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Star Citizen's performance is rough right now, but the development continues with the release of the Gatac Railen. Alien week brings 2 new ships this year, and with aliens finally taking part in the game, I brought in The Astro Historian to talk about the different ways aliens are already, and will be changing the game in the future. We also take some time to talk about the state of things, cause ya know…Today's Guests: @TheAstroHistorian YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UC0hbWxc-rjSOVenosHXQ5bw YouTube 2: https://www.youtube.com/@UC9SD8oWTHB5U1S4769RxZ4Q Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/TheAstroPubToC:00:00 Introductions03:00 Aliens in Star Citizen/Squadron 4226:30 Is The Gatac Railen Worth it?38:00 Is This All Just Lore?47:10 Another Alien Ships?51:30 Is This Ship Going to Be Broken?57:20 Who Are The Kr'Thak?01:03:00 What's The Plan For Star Citizen's Future?01:25:00 Star Citizen Lore01:33:15 Fun Alien Facts01:58:00 What's Happening To This Company?02:07:50 Prediction TimeSupport This Podcast:Patreon Paypal Ko-FiFollow Space Tomato on social media:Website Youtube My Other YoutubeInstagram Twitter Facebook Discord
Authors in this issue: Gabriel Benjiman — From Good to Very Good: Infusing Mission and Practice with Social Responsibility Christian Sarmiento — Born in Adam, Made New in Christ: What It Means to Be Human, to Be Broken, and to Be Made Holy T. Scott Daniels — From One Degree of Glory to Another: The Spirit's Work of Restoring God's Image in Us Sam Barber — The Image Beneath the Marks: Sin's Distortion, Christ's Revelation, and the Spirit's Renewal & Made to Love Carla Sunberg — Male and Female: The Shared Image of God & A Humbling Journey Jorge Julca — Becoming What We Were Made to Be: How God's Image Shapes Our Identity, Our Worship, and Our Witness Fili Chambo — Holy Regard: Seeing Others through the Image of God T. A. Noble — Christ: The Image of God: Understanding Humanity's Identity through Christ, the True and Eternal Image
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. DEEP & WIDE: Please help us reach our mid-year fundraising goal of $77K by July 31st. No gift is too small!Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Carol Tanksley to explore intimacy and sexuality for single Christians—a topic the church often overlooks. Drawing from her own journey through 40+ years of singleness, marriage, and widowhood, Carol unpacks the difference between sex and intimacy, how Jesus modeled deep connection without sexual activity, and how singles can honor God with their desires. We also tackle harmful church misconceptions, the importance of healthy touch, and practical wisdom for navigating boundaries. Carol leaves us with three powerful principles: stay clean, stay connected, stay consecrated.To learn more about Carol and her ministry, visit DrCarolMinistries.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Discussion on intimacy and sexuality for single Christians.Distinction between sex and intimacy.Emotional and physical intimacy needs beyond sexual activity.Challenges faced by single Christians regarding intimacy and sexuality.Misconceptions within church culture about singleness and sexuality.The role of the church in supporting single adults.Practical advice for singles to steward their sexuality and intimacy.Importance of non-sexual physical touch and healthy friendships.Addressing shame and regret over past sexual choices.Encouragement for singles to find purpose and connection beyond sexual relationships.More Resources:Sexpectations online courseSexpectations* (book) by Dr. Carol TanksleySex & Anxiety online courseRelated Podcasts:Being a Single, Sexual ManExploring the Heart of Sexuality with Dr. Carol TanksleyWhat Are Your Sexpectations?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of the Family Time segment,* I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, Director of our Family Care ministry to explore the sixth critical conversation in our series: "Leveraging Your Story." Norma and I discuss how parents can wisely and humbly share their personal testimonies with their children to build trust and connection around sexuality.We cover practical tips on age-appropriate sharing, avoiding oversharing, and keeping God's redemptive power at the center of the conversation. Norma also shares eye-opening survey results revealing how fear keeps both parents and teens from opening up with each other.To enroll in our free Critical Conversations online course, visit PureLifeAcademy.org.For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.*Family Time episodes are short, practical conversations to help parents feel more confident and competent in raising kids according to God's design, even in a sex-saturated culture.Topics Covered in this Episode: Importance of discussing sexuality from a Christian perspective with children.Navigating a hyper-sexualized culture and its impact on children.Overview of the six critical conversations in family care ministry.Focus on the sixth conversation: "Leveraging Your Story."Encouragement for parents to share personal stories and testimonies with their children.Building trust, connection, and credibility through vulnerability.Importance of age-appropriate sharing and maintaining boundaries.Addressing the fear and isolation that can exist between parents and teens regarding discussions about sex.Emphasizing God's redemptive power in personal stories.Resources and practical tips for parents to facilitate these conversations effectively.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Father-Son Accountability* by John FortGirl Talk by Ashley JamesonFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Karla Downing to tackle one of the most challenging topics in marriage — recovering from sexual betrayal. Karla breaks down how fear and anxiety affect both partners after betrayal, explaining the push-and-pull patterns of hyper and hypo-reactivity that can make healing so difficult. She offers practical, compassionate steps for couples to identify and manage their fears, rebuild trust, and communicate more openly. We also explore how leaning on Christ together can serve as a steady anchor throughout the healing journey. To learn more about Karla and her resources, visit ChangeMyRelationship.com. Karla also provided us with a handout for today's podcast. You can access it at Bebroken.org/anxietyhandout.Topics Covered in this Episode: The impact of sexual betrayal on couples' relationships.Common fears and anxieties experienced by both spouses after betrayal.The emotional dynamics of hypo-reactivity and hyper-reactivity in relationships.The importance of recognizing and managing fears in the healing process.The role of faith and trust in God during recovery from betrayal.The effects of fear of rejection and loss on both partners.Communication strategies for expressing fears and emotions.Practical steps for couples to handle their fears and promote healing.The significance of awareness in identifying and addressing fears.Resources available for couples seeking support and guidance in healing relationships.More Resources:10 Relationship-Changing PrinciplesSelf-Esteem QuizChange My Relationship* by Karla DowningRelated Podcasts:8 Practical Steps of ForgivenessHelping Men Understand a Woman's Grief ProcessHow Couples Can Navigate the "Messy Middle" After Betrayal Trauma*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I sit down with Dr. Eddie Capparucci to explore emotional regulation as the cornerstone of addiction recovery. Dr. Eddie explains the "window of tolerance," how unresolved childhood trauma drives addictive behaviors, and why true recovery goes beyond just stopping harmful actions. We discuss how emotional dysregulation connects to relapse, how people of faith can embrace their emotions in healthy ways, and how deeper emotional work transforms relationships, intimacy, and character. Dr. Eddie also shares practical techniques to help listeners begin their emotional healing journey today. To learn more about Dr. Eddie and his inner child recovery model, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com or email innerchildmodel@gmail.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of emotional regulation in addiction recoveryDefinition and explanation of the "window of tolerance"Connection between emotional dysregulation and addictive behaviorsRole of unresolved childhood trauma in emotional dysregulationMisconceptions about emotions, particularly among people of faithPractical strategies for emotional regulation in real-time situationsImpact of emotional regulation on intimacy and empathy in relationshipsTransformation of character through deeper emotional work in recoveryDifferences between behavior change and emotional work in recovery outcomesTechniques and resources for practicing emotional regulation skillsMore Resources:Going Deeper* by Eddie CapparucciGoing Deeper for Women* by Eddie CapparucciOther books* by Dr. Eddie CapparucciRelated Podcasts:Going Deeper: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Sex AddictionGoing Deeper for Women: How Your Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex AddictionWhy Building Confidence is Important to Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple and SpotifyFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
