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With the rise of social media, girls are bombarded with messages on what it means to be beautiful. Scarlet Hiltibidal and Jim Daly share how to encourage your daughters that they are enough, even if the world doesn't tell them that. Also, John and Danny offer some great insights on helping your daughter navigate the digital space today. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast. Or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book He Numbered the Pores on My Face for your donation of any amount! Take the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting Assessment Helping Your Daughter Embrace Her Inner Beauty What is Beauty? Talking to Your Daughter about Her Worth, Identity, and Beauty Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Parenting Podcast, please give us your feedback.

With the rise of social media, girls are bombarded with messages on what it means to be beautiful. Scarlet Hiltibidal and Jim Daly share how to encourage your daughters that they are enough, even if the world doesn't tell them that. Also, John and Danny offer some great insights on helping your daughter navigate the digital space today. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/parentingpodcast. Or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book He Numbered the Pores on My Face for your donation of any amount! Take the 7 Traits of Effective Parenting Assessment Helping Your Daughter Embrace Her Inner Beauty What is Beauty? Talking to Your Daughter about Her Worth, Identity, and Beauty Support This Show! If you enjoyed listening to the Focus on Parenting Podcast, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1197/29?v=20251111

Scarlet Hiltibidal joins Angie and Andrea for an honest conversation about shame—how it sneaks in through striving, guilt, and the pressure to be “enough.” Looking at Scripture and sharing personal stories, they talk about the difference between conviction that leads to freedom and shame that keeps us stuck. Scarlett reminds us that in Christ there is no condemnation, and that as we fix our eyes on Jesus—not ourselves—we can walk in real joy and peace.LINKSAshamed Bible StudyMore Resources from Scarlet HiltibidalParentLife Magazine HomeLife Magazine RECOMMENDED: Listen to this episode with Priscilla Shirer on what the Bible says about obedience. Hosted by Angie Elkins and Andrea Lennon with guest Scarlet Hiltibidal. CONNECT WITH US!Marked is a podcast from Lifeway Women.  Learn more about the CSB Women's Study Bible. Learn more about the She Reads Truth Bible. 

What do you do when your home feels like constant chaos—emotionally, logistically, and literally? Adam and Cassie sit down with author Scarlet Hiltibidal to talk about Hopefulish, why sadness is a normal part of the Christian life, and how the gospel meets parents right in the middle of disorder. This episode will help you reframe chaos as an invitation to trust God, practice honest faith at home, and hold onto hope without pretending everything's fine.Resources Mentioned:Hopefulish by Scarlet HiltibidalAfraid of All the Things by Scarlet HiltibidalAnxious (Bible study on anxiety) by Scarlet HiltibidalA Long Obedience in the Same Direction by Eugene Peterson  Follow Us:Instagram | Facebook | WebsiteEditing and support by The Good Podcast Co. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Listener note: This episode might be a good one to pop on those headphones or earbuds if you have little ears nearby. Part of our conversation includes a suicide and a cancer diagnosis.She's known for her laughter, wit, and upbeat outlook on life. But the last five years have taken a toll on Scarlet Hiltibidal and she's ready to talk about it. Scarlet joins AllMomDoes podcast host Julie Lyles Carr for a vulnerable conversation about what it takes to face life challenges with honesty while still remaining hopeful-ish.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/48wWPYS Takeaways:Scarlet is a mom of four, navigating chaos and change.Her new book 'Hopeful-ish' addresses personal pain and hope.The title was inspired by her husband's suggestion to lighten it up.Scarlet's writing process is influenced by her interactions with women facing similar struggles.Post-COVID, many are wrestling with feelings of sadness and despair.The importance of tending to one's faith like a farm is emphasized.Humor can coexist with deeper emotional struggles.Scarlet shares a poignant story about a donut and a young girl that brought her hope.Being open with children about faith and struggles is crucial.Hope is a gift from the Holy Spirit, not something we can manufacture.Sound Bites:"I want people to read it.""I was not running to God.""Don't fake your faith!"Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates02:51 The Creative Process Behind 'Hopeful-ish'05:31 Processing Grief and Loss Post-COVID08:48 Wrestling with Hope and Personal Struggles11:34 Balancing Humor and Heaviness in Life14:16 The Donkey Attack and Farming Adventures17:13 The Journey of Becoming a Farmer19:08 Tending to the Farm of Your Soul21:13 Navigating Jadedness and Hope23:04 The Gift of Hope in Difficult Times28:43 Parenting Through Faith and Challenges Keywords: Scarlet Hiltibidal, Hopeful-ish, grief, faith, motherhood, creativity, COVID-19, personal growth, humor, parenting

Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author of “Afraid ofAll the Things,” “You're the Worst Person in the World,” “He Numbered the Pores on My Face,” and the “Anxious and Ashamed” Bible studies. She writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine, HomeLife Magazine, and She Reads Truth. Scarlet enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. She loves hanging out with her husband and four kids, eating nachos by herself, writing for her friends, and studying stand-up comedy with a passion that should be reserved for more important pursuits. Her new book “Hopeful-ish” is available now. Key Topics: - Background to her book title, “Hopeful-ish” - How the gospel speaks to sadness - Hope found in the concept of Jesus being “fully God and fully man” - Scarlet's pillow nest and need for comfort during difficult seasons - How to practice spiritual disciplines and keep showing up when you don't want to - The role of community in finding hope - Where to start reading your Bible when you're not feeling hopeful - Navigating grief during the holiday season Learn more about Scarlet at her website https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com/ and on Instagram @scarlethiltibidal. You can grab all four of her books for only $30 here: https://www.lifeway.com/en/contributors/scarlet-hiltibidal Join Erin's monthly mailing list to get health tips and fresh meal plans and recipes every month: https://mailchi.mp/adde1b3a4af3/monthlysparksignup Order Erin's new book, Live Beyond Your Label, at erinbkerry.com/upcomingbook/ Buy Erin's recipe book, co-written by pediatrician Dr. Alina Olteanu here: https://a.co/d/ateoVxx

