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Everyone hits a bump in the road. What do you do with it?  Be inspired as we explore the ways people experience, navigate and manage the ups and downs and twists and turns in this road trip called life.

Pat Wetzel: Award Winning Author, Podcaster, Storyteller


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    A Journey Into Authenticity

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2025 43:19


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Marcel Vogeli was living what many would consider a dream life. In his twenties, he was traveling the globe, filling his calendar with excitement and adventure. Inner peace wasn't really on his agenda. An unexpected and serious car accident and the subsequent diagnosis of an aggressive autoimmune disease changed everything. So did Christiane Beerlandt's book, This book was the catalyst for Marcel's transformation teaching him that illness could be a clarion call to reconnecting with oneself. The book led him first to heal and later to meet and work with Christiane. The bottom line to her research and books is that conforming to society inevitable stifles our authenticity and can even play a role in illness. True healing is more than physical. It's practical and spiritual and can be found in embracing our individual and unique journeys. Marcel's story speaks to this the fact that beauty that can emerge from adversity, and embracing the journey of self-discovery can lead to joy. Join us as we delve deeper into Marcel's inspiring journey, exploring themes of healing, authenticity, and the transformative power of self-liberation. Tune in to discover how you can start your own journey towards a more authentic life, filled with purpose and joy.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Power of Our Words

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 43:15


      Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Steve Melman is a psychotherapist who turned his childhood struggles into a narrative of self empowerment. Initially diagnosed as learning disabled, he took the statement as a challenge. Steve reframes setbacks as “bumps in the road” rather than failures, Reframing a challenging narrative as a temporary state of affairs and even as a challenge, he talks about moving ahead in spite of harsh words and other setbacks. He likens life to a long road trip, where the journey is as significant as the destination, reminding people that life is not just about achievements but also about the experiences we gather along the way. Steve's insights remind us that while life may present obstacles, it also offers countless opportunities for growth and fulfillment. It's all a matter of words, and you get to choose your own story.       What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    A Daily Dose of Humor And What It Might Do For You

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2025 27:53


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Bill Williams spent over two decades in broadcasting, running his own communications consulting and publishing company in Washington D.C. His entrepreneurial spirit kicked in when he developed the "Interstate Travelers Guides," a project that was once voted the best business plan of 1984. However, the stock market crash and the arrival of GPS technology brought an end to that dream. Next Bill went into insurance. One of his biggest hurdles was getting his agents to simply read their emails. So he started ending out a daily "Thought for the Day" filled with humor and inspiration. “Thought for theDay” grew into a massive international email list. The humor enjoyed by those list recipients is now in book form: "" Bill's story reminds us that while change is inevitable, it can lead to unexpected opportunities and growth. And he reminds us, along the way, to smile.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    A Bit of Burlesque

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 33:10


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Magdalena Giovanna Rosa is a woman who has bravely navigated the tumultuous waters of divorce, loneliness, and self-discovery. Her story is one of resilience, empowerment, and the quest for self-love. Magdalena's journey began with a typical narrative: a marriage that seemed ideal but quickly turned lonely. After 17 years of feeling disconnected, she embarked on a solo retreat during which she found the courage to confront her feelings, leading  her to  seek a separation from her husband. This decision, while initially  liberating, was just the beginning of a tumultuous path.  But tumultuous paths can lead to remarkable insights and break throughs and so it was with  Magdalena  as she navigated her own loneliness and the societal pressures that often accompany divorce. Divorce, she warned, is a form of grief, And in facing that grief she also entered a period of self-discovery that led her to explore everything from poetry to burlesque dancing.   Join us as we explore the beauty of self-discovery, the importance of vulnerability, and the magic that unfolds when we choose to be present in our lives.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    Parenting In The Digital Age

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 37:24


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com Jeff Nelligan is the father of three boys and a well-known commentator in the world of American parenting. His most recent work is the 2nd edition of  in which he outlines how his parenting techniques helped guide his sons through childhood and adolescence to the U.S. Naval Academy, Williams College, and West Point. Jeff, known as "Nellie" has a parenting philosophy that is rooted in four cornerstones: personal courtesy, confidence, resilience in adversity, and ambition. He believes that these qualities are essential for children to navigate the complexities of modern life. As he points out, a staggering 75% of the time spent with children is over by the age of 12, making early engagement crucial for instilling these values. How to do this when teens average nearly nine hours a day on digital devices and are experiencing rising mental health issues? According to Nelly, this electronic addiction that permeates our youth hampers the development of interpersonal skills and contributes to a generation struggling with civic and social virtues. This shows up in our workforce: Fifty eight percent of hiring managers reporting that recent graduates are not ready for the job market. What are the practical and actionable tips for parents looking to steer their children through and around today's digital landscape? How do we integrate technology wisely into the world of our youth for their future success as people and as successful contributors to society?     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    Sex in Our Sixties, Seventies and Beyond

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2025 30:23


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Carol Remz is 80. And an outspoken spokesperson about women's sexuality as they age. Back in the 1980's when she was experiencing perimenopause and menopause, discussions about women's health, intimacy, and aging were largely taboo and Carol was left to navigate her health challenges by herself.  A serendipitous encounter with sea buckthorn, a plant known for its healing properties, transformed her experience. Carol talks about the various preconceptions that often interfere with romantic relationships as we age and why we need to dispel them. Aging well, she notes, means working on personal acceptance.. Practicing that self acceptance, and all the changes that come with aging, is the first step to open the path to true intimacy.  Carol believes that true intimacy goes beyond physicality and is rooted in emotional connection and acceptance of one's vulnerabilities. To that end, she has written a book that aims to educate and empower women about their sexuality and health, providing the sex education many missed out on during their formative years. Not to mention their menapausal mid-life years! Her message is clear: we are not defined by our age or circumstances but by love and acceptance.      What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Using The Arts to Heal