AlleyCatHowlKing Bee Buzz Hosted by Hobo Lobo With some of the best Rockabilly & 1950's Style Rock & Roll(And Whatever the Alley Cat drags in) Featuring thrills and chills by : 1.) All By Myself - Fats Domino [The Complete Hits : 1956-62]2.) Puppy Dog Love – Bloodshot Bill [Thunder and Lightning]3.) Buckeye Road – Dorsey Burnette [The Complete Motown Recordings]4.) Get Rhythm – Johnny Cash And The Tennessee Two [Get Rhythm/I Walk The Line]5.) Itty Bitty Rockabilly - The Boppers [Rockabilly Hoodlums]6.) Hey Memphis – LaVern Baker [Hey Memphis/Voodoo Voodoo]7.) I Feel Rockin' – Eddie & The Backfires [Cat Killer] 8.) Queen Of Diamonds – Roy Brown [Shake 'Em Up Baby]9.) You Lied - Mamie Ree [Caught/You Lied]10.) Diamonds – Black Raven [Raven's Break Up]11.) Round Curves – The Twilight Drifters [10 Lively Melodies]12.) Kissin Never Listen – Bloodshot Bill [So Fed Up!]13.) Jill – Bloodshot Bill [Shook Shake]14.) Cincinatti Lou – Cousin Harley [Blue Smoke...]15.) I'm A King Bee -- Slim Harpo [Sting It Then!]16.) Switchblade – Ichi-Bons [Ich-I-Bon #1]17.) Sunrise Through The Powerlines --- Reverend Horton Heat [Whole New Life]18.) White Lightnin' – Eddie Cochran & Gene Vincent [Rock'n'Roll Memories]19.) Henrietta – Gary Lane and the Mad Lads [What Do You Do When/Henrietta]20.) Come On – Wynn Stewart [Come On/School Bus Affair] 21.) Drug Store Rock'n'Roll --- Janis Martin [My Girl Janis] 22.) Cat - The Sirocco Bros. [Sirocco] 23.) You Had Your Chance – The Desperados [Won't Be Broken] 24.) Gonna Shake This Shack Tonight – Sid King & The Five Strings [Gonna Shake This Shack Tonight] 25.) Forever's Much Too Long - Go Cat Go [Let's Hear It Once Again For...]26.) Moonlight – Bloodshot Bill [So Blue]27.) Let's Elope Baby – Janis Martin [My Girl Janis]28.) Johnny's Jive – Ray Campi [Playin' It Cool] 29.) Don't - – Link Wray [Bullshot] 30.) Rockin' Dog – Reverend Horton Heat [Liquor In The Front] 31.) Done Gone – The Rockin' Bandits [Western Star Rockabillies Vol.3] 32.) Don't Come Knockin' – Ray Campi [The Rollin' Rock Recordings Vol.2] 33.) Brand New Cadillac - -- The Pinstripes [First Kick] 34.) Hillbilly Rock And Roll - -- Voodoo Swing [Keep On Rollin'] 35.) Midnight Cruise - -- The Wise Guyz [Midnight Cruise] 36.) Blueberry Hill - -- Fats Domino [Fats Domino Swings] 37.) I'm Bad - -- Bo Diddley [Go Bo Diddley] 38.) Sweet Temptation - -- Ray Campi [Ray Campi with Friends in Texas] 39.) Goodbye Goodbye - -- Joe Clay [Ducktail] 40.) Walkin' Wanda - -- The Shades [Walkin' Wanda/Rockne Rock] 41.) Rocky Road Blues - -- Gene Vincent & His Blue Caps [The Capitol Years '56-'63] 42.) I'm Sorry, I'm Not Sorry - -- Wild Wax Combo [Jungle Fever] 43.) Lonesome Train Whistle - -- Reverend Horton Heat [The Full Custom Gospel Sounds Of...] AlleyCatHowlKeep A'Howlin'
Message us ANONYMOUSLYIn this special episode, we ditch the dead weight (Ben & Paul) for Guest Hosts Jessica Erin Martin & Shannon Corbeil to take the reins for their mutual choice "Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken," (1991 Dir. Steve Miner - Friday the 13th pts. 2 & 3, Halloween H20, Warlock...wait, what?). This one goes into the deep end on age differences, horse diving vs. horse dancing, based on a true story vs. the true story, era appropriate (timeless) riding attire, and the horrific truth about "Milo & Otis," is revealed yet again. All this, and more "horse girl movie," (Jessica Erin Martin) adventure 4/14!****A member of the “Review Review,” family is in the fight of her life, you can help! - TAP/CLICK Support the show**All episodes contain explicit language**Main Artwork - Ben McFadden'Review Review Intro/Outro' Themes - Jamie Henwood"What Are We Watching?" & "Whatcha Been Doin'?" Themes - Matthew Fosket"Fun Facts" Theme - Chris Olds/Paul RootLead-Ins Edited/Conceptualized by - Ben McFaddenProduced by - Ben McFadden & Paul Root ("Shelf Help" - Paul Root)Podcast/Program Concept - Paul Root
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of Family Time, I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss the fourth of our six “Critical Conversations” for parents: Dealing with Temptation. We explore how to help kids recognize and respond to temptation without shame, emphasizing grace, honesty, and open communication. Norma shares practical tips for building trust, normalizing temptation as a human experience, and equipping children with lifelong skills for integrity. We also talk about common barriers parents face and offer resources to support families on this journey. It's all about progress, not perfection!For all of our Family resources, including our free Critical Conversations online course, visit Bebroken.org/family.Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of discussing sex and sexuality with children in a sexualized culture.Overview of the "Critical Conversations" series for parents.Focus on "Dealing with Temptation" as a key conversation topic.Understanding temptation as a universal human experience.Strategies for parents to help children recognize and resist temptation.The significance of approaching conversations with grace rather than shame.Common barriers parents face in discussing temptation with their children.The role of parental honesty and sharing personal experiences in building trust.Practical exercises for parents to engage children in conversations about temptation.Resources available for parents to further support these discussions.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)Father-Son Accountability* by John FortGirl Talk by Ashley JamesonFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Linda McDonald, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to discuss her personal journey through betrayal, divorce, and healing on her own after her husband's affair. Linda shares how her experience inspired her new book, “Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce,” and introduces the term “betrandoned” to describe the unique, compounded grief of betrayal and abandonment. We explore the stigma, shame, and lack of closure in post-affair divorce, and Linda offers honest, faith-filled advice for finding hope, support, and true forgiveness after deep relational trauma.To learn more about Linda and get her book, visit LindaJMacDonald.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal experiences of betrayal and divorceThe concept of "betrandoned" (betrayal + abandon) and its implicationsCompounded grief associated with infidelity and divorceDifferences in societal perceptions of widows versus divorceesThe stigma and shame surrounding divorce due to infidelityThe lack of rituals and support for those experiencing divorce from infidelityThe process of recovery and the importance of brutal honestyThe role of forgiveness in healing from betrayalThe significance of finding supportive communities and resourcesThe potential for redemption and hope after trauma and lossMore Resources:Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce* by Linda MacDonaldRedeeming the Post-Affair Divorce Workbook*"Betrandoned" YouTube PlaylistRelated Podcasts:Betrayed and Abandoned on Affair Healing PodcastDealing with Divorce, Betrayal Trauma, and HopeIs There Hope After Divorce Due to Sexual Betrayal?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
A lot of people dream about making it in music, but nobody talks about the part where you're sleeping in studios, missing the “grown man” basics, and still showing up to create. My guest Matthew “FU” Day is a music producer and entrepreneur who goes from a tough childhood in Minnesota to getting left in Atlanta, then grinding his way into real rooms with real stakes. We trace how mixed culture, poverty, and hard love shape his mindset, and why he decides to stop chasing the mic and become the person building the records instead.We get practical about what a music producer actually does: not just making beats, but shaping the full sound, guiding artists, working with engineers, and acting as final quality control before the song hits Spotify, Apple Music, radio, and playlists. FU also breaks down the music industry business that too many creators ignore, including publishing, leverage, royalties, and why someone can have massive streaming numbers and still be broke. If you're a producer, artist, engineer, or manager trying to build a sustainable career, this is the part that can save you years.We also talk about relationships and integrity: why “guest of a guest” energy can ruin a session, why learning people matters more than constant asks, and how golf becomes a crash course in honesty and character. FU closes with mindset and routine, faith, reading, training, and a plan of attack that keeps you moving when life gets heavy. Subscribe to Can't Be Broken, share this with someone chasing a creative path, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway: what's one change you'll make this week?
