Game Changers

It's been awhile and just wanted to share what is going on in case you are not a listener of the Speaklifepodcast.com where I have been providing weekly updates.   I don't believe God is  laughing at your plans.  Which in opposition to the old Yiddish proverb that Men makes plans and God laughs.   In spite of what is going on in my life, I am leaning into what Moses said. “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” Psalm 90:12   As we learn to number our days, we can prepare for the days ahead by committing them into God's hands and appointing them for the fulfilling of His purposes. Teaching us to not just sit and wait passively as to what the days will bring but praying for the days that haven't happened yet.   I also believe what God told Jeremiah, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Thanking you for being a part of my extended family.  https://gofund.me/a098f55b   

I woke of this morning with this in my head. Thought I'd share it with you for what its worth.   Someone (on Facebook or IG) in your circle. Someone you know is grieving and lost a loved one. Someone you know cried themselves to sleep. Someone you know drank too much to try to forget. Someone you know is lonely and losing hope. Someone you know has thoughts about suicide today Everyone you know needs your kindness.   Be kind and rewind. 

I'm not even sure what to call this episode.  Its like me at the moment. its a hodge podge of emotions and feelings.  Let me know if you heard it and what you think. kenn.blanchard@gmail.com   

Grab the tissues on this one.  Going to share some personal stuff and hope it helps you understand.  I think I figured out something but it hasn't registered yet.  Let me know if you get it.   thanks for subscribing.  http://kennspodcast.com https://blanchardnetwork.com support the show:  https://buymeacoffee.com/kennblanchard  Glow.fm/kennblanchard  

This week on the Kenn Blanchard Show, a conversation with my good friend, Terrance Jackson of the spiritual clothing brand AG Faith and AG 365 A man after the things of GOD To contact Terrance Jackson and get more AG365 Information Email - agfaith365@gmail.com Phone - 301-200-2535 IG - @agfaith365 Twitter - @agfaith365   Https://blanchardnetwork.com  Https://buymeacoffee.com/kennblanchard   

Rebooting this show   Thank you for listening and subscribing to this show.  Starting again as a personal journal to provide inspiration, motivation, and just talk to friends.  This is a part of the new BlanchardNetwork.com a simple channel with several shows I am producing.  This show will be done in and out of the studio.  This episode is a little background on the host and where we are going.  If I can help you feel free to contact me at kenn.blanchard@gmail.com  Rev. Kenn Blanchard kennspodcast.com 

This episode is an update on my personal situation. A journal of what has been going on with my wife since May 17, 2021. Introducing Blanchardnetwork.com  https://youtu.be/QxckrvKlxkE   https://gofund.me/a098f55b 

This week on “While You are Waiting,” Kenn talks about goal setting and the Heroes Journey.  It is the great theme behind all the stories and movies you love believe it or not.  We are going to talk about only half of the journey and some elements of importance in starting your goals (journey).  Kenn tries to break it down so that it makes sense.  Let him know if he is off on this one.  FEEDBACK is a part of it.   The heroes journey   1. The Ordinary World 2. The Call of Adventure 3. Refusal of the Call 4. Meeting the Mentor 5. Crossing the First Threshold 6. Tests, Allies, Enemies   You can contact kenn at kenn.blanchard@gmail.com  You can support this show at buymeacoffee.com/kennblanchard or Glow.fm/kennblanchard 

You did not make a mistake.  This is the right podcast.  Welcome to “While You Are Waiting.” Formerly known as If I Died Tonight from the BlanchardNetwork.com   The podcast created my Rev Kenn Blanchard to encourage you, motivate you, and inspire you to live your best life.    This podcast was created to give you hope.  This podcast was created to share some information that is missing from the barrage of negatives we get hit with everyday.     Be your own damn superhero    All my comic book, pop culture and action figure loving friends know the backstory to so many heroes.  I submit to you to consider taking a look at your own life and leveling up.  Follow me for weekly inspiration to help you do just that.  DM if interested.    The month of June, I'll be talking about goal setting and finding YOUR purpose of the kennspodcast.com    support the podcast Glow.fm/kennblanchard 

Failure.  Nobody likes to fail but that is how we learn best.  Kenn shares that he is going through a tough time right now but gives you some things to think about about feeling like a failure.   Please support the show: https://glow.fm/kennblanchard    If you are thinking that ending your life will stop the pain, you are wrong.   If you think you won’t be missed or the world is better off without you, you are wrong.   Everything we go through in this life is temporary— Especially tough times.   

