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Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I’m Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I’ve made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let’s get ready to Rebuild Your LIfe and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let’s get in to today’s episode

Coach Frank Rich


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    7 Reasons MORE Willpower Won't Help You Quit Porn | Ep. 263

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2025 11:11


    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes one of the biggest lies men believe about breaking free from porn: that they just need more willpower.   Drawing on neuroscience, real coaching case studies, and over a decade of helping high-performing men rebuild their lives, Frank reveals 7 powerful reasons why willpower alone will never set you free and what actually works instead.   If you've been white-knuckling your way through relapse after relapse, this conversation will show you why the problem isn't your effort… it's your strategy. You'll learn how to shift your identity, build systems that make freedom automatic, heal the wounds driving the addiction, and strengthen yourself spiritually so you never have to fight this battle alone again.   Start your free 7 Day Porn Reset at: www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Key Takeaways: Willpower is a limited resource that drains over time.   Freedom comes from systems, not constant self-control.   Changing behavior starts with changing identity.   Isolation fuels addiction; brotherhood and community are essential.   Willpower ignores the emotional wounds behind addiction.   Proactive, offense-based strategies beat reactive resistance.   Spiritual growth creates strength that willpower can't match.   Rewiring your brain is essential for lasting change.   Support and accountability dramatically increase success rates.   Real transformation comes from intention, not just effort.     Ready to take the first step toward true freedom?   Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    Porn Is Free… Until It Costs You Everything | Ep. 262

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2025 10:02


    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   They told you porn was “free.” But the truth? It's costing you more than you could ever imagine.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank is pulling back the curtain on the real price of your porn habit  and it has nothing to do with your credit card. We're talking about the silent drain on your time, your focus, your confidence, and your God-given potential.   He shares his own story of how porn addiction cost him millions of dollars and years of his life… plus the raw, unfiltered testimonies of men who have broken free and taken it all back.   By the end of this conversation, you'll see exactly how every click is a trade and why the trade is never worth it.   If you're ready to stop giving away your future for a few minutes of fake pleasure, this episode is your wake-up call.     What You'll Learn in This Episode: Why “free” porn is the most expensive thing in your life right now   How the porn industry turns you into the product   The way dopamine hijacks your drive, discipline, and focus   How avoiding hard things keeps you broke, stuck, and average     The truth about porn's effect on your body, confidence, and relationships   Why breaking free almost always leads to greater income and opportunities   The difference between doing more… and becoming more     The first step to reclaiming your identity and momentum  

    Porn Trained Your Brain For Lust, Here's How To Rewire It | Ep. 261

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2025 12:07


    JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Porn didn't just steal your time, energy, and confidence,  it hijacked the way you see women.   It trained your brain to scan, rate, and consume every woman like a product on a shelf. And here's the truth, brother,  if you don't fix the way you see, you'll never fix the way you live.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank is showing you how to retrain your mind so you can walk through this world free from constant lust and objectification  and start seeing women the way God intended: with respect, honor, and appreciation.   You'll learn the exact mindset shifts and daily habits that will help you: Break porn's conditioning and reclaim your vision.   Establish a standard of beauty that protects your heart and mind.   Get crystal clear on the type of woman you want in your life  and become the man she's looking for.   Stop lusting after women's bodies and start valuing their essence.   Practice gratitude and appreciation without crossing the line into objectification.   Because freedom isn't hiding from beauty… it's mastering how you see it.   Ready to take the first step toward true freedom? Join the FREE 7 Day Porn Reset today and get a complimentary week inside The Brotherhood — your community of men committed to walking this journey with you.   ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

