Paring Down: Realistic minimalism to live more intentionally

Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a pile while decluttering, having lost all motivation? Or have you ever felt like it's impossible to keep the clutter at bay? There's one key factor to stay motivated on ANY journey - including our mission to live with less - and we're going to cover exactly how to harness this motivation in today's episode of paring down. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MENTIONED THIS EPISODE Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: $15/month 5G wireless with Mint Mobile: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.mintmobile.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 20% off chic, soft closet staples from Splendid:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://splendid.com/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING at checkout 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If anyone knows about the underbelly of the beauty industry, it's Miss America 2014, Nina Davuluri. Nina's documentary COMPLEXion (available on Prime Video) sheds a light on her personal experience with colorism, which led to a deeper dive into international beauty standards and how companies create new insecurities just to get us to buy more and more stuff. The intersection of the beauty industry and overconsumption can't be ignored. Today's episode allows for nuance - no shaming ourselves or others for partaking in the beauty world - while shedding important light onto what's really going on behind the scenes. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ NINA DAVULURI Nina's Instagram: @ninadavuluri Nina's Substack Watch Nina's documentary: COMPLEXion PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: $15/month 5G wireless with Mint Mobile: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.mintmobile.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠ 20% off chic, soft closet staples from Splendid:⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://splendid.com/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING at checkout 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You've heard it said that we shouldn't focus on having a perfectly tidy home 24/7...rather, we should focus on having a home that's EASY to tidy. What, exactly, does that entail? Well, today you'll learn specific systems and ideals to implement so that your home doesn't feel overwhelming to keep tidy. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: Ep 36: 20 Habits of the Home to Prevent Overwhelm Ep 53: Home Organization Tips with Kenika Williams Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: $15/month 5G wireless with Mint Mobile: ⁠⁠⁠www.mintmobile.com/paring⁠⁠⁠ 20% off chic, soft closet staples from Splendid:⁠⁠⁠ https://splendid.com/ ⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING at checkout 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"How do I get my kids to declutter if they're super attached to all their stuff?" "Should I include my kids or do it myself?" "Where should I start?" Today we're diving into a bunch of practical strategies for decluttering kid stuff, covering things like: - Gamifying - Setting physical boundaries - Specific conversations to initiate Plus, I'll share the research that reveals the benefits of helping our children declutter. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down Blog⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: Ep 20: Kid Stuff: Sentimental, Educational, Practical, & Private Ep 3: Avoiding the Christmas Clutter with Karla Graves Ep 15: Does Minimalism Deprive Our Kids? with Elisabeth Beam Ep 52: Getting Past the "Wasted Money" when Decluttering Ep 77: What If I Regret Getting Rid of It? Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: $15/month 5G wireless with Mint Mobile: ⁠⁠www.mintmobile.com/paring⁠⁠ 20% off chic, soft closet staples from Splendid:⁠⁠ https://splendid.com/ ⁠⁠- use code PARING at checkout 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