The podcast is getting better and we just got over the hurdle of the dreaded 7th episode when shows fade away.  IF I DIED TONIGHT, welcomes Coach Claudette to give us some insight of self care.  @coachclaudette  This episode dedicate to women.   to support the podcast:  https://glow.fm/kennblanchard    This show is a part of the https://blanchardnetwork.com 

Much love to the women in my life.  I seek to understand so I asked  a few questions based on what I saw and heard.  I think I found the right person to talk to this week.   Coach Claudette is a long time friend, trusted resource and woman of compassion, knowledge, hospitality, love  and peace.   Listen to our conversation, and see if it helps. https://blanchardnetwork.com 

A Womens Worth, the start of a month of episodes dedicated to uplifting and encouraging the women in my life. Your Worth If you’re not being treated with love and respect, please check your “price tag.”   Perhaps you’ve marked yourself down and not realized it. Its you who tells people what you’’re work by what you accept on a daily basis.  We don’t hear what you say because you are always talking.  We do see what you put up with though. Get off the “clearance rack and get behind the glass where they keep the top shelf and the valuable stuff.  Bottom line is you need to value yourself more.     

Kenn shares his thoughts on using your fighting spirit to push through outside the ring and off the field.   Conversation with Dr. Stacy (podcast host of "Being the Dot in White Spaces") Motivation from Rocky Balboa    https://ifidiedpodcast.com    “In a bad place” The focus is for the athlete.  A young man between 25-35 that is a mix martial artist.  Is extreme (purposeful)  in his eating habits, dieting, exercise, training.  Is poor.  May not have a “good job”.  Is banking on a career as a fighter to get out of his situation.  Relationships are all gym based.  Probably smokes weed.  Is feeling depressed and fears failing.   What would you say if he was listening?   What would you recommend for this guy? What should he do short term? How can he help himself? What would you say to his friends? Is there a resource for this group of people?    If you are thinking that ending your life will stop the pain, you are wrong.   If you think you won’t be missed or the world is better off without you, you are wrong.   Everything we go through in this life is temporary— Especially tough times.    If you are in crisis, call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to anyone. All calls are confidential. http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org      Giving Links    https://giv.li/p2nj61 https://paypal.com/us/fundraiser/charity/3587637 https://www.patreon.com/speaklifechurchpodcast You can support the ministry by check or money order by sending it to Speak Life Church, PO BOX 2, upper Marlboro, MD 20772

You survived the first two episodes.  Still tweaking and fixing up this show.  This week I want to introduce you to the thought of hope and the story of Desmond Doss. If you are in crisis, call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to anyone. All calls are confidential. http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org      Supporting Links  https://giv.li/p2nj61 https://www.patreon.com/speaklifechurchpodcast You can support the ministry by check or money order by sending it to Speak Life Church, PO BOX 2, upper Marlboro, MD 20772

What is depression? A conversation with Dr. Ed B.  The Story of JD. He was an older friend that came to that fork in the road. If you are in crisis, call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to anyone. All calls are confidential. http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org      Supporting Links    https://giv.li/p2nj61 https://www.patreon.com/speaklifechurchpodcast You can support the ministry by check or money order by sending it to Speak Life Church, PO BOX 2, Upper Marlboro, MD 20772   Https://ifidiedpodcast.com 

Episode 1  Relationships - The Story of Richard The 9 habits that drain your focus every day If you are in crisis, call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255), available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to anyone. All calls are confidential. http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org  Supporting Links    https://giv.li/p2nj61 https://www.patreon.com/speaklifechurchpodcast You can support the ministry by check or money order by sending it to Speak Life Church, PO BOX 2, Upper Marlboro, MD 20772   Https://ifidiedpodcast.com  Next week:  What is Depression.  A conversation with a Dr.        

Trailer episode. Suicide prevention, life-affirming, hope-giving, inspirational stories, and conversations to help "you survive another week," from Rev. Kenn Blanchard of Speak Life Church, Inc. https://ifidiedpodcast.com

Same feed, different theme. I have done some great things in my lifetime but I want to help just one more person not to give in to the battle within.  I am creating a positive, encouraging, and thought-provoking podcast powered by the mantra of Cpl Desmond Doss, “Lord let me get just one more.”  I know the world doesn’t like positive stuff so I ameliorated the choice of the title to turn the negative into a positive.  I am hoping it works.  I just want to save one more.  I’ve been in many situations where friends called on me to help them, listen to them, and convince them to continue.  I’m focusing that energy, that history, those experiences to get just one more.  I know I could be doing a lot of other things but I feel I am called to this. "Every man dies, not every man really lives" - William Wallace   I am preparing for the launch of a new podcast, “If I Die Tonight.”  It sounds grim but it’s about life.  I plan to take on the tough subjects and put a spin of encouragement, hope, and wisdom gained from not always doing the right thing but learning in the process.  Let me know what you think. All you need is one person to believe in you and you can make it.   Lord Help me get one more.    