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 48:21


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Growing up, for Mark MacNicol, was a study in contrasts. His mother's side of the family lived in a rough neighborhood, his grandfather was a multimillionaire and a born-again Christian. For Mark, this led to confusion until his late twenties when he decided to embrace his identity as a writer, channeling his experiences into novels and eventually transitioning into theater. Using the theatre, Mark started the Creative Change Collective that combines drama therapy with therapeutic intent, aimed at individuals struggling with addiction and those in the justice system. His approach allows participants to explore their trauma through fictional characters, creating a safe space for self-reflection and growth. In a society that often overlooks the therapeutic power of the arts, Mark's journey highlights the impact that creativity can have on mental health and emotional well-being. His work with the Creative Change Collective has touched the lives of thousands, proving that through storytelling and theater, we can forge connections, heal wounds, and inspire change.       What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Discovering the Enneagram

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2025 39:08


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Roxanne Howe-Murphy is a best selling author, catalyst for transformation and pioneering thought leader. She uses the Enneagram as a basis for exploring nine personality types that reflect our patterns of behavior and belief. From The Enneagram is a integrative body of wisdom that leads to a wholistic understanding of self, and helps the user to awaken to the mystery of his or her unique true nature which lies beyond the personality structure.  It fuses ancient sources of knowledge with contemporary psychological perspectives and, more recently,  with neuro-biological research. Throughout the episode, we explore themes of intuition, heart intelligence, and the importance of self-compassion. Roxanne emphasizes that we are not defined by our personality patterns; instead, these patterns are coping mechanisms that can be changed with awareness and intention. The conversation invites us to embrace curiosity and adventure in our lives, reminding us that it's never too late to explore new paths and discover our true potential.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    Personal Development for Personal Gain

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2025 31:12


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   This is a story of love, marriage, and divorce. At just 19, Janeen took the leap into marriage.  After a challenging six years, Janine found herself divorced with two small children, grappling with the emotional fallout and societal stigma that often accompanies divorce. Janeen married again, only to face more challenges that ultimately led to another separation and divorce. However, instead of succumbing to despair, she took the opportunity to focus on herself and her children, spending over a decade single to heal and grow. Through her candid storytelling, she sheds light on the complexities of family dynamics post-divorce and the often-unexpected emotional toll it can take on children. Janeen realized that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. "You're taking yourself into those other relationships," she reflects, reminding listeners of the importance of self-awareness and personal growth before seeking new connections. Her story serves as a reminder that true happiness comes from within and that taking the time to understand oneself is crucial before embarking on new relationships.   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying: “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    A Near Death Experience and A Passion For Health

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2025 37:03


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Joan Ruddell's life was forever changed by a near-death experience. At just 19 years old, Joan found herself in a serious car accident that nearly took her life. While she was unconscious, she experienced a profound experience in the afterlife that would shape her beliefs and career for decades to come. After her accident, she struggled with her faith and the stark realities of life and death. Her experiences led her to question the conventional medical practices she had been trained in. With a strong desire to understand the root causes of diseases, she transitioned from a conventional medical career to a holistic approach that focuses on natural remedies and lifestyle changes. Joan's emphasis on healing vs treating disease addresses a range of lifestyle and nutritional issues which, given her background in clinical chemistry, is deep and well thought out. She challenges us to rethink our approach to medicine and encourages everyone to take charge of their well-being. If you're curious about the intersection of spirituality, health, and personal transformation, this episode is a must-listen.       What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Drive to Fly

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 30:00


    Subscribe at for behind the scenes conversations and more!   At the age of 50, Creighkett (pronounce "Cricket") Gilpin Smith made a bold decision to chase her lifelong dream of becoming a helicopter pilot. Balancing her responsibilities as a mother and business owner, she found creative ways to study and practice flying without anyone knowing. Why the secrecy? She didn't want anyone to know if she failed. In a very male dominated field, the camaraderie among female pilots kept her going.  Paying it back, she co-founded the Juliet's Aviatrix Group, a female flying club that fosters support and empowerment among women in aviation. This initiative not only created a safe space for women to share their experiences but also helped bridge the gap in a predominantly male field. Cricket's journey culminated in her obtaining her commercial pilot's license and becoming a certified flight instructor. She continues to inspire others by sharing her experiences and encouraging young women to pursue careers in aviation. Her advice to aspiring pilots is clear: find a mentor, embrace challenges, and never underestimate the importance of community. In a world where dreams are often sidelined, Cricket's story serves as a reminder that anything is possible, at any age. It's all about the desire to fly.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Stepping Out Beyond Your Comfort Zone

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2025 31:14


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com.   Barb's story will resonate deeply with those who have ever felt stuck or unfulfilled in their careers. Barb transitioned from a successful career in manufacturing to becoming a renowned coach and motivational speaker. She was spurred on by a class at Kripalu, a yoga retreat center, where she discovered a plethora of new possibilities. All of which were outside her comfort zone. If there is just one take away from Barb's story, it's about stepping outside your comfort zone. Barb believes that true growth happens when we embrace the unknown and challenge ourselves to explore new opportunities. Her insights are a reminder that life is not a linear path but rather a winding road filled with bumps and surprises.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    How Grief Can Transform Your LIfe