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I welcome back Kristin Cary to explore the mind-body connection, especially how our bodies respond to trauma and betrayal. Kristin shares insights from her ministry, Living Truth, explaining how God designed our nervous systems to protect us through natural responses like fight, flight, or freeze. We discuss the importance of compassion over shame, practical grounding techniques (like the butterfly hug; even walking or jogging), and the vital role of community in healing. Kristin encourages us to honor our bodies as God's creation and to approach trauma recovery with patience, curiosity, and faith.To learn more about Kristin and her ministry, visit Living-Truth.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:The mind-body connection and its relevance to trauma.Physiological responses to trauma, including the activation of the vagus nerve and the release of stress hormones.The fight, flight, or freeze responses as natural protective mechanisms.The impact of betrayal trauma on individuals, particularly betrayed spouses.The importance of reframing bodily trauma responses as positive warning systems rather than signs of weakness.The experience of shame among Christians regarding trauma responses and faith.The significance of understanding the body's signals and their role in emotional and spiritual health.Grounding techniques and self-soothing methods to regulate the nervous system.The role of community and relational support in healing from trauma.The necessity of practicing regulation strategies in calm states to prepare for stressful situations.More Resources:Women in the BattleWives Care Online GroupsGoing Deeper for Betrayed Partners* by Eddie & Teri CapparucciRelated Podcasts:The Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingEmotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesOnline Care Groups for Wives Facing Betrayal Trauma*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes, AKA "Doctor Marriage," to explore the journey of awakening from addiction. Together, we discuss how addiction numbs pain and stunts emotional and spiritual growth, and why facing our pain—rather than running from it—is key to healing. Stephen shares personal insights about slowing down, self-reflection, and finding freedom in Christ. If you're fighting an addiction, we encourage you to embrace courage, seek support, and trust God's grace as you move from darkness and disconnection into light, connection, and true emotional freedom.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Awakening from addiction and its emotional and spiritual dimensions.The role of addiction as a form of numbness and escape from pain.The impact of addiction on emotional growth and personal relationships.The importance of facing pain rather than avoiding it through addiction.The connection between childhood wounds and the onset of addiction.The process of self-examination and slowing down to confront personal pain.The significance of community, accountability, and spiritual support in recovery.The concept of courage in the face of fear and the journey of healing.The ongoing nature of awakening and spiritual growth beyond initial recovery.The hope and possibility of healing through faith and honest self-reflection.More Resources:Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for Men40 Days of Purity online courseGrace-Based Recovery* by Jonathan DaughertyRelated Podcasts:Inviting Men to Wake Up Emotionally and SpirituallyMaxims that Help Us Go Beyond Sobriety in RecoveryAre You on an Emotional and Spiritual Growth Mission?*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I sit down with Mary DeMuth, author of Restory Your Life, to talk about her powerful journey from childhood trauma and sexual abuse to healing and restoration through faith in Jesus. Mary shares how storytelling, community, and embracing our identity in Christ help us move from brokenness to wholeness. We discuss the ongoing nature of healing, the importance of safe spaces to share our unfiltered stories, and how God can re-story our lives for hope and purpose. Mary's honesty and wisdom offer encouragement for anyone seeking restoration and a new chapter in their story. To learn more about Mary and get her books, visit MaryDeMuth.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Mary Demuth's personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and sexual abuse.The role of faith in Jesus in the healing process.The concept of restoration as a journey from brokenness to wholeness.The importance of storytelling and community in healing.The idea of "re-storying" one's life and redefining identity through faith.The ongoing nature of healing and the layers involved in trauma recovery.The significance of expressing thoughts and sharing experiences to break cycles of pain.The distinction between healing and maturing in the context of personal growth.Practical tools for restoration, including journaling and reflecting on one's story.The need for safe spaces in communities, particularly churches, to discuss and address issues of sexual abuse.More Resources:Restory Your Life* by Mary DeMuthThe Wall Around Your Heart* by Mary DeMuthSex & Anxiety (online course)Related Podcasts:Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual AbuseLord Be Near: Finding Hope in Suffering through PrayerFreedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Drs. Matt and Laura Burton to talk about rebuilding a marriage after sexual betrayal. We explore their personal recovery and healing journeys, the challenges of rebuilding trust, and why true recovery goes beyond just sobriety. The Burtons share insights on the importance of involving both partners, the process of compassionate disclosure, and how addressing deeper wounds is key to restoring relationships. Their warmth and expertise offer hope and practical guidance for any couple navigating the difficult path toward renewed connection and trust after infidelity or addiction.To learn more about Matt and Laura and their resources for couples, visit MyBecomingWell.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Counseling for couples and individuals dealing with sexual addiction and infidelity.Personal recovery journeys of the speakers and their professional experiences.Challenges in rebuilding trust after sexual betrayal.The importance of involving both partners in the recovery process.Complexities of recovery beyond mere sobriety, including intimacy and attachment issues.The significance of relational healing in the recovery journey.The concept of "gentle disclosure" in the context of rebuilding trust.The emotional realities and fears faced by both partners after betrayal.The necessity of addressing underlying issues and pre-existing wounds in recovery.Resources and support available for couples navigating the aftermath of sexual betrayal.More Resources:3-Day Couple's Group IntensivesRebuilding Trust* by Matt & Laura BurtonMore Books and Workbooks by Matt & Laura BurtonRelated Podcasts:The Three Phases of Couples RecoveryHelping Couples Walk the Path of Restoration After Sexual BetrayalThe Journey to Stay (with Steve and Lisa Goldberg)*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of "Family Time," I sit down with Norma Q-Brown, our Family Care Director, to discuss how parents can confidently guide their kids through a sex-saturated culture. We focus on the second critical conversation: teaching children about God's design for sex. Norma shares practical advice for having ongoing, honest, and grace-filled talks, addressing common barriers and emphasizing the importance of building trust.We encourage parents to be vulnerable, seek God's wisdom, and create a safe space for questions—reminding everyone that these conversations are a journey we take together as families.For all our Family Care resources, visit Bebroken.org/family.Topics Covered in this Episode:Introduction of the "Family Time" segment aimed at helping parents engage with their children.Discussion on the importance of proactive conversations about sex from a biblical perspective.Emphasis on the foundational elements of family care ministry, particularly "God's Design for Sex."The significance of teaching children about authority and God's design in a sex-saturated culture.Explanation of covenant relationships and the boundaries set by God regarding sex.Challenges parents face in discussing sex, including personal trauma and cultural pressures.The importance of ongoing, age-appropriate conversations about sex and sexuality.Strategies for parents to foster open dialogue, including asking questions and being honest.Resources and tools available for parents to aid in these discussions.Encouragement for parents to seek God's wisdom and guidance in navigating these conversations.Resources for Next Steps:Critical Conversation Online Course (free)God Made Your Body* by Jim BurnsHonest Talk: The GameFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I sit down with Clinton and Nikki Mitchell, who bravely share their 31-year marriage journey through addiction, infidelity, and ultimately, healing. We talk about the pain of secrecy, the power of full disclosure, and how faith, therapy, and community helped them rebuild trust and spiritual intimacy. Their story is raw and honest, showing that even in the darkest moments, hope and restoration are possible. I'm inspired by their courage and grateful for their wisdom, and I hope their journey encourages and emboldens anyone facing similar struggles.Learn more about Clinton and Nikki and get their book at DWN4.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: Personal story of marriage and struggles with addiction and infidelity.Impact of pornography addiction on relationships and faith.The cycle of avoidance and denial in addressing marital issues.The significance of seeking help through therapy and accountability.The concept of "fresh start" thinking in marriage and its pitfalls.The journey toward healing and restoration through spiritual intimacy.The importance of honesty and vulnerability in rebuilding trust.The role of community support in overcoming personal struggles.Practical ways to cultivate spiritual intimacy in a relationship.The hope and possibility of redemption in the face of betrayal.More Resources:Glory from the Ashes* by Clinton and Nikki MitchellMore Resources from DWN4Building True Intimacy* by Drake and RaabsmithRelated Podcasts:The Role of Boundaries in Marriage RestorationBeyond Broken Vows: Rebuilding Marriage After Sexual BetrayalPSR Podcast Bundle: Marriage Testimonies*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with friend and former guest, Tammy Gustafson, a counselor and author of "Broken to Brave," to talk about healing after betrayal trauma. Tammy shares why wives often get stuck in their recovery—especially when pressured to trust or forgive too soon—and explains the importance of grieving and processing emotions like anger and sadness. We discuss how true healing requires safety, honesty, and support, and Tammy offers practical advice for wives and their loved ones. Whether you're feeling stuck or wondering when it's safe to trust again, this conversation brings hope and encouragement for your journey.To learn more about Tammy and get her new book, visit TammyGustafson.