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Send us a textWomen struggle with porn too.Have you ever experienced the fear and shame that follows the vortex of graphic movies, erotica, promiscuity, or porn sites? You may think you're alone and feel like hiding. But you're not alone—and there is hope and healing.We are all sexually broken. And we are all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. The great joy and passion of Dr. Joy Skarka is calling women to God's gracious power of redemption. Today we're chatting about her new book, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy. For more on God's design for sex and purity check out, Sex, Purity, and the Longings of a Girl's Heart: Discovering the Beauty and Freedom of God-Defined SexualitySupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Joy's exposure to p*rn in fifth grade and a traumatic college experience created a burden and contributed to trapping her in a cycle of shame. But through God's grace, Joy discovered a path to freedom and healing. Today, Joy opens up about overcoming shame and destructive habits, addressing the lack of conversation around women's struggles with pornography within church communities. Her insights, drawn from surveying over 1,000 Christian women, reveal how understanding God's design for sexuality and fostering intimacy with Him and a supportive community can lead to profound transformation. Find her on Instagram @JoySkarka. The book, "Her Freedom Journey" is available on Amazon (affiliate link) Also mentioned in this episode: Good Pictures, Bad Pictures by Kristen Jensen God, Sex and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery Authentic Intimacy (ministry) Birds_Bees on Instagram Java With Juli podcast Avid Readers of Christian Fiction on Facebook Other podcasts on this topic: #187 Overcoming Shame with Teresa Whiting #184 Faith in Crisis: Confronting a Partner's Pornography Addiction with Jody Allen #156 Resilient, Renewed, Remade with Ruth Hovsepian

#136: In this episode, Kim and Leah welcome Dr. Joy Skarka, author of Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy. They discuss the journey of freedom for those struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors. They explore Dr. Joy's personal freedom journey, her new book, and the growing issue of pornography among women. The conversation emphasizes the damaging effects of pornography, the misconception that marriage will solve sexual struggles, and the spiritual aspects of sexuality. Listeners are encouraged to steward their sexual desires and seek support from trusted mentors. Dr. Joy offers hope and practical advice for women navigating these challenges, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles. Introduction to Sexuality and Relationships Dr. Joy's Journey and Book Insights Understanding Sexuality and Purity The Growing Issue of Pornography Among Women The Damaging Effects of Pornography The Misconception of Marriage as a Solution The Spiritual Aspect of Sexuality Stewarding Sexual Desires Practical Tips for Managing Sexual Urges Navigating Conversations About Pornography Encouragement for Women Struggling with Pornography Final Thoughts and Words of Hope Resources mentioned in this episode: Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn & Shame to Authentic Intimacy, Dr. Joy Skarka & Dr. Juli Slattery Sex and the Single Girl, Dr. Juli Slattery Rethinking Sexuality, Dr. Juli Slattery authenticintimacy.com Joy's Instagram: @joyskarka @skarkafamily Related Episodes: #48 What Porn Doesn't Tell You (w/Joy Skarka) #77 Single With a Sex Drive, Part 1 (w/Joy Skarka) For more information about the podcast and the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit ⁠www.kimvollendorf.com⁠. To learn more about StuMo, visit https://www.stumo.org/ To learn more about Downline, visit https://www.downlinememphis.com/emerging-leaders To fill out an interest form for Downline, visit https://www.downlinememphis.com/emerging-leaders-interest-form For video clips from this episode, please visit our instagram page ⁠@sixonesis⁠ Thanks for listening!

Do you struggle with viewing pornography or sexual brokenness? In this episode, Allie Marie Smith and Dr. Joy Skarka discuss the sensitive and serious topic of pornography addiction. They highlight the prevalence of pornography among women and the various forms it takes, such as online videos, TV shows, movies, and erotica. Dr. Skarka shares her personal story of finding freedom from pornography addiction and emphasizes the importance of discovering one's identity in Christ and seeking support from a safe Christian woman. They also address the lies women can believe about sexuality and the need to break free from them. The episode concludes with a discussion of Dr. Skarka's book, 'Her Freedom Journey,' and information about her ministry, Authentic Intimacy.   Visit our Website Join our online community   Get Allie's Book: “Wonderfully Made: Discover the Identity, Love, and Worth You Were Created For”   Shownotes direct link  

On today's episode, I get to have a raw and powerful conversation with Joy Skarka, Director of Discipleship at Authentic Intimacy, about turning pain into passion and the journey to healing and freedom. Joy's story is one that many women can relate to but few speak openly about. She shares how, after being sexually assaulted on her third day of college, she was plunged into a season of pain, isolation, and shame. Like so many, she turned to the internet for answers about sex and sexuality, which led to a secret addiction to pornography—a coping mechanism that left her feeling more alone and trapped. But Joy didn't stay in the dark. She began to share her story, and to her surprise, women around her began to open up too. This episode dives deep into the issues of sexual brokenness, shame, and the way pornography affects women—a problem that is far more prevalent than many realize. Joy shares her anchor verse, Galatians 5:1: “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.” Her message is clear: no one is too far gone for forgiveness, and healing begins when we bring our struggles into the light. It's not about behavior modification—it's about heart transformation through Jesus. Joy talks about the importance of unpacking the root issues that drive us to unhealthy coping mechanisms and finding our identity in Christ. True intimacy can only be restored when we develop a deep, personal relationship with God. In this conversation, Joy reminds us that life is a battle, but as we continue to surrender our pain and shame to God, we can find freedom and healthier ways to cope. Bio: Dr. Joy Skarka, doctoral graduate from Dallas Theological Seminary, is the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy. Joy leads online groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior and trains leaders to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. Joy has a published dissertation, "Sexual Shame in Women and How to Experience Freedom," and a published chapter in Sanctified Sexuality: Valuing Sex in an Oversexed World and is the co-author of Her Freedom Journey.    Anchor Verse: Galatians 5:1 Connect with Joy: Website: www.JoySkarka.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/joyskarka  Upcoming Conference: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/reclaim2024/ ***We love hearing from our listeners! Sharing your thoughts through reviews is a fantastic way to be a part of our podcast family and contribute to the conversation. If you've enjoyed our podcast, leaving a review is quick and easy! Just head to Apple podcasts or wherever you are tuning in and share your thoughts. Your feedback makes a big difference!***

