Podcasts about munches

Von and Jackie discuss the BDSM and kink scene, as well as Jackie's one-woman musical, Hold Me Down. They talk about how to get involved in the scene, including attending classes and munches (casual hangouts). They also clarify the definitions of BDSM, kinks, and fetishes. Jackie explains that BDSM is about power dynamics and can involve pain and pleasure, while kinks are personal preferences that turn someone on. They also touch on the misconceptions surrounding BDSM, such as the portrayal in 50 Shades of Grey. They discuss the importance of communication, negotiation, and consent in BDSM, as well as the use of safe words. They also explore different aspects of BDSM, including role-playing, rope bondage (Shibari), and the variety of outfits and costumes in the scene. Jackie shares their experiences in the BDSM and kink scene, including the attire, etiquette, and purpose of dungeons. They explain that dungeons are community spaces where people can engage in BDSM play in a safe and consensual environment. Jackie also discusses their journey of finding freedom through bondage and overcoming shame and trauma. They turned their experiences into a musical called Hold Me Down, which incorporates dance, stand-up comedy, emotional storytelling, and original songs. The show is part of the Hollywood Fringe Festival and will have five performances in June.Chapters:(00:00) Introduction and Rehearsals for Hold Me Down(02:23) Curiosity about BDSM and Kinks(05:19) Explaining BDSM and Kinks(08:36) Misconceptions and Representation of BDSM(12:20) Power Dynamics and Safe Words(13:54) Role Play and Different Dynamics(15:53) Shibari: Japanese Rope Bondage(22:08) Etiquette and Entry into the BDSM Community(23:35) Exploring BDSM and Kink (31:03) Different Rules at Play Parties(36:20) Finding Freedom Through Bondage(41:10)From Songs to a One-Woman Show(46:54) The Challenges of Rehearsing and Producing(51:54) Getting Involved in the BDSM Scene(53:35) Attending Classes and Munches(54:05) Coordinating Play Parties(55:05) Using FetLife to Connect (56:08) Being Cautious of CreepersHold Me Down Info & Tickets hereShe was tangled up in shame and expectations of what everyone else wanted her to be.Through bondage, she found freedom.A one woman autobiographical musical as told by Jackie Yangyuen (she/they) – a queer and Asian American songwriter, actor, and kinky human.There will be an extra 30 min Q&A segment after the 6/22 performance!Location: 5636 Melrose Ave, Los Angeles, CA 90038Dates: Sun June 09, 5:30 PMSat June 15, 7:30 PMMon June 17, 8:30 PMSat June 22, 10:00 PMSun June 30, 2:30 PM

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Dr. Kate talks explains the nature of munches as a strong community where one can go and have a non-judgmental conversation and be met with like-minded folks can feel like a homecoming of sorts. WATCH THIS CLIP OR THE FULL EPISODE 2 ON YOUTUBE  https://www.youtube.com/@cliterology

When you began your spanko journey - did you reach out to people and were disappointed because it felt like everyone else was having all the fun and no one engaged with you? Do you still feel this way?  Join the SpankoPodcast Podcasters and hear some tips about what doesn't work for them and most importantly about what works for building life-long spanking relationships.  If you have a clue, or if you have successful friendships, you know, kindness and politeness go a long way. Also, you know, respecting others' boundaries.  

You want to explore kink but aren't ready to engage a partner. What to do? Our panel of sexperts discuss options and how to slowly move out into the wider kinky world.In this episode:Elmo Painter-Edington - Somatic therapist and empowerment coach Diane Long - sex positive empowerment self defense teacherClark Hazel - nonbinary trans therapist licensed in OR and IL Get tix to our Chicago June 15, 2023 show and podcast recording!Help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity! Leave a tip for our work or join our monthly Patreon members' club!Are you looking for…?A Wild & Sublime giftEpisodes on specific topicsBooks on sex and relationshipsBuzzsprout bonus! Thinking of starting your own podcast? Buzzsprout can help you create, host and promote it! Plus lots of useful tools and resources to streamline the process! Use our affiliate link for $20 off!Want to rev up your relationship? Host Karen Yates, a somatic intimacy coach, gives you easy tools to put into practice right away with her free guide: Say It Better in Bed! 3 Proven Ways to Improve Intimate Communication. Download today!Want to be Wild & Sublime out in the world?  Check out our tees and accessories. Peep our Limited Collection to make a sexy statement.Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

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Drive a Ford? We are going to make you less happy about that. This weeks episode is about the Ford Massacre, and no that's not a new model car for next year. The 1930's were tough on a lot of people, and the auto workers of Detroit were no exception. Support the show

Bank failure! Bank bailout palooza: UBS gobbles up chewy and over-salty Credit Suisse. New York Community Bank eats Signature Bank's sad pickle-less lunch, and some leftover SVB crumbs.

BANK BAILOUT-PALOOZA: UBS munches on Credit Suisse, NY Community Bank eats Signature Bank, and SVB Crumbs

Wes tells the story of a man whose toe got a little too close for comfort for a black widow, and then gets into a super interesting round of animal reproduction info dumps. Jeff establishes his Mount Rushmore of serial killers, and Mike has a pro-tip for first time cologne wearers. ~~ To advertise on the show, contact us! ~~ Tooth & Claw is brought to you by QCODE. Support the show and get access to an extensive library of exclusive episodes like this by supporting the show on Patreon or joining the Grizzly Club on Apple Podcasts. For the latest updates on the show and all things wildlife, follow us at toothandclawpod.com and social:  Instagram: @ToothandClawPodcast Twitter: @ToothandClawPod Wes: @GrizKid Jeff: @jefe_larson Mike: @mikey3ds        Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ms. Hellfire aka Darryl and The Munches. This week Prue pretends to be a City Girl. Darryl learns the family secret while Jack and Dan solidify their Munch status.

This week on 69 Whiskey Eric & Matt share their experience as they go on their first BDSM community munch together. Matt will also dive into the FetLife website as he finally begins taking part in the community. Plus, we'll also talk the latest news of the female police officer who was fired for having her fellow officer run a train on her while on duty. Remember, if you enjoy our show, we encourage you to leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform, and by doing so we will read your feedback live on air!All our links: https://linktr.ee/69whiskeypodcast

When people ask how to become involved in kink or how to learn, the first thing they are told is “go to a munch!” Munches are a great first step, but like all first steps, they can be intimidating if you don't know what to expect or how to behave. Munches are a key part of the BDSM community. It is where people go to meet other kinksters, see old friends and to establish themselves in their local community. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bdsmunited/support

We piss people off when we start with sports but this week it had to be done. From injuries to another starting QB people had high hopes for, to streak ending comebacks, and of course the 2nd half collapse of the Raiders. Then shocking news out of Georgia has Atlanta's Chaka Zulu charged with murder, while he claims it was self defense. We try to make sense of it based on what we know about the Disturbing Tha Peace CEO. Then is August Alsina really trying to pop out in September? A photo has surfaced of Alsina appearing to have a bloody mouth, he claims was given to him by Tory Lanez and his crew. Who knows what happened both artists are signed to CAP-A-LOT Records. Governor Newsome made California the 7th state to prohibit employers from firing or not hiring employees who smoke cannabis of the clock. Is it a good or bad thing for the state? Also Post Malone had a bad fall at his recent concert, when an area in the stage for raising and lowering his guitar was left open and he landed hard enough to break 3 ribs. To his credit he finished his show. Or did he? Then a story about Iron Mike that Fat Joe shares has us happy that Remy Ma is ok. I promise it will make sense. All that and more on episode 120 of Unprofessional AF! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unprofessionalafpodcast/message

