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Join host Kelsey Grant for regular conversations on love, relationships, the initiations that come along with upleveling our relational mastery skills and all the magic we can open to when we learn to let love lead.

Kelsey Grant


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    Beer League vs BIG League Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2025 54:19


    Welcome back to the podcast loves!  It has been a minute! But I'm thrilled to be back with a new episode and season for you!  You can expect 10-12 episodes minimum for the 2025 season of the podcast and I'm thrilled to kick this first one off with a BANG.  As mentioned in the show when you're ready to take this to the next level there are few options for you right now:  1. Magnet for Love FREE 3 Day Club Unhinged event: HERE 2. Apply for my Alchemy of Love year long group program: HERE 3. Apply for 1-1 work: HERE

    Ep.58 Walking The Unconventional Path

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2024 49:53


    In this welcome back episode we dive into a conversation exploring what it looks like, feels like and what it ultimately takes to walk the unconventional path in life and love.  Conscious love and partnership are built upon the foundation of your willingness to follow the path of what's true for you and create the life that is authentic to you.  So we explore this in the conversation.  I also give you a life update and share some very exciting news!!  Dive in for all the goodness xx KG If you would like to work with me this month:  1. Apply for 1-1 Love Mentorship HERE 2. Join Club Unhinged HERE 3. Join The Creators HERE

    Ep.57.Claiming The Unleashed Era- A Conversation with Christine Banno

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024 74:18


    We're back my loves and we're bringing in a new energy for this season of the podcast.  I've been sitting with what really feels good for this show going forward and I'm so clear that part of this show really needs to include behind the scenes access to the conversations that really matter.  So I'll be bringing on some of my favourite humans over the course of this year to sit down with me and have a chat about topics that feel rich and deep.  We're starting this newness off with my bestie Christine Banno.  Christine is an intuitive mentor, business coach and all around spiritual bad ass. This woman is pure magic...you'll see.  In this episode we dive into the path of stepping into our UNLEASHED eras.  Both of us have BEEN THROUGH SOME SHIT

    Ep. 56. A Creators Guide to Coming Back to Connection After Emotional Overwhelm

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2024 61:53


    Welcome to the 2024 season lovers!!  In our first episode of this year we're diving into a viral topic that blew up on my IG over the holiday season... resurfacing after disappearing from emotional overwhelm.  It happens, we all have coping mechanisms and adaptive strategies we've developed to deal with the hard stuff.  The problem is, sometimes these adaptive strategies are super un-relational.  In this episode we explore how to come back to connection after a period of hiding out in emotional overwhelm.  We explore the threads of: • Being an intentional creator in life and in relationships. • Overthinking means underfeeling.  • Understanding the liminal space of transformation. • The role authenticity, shame alchemization and co-creation of powerful relational agreements makes when looking to transform this pattern of disappearing into something more relational and workable.  If you're ready to dive deeper, join us in the "Let's Talk About It Series" for the next session on The Art of Relational Agreements.  There are two ways to join:  1. Join the entire series, keep all the classes for life: HERE 2. Join the stand alone workshop, 30 day replay: HERE   Love ya'll,  KG xx

    Ep.55 The Art of Enrollment + Being a Conflict Badass

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 46:29


    Hi babes!!  Today is the final day for the Black Friday Sale! All sale items are available at the 50-70% off until 11:59pm PST Nov 30th. If you're interested in jumping in on the magic all the options are below:  1. 50% off "Let's Talk About It" 4 Part Communication + Conflict Series: HERE Code: BLACKFRIDAYDAY1 2. 50% off Self-Love Reset 1-1 Mentorship Session: HERE  Code: BLACKFRIDAYDAY2 3. 70% off Embodied Boundaries Series: HERE Code: BLACKFRIDAYDAY3 4. $500 off The Roots of Love Mastermind. Apply HERE (all applications received by 11:59pm PST Nov 30th will receive $500 of their payment plan of choice)

    Ep. 54. The Level Up Kinda Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2023 54:48


    Welcome back lovers, we have a great conversation in store for you today.  Lately I've really been sitting with the concept of living the most fulfilled life possible and considering what kind of love and relationships need to be cultivated in order to support our dreams, support our soul mission and support our most juiced up life. We're going all the way into it in this episode.  A few announcements before the show notes.  Make sure you're on my email list to get in on the Black Friday Sale this weekend. Join it HERE *And if you are brand new to working with me there is an offer for you on Monday

    Ep.53- Are we Flowing or are we Forcing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 82:04


    Welcome back to the podcast lovers!  I've missed ya'll and I'm so happy to be back. In this first episode back we're easing in.  I kick it off with a short transmission teaching and then loop you into a free community class I lead in September on Force vs Flow.  If you've never been to one of my free community classes this is a great way to dip your toes in and see if the vibe is for you.  If you're a regular to the classes this is your opportunity to listen to the class again with new ears and take away something new.  FREE COMMUNITY CALL: Emotional Availability 101. Date: Nov 18th Time: 3pm pst Join HERE *24hr replay will go out to all registered participants At the end of this episode you will hear me speak about two offers and those offers have slightly shifted since this class.  Unleashed is now The Epic Love Collective and instead of a monthly workshop membership it is a container where you come to upgrade your relational skills in a self-study capacity. I will offer workshops throughout the year which will be included in this membership as well as each month you have access to a live embodiment class with me. Every so often I will do members only Q/A lives in the container so we can dive a little deeper together. In addition the live touch points this container holds a massive content library (over a 150hrs of relational teachings) of past dating and relationship classes, workshops, programs, embodiment classes and integration prompts.  If you would like to join The Epic Love Collective make sure you're on my email list so you receive the Black Friday offer coming for ya next week. You can hop on my list HERE If you feel called to apply for BOLD my 90 Day Liberate Your Voice and Step Into Your Authentic Self-Expression 1-1 Mentorship program you can claim one of the remaining spots by applying HERE *Once the remaining 4 intro offer spots for BOLD have been claimed this program goes up to its regular price.  Enjoy this episode and see you next week for the next one! xx Kelsey