    Quitting Porn Opens Your Eyes to the Truth (The Real Red Pill) | Ep. 260

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 8, 2025 9:21


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   What if the real reason you feel stuck, ashamed, and disconnected... isn't because you're broken, but because you've been living behind a lie?   In this raw and powerful solo episode, Coach Frank Rich reveals why quitting porn is the ultimate red pill, not a political statement or an internet trend, but a life-altering decision that wakes you up to who you really are.   Frank breaks down how porn addiction quietly sabotages your confidence, rewires your brain, distorts how you see women, and keeps you stuck in cycles of shame and self-betrayal. More than that, he shares how removing porn resets your mind, restores your identity, and reignites your mission as a man.   You'll hear powerful stories from men inside The Rebuilt Man community who've experienced radical breakthroughs after quitting porn and discover the neuroscience behind why this habit is stealing your power and purpose.   If you've been feeling numb, stuck, unmotivated, or spiritually dead, this episode is your wake-up call.  

    This Isn't a Porn Problem. It's an Identity Problem | EP. 259

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2025 8:51


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   You've tried filters. You've tried prayer. You've begged God to take the desire away…   But you're still stuck.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich pulls back the curtain on one of the hardest truths about porn addiction, it's not just a behavior issue… it's an identity issue.   If you keep seeing yourself as a man who struggles with lust, you'll keep acting like him — no matter how badly you want to stop.   Frank unpacks how real freedom starts with renewing your mind, not just managing your behavior. You'll learn why spiritual routines alone won't lead to lasting transformation… and how to start rebuilding the man God created you to be  from the inside out.   Expect biblical truth, real stories of transformation, and a powerful call to step into a new identity.  

    Should I Still Masturbate If I'm Quitting Porn? (Here's the Truth) | Ep. 258

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2025 10:05


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this bold and eye-opening episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich tackles one of the most common (and misunderstood) questions men ask on the journey to freedom:   “Can I still masturbate if I'm quitting porn?”   But here's the truth… if you're even asking that question, you're already operating from the wrong mindset.   This isn't about guilt, it's about clarity.   Frank breaks down why masturbation (even without porn) keeps you trapped in the same identity, how it delays true healing, and what it's actually costing you as a man. You'll learn the neuroscience behind visualization and addiction, why your “high sex drive” is really just untrained energy, and what it looks like to lead yourself like a king,  not a slave to your urges.   If you're done flirting with the edge, and you're ready to finally take back your power…   This episode is your wake-up call.    

    How Truth, Identity, & Fitness Can Help You Break Free From Porn | Ep. 257

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 48:24


    Listen to Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast - https://pod.link/1648984850   ▶️ Start your FREE 7-day trial here → www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage  

    7 Steps To Reprogram Your Mind & Break Free From Porn's Grip | Ep. 256

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2025 12:23


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   You didn't just pick up a bad habit... Your brain got rewired.   In this hard-hitting episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich breaks down exactly how porn has hijacked your mind — and what you need to do to take it back.   If you're tired of living on autopilot… If success feels empty… If you've built the life you wanted but still feel stuck, numb, or unfulfilled...   It's time to rewire your brain for purpose, clarity, and God-given power.   This episode lays out 7 proven steps to reprogram your mind and rebuild your identity — so you can quit porn for good and finally experience the life you were meant to live.  

    How To Heal The Inner Child & Outgrow Porn | The Coaches Corner w/ Drew Boa | Ep. 255

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2025 32:59


    In this powerful Coach's Corner conversation, Coach Frank Rich sits down with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material Ministries, to dive deep into the root causes of porn addiction and what it actually takes to heal for good.   Drew doesn't just coach men through recovery, he's lived it. In this episode, he opens up about his personal battle with porn, the journey to emotional and spiritual healing, and how he discovered the power of inner child work, trauma healing, and safe, brotherhood-based recovery.   If you're tired of white-knuckling your way through sobriety… If you know your behavior is a symptom of something deeper… If you're ready to face your pain and start healing from the inside out…   This conversation will show you how.  