What is a munch? What do you do? Where do you go? John and Mia sit down and talk some basics. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mistress-mia8/support

37 years after the events of Ghostbusters (Episode 133) a single mother and her children move to a small town farm they inherited from her estranged father, a member of the original Ghostbusters. There they will discover the past and potentially save the future in Jason Reitman's supernatural comedy - Ghostbusters: Afterlife (2022) Summer Science School is in with Brose, as we welcome Victorian Ghostbuster Kay to the Podcast. Together they're joined by Cable who Munches on all the Ghostbusters references he can! Strap on your Proton Pack this is no (ghost) trap, listen to our BRAND NEW episode TODAY completely for FREE As always, please support ChatFlix by making a contribution, every dollar helps improve the pod! Head to PayPal and use the following PayPal account email: paypal@chatflixpodcast.com.au  

You've heard the saying, become friends with people who aren't your age. This is how you grow.  Queenie and her husband, Gary, give us a whole slew of life advice and help us navigate the ropes of staying safe at a spanking party or in a spanking session. We want everyone to have a safe and consensual scene, they reiterate what we have told you in the past, make friends with those on the same side as you!

Do you want to know more about playing in groups and the nitty-gritty details? Organizers from several play parties, a dungeon and a bathhouse talk about their respective scenes. Recorded live at Constellation Chicago in October 2019.In this episode:LRA ChicagoGalleria Domain 2SteamworksMidwest FemDomme Group (find them on FetLife too)Find Girl Bang Chicago (and Girl Bang Madison) on FetLifeGoFundMe for Jerith of GD2Need a good read on sexuality or relationships? Check out our recs on Bookshop!Want to rev up your relationship and bust out of limiting patterns? Host Karen Yates is an intimacy coach and somatic sex educator who works in-person with couples in Chicago to help improve their intimate communication and expand pleasure in a process that can be embodied, meaningful, and fun. Go to karen-yates.com and set up a free Zoom consultation.The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regular bonus content, early alerts, and goodies! Our newest $10/mo member benefit: 10% off all W&S merch! Or show your love for Wild & Sublime any time: Leave a tip!Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our new tees and accessories for maximum visibility. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free… Prefer to read the convo? Full episode transcripts are available on our website.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/wildandsublime)

Join the Spanko! Podcast crew as they continue with their interviews at Lone Star. We met Queenie and her husband, Gary, at our booth and we just had to interview them! They are adorable, wise, and full of sarcasm! We hope you enjoy hearing from them as much as we enjoyed interviewing them. If you haven't met Queenie and Gary yet, you'll definitely want to after this! There are just no words to entice you listen. Relax and enjoy!

Here's everything you need to know about Munches! We cover everything from history, to etiquette, and even what to wear! With these easy guidelines, you'll be ready to start attending your own kink/nonmonog/poly community events in no time! (Well, in roughly a podcast length of time lol) Loving our podcast as much as we love making it? PLEASE go leave a review for us on Apple

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The organizers of TeddyCon announced that the popular age player event has been postponed. Newsie talks about what we know so far and gives his opinion on the situation. After, Newsie sits down with The Good Cub and Cookie from the Toronto Little's Clubhouse to about what a munch is and what you can expect if you go to one. Brositter then checks our cages as we head into week three of Locktober.

Have you ever heard the term “munch” but never knew what it meant? That ends right this minute!    What is a munch?  Who goes to muches?  Where are they?  What do I wear?  How do I act?  What should I say?  What should I expect?  How do I even find one?   Don't worry. We've got you. Take a deep breath. All those questions and more are answered in this episode.   Looking forward to seeing you at a munch!

Continuando nossa série “BDSM do Começo”, depois da autodescoberta, autoaceitação e início dos estudos, nós chegamos à etapa de criação da nossa comunidade, encontrar com quem trocar, fazer amizades e buscar apoio e a importância disso tudo. Nesse episódio, a Ada, o Hugo e a Kali convidamos a Engel, que é praticamente uma recepcionista da comunidade, e a Fay, que chegou do lado de cá há pouco tempo, para conversar sobre vários temas que envolvem a entrada na comunidade: Qual é a importância de ter um nick e como escolher o seu? Quais ferramentas usar para começar? Como agir no on-line e no presencial? Por qual evento começar? O que fazer quando você mora longe? E o que o Chicotadas vai fazer pra te ajudar? A gente responde a essas e muitas outras perguntas e abre as portas da nossa comunidade pra você nesse episódio recheado de informações! Nossas arrobas: @engelropes @luci_fay_ @patriciakaliofc @aprendiz_bondage (Ada está sem insta) Minutagens: 2m37s Introdução e apresentação das convidadas 13m56s Comunidade 24m35s Como encontramos a nossa comunidade? Citados: amigos baunilha, festas góticas, grupos de estudo, ir direto em evento, conhecer pessoas da internet. 41m56s Comunidade On-line: O Nick. Qual a importância e como escolher? Etiqueta relacionada ao nick e melhores práticas da comunidade on-line. 1h01m55s Como e por onde começar no on-line? Nossas melhores dicas e ferramentas para usar e subverter Comunidades em locais on-line voltados aos estudos (exemplos do Facebook, Insta e Twitter). Redes sociais comuns: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. Sites/redes/ferramentas kink: Fetlife (buscar comunidade local e fóruns temáticos), My Dark Life (Portal Senhor Verdugo), grupos de WhatsApp/Telegram (citados: BDSM & Kink, Shibari Feminista, @shibari.feminista), grupos de estudo, eventos on-line (The Office, Dominatrix, SM Club, eventos e munches da @seguranamaodasafe_), especial ESC Apps/ferramentas de encontros específicos: Knki, KinkD, FET, Kinkoo, Recon, Sansa Tinder @sansa.rope, outros tinders de grupos e instas. Apps comuns/de sexo liberal: Tinder, Happn, OkCupid / Sexlog, Ysos, Feeld, 3fun, D4Swing 1h24m50s O especial ESC (Encontre Sua Comunidade) 1h28m05 Dicas para Interação On-line 1h38m38s Transição pro Presencial, Como Usar o On-line pra Encontrar o Presencial Tipos de eventos: Munches, Atados (Curitiba, SP e outras cidades), Workshops, Festas (locais citados que ainda existem: Dominatrix (SP), SM Club (SP), The Office (Curitiba) 1h42m40s Dicas para Primeiros Eventos e onde ir quando for seguro! 1h53m25s Nossas Chicotadas Filme "Desobediência", Netflix Livro "Eu Receberia as Piores Notícias de Seus Lindos Lábios”, Marçal Aquino. Série "Roubos Inacreditáveis", Netflix Livro "A Arma Escarlate", Renata Ventura Minissérie "A Vida e a História de Madam C. J. Walker”, Netflix Série Coreana (Dorama) "A Caminho do Céu", Netflix Musical em formato podcast "Dom Pedro I - Bastidores de um Musical": https://linktr.ee/dompedromusical 2h00m10s Mensagens finais, agradecimentos e Aftercare Foto da vitrine do episódio de @sansa.rope. Siga-nos no Instagram, no Twitter e no seu agregador de podcasts preferido para não perder nenhuma novidade e conta pra gente o que você achou! https://linktr.ee/chicotadas / https://www.instagram.com/chicotadaspodcast/