    Ep. 52 Self-Love Sets The Relational Standards

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2023 25:38


    Self-Love, Standards and Embodied Love  Here's what we're diving into in this episode: • The process of upgrading relationships by elevating our self love practices, and what the clunk of that change feels like (2:56)   • Once we've upped our standards, the ‘ick' of dropping them will stop us going backwards (6:13)   • How to ensure expansion and transformation are sustainable (8:25)   • Why we lose ourselves in love and find ourselves in dysfunctional relationships (11:38)   • Understanding the part of us that would rather dumpster dive for scraps (18:04)   • How an environment of sustained embodied self love sets us up to repell karmic woundmates (20:37) JOIN THE FREE MASTERCLASS:  If you're diggin the episode and are ready to go deeper you can join us for my FREE 3 Day Radiant Love Masterclass (July 3rd-5th) HERE     Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep.51 How To Put Yourself First Without Feeling Guilty

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2023 35:47


    Welcome back to the summer season of the podcast!  Over the summer I'll be returning to my roots and focusing the majority of the podcast teachings on self-love!  And you guessed it, first up is the common pattern of feeling guilty when putting yourself first. If you're a giver, enneagram 2 or 9, or have often struggled to prioritize your self-care needs- this one is for you.  Show Notes: • How self care can be an act of service (9:22) • Facing the reality of inherited guilt and returning it to sender! (12:00) • An invitation to step deeper into our embodied power (15:00) • Getting efficient, effective and energized in your ability to caring for others, and for your own life (18:13) • Using guilt as a tool to discover and move suppressed emotions (23:30) • Taking regular emotional dumps to avoid constipation! (29:12) • The habit of letting yourself have it! (32:25) JOIN THE FREE MASTERCLASS:  If you're diggin the episode and are ready to go deeper you can join us for my FREE 3 Day Radiant Love Masterclass (July 3rd-5th) HERE     Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Day 3: Stop Forcing It... If You Want The Love Worth Having

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2023 51:10


    Welcome back to the final instalment in the 3 part podclass on Embodied Dating to lead us into the next Embodied Dating Workshop this weekend. Today we're exploring the role forcing plays when it comes to determining alignment in the early stages of dating. I also cover why dating from a relationally resourced place is so wildly important if you're interested in the type of love worth having.  Embodied Dating Workshop: Where Are The Good Ones and How Can I Find One? If you're coming to the workshop this weekend you can register your spot HERE   Are You In The Free Community Space? We will be opening a discussion forum over in The Love Club for those who wish to digest this episode (and the other two episodes) further. You can join for free HERE     Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Day 2: Ditching Distorted Polarity Nonsense for HEALTHY Dating + Relating

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2023 41:48


    Welcome back to the second instalment in the 3 part podclass on Embodied Dating to lead us into the next Embodied Dating Workshop this weekend. Today we dive into the world of distorted polarity work and look at how an over emphasis and fixation on polarity actually takes you out of your embodiment and skews the ability to discern proper relational alignment in dating. It's spicy

    DAY 1: WTF Is Embodied Dating?!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2023 54:51


    Welcome back friends!  Thought I would kick us back off with a BANG! A 3 part series on Embodied Dating to lead us into the next Embodied Dating Workshop this weekend. Today's episode is one of three that will be released in a mini podcast series, with the second episode dropping tomorrow and the final episode on Friday, just in time for our workshop on Saturday.  We will be opening a discussion forum over in The Love Club for those who wish to digest this episode (and the other two episodes) further. You can join for free HERE Embodied Dating Workshop: Where Are The Good Ones and How Can I Find One? If you're coming to the workshop this weekend you can register your spot HERE Show Notes:  • What even is embodiment?! Why are we so often disembodied? (6:49) • The difference between listening to the signals of the body vs dating from the neck up! (8:50) • How being in right relationship to your body, emotions and energy during the dating phase mean you can slow down and trust in the natural unfolding (11:30) • What our bandwidth for bullshit can teach us (24:08) • Cracking the code of the universal algorithm! (32:56)  • How to get out of the toxic pool of dating, open up the portal to extraordinary aligned humans, and call in the people who are making a difference on this planet! (41:10)   Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    S3.Ep.47. Improving Your Relationships with Creativity

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2023 35:25


    In this episode we explore the relationship with your creative energy and how being in touch with this creative force is deeply in service to the health and vitality of your relationships. Listen in for:   • How fulfillment, inspiration and variety can keep a relationship from crumbling under pressure (15:06)   • What happens when we forget our multifaceted nature (16:47)   • The cost of investing energy into places, people and projects that are a suck hole for your soul! (17:30) • The importance of being inquisitive and the link to fulfillment and embodied richness. (18:30 ) • Repairing our energy leaks and investing in reciprocal creativity (21:05)   • Working with the natural swells and lulls of the creative and relational experience (24:13) Work With Me If you're ready to dive deeper into this work and you would like to join the waitlist for the Dating for Partnership Program, The Dating Mastermind or the next dating workshop join my email list HERE 1-1 Mentorship + Couples Work This year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. Explore this option and apply to claim your spot  HERE If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA  

    S3.Ep46. Dating + The Deep Creep

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2023 38:44


    Welcome back lovers!  Let's be honest, we all love a good deep creep now and again. Whether we're creeping on our new lover, a crush or a former flame...we're curious beings. We love looking for hidden treasure amiright?!  Here's the deal though, too much of anything is going to turn sideways. And the deep creep DEFINITELY falls into this category.  We do need to get this pattern into a non-destructive range if we're interested in dating for partnership and really being present and vetting properly.  Join me for a conversation on one of my favourite but not too favourite pastimes ;)  In this episode:  • The ins and outs of deep creeping on the socials during the dating phase  • What deep creeping *can* be good for • What the deep creep allows us to avoid and tolerate • The big red flag that impact the health of a future relationship that we often miss when we're balls deep in a fantasy, deep creep spiral.  • Fantasy, deep creepin and avoiding reality oh my!  Join us for the Embodied Dating Workshop HERE Includes a 30 day replay access and a bonus live Q/A segment. Choose your own adventure pricing ;)  Podcast Intro Music: Song Title: Shape Your Future Written By Dan Phillipson Follow Kelsey on: Instagram: @radicalselflove Tiktok: @radicalselflove Twitter: @radselflove