NYT Bestselling author Greg McKeown is on the show!! (WHAT?!) Buckle up for one of the most special, exciting, and insightful episodes of Paring Down yet as we dive into his two mega-hits, Essentialism and Effortless. In this episode, you'll grasp a deeper understanding of how to identify what's important in your life and what's unnecessary excess (i.e. clutter). But we're not just decluttering our homes and lives, here. Greg takes things a step further to impart wisdom on how to effortlessly achieve the things that we've deemed essential. You'll learn when, exactly, a goal is actually "done." You'll learn about mimetic desire and how it's holding us back. You'll learn the difference between lack state and have space, and which one you need to make your path infinitely easier. You do NOT want to miss this one!! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down Blog⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠ GREG MCKEOWN: Grab his book Essentialism Grab his book Effortless Less but Better 30-Day Email Course The Essentialism Planner Website: https://gregmckeown.com/ Instagram: @gregorymckeown The Greg McKeown Podcast PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: $15/month 5G wireless with Mint Mobile: ⁠www.mintmobile.com/paring⁠ 20% off chic, soft closet staples from Splendid:⁠ https://splendid.com/ ⁠- use code PARING at checkout 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sometimes the clutter drives us nuts...and sometimes, we don't have the energy to get worked up about it. Guess what? That's totally normal! Today we're talking through the reasons why your clutter tolerance might ebb and flow, so you'll walk away feeling less pressure to be rigid in your approach to a living a life with less. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Paring Down Blog⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠⁠ MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ IG accounts: @balancingbeams @tidydad  @khrystynejaspers  PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: $15/month 5G wireless with Mint Mobile: www.mintmobile.com/paring 20% off chic, soft closet staples from Splendid: https://splendid.com/ - use code PARING at checkout 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If your home is small, quirky, or simply not your "dream home" - then this episode is for you! In fact, this episode is for you even if you're inside your ideal home but aren't sure you've maximized the space to meet your needs. Small space designer, Khrystyne Jaspers, has first-hand experience with making the most out of her spaces, including her current 1-bedroom apartment in NYC where she and her husband are raising their 2 children. You'll feel inspired, encouraged, and motivated to love where you live after listening to this episode! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Paring Down Blog ⁠⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠⁠ KHRYSTYNE JASPERS https://khrystynejaspers.com/ Instagram: @khrystynejaspers PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠⁠Quince.com/paring⁠⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We often think that minimalism looks one way: white, neutral, & bare as possible. The truth is that minimalism simply means choosing only what's truly important and essential to each of us, personally, and letting those things shine. Designer Whitney English is releasing a new book (today!) called "Organize First, Decorate Second," and you'll love this conversation about how to create a home that is comfortable and personalized to reflect YOU - but without the disarray or chaos. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: ⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠ ⁠Paring Down Webiste & Blog⁠ ⁠Paring Down YouTube⁠ WHITNEY ENGLISH whitneyenglish.com New Book: Organize First, Decorate Second Instagram: @whitneyenglish Whitney English Substack PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free)⁠ ⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠⁠ ⁠Free Gift Request Email Template⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ SPONSORS: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh:⁠ ⁠⁠www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm⁠ For Hers Hair Growth: ⁠https://www.forhers.com/paring⁠ Ethical, luxury women's clothing at ⁠Quince.com/paring⁠ for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at ⁠lumedeodorant.com⁠- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: ⁠www.everyplate.com/podcast⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does it sometimes feel impossible to make real friends in adulthood? And what does that have to do with paring down our lives? As a military wife, I have to build a new community for our family every three years. And I've found that not only do friendships help us enjoy life, but they're a big reason it's easier to live a life with less. When we know we can rely on neighbors and friends to lend us things, come to our rescue when needed, and generally be a support system, then we are less tempted to use physical possessions as a form of security. In today's episode, I walk you through tactics I use to make new friends wherever we move, and dive into the power of different types of relationships using "bridging" and "bonding." Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Ep 6: Creating Community in Small Spaces PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm For Hers Hair Growth: https://www.forhers.com/paring Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: www.everyplate.com/podcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

