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Welcome to this husband and wife, Indian-American interracial couple podcast! We’re a beautiful blend of 2 cultures and we love connecting with our audience. Here we discuss our experiences being in an interracial relationship, mental health, and much more. Join us at Half Past Chai every Monday at 7am. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

Half Past Chai


    • May 26, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Latest episodes from Half Past Chai

    How Our Cultural Identities Shaped Our Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2025 36:19


    What happens when two cultures collide in a relationship? Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. We're sharing our own journey through the messy, wonderful, and fun world of intercultural love. From navigating family expectations to learning each other's unspoken norms, we're unpacking how our differences have shaped our connection - and what we've learned along the way. So settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us

    The Best & Worst Advice We Got from Our Parents

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2025 42:57


    We're getting nostalgic (and a little triggered) in this episode of Half Past Chai as we unpack the best and worst advice our parents ever gave us. From wisdom that shaped who we are today to the downright confusing “you'll understand when you're older” moments—we're breaking it all down.Get ready to laugh, reflect, and maybe call your mom afterward. This one's for anyone who's ever been told, “Because I said so.”New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us

    What We Spend as a Couple Living in Indiana

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 46:04


    WE'RE BACK. Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. In this episode, we're breaking down exactly what we spent over the first three months of the year as a married couple - from the necessary expenses to the not-so-necessary impulse buys. We're also opening up about how we navigate tough financial conversations, balance what we want vs what we need, and keep our relationship strong through it all. So get cozy, grab your chai, and let's get into this week's episode.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us

    23 Years of Marriage vs 3 | What We've Learned

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2025 61:02


    This week, we're joined by two of our all-time favorite Patels - Abi and Resh Patel. Think: the wiser, cooler version of us who somehow make adulting look effortless. They bring this calm, grounded energy that always leaves us feeling a little more centered and a lot more inspired.In this episode, we dive into everything from parenting and pursuing your passions to navigating Indian family dynamics, building a strong marriage, and even learning Gujarati. It's full of laughs, real talk, and heartfelt moments.Whether you're in the middle of figuring life out or just here for the stories, this one's got something for you. We had such a good time with Abi and Resh, and we know you will too.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you! Thank you for spending your Monday with us

    I Don't Want To Be An Engineer (ft. Varun Rana)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2025 68:49


    This week, we are joined by a very SPECIAL GUEST – Varun Rana!From ex-Amazon software engineer to full-time content creator, Varun shares his inspiring (and super relatable) journey of breaking out of the traditional South Asian career mold. We dive deep into childhood trauma, immigrant parent expectations, and the highs and lows of chasing your creative dreams.We talk about: ✨ Quitting the 9-5 and what his parents really thought ✨ The unspoken pressure of "Engineer, Doctor, Lawyer" ✨ Dealing with judgment from the South Asian community ✨ The not-so-glamorous side of content creation ✨ Advice for South Asians wanting to carve their own pathThis is one of those episodes that'll leave you feeling seen, heard, and ready to chase your dreams — with a warm cup of *coffee* in hand, of course.

    Lessons My Husband Has Taught Me (from a mans perspective)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2025 48:10


    Ever wonder what you can learn from a relationship? In this podcast, I'm sharing all the things I've picked up from Suketu, from life lessons to funny moments that have helped me grow as a person. He's taught me to ignore the haters, embrace my creativity and weirdness, and embrace a culture other than my own. It's real talk about love, learning, and how being in a relationship can teach you more than you expect. Whether you're in a long-term relationship or just figuring things out, this is for you. You won't want to miss these honest truths and practical words of wisdom!

    Texts That Ended Our Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2025 51:09


    This is the most personal episode we've ever done. As we celebrate 100 episodes of Half Past Chai, we're taking a look back at the hardest conversations we had to have to get here. We're opening up about the texts we sent during our breakup, sharing DMs and questions from all of you, and reflecting on what it took to rebuild our relationship. This one is raw, emotional, and real—but we wouldn't have it any other way.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you!

    Why Am I Addicted to My Phone?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2025 26:30


    Are we all turning into the people from WALL-E—glued to our screens and completely disconnected from real life? In this episode, we dive deep into why we're addicted to our phones, what our screen time stats reveal, and why it's so hard to put them down. We also discuss the impact of phone addiction on relationships and, most importantly, how to break free from the endless scrolling.If you've ever caught yourself reaching for your phone without thinking, this episode is for you. Let's figure out how to take back control!

    Unwritten Rules of Relationships (2025 edition)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2025 54:42


    Relationships in 2025 have their own rulebook—and breaking those rules? Total red flag. From texting back too slow to the art of the perfect “soft launch,” we're breaking down the unwritten rules that shape modern love. Should you always like your partner's posts? Is ignoring a DM considered rude? And how do TikTok trends like beige flags and delulu culture affect our relationships? Plus, we read your funniest, weirdest, and most relatable relationship rules—because let's be real, some rules are non-negotiable.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you!