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2025 55:51


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Brian May, is a real estate entrepreneur turned spiritual consultant. What initiated this dramatic change in focus? Brian lost his wife Deborah  to an unexpected tragedy. Grief is one of the most difficult "bumps" to master and  Brian's candid reflections reveal that while the pain never truly disappears, it transforms over time, becoming more manageable as life continues to unfold. A nascent spirituality served as a bridge between his business and personal world. And thus Brian's outreach to the business community started.. He encourages people to embrace the lessons that come from adversity and to find strength in vulnerability. Brian's story is one that everyone can relate to. The wisdom embedded in his story offers transformation, from grief to love. Tune in to see how Brian cultivates his own transformation and what they may mean for you.   Lookig for stories about transformation and wisdom?    What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    The Power of Positivity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2025 28:38


    Deborah is a former pharmaceutical rep turned life coach. Her story begins on a New York City subway platform, a moment that sparked a profound change in her life. After years of pushing herself to be number one, she found herself trapped in a cycle of negativity, exhaustion, and fear. It was a wake-up call that led her to realize, 'Nothing will change unless I change.' So Deborah sought out change. She learned to live in the present and focus on what really matters—her loved ones, her health, and the little joys of life—in order to cultivate a more fulfilling existence. Deborah's journey is a testament to the fact that we all have the capacity to change our lives for the better. By embracing positivity, practicing self-awareness, and taking baby steps towards our goals, we can create a life filled with joy and meaning. Tune in to learn how you can break free from negativity and embrace a more positive, fulfilling life. Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Choosing Holistic Medicine

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2025 27:13


    What happens to a primary care physician when he can no longer prescribe drugs? The allopathic medical model depends on pharmaceuticals, especially for pain relief. But without access to these drugs, Gary Sprouse had to re-think the way he managed chronic pain and addiction. Gary turned toward holistic medicine which meant integrating both physical and mental health strategies to help individuals achieve a better quality of life. And it changed the way he saw things. This episode is packed with valuable insights for anyone looking to manage stress, improve their mental well-being, and find their own happy place. Whether you're grappling with challenges in your personal or professional life, Gary's story serves as a reminder that it's possible to navigate through adversity and emerge stronger. Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Christine Davies

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2025 41:29


    For behind the scenes cnoversations, subscribe on    Christine V. Davies has a Master of Divinity degree from Princeton Theological Seminary and a Master of Social Work degree from Rutgers University. With over two decades of experience as a hospital chaplain, pastoral educator, cognitive behavioral therapist and healthcare administrator, Christine offers "spiritual direction" What is spiritual direction? From Christine: Some of my clients are clergy, others would never set foot in a house of worship. It is not about being religious, or even believing in God. It is about getting in touch with your spiritual side, whatever that looks like for you. You might be well established in a faith tradition or wondering how to bring more mindfulness in your everyday life. Spiritual Direction meets you wherever you are and we go from there! This conversation examines the role of spirituality connection vs religion; the impact of grief throughout our lives; and the interplay of life and death that can positively impact on our quality and understanding of our time here on Earth. This episode is a reminder of the importance of spiritual care, and the connection we all seek.      What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    What Secrets Do You Keep?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2025 47:22


      How do our secrets define us?  Everyone has a story or two they just don't tell. But Sandra Schnakenburg grew up in a family of secrets. And perhaps the greatest secret was that of her beloved housekeeper, Lee. On Lee's deathbed, she asked Sandra to write her story. Her story? Sandra had no idea what this really meant. But it prompted an investigative journey that uncovered not just Lee's fabricated past but also her family legacy of incredible wealth, poverty, and resilience across numerous generations. This story is about the power of secrets and how they shape our lives. Listen in and ask yourself how well do any of us really know each other?     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Taoist Psychology

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2025 46:25


      Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   This is a story about radical transformation. Gerard Wouters brings us into the fascinating world of Taoist therapy. With his revolutionary approach, he focuses on using the present to change our attitudes about the past. Instead of focusing on what cannot be changed (i.e., the past), he encourages people to embrace the present moment and create a new path forward. In this manner, deep seated psychological change can be nearly instantaneous, rather than taking months or even years of talk therapy.  This Taoist approach touches upon consciousness and the unconscious mind. Gerard explains that we only utilize a small fraction of our consciousness, and by tapping into a deeper understanding of ourselves, we can unlock transformative potential. Through techniques that blend elements of hypnosis and body awareness, he guides individuals to connect with their emotions and release pent-up energy that often manifests as physical tension or emotional distress. This episode is about personal development, emotional intelligence, and the art of living a more conscious life. By embracing the principles of Taoist therapy, listeners can learn to navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience. Tune in to discover how you can apply these teachings to your own life, and take the first step towards a happier, more successful existence. Whether you are facing setbacks or simply seeking to understand yourself better, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom that invites you to explore the Taoist way.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    How To Grow Beyond Your Family's Dysfunction

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2025 37:51


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to   While I often say that all families are dysfunctional, Michael Swerdloff's family had some pretty serious issues including violence and infidelity which deeply impacted the entire family and for Michael, set the stage for a tumultuous childhood that would shape his understanding of love, relationships, and self-worth. As Michael narrates his experiences, he takes us through the pivotal moments that led to his transformation. From dealing with the trauma of family secrets to facing his own demons through substance abuse, Michael's journey is one of grappling with self-hate and anger. He candidly discusses the turning point when he found himself in a locked mental hospital, which became a catalyst for change. It was there that he began to confront his past and the patterns that had defined his life. From this came a commitment to self care. From a mental health perspective, Michael found meditation which opened doors to self-reflection and inner peace. His dedication to this practice led him to profound realizations about his identity and purpose. Heshares how the act of sitting with oneself can lead to unimaginable growth and understanding. Michael's  journey from a past filled with shame and anger to a life characterized by love and self-acceptance serves as a reminder that change is possible, no matter how deep the scars may run. Tune in and discover how embracing vulnerability and seeking help can lead to a richer, more fulfilling life.   Part Two of this episode is available for subscribers at     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Life Lessons From The Autistic Spectrum

