Podcast appearances and mentions of jillian benfield

What if the dreaded, unexpected thing in your life is actually the beginning of becoming your truest, most flourishing self? This is Jillian's story. This is my story. This is all of our stories at some point in life if we learn to yield to the God who redeems EVERYTHING. After receiving a life-altering diagnosis for her unborn son, Jillian Benfield faced not just unmatched grief as a young mother, but also a dismantling and rebuilding of all she believed, in her faith and in her overall worldview of personal value and worthiness. Overcoming her unexpected circumstance wasn't an option. She would have to undergo it instead. She would learn to find God's goodness in a situation that she couldn't qualify as good. She would discover who she truly was and who God was leading her to become. In her own transforming journey through the challenges of the unexpected, Jillian proves how many good gifts seasons of grief can offer. In her book, The Gift of the Unexpected, she helps you break down the false constructs you've built around God and your identity. You won't avoid your pain, but you'll learn to feel it, in a healing way. And you'll discover how your internal transformation leads to external purpose.

In today's episode, author Jillian Benfield, mother, and disability advocate, discusses her book The Gift of the Unexpected with host Heather. Jillian speaks about her son's Down Syndrome diagnosis and how it shifted her life and allowed her to remove the masks she was wearing. She talks about how the unexpected made her a better, more open-minded person. Find Heather and Jake's Help from Heaven: ❤️ Heather's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heathersstraughter/ ❤️ Jake's Help from Heaven: http://jakeshelpfromheaven.org/ ❤️ Jake's Help from Heaven IG: https://www.instagram.com/jakeshelp/ ❤️ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jakeshelpfromheaven ❤️ Our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@APlaceofYesPodcast Find Jillian Benfield:

Episode Summary: Life doesn't always go as planned, but that doesn't mean we can't navigate the twists and turns. Join me with Jillian Benfield for a guide to coping with unforeseen events—gaining insights into the beauty of vulnerability, the healing process, and finding strength in unexpected places. Learn how to turn unforeseen events into stepping stones for personal growth. Quotables from the episode: When unexpected events hit our lives, we realize just how fragile we really are. Unforeseen events are the gateway to living more vulnerable. For me, grief looks like good pastoral counsel, reading, digging into my faith, and figuring out what I really believed. Asking “why” lets us wrestle with God which is an intimate process that helps us to figure out what we really believe. Overcoming is a stance that means to suppress and “get over it” whereas undergoing means we admit we need help, seek help, confront the pain, and work through the healing process. We need to come to the truthful realization that success and worth are not attached. Unforeseen events provide the opportunity to become more connected to Jesus who suffered for us and with us. There are two primary paths to transformation: great love or great suffering.   Scripture References: Psalm 13:1-6 NIV “How long, O LORD?  Will You forget me forever?  How long will You hide Your face from me? How long must I wrestle in my soul, with sorrow in my heart each day? How long will my enemy dominate me? Consider me and respond, O LORD my God. Give light to my eyes, lest I sleep in death, lest my enemy say, “I have overcome him,” and my foes rejoice when I fall. But I have trusted in Your loving devotion; my heart will rejoice in Your salvation. I will sing to the LORD, for He has been good to me. John 16:33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”   Recommended Resources:  The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to be When Life Goes Off Plan by Jillian Benfield The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms by Dr. Michelle Bengtson YouVersion 5-Day Devotional Reaching Out To God When Pain Overwhelms   Today is Going to be a Good Day: 90 Promises to Start Your Day Off Right by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the AWSA 2023 Inspirational Gift Book of the Year Award, the Christian Literary Awards Reader's Choice Award in four categories, and the Christian Literary Awards Henri Award for Devotionals YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be a Good Day YouVersion 7-Day Devotional, Today is Going to be Another Good Day Breaking Anxiety's Grip: How to Reclaim the Peace God Promises by Dr. Michelle Bengtson Breaking Anxiety's Grip Free Study Guide Free 7-Day YouVersion Bible Reading Plan for Breaking Anxiety's Grip Hope Prevails: Insights from a Doctor's Personal Journey Through Depression by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Hope Prevails Bible Study by Dr. Michelle Bengtson, winner of the Christian Literary Award Reader's Choice Award Trusting God Through Cancer 1 Trusting God Through Cancer 2 Revive & Thrive Women's Conference Subdue Stress and Anxiety: Fifteen Experts Offer Comprehensive Tools in Ten Minutes a Day. Use my link plus discount code BENG99 to save $90 on course (course will be $99.) Free Download: How To Fight Fearful/Anxious Thoughts and Win   Social Media Links for Guest and Host: Connect with Jillian Benfield: Website / Instagram / Facebook For more hope, stay connected with Dr. Bengtson at: Order Book Breaking Anxiety's Grip / Order Book Hope Prevails  /  Website  /  Blog  /  Facebook / Twitter (@DrMBengtson)  /  LinkedIn  /  Instagram / Pinterest / YouTube Guest: Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast.   Hosted By: Dr. Michelle Bengtson Audio Technical Support: Bryce Bengtson  