Conversation with talented guitarist Alena Ciera and her new music , "Invincible" (used by permission) And Kenn Blanchard on Adulting, surviving and living in Hard Times.  Support the Show:  https://glow.fm/kennblanchard 

This week I was blessed to talk to (Ret.) Senior Chief Thom Shea, a former U.S. Navy SEAL. Inspired me to focus and start a campaign to help warriors in crisis through speaklifechurch.net   https://blackmanwithagun.com/2020/12/conversation-wit…y-seal-thom-shea/    support the show:  http://glow.fm/kennblanchard    

I had the opportunity to go fishing in Hatteras, NC.  Originally for Tuna.  My first time.  We ended up only with King Mackerel.  A Great White Shark was seen...   Interview with Maryland based guitar instructor and musician, Erik Sharar. https://youtu.be/0ZsD1GoSJEY    Visit the new YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/c/KennBlanchard    support the show at https://glow.fm/kennblanchard 

Kenn gives a motivational monologue about life.  His advice for getting things done. Multi-tasking and more.  if you like the show, share it.  kennspodcast.com  support it. http://glow.fm/kennblanchard

Got motivated and inspired after talking to the Dean Zelinsky of Dean Zelinsky Private Label Guitars. https://deanzelinsky.com    Dean's guitars have been played by various artists: Dimebag Darrell, Michael Schenker, Helloween, Kansas, Leslie West, Glenn Dean (Motor City Bad Boys), The Cars, Heart, The Doobie Brothers, Jefferson Starship, Dave Mason, Triumph, Iron Maiden, Sammy Hagar, Def Leppard, Nils Lofgren, Larry Crane (John Mellencamp Band), ZZ Top and Karl Sanders of Nile. Many others can be seen playing Dean’s guitar designs in photographs, on the Internet, in music videos, and in concerts. Dean’s guitar designs have been featured on the Howard Stern Radio Show, on TV at the Grammys Awards show, in books including a recent book by James Bond novelist Raymond Benson, and in countless magazine articles spanning over 33 years. TV talk show host Mike Huckabee (2008 U.S. presidential candidate), owns and plays a Dean Bass.   Dean Budweiser Guitar ^ Dean Budweiser and Busch Beer Guitar ^ "ZZ Top Spinning Fur Guitars". Archived from the original on September 15, 2009. Retrieved July 6, 2009. ^ http://leftyfretz.com/left-handed-dean-zelinsky-guitars/ ^ https://deanzelinsky.com ^ Girl in the Water Photo ^ VH1 / E! Entertainment   Join my listening family and subscribe at kennspodcast.com      Support the show with a donation at glow.fm/kennblanchard    Thank you.     Kenn 

You are invited to subscribe to my new show to encourage, motivate and entertain you.   "Even if you feel like nothing makes sense just remember that you can make a change so you can also save lives from the future   It is never too late to get started on a new path of success. You can shape your life the way you want it to be by putting in the work on a daily basis.

https://icekrusher.com INVEST!!!! https://www.gofundme.com/bring-the-icekrusher-to-life   https://youtu.be/XZpG43BbNlg.    Support the podcast at http://glow.fm/kennblanchard  

I got the opportunity to speak again with Ysroel G. about joy and spirituality.  I had a great time and decided to put a little creativity into this show.  I changed the intro and outro.  I also created a new support link for this podcast with http://glow.fm/kennblanchard  along with a goofy commercial that I hope makes it memorable and funny.  I love you. Kenn 

I started another podcast to be all Kenn All the Time.  I am still pro-gun but I am also a guy that loves Christ, life, family, guitars, motorcycles and the outdoors. As I travel on this journey, come with me and listen to the folks I meet.  This week I found a new friend that is here in the Nations Capital to protest all that is wrong in America.  You won’t find a debate here.  Listen and think for yourself.     new website under construction. http://kennblanchard.com support me: http://buymeacoffee.com/8cSEJCb   Copy linkTweet  

This week 7 Reasons to Dream Big and 7 Ways to Start.  With an Interview with Doug Danger and Steven R. Hall  Author of the book and famous motorcycle stuntman Doug Danger.   https://teespring.com/stores/kenn-blanchards-store    Support the show Https://glow.fm/kennblanchard      Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts.     Doug Danger, Dare to Dream: From Tragedy to Triumph: A daredevil's ride by Amazon.com https://www.amazon.com/dp/1734372923/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_x1t5EbMRMBKKZ