Do you feel a little sad and tired these days? Or that life has smacked you upside the head? Your relationships have faltered and you've lost some people you love. Scarlet Hiltibidal believes that you're not alone. She also believes you and I don't have to live this way—that hope is possible even if life doesn't return to the way it was. If you need some hope and encouragement, don't miss Chris Fabry Live. Featured resource:Hopeful-ish: Sadness, Weariness, Konkey Attacks, More Sadness, and Other Stuff You Need the Gospel For by Scarlet Hiltibidal October thank you gift:I Choose Joy by Chip Ingram Chris Fabry Live is listener-supported. To support the program, click here. Care NetBecome a Back Fence Partner: https://moodyradio.org/donateto/chrisfabrylive/partnersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

"The more we learn about angels, the more we learn about God, and the more we can root our faith in him."— Melissa SpoelstraToday's Episode: Today Natalie is chatting with Melissa Spoelstra about the unseen spiritual realm, specifically angels. They talk about our tendency to either underemphasize or overemphasize angels—pointing out that a good theology of angels comes from a healthy study of them. They discuss how our theology of angels helps us rightly understand the role of angels and our own place as fellow creatures, worshipers, and messengers of God in the world. This episode will not only grow your understanding of the spiritual realm but awaken your awe for our amazing God who created all things, including angels. This month's memory verse: "For we live by faith, not by sight." — 2 Corinthians 5:7Today's guest: Melissa Spoelstra is a women's conference speaker, Bible teacher and author who is madly in love with Jesus. She is passionate about studying God's Word and helping women of all ages to seek Christ and know Him more intimately through serious Bible study. Melissa has a degree in Bible theology, and she enjoys teaching God's Word to diverse groups and churches across the nation. Melissa is the author of many Bible studies, including “Angels,” “The Gospel of John,” and “Isaiah.”Want to go even deeper in this month's verse? Study along with Natalie in the monthly Bible Study Membership. Get the first month FREE with the code: PODCAST.Love this show? Support us by leaving a review.Links from today's show: Find out more about Melissa at MelissaSpoelstra.com. Check out her Angels Bible study. Get the ESV Prayer Journals for 30% off with a free Crossway Plus account.Check out the Forever Welcomed bible study, by Oghosa Iyamu. Get your copy of Scarlet Hiltibidal's book, Hopeful-ish.Check out the Piper and Leaf Tea Advent Calendar. Use: DWELL10 to save 10%.Our Black Friday Sale starts November 3rd!Support the showFollow Natalie & Vera at DwellDifferently.com and @dwelldifferenly.

"Suffering is where our faith is made real... And anything you see of enduring faith in me, that's God. That's his strength in my weakness."— Christine HooverToday's Episode: Listen in as Natalie talks with Bible teacher Christine Hoover about how God brought her through the most difficult year of her life. She shares how she learned to rely on God's strength in her weakness, to relinquish control, to accept the help and love of others, and to believe God through even the darkest times. More than that, she walk us through how she heard God's tender, faithful voice speaking to her in 2 Corinthians. You won't want to miss her amazing story!This month's memory verse: "For we live by faith, not by sight." — 2 Corinthians 5:7Today's guest: Christine Hoover is Bible teacher who serves as the Women's Ministry Associate at The Austin Stone Community Church's Northwest congregation in Austin, Texas. She has authored seven books, including Messy Beautiful Friendship and You Are Not Forgotten, as well as a Bible study of Matthew, Seek First the Kingdom. Her work has been featured on The Gospel Coalition and Christianity Today. Christine is married to Kyle, a pastor, and they have three sons. Want to go even deeper in this month's verse? Study along with Natalie in the monthly Bible Study Membership. Get the first month FREE with the code: PODCAST.Love this show? Support us by leaving a review.Links from today's show: Find out more about Christine at christinehoover.net or @christinehoover98.Get Christine's 2 Corinthians Bible study, More than Enough. Check out the Piper and Leaf Tea Advent Calendar. Use: DWELL10 to save 10%.Get the ESV Prayer Journals for 30% off with a free Crossway Plus account.Check out the Forever Welcomed bible study, by Oghosa Iyamu. Get your copy of Scarlet Hiltibidal's book, Hopeful-ish.Check out our FALL SALE October 13 through the 23rd! Support the showFollow Natalie & Vera at DwellDifferently.com and @dwelldifferenly.

"If I'm living by faith...I am believing that the God of the universe is at work. He is doing something. And I am not going to set that aside for something that is visible, something that is tangible."— Natalie AbbottToday's episode: Join Dwell Differently cofounders and sisters Natalie Abbott and Vera Schmitz as they discuss what it means to live out our faith. They talk about the real choice we make every day to get up and believe in the unseen work of God in our lives. They talk practically about how they create patterns of trusting God through reading and reciting his Word and how they rely on the faith of others to help them through seasons when faith is hard to find. You'l be encouraged in your own faith as you listen along. This month's memory verse: "For we live by faith, not by sight." — 2 Corinthians 5:7Want to go even deeper in this month's verse? Study along with Natalie in the monthly Bible Study Membership. Get the first month FREE with the code: PODCAST.Love our show? Support it by leaving us a review.Links from today's show: Get your copy of Hopeful-ish, by Scarlet Hiltibidal.Get the ESV Prayer Journals for 30% off with a free Crossway Plus account.Check out the Forever Welcomed bible study, by Oghosa Iyamu. Check out our FALL SALE October 13 through the 23rd! 24 Teas of Advent—Piper and Leaf Advent Calendar (10% off with code DWELL10)Support the showFollow Natalie & Vera at DwellDifferently.com and @dwelldifferenly.

