Podcast appearances and mentions of lola jean

Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Lola Jean, a multifaceted sex educator, fetish wrestler, and world record holder to the show for a conversation about sexual confidence, empowerment, and freedom! We'll explore whether sexual confidence is an innate gift or a skill that can be developed (hint:  if you don't feel like or aren't sure you got it, Lola Jean is so here for you). We'll also hear about common obstacles that can keep us from feeling sexually confident and Lola Jean shares strategies for empowering our sexual selves (one of the keys may lie in self pleasure

To start off the new season we're getting into the science of one of the most controversial and taboo sex topics around. Squirting! For some people, it's a major sex goal — but for others, it's a source of major embarrassment. And it turns out that people have been writing or talking about squirting and female ejaculation for CENTURIES. So in this episode, we're going to find out: what IS squirting (like, what is this fluid??), how common is it, and if you want to start doing it … how can you? We'll hear from Sex Educator and World Record Holder, Lola Jean. As well as Professor Caroline Pukall, Dr. Nan Wise, Professor Helen O'Connell, and Dr. Samuel Salama.  Find our transcript here: bit.ly/4iIVQcc In this episode, we cover: (00:00) Welcome to Cirque du Squirt (08:26) History of female ejaculation (13:18) Suspect 1: Vaginal lubrication (15:55) Suspect 2: Pee (24:41) Suspect 3: Chemical X? (29:47) Female prostate (36:00) Why does it feel like that? (39:26) What about penises? (42:03) Can you learn to squirt? Credits: This episode was produced by Ekedi Fausther-Keeys, with help from Blythe Terrell, Wendy Zukerman, Meryl Horn, Michelle Dang, and Rose Rimler. We're edited by Blythe Terrell. Video editing, audio mix and graphics by Bobby Lord. Graphics help from Michelle Dang. Illustrations by Scarlette Baccini. Fact checking by Eva Dasher. Music by Bobby Lord, Peter Leonard, Bumi Hidaka, and So Wylie. Interpreting by Kana Hatakeyama, translation help from Ben Milam.  Thanks also to Dr. Devon Hensel, and Dr. Leslie Rickey. Recording and logistics help from Michelle Kitchen, Spencer Howard and Nick Johnson. Recording help from Abi McNeil. Special thanks to Roland Campos. Thanks to Cameron Silzle and Arsonhouse Entertainment. Thanks to Lola Jean and everyone who spoke to us at Cirque du Squirt. Science Vs is a Spotify Studios Original. Listen for free on Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. Follow us and tap the bell for episode notifications. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This week, Elle and Vee bring back Lolo and B from Episode 081: Long Distance ENM and Creating Sexy Spaces, and Lola Jean from Episode 074: Fetish Wrestling, Choking and Squirting Misconceptions to play WHOREible Life, a card game all about breaking down barriers and getting naughty AND deep!Have You Ever: Been fucked with a strap on dildo? Favorite dildos, and what makes strap on sex good. (3:05)Have You Ever: Paid for sex? What is the appeal behind role playing as an escort? (15:18)Would you Rather: Use a ball gag or receive a rim job? (21:30)Pubic Hair do's and don'ts! (22:59)Would you Rather: Be the focus of a gang bang with 4 or more or be in an orgy with 8 or more people? (29:44)Different types of gang bangs? (32:14)The Wheel of Consent. (34:22)Would you rather: Give impact play with a flogger, or give or receive bite marks? (36:54)What is possessive touch?  How to feel desired without messing with labels and power sub/dom dynamics. (38:33)What is primal play? (41:02)Would you Rather: Go to a daytime orgy aka ‘dorgy' or masturbate together next to your partner? (43:32)Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcomwww.lolajean.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

This week on The Labia Lounge I chat with the world record holder for volume squiring, Lola Jean. Lola is also a fetish wrestler, pro domme and sex educator, with an incredible ability to squirt on cue and fill up literal jugs of the stuff!We discuss the myths and misconceptions about squirting, the pros and cons to being a squirter, helpful tips and techniques for teaching yourself how to squirt, and loads more about this highly fetishized bodily function. Lola shares some hilarious and unbelievable stories about how she came to set the world record for squirting large volumes in a short space of time, plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Lola's work here: courses.lolajean.com. and 7daysofdomination.comAnd use the code LABIAPOD to get 20% off all her courses.*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you're trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shopContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.comWHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameWoo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop!

Join me and Lola Jean, holder of the volume squirt world record, as we explore the fascinating world of squirting and beyond. In this episode, we leave no squirt unturned. Lola Jean shares her expertise on who can do it, how it happens, and how to react when someone else experiences it. We also delve into the two types of squirting, shedding light on this often misunderstood phenomenon. But that's not all – we also dive into the realm of BDSM and kink, discussing how to vet a good dom(me), empowering individuals to become one and her own personal experiences. Lola Jean dispels misconceptions surrounding being a brat and shares insights into her famous event, Cirque du Squirt.

Dive into an unfiltered and entertaining conversation with Lola Jean - the sex educator, fetish wrestler, and record world holder of volume squirting, who also happens to be the head mistress of 7 Days Of Domination. I stumbled upon Lola's sex-ed video about pegging on afterglow. The film was fun, engaging and without frills. At this moment I knew I had to snag her for a podcast chat. In this episode, we dive into it all, no agenda, just real talk. Lola shares details on navigating desires, respecting boundaries, and how to navigate through consensual breath-play. This one's about finding your limits, keeping it real, and having a damn good time. Tune in for a no-frills conversation that's as insightful as it is entertaining. Episode navigation:00:01:14 - Lola Jean's journey into sex education00:04:17 - Squirting: control, challenges, and misconceptions00:09:57 - Exploring reasons for intimacy00:11:25 - Intention in self-pleasure00:21:44 - Sex education without frills00:23:27 - Power dynamics and communication in relationships00:25:00 - Individuality in professional and personal life00:27:30 - Challenges in communication01:15:12 - Psychology in BDSM practices01:16:13 - BDSM and personal preferences01:19:51 - Domination and subspace01:33:13 - Learning about BDSM by exploration01:40:35 - Lola Jean's educational projects and contact infoSupport the showJoin the workshop Intimacy on Screen at RedCheeks Academy to learn about the ethical intimacy. This workshop is very different from typical education. There are no tests or grades. I believe that the best way to learn is by doing. You will learn useful techniques and strategies, but mostly you will get to practice the skills that are essential for the ethical production process. If you want to:

Goddess/ sex educator Lola Jean and comedian/ Remy's bestie Betsy Carroll are BACK (both returning guests from earlier seasons, but together for the first time) and they are talking about Cirque Du Squirt-- a "sex freak show/ carnival" that Lola curates and stars in to celebrate her title of the 'World Record Holder of Volume Squirting.' Remy and Betsy attended the sex show and talk about their hesitations about going (spoiler: Betsy had none, Remy had a lot), the various games they played and acts they witnessed, how Lola got her title as top squirter in the world, and how everyone feels about Remy's O drought. Maybe drought is the wrong word at this point because the orgasms HAVE occurred-- it's just not as easy anymore. So Betsy and Lola both give Remy assignments! We also talk about new classes that Lola is offering as well as sober and fun sex parties she hosts.  TW: Blood, needles, food and sex Follow Betsy @BetsyCarroll and Lola @LolaJeanDotCom Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

For the 126th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes you to a summer squirt fest with sex educators extraordinaire Lola Jean — the two-time world record holder for volume squirting — and Samia Burton of Sexual Essentials. First, Lola Jean explains her different sexual revolutions, how she discovered she could squirt, how she became a two-time world-record-setting squirter, and the two types of squirters. Then, Samia Burton shares a thrilling primer on squirting and the disappointment some people feel when they discover it doesn't necessarily come with an orgasm. Study with Samia! Obviously, she's a stellar sex educator, so take a class to level up your skills: Masturbation & Squirting 101: https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147507841/g6JuLmGy #Dickriding 101: https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147507840/g6JuLmGy #MouthMasterclass: https://sexual-essentials.mykajabi.com/a/2147507839/g6JuLmGy For more from Lola Jean: Check out Lola Jean's website lolajean.com Check out the 7 Days of Domination website 7daysofdomination.com Follow Lola Jean on Twitter @lolajeandotcom Follow Lola Jean on Instagram @lolajeandotcom For more from Samia Burton: Follow Samia on Instagram @sexualessentials Follow Samia on Twitter @miabuggzy Check out Samia's website thesexualessentials.com Psst, Courtney has an OnlyFans, which is a horny way to support the show: onlyfans.com/cocopeepshow Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Dipsea is an audio erotica app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions designed to turn you on. Dipsea is offering a 30-day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/private. Visit Shamelesscare.com today and use coupon code PPU for a sizzling $30 discount at checkout. Don't settle for anything less than Shameless Care. Let them be your partner in embracing a sex-positive lifestyle. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with host Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Quicky 38 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 10: #40 Squirting, Pegging and Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean) On episode 40 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Lola Jean. Lola is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers a variety of classes and talks to help people have better sex with themselves and each other like Pegging, Squirting, and Libido Awakening. A variety of paid and free options of classes and talks, plus a podcast with The Reluctant Sexpert: ‘⁠Is Our Love ___?⁠', there are a variety of options to indulge. Lola and I talked about squirting, pegging, rimming, and broadening your definition of sex. We also spoke about the pressure both men and women feel to perform sex a certain way. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

Elaine Gregersen was 24 weeks pregnant when her waters broke. Having endured sickness throughout her high-risk pregnancy, she and husband Mark had not suspected anything sinister was happening when she appeared to be suffering from bladder weakness too.  After a traumatic 24 hours in the maternity ward, the Gregersens were faced with the reality that their twin boys, Henry and Blake, were unlikely to both survive beyond the neonatal unit. In this interview with Olly, they tell their story.  Content warning: intense experience, infant mortality.  — Meanwhile, in the Zeitgeist, Ollie Peart investigates if, following the Coronation of King Charles III, Republican sentiment is trending upwards. What path is there for Royal refuseniks to achieve their desire for an elected UK Head of State? Thanks to columnist and commentator Yasmin Alibhai-Brown, Ollie unpicks the arguments monarchists put forward - and rewrites the National Anthem whilst he's at it… If you've got a trend for Ollie to test in a future edition of the Zeitgeist, head to our website and fill out the feedback form. — Elsewhere, in the Foxhole, Alix Fox - high on life from some Personal News - answers your sex questions: this month, a Mannfan whose girlfriend burst into tears when he called her a ‘whore' in the missionary position. Is there a way to recover his mojo? Must he apologise for overstepping the mark? And how should you do ‘pillow talk' - whilst respecting your partner's boundaries? With the help of sex educator Lola Jean and playwright and storyteller Cameryn Moore, Alix has the answers! If you've got a sex and relationships question for Alix to tackle in a future edition of the Foxhole, submit it via the feedback form on our website. — Finally, our record of the month is ‘Letter To Myself', something peppy and fun from Leigh's The Lottery Winners featuring Frank Turner. It's out now. — Love the show? Support the show! We rely on listeners like you to fund our independent podcast and bring you these stories.  Buy Olly and the team a beer right now - using our secure payment form at MODERNMANN.CO.UK — See you on June 10th! Presenter: Olly Mann. Contributors: Ollie Peart, Alix Fox, Elaine Gregersen, Mark Gregersen, The Lottery Winners. Producer: Matt Hill. Theme Music: ‘Skies Over Cairo' by Django Django. Graphic Design: Terry Saunders. Copyright: Olly Mann / Rethink Audio 2023. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Meera and Liz cover a couple cocktail bars they've visited lately, two Indian restaurants that are consistently awesome, three new spots they love and also share plans for trying a very new restaurant: Sado. www.saucemagazine.com Planter's House: https://www.plantershousestl.com/ Tim's Chrome Bar: https://www.saucemagazine.com/a/60157/5-new-st-louis-area-places-to-try-this-month A Tour of Indian Restaurants: https://www.saucemagazine.com/a/59883/you-need-to-try-these-7-st-louis-area-indian-restaurants Taj Palace: https://tajpalacestl.com/ Flavors Indian Cuisine: http://flavorsstl.com/ 1929 Pizza and Wine: https://1929pizzaandwine.com/ Lola Jean's: https://lolajeansstl.com/ The Vandy: https://www.saucemagazine.com/a/60077/first-look-the-vandy-in-forest-park-southeast Sado: https://www.sado-stl.com/

Sauce Magazine staff writer Iain Shaw dishes on the top new St. Louis restaurants to check out this month, including Bagel Union, the Vandy, Fleur STL and Lola Jean's Pizza.

