Poly-Saturated Podcast

Episode 88 - Relationship BankruptcyIn this episode we discuss the issues with relationships and how hard it is to catch-up when your emotional bank account is overdrawn.Support the show

In this episode, we discuss a myriad of topics - adhd, how you can be lonely even while surrounded by people, and what to do about it all.Sources:https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1087054713515748https://www.healthyplace.com/sites/default/files/images/stories/adhd/adr-partners1.pdfhttps://www.healthyplace.com/self-help/adhd/5-ways-to-deal-with-adhd-and-feeling-like-a-failure#:~:text=Almost%20without%20exception%2C%20ADHD%20makes,of%20the%20tasks%20of%20life.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comSupport the showSupport the showSupport the show

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! In this 2 part episode we discuss WHY we need a pride month and all different kind of pride related topics. We get a bit long-windeded but, hey, it's pride. We will post links to the articles we reference during the episode on our social media outlets.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comSupport the showSupport the show

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!! In this 2 part episode we discuss WHY we need a pride month and all different kind of pride related topics. We get a bit long-windeded but, hey, it's pride. We will post links to the articles we reference during the episode on our social media outlets.Also, sorry for the delay in the episode release. Covid hit us right in the Xan. (He's recovering just feels like garbage)The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comSupport the show

Episode 85 - Our Amazing ListenersHow does it get any better than this ... when we have such amazing and wonderful listeners that also exchange with us and share their stories ... ? Sometimes we never truly know the weight or depth of our words and efforts, so it is truly a blessing when we get people contacting us and including us in their journey. We appreciate each of you so very much. In this episode, we share two very heart-warming stories from listeners that let us glimpse their journey and celebration into discovering and metamorphosing into their true authentic selves. Eye leaking may have ensued ... The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Poly-Saturated - LGBTQIA NewsPolySaturated on politics ... After a whirlwind of a crazy unplanned hiatus, we pull a deep one out on you all for this episode. Trigger warnings out the wazoo everyone. It's a tear-jerker. We cried while recording and then again while relistening to the edited version. We even do a not-typical-for-us move and go political. This episode is intense at points and leaves us exposed and vulnerable in ways we're typically not inclined to offer others, let alone the general public ... But, some things just need to be said. And, we are like a box of (unmarked) chocolates ...Sources: Tampa Bay TimesDon't say gay billhttps://youtu.be/zHzsc2XqD8oKpix Sf bayCalifornia denounces Texas Governorhttps://youtu.be/oEhYMORnOMchttps://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2022/03/02/texas-transgender-child-abuse-injunction/?fbclid=IwAR3NiUE5nnH9l-srHctb-Ve2ORH1mp8BBDRsY9vjoGQy5VyFR4Slz-yod9gTennessee common law marriagehttps://youtu.be/apwdEQkpVIoThe other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 83 - Vetting, paranoia, background checks and moreIn this episode, Xan reveals his plummeted depths of paranoia and distrust in anything that walks on two legs (he also distrusts things with more than 2 legs), and we also touch on polyamorous vetting (ie: good things to ask or ways to get to know if a potential partner is right for you and your polycule).The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 82 - Balancing ResponsibilitiesIn this episode we started off with one topic in mind and end up evolving into something more organic. It ended up being about balancing responsibilities in a polycule. What responsibilities come with dating someone in a polyamorous relationship to things you should expect. The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 81 - Weird Perks of PolyamoryAfter a few serious episodes, we bring you a fun and lighthearted episode where we list a few of the weird and overlooked perks of being polyamorous. Of course we throw in a few bunny trails. Come laugh with us and wish Xan and Scarlet a happy two year anniversary.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 80 - Are you really poly? Are you though?Poly? Really? .... but, no, seriously? Are you really? In this episode we take a long and winding trip through how sometimes it's hard to believe people because they are in the habit of using words that mean different things than they think they mean. They also try to shoehorn themselves into titles. We go into all of it. Join us for our usual antics and off-roading adventures in discussing why we question when someone says they're polyamorous.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 79 - Can you go back to monogamy?In this episode, we are up to our normal shenanigans where we disguise our ramblings and thoughts as sort of a topic. This week's topic happens to be about whether you can return to being monogamous after being in a polyamorous relationship, polyamorous as a sexual identity, and our normal interpersonal antics.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 78 - Defining ExpectationsWe, as creatures of expecting, expect expectations except when they're expected of us. We should expect only what we've defined to those we expect things from for our expectations to be met, only when we have explicitly explained in expressed detail for our expectations to be met - and yet we should remain fluid in both our expecting and having our expectations expedited.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.com