    My Wife And I Are Complete Opposites

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2025 45:04


    They say opposites attract—but is that really true? In this episode, we're breaking down whether being different makes a relationship stronger or just adds to the chaos. From personality clashes to cultural backgrounds, habits, and communication styles, we're sharing our experiences as a couple and diving into what science and relationship experts say. Can a relationship thrive on differences, or do similarities matter more? Let's find out.New episodes every Monday at 7 am. Don't forget to subscribe, and as always, we love you!

    How To Handle Burnout In A Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2025 43:43


    Burnout doesn't just happen at work—it can happen in relationships too. In this episode of Half Past Chai, we're diving into what relationship burnout looks like, why it happens, and how to navigate it together. From feeling emotionally drained to struggling with communication, we'll break down the signs, share personal experiences, and offer practical strategies to reconnect with your partner.

    Answering Questions About India (Ft. The OG Patels)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2025 43:16


    From navigating family expectations in an interracial relationship

    How I Cook For My Indian Husband

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2025 45:17


    How do people balance cooking healthy meals at home with busy schedules? And HOW do multicultural couples balance different diet restrictions in relationships? These can be a real challenge in our day to day lives, especially when we just want to grab Chick Fil A and call it a day. In this episode Hallie shares all her tips and tricks for navigating meal planning and how she does this for her dietary needs, and Suketu's.  Submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com/ Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai

    How Much We Spent in 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2025 57:56


    Half Past Crew, buckle up—this week, we're spilling the chai on our finances from 2024!

    How To Travel To India 101

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 42:45


    Get ready, Half Past Crew—this week, we're diving into all things travel!

    What Even Happened In 2024?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2025 45:33


    GUYS. It's 2025 and you know what that means… a NEW season of Half. Past. Chai. That's right, we're back and better than ever this season. After a week break, it gave us some time to reflect on how 2024 went for us. And the answer? It was… hard, probably how it was for most of you as well. We share what we learned from last year and how we're using that to our advantage this year so that we can better serve YOU. We also dive into our resolutions individually, as a couple, and for this podcast. Be sure to stay until the end because we respond to one of YOUR questions of the week. We hope you have the BEST start to your new year, Half Past Crew. We love you, 2025 will be your best year yet. Submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com/ Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:20 - How was 2024? 16:20 - Hallie's Resolutions 25:15 - Suketu's Resolutions 29:00 - Our Couple Resolutions 38:27 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK

    “My Indian Parents Won't Accept My Girlfriend”

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2024 45:23


    Do your Indian parents NOT accept your non-Indian S.O.? Do you get questions on how you'll raise your kids? Don't know how to keep the aunties happy? This week on Half Past Chai we answer all of YOUR questions to us. This is the last episode of the year, so we had to go out with a BANG for episode 90. Stick ‘til the end because we share how special our year was with you by our side. Settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. We LOVE you, Half Past Crew. We wish you a Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and hope you spend these next few weeks with the people you love most. Thank you for spending each Monday with us, you're the coolest group of people on the planet.  (P.s. we won't see you next Monday in podcast form, BUT get ready to be tired of us with all the shortform content we'll be posting on Instagram and TikTok ;) hehehe.) Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 4:00 - Our 52nd EPISODE! 6:18 - Question: My Indian parents wont accept my white gf 15:57 - Their Advice to YOU 19:49 - My Advice to EVERYONE  21:33 - How will you preserve your culture/religion when having kids 27:42 - How did you introduce a pet to Indian Parents 33:42 - The YEAR in REVIEW --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Growing Up Indian In The Midwest

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2024 41:35


    In this week's episode of Half Past Chai, I'm getting REAL about growing up Indian in the Midwest. I'll share the ups, downs, and plenty of awkward moments that came with being one of the only brown kids in a mostly white town. But it's not just my story — my white wife Hallie is also here to offer her take on how our different backgrounds have shaped everything from our relationship to raising kids. It's a fun, honest, and sometimes surprising look at what it's like to juggle two cultures in the heart of Middle America. Settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. We LOVE you HPC. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    HPC News: Hawk Tuah, UHC CEO Theory & Brain Rot