On today's episode, Jillian Benfield talks about her life and the unexpected twists and turns it has taken. She talks about her childhood experiences with church and how there was a lot of "rule following" and not as much grace. She said she became agnostic for about 12 years until she began dating her husband. That is when she began to ask the difficult questions and met the real Jesus of the Bible, not the shiny Jesus. Then we get into the story of her son, Anderson, which is discussed in her book, The Gift of the Unexpected. His diagnosis of Down's Syndrome changed the trajectory of her life. She said that "Jesus's life became more real to me when a child with a disability entered my home." I loved this conversation with her and I pray it encourages you to look at events or things that have happened in your life in a brand new light, maybe for the first time. Bio: Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast. Anchor Verse: Psalm 13 Connect with Jillian: Website: http://jillianbenfield.com  IG: https://instagram.com/jillianbenfieldblog FB: https://www.facebook.com/jillianbenfield ***This podcast is a proud member of the Spark Network! It is a network of Christian podcasts that cover so many different topics!  Head over to: https://www.sparkmedia.ventures/spark-network#/ to find more amazing podcasts!!***

Jillian Benfield (www.jillianbenfield.com) is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast.

On this week's episode I had a great conversation with Jillian Benfield. Jillian is the author of The Gift of The Unexpected. Her son Anderson was born with Down Syndrome and she's here to talk about her journey. While our paths may be different, there is so much we can learn from each other. Jillian shares her inspiring story of love and hope.About Jillian Benfield:Jillian Benfield recently settled on Florida's Space Coast after her husband, Andy, served 8 years in the military. They lived in 5 different states due to his specialty training. The family faced numerous challenges, including their second child's NICU stay, open heart surgery, a miscarriage, and a rare diagnosis for their third child. The most significant moment came when they learned their second child, Anderson, would have Down syndrome. Their initial heartbreak transformed into understanding as they confronted their ignorance and ableism. Navigating the world with a disabled child has been both challenging and beautiful for them. They wouldn't change their journey; the unexpected shaped their lives.About Rob Gorski and The Autism Dad podcast:Rob Gorski is a single Dad to three amazing autistic boys and Found and CEO of The Autism Dad, LLC. Multiple award-winning blogger, podcaster, content creator, social media influencer, and respected public figure for well over a decade.Connect with Rob Gorski: https://theautismdad.comMentioned in this episode:Mentioned in this episode:Learn More: GoallyThe Goally tablet is focused on fostering independence in kids without the distractions of ads, social media, or potentially harmful content. Unlike Kindle and iPad tablets, Goally's Tablet exclusively features educational apps like Khan Academy, Duolingo ABC, and Starfall, and is entirely controlled by parents. Goally's Kids Calendar helps kids with things like task management. Kids also learn life skills through video classes and pre-made routines, enhancing their independence. For more information, you can visit getgoally.com and use the code “theautismdad” to save 10% off your order.Visit GoallyLearn More: MightierMightier is a biofeedback-based video game platform that teaches kids to self-regulate emotionally. This leads to a significant reduction in meltdowns and parental stress. It's backed by science and has helped over 100,000 kids learn to regulate their emotions. For more information, the latest reviews/updates as well as current discount codes, visit theautismdad.com/mightier. Read My Mightier Review and the code “theautismdad22” to save 10% off your order.Visit Mightier

On this week's episode I had a great conversation with Jillian Benfield. Jillian is the author of The Gift of The Unexpected. Her son Anderson was born with Down Syndrome and she's here to talk about her journey. While our paths may be different, there is so much we can learn from each other. Jillian shares her inspiring story of love and hope. About Jillian Benfield: Jillian Benfield recently settled on Florida's Space Coast after her husband, Andy, served 8 years in the military. They lived in 5 different states due to his specialty training. The family faced numerous challenges, including their second child's NICU stay, open heart surgery, a miscarriage, and a rare diagnosis for their third child. The most significant moment came when they learned their second child, Anderson, would have Down syndrome. Their initial heartbreak transformed into understanding as they confronted their ignorance and ableism. Navigating the world with a disabled child has been both challenging and beautiful for them. They wouldn't change their journey; the unexpected shaped their lives. About Rob Gorski and The Autism Dad podcast: Rob Gorski is a single Dad to three amazing autistic boys and Found and CEO of The Autism Dad, LLC. Multiple award-winning blogger, podcaster, content creator, social media influencer, and respected public figure for well over a decade. Connect with Rob Gorski: https://theautismdad.com Mentioned in this episode: Goally: Goally is a comprehensive app, serving as a digital scheduler, AAC speaker, and token board system. Designed for unique thinkers like autistic and ADHD kids, it helps them master daily routines and therapy without parental reminders, reducing nagging and promoting self-management. Goally can be used on your child's device or an affordable, dedicated device, which we've found more effective in our home. For more information, you can visit getgoally.com and use the code “theautismdad” to save 10% off your order. Learn More About Mightier: Mightier is a biofeedback-based video game platform that teaches kids to self-regulate emotionally. This leads to a significant reduction in meltdowns and parental stress. It's backed by science and has helped over 100,000 kids learn to regulate their emotions. For more information, the latest reviews/updates as well as current discount codes, visit theautismdad.com/mightier. Read My Mightier Review and the code “theautismdad22” to save 10% off your order.