What Gives you Joy? Conversation with Sarah Alex.  Share-Subscribe http://kennspodcast.com  Earlier this year (2020) I started the Game Changers(GC) podcast.  I found out early that GC was not original.   That podcast focused on mens issues, dads doing the right thing, and things folks may not have talked about.  After a couple of episodes I realized unless I was going to be talking solo, I wasn’t going to get a lot of guys willing to discuss their mistakes, and things they have going on.  And when they did I didn’t want the world to hear it.  I have been podcasting since 2007.  I have tried all kinds of things on my first show which was entitled the Urban Shooter and the Black Man With A Gun show.  It was a variety show.  It still is, now that it is back.   But wait there's more.   I am changing this show to encompass, the rest of my world.  I have a lot of other things I have a passion for that is not gun related that I want the rest of the world wants to hear and experience with me.   Did you know that  Auburn Avenue Research Library on African American Culture and History, Atlanta-Fulton Public Library has 100 episodes of my show now? I’m now a part of black history.    Hope you like the new show. Kenn    Sarah Alex - Editor services  https://www.scriptoriaproofreading.com    Support the show. Glow.fm/gamechangerskennblanchard 

Sometimes you wish you could reset our lives like we do video games.  You can’t respawn but you can change your own future by resetting how you think and do things. In order to hit the reset button, you have to figure out where you’re at right now and what changes you can make.   Of course, not every life is in need of a full reset.  Kenn returns to let you know that resetting a life is not the same as restarting a computer. You can’t just delete past memories, experiences, injuries, or every unenjoyable responsibility in your life. Resetting the direction of one’s life requires more than a few minutes of downtime.   I thought the podcast was over.  You said please no.  So, we are back.  Please support the show.  The show notes will be on blackmanwithagun.com    https://www.patreon.com/kennsgamechangers Glow.fm/gamechangerskennblanchard 

Setting a S.M.A.R.T. goal with a Motorcycle Podcast https://blackmanwithagun.com/2020/05/goal-setting-with-a-indian-motorcycle-podcast S.M.A.R.T.E.R Specific Measurable Actionable Relatable Time Evaluate Reward Conversation with Gary Johnson.  http://www.blackmeninamerica.com/ http://www.garyjohnsoncompany.com/ http://www.masterchefgary.com/ Http://indianmotorcycleradio.com       

This is a continuation of the previous episode where we started talking about the importance of goal setting.  You have homework to create a list of goals.  The bigger the better.  Goals for personal achievement, financial, skills, things you wanted, everything.  On this episode we are going to drill down a little.  I am going to share some new terms and ways to think.  We are involved in a process.  This is not a overnight thing.  I am learning with you.  I would like to know what you are working on.  Hit me up at kenn.blanchard@gmail.com    visit the new site:  http://blackmanwithagun.com 

This week, I am starting a series on Goal Setting.  I think this is so important I am breaking my normal battle rhythm.  I am actually heeding the advice I am giving.  In full disclosure I don’t have it all together.  Something I learned many years ago is when you teach a subject you have to learn more to be able to present it.  I want to tackle this goal setting thing because from what I have learned so far is the reason I am not where I want to be is because I didn’t make, set, work, apply the right kind of goals for me.  I am going to take this opportunity in the chaos of Corona home detention to change this.  Will you join me?   The episodes may be shorter or longer than usual because again, I am breaking format to make this real.  There is an assignment at the end.  Don’t just listen, participate.        The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.     Support the show:  http://patreon.com/kennsgamechangers   Thanks,   Kenn 

Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows. Is your heart broken? Is your relationship busted? If it is I have some suggestions for how to deal with it on this episode. If you can relate, what you can do to get through this. It's a short show but powerful message this week.   Support the Show. Http://patreon.com/kennsgamechangers         Relationships break when both partners don’t want the same things. Relationships break when there are underlying hidden issues that sabotage every chance to connect. Relationships break when one is not accepting responsibility for their words or actions. Relationships break when you’re walking around on eggshells and they find fault with everything you do.  Relationships break when there is no trust. Relationships break when you look forward to them not being with you.     kenn.blanchard@gmail.com    