In this episode, I have back on the program our delightful friend and colleague Dr. Joy Skarka to talk about her new book, "Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy," co-authored with Dr. Juli Slattery. Joy shares her personal journey and the mission of Authentic Intimacy, a ministry dedicated to helping individuals reclaim God's design for sexuality. We discuss the unique challenges women face with pornography, the importance of understanding God's unconditional love, and the journey toward sexual integrity – which emphasizes the power of truth, engaging community, and sharing one's story to overcome shame and find lifelong healing.For more info about Joy, the book, and the ministry, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion of the book "Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy."Exploration of the challenges women face regarding pornography.The role of the Authentic Intimacy ministry in addressing issues of sexuality and intimacy.Personal stories of healing from shame, addiction, and abuse.The importance of understanding God's love and sexual integrity.The concept of sexual integrity and its integration with spiritual identity.The journey of healing as a continuous process rather than a destination.The impact of shame and identity on women's struggles with pornography.Practical tools for combating lies and embracing truth through scripture.Encouragement to share personal stories as a means of healing and breaking free from shame.More Resources:Her Freedom Journey* by Dr. Joy Skarka and Dr. Juli SlatteryHer Freedom Journey online book studySheRecovery.comRelated Podcasts:Freedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and AbuseNew Research on Why Women View PornGod's Grace for Women Struggling with Porn and Sexual Shame*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.

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When you think of pornography and its effects on the culture, most immediately think of men and their struggles. Dr. Joy Skarka says women also face the fear and shame from the cycle of erotica, promiscuity, and porn sites. How can a woman begin to break the lure of sexual sin? Don't miss the hope and freedom available! Hear the encouragement on Chris Fabry Live.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Christian women, young and old, often struggle with a disconnect between what their intellect may know is "right" about sexuality, God, and relationships, and what their own experience has been. Pornography or other ungodly sexual behaviors only add to their sexual shame and feeling of being stuck. On this episode Dr. Carol talks with Dr. Joy Skarka, director of discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, about the journey God invites every woman into of discovering the full love of God, how to grow into freedom from sexual shame regardless of your story, and the experience of true intimacy as God originally intended.  Connect with Joy Skarka on her website, Facebook, X, or Instagram. Find Joy's book Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy      Get your free download from Dr. Carol:   Your Prescription for Sexual Healing – God's Way My book and related resources: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories Around God, Love, and Relationships Dr. Carol enjoys hearing from you. You can leave a confidential message here.

In today’s world of graphic media and easy access to porn, women, as well as men, struggle with sexual temptations.  Do you feel trapped in the battle for purity?  Find hope as Dr. Joy Skarka shares her story and helps women find freedom from the cycle of sexual sin and shame. It begins with knowing God’s love for you!  EQUIPPERS - Our next EQUIPPER WEBINAR is Thursday, August 22!  REGISTRATION DETAILS ARE IN YOUR E-MAIL INBOX.  Not an Equipper and want to attend?   Become an Equipper Today

In this episode I have the absolute pleasure of talking to Dr. Joy Skarka.  Joy is a leader in helping women find freedom and healing from sexual shame with her doctoral work, leading seminars and workshops with Authentic Intimacy, and now is the author of a new book on the topic, Her Freedom Journey—a guide out of porn and shame to authentic intimacy.  In her book, Joy bravely shares her own journey from addiction to freedom. She educates her readers on the way porn use fuels harm, addiction and shame. But she doesn't leave us there. Instead, she offers so much help and hope to her readers who might be struggling with these issues themselves or want to help someone who is. This book is going to be such an incredible resource to many. It is going to change lives. This episode is full of so many practical tips, encouragement and hope. I am truly honored to introduce you to Dr. Joy today. And I am so proud to share this conversation with you.  Some helpful links from today's episode: Get resources from Dr. Joy's website here Follow Dr. Joy on Instagram here Get Dr. Joy's book, Her Freedom Journey, here Get more resources on all kinds of sexual issues from Authentic Intimacy here Hopeful bible verse: “Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4  Some favorite quotes from today's episode:  *“Look at all that God has done!” Dr. Joy Skarka *“Girls use porn too. And girls need to be protected from porn too.” Greta Eskridge *”If we don't talk about it for women and they're secretly struggling, there is just so much more shame and so many more problems down the line.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”Do you know what gave me the courage? Someone else went first. I heard a courageous woman share her story at a college student women's event. Until that moment, I had never heard a woman admit she struggled with sexual sin. For the first time I realized I wasn't alone and I wasn't a total freak for being a woman who struggled with sexual sin.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”Really what I needed was healthier coping mechanisms.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”Not only is sexual sin addictive, but it is damaging to your brain. It reconstructs your neurological pathways and bonds you to the images because God created you for intimacy.” Dr. Joy Skarka *There is more to it than ‘just stop watching porn'. You have to heal your brain and your body too.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”You were not created for sex, but for intimacy.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”God created us with a longing to be loved and to have intimacy that can only be met through Him. So if we're turning to these fake things that are trying to give us fake intimacy, we're always going to come up short and continue to have a longing for more.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”By delighting in Him, you find something that doesn't just numb the pain, but heals the pain. That's what God does.” Greta Eskridge *”The good news is this: we worship a God who redeems and restores our broken sexuality. Not only does God restore the beauty from ashes, but He also restores and renews our brains. We can have hope that even if we have been negatively affected by porn, we can be healed!” Dr. Joy Skarka *”We worship a God who can restore anything and that's our hope. God's power and His healing and His miracles can restore and redeem anybody's brains.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”The porn industry is purposely creating porn for women. They have a whole branded type of porn, they call it ‘romance porn'. They also have porn to draw in kids because they know if they capture them they're going to stay with us and be our clients for decades.” Dr. Joy Skarka *”Satan wants us to stay in that place of shame. He wants us to feel afraid and to feel like we're cancelled because of the mistakes of our past, the decisions we made, the things that happened to us, even the things that aren't our fault. He wants us to hide in that shame. And he wants us to stay quiet. But God can use our story when we bring it into the light.” Greta Eskridge *”The enemy thrives in the darkness and he thrives in the shame. But if we bring it into the light, that's where the healing happens.” Dr. Joy Skarka 