Listen to an old fan favourite while the hosts plan more spicy content for season 3.  Enjoy a walk down pegging memory lane and listen to the first – and by far most popular – episode ever while you wait.Here, Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. You'll also hear from the squirting world-record holder about how to reclaim female ejaculation from the male gaze. Lola Jean talks about her own journey and answers the question: can all women squirt? 

They are the founders of 7 Days of Domination and just amazing humans who bring topics to the forefront for Dommes and those curious about domination. Miss Shayla and Lola Jean join HiThereCatsuit for a great discussion on education and their views on the scene.

On this month's Deep Dive interview, Brat Whisperer Lola Jean joins me to talk all about what makes brat tick, and more importantly how to find your inner brat and negotiate the conditions that will allow (controlled, joyful) chaos to reign. You are a cute puzzle!  Going patreon at $11/month to get the full hour-long interview here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/brat-motivations-79112905  Or join at $5/month to join us live for our next Deep Dive interview with @safeslut all about STI's, safer sex, and her life as an HSV+ queen!  https://www.patreon.com/askasub  Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com More on my breakup with Instagram: https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship Subscribe to the subby substack for free short form content: https://askasub.substack.com  Free & Public Friday Q&As: https://discord.gg/AvkZ9f6BtY  Follow Lola: Instagram | Twitter | Her Website 

Lina ponificates on curating kinky community beyond the algorithm, then stands at the crossroads with a listener who wants to go from book learning to street smarts. And finally, some thoughts on overthinking, and the perfectly nice orgasms it chases away. Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com Free & Pubic Friday Q&As: https://discord.gg/AvkZ9f6BtY  More on my breakup with Instagram: https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship Subscribe to the subby substack for free short form content: https://askasub.substack.com  To join our live Q&A with Lola Jean all about Brats, join patreon starting at $5/month: https://www.patreon.com/askasub  Twitter | @Lina.Dune | @askasub2.0 CREDITS Created, Hosted, Produced and Edited by Lina Dune With Additional Support from Mr. Dune Artwork by Kayleigh Denner Music by Dan Molad

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Russell Ping is the owner & chef of Russell's Cafe (Fenton & South City) and Lola Jean's Pizza. In fourth grade, Russell began his entrepreneurial journey selling cookies in his local neighborhood, even getting the nickname ‘The Cookie Chef'. At 22, Russell opened his flagship cafe in Fenton with his mom. In 2006, Russell's Cafe was elevating the baking game by selling delicious hand-crafted sweets. Ping mentioned that he wanted Russell's Sweets to be at the center of everything you celebrate in life. Living in the South Hampton neighborhood, Russell was shortly led to opening up a second location on Macklind. With this larger location, they were able to expand their cafe into a hot-spot for brunch and dinner hours. In 2023, Russell and Em Ping came out hot by re-opening a pizza pickup concept called Lola Jeans, which is open 3 days a week for pre-order only. Russell's also has an extensive line of wholesale sweets & gooey butter cake that is sold at local grocery stores and also available to ship nationwide for those missing the St. Louis staples. In this episode we chat with Russell about his childhood, entrepreneurship, being in business with the family, and more. Support the show

On today's show, we welcome, sex educator and fetish wrestler, Lola Jean to the podcast. Lola Jean gave an informative and entertaining ear full of everything pleasure in the worlds of butts. Prostate stimulation, internal and external, wrestling, and a hilarious poop story that involves a bag and her therapist. So fun and informative, we know you'll love it. Enjoy! FOLLOW LOLA JEAN AT: IG:@LolaJeanDotCom Twitter: @LolaJeanDotCom www.LolaJean.com ------------------------------------------------- SUPPORT THE SHOW BY BECOMING A PATRON: https://www.patreon.com/HeyPoopypodcast   FOLLOW HEY POOPY PODCAST AT: Instagram @heypoopypodcast Twitter @HeyPoopy YouTube Hey Poopy Dave Ellen Website www.heypoopypodcast.com Email heypoopypodcast@gmail.com Call Us at 203-998-5579   RATE, REVIEW DOWNLOAD AND SUBSCRIBE AT: Tunes Spotify Pandora Stitcher Libsyn Google Amazon or wherever you get your podcasts

In this episode we meet Lola Jean.  A Sex Educator, Fetish Wrestler, ProDomme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo). She provides the 'No Frills Sex Education' we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to invite individuals through what they think they are capable of. In this episode Lola Jean talks to us about her signature squirting demos, but then we take an intimate turn into how LolaJean deals with performance pressure, sexual and emotional anxiety and why vulnerability is a normal part of life we all caln learn from.  Watch the interview in full on You Tube And don't forget to leave us a rating and review Find Cyndi's website here  Website www.drhollyrichmond.com. Social @drhollyrichmond   Lola's Website @lolajeandotcom on social

Welcome back to Season 3, Episode 4! This week Cat chats to Shayla and Lola who own 7 Days Of Domination! They discuss EVERYTHING about the life of a dominatrix, kinks, fetishes and even go into some graphic detail about their sessions (warning - this isn't for the faint hearted). Lola has the world record for volume squirting and Shayla owns the largest female owned dungeon in NYC! This is one of the most interesting episodes yet so GET READY! If you want to get in touch with Cat or follow her journey check out her Instagram accounts below:Host: @cat_henesey & @cats_outofthebag__TikTok: cat_heneseyBrand: @Henesii__Website: www.henesii.comEmail: hello@catsoutofthebag.net7daysofdominationlolajeandotcomyesmissshaylaIf you'd like to check out their website:https://www.7daysofdomination.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lola Jean and Alix Avery join Ralph Sutton and Big Jay Oakerson for a special episode (filled with technical difficulties) back where it all started at Ralph's apartment. They start off by discussing what led to the last minute episode idea change, Ralph's Iceland marathon, which South Park characters Alix think Ralph and Jay look like, Jay's weirdest Reddit searches and plenty more. They then begin the Squirt Games by first seeing which contestant can squirt the most volume, then they rate the squirt by smell and finally see which contestant can squirt out the most candles!(Air Date: October 26th, 2022)Support our sponsors!YoDelta.com - Use promo code: Gas to get 25% off!RockAuto.com- Check out Rock Auto for the best prices on all auto parts!The SDR Show merchandise is available at https://podcastmerch.com/collections/the-sdr-showYou can watch The SDR Show LIVE for FREE every Wednesday and Saturday at 9pm ET at GaSDigitalNetwork.com/LIVEOnce you're there you can sign up at GaSDigitalNetwork.com with promo code: SDR for a 7-day FREE trial with access to every SDR show ever recorded! On top of that you'll also have the same access to ALL the shows that GaS Digital Network has to offer!Follow the whole show on social media!Lola JeanWebsite: https://lolajean.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom/Alix AveryTwitter: https://twitter.com/alixaveryxInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/alix_avery26/Big Jay OakersonTwitter: https://twitter.com/bigjayoakersonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bigjayoakerson/Website: https://bigjaycomedy.comRalph SuttonTwitter: https://twitter.com/iamralphsuttonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamralphsutton/The SDR ShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/theSDRshowInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesdrshow/GaS Digital NetworkTwitter: https://twitter.com/gasdigitalInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gasdigital/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

For the 100th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Lola Jean, sex educator, headmistress of 7 Days of Domination (for aspiring pro doms/dommes), and world record holder for volume squirting! We discuss Lola's sexual revolutions, her experience working at a dungeon, going independent as a dominatrix and fetish wrestler, tips for exploring kink, how she discovered she could squirt, how she became a two-time world-record setting squirter, the two different types of squirters, squirting advice, pegging pointers, how 7 Days of Domination started, and tips for those thinking about domming professionally. For more Lola Jean: Check out Lola Jean's website lolajean.com Check out the 7 Days of Domination website 7daysofdomination.com Follow Lola Jean on Twitter @lolajeandotcom Follow Lola Jean on Instagram @lolajeandotcom ***BUY A PRO-ABORTION SHIRT TO HELP SUPPORT OUR "ABORTION IN POST-ROE AMERICA" REPORTING TRIP (use code PRIVATE to save 10%): https://www.bonfire.com/store/private-parts-unknown/ Here's a playlist of our previous abortion-related episodes, including the "Men Have Abortions Too" series: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4BFDkcQYzdfq5YEV5buzzO?si=19a1d68b109845dd Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by: Go to RexMD.com/private today to get started with a sample pack prescription of generic Viagra. All orders come with FREE 2-day shipping. Rex MD – the authority in men's telehealth. https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> ratethispodcast.com/private  Psst... sign up for our Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! privatepartsunknown.substack.com Let's be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram @privatepartsunknown and Twitter @privatepartsun. Connect with hosts Courtney Kocak @courtneykocak and Sofiya @thesofiya on Instagram and Twitter.

