Called to Queer

In this episode, we interview Nicole LaRue. We talk about her art and graphic design, being in an queer abusive relationship (and the contrast of that with her relationship with her wife now), and dealing with an eating disorder.Nicole LaRue was born in Berkeley, California. After earning her BFA from Brigham Young University, her own adventures took her across the world from South Korea to Japan, to the Oregon coast and places even farther. She currently lives and works in Salt Lake City, Utah. Both a graphic designer and illustrator, LaRue is widely known for her iconic work on the Women's March on Washington logo. She is the author, designer and illustrator of a number of books including Girl Almighty and Small & Mighty, interactive activist journals for kids. She has, most recently, collaborated with human rights lawyer, Kate Kelly on a book titled Ordinary Equality, a brilliantly graphic story of the women and queer people of the ERA.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview nicholas b jacobsen. We talk about an interaction with a cop that put them back in the closet for another decade, how they became an activist, and how colonialism, white supremacy, and Mormonism are tied together.nicholas b jacobsen is a seventh-generation Utah-Mormon, trans-nonbinary settler raised in Nuwu homelands. As a creative historian, culture critic, & visual artist, their work addresses their personal and ancestral connections to the U.S. & Mormon settler-colonial-imperialist project. Through this, they work to disassimilate from the myths of white-supremacy and settler-innocence central to Mormon & U.S. cultures. jacobsen completed a Master of Fine Arts degree in Art & Ecology at the University of New Mexico & a Bachelor of Fine Arts in ceramics from Southern Utah University. They've has won many awards & have been published, podcasted, exhibited, and collected throughout the U.S. You can see more of their work at nicholasbjacobsen.com, unsettlingmormonism.com and @Unsettling_Mormonism on Instagram.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Alice Abrams. We talk about realizing she was bi after she was married and had a baby (and the process of telling her husband and coming out publicly), how her art and queerness have intertwined, and getting into printmaking.M. Alice Abrams (Pritchett) is an illustrator and printmaker specializing in linoleum block print located in Vancouver, Washington. Her art work reflects her religious convictions and insights, as well as her insights and feelings about parenthood. Her goal is to create simple yet poignant artwork that makes people feel loved, seen, and welcomed in the gospel of Jesus Christ. Alice recently came out as Bi-sexual and Bi-romantic on her Instagram account, and shares some of her experiences with coming out to her community of friends online. When she isn't busy carving or painting, she is trying to keep up with her lively daughters and dog with her husband.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Eliza Campbell. She talks about growing up in a liberal Mormon household, believing that Jesus is an extremely radical figure, and how difficult it can be to step away from the church.Eliza Campbell is a writer and activist living in Queens, New York. She served a Mormon mission in Bulgaria and graduated from BYU, and is enthusiastic about liberation, poetry, and gas station cuisine.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

CW: SA and suicidality.In this episode, Kate reads their Medium.com article they wrote to begin 2023 about their temple experiences to start the New Year of 2019. For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we talk about sex. There is a content warning for sexual assault. We cover the taboo topics that you might be too afraid to ask, and also really dig into the ways patriarchy has completely boxed out any and all ways that celebrate women's and AFAB folk's sexual experiences. We ask, "What even is sex?" and "What is lesbian sex?" We cover toys and masturbation. We also focus on healthy sexuality and consent. There's a lot here! Strap in and join us for a wild ride.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Kaneesha Wardle. We talk about her not really wanting children, realizing she was queer when she was pregnant, then going through extreme postpartum depression. Kaneesha also discusses what it's like having a child diagnosed with cancer, finding moments of joy even during really hard things, and some ideas on how to deal with shame.Kaneesha Wardle recently permed her hair because it was the straightest thing about her. It's also somehow helped her tap into her inner child more, which she's really enjoyed. She may still be trying to figure out what she wants to do with her life professionally, but in her free time, she enjoys cuddles, puzzles, playing games, and coloring.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Arawn Billings. Some topics we cover include dealing with chronic illness and shame, the importance of representation in art, and the stories behind some of his art pieces. Arawn is a transmasc illustrator who focuses on queer joy and representation in their art. Nature is also a source of inspiration and refuge for them. As for the rest, he'll let you know when he figures it out. For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. To monetarily support the podcast, you can donate at our Ko-Fi page. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

