Unbridely - Modern Wedding Planning

Picture this: The reception is going off, the dance floor is packed, and out of nowhere, a guest decides it's the perfect moment for an impromptu karaoke performance on top of the couple's table. The song? “I Will Survive.” The table? Didn't.We've all heard stories about wedding guests who, let's just say, left a lasting impression for all the wrong reasons. Maybe you've even witnessed a few moments yourself—guests who turned up wearing white, brought uninvited plus-ones, or made themselves a little too comfortable at the open bar.But here's the thing: being a truly great wedding guest isn't about following a mysterious set of rules or walking on eggshells. It's about showing up with a little intention, a dash of gratitude, and a whole lot of your best energy.So, whether you're prepping for your first wedding of the season or you're a practised guest just looking to brush up on your etiquette, today's episode is all about how to be the kind of guest every couple is thrilled to have at their wedding.Because you don't want to be ‘that guy', right?RESOURCESSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Did you know that the side you choose to stand on for your wedding ceremony could affect everything from your wedding photos to your physical comfort, right down to whether or not your veil behaves or misbehaves?It sounds like such a small detail, but this is one of those decisions that can spark surprisingly big opinions from family members, your wedding party, and even your vendors. But is there really a right side to stand on for your ceremony and when it comes down to it, does it really matter anyway? In this episode, we'll: Uncover the fascinating history behind ceremony sides, unpack why some people still feel so strongly about this tradition, and more importantly, share 5 practical things you should consider before you pick your spot at the altar.From how your floral arrangements frame your photos to the way the sun and wind might impact your comfort, to those little secrets about looking and feeling your best, this episode will help you to make a choice that's perfect for you. RESOURCESSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Do you and your fiancé avoid talking about money, or end up fighting every time the topic of money comes up?I don't think you'll be shocked to know that, when you're planning a wedding and building a life together, how you handle money, individually and together, can quite literally make or break your relationship. And yet, so many couples don't know how to start the conversation, or realise how much their money habits are shaped by their childhood and their family.In this episode, I sit down with financial coach Karen Eely, from Women Talking Money, who's spent more than two decades advising and educating people about money. Karen explains how our earliest memories can quietly drive our helpful or destructive financial habits and decisions as adults. You'll get a clear understanding of:The most common money issues couples face like clashing spending styles, financial secrets, and power imbalances.The 8 simple money types and how to find out which one you are, plusPractical strategies to start open and productive chats about your finances, but without the fear, guilt or shame.Whether you're newly engaged or already deep in your wedding planning, you'll come away with some tools and a fresh perspective to be able to get on the same page, reduce conflict, and build a solid financial foundation for your future together.RESOURCES Women Talking Finance Website: https://www.womentalkingfinance.com.au/8 Money Types Quiz: Women Talking Finance – Money Type QuizEbook: 5-STEP GUIDE HOW TO TALK ABOUT MONEY SO YOUR PARTNER WILL LISTENSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $6 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY6 (valid until the end of 2025)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Have you ever wondered why some wedding dancefloors explode with energy while others never quite get off the ground-and what you can do about it?This is Part 2 of my conversation with the amazing Tania who is the heart and soul of Entertainment business, Choons & Moovz.In this episode, Tania shares how your wedding party can help set the mood early, what to do if you have a lot of smokers on your guest list, and why your bar's location can make a surprising difference to the success of your dancefloor.We also chat about the benefits of having a celebrant who can double as your MC or DJ, how long you really need to keep the dancing going (spoiler: it's probably less than you think!), and Tania's candid opinions on drinks and kids on the dancefloor.Plus, we tackle the big question about guest song requests: are they a dancefloor lifesaver or a recipe for disaster?Resources Mentioned:Choons and Moovz website: https://choonsandmoovz.com.au/Instagram: Choons and MoovzSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Are you stressing about how to keep your guests entertained at your wedding or worried that your dream dancefloor might be a ghost town before the night is over?What if I told you that the secret to an unforgettable wedding reception isn't about the perfect playlist (or no-playlist)?If you're planning your big day and want to make sure the party is one that you and your family and friends talk about for years to come, you're in the right place.I sat down with Tania Smith, the powerhouse behind Choons & Moovz; a multi-ABIA award-winning entertainment business that specialises in weddings.Tania is renowned for her infectious energy, her knack for reading a crowd, and her ability to turn any event into a celebration.As a DJ, MC, and now celebrant, she brings her signature joy and vivaciousness to every wedding she works on, helping newlyweds and their guests create unforgettable memories.Our conversation was so jam-packed with wisdom, laughs, and practical advice that I had to split it into two episodes.In Part 1, Tania shares her honest take on the age-old question: Can you really get everyone on the dance floor at a wedding? And if yes, HOW?We also dig into your timeline and how long your dancefloor should actually be pumping for.And Tania shares her top tips for boosting your dancefloor energy, from who you invite, to how you set up your space, to the all-important role of lighting and DJ placement.If you want a wedding that feels authentic, joyful, and totally you, don't miss this two-part special with one of the industry's true legends. Part 1 drops now, with even more gold coming your way next week in Part 2!RESOURCESChoons and Moovz website: https://choonsandmoovz.com.au/Instagram: Choons and MoovzSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Wanna know the worst email or DM a wedding vendor receives? It simply says: “how much?” Reaching out to wedding vendors can feel a bit like the early stages of dating, right? Those initial messages are kind of like you're feeling your way to see if you two click, and as awkward as it might seem with your wedding vendor team, you want to make a great first impression.You really do, because it can mean the difference between booking someone that will go out of their way to understand you and your needs and someone who ignores you and doesn't even respond. The truth is that a random and scattered approach to researching your wedding vendors can make it unnecessarily hard to find people who have the skills and experience you need, and those people who truly get your vision.So this week I'm sharing a system to attract the right vendors who understand and can fulfil your wedding dreams. We'll cover why having a strategic approach to vendor communication is pretty much essential, and how providing details from the start can get them excited about your wedding plans RESOURCESFREE wedding vendor email templates: www.unbridely.com/perksSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