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2024 27:13


    Welcome back to your HPC News where we talk about current events, pop culture, and SO much more! Our co-anchors Hallie and Suketu dive into what's going on in the world this week. UHC CEO conspiracy theory? The top stocks this week? Lowest performing movies? What's new with AI? All these topics and so many more! Lollll happy Monday guys, we hope you enjoy the news from us this week. Get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. See you next Monday. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:47 - All I want for Christmas is YOU 4:45 - Hawk Tuah Girl 6:54 - Brain Rot - word of the year! 8:05 - UHC CEO Murdered?? 12:47 - Taylor Swift is NUMBER 1 15:47 - You get your news from influencers? 18:50 - Worst movies of the year 21:51 - AI in the news 23:24 - THE WEATHER 24:30 - STOCKS REPORT --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Our 10 Essentials We Can't Live Without

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2024 46:14


    WELCOME BACK, Half Past Crew. This week we're spilling the chai on the 10 essentials we literally can't live without. From the gadgets we're obsessed with to the everyday items that keep us sane, we're talking about the stuff that makes us who we ARE. We're sharing what's in our daily rotation and why these essentials are total game-changers. Whether you're looking to level up your routine or just wanna hear about the things we can't stop raving about, this episode has got you covered. Get ready for some laughs, surprises, and maybe even a few new obsessions you didn't know you needed! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:21 - Our 10 Essentials 44:59 - Outro --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why You Should Invest In Yourself & Your Community (ft. Iman Tucker)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2024 63:03


    In this episode, we're diving deep into turning your passions into a career and why true fulfillment doesn't always come from financial success. While we often talk about investing on this podcast, today we're shifting gears to discuss a different kind of investment — one that focuses on personal growth, purpose, and community. We're also joined by a VERY special guest, Iman Tucker. He shares his insights on overcoming impostor syndrome and navigating the complexities of self-doubt. We talk about how the people with the best ideas often stay quiet, while those with the least to say are the ones talking the most, and how this applies to us all in our own lives. If you're ready to rethink what success really means and how to align your passion with your purpose, this episode is for you. Get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. We LOVE you Half Past Crew ❤️ Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:47 - Trying Chai for the first time 4:56 - Who is Iman Tucker 6:10 - Start from the beginning 12:20 - The 9 to 5 16:37 - Stressing about money 19:12 - When did you have a perspective change 26:53 - Does pursuing your passion feel like work to you? 32:38 - Why we do what we do 43:21 - BREAK: Trying ParleG 43:59 - How hard is it maintaining relationships being a CEO 49:16 - Rapid fire questions 59:04 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    How to Get a Girlfriend 101, Wildest Dreams & Getting Stares in Public | Answering Your Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2024 41:35


    Did someone say… QUESTIONS OF THE WEEK? HELLO? This week we're answering all of YOUR questions. We discuss topics ranging from how you know when it's the right time to get married, making chai, what people say to us in public, and why we were afraid to start our social media accounts. All this and SO much more on this week's episode. Make sure you watch the entire episode and stick around ‘til the end for some special updates from us regarding merch, podcast guests, and some other super special surprises. LINK FOR HALLIE'S CHAI TIKTOK Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 3:25 - Chai Recipe 8:48 - Job Market Talk 12:20 - What To Do Before Proposing/Getting Married 21:10 - We were scared to have an online presence 26:12 - HOW TO GET A GIRLFRIEND 101: Class is in session 31:28 - Our WILD Dream Stories… 34:42 - Getting Stares In Public… 36:10 - Putting Suketu on the SPOT 38:35 - Outro/UPDATES --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    We Actually Hate Each Other…

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2024 37:35


    Do we ACTUALLY hate each other? It kinda seems like it, right? Or is that just how you perceive us on social media?

    Avoid These Mistakes! What We Wish We Knew in Our 20s

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2024 58:53


    HALF PAST CREW this week we dive into all our mistakes. We want to share these so YOU don't have to go through what we had to go through. We talk about how you need to SLOW down, SMILE MORE, don't compare yourself to others, and SO MUCH MORE. Hope you enjoy this 83rd EPISODE  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 4:04 - Don't Rush Thru Today Because You're Excited For Tomorrow 8:03 - Stop Focusing On The Uncontrollable 15:05 - Don't Compare Yourself To ANYBODY 20:49 - Say YES More Often 27:42 - Smile Often, YOLO 33:43 - Take Breaks, Slow Down 37:27 - Self Care Is Non-Negotiable 39:39 - Time is finite 42:54 - Trust your gut 44:03 - Travel more 45:43 - Invest in learning & Invest your money 48:38 - Change is Inevitable 49:55 - “LET THEM” 53:01 - Life Update --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Getting To Know Each Other

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 42:31


    I'm hot like my mom? HUH? Welcome back, Half Past Crew. This week we're playing a game: Who Can Make The Other More Uncomfortable. JK, but it feels that way. We play a game called ‘For The Girls' and reveal some pretty deep truths and secrets about ourselves in the process. Does Suketu drink mommy's milk? Have we even sh*t our pants? Do we hoard in our house?! All these and so much more in this week's episode. We LOVE you, HPC! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Money Matters For Couples