With the holidays, we don't have a normal interview episode for you today, but we do have a couple of announcements. You can now donate to the podcast to support the ongoing costs, such as hosting and editing. You can also sign up for Colette's new e-mail list to get announcements from her, including information about upcoming retreats.We hope you are having a gentle holiday season. We'll see you next week when we'll be back with another fantastic interview! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Bree Borrowman. She discusses the idea of passing versus not passing while being trans, as well as her experience transitioning publicly while being a teacher in Davis County Utah. She also talks about dealing with church membership restrictions since transitioning, while also having a firm testimony that she's following her Heavenly Parents' plan for her by helping people “on this side of the veil” instead of keeping her temple recommend.Bree Borrowman has experienced gender incongruence for about fifty years and an experience in November of 2019 caused a “coming out”. This has led to a more active role in the LGBTQIA community with a focus on transgender issues. Through this experience, Bree has come to realize and accept who she really is, the love of our Heavenly Parents and our Savior, and to appreciate and love the diversity of all people. Bree found a lifeline through the love and support of her spouse Kit and the wonderful people in the LGBTQIA community.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Laura Skaggs. Laura's been on a long journey within church; initially coming out and working for change in the church for many years before deciding to divorce her former husband and withdraw her membership. Laura also provides some insight into the trauma that queer Mormons experience, per Brian Simmon's dissertation and uses beautiful scripture metaphors (including the story of Moses) to speak about the complexity of queer Latter-day Saint experiences.Laura Skaggs is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in treating spiritual trauma at the intersection of LGBTQ+ experiences and religion. Laura earned her master's degree in marriage and family therapy at San Diego State University with an emphasis in LGBTQ+ mental health within conservative religious social contexts. She went on to serve for two years on the board of directors of Affirmation LGBT+ Mormons, Families and Friends with a focus on responding to spiritual trauma and suicide prevention. Laura is also the co-creator of CWEERS Empowerment groups: a practice designed to help LGBTQ+ individuals and their supporters confront social discrimination and internalized stigma. Laura is the mother of two daughters and presently sees clients full time in Provo, UT as part of Flourish Therapy Inc: a non-profit mental health clinic committed to expanding access to affordable, culturally competent, evidence-based behavioral and mental health services for LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, and families. She also has done some beautiful writing, including this piece.For further background about David Archuleta (whom Laura references in the episode a few times), please read this article or this article.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Kyle Ashworth. We talk to him about his own experience coming into his queerness (including his mixed-orientation marriage and his marriage to his now husband) and becoming the host of a queer podcast. We also talk extensively about On the Record, a document Kyle has compiled to help establish a historical accounting of the official statements provided by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints through the Church's education, policy, disclosure, and messaging regarding LGBTQ+ topics. This document is vital in understanding where we're at today in regards to queer messaging within the Church.Kyle Ashworth is the voice behind Latter Gay Stories. Latter Gay Stories is an LGBTQ podcast and website resource for those in and adjacent to the intersection of LGBTQ Street and LDS Avenue. Kyle has developed resources to bring visibility to the LGBTQ+ community and establish the value of queer experiences and queer people in society. Kyle actively supports many local LGBTQ+ organizations, sits on multiple boards, and has previously served as president of the Affirmation Intermountain Region and in other community and civic positions. He is the father of four children. Kyle and his husband Jay, live in Heber City. You can follow Latter Gay Stories on Instagram and Facebook @LatterGayStories.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In part 1 of this episode we learned about the Lamanite Placement Program. In part 2 we learn about how Latter-day Saints can help support Native homes and communities, especially through ICWA. Souksavanh offers history and generously provides a blueprint going forward. It is not enough to just know what has happened, but to consider where we go from here. Souksavanh shares their knowledge and research about gender and how gender has been shaped by colonialism.Souksavanh T. Keovorabouth, Diné is a Ph.D. candidate at Oregon State University in Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies with a minor in Queer Studies and concentration in Indigenous Urban Studies and a Ph.D. Candidate at Macquarie University in Indigenous Studies. Their concentrated area of research is on Indigenous urban experience, Two-Spirit wellbeing, Relocation Act of 1950, and Native and Queer urbanization. Souksavanh is originally from Diné (Navajo) Nation but grew up in Phoenix, Arizona, is second generation Laotian, and Queer/Trans/Two-Spirit. You can connect with them on Instagram @souksavanh.t.keovorabouth.