We’re all sexually broken. And we’re all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. Dr. Joy Skarka joins us to explore how modern behaviors like porn, sexting, and casual hookups can lead to feelings of shame and isolation. In her new book, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, Joy shares her personal story and offers practical advice grounded in biblical wisdom. She’s here to guide us through breaking free from these struggles and finding true intimacy through a relationship with Jesus. If you’ve struggled running from God instead of to Him with your struggle, if you’ve believed the lie that marriage will fix your sexual addiction, if you’re raising kids today and don’t know how to address the conversation of sexuality, or if you are addicted to porn and in need of hope, this conversation is for you. Also, Shawna’s back from Australia! On her long journey she learned that, though we’re all on our own individual journey through life, we can enjoy the journey more if we experience it in community with others. She also learned that a good set of earplugs can be the gateway to a good nap, no matter what’s going on around you. She shares how, in life, there is a way to find rest for your soul, even in the midst of the chaos.Support the show: https://give.moodyradio.org/fall-share?v=def&appeal=MRWM&_gl=1%2a142i9we%2a_ga%2aNTE4MTE5MmUtY2U1Yy00YmQ3LWU4MmUtNjEwYTQ5YzAyODRj%2a_ga_4WH1937046%2aMTY5NTExODEwMS4yOTkuMC4xNjk1MTE4MTAxLjYwLjAuMA..&_ga=2.197426156.215784306.1695059984-1182841406.166859587See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Consuming pornography is not exclusive to men. Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka believe that God created sexual desire for a purpose and that pornography misuses and mispresents the gift of sex. In their new book, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, Juli and Joy offer counsel to women who want to break free from sin, shame, and bondage. Learn more at moodybooks.org.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How can Christians, especially Christian leaders, help women who struggle with porn? Dr. Joy Skarka joins Dr. Kay Daigle to share her personal experience and knowledge to help Christians understand how to care well for women caught up in porn. Joy provides a wealth of information and helpful suggestions for both Christian women who influence or lead other women and also parents who desire to protect their children. You can connect to the video version if you prefer. Don't miss the helpful resources found below or download the resource file. Feel free to contact BOW at kay@beyondordinarywomen.org.  Joy has previously joined BOW to discuss Recognizing Rape Culture which is available as both a video and podcast episode. Podcast Topics 0:31 Introducing Joy Skarka and her ministry 1:54 Joy's story 3:40 A growing problem for women 6:03 How Christian women deal with this struggle 7:22 How porn impacts women 9:15 How should leaders begin conversations on this topic? 14:41 Preparing in advance to help someone 16:09 Helpful resources for parents 18:51 Resources for adults 19:19 How the struggle is different for men & women 21:59 Shame from watching porn 23:00 Discipling those caught up in porn 29:45 Recovery is a journey 30:32 Understand God's design for sexuality 31:52 Any woman can help another woman 33:31 What resources does your ministry offer? Joy Skarka's Suggested Resources: Joy Skarka, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy SHE Recovery Sexual Discipleship Authentic Intimacy resources on freedom from sexual sin Pure Desire Ministries Curt Thompson, Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves Websites with Resources For Parents: Birds & Bees Defend Young Minds TranscriptKay >> Welcome to the Beyond Ordinary Women Ministries podcast and video series. Today, our special guest is Dr. Joy Skarka, who is on the Authentic Intimacy Team. She has been doing that since 2020 and she has built there a transformational ministry for women dealing with sexual shame and pornography. So welcome, Joy. We are so delighted that you were able to join us. Joy >> Oh, thank you, Kay. I just love the resources that you're creating, and I'm glad to be here. Kay >> Oh, thank you so much. Joy previously has joined us for a podcast and video on rape culture. So if you missed that, you might want to look back for that. Today, though, we are talking about caring for women struggling with porn. And Joy actually has a book coming out about that. It is going to be called Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy. When does that book come out, Joy? Joy >> Yes, this July, July 2024. How come, Kay, we always get the hard topics on these podcasts, right? Kay >> Yes. Joy >> These are some hard topics that we're covering. Kay >> It really is. And I really wanted to start really by talking about how in the world you got involved in ministering to women who struggle with porn. Joy >> Right. It's not something people normally raise their hand and volunteer and say, hey, I want to talk about porn and helping women. Joy >> You don't see a lot of women talking about it. So I'd love to just share a little bit of my story. And I think to sum it all up, God, took my pain point and made it my passion. He really just brought me to this place where I just had this burning desire to help other women because I couldn't find that help. And so flash back, I was in college and I had just experienced a date rape, which is kind of why we talked about rape culture on the last episode. So this is a follow up to my story there. But I had experienced that trauma and I lacked a sex education, so I had no idea kind of what had happened, what was going on. And so that brought me to Google, which is a bad sex educator. And I started typing in my questions, and that's what led me to pornography.