When you slow down and consider your life, do you feel rich in what matters? Today's guest, Julia Ubbenga, found herself asking that question years ago, which has led to her influencing thousands of other women to do the same. In today's episode, we talk about how to free ourselves from comparison, impatience/anger, and exhaustion through the practice of living with less. Julia's spiritual and parental wisdom shines bright, and you'll walk away with the refreshed knowledge that the promises of this world through material possessions are empty and unsatisfying. Instead, we can let go of it all and focus on what truly brings joy. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube JULIA UBBENGA: Julia's new book: Declutter Your Heart and Your Home Julia's website: richinwhatmatters.com Julia's Instagram: @richinwhatmatters PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm For Hers Hair Growth: https://www.forhers.com/paring Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING Only $1.99 per meal with EveryPlate meal service - code paring199: www.everyplate.com/podcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There's no motivation to declutter quite like relocating! But where should we start? In this episode I break down why we should declutter before we move, and 10 categories to focus on in order to avoid taking clutter with you to your new home. Even if you're not moving, today's episode is a fun one to get ideas for a "mock move," which is to declutter your home *as though* you plan on moving. It's a really helpful lens through which to find some motivation! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Episode 48: Decluttering Books as a Book Lover Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ Electronics Disposal: Call2Recycle or Earth911 PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm For Hers Hair Growth: https://www.forhers.com/paring Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"What if our partner says they'll do something, but they don't follow through?" "How do we get our partners to care about all the details of home/family management?" These are just two of the questions I ask relationship expert and author Dr. Morgan Cutlip on today's episode of Paring Down. "The mental load" is a big term getting a lot of attention these days because it's an important component to healthy, happy relationships. Clutter can feel like one big "to-do" list, and if we shoulder the responsibility for dealing with it by ourselves, it's recipe for resentment and disconnection in our relationship. In today's episode, relationship expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip shares about her new book "A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex," coming out April 15th. I think you'll love her positive yet realistic take. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube DR. MORGAN CUTLIP INFORMATION: Order Dr. Morgan Cutlip's book: "A Better Share" HERE drmorgancutlip.com Dr. Morgan Instagram: @drmorgancutlip  PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm For Hers Hair Growth: https://www.forhers.com/paring Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What-if items tend to be the biggest culprits of clutter! We are worried we'll need it some day, so we hold on just in case. In this episode, I walk through 5 helpful ways to combat this battle with "what-if??" so that we can become more discerning about what's worth keeping and what we need to let go. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Kid Schoolwork Memory Box PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Introducing my brother, Jim Oliver!! We talk about losing our mom 12 years ago, and what that has meant for both of us in terms of living our lives with clear intention - even though that intentionality looks different between the two of us. Jim also shares about his fascinating career as a booking agent for celebrities and major motivational speakers, offering us insight to how to make the most of "self-help," along with answering my questions about the potential underbelly of the self-help industry. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The beautiful part about intentional living is that we get to decide what resonates with us and what doesn't. Not all advice is for everyone, and that's A-okay. In that spirit, there seem to be some generally-accepted viewpoints in the minimalism and decluttering world that I, personally, disagree with. So here are some of my hot takes! From sparking joy to the 20/20 rule...I have thoughts! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) Good news account: @sambentley Ep 59: Busting Myths About Decluttering Ep 22:: Doom Piles & Mail Ep 70: Is Decluttering Just for the Financially Secure? with Aubrey High Ep 5: Sentimental Items Ep 50: The Guilt & Fear of Decluttering Gifts Ep 24: Decluttering Photos on Our Phones & in Our Homes Marie Kondo book: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready for some truly practical help that will change your daily life? Shawn Lemon of The Digital Organizer delivers just that in today's episode as he shares with us practical steps we can take to make our email accounts, desktop, and digital storage less chaotic and far more streamlined. I personally was so motivated after our conversation that I went to town on my own digital spaces as soon as our interview ended, and can say - without being dramatic - that his simple, understandable approach changed my life. I open email and my computer and feel like a new person. I hope you will, too, when you're done listening to this episode and taking the easy steps to implement his advice into your life! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube SHAWN LEMON INFORMATION thedigitalorganizer.com Instagram: @thedigitalorganizer Facebook: The Digital Organizer Organization Quiz File Organization Guide Household Digital Organization Guide The Digital Detox Guide MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ Treasures of the Heart: A 7-Day Bible Study on Breaking Free from Material Attachments (free) ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 50% off your first box of EveryPlate meal service with code paring50: www.everyplate.com/podcast Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Spring Break is right around the corner, and it's very tempting to buy new wardrobes for vacation or bring home plenty of souvenirs. (Especially if it means avoiding a toddler breakdown in the middle of public.) So let's talk about ways to avoid all that vacation clutter -- both in shopping ahead of time, and while we're there! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube RENTAL COMPANIES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Resort/general: Rent the Runway Nuuly Fashion Press  Hiking clothes: Kit Lender REI Outdoors Geek  Snow clothes: Kit Lender Slope Threads PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Defining what is "sacred" is to determine what truly matters and to recognize the beautiful intersection of every living thing. In this realm, Jeff Golden has spent 30 years and won multiple awards for his work regarding the connection (or lack thereof) between money and happiness so that we can better reject the things that are NOT sacred. On the podcast, Jeff shares fascinating studies and statistics that paint a picture of the lies that money and overconsumption tell us, and offers ways we can make the concerted effort to reclaim the things that truly matter -- including our own worth. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube JEFF GOLDEN INFORMATION https://reclaimingthesacred.net/ MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Whew, I kind of can't believe I'm pressing publish on this one. I grew up in a high control religious organization, and today I'm sharing my story after a lot of interest came in after I mentioned it in a reel! I know this is.a bit off the subject of decluttering, but it ties in beautifully with the bigger message of intentional living. I hope this episode is not only interesting, but helps shed some light on the importance of being intentional about our beliefs by making them our own. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 15% off all Lume products like aluminum-free deodorant at lumedeodorant.com- use code PARING 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/hellofreshpodcast 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Avoiding difficult subjects isn't something I want to do on Paring Down. Yet I want to make sure I approach them with humility, positivity, and an open mind - and I hope that tone comes through on today's episode. I'm so grateful to have Aubrey High from The Reclaimed Home alongside me as we talk through insights she's gained while working with people who are financially insecure - and often recovering from trauma - to responsibly declutter and organize their homes. (Stories shared on this episode are done so with permission and anonymity.) Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Aubrey High's Instagram: @the.reclaimed.home.co Aubrey High's email: thereclaimedhomeco@gmail.com Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Aubrey's first appearance on Paring Down: Making Space for Things and People We Love Episode 67: 5 Psychological Phenomena that Affect Decluttering & Consumption Katy Joy Wells Instagram PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Finding a decluttering method that works for you is great, but identifying principles that can apply to any decluttering decision is even more powerful. In this episode, I share 10 principles -- or established truths about life -- that can help guide our processes and decisions as we decide what should stay and what should go in our homes, schedules, and beyond. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Mentioned in this episode: Shannon's Instagram post about decluttering clothing that doesn't fit Effortless by Greg McKeown Shannon's book, You're Completely Normal Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode has been a long time coming, and I'm so happy it's finally here!!! I know so many of you struggle to help your parents declutter in their senior years of life, or perhaps you're a senior adult yourself and struggling to manage the possessions you've accumulated in life. I'm honored that Jeannine Bryant of Easy Rightsizing joined me to share her 15 years of wisdom on this topic, having helped hundreds of seniors and their families downsize (or "rightsize") their belongings. Jeannine's approach is one of practicality, respect, and - above all - connection. You will feel seen. You will feel empowered. You will feel prepared. And you will LOVE this episode. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Jeannine Bryant Instagram: @easyrightsizing Easy Rightsizing Facebook Easy Rightsizing YouTube www.easyrightsizing.com Moving Day Planning Timeline & other resources Jeannine's book: Keep the Memories Not the Stuff Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning by Margareta Magnusson The Regrets of the Dying blog post by Bronnie Ware Leaning into the Season of Giving (Paring Down episode about where to donate) Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's always SO exciting when I record something that immediately becomes one of my favorite episodes. This is one of those!! My degree is in psychology because I've always been fascinated with understanding human behavior, motivations, and emotions. So today, I explore 5 psychological theories and cognitive biases that affect WHY it's hard to declutter, and what we can do to move forward. I hope you feel seen and empowered. Remember: I am not a doctor of psychology, rather just sharing concepts I've found to be highly interesting! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Books related to this episode: Scarcity Brain by Michael Easter Subtract by Leidy Klotz The Age of Magical Overthinking by Amanda Montell Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Diane Boden of the Minimalist Moms podcast joins us on Paring Down today to talk about how to adopt a more minimalish mindset in 2025 and beyond. It's not just about goal-setting - it's about viewing our possessions and our life with clarity, which will propel us into action. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Diane Boden Instagram: @diane_boden Minimalist Moms Instagram: @minimalistmomspodcast Minimalist Moms podcast Minimalist Moms book Books mentioned: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We can't live intentionally while never taking time to pause and reflect on our lives. Through this purposeful evaluation, we are able to consciously decide our next steps, what to keep, and what to let go. Even if resolutions aren't your thing, this is a great time of year to do this practice of reflection -- so let's walk through 8 questions together and see what adjustments it's time to make (or not)! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Episodes mentioned: How Living with Less Inspires Generosity with Ultralight Backpacker Glen Van Peski Tidy Up Your Life with Tyler Moore aka Tidy Dad Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/paring10fm $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we welcome Erin Port of Simple Purposeful Living to the podcast! I LOVE Erin's "big sister energy" (her words) that so gently remind us that we don't have to be extreme with our choices in order to simplify our lives. In a season of overwhelm (Merry Christmas Eve, btw!), I think you'll absolutely love this episode that helps you find ways to make your life easier through the littlest tweaks. Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Erin Port Instagram: @simpllepurposefulliving Simple Purposeful Living website Simple Purposeful Living podcast Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Webiste & Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Birthday parties are a great example of how the true power of a “minimalish” life isn't in less for the sake of less, rather it's about intentionality. In this episode, I share how our family personally approaches birthday parties - from why we do them at all, to how many kids are invited, to gifts and goody bags and themes! Biggest takeaway: Minimalism isn't the lens through which I view life. It's a symptom of living intentionally…because inevitably, only the essential will shine. But I don't look at life as a challenge to do or have the least possible. There's a difference there, and the former is much more freeing! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Blog Paring Down YouTube PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THE ONE THE ONLY Tyler Moore aka Tidy Dad is on today's episode! Tyler is so engaging, positive, and honest-- three attributes that have led him to features on Good Morning America and in The New York Times, Apartment Therapy, and more. You'll love listening to his insights that inspire us all to tidy up our homes and lives! Plus you MUST get your hands on his book, Tidy Up Your Life, which releases January 7th. I got an advanced reader copy and you can read my review in my "Nonfiction" highlight HERE in my profile! Paring Down Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Blog Paring Down YouTube Tyler Moore's Instagram: @tidydad Order Tyler's book, Tidy Up Your Life thetidydad.com PARING DOWN RESOURCES: Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING Ethical, luxury women's clothing at Quince.com/paring for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order! 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we talk through 5 ways to keep traditions from becoming overwhelming -- from focusing on the big picture instead of the details, to creating a fair divide of responsibilities with your partner. Here's to a less stressful, more magical holiday season! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Other Paring Down episodes: Avoiding the Christmas Clutter Making Holiday Decor Meaningful What the Bible Says About Our Stuff Leaning Into the Season of Giving Why We Celebrate the Birth of Jesus Where Do Popular Christmas Traditions Come From? Paring Down resources: ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ MORE OF PARING DOWN: Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ CODES: This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We often declutter from a place of frustration with all of the stuff in our homes, but the process is not only more enjoyable - but more sustainable, too - if we approach decluttering out of gratitude. In this episode, Deanna Yates from the Wannabe Clutter Free podcast shares some of the ways she takes a gratitude-led approach to decluttering. We also talk about how living with less sparks more thankfulness in our hearts. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Paring Down Blog The L.E.S.S. Express Newsletter Wannabe Clutter Free podcast Deanna Yates Instagram @wannabeclutterfree MORE OF PARING DOWN: Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template CODES: 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If I've learned one thing since creating a public platform about decluttering, it's that a LOT of people have misconceptions about what it means to declutter. So today, we're getting into 10 decluttering myths and why they're not true - from “decluttering is wasteful” to “decluttering means you can't be sentimental.” OTHER EPISODES REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE: Getting Past the "Wasted Money" When Decluttering Sentimental Items Finding the Time to Declutter Home Organization Tips with Kenika Williams Know Your Why Worksheet HERE under "freebies" MORE OF PARING DOWN Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter The L.E.S.S. Express CODES: 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN PARING DOWN RESOURCES: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Free Gift Request Email Template Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You lucky ducks get to hear from Jen Smith of the highly popular Frugal Friends podcast! In this episode of Paring Down, she teaches us all about values-based spending so that you can Buy What You Love Without Going Broke - which also happens to be the name of her book coming out in January (alongside cohost and coauthor Jill Sirianni). How we spend our money is often directly related to the clutter in our homes and schedules, so you don't want to miss this motivating conversation that underscores my favorite theme that threads together every episode: Intentional living. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter The L.E.S.S. Express Jen Smith Instagram: @moderfrugality Frugal Friends Podcast: https://www.frugalfriendspodcast.com/ Buy What You Love Without Going Broke book preorder HERE 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING 20% OFF any AquaTru water purifier when you go to AquaTru.com and use promo code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Learn 5 ways to be a conscious consumer, along with some of the dangers of taking minimalism to the extreme in this episode of Paring Down! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter The L.E.S.S. Express 40% off luxurious bedsheets & loungewear from Cozy Earth: https://cozyearth.com - use code PARING This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING 15% off your first order at PACT (sustainable, ethical clothing): https://wearpact.com/ - Use code PARINGDOWN Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lala Hairston lives in the Tampa Bay area, which was ravaged by both Hurricane Helene and Hurricane Milton. She shares her powerful story of coming to terms with the possibility of losing everything she owns, and how that gave her new perspective on living a more decluttered life. She also shares valuable and vulnerable outlooks on the meaning of "stuff" from lessons in her childhood, starting at age 6 when she and her mom arrived in the United States with only 4 suitcases. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Paring Down Newsletter The L.E.S.S. Express Lala Hairston Instagram: @bestofthebaycleaning 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing This show is brought to you by BetterHelp. Get 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring $300 off Air Doctor Pro air purifier: https://airdoctorpro.com/ - Use code PARING Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever considered how your home either helps you or hinders you when it comes to your goals? Is it helping you be the kind of parent you want to be, or making it harder? Is it helping you have a stronger marriage, or distracting you from your partner? Clutter can affect us in ways we may not even realize. So can our routines and boundaries. In this episode, author Laura Forbes Carlin shares her insight on this ripple effect of clutter, and offers different concepts that can help us figure out how to choose what stays and what goes (like “everything is alive”). She also shares a framework for deciding when and how to include your kids in the decluttering process. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express $300 off AirDoctor air purifier + free 3 year warranty ($84 value) : https://airdoctorpro.com/ & use code PARING 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring Laura Forbes Carlin Instagram: @inspired.everyday.living Inspired Everyday Living Website: https://www.inspiredeverydayliving.com Buy Laura's books, Decluttering for Parents or Declutter & Manifest: https://www.inspiredeverydayliving.com/books Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Somehow, inanimate objects seem to grow legs and find their way back into our homes and onto our counters. Decluttering can feel like fighting a losing battle-- barely scooping the water out of the boat before it comes rushing back in. This episode covers 5 reasons clutter might keep coming back in your home, and ways to make sure you can finally keep it out for good. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Paring Down Newsletter The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down YouTube Talk, Tidy, Tune 10 Free Meals from Hello Fresh: www.hellofresh.com/freeparing 10% off your first month of Better Help therapy: www.betterhelp.com/paring Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Decluttering is the first step to an organized home, but today we're diving into the organization piece of home management head first. What product should we use? Where should we start? How do we make it look pretty? Professional home organizer, Kenika Williams of Tidied by K answers all of those questions and more to set you up for success as you create a home that is functional and beautiful. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Paring Down Newsletter The L.E.S.S. Express Join the Photo Declutter Community on Facebook (by Picta) Kenika Williams Website: https://tidiedbyk.com/ Kenika Williams Instagram: @tidiedbyk Kenika Williams Tik Tok: @tidiedbyk Pretty Good Box song by The Holderness Family Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you struggle with decluttering because it feels like watching bags of money go out the door, then this episode is for you! In it, I share not only helpful mindset shifts, but practical ways that decluttering actually helps us financially in the long run. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Join the Photo Declutter Community on Facebook (by Picta) Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Who better to help us understand how clutter affects us from a holistic perspective than public health expert, Jenny Albertini? Jenny uses easy to recognize categories (health, home and work/beyond), but pulls in the underpinning issues (structural inequities, brain based conditions, consumer culture) to help anyone looking to live a healthier, less overwhelmed life. Her experience being trained under Marie Kondo herself and spending thousands of hours helping clients organize their homes gives her a tremendous amount of insight and perspective to complement her background in public health. How does clutter affect our relationships? Our culture? Our health? And what about the other way around...how do all of those things affect our clutter? This conversation will make you feel validated in your struggle with clutter and consumerism, but inspired and challenged at the same time. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Join the Photo Declutter Community on Facebook (by Picta) Jenny Albertini book: Decluttered: Mindful Organizing for Health, Home, and Beyond Jenny Albertini website: https://www.jennyalbertini.com/ Jenny Albertini Instagram: @declutteredbyjenny Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠

"What if they ask me where it is??" "I feel ungrateful." "They expect to see it displayed." These are just a few of the hard issues we dive into on today's episode, because we're talking about parting with items that were gifted to us. Decluttering gifts can be really tricky, primarily because of two emotions: Guilt - an internal experience as we wrestle with our core values (gratitude, kindness, etc.). Fear - which is formed from the external pressure we feel from another person to keep the gift...and our discomfort around their potential reaction if we don't. Today's episode is NOT an easy or straightforward topic, but I hope you find the strategies and mindsets I share useful as you declutter your home to experience a less stressful, more functional environment...all while navigating the tricky waters of relationships and personal dissonance. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ $5 ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

There are two major pieces to living a decluttered life: 1) What we get OUT 2) What we let IN On today's episode with Brad Nelson from Debt Free Dad, we talk about how to make smart choices with our money that not only decrease financial stress, but help us stay mindful about what we let IN during our decluttering journey. Brad also shares ways we can make money while decluttering as a tool for getting out of debt or creating a rainy day savings account. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com Debt Free Dad website: debtfreedad.com Debt Free Dad Podcast Brad Nelson Instagram: @debtfreedad Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Instagram Growth Basics ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ Free 15 Clutter-Free Gift Ideas ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

STOP, book lovers! Don't scoff and say "No way am I listening to this episode because books are something I'll never declutter!" I mean, you can absolutely say that and we can still be friends and it's all good. However, I think this episode will surprise you! I'm a huge book lover myself, so I want to 100% validate readers by recognizing exactly why it's so hard to declutter our precious books. I offer 5 top reasons we want to hold onto them, then ONLY once those reasons are fully understood and accepted do we dive into mindset shifts or new perspectives that may help you lighten your load in a way that heightens your love for books rather than diminishes it in any way. My book: ⁠You're Completely Normal⁠ My newsletter: ⁠The L.E.S.S. Express⁠ Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ Instagram Growth Basics --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