We've launched a new show in Hindi in an Exclusive Partnership with Gaana.com. Checkout Founder Journeys on our new show 'Yeh Hai Dhande ki Baat'. The first three episodes with an Export Manufacturer- LNM Auto, Ferns & Petals, and Jiva Ayurveda are out. Check out the show here. In this episode of Business Munchies, Sahil and Sid are back with their usual banter and some interesting ideas. Here's what we discuss: The  Business of Rare Plants & Evolution of Gardening in India  (1:47)The $1.5 Bn Expert Networks Industry (13:04)Subscription of Gourmet Meal Boxes (22:12)

This weeks a Munches episode and we're having cereal! Get high, grab a bowl, and lets us know how you feel about it @isthatnatemarshall @alexgrubard @weedingoutthestoned 

Mucho contenido apretujado en 1h y media INTRO Min 0:00 Rabiosas actualidad bikinera y el "Tríptico de las Ardenas". -Liga Bikinera Giro en Scorito: https://scori.to/0n5XHYZ -Teaming Xanapuede: https://www.teaming.net/xanapuede LO DE LOS ANUNCIOS: Min 37:23 Soy Globero. Ropa casual molona y original para ciclistas. https://www.soyglobero.com @soyglobero SECCIÓN 2: Min 59:50 Munches preguntines y munches respuestines NUESTRAS MOVIDAS: Min 1:04:40 Beat, Upload y Las 3 muertes de Marisela Escobedo MAMI VOY A ESTAR BIEN: Min 1:14:24 Bodeguita del Medio y San Isidoro Fin

Mucho contenido apretujado en 1h y mediaINTROMin 0:00 Rabiosas actualidad bikinera y el "Tríptico de las Ardenas".-Liga Bikinera Giro en Scorito:https://scori.to/0n5XHYZ-Teaming Xanapuede:https://www.teaming.net/xanapuedeLO DE LOS ANUNCIOS:Min 37:23 Soy Globero. Ropa casual molona y original para ciclistas.https://www.soyglobero.com@soygloberoSECCIÓN 2:Min 59:50 Munches preguntines y munches respuestinesNUESTRAS MOVIDAS:Min 1:04:40 Beat, Upload y Las 3 muertes de Marisela EscobedoMAMI VOY A ESTAR BIEN:Min 1:14:24 Bodeguita del Medio y San IsidoroFin

Mucho contenido apretujado en 1h y media INTRO Min 0:00 Rabiosas actualidad bikinera y el "Tríptico de las Ardenas". -Liga Bikinera Giro en Scorito: https://scori.to/0n5XHYZ -Teaming Xanapuede: https://www.teaming.net/xanapuede LO DE LOS ANUNCIOS: Min 37:23 Soy Globero. Ropa casual molona y original para ciclistas. https://www.soyglobero.com @soyglobero SECCIÓN 2: Min 59:50 Munches preguntines y munches respuestines NUESTRAS MOVIDAS: Min 1:04:40 Beat, Upload y Las 3 muertes de Marisela Escobedo MAMI VOY A ESTAR BIEN: Min 1:14:24 Bodeguita del Medio y San Isidoro Fin

You need to go to a munch. That's almost always the first piece of advice given to someone when they begin exploring BDSM. Munches are a great way to meet people, ask questions, and be yourself without worrying about keeping your desires a secret any longer. Munches are also a great way to get your foot in the door of the kinky community. Learn about what a munch is, what to expect, how to behave and so much more. Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.com Check us at on Instagram, Twitter and FetLife at pinkkinkpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/pinkkink/message

Dëse Weekend ass nawell vill lass, et gëtt nees Formel 1 gefuer. Da gëtt d'Auer virgestallt an dëse Sonnden ass och nach Pällemsonndeg. An dozou weess eisen Expert am Brauchkalenner, eise Sproochmates Alain Atten sou Munches ze erklären.

Grab a drink and chill with Dr. K and Big Daddy while we reminisce about our first play party and dungeon experiences, a deeper dive into the exhibition kink, tips for finding your own munches, communities, and virtual events, and how to open the door to conversation with your partner about exploring new sides of themselves. Phew! That's a lot to unpack! Let's get kinky! Psss…. Don't forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K's Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!   The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous! Dr. K's Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover   Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room Social Links Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links  

Our guest today, Nella, shares her sex story and her work in normalizing sexual pleasure and information for everyone. She has found her home and curiosity satiated in the BDSM community and encourages everyone to think outside the box and truly find their voice and orgasm. From being the go-to person in her high school for sexual education and condoms even though she herself was a virgin, to when she was a nude model in college and saw her body as art, to when she experienced alternative lifestyles and BDSM, she has had a incredible journey that is far from over.

We talk about how to meet and greet with other non vanilla people at munches, do's and dont's of socialization, and what to look for in vetting someone.   Where to find us! Twitter @DarkSAdventures Instagram @DarkSideAdventures Reddit @ DarkSideAdventures Spotify @ DarkSideAdventures Email OurDarkSideAdventures@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/darksideadventures/message

Bob the Euplocephalus is a curious creature. In this episode he takes time out from adventures and just waddles along with family. We get an insight into how the Euplocephalii operate as a herd, and how Bob fits in. Where do they go? What's Euplo fun? What's good to eat? Let's find out!

In this episode, Lady Petra and SafferMaster chat with Dr. Craig Webster about his research into munches and what he has learned about the kink community, and how kink influences parenting behavior over a Kanar Sazerac.

Episode 363 - Today’s show brings Dr. Craig Webster to the mic. Webster headed an international search of Munches. These published papers represent many of the factors that make a successful munch. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/363---dr-craig-webster--.html

Bisexual? Pansexual? Heteroflexible? What's up with that? Plus, our panel answers questions about kink, queerness, and LTRs from a live audience. A storyteller shares spicy episodes from his erotic life. Then, a Sermon on the Pubic Mound on owning your pleasure.What's Up with That? Sarah Sloane joins Karen to sort through the nuances of “bisexual,” “pansexual,” and “heteroflexible” in collaboration with #open, the dating app for ethically nonmonogamous people and their partnersQ&A: Audience questions answered by kinkster and Dom Peter aka MksThingsHappin, sex writer Jera Brown of Rebellious Magazine, and sex-positive therapist Elmo Painter; recorded live at our July 2019 live showStoryteller David recalls spontaneous sexy interludes of days gone by, and how they came about; recorded live at our July 2019 live showSermon on the Pubic Mound on comparisons, the stories in our heads, and owning the responsibility for our own pleasureLinks:#openElmo PainterJera BrownOUTspoken LGBTQ StoriesJuly 2019 live showBooks mentioned on our podSex-positive resources for joining communities and moreGet ready! Starting Nov 1, sex experts will answer anonymous sex and relationship questions just for our Patreon members every month. Available at any level. Got a sex question?Unreleased audio of this episode's panel Q&A is available to Lounge Level members on Patreon. Join the juicy partyOn Bookshop, you can find books we mention on the show, while supporting Wild & Sublime and independent booksellers at the same time! You can also check out the list on our website. What's true in sex is true in podcasting: feedback makes us better! Leave a rating or review on your podcast app and let us know what you think.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/wildandsublime)