Women struggle too, and we are all sexually broken. We are all invited to participate in the love, forgiveness, and healing of Jesus. You may think you're alone and feel like hiding. But you're not alone—and there is hope and healing. Friday on Mornings with Eric and Brigitte, Dr. Joy Skarka, co-author of the new book, Her Freedom Journey, joins us to call all women to God's gracious power of redemption. Both Joy and co-author Juli Slattery believe women will discover freedom from pornography by experiencing the love of God as they address underlying wounds and connect through authentic community.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka have a transparent conversation about freedom from porn and their book Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy. Dr. Joy Skarka is passionate about creating spaces to free women from sexual shame. Joy is the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where she leads online small groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior. She coaches and teaches Christian leaders how to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. Joy attended college at the University of South Florida and graduated in 2014 with a BA in relational communications. In 2017, Joy graduated from Dallas Theological Seminary (DTS) with a MA in Christian Education. In 2021, she graduated with her Doctorate degree in Educational Ministry from DTS. In 2020, Joy joined Authentic Intimacy to serve as the director of discipleship. Joy married her husband Zack in 2017, and they live in Florida. Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author, speaker, and the president/co-founder of Authentic Intimacy. Juli earned her college degree at Wheaton College, an MA in psychology from Biola University, and an MS and a Doctorate degree in Clinical Psychology from Florida Institute of Technology. From 2008-2012, Dr. Slattery served at Focus on the Family writing, teaching, and co-hosting the Focus on the Family Broadcast. In 2012, she left Focus on the Family to start Authentic Intimacy, a ministry devoted to reclaiming God’s design for sexuality. In 2020, Juli launched SexualDiscipleship.com, a platform designed to help Christian leaders navigate sexual issues and questions with gospel-centered truth. Juli is the host of the weekly podcast “Java with Juli." Juli and her husband Mike are the parents of 3 sons; they live in Akron, Ohio.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Struggles with pornography are incredibly common within the Church, and the problem isn't going to go away on its own. What can churches do to be an environment where it is safe for congregants and leaders to admit struggles and get the support they need to overcome them? How can those going into ministry receive sufficient discipleship and care so they can heal from past traumas, win the battle, and walk closely and authentically with Jesus? Sam Black, Director of Life Change Education at Covenant Eyes, and author of “The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It”, joins Juli to discuss what the church at large can do to address the issue of pornography. Guest: Sam Black Website: thehealingchurch.com Website: covenanteyes.com App: The Victory App Instagram: @covenant.eyes Book: “The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It” by Sam Black Book: “Her Freedom Journey” by Dr. Joy Skarka and Dr. Juli Slattery Get your free 5-day guide to finding freedom from sexual sin! Check out Authentic Intimacy's partner ministry, Sexual Discipleship®!     Be Broken Ministries Pure Desire Samson Society SheRecovery   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

Juli Slattery & Joy Skarka join us today for a candid conversation about women and their struggle with porn. If you struggle, this episode will help. But if you don't, listen anyway so that you can be there to support fellow women trying to break free. And be sure to check out the new resource, Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out Of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy, cowritten by Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Joy Skarka Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap, your go-to site for natural, quality bath and skin care products! And check out their special deal just for our listeners: free aloe gel with any order using coupon code FCWALOE. (Put gel in your cart, use the code, and the price for that will go to zero.) From the Bible It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1 I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be my people, and I will be their God. Ezekiel 11:19–20 The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me,     because the Lord has anointed me     to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted,     to proclaim freedom for the captives     and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor     and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn,     and provide for those who grieve in Zion— to bestow on them a crown of beauty     instead of ashes, the oil of joy     instead of mourning, and a garment of praise     instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness,     a planting of the Lord     for the display of his splendor. Isaiah 61:1–3 Resources Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy by Dr. Juli Slattery & Dr. Joy Skarka Joy Skarka – Creating Spaces to Set Christian Women Free from Porn and Sexual Shame Authentic Intimacy - Juli Slattery Fight the New Drug The First Time I Saw Porn - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 3: 50 Shades of Here-We-Go-Again Episode 154: Why We're Against Porn and Erotica Pulling Back the Shades: Erotica, Intimacy, and the Longings of a Woman's Heart by Dannah Gresh & Dr. Juli Slattery Why Do Women Pose for Porn? - Hot, Holy & Humorous What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Supernatural Sex: Spiritual Dimension of Libido for Low-Drive Wives • Bonny's Oysterbed7 (about yada') Episode 183: What Does God Have to Do with Our Sex Life Sex and the Single Girl by Dr. Juli Slattery, Abby Ludvigson & Chelsea Nugteren Talking to Your Kids about Sex: No More One & Done - Hot, Holy & Humorous Start Talking to Your Kids about Sex by Julia Sandusky Who I Am in Christ by Neil T. Anderson Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we'd appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker 

Noah has a conversation with Dr. Joy Skarka about her journey of overcoming pornography, as well as the stigma and shame that it came with. Joy is on staff at Authentic Intimacy, which provides a multitude of resources to help men, women, and couples overcome unwanted sexual behavior and find healing. She and Dr. Juli Slattery's new book Her Freedom Journey: A Guide Out of Porn and Shame to Authentic Intimacy is available on July 2nd, 2024. Be sure to pick up your copy today.    Dr. Joy Skarka is the Authentic Intimacy Program Manager and is on the front lines of serving the Authentic Intimacy member community. Joy joined the Authentic Intimacy team in 2020 and has built a transformational ministry for women who struggle with sexual shame and pornography. (Read Joy's blogs here.)    Joy is passionate about creating spaces to free women from sexual shame and leads online small groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior. She coaches and teaches Christian leaders how to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. Joy is an Adjunct Professor at Dallas Theological Seminary teaching the course “Sexuality and Ethics”.   You can also watch the podcast episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Z_lgJb6fGmo Flip Side Notes: Join an upcoming Beyond the Battle online group at www.beyondthebattle.net   Support Flip Side sponsor Angry Brew by using promo code FLIP at angrybrew.com or fivelakes.com to pick up some Angry Brew or Chris' Blend coffee at 10% off.   Get a free month of Covenant Eyes at www.covenanteyes.com using promo code BEYOND   Get a free month of Accountable2You keyword accountability: a2u.app/beyond (do not use “www”)   Support the show and get some sweet swag by becoming a patron at www.patreon.com/noahfilipiak – includes exclusive access to email the show and request topics.   Purchase Beyond the Battle and Needed Navigation by Noah Filipiak.