No one wants to end up on their death bed and say, "I wish I hadn't spent so much time on my phone." Founder of FreeWyld vacation cabins, Eric Moeller helps shed light on the importance of unplugging in a practical (not unrealistic) way. His 6 steps for entering into what he calls "Wyld Mode" help us break out of our screens and embrace experiences with our loved ones that truly feed our souls and help us live the life we know we want to live. In this episode, we also talk about finding purpose in what we do with our time, alongside the benefits of spending unplugged time building healthy relationships. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@paring_down⁠⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠⁠ FreeWyld Website: ⁠www.freewyld.com⁠ FreeWyld Instagram: ⁠@stayfreewyld⁠ Eric Moeller Instagram: ⁠@ericdmoeller⁠ Paring Down Resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Instagram Growth Basics --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

Ask and you shall receive! When I polled the audience a few weeks ago about areas you'd like to declutter, lots of you said that your garage or your basement were hanging over your heads. Sometimes these huge projects can feel impossible, so we never start them out of a state of overwhelmed paralyzation. I hope today's episode gives you the encouragement to start on your own garage, basement, or doom room - to hear how my husband and I tackled ours, and to know that it CAN be done! You CAN do it! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ Instagram Growth Basics --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

Paring down what's important in our life sounds nice and all, but HOW? So often, pretty much everything feels important. We'd love to say that not everything is a priority, but most of the time it can feel anxiety-provoking to not *do it all.* Business owner (x5) Ashli Pollard is at the top of her field - her agency working with celebs from Brooke Shields to Bethenny Frankel - and reaching thousands of entrepreneurs with her podcast, The Unfiltered Entrepreneur, and her online membership, The Doers. If anyone knows about determining priorities, it's Ashli. She offers practical approaches we can take to figuring out what needs our attention NOW, and what can wait - both in our work and in our personal life. Plus she's been one of my favorite humans and friends for 12 years. It's a fun episode - we both love to laugh, and hope you do too! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Ashli Pollard Instagram: @ashli_p Ashli's podcast, The Unfiltered Entrepreneur Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

Do you have an area of your house that can't seem to stay decluttered or organized no matter what you do? Same. Today I walk you through the four biggest clutter problem areas in my own home, and hope that you find inspiration as I brainstorm how to keep the clutter at bay! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