The Wife discusses First Date Spanko, That Fet-Life, Cabin Party Sex Trains, That Stripper Life, Choke Stroke & Lick, Domestic Discipline, 50 Shades of Dumb-Ass Movie, Munches, and how Frank is a Nosy Bitch with Kira, Mista Calhoun, and FrankThis Episode includes Kira, Mista Calhoun, Frank...and The Wife and was Recorded on 08/08/2020 at and The Wife Studio & The Fragrance ClosetThanks to Kira of “Moms and Martinis” and Mista Calhoun of “Digital Daron Podcast” for hanging out with Ushttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/moms-and-martinis/id1499896457“It's a Beautiful Dungeon”Intro Music "The Moon is Disgusting" is provided with permission by "That 1 Guy”.Outro Music ”Halt and Catch Fire” is provided with permission by “FORESTLAWN”

On the True North Domme podcast Madame Red and Oban interview Wylddreams who organizes some of Toronto's kink communities. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/true-north-domme/support

Fetlife, Munches, Play Parties, Oh My! Come listen as JohnHatesFun and I discuss entering and navigating the lifestyle as a new individual, dont let the assless chaps and chainsaw play discourage you! This is all about new person safety and best practices --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterdarkkink/support

Gabee's Event and Munches is an event planning and catering service company. Founded by Gabriel Robinson and he shared with us the interesting story of how lucrative the business is and how he, even as a startup was able to run different outlets in just a short while. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Like many other podcasts, we’ve had to change our format due to the continued physical distancing procedures that are in place to combat COVID-19. This week, our co-hosts and producer meet once again, but over a Zoom video call, to check-in and chat with our amazing guests! After touching base about the various ways in which we are all experiencing the effects of the pandemic, Nneka shares some crucial information about the impacts physical distancing has had on survivors, and their families, who are experiencing male-perpetuated violence. To learn more, please check out her latest blog post. We are then so excited to welcome our guests this week! Nneka had the pleasure of interviewing our very own Shelleena, her husband Chris, and their partner Matthew to talk about their relationship and their experiences with polyamory. Shelleena opens up the conversation by sharing some definitions and terminology, and then Chris and Shelleena both take us through their relationship history and the ways in which they have decided to open up their marriage. While they share some of the struggles they experienced when disclosing their relationship to their family, they also share some incredible stories of supportive and encouraging responses! We then invite their partner Matthew Eldracher (AKA Tucker, @matteldracher) to share his experiences of joining this throuple! Like always, we invite you to listen to this podcast with an open mind and kind heart, and if you are interested in learning more about polyamory or the poly community please check out the following resources: The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy; Stories from the Polycule by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff; Turn Me On (Podcast); The L Word (TV Series); Polyamory: Married & Dating (TV Series); Esther Perel (Podcast & Books); Local events called “Munches”; & Oasis Aqualounge (Toronto based Sex Club) This week we’re drinking Bottega Vino Dei Poeti Brut Rose, Ruffino Prosecco, and Bottega Vino Dei Poeti Prosecco DOC. We gave these wines a buzz rating of 2.5/5, 3/5, and 4.25/5 respectively. Become a Patron! http://tiny.cc/bhjuez To learn more about any of our team members please follow us on social media! You can find WomenatthecentrE (IG: @WomenatthecentrE / TW: @WomenatcentrE), What’s Your Safe Word? (@WYSWpodcast), Nneka MacGregor (@NnekaMacGregor), Shelleena Hackett (@Shelleena), Amanda Hollahan (@AmandaHollahan), Nicole Fontyn (@NicoleFontyn), and Karia Jones (@motorkay) on Instagram and Twitter! Amazing intro music by: @2nightofficial1 If you have any comments, questions, or concerns please email us at: podcast@womenatthecentre.com or check out our website: https://wysw.womenatthecentre.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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Zanter Joren schonn fiert den Här Schroeder an Afrika fir virun allem de Kanner do ze hëllefen. Am Ufank sinn se zu e puer Kollegen mat enger Camionnette dorower gefuer an hunn dobäi esou Munches erlieft. Esou goufen déi Fräiwëlleg zum Beispill 4 Deeg an engem Camp an der Wüst vu Mauretanien fest gehalen, well se zwou Këschten roude Wäin dobäi haten. D'Liewen an Afrika ass net einfach, d'Leit awer immens gaaschtfrëndlech. Esou zitt et de President vun der Asbl 'Hand an Hand fir Afrika' ëmmer nees dohinner, an dat obwuel en scho Malaria mat 42,7 Grad Féiwer hat. Seng grouss Freed ass d'Liichten an den Aen vun0 de Kanner wa se neit Schoulmaterial a Spillsaache kréien.

Zanter Joren schonn fiert den Här Schroeder an Afrika fir virun allem de Kanner do ze hëllefen. Am Ufank sinn se zu e puer Kollegen mat enger Camionnette dorower gefuer an hunn dobäi esou Munches erlieft. Esou goufen déi Fräiwëlleg zum Beispill 4 Deeg an engem Camp an der Wüst vu Mauretanien fest gehalen, well se zwou Këschten roude Wäin dobäi haten. D'Liewen an Afrika ass net einfach, d'Leit awer immens gaaschtfrëndlech. Esou zitt et de President vun der Asbl 'Hand an Hand fir Afrika' ëmmer nees dohinner, an dat obwuel en scho Malaria mat 42,7 Grad Féiwer hat. Seng grouss Freed ass d'Liichten an den Aen vun0 de Kanner wa se neit Schoulmaterial a Spillsaache kréien.

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Dëst Joer feiert e Symbol vu Lëtzebuerg, de Schéissendëmpel, 140 Joer. Et ass am Fong d’Bréckelchen déi Gebuertsdag huet, de Waasserfall gëtt et scho méi laang. D’Bréck gouf gebaut fir den Tourismus am Mëllerdall un ze kuerbelen. Se huet schonn esou Munches matgemaach, inklusiv den Iwwerschwemmungen d’lescht Joer, a steet nach ëmmer. Firwat se esou stabil ass, wéi genee se gebaut gouf a firwat de Schéissendëmpel haut nach esou attraktiv ass, hu mir 'Am Gespréich' gekläert. Donieft gitt Dir gewuer wat an de Steng vun der Bréck soll verstoppt sinn...

Dëst Joer feiert e Symbol vu Lëtzebuerg, de Schéissendëmpel, 140 Joer. Et ass am Fong d’Bréckelchen déi Gebuertsdag huet, de Waasserfall gëtt et scho méi laang. D’Bréck gouf gebaut fir den Tourismus am Mëllerdall un ze kuerbelen. Se huet schonn esou Munches matgemaach, inklusiv den Iwwerschwemmungen d’lescht Joer, a steet nach ëmmer. Firwat se esou stabil ass, wéi genee se gebaut gouf a firwat de Schéissendëmpel haut nach esou attraktiv ass, hu mir 'Am Gespréich' gekläert. Donieft gitt Dir gewuer wat an de Steng vun der Bréck soll verstoppt sinn...