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2025 28:08


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Artist, educator, nonprofit leader, and author Irma Velasquez is dedicated to living from a place of presence and connection—especially in the face of adversity. Her life's work is rooted in the ongoing journey of bridging inner and outer divides, often through turbulent terrain. Through the arts and spiritual practices, she has found ways to stay grounded, meet hardship with grace, and transform pain into purpose. Her life lessons are something we can all learn from. Irma's story is one of resilience and renewal. She has faced and navigated barriers in the education, medical and social structures with fierce love and unwavering hope. Her memoir about her autistic child, ““, reveals a deep personal and spiritual transformation—one that moves from fixing to accepting, from struggle to spaciousness. This episode is for all of us, seeking inspiration in the human journey and some of the life lessons that go with it.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Living With Integrity: Josh McConkey, MD

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 42:05


    Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com   Josh McConkey was the first in his family to attend college, breaking a long-standing lineage of railroaders. His passion for medicine led him to a successful career in emergency medicine. As a part-owner of a freestanding emergency department in Georgetown, Texas, Josh initially found success and fulfillment in his work. However, the joy was short-lived when he discovered that the majority shareholder was embezzling funds.  Josh was offered a  $3.4 million bribe to look the other way. Josh turned the bribe down, but what happened next is the stuff of a Hallmark movie. I won't give away the incredible twists and turns, but suffice it to say that Josh's ethical response to a very difficult situation that nearly bankrupted him worked to his ultimate benefit. This is a story that will take you on a ride from highs to lows and back again, from America to Australia, and more. The key takeaways from this incredible story include listening to one's instincts, valuing family, and embracing the lessons that life presents. His mantra, "You can only control what you do," resonates throughout the episode, reminding us all that while we cannot dictate the actions of others, we can choose how we respond to life's challenges. Join us for this powerful episode that offers valuable insights into leadership, personal growth, and the unwavering pursuit of integrity.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    How To Navigate Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2025 32:16


    Losing one's parent at 10 years old definitely qualifies as a bump in the road. But Marilyn Robinson has navigated this and other bumps with seeming ease. Her perspective on life is optimistic and take charge. She moves through many life phases as if it were a neighborhood walk. Something is always evolving, changing and blooming. You just have to look for it. From home schooling to a successful career, Marilyn's story is a reminder that change is inevitable, and how we respond to it defines our path. She emphasizes that every challenge presents an opportunity for growth.  'You own your life,' is a wonderful guiding mantra for all of us. Join us for this inspiring conversation that encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and find the good in the bad. Whether you're navigating personal challenges or career shifts, Marilynne's story will inspire you to embrace change with grace and optimism. Tune in now and discover the lessons that can be learned from life's bumps in the road.   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Healing Journey of a Navy SEAL

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2025 54:47


    Where Psychology and Spirituality Meet

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2025 30:52


    Where do spirituality and psychology meet? Are they polar opposites or can they complement each other? This conversation touches on the Four Noble Truths of Buddhism, the importance of presence, and the use of meditation for body, mind and soul connection. Ellen talks abut meditation as a vehicle to develop conscious thought which allows one to become an observer of the mind, rather than a prisoner of ruminating, often negative thoughts. Ellen calls the latter the “Critical Witness” (that part of your brain that's constantly finding flaws in you and your life). As one becomes an observer, the  “Benevolent Witness” can appear and be nurtured to provide an internal voice that encourages self-compassion and understanding. The world is full of distractions. It's easy to jump from topic to topic, to multitask, and move through the day without conscious cognition of the world around us. But it's only in the present that we can develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and foster a sense of connectedness with others. Come listen into a deep and fascinating conversation as Ellen guides us through her journey of self-discovery and the transformative power of meditation and spirituality. The second half of this amazing podcast is available to paying subscribers. You can subscribe at .       What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    When 'No" Is Your Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 31:14


    The fear of rejection can hinder our personal and professional growth. Can we learn to see transformative growth in "No"? Andrea Waltz is the author of "," a concept that encourages us to embrace rejection as a stepping stone to success. The crux of the "Go for No" philosophy is simple yet profound: to achieve more 'yeses' in life, we must intentionally increase our failure rate. Andrea explains how this mindset shift can empower individuals to face rejection head-on, rather than allowing it to deter them. By normalizing the experience of hearing 'no,' we can cultivate resilience and ultimately open ourselves up to greater opportunities. The conversation also touches on the importance of emotional intelligence and the ability to connect with others. Andrea highlights the need for curiosity and active listening in building relationships, which can significantly enhance our chances of success in any endeavor. By understanding the perspectives and needs of others, we can tailor our approaches and create more meaningful connections. Whether you're an entrepreneur, a sales professional, or simply someone looking to grow personally, this episode is packed with actionable insights and inspiration to help you thrive in the face of adversity. Tune in now to discover how embracing rejection can lead to a more successful and fulfilling life! Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Menopause Queen

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2025 29:29


    Menopause takes many women by surprise. Society is focused on the illusion of perpetual youth. But when menopause hits, hormones change, our bodies change and possibly the way society sees us changes as well. Lisa Triggs candidly discusses her downward spiral into depression and weight gain during her menopause years, exacerbated by life events that caused extreme stress. She realized that she needed to change the narrative. Self-love, according to Lisa, is essential during menopause. Many women find themselves lost, caring for others while neglecting their own needs. Lisa emphasizes that it is crucial to reconnect with our inner selves, to love ourselves regardless of our physical changes. This realization was pivotal for her and can be for many others as well. Through her journey, Lisa learned three invaluable lessons that she wishes to share: First, prioritize self-love. Second, practice patience with yourself, as healing is a process. Lastly, focus on finding joy in your life, as it can be a powerful catalyst for change.   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    Is Marijuana Benign Or Is It A Gateway Drug?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2025 28:45