One of the most efficient ways to simplify your life so your life becomes exponentially easier is to implement household rhythms. Each new rhythm (i.e. routine, habit, etc,) takes away the mental load of problem-solving and decision fatigue. When you don't have to think through what to do, you're left with way more brain space and a lot less stress. Ben and Brianna Folkman of Folklife Rhythms have spent years learning best practices for implementing their "flexible frameworks" in order to create a more peaceful home - even during the chaotic years of little kids. They walk us through their understanding of how rhythms create security in our relationships (for our kids, too!), as well as their Parenting and Teamwork Series that sets couples up for success as they navigate life as a unit. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Newsletter: The L.E.S.S. Express Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠ Ben & Brianna Instagram: ⁠@bribenfolklife⁠ Ben & Brianna Website: ⁠folkliferhythms.com⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

This episode doesn't list things to avoid temptation, like unfollow influencers or take the Amazon Prime app off your phone - though those are great ways to save money! Instead, we're talking about actionable steps that will save you money - from small choices to big life decisions. Why should we bother paring down our spending? Does spending less and saving more truly matter? Don't worry, we'll cover that, too! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠⁠@paring_down⁠ Paring Down Website: ⁠theexpertbeginner.com⁠ Print photos: printique.com Gen Z vs. Millennial Blog Post ⁠⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

How do you know an idea is true? That's a pretty big question, but I've found that the best way to know if an idea is worth exploring is to find out how long it's been around. Because, as Mark Twain famously said, "There's no such thing as a new idea." Sage wisdom usually comes in the form of a repetitive idea that respected spiritual and thought leaders have landed on independently over hundreds - even thousands - of years. Today on the podcast, we welcome Suzanne Johnson, whose book Vital Simplicity pulls on the work of Charles Wagner - who authored The Simple Life in 1895. Living simply as a means to internal fulfillment is a timeless truth - a conclusion that dates back as far as 600 BCE. If that's not motivation to at least explore the principle of living with less...I don't know what is! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠@paring_down Paring Down Website: theexpertbeginner.com ⁠⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠⁠ Suzanne Johnson Website: suzannesjohnson.com Suzanne Johnson Blog: avitalsimplicity.com Blocks  by Suzanne Johnson Child plays  Hour after hour  Stacking blocks  Knocking down  Holding wooden  Cubes in his  Tender hands  He is  Entertained  Leave the  Floor bare  Except for  These sturdy  Pieces  He finds his  Way  His interest is  Held  Add Legos  To the mix  And coloring  Books  Trains and trucks  And why not  Screens?  He soon becomes  Bored Let his  Amusement  Be in the  Simple things  Let his  Vision sharpen on  One thing at a  Time  Cut through the  Clutter  And find  Joy  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

What do you do when there just aren't enough hours in the day? I've got you! Time blocking might sound intimidating, but in this episode I break down exactly how to block out your schedule in order to - avoid burnout - accomplish your goals - avoid time-sucking distractions This episode also covers brain-dumping and checklists, which are tools you can use no matter how structured or flexible you prefer your days. Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠@paring_down Planner: So Typical Me ⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠ ⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠ ⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support

The benefits of living with less can be discovered through as many avenues as there are people - and today, we hear how ultralight backpacking was the catalyst for Glen Van Peski to embrace a lighter load in his every day life. Glen's wilderness stories are inspiring (I can't help but laugh at his hiking story with Matthew McConaughey), but his lessons about generosity as a result of minimalism are even more profound. We often think "But I need MORE in order to give to others," but Glen's hard-won wisdom and experience proves otherwise. When we live with only the essentials, we make space for showing up for others in ways that we'd be blind to otherwise. This is an episode that I think will stick with you for a very long time. Glen's book Take Less, Do More: Surprising Life Lessons in Generosity, Gratitude, and Curiosity from an Ultralight Backpacker is available wherever you buy books! Paring Down Podcast Instagram: ⁠@paring_down Buy Take Less, Do More: ⁠glenvanpeski.com⁠ Email ⁠glen@glenvanpeski.com⁠ to request signed book for $25 ⁠Free Know Your Why Worksheet ⁠ ⁠Free Baby Essentials List⁠ ⁠Complete Guide to Decluttering Kid Stuff⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support