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2024 54:00


    How do I talk about finances to my partner? Are you a financial worrier? Or are you always tracking your spending in Excel? Do YOU want to know how much money you need to buy a house in 2024? This week on Half Past Chai ALL of these topics are covered, and so many more. We share our tips on having the finance conversation with your significant other, along with which money type you fall into. Get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. Comment below which money type you are :)  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:19 - The 4 Money Types 18:02 - How we bought a house 27:52 - Buying a house in THIS economy 38:08 - Some money questions 44:51 - Be on the same page on BIG money purchases 45:14 - Track your Finances 46:52 - Set Financial Goals 47:31 - Have an emergency fund 47:53 - Live within your means --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why We Make Our Relationship Our Entire Identity

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 47:54


    FIRST THINGS FIRST: OUR MERCH IS OUT. Second, we got questions THIS WEEK. Do YOU want to get on the auntie's good side? We're having our parents on the podcast?! Our thoughts on current politics? All this and so much more, we get kinda crazy this week. Post-wedding shenanigans and we're HERE FOR A GOOD TIME THIS MONDAY! Settle in, get cozy, grab your chai, and enjoy our merch AND this episode. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:09 - HPC MERCH!!! 5:06 - Do you guys argue over politics/religion/money? 10:33 - How do you get on aunty's good side? 13:41 - Why don't you drink? 19:10 - Did you get beat as a child? 23:46 - What is your parents love language? 27:25 - Why did my indian BF break up with me? 32:55 - How important is physical intamacy to you/ 36:51 - Rapid fire questions 38:58 - When do you want kids? 39:39 - Why is your whole identity being white and indian? 40:23 - Advice for brown guys dating white girl? 40:46 - Fav think the MIL makes? 44:23 - Will you ever have your parents on? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    My Indian Husband Has Mommy Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 40:56


    I'm Suketu's mommy. Yep, you read that right. I do EVERYTHING for Suketu. But… is that all his fault? Or am I enabling him to act this way? Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. This week is all about being a mother figure to your significant other. Are you constantly picking up after your partner? Do they ask you for clothing advice? Do you have to remind them to do things and lecture them until they get done?! I'm right there with you, and that's what we're covering this week plus the deeper meaning of why this is happening, and how to split responsibilities in your relationship evenly. Stay tuned for 2 SPECIAL announcements at the end, and a special cameo from someone you all know and love. Settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai.  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:03 - Hallie is my mommy 5:07 - Growing up with everything served to me 9:17 - I like when my wife takes care of me 15:50 - Suketu is still learning to be a husband 19:25 - Just do it, and listen 25:10 - Momming is bad for men  31:50 - Put your phone away 34:45 - Merch/Sylvie/Outro --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why You Should Take A Break

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 37:11


    WE NEED A BREAK. Do YOU? This episode is all about why we decided to take a staycation and not go ANYWHERE. We're all human, busy, tired, and stretched too thin most times. Listen to this episode to understand more about why YOU, yes you, need to take a break, maybe a staycation even! We talk about the benefits of resetting and detaching from our normal day-to-day. Stick to the end because of course, we have a question from YOU and a special reminder. Settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 1:18 - We took a Staycation 3:51 - I have anxiety 8:14 - Our home feels like work 11:14 - Benefits from a staycation 15:00 - It feels wrong being lazy 17:25 - Our anniversary week 20:05 - Do you feel like we have freedom? 29:10 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    We're So Freakin' Pissed

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 51:43


    Doesn't it drive you NUTS when you ask someone how they are, and they don't ask about you? WE'RE MAD GUYS. SO mad, with life, with each other, with everything. We're peeved off! Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. Yep, we're mad… and you wanna know why? SO MANY REASONS. Bad drivers make us mad, people who don't try to do the right thing make us mad, Suketu's chomping with his mouth open makes Hallie (and everybody) mad, leaving dishes in the sink makes Suketu mad, VICTIM mentalities make us mad… we can go on and on and on. In this episode, we talk about what makes us mad for other people and how ANNOYING they can be, and what we do in our relationship that makes each other mad. Settle in, get cozy, and grab your chai while we SPILL THE CHAI. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:55 - Bad drivers 4:45 - Chewing with your mouth open 6:30 - Slow people 9:48 - Getting interrupted 12:50 - Put your dishes in the dishwasher 15:42 - Sleep farting 17:37 - My wife won't let me shake my leg  18:25 - Victim personality  21:18 - My wife doesn't want to go home 26:18 - People that only talk about themselves 29:55 - Too strict about HIS TESLA 34:13 - Being late 36:40 - What temp is the best light color 38:00 - Being corrected  41: 20 - Never finishing a show 45:11 - Question of the week! 48:05 - ANNOUNCEMENT --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    How To Make An Interfaith Relationship Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2024 37:12