On this week's episode we're thrilled to chat with pro domme, no frills sex educator, writer, and wrestler (yes, wrestler) Lola Jean! She also happens to be a world record holder for a very particular skill that she has. This is an episode for all you choke whores out there. Enjoy! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/goodpainpodcast/support

REPLAY: Ye-haw! Join Emma for another ride on the Electric Rodeo. To squirt or not to squirt, that is the question. And in this episode, I'm talking to someone who has a lot of answers. Lola Jean is a sex educator and the world record holder for squirting volume. Yup, it's a thing! This episode is about squirting in all it's glory. What is it? Where does it come from? And how can I do it? We chat about how the world record was judged and measured and get some tips for learning how to squirt. We also talk about the current cultural obsession with squirting, both positive and negative! The frequency of squirting in porn has helped to fuel this fascination but does this put extra pressure on people who can't squirt and feel like they should be able to? Don't forgive to give us a 5 star rating if you loved this episode

Threesomes are a great way to explore sexuality and dip your toe into opening up your relationship. But how much of it do you plan and how much of it do you leave to chance? No one ever seems to talk about the uncomfortable parts of setting up a threesome, what makes a threesome good or bad, and what happens afterward? What should you discuss with your partner *before* you get in the sheets with another? More importantly, where is any of this information for that elusive third party?In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline hang out with Lola Jean, an international sexuality educator, and talk through threesome strategies as well as bust some myths.To learn more about Lola Jean, follow her on Instagram @lolajeandotcom, or via her website: lolajean.com.To find more about Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla, follow them at @wearecuriousfoxes, @coacheffyblue, and @jacquelinemisla on Instagram.If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 201-870-0063 or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comFollow us on social media for further resources on this topic:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation: fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)

Did the 2HotWives succeed with their sexy homework on squirting?  Tune in to Squirting Part 2 to find out.  First, start with a pitcher of the episode's cocktail, Strawberry Mango Sangria.  We suggest that you make it a day ahead to let the fruits infuse their flavor. Then, Kat recalls a particularly juicy hot tale while on the Bliss Cruise: a MFM threesome.   Then, the Wives share the ups and downs of their sexy homework: Ams takes the advice of sexpert Lola Jean and starts with masturbation, while Kat and Mr. Kat focus on lots of g-spot foreplay.  Finally, it's Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore squirting, either solo or with a partner.  Did we wet your appetite for sexual exploration?  Check out www.2hotwives.com for articles, advice, drink recipes and more.  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Casual Toys – Womanizer Duo Wanderlust Swinger Podcast TRAVEL WITH THE 2HOTWIVES Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including: Podcast a Palooza: June 2022 Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022 Bliss Cruise: November 2022 Keep checking back for new events.  WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SQUIRTING? Check out these articles and references if you are curious about female ejaculation.  https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/ https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878  https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709  https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/ https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

What's the big deal about squirting?  Is it the same thing as female ejaculation? Does it always happen during orgasm?  Can every woman squirt? Is squirt just pee?  If someone gushes or dribbles, is that still considered squirting?  What's squirt made up of anyway?  The Wives answer these questions and more, including an interview with Lola Jean, the Squirting Queen. But first, it's ORGY time!, Sip this episode's juicy cocktail, the Mango Rum Spritzer, while listening to both Wives share their favorite orgy experience with two super-hot couples in Mexico.  Next, the Wives bust some myths on squirting: no, it's not just pee, it doesn't always include orgasm, it comes from the urethra, not the vagina.  And, despite what you see in porn, squirt doesn't necessarily shoot across the room!   To get a sexpert's opinion, the Wives interview Lola Jean, the world record holder in squirting volume.  Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Kat and Mr. Kat are going to work on their g-spot stimulation techniques, while Ams schedules some “me” time to explore squirting: using a Womanizer Duo toy.  About Lola Jean  Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Wrestler, Pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of.  Mentioned in this Episode Casual Toys - Womanizer Duo Wanderlust Swinger Podcast Travel with the 2HotWives! PCAP Desire Bliss Want to Learn More About Squirting? https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/ https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878  https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709  https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/ https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

This is the first episode in my two part series about woman entrepreneurs who are empowering people to be more confident in themselves through sex education. Join me as I chat and laugh it up with Lola Jean, a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Pro Domme, Writer and World Record Holder for Volume (solo) squirting. Lola does an amazing and refreshing job of educating individuals about sex as well as pushing them past what they think they're capable of. We talk about everything from the world of Dominatrix to kinks, romanticizing the slut narrative and so much more! Lola's IG: https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom/ Lola's Classes: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/7-days-of-domination-fluids-week-tickets-288638313967 Veronica's IG: https://www.instagram.com/veronica_thompson/ Above The Mean IG: https://instagram.com/above.the.mean?utm_medium=copy_link Don't forget to subscribe, rate and review! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/veronica-thompson9/support

What about sex have you always been curious about, but been too afraid to ask? Well, sex educator Lola Jean has all the answers, and she's here to share them on today's LoveStruck Daily. What is the secret to having the best orgasms? What are some of the misconceptions about sex today? Can a threesome save your relationship? Take out your notebooks (and condoms) because Sex Ed is officially in session! Get your daily happily ever after on LoveStruck Daily, with new love stories every Monday-Friday. In the meantime, follow @LoveStruckDaily on Instagram and Twitter for extra content. View episode transcript here ----> https://tinyurl.com/lolajean And for goodness sakes...just kiss already!!!   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