    S3.Ep.45. The Dating Down Pattern

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2023 49:57


    Welcome back lovers!  Dating Down one of the BIG patterns that keeps us from really having the relational dream in our hearts.  If you've played this one out, or have had it played out with you, you're going to want to get this one in your system.  Join me for a conversation on one of my favourite (aka I've played this one out so many times) patterns In this episode:    • The difference between dating down and creating a partnership (2:22) • Bringing emotional and relational maturity to the table (3:52) • Slippery attempts at molding someone into what we want them to be (6:49) • The underbelly of being a 'launchpad' and claiming credit for another's transformation (13:08) • The impact of forcing someone to play catch up in a relationship (22:57) • The intimacy issues behind a dating down pattern and choosing relationships in which we can stay safe, guarded and closed (29:45) • What a mutually met partnership will ask of you (30:17) • What it takes to really trust your discernment (33:36) • The impact on your creativity, purpose and mission when you date down (35:21) • How a mutually met relationship can be a generator of energy and fuel for our cosmic mission (36:51) • Un-shaming, opening our hearts and being brave enough to create the relationship of our dreams (41:10) Join us for the Embodied Dating Workshop HERE Includes a 30 day replay access and a bonus live Q/A segment. Choose your own adventure pricing ;)  REVERENCE: Art of Emotional Alchemy + Introductions to Relational Mastery. REVERENCE is the foundational program to this path work and is a prerequisite for all upper level work with me. It's a minimum 9 month container and includes group mentorship, a curated curriculum and access to all live EMERGENCE series classes.  This container is appropriate for all levels. Currently enrolling for Feb cohort (7 spaces remain) Join us HERE Podcast Intro Music: Song Title: Shape Your Future Written By Dan Phillipson Follow Kelsey on: Instagram: @radicalselflove Tiktok: @radicalselflove Twitter: @radselflove

    S3.Ep.44. Dating Non-Negotiables + The Consequences of Compromising On Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2023 43:07


    Welcome back lovers. Here we go on another relational ride.  In this episode I dive into the importance of upholding and backing your non-negotiables and must haves in the dating phase, the consequences of compromising this (or avoiding it all together) and the main areas you need to align on to proceed in the dating/vetting process.  In this episode:  The importance of foundational non negotiables (2:43) When wounds do the choosing (8:30) Things to flush out on date 1 (9:26) Facing the fear of truth telling and understanding the sacred purpose of rejection (16:02) The energetic consequences of compromising our truth (20:30) Being grounded and rooted in reality and talking about the shit that really matters (32:35) Ready to take your dating to the next embodied level?  Join the waitlist HERE (registration opens Feb 11th) Pumped about The Love Club? Join my email list HERE to receive your invite.  Looking for More Options to Work With Me? 1-1 Mentorship + Couples Work This year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. Explore this option and apply to claim your spot  HERE If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE REVERENCE: Art of Emotional Alchemy + Introductions to Relational Mastery. REVERENCE is the foundational program to this path work and is a prerequisite for all upper level work with me. It's a minimum 9 month container and includes group mentorship, a curated curriculum and access to all live EMERGENCE series classes.  This container is appropriate for all levels. Currently enrolling for Feb cohort (7 spaces remain) Join us HERE Podcast Intro Music: Song Title: Shape Your Future Written By Dan Phillipson  

    S3.Ep 43. Season 3 Kick Off: Trust Falls With The Universe and Creating a Life on Purpose

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2023 60:02


    Welcome to Season 3!  As you can likely tell, things have changed in these last few weeks since we wrapped season 2.  I'm a 3/5 Manifesting Generator and keeping things fresh, true and aligned is KEY for me to keep pouring into a creative project.  In this episode we explore more PERMISSION for flowing with YOUR creative current.  In this episode of The Embodied Love Podcast:  • The courage to change things up, be lead by the deeper inner knowing and having deep faith in your path (5:19) • Necessary trust falls with the universe (6:10) • Creating new possibilities in our relationships within our bold communication and conscious communication (11:14) • Letting go of control and opening up to the infinite realm of possibility (20:12) • The cause of rotten peach energy! -sitting in containers we have outgrown (24:23) • How to interview and date with alignment (and a little audacity!) (33:33) • The energetic of force vs the energetic of trust (46:34) • How to work your business rather than be worked by it. (51:25) Work With Me in 2023 1-1 Mentorship + Couples Work This year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. Explore this option and apply to claim your spot  HERE If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE REVERENCE: Art of Emotional Alchemy + Introductions to Relational Mastery. REVERENCE is the foundational program to this path work and is a prerequisite for all upper level work with me. It's a minimum 9 month container and includes group mentorship, a curated curriculum and access to all live EMERGENCE series classes.  This container is appropriate for all levels. Currently enrolling for Feb cohort (7 spaces remain) Join us HERE Want in on the dating workshop? Join the waitlist HERE Pumped about The Love Club? Join my email list HERE to receive your invite.  Podcast Intro Music: Song Title: Shape Your Future Written By Dan Phillipson  

    S2.Ep.42. The Magic Behind The Music- an Exclusive Look Behind The Music I Make

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2022 31:05


    2022 has been a wild ride, one filled with plenty of ups and downs (listen to episode 40 HERE for all the details on that one). But one of the most special aspects of this year was finally seeing how the world of my music/singing is merging with the relational mastery work I teach in the world.  To see these two HUGE parts of me beginning to intersect is such a beautiful and exciting thing...only took me 40 years but here we are doing it!  In this episode I give you an exclusive behind the scenes breakdown of what the song Always Love You is about, the deeper relational threads at play and the medicinal transmission we've coded into the final track.  If you love music and you love relational mastery work, this is an episode made for you.  Want to Support The Music Further?  We would love that! Here are a few ways you can support our music:  1. Listen to the song on Spotify (or any other streaming service) HERE or catch the lyric video on Youtube HERE 2. Share the song with your social media or with someone who you think it would resonate with.  3. Create your own Spotify playlist (10-15 songs) of tunes you love and add Always Love You to the playlist.  4. Share with me on social media what the song means to you, how you felt when you listened to it, what the song leaves you with!!  5. Support the music + our music journey directly by joining our new Patreon community HERE Work With Me in 2023   In the new year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. If you would like to check out that option and apply for a 2023 spot you can do so HERE   If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE   If group work is more within your range for 2023 hop on the waitlist for REVERENCE: The Art of Emotional Alchemy and Introductions to Relational Mastery HERE (all waitlist people will receive a special early bird rate next week before I officially open the doors for registration).    Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    S2.Ep.41 Navigating the Holidays When They're Not Merry and Bright