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this first part of our first ever two-parter, we interview Souksavanh T. Keovorabouth. In this first episode we learn about this history of the Dine (Navajo) people and their matrilineal clans. We learn that queerness was always a part of Dine culture. Souksavanh explains the Relocation Act which moved their grandpa to Chicago and the Latter-day Saint Indian/Lamanite Placement Program when their mom, aunts, and uncles were placed in the program while their grandfather was in Chicago. Souksavanh offers a lot of history of the program's racism and how that racism continues today.Souksavanh T. Keovorabouth, Diné is a Ph.D. candidate at Oregon State University in Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies with a minor in Queer Studies and concentration in Indigenous Urban Studies and a Ph.D. Candidate at Macquarie University in Indigenous Studies. Their concentrated area of research is on Indigenous urban experience, Two-Spirit wellbeing, Relocation Act of 1950, and Native and Queer urbanization. Souksavanh is originally from Diné (Navajo) Nation but grew up in Phoenix, Arizona, is second generation Laotian, and Queer/Trans/Two-Spirit. You can connect with them on Instagram @souksavanh.t.keovorabouth.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Lin Flores. Some things we talk about include:The difficulties they faced being a brown queer teacher in UtahDealing with micro (and macro) aggressions in a school environmentBeing a convert to the LDS churchLin Flores (she/they) lives and works in SLC, UT as a full-time poet and creative writing student. They are enrolled in the online Creative Writing Masters Program at the University of New Orleans. Lin published her first chapbook, Reflections While Living in Utah, in 2020. This work quickly became a local bestseller, making it the most sold book at Utah's first LBGTQ bookstore—Under The Umbrella. Lin loves art, music, history, donuts, and God. You can connect with them on Instagram @lincpoetry.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Sadi Rogers. Some things we talk about include:The realities of "leadership roulette" on how church discipline is carried out for queer individualsBeing in a mixed-orientation marriage and then going through a divorceMarrying her now wife and figuring out where she now fits in the churchSadi is a queer woman currently living in Southern California. She was raised LDS and is a wife, mother, substitute teacher, and EMT. She has 3 kids and a really awesome wife. When she's not spending time with family or working she likes being outdoors, playing sports, or scrolling TikTok. Her love languages are taking naps and tacos. She believes that diversity is God's gift to us to become more Christlike and hopes that sharing her story will inspire others to share their stories too. You can connect with her on Facebook or Instagram.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview ruth González-Muhlestein. Some topics we cover include: Realizing she was asexual earlier this year, after already being married and having kidsThe tendency some people have to pathologize or infantilize those that asexual What compulsory sexuality is and how people are impacted by itruth González-Muhlestein is an Orem-born, first generation Mexican-American. She's passionate about antibias/anti-racism and enjoys reading, writing, making music and collages. She is a parent and partner, and works as a social media content creator for RISE Virtual Academy and Utah Educational Equity Coalition. You can connect with her on Instagram @asexualfeelings.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Maddison Tenney. Some topics we cover include:How disability advocacy, queer advocacy, and all types of advocacy for the marginalized interconnectHow the RaYnbow Collective came to be and the things they've accomplishedThe pushback the RaYnbow Collective received and how they dealt with itMaddison Tenney is a Queer Latter-Day Saint, artist and activist. She is the executive director of the RaYnbow Collective, an off-campus non-profit for LGBTQ+ students at BYU. She is also a staff member at Equality Utah. Maddi grew up in Oregon and Utah and is currently finishing her degree in English Literature with minors in Art and Global Women's Studies. You can connect with her on Instagram @maddi_10e.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode has a content warning, in that we talk about abuse in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.We're still on break, but we wanted to bring you this special bonus episode where we talk with Bradley Talbot about the Hulu series Mormon No More, which includes his story. Some topics we cover include:Bradley's involvement with Color the Campus and lighting of the Rainbow YOur reactions to Mormon No More (no spoilers, so if you haven't seen it, maybe catch a synopsis)Discussions of the law of chastity and abuse in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day SaintsBradley is the Founder of Color the Campus, earned his Bachelors in Psychology and Family Life at BYU and is about to start his MSW at Boston College. You can connect with him on Instagram @the_bradpad.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