With everyone home, the old heads like me are considering buying a gaming systems.  I asked my son for a run down on what the most popular ones are, the benefits to each, the cost, and what games cost. warriorcast.com Introducing Steve Da Barber, talking about himself, life, barbering and wisdom he shared to younger barbers.     Barbershop culture Tips on Manhood now  Chasing Money Focus on the win “Danger is real, fear is a choice.” - After Earth  Someone I have known for 15 years.  He’s a humble guy, a man of faith, but street hardened. He has been on the “inside,” but turned his life around.  By his own admission he is not a perfect guy but a man of his word. He values integrity and thinks we should teach that to our young men. He came to my attention from a Facebook post admonishing his peers to think better, do better, charge what they were worth and not settling for crumbs.  To not fight each other.  To not be afraid.     https://square.site/book/92NGEGYPE575N/please-book-exact-age-group-type-cut-you-need   Tips for maintaining yourself in this time at home.  Thanks for listening. Kenn      http://friends.kennspodcast.com

https://blog.kennsgamechangers.com/2020/03/opposition-is-proof-of-progress.html   Conversation with Nick Thompson, father, entrepreneur and podcaster. Analytic Endeavors Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/…/analytic-endeavors/id1497659002  https://bigideaindustries.com   Support your show: https://patreon.com/blackmanwithagun http://support.kennspodcast.com   

  One of the things we don’t do is listen more to the wisemen in our lives.  There are grandparents, and uncles that have accumulated a wealth of knowledge over their lifetimes.  Podcasting is an excellent way to capture that wisdom.  It’s not easy because not everything they say is for everybody. And not everything they say is gold.  But on this weeks episode I have a guest that is golden.  We spoke for awhile and when he got comfortable he dropped some nuggets.     I didn’t know him personally before this episode.  I have heard of him for decades.  He is going to talk about the keys to success-Sleep.  He is going to talk about using caffeine effectively, how to sleep better, about church security, the Second Amendment, gun rights, the role and title of a Sheepdog, about self discipline and resilience.  This grandfather is going to give some parenting 101 advice.  And he is even going to talk about faith. And the importance of it.     Listen to this sage speaks.  You are going to thank me for this episode.  My guest is retired U.S. Army Lt. Col David Grossman. Dave has five patents to his name, has published four novels, two children’s’ books, and six non-fiction books to include his “perennial bestseller” On Killing  (with over half a million copies sold).Since his retirement from the US Army in 1998, he has been on the road almost 300 days a year, for over 19 years, as one of our nation’s leading trainers for military, law enforcement, mental health providers, and school safety organizations. He is a US Army Ranger, a paratrooper, and a former West Point Psychology Professor.  He has a Black Belt in Hojutsu, the martial art of the firearm, and has been inducted into the USA Martial Arts Hall of Fame.     https://amzn.to/2Ujl9Zy https://amzn.to/2y8YUNe

The Pandemic has people back in the gun stores buying ammo, and more guns. My guest this week is a good friend, known in the world as Colion Noir, gun rights activist and Youtuber.  He'll be talking about the new interest in guns in the fear of COVID-19. I'll be sharing some wisdom on comparison, jealousy and envy. Keep it in check. "Comparison is the thief of joy." - Theodore Roosevelt Operational Security. Nobody needs to know what you have, where it is and all of that. Dial it back. We were right. We are prepared. This isn’t the end of it though. Watch yourself. Join us on Facebook @kbgamechangers If you like us, share this, check out the YouTube https://youtu.be/6XGyPQKu-Po   And subscribe to show, the YouTube channel and the blog.

Store Shelves have been emptied across the world. Fights have broken out, carts piled high, and across the United States, Canada and the United Kingdom, most supermarkets imposed a cap to limit the number of toilet paper rolls a person can buy. There is no shortage of videos capturing the mass hysteria that has swept up globally as shelves are cleared. Hand sanitizers, cleaning solutions, canned goods, water bottles and pasta shelves have are also sold out. When people are told something dangerous is coming, but all you need to do is wash your hands, the action doesn’t seem proportionate to the threat. People naturally start to panic-buy when they think something is scarce, and photos on social media can easily fuel that panic. The Truth about the Coronavirus for the game changers.  The Truth about the Coronavirus What you Need to survive for real support.kennspodcast.com http://Patreon.com/blackmanwithagun New Facebook page @kbgamechangers If you like the show, please share it with one person you think might subscribe. Thanks man. Kenn

Your Key To Success: Conversation Why is Communication so hard? Asked of a single woman I know. The topic prompted me to share this with you so you can do better. Two Game Changing Points: 1. An open-ended question is a question that cannot be answered with a "yes" or "no" response, or with a static response. 2. Active listening. There are three levels of safe topics to talk about. More tips: * Be attentive and give eye contact. * Make active and engaged expressions. * Repeat back what you’ve heard, and follow up with questions. * If you notice something you want to say, don’t say it. Challenge it and go back to listening. * For bonus points, wait an hour to bring up that thing you didn’t say earlier. Communicate for intimacy. Good Luck. New Facebook page @kbgamechangers If you like the show, please share it with one person you think might subscribe. Thanks man. Kenn