    Marijuana is legal. It's safe. Or is it? Rayond Wiggins questions the safety of this widely used drug, both from his professional and personal experience. On the personal side, Raymond has witnessed the devastating effects of substance abuse within his family. Professionally he has administered nearly 30,000 general anesthetics, which point to the increased drug tolerance and mental health issues he has observed in marijuana users. According to Raymond, 30% of marijuana users develop an addiction and that this figure rises to 46% among young people. The physical and mental health complications associated with marijuana, including decreased IQ, increased anxiety, and even a rise in domestic violence rates accompany this increase in use. Marijuana use has more than tripled since 2010. Raymond argues that the push for legalization often overlooks the societal costs associated with increased marijuana use, including healthcare expenses and the impact on public safety. Statistics, he says, matter. And the statistics are not good. How we can collectively work towards a healthier understanding of marijuana and its implications in our lives? What is safe? What are the long term effects? Or is it all ok?   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”  –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Garage Sale Millionaire

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 33:42


    Aaron, Lapedis knows what a second chance looks like. Just over 16 years ago, Aaron was thriving as an art gallery owner in Denver, Colorado. However, the recession hit hard, and his business faced unprecedented challenges. As he struggled with financial burdens, his personal life was also in turmoil, with his wife experiencing a difficult pregnancy and his father's health declining. In December of 2008, everything came to a head. Faced with mounting debts and the possibility of losing his gallery, Aaron's world crumbled. The stress culminated in a massive heart attack on January 5, 2009 — an event that would forever change his perspective on life. Doctors informed him that if he had waited just two months longer, he wouldn't have survived. This shocking revelation forced Aaron to reevaluate what truly mattered.. With a newfound appreciation for life, he shifted his focus from merely surviving to thriving. He transformed his gallery, focusing on creating meaningful experiences for his customers, and rewrote his book, which eventually became the bestseller "Garage Sale Millionaire." This book details his journey and offers insights into how anyone can turn collectibles into profit. Anyone can do it, he says, especially in this digital world. Aaron's experience is about the preciousness of time, the importance of family and about creating opportunity even in the midst of difficult times. Listen and consider how important it is to make every moment of your life count. Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Education Revolution

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2025 25:18


    Kristina Heagh-Avritt is a former public school teacher who now supports families in finding the best educational paths for their children. Kristina focuses on the pressing issues within the current educational framework—more rules, regulations, and a lack of connection with families and students. She emphasizes how the school system is broken and suggests that the solution lies in empowering parents to take control of their children's education through homeschooling. With her experience, Christina founded Vibrant Family Education (),where she helps families navigate the homeschooling landscape. One of the advantages of homeschooling is a personalized curriculum that caters to each child's unique learning style.  This flexibility fosters a love for learning, as children can progress at their own pace without the pressure of a standardized curriculum. Kristina also dispels common myths about homeschooling, such as the belief that parents cannot be effective teachers or that homeschooled children lack socialization. She argues that parents are inherently their child's first teachers and can provide a supportive learning environment that nurtures their child's interests. In fact, many homeschooled children excel socially, often being more prepared for real-world interactions than their peers in traditional schools. With parents and former teachers like Kristina, education is quietly undergoing a revolution, one that places children and mastery first. Learning is becoming fun again. And more importantly, it's providing the skills kids need in this modern world. Join the conversation.   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    A Psychic's Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 42:37


    As a psychic medium and life coach, Mark Charters has navigated a difficult path. His journey began in a family where psychic abilities were both a gift and a burden. Growing up in a household where his mother and grandmother were psychic, he struggled with his identity and the societal stigma attached to his gifts. Mark's path was not an easy one. Along the way, he faced addiction, homelessness and the loss of his daughter. Holding his daughter in his arms after she passed away, he experienced a profound spiritual awakening that propelled him to change his life. This moment crystallized his belief that every tragedy carries a lesson, and every loss can lead to a deeper understanding of love and life. Mark's insights extend beyond personal anecdotes; they resonate with universal truths about the human experience. He discusses the duality of life, the necessity of facing our fears, and the importance of trust—both in ourselves and in the journey of life. Mark shares his wisdom through his book, which delves deeper into his experiences and the lessons learned along the way. His story is a reminder that while life can be filled with challenges, it is also rich with opportunities for healing, connection, and transformation. Join us for a fascinating conversation. Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    The Power of Community

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2025 46:37


    Michelle DeKeyser found herself wondering if this is all there was. That simple question was the beginning of a midlife quest that would transform her world. In response, Michelle created Connecting Mamas, a community that connects entrepreneurially minded mothers through authenticity and support. The conversation touches on the vital role of community in fostering creativity and collaboration among women. Michelle believes that when mothers come together to share their experiences and support one another, they can create something truly powerful. This episode is a reminder that it's okay to feel lost and that seeking connection can lead to profound personal growth. If you're a mother looking to embrace your ambitions while balancing family life, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we explore the journey of self-discovery and the importance of creating a supportive network. Be inspired to take the next step in your own journey!   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Path of An Empath

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 36:37


    Marbeth Dunn's story is one of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. Growing up in a traditional environment in New Jersey, she took a leap of faith and ran away to Haiti with her husband, where they lived in the mountains without electricity or running water for seven years. Along the way, Marbeth found herself coping with potentially life threatening asthma which sent her on a quest to heal. In seeking to heal herself, Marbeth became a healer. Margot is also an empath. This unique ability eventually led her to develop her practice in somatic healing, which focuses on the body-mind connection. She describes somatic healing as a way to reintegrate emotions stored in the body, helping others to release trauma and find peace. She emphasizes the importance of feeling emotions rather than suppressing them, and how this process can lead to profound healing. Marbeth's story is not just about overcoming personal struggles; it's also about embracing adventure and the unexpected paths life can take. It's a reminder that our challenges can be our greatest teachers. Marbeth encourages listeners to trust their intuition, embrace their journey, and recognize that they are not victims of their circumstances. Instead, they have the power to change their thoughts and, ultimately, their lives. Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Experiences That Guide Us