What is rape culture? Dr. Joy Skarka joins Kay Daigle to discuss it and ways to better care for and support victims in the church. Often the church is guilty of supporting rape culture. Joy speaks from her personal experience as well as her study and ministry focus on sexuality with Authentic Intimacy. This is a must-see episode for every disciple of Jesus. You can choose to watch it on video if you prefer. Don't miss the helpful resources found below. Topics: 2:26 - Joy's story 4:01 – Clarification of terminology 5:26 – What is rape culture? 6:40 – Why do women not report rape? 9:51 – Christians often encourage rape culture 12:00 - Pornography's contribution 14:02 - An example from a sermon 15:47 – Women are Jezebels and men can't control themselves – what do we do with that type of thinking? 20:26 – The theology of women taught in our churches affects the handling of sexual abuse claims. 21:46 – What practical steps can a woman in leadership in her church take to care for women who deal with sexual assault? 24:04 - Responding well to a woman who has been raped 26:18 - What can women do about “locker room” talk? 29:15 – Final encouragement Resources: Suggested resources from Joy  Resources for Recognizing Rape Culture (PDF)   Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Juli Slattery We Too: How the Church Can Respond Redemptively to the Sexual Abuse Crisis by Mary DeMuth Interview with Dr. Sandra Glahn, Author of Vindicating the Vixens  Sexual Abuse & the Church with Mary DeMuth 

We all have a story. And, our story informs and shapes our present reality, especially the ways we show up in the most intimate and vulnerable spaces. In this episode, you'll hear a beautifully redemptive story. Kristin Richardson from the Fearless In Love podcast joins to share the journey she and her husband Todd made through the devastation of sexual brokenness.    While pornography is part of Todd's story, there is greater depth behind that sin struggle. Kristin brings insight, understanding and so much wisdom as she shares how the Lord has brought restoration, healing and freedom as they walk in more joy in their marriage today than they could have ever imagined.   About Kristin Richardson: Kristin Richardson has been married to her high school sweetheart, Todd, for 33 years and together they have ministered through “Resurrecting Sexuality” Conferences, RS Workbook studies, mentoring and coaching for the past five years. Through their story, they have experienced the power of the gospel and it has transformed their marriage. They're passionate about sharing the hope of the gospel related to sexuality and the beauty and glory of God‘s design for sex. Kristin and Todd are blessed with three beautiful children plus two children in-loves and a precious grandson.    Currently they share their message through a podcast called Fearless in Love.    If you would like to contact them, please feel free to email fearlessinlovepodcast@gmail.com You can also find Kristin on Instagram @kristin.richardson5 Related Episodes: Pornography & Sexual Shame to Freedom with Joy Skarka, here Transformational Keys to Emotional Connection - Pt. 1 with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, here Stewarding Sexuality: Faithfulness Leading to Fruitfulness, here   Resources Mentioned: Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, Jay Stringer Connection Codes, here   Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry: Let's keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here. You're Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle   Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter  Website Instagram

This episode is sponsored by Forerunner Financial, offering a unique fee-for-service, advice-only approach to helping you prosper with money.How would your life change if your financial state was under control and your financial future was planned out? Get advice for your financial planning at Forerunner Financial by signing up for a free trial at Forerunner Financial @ https://app.forerunnerfinancial.ca/start-discoveryConnect with Forerunner Financial:Instagram - @chrisscheele.fpLinkedin - Chris Scheele QAFP™Facebook - Forerunner Financial Coaching_____________________________________________Welcome to episode #171! This week, Matt and Braden talk with Joy Skarka of Authentic Intimacy about her story of rape and addiction, breaking shame, and embracing God's good design of sexual desire.Joy's rape led to coping in her porn addictionJoy got raped on her third day of university, which led to lots of confusion and pain. She tried to understand what had happened to her by learning about sex on Google. This led her to porn, which turned into her coping mechanism in her anger and confusion regarding her rape. Joy wondered if her rape was her fault and didn't talk to anybody about it or her porn addiction for a long time.Joy got the gift of going secondJoy heard a lady publicly confess her own porn addiction and it was the first time Joy realized that she wasn't alone in her battle. She calls this experience 'the gift of going second' because somebody was willing to open the door for her to be vulnerable and honest about her struggles. Vulnerability is leadership and when we are able to be vulnerable with others, it can lead to lasting freedom in their lives.We all need sexually discipleshipWhen Joy got married, she thought she was more broken than her husband who had never had a porn addiction. She realized that he still had his own journey of working through sexual brokenness and misunderstandings, even though it wasn't strictly an issue with porn. When we've been neglected in the area of healthy and biblical teaching about sex, it can take a long time to unlearn damaging beliefs and re-learn what the Bible really says, but putting the time in to do this work helps break the shame and lies that so often keep us in addiction and self-condemnation.Share this with your friendsWho do you know that can benefit from this podcast and other episodes coming in the future? Share it with them so they can subscribe as well.Ask a questionHave a question you'd like answered live on an episode? Send a voice recording of your question to braden@familylifecanada.com or matt@restoredministries.ca.SubscribeSubscribe on any podcast app to make sure you catch new episodes! Watch the podcast on YouTube here.ResourcesInformation on Authentic IntimacyPure Freedom Community for men 18+Pure Freedom Journey for men and womenBook a Cleansing HourBook a call with one of Restored Ministries' trained coachesHelp for wivesFamilyLife Canada: Resources and events to strengthen your marriageOnline marriage resources (FamilyLife Canada)Covenant Eyes Accountability Software - use promo code RM30 for 30 days freePodcast HostsBRADEN HAFNERBraden is the Regional Director in Alberta for FamilyLife Canada. He has been married for 14 years to his wife Kristen, and they live in Edmonton, Alberta. He is passionate about seeing marriages grow and thrive, and helping couples move to a deeper oneness with one another and with God. FamilyLife Canada has a variety of resources and events to help you and your spouse take your marriage to the next level. See what would benefit you at www.familylifecanada.comMATT CLINEMatt and his wife Louise raise their little guys, David and Oliver, in Edmonton, Alberta. He is honoured to do what he can to tackle the epidemic of pornography and sexual perversion in every way possible. Seeing lives and marriages get free and experience the love of God in profound ways is what drives him every day. He leads Restored Ministries, is a certified speaker and coach for the John Maxwell Team, and formerly played hockey in the WHL and for Hockey Canada. You can visit www.restoredministries.ca.