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Please enjoy again: Sex Spoken Here: BDSM and Power Exchange   Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.   Last week I explored the practicalities for beginning to explore BDSM and Power Exchange.  This week I explore basic rules for events and resources for BDSM online and in the community.    If you haven’t heard the first four of the BDSM and Power Exchange Series, I suggest you download them.  The first two include interviews with Dr Kevin Boileau and cover some of the theory and emotional issues, the third in the series includes an interview with Pharoah Khaf Ra and Empress Nahara who are a lifestyle dominant couple and last week I started with practicalities like figuring out if you are dominant or submissive. I have talked about getting ready to step out and explore BDSM and power exchange whether you are doing it in private or in public.    But many people have no idea where to begin to look to meet people, for events or for clothing and accessories.  First I want to highlight that you don’t need to spend lots of money on special clothing and toys.    Most events have a dress code but most of them also will accept scant clothing (as close to nakedness as is legal in that jurisdiction) or being dressed all in black.   The dress code is supposed to encourage people to make an effort to get involved, look and feel sexy and to discourage those people who come along to gawk.  Gawking is different from watching when you are a proper voyeur.  Gawking is when someone comes to watch all the strange people and has no intention of getting involved in any way and when someone doesn’t observe basic courtesy either.  Basic courtesy includes: Don’t interfere in someone else’s scene.  If they are doing something you find interesting, watch from an appropriate distance.  That means don’t watch from 2 inches away.  I was once involved in a scene with a woman where I was performing oral sex on her and a man came and sat so close too watch that his face was almost between my mouth and her pussy.  He was told very firmly to move away.  When people are using floggers, whips and canes if you get within the circle of the stroke you will get injured and really annoy the person who is doing the beating.  Also, when people are in a scene, it creates a bubble and they are likely to be unaware of the outside world.  When someone blunders in, they break the bubble and the distraction can ruin the entire scene because it interrupts the energy flow.  Energy builds in a scene to a peak just like it does in sex when it builds to orgasm. No means no. Just because someone is at a public event does not mean they are there to play with everyone.  If someone says no, please respect it. Observe protocols.  Even if you find it strange to have to ask someone’s Master or Mistress to talk with them, please follow their protocols.  It is a means of demonstrating respect.  You can ask about reasons or the origins of the protocol but ultimately following it is the best way to show respect. Don’t spend time talking or asking questions in active areas of play.  This disrupts the energy and disrupts the scene.  There are usually conversation areas and people are usually happy to answer questions after the scene.  Remember that after care is part of the scene. Don’t make assumptions about role, gender, sexuality, sexual orientation.  Ask instead of assuming. Where to meet people online: There are lots of resources to meet people online.  Fetlife.com  is a social media site for people who like fetishes including BDSM and power exchange.  There are lots of different groups once you have joined.  You can join a group for events near your location to find out who might be close by.  You make a profile and people can search profiles in a number of ways, send emails and reach out to you via the groups you join. OK Cupid! has a large number of people who enjoy kink and BDSM.  You make a profile there in the same way you would on any other dating site. Facebook:  There are lots of BDSM and power exchange related Facebook groups.  Some are secret.  Others are just private.  Check group rules to see if looking to meet people is OK. Fester.com  is relatively new and apparently most folk are 30 or under. Collarspace.com  is mostly for hook ups.  Reviews are very mixed. BDSM.com is a space for talking about things as well as hooking up. Chained.org is site for meeting folks. Where to meet people offline besides events and parties: Going to a local munch is a great way to meet people in your area.  Munches are usually held monthly in a restaurant or pub.  People come dressed in normal clothing and are usually welcoming to newcomers. You can find munches listed on places like FetLife.com.  There are fetish markets in many cities.  London, UK has one every month.  There are lots of items for sale, usually short presentations and stage shows and lots of space to mingle and meet folk.  There is also usually a play party afterwards and the ticket prices are reasonable.    Finding toys and supplies: For bondage using rope: There are lots of online sites.  I recommend checking out https://www.twistedmonk.com This is the best site for different types of rope, rope care, how to videos etc. http://www.esinem-rope.com Excellent UK site for rope, tutorial DVDs. If you want to learn to make your own tools and toys: Check out the blogs on Kinkly.com For floggers, whips, restraints: http://www.detailstoys.com http://www.whipsbywolf.com/handmade-leather-floggers/ For gay men – hard core toys https://www.regulation-london.com Get recommendations from people you meet at events.  Of course you need not spend much money at all.  There are many ‘pervertables’ in most homes.  A pervertable is something that is ordinary that you can turn to a kinky purpose.  For example: Belts are extremely pervertable to use for a beating.  You can use wooden spoons (ouch!), spatulas.  Lots of things in the kitchen are pervertable. For restraints you can use ties, belts, scarves. For blindfolds – ties, scarves. It’s easy to go wild and spend a fortune on beautiful toys and restraints and then rarely use them.  I recommend starting with pervertables and then making the purchase of any tools or toys something that you do with lots of thought.  Pick out one or two special pieces.   Clothing Fetish clothing varies depending upon your interests and roles.  Leather can be used for a variety of things.  Some people love the feel, touch and smell of leather.  There is also the leather lifestyle.  People who identify as part of the leather lifestyle are engaged in power exchange relationships (often Master/slave or Mistress/slave) and follow certain codes.  Most codes include honor, honesty, respect) and most observe a variety of rituals.  Leather for these people is not only sexy and hot but is earned and a means of recognising service.    Some people like the feel of rubber or latex.   For latex clothing: http://www.houseofharlot.com https://www.pandoradeluxe.com https://www.atsukokudo.com/Home/ For leather: http://www.fetishwear.com/Welcome.htm http://www.leatheraddicts.com https://www.mr-s-leather.com Good informational sites Jack Rinella’s Leather Views – leatherviews.com  Jack Rinella is a free lance author and leather man.  He has written a number of well respected books on various aspects of leather and BDSM. Race Bannon’s site : bannon.com Race Bannon along with Guy Baldwin, MS co-founded Kink Aware Professionals which is a list of helping professionals and legal professionals who are kink aware.  He has spoken at over 400 events, is a founder and board member of a number of leather associations. National Coalition for Sexual Freedom http://ncsfreedom.org Planet Midori http://www.planetmidori.com  She is a most amazing person and author who has expertise in bondage and power exchange. Society of Janus is San Francisco based and is an organisation that offers BDSM education and support. https://soj.org Carter Johnson Leather Library http://leatherlibrary.org  An amazing collection of leather history, reading materials covering kink, BDSM, LGBTQ. Leather Archives and Museum  Incredible collection also ‘dedicated to compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather, kink and fetish lifestyles.’ http://www.leatherarchives.org http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html They keep listings for BDSM and power exchange groups Exploration is designed to be fun.  It is more likely to be so if you remember some basic rules.  Keep yourself safe  New things are really exciting and this stuff can be even more exciting than most new things.  Don’t let the excitement make you forget our basic safety rules.  If you have just met someone online, don’t give them too much personal information.    If you are arranging to meet for the first time, do it in a public place and let people know where you are going.    If you feel something is off, trust your gut and leave.    Don’t talk yourself out of trusting your gut because you think you need to give people second chances.    Don’t meet people at your home and don’t go to their home alone until you are sure that they are safe.  Avoid taking recreational drugs.  Making clear choices is important when you are playing in areas that are risky.  Keep your head clear so you will make good choices.  Limit your alcohol consumption for the same reason.  I choose not to drink and play and I prefer to play with people who are sober. Pace yourself.  Don’t try to do everything at once.  Take your time and savour the experience.  Give yourself the space to process your experience afterwards and make sure you have support for when you need it. Remember your social skills.  Use your best social skills – be polite, friendly, listen lots.  Sometimes people get so excited they forget! Understand consent and apply it properly.    Don’t touch anyone without getting consent first.  This includes spontaneous hugs, putting your hand on someone’s shoulder.   Understand that people in this world can have different protocols.  Some are very strict.  Don’t assume that everyone will engage with you.  Some people may not be free to do so.  Don’t speak to someone else’s partner without checking first.  If you can’t check and you don’t get a response, don’t assume the person is being rude.  They may not be allowed to talk with anyone.  Think of it like meeting a monk or nun who is under a vow of silence. Take the time to learn how to do things properly.  Many activities that you will engage in if you are exploring BDSM and power exchange will involve an increased level of risk.  If you don’t learn how to do things properly, you have a high risk of injuring yourself or someone else.    There are two acronyms regularly used by people who engage in BDSM to describe risk.  The first is Safe, Sane and Consensual.  People who work to this protocol do things in the safest way possible, they don’t take short-cuts and highlight consent.  The second is Risk Aware Consensual Kink.  These folks highlight the fact that all activities have risk and that you must be aware of the risk level of things you are choosing to engage in.  They also highlight consent. Finally, maximise enjoyment.  Do everything you can to raise the probability that you will have a brilliant time. Thanks for joining me this week for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey.  Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey.  For a free 30 minute strategy session with me, head over to https://the-intimacy-coach.com and click the button that says Schedule Now!  If you have enjoyed the show, please leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher and subscribe!  The top three reviews will receive a copy of my eBook A Consumer’s Guide to Online BDSM Resources.  Join me next week when I will be starting a series on sex toys.