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2022 40:19


    Welcome to the second last episode of season 2 friends!  In this episode we explore navigating the holidays when if it's a tough time for you.  The holidays aren't always merry, bright and full of jolly cheer. They can be a hard time of year. Loneliness, memories of loss, longer darker days or any other reason, can make this season a tough one for some folks.  If you've struggled over the holidays or notice you slip into numbing out coping patterns during this season this is a little love letter to your heart from mine.  We cover: • Dealing with big emotions over the holidays • When the mind dominates the emotions vs getting in approval of your emotions • Numbing out over the holidays, why it happens and how to navigate it with awareness and intentionality and NO SHAMING. • How to set up important conversations from a place of reverence • The importance of becoming a compassionate witness to your experience over the holidays.  Work With Me in 2023 In the new year I'm opening space for 1-1 clients again. If you would like to check out that option and apply for a 2023 spot you can do so HERE If you're a couple looking to work with me you can apply for couple's mentorship HERE If group work is more within your range for 2023 hop on the waitlist for REVERENCE: The Art of Emotional Alchemy and Introductions to Relational Mastery HERE (all waitlist people will receive a special early bird rate next week before I officially open the doors for registration).  Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    S2.Ep.40. Ego Desires vs True Desire

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2022 68:39


    Welcome back lovers!  In this episode I do a deep dive into the world of egoic desires and true desires. I share with you the fullness of this past year and many of the big challenges I had to find a way through including an unexpected cancer diagnosis in my family, an unexpected injury and learning how to walk again. I also share the BIG expansion moments of this year (big magical things happening with music and the final pieces of my new body of work) and how every twist and turn of this year has invited me to explore a more nuanced path of alchemy, finding my true pace and connecting to the threads of the deepest, truest desires. It's a rich rich episode.  We also dive into: • What is emotional and energetic range. • Honouring our range in our day to day- how well are we listening to our signals, needs and what is really true? • The role embodiment plays when it comes to staying within range. • Destigmitizing the emotional world  • What it takes to be with life no matter what life throws your way. • When the ego picks up the spiritual lingo and leads you astray lol • Getting cockblocked by the universe and the blessing of it • Right relationship with reality. • The three main pillars of my body of work    Ready to Dive Deeper?    Join the REVERENCE Waitlist HERE  Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep. 213 Moving At The Pace of Slow + Healing Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2022 59:23


    Hi loves!  It's been so long since we've connected here and I'm stoked to be back! In this episode I give you a behind the scenes look at the deep initiation portals that my injury has taken me on (the main reason behind the hiatus) and the medicine of moving at the pace of slow.  Slowing down in a world obsessed with faster is a wild act of rebellion, it's also necessary for our embodiment and ability to relate in nourishing and connective ways.  It's been a deeply powerful few months opening and unwinding as I navigate healing my injury and anchoring in a new decade full of these mystical lessons.  Enjoy!  BLACK FRIDAY SALE STARTS TODAY As mentioned on the episode today is the kick off of my first ever Black Friday Sale. Nov 25th-27th all of my self-study programs are 50% off. To get in on the sale head over HERE and use the code: BLACKFRIDAYLOVE In addition to this mega sale I'll be posting a special 24hr deal Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday for those of you interested in more of the live pathway work with me. To receive those deals either hop on my email list HERE or keep a close eye on my Instagram stories each of those days!  Lots of love, Kels

    Ep. 212 Why Nice People Programming Does You Dirty

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 45:46


    Welcome back friends!  In this episode I dive into the whole concept of why nice guys/girls/people finish last. It's more about the "niceness" programming than it is about genuine kindness.  This is a bitter pill to swallow.  But if we can open the egoic inflamed reaction we can initially experience when we learn "niceness" or niceness PROGRAMMING is inherently dishonest and manipulative, there is deep gold for us to mine. Gold that SUPPORTS the co-creation of the relational dream in your heart.  If this opening calls to you this is your invitation to join the next Embodied Alchemy Series: Unwinding People Pleasing HERE We begin Aug 24th and registration will remain open until Aug 29th.  Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep: 211 Sisterhood, Relational Ruptures and the Unexpected Pilgrimage to 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 52:49


    Welcome back friends!  After a couple week hiatus we're back and I've got some magic to share with you.  In this episode I share the unexpected pilgrimage I've been on as I approach 40, how this has impacted my sisterhood, the relational ruptures I've had to navigate and what's blossomed on the other side.  If the call to work together has swirled alive in you listening to this episode these are the containers currently available:  Initiated: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Embodied Alchemy Series: Codes of Sovereignty and Unwinding People Pleasing HERE Sugar and Spice (email me your desire to join HERE ) Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep.210 What's Really Behind the Desire to Be Open But Not ”Too” Open

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2022 54:42


    In this episode we dive into a question I received on IG this week about "how do I be open but not "too" open?".  Its a great question and one that requires a little more of a deep dive. So here we go!  Ready to Dive Deeper? Next Embodied Alchemy Drop In Class, June 26th 2022: HERE Theme: Nourishment and Opening Deeper into Love The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE  access to this membership is $44/month, inside you receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.  8 Week Embodied Alchemy Series. Next Series: The Codes of Sovereignty and Unwinding People Pleasing: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA  

    Ep.209 Why Emotionally Intimate Friendships Matter to Your Love Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2022 56:56


    In this episode we dive into the importance of emotionally intimate friendships and why they are an important and foundational aspect of any healthy thriving romantic relationship.  We dive into:  • What is emotional intimacy + why it matters to your wellbeing • How emotional intimacy is cultivated in friendships • What the impact is on your romantic relationships when emotionally intimate friendships are missing • What isn't emotional intimacy • Why romantic partners can be threatened by the presence of your emotionally intimate friendships and what the pathway through is.  Join Me for the Next Embodied Alchemy Drop In Class Date: June 26th 2022. Time: 11am PST Theme: Opening into Love Registration + Info: HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper into your Relational Mastery?    Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA  

    Ep. 208 Endings Aren't Failures

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 42:50


    If you're in the world of relating, you'll know that endings come with the territory of relationships.  Endings aren't easy, no matter how we slice it, but there are ways in which we can make these initiations smoother on our system. In this episode we explore:  • The role fantasy plays in the pain and perception of failure we can hold when a relationship ends • The somatic capacity required to navigate endings • The emotional capacity (and health) required to navigate endings • Why understanding something intellectually doesn't automatically mean transformed behaviour • What the path of integration and changed behaviour looks like and the pace we need to walk to be most effective • How to frame our relational experiences in a way where we can mine for the most amount of relational gold when they end • The importance of practicing new skills along your path of relational mastery DEEPENING YOUR RELATIONAL MASTERY PATH For those of you who feel the call to the practitioners path of relational mastery after receiving the codes in this episode you're invited to apply for INITIATED: The Foundations for Relational Mastery begins HERE If you're feeling the call to expand your somatic awareness, deepen your capacity and move into a space of right relationship with your emotions, you're invited to join The Embodied Alchemy Membership HERE where you will receive access to all past, present and future Embodied Alchemy classes.  The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.  Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA  

    Ep. 207. Are You Over It or Are You Through It? How to Tell.