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Healing from betrayal trauma, particularly for betrayed wives.Common challenges faced by wives during the healing process.The concept of feeling "stuck" in the healing journey.The importance of processing grief and emotions like anger and sadness.The role of trust and forgiveness in the healing process.The significance of establishing safety before rebuilding intimacy.The need for emotional safety and understanding in relationships post-betrayal.The impact of fear and doubt on a wife's readiness to trust again.The importance of support from loved ones during the healing journey.Insights from the book Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayals.More Resources:Broken to Brave* by Tammy GustafsonOnline Care Groups for WivesWives Care Basics Webinar (free)Related Podcasts:Betrayal Healing PhasesThe Need for Boundaries After BetrayalSelf-Care and Rest for Wives Healing from Betrayal Trauma*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode of our new “Family Time” segment, I chat with Norma Brown, our Family Care Director, about the first of six “critical conversations” parents should have with their kids: Feelings and Emotions. We focus on the importance of talking about feelings and emotions as the foundation for deeper topics like sex. Norma shares practical tips, resources like the “Honest Talk Game,” and encouragement for parents to build trust and emotional connection. Together, we explore how modeling vulnerability and emotional honesty can help families create a safe space for open, ongoing conversations.For all our Family Care resources, visit Bebroken.org/family. Topics Covered in this Episode: Introduction of the "Family Time" segment focused on parenting in a sex-saturated culture.Importance of having "critical conversations" with children.First critical conversation centered on feelings and emotions.Building trust and emotional expression as foundational elements in parent-child communication.The role of parents in modeling emotional regulation and expression.Strategies for parents to connect with their children emotionally.Tools and resources to facilitate discussions about emotions, such as emotion wheels and the "Honest Talk Game."Encouragement for parents to embark on their own emotional growth journey.The significance of vulnerability and humility in parenting.Reassurance that it's never too late to start building emotional connections with children.Resources for Next Steps:Just Between Us Journal*Honest Talk* by John FortHonest Talk: The GameFor more parenting podcasts, go to Bebroken.org/tp-pods and scroll to Family Bundles.*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I roll up our sleeves to explore the journey of recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors. We discuss the deeper transformation needed beyond just sobriety, sharing over a dozen practical maxims and spiritual insights that will help you aim for life beyond recovery. We reflect on aging, grief, and the challenges of change, emphasizing honesty, community, and trusting God. Through personal stories and recovery wisdom, we encourage listeners to take small, consistent steps, embrace vulnerability, and remember that lasting change is a process—one day, and one choice, at a time.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Recovery from unwanted sexual behaviors and addictionImportance of foundational change and emotional work in recoveryThe role of honesty and obedience in personal transformationReflections on aging, grief, and spiritual growthApplication of common recovery sayings to foster progressThe necessity of genuine behavioral and mindset changesThe significance of patience and persistence in the recovery processThe relationship between knowledge and lived experience in transformationThe metaphor of the "hallway" as a space for learning during uncertain timesEmphasis on community support and accountability in the recovery journeyMore Resources:Maxims that Help Us Through Change (blog post mentioned in episode)Grace-Based Recovery* by Jonathan DaughertyTransformation Pathway Journal for Men*Related Podcasts:3 Levels of SobrietyBeyond Sobriety: How to Truly Heal from Compulsive Sexual BehaviorsKeys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes from DoctorMarriage.org to explore how we see ourselves, others, and how Jesus sees us all. We dive into the impact of shame, addiction, and early life experiences on our identity, and discuss the healing power of viewing ourselves through Jesus's compassionate eyes. Together, we reflect on practical ways to break free from self-judgment and embrace a more loving, connected life—reminding ourselves that we're all on a journey toward growth, healing, and deeper relationships, with God, ourselves, and others.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of self-perception and its impact on personal growth.Examination of how individuals perceive others and the implications of these views.Discussion of Jesus's perspective on individuals and others.The role of early life experiences in shaping self and other perceptions.The influence of shame and guilt in addiction and identity struggles.The transformative potential of understanding Jesus's compassionate view.The connection between self-acceptance and recovery from addiction.The impact of pain on self-view and behavior patterns.The relationship between self-identity and social connections.The importance of compassion and community in healing and personal development.More Resources:Identity* by John FortDaily Thoughts from Doctor MarriageGentle and Lowly* by Dane OrtlundRelated Podcasts:Overcoming Shame and Embracing Your True IdentityBreaking Free from Shame: Knowing Your Identity in ChristHow to Be at Peace in Aloneness*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
This week, Nate and Aaron give tips and tricks for using the new app for local meetings and meetups. Aaron shares his distrust of AI blowing smoke up your @$$. Nate shares the slippery slope of AI affirmation and it compares to the Silas asking real tough questions. Nate and Aaron talk to returning guest Reese Crane. Reese shares updates on Be Broken 2.0, Gateway to Freedom 1.0 and the new 2.0. GTF 2.0 is designed to have a goal of helping men find peace, rest, and joy. Reese also shares about a new couples workshop designed to help each partner understand where the other came from, what their partner is feeling, and grow together intentionally. It also has a heavy focus on support for wives of left in the dust. Reese will be speaking at the Samson Italian/International retreat on June 7th, 2026. The link to the venue is: here. The theme will be: “looking at the source of your emotional pain”. The cost for the weekend including all meals and lodging is €220. If you would like to participate, please fill out the form here. Links: Be Broken The Silent Addiction Reese Crane Email NEW Samson Community App (Apple store) NEW Samson Community App (Google Store) 2026 Samson Summit Send mail to: Pirate Monk Podcast PO BOX 1656 Columbia, TN 38472 If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com. The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society. For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com. The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.
Originally aired on March 26, 2025Watch episode on Vimeo----------In this episode, we dive into the dynamics of "loners" and "connectors" in relationships. Everyone falls into one of these categories. As we explore this topic, my friend and co-host Stephen Cervantes discusses how loners tend to be independent and process internally, while connectors thrive on dialogue and emotional exchange. We examine how these differences impact communication and emotional connection, particularly in marriages. We share insights on personal growth, emphasizing the importance of understanding and appreciating each other's communication styles; we aren't out to change a loner into a connector or vice versa. We give lots of personal anecdotes and practical advice, aiming to help you navigate these differences to foster deeper connections and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.To read the Thought on Loners and Connectors, go to DoctorMarriage.org/loners-and-connectors.Topics Covered in this Episode:Distinction between "loners" and "connectors" in personal relationships.Characteristics of loners: independence, introspection, and internal processing.Characteristics of connectors: relational, expressive, and dialogue-oriented.Impact of communication styles on relationships, particularly in marriage.Importance of emotional connection and its role in relationship dynamics.Challenges faced by loners in engaging with emotional exchanges.The necessity of active listening in fostering trust and connection.Strategies for navigating differences between loners and connectors.The role of personal growth in improving relationship dynamics.Encouragement for couples to discuss and understand their connection styles for deeper intimacy.More Resources:40 Days to Oneness by Stephen CervantesThe 40 Day Relationship Builder* by Stephen CervantesBuilding True Intimacy* by Matthew & Joanna RaabsmithRelated Podcasts:Dealing with Conflict Podcast BundleWorking Through Emotional Disconnection in MarriageAbout Your Emotional Connecting Skills*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and colleague Dr. Stephen Cervantes—Doctor Marriage—to explore the vital roles of empathy, attunement, and responsiveness in relationships. We share personal stories and practical tips for husbands who want to connect more deeply with their wives. Dr. Cervantes explains how empathy means “practicing sadness with someone,” and we discuss how attunement and responsiveness help build emotional closeness. Whether you're new to these skills or looking to grow, this conversation offers encouragement and real-life tools for nurturing a more compassionate, Christ-centered marriage.To get daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of empathy, attunement, and responsiveness in marriage counseling.Definition of empathy as "practicing sadness with someone" and its role in emotional connection.The significance of being present with a partner during their emotional struggles.Clarification of empathy in a Christian context, equating it with compassion.The necessity of having the right emotional tools for genuine connection in relationships.The concept of attunement as matching a partner's mood and emotional state.The role of nonverbal communication in attunement and emotional connection.The importance of responsiveness after attuning to a partner's emotional state.The impact of emotional presence on healing and deeper connection in relationships.The ongoing nature of learning and practicing these skills for emotional growth in marriage.More Resources:Daily Thoughts from Doctor MarriageBuilding True Intimacy* by Drake and RaabsmithHelp Her Heal* by Carol J. SheetsRelated Podcasts:Early Recovery Couples Empathy ModelEmotional Insights for MenThe Three Phases of Couples Recovery*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, our guest is Amber Albee Swenson—mom, Bible teacher, and author—to talk about her book, The Key to Confidence. Amber shares her personal journey from shame and brokenness to finding true confidence in Christ. We discuss the importance of understanding our identity as God's children, the power of honest confession, and the vital role of prayer and community in healing. Amber's transparency and wisdom offer hope for anyone struggling with feeling “not enough.” Join us for a raw, real, and uplifting conversation about grace, faith, and walking confidently in God's love.To learn more about Amber and her book, visit AmberAlbeeSwenson.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Amber Albee Swenson's personal journey and struggles with shame and sexual brokenness.The role of faith and identity in overcoming feelings of inadequacy.The distinction between self-confidence and confidence in God.The importance of understanding one's identity as a child of God.The significance of prayer in building confidence and healing.The concept of confession and its role in breaking the power of shame.The idea that past mistakes do not define one's identity in Christ.The transformative power of communal prayer and support within the Christian community.The focus of Amber's book as a spiritual resource rather than a self-help guide.Encouragement to trust in God's faithfulness and power, regardless of personal limitations.More Resources:The Key to Confidence* by Amber Albee SwensonGetting Past the Past* by Amber Albee SwensonThe Bondage Breaker* by Neil T. AndersonRelated Podcasts:PSR Podcast Bundle: Overcoming ShameYour True Identity: The Journey from Head Knowledge to Heart Belief in ChristHow to Embrace Jesus-Centered Sexuality in a Broken World*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries.Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year.Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate.Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Drew Boa to discuss his new book, Outgrow Porn: Find Lasting Freedom Without Fighting an Exhausting Battle. Drew shares his personal journey and explains why traditional purity culture and military-style approaches often fall short. We then explore his compassionate, holistic method that focuses on healing childhood wounds, understanding emotional triggers, and embracing inner child work. Drew encourages viewing relapses as feedback, not failure, and highlights the importance of grace and self-compassion in recovery. If you're a man seeking hope and lasting change, this conversation offers fresh insight and encouragement.To get the book, visit OutgrowPorn.com. To learn more about Drew and his ministry, visit HusbandMaterial.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion of pornography addiction, particularly among men.Critique of traditional purity culture and its limitations.Introduction of the "outgrow porn" approach to recovery.Emphasis on healing childhood wounds and inner child work.Exploration of core emotional triggers such as fear, shame, and loss.Importance of viewing relapses as feedback rather than failure.Promotion of a growth mindset in the recovery process.Connection between triggers and childhood experiences.The role of grace and self-compassion in recovery.Resources and support available through Husband Material Ministries.More Resources:Outgrow Porn* by Drew BoaHusband Material ResourcesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenRelated Podcasts:Outgrowing the Porn PacifierNavigating the 3 Stages of Recovery from Porn AddictionThe Key to Real and Lasting Freedom from Porn*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