"Our faith is not about how well we do our faith."— Scarlet HiltibidalToday's Episode: Join Natalie Abbott and Scarlet Hiltibidal as they discuss what it looks like to actually live by faith and instead of trusting in more tangible things. It's messy, and it often feels precarious, but it's so good. Scarlet talks about how she's seen God show up in the midst of cross-country moves and sad days and her mom's cancer diagnosis. She shares about the wonder of receiving instead of faking our faith or trying to earn God's favor. You won't want to miss this episode!This month's memory verse: "For we live by faith, not by sight." — 2 Corinthians 5:7Today's guest: Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author of “Afraid of All the Things,” “You're the Worst Person in the World,” “He Numbered the Pores on My Face,” and the “Anxious and Ashamed” Bible studies. She writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine, HomeLife Magazine, and She Reads Truth. Scarlet enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. She loves hanging out with her husband and four kids, eating nachos by herself, writing for her friends, and studying stand-up comedy with a passion that should be reserved for more important pursuits. Want to go even deeper in this month's verse? Study along with Natalie in the monthly Bible Study Membership. Get the first month FREE with the code: PODCAST.Love this show? Support us by leaving a review.Links from today's show: Find out all things Scarlet at ScarletHiltibidal.com. Get your copy of Scarlet's book, Hopeful-ish.Get the ESV Prayer Journals for 30% off with a free Crossway Plus account.Check out the Forever Welcomed bible study, by Oghosa Iyamu. Check out the book Scarlet recommended: A Long Obedience in the Same Direction, by Eugene Peterson.  Support the showFollow Natalie & Vera at DwellDifferently.com and @dwelldifferenly.

"Faith allows us to thrive despite life's hardships." — Natalie AbbottToday's episode: Join Natalie Abbott as she unpacks the powerful message of 2 Corinthians 5:7: "For we live by faith, not by sight." With thoughtful insight, she guides us verse by verse through the surrounding passage, highlighting how the Apostle Paul consistently contrasts the eternal promises of God with the fleeting realities of this world. Through her teaching, you'll be encouraged to shift your focus from what is seen to what is unseen and to trust God in every trial, holding fast to the hope that one day, your faith will become sight.This month's memory verse: ""For we live by faith, not by sight." — 2 Corinthians 5:7Want to go even deeper in this month's verse? Study along with Natalie in the monthly Bible Study Membership. Get the first month FREE with the code: PODCAST.If you love this show...support it by leaving us a review.Links from today's show: Get your copy of Hopeful-ish, by Scarlet Hiltibidal.Get the ESV Prayer Journals for 30% off with a free Crossway Plus account.Check out the Forever Welcomed bible study, by Oghosa Iyamu. Support the showFollow Natalie & Vera at DwellDifferently.com and @dwelldifferenly.

Jeff Medders reconnects with Scarlet Hiltibidal to discuss her latest book, 'Hopefulish.' They explore the themes of faith, humor, and the writing process, delving into Scarlet's personal experiences with loss and hope. The discussion highlights the importance of community, the challenges of writing, and the need for authenticity in sharing one's journey. Scarltt shares her unique stories, including a humorous yet poignant tale about donkey attacks, and offers insights into the writing process, encouraging aspiring writers to embrace their craft and trust in God's plan.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Welcome03:57 Scarlett's Writing Journey and New Book08:52 Reconciling Faith with Overwhelming Feelings16:06 The Donkey Attack Story21:17 Navigating Authenticity in Writing28:07 The Journey to Becoming a Published Author31:22 The Reality of Writing Routines35:09 Finding Time to Write44:11 Tools of the Trade46:01 Rapid Fire Questions and Final Thoughts

Friends, I'm so excited to welcome back a repeat guest to the podcast—Scarlet Hiltibidal! Scarlet first joined me back in 2022 (Episode 43), and today she's here again to talk about her brand-new book releasing this week: Hopeful-ish: Sadness, Weariness, Donkey Attacks, More Sadness, and Other Stuff You Need the Gospel For.So much has happened in Scarlet's life since the last time we talked—moves, family changes, heartbreaking loss, and even unexpected joy. In this conversation, Scarlet shares honestly about walking through tragedy, wrestling with hopelessness, and clinging to the promises of God when life feels heavy. She talks about what it means to be “pressed but not crushed” (2 Corinthians 4:8–9), why Romans 15:13 has anchored her heart, and how the Lord shows up even when we feel distracted or weak.We even dive into the story behind the donkey attack (yes, really!) and how something so wild points us back to the truth that staying close to Jesus is the only way to experience peace and joy in this world.If you've been feeling weary, sad, or just weighed down by the last few years—you're not alone. Scarlet's story will remind you that God is faithful, His presence is real, and hope is a gift that comes from Him.

"I was a Christian hiding this secret. "— Scarlet HiltibidalHave you ever been eaten up with anxiety? Have you ever found yourself all in a panic? Or have you held on tight to a secret struggle and felt like everything would fall apart if anyone found you out? If so, you're not alone. Scarlet Hiltibidal is a mom, pastor's wife, author, speaker, and someone who struggles with anxiety and panic. She used to try desperately to be perfect and to hide her struggles. But one day, she realized that she couldn't do it anymore, and it was the best thing! You'll be so encouraged by Scarlet's story of how God worked his great peace in her heart and continues to do so. It is a picture of the story God wants to tell not in just Scarlet's life but in all our lives.  This month's memory verse: "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you." — Isaiah 26:3 Today's guest: Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author of Afraid of All the Things, You're the Worst Person in the World, He Numbered the Pores on My Face, and the Anxious and Ashamed Bible studies. She writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine, HomeLife Magazine, and She Reads Truth. Scarlet enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. She and her husband live in Tennessee, where she loves sign language with her daughters, nachos by herself, writing for her friends, and studying stand-up comedy with a passion that should be reserved for more important pursuits.Memorize Scripture with us: Find out more about the easy button for Scripture memory, Dwell Differently's monthly kit!Get our weekly devotional email: Dive deeper into this month's verse.Love our show? Leave us a review: We'd love to hear from you! And it helps others find our show. Links from today's show: Read more about Scarlet's take on this month's verse and about how she found herself screaming through a parking lot in her article Screaming, Sprinting, and Seeking Peace: Fighting Anxiety with the Word of God.Learn more about fighting anxiety with God's truth in Natalie and Vera's new book: Dwell Differently: Overcome Negative Thinking with the Simple Practice of Memorizing God's Truth.Sign up for our email list!Support the Show.