    Are YOU in an interfaith relationship? Do you always have people telling YOU to be with someone within your own religion because “it's easier”? Well, we've certainly been there. And we are HERE TO HELP. Religion… what a buzzword. Happy Monday to the Crew! This week we read a question from one of you who just so happens to be going through a tough relationship situation pertaining to religion. Religion plays a role in most every relationship. I guarantee you can relate in ont way or another with our frustrations. Get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. Enjoy! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 3:14 - Question about religion 4:00 - Religion in a relationship  6:47 - Converting religions 8:00 - Are we even religious?  10:20 - Our morals growing up 18:14 - Don't let others determine who you're with 20:41 - We broke up  22:11 - How to make an interfaith relationship work 26:17 - Reading your questions 35:53 - HAPPY ANNIVERSARY  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2024 49:03


    HOW do you get out of the friend zone? Is Hallie a COLONIZER? Do we REALLY find each other attractive? Or is it just an act? GUYS. This week we're coming in HOT with a QUESTIONS OF THE WEEK PODCAST episode. You guys had some juicy a** questions for us this week, some of which we answered in a members-only video on YouTube. If you want your future questions to be answered 5 episodes from now, GO TO OUR WEBSITE and send them to us. Get cozy, grab your chai, and enjoy this week's episode! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:43 - Do you read self-help books? 5:35 - How do you get out of the friend zone? 9:50 - Is it weird taking your wife to India 14:09 - Have you always been attracted to each other? 17:32 - What if we met in 2024? 21:41 - What is something you want to improve? 24:17 - More cooking videos? 25:38 - Brown women hate that I am with a white women 29:57 - Do you embrace Hallie's Culture? 31:41 - Fav videogame 32:38 - How does my Indian bf win over his Indian parents? 35:14 - Friends or The Office 36:45 - Indian Dad Statement 40:33 - How to deal with racist remarks/bullying --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why Does My Wife Yell At Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2024 45:02


    HAPPY MONDAY, Half Past Crew.  This week we're coming in strong with… The 5 signs she's feeling secure in your relationship. Farting in front of each other? Snitching on you to your mom? Separation anxiety?! Hallie shares outcomes of feeling SO safe and content in her relationship, and examples that you've definitely experienced in your own life. We shared a super special announcement towards the end, PLUS everyone's favorite… A QUESTION OF THE WEEK. See you next Monday, Half Past Crew. WE LOVE YOU. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:03 - Why does my wife yell at me? (1) 15:05 - When my wife bites me (2) 20:57 - Farting in front of each other 25:47 - Snitching on your partner to their parents (3) 29:46 - Fear of your partner dying (4) 34: 12 - Crying when you leave each other (5) 38:32 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    I'm Not Indian Enough and I'm Not American Enough

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2024 39:55


    AM I NOT GOOD ENOUGH This episode of Half Past Chai dives into the struggles of feeling caught between two cultures. From feeling 'not Indian enough' to fit in with Indians to 'not American enough' to feel fully at home in America, we explore the challenges and stories of those who live in the in-between.  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 1:47 - I'm not Indian enough 8:40 - No one can say my name 14:20 - What happened to my wife when (ME) and an Indian boy came into her life 17:50 - Getting bullied 22:50 - Media representation for Asian Americans 31:50 - What advice do I have? 35:40 - Question of the week! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why Are Indians So Cheap?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2024 46:28


    WHY ARE INDIANS SO CHEAP? This common stereotype is very relevant to Suketu's life as an Indian-American, and we get comments about it ALL the time, so why not address it and talk about it? Suketu is ALSO sharing the biggest lesson he's learned in his 27 years. Oh yeah, HAPPY BIRTHDAY SUKETU. And Happy Monday, Half Past Crew and THANK YOU for spending your Monday with us. Get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:30 - I'm getting old 3:28 - What I learned in my 27 years of being alive 5:40 - Why are Indians so CHEAP? 9:20 - Hallie's view on money now 15:30 - Buy only when there is a sale 26:30 - What do we do to save money? 33:45 - American spending? 35:38 - Can money buy happiness? 36:50 - Question of the WEEK! 41:41 - Surprise for SUKETU! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why I HAD To Lie To My Indian Parents