Episode 77 - Deck The Halls (not family) with Holiday BoundariesThis week we cover why it's important to set boundaries for the holidays. Whatever you celebrate and however you celebrate do it how you feel you should. Everyone needs their time and space to avoid any jail time. Don't have the energy? Don't do it. We hope everyone has the best holidays you can. The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Tune in for one of our more cantankerous episodes where we discuss things that you may experience throughout the holidays where family decides to get righteous and redefine the words "ok with." Makes you really want to deck the ... halls?This is the Occult Confessions podcast we mentioned.https://www.occultconfessions.com/actorsThe other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

After a long summer's regrouping, and hearing from many of you, Xan, Crow, and J made sure to find time to get back in the "saddle" (or closet rather) to bring you more of our antics and shenanigans. We discuss boundaries, the medical system, our life happenings over the last few months, as well as the importance of knowing when to know your limits and advocate for them and a bunch of other stuff we just shot from the hip as we recorded. Ya know, like usual. It's good to be back. We've missed you all!The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH: In this episode we interviewed a very special guest. We discuss their being a member of SAGA, progression and acceptance, and many more topics in regards to PRIDE.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Happy Pride Month everyone!!! In this episode we go into why limiting statements such as "why don't we have a straight pride month" are more damaging than beneficial - and why they make people angry. Be your beautiful version of you and find your tribe.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Pressures come from every direction when you live at all, but especially when the way you love is still considered taboo by a big majority of the world. Pressures come even from those who share similar lifestyles. In this episode we go into a lot of the pressures and ways they affect our lives.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Societal expectations are usually just a reflection of a strange protocol we're supposed to follow that adheres to the standards of someone else's inner moral code. Any step outside of their comfort zone comes along with the expectation that we should feel guilt or shame for not adhering to their personal programs which generally develop out of unhealthy programs that were passed down to them. It's all bs. We talk about it all in this episode.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

In this week's episode we cover many ways you can prepare the world for and advocate for space for your polycule. When you have larger families there are steps you can take to make potentially daunting tasks easier for everyone involved. You and your polycule have the right to take up space.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Labels, lanes, titles, definitions - as limiting as they are, they can also help in building confidence and like-minded community. Some labels stick for the rest of our lives. Some of them peel away to reveal the newest version of ourselves. If you're like us, you'll learn a few new terms. If you're the Grand Poobah of everything, this will be a refresher. Either way, hopefully you'll have a laugh or two or a realization or three.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

We're not saying STOP MAKING EXCUSES AND DO THE THINGS ... but, ... wait, yeah we are saying exactly that. Quarantine has us all whackadoo and isolated AF. Reach out and find outlets. Stop making excuses. your mental health and social health depends on it. Don't let your polycule and your monogacule consume your life 24/7 - We know. It's easy to let happen ... We just realized how isolated these times had found all the members of our polycule ... So, start looking into doing the things again at the safety level your lifestyle and needs allow. If you start looking and find that what you once had is no longer there, create it. If you build it, they will come. Either way - try. Do the things. Pursue your interests. Your, and your polycule's wellbeing, depends on it.The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

He's still my husband. Polycules consisting of more than one male suulccumb a whole other level of discrimination and scrutiny. In this episode Xan and Crow discuss some of the ways that co-husbanding in a polycule has been trying and disheartening - and how that's all paving hope for the future of more taboo and less societally accepted lifestyles. The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Stuff and things - In this episode we discuss recent news pertinent to the polyam community, the importance of communicating with your children, celery, and a lot of other mindless (and mindful) dribble to tantalize your minds. The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comMerchandisewww.RestrictedWearz.comCrow's Flight www.CrowsFlight.usKrazy Kasbhwww.krazykasbh.comFull Swap Radiowww.fullswapradio.com

Roses are redWhat is there to do?Which, if any, rulesApply to you? Or do you make healthier optionsLike agreements or boundaries Such is the life of the quandaries- Of teaching people how to treat you! Listen in for some points of consideration - and of course lots of off-roading and roasting of Xan.