We all know the well-worn adage, “you get what you pay for”.But let me throw another one in there: “it's like comparing apples with oranges”.Because a wedding vendor who is charging well below the market average for what they do or what they supply is completely different from one that knows their worth, their costs and what it takes to be in business for longer than a year or 2.It's possible and in my research for this episode and experience over the past 16+ years, highly likely, that your savings will come at the expense of quality, reliability, and maybe even your peace of mind.Today, we're exploring the hidden costs of booking the cheapest options for your wedding—and how to strike a balance between budget and having the beautiful wedding you expect and deserve.I'm pulling back the curtain on the risks of booking the cheapest vendors, sharing real-world stories and expert insights from the wedding industry, including candid comments from suppliers in the Unbridely Suppliers Facebook group.These are the 7 critical things you need to know and consider about booking wedding vendors who are charging well below the market average and how to avoid costly mistakes.RESOURCES Beach Road Wines, McLaren Vale: https://www.beachroadwines.com.au/Sweet Nothings Flowers: https://www.sweetnothingsflowers.com/Andrea Laube Photography: https://andrealaube.com/Marry Me Annie: https://www.marrymeannieadelaide.com/Jessica Maida Celebrant: https://jessicamaida.com.au/Found Collective: https://foundcollective.com.au/Sarah Aird: https://www.sarahaird.com.au/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $6 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY6 (valid until the end of 2025)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Ready to ditch the wedding rule book? In case you missed it, in Part 1, Monty Haron, the rogue celebrant, blew our minds with his unconventional takes on ceremonies. He introduced the idea that ‘tradition is just peer pressure from dead people' and talked about ways to change that. Now, in Part 2, we're getting tactical! How do you implement alternatives to heteronormative wedding customs? Monty's here to share practical advice on everything from rewriting the processional to dealing with family expectations. If you're craving a wedding that reflects your authentic self, this episode is packed with inspiration and real-world tips to make it happen.Resources Mentioned:Monty Haron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holymatrimonty/Holy Matrimonty website: https://www.holymatrimonty.com.au/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What if you could rewrite the rules for your wedding day? For couples who don't fit the traditional mold—or simply want to ditch outdated customs—creating a ceremony and an entire celebration that truly reflects their love can feel a little overwhelming.In this episode, Monty Haron, an Australian celebrant with a very special flavour, joins us to explore the best alternatives to wedding customs without leaning on heteronormative traditions.Honestly, our conversation was so good and we were having so much fun that I just kept recording! And that's why I've had to split his interview into two parts.In this first part, you'll learn all about Monty's insights and wild stories from his weddings that defy expectations.So whether you're LGBT+, non-traditional, or just curious about shaking things up a bit, this conversation will inspire you to make your day uniquely yours.And next week, in Part 2 Monty shares actionable alternatives to traditional wedding elements like the processional, navigating family expectations, and infusing your unique identity into every single moment. RESOURCESMonty Haron on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holymatrimonty/Holy Matrimonty website: https://www.holymatrimonty.com.au/Mind Your Feckin Language: https://www.holymatrimonty.com.au/chinwags/mind-your-feckin-languageAustralian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society, La Trobe University study: “THE HEALTH AND WELLBEING OF LGBTIQ PEOPLE IN AUSTRALIA”: https://www.latrobe.edu.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0009/1185885/Private-Lives-3.pdfSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What is the one accessory that everyone needs and deserves on their wedding day? A confident smile.Today I'm chatting with your dental fairy godmother, Dr. Naomi Goldman, about how engaged couples can plan to rock their very best smile.Naomi will teach you:the transformative role of cosmetic and restorative dentistry in enhancing smiles, particularly for weddings,the top 3 treatments engaged couples are investing in, a patient story that illustrates the incredible emotional and psychological benefits of a great smile,the main differences between at-home and in-office whitening, plus, make sure you stay listening to the end to learn, PLUSthe 3 foods and 3 drinks you want to avoid having directly after treatment that will make or break the effectiveness and length of time that your teeth whitening looks fabulous for.Naomi also chats about teeth grinding, jaw clenching wedding stress-induced dental problems and what you can do about it. RESOURCES Levy Goldman Dentistry - https://www.instagram.com/dr.naomigoldman/Dr Naomi Goldman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.naomigoldman/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $6 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY6 (valid until the end of 2025)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