You have the best weapon against shame… the Word of God. So today, author Scarlet Hiltibidal is back on the 4:13 to help us move beyond shame to the joy-inducing, peace-producing thrill that comes from a relationship with Jesus. Scarlet will expose the sources of shame, give you scriptural strategies to combat them, and help you live in the light and victory of God's Word. She'll also explain the connection between shame and humility, helping you discover the deep, freeing truth that being undone is the right place to start. So, shame off you! Here we go… SHOW NOTES: 413Podcast.com/307 Enter to win the GIVEAWAY Read the Episode Transcript Get my weekly email, Java with Jennifer, to be notified when a new podcast episode releases. Subscribe HERE. 

In this special re-aired episode of The Defender Podcast, we delve into the depths of motherhood with Scarlet Hiltibidal, an international adoptive mom. As we approach Mother's Day and Birth Mother's Day, Scarlet shares her poignant journey of motherhood, offering insights into both its biological and adoptive forms.GUESTScarlet Hiltibidal has three daughters, one brought home through international adoption. She is also an author of several books, including "Afraid of All the Things," "You're the Worst Person in the World," and the "Anxious" bible study, and many other books. She writes regularly for Parent Life magazine, Home Life magazine, and "She Reads Truth." She, her husband, and family live in southern California. HOSTHerbie Newell is the President & Executive Director of Lifeline Children's Services and its ministry arms.CO-HOSTDr. Rick Morton is the Vice President of Engagement at Lifeline Children's Services.RESOURCESThe ministries carried out through Lifeline are only possible because of partnerships with the Body of Christ. When others give their time, knowledge, and resources, we can continue working together to live out God's call to care for the vulnerable. Vessels of Hope is our faithful community of monthly donors. We would love for you to join this incredible group that helps provide stable ministry month in and month out. Visit https://lifelinechild.org/monthly-giving/ to impact lives and spread the gospel around the world. LIFELINE CHILDREN'S SERVICESThe mission of Lifeline Children's Services is to equip the Body of Christ to manifest the gospel to vulnerable children. Our vision is for vulnerable children and their communities to be transformed by the gospel and to make disciples. FOLLOW USFacebook, Instagram, TwitterThe Defender Podcast: Subscribe on iTunes | Transistor | SpotifyThe Defender Bible Study: Subscribe on iTunes | Transistor | Spotify

How do you deal with shame in your life? If you have experienced debilitating shame, don't miss Chris Fabry Live. Author and speaker Scarlet Hiltibidal will take us to several people in the pages of Scripture. How did Isaiah, Peter, Paul, and the woman at the well move from shame to a hopeful humility and an eagerness to serve God? Don't miss the encouragement on Chris Fabry Live.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode talk about teen suicide. Some listeners may find certain topics uncomfortable.It's no surprise anxiety is at an all-time high among children. This episode, counselor Julie Lowe shares practical things parents can do to help their anxious children. Julie contributed to a new Lifeway product this year called The Life Counsel Bible by writing on ways to address anxiety in children and suicidal thoughts in teens. She shares signs parents should look for in teens who might have suicidal thoughts, and what parents should do if they notice these behaviors. SHOW LINKSLife Counsel Bible 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Biblical Counseling Resources MARKED is a podcast from Lifeway Women: https://women.lifeway.com/blog/podcasts/.Hosted by Kelly King and Elizabeth Hyndman.RECOMMENDED: Listen to this episode of MARKED with Scarlet Hiltibidal on living free from shame. 

What do we say to our girls when they have low self esteem? Today, Scarlet Hiltibidal joins Danny and Rebecca to talk about how we can help our girls find their identity in Christ! Plus, we'll hear a question from a dad who wants to know how he can encourage his daughter who's getting bullied at school.   He Numbered the Pores on My Face   Check out our Brio Magazine for teen girls!   Click here to read Rebecca's letter to her younger self!

This week hosts Mike and Sarah talk with returning guest Scarlet Hiltabital about her latest books and Bible studies for both women and teens! Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author of books like You're the Worst Person in the World, Afraid of All the Things, and He Numbered the Pores on My Face. She writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine and She Reads Truth, and enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. Scarlet has a degree in biblical counseling and taught elementary school before she started writing. She and her husband live in the Nashville, TN area, where she loves doing sign language with her daughters, eating nachos by herself, writing for her friends, and studying stand-up comedy with a passion that should be reserved for more important pursuits. ---------------------------------------------- The BIble for Kids is now a 501c3 non-profit and we'd love to have you join us in our mission of reaching kids with the message of the Bible. Our NEW store now features "Pay What You Can" pricing on many items with more coming soon. Visit TheBibleforKids.com to donate or learn more today! The Bible for Kids Podcast is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. To find practical and spiritual advice to help you grow into the parent you want to be visit www.ChristianParenting.org

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode talk about suicide and the death of a relative. Some listeners may find certain topics uncomfortable. Author Scarlet Hiltibidal joins us today to talk about her new Bible study, Ashamed: Fighting Shame with the Word of God. Scarlet's first Bible study with Lifeway Women walked through how to fight anxiety with the Word of God, and this new one discusses the subject of shame. Scarlet shares why these subjects matter to her, as well as how she believes women can practically live in freedom with the understanding that Christ took their shame on the cross. Listen in to our conversation! RESOURCES: Anxious Bible Study Book  Ashamed Bible Study Book  You're the Worst Person in the World  Afraid of All the Things  He Numbered the Pores on My Face  Anxious Bible Study Book in Spanish, Ansiedad - Estudio bíblico con videos para mujeres  MARKED is a podcast from Lifeway Women: https://women.lifeway.com/blog/podcasts/. Hosted by Kelly King and Elizabeth Hyndman. RECOMMENDED: Listen to author Jennifer Rothschild on how we can confidently place our trust in God, no matter the circumstances.