Got an idea for a guest or topic?  If you would like to share your own story, complete the form on OCF's “Be a Guest” webpage. Alternatively, if you have an idea for a guest or topic I should consider for a future episode of the show, send an email to podcast@ocfusa.org.  Show Notes:  On the heels of several episodes on the topics of pornography and sexuality with CAPT Brent & Nicole Breining, USN (Ret.), Dr. Joy Skarka joins me on the podcast for a similar conversation, except we'll approach this topic from the perspective of single or dating women.   Joy currently serves as the director of discipleship at Authentic Intimacy, a ministry devoted to teaching on God's design for intimacy and sexuality.  Joy discusses the meaning behind and value of a phrase that contains two words we likely wouldn't expect to go together: sexual discipleship. She then shares her own story with pornography addiction and how God turned a source of brokenness, pain, and trauma into a passion through which she helps other women navigate similar struggles. You can connect with Joy by following her on Instagram: @joyskarka.   Check out the various resources mentioned throughout this episode:  Authentic Intimacy, the ministry Joy works for that offers online groups, resources, and more  Java with Juli, Authentic Intimacy's podcast with the ministry's president and co-founder Juli Slattery  Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slattery  The Girl Defined Show: Freedom from Porn & Sexual Struggles for Women with Joy Skarka  As you listen to this conversation with Joy, here are a few questions to ponder in your personal time, with a small group, or with a mentor:  Quoting Juli Slattery's book Rethinking Sexuality, Joy says, “Every sexual question is ultimately a spiritual one.” Do you agree? Why or why not?  How might a lack of education from the church result in a poor or even harmful understanding of sexuality?  Joy talks about how addiction to pornography can start so subtly. What are some ways we can proactively guard against developing such addictions?  If we truly understand that the point of being a Christian is to be made more like Christ, how does that understanding affect our contentment in Him alone, regardless of relationship status, circumstances, etc.?  Who are the trustworthy mentors in your life with whom you can discuss heavy topics like the ones covered in today's episode? 

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A tender, honest conversation as Bonny shares her vulnerable testimony and healing journey through deep betrayal caused by pornography and sex addiction in her marriage. There is tremendous trauma and hurt in a marriage experiencing a death of trust. Bonny speaks into betrayal from a personal and clinical perspective, providing you with understanding, empathy and thoughtful steps to take toward healing for both partners. If betrayal has touched your life, know you are not alone. There is great hope and healing possible, especially with the help of trained professionals and the power of the Holy Spirit.   Connect with Bonny Burns: Bonny Burns works to empower the wife with low sexual interest, little sex drive, and possibly a sexless marriage through science, scripture, and stories. She writes at oysterbed7.com and podcasts at Sex Chat for Christian Wives. You can find her ministry to women who have experienced sexual betrayal at strongwives.com. She earned a Christian Counseling certification (not licensure) in 2015 and in December, 2019, she completed a Bachelor of Science in counseling psychology from Liberty University. She is married to Dave for over 30 years and is a mother to three adult sons.   Mentioned in this episode: Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast Strong Wives Oysterbed7 APSATS Sensate Focus   Related Episodes: Pornography & Sexual Shame to Freedom with Joy Skarka, episode 138 Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, episode 136 Transformational Keys to Emotional Connection with Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, episode 131   You're Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming  a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle   Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music: Spotify Apple Music YouTube Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter  Website Instagram

“God takes our brokenness and turns it into our passion.” Joy Skarka   With vulnerability and authenticity, Joy shares her story which includes sexual trauma that led to a struggle with pornography. As a girl struggling with porn, she felt isolation and carried tremendous shame. Yet, there is help and healing. And, we are never alone in our struggle.   This episode is a rich discussion across many topics including sexuality, discipleship, singleness and pornography, with encouraging theology and an unpacking of our need to be known, loved, and to give and receive love. We all experience some sort of sexual brokeness and are far from the naked and unashamed innocence God created in the garden. Let's walk in more freedom, through vulnerability, and know that God cares about your sexuality.   Mentioned in this episode: The Soul of Shame, Curt Thompson Authentic Intimacy The Birds and the Bees Good Pictures, Bad Pictures   Related Episodes: Body Talks with Kids. Clarity, Confidence and the Critical Need to Shift the Conversation, Episode 96 Body Talks with Kids. Connecting to the Meaning of YOUR Body, Episode 97 Body Talks with Kids. Big Picture Vision, Small Phrases to Create Impact, Episode 98 Body Talks with Kids. Celebrating the Body, Celebrating God, Episode 99   More about Joy Skarka: Joy Skarka is passionate about creating spaces to free women from sexual shame. She serves as Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where she leads online small groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior. She coaches and teaches Christian leaders how to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. I have a published chapter in Sanctified Sexuality: Valuing Sex in an Oversexed World. She is a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary with a MA in Christian Education and jumped right into her doctorate. In 2021, she graduated with her Doctorate degree in Educational Ministry from DTS, focusing on helping women find freedom from sexual shame. You're Invited: Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God's heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God's heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle   Francie is partnered with MyCounselor.Online as a resource for Biblically based counseling, including sex therapy. You'll receive a 25% discount on your first session. Click  here Connect with Francie: Receive Francie's weekly newsletter  Website Instagram

#77: This might be our spiciest episode yet, because we're talking about being single... with a sex drive! Why did God give us sexual desires in singleness if he doesn't want us to act on them? How are we supposed to view our sexuality as a good thing, but pursue purity at the same time? When does a sexual urge become sin? Joy Skarka is here to answer all of our spicy questions! Joy's Instagram AuthenticIntimacy.com Sex and the Single Girl book Clearplay movie filter VidAngel movie filter Note: If you use this link, you get a free month, and so will Kim! Adrienne's Instagram Kim's Instagram Leah's Instagram Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book Learn more about StuMo Related episodes: #48 Joy's other episode #56 Sexuality and Shame #27 Hook-ups Don't Lead to a Better Marriage #8 “I'm Only Looking”

Author and speaker Dr. Joy Pedrow Skarka joins Rebecca Carrell and Liz Rodriguez to share her journey of sexual healing and how to minister to those who struggle.Find more about Dr. Joy Skarka on Facebook at @JoyPedrowSkarka; or at https://www.authenticintimacy.com/?referrer=self If you enjoy the show, would you please consider rating and reviewing Honestly, Though? Those reviews help others find us in the PodUniverse, and we deeply appreciate the love! Also, you can reach out to us personally to join the conversation on the following platforms:Rebecca Carrell: https://www.rebeccacarrell.com/ ; IG - @RebeccaCarrell ; Twitter: @RebeccaACarrell ; FB - Rebecca Ashbrook CarrellLiz Rodriguez: IG: @lizannrodriguez ; FB - Liz Rodriguez - https://www.facebook.com/liz.rodriguez.92775Nika Spaulding: stjudeoakcliff.org ; IG - @NikaAdidas ; Twitter - @NikaAdidas