 What if I told you there's a way to make your ceremony as unique and as vibrant and as deep and as weird and quirky as your relationship?   Today I'm digging into the world of non-traditional wedding readings. Forget the same old scripture passages, unless that's your jam, in which case there's nothing to see here. But I want to talk about poems that speak to your soul and make your heart skip a beat. Song lyrics that make you cry, and even quotes from your favourite TV show or movie that make you feel stuff.Whether you're planning a ceremony that pulls at the heartstrings, is laugh out loud, funny, quirky, cute, or something in between, this episode is your guide to injecting personality and richness into one of the most important moments of your big day. I'm going to go through:why non-traditional readings It can be a breath of fresh air for your ceremony,some brilliant examples for unique and meaningful readings, lyrics and quotes,how to choose the perfect words that reflect you as a couple and,choose the perfect time as well so they fit into your ceremony rather than feeling like you're sitting at a uni lecture. By the end of this episode, you'll be bursting with inspiration to create a ceremony that's as one of a kind, as weird, adorable, and unique as you two are.  So grab a notebook, maybe a tissue or two, because we're about to delve into feelings and we're going to get poetic, lyrical, and maybe even a little cinematicRESOURCESAll the wedding readings in this podcast episode can be found at: https://unbridely.com/blog/wedding-readingsSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Do you really need more than one outfit for your wedding day?Is it just another wedding industry or consumer-driven extravagance, or are there more practical reasons and even history and cultural significance behind the perceived increase in multiple outfit changes on a wedding day?In this episode you'll learn why brides (not excluding others who want to get into the 2nd outfit fun, but mainly brides) are embracing more than one wedding day look, what kinds of 2nd outfits are popular and available to you (hint: they don't have to break the bank) and how to time your change perfectly to make the most of photo opportunities and your party time too.Make sure you listen right to the end because bridal boutique owner and stylist, Bianca from Sposa Adelaide, shares her insider expert advice about different options you might not have considered and how to pull off your wardrobe transitions like a pro!Resources Mentioned:Sposa Adelaide: https://thesposagroupbride.com.au/adelaide/Unbridely Podcast Ep110: Emergency Kit Must-Haves For Your Wedding Day: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6VUnXUdsl1P2xIizlI1EcrSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Imagine waking up the morning after your wedding, still basking in the glow of the previous night's magic, and receiving a link to a treasure trove of candid photos and videos from your special day. Within 24 to 48 hours, you can relive the laughter, tears, and joy through hundreds of unedited and edited moments captured by a wedding content creator. Sounds great, right?But here's the real question: “When is it a smart move to book a content creator for your big day, and when might you be setting yourself up for disappointment or even undermining the work of your professional photographer and/or videographer?"I've been inspired by the Brad and Karina podcast episode as they shared a few less-than-ideal experiences working with content creators and contrasted that against the times when they've worked with collaborative team players. I thought that it would be super valuable for you, to help you understand how the roles of photographer, videographer and content creator are very different and which one (or ones) you choose to book for your wedding depends on what you want to get out of it, where your priorities lie and your values too.When should you hire a wedding content creator and might it not be the best choice for you? RESOURCESBrad and Karina podcast - Ep20 Rising Tension Between Wedding Photographers and Content Creators: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Yr1chItoxpoMaFxVP5qgwEverything to Know About Content Creation: https://thewed.com/magazine/everything-to-know-about-wedding-content-creationUnbridely Podcast EP43: Why You Might Want A Wedding Content Creator (and what they are) with The Wedding Creators: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Bl9eGrZ2dg8K4w3LhNO8jOn The Day Content: https://www.onthedaycontent.com.au/post/understanding-role-of-melbourne-wedding-content-creator-a-modern-perspective-on-capturing-specialSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What are wedding vows? How long should wedding vows be?Can my vows be funny?In this episode, your host of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast, Camille Abbott, a multi-award-winning Australian celebrant of 1000+ ceremonies, will break writing your wedding vows down into 8 easy steps. She helps walk you through how to write vows, that you can feel super confident and proud of, in around 20 minutes.  If you're truly freaking out about saying your vows too, make sure you listen to Camille's tips for practising them and/or sharing them with your fiancé before the ceremony.  Find out how many copies of your vows you need, when you should start writing them and if you should practise them. Resources Mentioned:Ep6: 7 strategies to help you not cry on your wedding dayhttps://bit.ly/Ep6UnbridelyPodcast------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Are you the kind of person who feels the allure of crafty things?If you are picturing a relaxed cocktail wedding vibe, surrounded by your family, and would love to add more of a personal touch to your day with some DIY details, then you have to meet Tracy.Tracy and David, are a gorgeous recently married couple from Western Australia who planned a DIY, family-centric wedding after a whirlwind 12-year-long engagement. Tracy shares how she created her own centrepieces and hanging arrangements, how she kept the kids entertained, and even how she made her reception smell amazing.  So if you're thinking of rolling up your sleeves and creating a unique, personal wedding, Tracy and David's story is packed with inspiration, practical advice, highs and the lowest of lows - I'll put up the video evidence on the Unbridely Instagram account soon.I think more than anything, you'll learn how Tracy made the sometimes daunting prospect of DIY seem a whole lot more achievable and a whole lot less stressful with a few essential mindset shifts that you can do too.RESOURCES Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $6 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY6 (valid until the end of 2025)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Planning a wedding that truly reflects you both can feel overwhelming at times, right? With so many options, it's tough to know where to start, what works and what doesn't.But what I'd love to encourage you to do is to forget about fleeting “trends” – because I want to explore some ideas that are genuinely creating magical moments in 2025 weddings. And I'll also shed light on some outdated approaches that couples are happily leaving behind. And when I say wedding trends, I'm not here to dictate the hottest colours or push you towards budget-busting extravagances that don't resonate with you.Instead, I want to share the thoughtful choices couples are making in 2025 that genuinely enhance their wedding experience. And some of them might not be new, as such, but they are definitely gaining in popularity.Today, I'm diving into ideas that are working right now to maximise your precious time, create unforgettable moments, and minimise any post-wedding regret.From reimagining traditional timelines to incorporating technology that brings far-flung loved ones closer, we'll see how couples are creating little pockets inside their weddings that feel authentically 'them.'I'll also look at ways people are reducing stress, amping up their guests' experience, and refining the elements of their day (or days) by serving a purpose that means something to them.Resources Mentioned:NearlyWed.com: https://nearlywed.com/resources/25-fun-wedding-statistics-for-2025/Zola: https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/the-first-look-report-2025The Knot: https://www.theknotww.com/uncategorized/the-knot-worldwide-2025-wedding-trends-to-watch-report/EasyWeddings: https://www.easyweddings.com.au/pro-education/2025-industry-insights/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What's your relationship with your parents worth to you?  This episode was inspired by a real-future mother of the bride and Unbridely Podcast listener, who reached out to me about her own daughter's wedding.The Mum left me a voice message because she was wondering how to broach the topic of offering money to help pay for her daughter's wedding and how to make sure that it came across to the soon-to-be-weds as helpful, thoughtful, intentional and not controlling, or just throwing cash at them.She wants her contribution to be valued and meaningful to both her and her daughter.So today, I share a few insights on how I think it's best to work through this potential minefield of emotions, power, money and expectations.How do you accept help from your parents without feeling like you're losing control of your own wedding? How do you keep your relationship with them intact while still staying true to what you and your fiancé want?Your going to learn some real, practical strategies for setting boundaries, having those awkward conversations, and making sure your wedding stays YOUR wedding. Plus I want to share with you how my parents contributed to our wedding and how it made our wedding day and general relationship with them even stronger. RESOURCESSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Have you ever walked away after a conversation, or been driving home and thought:“oh man, I should've stood up for myself” or “I should have said what I really felt” or worse still you couldn't think of anything in the moment but you realise what you should've said afterwards.It's a scientific fact that once you get engaged (maybe 2nd only to when you get pregnant) you'll be on the receiving end of more uncomfortable dare I say STUPID questions than you've ever been asked in your entire life. And they can make you feel uncomfortable, they can be of a private nature, or quite simply no one's business.So today I'm here to help you decide the options available to you.From the high-road, classy replies that neutralise the conversation so you can change topics OR if you've got nothing to lose, the sassy, spicy, sarcastic retorts that, for sure, burn bridges, but also let people know that you're not playing.And at the end of the episode, I'll also be sharing some all-rounder replies that work for pretty much anything—responses that let you stay cool, calm, collected, and come out of it smelling like roses, no matter what's thrown your way.RESOURCES Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $6 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY6 (valid until the end of 2025)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What if I could guarantee that your wedding favours don't get left behind at the end of the night?In this episode, I'm joined by Charlotte from Charlotte Bedoes Illustrations, a live wedding illustrator who specialises in doing stunning watercolour portraits of your guests (and you) in front of you, on the day.In real time, she creates a wedding favour, an experience, and a keepsake all in one!You're going to learn:How Charlotte has brought this trending wedding service from TikTok and the U.S. to weddings in Adelaide and beyond.Her process of capturing each guest's style and personality in just minutes during cocktail hour, plusSome of the heartwarming reactions of wedding guests and couples when they see themselves in watercolour form.Charlotte also shares what's next and gives her tips on the qualities you need to look for in an illustrator and watercolour artist to make sure that they not only do the work but are also going to add to the atmosphere and vibe of your wedding day. RESOURCES Charlotte Beddoes Illustrations: https://charlottebeddoesart.com/Charlotte on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlottebeddoesillustration/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans. ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