    Porn Relapse Recovery: 5 Steps to Get Back on Track | Ep. 254

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2025 10:09


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich lays out a powerful 5-step plan for what to do immediately after a relapse. Because here's the truth, relapse isn't the end unless you let it be.   Most men spiral after slipping up because they fall into shame, isolation, and false identity. But with the right response? That same relapse can become the catalyst for your next breakthrough.   You'll learn how to process the moment without self-destruction, trace the root of what really caused the fall, and use your next 24 hours to reset your momentum and get back to building the life God called you to.   Whether you're on day 3 or day 93, this episode is a must-listen for every man who's serious about quitting porn and becoming the man he was born to be.  

    You're Not Addicted to Porn, You're Addicted to Avoiding Reality | Ep. 253

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2025 9:59


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this raw and truth-filled episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich flips the script on porn addiction — and calls it out for what it really is:   Avoidance.   You're not addicted to pixels. You're addicted to escaping life — pain, boredom, responsibility, silence. Porn is just the fastest escape route.   Frank exposes the hidden hierarchy of addiction most men don't see — where comfort, control, and fantasy keep you stuck, passive, and spiritually disconnected. This episode goes deep into the biological, emotional, and spiritual warfare behind your patterns — and reveals why your brain has been rewired to chase dopamine instead of purpose.   If you've ever felt stuck in the cycle of relapse, shame, and distraction… this is the wake-up call you need.  

    Why You're Still Addicted to Porn… Even Though You Love God | Ep. 252

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2025 8:27


    ▶️ Start your FREE 7-day trial here → www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   You love God… You read the Bible… You want to live with purpose and purity…   But late at night, when no one's watching — you're still losing the battle with porn.   In this powerful episode, Coach Frank Rich calls out the hidden struggle of Christian men who can't reconcile their faith with their addiction. This isn't just about lust. It's not just sin. It's slavery. And no amount of willpower, guilt, or prayer alone will break those chains.   Frank breaks down the truth most churches won't tell you:

    Nobody Talks About This: Why Porn Is Harder to Quit Than Heroin | Ep. 251

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2025 8:52


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Porn addiction isn't just real—it's one of the most destructive forces keeping men stuck in mediocrity. Worse than drugs. Worse than alcohol.   Why? Because of the 3 A's that make it deadlier than anything else out there:   Affordability. Accessibility. Anonymity.   In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes why porn addiction is hitting men harder than anyone wants to admit—and why breaking free requires more than willpower.   If you've ever wondered why you keep relapsing… Why your drive is gone… Why you feel ashamed, stuck, or secretly powerless… This is your wake-up call.  

    How This Man Beat Porn After 30 Years (Without 12 Steps or Willpower) | I Am Rebuilt w/ Arnold Czibrik | Ep. 250

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2025 30:31


    STOP Doing These 10 Things If You Want Real Freedom From Porn | Ep. 249

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2025 13:49


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes the 10 biggest mistakes keeping men trapped in porn addiction — and why most recovery plans fail from the start.   It's not that you aren't trying hard enough. It's that you're fighting the wrong battle.   Counting streaks. Watching motivational clips. Reading the Bible without living it out. None of these will set you free if you're avoiding the real work.   True freedom requires going deeper: ✅ Healing the root cause of your addiction ✅ Building emotional resilience and self-control   ✅ Becoming the man who no longer needs porn to escape his life   If you're tired of surface-level solutions and ready for lasting change, this episode is your wake-up call.