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2025 39:31


    Are talented children more difficult to raise? Sally Raymond's first son was a remarkably intelligent child, began reading signs and engaging in debates at an astonishingly young age. But beneath the facade of the perfect of the perfect child, life wasn't so perfect. Her son was emotionally vulnerable, as all children are. For him, a series of critical life events eventually led to his suicide. Sally bravely hares her story of navigating the complexities of parenting, emotional intelligence, and the profound lessons learned. Through her journey, Sally became a psychotherapist, dedicating her life to helping others navigate similar challenges. She highlights the significance of social emotional skills, which are often overlooked in traditional education. As she shares her insights, listeners are encouraged to embrace their own journeys of self-discovery and healing. The episode culminates in a powerful message: 'Everything we survive, we can heal.' Sally's story is not just one of loss; it is a testament to resilience, growth, and the enduring bond between a mother and her son. Join this compelling conversation. It just might make you assess your life, and the life of those you love, a bit differently.   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Looking Within For Authenticity, Happiness and Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2025 29:32


    What is happiness? And where do you find it? Teresa Greco had a fulfilling career, a loving family and material comforts. But none of this filled the void she felt within. This "lack" sent her on a quest. For over a decade, she embarked on a journey of healing, meditation, and spiritual exploration seeking to for whatever it was that might fill that void. This story is about one woman's personal transformation, but it's also a call to action for all of us to embark on our own paths of self-discovery, to find our purpose and live our most authentic life. Teresa shares practical steps to cultivate happiness, including gratitude practices, being present in the moment, and following our bliss. As she puts it, "Happiness is always leading us towards our happiest life." If you feel that void, don't despair. Instead, be inspired. Join the conversation.   Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Navigating Midlife: Embracing Change and Finding Purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 29:59


    Midlife can be a transformative phase, filled with both challenges and opportunities. With a growing awareness of limited time, many of us reassess where we are and where we want to go. Jean Alfieri's story is about a midlife journey of self-discovery and reinvention.  One of the key themes Jean discusses is the concept of invisibility that often accompanies midlife, particularly for women. She reframes this as a potential superpower founded on life experience, skills and wisdom.  Tackling these challenges and transiting this liminal midlife space through fear and insecurity requires courage. Courage that Jean shows again and again. Whether it's through writing, community service, or embracing new hobbies, Jean encourages listeners to explore their passions and leave a meaningful legacy. Her story is a testament to the power of resilience, gratitude, and the continuous pursuit of purpose. Learn how you can embrace midlife as a time of growth and transformation,creating purpose and motivation for this phase of your life. Subscribers can enjoy exclusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    A Handprint of Loving Kindness

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 41:25


    Joni Rodgers is, first and foremost, a storyteller. She's also a critically acclaimed novelist and New York Times selling ghostwriter. She's worked with many well known people including Paris Hilton, Justin Bieber and Elizabeth Smart. Her ability to translate people's paths into a compelling narrative is unparalleled. "As a novelist, memoirist, and collaborator, I'm dedicated to storytelling that makes an impact and provokes thought. I believe in the power of a parable and in the art of memoir as a sort of cosmic cartography. We each have a small piece of the map of human experience; sharing our stories, we bring clarity and empathy to a collective understanding." The list of Joni's publications is long. Her drive comes partly from being given just five years to live due to a seemingly dire non-Hodgkins lymphoma. "What can I do in just five years? What type of handprint of loving kindness could I leave for my children?" she pondered. The answer lies in her extensive list of publications, crafting powerful memoirs that resonate with all of us. And that five year window is thankfully in reset mode. Enjoy this terrific podcast.   Subscribers can enjoy excllusive, extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    Finding Your Voice

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2025 25:44


    Finding one's voice can be a daunting journey. For Laura Reid it meant overcoming a severe stutter. Yet today, she's a polished public speaker teaching others the ins and outs of effective communication. For Laura the key was to embrace her own vulnerability and using it as a superpower.  It was when she discovered the power of storytelling, that she found an energetic connection with her audience. This connection, she explains, is where true communication happens. It's not about being the loudest voice in the room, but about having something meaningful to say. And Laura has so many meaningful things to say. Join us for a thoughtful and inspiring conversation.   Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    How to Win At Life and Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 27:15


    Margot Black is an award-winning publicist who shares her secrets to help you navigate life's bumps. Margot is first and foremost a story teller. She has a key eye for detail, market trends and human nature. As an award-winning publicist and marketing executive, Margot Black helps people “fail forward” with style and grace to achieve their goals and objectives. Her book, Life's A Pitch: How to Win What You Want in Business and in Life, is a masterclass in navigating life. It's about being willing to leave your comfort zone to pursue your dreams. Playing it safe is the least safe thing we can do. Margot inspires listeners to become the heroes of their own stories, conquering both internal and external dragons along the way. She especially advocates for women to step out and pursue their dreams. Join us to discover how you can shine your brightest and create a life full of possibilities. Make your story the story you dream of.   Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    Beyond The Five Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 31:10