When was the last time you forgot something? It might have been as recently as this morning when you left your travel mug of coffee on the kitchen bench or went to the shops without shopping bags. But when it comes to your wedding day… that's a once-in-a-lifetime event.And while you've likely put a lot of thought into the big picture—your venue, what you're wearing, and even your vows—you'd be surprised how easy it is to overlook some of the smaller, yet absolutely crucial details.It's almost inevitable that some things slip through the cracks—whether it's coordinating vendor schedules, packing essential items, or planning your post-wedding transport. Forgetting to arrange just one of these can impact not only your day but the experience your loved ones have as well.In this episode, I'll walk you through 10 of the most easily forgotten—yet incredibly important—details that can make all the difference. RESOURCESEp64 & 65 Pt 1 & 2: Most FAQ Will Make or Break Your Wedding Day Timeline With Luke John Photography: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/64-pt-1-6-most-faq-will-make-or-break-your-wedding/id1631943614?i=1000634673452Ep40: Wedding Vendor Meals Explained; How & When To Fuel Your Dream Team: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/40-wedding-vendor-meals-explained-how-when-to-fuel/id1631943614?i=1000614898554Ep38: Yes, You Need a Photo Captain (or 2) and This Is Why with Valentina Perez Studio: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/38-yes-you-need-a-photo-captain-or-2-and-this-is/id1631943614?i=1000613121405Ep110: Emergency Kit Must-Haves For Your Wedding Day: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/110-emergency-kit-must-haves-for-your-wedding-day/id1631943614?i=1000673033871Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Are you feeling the pressure to wow your wedding guests with a perfect first dance? What if I told you that stressing over the choreography, for 99.9% of people at least, is totally unnecessary?Today, I'm joined by Joel and Clara from JC Dance Co, Canada to ask them why they believe many couples approach their first dance all wrong — and how you can make yours a memory you'll actually LOVE instead of a performance you dread.In this episode, you'll learn the biggest misconceptions couples have about their first dance and how to reframe what that moment could be for you, your fiancé and your family and friends.Joel and Clara will explain why choreographed dance moves add unnecessary stress, and why focusing on feeling confident and connected is far more important than pulling off complicated steps and flashy moves.Plus, if you feel like you have ‘two left feet,' don't worry! They also share their strategies for those engaged couples who have little to no dance experience.And finally, we'll dive into their philosophy of teaching dance skills that last well beyond your wedding day — helping you create a foundation for a lifetime of dancing together.If you BOTH want to step onto your wedding dance floor feeling relaxed AND excited, this episode is a must-listen!Resources: Natural Dance MethodJC Dance Co on InstagramSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouplesAre you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories?If you're looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group!

How can you be sure you're planning a wedding that your family and friends will actually enjoy?In my job as a celebrant here in Australia this wedding season, I've been reminded of some of the basics of wedding planning and how, frequently, it doesn't matter how big or modest your budget is. These concepts are about making a welcoming and comfortable space for your guests so they want to stay, and in fact, when the lights come on after last drinks have been called:1)        There'll still be people there and2)        There'll be an audible groan that the celebrations have come to an end.Today I'm sharing the top 10 things that wedding guests secretly hate, but won't complain about (to you, at least). Resources: EP85: Is A Seating Chart Absolutely Necessary For Your Wedding? Ep34: How to Give an Amazing Wedding Speech (even if you're really nervous) with Authentically Funny SpeechesEp67: How To Write A Memorable And Gracious Wedding Speech For Your Own Wedding with Authentically Funny SpeechesAustralian National Support: https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/mental-health-crisis-support#:~:text=Lifeline%20%E2%80%94%20call%2013%2011%2014,or%20with%20thoughts%20of%20suicideCanada: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/mental-health-services/mental-health-get-help.htmlNew Zealand: https://1737.org.nz/United Kingdom: https://www.spuk.org.uk/national-suicide-prevention-helpline-uk/United States of America: https://988lifeline.org/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouplesAre you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories?If you're looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group!