We continue from part 1 onto part 2 of our delve into mental illness and in part 2 we get a little more personal and in depth. May wanna grab your tissues.Resources Namihttps://nami.org/Join One Love - 5 Lessons I Learned About Helping My Partner Cope with Anxietyhttps://www.joinonelove.org/learn/5-lessons-learned-helping-partner-cope-anxiety/Psych2Go.nethttps://psych2go.net/The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

This week and next, we discuss mental health and coping and how it would affect all involved. This week's episode covers the lighter end of the two. "Mental illness is common" is something we found out was part of the definition of "mental illness." This episode will give you a chance to get your bearings and tissues together before we get into the even heavier stuff in episode two. With statistics like "1 in 4 adults in the U.S.A. have mental illness," we are bound to have a member of our polycule that's struggling. We discuss statistics and resources here in this episode - amidst our own experiences.Resources Namihttps://nami.org/Join One Love - 5 Lessons I Learned About Helping My Partner Cope with Anxietyhttps://www.joinonelove.org/learn/5-lessons-learned-helping-partner-cope-anxiety/Psych2Go.nethttps://psych2go.net/The other stuffFind all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

We did things a bit differently this week and put out what was going to be a patreon-only accessible episode. It's a poem that Crow wrote about what it's like to go through the process of losing a child. So, we present to you, Crow's poem, The Things They Don't Tell You.National Suicide Prevention LifelineHours: Available 24 hours. Languages: English, Spanish. Learn more800-273-8255Find all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/

Why polyamory? Simply put, many hands make light work. Of course, we go into the more complex reasons of why it's polyamory for the win for our family. We each describe why and what poly brings to us. We'd love to hear yours.

Part 2 and our final episode of the year. Hopefully 2021 will be better. Thank you to all of our listeners out there! Happy holidays and have a wonderful new year.Well, here we are at the end of the year ... 2020 ... In this 2 part episode, we finish out the year with some inspirational, wholesome, perhaps triggering and crude messages and recaps of our (and perhaps also your) events of the year. Thank you all so very much for being part of this path and this ever evolving process and way of life. We appreciate each and every one of you for tuning in week after week. We hope that whatever you're celebrating is filled with love, support, health, and memories that will bring you smiles throughout the New Year. Merry Everything - and Happy New Year to you and yours!!Find all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comDonate via Paypal to xan@poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comWhitney AvalonWFT2020https://youtu.be/zCsVp6hRTsACarl Sagan - A Pale Blue Dothttps://www.planetary.org/worlds/pale-blue-dot

Well, here we are at the end of the year ... 2020 ... In this 2 part episode, we finish out the year with some inspirational, wholesome, perhaps triggering and crude messages and recaps of our (and perhaps also your) events of the year. Thank you all so very much for being part of this path and this ever evolving process and way of life. We appreciate each and every one of you for tuning in week after week. We hope that whatever you're celebrating is filled with love, support, health, and memories that will bring you smiles throughout the New Year. Merry Everything - and Happy New Year to you and yours!! Find all Episodes on www.poly-saturated.comBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.comWhitney AvalonWFT2020https://youtu.be/zCsVp6hRTsACarl Sagan - A Pale Blue Dothttps://www.planetary.org/worlds/pale-blue-dot

Collectively we got together and made an episode to air our grievances with the medical field and it's lack of accommodations, consideration, or caliber of caring physicians when it comes to gynecological issues as well as mental health struggles. Our girls joined in on the jamboree and we shared some of the nightmares we've had to face in hopes that the insurmountable amount of you who have also been victims of the hands of the condescending pompous and big-headed, cold-hearted medical staff will push through and keep searching for physicians who are life-enhancers - and not debilitating, defeating a**holes.