YOUTUBE There are many reasons we get discouraged and lose our motivation. It can happen at any age or stage of life. Dreams are what fuel us. When we don't have any daily motivation to drive us, we become bored or worse. Once we become stagnant, we get regretful.  We get angry.  We get stuck.  You could be incredibly talented, have the best contacts, and have a ton of experience, but they aren’t going to do you any good if you aren’t using them. One of the things I want to introduce on this podcast and blog is to occasionally introduce to some something you have heard of but may have never tried. One of the ways you can stay active mentally, stay fresh is to learn and try new things.  I have a small list but I want to share it with you.  Maybe what I share is not for you, but you will miss 100% of the opportunities you don’t take.  Why?  Because over time, all of us lose our desire to try new things.  Over time we become complacent and fearful of failure.  Over time we become stagnant.  Even fresh water starts to stink after a while if it just sits there. Some of us are struggling with the feeling of being overwhelmed.  We struggle with this issue because we know we are supposed to do something, but the what has us puzzled.  When your life is out of focus, your internal engine shuts down.  You lose your mojo.  You stop caring.  The longer you put something off, the harder it is to get it done? That’s because inaction fuels procrastination. It comes down to the way our minds work. Our minds aren’t designed to coast.   Listen in to this great man and I talk about mindset and his life.  Luther Smith Linktree: https://linktr.ee/tcg_umbrella

I was working with security officers and police officers for over twenty years.  I was with some funky men.  Some of it was just a basis of not knowing any better.  Then there are the younger brothers I meet at church and at the gym.  I'm hoping some of you are listening. To all the fellas that are joining the podcast and checking out the blog, thanks! What no one tells you about your smell. Let's fix that. A man sees but a woman smells.   Smell is our strongest sense. It is connected to our memory. Women like to be with guys who smell good.  Wearing a fragrance is a distinctive way of expressing yourself. Depending on the scent you choose, wearing a fragrance can make you more attractive and more approachable. A majority of the fellas don't wear a fragrance.  I remember in the Marines the SGTMAJ would say something like, "it smells like a Whorehouse in here, who's got the perfume on?"   The purpose of this show is to make you better. If you want to attract a woman and keep her attention – pay attention to your smell.   Do I have your attention yet?     What do people most often overlook?  Their noses.    Going to share about cologne and perfume but before that, let’s talk funk.   How's your breath?  Do you walk around making flowers droop?  Do dogs move away from you?  It could be your breath.  You might have the chronic, halitosis.  There are not that many mints in the world.  Do you know bad breath is still plaguing up to 10 percent of the world?  That is like 7 billion people if I use my hands to count. If you’re worried you’re one of these people, one trick is to lick your wrist, wait ten seconds, then sniff the patch you licked: If it smells, chances are, so does your breath. If you are not sure just ask a home girl. A friend, neutral female friend. This, in fact, is true of any concern you have regarding your various bodily odors, be it mouth, foot, armpit or even groin (okay, maybe not groin. Just wash your ass man). Find somebody you know and trust and ask them,”. If they tell you that you don’t smell bad, then most likely, you don’t have anything to worry about.” Just remember, if they tell you that you smell fine while backing away with their eyes watering, you may want to try asking somebody else. It’s nearly impossible to smell yourself, even if you’re smelling funky. The receptors in your nose that would normally respond to your own particular brand of smells practically shut down after being bombarded with the same scents for so long. Basically, your nose goes numb to your own stank so you don’t go insane. Sweat usually means bacteria, and bacteria is what gives off the stench.  Just because it is natural doesn't mean we want you around. Now go by the golden rule of body odor: If you can smell any odor on yourself at all, others can smell it a lot more. Put on more deodorant, use wet wipes to give yourself a quick cleanup, or put on a new change of clothes. The same rules goes for deodorants, perfumes, colognes, and body sprays too. If you can still detect your fancy perfume on you after a while, other people can definitely smell it when they’re around you. Lets’ talk about fragrances. Forget what my SGTMAJ said.  Buy some cologne.  It will differentiate you from inmates, teenagers, and men that can't get a mate. Smelling good and using fragrances is something else no one talks about.   But I want you to shine.  You know the motto of the Game Changers podcast. When you know better, you can do better.   Wearing a fragrance is a distinctive way of expressing yourself. Different scents carry different vibes, and knowing these vibes and choosing accordingly matters. Also, people associate scents with memories and other people (especially women). If you are wearing scents that are unremarkable or common – you'll smell like everyone else.  Think of how you think a old man smells.  How does 13 year old smell?  How does a prisoner smell?  Is it starting to gel?   Smelling good, brothers: It can increase your level of attractiveness. It can increase your perceived level of trust. It can effect on how people perceive you. It can reduce stress levels. It can increase confidence levels. It can increase your alertness. It can double your chances of getting a woman's phone number. 80% of men don't use a fragrance regularly! Major brands create perfumes that are part science and part marketing. They have a familiar feel to all their perfumes. Ralph Lauren perfumes, for example are created to have similar scents. And the same for Polo.  It is too strong for some and just right for others.  When deciding to purchase a new fragrance – let your nose decide!   Cost isn't based on what is good or bad.  We end up paying for the marketing cost and the image associated with a brand.   In the podcast I'll be sharing in detail: The types of fragrances. How to test them. Which one to buy. How to apply them best.   I know this is something that nobody else had the guts to share with you but I had to.  I want you to win.  I want you to rock it.  I want you to be a game changer.   Http://support.kennspodcast.com https://patreon.com/blackmanwithagun  