If you had a dollar for every time your family or friends asked, 'What's the dress code?' or ‘Can I bring a +1' you'd have enough to pay for the open bar.But seriously, there's a way to cut the volume of those repeat questions pretty much in half.So before you hit the 'delete guest list' button, consider this: your wedding website is like your very own virtual assistant, and the FAQ page means that they're working for you 24/7.It's like the 'Frequently Asked Questions' section on your favourite online store, but instead of shipping rates, despatch times and returns info, it's ‘Yes, there's parking', ‘no, you can't bring your dog', and ‘yes, there'll be a gluten-free option for dessert' —saving you time, sanity, and about 67 text messages.And when you use your wedding website to anticipate your guest's concerns you also minimize the back-and-forth communication with them.It's also important to include clear and comprehensive FAQs to help you hold your boundaries and to communicate any changes and/or exceptions to the decisions that you've already made.I've pulled together a list of the most common and helpful 16 FAQs to get you started. RESOURCES Ep15: The 3 biggest wedding planning time sucks (and how to avoid them) with WedSitesBest Wedding Websites of 2024 and Why You Need One: https://unbridely.com/blog/best-wedding-websitesEP36: Why child-free weddings are so controversial + adults-only wedding wordingSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $5 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What would you do if you didn't receive your wedding photo gallery?As weeks turn to months after your wedding day and you still haven't gotten your wedding photos, it can start to feel like your memories are being held hostage. And that's when the panic can set in.Did your photographer lose your photos?Were their SD card/s damaged?Why are they still posting other couple's photos on socials?You can really start to spiral.I reached out to 10 of the Unbridely Suppliers pro wedding photographers to get their perspective on: how long is too long to wait for your wedding photo gallery, why delays sometimes happen and how to handle them, why communication is key, and how to avoid this situation happening to you from the very start.RESOURCESTim Day Photography: @timdayphotographyK Photography by Karina: @k_photography_by_karinaTime With Alex: @timewithalex.coWilson and Lewis Photography: @wilsonandlewisChasing Eve: @chasingeveOak Tree Studios: @oaktree.studiosRexvil Photography: @rexvil.photographyIn The Mood For Love: @inthemoodforlove.jazHouse of Love Adelaide: @houseoflove.adlLuke John Photography: @lukejohnphotographySend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Imagine this: You find, trust, book in and pay for a vendor for your wedding mainly because they've won every wedding award out there, only to find out later (when it's too late)… that they actually paid for those awards, or aren't as experienced or talented as you presumed, or, and this is surely worst, they can't even deliver what you actually need.Could this ever happen?So today, I'm going to teach you a little about some of the biggest wedding industry awards and their processes including WeddingWire, The Knot, Easy Weddings, Wedding Industry Awards and ABIA.You'll find out: their advantages and their shortcomings, plus how bias, undeclared interest, and pay-to-play tactics might affect how you feel about vendors who participate in these awards, andhow best to view wedding industry awards when you're researching and putting together a short-list of your vendor dream team to make sure that you're not left disappointed or taken advantage of.I'm hoping to give you a balanced and insightful look into the value for you and the general impact of wedding industry awards. Do they help engaged couples make informed decisions or do they just act as thinly veiled (pun intended) marketing smoke and mirrors to get your business?Spoiler alert: I think you're going to be surprised when I tell you the truth. Resources Mentioned:The Knot Best Of Weddings: https://vendorsupport.theknotpro.com/hc/en-us/articles/12234320206484-Best-of-Weddings-FAQsWedding Wire Couples Choice Awards: https://vendorsupport.weddingwire.com/hc/en-us/articles/12234377350036-Couples-Choice-Awards-FAQsEasyWedding 5 star awards: https://www.easyweddings.com.au/pro-education/australias-top-reviewed-wedding-suppliers-2024/Wedding Industry Awards: https://weddingindustryawards.au/how-it-works/ABIA awards: https://abia.com.au/abia-awards/how-it-worksSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Have you ever imagined ditching the rules and the guest list and simply escaping to a hidden gem to exchange your vows, just the two of you?Jenny Mac, founder of Eloping Is Fun, curates extraordinary once-in-a-lifetime adventures in New York City for couples from all over the world. But she's not interested in following tradition or making the experience like a mini wedding day, she challenges the norm and empowers people to have the best day of their lives. Jenny will teach you about: the cultural shift away from traditional weddings, the kind of freedom that eloping gives engaged couples, and the joy of creating memorable individual experiences (like an elopement in a vegan doughnut shop). Jenny also shares some of her favourite secret locations in New York City for couples to tie the knot and has some great ideas for how to make your day cool and super fun. Resources Mentioned:Eloping Is Fun: https://elopingisfun.comInstagram Eloping is Fun: https://www.instagram.com/elopingisfun/NYC Community Garden Weddings: https://elopingisfun.com/how-to-get-married-in-a-community-garden-in-nyc/The Artist Loft: https://elopingisfun.com/welcome-to-the-artist-loft/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What's sweeter than saying ‘I do'? Saying ‘we do'—to your new blended family! If you're scratching your head trying to figure out how to involve your kids or stepkids in your wedding ceremony while steering clear of the more cliché rituals, you're in for a treat.I've found 8 creative, symbolic, and yes, even delicious ways to celebrate your blood, or found, family in your special day.So if you're ready to find out how to make your wedding unforgettable by weaving some story and symbolism into your ceremony to make your family feel honoured and special, stick around.  Resources: Blended Family Unity Rituals For Your Wedding Ceremony (That Haven't Been Done to Death): https://unbridely.com/blog/family-unity-wedding-ceremonyWhat are Rock Cairns & Why You Shouldn't Build Them: https://bearfoottheory.com/what-are-rock-cairns/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouplesAre you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories?If you're looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group!

What do you think your wedding dress will be worth after your wedding day?You might be surprised to hear that you can be the life of the party, stains and all and still have a pristine wedding gown for the future.Whether it's a sentimental keepsake, a family heirloom in the making, or something you plan to sell or donate later on, the real value of your gown depends on how well you take care of it after the big day.Today I'm going to tackle the often-overlooked task of storing your wedding gown after your wedding.You can get 5% off your gown cleaning and preservation with MyDressBox.com.au by using the discount code UNBRIDELY at checkout.And stick around until the end of the episode, because I'll be sharing My Dress Box's essential dos and don'ts of wedding gown storage to help you avoid costly mistakes and keep your dress looking as gorgeous as it did on your wedding day.Resources: My Dress Box wedding dress cleaning and storage services: https://mydressbox.com.au/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by MyDressBox.com.auIf you want to clean and/or store your wedding dress after your wedding day to be handed down to your daughter, donated, kept as a keepsake, repurposed or re-sold My Dress Box's services in Australia and New Zealand offers professional, experienced and gentle cleaning and preservation services that you can trust. And Unbridely Podcast listeners can also take advantage of a 5% discount by using the discount code UNBRIDELY at checkout. 

Picture this. It's your wedding day, the moment you've been planning for months and maybe even years. The morning has gone smoothly, energy is high, and your guests would have just started to arrive at your venue about now.  But as you're getting into the car to go to your ceremony, a button falls off, your veil rips, maybe you start sweating like you've never sweated before, or your heel breaks. What do you do?  This is exactly why a Wedding Day Emergency Kit is your best friend and your safety net. It's the ultimate just-in-case toolkit, and trust me, it's not just for the bride.With a little prep in advance, you can sail through your big day like a pro and have immediate solutions at your fingertips, no matter what curveballs get thrown your way. Today I'm going to teach you all about why you need an emergency kit, when to put it together, and most importantly, what to put in it.RESOURCES Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $5 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