    Porn, Dopamine & The ADHD Lie | Ep. 248

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2025 11:14


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Most men who can't focus don't have ADHD... They have a porn problem. And it's frying their brain's ability to stay motivated, focused, and driven.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes the truth behind dopamine dysregulation and how compulsive porn use hijacks your mind. What most men label as ADHD is often the byproduct of years of artificial dopamine spikes from porn, junk food, social media, and other modern addictions.   If you've ever wondered why you can't finish what you start... Why you can't sit still and focus on meaningful work... Or why life feels dull unless you're chasing the next quick hit...   This is the episode that will flip your perspective.   You'll learn: Why dopamine — not willpower — is the key to your focus How porn creates ADHD-like symptoms in your brain Why medication rarely fixes the real problem Practical daily steps to rebuild your focus, drive, and energy How community and daily action rewire your brain for purpose   If you're done blaming your brain and ready to fix the real root cause, this episode will give you the playbook to get started.   ✅ Key Takeaways: Most men's “ADHD” is really dopamine dysregulation caused by porn. Porn hijacks your brain's reward system, making real life feel boring. The ADHD label often masks an addiction to stimulation. Quitting porn and resetting dopamine can reverse focus issues. Medication treats symptoms but rarely solves the core problem. Daily goal setting and small wins rebuild motivation. Exercise, cold exposure, and deep work are natural dopamine resets. Brotherhood and community connection help rewire your mind for purpose.  

    17 MISTAKES Men Make When Trying To Quit Porn | Ep. 247

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2025 12:45


    ▶️ START YOU 7 DAY RESET HERE - www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   Most men trying to quit porn are fighting the wrong battle.   They think it's a willpower problem. They think they just need more discipline. But the real battle is identity transformation.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes 17 of the most common mistakes men make when trying to quit porn — and why these traps keep them stuck in the shame and relapse cycle.   If you've ever asked yourself: ➤ Why do I keep going back, even when I want to quit? ➤ What am I missing in my recovery? ➤ How do I finally break free for good?   This episode is for you.   Coach Frank breaks down why quitting porn isn't just about stopping a bad habit — it's about rewiring your brain, rebuilding your life, and becoming the man God created you to be.   You'll learn why community is essential, why half-measures don't work, and how to create a new identity that makes porn unnecessary.   ⚠️ Expect to Learn: ✔️ Why willpower alone will never set you free ✔️ The critical mistake of trying to quit without replacing the habit ✔️ How isolation feeds addiction, and how community breaks the cycle ✔️ Why you need to address the root cause of your addiction ✔️ How to own your new identity as a man free from porn ✔️ The truth about shame, relapse, and what it means to fail forward ✔️ And much more    

    10 NON-NEGOTIABLE Rules for a Porn Free Life | Ep. 246

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2025 14:36


     ▶️ Start your FREE 7-day trial here → www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   In this powerful mid-year reset episode, Coach Frank Rich breaks down the 10 non-negotiable rules every man must follow to break free from pornography and reclaim his purpose. These aren't tips or tricks. They're unshakable principles rooted in truth, identity, and discipline — the same rules that built The Rebuilt Man and have helped thousands of men worldwide transform their lives.   Whether you started the year strong and slipped… or you're finally ready to draw the line in the sand — this episode is your blueprint for lasting freedom in 2025 and beyond.  

    21 Journal Prompts To Heal Your Porn Addiction | Ep. 245

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 4, 2025 13:37


    If you're ready to stop hiding, start healing, and get access to Coach Frank's 7 Day Reset, weekly coaching calls, and the private Brotherhood chat — join The Rebuilt Man Skool Community today.   ▶️ Start your FREE 7-day trial here → https://www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset   In this powerful episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich unlocks one of the most overlooked tools in the fight against porn addiction: journaling.   Most men haven't put pen to paper since high school — and that's exactly why they're stuck. Writing isn't just a reflection exercise — it's a weapon for rewiring your brain, revealing hidden patterns, and reclaiming your identity.   Frank shares 21 transformational journal prompts pulled directly from his proven recovery framework — each designed to help men confront the root of their addiction, identify triggers, and step into a new standard of ownership, discipline, and freedom.   This episode is structured around four core themes: Awareness & Identity — Expose the lies and redefine who you are.   Triggers & Temptation — Recognize what leads to relapse and how to interrupt the cycle.   Responsibility & Growth — Build grit, destroy excuses, and take radical ownership.   Gratitude, Faith & Brotherhood — Anchor your healing in purpose and connection.   Whether you're just starting your journey or ready to go deeper, these prompts will challenge you to stop hiding — and start rebuilding.  