Often, we feel undeserving of forgiveness and ashamed of past failures. Scarlet Hiltibidal joins Bill to preview her new six-week Bible Study series "Ashamed". They discuss where we see shame in the Bible, and how we can take comfort knowing God is gracious, and able to heal us from past experiences. Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here

Kirk Cameron is joined by author of Afraid of All the Things Scarlet Hiltibidal to discuss how to stand for Truth when it's unpopular. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today on the podcast, in honor of Mother's Day and Birth Mother's Day coming up, Scarlet Hiltibidal, an international adoptive mom, joins and shares about her journey of motherhood and what it looks like in biological forms but also what it looks like in its adoption form. GUESTScarlet Hiltibidal has three daughters, one brought home through international adoption. She is also an author of several books, including "Afraid of All the Things," "You're the Worst Person in the World," and the "Anxious" bible study, and many other books. She writes regularly for Parent Life magazine, Home Life magazine, and "She Reads Truth." She, her husband, and family live in southern California. HOSTHerbie Newell is the President & Executive Director of Lifeline Children's Services and its ministry arms.CO-HOSTRick Morton is the Vice President of Engagement at Lifeline Children's Services.RESOURCES The ministries carried out through Lifeline are only possible because of partnerships with the Body of Christ.  When others give their time, knowledge, and resources, we can continue working together to live out God's call to care for the vulnerable.  Vessels of Hope is our faithful community of monthly donors. We would love for you to join this incredible group that helps provide stable ministry month in and month out.  Visit https://lifelinechild.org/monthly-giving/ to impact lives and spread the gospel around the world.  LIFELINE CHILDREN'S SERVICES The mission of Lifeline Children's Services is to equip the Body of Christ to manifest the gospel to vulnerable children. Our vision is for vulnerable children and their communities to be transformed by the gospel and to make disciples.  Web: lifelinechild.org Email: info@lifelinechild.org Facebook, Instagram, Twitter: @lifelinechild The Defender Podcast: Subscribe on iTunes | Stitcher | Spotify The Defender Bible Study: Subscribe on iTunes | Stitcher | Spotify

Scarlet Hiltibidal will help educate parents about the beauty- and body-obsessed mindset that many teen girls adopt. She'll give insights and advice to parents on how to help their daughters counter negativity and know their identity in Christ.Receive the book "He Numbered the Pores on My Face" and the audio download of the broadcast "Helping Your Daughter Embrace Her Inner Beauty" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

Scarlet Hiltibidal is a pastor's wife, mom of three, and author of several books including her newest one, “You're the Worst Person in the World: Why It's the Best News Ever that You Don't Have it Together, You Aren't Enough, and You Can't Fix It on Your Own”. She comes on the show today to share with us the good news and encouragement of the gospel and how it applies to our everyday lives.   What We Chat About on This Episode:   ~Scarlet's new book, “You're the Worst Person in the World: Why It's the Best News Ever that You Don't Have it Together, You Aren't Enough, and You Can't Fix It on Your Own”, what led her to write it, and what readers can expect ~Scarlet's journey of doubt and striving to earn God's favor ~Why it's crucially important to know and understand that the gospel is for our everyday lives here and now ~How chasing anything ahead of Christ inevitably leads to disappointment ~The problem with chasing our own glory and idolizing platform and influence ~Understanding that we are not enough, and it isn't about us just doing the best we can; understanding that peace with God comes from acknowledging that we are not enough on our own - but He is on our behalf ~The comfort that comes with knowing we can cease our striving ~How the gospel impacts our mothering ~The comfort which comes with knowing God can bring good out of anything that happens in our lives and even any sin we commit ~The joy and comfort that comes from being a sheep cared for by the Shepherd ~The crucial importance of opening our Bibles ~And more!   For full shownotes, head to www.hargraveshomeandhearth.com/podcast

Happy New Year sisters! We are starting 2023 with our annual Healthy Way series. All things new are impacted by expectations, sometimes expectations set us up for success, and sometimes they don't. How do we move toward growth as we change the calendar page without striving? Do we put our faith in God or in ourselves to make changes? If we peel back the layers of our intentions, what do we find? We cover all of these questions with Scarlet Hiltibidal. We also hear about how she grew up in the green room of SNL (true story) and how her early adventures impacted her view of the world. A great way to start the new year, a sister-to-sister chat that swings between childhood memories, the impact of strangers, hiding under the bed covers in China, and seeing a relationship with God as a gift. We'd love to know what you are hoping for as you move into 2023? What are you hoping for? How do you balance the agency God's given you with knowing you don't need to do anything to earn God's love? Join the conversation! Connect with Scarlet On Instagram, or her website.   A few things mentioned SNL Victoria Jackson "Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things." - Colossians 3:2 Scarlet's first book Afraid of All The Things Scarlet's new book You're The Worst Person in the World "Whoever conceals their sins does not prosper,     but the one who confesses and renounces them finds mercy." - Proverbs 28:13 The Prodigal God by Tim Keller Hoping for Happiness by Barnabas Piper   Thank you to our sponsor https://servantcoffee.com/ Servant Coffee is backed by the simple belief that we should always consider how we can serve others well in this world. At the intersection of innovation, creativity and unwavering drive is a coffee that focuses our passion for progress on providing quality and tasteful support to collaborators and consumers alike.  

Do you struggle from anxiety? Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illness in the US, affecting 40,000,000 adults age 18 and older. But even without a diagnosis, most likely all of us struggle with anxiousness to some degree.In today's episode, we chat with Scarlet Hiltibidal, the author ofAfraid of All the Things, You're the Worst Person in the World, theAnxiousBible Study, and other books. She writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine, HomeLife Magazine, and She Reads Truth. Scarlet has a Degree in Biblical Counseling, has taught in Elementary School before pursuing writing, and lives with her husband and kids in Southern California.The journey to writing about ‘anxiousness' was sparked in part by her unusual childhood and desire for stability. Fortunately, the importance of the Bible was instilled in her at a young age by her mother.We hope this episode will leave you feeling refreshed and ready to fight anxiety with God's Word.Episode Highlights: Introduction to Scarlet HiltibidalScarlet's UpbringingHer journey to writingFaith & Studying the BibleFind more on Scarlet:Scarlet's WebsiteAnxious Bible StudyAfraid of All the Things BookHe Numbered the Pores on My Face BookYou're the Worst Person in the World BookInstagram: @scarlethiltibidalScarlet's FacebookFind More on Abiding Free:Instagram: @abidingfreeFollow us on FacebookCheck out our Website HEREContact: abidingfree@gmail.com