Send us a textThis week on the show!Millions hunt. One runs. Everyone watches. Glen Powell stars in: The Running ManUnlock the illusion in: Now You See Me: Now You Don'tPlaytime just got real in the prime video exclusive: PlaydateAnd finally You can only choose one in this early review of: Eternity (releases in theaters on November 26th.) Ready for my verdict? Let's get into it. *Support the show by leaving a review on Apple podcast or Spotify! *You can now listen to The Movie Wire on YouTube! Listen and subscribe here!Make sure you check out The Sugar-Coated Murder PodcastListen Here If you haven't followed or subscribed to The Cultworthy Cinema Podcast and The Movie Wire's crossover show Back 2 the Balcony, now is your time, because this week, we cover Disney's 1991's Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken. Listen HereSupport the show
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Year-End Matching Gift Opportunity!Now through December 31, 2025 your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $71,500! Please help us reach this match in order to keep all our programs and services running strong into the New Year. Partner with us at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with returning guest Ashley Jameson, a sex educator and author of the new book "Girl Talk." We dive into why it's so important for moms to have honest, ongoing conversations with their daughters about sex, even when it feels awkward or scary. Ashley shares personal stories, up-to-date research, and practical tips for starting these talks early, addressing common fears, and becoming a safe, trusted source for your kids—especially as they face pressures from peers, social media, and early exposure to pornography. If you're a mom of a daughter, you won't want to miss this conversation.For more info on Ashley and the book, go to PureDesire.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Importance of open communication between mothers and daughters about sexuality.Challenges and fears mothers face when discussing sex with their daughters.The risks of not addressing sexual topics early in a child's life.Insights from personal experiences and research on youth exposure to pornography.The role of parents as primary sources of information regarding sexual topics.The significance of starting conversations about sex at a young age.The impact of societal pressures and media on children's understanding of sexuality.Strategies for creating a safe environment for discussions about sex.The need for resources like the book "Girl Talk" to guide these conversations.The universal nature of curiosity and struggles related to sexuality among youth.More Resources:Girl Talk* by Ashley JamesonCritical Conversations FREE online course7 Tips for Parents (free download in English and Spanish)Related Podcasts:Helping Your Kids Apply the Gospel to Sex and SexualityParenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity Confused CultureHelping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Cervantes to explore why so many of us feel stuck in our personal growth, especially men facing addiction and relational struggles. We share honest stories about excuses, limiting beliefs, and the deep fears that hold us back—like failure, rejection, and not feeling good enough. Together, we unpack how faith, hope, and community can help us move forward, break old cycles, and embrace the growth God has for us. We were created for “abundant life” and this means we all need a growth mission throughout life.To get daily insights from Stephen Cervantes, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode:Theme of personal growth and overcoming feelings of being "stuck"Emotional, spiritual, and relational growth, particularly for men in recoveryCommon barriers to growth, including self-doubt, comparison, overwhelm, and confusionThe role of personality and perspective in personal developmentConnection between past experiences and current strugglesThe significance of community and accountability in the growth processExploration of limiting beliefs and excuses that hinder progressDiscussion of core fears that contribute to feeling stuck, such as fear of failure, rejection, and abandonmentEncouragement to embrace growth through curiosity, faith, and taking action despite discomfortMore Resources:49 Days of Growth* by Stephen CervantesEmotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter ScazzeroPersonal Ministry ConsultationRelated Podcasts:PSR Bundle for Men: Emotional GrowthHow to Turn Emotional Triggers Into Opportunities for GrowthFor Men Who Want to Finish Strong*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I reconnect with KathyGrace Duncan, who briefly shares her remarkable journey of living as a man for 11 years before finding transformation and true identity in Christ. The bulk of our conversation focuses on what it means to move from “head knowledge” of identity in Christ to “heart belief,” exploring how God renews our minds and hearts through Scripture, prayer, and community. KathyGrace offers practical wisdom on embracing our true identity in Christ, overcoming old patterns, and living as those who are permanently loved by God. It's an honest, hope-filled conversation about ongoing transformation and the freedom found in God's love.For more info on KathyGrace and navigating identity issues, visit PortlandFellowship.com and ChangedMovement.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Testimony of living as a man for 11 years despite being biologically female.Transformation and redemption through faith in Jesus Christ.Involvement in ministry work, particularly in women's and transgender ministry.Exploration of identity in Christ and its cultural and spiritual significance.Biblical perspectives on identity, referencing scriptures from 1 Peter, Ephesians, Galatians, and Romans.Concepts of the "old man" and the "new man" in relation to personal transformation.The process of renewing the mind and its importance in spiritual growth.Distinction between intellectual knowledge and heartfelt belief in God's truth.The role of prayer and community in facilitating ongoing transformation.Encouragement to embrace one's identity in Christ and live out that truth.More Resources:Identity: What Foundation Are You Building On?* by John FortIdentity in Christ* by Neil T. AndersonLove Thy Body* by Nancy PearceyRelated Podcasts:Embracing God's Image in GenderChanged: The Amazing Transformation of a Former Lesbian PastorOvercoming Shame and Embracing Your True Identity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Juli Slattery to talk about sexual discipleship in parenting. Juli shares insights from her new book, "Surrendered Sexuality," and explains how sexual discipleship is an ongoing, grace-filled journey—much deeper than traditional sex education. We discuss the unique role parents play in shaping their kids' understanding of sexuality, the importance of modeling both truth and grace, and how surrender, not perfection, is the goal. Juli encourages parents to embrace their own growth and trust God's grace in the process. It's a hopeful, practical conversation for every parent.To learn more about Juli and get her resources, visit AuthenticIntimacy.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Definition and distinction between sexual discipleship and sex education.The role of parents as primary influencers in their children's understanding of sexuality.Importance of integrating biblical truth and grace in parenting.Goals of parenting from a biblical perspective, including passing on a godly heritage.The significance of daily life moments in teaching children about sexuality.The impact of cultural views on sexuality and the need for a biblical worldview.The concept of surrender in the context of sexual discipleship and parenting.The necessity for parents to engage in their own sexual discipleship journey.The importance of transparency and humility in parenting.Resources available for parents to support their journey in sexual discipleship.More Resources:Surrendered Sexuality* by Dr. Juli SlatteryRethinking Sexuality* by Dr. Juli SlatteryCritical Conversations (FREE online course)Related Podcasts:What is Sexual Discipleship?The Sex Talk You Never GotParenting in a Hypersexualized and Identity-Confused Culture*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Stephen Cervantes to talk about the lifelong journey of emotional growth, especially for men. We introduce a practical tool—the phrase, “The God in me is bigger than the fear in you”—to help you stay centered and respond thoughtfully when facing criticism or negativity. We explore how compassion and faith can transform tough interactions, and encourage you to make this simple tool a habit for deeper emotional growth. Remember, you're not alone on this journey. We're here to support you as we all grow stronger and more resilient, together.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Emotional growth as a lifelong journey, particularly for men.The significance of practical tools for handling criticism and negativity.Introduction of the phrase: "The God in me is bigger than the fear in you" as an emotional growth tool.The importance of centering oneself and regulating emotions in challenging situations.Recognizing fear as a root cause of negative behavior in others.Encouraging compassion over combativeness when faced with attacks.Application of the emotional growth tool in various scenarios of criticism and insults.The effectiveness of the phrase as an internal statement rather than a verbal response.The role of faith in managing difficult interactions and emotional responses.Building a habit of emotional regulation through repetition of the phrase.More Resources:Emotionally Healthy Spirituality* by Peter ScazzeroSeven Desires* by Mark & Debra LaaserFind a CounselorRelated Podcasts:50 Things to Do When Your Fear Gets TriggeredHow to Learn (and Respond to) Your Fear SystemUnoffendable: How Your Response to Criticism Affects Your Emotional Maturity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Garrett Kell, pastor and author of Pure in Heart: Sexual Sin and the Promises of God. Garrett opens up about his journey from struggling with sexual sin—even as a pastor—to finding freedom through confession, restoration, and God's grace. We discuss the biblical meaning of purity, the importance of honesty and community, and practical ways to pursue God's pleasures over fleeting temptations. Garrett's story is honest and hope-filled, reminding us that real change is possible when we rely on Christ and walk in the light together.You can get a copy of Garrett's book, in English, Spanish, or Thai, at Crossway.org or Amazon.com*.Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal journey of faith and struggles with sexual sin, including pornography.The process of confession, restoration, and ministry in pastoral leadership.Importance of honesty and transparency in overcoming sexual sin.Biblical foundation of purity and its definition as a heart orientation.Distinction between abstaining from sin and actively pursuing God.Practical examples for pursuing God's pleasures in daily life.The role of accountability and faith in God's promises.Understanding God's design for sex and its significance in marriage.Identifying and combating the enemies of purity: the flesh, the world, and the devil.The connection between identity in Christ and living a life of purity.More Resources:Pure in Heart: Sexual Sin and the Promises of God* by Garrett KellHelp for MenHelp for WomenRelated Podcasts:Reframing How the Church Views Sexual PurityFrom Porn Pastor to Pure DesireThe Heart Cry of an Old Saint: I Want to Be Clean!*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