How do you meet people like you? People who get where you're coming from and won't judge you? Find out in thos week's episode! Ash and Jake talk about what to expect at your first "munch", a gethering of kinky people. Throw on some headphones, relax, and enjoy! "AcidJazz" Kevin MacLeod incompetech.com Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/

Dr Craig Webster of Ball State University talks with Camille about his research into a cornerstone of kink communities everywhere ... our non-play socials.Dr Webster conducted two surveys, one of munch attendees, the second focused on the organizers. His findings will be published in a couple of upcoming articles in Hospitality Management journals.If you would like to read his summaries, when he can post them, they will be available on his FetLife profile:https://fetlife.com/users/5648173

Ever wanted to go to a munch but just don't know where to start or if it's even for you? This week we are talking all about them, what they are, and why you need to check one out. Rants Activity Mommy Buring Teen Vogue US Porn producers can now be sued for harm to minors Jeff Sessions Parallels Anti-LGBTQ Campaigns to the Work of Martin Luther King, Jr. Judge tosses conviction for activist who laughed at Sessions Police Shoot Unarmed Batman Cosplayers at Australian Sex Party Man Arrested for Allegedly Deliberately Running Into Transgender Woman With His Car If You'd Like to Brandish a Sword Consider Going to Texas  

Welcome to my virtual therapy room!  I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.   Last week I explored the practicalities for beginning to explore BDSM and Power Exchange.  This week I explore basic rules for events and resources for BDSM online and in the community.    If you haven’t heard the first four of the BDSM and Power Exchange Series, I suggest you download them.  The first two include interviews with Dr Kevin Boileau and cover some of the theory and emotional issues, the third in the series includes an interview with Pharoah Khaf Ra and Empress Nahara who are a lifestyle dominant couple and last week I started with practicalities like figuring out if you are dominant or submissive. I have talked about getting ready to step out and explore BDSM and power exchange whether you are doing it in private or in public.    But many people have no idea where to begin to look to meet people, for events or for clothing and accessories.  First I want to highlight that you don’t need to spend lots of money on special clothing and toys.    Most events have a dress code but most of them also will accept scant clothing (as close to nakedness as is legal in that jurisdiction) or being dressed all in black.   The dress code is supposed to encourage people to make an effort to get involved, look and feel sexy and to discourage those people who come along to gawk.  Gawking is different from watching when you are a proper voyeur.  Gawking is when someone comes to watch all the strange people and has no intention of getting involved in any way and when someone doesn’t observe basic courtesy either.  Basic courtesy includes: Don’t interfere in someone else’s scene.  If they are doing something you find interesting, watch from an appropriate distance.  That means don’t watch from 2 inches away.  I was once involved in a scene with a woman where I was performing oral sex on her and a man came and sat so close too watch that his face was almost between my mouth and her pussy.  He was told very firmly to move away.  When people are using floggers, whips and canes if you get within the circle of the stroke you will get injured and really annoy the person who is doing the beating.  Also, when people are in a scene, it creates a bubble and they are likely to be unaware of the outside world.  When someone blunders in, they break the bubble and the distraction can ruin the entire scene because it interrupts the energy flow.  Energy builds in a scene to a peak just like it does in sex when it builds to orgasm. No means no. Just because someone is at a public event does not mean they are there to play with everyone.  If someone says no, please respect it. Observe protocols.  Even if you find it strange to have to ask someone’s Master or Mistress to talk with them, please follow their protocols.  It is a means of demonstrating respect.  You can ask about reasons or the origins of the protocol but ultimately following it is the best way to show respect. Don’t spend time talking or asking questions in active areas of play.  This disrupts the energy and disrupts the scene.  There are usually conversation areas and people are usually happy to answer questions after the scene.  Remember that after care is part of the scene. Don’t make assumptions about role, gender, sexuality, sexual orientation.  Ask instead of assuming. Where to meet people online: There are lots of resources to meet people online.  Fetlife.com  is a social media site for people who like fetishes including BDSM and power exchange.  There are lots of different groups once you have joined.  You can join a group for events near your location to find out who might be close by.  You make a profile and people can search profiles in a number of ways, send emails and reach out to you via the groups you join. OK Cupid! has a large number of people who enjoy kink and BDSM.  You make a profile there in the same way you would on any other dating site. Facebook:  There are lots of BDSM and power exchange related Facebook groups.  Some are secret.  Others are just private.  Check group rules to see if looking to meet people is OK. Fester.com  is relatively new and apparently most folk are 30 or under. Collarspace.com  is mostly for hook ups.  Reviews are very mixed. BDSM.com is a space for talking about things as well as hooking up. Chained.org is site for meeting folks. Where to meet people offline besides events and parties: Going to a local munch is a great way to meet people in your area.  Munches are usually held monthly in a restaurant or pub.  People come dressed in normal clothing and are usually welcoming to newcomers. You can find munches listed on places like FetLife.com.  There are fetish markets in many cities.  London, UK has one every month.  There are lots of items for sale, usually short presentations and stage shows and lots of space to mingle and meet folk.  There is also usually a play party afterwards and the ticket prices are reasonable.    Finding toys and supplies: For bondage using rope: There are lots of online sites.  I recommend checking out https://www.twistedmonk.com This is the best site for different types of rope, rope care, how to videos etc. http://www.esinem-rope.com Excellent UK site for rope, tutorial DVDs. If you want to learn to make your own tools and toys: Check out the blogs on Kinkly.com For floggers, whips, restraints: http://www.detailstoys.com http://www.whipsbywolf.com/handmade-leather-floggers/ For gay men – hard core toys https://www.regulation-london.com Get recommendations from people you meet at events.  Of course you need not spend much money at all.  There are many ‘pervertables’ in most homes.  A pervertable is something that is ordinary that you can turn to a kinky purpose.  For example: Belts are extremely pervertable to use for a beating.  You can use wooden spoons (ouch!), spatulas.  Lots of things in the kitchen are pervertable. For restraints you can use ties, belts, scarves. For blindfolds – ties, scarves. It’s easy to go wild and spend a fortune on beautiful toys and restraints and then rarely use them.  I recommend starting with pervertables and then making the purchase of any tools or toys something that you do with lots of thought.  Pick out one or two special pieces.   Clothing Fetish clothing varies depending upon your interests and roles.  Leather can be used for a variety of things.  Some people love the feel, touch and smell of leather.  There is also the leather lifestyle.  People who identify as part of the leather lifestyle are engaged in power exchange relationships (often Master/slave or Mistress/slave) and follow certain codes.  Most codes include honor, honesty, respect) and most observe a variety of rituals.  Leather for these people is not only sexy and hot but is earned and a means of recognising service.    Some people like the feel of rubber or latex.   For latex clothing: http://www.houseofharlot.com https://www.pandoradeluxe.com https://www.atsukokudo.com/Home/ For leather: http://www.fetishwear.com/Welcome.htm http://www.leatheraddicts.com https://www.mr-s-leather.com Good informational sites Jack Rinella’s Leather Views – leatherviews.com  Jack Rinella is a free lance author and leather man.  He has written a number of well respected books on various aspects of leather and BDSM. Race Bannon’s site : bannon.com Race Bannon along with Guy Baldwin, MS co-founded Kink Aware Professionals which is a list of helping professionals and legal professionals who are kink aware.  He has spoken at over 400 events, is a founder and board member of a number of leather associations. National Coalition for Sexual Freedom http://ncsfreedom.org Planet Midori http://www.planetmidori.com  She is a most amazing person and author who has expertise in bondage and power exchange. Society of Janus is San Francisco based and is an organisation that offers BDSM education and support. https://soj.org Carter Johnson Leather Library http://leatherlibrary.org  An amazing collection of leather history, reading materials covering kink, BDSM, LGBTQ. Leather Archives and Museum  Incredible collection also ‘dedicated to compilation, preservation and maintenance of leather, kink and fetish lifestyles.’ http://www.leatherarchives.org http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html They keep listings for BDSM and power exchange groups Exploration is designed to be fun.  It is more likely to be so if you remember some basic rules.  Keep yourself safe  New things are really exciting and this stuff can be even more exciting than most new things.  Don’t let the excitement make you forget our basic safety rules.  If you have just met someone online, don’t give them too much personal information.    If you are arranging to meet for the first time, do it in a public place and let people know where you are going.    If you feel something is off, trust your gut and leave.    Don’t talk yourself out of trusting your gut because you think you need to give people second chances.    Don’t meet people at your home and don’t go to their home alone until you are sure that they are safe.  Avoid taking recreational drugs.  Making clear choices is important when you are playing in areas that are risky.  Keep your head clear so you will make good choices.  Limit your alcohol consumption for the same reason.  I choose not to drink and play and I prefer to play with people who are sober. Pace yourself.  Don’t try to do everything at once.  Take your time and savour the experience.  Give yourself the space to process your experience afterwards and make sure you have support for when you need it. Remember your social skills.  Use your best social skills – be polite, friendly, listen lots.  Sometimes people get so excited they forget! Understand consent and apply it properly.    Don’t touch anyone without getting consent first.  This includes spontaneous hugs, putting your hand on someone’s shoulder.   Understand that people in this world can have different protocols.  Some are very strict.  Don’t assume that everyone will engage with you.  Some people may not be free to do so.  Don’t speak to someone else’s partner without checking first.  If you can’t check and you don’t get a response, don’t assume the person is being rude.  They may not be allowed to talk with anyone.  Think of it like meeting a monk or nun who is under a vow of silence. Take the time to learn how to do things properly.  Many activities that you will engage in if you are exploring BDSM and power exchange will involve an increased level of risk.  If you don’t learn how to do things properly, you have a high risk of injuring yourself or someone else.    There are two acronyms regularly used by people who engage in BDSM to describe risk.  The first is Safe, Sane and Consensual.  People who work to this protocol do things in the safest way possible, they don’t take short-cuts and highlight consent.  The second is Risk Aware Consensual Kink.  These folks highlight the fact that all activities have risk and that you must be aware of the risk level of things you are choosing to engage in.  They also highlight consent. Finally, maximise enjoyment.  Do everything you can to raise the probability that you will have a brilliant time. Thanks for joining me this week for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey.  Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey.  For a free 30 minute strategy session with me, head over to https://the-intimacy-coach.com and click the button that says Schedule Now!  If you have enjoyed the show, please leave a review on iTunes or Stitcher and subscribe!  The top three reviews will receive a copy of my eBook A Consumer’s Guide to Online BDSM Resources.  Join me next week when I will be starting a series on sex toys.