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2022 46:13


    In this episode of the podcast we explore the distinction of being over it vs being through it. While being "over it" is a very common expression for a lot of people, it doesn't mean we've actually healed our way through, in fact it can often mean the opposite.  In this episode we'll go through the differences and the importance of eventually winding up on the pathway through your heartbreak.  We cover:  • Why we have the impulse to say we're "over it".  • Why it can be confronting to walk the path of being through it. • Why breakups and heartbreak can rock us the way they do. • When the pain you feel isnt in proportion to the depth of the relationship- what is going on.  • What is required to step onto the path of going through it • How going through the pain and the heartbreak is correlated to our capacity to call in quantum love and create and maintain conscious healthy relationships. Join The Heal Your Heartbreak Waitlist: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper?  Embodied Alchemy Membership: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    EP. 206: The Wisdom of Grief

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2022 62:05


    Ep. 206: The Wisdom of Grief Loss is a natural part of being human and yet it is one of the initiations and portals that is quite challenging to navigate when it comes. In this episode we're exploring the wisdom of grief in the context of loss and in the context of relational grief as we uplevel and step deeper into our relational mastery journey. In this episode we cover: • Why we're so resistant to grief and feeling our big feelings • Riding the wave of grief • The neccessary relational support required to bravely lean into grief • The places we don't let love grow and why grief amplifies these spaces • How to unblock the current of love when the impulse is to close and wall off • Grief as a massive truth teller and energy to re-aline our path • How to navigate the “down”of grief • How to discern who has been through initiations of grief and those who haven't. Listen to Glitter by Patrick Droney: HERE   Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper into the Relational Work?    Embodied Alchemy Membership. Current Series: The Codes of Quantum Love: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep. 205 Slowing Down When Life Throws You a Curveball

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2022 48:52


    Life is unpredictable at the best of times, and when it hits us with the unexpected and those curveballs that kick us off our centre, slowing down can be such a supportive tool to getting to the heart of the matter and moving these transitions through powerfully. In this episode we cover:  - Releasing my ideas of what is supposed to happen and surrendering to what is. - Witnessing the human as its humaning. -When things don't go according to plan who do you become. -Listening to the wisdom of the body. -Being in right relationship with reality. -The link between exploring the infinite layers of self and what is happening in the now. -Deepening embodiment practices in unconventional ways. - Upgrading your frequency and the clearing of material incongruent with your intended frequency. -Pushing beyond your actual energetic/emotional/physical range and energetic blowback. Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of April access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper?  Join the Embodied Alchemy Membership: HERE This is the track if you would like to get in on the codes of quantum love, or any of the past series we've done (worthiness, body love, rejection, resentment). Membership is $111/month, minimum 6 month membership and you receive access to all LIVE embodied alchemy classes + series during the duration of your membership.    Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE This is the foundational, minimum 13 month path, to do the deeper relational mastery work. In this path we dive into unwinding codependency patterns, upgrading communication skills, the art of emotional attunement, the relational skills for all healthy and conscious relationships and the deepening of love filled embodiment.  Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep. 204 The Relational Cover Charge

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2022 60:06


    **UPDATE** Next Embodied Alchemy Series Start Date Changed to April 13th! You still have time to get in on the series if this podcast theme ping'd you and you're ready to dive deeper. All class + registration details (payment plans are available scroll to the bottom of the info page to find them) HERE In this week's episode we dive into: • What is a Relational Cover Change and why it's so important.  • Dating for partnership- what vetting is all about in this context. • Embodiment of standards, boundaries and needs is different than the intellectual understanding of them. • Unconscious dating doesn't lay the foundation for a conscious relationship. • Superficial standards vs standards that reveal relational health/skills. • The relationships between standards + unmet needs. • How to tell if someone is in service to your boundaries. More Quantum Love Goodness Starts Here: Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of April access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper?    8 Week Embodied Alchemy Series. Next Series: The Codes of Quantum Love: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep. 203 Using Reminiscing To Your Relational Advantage

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2022 55:34


    We all reminisce, it's part of human nature to take a walk down memory lane every once and a while.  What makes reminiscing such a tender and touchy subject is that for many people its done in secret, which means it's saturated with shame.  In this week's episode we take reminiscing out of the shame shadows and explore a conversation about it that is in SERVICE to your relationships and in service to the cultivation of deeper embodied love.  In this episode we explore:  • What the pattern of reminiscing focuses on and how that can trip us up when it comes to our current relationships.  • Fantasy patterns and their link to reminiscing. • How to ground the pattern of reminiscing so it can serve you. • What reminiscing reveals about your relational needs and the relational dreams in your heart.  • How to apply the gold you find in this discovery into your dating explorations.  Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper?    8 Week Embodied Alchemy Series: Guided Alchemical Embodiment Journeys Meet Relational Teaching Next Series: The Codes of Quantum Love: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep.202 The One Who Got Away

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2022 59:04


    In this episode of The Quantum Love Podcast we journey into the the world of "the one who got away". If this pattern has ever popped up for you this episode is for you.  In this conversation we explore:  • The nature of the one who got away pattern • The power struggle phase of relationships and its link to this pattern • The link between being unhappy/unfulfilled in life and this pattern • Deepening relationship with reality • Truth telling • The pathway of new possibilities this pattern brings to the surface • Old relational wounding/pattern resolution that is made known through this pattern • What to do the next time this pattern arises for you, so you can be in deepest service to the love within you and the relational dream you hold.   Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper?    8 Week Embodied Alchemy Series. Next Series: The Codes of Quantum Love: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA  

    Ep. 201 Quantum Love Podcast Debut: Letting Love Lead

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2022 51:13


    Welcome to the DEBUT of the new show The Quantum Love Podcast!  In this entire new show, new season, new energy, we'll be exploring the world of relational mastery, embodiment, the initiations of love and what it really looks like and feels like to live a life lead by love.  In this episode we explore:  • Introduction to the Art of Building Genuine Connection • Holding paradox • Relational healing and coming into right relationship with reality • When Disagreement = Disconnection (and how this messes with relational connection) • Telling the truth on yourself • Strategies for survival and how to utilize this information for your relational mastery Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join  HERE The Quantum Love Membership Loving the podcast? Want to support the show AND have a space to connect with other people committed to this path of relational mastery?    Join the community HERE (for the month of March access to this membership is $22/month) to receive all the community transmission replays, bonus podcast content, relational mastery worksheets and community only live q/a sessions with yours truly.    Ready to Dive Deeper?    8 Week Embodied Alchemy Series. Next Series: The Codes of Quantum Love: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE Podcast Intro Music:  Written By Dean William Palya, Jr. Performed By PALA Produced By PALA