            Today, I know the difference between love and lust.   That wasn't the case 20 and 30 years ago. Lust is an intense sexual attraction to another person.  You just want to do what biology is calling on you to, by any means necessary.  It is fueled in your mind by fantasy and competition.  You want to "hit the bottom" or knock a hole in that thing. It's goal directed.  It's addictive.  It's self centered. You just can't wait to get in to it. Oh I remember those days.  When it is mutual, it can be animalistic. When it is not it violates. It can endanger.  One of the only good things about lust is can be what starts a good relationship.  It can be what allows for deep physical connection, if we survive the fire. When your hearts on fire, smoke gets in your eyes. Lust feels like love until its' time to make a sacrifice. Love and lust, however, are not identical and can appear in any combination, with or without the other, fluctuating between the two states over time. Love is a basic human need that keeps us bonded to the people who matter most. A secure, loving attachment with a romantic partner involves a deep affection, trust, and acceptance of a person, with all of their flaws. I want to tell you about a girl I lusted after.  She had a serious hour glass figure.  When she wore her red, she could stop traffic.  Police officers used to follow us, just to see her. She had a peek a boo bra. She was big up top. She was hotter than Georgia asphalt.  She spoke with a low deep voice.  She was not good for me. She was a 1971 Chevy Corvette.  She had a big block 454 engine with a Edelbrock blower peaking out of the fiberglass hood.  It had hard detachable t-tops. In the summer, you could feel the temperature from engine compartment.  It didn't have A/C.  The motor was so powerful it had chains assisting the motor mounts.  You could torque the frame with the RPM of the engine. She growled when she idled.  She got 10 miles to the gallon in the city. 12MPG on the highway under 60.  She got respect and a lot of looks.  I had to park her away from other cars.  She was horrible in bad weather.  She slid on wet pavement like a ice skater.  It was lust. She gave nothing back. When you want a cool car, it is lust.  The car can't and doesn't love you back.  It is one sided. Lust is like that.  There is no commitment.  She'll put you down in a out of the way place.  She'll wear out, or be sold for something newer. You don't do that with a person you love. 15 Rules For a Loving, Lasting, and Satisfying Relationship by Janet C Hall and Steven R Hall | Dec 13, 2019 Conversation with the authors of 15 Rules, Janet C. Hall and Steven R. Hall, authors.        

Depression The Stigma The Truth What do you do when... Conversation with a Dr of Psychiatry 1-800-273 TALK (8255) Has something happened in your life recently that has got you down? You going through something? (Most of us are) You drinking, smoking or popping something to help you cope? You watching a lot of porn? (what's a lot, right?) You might be depressed. Persistent sad, anxious, or feeling “empty” Feelings of hopelessness Irritability acting like you got sand in your draws Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, or helplessness Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities Decreased energy or fatigue Feeling restless or having trouble sitting still Difficulty concentrating, remembering, or making decisions Difficulty sleeping, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping Appetite and/or weight changes Thoughts of death or suicide, or suicide attempts Aches or pains, headaches, cramps, or digestive problems without a clear physical cause and/or that do not ease even with treatment Not everyone who is depressed experiences every symptom We throw ourselves into work, into household projects, we try to stay busy but sometimes, you have to fix you. Beyond Treatment: Things You Can Do Here are other tips that may help you or a loved one during treatment for depression: Try to be active and exercise. Set realistic goals for yourself. Try to spend time with other people and confide in a trusted friend or relative. Try not to isolate yourself, and let others help you. Expect your mood to improve gradually, not immediately. Postpone important decisions, such as getting married or divorced, or changing jobs until you feel better. Discuss decisions with others who know you well and have a more objective view of your situation. Continue to educate yourself about depression. Do you have a win? How about a loss? Or you just want to talk to me about something that concerns you? 443-360-5421 is my number. Call me, tell me, leave a message Shalom Baby, KennBlanchard.com You can support the show at https://support.kennspodcast.com  https://youtu.be/vIJpN20WV1s