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2024 37:38


    I lied… A LOT. Welcome back, Half Past Crew and HAPPIEST of Monday's to you. This week Suketu is sharing EVERYTHING HE HAS EVER LIED ABOUT IN HIS LIFE. We see you guys, and we were flooded with responses from last podcast episode about how you also lie to your family! Twins! Is it an Asian thing? Is it just a thing us young people do? We also answer one of YOUR questions of the week at the end, and we also talk about how annoying Suketu is when he's sick. Enjoy this one and we'll see you next time. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:00 - The first lie I remember telling 6:06 - Why did I lie? 13:38 - Hallie doesn't lie? 17:20 - What my parents were strict on 21:10 - Hallie's parents were chill 24:52 - Question of the WEEK 34:20 - Suketu is SICK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    How Do I Date Someone Who's Not Indian? | Answering YOUR Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2024 50:20


    Did someone say… QUESTIONS OF THE WEEK? That's right, Half Past Crew. WELCOME back to another episode where we answer YOUR crazy questions. How can YOU convince your parents to let you date outside of your culture? Do we use birth control? Hallie speaks Gujarati fluently?  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! https://bio.site/halfpastchai Time codes 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 1:34 - How Did We Meet? 5:48 - Hallie Knows Gujarati 9:20 - HALLIE HATES Pani Puri… 10:55 - How To Date A White Girl 17:41 - How I Convinced My Parents To Marry Hallie 19:15 - How Did Hiding Our Relationship Impact Us? 21:08 - WHY Did We Start This Podcast? 26:05 - Half Past Chai Income 27:22 - Managing Personal Life & Content Creation… 29:46 - Do We Use Birth Control? How Many Kids Do We Want? 31:49 - What Religion Will Our Kids Be? 33:20 - What Have We Learned From Each Other? 37:33 - What Are Our Goals? 40:42 - Why The Definition of Success Is WRONG 41:30 - Guilty Pleasures & Hallie's Ghost Boyfriend 45:28 - Why Chai Is Our Favorite & We Cheated??? 47:47 - OUR SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Indian vs American: Is Sex Taboo? What Is The Kamasutra?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2024 30:26


    WELCOME TO EPISODE 69! 69… hahaha. You've asked, we've delivered. This is a BIG episode, Half Past Crew. WHAT is the Kamasutra about? Is it REALLY about sex? How is sex viewed in Indian and American culture? Is it still taboo to talk about today? You crazy people, you've wanted us to have a sex episode for SO. LONG. We even share some stories and spicy details with you all. We LOVE you Half Past Crew, we hope you enjoy this week's episode.  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com AND read our weekly blog post! Follow us! Chapters: 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 3:10 - What is the Kamasutra 5:40 - Favorite positions? 7:25 - The kamasutra is old fashioned 11:52 - It's hard talking about S*x 16:50 - Did you have the birds and bees convo? 19:30 - Dating culture now --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why Don't Indians Eat Beef?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2024 42:38


    Do Indian people eat beef? Or any red meat? Is this because cows are worshipped in Indian culture?!?!? Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. This week Hallie and Suketu are sharing some insane assumptions about the Indian culture and their take on them, specifically in regards to FOOD. Who doesn't love food? Along with that they address how they accommodate for each others food restrictions in their relationship. And of course… stick ‘til the end featuring one of YOUR questions to be answered! Get cozy, settle in, grab your chai, and enjoy this week's episode. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! bio.site/halfpastchai Chapters: 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:02 - Do Indians eat beef? 8:20 - Do Indians worship cows? 12:40 - Does my wife eat beef? 18:00 - Would it be hard if I was vegetarian  24:41 - My Indian friends eat BEEF? 35:10 - Question of the WEEK! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Why Are There So Many Indians?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2024 44:34


    Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. This week we cover WHY THERE ARE SO MANY INDIANS IN AMERICA. Get cozy, grab your chai, and settle in for this week's episode of Half Past Chai. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai #podcast #relationship #chai  0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 1:32 - Why Are There So Many Indians?! 4:18 - How Many Indian People Are There & Chasing The American Dream 9:35 - We're Taking Over 14:53 - Global Population Breakdown 17:50 - Indian People Are The MOST Successful 26:13 - WE INDIANS LOVE TACO BELL 28:54 - Suketu for President 2024 33:03 - QUESTIONS OF THE WEEK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Indian Families VS White Families

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2024 54:05


    Being an Interracial and interfaith couple, naturally, there are some differences we bring to the table. SO, we thought we'd talk about them. Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. This week we're talking about… fundamental differences between American/white culture and traditional Indian culture and how this has impacted us well into our adulthood. Relate to any of this? Let us know DOWN IN THE COMMENTS BELOW. Get cozy, grab your chai, and settle in for this week's episode of Half Past Chai. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! Use code HALLIE25 for 25% off THE CUMIN CLUB #podcast #relationship #chai  Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 3:38 - Mindset 6:24 - Live to Work vs Work to Live 10:50 - Talking to your parents 16:05 - Parenting style 27:00 - Family Structure 31:50 - Cultural Practice / Religion 39:37 - Food 48:00 - Reading YOUR comments --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Moving to NYC, Getting Divorced, & Milkman?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2024 56:49