    The Neuroscience of Thought

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 44:18


    Doug Stoddard's story is inspirational. After facing bankruptcy and personal turmoil, he turned to neuroscience to understand the habits of thinking that had taken hold of his life. And there he found answers. He argues that 90% of what we experience in our professional lives is rooted in our emotional responses and habitual thought patterns. This is a powerful reminder that self-awareness is crucial for both personal and professional growth. And the first step in greater self awareness is observation. What might we learn from observing our own reactions? What motivates our automatic responses and how can we re-gain control of ourselves? Doug provides consulting and coaching services to business leaders. Whether you are at work or at home, your subconscious rules. Doug offers some tangible steps towards to transform your bumps in the road into opportunities for growth and self-discovery. Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Using Laughter to Create Connection

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 33:52


    Healing Sexual Trauma

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 31:17


    A path to healing is always possible, says Asher Beckwitt. As both a trauma coach and a sexual abuse survivor, she understands that each journey is an individual one. Asher's own journey began with years of talk therapy, which laid the foundation for healing. However, it was the introduction of EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy that marked a significant turning point. This innovative therapy helped Asher neutralize the trauma, allowing her to recall past experiences from a place of neutrality rather than reactivity. EMDR, coupled with somatic healing practices, enabled her to reconnect with her body and release stored trauma energy. This podcast goes beyond sexual abuse and offers a broad base of possible healing modalities and requirements, ranging from safe places to meditations and beyond. This is a story for everyone who has experienced some sort of trauma-and isn't that all of us?  Join us for a powerful conversation. Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Dancing With Your Fear

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 35:13


    Amie Sponza always had a passion for theater and film, but life and responsibilities took her on a different path. Until serendipity reared its lovely head and she was asked to work on a short film which went on to win awards at film festivals. Amie Sponza's passion for storytelling was awakened and she decided to follow her heart. Today she provides coaching services to help others do the same. She encourages others to design their dreams, make decisive steps towards them, and embrace fear as a dance partner rather than a barrier. Whether you're considering a career change or seeking inspiration for your next chapter, Amie's story offers valuable insights and encouragement to embrace life's bumps in the road as opportunities for growth and transformation, and to learn to dance with, rather than flee from, your fears. Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    Navigating (and Even Instigating!) Change

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 44:54


    Shawn Ellis is a passionate speaker, writer, and coach.  He is a take charge guy, stressing that adaptability isn't just about responding to change—it's about mastering it. And even instigating it. To be a powerful speaker, Shawn relies on : Authenticity and Vulnerability: True connection and growth stem from being genuine and open Endings Create Beginnings: Embracing change leads to strength and new opportunities Human Connection: Building meaningful relationships is essential for personal and professional success This Moment Matters: Our lives are not defined by the moments that shape us, but by how we shape the moments Shawn's wisdom provides a framework for all of us to navigate and even embrace change. And maybe even be the occasional instigator. Check out his book, on Amazon.   Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    How To Finance A Debt-Free College Education

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 37:02


    Denise Thomas' dreams for her children's college almost went up in smoke. A job loss meant that she and her husband lost everything. And she means EVERYTHING. What about college? With limited resources and no 401k to fall back on, Denise realized that traditional paths to college funding were no longer viable. So, she took matters into her own hands. Through extensive research and a relentless pursuit of knowledge, she discovered strategies that would ultimately lead her children to win nearly $200,000 in scholarships. Both graduated without debt, and with money left over. Denise lays out a roadmap to college funding that every family can follow. The key is starting early. Today, Denis offers courses and resources for families looking to navigate the complexities of college funding. Her book, “” serves as a guide for parents and students alike, providing actionable steps to secure financial aid and scholarships. Denise's story is a testament to resilience, creativity, and the power of knowledge. For families grappling with the challenges of financing education, this episode offers hope and practical advice that can help your children achieve their educational goals without the burden of debt.   Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    A Fork In The Road

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 37:50


    Ron Mitori's new book, “” looks to the past and to the future as the U.S. position in the world evolves. His book starts off with stories of personal experiences under socialist regimes. One story, of Lore and her family begins: “Lore's father had been a successful inventor and businessman who owned a factory that produced household goods during WWII. He was also part of the underground movement that did not support Hitler. Lore had lived with her parents and two sisters in a section of Germany that became East Germany. She wanted to study and become an archaeologist as a child, but war can change your dreams. At the war's end, that area was administered brutally by the East German police, and a wall was built separating East from West Germany. As the oldest, Lore went to live for almost three years with her grandparents because they could get a food ration card if they had a child in the house.” Another story from : “Venezuela was the wealthiest country in South America. Pablo was born there, and his father was a very successful lawyer. Pablo's cousin fled from Communist Cuba ruled by Fidel Castro to Venezuela to be near him and his family and escape Communism. One year later in 1999, Hugo Chavez became the leader of Venezuela and began dismantling the capitalism that made the country wealthy with a thriving middle class. That cousin realized he had seen this “movie” before in Cuba and wanted no part in it. He decided to leave after only one year in Venezuela. He convinced Pablo to join him and come to the US, but Pablo's father mistakenly thought his status and wealth would continue, so he remained. Pablo now sends money to him every month to keep him from starving.”. Looking back and looking forward, Ron sees the U.S. at a cross roads. Which way will we go? Read his book for a remarkable tour de force of our country's ongoing evolution.   Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to BumpInTheRoad.Substack.com     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    A 'How To' for Palliative Care

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 38:17


    Debbie Parker Oliver is a professor at Washington University and a seasoned hospice care professional. When her husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer, Debbie's expertise was put to the test. Debbie and her husband made a conscious decision to focus on quality time rather than aggressive treatments. This choice, influenced by their backgrounds in hospice and gerontology, allowed them to create lasting memories and live life to the fullest despite the looming presence of cancer. Their journey highlights the importance of understanding hospice care, which shifts the focus from curing the disease to managing symptoms and enhancing the quality of life for both patients and their families. Through a series of videos, Debbie and her husband documented their experiences, offering invaluable insights and support to others facing similar challenges. These videos serve as a legacy, providing guidance and comfort to both the general public and medical professionals. They can be viewed Debbie's story is about living your best life. She encourages us to ask the right questions, advocate for ourselves, and make informed decisions about our health and well-being. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration and a deeper understanding of living with cancer and the role of hospice care.   #Hospice #PalliativeCare #Cancer #Caregiving Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Wisdom In Dance