INTRODUCTION:Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Wrestler, Pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo), providing the No Frills Sex Education we all need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lola offers events, classes, and talks to help people have better sex with themselves and each other like Pegging, Squirting, and Libido Awakening. There is so much we are not exploring due to fear. Fear of how society will view us. How our partners will view us. How our peers will view us. Lola helps individuals stop making excuses and unlock who they are and what they deserve.In addition to this, Lola provides individuals with tools and information that is inclusive of the spectrum of our sexuality. She helps women put their pleasure first, and demand it. Lola introduces men to anal pleasure as well. Lola is available for interviews and to comment on: squirting, pegging, BDSM, power dynamics, consent, anal, masturbation. INCLUDED IN THIS EPISODE (But not limited to):·      Sex Education from a Unique and Dynamic Perspective ·      Wrestling Fetish Defined·      Squirting or Women AND Men!!!·      The Importance of Loving What You Do·      BDSM·      Let's Talk About Orgasms!·      Pegging·      Piss Play·      Kinks and Fetishes Contrasted·      Removing Pressure to Perform from Sex·      Internalized Homophobia·      The Five Most Common Kinkso  Serviceo  Image Validationo  Power Playo  Shameo  Novelty CONNECT WITH LOLA: Website: https://www.lolajean.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/LolaJeanEducationIG: http://instagram.com/lolajeandotcomTwitter: https://twitter.com/lolajeandotcom LOLA'S RECOMMENDATIONS:FEELD: https://bit.ly/3u4EyzBSquirting Chart: https://bit.ly/3H7YuVM           Squirting for Men: https://bit.ly/3G4zsFU Best Anal Sex Toys for All Genders: https://bit.ly/3H4Wyh2CONNECT WITH DE'VANNON: Website: https://www.SexDrugsAndJesus.comYouTube: https://bit.ly/3daTqCMFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SexDrugsAndJesus/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexdrugsandjesuspodcast/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TabooTopixLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/devannonEmail: DeVannon@SexDrugsAndJesus.com DE'VANNON'S RECOMMENDATIONS:·      Pray Away Documentary (NETFLIX)o  https://www.netflix.com/title/81040370o  TRAILER: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tk_CqGVfxEs ·      Adina Howard – Freak Like Me: https://bit.ly/3KPB0Hc INTERESTED IN PODCASTING OR BEING A GUEST?:·      PodMatch is awesome! This application streamlines the process of finding guests for your show and also helps you find shows to be a guest on. The PodMatch Community is a part of this and that is where you can ask questions and get help from an entire network of people so that you save both money and time on your podcasting journey.https://podmatch.com/signup/devannon TRANSCRIPT:[00:00:00]You're listening to the sex drugs and Jesus podcast, where we discuss whatever the fuck we want to! And yes, we can put sex and drugs and Jesus all in the same bed and still be all right at the end of the day. My name is De'Vannon and I'll be interviewing guests from every corner of this world as we dig into topics that are too risqué for the morning show, as we strive to help you understand what's really going on in your life.There is nothing off the table and we've got a lot to talk about. So let's dive right into this episode.De'Vannon: Hello hello. Hello everyone. Today, I got with me Ms. Lola Jean. This bad-ass woman here is a sex educator. She's a writer she's Pro Domme , and she is the world record holder for volume squirting. And that's right. I said, squirting. This episode is highly sexual and also highly educational. And I think those two make a great couple.We're going to talk about squirting for both women and men [00:01:00] yes men and can squirt to. And since we're talking about men, we also had to talk about pegging. Yeah. So we know some of you boys out there, like to get poked in the booty and we're here to let you know that that is totally okay. Lola has a totally amazing blog on her website, which is LolaJean.com I highly recommended, and I highly recommend this episode.Hey, Lola, baby. Thank you so much for coming on the sex drugs and Jesus podcast today. How the fuck are you up there in New York?Lola: Good. I would say never thought I'd be on a podcast with Jesus in the name, but I am excited De'Vannon: Well, Hey you now Jesus invented sex. You know, that's what I believe in. If you know, of course on this show, we don't believe in who you want or nothing at all. That's always cool. But you know, as far as I'm concerned, you know, God invented sex. You know, we're just working through the motions down here. So all of the Kingery in the world really [00:02:00] started with himLola: probably. I mean, there was definitely some bondage that went on. I'm talking to the crop, you know? De'Vannon: thinking about the crucifix. Hey, you know what? Get read, get out of it. What you will, honey. No one can tell you you are wrong.Lola: I have a wrestling move. I called the Jesus and it's because I put their arms in a lock then their head kind of rests on my pelvis. It hurts though. It hurt. It doesn't feel good. De'Vannon: You keep doing it over and over again. Okay. So the went through your website. I researched you. I want to give a shout out to our friend David, over, the big pond in the UK from the authentic man pod cast, because I heard you on his show And I was like, I have got to get this brilliant mind on my show.And here you are, this is a dream come true. [00:03:00] And so sex educator, instructor and coach pro Dom, I'm gonna need you to tell me what that is. A wrestler writer, no frills sex education. Can you give us a breakdown of all of these different aspects of you?Lola: Yeah. So I mean, it kind of it sort of breaks down into income streams and then like the way I describe it. But you know, first and foremost, I am a sex educator, which can mean whatever I want it to mean on any given day. And it's, you know, progressed and grown and evolved over time and it continues to, but what I find that I enjoy the most and what I am most skilled at and what people enjoy is really creating these experiences.So whether that is a class, whether it is an event, whether it is a product, something for someone, for artists, not someone from multiple people to experience. I do coaching on a limited basis, but I, I'm not looking to see people regularly. I'm looking to provide [00:04:00] and experiences for the masses and not necessarily, you?know, individuals.A pro Dom is a pro dominance will often refer to this as a dominatrix which also is a bit gendered as well. But industry terms is pro Dom. And within that, my main niche is wrestling fetish. So I wrestle typically CIS men for money and wrestling. It's, you know, it's it's clothes that looks athletic.I tell them it can feel like whatever you want it to feel like. But for me, it's got to feel like a sport and I use more Brazilian jujitsu to put people in holds, have them feel trapped. And that naturally involves a lot of, you know, classic domination, verbal approaches to.De'Vannon: So you're mixing in some of the things from BDSM into the wrestle.Lola: Well, it is, I mean, the, the, the niche [00:05:00] existed, like before I got into it, it was an underserved market because it's like, okay, of the people that are into this, how many can provide it and have how many can provide it, how many want to provide it in this context? And then have how many can provide in that context?How many have the skills of a dominatrix as opposed to the skills of a wrestler or a grappler? So, and also this is, it's something that, you know, it's, it's naturally going to be eroticized because it has to do with a power differential, especially when you're thinking of the subversion of, you know, female or femme strength to male or mass strength when you're thinking of size and it's the feeling of feeling trapped and a struggle, which is just naturally something that's going to be erotic to us.And then the bodies are just very close as well too. So. It's not that far to, you know, put that BDSM element into it. There's a lot of superhero fantasies. I'm Superman and you are, you know, the villain and you have trapped me and I can't get out of [00:06:00] your grasp type of a thing. Like, you know, it's not that far of a stretch where I feel like other ones might be like, it seems like pretty obvious to me why this is a roboticized. De'Vannon: Oh my God, this, this reminds me when I was in high school. I didn't Greco Roman wrestling for about six months before I got tired of getting my ass kicked. And then I became a team manager, but I will tell you getting my ass kicked. It was never so hot in my life. The way those boys would. Oh. And we know wrestler guy, they were like just delicious.And they would just pin me down and I wouldn't even know what that was really trying to win. Lola. I don't know.Lola: And that's the thing it's like, it can still be completely platonic. It's just the context that changes it so I can wrestle people professionally and then I can also do it in my sex life. And like, it's the context that makes something erotic or not. I've taught classes on this. That was honestly more textual, like contextual based.And there would be men in the class, but like, I'm not gonna be paired with another man. I don't [00:07:00] want to do that. That's gross. It's like, you understand what we're doing by mixing the genders? That's the weird thing, Right.You're supposed to wrestle people of the same gender. We're doing a different, a weirder thing. But all of a sudden it's like this internalized homophobia that just rules them. De'Vannon: Oh, that toxic masculinity is so Lola: Yeah. Yeah. De'Vannon: to go and easily go now. So with this wrestling, is this the sort of fetish or work that involves ejaculation?Lola: Well, it is different for each person. So it, it still falls under sex work. Even though that I might not be having any kind of penetrative sex or no one may be orgasming in my practice. If I feel comfortable with someone, they can release themselves if they wish, but I'm not touching anything and I'm not cleaning it up, nothing can touch me.That's my role. So sometimes we'll do it in their pants or away, or I'll keep my body away. But that is if I allow it and I feel comfortable with them, but I'm always to be [00:08:00] closed, but they, if they want to do that on their own time, that's fine. Or I've had one client where I was like holding him up his like throat.Like not really, but kind of holding up against the wall, more fantasy style. And he, just in his pants. Well, I was yelling at him and it was really hot. And like, that's the kind of thing I would allow, it, depends on the person. And like I tried, I gave it to them, like, it's a gift, but you know, all their providers are going to be completely different with what they allow and what they don't allow.De'Vannon: So when he came, did he, was he touching himself or did he just come because you were choking him and yelling at him?Lola: I believe sometimes they don't touch themselves as it happens, but yeah, he was touching himself and th this was one of the most memorable ones too, because when he ejaculated, he just broke out into hysterical laughter and like fell to the floor. And I was like, oh my God, what just happened? He's like, oh, it's sometimes it happens.Like, you know, when I, when I orgasm and I'm like, that was amazing. Like, it was, you could just tell how organic it was. But I had never seen that before. And I was like, this is incredible. [00:09:00]De'Vannon: Well, that's not type of shit you see in porn ever. Lola: Wow. De'Vannon: never seen a man break out in hysterical. Laughter I'm jealous girl.Lola: But that on the to-do list, De'Vannon: So I want to get a little bit of your personal struggle. So my research review, I found that article some, and they were saying like you kind of got into this because you got fired from a waitressing job in New York of all places. So what can you walk me through why you got fired and how you ended up in a sex dungeon?Lola: Yeah. So in advertising for maybe five or so years, and I to be bored and miserable and I, you know, I switched jobs and I moved to New York and I was still bored and miserable. So I quit. I was trying to find another job and I couldn't. Or a job that would make me happy. And while I was doing that, I [00:10:00] was waitressing and, you know, getting gigs and odd jobs and things like that.And I think some of the odd jobs maybe were, you know, sex adjacent or within that industry. But as I was exploring that on my personal side but I got fired from my waitressing job cause I have a problem with authority, shocking. And, and that, honestly, that was really It with the way their motivation style and their authority style. So when I got fired I was like, well, I don't want to go back to advertising. So let me find a job I don't hate. And that's when I started kind of making different connections in the sex industry that I was, you know, exploring for personal reasons. I'm like, Hey, maybe I can do this thing for money. And.I mean, not like this thing. I worked at a sex party where I was a dungeon monitor. So I was like, just in charge of like safety of the area and clean up. And after I did that, I was like, oh, never gonna do that again. But but that clued me in that like, oh, Hey, maybe there's things I can do in this industry while I figure out what I want to do with the rest of my life.I [00:11:00] didn't go into an intending. Like I'm going to be a sex educator. I was just like, please get me something I don't hate while I figure out what it is that I want to do.De'Vannon: It is important in this life to do things that we want to do because. The opposite of that is doing something that you don't want to do, causes stress, which will really draw down your lifespan. Lola: AndI think it's that we either need to love what we do or we need to do something that enables us to do what we love to do because not everything we love to do. You know, we should do for money or we should do professionally, or, you know, even we could love playing the guitar. We're not going to be like a famous singer or something like that, but we love to do it.So it's not the thing that has to be, you know, your, your lifeblood. Like, I got a lot of people that, you know, are really curious about being a sex educator, but they don't have anything new to say or share. They just like consuming it. So they want to do it. And sometimes [00:12:00] that's not enough of a reason. De'Vannon: honey, you know, you know, sex sells, you just can't go wrong with it. How did you find that particular sex opportunity after you got fired from waitress?Lola: I was attending, I was attending sex parties or I was trying to, I think I went to two and had a horrible time each time and left crying. And I was like, well, I didn't like attending it. Maybe I could work at it. And like in general, I like, I like having a job at a party at like having something to do, even now.I like a lot of my colleagues are like, yeah, I prefer to have a job at a party than like, being an attendee. Cause you, you have a thing to, do you have a purpose? So I had contacted the people like, Hey, are there any roles that you need, filled here? And that, that was how I, I just asked that's all. De'Vannon: to get into this, do you find an ad somewhere? Is there a number you call these? you just Google it? Like, how do you, like, if I'm brand new, fresh, I hear this interview. You're like, you know what? level was on to [00:13:00] something, let me see how Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: one go?Lola: I mean, a lot of it is because you have to think of like, what are you providing versus what is self-serving? I am not a fan of academia and going that route for, for this field in particular, unless you're looking to do something maybe in like primary education or something within therapy specifically, but community is the key to anything involved in sex.Community is everything. You can't really go?at this completely alone. You're going to have to be involved in community at some point. And also, so people can vouch for you because there's a lot of really bad people around too. And a lot of gross people and creepy people, et cetera, et cetera. But I mean, I'm, I'm hiring a couple of positions right now.So those are things you can always look out for, but it's. Attending events, getting to know people talking. It's a lot of word of mouth. I have probably I can, oh my career to word of mouth and me just not shutting up about stuff. And you know, not just like [00:14:00] self promotion, but just talking to people and being curious and seeing opportunity.And it's a lot of my marketing advertising and business background that like contributes to this as well. But there isn't a specific path and my path might not work for other people. And you know, there are other, like my colleague, Cameron Glover has a sex ed business academy. That's not an academia, you know, type of certification, but it may give you the tools you need to create something.That's not the only route. It is a route. So there, there isn't anything specific. I will say. I probably got in a good time as well. And also before everything went completely digital and cluttered and I had already built a name for myself, but it's really. If this is something you're truly passionate about, expect to do the work and not have the work done for you.I feel like academia is just like show up and we'll give you a degree. If you keep doing the work that we lay out like this, this is not like that. [00:15:00] But I will say for me personally, like the people I work with who, you know, put in good effort and we work well together and I like what they bring to the table.Like I champion them and I want them to do well and I give them opportunities. So if, if you're good, you'll get there.De'Vannon: I know that's right, girl. So I love how personal it is. Lola: Mm. De'Vannon: all it all is community is everything, you Lola: Everything. De'Vannon: the community. So, so, so, much in so many different ways you know, that's a, a good alternative say to maybe like more nefarious things like, oh, gangs, you know, Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: gangs that inflict harm on people, and stuff like that.Because, you Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: you know, when we, and I'm thinking a lot about polls right now, cause you know, that was all like that in like in New York. And then we have, you know, You know, our trainees and everything like that. And of course, miss a lecture worked in a sex dungeon of [00:16:00] course. And but you know, a lot of people in the LGBTQ plus community get kicked out of different churches homes and things like that.And sometimes we end up, like I did homeless or, you know, is that when the drugs or whatever the case may be, you know, honey, I think I would have been in better company. Hannah found my way into the sex community, you know, cause it, it sounds very like motherly kind of what you're talking about.Lola: yeah. And even like, even like pro Dom in the proton community, I think when you were saying sex, Sergeant you're referring to like a BDSM dungeon and I wasn't putting two and two together, but like even the, the product, like to be a dominatrix, a community is everything for making money, for safety and for taking care of each other as well, too.And like, you know, me and my colleagues have, we're developing a baby down boot camp for people looking to get into it or people that have just started. So, and there's things you can do where it's like, you can go to a house and you could have more training there's downsides to it, but. Present people to that.And we want to make it accessible as well, because it was something [00:17:00] that was very, very date kept too. But there is because it's, it's like kind of chosen family as well when you, these communities exist because they're the communities that existed before that did not serve these people. So it does tend to be like a chosen family taking care of each other kind of thing. De'Vannon: Absolutely my dear. Now let's switch gears here. Let's talk about this wording business. So you apparently, okay. World know this, this is so like amazing. Like a squirting is so like involved and I never knew this. I didn't know. There was a world record holding her whole, I didn't know there was a recording for scoring.So according to research of you, you're the world worker holder for volumes squirting solo. I see 1,250 milliliters and then 25 seconds. Can you explain to me break down and is this again? It's record. Lola: No, because Guinness is a family [00:18:00] organization. So they said, no, you cannot set your record with us. De'Vannon: Well, fuck you get us. Lola: Yeah, De'Vannon: tight before we got a little squirt a little, you feel better.Lola: I know. Unlike God, I did this podcast in the UK and like apparently the person who like founded the Guinness world records, his last name is like mixed border. I'm not kidding. It's that or something similar to that where it's like, are you serious? I didn't even realize it, but this was something that like, I think I had kind of always like, kind of joked around with, like, there was a scientist that I'd worked with who said the max amount, someone could squirt was 900 milliliters and I'd always joke, like, yeah.But I feel like I could crush that. Like I know that I have an insane amount of volume and I have an