We live in a world where we are faced with profound suffering on the news all day long and we see too much suffering of the world. But how do we take the unexpected things that happen to us and somehow breathe new life into them? Author of The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan, Jillian Benfield believes, “No matter what your unexpected circumstance is–you don't have to classify it as good–but I do think that good can come out of it and that [good] is that we can change through our unexpected circumstances if we're willing to go all the way through it.”  Listen as Jillian shares the unexpected gift that helped shift her perspective and find true self-worth.  -----------------  Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, community, and as part of the National Down Syndrom Congress's National Down Syndrom Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast.   

Happy Wednesday, friends! We hope you are having a wonderful Summer! Today on the podcast, Dagmar joins Janell as we welcome Jillian Benfield. Jillian shares her faith journey and about how the events of her life encouraged her to write a book about embracing the unexpected. She shares about the grief and emotions she experienced when she found out that she was expecting a son with disabilities and how she experienced peace and God's presence at the time of his birth. The group also talks about how the Psalms relate to our relationship with God, how God brings life in our circumstances, and why resurrection is a theme of this life, not just the life to come. We hope you enjoy! About JillianJillian is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such asTODAY,Good Morning America,Yahoo! News, andABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's NationalDown Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast.___________________We would love to thank our Patrons for all their amazing support! To learn more about supporting Finding Something REAL via Patreon, click here!To learn more about Faithful Counseling and if it is a good fit for you, you can click here!Dagmar's previous FSR episodesJillian's websiteThe Gift of the Unexpected - Jillian BenfieldMere Christianity - C. S. LewisTim Keller Romans 8:28 (NIV)And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.

When unexpected events change the trajectory of our lives, we have a choice to make:Do we overcome the unexpected, as the world recommends, or undergo it?In this episode, Jillian Benfield talks about her experience finding out she was going to have a child with disabilities and her new book -  The Gift of the Unexpected - Discovering Who We Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan.She will help us break down the following:False beliefs we've built around God and our identity. How we cannot avoid our pain, but how we can learn to feel it in a way that is healing. Discover how our internal transformation leads to external purpose when we undergo the unexpected.God uses the unexpected to disorient us from a culture that values the prosperity gospel (control) and the American dream (achievement).Through His surprising gifts, believers learn how to relate to others' pain and realize how valuable and significant they are.Jillian wants you to know that -  “No matter what you're going through, you're invited to open this gift: The Gift of the Unexpected!” 

Do these words haunt you: "Mom, Dad, I don't want your rules and morals. I don't want to act like a Christian anymore! And I'm not going to," Barbara Juliani (then Barbara Miller) made this declaration at the age 18. As her father desperately attempted to reason with her, Barbara grew more resentful, choosing a path of immorality that only deepened her parents' pain. Such a declaration from a child, no matter their age, creates havoc and soul-searching in the hearts of their parents, who often ask, “What did I do wrong?” In this conversation with Sharon Betters and Jane Anne Wilson, Barbara Juliani shares her story and addresses some of the ways parents take on the guilt of their children and responsibility for their decisions. You might be surprised by some of her conclusions. Her dad, Jack Miller wrote: "I am not ignorant of human depravity," writes C. John Miller, "but I had long denied that it could exist in our family." That reality, however, forced him to confront his own sin, seek forgiveness, admit his inability to change his wayward daughter, and begin loving Barbara on God's terms. In their book, Come Back, Barbara, "Jack" Miller and Barbara Miller Juliani chronicle their journey from grief and conflict to joyful reconciliation. Come Back, Barbara is thus an irresistible portrayal of God's grace to the Millers and us all. Our conversation with Barbara reminds broken-hearted parents about the freedom of experiencing such grace in the midst of their child's rebellion. Help & Hope Story: Motherhood, Shame & Guilt with Barbara Juliani and Jane Anne Wilson For more about Barbara's journey as a prodigal child, check out Come Back, Barbara. Come Back, Barbara

When unexpected moments change life's trajectory, we're left with a choice: Do we overcome the unexpected, as the world recommends, or undergo it? In this conversation with Sharon Betters and Chuck L. Betters, Author Jillian Benfield says experiencing an unexpected season begins a transformation that deconstructs our old self and reconstructs us into who God intends us to become. Jillian shares the story of how her son Anderson's Down Syndrome and congenital heart defect diagnoses faced her with hard questions about her definition of success, her value, her son's value, and her view of God. She encourages listeners not to gloss over the hard parts of the human condition. Instead, she says, undergoing the unexpected gives us the opportunity to let go of our old selves, tearing down false beliefs about our identities, humanity, and God. In a culture where the prosperity gospel (control) and the American dream (achievement) are glorified, Jillian says God uses the unexpected to disorient us from the ideals of Western society. His surprising gift equips believers to relate to the world's pain and recognize how our worth and purpose rest in Him. We need this message! Listen and Share! Jillianbenefield.com

What if the unexpected is a pathway to becoming who you were always meant to be? Your unexpected circumstances may not "be" good, my friend. But God can make good come from them. In today's episode, Jillian Benfield shares from her book The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan. A former TV journalist, Jillian learned the gifts found in having her plans derailed and her agenda dismantled when she found out she was pregnant with a son who had Downs Syndrome. This book - and conversation! - is for anyone whose life has taken a wide left turn and is looking to find meaning through it. Need a Deeper Trust in God? You could be five days away from a closer, deeper trust in God than ever before. The email challenge and companion videos can be done anytime and anywhere. GET THE CHALLENGE! Whether you do it in five days or over five weeks, as you take time to live in the truths of Proverbs 3:5-6, I believe they will transform your life! Links from Show Jillian's New Book: The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan Joanna's New Book: Embracing Trust: The Art of Letting Go and Holding On to a Forever-Faithful God [Disclosure: I make a small commission from affiliate links used in this post.] Connect with Jillian Benfield Website | Instagram | Facebook