The pressures of performing well as a ministry or pastor's wife often fill us with anxiety. It's easy to become lost in expectations and turn our eyes on ourselves. Author Scarlet Hiltibidal joins me today to discuss anxiety as a pastor's wife. Scarlet, a self-proclaimed anxiety expert, shares how she fights fear with a heavenly gaze and an open Bible. EPISODE GUIDE 1. Anxiety whispers different fears to every woman's heart. 2. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be a good ministry wife and mother, but it's not about you, keep looking upward to Jesus. 3. We’re all a mess; take it to the Lord together, open His Word and do what it says. BEST QUOTES “I was so anxious about my own goodness and what other people thought of me and what God thought of me. I could have said to you, ‘God sees the perfection of Jesus when He looks at me,’ but I didn’t live like I believed that, so I wasn’t at peace.” — Scarlet Hiltibidal “When I do something good, it’s all because of the Holy Spirit working through me. When I fail, which I will, I don’t have to despair. I can apologize and tell my children, husband, and whoever is around, ‘Thank God for Jesus! This is why He died and rose again.'” — Scarlet Hiltibidal “I pray that even in my failures I’m able to point people to Him and that I’m able to comfort the women at our church, not by being like, ‘I’m a mess, I’m the worst.’ But by saying, ‘Hey, we’re all a mess. Let’s take it to the Lord. Let’s open His Word every day and do what it says and experience the joy of obeying and being free of the sins that enslave us.” — Scarlet Hiltibidal LINKS FROM THE SHOW You’re the Worst Person in the World Anxious (Bible Study) Afraid of All the Things Head over to www.ministrywivespodcast.com to check out the great content already on the site! CONNECT Connect with Scarlet Instagram // Website Connect with Christine Facebook // Instagram // Books Visit How to Thrive as a Pastor’s Wife to access Christine's resources for ministry wives like you!

Do you feel like you have to be the best at everything? The best mom. The best wife. The best sandwich-maker. Or even the best Christian? Today's guest, author Scarlet Hiltibidal, knows exactly what it's like to constantly strive for perfection. For Scarlet, trying to be the best at pretty much everything was her life story. But now, she has learned to give up on perfect and embraced grace instead. We're about to stare our less-than-perfect selves straight in the face and feel the weight of just how absurdly and glaringly off the mark we actually are! And then, we'll get to experience the freedom of grace! It's time to stop trying to be perfect and start walking with the One who really is perfect. And as we do, we will be changed for the better. SHOW NOTES: 413podcast.com/212

Happy 100 episodes to me and also happy first day of fall to everyone! If you know me at all, you know I am obsessed with Fall. As a native Floridian who now lives in a place with all 4 seasons and my birthday is in Fall, it is my absolute favorite season and I get into it all. So yeah I couldn't think of a better day to celebrate 100 episodes and my favorite season than today.I'm also really excited because I am joined today by my better half, my husband Joel! He's going to help me host today, ask me some questions and just be here to celebrate with me. Not many people know this but he has edited every single episode of this podcast. He is a behind the scenes kind of guy and the poor man has had to listen to every single episode and make it sound good! He's a trooper and I am so grateful that the editing is something I don't have to outsource and I have someone right here with me that I can trust to put the finishing touches on all of our episodes and know his heart is to me succeed and share these stories with the world.So now the tables get turned a bit as he gets to be on the mic and ask me some questions! Then, we will share some superlatives - some noteworthy episodes and ones that stand out for different reasons and you'll hear short clips from them, too. I hope you enjoy this episode and thank you so much for celebrating with me!

As I think about raising kids from birth through high school, this is the thing that sticks out the most for me. My worries about them and for them have evolved so much over the years. It seems like worry is a natural part of parenting. But, what good does worry do for us? Usually, we are worrying about something we actually have no control over. In this episode of Launch, Jamie and Lisa unpack the deep shadows of worrying about our kids, how it's often a reflection of our own insecurities, and how we can bury our worries by clinging to the only thing we need. Resources:Subscribe to LAUNCH so you never miss an episodeKids: What do I do with Worry? By Josh & Christi StraubTeen girls: Brave by Sissy GoffRaising Worry-Free Girls by Sissy GoffOvercoming Fear, Worry, and Anxiety by Elyse FitzpatrickFierce Faith by Alli WorthingtonAfraid of all the things by Scarlet Hiltibidal

Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author of books like Afraid of All the Things, He Numbered the Pores on My Face, and Bible studies like Anxious. She writes regularly for ParentLife magazine and She Reads Truth, and enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. Scarlet has a degree in biblical counseling and taught elementary school before she started writing. She and her husband live in southern California, where she loves signing with her three daughters, eating nachos by herself, writing for her friends, and studying stand-up comedy with a passion that should be reserved for more important pursuits.

Are you tired of the unrelenting pressure to be the best at everything? Scarlet Hiltibidal was too. For Scarlet, attempting to be the best at pretty much everything—whether that be the best wife or the best sub-sandwich maker or the best Christian—was her life story. But in the midst of all her striving and reaching to hit the mark, she somehow still couldn't grab hold of the joy and freedom and life-change that's supposed to come with the gospel's good news. That is, until she realized something revolutionary—instead of the best, she might actually be…the worst. The “chief of sinners.” Poor in spirit and gone astray. In today's episode, Scarlet tells plenty of stories of her own “worstness” to help you see your own and rejoice in the reality that our goodness and badness aren't what make God smile at us. If you're tired of hustling to be the best, take a load off with Scarlet and say the honest and laughable truth along with her: we're the worst people in the world! “Obey and make it about Jesus.” Connect with Scarlet: https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com