    Is Suketu a milkman? Planned move to New York City? DIVORCE?! Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. This week Hallie and Suketu are bringing QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS to YOU. Get ready to laugh and also ponder these questions yourself. Let us know what YOUR favorite question was and your response to it. Get cozy, grab your chai, and settle in HPC. See you next Monday ;)  Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai 25% off THE CUMIN CLUB #podcast #relationship #chai  Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:56 - Moving to NYC?? 23:25 - When will you have kids? 27:00 - Future kid names? 31:40 - Do parents have favorite kids? 36:30 - Is Suketu a Milkman?? 37:07 - Best way to start running long distances 40:38 - Do you believe in divorce?  43:16 - How old were you when you got married? 44:15 - How much did your 2 weddings cost? 48:12 - How did Suketu navigate dating with Indian parents 48:58 - Best high school memory 53:00 - Are you normal? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Pivotal Moments In Our Lives That Made Us Who We Are Today

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 62:19


    Happy Monday, Half Past Crew. Now really think about this… what is a PIVOTAL moment that sparked a major change in your life? Ponder that. This week Hallie and Suketu are going deep and sharing their own life experiences and the most important ones that have changed their life for better or for worse. Breaking up? First time traveling out of the country? Getting married? The year 2020?! Stick til the end because there is a special question of the week from one of YOU. Get cozy, grab your chai, and settle in for this week's episode of Half Past Chai. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 3:32 - Suketu moving to AMERICA 8:04 - Suketu meeting Hallie 9:20 - Hallie meeting Suketu 12:40 - Suketu getting a speeding ticket 19:12 - Suketu starting a business 21:47 - Starting a podcast 25:18 - Moving in together/Building a house/Getting Married 29:42 - Hallie meeting suketu pt2 35:02 - When we broke up… 40:19 - The year of COVID 46:35 - Going to India 51:18 - Hallie getting MONO 54:55 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    10 Surprising Ways To Make Your Relationship Even Better

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2024 60:25


    Want to know 10 simple tricks to make your relationship EVEN BETTER than it already is? This week, Hallie and Suketu share 10 valuable yet simple tips for improving your romantic relationship. You may resonate with some already, but some others may really shock you and help to initiate that conversation with your partner. Be sure to stick to the end of the episode for a special question of the week from YOU. Happy Monday Half Past Crew - settle in, get cozy, grab your chai, and enjoy this week's episode of Half Past Chai. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 5:53 - Spend Time Apart 11:32 - Go to sleep at the same time 16:17 - Be Vulnerable 21:54 - Shake things up 25:10 - Surprise each other with little things 29:14 - Learn to fight better 35:33 - Reminiscence on past times 39:25 - Celebrate each others differences 44:42 - Incorporate some form of intimacy into your day to day/flirt 47:08 - GET OFF YOUR PHONE 49:44 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Addressing Assumptions About Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2024 56:42


    Assumptions about US? HUH? This week Hallie and Suketu are addressing ALL assumptions made about them. Does Hallie lead the relationship? Is Suketu a vegetarian? Asexuality?! All these and MORE. Hallie and Suketu also share their assumptions about each other prior to dating. Stick to the end for the QUESTION OF THE WEEK! Thank you for being the best crew there is, Half Past Crew. Enjoy this week's new episode and comment down below your assumptions! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 1:50 - How to say my name 6:15 - Assumption YOU have about US 32:17 - Hallie's assumptions about Suketu 40:18 - Suketu's assumptions about Hallie 49:55 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Annoying Couple Traits We Couldn't Avoid: Funny Relationship Habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 44:39


    WHAT'S UP HALF PAST CREW? Aka, the best crew in existence. This week Hallie and Suketu are back with a hilarious and oh-so-relatable episode that dives into the annoying couple traits we swore we'd never have but somehow adopted! Ever caught yourself finishing each other's sentences or using cringe-worthy pet names? We did too, and it's time to laugh about it! From coordinating outfits to those embarrassing baby talk moments, we're spilling all the chai. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and LIKE this video if you haven't already, so get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. Enjoy this week's episode of Half Past Chai ❤️ Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai #podcast #relationship #chai  Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 4:45 - 15 Annoying Couple Traits 35:18 - Question of the WEEK! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS: Embracing Indian Culture In America, Family Hates My Partner, & MIL's