As we wrap up the first season of our podcast, we recorded a discussion about our decision to take a break. We recognize that we have a lot of privilege when it comes to this topic and we recognize that there are elements of this discussion we are not able to discuss with enough clarity. However, some of the points we cover include:The need to rest and what that actually may look likeHow rest and community care are tied to one another, and how self-care can fall short of our needs as communitiesLeaning on the work done by disability advocates and BIPOC communities who rely on and share insights into how communities of care workThough we are taking a break, we will be back! Follow along on our social media channels (Instagram and/or Facebook) to stay up-to-date!For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Sam Webster. Some topics we cover include:The idea of putting yourself under "self-conversion therapy"How coming to terms with being nonbinary and becoming a single parent helped change their view of gender roles and parentingAnd they share some of their beautiful poetrySam was born and raised Mormon in Utah. Following the typical religious prescribed path and gender roles, they married young and had kids. Religious trauma separated their family from the Mormon church a short time before Sam decided stop living in shame of “same sex attraction," love themselves as they were, go through a divorce, and with lots of therapy, learn to come to a place of acceptance and understanding surrounding their gender identity. Sam is a non-binary parent, writer and student (still) living in Utah with their three amazing kids. They are currently going to SUU and preparing to move to Cedar City to continue their education. They believe in conscious parenting without shame, and that healing is a choice of action.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Andrés Larios Brown (they/he/elle). Some topics we cover include:The incongruence they felt from the Mormon distinction between provider and protector and nurturerWhat it means to be multiply marginalized and how that shows up in their lifeWhat it's like being in a married queer relationship in Utah and being polyamorousAndrés Larios Brown (they/he/elle) is a Queer & Non-Binary mescla bella (beautiful mix) of a father who immigrated from Guatemala and a mother who is of Western European descent. First and foremost, they are a healer, as well as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. They and their husband currently live in Utah, where Andrés is the associate Clinical Director & Director of Cultural engagement at Encircle Therapy (a nonprofit that works with LGBTQ+ youth and families from religiously conservative cultures). They study queer identity development among collectivist and community-focused cultures, and also specialize in healing acute, systemic, and intergenerational trauma- specifically for QTBIPOC people. With experience working in a wide range of settings (nonprofits, college counseling centers, community centers, and training clinics), Andrés also focuses a large part of their work on teaching, training, education, and advocacy. They believe that we are truly whole when in connection and community, and seek to bridge the gap between research and clinical practice. “We are truly expansive in being authentically and fully who we are — worthy of celebration, joy, and love. I am honored to be joining you on this journey of healing and growth.” –AndrésFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode to kick off Pride Month, Kate and Colette discuss:Some basic history of PrideWhy Mormons might be turned off from the word "pride"Why Pride is important to them and some Pride memories they haveThe Guardian article Kate references in the podcast can be found here.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In our first ever couples episode, we interview Rachel Cox (she/her) and Elihu Vineis (they/he). Some topics we cover include:Knowing their identities really young but not necessarily having words to describe themComing to terms with gender and the gender of your partnerRaising kids with queer parents and creating their familyRachel earned her master's degree in English in 2012. She grew up LDS, but came out as lesbian and left the church in 2016. Rachel is a novelist and an English instructor at Weber State University. She is also a program coordinator in faculty development. She's lived in Utah since 2006. She is the author of the dystopian novel A Light from the Ashes and is currently writing a biographical novel about queer actress Maude Adams. El graduated from BYU with a Bachelor's degree in history, walking across the stage with one child in arms and one on the way. Three kids in and seven years later, their life was entirely turned upside down, prompting deep soul-searching and the realization that not only are they in fact attracted to women, but they are genderfluid. El is a Reiki Master and licensed massage therapist with a passion for healing and promoting wellness. Rachel and El were married this month and are happy to blend their family.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Chloe Agyin (they/them). Some topics we cover include:The complicated nature of being multiracial, especially in a colonized worldBeing at BYU while realizing they were queerGoing through a faith transition and how they decided to what to keep and what to leaveChloe Agyin (they/them) is a proud multiracial queer person living in Salt Lake City, Utah. In order to better pursue their passion for social justice and systematic change, Chloe received their Masters Degree in Social Work. Since coming out as queer they have engaged in social activism by working closely with the local LGBTQ+ community. They currently work as a therapist at Celebrate Therapy in Provo, Utah with the hopes of continuing to find new ways to disrupt the status quo.