Jillian Benfield got the news that her second child, Anderson, was Down Syndrome. This news was not her life-plan. Then just four months after his birth, he underwent open-heart surgery. Then their third child, Preston suffered medical procedures for the first two years of his life. Jillian wrote her book, The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan, not as a how-to book on how to get through life's difficulties; rather she wrote her own story--the good, bad and the ugly--to offer hope. Wise beyond her years, Jillian's story has much to teach us about theology, Western thought, ableism and how if we are willing to put in the work, that God will transform us from the inside out, for our good and for His glory.  Get this book, for yourself and for a friend. She's giving one away this week. Leave on comment on blog or on social media or email me at sue@welcomeheart.com.  In her own words: My life fell apart with a 20-second phone call. We call these moments in life, before-and-after moments. Mine came when I was 27 years old and pregnant with my second child. My life would never be the same, I would never be the same. If you would have told me years ago that my before-and-after moment would end up being one of the greatest gifts of my life, I wouldn't have believed you. But it was. It is. The unexpected gave me my son. The unexpected ended up giving me, me. That's what my book, The Gift of the Unexpected, and this space are about. Our unexpected moments, our unexpected lives, can end up helping us live into our God-dreamed entireties. Some gems from Jillian: God doesn't need pretend versions of ourselves, but all of who we are. I want my legacy to be one of openness: open to being wrong, to being willing to evolve, to never close off my circle of friends. A different kind of life is not a less-than life. Western culture wants us "rushing through our pain" rather than learning from it. What I've learned is that God continuously provides resurrection for us now, not only at the end of our lives. God takes dead things and makes them new when we look to Him, lean on Him and take the next step.  To undergo a trial vs overcome a trial takes time, counsel, reflection on who we are at our core and an understanding of what may need some transformation. Follow Jillian here: Website: https://jillianbenfield.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jillianbenfield/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/JillianBenfieldBlog/     _____ When asked, “What's the greatest commandment?” Jesus replied simply: “Love God, love your neighbor.” I imagine He was thinking, “It's not rocket science” or “What's not to like?” or “It's not complicated.” He was right, it's not complicated. But people are people and we make it complicated. I need to pray daily to uncomplicate what He says is best for me and best for others. So I wrote “31 Days of Uncomplicated Prayers,” and once I pray them through, I start over again. You can too. One short, simple prayer to help uncomplicate love sent to your inbox for 31 days. Don't worry. They are short. God doesn't mind short prayers. Sign up HERE   

Jillian Benfield is our guest, sharing about how you can see the Unexpected as a gift, not a burden in Episode #138, What Could Happen If You Didn't Give Up? on the Soul H2O Radio & Podcast Show.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jillian Benfield, author, mom of three, former TV news anchor, and fierce advocate for access and inclusion of all types, is our guest this week. When she and her husband Andy were just 27 years old, they unexpectedly found out their son would be born with Down syndrome. Originally, devastated, they later, through months and years of learning and unlearning, realized their grief was largely tied to their ignorance and unknowing ableism.It is not easy raising a child with a disability in an inaccessible world. It has been the most difficult and also the most beautiful experience of Jillian's life. It's a life she wouldn't trade. The unexpected gave her, heartache, yes. The unexpected also gave her a son. The unexpected gave her back to herself. This, and more, are what we unpack in this week's episode with Jillian. We don't tie things up with a tidy bow. We lean into the real life struggle of what happens to our faith when our formulas fall apart, when we are on our knees on the bathroom floor confused and angry and grieving. When the unexpected comes into our lives and we are left wondering how we are going to make it through.Give the episode a listen. We won't guarantee you any answers, but our conversation will offer you so much hope for your own unexpected gifts.You can find Jillian at the following:Instagram:  @jillianbenfieldblogFacebook:  Jillian Benfield Website:  jillianbenfield.comBook:  The Gift of the Unexpected 

Sara interviews author and former journalist/news anchor, Jillian Benfield as she shares her unexpected journey of having a child with Down Syndrome and the societal pressure to "overcome" grief quickly. Jillian emphasizes the importance of allowing yourself to fully grieve and unlearn negative beliefs about worth and disability. She also discusses her book, "The Gift of the Unexpected," which talks about laying down her thoughts and leaning into what God was showing her.  Ep. 123; April 11, 2023Key Moments:[3:39] Jillian's diagnosis story[10:25] Undergoing grief, not overcoming it[13:17] Life after diagnosis is transformative[15:27] Worth attached to my resume[22:12] How to handle the seasons when there is no bright side[26:22] Asking ‘why' is a worthwhile questionResources:Jillian Benfield's WebsiteThe Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off PlanWorking Through Weariness: 6 Tools to Reclaim Goodness 5 Spiritual Comforts for Parents of Kids with DisabilitiesGoodreads GiveawayJoin our Book Launch TeamIf you enjoyed the show:Join our Book Launch Team HerePreorder The Other Side of SpecialSubscribe to our newsletter on the Take Heart WebsiteReview and like us on Apple Podcasts Follow us on Instagram @takeheartspecialmomsFind Amy at www.amyjbrown.com/  or on Instagram @amyjbrown_writerFind Carrie at www.carriemholt.com or on Instagram @carriemholtFind Sara at www.saraclime.com or on Instagram @saraclimeTake Heart is supported by our listeners. When you buy through links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission.Support the show