    Ep.026 Pleasure Alchemy w/Emily Hazel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2022 60:42


    In the final episode in the Pleasure Portal Podcast (don't worry a new show and a new season is coming) we close out with the most extraordinary conversation with my sweet, sultry, and sexy AF sister Emily Hazel. This episode is full of giggles, joy and loads of real talk wisdom. A brilliant close out to a wonderful chapter of this show.  About Emily Emily Hazel is a fire-flavoured facilitator of expression and embodiment. She is the creator of FEMPIRE, a business mystery school anchoring the principles of pleasure and play into a new paradigm of productivity and generating prosperity. Founder of Spirited Studio, Emily teaches Squarespace + brand magic to soulpreneurs so they can start and slay their spirit-led businesses. What We Cover In This Episode  • Pleasure Alchemy- The art of creating change through ease and grace. • The homecoming of pleasure. • Reclaiming your natural set point.  • The language we use are the spells we cast. • Becoming the conscious creator of your life, your business, social media. • Creating environments that support what you're creating. • Growth through initiations. • Spiritual superiority skips over the actual work. • A major key to your spiritual, emotional and relational liberation. Connect With Emily  Website + 1-1 Pleasure Alchemy Coaching: HERE Instagram: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE   Ready to Dive Deeper?    Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep.025 Human Design w/Jasmine Kenna

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2022 53:34


    In this wonderful episode I bring my new friend Jasmine Kenna onto the show for a fabulous conversation about all things Human Design, Pleasure and Play!  About Jasmine: "The truth is that I am a wild woman in the best possible way. I want to dance + laugh + run wild. I want to experience everything that I can while I'm here and I want that for you too if that's what you want. I use the lens of Human Design + radical self accepts to help grant you permission to be yourself." What we cover in this episode:  • What is human design and why should you care about it? • Different human design types and their respective authorities. • Understanding the relational balance between types, their strengths and how to optimize these relational dynamics with simple attunments. • How to bring out the best in each type relationally.  • Unwinding the negative connotations around pleasure, including pleasure being "dirty" or "wrong" or that it must be "earned" by enduring misery first.  • Opening to the knowing that pleasure is for everyone. • Unwinding the unconscious beliefs of pleasure as indulgence.  • Why dropping the pattern of withholding the thing you want is key to your thrival.  Connect With Jasmine Website: HERE Instagram: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE   Ready to Dive Deeper?    Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep.024 Permission To Pivot w/ Kate Horsman

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2022 42:15


    In this episode I welcome my dear sister in for a conversation on the permission to change.  Kate Horsman is a Counsellor, RHN and Integrative Healing Practitioner that merges modalities in support of helping humans come home to themselves. Her practice includes a speciality in women's health, disordered eating, and mental health and wellness. Kate's experience is vast, but not nearly so much as her life experiences that have influence her creative and courageous work. In this episode we cover:  • Why the permission to pivot is essential to our unfolding life path • Dropping the expectations of how your life is meant to look • Allowing all sides and parts to belong opens pathways for deeper embodied worthiness • The vulnerability of being open • How essential the body is and the power of embodiment Connect with Kate:  Instagram: HERE Website: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE   Ready to Dive Deeper?    Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep.023 Ritual, Magic and Balancing The Masculine and Feminine w/Vira

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2022 55:46


    In this episode I bring on my friend Vira for a very fun conversation on all things magic, ritual, tarot and coming into balance with our own masculine and feminine energetics.  On this episode we cover:  • The frequency of your name • The important role reverence plays in our spiritual development • The private nature of ritual, magic and your sacred routines • Privacy vs secrecy • What is a devotional ritual and how can I do one for myself?  • How to listen and connect to your knowing • Understanding and balancing the masculine and feminine energetics within yourself To Connect With Vira:  Instagram: @suiheartclub @viracantdance Website:  HERE  Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE   Ready to Dive Deeper?    Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep.022 The Death of Romantic Love w/ Megan Soutar

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2022 52:57


    In this episode I welcome my lovely friend Megan Soutar in for a conversation about romantic love, ditching fantasy and love addiction.  In this episode we cover:  • The pattern of using a relationship as a saviour • Beliefs that feed fantasy love and love addiction  • The ego death of love • Early relational patterns that can contribute to fairy tale relational programming • The journey back to wholeness To connect with Megs:  Instagram: HERE Website: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE   Ready to Dive Deeper?    Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep.021 Coming Back Home To The Body w/Kendra Adachi

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 24, 2022 63:57


    In this episode I welcome my dear sister Kendra Adachi for a very deep, personal and vulnerable conversation.  In this episode we discuss the journey of coming back home to the body and inside of that conversation we open up about suicide, suicidal thoughts and impulses along with discussion of eating disorders. If this is out of range for you right now I trust that you will care for yourself with pristine integrity and either skip through those parts or skip this episode until it is within your range and capacity to hold.  In this episode we cover:  • Taking care of your own needs • Body love and acceptance • Not settling for mediocrity • Filling the void  • Coming back from the edge of hopelessness  • The importance of connection, community and relationships • Reclaiming your path If you are struggling with suicide here are some resources, you're not alone and you don't have to hold this alone:  Canada: Canada Suicide Prevention Service: 1- 833-456-4566 Website: HERE USA: Suicide Hotline: (800) 273-8255 Support: HERE  UK: Suicide Hotline: 0800 689 5652 Support: HERE International Suicide Hotlines: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call   To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE   Ready to Dive Deeper?    Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE   Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep.020 Embodied Pleasure and the Power of Play w/ Christie Federico

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2022 55:31


    Today's episode we're talking with former women's coach turned creative, Christie Federico.  In this episode we cover:  • The process of learning your embodied yes's and no's • Honouring the unfolding of your pace • Sexual boundaries • Getting out of your head and into your body • The power of play and connection To connect with Christie:  Instagram: HERE Tiktok: HERE Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE Ready to Dive Deeper?  Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep. 019 Podcast Update and Season 2 teaser