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Chelsea Gibbs (she/her). Some topics we cover include: Falling for friends and the importance of boundaries while healingQueer baiting in media and how the church queer baits, as wellShaking off wrong messages you've been given about yourself and learning to own your storyChelsea Gibbs is a writer and film historian based in New York. Her work on queerness in media and queerness in Mormonism has been published across various books and journals, and while she is no longer active in the church, she still enjoys facilitating dialogue about queerness within Mormon spaces. As a board member of Affirmation, she has had the opportunity to be a cultural translator between LDS and LGBTQIA communities around the world. As an educator, film archivist and someone who has run film programs for several organizations, she has loved the opportunity to share the ways storytelling can help people find their own voices and also help them become more empathetic to others. Send her a message any time to talk about your favorite queer TV and films, or to fangirl about Chieko Okazaki!For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Emilia Bingham (she/her). Some topics we cover include: What asexuality is and how it may be experienced for individualsAce erasureEmilia's idea of "collectivist heaven"Emilia Bingham (she/her) is currently a Master of Social Work student at Boston College where she is working hard towards her goal of becoming a trauma focused therapist. When not studying, she enjoys rock climbing, being outdoors, and spending time with the people she loves. Emilia is happily married to her forever adventure buddy and is the proud parent of at least 30 plants. You can connect with her on Instagram.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

We were able to have our first ever LIVE episode while participating in the Affirmation Connections Virtual Summit. We loved the opportunity and are now able to share that discussion here in your podcast feed. Some things we talked about include:The importance of queer joy, why we talk about that so much, and ways to look for queer joy in your own lifeThe discrepancies and leadership roulette queer individuals may experience in the churchOur thoughts about why AFAB people may come out later in lifeAffirmation's mission: Affirmation creates worldwide communities of safety, love, and hope and promotes understanding, acceptance, and self-determination of individuals of diverse sexual orientations, gender identities and expressions. We affirm the inherent self-worth of LGBTQIA+ individuals as complete, equal, and valuable persons and support them as they define their individual spirituality and intersection with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.You can view this and other sessions from the Affirmation Connections Virtual Summit at the website for the event.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Sami Simpson (she/her). Some topics we cover include: Deciding to do her dissertation on identifying best practices to help queer Mormon youth and young adults and their familiesHow the LDS church is very pro-family structure, but maybe not entirely pro-family Bierasure, and how she's still in a queer relationship, even though it's straight-passingSamantha Simpson is a bisexual marriage and family therapist at Flourish Therapy, a non-profit organization that provides subsidized therapy for LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, and families. During her master's program at BYU, she started doing family therapy with LGBTQ+ youth and young adults in Latter-day Saint families. Quickly realizing that such sessions required multi-faceted cultural responsiveness, expert knowledge, and the therapy skills of an emotional surgeon, she looked for research and resources -- only to find that there are little to none. That's what set her on the path of getting a PhD. She is in the final stretch of completing her PhD at Virginia Tech, where she is currently collecting data for her dissertation called, "When Identities Collide: Best Practices for Family Therapy with LGBTQ+ Youth and Young Adults in Mormon Families. Sami, her partner Michael, and her dog Albie recently relocated from Virginia to Utah and love reconnecting with Utah's Queer communities. You can connect with her on Instagram @SamiSimpson.LAMFT or on Facebook @SamiSimpsonMFT.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode we interview Dr. Taylor Petrey (he/him). Disclaimer: We recorded this episode before April 2022 General Conference. Since Conference, some of the things we mention in this episode about Heavenly Mother have since come to fruition. Some topics we cover in this episode include:Definitions and discussions of gender essentialismDr. Petrey's book Tabernacles of ClayQueer theory as it applies to Latter-day Saint history of sexuality and genderTaylor G. Petrey is Associate Professor of Religion at Kalamazoo College and editor of Dialogue: A Journal of Mormon Thought. Petrey received his ThD and MTS from Harvard Divinity School. He is currently chair of Religion at Kalamazoo College. His books include Tabernacles of Clay: Gender and Sexuality in Modern Mormonism and co-editor with Amy Hoyt of The Routledge Handbook of Mormonism and Gender. He has been a Visiting Associate Professor of Women's Studies and Sexuality at Harvard Divinity School and Research Associate in the Women's Studies in Religion Program in 2016-17. He was also the Lucinda Hinsdale Stone Associate Professor of Religion at Kalamazoo College and Director of the Women, Gender, and Sexuality program. Follow him on Twitter @TaylorPetrey or on Facebook @Taylor.Petrey.