When unexpected moments change life's trajectory, we're left with a choice: Do we overcome the unexpected, as the world recommends, or undergo it? Jillian Benfield says undergoing an unexpected season begins a transformation that deconstructs our old self and reconstructs us into who God intends us to become. Today on Connections, Jillian shares the inspiration behind her book and how she was able to undergo rather than overcome the unexpected.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jillian Benfield, author of The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant To Be When Life Goes Off Plan is our guest today. We talk about letting go of certainty when slowing down is chosen for you, our ideas of worth and success, and the gift of community. Jillian is a former journalist and news anchor who regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, community, and Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian lives with her husband and three children on Florida's Space Coast.  Find Jillian here and order her book on Amazon here.        

On World Down Syndrome Day, Jillian Benfield, author of The Gift of the Unexpected, talks with me about whether it is hard to be the parent of a child with a disability, how our perspective on ourselves, faith, and the world has changed through our experiences as parents, and about the gift of the unexpected.__Guest Bio:“Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. Her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast.”__Connect Online:Website: jillianbenfield.comInstagram: @JillianBenfieldBlogFacebook: @jillianbenfieldTwitter: @JillianBenfield____On the Podcast:Book: The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off PlanThe Journey by Adam HamiltonDown Syndrome Diagnosis NetworkTranscript* and more are available at: https://amyjuliabecker.com/jillian-benfield/__Season 6 of the Love Is Stronger Than Fear podcast connects to themes in my latest book, To Be Made Well, which you can order here! Learn more about my writing and speaking at amyjuliabecker.com.*A transcript of this episode will be available within one business day on my website, and a video with closed captions will be available on my YouTube Channel.Connect with me: Instagram Facebook Twitter Website Thanks for listening!

With a career in television and a growing family, Jillian Benfield's goals were on track. But when the unexpected happened, it was more than just her circumstances that changed. Jillian joins The AllMomDoes Podcast Julie Lyles Carr for this insightful conversation about what it means to take on the unexpected as a beautiful gift.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/3mWzhbC

Chances are you've experienced the Unexpected, and if you've stuck around here in the make-lemonade place that I've created, you have probably embraced the Unexpected as a Gift. Today I welcome author, blogger, and speaker Jillian Benfield, whose relatable book, “The Gift of the Unexpected,” explores how she unpacked her son's Down syndrome diagnosis during a time of transition in her life. My favorite part is when Jillian and I discuss her explanation of how we undergo hardship rather than overcoming it. I'm telling you – it's deep, and it's beautiful! Have a listen today! Transcript: https://share.descript.com/view/8sxy0FeREto Meet my guest:Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast. Learn more at jillianbenfield.com.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillianbenfieldblogFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jillianbenfield/

About Jillian Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast. Learn more at jillianbenfield.com.   Favorite Quotes "I believe that pain and suffering in our unexpected circumstances is one of the greatest pathways to transformation, but we have to choose to really walk it." -Jillian   Related Links The Gift of the Unexpected jillianbenfield.com

Undergoing Transformation: Mother of Child with Disabilities Shares How God Uses Unexpected Seasons When unexpected moments change life's trajectory, we're left with a choice: Do we overcome the unexpected, as the world recommends, or undergo it? Author Jillian Benfield says undergoing an unexpected season begins a transformation that deconstructs our old self and reconstructs us into who God intends us to become. In her book The Gift of the Unexpected, Jillian uses her own life-altering moment—her son's Down syndrome and congenital heart defect diagnoses— to encourage readers not to gloss over the hard parts of the human condition. Instead, she says, undergoing the unexpected gives us the opportunity to let go of our old selves, tearing down false beliefs about our identities, humanity, and the divine. “Intense. Stunning. Needed. Jillian's words will help you discover beauty in the unexpected.” Leslie Means, creator of Her View From Home In a culture where the prosperity gospel (control) and the American dream (achievement) are glorified, God uses the unexpected to disorient us from the ideals of Western society. His surprising gift equips believers to relate to the world's pain and recognize how our worth and purpose rest in Him. “I believe your unexpected moment, your unexpected life, holds the same potential for you,” Jillian writes. “But only if you resist society's instance on overcoming the unexpected and choose instead to undergo it.” The Gift of the Unexpected releases with Bethany House on January 17, 2023. Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. http://jillianbenfield.com/ Connect with us on social media: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKvKY93BmNp9D-uuStspcEQ https://www.facebook.com/sprinkledwithhopepodcast https://twitter.com/sprinkledhope20 https://www.instagram.com/sprinkledwithhopejason_shane/ email : info@sprinkledwithhope.com

Receiving a special needs diagnosis for your child is a moment you will never forget. Jillian Benfield Down Syndrome mom and author of The Gift of the Unexpected joins me today for a really great conversation. We talk about Jillian's journey through grief and parenting, how ableism might affect your vision of a diagnosis, and finding hope despite life's expectations. 