incredible amount of control and I'm very, very competitive. So when I talked about it, I think like someone someone's like you should do. Just like set a record out of it. And it's going to says, no, make it a press event [00:19:00] and like, just do your own thing.And like, I'm so glad I did because it gave me so much legitimacy cause otherwise it, you know, it was putting it's the proof in the pudding right now. I was putting my money where my mouth is and I don't do things small. So I made a big event around it and I still did it to get a standard. So within a one minute period, and the stipulations were using only the assistance of one's person meeting my hands.So it was no, no partners, no toys doing it by myself, measuring the volume within that one minute period. And I didn't penetrate myself and I didn't orgasm that wasn't part of the rules. I just did. Because that's how I do it, but also kind of to prove a point with a little fuck you that, you know, we don't know as much about squirting as we think we do, because I would constantly see people saying different things.I'm like, yeah, my body can disprove that. But that doesn't, that doesn't make sense for me. My story isn't being talked about, it's all about this partner activity. You do this thing, this happens very technique-based. And I think that made a lot of people, myself included, feel really left out and feel like it is [00:20:00] not any control over the person who was doing the squirting.We're just like passive recipients. Cause that's what people Volvos are. Right. So, so yeah. And within 25 seconds, I squirted out 1,250 milliliters, which is, I believe about five and a half cups, a 1.2, five liters. So if you think of a big Coke bottle, more than that, it's a lot, it's a lot of liquid, the poured out of my body as well.So yeah. De'Vannon: Okay, well, let me just give you a clap on that. you squirt, okay, you said you didn't orgasm, so it sounds like you can command your body in such a way that you can or cannot orgasm when you squirt is thatLola: I can command my body in such a way that I could control when I squirt I do not have control over my orgasm. De'Vannon: when you score it.Lola: I mean, I have a role in my orgasm, but I can't command an orgasm. I should say that. De'Vannon: Got you. So, so squirting is your superpower. Lola: [00:21:00] Yeah. De'Vannon: So when you skirt, how does it feel? Cause like in the porn and everything, the woman usually started gyrating and all of that. And so is that, is that like for real or like, does it feel kind of like an orgasm or.Lola: No. So I, I like to liken it to and field goals. touchdowns or.orgasm and feel goals is squirting. And, you know, you Can win the game with field goals. There's still points. There are a lot easier to get. You can kick them from further away, sometimes you want to get a touchdown. And a lot of times when you get the touchdown, you get to kick the extra point to.So it's like, you know, it's, if you're getting a touchdown, you're probably getting an extra point afterwards, unless you have a really shitty kicker. But, or, or, you know, the wind's blowing the wrong way, whatever it may be, they're, they're just different. But it still is enjoyable. So I like to kind of separate, I think of people who squirt, I think there's two different camps.I think there's some people where, you know, it's, [00:22:00] if the wind is blowing the right way, or if you stimulate them in a certain way, this will happen. Or there's people in a camp similar to me where squirting is how their body expresses. Pleasure. It's just something, it's something that happens when pleasure happens.It doesn't mean it happens every time, but it's how, it's how their body expresses pleasure. It's just like how their body operates. So it's something that happens a lot more regularly. So I say it's very easy for me to squirt. And I can control that, but I can't, I can't control to not squirt. Usually when I'm orgasming, I am squirting, but also like our bodies are still body.So sometimes I orgasm and I don't squirt sometimes I don't do either of them. And there are a lot of reasons for that to be able to happen. But I like in the feeling to it, it feels like a release. It feels like when you have to sneeze for like 10 minutes and you, you can't, and then you finally sneeze or you have this itch that you can't get to, and then you find something on a wall and you scratch it and you finally get that itch.Like, it feels like that kind of release, like, oh, okay. I got it.[00:23:00]De'Vannon: Can every one squirt.Lola: I think everyone can squirt. I don't think they need to, I don't think they're missing out on that much if they can't, but everyone's on a different timeline and some people, they, they don't start squirting or realizing they can until they're in their sixties or something like that. And, and it happens. has to do with a pelvic floor coordination, not strength and just like relationship with your vulva plus You have to have that in gorgeous, but I think everyone is able to do it. And I've, I've guided a lot of people to doing it themselves. If that's something that they want to as well.But I take a really hands-off approach cause like it's going to happen on your own timeline. I've taught myself to out of just like trial error and curiosity, I also hate scoring a lot. of the time I have a very love, hate relationship with it. So I'm not going to tell people like you need to try this thing because I hate it. [00:24:00] It's S I don't want to swear all the time. I don't want to. And I hate that it is messy and I hate, or even if it's messy, I hate that. I have to think about cleanup and I hate that. I have to worry about that. And it's always in the back of my head in addition to like, well, I hope I orgasm, or I hope I'm, I'm let me focus on what my body's feeling. And it's helpful when I have a partner who like, treats this as their own responsibility to like, they come prepped or they're, they're like, okay, let me get out the pads or whatever it may be. But I just, I wish I didn't always do it and it can be really annoying and sometimes I don't want to start, but my body does.De'Vannon: You are so fucking amazing, like who knew, who knew, who knew such struggles existed in this? Lola: I know. De'Vannon: So on your website, which is totally kick ass website, Lola jean.com. Of course, this will go in the show notes. You have a [00:25:00] handy-dandy squirting chart and and I think everyone in the world should look at this.It's kind of like an if then algorithm sort of thing. And it Lola: The flow, a flow chart, De'Vannon: a flow chart, you know, reminds me of my days in corporate America. like who wants to engage in squirting is what it reads at the top. The right arrow says me, the left arrow says my partner. it kind of works his way down from there. And they say, does this person, does the person who wants to engage in squirting have a vulva, then you mentioned Volvos before. Can you explain to me what a Volvo is this plays a role into squirting?Lola: Yeah. So vulva is the external genitalia. Vagina is the internal genitalia. And we're talking about the Volvo. We're talking about the labia or talking about the clutter is we're talking about the vagina. There's the internal clutter as well. We're generally talking about the sex organ. We're not talking about the whole genital.So the appropriate term is like, [00:26:00] we're talking about people with penises. You either have a penis, you have a Volvo or your intersects. So that's just the appropriate term and I'm not going to try to gender people. Cause that doesn't really matter. Cause like, if you have a vulva, you are capable of squirting. It's not that like, oh, if you're a woman, if you have a vulva. So I don't want to assume of like the people partnered. It could be two people with Volvo's. That, that factors into it. And even if the person with like the vulva, whether they're doing the squirting or they have, you know, body empathy, because they also have a Volvo.So that's more of the question of that. And this is to understand of, you know, to make sure you have the right mindset going into squirting?I like to say that this is the class where I disappoint men. But, or I just disappoint a lot of people cause they're like, give me the answer. How do I score it?And I'm like, it's, there's not like, here's the one thing that you do. But there has to be a general understanding. And I think a lot of people that contact me are feeling really pressured to squirt by [00:27:00] either society or their partner. And if that is the case, like there's a high likelihood that you won't because of that until you unpack that because that's, you gotta, you gotta do it for the right reasons. De'Vannon: Yeah, you can't be like all stressed out and shit. Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: Like everybody Lola: Yeah. Or, or in some cases it's like the people with the Volvos, they're like, I don't really care about squirting, but my partner does. It's like, well, they need to chill out. De'Vannon: and unpack why they're so Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: horn. Put this in their head or where the fuck did they get it from?Lola: Yeah. Because the thing is squirting is not about anyone else, except for the person doing this. De'Vannon: Well now, you know, a lot of men read into that and they look at a guy fucking a, a, usually a girl and porn. And that to them is like, okay, he made her squirt. So it was like all the, you know, big male ego and shit like that going on. And so, which I'm not saying that is a good thing or a bad thing, but you know, a lot of guys feel like if they can make a girl sport [00:28:00] come you know yeah.For her pleasure, but he feels like, you know, the king of the world and everything like that. And so, so I'm feeling like they're probably to have maybe a challenge or something like that.Lola: well then it becomes an experience about them and the person is almost just a body. Like I had someone once that got me to the point of squirting, but then I also bled it didn't feel good. So did they do a good job? You know, they're really focused on getting this like end goal. And it's okay sometimes to be goal-oriented, but we can't be outcome oriented.And the same thing with orgasming. You can't make someone orgasm or squirt. You can have a really large role in that process, but if they don't want to, or their body doesn't want to, like it's not going to happen. And I think we just need to rid ourselves of how much ego is rooted in sex and how we're so tied to squirting and orgasming, because that [00:29:00] kind of, I hate that kind of pressure.I hate that. Even as someone who scores a lot, there's still pressure sometimes for me to sport. If my body's not feeling that way or when there's pressure for me to orgasm for someone else's ego, when experience I'm going to fake it, are you kidding me? Yeah, I will. De'Vannon: No pressure people, it ain't worth it Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: bottom of our egos and things like that and learn how to just have a chill life. Lola: Yeah, De'Vannon: And so I'm just going to say three more things that are on the chart then to something else. So just people can come and go and look this up. as the chart moves on, you might have to see a, what does squirting say about me worksheet? You might have to see a unpack squirting and goals worksheet, and for the mess that she was talking about, that this can make earlier, there is a, a tip to invest in puppy pads, or just do it in the shower this flow chart. Like I said, all of this will be [00:30:00] website and everything will be in the the show notes.And this is just so awesome. And I may have to see if I can get myself to squirt after we get off of this. Can. It's different. It's not the same process with people with penises. so is this different than like regular, like sperm flowing out this.Lola: Yeah a court. I mean, according to Bobby box, who is a journalist, he did a lot more research on this with other scientists, which scientists don't know everything. So it's, it's still, it's not going to say it's a hundred percent true, but according to his research, it's mostly urine. But like through my research, it seems to be like a similar kind of experience.And it's very pleasurable. It's a lot of fluid it's posted Jackie elation usually. And how they're able to do this is in a post ejaculated state, you would just kind of rub around like the pee hole flow around the urethra. Like very lightly and kind of just [00:31:00] like lightly holding the shaft. Is there going to be sensitive and it feels like a tickle.And then there is a lot of fluid. De'Vannon: No shit.Lola: I'll send you the article. De'Vannon: Yeah. Send it to me. And I'll throw that bitch in the show notes Lola: Okay. De'Vannon: Okay. So. Is there a way to like someone like make someone squirt, like what is the best way to do to someone does want to try? Is it through penetrative sex or would it be better a solo or a toy? I mean, body is different, but is there some sort of mechanism there?Lola: I think that it is better to do it solo because then you're not worried about another person. And also you don't have this communication loop where you have to communicate, they have to understand and they have to do. And then that kind of goes back into this loop. If you're by yourself, then all you have to do is communicate with yourself, which is a lot easier than another person.And like kind of, there's a lot of room for that to be broken. [00:32:00] So I think it's easier to do by yourself. It is not necessary. To penetrate yourself and that's really going to depend on personal preference. If you want like a sure fire way to being like, I want to know if I'm able to do it using a clip suckers or air pulsation ones that you put on your clitoral externally, these toys.They, I like to say they, they give your body no chance, and it's not going to work for everyone. But for a vast majority of people, you're either going to have crazy pleasure. And a lot of the times people do end up squirting. And what I like about that is it's not like you're going to say, oh, this is the technique to do it, but it proves to you that your body can squirt and it can do it without penetration.And. You know, a lot of what I suggest in my class is when you figure out, when you're able to do that, you're trying to, you know, replicate this sensation. Now, when you do it with this toy, you kind of go to zero to 60 real quick. So you're not going to able to replicate that sensation, but at least that can teach you or show you, but it's more a [00:33:00] function of making sure that you are in gorged. And that the, you know, 12 o'clock region of the vagina is in Gorge and that can be done through internal or external stimulation. And then it's really a function of doing something that you really like, whatever that is, wherever that is, while you do muscle kind of engagement with your pelvic floor.So that's both contracting as well as elongation. And it's more of a function of like figuring out how to get it out of your body. If you ever hear the slush slash sound inside of a vagina, that means like the squirt is there?You just have to figure out how to get it out. And that tends to be, I think for people with Volvo's holding things in all the time, you got to hold it in your heart and your queefs like because you're a proper person.I think it'd be, that becomes harder of that. Like letting go that release. [00:34:00]De'Vannon: Okay. You have a very interesting way to describe BDSM bondage, discipline Sado. Masochism is what that acronym stands for. Now on your website, you say BDSM is a magical playground for its appliability to be tailored to each individual. Before you bust out the canes and nipple clams, finding your space within BDSM is not as simple as dawning a collar and seeing how it makes you feel while some may be lucky enough to have our kinky awakening solved with a strike of a crop.Most BDSM has deep psychological components, including crop strikes. So can you explain to us how you feel about like a little bit more in depth about BDSM and why did you describe it as a magical playground? That's what, that's what really grabbed my attention.Lola: I mean, cause I think of this, what I think of play-fighting and wrestling too. It's not like we get [00:35:00] to tap into things we're not allowed to in normal adult world, we kind of get to be kids again and play around. We get to, you know, if we were LARPers, we get to engage in fantasy and we get to create worlds.We get to create things that don't exist. We get to be people we are not allowed to be. We get to engage in things that are subversive. That's kind of the nature of BDSM. So it is very much this like magical fantasy land where you can access things that you never thought possible. Why I spoke about it in this way?Is it kind of like really grinds my gears? Whenever I read different articles, that's just. We wanted to try piss place. So someone peed on me and I saw how it felt. Oh, do you want to try BDSM? Like spanking is a great place to start. No, and no spanking. Isn't a great place to start because like, why are you going to start with pain?Why is pain? And the thing too is when you're doing something new, you already have novelty and novelty can be very exciting. And you're going to confuse that with pain, which is something. You know, it was very dividing. I started out with, with spanking and BD and BDSM play, and I thought I liked [00:36:00] it, but I just liked novelty.I don't like pain at all. I just like attention. So it's very confusing and I think that's a really bad way to get into it. And with the piss play thing is like, you're not, no one's gonna like maybe for some people, but no, one's going to pee on you and be like, oh my God, I'm into this. It is so deeply psychological.And that has to be built for the piss play. So it's not like you're trying things and someone presses you with like an electoral wall and you're like, oh my God, I love a lecturer play. Like, it's not this process of try this thing. See if you like it, there is really a deep understanding to what am I drawn to?What is my motivation? That's why I have like a silly little quiz on my website. So you can at least have a first in clean and claiming into like, oh, I'm more into shame play or I'm more into like service. So you don't start with pain.De'Vannon: I had a dream. I don't know. I don't think I might've been like in middle school. It was a looked like may have been like the most, one of the most erotic, [00:37:00] what dreams the most that I've ever had. And I only had this sort of dream one time and it was about this. It was like this one guy was getting peed on by a bunch of other guys.I don't know where I got this from, know, Okay. I didn't know that. So I hit me a pissed bang dream of paint, and I came so fucking hard in my, in my sleep. It was just like, kind of ridiculous. this was, you know, when I was growing up, there was no cell, you know, I couldn't just go watch porn. You know, I had to like get Scrabble vision and see what I can glean from red shoe diaries and real sex and shit like that.So there wasn't anybody pissing on anybody on HBO or Showtime, at least not knows days. So I don't know where in the holy fuck I got this dream from a Y I don't know, maybe this is who I'm going to be one day.Lola: Yeah. I mean, our imagination is always going to be better than porn, but a lot of these things. Sometimes if we watch them and we're like, oh, that can trigger something. But a [00:38:00] lot of the time, these things are formed through different, know, subversions from our youth or our experiences. we can realize that that way, but it's not going to be like, oh, I watched this on porn and now I'm into it.So it's the same that, that can trigger it and make you realize, oh wait, do I find this hot? But a lot of the times like the, the, has been set Well, before that, that wasn't just maybe the stimuli you needed.De'Vannon: Well, I'll let you know if I ever get paid on or contribute to it happening. So can you explain to me the difference in between a kink and a fetish? Because I would have thought that they were kind of the same thing, but on your website, you have quite intricate breakdown of the two.Lola: Yeah, and I, I have I have a bone. You can tell that it's a theme. I have a bone to pick with a lot of different things that are written, but I have a bone to pick with the way a lot of people describe fetish. Because I think that it's not because it's not inclusive. And I think that it simplifies things and it was very orgasm focused because kink fetish, [00:39:00] BDSM, the beautiful thing is it doesn't have to include orgasm. And that can be very inclusive for, you know, people that are ACE or a row or anything on the ACE spectrum as well. Or even people with disabilities and for that nature of what they can find enjoyable. So a kink is anything that is subversive in nature or something that you derive pleasure that is outside of the norm.So that's really vague. So anything can be a kink I'm really into. Do you know, like dressing up in a little girl costume and walking down the street, that that could be a kink for me or for someone else that could just be there Friday and it's not kinky for them at all. So it really just depends on like the context of it.Whereas a fetish in particular is something that is a bit more, particular or obsessive in nature. How people like to describe it as something that you require in order to orgasm, that is very orgasm [00:40:00] centric. It is not inclusive of all of fetish. So if you