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Dr. Lisa Diamond (she/her). Some topics we cover include:How she started studying sexual fluidity and some of what she found while doing that researchThe importance of parents creating safety for their queer children, even if they struggle to accept their child's sexual or gender identityA metaphor she uses when people try to use her research about sexual fluidity in ways to promote harmful ideologies and practicesLisa M. Diamond is Professor of Psychology and Gender Studies at the University of Utah. For over 25 years, she has studied the development and expression of gender and sexuality across the life course. Her current work focuses on the biobehavioral mechanisms through which social stigma, social stress, and social safety shape the health and well-being of sexually-diverse and gender-diverse individuals at different stages of development. Dr. Diamond is best known for her research on sexual fluidity, which describes the capacity for individuals to experience unexpected shifts in sexual identity and expression over time. Her 2008 book, Sexual Fluidity, published by Harvard University Press, has been awarded the Distinguished Book Award from the American Psychological Association's Society for the Study of LGBTQ Issues. Dr. Diamond is also co-editor of the first-ever APA Handbook of Sexuality and Psychology, published in 2014, and is a fellow of two divisions of the APA. She has published over 130 articles and book chapters, and has been invited to present her research at nearly 140 national and international Universities and conferences.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Meghan Decker (she/her). Some topics we cover include:The changing church teachings about LGBTQ individuals (as highlighted by the document she helped create)Removing the narrow expectations we have about what God would or could sayThe vital need to dispel shame and how connection and being seen are the antidote to shame Meghan Decker is a respected writer, speaker, and gay Latter-day Saint. She is co-author of Reaching for Hope: An LDS Perspective on Recovering from Depression, which has provided insight for thousands of readers who experience depression. Her new book, Tender Leaves of Hope: Finding Belonging as LGBTQ Latter-day Saint Women, shares her own experience and amplifies the voices of scores of LGBTQ women who are seeking to hear God in their lives. She has been a stake Seminary and Institute teacher, and she continues to engage with the Church as an active member. She and her husband David have five daughters and fifteen grandchildren, and they enjoy gathering to explore, eat, and trade book recommendations. To further connect with Meghan, go to her website, attend her book launch event on April 12, or follow her on Facebook or Instagram.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Melissa Malcolm-King. Melissa is an educator, author, and advocate whose work can be found in the Exponent 2 Magazine, Innerversion Magazine, and West View Media Newspaper, as well as in her most current publication, New World Coming: Frontline Voices on Pandemics, Uprisings, and Climate Crisis, and her second anthology that is currently available for pre-order, "I Spoke to you with Silence: Essays from Queer Mormons of Marginalized Genders." Melissa runs a nonprofit entitled Project B.E. S.A.F.E. -Bridging the Education of Safety, Awareness and Female Empowerment. As a survivor of abuse, Melissa has appeared on multiple panels for We Brave Women to advocate for survivor rights and discuss the intersection of being a Queer, Disabled, and Person of Color. They are also an advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and is on various planning and leadership boards throughout the continental United States, is a director of the People of the Global Majority (which represents and supports the International BIPOC communities), and is a proud and active board member of the disability rights activist committee. (D.R.A.C.) and ADAPT American Disabled for Attendant Programs. You can connect with them on their Facebook fan page.In this episode, we discuss:Reaching for those "in the cracks" and giving everyone a voiceGrowing up around various religions and making a place for themselvesHow internalized and systemic ablism has impacted her lifeFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dr. Lacey Bagley, LMFT (she/her) is the Owner & Clinical Director of Celebrate Therapy. She identifies as bisexual and loves celebrating and advocating for her community! She grew up in northern Minnesota, was raised as a Latter-day Saint, and continues to practice the faith. As a queer family therapist, she works to help parents learn how to hold space for their LGBTQIA+ children. She also founded the Queer Mormon Therapists directory.In this episode, we discuss:Being an activist, and using power and privilege to help marginalized individualsRedefining service as social justice, activism, and following Christ's example (and not just taking someone a casserole)Celebrating all bodies, regardless of size and society's expectationsFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Debra