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E10-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators Part 2February 13th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 10 for February 13th, 2017.(start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to continue unearthing the truth in part 2 of the 3 part series on red flags, fake doms & predators. Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungLast week we discussed Red Flags and Fake Doms so if you missed that you will need to go back and listen to Part one and come back to this episode. As usual, this is partly taken from an article and partly my own experience. You can find the link to the submissiveguide.com article in the show notes at http://kuldrinskrypt.com/110 So without further adue on to the main topic.Information Please!If you’re a new submissive this lifestyle may seem overwhelming at first. A submissive I know terms it ‘the new submissive smell’. Dom/mes cense ‘new blood’, and swarm like piranhas to interact with, play with or train the new submissive in the group. Dom/mes may contact you online or meet you at a munch. They are covered with impressive or threatening names: Sir Snod of Grass or Master Whackyourass. With no experience, how can you tell if they are someone you can trust? The answer is information!Questions and AnswersFirst of all, ask lots and lots of questions. A Dom/me should not feel threatened by a sub’s questions, especially when establishing a new relationship. This is his or her chance to encourage open communication and feedback. Being told that questions aren’t welcome, or having your questions ignored or avoided should make you think twice about continue to chat with or meet this Dom/me. A good Dom/me will encourage learning, and the first and most important thing you need to learn about is your Dom/me! S/he is going to teach you, guide you, and maybe torture you. Would you allow a stranger to do that?What are questions that you can ask the Dom/me? The following questions were provided by the author’s Master as ones He would like a sub to ask Him.What does SSC stand for? This is the cornerstone of BDSM, and S/he should be able to answer this (even if S/he professes to follow RACK (Risk-aware consensual kink) instead, he should still be able to answer this, and give you a discussion of the differences in theories).What is their training style? How do they intend to adjust it to your personality?What is the job/purpose of the sub?What is the job/purpose of the Dom?If they were to use an implement on you, how would they gauge how hard they are hitting you?How do they tell if you’ve had enough or reached your limit (physically or mentally)?Do they use safe words?If you are going to be intimate, would they be willing to be tested for STD’s and STI’s and provide you with the paperwork?What is aftercare?How do they intend to handle sub drop if it happens several days later?What are some munches and parties they have attended? Are they willing to give you the names and contact information of the organizers?Now, as a newbie, you may not be able to evaluate these answers fully. However, you can judge whether your Dom/me is willing to answer the questions, and even better – if they enthusiastically discuss the questions and answers with you! Some of these questions can lead to long wonderful discussion which can greatly influence your path.Naming NamesUnless they are new a Dom/me should be willing and able to give references. Are there subs they have had in the past, either under contract or just in play? What happened with the previous subs? Can they give you their email addresses or introduce you to them? Write or talk to a couple of these subs and listen closely to what they say. It is always important to me to tell any potential subs my history with other subs, both the good and the bad. Maybe your new Dom/me has only had wonderful experiences, but for those who make this lifestyle part of their everyday lives, it is just as likely that there has been the occasional personality conflict. In the end the bad reports might tell you more about his/her strengths and weaknesses than the glowing reports from friends.And speaking of friends, will the Dom/me introduce you to friends in the lifestyle? Are there any? I’m not talking about the ‘friends’ on FetLife. That might be just a collection of names that seems to establish credibility, but has no basis in reality. I’m talking about people that they have interacted with. How they treat other Dom/mes and subs on a casual basis will reflect on how they will treat you once that “new sub smell” wears off.Aside from his/her own friends, is the Dom/me willing to let you go to munches to form relationships in the community? Will they only let you go with him or her, or do they tell you can only go when they feels you are ready? Munches are an important part of the community. They are a safe place where you can ask questions, receive various (and sometimes conflicting) opinions, and meet people with whom you may interact for the rest of your time in the lifestyle. They may legitimately want to be present with you in order to teach you protocol and ease your way into the lifestyle. After all, most Dom/mes care deeply about teaching their subs but if they continually tells you are not ready, and doesn’t do any training to get you there, consider this a bright red flag!Isolation from the community can occur as with munches, with forbidding you to join lists, or forbidding you to talk to other subs. Many Dom/mes will deny permission to talk to other Dom/mes due to protocol issues, but most have no problems encouraging communication with subs. Many experienced subs love to mentor new subs, and love to be asked questions and talk about their experiences. That should be a relationship that the Dom/me encourages, although they may want to be copied on the emails. A caring Dom/me will not limit your questions, but just monitor them so any concerns that may arise can be addressed.As a new sub, you should gather as much information as you can to make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to form a relationship with this Dom/me. Most Dom’s rule is “Protect the toy” not “Isolate the toy”. As far as I am concerned you are performing your duty as a submissive by developing relationships within the kink community, asking questions, and making sure you are entering a safe and healthy relationship.NEXT WEEK’S AGENDAWe will wrap up the three part series. In Part 3, we will examine warning signs in training, and abuse vs BDSM.In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on the support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.Contact info: Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Kuldrin’s KryptS01E10-Red Flags, Fake Doms, & Predators Part 2February 13th, 2017IntroThis is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 10 for February 13th, 2017.(start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of Kuldrin’s Krypt we are going to continue unearthing the truth in part 2 of the 3 part series on red flags, fake doms & predators. Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungLast week we discussed Red Flags and Fake Doms so if you missed that you will need to go back and listen to Part one and come back to this episode. As usual, this is partly taken from an article and partly my own experience. You can find the link to the submissiveguide.com article in the show notes at http://kuldrinskrypt.com/110 So without further adue on to the main topic.Information Please!If you’re a new submissive this lifestyle may seem overwhelming at first. A submissive I know terms it ‘the new submissive smell’. Dom/mes cense ‘new blood’, and swarm like piranhas to interact with, play with or train the new submissive in the group. Dom/mes may contact you online or meet you at a munch. They are covered with impressive or threatening names: Sir Snod of Grass or Master Whackyourass. With no experience, how can you tell if they are someone you can trust? The answer is information!Questions and AnswersFirst of all, ask lots and lots of questions. A Dom/me should not feel threatened by a sub’s questions, especially when establishing a new relationship. This is his or her chance to encourage open communication and feedback. Being told that questions aren’t welcome, or having your questions ignored or avoided should make you think twice about continue to chat with or meet this Dom/me. A good Dom/me will encourage learning, and the first and most important thing you need to learn about is your Dom/me! S/he is going to teach you, guide you, and maybe torture you. Would you allow a stranger to do that?What are questions that you can ask the Dom/me? The following questions were provided by the author’s Master as ones He would like a sub to ask Him.What does SSC stand for? This is the cornerstone of BDSM, and S/he should be able to answer this (even if S/he professes to follow RACK (Risk-aware consensual kink) instead, he should still be able to answer this, and give you a discussion of the differences in theories).What is their training style? How do they intend to adjust it to your personality?What is the job/purpose of the sub?What is the job/purpose of the Dom?If they were to use an implement on you, how would they gauge how hard they are hitting you?How do they tell if you’ve had enough or reached your limit (physically or mentally)?Do they use safe words?If you are going to be intimate, would they be willing to be tested for STD’s and STI’s and provide you with the paperwork?What is aftercare?How do they intend to handle sub drop if it happens several days later?What are some munches and parties they have attended? Are they willing to give you the names and contact information of the organizers?Now, as a newbie, you may not be able to evaluate these answers fully. However, you can judge whether your Dom/me is willing to answer the questions, and even better – if they enthusiastically discuss the questions and answers with you! Some of these questions can lead to long wonderful discussion which can greatly influence your path.Naming NamesUnless they are new a Dom/me should be willing and able to give references. Are there subs they have had in the past, either under contract or just in play? What happened with the previous subs? Can they give you their email addresses or introduce you to them? Write or talk to a couple of these subs and listen closely to what they say. It is always important to me to tell any potential subs my history with other subs, both the good and the bad. Maybe your new Dom/me has only had wonderful experiences, but for those who make this lifestyle part of their everyday lives, it is just as likely that there has been the occasional personality conflict. In the end the bad reports might tell you more about his/her strengths and weaknesses than the glowing reports from friends.And speaking of friends, will the Dom/me introduce you to friends in the lifestyle? Are there any? I’m not talking about the ‘friends’ on FetLife. That might be just a collection of names that seems to establish credibility, but has no basis in reality. I’m talking about people that they have interacted with. How they treat other Dom/mes and subs on a casual basis will reflect on how they will treat you once that “new sub smell” wears off.Aside from his/her own friends, is the Dom/me willing to let you go to munches to form relationships in the community? Will they only let you go with him or her, or do they tell you can only go when they feels you are ready? Munches are an important part of the community. They are a safe place where you can ask questions, receive various (and sometimes conflicting) opinions, and meet people with whom you may interact for the rest of your time in the lifestyle. They may legitimately want to be present with you in order to teach you protocol and ease your way into the lifestyle. After all, most Dom/mes care deeply about teaching their subs but if they continually tells you are not ready, and doesn’t do any training to get you there, consider this a bright red flag!Isolation from the community can occur as with munches, with forbidding you to join lists, or forbidding you to talk to other subs. Many Dom/mes will deny permission to talk to other Dom/mes due to protocol issues, but most have no problems encouraging communication with subs. Many experienced subs love to mentor new subs, and love to be asked questions and talk about their experiences. That should be a relationship that the Dom/me encourages, although they may want to be copied on the emails. A caring Dom/me will not limit your questions, but just monitor them so any concerns that may arise can be addressed.As a new sub, you should gather as much information as you can to make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to form a relationship with this Dom/me. Most Dom’s rule is “Protect the toy” not “Isolate the toy”. As far as I am concerned you are performing your duty as a submissive by developing relationships within the kink community, asking questions, and making sure you are entering a safe and healthy relationship.NEXT WEEK’S AGENDAWe will wrap up the three part series. In Part 3, we will examine warning signs in training, and abuse vs BDSM.In the meantime be sure to checkout our site kuldrinskrypt.com and while you’re there click on the support us to find out how to receive a Kuldrin’s Krypt t-shirt or hoodie. Also, don’t forget about kuldrinskrypt.com/shop It’s our amazon affiliate store where we tryout fun toys, books and other things...if we like it we add it there.Contact info: Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Outro: This has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery. We'd like to welcome Audible as a new sponsor! CLICK HERE to get a free audio book and a 30 day free trial! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Audible Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Audience Demographic Survey (Please take a moment to respond) Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

A beginner's guide to understanding BDSM.  This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism.  We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (and how it can help you find your own inner freak). Show Website:  SexualDarkAge.com