think of things. Are also wouldn't otherwise be, but we make them sexual leather, latex, like those things aren't inherently sexual, but that becomes something that someone pleasure from, whether that pleasure like, you know, sexual in nature, like resulting in orgasm.But sometimes it could just be like getting that itch, scratch, getting that satisfaction of like, oh my God, I got to feel the latex. And now I, that is a satisfaction. Or I get to do this scene where I'm kidnapped and now I feel that release. for me, my fetishes are more just like subversive, but things that I'm like.Healthily obsessed about where it's just like, I have an intense fixation. I do not require them to orgasm. I do not require them to have a good time, but do I really like them? Fuck. Yes. And my fetishes are, I have a mustache fetish, does not mean every mustache. I see. I like, but there are ones I really like, and there are really good ones and I stare at them and I like [00:41:00] to play with them if I am permitted to play with them. And I have I have a massive case of penis envy, so my other fetishes holding people's penises while they pee. And like, I just get very giddy. If it, if it is a person, usually it's a person I'm intimate with it's a level of intimacy and vulnerability. I'm not going to want to hold everyone's penis while they pee.But I really enjoy. Probably like, because it's very intimate and vulnerable in nature, but I like watching my partner P I want to hold their penis while they pee. I don't want to be peed on, I mean, I'll, I'll probably do it if it's someone I really love, but I don't derive pleasure from that. But like, I think it's because that is such a private thing that they do and I get to be involved in it.And I also get to, you know, tap into my penis envy and live it out a little bit. De'Vannon: I'm so happy you have a way to get your penis in beyond so that I just wouldn't want that eating away with you, eating Lola: Yeah. Yeah. Cause I'm not like [00:42:00] I I've only engaged in it a couple of times. Cause it is a very intimate thing and I'm not going to ask a random person there. There has to be some probably the only I've done it with like three or four people, but it's just like, and my, my boyfriend knows about it and I'll just be like, what's it like having a penis?Just talk to me about it. Like. De'Vannon: That is so hot. Let me see here. So you also have on there the five most common kinks you say service image, validation, powerplay, shame, and novelty. And so I wanted to ask you is shame the same thing as humiliation. Are we talking about two different things there?Lola: There are two different things. Humiliation is more a way of getting there, but I could, humiliation could be involved in of them. Humiliation could be involved in power-play could be involved in novelty, service image, all depending on it. So that's just kind of a vehicle, shame is more around something like it's so hot how wrong this is like, [00:43:00] that is so like taboo or not allowed.Like, and, and De'Vannon: Uh, Lola: being able to either subvert that of like, oh, it's hot, how we're doing this wrong thing. Or it's just like, I'm so gross and perverted in discussing that I'm doing this wrong thing. So it could be either way. So it could be on like the positive or negative side of that. But that's the core of what you're doing and why it is attractive to you. De'Vannon: Cause like, so what would you say to someone I had a lady one time I was talking to, and I think I mentioned humiliation or something like that. And she recalled and she was like, no, you to ever be humiliated. I just don't agree with that. I don't think that's a right to do that to people.I don't have a problem with it. I think she was reading the wrong thing into it or are too much into it. So what would you say to somebody who may think like she did? And she was like, how dare you? know, humiliating, a person just sounds inhumane. do you.Lola: So, this is actually how I got into BDSM and I will preface to say the majority of people are going to fit into [00:44:00] service oriented or image oriented. Like I would say a vast 80%. And then after. Like a bit less in shame and a bit less in power. But the person that got me into being dominant was really into verbal humiliation.I was like, oh, but I like you, I don't want to, I don't want to be mean to you. I don't want to do this or that. So I inquired to what it does for them. And why it is that they like it. Because if you.want to make your person happy, like that can help a bit more to understand like, oh, this is what you're getting out of it.And also that's where I can angle it more because there's so many different types of humiliation. And in one spectrum, we could see humiliation as the ultimate form of warship. How willing are you to degrade yourself, to prove yourself, to me, of like how much you want to show that like. That you worship me in that sense, if you're doing it for me, degrading yourself for me.But some people like this person really liked to feel like really, really desperate. And they liked how [00:45:00] they felt like kind of more creative. They felt more alive, more energetic when they were in this mode of desperation. So, you know, if you don't, if you are uncomfortable in giving the humiliation, I would say really humanize it and see where they're coming from. And, and that can help to being like, oh, you want to feel this way? You like feeling this way, but there's also some things that people aren't going to be comfortable with. I had one kind of therapeutic fantasy. I wanted to live out where I had someone who I trusted and cared about. While they were fucking me.I wanted them to like, say my worst insecurities and like confirm those. And I was like, do that until you're done. Doesn't matter if I come and then just hold me afterwards and don't say anything until I engage in communication. And I asked like a friend and lover of mine and he was like, I am not comfortable doing that at all.I was like, that's very fair. This is pretty intense. So like, we don't have to do these things for people. We love like, trust any of that, [00:46:00] like, because you know, it could be traumatizing for them occurred. It could not be fun for them, but you need to find a way for both people to buy into it, humanizing it and describing it may do that.But also sometimes just got to accept that, like that's fine or not right now.De'Vannon: I heard that girl. So you mentioned the pelvic floor earlier, so you really have, I would say a bone to pick, it seems with cables and the way they're being done wrong. Speak to me about cables and how are we supposed to be doing with them. Right. And why is this important for both genders?Lola: Yep. So I started talking to pelvic floor therapists as I was my squirting series. Cause I wanted to first, I wanted to verify and validate things that were happening with my body and my pelvic floor with a therapist. But then I just started learning more from them and they're fucking brilliant.And also I was like, oh my God, our pelvic floor controls everything. Urination, deprecation, or. [00:47:00] Those are maybe the three most important things in our life. We're doing at least two of those every day, sometimes three. So with, and like, honestly, this came mostly from the pelvic floor therapist and I'm just championing them.But somehow they said like, Kaggle's just had the best, like ever. And that became the thing. And whereas that can be something that is helpful or healing to certain vaginas, depending on what state, when we only focus on that, they're seeing that go completely to the other end of the spectrum.So having a hypertonic vagina. So contracted it can't contract anymore. And that is another form dysfunction that can also result in incontinence. So the, I think the thought behind initially with Cagle exercises are, oh, you just had a child and your body changed or vagina changed. Do you not want to, you know, pee when you laugh or when you sneeze, then let's do Cagle.So we can, you know, work on the contraction and, you know, because [00:48:00] of this stigma and. Obsession with vagina tightness and virginity. And that whole complex, even though, you know, the vagina changes during sexual arousal, that's where I think people call long to Cagle tighter, smaller contract and there's weights for it.And there's different things you can put up to do that. And the obsession became so much. That's the only thing we're focused on. Whereas, you know, a pelvic floor is going to need to be able to relax and it's going to need it to be able to elongate. It's kind of like when you think of a muscle, like if I'm doing by, I'm not just doing one bicep where I'm curling my muscle, I need to be able to extend and straighten my elbow and straighten my arm.Otherwise this isn't going to be good the whole time. So we need to use all forms of that muscle. And I think, especially with squirting, sometimes we're not aware when our pelvic floor is. Elongating when it's relaxing when it's contracting, or sometimes we're only aware when it's contracting. So part of this is having a [00:49:00] relationship with your Boba and a coordinated pelvic floor.So you start to develop more understanding of the different states of your pelvic floor. And most people aren't going to have a dysfunctional pelvic floor as well. I think people worry about that. Oh, is there something wrong with mine? You know, usually there's going to be other symptoms, but what I've found is having a better relationship and understanding of my pelvic floor has led to me having more control or more of a say over my pleasure.So I can do different things with my pelvic floor while I'm masturbating or while having sex. And I can actually have control or a say over my pleasure and my orgasm. I'm not, I'm not just sitting there like a starfish, like waiting for like, oh, I wonder if this is going to feel good or not. Like I can control that with my body too. De'Vannon: Right. And I've heard it said that, and I'm tried this myself that men can use cables to erections by light. Lola: it's engaging with your prostate. That's why De'Vannon: Right. So I think I read it in like a [00:50:00] GQ magazine or men's health, probably something like that. posting like 10 or 20 times. I, you don't want to overdo it, but know, the pulse for men can help to a harder Dick that works even better.Lola: I think it's less. Cause that's still feels like do this thing to get this outcome, like an exercise. And I think it's more. I understand how it works with you. So like, you know, first do it. So you understand, oh, this is what contracting feels like. This is what a long getting feels like. I encourage people while you're masturbating, like, you know, your pelvic floor or do a Cagle where it kind of makes your, you know, your Dick do pushups, that and see how that changes your pleasure, try relaxing and then try elongating.And it's like, just see how it changes your pleasure. And then you'll understand maybe where you want to use it in assist it, it's not a function of, it needs to be. So you need to be lifting at least 20 pounds. If you want to experience the benefits, know, it's just, it's something where it's just a tool that you can use and you need to learn how to use it, but you [00:51:00] have to, like, you need to learn how to pick up the weight.You can't just like whoop, you know, put it right up. You still have to figure out how this works. De'Vannon: Smart. Very fair. Okay. So you, you also have a list on your website of the best anal sex toys for all genders. And what I wanted to say about this is how I want to get your opinion on the pegging and just, I want it because I don't know if the world really realizes just how much men who don't identify as LGBTQ.I a really liked to take it up the ass and you have a very Interesting photo in this section of the website. And it's it's like a Barbie doll laying on a bed, a dazzled strap on with a, you know, with a hard strap on knee strap on his Dick. And then this, this Kindle whose it was about the set on this big [00:52:00]and his hair already looks rough.Like she's already been fucking the shit out of him. And he's about to straddle her in reverse. And he's looking quite Druley as is this woman wearing this heart Dick. And so you talk to me about just how much men really liked to take it up the ass, who, who ain't necessarily gay.Lola: Yeah. Well, I want to address like, know, for what, for the stigma to do with a lot of internalized homophobia as well, but I think if you enjoy taking it, the, but that doesn't mean you were part of the LGBTQ community. That doesn't mean you identify a certain way because it is who you are attracted to.I think a lot of people I hear saying like, oh, I'm, heteroflexible because I'm okay. If there's another dude in the room, fucking it's like that, that you're, you can still be completely heterosexual and then, but you're not threatened by another penis like that. Doesn't make you kind of gay. You know, it's about who are you [00:53:00] attracted to? Or where do you want to engage in even? Cause you can have a Dick in your mouth and not be gay because you want to engage in something. But that doesn't mean you're attracted to the person. Maybe it's the situation. And so when it comes to anal pleasure, there is nothing particularly gay.about that.Unless maybe it is, you know, a man who is giving you the anal pleasure, but it's enjoying a part of your body. Your butt is a part of your body that you're enjoying. And it doesn't matter if it is, you know, a dildo, you suck on the wall. If it is your wife or if it is like a non-binary person or whatever it may be.So how you choose to identify as how you choose to identify? I would say. You know, if you have such a problem with like, what if this person thinks I'm gay or does this make me gay? That means you have internalized homophobia, but doesn't mean you're homophobic. That Just means there's a lot of, you know, societal undoing that you're going to have to engage in and figure out why is that so much of an issue?Like if I was, [00:54:00] why am I worried about that? Is it because I'm worried about coming out to people, is it because I'm worried of what people will think and engaging in that? So the, you know, there's a lot of harm in that of Juan. It's just like, yo. Doesn't have anything to do with sexuality, but also what is your issue with sexuality?And I, I think that's why this, like, you know, peg the patriarchy term. It's not like a fuck you to the patriarchy thing, but I do think a lot of people are able to maybe start unraveling this internalized homophobia and this relationship with the patriarchy when they're able to either experience anal pleasure or just have something up their butt and being like, oh, the world didn't change.Oh, I didn't suddenly decide. I want to fuck men. Oh my, like, I still love my wife. Like, yeah. It's just the butthole.De'Vannon: Just to break it all down. The summit of is just an asshole. Y'all get over it into it. And so, mean, I could give [00:55:00] you another handclap on that breakdown because I felt like that one sermon right there, you've been to get that out. I'm glad you're able to get that out. Lola: Thank you. It's all. Good. De'Vannon: We just have two more things I wanted to talk about that I will give you the last word my dear. So there's an article title.Why gender expanse, expansive and inclusive language is important in heteronormative spaces. I'm going to read a blurb there. I love how open-minded you are super thorough, you know, when you're writing and breakdown, bitch. Yes. Lola: you. De'Vannon: Then it's quoting Ms. Misload. If you're, if you're heterosexual, which means attractive to individuals of the opposing gender or cisgender, which means identify as the gender you were assigned at birth, you might not notice if a space is catered to, to non-hetero or non-system people, because most spaces will cater to you.Tell me [00:56:00] why this is important.Lola: Well, if you couldn't guess it, this started because I had a bone to pick. I was just seeing like a lot of spaces. You know, continuously catering in this language and their excuse being like, well, we don't have any trans people here, or we don't have any queer people here, which firstly is like, you don't know, because also it sounds like you haven't made your space safe enough for people to either question that.And then it also becomes gatekeeping for someone just like, well, I don't feel straight enough or I don't feel queer enough. And it's not a, a function of, you know, I ended up getting a lot of pushback of this being pushed back from like CIS or, you know, hetero people that were like, oh, why do we have to say, you know, they, them are people with Boba is, and you know, it's like, what is, what does it do to you?Oh, it's just like a mild inconvenience in your day versus invalidating both their [00:57:00] entire persona and being, and also preventing people from the opportunity to question. They're on sexuality or gender or what they're accepting of and beginning to normalize that. And I think that was the biggest thing is like I needed people to see of like, why are we fighting this?What does it do to you? How does it change your day? And it was something I just wanted to create. A template for a lot of spaces that, you know, even this was one that, that I wrote it for, that I feel like is very still heteronormative. And I only see fems and femme bodies being sexualized. And I was like, Hey, it'd be really cool.If the mass bodies were also sexualized and I'm like, oh, but none of the people with mass bodies us pictures to sexualize. It's like, yeah. Why do you think that is like, if something isn't happening, it has to do with the organization. And that's a lot of my philosophy is like, if people aren't behaving the way that I want to, or they're not engaging in something the [00:58:00] way I want them to that means I've done something wrong.You know, if someone I work for, isn't giving me what I need, I briefed them wrong. we need to be able to set people up for success. And that responsibility largely falls on these spaces on these brands that have to set a foundation that people, you know, Survive within and, and interact within. And I think a lot of it may even fall down to a customer service model of like, but when we did this and when we use gender inclusive language people, they didn't like it.So we need to go back. It's like, well, why are we doing things? So people like them, why aren't we just creating the things that we want to see? And having people adjust to it. If I created all of my works that people liked it, I maybe wouldn't be making accurate work. I wouldn't be making work that was inclusive.Maybe I would be work. That was like, it was excluding people and their experiences. So it's just really not serving. But I think the, the moral of the story is like, if the, if using gender exclusive language [00:59:00] or not using inclusive language, it's a mild inconvenience to you. At the end of the day, it is a minimal effort you can make and versus to a queer person or to a non CIS person that.It's invalidating. And I think we can even like parallel it also to a white people to white CIS men as well to, into, into white CIS women you know, the majority of space is like, things are made for you. So when you're like, oh, I'm a little inconvenience. Cool. Everyone else is always in convenience.This is a one time at one time you were in convenience, but you were not used to it. So you're like And, and I that's like a lot of what I'm seeing pushback, especially from other white people is just like this isn't fair. It's like, oh, it's not, oh, it's not fair for You It's not fair for you to do. Wow.De'Vannon: You know, what, how did they say, you know, you can't take your own [01:00:00]medicine kind of thing. You know, you, well, Hey, at least you're open-minded. And so, and I'm sure Lola: Yeah. De'Vannon: a lot of people in your day and time to become more open minded to that. Sometimes people just need to get challenged.Lola: Yeah. And it's the thing that I know that I guess myself as a white I guess, I guess this person, I dunno, I'm like, I feel like I'm more in like the age, gender spectrum. Cause I don't really identify with a particular gender. But I don't really care either. Like I don't feel non-binary, but I'm like, I don't feel like a woman, but I don't feel like a man, but I don't feel like non-binary I'm happy with my Volvo.I don't want a penis, but I really like them and I like to pretend I have them. But I, but it's not that I don't feel, you know, included or I don't feel like I identify with my vulva. But I think specifically because of that, I'm at least cyst presenting and I'm white. That it's also on me and like, I can, I have a lot [01:01:00] more patients and not everyone can afford that.And I think there is, there's always a lot of pushback of when I may be educating people or even working through stuff myself as well. Cause I will always be, but it's the patients that's, that's, what's really needed for people to come around. It's like, I'm still here. I will still help you work through this. Unless you do something that really pisses me off or that pushes back, but the patients is a really big key to that. And unfortunately, and I got a lot of it. De'Vannon: I mean, if you, if you really want a Dick and this day in time, you can really go buy wine. You can totally make, make the change happen.Lola: Oh, I got it. I got a whole drawer of when baby. De'Vannon: No surgery needed. I'll just go strap this on real quick. Now guys, you do, you actually look like kind of l