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 17:13


    It's been a hot minute for us here on the podcast fam. In this episode I share the unfolding of the pause on the podcast, where we're headed next and what to expect for 2022~  Happy to be back! xx Kelsey Access Kelsey's Monthly Free Community Transmission Call To get in on the monthly FREE community calls I'm now offering feel free to join the community HERE Ready to Dive Deeper?  Embodied Alchemy Series: HERE Apply for INITIATED: The Foundations of Relational Mastery HERE

    Ep. 018. Conscious Relating and Breaking Spells of Perfection w/ Brooke Yantzi

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2021 63:25


    Welcome back to episode 18 of the Pleasure Portal Podcast babes!  In today's episode I welcome my dear sister Brooke Yantzi on the show to chat with me about all things conscious relating, breaking spells of perfection (you know the ones where we unconsciously expect partners to be perfect, while we can still be loved for our imperfections) and the importance of embodied movement when it comes to maintaining healthy relating of all forms.  We explore: - Conscious relating, taking personal responsibility and waking up to how much of our relational behaviour is unconscious. - Why conscious relating is both the most beautiful experience and the toughest.  - Conscious relating is the process of expanding your capacity to feel deeper and expand higher. - Falling in love with the possibility of people vs stepping into love with who someone really is. - The importance of giving and taking feedback in partnership - Permission to start the day with pleasure, connection and embodiment - The link between movement/embodiment and relational anchoring - The international language of dance - Reclaiming your feminine through dance and movement even if you're not a “dancer”.  Looking to connect with Brooke? Of course you are!  Instagram: HERE Website: HERE Work with Brooke:  Intuitive (5 Week Program): HERE 1-1 Coaching: HERE --------------------------------------------------------------------- Join the Waitlist to receive first access to my upcoming Queen Coven Membership HERE

    Ep. 017 The Journey of Consent, Exploring Agency and Sex Magic w/ Charlie Holiday

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2021 59:17


    In this episode of the Pleasure Portal Podcast I sit down with my dear sister Charlie Holiday(Poitras) to have a very candid conversation about consent, agency and of course some good ol fashioned sex magic!  This conversation is rich, open and filled with so much love. Because we do share about our experiences with sexual trauma and wounding, it is of upmost importance that you tune into your body and take care of what you need. If this is a convo that could be upsetting to your system, it is up to you to give yourself the care you require. If at points it becomes a lot for your system, press pause and take care of you.  Now for the formal magic: Charlie Poitras is the Founder of Fierce Leadership & Co., a personal and professional development company committed to empowering people to be leaders of their lives. She is an international consultant and Clarity Coach, specializing in Conscious Leadership Development. Over the last ten years in consulting, speaking and coaching, Charlie has had a profound impact on the lives of individuals to empowering them to release their magic into the world, as well as supporting organizations with her unique and holistic approach to performance hacking in a variety of industries. These include, but are not limited to The United Nations, Fortune 500 insurance companies, luxury travel organizations, technology and crowdsourcing, non-profit organizations, and more. She is committed to freeing people up by getting them out of “boxes” and into lives they love as their highest selves.  To connect with Charlie:  www.fierceleadershipco.com IG: @fierce_charlie and @fierceleadership Creating Space ebook HERE To join us for the 1 day Fuel Your Mission Retreat head to the event details page HERE

    Ep. 016 Shadow Work, Codependency and What Keeps Us Hooked Into People Who Can't Meet Us w/ Christine Banno

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2021 78:33


    In this episode my guest Christine Banno and I get SPICY!  This is a usual occurrence when we are in one another's fields, in this very unscripted, unedited convo we dive through some deep terrain while keeping it light, spicy and hilarious.  We both out ourselves and our shadow patterns that played so deeply into our codependency and how we moved through those patterns to open, receive and allow connections, love and magic that is aligned with who we are to enter.  What we cover:  • Cashing in your victim chips to play at the possibility casino. • Connecting to the quantum field + shadow work. • Our stories with overfunctioning and the shadowy underbelly that helped us reclaim our power back. • Inner child work and coming back into right relationship with you, your body and your nervous system.  • Why walking your talk is such an important element for calling in relationships where you're met fully. • The relationship between manifestation, magnetism, the body and the nervous system. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Christine Banno: Website + Programs: HERE Social Media: HERE -------------------------------------------------------------------- Feeling the Call To Join Mutually Met? Catch Christine and all her spicy goodness in my upcoming program Mutually Met! She's our guest teacher for Month 2 on The Queen Code of Radical Responsibility and she'll be leading a class on Shadow Work which I am VERY excited for you to experience.  The extended payment plan has been added so tuition isn't the reason you don't join us.  All the program info and registration can be found HERE

    Ep. 015 What Your Calling Has to do With Being Mutually Met

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2021 56:54


    BB's we're back!  Today was a very special day. I received a rough mix of my new song/single and after a emotional day of feeling the significance of this new chapter of my life coming to fruition this wonderful episode came through.  In it I explore with you the connection between your calling, living on purpose and being mutually met in a relationship.  It's spicy, I even serenade ya'll at about 8 mins in... Love you all!  KG ------------------------------------------------------------------ Ladies...if the call to be Mutually Met is lighting up every cell in your body and you know it's time, enrollment is now open for my upcoming program Mutually Met. All of the program details and registrations options can be found HERE Space is limited and I'll likely be offering this program once a year, so if this is your year for calling in EPIC LOVE where you're actually met then this is the journey for you! 

    Ep. 014 Truth Telling, Breaking Disempowering Spells and Reclaiming Agency

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2021 56:22


    March was a doozy of a month. A literal decent into the underworld of everything I wasn't feeling, confronting or dealing with.  It came up for reckoning and I couldn't be more thrilled it did...now that i'm through the tunnel.  In this episode I explore:  • Truth telling, authenticity and why muting our expression in the world is majorly damaging our capacity to relate.  • Breaking very old spells of disempowerment. • Going through the tunnel, the initiation and why it's essential. • How we reclaim agency after we've been kicked off our centre. • What gets in the way of being mutually met in love. ______________________________________________________________________ QUEENS, SISTERS, MEGA BABES.... The waitlist for my new program Mutually Met is now open. If the container spoke to you in the episode you can join the waitlist HERE ________________________________________________________________________ If some self-study rebooting is calling to you please use the promo code: SWEETNESS2021 (all caps) to get into any of the following self-study programs for $67  Healing Overfunctioning: HERE Rebooting from Rejection: HERE Spotting and Stopping Emotional Manipulation: HERE Recovering from Betrayal and Rebuilding Trust: HERE www.legendaryloveacademy.com