Asper. Debra is a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist and worked at Children's Hospital focusing on assisting children and their families recover from various types of traumas with the use of CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy) and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing). She also participated in research to identify variable that help children recover from their abuse. Debra did her thesis project on how homophobia affects the developmental stages of the LGBTQ population and she continues to carve out a portion of her private practice to work specifically with the LGBTQ community. Debra played college basketball at the University of Utah and still loves to be active and be competitive by being a member of the San Diego Rowing Club. You can learn more about her and contact her at her website, www.debraasperlmft.com.Some things we talk about in this episode include:How she moved away to preserve her relationship with her family, as well as reconciling years laterGrief, trauma, and rejection, as well as vicarious healingBecoming involved with Peculiar and the work that organization doesFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

You likely know a lot about American anti-LGBTQ legislation, especially if you listened to the "The Family Proclamation with Called to Queer" episode we recorded with The Faithful Feminists. But what do you know about the history and legislation more globally? Tune in to this episode and learn more! We're honored that Channing Parker from The Faithful Feminists joined us for this discussion.This episode covers:Some global history you may not have learned in schoolThe creation of the World Congress of Families and its spread of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation across many countriesHow current events tie into all of thisFor episode transcripts and further resources (including all citations from this episode), please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Maggie Slighte. Maggie is a queer disabled autistic lesbian creator. She is finishing her first full-length memoir, The Car that Ran on Prayers, about her experience living in her Volvo sedan with 2 dogs for a year traveling the country on her way to college graduation. After converting to Mormonism at 46, she recently left at age 55. Maggie can be found on most social media platforms as "Maggie Slighte, Author," and on TikTok @NeurodivergentGranny. She produces a podcast about twice a month about the experience of being a neurodivergent disabled powerchair user at Slightely Maggie. You can follow along with her at MaggieSlighte.com.Some things Maggie talks about in this episode includes:Her experience with dissociative identity disorderBeing disabled, living in a world designed for able-bodied peopleHer view on neurodivergence and GodFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Freddy Banks. Freddy is a house husband and dog dad. Prior to living the dream, he: was raised Mormon, went to BYU-Provo, discovered he was queer 1.0 (gay), left Mormonism, worked as a technical writer, met the love of his life, went to grad school at the University of Utah, moved to Canada, worked as a project manager, discovered he was queer 2.0 (trans), and got a permanent ileostomy. He now spends too much time online, either on Twitter or Twitch.Some things Freddy talks about in this episode includes:How he discovered both versions of his queerness (thanks YouTube!)His view on masculinity and male privilege Transitioning and healthcare for trans individualsFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Elena Joy Thurston. Elena is an inspirational LGBTQ+ speaker, trainer, and founder of the nonprofit Pride and Joy Foundation. A Mormon mom of four who lost her marriage, her church, and her community when she came out as a lesbian, Elena's viral TEDx talk on surviving conversion therapy has been viewed 45,000+ times and landed her media and speaking opportunities with ABC, CBS, Logitech, Michael's, and more. Elena Joy recently launched Pride and Joy Publishing, the only publisher of solely LGBTQ+ empowerment and business books. You can connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter. Some things Elena talks about in this episode includes:Undergoing conversion therapyDealing with a divorce with children The systemic issues that get in the way of realizing queernessTo hear Elena's podcast episode on Human Stories with Jill Hazard Rowe that Kate mentioned on the podcast, click here.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Tiana Matson. Tiana's favorite prank is to decorate her friend's cars while they're at work to say, "just married" and tie empty soda cans to the axel so they don't notice them until they're in motion and can't do anything about it. She's also a bipolar, post-Mormon lesbian with childhood trauma and she loves to serve and advocate for her community. So you know. Well rounded.Some things Tiana talks about in this episode includes:Being diagnosed with bipolar disorderHer work with both NAMI and Rainbow Circle Treasure ValleyThe trauma of having her brother die when she was youngerYou can connect with Tiana on Facebook or Instagram.