Can you imagine never having an orgasm? Well, this week's guest Remi Kassimir lived without ever having an orgasm for 26 years until she finally achieved the big O. What should you do if you struggle to orgasm? How do you communicate in the bedroom? AND. SO. MUCH. MORE Show Notes: Abbie's VUSH:https://au.vushstimulation.com/collections/vushxabbie Podcast: How Cumwww.instagram.com/howcumpodcast/ We Really Love Island:www.remykassimir.com/ Lola Jean:https://lolajean.com/   Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalot.com  CREDITS Host Abbie Chatfieldwww.instagram.com/abbiechatfield/ Guest: Remi Kassimir www.instagram.com/remykassimir Executive Producer: Sam Cavanagh Producer: Max Corstorphan Editor: Cei Saunders  Find more great podcasts like this atwww.listnr.com/ Seewww.omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ye-haw! Join Emma for another ride on the Electric Rodeo. To squirt or not to squirt, that is the question. And in this episode, I’m talking to someone who has a lot of answers. Lola Jean is a sex educator and the world record holder for squirting volume. Yup, it’s a thing! This episode is about squirting in all it’s glory. What is it? Where does it come from? And how can I do it? We chat about how the world record was judged and measured and get some tips for learning how to squirt. We also talk about the current cultural obsession with squirting, both positive and negative! The frequency of squirting in porn has helped to fuel this fascination but does this put extra pressure on people who can’t squirt and feel like they should be able to? Don't forgive to give us a 5 star rating if you loved this episode