Horse Girls of the world, it's your time to shine! We've let Carolyn out of the barn and she's attaching a big ol' feedbag of equine knowledge to your face as we discuss a childhood fave, 1991's Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken! Featuring Shrishma Naik, Carolyn Naoroz, and Justin Zeppa. Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken was directed by Steve Miner and stars Gabrielle Anwar and Michael Schoeffling.We appreciate your support, so please subscribe, rate, review, and follow the show: YouTube: youtube.com/@oldmovietimemachineInstagram: @timemachinepodcasts Facebook: facebook.com/oldmovietimemachine Buy our luxurious merchandise: www.teepublic.com/user/old-movie-time-machine ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Dr. Steven Cervantes and I explore the lifelong mission of personal growth, blending both spiritual and emotional development. We discuss how a vibrant relationship with God brings peace, rest, and joy, and why emotional health is just as vital as spiritual growth. Together, we unpack the impact of childhood wounds, the roles we play to cope, and the importance of self-care. Our conversation is honest and encouraging, inviting you to embrace growth as a lifelong journey marked by grace, healing, and authentic connection with God and others.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: Exploration of the concept of "mission" in personal growth, integrating spiritual and emotional development.Importance of a relational connection with God over rigid religious structures.Challenges of maintaining spiritual and emotional health and their interconnectedness.The impact of loneliness in modern society and the role of faith communities in fostering connection.Definition of a spiritual mission rooted in faith, teachings of Jesus, and community participation.Recognition of emotional struggles that can undermine spiritual commitments.The idea of a "growth mission" as a continuous journey rather than a fixed goal.Discussion of emotional wounds from childhood and their impact on present life.Examination of coping mechanisms and roles that may hinder genuine emotional growth.Emphasis on the importance of self-love and care as foundational to loving others and spiritual growth.More Resources:49 Days of Growth: Growing in Emotional Skills* by Dr. Stephen CervantesGateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive WorkshopGrace-Based Recovery Online Study GroupsRelated Podcasts:What Can Stunt Your Emotional Growth Mission?Why Must I Learn Me?Men's Emotional Self-Awareness Test*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Tabitha Westbrook, a licensed therapist and author, to talk about her book Body and Soul, Healed and Whole. Tabitha shares her personal journey as a survivor and her passion for helping others heal from trauma, abuse, and coercive control. We explore the impact of purity culture, misconceptions about abuse, and the importance of safety and healthy boundaries. Tabitha offers practical wisdom for individuals and churches, encouraging honest conversations and compassionate support for survivors seeking healing and wholeness.To learn more about Tabitha, her counseling resources, and book, visit TabithaWestbrook.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Exploration of healthy sexuality after trauma and abusePersonal experiences of survivors and their healing journeysDiscussion of complex trauma, domestic abuse, and coercive controlImpact of purity culture on men and women within the churchNuances of female sexual brokenness and addictionDefinition and implications of coercive control in relationshipsMisconceptions about abuse and the ineffectiveness of common responsesImportance of prioritizing victim safety over preserving marriagesNeed for church education and accountability programs for abusersEmphasis on holistic healing that integrates body and soul in recovery processesMore Resources:Body & Soul, Healed & Whole* by Tabitha WestbrookWives Care Online GroupsStrong Like Water* by Aundi KolberRelated Podcasts:Help and Hope for Women to Heal from Sexual AbuseThe Need for Safety in Betrayal Trauma HealingThe Need for Boundaries After Betrayal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
So many Christian women believe they have to “get it all together” before God can use them, but that's not the truth. In this powerful conversation with Toni Collier, author of Don't Try This Alone, we talk about why healing is meant to happen in community, not isolation.Toni shares how facing your brokenness can actually be the gateway to real freedom, the common traps that keep us stuck in pain, and practical steps to start your healing journey today. If you've ever felt like your story is too messy, too far gone, or too painful to redeem, this episode will remind you that God's not done with you — and you don't have to walk this road alone.Whether you're longing for hope, struggling with shame, or craving deeper community, you'll find encouragement, biblical truth, and a fresh perspective on healing God's way.To connect with Toni, head over to https://www.tonijcollier.com or @tonijcollier on IG!Toni's new book, Don't Try This Alone: https://amzn.to/45vDjKK Toni's book, Brave Enough to Be Broken: https://amzn.to/47p6T7e SUPPORT BY WORDS: https://buymeacoffee.com/bywordsSHOP MY BOOKS:Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3LusgrzLove Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose My favorite Bible studies + devotionals - HANNAHHUGHES10 for 10% off: https://thedailygraceco.com?dt_id=300773 Connect: www.thehannahhughes.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/ https://www.instagram.com/bywordspodcast Shop my Amazon faves: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Dr. Stephen Cervantes joins me in our brand-new studio to discuss how couples get stuck in emotional cycles of conflict, drawing on Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy. We explore how triggers, core fears, and attachment styles—like the classic pursuer and withdrawer dynamic—shape our reactions and create distance in marriage. Together, we talk about the importance of self-awareness, grace, and integrating emotional and spiritual growth to break these patterns and build deeper connections. We also highlight the 5 stages that happen in conflict, which are: TriggerBody symptomEmotional responseBelief responseActionThis is an insightful, practical conversation for anyone wanting healthier, more loving relationships.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode:Discussion of relationship conflict and emotional loops based on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).Exploration of emotional responses and core fears that contribute to conflict in marriages.Explanation of the cycle of triggering events, body responses, emotional reactions, beliefs, and final actions in relationships.The impact of attachment theory on adult relationships and the dynamics of pursuer and withdrawer roles.Importance of self-awareness and understanding personal emotional patterns to break cycles of conflict.The connection between emotional understanding and spiritual growth, emphasizing grace in relationships.Encouragement for couples to create new patterns of connection and support each other.Closing thoughts on the significance of building a strong, loving attachment in relationships.More Resources:Hold Me Tight* by Dr. Sue JohnsonFind a CounselorUnderstanding Emotionally Focused TherapyRelated Podcasts:Conflict Management for Marriages Healing from BetrayalThe Harms of Negative TalkingAssumptions vs. Communication: The Battle for Relational Harmony*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
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PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, we have back with us on the program Dr. Eddie Capparucci, counselor and co-author of Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner.* Our topic of conversation is to explore the journey of healing from betrayal trauma, especially for women who have experienced infidelity. Dr. Eddie shares his unique inner child model, helping us understand how past wounds shape our emotional responses today. Together, we discuss practical tools for managing difficult feelings, the importance of self-compassion, and how both partners can support each other on the path to recovery. It's an honest, hopeful conversation about reclaiming your sense of self and finding healing after deep hurt.For more information about Dr. Eddie and his resources, visit AbundantLifeCounselingGA.com or search for “Going Deeper books” on Amazon.com.Topics Covered in this Episode:Definition and significance of betrayal trauma, particularly in marital relationships.The emotional impact of infidelity on individuals, especially women.Introduction and explanation of the inner child model as a therapeutic approach.The connection between unresolved childhood wounds and adult emotional responses.Differentiation between sexual betrayal and other forms of betrayal (e.g., financial, emotional).The importance of recognizing and nurturing the inner child for healing.Strategies for managing emotions and shifting from emotional responses to rational thinking.Addressing common objections and validating emotions while assessing their accuracy.Encouragement for both partners in a relationship affected by betrayal to support each other.Resources and tools for further exploration of betrayal trauma and inner child work.More Resources:Going Deeper for the Betrayed Partner*Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction*Wives Care Online GroupsRelated Podcasts:Emotional Transformation Therapy for Betrayed WivesBetrayal Trauma Healing (PSR Podcast Bundle)Helping a Wife Heal*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