Is your face melting off from the heat? We used to just call this ridiculous weather “Texas in July.”  But the odds are if you're in the United States or Europe, you're doing a little bit of sweating right alongside us. Not to mention, if you have kids home this summer and you didn't plan enough activities, there's some sweating involved with that too.    Thankfully we have Scarlet Hiltibidal with us today. She's an author, speaker, and mom who knows what it's like when you're trying to be everything to everyone. She found herself feeling like “the worst person in the world” after years of hustling, striving, and trying to prove to God and everyone else that she was good enough.    Today she shares with us how important it is to come to terms with our status as sinners, and how to pivot from striving to chasing after the right things—the eternal things. She also gives us practical ways to defeat the lies we struggle with and stand on the truth we find in Jesus.    Can't wait for you to hear from Scarlet this week! And then stay tuned because we have some awesome shows coming your way to prepare us for back to school. Stay cool!    Resources from today's show:  You're the worst person in the world Signals: How Brain Science and the Bible Help Parents Raise Resilient Children A Parent's Prayer Guide: Key Psalms to Pray Over Your Kids

Scarlet wants you to know you don't have to have it all together. Our conversation talks about grace, peace, and finding heroes.  You are going to love her thoughts for the world.  Full transcripts here.  Links:  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ScarletHiltibidal  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scarlethiltibidal/  Websites: https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com/ Spirit and Truth Tony on Instagram

Where are my girls at that try to carry all the weight, do all the things and then feel like a complete failure when it doesn't happen the right way? *raises hand* hehe, me too! You're not alone. My new friend Scarlet Hiltibidal shares so much wisdom about this idea, how we can actually do more by doing less, surrendering and realizing that we're actually not enough. There has to be more to us than us. If you need a deep breath, permission to do less and need a friend that just gets it, press play. Shownotes: behindtheblisspodcast.com/shownotes/184

Jenn is welcoming Scarlet Hiltibidal (HILL-ti-BUY-dal) to the show today.  Scarlet is author of several books, and writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine, HomeLife Magazine, and She Reads Truth.  She enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. Scarlet has a degree in biblical counseling and taught elementary school before she started writing.  Today they discuss:   How to let go of perfectionism. Finding joy and freedom by resting in Jesus. How the gospel brings peace to our lives.   Scarlet's new book, You're The Worst Person in the World: Why It's the Best News Ever that You Don't Have it Together, You Aren't Enough, and You Can't Fix it on Your Own Anxious book Luke 4:1-13 Matthew 5:3   Connect with Scarlet Hiltibidal: Website Facebook Instagram   Connect with Jenn: Instagram Facebook Website DONATE to Coming Alive Ministries

Thanks so much for joining us today for a fun and JOY-filled conversation with Alisa and author, wife, mom and cheerleader, Scarlet Hiltibidal.  Alisa and Scarlet share so much laughter as they talk about Scarlet's newest book, You're the Worst Person Ever, and why this really is the very best news!  Scarlet says this book is for the person tired of trying to be perfect at everything and that letting JESUS get all the glory is what we were designed to do.  She says it really all comes down to walking out Romans 3:23 which is the place where all the striving ends and the good news begins!    Scarlet will quickly become one of your favorite voices as she shares her sweet love of Jesus and how He has walked her into a greater portion of freedom.  You're also going to want to hear her share their family story of saying yes to adopting her middle daughter, who was born hearing-impaired, and how God moved her into further peace when the challenge seemed too great.  We think you're going to be blessed as you listen! Make sure to connect with Scarlet in all the places listed below! INSTAGRAM and WEBSITE. Scarlet's first book, as mentioned on in this episode: Afraid of All the Things.     For more great resources from Revelation Wellness on how to walk in freedom from striving and perfection, check out these links: Recover Your Freedom Radical Freedom True Beauty     Don't forget to register for IMPACT!  The doors close tomorrow, April 15!   We LOVE your reviews!  They really do help us spread the good news!  Please leave your here and if we read your name on our show, we'll send you a free gift from the Revelation Wellness Store!

Author Scarlet Hiltibidal's testimony is incredible. Listen to her break it down, discuss her book, "You're the Worst Person in the World: Why It's the Best News Ever that You Don't Have it Together, You Aren't Enough, and You Can't Fix It on Your Own" — and what so many people get wrong about fear, anxiety, and the quest for peace. Scarlet joins Rashawn and Josh to break it all down. Subscribe to "No Turning Back" on Edifi and your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/no-turning-back-podcast-26977/ 

Thanks so much for joining us today for a fun and JOY-filled conversation with Alisa and author, wife, mom and cheerleader, Scarlet Hiltibidal.  Alisa and Scarlet share so much laughter as they talk about Scarlet's newest book, You're the Worst Person Ever, and why this really is the very best news!  Scarlet says this book is for the person tired of trying to be perfect at everything and that letting JESUS get all the glory is what we were designed to do.  She says it really all comes down to walking out Romans 3:23 which is the place where all the striving ends and the good news begins!    Scarlet will quickly become one of your favorite voices as she shares her sweet love of Jesus and how He has walked her into a greater portion of freedom.  You're also going to want to hear her share their family story of saying yes to adopting her middle daughter, who was born hearing-impaired, and how God moved her into further peace when the challenge seemed too great.  We think you're going to be blessed as you listen! Make sure to connect with Scarlet in all the places listed below! INSTAGRAM and WEBSITE. Scarlet's first book, as mentioned on in this episode: Afraid of All the Things.     For more great resources from Revelation Wellness on how to walk in freedom from striving and perfection, check out these links: Recover Your Freedom Radical Freedom True Beauty     Don't forget to register for IMPACT!  The doors close tomorrow, April 15!   We LOVE your reviews!  They really do help us spread the good news!  Please leave your here and if we read your name on our show, we'll send you a free gift from the Revelation Wellness Store!

Welcome Scarlet Hiltibidal to the podcast today!  I was so excited to meet her and to discuss her freedom story.  She is the author of Afraid of All the Things, You're the Worst Person in the World, the Anxious Bible study, and other books. She writes regularly for ParentLife Magazine, HomeLife Magazine, and She Reads Truth. Scarlet enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. She and her husband live in Southern California, where she loves sign language with her three daughters, nachos by herself, writing for her friends, and studying stand-up comedy with a passion that should be reserved for more important pursuits. Click the link in her bio to preorder her new book today and then head to the link below to get her preorder devotional!  Hurry, it comes out April 5th! Link: https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/scarlethiltibidal/ ***This podcast is a proud member of the Spark Network! It is a network of Christian podcasts that cover so many different topics!  Head over to: https://www.sparkmedia.ventures/spark-network#/ to find more amazing podcasts!!