    Why the Devil Wants You Comfortable (The Hidden War Against Masculinity, Purpose, & Power) | Ep. 243

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2025 9:26


    Porn Is the Symptom, What's the Root? (Why You Keep Relapsing, Numbing Out, & Feeling Empty) | Ep. 242

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2025 11:36


    Rewiring Your Brain from Porn, Social Media & Digital Addiction | Ep. 241

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2025 11:02


    9 UNEXPECTED Outcomes of Quitting Porn (That Nobody Tells You About) | Ep. 239

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2025 13:38


    The #1 Strategy Most Men Overlook in Quitting Porn | Ep. 238

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2025 11:47


    The Silent Epidemic That's Keeping You Addicted to Porn | Ep. 237

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2025 8:33


    10 Things They NEVER Told You About Porn | Ep. 236

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 13, 2025 9:48


    Escaping Porn with Discipline, Meditation & Brotherhood | The Coaches Corner w/ Jeremy Lipkowitz | Ep. 234

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2025 34:18


    How to Outsmart Temptation: 5 Steps to Win the Daily War Against Porn | Ep. 233

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2025 8:42


    Why The Bible Is NOT The Answer To Your Porn Addiction | Ep. 232

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2025 11:12


    27 Signs You Have a Porn Addiction (Even If You Don't Think You Do) | Ep. 231

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2025 14:27


    7 Hidden Ways Men Use Porn to Escape Life | Ep. 229

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 8:50


    Why ALL Young Men Need To STOP WATCHING PORN | Ep. 228

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 49:59


    Why Most Porn Recovery Programs FAIL (And What Actually Works) | Ep. 227

    Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2025 11:48


    25 BRUTAL TRUTHS About Porn Every Man Needs to Hear | Ep. 226

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2025 17:57


    5 Ways Porn Is Rewiring Your Brain (And How to Fix It) | Ep. 225

    Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2025 11:45


    From Weak to Warrior: How Fitness Breaks the Cycle of Porn | Ep. 223

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2025 11:49


    10 Ways Pornography Is Destroying Our Society | Ep. 222

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 13:42


    10 Reasons HIGH PERFORMING Men Stay Addicted to Porn | Ep. 221

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2025 14:51


    Book a call with Coach Frank - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/apply   In episode 221 of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank discusses the struggles high-performing men face with pornography addiction. He reveals ten brutal truths that keep these men stuck, including the masking of pain through success, the illusion of control that porn provides, and the isolation that prevents them from seeking help. The episode emphasizes the need for emotional maturity, vulnerability, and a redefinition of masculinity to overcome these challenges and find true pleasure in life.     Takeaways Success masks deeper emotional pain.   Porn is often rationalized as a harmless outlet.   Control in life can lead to addiction to porn.   Isolation prevents men from seeking help.   Emotional maturity is crucial for overcoming urges.   Busyness can hide internal emptiness.   Perfectionism creates fear of vulnerability.   Accountability is essential for high performers.   Redefining masculinity is necessary for growth.   True pleasure comes from presence, not pornography.  

    Porn Is Hijacking Sex, Relationships, & Community w/ Michael John Cusick | Ep. 220

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2025 13:31


    How To Defeat Daily Temptation & Conquer Porn for Good | Ep 218

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 9:29


    7 UNKNOWN Ways Porn Is Destroying Your Life (That Nobody Talks About) | Ep. 217

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 12:04


    How To Rewrite The Story Of Your Porn Addiction | Ep. 216

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 64:01


    How To END Self-Sabotage & Overcome Porn Addiction FOREVER | Ep. 215

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2025 10:25


    The 7 Day Porn Detox: A Step By Step Roadmap To Quit Porn in Just 1 Week | Ep. 213

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 13:19


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