Having Children Whiskey Giveaway Remembering Kobe Bryant #girldad Convo with Gardner Douglas a humble guy, a good man I met at work.     You can support the show at https://support.kennspodcast.com Visit the new website at https://blog.kennsgamechangers.com https://blog.kennsgamechangers.com/2020/01/good-fathers-using-girldad.html HAVING CHILDREN  The chances of having a child increase when a man and woman have sexual intercourse. Previous personal history, health, age or economic status often doesn't matter.  If sperm fertilizes egg, there is a good chance a baby will be produced.  We are created for procreation. Most of the men I know didn't know what kind of father they would be.  Some want a lot of kids.  Some want only one.  Some wonder if they will be good enough.  Some wonder if they can afford it.   It is a common thought to not have children in this day in age.  It has always crazy.  It has always been bad.  It is always a turbulent time.  Kids are born anyway every day. That is the way of the world. Ready or not.   Aside from any of that, what do you do after they arrive.  it doesn't matter if you are married or not for the biology to occur.  Your social status, ethnicity, race, or age doesn't matter as it relates to if it will happen.  What do you do after the baby is born?  You have to adjust.  You have to adapt.  You have to change your plans.  Children are a game changer.   Marriage, which, when done right really helps you raise a good child is not in vogue, not popular and not understood.  Do you realize how easier it is to raise a healthy, happy child in a loving home, with shared values, incomes, and goals?  Do you realize how great it is not to struggle mentally, physically and spiritually as some do?  Marriage is not the answer for everyone but it is not what folks are doing these days that we call marriage either.   Marriage is not the magic pill.  You must be mature. You must be close to the same page.  You must communicate.  You must want to grow.   And on top of it all there are people that use children to live.  They use welfare like a career path.  They have them so they will be supported financially by the state or you for the rest of their lives. There are those that think all they want is the child they don't want you.  They like your genes.  You are reduced to being a sperm donor.  You'll make a pretty baby, they think.    One of the truly crazy things in today’s culture is that crazy behavior is supported.  You will find groups and organizations that promote and give advice to behavior that is detrimental to a child.     But let’s say, no matter what your situation is, you are father.  How do you become a dad?  In my humble opinion, you have to change your priorities.  You have shown love.  And before I lose you, if I haven't already, I'm talking about sacrificial love.  The love that takes over your life so that you would give your life for your child. You child didn't ask to be here.  It can be raised by the state.  It can be raised in brothel, crack house, or the streets.  The only reason and the only way your child will make it is if you protect it, love it, nurture it, teach it, feed it, all of that.    OK lets back up.  the kid has been born, the mother is a psycho chick with a nice body.  it was a one night stand, or a repeat offense cause it was that good, she is not someone you thought would be a good mother but... or she belongs to another, was married, separated and ... there are a million scenarios   if you don't have children right now, and you are listening, allow me to help you understand the importance of contraception, the importance of abstinence, the case for waiting, the case for being smarter than your penis, deciding not to take the hot chick to bed immediately as if her expiration date was fast approaching.   the case for marriage, the case for planning because the alternative is to be a single father, dealing with a woman that doesn't want anything to do with you except your child support.  Another child getting lost in the system, thinking her father doesn't love her.  thinking all men must be like that guy....   But my guest this week, is a humble guy, a good man I met at work.  He just recently became a father, since I've known him and from the outside looking in, is doing damn good at it.  His name is Garnder Douglas. He is an Army vet.  He is an entrepreneur and a podcaster.  And he is the second guest on Kenn Blanchard’s' Game Changers Podcast.

Integrity, lies, trust, us. You are going to hear a candid personal account ofMichael J. Woodland of IG@munitionsweaponstactical It is a conversation with a single father of what he is going through. What do you think? Do you have any wisdom to share with us? I am still working through my workflow and equipment. You can support the show at https://support.kennspodcast.com Visit the new website at https://blog.kennsgamechangers.com And we have a private Facebook group.  

Episode 1 dedicated to the folks that went to the VCDL Lobby Day in Richmond VA on MLK day. What is MLK Day? A little about Kenn Blanchard. First episode of this new podcast. if you want to help me with the computer: https://charity.gofundme.com/o/en/campaign/computer-campaign   Join my friends list here and win some whiskey.  https://forms.aweber.com/form/82/358129182.htm   contact:  Kenn.Blanchard@gmail.com   http://kennblanchard.com/2019/12/17/grandmas-gun    

The new Kenn Blanchard's Game Changers Podcast.  Take a listen and let me know if you are ready for this.