What's your idea of the perfect honeymoon? Is it at a beachside location or exploring somewhere exotic and remote? Are you on a premium river or canal cruise through Europe, or are you reclining in opulence at one of the most exclusive hotels in the world? And what if it only cost you a fraction of the price it should, or even better, nothing at all?Crazy right? Elliot from Hack My Honeymoon says, crazy wonderful. But with the emphasis on the wonderful part.Today Elliot is going to share with you:Some of the success stories from couples who have used his loyalty points coaching services (you won't believe the deals they got especially with first-class air travel – think lie-flat beds),What qualities couples need to have to be the best candidates to take maximum advantage of the experiences you can book via a sustainable loyalty and reward points accumulation strategy, the risks and potential downsides of loyalty and reward points hacking that you need to be aware ofPLUS IF the idea of points hacking to pay for your honeymoon is something that interests you, Elliot includes some crucial and important advice at the end of the episode to make sure that you get the very best deals possible and protect the value of the points you're accumulating as you go along, both now and in the future. RESOURCESHack My Honeymoon: https://www.hackmyhoneymoon.com/Hack My Honeymoon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ehrosenbergHack My Honeymoon TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ehrosenbergSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

This week marks an exciting personal milestone for me as an Australian marriage celebrant; conducting the ceremony to get my 1000th couple married. I'd love to share some profound insights about love, relationships, and marriage that I've gleaned along the way. And so I'll be unpacking some of my realisations, and discussing the complexities behind the public displays of love and commitment.Plus the 3 constants that seem to be evident in successful relationships. Thank you so so much for being a part of my journey. *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Are lab grown diamonds the future of engagement rings or are they just fakes?According to The Knot's 2023 Real Weddings Study who surveyed nearly 10,000 US couples, diamonds remain the most popular choice for engagement rings, garnering 85% of purchases.But with more couples becoming conscious of the ethics, politics and the market and environmental costs surrounding natural mined diamonds, lab-grown gems are making waves in the world of fine jewellery.Today, I'm chatting with Talitha Cummins from The Cut Jewellery, a specialist in lab-grown diamond engagement rings.And she's going to teach you how lab-grown diamonds compare to their mined counterparts in terms of appearance, cost, and sustainability, and the latest trends that Talitha's seeing with engaged couples. Resources Mentioned:The Knot 2023 Real Weddings Study: https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-data-insights/real-weddings-studyThe Cut Jewellery website: https://thecutjewellery.com.au/The Cut Jewellery Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecutjewellery/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Yesterday, I had the pleasure of attending The Manor Basket Range Open Day in the beautiful Adelaide Hills, and let me tell you, it was such an inspiring experience. Seeing so many engaged couples exploring, chatting with vendors, and just soaking in all the possibilities for their big day got me thinking: there are some very real, tangible benefits to attending these kinds of events that goes well beyond what you can get from online research alone. So, in today's episode, I'm diving into why it's absolutely worth your time and effort to head out to a wedding expo or a venue open day. I also took the opportunity to chat with some attendees and vendors at the event and you'll hear their thoughts and impressions in their own words. And then I'll share what I believe are the 5 reasons you want to make the time to attend a similar live wedding event where you're getting married.   Resources Mentioned:  The Manor Basket Range: https://themanorbr.com.au/ The Manor on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themanorbasketrange/   Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast   *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*  ------  This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery. Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.  -----  Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Do you remember being invited to a wedding as a kid? I absolutely do. There was a big focus on choosing the right clothes, ironing clothes, getting dressed without creasing the clothes and attempting to stay like that before we all left the house. I was told to mind my manners. And it was good etiquette to tell the bride that she looked beautiful. And after that? To be seen and not heard. Granted, it was a different time back then and there weren't the many different options that are now available to cater to and entertain the littlies. But I alsounderstand that there's a fine line between the intention of including kids in your wedding (you know, that it's a rite of passage, that it makes your wedding more family-orientated/friendly and something to be remembered forever) and the reality (I'm talking tantrums during the vows, muddy slacks and unauthorised premature access to the wedding cake, lolly display or dancefloor). And so today I've brought in the big guns - Tess from CalmPlay is a wedding nanny specialist, with a relationship-based approach. Tess is about to teach you: how to cater for different age groups when planning activities for kids at your wedding with some affordable yet effective examples,which safety and hazard-reduction measures you should be considering, how she handles screen time and device use, plushow she manages any meltdowns or tantrums.Resources Mentioned:CalmPlay website: https://www.calmplay.com.au/CalmPlay on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calmplay_/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video-sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the showFollow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

I'm celebrating some huge milestones this year. There's our 10 year wedding anniversary last week and my 50th birthday.My 1000th couple getting married will be in about 6 weeks time and today, when this episode is published marks my 16th anniversary as an authorised Commonwealth marriage celebrant.Today I'm sharing with you 16 of the most valuable lessons I've had to learn the hard way to help you plan and enjoy more of your wedding in just 30 minutes. Resources Mentioned:‘A Diamond is Forever' and Other Fairy Tales: The Relationship between Wedding Expenses and Marriage DurationSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Can you remember a time when you felt left out of a group? Maybe your friends got together and you weren't invited, but then you saw them post a photo on socials, or you weren't chosen for a sporting team or a project even though you know you would've been brilliant.It stung, didn't it?As simplistic as it is, inclusivity in weddings can be as easy as allowing everyone to feel seen, valued and welcome.I know you're kind, but also, you don't have a lot of spare time. You'd love to be an ally but also don't want to have to take a short course on it. Right?Today Ashlee is going to share: what the gendered language and terms are in weddings, why weddings need to evolve away from the default, andhow you can challenge norms to make your wedding more inclusive.RESOURCESAshlee Bunney on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleebunney_celebrantAshlee Bunney Celebrant website: https://www.ashleebunney.com.au/ Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $5 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Has someone said this to you yet?Our family doesn't have kid-free weddings,You have to invite all of your Aunties and Uncles, orIt's not a real wedding without a sit-down dinner, open bar, DJ etc.At the end of the day, as long as you and your fiancé are happy, what do the opinions of others matter anyway?I think it matters a lot. So if you're avoiding conflict or feel like you're being pulled in 3 different directions at once by everyone's expectations and opinions, or you're having trouble sleeping at night because your brain is in overdrive, this episode is for you. I'd like to share with you how I try to deal with conflict and have difficult conversations without completely severing ties with the people that I love.I hope this approach helps you with some of the dynamics of your family or friend groups and makes your wedding planning experience a little more smooth and a lot less stressful. Resources Mentioned:Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