As a special education parent or teacher you can find yourself in the most unexpected situations and seasons in your life. Jillian Benfield, author of The Gift of the Unexpected, shares with us how you can live life unedited, get off the balance beam, and find comfort in the word “and”.Breathe a sigh of relief while listening to this episode, knowing you're not alone in your struggles, especially on the days that feel… unexpected.Buy the Book on Amazon: The Gift of the Unexpected The Gift of the Unexpected - https://amzn.to/3lpKTml Free IEP Help Download: www.iepchecklist.com

Hello and welcome to the podcast. This week, I have guest Jillian Benfield. Jillian is a mother, parent advocate and author of a new book, The Gift of the Unexpected. She gives us a glimpse into her story as a special needs mom. We talk about the transformations we need to go through as these parents and that the new life we're left with can often be better. Jillian's wonderful insights are something I hope all special needs parents can hear and learn from. Connect with Jillian:Website: http://jillianbenfield.com/IG: https://www.instagram.com/jillianbenfieldblog/Get the Book: The Gift of the UnexpectedConnect with Kara:IG: https://www.instagram.com/Kararyska/Website: https://www.kararyska.com/Group Coaching Program: Schedule a ConsultWanna be on the show? Contact meFull Show NotesThe best way to learn more about the Pathway to Peace Group Coaching Program is to schedule a quick and easy call so I can get to know you and confirm that the program is a good fit for you. Click here to schedule, I can't wait to meet you! Request to Join The Special Needs Mom Podcast Community

Jillian Benfield was a successful television news anchor and journalist when her world came crashing down through a phone call. Learning that her son had Down Syndrome caused her and her husband to rethink everything they thought they knew about God, life, and worth. Today, she advocates not only for her son's inclusion, but for all who have a condition that places them on society's "fringe." Join Rebecca Carrell and Liz Rodriguez for a poignant and powerful discussion on navigating the unexpected turns life takes.Follow Jillian Benfield: http://jillianbenfield.com/IG:@jillianbenfieldblogFB: @jillianbenfieldPurchase The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan for 30% off at http://bakerpublishinggroup.com/books/the-gift-of-the-unexpected/412290If you enjoy the show, would you please consider rating and reviewing Honestly, Though? Those reviews help others find us in the PodUniverse, and we deeply appreciate the love! Also, you can reach out to us personally to join the conversation on the following platforms:Rebecca Carrell: https://www.rebeccacarrell.com/ ; IG - @RebeccaCarrell ; Twitter: @RebeccaACarrell ; FB - Rebecca Ashbrook CarrellLiz Rodriguez: IG: @lizannrodriguez ; FB - Liz Rodriguez - https://www.facebook.com/liz.rodriguez.92775Nika Spaulding: stjudeoakcliff.org ; IG - @NikaAdidas ; Twitter - @NikaAdidas

Jillian Benfield is a former news anchor and reporter with a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. She and her husband got the surprise of their life when they found out their unborn son was rockin' an extra chromosome- also known as Down syndrome. Jillian's writings about living an unexpected life have been featured on Good Morning American, The Today Show and Her View From Home.  We dive deep into Jillian's story of the Unexpected: losing her career in TV after a military move; a surprise pregnancy and Down Syndrome diagnosis for her son, Anderson; and other unexpected left turns in her story of motherhood. During our conversation, she shares her wisdom and faith with honesty, thoughtfulness, and authenticity. Jillian shares how she felt bitter and stuck and how she found her light and hope again in life. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I enjoyed speaking to her! Find Jillian here:WebsiteFacebookInstagramBuy here book here  Support the showI'd love to hear your thoughts! leave a comment below or head over to the podcast Facebook page and leave a comment there. Your words encourage me so much. Support the podcast here on Patreon and Buy Me a Coffee

Join me as we sit with Author Jillian Benfield. In this episode, we chat about the story behind her new book The Gift of the Unexpected, and what it means to undergo versus overcome grief of the unexpected moments of life. Get The Gift of the Unexpected book: https://jillianbenfield.com/book/ Connect with Jillian: Website: https://jillianbenfield.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jillianbenfieldInstagram: https:// https://www.instagram.com/jillianbenfieldblog/ Get my free mini devotional “You're Not Losing It, Life is Hard” : http://eepurl.com/bCTWML