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A Fine Marriage, Now an Extraordinary Marriage: Bart's Story Bart is a Christian leader. He's the head of a childcare agency working with traumatized children and teens. He's been married for nearly 20 years and has four beautiful kids. And by his own admission? He was tired. Burned out. Irritable. Or, in his words—“crusty.” He wasn't in crisis. His marriage wasn't “on the rocks.” But it wasn't thriving either. And Bart knew something had to change. Christian Leaders Get Tired, Too—But That Doesn't Mean You Stay There One Saturday morning, Bart's wife tried to be playful with him—and he snapped. He didn't mean to. He was just worn out, juggling too many roles, feeling the pressure of leadership, family, and ministry. But his wife's gentle confrontation was a turning point. She didn't yell. She didn't threaten. She just called it what it was. And Bart—rather than shutting down—responded with humility and self-reflection. Not because he had to… But because he wanted to grow. Why “Good Enough” Marriage Isn't the Goal—Even for Ministry Leaders Bart described his marriage as “a 9 on a bad day.” No major fights. No betrayals. No one was threatening to leave. But deep down, he knew something wasn't right. The joy was fading. The connection was inconsistent. And his presence at home was… thin. Too many leaders settle for “fine” because there isn't obvious brokenness. But lack of crisis doesn't mean abundance of health. How One Christian Husband Reconnected With His Wife (and Kids) Bart didn't just learn new tools—he let God change his posture. He took a long, hard look at his own heart. He asked his wife, with full honesty, "Have I made intimacy feel transactional to you?" She said no. But Bart still made changes. He apologized for things from 20 years ago. He went to his kids, one by one, and asked for forgiveness for being emotionally absent. And the impact? Laughter returned. Confidence rose. Connection was rebuilt—at home, where it matters most. When You Lead at Work But Struggle at Home Bart's job requires emotional intelligence, patience, and deep listening. He gives that to kids, to employees, to families in crisis. But when he got home? He was depleted. He admits, “I was giving my best to strangers—not to the people who mattered most.” The CIRQUE listening framework helped him shift. Not just in knowledge—but in behavior. He started seeing his wife again. Not as someone who was “doing fine,” but as someone he was called to serve and cherish. Intention Without Action Won't Heal a Struggling Marriage One of the most striking moments in Bart's story? The first time he walked around the car to open the door for his wife in years. She paused. Surprised. It had been that long. But it wasn't about the door. It was about intentionality. About pursuit. About loving her like the daughter of the King she is. Christian Leaders: Your Marriage Doesn't Have to Be Broken to Be Better Friend, maybe your marriage isn't “bad.” Maybe no one knows how empty or tired you feel. Maybe your congregation thinks everything's fine. But you know. You know you're not showing up the way you want to. You know she deserves more. You know God is calling you deeper. Don't wait for a crisis to choose transformation. Don't wait for regret to become your motivation. Start now. Invest now. Lead your home like Jesus—by going first. With love, The Delight Your Marriage Team PS - Are you ready to take the leap? Schedule a free Clarity Call with one of our Clarity Advisors at delightym.com/cc PPS - Our prices are going up after July 15th! Schedule a free Clarity Call before then to save $500+ on your Coaching program. PPPS - Here is a quote from (another) recent graduate: Being in ministry together and having raised 5 children under the pressure-cooker stress of the mission field, much of our life and conversation related only to family, ministry or solving "issues”…[Now,] there have been so many [celebrations] it's hard to list the biggest! I celebrate the peace in my heart that has allowed me to be non-reactive and non-explosive in some very difficult and high-tension situations…I celebrate the new playful way that we are connecting in the bedroom…I celebrate that my wife is now telling my children that "Dad is different!"
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I explore the idea of men being “under sad”—when we struggle to recognize or express sadness. We talk about why grieving is essential for emotional health, not just in big losses but in everyday disappointments. Stephen shares some practical ways to support others in their sadness and encourages us to embrace vulnerability, compassion, and even prayer. Together, we explore that facing our sadness leads to deeper connection, healing, and a more restful, authentic life.For daily thoughts from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org. Topics Covered in this Episode: The concept of being "under sad" and its implications for emotional awareness, particularly among men.The significance of grieving as a necessary process for emotional health and personal growth.Societal norms that discourage men from expressing sadness, leading to emotional suppression.The dual nature of strength and vulnerability in navigating emotions.The importance of integrating grieving into daily life as a means of processing emotions.The role of sadness in fostering deeper connections and empathy with others.Practical advice for supporting others in their moments of grief and sadness.The concept of compassion as "suffering with" someone and its importance in healing.The potential of prayer and spiritual connection in processing sadness and finding solace.A call to action for individuals to embrace their sadness for emotional wholeness and fulfillment.More Resources:A Sacred Sorrow* by Michael CardGentle and Lowly* by Dane OrtlundEmotional Training for Men (Grieving)Related Podcasts:Sadness and Hope - The Dynamic Duo of Personal GrowthMen's Emotional Self-Awareness TestWhy Men Need to Practice Sadness*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down again with Phil and Priscilla Fretwell to explore what true intimacy in marriage really means. Together, we unpack how family backgrounds, vulnerability, and faith shape our ability to be fully known and fully loved. Phil and Priscilla share their honest journey through their marriage struggles, healing, and the importance of spiritual and emotional connection—not just physical closeness. We also touch on how intimacy matters for everyone, married or single. Join us for an honest, heartfelt conversation about growing closer, supporting each other, and finding wholeness in our relationships.To learn more about Phil and Priscilla and their resources for couples, visit SavageMarriageMinistries.com. Topics Covered in this Episode: The significance of intimacy in marriage and relationships.The evolution of understanding intimacy from a religious to a spiritual perspective.Misconceptions surrounding intimacy, particularly the equating of intimacy with sexual activity.The influence of family backgrounds on perceptions of intimacy.The impact of secrets and emotional barriers on relationships.The journey of recovery and healing in the context of intimacy.The role of vulnerability in fostering deeper connections.The purpose of intimacy in modeling love and support within families.The relevance of intimacy for singles and its application beyond marriage.Resources for further exploration of intimacy and relationship dynamics.More Resources:Savage Marriage* by Phil & Priscilla FretwellSavage Marriage Study Guide* by Phil & Priscilla FretwellCoaching with Phil & PriscillaRelated Podcasts:A Journey of Redemption and HealingThe Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and DelightGod, Sex, and Your Marriage*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In today's episode, I welcome back Garry Ingraham from Love and Truth Network to discuss the challenges of parenting in a hypersexualized culture. We dive into the importance of modeling healthy, godly behaviors and values, and how parents can create a nurturing environment for their children. Garry shares insights from his ministry, emphasizing the need for open communication and proactive measures in addressing identity and sexuality issues. We also explore the biblical perspective on parenting, encouraging parents to embrace their role with faith and hope, fostering a supportive environment for their children's growth and identity development.To learn about the resources Garry offers, visit LoveAndTruthNetwork.com.Topics Covered in this Episode: Challenges parents face in a hypersexualized cultureImportance of parental roles in shaping children's identitiesBiblical perspective on parenting and its significanceCreating a positive family culture and environmentNavigating identity issues in childrenOpen communication between parents and childrenAddressing topics like pornography and sexuality with childrenThe role of personal accountability and growth for parentsEncouragement for overwhelmed parentsResources and support for parents from organizations like Love and Truth NetworkMore Resources:Love and Truth Network SummitsSix Critical Conversations to Have With Your KidsGod's Design for Sex Series* by Stan and Brenna JonesRelated Podcasts:PSR Podcast Bundle for Families on IdentityNavigating Identity and Sexuality: A Compassionate Approach for ParentsHow Parents Can Leverage their Story of Brokenness to Help Their Kids Pursue Integrity*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
In this episode, I sit down with Sathiya Sam, founder of Deep Clean, to discuss his journey from porn addiction to freedom and personal growth. Sathiya shares how he struggled with ineffective solutions and the shame tied to his addiction. Over time, he realized true recovery meant focusing on personal and spiritual development rather than just quitting porn. We explore the connection between physical well-being and mental health, emphasizing how activities like exercise and journaling can aid recovery. Sathiya also highlights the importance of understanding one's identity and purpose, offering practical steps for overcoming shame and fostering a healthier lifestyle. Join us for a powerful and inspiring conversation on whole-man healing.For more information on Sathiya and his resources, visit DeepCleanCoaching.com. Topics Covered in this Episode:Personal journey of recovery from pornography addictionIneffective solutions encountered during the recovery processShift in focus from eliminating pornography to personal growth and spiritual developmentConnection between recovery, physical well-being, and mental healthImportance of identity and purpose in the recovery journeyThe impact of physical activities on emotional states and lifestyle choicesNeurochemical aspects of recovery and the concept of "red zone" vs. "green zone"Overcoming shame associated with body image and sexualityPractical steps for fostering a healthy relationship with one's bodyThe significance of valuing one's body for enhancing relationships and personal fulfillmentMore Resources: Gateway to Freedom 3-Day Intensive for MenGrace-Based Recovery Online GroupsThe Last Relapse* by Sathiya SamRelated Podcasts:The Last Relapse with Sathiya SamHelping Men Overcome Porn and Get Emotionally FitKeys to Long-Term Freedom from Unwanted Behaviors*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
PSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, Stephen Cervantes and I dive into the crucial topic of expectations in marriage, focusing on the difference between assumed and discussed expectations. We share lots of personal stories and insights, highlighting how unspoken assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. Our conversation focuses on the importance of open communication and dialogue to foster a healthier relationship. I reflect on my own marriage, illustrating how discussing expectations can transform a relationship from merely coexisting to truly sharing life. We encourage you, if you're married, to engage in meaningful discussions about expectations to avoid the pitfalls of unspoken assumptions.For daily insights from Stephen, visit DoctorMarriage.org.Topics Covered in this Episode: The distinction between assumed expectations and discussed expectations in marriage.The impact of unspoken assumptions on misunderstandings and conflicts in relationships.The importance of open communication and dialogue in addressing expectations.Personal anecdotes illustrating the challenges of navigating expectations in marriage.The influence of family backgrounds on partners' expectations and roles.The collaborative process of navigating expectations as a couple.The necessity of ongoing discussions about expectations as relationships evolve.The role of awareness and perception in understanding each other's viewpoints.Strategies for initiating meaningful discussions about expectations in marriage.The overall message that couples are better together through intentional communication and collaboration.More Resources:The Deep-Rooted Marriage* by Dan Allender and Steve CallRenewing Us Couples RetreatFind a Counselor or CoachRelated Podcasts:Breaking Down Barriers: The Art of Active ListeningThe Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight4 Skills to Transform Your Marriage*This is an affiliate link. Be Broken may earn referral fees on purchases through this link.----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsFollow us on our Vimeo Channel.