This is the second episode in this series on pornography, and Shelby is joined this week by Dr. Joy Skarka. Dr. Joy Skarka is passionate about creating spaces to free women from sexual shame. Dr. Joy shares her story of sexual shame and addiction and the path to freedon that she has found in Jesus. Joy is the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where she leads online small groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior. She coaches and teaches Christian leaders how to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. Joy has written numerous online articles, appeared on many podcasts, led workshops, and currently leads online recovery groups. We know that you are going to connect with Joy's honesty and vulnerability and learn from her wisdom on this important topic. Come join us in this conversation on women, pornography addiction and recovery with Dr. Joy Skarka. Note: This episode has a brief mention of sexual assault at 8:54. 3:41 - Joy's background and passion for helping women break free from sexual shame 13:43 - Is pornography just a men's issue? 16:08 - Root issues in use of pornography 19:04 - How the gospel speaks to root issues behind pornography use 22:03 - Is there hope for someone who struggles with pornography? 25:27 - Is it possible to have a fulfilling and flourishing marriage if I've dealt with pornography addiction? 28:32 - The importance of confession in freedom from pornography 30:35 - Overcoming shame related to pornography 44:00 - Encouragement for those who feel stuck in their addiction or struggle with sexual sin Connect with Dr. Joy Skarka https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ https://www.authenticintimacy.com/about-joy-skarka https://sexualdiscipleship.com/ IG: @authenticintimacy IG: @joyskarka Sign up for the brand new Daily Grace Podcast Newsletter and receive the free resource "Scripture for Every Season.” Resources mentioned in this episode: Freedom from Porn Grace Based Recovery Sex and the Single Girl Authentic Intimacy No Stones Covenant Eyes Fight the New Drug Scripture mentioned in this episode: Genesis 3 Romans 7:22-25 Connect with us: Subscribe to Daily Grace: on iOS, go to our Apple podcast page and click subscribe. On Android, click this podcast RSS feed link and choose your podcast app. If needed, you can copy this link directly into your favorite podcast app (like Stitcher or Overcast). Or follow us on Spotify!  We would love it if you took a few minutes to leave us an Apple podcast review to help spread the word about Daily Grace! We want to invite more women into our conversations! Download The Daily Grace app: for iOS, click here to download.  On Android, click here to download. Visit The Daily Grace Co. for beautiful products for the whole family that will equip you on your journey to knowing and loving God more.  Subscribe to The Daily Grace Newsletter and receive free Bible study resources in your inbox.  Like The Daily Grace Co. on Facebook. Follow @dailygracepodcast on Instagram for exclusive podcast content and @thedailygraceco for all things The Daily Grace Co. Engage with our Facebook community, “The Daily Grace Co. Community”.  Read The Daily Grace blog for encouragement throughout the week that is steeped in biblical truths. * Affiliate links used are used where appropriate. Thank you for supporting the products that support the production of this podcast! *  The opinions of guests on the Daily Grace podcast do not represent the opinions of The Daily Grace Co., and we do not necessarily endorse the resources that they recommend or mention on the show. We believe it is valuable to hear from a variety of guests, even if we do not agree in all areas. As always, the statements made by hosts and guests on the show should be tested against God's Word, the only authority on truth.

Are sexuality and spirituality connected? Listen to my conversation with Dr. Joy Skarka as we discuss ways society and The Church has gotten sex wrong and what we can do going forward to bring healing and wholeness to this most vulnerable issue.Dr. Joy Skarka is passionate about creating spaces to free women from sexual shame. Joy is the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where she leads online small groups for women with unwanted sexual behavior. She coaches and teaches Christian leaders how to help women find freedom from sexual shame and pornography. Joy has a published chapter in Sanctified Sexuality: Valuing Sex in an Oversexed World. She has also written numerous online articles, appeared on many podcasts, led workshops, and currently leads online recovery groups.

#48: Our culture encourages us to explore our sexuality through pornography and masturbation. We're told porn will "help" our future marriage as we discover what we enjoy sexually. But, what if that's not true? What if there are some important things that we aren't told about porn? Our guest this week is Joy Skarka. As a young woman, she experienced sexual trauma and turned to porn to process what happened. What began out of curiosity quickly became an addiction. Joy joins us to share her powerful story of healing and freedom, and she exposes the lies that pornography doesn't tell you. She was able to experience sexual freedom, and she has made it her life work to help other women break away from sexual shame. She currently works with Authentic Intimacy. This is a powerful episode you won't want to miss! We hope you'll connect with Joy, Adrienne, and Kim on Instagram, and if you enjoy this episode, please leave us a rating and review!

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Sexual struggles are often portrayed as a "guy only" issue. This is a major disservice to women.  God created both men and women as sexual beings. One is not more sexual than the other. Both struggle with sexual temptation and addiction. Both need the help and hope of the gospel. In today's conversation, Joy Skarka shares her story of date rape in college and how the pain from that experience led her into sexual struggles of her own. Her story is one of healing, freedom and victory. If you desire hope for your own sexuality, this episode is for you. Not Part of the Plan Book Sex, Purity and the Longings of a Girls Heart Book Connect with Joy Freedom From Porn for Women e-book Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/girldefined)

Dan interviewed Joy Skarka from Authentic Intimacy. Joy's story can be described in one word: freedom. She is passionate about creating spaces to free women from shame. Tune in to hear how Joy found freedom from sexual abuse, sexual addiction, and how she navigates painful sex. Joy is the Authentic Intimacy's Director of Discipleship. To learn more about Joy and her work visit Authentic Intimacy.

In Episode 14 of the SheRecovery Podcast, Crystal chats with Dr. Juli Slattery of Authentic Intimacy. In this interview, Juli defines three narratives that build the framework of our sexual lives (for better or for worse): Cultural, Purity, and Spiritual. Juli's passion is to help Christians reclaim God's design for sexuality and leave behind all of the damaging narratives that differ from it. Juli also invites church leaders to better equip themselves to serve through Sexual Discipleship, including how to better disciple singles in the Church. Don't miss this awesome conversation! Dr. Juli Slattery is a clinical psychologist, author and the co-founder of Authentic Intimacy, a ministry dedicated to reclaiming God's design for sexuality. In the summer of 2020, Dr. Slattery launched SexualDiscipleship.com, a platform designed to equip Christian leaders to address sexual issues with gospel-centered truth. In addition to speaking and teaching, she hosts the podcast Java with Juli every Monday, where she and a guest sit down for coffee and honest conversation about relationships, sex, intimacy, and why God cares about our sexuality. She's the author of ten books, including Rethinking Sexuality, Passion Pursuit, and Sex & the Single Girl.  Resources Referenced:FREE VIRTUAL EVENT: Coalition to End Sexual Exploitation Online Global Summit, July 20-24, 2021Authentic IntimacySexual DiscipleshipRethinking SexualityJavi with Juli PodcastThank you for listening to the SheRecovery Podcast - a resource of SheRecovery.com. If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with those who you think will enjoy it too. And be sure to subscribe to never miss a new episode. Visit SheRecovery.com/podcast to access the listener notes for this episode as well as to access our Patreon page. You can show your support of the SheRecovery Podcast and SheRecovery.com by becoming a patron. Patrons receive exclusive content, recovery tools, and even SheRecovery merch that is not found anywhere else. Thank you for your support and we hope you will join us again next week for a new episode of the SheRecovery Podcast. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/sherecovery)

“I had one woman say, ‘I struggle with masturbation.' And she just started crying.  And then she said, ‘I've never said that word out loud.'” In this Java with Juli, Joy Skarka recalls her experiences walking with women struggling with porn, and shares from her own story of addiction to freedom. Despite rising numbers of women using porn and erotica, we still tend to refer to it as a "guy thing." Juli, Joy, and Jonathan Daugherty sit down for a conversation about creating safe places for women to come forward and ask for help. Grab your Java and join us! Guests: Joy Skarka and Jonathan Daugherty (https://2.bebroken.com) Show notes: "3 Things I (Wish I Hadn't) Learned From Pornography" Joy's blog "3 Things to Remember About Sexual Sin & Grace" Joy's blog "3 Things Women Want You To Know About Their Addiction to Porn" Joy's blog "Grace Based Recovery" by Jonathan Daugherty* Java #323: Bye Awkward Side Hugs! Getting Over Our Fear of Opposite-Sex Friendships "Beyond Awkward Side Hugs" by Bronwyn Lea* "Is Homemade Porn Okay In Marriage?" Q&A Video with Jonathan Daugherty Find a Christian counselor near you. Here's what to look for. "What Do I Do With My Sexual Desires?" (Juli's blog) Follow Authentic Intimacy on: Instagram: @authenticintimacy Facebook: @authenticintimacy Twitter: @DrJuliSlattery   *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fees from qualifying purchases.

Despite us being made to believe that porn is mostly a man's issue, many women struggle with porn addiction, which is why I have asked my friend Joy Skarka to chat with us about pornography. Joy serves as the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, where Joy participates in their mission of providing sexual discipleship to Christian women and couples. Like me, Joy is passionate about creating spaces to free women from shame. TRIGGER WARNING: Please be made aware that there is one mention of sexual violence early in our conversation as Joy shares a personal story. If you'd like to skip ahead, you can do that by skipping to the 10 minute mark.   Resources: Blog: 3 Things I (Wish I Hadn't) Learned From Pornography Blog: Experience Freedom From Shame Authentic Intimacy Online Book Studies (next groups open in Sept) Book: Grace Based Recovery, Jonathan Daugherty Book: No Stones: Women Redeemed from Sexual Addiction, Marnie Ferree Connect with Joy on Instagram @JoySkarka.  You can send your sex and sexuality questions to sanctuarywomanpod@gmail.com to be answered in a future Sacred Cliturgy episode or in our e-mail newsletter.  Join us for more sexuality conversations in Christian community on Instagram: @sanctuarywoman. Sign up for the newsletter for more sex education content for Christian women who grew up in purity culture. 

Did you know that studies show 1 in 3 women watch porn at least once a week? But so many women who want to come out of their addiction never get help because they feel so ashamed and outside the "cultural norms." As part III of our series to take the shame out of sex we invited Joy Skarka, Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy and currently pursuing her Doctorate to study how women find freedom from sexual shame. Joy shares about her own journey through porn addiction and how others can find true freedom, explaining how the philosophy of just "doing more, and trying harder" doesn't work with recovery from porn and other unhealthy coping mechanisms. She also shares about a NEW online study for women based on the book she is writing, Women Struggling with Pornography beginning March 5 - April 23, sign up for this or other great studies on the Authentic Intimacy Website.  

Hey, guys! Thanks for joining me again in another episode of the Purpose in Purity Podcast. This week is a little different as I announce my intention to shift my focus in life. As my family and I are moving more intently toward becoming a missionary family in Japan, I can no longer devote what I feel is an adequate amount of attention to you all in our support group. But I'd never leave you hanging! Here in this episode I've asked Joy Skarka, a long-time friend and the Director of Discipleship for Authentic Intimacy, to come and tell us about her ministry and the support groups offered therein. Accountability has always gone hand-in-hand with having a good support system. At Authentic Intimacy, Joy and other mentors strive to create a safe place where women can talk about sexuality from a biblical perspective. Join us as we discuss what all is offered at Authentic Intimacy and how you can benefit from becoming a member!

Ever feel like your sexual desires are too much or you (or God)  to handle as a Jesus-loving gal? Find encouragement as Joy Skarka and I discuss healing from sexual shame and healing from experiences of sexual trauma. By the end of our time together, you'll have some practical guidance on seeking freedom and hope right where you presently are in your struggle.