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2024 45:55


    QUESTIONS OF THE WEEK!!! This week Hallie and Suketu are answering YOUR questions, say what? The questions this week follow a general trend you'll pick up on following cultural conversations. Does your family hate your partner and want to ruin your relationship? Do you feel awkward when someone of a different religion prays around you? Or do you need to bridge the gap between your in-laws who are not native English speakers? All these and so, SO much more this week as Hallie and Suketu reflect back on their past experiences and share their own wisdom. Get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai because you want to sit and reflect on this one. Love you, HPC. Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:50 - Your Family Doesn't Approve of Your Partner 10:28 - How to Manage Different Religions In A Relationship  16:28 - Why Choose an Indian Man? 23:52 - Do You Feel Awkward When Others Pray?  28:08 - How can I get closer to my Indian MIL 32:08 - Nobody loves me? 40:50 - It's You Two Against the World In A Relationship --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Asking My Wife Questions Men Are Too Afraid To Ask

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 51:45


    WHAT'S UP HALF PAST CREW? Aka, the best crew in existence. This week SUKETU has prepped some oh-so-spicy and interesting questions that men are afraid to ask women. Is your period really that bad? What does it feel like to NOT have something between your legs? And do women dress for men?? Hallie's answers honestly shock Suketu as they dive deep into this conversation. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and LIKE this video if you haven't already, so get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. Enjoy this week's episode of Half Past Chai! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chpaters: 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 2:15 - Is your period really that bad 6:07 - Why do you get so mad during a period 9:50 - Do you develop crushes on random people 12:08 - What's it feel like to NOT have something between your legs 13:45 - What do women check out on men 17:54 - Do women dress for men 21:13 - What are common things guys do that give you the ick 27:04 - Do women get the pee shiver 29:09 - What is it like getting stared at/getting unwanted attention  32:15 - Do you feel safe walking alone 37:45 - Why do we have so many pillows 39:22 - Dad bod or Jacked body 41:51 - Do you find me attractive 42:34 - QUESTION OF THE WEEK --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    The Truth About Being An Interracial Couple

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 57:03


    This week, we're going to be telling you the truth about being an interracial couple and sharing the challenges we've endured. We are also going to be sharing our most viral hate comments pertaining to our interracial love. You may need to sit down for this one. Let's get into it Half Past Crew! Submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com/ Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 2:13 - Truth about being an interracial couple 8:16 - Our Hate Comments 42:35 - Questions of the week 54:50 - Outro --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    Asking My Husband Questions Women Are Too Afraid To Ask

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2024 44:34


    WHAT'S UP HALF PAST CREW? Aka, the best crew in existence. This week Hallie and Suketu are coming in HOT with some oh-so spicy and interesting questions that women are afraid to ask men. How often do men think about sex? Do men ACTUALLY like lip fillers on women? And when in a committed relationship, do you think men feel like they're missing out on other potential opportunities? Suketu's answers honestly shock Hallie as they dive deep into this conversation. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and LIKE this video if you haven't already, so get cozy, settle in, and grab your chai. Enjoy this week's episode of Half Past Chai Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chapters: 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 4:52 - Who should pay for the first date? 7:36 - Do men always think about sex? 12:28 - Was marriage something you thought about prior to dating? 16:09 - WHY do guys ghost?! 17:05 - Do you feel like you've missed out by being in a relationship? 21:47 - Women and Lip Filler… 29:19 - Being A Virgin 30:34 - Most attractive feature on a woman 33:27 - What do you think about periods? 37:28 -Will you take care of me when I'm pregnant? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

    I Met My Future Wife On Bumble (ft. Jonah & Marissa)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 61:54


    HALF PAST CREW! Happy Monday. This week there are some VERY special guests making their debut on Half Past Chai, welcome Jonah and Marissa! Jonah and Marissa join this week to discuss getting engaged, how they met on a dating app, and how to have difficult conversations in relationships & how they benefit your relationship. After diving deeper into the conversation about proposing, Jonah revealed that he bought a an engagement ring and held onto it for TWO YEARS?! Lastly, Jonah and Marissa answer questions in a game called "Who is more likely to...". Get cozy, settle in, and enjoy this week's new episode of Half Past Chai! Be sure to submit your stories at https://www.halfpastchai.com Follow us! https://linktr.ee/halfpastchai Chapters 0:00 - WELCOME TO HALF PAST CHAI 11:19 - Dating Apps 19:28 - The Process Of Getting Engaged: How Did You Know You Wanted To Get Married? 23:17 - How Suketu Proposed To Hallie 29:12 - The Honeymoon Stage 31:57 - Having Difficult Conversations In Your Relationship 43:00 - How Did You Propose?! 51:28 - Who Is More Likely...GAME --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/halfpastchai/support

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