Finding Your Purpose What if the path to wealth, happiness, and fulfillment isn't in doing more — but in feeling more? In this powerful episode of Richer Soul, Nate Ewert joins Rocky to share how he helps men break free from unconscious survival patterns and step into lives of true purpose and alignment. Through his work with Igniter Men's Group and Somatic Synergies, Nate bridges ancient wisdom, neuroscience, and trauma-informed healing practices to guide transformation from the inside out. Whether you're feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, or you're seeking deeper emotional freedom and clarity in life, this episode reveals the subtle, yet profound shifts that unlock authentic success — not just externally, but within. Key Takeaways: Healing Isn't a Luxury — It's Foundational. Nate emphasizes that unresolved trauma impacts your nervous system, your decisions, your relationships, and even how you handle money. Real transformation begins by learning to feel safe in your body. Masculinity Needs a Redefinition. Men are often conditioned to suppress emotion and “man up,” but Nate shows how true strength lies in vulnerability, community, and nervous system regulation. You Don't Need to Be Broken to Grow. Many of Nate's clients come to him not because they're falling apart, but because they know there's more. More purpose. More depth. More alignment. And they're ready to go deeper. Somatic Work Is the Missing Link. Talk therapy often stays in the head. Somatic healing helps release stored trauma and energy from the body — the place where transformation really begins. Money Learnings: Nate's early money story was shaped by scarcity and survival. He shares how financial lessons were limited to rules like "save 10%," but these didn't help when fear and nervous system dysregulation ran the show. Through deep inner work, he's transformed his relationship with money — from fear-driven to purpose-aligned. The big shift? Understanding that your nervous system must feel safe in order for wealth to grow and stay. About Nate Ewert: Nate Ewert is a trauma-informed somatic healer and founder of Igniter Men's Group and Somatic Synergies. With certifications in conscious breathwork, nervous system regulation, and deep emotional release, Nate creates sacred spaces for men to unlearn cultural conditioning and step into embodied leadership and authentic purpose. Key Discussion Points: Nate's “dark night of the soul” and how it sparked his healing journey. The difference between somatic healing and traditional talk therapy. Why regulating your nervous system is the foundation for a fulfilling life. How societal expectations around masculinity harm men's mental health. Tools to begin healing: breathwork, embodiment, emotional release. Nate's approach to building authentic community and sacred space for men. How trauma patterns influence how we earn, spend, and feel about money. Redefining success: from hustle to harmony. Conclusion: This episode is a call to stop doing and start feeling. Nate Ewert offers a rare, vulnerable, and deeply practical guide to healing, purpose, and aligned living. If you're a man feeling disconnected or driven by invisible forces… or if you're simply seeking more from life than performance and checklists, this is your wake-up call. Links: Website: www.ignitermensgroup.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3506607039556815 Instagram: @ignitermensgroup Website: www.somaticsynergies.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SomaticSynergies Instagram: @somaticsynergieshealing Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@richersoul Richer Soul Life Beyond Money. You got rich, now what? Let's talk about your journey to more a purposeful, intentional, amazing life. Where are you going to go and how are you going to get there? Let's figure that out together. At the core is the financial well-being to be able to do what you want, when you want, how you want. It's about personal freedom! Thanks for listening! Show Sponsor: http://profitcomesfirst.com/ Schedule your free no obligation call: https://bookme.name/rockyl/lite/intro-appointment-15-minutes If you like the show please leave a review on iTunes: http://bit.do/richersoul https://www.facebook.com/richersoul http://richersoul.com/ rocky@richersoul.com Some music provided by Junan from Junan Podcast Any financial advice is for educational purposes only and you should consult with an expert for your specific needs.
Even if you don't think of yourself as an addict, today's episode will show you how addiction can take many forms. Author Ian Morgan Cron invites us to look beneath the surface, showing how we are all addicted to something, whether it's control, approval, performance, or distraction. In this conversation, you'll learn how the 12 Steps can bring healing to our inner brokenness and why overcoming addictions is more relevant to all of us than we might realize.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:[03:12] What Can the 12 Steps Teach Us About Wholeness, Even If We Are 'Well Adjusted'?[06:10] How Does Recognizing Our Inner Ache Guide Us Toward Wholeness?[08:23] How Addictions Can Sneak Up On Us + The Connection Between The 12 Steps and Christianity [12:19] “To Be Alive Is to Be Addicted”[14:22] How Do We Figure Out What Our Addictions Are?[22:26] What if Addictions Are an Invitation From God?[24:30] How Can the Church Become a Place Where It Is Safe to Be Broken?[32:16] The Ways Enneagram Types Deal With Their Inner Brokenness + Is The Enneagram Against Biblical Teachings?[37:42] A Deeper Dive Into The Enneagram - Subtypes + Countertypes[40:17] Alicia's Reflections: Can You Identify The Brokenness Inside of You? And If So, What Are You Going to Do About It?RESOURCES:Tired of up-and-down feelings stealing your peace, sabotaging your relationships, and filling your mind with self-defeating thoughts? If so, make sure to get my new book, “Emotional Confidence: 3 Simple Steps to Manage Emotions with Science and Scripture”.Connect with author Ian Morgan CronRELATED EPISODES:122: I Am an Addict with Amanda Anderson125: How the Hustle Culture + Need to Achieve Nearly Took My Life126: Confessions of a Recovering Workaholic + PerfectionistSend us a text
Do you ever scroll through social media and wonder why everyone else's life seems perfect while yours feels like a constant struggle? C - Monster dives deep into this modern phenomenon, exposing the carefully crafted illusions that dominate our digital landscape and impact our self-worth.With raw honesty and zero filter, this episode challenges our cultural obsession with influencers and celebrities who we elevate to hero status despite knowing nothing about their true character. "Idolize the person that gets up every freaking morning to go to work, to put food on the table and a roof over your head," Sea Monster urges, encouraging listeners to redirect their admiration toward those who genuinely impact their lives—parents, teachers, coaches, and mentors who provide authentic guidance and support.The conversation takes a revealing look at gym culture, where people film elaborate workouts while barely breaking a sweat, and contrasts it with genuine grinders who are "too busy grinding" to document their journey. Sea Monster delivers the powerful truth that "a good person, a real person, actually works harder and better and does the right thing when nobody is looking." This becomes the episode's core message: character is defined not by what you showcase online but by who you are when there's no external validation at stake.Whether you're struggling with social media addiction or simply feeling lost in a world of digital smoke and mirrors, this episode offers a refreshing reality check and a path toward authentic living. Subscribe to Can't Be Broken for more unfiltered conversations that challenge conventional thinking and inspire genuine growth beyond the constraints of social expectations.
Mental toughness isn't born—it's forged through adversity, failure, and the deliberate pursuit of challenge. As I return for Season 4 of the Can't Be Broken podcast, I'm diving headfirst into what truly creates resilience in both athletics and life.Your mind functions exactly like a muscle. When weightlifters target their biceps, they deliberately create microscopic tears through resistance, allowing the muscle to rebuild stronger. Mental toughness develops through this same mechanism—facing resistance, experiencing setbacks, and growing through recovery. Without these challenges, your mental fortitude remains underdeveloped and unprepared for life's inevitable obstacles.The four C's framework provides a practical approach to building unbreakable mental strength. Control teaches us to focus exclusively on factors within our influence rather than wasting energy on circumstances beyond our reach. Commitment challenges us to show up consistently regardless of how we feel or what conditions we face. Challenge serves as the essential catalyst for growth—we must either seek out difficult situations or learn from our failures when they naturally occur. Finally, Confidence emerges not from empty affirmations but from thorough preparation and proven resilience. This authentic confidence grows in direct proportion to the work invested and obstacles overcome. Whether you're an athlete, student, business professional, or parent, embracing these principles creates not just temporary success but lasting mental fortitude. After all, a tough mind, like a C - Monsters Mindset, truly can't be broken.