In this episode we chat with Scarlet Hiltibidal about her new book, nachos vs tacos, and the best Californian restaurant. You are the BEST person in the world for listening to this episode! Follow Scarlet on Instagram, Facebook, and her website! Go get her new book 'You're the Worst Person in the World' and check out the website. Are you Meg, Jo, Beth, or Amy? Buzzfeed Quiz I give thanks to Christ Jesus our Lord who has strengthened me, because he considered me faithful, appointing me to the ministry— even though I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an arrogant man. But I received mercy because I acted out of ignorance in unbelief, and the grace of our Lord overflowed, along with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. This saying is trustworthyand deserving of full acceptance: “Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners”—and I am the worst of them. 1 Timothy 1:12-15 Meagan-Mickey's Dream Vacations Through-Line Cohort Hold On Twitter Hold On Instagram Hold On Facebook Page Hold On Facebook Group --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/holdonpodcast/message

“I still struggle, I still fail, I still get overly emotional and overreact…but grace is real. And how beautiful is that?”It's been way too long since Scarlet has been on the show and I'm so excited to have her back! Scarlet Hiltibidal is the author of Afraid of All the Things, the Anxious Bible Study, and her upcoming book, You're the Worst Person in the World.Interesting book title, right? Well, Scarlet breaks down why this is such great news. A lot of times we say “I'm the worst” or “I'm a mess” and then we just stop there. But the fact that we're the worst and Jesus is the best is so freeing - He was glad to die for us.Connect with JamieFacebook // Twitter // Instagram // YouTubeGET ALL THE LINKS FROM THE SHOW HERE

I'm thrilled to welcome back to today's Chatologie show speaker and author of the new book, You're The Worst Person In The World, Scarlet Hiltibidal.  Scarlet is one of those people that you could just sit and have coffee with because she is so relatable and I love it!  Listen in today as we discuss why it's okay for us to realize that we don't have to be perfect.  You are going to love this conversation…and I'm so glad you're here for it.    Grab your Free Training for Enjoy God's Word Online Conference:  “Learn How To Fit a Deep Study of Scripture Into Your Busy Schedule”:     https://chatologie--katieorr.thrivecart.com/egw-2022-rom-8-dd/620b1dd8c165f/   Launch your podcast in just 4 weeks by joining Angie's Coaching Cohorts Class with Sister Circle.  Register for this 4 week class Thursdays at 9a CT starting March 17th here:  www.chrystalevanshurst.com/coaching  Connect with Scarlet: Chatologie Episode 85:  Afraid of All The Things:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-85-afraid-of-all-the-things-with-scarlet-hiltibidal/id1244944250?i=1000429699374 Website:  https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com/ IG:  https://www.instagram.com/scarlethiltibidal/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ScarletHiltibidal/ Remember to share this episode with a friend- it would mean the world to me!   Connect With Angie: Website: chatologie.com IG: @angiebrownelkins Twitter: @Angieelkins Facebook: @chatologieangieelkins

Scarlet and Leighann discuss anxiety, faith, and prayer. They determine that just as Tim Keller said, "it's complicated." You will be encouraged as you listen to their conversation. And, you will want to get yourself a copy of Scarlet's new Bible study, "Anxious: Fighting Anxiety with the Word of God." You can connect with Scarlet by visiting her at: www.scarlethiltibidal.com You can purchase her new Bible study, Anxious, at https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com/bible-studies Tim Keller's message The Wounded Spirit: www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkL3R27ZV1o FREE "Scarlet's Favorite Fear-Fighting Verses" printables Fighting Fear With Scripture (Plus, Free Printables) - Lifeway Women Scarlet is the author of Afraid of All the Things, and He Numbered the Pores on My Face. She writes regular columns for ParentLife Magazine and devotionals for She Reads Truth and enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. Scarlet has a degree in biblical counseling and taught elementary school before she started writing. She and her husband live in Southern California with their three daughters.

Scarlet and Leighann discuss anxiety, faith, and prayer. They determine that just as Tim Keller said, "it's complicated." You will be encouraged as you listen to their conversation. And, you will want to get yourself a copy of Scarlet's new Bible study, "Anxious: Fighting Anxiety with the Word of God." You can connect with Scarlet by visiting her at: www.scarlethiltibidal.com You can purchase her new Bible study, Anxious, at https://www.scarlethiltibidal.com/bible-studies Tim Keller's message The Wounded Spirit: www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkL3R27ZV1o FREE "Scarlet's Favorite Fear-Fighting Verses" printables Fighting Fear With Scripture (Plus, Free Printables) - Lifeway Women Scarlet is the author of Afraid of All the Things, and He Numbered the Pores on My Face. She writes regular columns for ParentLife Magazine and devotionals for She Reads Truth and enjoys speaking to women around the country about the freedom and rest available in Jesus. Scarlet has a degree in biblical counseling and taught elementary school before she started writing. She and her husband live in Southern California with their three daughters.

On episode #3 of A Big, Happy Life I get to introduce you to my new friend, Scarlet Hiltibidal. Not only is Scarlet funny, but she is the mama to three beautiful girls and is married to a man who has always dreamed of being a farmer. Scarlet is the author of two recent books: Afraid of All The Things and He Numbered the Pores on my Face. Oh yeah, and she also writes a column for Family Life Magazine and Lifeway. She is an excellent communicator and enjoys speaking to women across the country about the freedom and rest you can find in Christ Jesus. Best part? She is the very first person to introduce me to sinkholes and firenados. Scarlet is the real deal. We talk about adopting her daughter with special needs, truly needing community and fighting to stay in God's Word. I can't wait for you to get to know her. Enjoy hearing from my new friend, Scarlet!