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Hao Le. Hao is a former President of the Affirmation Hawaii Chapter. During her time as a BYU-Hawaii student, she advocated for LGBTQ+ students through effective communication with the BYUH Administration. Hao and her team also spent their time collaborating with BYUH faculty and staff, including the Counseling Office, Title IX, and Residential Life, to promote supports for LGBTQ+ BYUH Students through training and outreach. She was also highlighted by the the local news and non-profit organizations in Hawai'i for her advocacy. After graduating from BYUH, Hao decided to pursue her Master Degree at the University of Hawaii to continue to serve the public and bring more supports to the local LGBTQ+ community on the island.Some things Hao talks about in this episode includes:Her work with Affirmation and BYUHVietnamese culture vs Mormon culture towards queernessAnti-Asian racism, the bamboo ceiling, and the "model minority" mythFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Laurie Lee Hall. Laurie Lee was raised in New England and was trained in architecture at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute in upstate New York. A practicing architect for over thirty years, her career has included managing worldwide construction programs and many of the largest projects of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, including being the Chief Architect for the LDS Church and Director of Design and/or Construction for around 40 LDS temples. She has served as both a bishop and stake president in Utah before coming out as a trans woman and later being excommunicated. Laurie Lee has also served as Vice President of Affirmation and is a fierce advocate for queer people.Some things Laurie Lee talks about in this episode includes:Realizing her gender incongruence at the age of 5Being a church employee for over 20 years and serving in many ecclesiastical rolesWorking with Affirmation to help make it more inclusive and welcoming for trans and gender diverse individualsTo hear Laurie Lee Hall talk further about her experiences working for the church, you can check out the following videos on YouTube:Laurie Lee Hall, 2019 Affirmation International ConferenceCreating Sacred Spaces | Laurie Lee HallFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you get when a historian and sex therapist talk about marriage and purity culture? This episode!In this non-interview episode, Kate and Colette talk about about topics including:The difference between civil and religious ceremonies when it comes to marriagesThe importance of bodily autonomy and consentWhy people who are assigned female at birth may not realize their sexuality until laterFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Channing Parker. Channing is podcaster, writer, and yoga instructor. She has a breadth of background knowledge focused on feminist theology, embodiment, women's mysteries, ancient religions and spirituality, and mysticism. Channing grew up LDS, but has experienced many faith transitions which has softened dogma into fervent and abiding love. She has been a practicing witch for four years and counting, and is deeply committed to serving her community through her radical authenticity, vulnerability, and desire to leave the world better than she found it. You can connect with Channing through her work on The Faithful Feminists podcast or celebrate queer witch joy with her at @channingbparker on Instagram.Some things Channing talks about in this episode includes:Discovering her sexuality recently, as a bi woman in a mixed-orientation marriageThe intersection of patriarchy and queernessDiscovering witchcraft and feminism around the same time and how she practices both of thoseFor episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we interview Blaire Ostler. Blaire is a philosopher specializing in queer and Mormon studies, and is a leading voice at the intersection of queer, Mormon, and transhumanist thought. She is the author of “Queer Mormon Theology: An Introduction.” She is also a board member and podcaster at Sunstone, and former CEO and board member at the Mormon Transhumanist Association.Some things Blaire talks about in this episode include:Being a bi and intersex individual in a mixed-orientation marriageThe ideas of celestial genocide and queer polygamy (both concepts in "Queer Mormon Theology")Dealing with mental health struggles when her mind and body don't fit in a binary like the Church wants it toIf you want to connect with Blaire, you can follow her on Facebook, on Instagram, or through her website. For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, get to know Kate Mower, one of Called to Queer's co-hosts. Some things Kate talks about include:Nonbinary gender in a very gendered churchRetreating back to the closet to wait until they could safely come outHow they've learned to stay true to their own experiences rather than giving in to other people's expectations of themIf you want to connect with Kate, you can follow them on Instagram @latterdaylez.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, get to know Colette Dalton, one of Called to Queer's co-hosts. Some things Colette talks about include:Questioning and doubting her sexuality and being "late to lesbian" Working for the church while grappling with her sexualityBeing a therapist, including working with people who are also queerIf you want to connect with Colette, you can follow her on Instagram @colettedalton or on Facebook @ColetteDaltonLCSW.For episode transcripts and further resources, please visit our website. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Colette and Kate introduce themselves, discuss how Called to Queer came to be, and talk about their vision for the podcast and the community. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.