She's a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme, Writer and World Record Holder for Volume (solo) Squirting. You definitely don't want to miss this delicious episode!

What is pegging and what is it not? Why does it intrigue many of us? How can we introduce this subversive yet fun play into our sexfolio? Effy and Jacqueline chat with sex educator and pro-domme Lola Jean to get into the whats, hows, and whys of pegging. From brains to bowels they spare no details.  Here are the links promised: Effy's fave harness: Spareparts Joque HarnessLola's toy suggestion: Perfect Fit The Bumper Thrust Buffer, BlackPerfect Fit The Bumper Thrust Buffer, ClearPerfectFit Brand The Bumper Add-On Donut Buffer Cushion, BlackPerfectFit Brand The Bumper Add-On Donut Buffer Cushion, ClearLola's classes: PeggingJackie's fave bedside table toy that glows: Dame Eva (Go to dameproducts.com/curiousfox for a discount.)To learn more about Lola Jean, follow her on Instagram @lolajeandotcom, or via her website: lolajean.com.To find more about Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla, follow them at @wearecuriousfoxes, @coacheffyblue, and @jacquelinemisla on Instagram.If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 201-870-0063 or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comFollow us on social media for further resources on this topic:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation: fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)

Lola Jean calls in to talk about sex, kink and being the world record holder for squirting. How did she learn to squirt? How much can she squirt? And, how did she turn her talent for squirting into a world record?Tune in to find out plus hear all about how she overcame a lot of obstacles when she was younger and how they propelled her to become Lola Jean, the two sexual revolutions she had and what she learned from them, the adult events she hosts and what goes down at them, the kinks she's been into and what she's liked and disliked about them, her brief stint in the poly lifestyle and why that wasn't for her, the trouble she had as a unicorn and they type of people she prefers to play with now, her beef with monogamy and how she opened up her current relationship, her advice to people who want to play with others, and a whole lot more. To find out more info on Lola Jean, go to https://lolajean.com **To see anonymous pics of some of my guests (mostly all the females) + get early access to the show + get ad free episodes, join my Patreon, it's only $3 a month. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast Sponsor To save BIG on your Motorbunny purchase, Black Friday deals here: https://motorbunny.com  Follow me! Youtube https://www.youtube.com/c/StrictlyAnonymouspodcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en  Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's show, we welcome, sex educator and fetish wrestler, Lola Jean to the podcast. Lola Jean gave an informative and entertaining ear full of everything pleasure in the worlds of butts. Prostate stimulation, internal and external, wrestling, and a hilarious poop story that involves a bag and her therapist. So fun and informative, we know you'll love it. Enjoy! FOLLOW LOLA JEAN AT: IG:@LolaJeanDotCom Twitter: @LolaJeanDotCom www.LolaJean.com ------------------------------------------------- SUPPORT THE SHOW BY BECOMING A PATRON: https://www.patreon.com/HeyPoopypodcast   FOLLOW HEY POOPY PODCAST AT: Instagram @heypoopypodcast Twitter @HeyPoopy YouTube Hey Poopy Dave Ellen Website www.heypoopypodcast.com Email heypoopypodcast@gmail.com Call Us at 203-998-5579   RATE, REVIEW DOWNLOAD AND SUBSCRIBE AT: Tunes Spotify Pandora Stitcher Libsyn Google Amazon or wherever you get your podcasts

The episode on squirting we've all been waiting for, with Lola Jean, the World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.). Lola is a sex educator, wrestler, and professional Domme. The two discuss penis envy, fetish of penis holding, squirting, and more! Let's Talk About It Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letstalkaboutit_podcast Lola Jean's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom Lola Jean Resources: https://lolajean.com/links Use code: TALK20 at https://switchresearch.org to get 20% off your purchase! More podcasts at WAVE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/artist/wave-podcast-network/1437831426

The fabulous Lola Jean Darling returns for this episode! We go on a journey through the NOLA mutual aid response post-Hurricane Ida, discuss why adaptability is better than planning, consider how to turn anxiety into art — and even find time to casually side-eye René Descartes. Extra laughs and extra realness abound in this one. Afterward, Joy and Sarah dive into their shared fed-up-ness with the vaccine discourse and their shared loathing of comic sans font, while wrestling with various issues of human nuance. If you stay till the end, you will be rewarded with some questionable Canadian accents too! FOLLOW LOLA Insta: @lolajeandoesart Bandcamp: lolajeandarling.bandcamp.com NOLA MUTUAL AID Lex Lindell: Venmo @Lex-lex *indicate mutual aid* Bayou Disaster Kitchen: Venmo @SusiQ-Beck *indicate disaster kitchen* Lola & Onishona: Venmo/Cash App @theloladarling, PayPal: theloladarling@gmail.com *indicate Lola or Ona* FEATURED MUSIC: “Waves” and “The Years” by Lola Jean Darling, courtesy of the artist

This episode features sections of our interview with Lola Jean Darling, an indiginous trans woman living in New Orleans. She and I spoke in August 2021, and we discussed life on the Pearl River reservation where Lola was born, as well her current work in cultural revitalization and recontextualization.

This episode features our interview with Dani Deanne. This episode's featured song is 'Beautiful Heartbeats,' by Lola Jean Darling, an indigenous trans woman living in New Orleans. Hear more: https://lolajeandarling.bandcamp.com/album/dream-queen

On today's episode, we are getting kinky with Lola Jean, sex educator, pro domme, wrestler, and writer. Together we talk about her squirting world record, the psychology behind kink and fetishes, and how to discover your own and join the kink community. If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! And, join the movement by becoming a part of the conscious objectors patreon. Your support is what powers this work and the larger societal change we are fighting towards! Let's continue to challenge our assumptions and grow together. Join the community here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384 Modern Anarchy Community: Instagram Facebook Patreon Lola Jean's Website: https://lolajean.com/ Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Kink Quiz - https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode Feeld App - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/feeld-for-couples-singles/id887914690 Fet Life - https://fetlife.com/ Sex Workers Outreach Project - https://swopusa.org/ Red Canary Song - https://www.redcanarysong.net/ Veil Machine - https://veilmachine.com/

On this episode we get a deep dive into Lola Jean's work from squirting champ to seven days of domination. You heard bits of this interview with Lola (@lolajeandotcom) in our “What You Want to Know About Squirting” episode, and here you get the full conversation along with her discussion about sex work and domination (previously unreleased). This is part of a set of two episodes we'll release this month as we prepare more juicy thematic episodes for you. Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we speak with sexpert Alisha Fisher, squirting world-record holder Lola Jean, and a panel of humans all about squirting. The research on squirting is controversial and hardly conclusive. Most scientists want to know if it's pee or prostatic fluid, how it differs from what's called “female ejaculation,” and if it relates to urinary incontinence. We want to know how it feels, what it brings up emotionally, how to connects to people's sex lives, and why it's so popular now. So, we asked sex and relationship scholar Alisha Fisher (@alisha.jj.fisher) all about the functions of squirting, we asked sex educator Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) all about her squirting notoriety, and we got a panel together to talk about the fun, the shame, and the excitement of squirting. Panelists: @peachbum (Twitter) @miss_obscure @emoxhobbit @imjustadaisy @littlemiss_bee Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

This week the duo is joined by Lola Jean the Squirting Queen. That's right! This week we are getting down to the myths and act of squirting with a woman who currently holds the world record for most squirt volume! We dig into how to dirty talk without being gender specific and nipple orgasms as well. Somehow we even dive into the things that may be found under a hoe's bed frame and give MMF threesome tips that can be applied to group sex period! Lola shares a very important tip everyone should consider before having a threesome.  Follow this week's guest  Instagram @lolajeandotcom Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Whoreible Decisions pages Instagram @whoreible_decisions Twitter @whoreiblepod Don't forget to tag #whoreibledecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode! Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisions Want some Whoreible Decisions merchandise? GET YOURS NOW AT WHOREHIVE.COM Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Talk, Naked, Lola Jean wears many hats. She's a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and get this, the World Record Holder for Volume Squirting. As Laura is about to show you, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink that'll push people past what they think they're capable of.

This episode, Erin interviews model, brat, Oasis Aquaflirt, and content creator Lola. Listen along as these lovely ladies chat about queer kinky orgies, operating a Sybian, and flexing their labia strength. Brought to you By: The Sonar Network https://thesonarnetwork.com/

Squirt? Gush? Trickle? What squirting style are you? If female ejaculation isn't part of your sexual repertoire yet, get ready to be schooled. Can everybody do it? What techniques work best? Is it really pee? We invited World Record Squirter, Lola Jean, to tell us how she hacked her body and crushed science. On top of explaining why come-hither fingers aren't the only way, she reveals psychological reasons behind why we squirt and what holds us back. Also in this episode: the sex gap, male squirting and the educational porn that will make your pussy/partner think you're Jesus. Prepare for pleasure that will leave its mark all over your sheets. We'll squirt to that!Head over to Ersties.com/podcast to enjoy the Squirting School trailer (18+) as well as to claim your 50% Ersties discount.

First off I am extremely happy to announce that I am now working with DWTV to produce content for their station. If you don't know, they are the German international news channel and are now focusing on African content. So my segment of the spread will be shown on a show hosted by my super friend Edith Kimani and the show is called 77% specifically focused on the 77% members of the youth in Africa. Creating content for the youth, by the youth. Secondly, you should know by now that The Spread Fest is happening on the 25th of May in Nairobi, this Following three sold out live recordings of the Spread Podcast, it is more than evident that there is an ever growing need for clear and informed content around sex and relationships.  Intuitively, the Spread Podcast, is putting together an annual event; ‘The Spread Fest' in a bid to quench the insatiable appetite for this subject matter and providing a safe space in which to go about it. The festival aims to foster a sense of community where the challenges surrounding gender and sexuality are discussed openly, the milestones achieved thus far are celebrated and knowledge is shared in a fun but impact-filled way.  So get your tickets now: https://mookh.com/event/1773d368-9224-44b3-b3b7-cbb9c3ee693a Our special guests are and only Jetsetting Jasmine and King Noire all the way from Tampa FL. We will be having conversations around Sex positive parenting, queer conversations, sexual and reproductive health, and of course our special guests will give us a little introduction into impact play. More details on that are available on our social media platforms. Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme, Writer and self proclaimed Olympian Squirter. Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. --------- P R O D U C E D B Y Karen kaz Lucas --------- B U S I N E S S I N Q U I R I E S For business inquiries, Email - host@thespreadpodcast.com kaz@kazentertainment.com ---------- F I N D U S Instagram -https://www.instagram.com/thespreadpod/ https://www.instagram.com/karenkazlucas/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thespreadpod/ https://www.facebook.com/karenkazlucas/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/thespreadpod https://twitter.com/Karenkazlucas ---------- O U R G U E S T S: LolaJean.com https://www.instagram.com/lolajeandotcom/ https://www.facebook.com/LolaJeanEducation/ Podcast: Is Our Love ___?  https://lolajean.com/listen https://www.instagram.com/isourlove_____/?hl=en FemDom 101 Live Steam : May 23rd Virtualfemdom101.eventbrite.com Masturbation Audio Class: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/love-thyself/1451954459 https://lolajean.com/masturbation IG:@LolaJeanDotCom www.LolaJean.com ---------- M U S I C SAGE: Expose yourself - https://itunes.apple.com/ke/album/expose-yourself/1128309558?i=1128309643I Thank you all for the LOVE! xx