This is Part 2 of multi-national award-winning hair and makeup artist Gaetana Marjas' interview about some of the hot topics that come up with wedding beauty both in the lead-up and on the day. If you missed Part 1, Gaetana taught you about: her recommended timing for skin care treatments leading up to your wedding, how to address your specific skin-type concerns, common mistakes that people make with their wedding makeup, andwhy, if it's possible, she recommends you do a makeup trial.  But of course, you can always go back at any time to episode 100 and catch up with her amazing masterclass. And in Part 2 today, Gaetana delves deeper into wedding trials and shares: how far in advance you should schedule your hair and makeup trial, what you should bring to your trial appointment,essential advice about how to make sure your wedding makeup lasts throughout the entire day and night, the use of dupe products, plusGaetana has prepared some FREE downloadable skin and hair prep guides just for you to make sure you look and feel your best not just on your wedding day, but in the leadup and afterwards. Resources Mentioned:Get your FREE skin and Hair prep guides from Gaetana Marjas Hair and Makeup Artistry: https://unbridely.myflodesk.com/skinhairprepRecommended setting sprays:L'Oreal Paris Infallible 3-Second Setting Mist.Charlotte Tilbury Airbrush Flawless Setting SprayKryloan Fixing SprayOne/Size On Til Dawn Setting SpraySend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Have you considered that anywhere up to 99% of your wedding photos will feature your gorgeous face?So while your venue choice is important and your outfit and flowers can add real impact, if your hair and makeup are important to you, it's time to make it a priority. Gaetana Marjas is an experienced, trusted and sought-after hair and makeup artist based in Adelaide South Australia and today she is delivering a must-listen wedding makeup masterclass just for you. In part 1 (part 2 will be released next week) you'll learn: her recommended timing for skin care treatments leading up to your wedding, how to address your specific skin-type concerns, common mistakes that people make with their wedding makeup, andwhy, if it's possible, she recommends you do a makeup trial.  It's also important for me to let you know that Gaetana's advice is subjective and relates to her ability to do her job to the best of her ability. So when she mentions lash extensions this week and dupe products next week, for example, it's her opinion and there is no hate on anyone who thinks or operates their business differently. Gaetana is not interested in creating clickbait controversy or ruffling anyone's feathers.  And from a safety perspective, here in Australia at least and if you reside somewhere else, please do your research, only medical doctors, dentists and nurses, with appropriate training/qualifications, are permitted to administer injectable treatments. So if you are considering undertaking injectable treatments Gaetana implores you to please seek qualified, professional and independent advice before you make your final decision. Resources: Gaetana Marjas Hair & Makeup Artistry: https://www.instagram.com/gaetanamarjas/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouplesAre you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories?If you're looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group!

There is, almost always, one partner who takes on the lion's share of the wedding planning, the one who loves coordinating and researching, and then there's the other partner who.. let's just say they aren't across what's going on. So today I'm talking to the totally willing and absolutely eager partner who perhaps is missing the organisation and planning gene and is more than happy to leave it to their fiancé.So if you're the 2nd human in this wedding, listen up & take notes if you need. Today I'm going to go through 5 ESSENTIAL wedding tips for YOU. They are going to get you some serious brownie points and help to make your relationship, your wedding and marriage so much more smooth and satisfying for the BOTH of you.Or if you're the 1st human and you need your fiancé to read the room, get a clue, and help you out, feel free to send your other half the link to this episode.RESOURCESSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

Are you quirky, funny, adventurous, nervous about public speaking, cheeky or shy?Because, just like when you're hungry, you might be craving a multi-course feast, a toasted sandwich or just a cookie, your wedding vows can be as elaborate or straightforward, as romantic and soppy or practical, as you like as long as they suit your taste.So while many engaged couples are concerned with writing the perfect blend of hilarious, tear-jerking and meaningful vows, the smart ones, who are aware of their options, are tailoring the type or kind vows, as in the format of them, to their unique personalities.And while you might be across what personalised wedding vows are, they are NOT your only option.In this episode you'll learn about:what personalised vows, ninja vows and whisper vows are,with some examples of each, plusthe 3 questions to ask yourself to work out which type of wedding vow is perfect for you and your fiancé.RESOURCESHow To Write Vows That Don't Suck ebook by UnbridelyEP3: Tim & Simon - How to adapt hetero wedding traditions as a same-sex couple Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $5 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

If I have to read or hear about yet another entitled bride bitching and moaning about how her bridesmaids don't like the style of dress she's chosen for them, or the colour, how much skin it shows, or they haven't ordered them when she told them to, I'm going to scream. While I'll always be an advocate for you to have whatever the hell you want for your wedding and I would never say that all tradition should be scrapped for all time, in this day and age, is the angst worth it?Today I'm going to teach you about where the tradition of bridesmaids all wearing the same dress comes from and why. And then I'll share my 7 compelling reasons why you might want to stop expecting bridesmaids to wear the same dress or outfit.Resources Mentioned:Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Want to feel empowered, sexy, and celebrate your upcoming wedding in style?One of the most personal, unexpected, intimate, exciting and never to be repeated gifts you can possibly give your future husband, wife, spouse or partner in marriage (and YOU) is a boudoir photography session. Boudoir photography has shifted and evolved a lot in the last few years and Marie from You. by Lifesketch is going to teach you how you don't need a model-like body to do a boudoir photo session.In this episode Marie also shares:how she helps her clients get over their fear and awkwardness, alternatives to wearing lingerie,why she won't Photoshop boudoir session photos, PLUSwhat the deal is with sharing your boudoir photos online. Resources Mentioned:You. by Lifesketch on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/youbylifesketch/https://youboudoir.squarespace.com/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Never Miss Moments Unbridely's recommended wedding guest photo and video sharing tool. With your unique QR code, your family and friends can quickly, easily and securely share their snaps with you in your personalised online gallery.Visit nevermissmoments.com/unbridely to receive your 10% discount off their galleries.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

If you're feeling drained, like no matter how much sleep you get, you're still exhausted. Like the excitement from your engagement seems to have disappeared, leaving you feeling disillusioned or just wanting for it all to be over.Maybe you're noticing more tension in your relationships. Little wedding issues are turning into big arguments with your fiancé.If any of this sounds familiar, you might be dealing with wedding planning burnout.The first thing you need to know is that you're not alone, and the second thing is, I'm here to help you!In this episode, I'm going to teach you: why burnout happens and how to spot it early on, some strategies and practical tips to help you regain control of the planning process again, plus if all else fails, 1 last, albeit extreme, option that you could take.  Resources: 1800 RESPECT: https://www.1800respect.org.au/White Ribbon Australia: https://whiteribbon.org.au/helplines/Relationships Australia: https://www.relationships.org.au/(USA) National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/(UK) Domestic Abuse Support: https://www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help#get-help-and-support(Canda) Family Violence Support: https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/cj-jp/fv-vf/help-aide.html(NZ) Domestic and Family Violence Support: https://www.govt.nz/browse/law-crime-and-justice/abuse-harassment-domestic-violence/domestic-and-family-violence/ Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouplesAre you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories?If you're looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group!