"Ugh, did you see that they did this horrible, unforgivable thing, love?" "No, I don't remember that. When did that happen?" "Oh my god, you must've been in the bathroom, but this horrible unforgivable thing happened and we can never talk to them again." ... and similarPitting your partners against your other partners, coworkers, friends, etc. Undermining, underhanded, passive aggressive manipulation accentuating the other partners flaws while making the accuser seem flawless all in the interest and protection of the accusers insecurities and unresolved, denied, or unknown personal issues. It's a problem. We talk about it here. Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

Change is inevitable. We can run from it, but even the very act of running creates change. In this episode we talk about change on every level from personal, to relational, to cellular - and all around. As per our usual we stray off topic and change our topic of conversation often. Change is all around. How receptive are you to change?

Politics! POLITICS! Politics! ... Uh, how about NO! We're avoiding politics in this episode and we're talking about whatever happens to come to our wild mustangy minds. Join us on the crazy train to Poly Saturated Land. You may get wet on this ride.

We got a surprise visit from Crow's brother, WonderBro, for Crow's birthday (HAPPY BIRTHDAY CROW)! So, naturally as one of our 1st and most faithful listeners, we asked WonderBro to sit in and do a podcast with us. In this episode we talked about his reconciliation with Crow and the surprises that whole process entailed and some of the ins and outs of our relationship dynamics. Most importantly, we talked about how wonderful it is to have so many more family members to love and cherish.

Because this weekend followed the rest of 2020 and was completely nothing like it was supposed to be and brought a mixed bag, we are doing 2 shorter episodes for you this week. Join us as we discuss Polyamory in the News.

In this, our latest episode of the insanity we call a life, we go into double-speak and other back as*ward means that people use to "communicate" their needs - and why just saying what the fork you mean is the best method of practice all around ... So - say what the fork you mean and mean what the fork you say. And dive into a more tasty meal of living.Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

Listen in this week to our longest episode to date as we discuss the "cons" of polyamory. In everything in life, it's all about perspective. We've discussed lots of the ins and outs, but never quite pointedly discussed the "cons." You'll even be subjected to a rather rare (on mic anyway) Xan "mic drop" moment and a J's rant (yeah, another one - sorry not sorry)!!Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

FTW ... apparently means "FOR THE WIN" and not F*CK THE WORLD ... So, this week, we discuss subtle yet profound ways that polyamory scoops in for the win in every day life.Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

If we could have been paid for every single snide or off-hand comment people make to not just polyam people, but to people who are living "alternative" lifestyles, we would be swimming like Scrooge McDuck in our filthy earnings for having endured the preposterous statements and accusations we encounter on nearly a daily basis. In this episode, you get to relive them with us - without the damage of having swam through gold coins - and maybe we'll even touch upon the ones that you've gotten comfy with answering - or the ones that you yourself suggested.

Listen all of ya'll it's a ... Hmm ... this episode. This episode right here ... this episode right here - Is on Sabotage. You know you've done it - or you know someone who does it. Listen to our latest musings on how to and not to do the saboteuring (which is a word now in case you're wondering). Self-sabotage, intentional and unintentional sabotaging - we've all been guilty of it at one point or another ... We go into all the real details - cuz we keep it poly-real.CrackedSpeed Datinghttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buKMOxNzYjYFunny or DieHow to get out of a speeding tickethttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T2BY8zZ1CTMBecome a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

What are we going to do in this episode Crow? Same thing we do every episode, J - we're going to try and roast Xan. Tune in to see just how much Xan gets roasted. Will he need aloe? Will he just need some ibuprofen? You'll have to listen to find out in this week's episode on how to transition from friends to lovers and from lovers to friends.Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/poly_saturatedpodcast/Donate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