    Ep. 013: Capacity, Emotional Health and Honouring Your Vision for Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2021 62:18


    Hi my loves!  Excited to be in this solo episode with ya'll today. This episode is full to the brim with a few spicy topics I've had on my mind and heart these days.  In this episode I chat about:  • Honouring your capacity by tuning into your body more often. • Tuning into your emotional health and how your baseline needs influence your experience of emotional health. • How to navigate the wild waves of toxic social media and the lack of emotional health we're seeing in how people interact with one another.  • How your vision for love is an anchor to support you in building capacity, strengthening your emotional health and enriching your relationships.  ----------------------------------------------------------------- To get in on the Visioning for Love workshop replay (free for the month of March) and to get your promo code for $100 Pleasure Mapping 101 click HERE If you want to skip the free workshop and go right into the Pleasure Mapping Course you can do so HERE Looking for 1-1 support? I've got a few more spaces available for the month of March. Applications can be submitted HERE

    Ep. 012 Anchoring Into The Wisdom of The Womb w/Jasmine Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2021 50:49


    In this week's episode I welcome my dear sister Jasmine Rose in for a beautiful conversation about all things womb reclamation, pleasure rituals and feminine magic!  Jasmine is the founder of Humble Wild Wellness. She is a Sacred Womb Guide, holding space for women to come home to the magic, mystery, and wisdom of their pelvic bowl. In this episode we cover:  • What is means to care for the wombspace. • Tapping into the magic of the wombspace. • The truth about moving through the layers of stickiness when it comes to reclaiming the magic of our menstrual power, pussy power and wombspace portals. • Becoming the expert of your inner landscape. • Reigniting the pleasure flame for ourselves via self-pleasure rituals.  It's a deliciously deep conversation one that I am so very excited to share with you pleasure babes! To connect with Jasmine:  Instagram: HERE To join Jasmine's Womb Circles + 1-1 Womb Mentorship and all the magic she's up to head on over to her website HERE

    Ep. 011 Boundaries, Sisterhood and Navigating Needs w/ Silvy Khoucasian

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2021 60:39


    In this week's episode I sit down with my beloved friend, sister and colleague Silvy Khoucasian.  Silvy is one of my most favourite humans, she's kind, generous, considerate and such a brilliant coach and teacher when it comes to all things relationships, boundaries and attachment systems.  It is one of my greatest blessings in life to be loved up by this woman. To get to share her magic with ya'll today brings me great joy and pleasure. Let's dive in!  In this episode we explore:  • The nature of boundaries. • Boundaries in romantic relationships vs friendship boundaries. • How our boundaries have strengthened our friendship and trust in sisterhood.  • Titrating vulnerability and it's link to building relational trust.  • Negotiating needs, boundaries and counter-offers in love and friendship.  Connect with Silvy:  Instagram: HERE Boundaries Program: HERE Website: HERE Silvy is a Relationship Coach and the Founder of Love With Integrity Coaching. She is a writer and has an extensive background in the theatrical arts, particularly in acting and in film production. Silvy uniquely fuses her knowledge of attachment theory, boundaries, sociological systems, art, and creativity in her coaching work with her clients. She has facilitated one on one, couples, and group sessions over the last 9 years and has spent a significant amount of time investing in her own personal healing journey. She deeply values being a compassionate guide as well as an eternal student. Silvy has been featured in Women's Health, Vogue, Playboy, Allure, and Cosmopolitan magazine. Silvy eagerly looks forward to contributing to and uplifting the global conversation on intimate relationships for many years to come. ----------------------------------------------------------------- I've chosen to postpone my Visioning for Love workshop until March 6th 2021. I've also decided to make this workshop FREE.  If you want in on the magic you can sign up HERE xx Kelsey

    Ep.010 Single on V-Day? How to Have a Romantic and Love Filled Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 40:19


    Pleasure, romance and love are themes that many associate with Valentine's Day.  And for those who are single on this day, you are still just as worthy of the pleasure, romance, I promise.  In this weeks episode I explore approaching Valentine's Day through a pleasure lens for anyone who is single or unable to spend their V-day in the usual ways...hello pandemic. We cover:  • The meaning we make about holidays and how that is essential data to support us in getting our needs met.  • How to create a day filled with love, pleasure and romance even if you're flying solo. • Why understanding our unconscious beliefs and expectations can be so helpful in creating more high quality connection.  -------------------------------------------------------------------- If the episode was helpful for you please share it on your social media, share the episode with a friend and let's spread the loveeee!  For those interested in sharing their love day self-romancing, tag me at @radicalselflove on instagram so I can celebrate your celebration!  -------------------------------------------------------------------- The Visioning for Love workshop will be taking place on Feb 20th 2021 and all the details and registration info can be found HERE

    Ep. 009 Why Are There No Good Men In My City? W/ Kate Harlow

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 68:24


    For this week's guest interview I sat down with my amazing friend and fellow love coach Kate Harlow to deep dive on the oldest complaint in the dating world.... Why Are There No Good Men in MY City?  We get it, dating can be an intense place to be especially in these current times.  But no matter what is going on in the world, the complaint about the high quality humans remains constant.  So we're breaking it down, giving our insights and providing our perspectives to get unhooked from this niggling dating dilemma.  In this episode we jam on:  • Love and dating mindsets • Empowered narratives for high quality dating • Tuning your focus to see more of what we want to see • Why complaining works against your hearts desires in dating • The importance of carving your own vision for your love life and not following a predetermined model based on your family history.  About today's guest: Kate Harlow is the Owner and founder of The Expanded Love Method. She is a revolutionary Love Coach & Teacher, co-host of The New Truth Podcast and creator of the Expanded Love Method. This infallible method helps women to break free from old painful relational patterns & become their highest most magnetic version of themselves. It is her mission to transform women's self worth – so they can finally experience the life and love they deeply desire. Kate Harlow is a masterful teacher, coach & influencer - and is known for awakening women to who they TRULY are. She's been coaching & teaching for over 12 years! Kate's Freebie to our Community: Discover Your Sabotour HERE ------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Kate:  Instagram  Facebook --------------------------------------------------------------- Given this month is the month dedicated to LOVE, I'll be focusing this month's content on dating, love and relationships.  For those of you who are ready to up-level your vision for love, I have a new workshop I'm hosting on Feb 20th called Visioning for Love, all event details can be found HERE xo Kelsey

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