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 35:01


    Subscribers can enjoy extended conversations from this podcast. To subscribe, go to   The Wisdom In Dance Navigating the intricate journey of parenting is challenging in itself, but when faced with the added complexity of raising children with special needs, the path becomes even more difficult. And Joanne De Simone faced this path with not one, but two children. Through her parenting, Joanne found herself recalling her days as a dancer. There was wisdom in dance, and Simone found many life lessons that helped her navigate the road ahead of her. This episode will open your eyes to the subtle wisdom in dance and how it translates into real world wisdom. It's about acceptance of the bumps that life throws our way and the wisdom inherent in all our experiences. Finally, it's a story about parental love, strength, and the perseverance, all in the love of one mother's children.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️   

    The Energy To Heal

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 31:28


    This is a story of  a transformative journey of healing, self-discovery, and spirituality. In their book, Healing With Love,  two sisters, Hillary Donato Odoy and Cindy England, each share their stories.  Hillary's journey began with a cancer diagnosis that turned her world upside down. Faced with uncertainty and fear, she reached out to her sister Cindy, who had been exploring energy healing and meditation.  Cindy, in addition to energy healing, was developing her own psychic/spiritual practices. Her focus on these healing and comunication techniques would have a remarkable impact on Hillary's health story.  Chapter by chapter, the sisters weave their stories. Healing, they discovered is all encompassing. It take place on a psychological, physical and spiritual realm. Each sister had to read deep to look at how their individual experiences of loss, stress, and emotional baggage impacted their lives. And both sisters shed many preconceived beliefs as Cindy's energy work started Hillary on a healing course. This is a powerful story and a reminder that we all have the power to heal ourselves. By cultivating a heart-centered approach to life, practicing gratitude, and being open to spiritual guidance, we can navigate life's challenges with grace and resilience. As a spiritual story, it's about the gifts we give and receive, and the guidance that is there for each of us.  If you're seeking inspiration and practical tools for your own healing journey, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we explore the depths of healing, love, and the incredible power of the human spirit.       What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️     

    Looking Back to Move Forward

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 37:36


    When Ann's parents announced their move to an assisted living apartment, they gave her just two weeks to empty their three-story home filled with 56 years of memories. As she sorted through the items, Ann found herself confronting childhood memories and traumas that she had long buried. It was as if each item carried an energy of its own, triggering suppressed emotions and leading her to a near-death experience of introspection. Ann began journaling as a means of healing, courageously examining each memory and its impact on her self-esteem and relationships. This retrospection allowed her to rewrite old narratives and offer forgiveness to those involved in her past, including her paternal grandfather, whose two words, "sit down," had left a lasting impression of unworthiness on her young self. Through this process, Ann discovered the power of reframing memories and the importance of compassion and understanding. She shares how a trip to China inspired her to write a letter to her deceased grandfather, releasing it in a symbolic act of forgiveness and transformation. This act freed her from the emotional rejection she had carried for years. Ann's journey is not just about healing from the past but also about embracing creativity and perseverance. As a composer and musician, she channels her experiences into her art, finding joy and purpose in the creative flow. Her story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the potential for growth and healing. Whether you're dealing with childhood traumas or seeking personal growth, Ann's story offers valuable insights and inspiration. Tune in to this week's episode to hear her full journey and discover the transformative power of looking back to move forward.     What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️ 

    From Cybercrime Victim to Cybersecurity Leader

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 34:07


    In a world where the digital landscape is ever-evolving, the threat of cybercrime looms larger than ever. For Jocelyn King, a tech-savvy professional thriving in Silicon Valley, this threat became all too real. Jocelyn's story begins at the peak of her career, working with influential figures in the tech industry. However, her dream quickly turned into a nightmare when cybercriminals targeted her and her family. This wasn't a one-time breach; it was a persistent and invasive attack that compromised their security, both online and offline. Despite the devastation, Jocelyn refused to be defeated. She realized that the help she hoped for from law enforcement wasn't forthcoming, as she was one of over a million people reporting cybercrime that year. Determined to find a way out, she embarked on a journey of self-discovery and resilience. Through her ordeal, Jocelyn developed the CLEAR method, a five-step process that helped her regain control of her life. By clarifying her goals, envisioning success, executing daily actions, and resolving internal conflicts, she transformed her life from one of despair to one of empowerment. Jocelyn's experience highlights the importance of cybersecurity and the need for individuals to protect themselves in an increasingly digital world. Her story is a testament to the power of resilience and the human spirit's ability to overcome adversity. Tune in to this episode to hear Jocelyn's full story, learn about the CLEAR method, and discover how you can protect yourself online. Whether you're interested in cybersecurity or personal growth, Jocelyn's journey offers valuable insights and inspiration for us all.   #Cybersecurity #PersonalDevelopment #Neuropasticity #Resilieince   What they're saying:   “This is a beautiful book about life, its imperfections, its challenges, and its joys. It is a book of hope and wisdom for all of us facing a bump in the road.” –Pragito Dove   “Pat has woven together beautiful stories of life setbacks that have been transformed into spiritual growth. This book is a gift and a must-read for souls experiencing pain and yearning for growth.”   –Gary Hensel   Learn more at   Follow Bump on: ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️  ➡️       

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