In this episode, we take you with us in-between the sheets to penetrate the mossy treasures that lay in the depths of "sexy-time etiquette." How do you and your partners handle sexy time in the bedroom and elsewhere? We explore ALL angles and positions to assure the most pleasurable experience for all involved.Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturatedDonate to the podcast on Paypalxan@poly-saturated.com

Poly-Saturated PodcastEpisode 48 - The C wordIn any successful relationship, we all know what it boils down to ... That C word ... ya know ... Communication. FINALLY after 47 episodes, it occurred to us that we might oughta do an episode on something we've created a game around and something every single person does all day every day with every single person in our lives. COMMUNICATE - take a sip. ReferenceHow Lack Of Communication Can Sneakily Ruin Relationships & How To Fix Ithttps://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-14106/5-communication-mistakes-that-kill-relationships.htmlNonviolent-Communicationhttps://www.amazon.com/Nonviolent-Communication-audiobook/dp/B00TKMBJKE/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=Nonviolent+Communication%3A+Create+Your+Life%2C+Your+Relationships%2C+and+Your+World+in+Harmony+with+Your+Values&qid=1599365413&s=books&sr=1-2Become a Patreon Memberwww.patreon.com/polysaturatedTwitter@poly_saturatedFacebookhttps://www.facebook.com/polysaturated

Polyappery. Polyappmosphere. We're talking apps. Especially with the new restrictions on physical interaction, technology is evolving and meeting whole new levels, catering to different needs and communities that have often been overlooked. We discuss some apps we've found useful over the years - and even did a bit of research into some newer ones that look promising. MyMy's Blog posthttp://musings.polyoutloud.com/2020/08/17/newstart/https://mashable.com/article/non-monogamous-polyamorous-dating-apps/https://www.familywall.com/index.html?lang=enhttps://www.polyam.date/

In this week's episode, we discuss nesting and living agreements. Having any sort of functional way of living, whether single, polyam, monog, or what have you, in order to maintain a sense of order and flow, we put into place tons of living agreements. We discuss some that we've encountered throughout our polyam life and the ones we've incorporated into our happy little polycule to help from being driven to drop the People's Elbow on our cherished loved ones.

In this week's episode, we interview some of our favorite guests (our children) Mercury, Amethyst, and Selkie, where we go head to head and toe to toe discussing bisexuality and pansexuality and a bunch of topics in-between.

Many times, we disregard our needs because they have been minimalized and marginalized in society as being "choices." While it's important to recognize chances to compromise, it is also important to advocate for those things that make you - you and how people can show up for you and fulfill your desire to live your best life. As Crow mentions in this episode, many wouldn't buy a home without indoor plumbing - but, in the grand scheme of things, it's not considered a "need" when in actuality - it is most decidedly a NEED to provide what you're looking for. We learn to reframe and rethink our verbage for wants vs needs in our 44th episode. Your hosts are J, Crow, and Xan. www.poly-saturated.comTo be one of our Patreon supporters go to to www.patreon.com/polysaturatedFind a large selection of Poly, BDSM, and LGBTQ+ merchandise at shoprw.restrictedwearz.com

In this week's cast of podding we go into the nitty gritty of integrating families. We had so much to gab about it, we had to turn it into 2 episodes. Listen along as we discuss our views and experiences with integrating our families and the different parenting techniques people may use within their family and how to make it all work as seamlessly as possible.Your hosts are J, Crow, and Xan. www.poly-saturated.comTo be one of our Patreon supporters go to to www.patreon.com/polysaturatedFind a large selection of Poly, BDSM, and LGBTQ+ merchandise at shoprw.restrictedwearz.com

In this week's cast of podding we go into the nitty gritty of integrating families. We had so much to gab about it, we had to turn it into 2 episodes. Listen along as we discuss our views and experiences with integrating our families and the different parenting techniques people may use within their family and how to make it all work as seamlessly as possible.Your hosts are J, Crow, and Xan. www.poly-saturated.comFind a large selection of Poly, BDSM, and LGBTQ+ merchandise at shoprw.restrictedwearz.com