The day we found out our child's diagnosis lives in all of us. It is a marker of a major shift in our journey as human beings. Who we are, how we feel, what we know, all began to change that day. And society will tell us to “overcome” that experience or look on the “bright side” of whatever that diagnosis brought us, but what if that doesn't feel possible?Today host, Jessica Patay, interviews mom, Jillian Benfield, about her journey becoming mother to her son, Anderson. Jillian has written a book called The Gift of the Unexpected, in which she uses her own life-altering moment—her son's Down syndrome and congenital heart defect diagnoses— to encourage readers not to gloss over the hard parts of the human condition. In this interview she introduces us to the idea of “undergoing” the diagnosis, instead of “overcoming” it, as well as many other helpful insights. Jillian Benfield is a former journalist and news anchor. She holds a broadcast journalism degree from the University of Georgia. As a freelance writer, her essays about living an unexpected life have appeared on sites such as TODAY, Good Morning America, Yahoo! News, and ABC News. Jillian regularly advocates for the full inclusion of people with disabilities in her writings, in her community, and as a part of the National Down Syndrome Congress's National Down Syndrome Advocacy Coalition. Jillian and her husband, Andy, and their three children make their home on Florida's Space Coast. Learn more about Jillian here. Find Jillian's book here. Brave Together is the podcast for We are Brave Together, a not-for-profit organization based in the USA. The heart of We Are Brave Together is to strengthen, encourage, inspire and validate all moms of children with disabilities and other needs in their unique journeys. JOIN the international community of We Are Brave Together here.Donate to our Retreats and Respite Scholarships here.Donate to keep this podcast going here.Can't get enough of the Brave Together Podcast?Follow our Instagram Page @wearebravetogether or on Facebook.Feel free to contact Jessica Patay via email: jpatay@wearebravetogether.orgIf you have any topic requests or if you would like to share a story, leave us a message here.Please leave a review and rating today! We thank you in advance!

================================================== ==SUSCRIBETEhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNpffyr-7_zP1x1lS89ByaQ?sub_confirmation=1================================================== == DEVOCIÓN MATUTINA PARA MUJERES 2022“SIN MIEDOS NI CADENAS”Narrado por: Sirley DelgadilloDesde: Bucaramanga, ColombiaUna cortesía de DR'Ministries y Canaan Seventh-Day Adventist Church  20 DE OCTUBREANDERSON“Pero muchos que ahora son los más importantes en ese día serán los menos importantes, y aquellos que ahora parecen menos importantes en ese día serán los más importantes” (Mat. 19:30, NTV).Jillian Benfield se mudó con su familia a Alamogordo, en Estados Unidos, cuando su marido fue transferido por su trabajo. Tan solo ocho días después de haber llegado a esta pequeña ciudad rural, Jillian descubrió que estaba embarazada de su segundo hijo, Anderson. Durante una consulta de rutina, el doctor le dijo a Jillian que habían observado marcadores ecográficos consistentes con el síndrome de Down. Luego de hacerle más estudios, los doctores confirmaron el diagnóstico. “Estaba en shock. En mi cabeza escuché una frase que se repetía como un disco rayado: “Yo no puedo ser la madre de un niño especial”, me dijo Jillian hace unos meses, durante una entrevista para la Radio Adventista de Londres. Cuando Jillian le preguntó al médico cómo esto afectaría la vida de su hijo, él respondió: “En el peor de los casos, nunca podrá alimentarse solo;Pese a todo, Jillian y su marido, Andy, decidieron tener a Anderson, ¡y no se arrepienten! Con la ayuda de otros padres y por medio de su experiencia, Jillian y Andy cambiaron completamente su mentalidad con respecto a la discapacidad. Uno de esos cambios se refleja en la manera en que Jillian habla de su experiencia. Ella solía usar frases como: “Ser la mamá de un niño especial es bello, pero agotador.” Ahora, para reflejar la belleza y la complejidad que implica ser la madre de Anderson, Jillian decidió erradicar la palabra "pero' de su vocabulario, y reemplazarla por la "y". "Ser la madre de un niño con discapacidad es la cosa más difícil que he hecho y no lo cambiaría por nada. Ser la madre de un niño con discapacidad es agotador y vale la pena el esfuerzo", escribe en 5 Spiritual Comfort for Special Needs Parents [Cinco consejos para el consuelo espiritual de padres con hijos con necesidades especiales]. Gracias a su experiencia, Jillian aboga por diagnósticos imparciales para los padres de niños con síndrome de Down. (Por más información, visita https://www.dsdiagnosisnetwork.org/).“Anderson me ha abierto los ojos no solo respecto a la discapacidad, sino también a la importancia de ser más comprensiva, de tener más empatía, y de no apresurarme a sacar conclusiones", expresó Jillian al finalizar nuestra conversación. “Siento que él me ha dado un nuevo par de anteojos para ver el mundo. Él me enseñó a amar mejor”.Señor, ayúdame a ver a las personas que me rodean como tú las ves, recordando que los más pequeños aquí serán los más grandes en tu Reino.

Our guest, Jillian Benfield shares with us how we can find beauty in the midst of the hard, her tips for advocating, and encouragement for moms starting out on this journey.June 21, 2022; Ep. 91Timestamps & Key Topics:0:00-    Intro1:23-    Meet Jillian Benfield3:37-    Doing This Again6:43-    Hold Two Together13:20-  Advocating17:57-  IEP Tips24:53-  Not The Only Life28:31-  What It Means to Trust30:27-  Resources33:06-  Outro    Episode Links & Resources:Jillian's website, Facebook, and InstagramJillian's Free E-book: Disability Advocacy 101The Spirituality of the Psalms Walter Brueggmann The Holy Longing Ronald Rolheiser A Day In Our Shoes  Wrightslaw CoursesPaula Kluth CoursesIf you enjoyed our podcast, please...Get our free resource 7 Advocacy Practices & PitfallsGet our free resource on finding Gratitude, Peace, and HopeSubscribe to our newsletter on the Take Heart WebsiteReview and like us on Apple Podcasts Share us with others from wherever you listen to podcastsFollow us on Instagram @takeheartspecialmomsFind Amy at www.amyjbrown.com/  or on Instagram @amyjbrown_writerFind Carrie at www.carriemholt.com or on Instagram @carriemholtFind Sara at www.saraclime.com or on Instagram @saraclime

