you create together. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Are you having trouble completing your toddler's bedtime routine in a timely manner? Are you having trouble sticking to a consistent bedtime routine? Establishing a consistent and drama-free bedtime routine for your toddler can be a challenge, but using a color-coded timer can make the process much smoother. This timer not only serves as a visual cue, it helps signal the body that it's time to start winding down for the night. Ultimately, this can lead to fewer bedtime struggles and a more peaceful and restful night for the whole family.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Here are 50 of our most useful tips to creating and loving confident child. Join us as we dive deep into our 50 practical Tips for parenting. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Ever wonder how it would be to live in a different state, island, or country? After long discussions and considerations, we're making that jump to move to explore our next chapter in life. In this podcast, we talk about all the why's and how's. Join us as we dive deep into our plan for the future. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
How would you feel if you had financial freedom? How would you feel if you didn't have to worry each month paying the bills? How would you feel if the stress of money was lifted from you and your family? How would you feel if you could spend as much time with your family as you wanted?We're planning to create a family money series where we share our thoughts on money and family finances, so you can live the best family life possible. Join us, as we dive deep on how YOU can have financial freedom. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Who here fell in the mindset of becoming the Perfect parent? Read all these parenting books to get yourself prepared to become THAT perfect parent. We were those parents. We wanted to guide our children to become perfect themselves in turn. However, we soon realized that our children had their own agendas. The more we wanted to become the perfect parent, the more our children deviated away from our expectations. We are here to tell you that instead of being a perfect parent, let's strive to become an intentional/conscious parent. Join us as we dive deep in letting go of becoming a perfect parent.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Ever hear the words "Mama's Boy" being thrown around here and there? It's a playful word until you fall victim or become the offender. It's easy for mothers to want to overprotect her child/children. However, this act of "kindness" can cause disastrous consequences on the child. Parents need to be aware of how we are raising our child/children. Our job as parents is to teach our children to be able to spread their wings and fly in society. Jordan Peterson, a Canadian clinical psychologist, illustrates the consequences of overbearing parenting in one of his lecture. Watching his lecture struck a cord with us especially the one regarding overbearing mothers. Join us as we dive deep on the discussion of disastrous consequences of overbearing parents. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
How do you manage your stress? Are you the type that feels better after talking it out? Or are you the type that feels better being alone to process everything? Whichever type you are, having great support is a must. Having this support really helps in managing your stress level. In this podcast, we talk about how we support each other during tough times. Join us, as we dive deep on stress management for parents of a baby and toddler. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Ever lose your wallet or phone? Tired of your kids hiding your keys or phone? Ever wish there was something out there to track your valuables? Well, look no further. In this podcast we talk about all the things you need to do before and after losing your valuables. AND a tracker device you can add to your valuables. Join us as we dive deep in the knows about the Tile Tracker and Apple Air Tags. Listen till the end for our bonus tip on how to protect your children's identity. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Want to know a fun way to teach your child the different emotions? Want your child to be emotionally intelligent? In this podcast, we share our ideas of how we helped our daughter understand emotions and herself more. Join us as we dive deep in emotions. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Family consists of many different people with their own opinion and that can cause friction at times. Family may not approve the person you're dating or the friends you hang out with; the list can go on and on. In this podcast, we talk about our own experiences and more importantly the questions and mindset that can help make better decisions when it comes to family not approving. Join us as we dive deep to teach you how to make better decisions.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Ever wish you can just live one day in peace with your child/children? Ever want to just hide inside your pantry or bedroom for some peace and quiet. In this podcast, we talk about how to redirect your child after connecting. Join us as we dive deep in sharing how to minimize your children's tantrums.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Connecting with your children is vital. Showing them how much we care and love them is a must. But have you ever thought of connecting during those dreadful tantrums? Have you ever tried give them more love while they're screaming and crying? In this podcast, we talk about the importance of connection during these tantrums. Join us de let you in on a secret from tantrum to Tranquility. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
How do you foster your child's growth? What can we do as parents? How do we keep up with our children? In this podcast, we discuss how understanding the developmental stages can help in how to deal and foster your child/children. Join us as we dive deep in this topic by giving real life examples of how to foster your child's growth. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
“Live the Life of Your Dreams: Be brave enough to live the life of your dreams according to your vision and purpose instead of the expectations and opinions of others.” ― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the HeartSo Let's live our dream life! Let's help each other! What is your vision for 2022? You're 20% there by painting yourself that vision. 20% for just jotting down that vision! So let's start our 2022 with a vision for ourselves. A vision of out dream life. Join us as we dive deep in how we created our vision for 2022. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
It's that time of year when we reflect and admire all the things we've done throughout the year; reflect on the things we've learned. As parents I'm sure there's lots of things you've learned and thought should have done differently and even things you're proud of. But why not take this moment as an opportunity to learn and see how we can improve as parents and individuals. In this podcast share are golden take aways from 2021. Join us as we dive deep in our discussion about 2021. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Here are some useful tips we would like to share with you all in one podcast. These are tips we've discovered as we parented throughout our years as parents. We hope it's useful. It sure is useful for us. Join us as we dive deep to make your parenting life easier. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Tired of those tantrums? Tired of those screaming and cries? Wish there's something you can do? There is! Mama and Dads out there, listen to this podcast. We talk about the method of redirection in detail so that your child doesn't even get to the tantrum stage. Preventative Medicine. Join us as we dive deep in obtaining peace. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Waiting for the perfect child? Tired of all those tantrums? Want to connect with your children? In this podcast, we talk about tools you can use to help your child deal with all those big emotions. Please join us as we dive deep in this topic. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Do you want the best for your child/ren? In this podcast we talk about a few tips on how to become a better parent to your child or children. Join us as we dive deep in this topic. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Whenever we travel or bump into great parents, we ask them for advice on parenting. As we collected from dozens of parents there seems to be a common theme. On this podcast, we talk about the most important thing you can give your child. Join us as we dive deep in this topic. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Tired of your kids going wild? Put them in a schedule! Kids love routines and having their life in order with a schedule. Believe it or not, kids find security in a schedule. Join us to find out how our daily routines helps create a win win situation.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Overwhelmed with all the newborn products? Want to know what's really essential? Having our first kid, we realized that they really didn't need THAT much. With our second kid, we confirmed those essentials! In this podcast, we share what parents really need for their newborns. Join us as we dive deep with all the necessities. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Every birth story is unique and special. It's certainly a team effort as the mother prepares herself for birth, as the father coaches/helps the mother, and as baby prepares for his/her debut. Birth is such a magical experience. Yes, it's painful but within that pain lies a story full of tears, sweat, and pure bliss. In this podcast, we chitchat about our birthing story. We had the 1 in 80,000 births. Join us as we dive deep with our crazy experience.Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Have you noticed your toddler regressing after the addition of a baby sibling? It is actually very common to see this regression pattern. After all, if the older sibling was the only child, their attention from mama and dada was solely theirs. Now, they are having to share this attention. In this podcast, we talk about how we prepared our daughter for her baby sibling. Join us as we dive deep in this topic. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
What kind of birthing experience would you like to have? Who would be supporting you? In this podcast we talk about our positive experience with the Bradley method. This method of birthing is a more natural route and involves your partner to be your coach. Utilizing this method not only brought us closer but fall deeper in love with each other. Join us as we dive deep in discussing our experience with the Bradley method. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Is your house filled with toys? Do you keep buying toys for your child/children? We are totally guilty for this. As parents we think, educational toys, sensory toys, or any other toys may be more beneficially to their child/children but we found some interesting information about having too much toys. Join us, as we dive deep in this topic of too many toys. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Want to minimize tantrums with your child/children? Want to help your child/children to feel confident? Want to empower your child/children? Want to teach responsibility to your child/children? In this podcast, we discuss the power of giving choices to your child/children. As simple as it sounds, giving choices to your child/children can manifest into something magical. These simple decision-making skills can help develop important life skills. So join us as we dive deep into this topic. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Do you have aspirations and dreams? Want your dreams to come true? it's definitely possible with the right tool. So dream BIG! In this podcast, we talk about tools you can use to achieve your goals and dreams. Join us as we dive deep to make your dreams come true. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️
Do you ever procrastinate? Ever have trouble feeling motivated to finish a task? We go through this all the time! So naturally, we found tips and tricks in helping us get tasks done. In this podcast, we talk about 2 ways in which can help you start and finish a task for those laggers and perfectionists, respectively. Join us, as we dive deep talking about how to get things done. Please subscribe and visit us on our website community, and we look forward to reading your comments. ❤️