What are your wedding memories worth to you?One of the most frequently asked questions that I hear is, how can I easily and securely collect and save the photos that my guests take in the leadup and on my wedding day?Some people use Facebook groups, but then others won't go near Facebook, others will use Dropbox, but then realise too late that they've run out of storage. And please rest assured that hashtags are dead as well.So when I heard that serial overachiever, Travis Cornish, had solved this predicament for you, I knew I had to get him to explain it to you himself.In this episode, Travis will teach you:The simplest way to get your wedding guests to share their photos and videos with you, plus how to get as many of your guests to participate and be motivated to actually DO IT (because, just in case you didn't know, getting wedding guests to share photos and videos in the past, has been like pulling teeth). RESOURCESNever Miss Moments https://www.nevermissmoments.com/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

There are 3 big roles in your wedding which, should you have some strength or previous experience, you may choose to do all by yourself. And they are wedding planner, wedding stylist and wedding coordinator. But for those without the personality type, skills, connections, time and energy, taking on these responsibilities can seriously affect how you enjoy the lead-up to your wedding, your stress levels, whether or not you can stick to your budget, and also more crucially, how you experience the day itself.In this episode, you will learn:1)        the responsibilities and roles that a wedding planner, wedding stylist and wedding coordinator fulfil in your wedding, and then2)        the personal skills and strengths, experience and talent you need to have to ensure you've got their role covered if you choose not to hire a pro for your wedding. RESOURCESSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $5 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

While in the past, a woman changing her last name to adopt her husband's surname after getting married was expected in many countries and cultures, it's not the case any more. Many of the couples I marry want to know how to make a decision on whether or not to change their last name or names and what it means for their career, family life, their parents and their identity. In this episode, you'll learn: a brief history about the custom of changing last names after marriage, what the expectations are around the world,the pros of changing your last name, what the options are in a mixed orientation marriage, the potential downsides of changing your birth last name, plusa few handy questions to think about before you make your final decision. Resources Mentioned:Easy Name ChangeTo get $5 off your name change pack use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024) Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Have you ever wondered what other newlyweds are doing about the bouquet and garter toss these days? Wedding DJ, JD Silverthorne simply says NO. In fact, backed by the overwhelming majority of requests from his couples post-COVID, JD also has some pretty strong opinions about country music, line dances and cake cutting too.He shares his 12 years of DJ experience, stories and expertise in a brilliant interview and will teach you: How Taylor Swift is this generation's Bob DylanWhy Spotify will never replace an experienced DJWhat to look for in a great wedding DJ, plusHow to know when to give a wedding DJ who's just starting a chance. Resources: Ep45: Why This Pro Wedding Makeup Artist Hates Before And After Photos with Wedded KissJD Silverthorne: https://www.jdsilverthorne.com/JD Silverthorne Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/misterbsideSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast *The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by the Unbridely Couples private Facebook group: https://facebook.com/groups/unbridelycouplesAre you engaged to be married and need planning advice, want to talk something out or share your wedding stories?If you're looking for a like-minded community of modern engaged couples join us in the Unbridely Couples Facebook group!

Whether you envision a cocktail lounge area, a champagne tower, or beautiful linens for your wedding, you can hire or rent the look and feel of your dreams.But as easy as it sounds, it's quite a specific process which can sometimes be hard to understand as a customer; the engaged couple hiring these items.Why do they have certain time windows where you can pick up your items? Why don't some places deliver?   Why does it cost more to transport certain types of items?Today I'm sharing 6 key wedding hire tips from the team at Honoured Hire, about how to get the best out of your hire and rental items, how to make sure that what you've booked and paid for rocks up, how to return your items properly and not lose your security deposit along the way. RESOURCESHonoured Hire: https://honoured.com.au/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Unbridely's ebook How To Write Wedding Vows That Don't Suck https://unbridely.com/shop/htwwvtdsThis is for YOU if you want to write the unique and heartfelt wedding vows your fiancé deserves, but don't know where to start.

While social media and your Pinterest board are chock full of sunny Summer day wedding photos, what a lot of people are missing are the massive, HUGE advantages of being a little flexible with the time of year you have your wedding.If you have the option, if you're still tossing up which end of the year to have your wedding, then I'd love you to listen to these 7 reasons why winter weddings are better. “Better than what?”, I hear you ask. Better than pretty much any other time in so many different aspects.RESOURCESSend Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------ This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by Easy Name Change.You simply choose which companies you need to notify, and they send you detailed process instructions for each of your companies, plus ready to send forms, letters, and emails, so you just attach your marriage certificate to them and you're done!More info on how to change your name after you get married: https://unbridely.com/blog/name-change-after-marriageTo get $5 off your name change use the promo code UNBRIDELY5 (valid until end of 2024)  ----- Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com

Jamila Musayeva is a certified etiquette teacher, a 3x author on etiquette, and a YouTube creator with nearly 1 Million subscribers, whose main focus is modern international etiquette.Jamila's approach intertwines personal development, female empowerment, and cultural appreciation, and strikes a delicate balance between progressive living and preserving traditions.In part 2 of Camille's interview with her, Jamila will teach you: how to ask for cash instead of wedding registry gifts, andwhat to do if you've invited someone to your engagement party and then don't want to invite them to your wedding.Resources Mentioned:Ep22: These 3 Important First Steps In Your Wedding Planning Change EverythingJamila Musayeva YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JamilaMusayevaJamila Musayeva Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jamila_musayeva/Send Unbridely a 90-second audio message on Speakpipe: https://www.speakpipe.com/unbridelypodcast*The Unbridely Podcast is sponsored by its listeners. When you purchase products or services through links on our website or via the podcast, we may earn an affiliate commission.*------This episode of the Unbridely Modern Wedding Planning Podcast is brought to you by WedSites.com, Unbridely's recommended wedding website builder, guest management platform & wedding planning tool all in one.Visit WedSites.com to get started on your FREE wedding website and use code UNBRIDELYPOD to get 10% off any of their paid plans.-----Unbridely acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we record this podcast on, the Kaurna People. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Support the Show.Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unbridely/or TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unbridelyEmail the Unbridely Podcast:hello@unbridely.com