"Parenting a child with a disability is the hardest thing that I've ever done AND it is also the greatest joy of my life." Lean in and listen as Jillian Benfield describes how changing her perspective and her language helps advocate for the needs of her son with Down Syndrome. Jillian's work has been featured by The TODAY Show and Good Morning America, PLUS her first book is set to release in spring of 2023! Connect with Jillian: Web: www.JillianBenfield.com Facebook @JillianBenfield Instagram @JillianBenfieldBlog E-Books: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5df181b3154bd20026a1aeaa & https://view.flodesk.com/pages/6036b72454e757a12d5eece0 Get the IEP help you need: Link in Bio or visit www.iepmasterclass.com

"How can the unexpected lead to transformation? Why is school inclusion for children with disabilities so important? Jessica and Jillian Benfield address both of these questions, and so many more in episode 66. Listen today!Jillian Benfield @jillianbenfieldblog is a former TV Journalist and PR Specialist turned military spouse and mom of three. Her second child, Anderson, surprised their family when he arrived rocking an extra chromosome--also known as Down syndrome. When she is not moving to a new state, or transporting kids to doctor appointments, she is writing faith and parenting a child with a disability on her website, www.JillianBenfield.com and is currently working on her book set to publish with Bethany House in spring of 2023. Visit her website to download her free ebooks! Brave Together Podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp, an organization working to make professional counseling accessible, affordable, convenient - so anyone can get help, anytime, anywhere from the world's largest network of licensed, accredited, and experienced counselors.  For a 10% discount off of your first month, visit www.betterhelp.com/wearebravetogether.

Jillian Benfield is a news anchor turned homemaker and military wife whose entire life changed when she discovered her second son Anderson had Down Syndrome. She is an inspiring speaker and an aspiring author passionate about school inclusion, breaking down outdated stereotypes surrounding disability, and being a voice for parents of children with special needs. Jillian can be found at www.JillianBenfield.com where you can download her free e-book, "5 Spiritual Comforts for Special Needs Parents.”

You Don't Have To Hide Your Scars || To My Friend Who Left The Faith || Jillian Benfield

This podcast episode is one I'd been looking forward to recording -- because it is always so special to get to talk to a mom who also has a child with Down syndrome. Author of The Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan, Jillian Benfield joins me today to share her heartfelt story of getting the very unexpected diagnosis of Down syndrome for her second child, Anderson.In this conversation, Jillian and I dive into the depths of her experience, beginning with the earth-shattering phone call that changed her life's trajectory. Jillian recounts the initial shock, the fear, and the grief she felt upon learning about her son's diagnosis. What follows is a candid conversation about the unlearning and re-earning process she underwent, navigating the unexpected, and the beautiful, inspirational transformation that emerged.Jillian also shares powerful insights about worthiness and the societal pressures that define what it means to be successful. We explore the misconceptions surrounding Down Syndrome and how her son, Anderson, reshaped her perspective. Jillian's advocacy for inclusive education shines through as she discusses the importance of embracing differences in both schools and churches, and together, we reflect on the beauty of embracing the unexpected, finding hope in the midst of despair, and discovering the gifts that emerge from life's unexpected turns.In This Episode[0:35] - I have Jillian Benfield, author of The Gift of the Unexpected, on the show today![3:09] - Jillian shares how a surprising move to Alamogordo and then a pregnancy test completely disrupted her plans for her life.[5:47] - In the face of a Down syndrome diagnosis, she re-examined life's meaning.[10:40] - Jillian reflects on how society usually links worth to success.[13:46] - Learn how the unexpected deeply connected Jillian to a vulnerable, suffering Jesus.[17:23] - Jillian and I discuss how acceptance transforms perceptions; disabilities don't define worth.[20:29] - Anderson is thriving in inclusive school, embracing happiness and sibling love.[21:59] - How her other children have grown with empathy, learning from their brother's unique journey.[24:09] - Inclusive education is vital for fully embracing people with disabilities.[26:45] - We talk about church inclusion, highlighting mutual benefits for all members.[28:31] - Jillian reflects on the white sands behind her house in New Mexico, emphasizing that new life can emerge from unexpected challenges.Links & ResourcesCrystal PaineThe Gift of the Unexpected: Discovering Who You Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan by Jillian BenfieldJillian Benfield10 Days to Be a Happier MomSign up for the Hot Deals Email ListMoneySavingMom.comMy Instagram account (I'd love for you to follow me there! I usually hop on at least a few times per day and share behind-the-scenes photos and videos, my grocery store hauls, funny stories, or just anything I'm pondering or would like your advice or feedback on!)Have feedback on the show or suggestions for future episodes or topics? Send me an email: crystal @ moneysavingmom.comOur Sponsors:* Check out BiOptimizers and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: https://bioptimizers.com/* Check out BiOptimizers: https://bioptimizers.com/* Check out ByHeart and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: https://byheart.com/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands