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It's Lisa Bilyeu here with a truly BEAUTIFUL episode of Women of Impact for you that will actually change the way you perceive & judge your emotions and how you “deal” with them.Today I'm joined by the unbelievable Dr. Anita Phillips, a trauma therapist and mental health expert that is SO DAMN GOOD at empowering women like you to actually find safety in your body and your emotions again. Dr. Anita gets SOOO real and honest with her incredible insights into WHY we deny our emotions so much and how this has a knock on effect to our confidence. The reality is, your emotions are not your enemy – they are actually bodily experiences that INFORM your thinking (not the other way around)!!We also dive into:- How to turn your pain into power (especially after a heartbreak, or when you feel lost or been betrayed!)- How your emotions are like hunger pains & what happens when you ignore them- Why we negotiate pain & how that, PLUS the fear of the future, holds us back- The POWER that comes from sitting with your “WHAT IFs” instead of ignoring them- Why you MUST experience the pain or it will never leave you (and will actually multiply!)- How confidence is faithfulness to yourself - Why we need love, hope and faith or we will experience a lot of sadness, anger and fearAnd that's just what we cover in part 1 of this 2 part episode!Dr. Anita has SOOO many amazing experiences and insights to share, so you can stop living in your fears and start to be more powerful and confident in your life. Be sure to get a copy of her book “The Garden Within” here: https://www.anitaphillips.com/bookFollow Dr. Anita:Website: https://www.anitaphillips.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dranitaphillipsYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrAnitaPhillips/Order “The Garden Within”: https://www.anitaphillips.com/bookFollow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time!In today's episode I'm joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships! In this episode, we're diving into:- The toxic dating advice out there that's doing you more harm than good- How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships- Why what attracts a partner doesn't always attract the RIGHT partner - Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle- How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety- How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your egoAnd that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode!So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you! Follow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://matthewhussey.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu and special guest co-host Lisa Bilyeu. Broadcasting from their home studio, Tom and Lisa dive deep into the latest headlines and societal shifts that are shaping our world. In this episode, they tackle pressing topics, including the chaotic state of U.S.-Iran negotiations and what it signals about America's global standing, the Pope's recent "holy war" on artificial intelligence and its implications for humanity, controversial property rights proposals in New York City, and the alarming erosion of free speech in the West. Through candid conversation and contrasting perspectives, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu explore the intersection of logic, emotion, politics, and technology—challenging listeners to think critically about the future of democracy, individual rights, and the ever-accelerating influence of AI. Whether wrestling with philosophical debates on liberty, obligations to country, or the pitfalls of authoritarianism and collectivism, this episode pulls no punches and invites you to join the conversation on the issues that matter most. What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... STARTING a business: join me here at ZERO TO FOUNDER:  https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show SCALING a business: see if you qualify here.:  https://tombilyeu.com/call Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here.: https://tombilyeu.com/ ********************************************************************** If you're serious about leveling up your life, I urge you to check out my new podcast, Tom Bilyeu's Mindset Playbook —a goldmine of my most impactful episodes on mindset, business, and health. Trust me, your future self will thank you. ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and get ready for an inspiring and super insightful episode of Women of Impact that is all about how to actually change your life so you're always moving towards living a life with more purpose and confidence and that's actually authentic to YOU!!  Today's guest is sharing her step-by-step roadmap that she's taught to thousands of women to do just that, it's my homie, Dr. Sonja!  Dr. Sonja is a retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, a mother of 3, and an 8-figure business owner. From the battlefield to the boardroom, this woman is a TOTAL BADASS, and she has overcome SOOOO many challenges in her life – including a long, painful divorce – BUT despite all of that she has endured and she's sharing her stories and lessons to help women like you and me learn from her hardships and be able to get back up every single time you get knocked down!! In this episode we're talking all about:  - How to endure, even when it gets SOOO damn hard, and not let feeling ashamed or guilty stop you back from LIVING YOUR BEST DAMN LIFE!!! - The 4 aspects you should focus on to move towards something that will bring you purpose in life  - How to build your resilience (it's a SKILL SET) - The difference between being strong vs. powerful - The power that comes from harmonizing your life instead of balancing it - What to focus on when you feel like quitting & giving up  - How to make the most out of the lessons and journey of your life - Dealing with the different “battlefields” in your life and how you can look at them differently  - What to do when you are tempted to just settle with the hand you're dealt  - And so much more!!  And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! This episode is FULL of tactical tips and takeaways to elevate your life, so make sure to listen up homie, because it's NEVER too late to be a warrior woman, but you HAVE TO take action to make it happen!!! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and get ready for an inspiring and super insightful episode of Women of Impact that is all about how to actually change your life so you're always moving towards living a life with more purpose and confidence and that's actually authentic to YOU!!  Today's guest is sharing her step-by-step roadmap that she's taught to thousands of women to do just that, it's my homie, Dr. Sonja!  Dr. Sonja is a retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, a mother of 3, and an 8-figure business owner. From the battlefield to the boardroom, this woman is a TOTAL BADASS, and she has overcome SOOOO many challenges in her life – including a long, painful divorce – BUT despite all of that she has endured and she's sharing her stories and lessons to help women like you and me learn from her hardships and be able to get back up every single time you get knocked down!! In this episode we're talking all about:  - How to endure, even when it gets SOOO damn hard, and not let feeling ashamed or guilty stop you back from LIVING YOUR BEST DAMN LIFE!!! - The 4 aspects you should focus on to move towards something that will bring you purpose in life  - How to build your resilience (it's a SKILL SET) - The difference between being strong vs. powerful - The power that comes from harmonizing your life instead of balancing it - What to focus on when you feel like quitting & giving up  - How to make the most out of the lessons and journey of your life - Dealing with the different “battlefields” in your life and how you can look at them differently  - What to do when you are tempted to just settle with the hand you're dealt  - And so much more!!  And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! This episode is FULL of tactical tips and takeaways to elevate your life, so make sure to listen up homie, because it's NEVER too late to be a warrior woman, but you HAVE TO take action to make it happen!!! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it's about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it's about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it's about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it's about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact. Today, I am thrilled to dive into a topic that's often shrouded in silence but is foundational to our relationships and individual confidence: sexuality. Joining us is the incredible Jaiya, a renowned sexologist who has transformed the conversation around intimacy with her groundbreaking work on sexual blueprints. Together, we'll unravel the complexities of sexual compatibility, tackle the discomfort of sexless relationships, and break free from the chains of shame and embarrassment that too often confine our sexual experiences. Lisa Bilyeu, with her characteristic openness and depth, shares insights from her own marriage, highlighting the lifesaving importance of understanding and speaking your partner's erotic language. We'll explore the different types of sexual blueprints—energetic, sensual, sexual, and kinky—and discuss how to communicate them effectively, ensuring that you and your partner are truly connected in the most intimate of ways. So, prepare to be empowered and maybe even a bit enlightened, as we discuss how to transform your sexual blueprint into a source of strength and pleasure with the wise guidance of Jaiya. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Waiting for a chat, promises confidence boost. 04:46 Avoiding "bed death" through communication and intimacy. 08:44 Book "Jaya" helped me communicate sexual needs. 11:22 Effective communication is key to overcoming awkwardness. 15:28 Kindness, open heart, self-work, women's disservice. 16:42 Women often don't express their needs in bed. 21:24 Creating a romantic and sensual atmosphere matters. 26:02 Healing, learning, and expanding in relationships. 27:38 Book empowers confidence and communication in intimacy. 30:07 Thanks for being you, paving the way. Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact. Today, I am thrilled to dive into a topic that's often shrouded in silence but is foundational to our relationships and individual confidence: sexuality. Joining us is the incredible Jaiya, a renowned sexologist who has transformed the conversation around intimacy with her groundbreaking work on sexual blueprints. Together, we'll unravel the complexities of sexual compatibility, tackle the discomfort of sexless relationships, and break free from the chains of shame and embarrassment that too often confine our sexual experiences. Lisa Bilyeu, with her characteristic openness and depth, shares insights from her own marriage, highlighting the lifesaving importance of understanding and speaking your partner's erotic language. We'll explore the different types of sexual blueprints—energetic, sensual, sexual, and kinky—and discuss how to communicate them effectively, ensuring that you and your partner are truly connected in the most intimate of ways. So, prepare to be empowered and maybe even a bit enlightened, as we discuss how to transform your sexual blueprint into a source of strength and pleasure with the wise guidance of Jaiya. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Waiting for a chat, promises confidence boost. 04:46 Avoiding "bed death" through communication and intimacy. 08:44 Book "Jaya" helped me communicate sexual needs. 11:22 Effective communication is key to overcoming awkwardness. 15:28 Kindness, open heart, self-work, women's disservice. 16:42 Women often don't express their needs in bed. 21:24 Creating a romantic and sensual atmosphere matters. 26:02 Healing, learning, and expanding in relationships. 27:38 Book empowers confidence and communication in intimacy. 30:07 Thanks for being you, paving the way. Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey guys, it's Lisa Bilyeu and I'm so frikin' excited about today's episode of Women of Impact with one of my close homies!  If you feel like you have been holding onto a dream, trying so damn hard to make it happen, but wondering if it might be time to dream a new dream – this episode is for you!!  My girl Patrice Washington is BACK, and while she's most known as “America's Money Maven” and an absolute QUEEN when it comes to finances and money confidence, A LOT has changed since the last time she was on the show!  We get into alllllll the details in the episode, but the short version is that after 19 years with her husband, she recognized her marriage wasn't serving her anymore and decided to divorce him.  Now divorced, dating, and in her 40s, Patrice is happier than ever because she made a different decision and did the work to pivot her life!  As a result, she got her voice back, is living life on HER terms, and even has NEW vows that she keeps to HERSELF!! And in this episode, we are breaking down EXACTLY HOW she went from unhappy and romanticizing reality to radical honesty and doing the work to actually make a change to her situation!!! We also talk about: - The 5 beliefs that gave Patrice her voice back & how she PRACTICED speaking up for herself before she had the strength to do it in her marriage   - How holding onto your identity can keep you trapped in your situation & how to reframe those beliefs that are keeping you stuck - Why asking yourself the hard questions is SO important, but why ACTING in accordance to your answers is EVEN MORE important So guys, consider this your alarm clock to frikin' WAKE UP, STOP submitting to the circumstances of your life, and DO THE WORK to change your situation and find happiness again.  Follow Patrice Washington: Website: https://patricewashington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seekwisdompcw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/SeekWisdomPCW Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey guys, it's Lisa Bilyeu and I'm so frikin' excited about today's episode of Women of Impact with one of my close homies!  If you feel like you have been holding onto a dream, trying so damn hard to make it happen, but wondering if it might be time to dream a new dream – this episode is for you!!  My girl Patrice Washington is BACK, and while she's most known as “America's Money Maven” and an absolute QUEEN when it comes to finances and money confidence, A LOT has changed since the last time she was on the show!  We get into alllllll the details in the episode, but the short version is that after 19 years with her husband, she recognized her marriage wasn't serving her anymore and decided to divorce him.  Now divorced, dating, and in her 40s, Patrice is happier than ever because she made a different decision and did the work to pivot her life!  As a result, she got her voice back, is living life on HER terms, and even has NEW vows that she keeps to HERSELF!! And in this episode, we are breaking down EXACTLY HOW she went from unhappy and romanticizing reality to radical honesty and doing the work to actually make a change to her situation!!! We also talk about: - The 5 beliefs that gave Patrice her voice back & how she PRACTICED speaking up for herself before she had the strength to do it in her marriage   - How holding onto your identity can keep you trapped in your situation & how to reframe those beliefs that are keeping you stuck - Why asking yourself the hard questions is SO important, but why ACTING in accordance to your answers is EVEN MORE important So guys, consider this your alarm clock to frikin' WAKE UP, STOP submitting to the circumstances of your life, and DO THE WORK to change your situation and find happiness again.  Follow Patrice Washington: Website: https://patricewashington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seekwisdompcw YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/SeekWisdomPCW Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is going to open your frikin' eyes to the dating and relationship mistakes that keep attracting the wrong type of men, and what you can do to fix your approach and find someone actually sincerely interested and good for you! Today I'm joined by the unbelievable Lori Gottlieb – she's a psychotherapist, NYT best selling author, and podcast host and she is SPILLING THE TEA on all things DATING & RELATIONSHIPS, including: - Why you can't find genuine men and what you need to do to find a real “love match” instead - How online dating & the paradox of choice is actually keeping you single - Why you SHOULD have high standards, but not about what you THINK  - The differences in how men and women approach dating, relationships, and marriage & how that causes problems down the line - Why it's actually best that all sales at the “husband store” are FINAL - And sooooo much more relationship wisdom!! Seriously guys, this woman has sooooo much wisdom into life and relationships and what you need to do to avoid ingenuine a-holes and pivot your life and have an amazing, healthy relationship! Listen close cause there's SO much to learn, and this is one you're gonna want to gossip with your homies about! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is going to open your frikin' eyes to the dating and relationship mistakes that keep attracting the wrong type of men, and what you can do to fix your approach and find someone actually sincerely interested and good for you! Today I'm joined by the unbelievable Lori Gottlieb – she's a psychotherapist, NYT best selling author, and podcast host and she is SPILLING THE TEA on all things DATING & RELATIONSHIPS, including: - Why you can't find genuine men and what you need to do to find a real “love match” instead - How online dating & the paradox of choice is actually keeping you single - Why you SHOULD have high standards, but not about what you THINK  - The differences in how men and women approach dating, relationships, and marriage & how that causes problems down the line - Why it's actually best that all sales at the “husband store” are FINAL - And sooooo much more relationship wisdom!! Seriously guys, this woman has sooooo much wisdom into life and relationships and what you need to do to avoid ingenuine a-holes and pivot your life and have an amazing, healthy relationship! Listen close cause there's SO much to learn, and this is one you're gonna want to gossip with your homies about! Follow Lori Gottlieb: Website: https://lorigottlieb.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_author/ Podcast: https://lorigottlieb.com/podcast/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu with another episode of Women of Impact and today we're talking about something that more than 90% of women have – and that's massive regret on their deathbed! From not standing up for yourself, to never finding love, or allowing fear to hold you back, I want YOU to stop blaming yourself and stop wishing things could be different so you can get out of regret and live a more happy and fulfilling life!   And here with us to talk about overcoming regrets and living a well-lived life is the AMAZING and frikin' INSPIRING Gladys McGarey. She's a doctor that is widely considered the “mother of holistic medicine” and the now-103 year old is sharing her life-changing secrets for how to live with joy, happiness, and purpose at ANY age.  From growing up in India, to life as a doctor and mother of 6, to being served divorce papers after almost 50 years of marriage, Gladys has soooo many inspiring stories and actionable insights to help you listen to your inner voice so you can build your confidence and live life on your own frikin' terms!  In this episode, we're diving into: - How to stand up for yourself in life, so you can find your voice (hopefully earlier than Gladys did at 93!) - Why you should BE GLAD and forgive instead of holding onto pain - How you have to stop looking at the mess if you want to be happy - The unbelievable power of living life in love and letting go - How to honor yourself, your feelings, and your differences and LOVE YOUR DAMN SELF!!  Don't let regrets be an excuse to NOT live a great life! YOU get to choose what you build your life on, so trust your intuition, and listen to Gladys and her 103 years of wisdom to reclaim your life NOW!   Follow Gladys McGarey: Website: https://gladysmcgarey.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/begladmd/ Order Your Copy of “The Well-Lived Life”: https://www.porchlightbooks.com/product/well-lived-life-a-102-year-old-doctors-six-secrets-to-health-and-happiness-at-every-age--mcgarey-gladys/isbn/9781668014493 Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu with another episode of Women of Impact and today we're talking about something that more than 90% of women have – and that's massive regret on their deathbed! From not standing up for yourself, to never finding love, or allowing fear to hold you back, I want YOU to stop blaming yourself and stop wishing things could be different so you can get out of regret and live a more happy and fulfilling life!   And here with us to talk about overcoming regrets and living a well-lived life is the AMAZING and frikin' INSPIRING Gladys McGarey. She's a doctor that is widely considered the “mother of holistic medicine” and the now-103 year old is sharing her life-changing secrets for how to live with joy, happiness, and purpose at ANY age.  From growing up in India, to life as a doctor and mother of 6, to being served divorce papers after almost 50 years of marriage, Gladys has soooo many inspiring stories and actionable insights to help you listen to your inner voice so you can build your confidence and live life on your own frikin' terms!  In this episode, we're diving into: - How to stand up for yourself in life, so you can find your voice (hopefully earlier than Gladys did at 93!) - Why you should BE GLAD and forgive instead of holding onto pain - How you have to stop looking at the mess if you want to be happy - The unbelievable power of living life in love and letting go - How to honor yourself, your feelings, and your differences and LOVE YOUR DAMN SELF!!  Don't let regrets be an excuse to NOT live a great life! YOU get to choose what you build your life on, so trust your intuition, and listen to Gladys and her 103 years of wisdom to reclaim your life NOW!   Follow Gladys McGarey: Website: https://gladysmcgarey.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/begladmd/ Order Your Copy of “The Well-Lived Life”: https://www.porchlightbooks.com/product/well-lived-life-a-102-year-old-doctors-six-secrets-to-health-and-happiness-at-every-age--mcgarey-gladys/isbn/9781668014493 Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Thanks to Cozy Earth for sponsoring this episode. Go to cozyearth.com/LOVERS for up to 20% off! Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/lovers. — In this episode of Lovers, I sit down with Lisa Bilyeu to talk about a decision a lot of women think about… but don’t always say out loud: what if you don’t want kids? Lisa is an entrepreneur, co-founder of Quest Nutrition, and founder of Impact Theory Studios. She’s known for building billion-dollar businesses alongside her husband while also speaking openly about identity, marriage, and what it means to choose a life that actually fits you. Lisa built a life that looked like the dream. Marriage, stability, and the role she thought she was supposed to want. For a long time, she even stepped into the idea of being a traditional wife. But over time, something didn’t sit right. What happens when you realize the life you chose doesn’t actually fit you anymore? We talk about what it looked like for Lisa to tell her husband that she didn’t want children, how they navigated being in a marriage where one partner wants kids and the other doesn’t, and why choosing to be child-free doesn’t mean something is missing, broken, or selfish. This conversation challenges the idea that every woman is meant to become a mother, and unpacks the pressure many women feel around motherhood, marriage, and identity. We also explore what it means to redefine a successful relationship on your own terms, whether that includes children or not. If you’ve ever questioned whether motherhood is for you, wondered how to tell your partner you don’t want kids, or felt conflicted about choosing career, independence, or a different kind of life, this episode is for you. EXCLUSIVE LOVERS COMMUNITY RESOURCENeed help starting a difficult conversation? Access our guided journal inside the LOVERS community: → https://www.loversbyshan.com/resource/navigating-change-hard-conversations-in-relationships-community-exclusive Follow Lisa Bilyeu → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/→ Watch & learn on Impact Theory: https://impacttheory.com/→ Explore her personal website: https://lisabilyeu.com/→ Listen to her podcast Women of Impact: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-of-impact/id1435217865→ Get her book Radical Confidence: https://radicalconfidence.com/ Want more Lover?Receive the weekly Love Letter → http://loversbyshan.com/newsletterJoin the Lovers Community → https://www.loversbyshan.com/communityExplore quizzes and worksheets → http://loversbyshan.com/quizzes See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Most couples you see online are either performing for the camera or fighting for the clicks. This conversation is nothing like that. Adam Lane Smith sits down with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu, co-founders of Quest Nutrition and hosts of Impact Theory and Women of Impact, for one of the most honest conversations about marriage you'll find anywhere on the internet. No highlight reel. No performance. Just two people who have been building a life together for 25 years, and are willing to show you exactly what that has looked like, the hard parts included. What you'll learn in this conversation: 1- Why happy couples are invisible online and what that's doing to everyone's idea of what love is supposed to look like 2- How Tom and Lisa met, why they both assumed it wouldn't last, and the moment that changed everything 3- Why Lisa stayed silent for eight years and the one sentence she finally said that pivoted their entire lives 4- The CEO and COO model of marriage and why treating your relationship like a business might actually save it 5- What happened when Lisa became the boss of 40 ex-convicts and accidentally brought that energy home to her husband 6- What Tom actually needed after working 120-hour weeks that Lisa didn't know how to give him and how they figured it out 7- The post-it note system they built so Tom always knows what Lisa needs when she comes to him with a problem 8- Why the most dangerous moment in a marriage is when one partner starts outgrowing the dynamic and what to do before it breaks you 9- What legacy actually means when you strip away the ego and why Tom thinks most people are quietly fooling themselves about being remembered If you've ever wondered what it looks like when two people genuinely love each other, fight for each other, and keep choosing each other through the hard stuff, this is that conversation.

It's Lisa Bilyeu and today I've got such a frikin' important episode of Women of Impact that will help you take back your power and feel frikin' confident that you can achieve the life you ALWAYS wanted!!  And today's guest is here with SOOO much incredible knowledge to help us better understand ourselves – it's the amazing triple board certified clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, Dr. Judy Ho.  Now guys, this woman is an absolute EXPERT on the different types of attachment styles AND how you can actually heal insecure attachment styles at ANY age and improve every aspect of your life, from friendships to your career to romantic relationships and even your sense of self.  In this episode we discuss in SOO much detail:  - What EXACTLY makes you always go back to unhealthy relationships & how you can actually break the cycle   - Each of the 4 types of attachment styles & how each show up in your life, relationships, and career - How to retrain your brain's operating system so you can actually get what you want out of life and not be controlled by your insecure attachments  And that's just in part 1 of this amazing 2 part episode! This stuff goes to the core of your identity homie, and so this episode will help you actually learn more about yourself so you can grow and become the person you ACTUALLY want to be. I know I learnt sooo much from Dr. Judy and you will too!  So grab a pen and paper and listen up!!  Follow Dr. Judy Ho: Website: https://drjudyho.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho/ Order “The New Rules of Attachment”: https://drjudyho.com/books/the-new-rules-of-attachment/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu and today I've got such a frikin' important episode of Women of Impact that will help you take back your power and feel frikin' confident that you can achieve the life you ALWAYS wanted!!  And today's guest is here with SOOO much incredible knowledge to help us better understand ourselves – it's the amazing triple board certified clinical and forensic neuropsychologist, Dr. Judy Ho.  Now guys, this woman is an absolute EXPERT on the different types of attachment styles AND how you can actually heal insecure attachment styles at ANY age and improve every aspect of your life, from friendships to your career to romantic relationships and even your sense of self.  In this episode we discuss in SOO much detail:  - What EXACTLY makes you always go back to unhealthy relationships & how you can actually break the cycle   - Each of the 4 types of attachment styles & how each show up in your life, relationships, and career - How to retrain your brain's operating system so you can actually get what you want out of life and not be controlled by your insecure attachments  And that's just in part 1 of this amazing 2 part episode! This stuff goes to the core of your identity homie, and so this episode will help you actually learn more about yourself so you can grow and become the person you ACTUALLY want to be. I know I learnt sooo much from Dr. Judy and you will too!  So grab a pen and paper and listen up!!  Follow Dr. Judy Ho: Website: https://drjudyho.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho/ Order “The New Rules of Attachment”: https://drjudyho.com/books/the-new-rules-of-attachment/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu with an AMAZINGGG episode of Women of Impact for you today that's alllllll about becoming a frikin' POWERFUL force that nobody can push around, walk all over, or manipulate! And today's guest here to help us learn how to make that possible is the one and only Sarah Jakes Roberts. She's a New York Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, speaker, mother of 6, wife, and a BADASS on a MISSION to help women evolve into the best version of themselves! Get ready, because in this episode we are talking about something a lot of women might shy away from or see as “bad” – and it's POWER. And Sarah is going to turn the way you think of power on its head and show you how to use it to become a more authentic version of yourself. We go DEEP and get into: - The false beliefs of power that come from outward success, achievement, or performance - The TRUE meaning of power - How power is different from what we traditionally might think of as “power”  - What you can do to actually ignite your power in just 60 seconds - How fear, insecurity and shame have WAYYYY more power over you that you think  - Why you need to embrace your humanity instead of hide it - How power flows and shows up in different areas of your life at different times And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the tips and tactics we get into in this episode are SOOO frikin' profound and can actually help you ignite your confidence, give you a voice, and OWN you damn power so you can live your life on YOUR terms!  Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu with an AMAZINGGG episode of Women of Impact for you today that's alllllll about becoming a frikin' POWERFUL force that nobody can push around, walk all over, or manipulate! And today's guest here to help us learn how to make that possible is the one and only Sarah Jakes Roberts. She's a New York Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, speaker, mother of 6, wife, and a BADASS on a MISSION to help women evolve into the best version of themselves! Get ready, because in this episode we are talking about something a lot of women might shy away from or see as “bad” – and it's POWER. And Sarah is going to turn the way you think of power on its head and show you how to use it to become a more authentic version of yourself. We go DEEP and get into: - The false beliefs of power that come from outward success, achievement, or performance - The TRUE meaning of power - How power is different from what we traditionally might think of as “power”  - What you can do to actually ignite your power in just 60 seconds - How fear, insecurity and shame have WAYYYY more power over you that you think  - Why you need to embrace your humanity instead of hide it - How power flows and shows up in different areas of your life at different times And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the tips and tactics we get into in this episode are SOOO frikin' profound and can actually help you ignite your confidence, give you a voice, and OWN you damn power so you can live your life on YOUR terms!  Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host Lisa Bilyeu is here to tell you that anyone can radiate confidence! In this episode, Lisa shares her personal journey from feeling stuck and unconfident to becoming a downright business powerhouse. Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast. With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes. Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday. If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we are talking about a topic that is often considered taboo and “off-limits” at parties (but REALLY shouldn't be) – MONEY.  And guiding us down the path to frikin' financial confidence & freedom is none other than the TikTok star “Your Rich BFF”, it's my girl Vivian Tu!  Vivian is an absolute badass entrepreneur and money mentor with FRESH, no-BS advice on how to create smart money habits and reach the financial freedom of your damn dreams!!!! She believes that anyone can GET RICH, but not by accident.  So in this episode, we're covering: - The power dynamics in relationships that are keeping women broke  - Why EVERY COUPLE should have a prenup - The harsh realities of financial infidelity - How working towards EQUITY in a relationship is more important than EQUALITY  - Why talking about money openly will actually SAVE your relationship - The importance of separating your VALUE from your job The more comfortable we get talking about money, the more confident, capable, and ready we will be to reach our financial freedom!  And be sure to get your copy of “Rich AF” here: https://www.yourrichbff.com/richaf Follow Vivian Tu: Website: https://www.yourrichbff.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbff Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your.richbff/ Order “Rich AF”: https://www.yourrichbff.com/richaf Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today we are talking about a topic that is often considered taboo and “off-limits” at parties (but REALLY shouldn't be) – MONEY.  And guiding us down the path to frikin' financial confidence & freedom is none other than the TikTok star “Your Rich BFF”, it's my girl Vivian Tu!  Vivian is an absolute badass entrepreneur and money mentor with FRESH, no-BS advice on how to create smart money habits and reach the financial freedom of your damn dreams!!!! She believes that anyone can GET RICH, but not by accident.  So in this episode, we're covering: - The power dynamics in relationships that are keeping women broke  - Why EVERY COUPLE should have a prenup - The harsh realities of financial infidelity - How working towards EQUITY in a relationship is more important than EQUALITY  - Why talking about money openly will actually SAVE your relationship - The importance of separating your VALUE from your job The more comfortable we get talking about money, the more confident, capable, and ready we will be to reach our financial freedom!  And be sure to get your copy of “Rich AF” here: https://www.yourrichbff.com/richaf Follow Vivian Tu: Website: https://www.yourrichbff.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbff Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your.richbff/ Order “Rich AF”: https://www.yourrichbff.com/richaf Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What's up, my homies!! It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY FRIKIN' FIREEEEEE!!!  Today I'm joined by my boy Trent Shelton, a former NFL football player who became a motivational speaker after struggling with fear and anxiety and thinking he had nothing to live for. Through picking himself back up, he actually ended up finding his true calling – helping people become their best self! Trent is here to help me dig into this BIG question: Why do SOOOO many women settle in a relationship, even though we KNOW our needs, wants, and desires aren't being met?! Women are actually CHOOSING to suffer instead of leaving, and it's GOT TO STOP homies!!!  That's why I'm picking Trent's brain, digging into topics like:  - WHY you settle, even though you KNOW you deserve more - HOW to get out of the relationship when you feel stuck  - The beliefs that are HOLDING YOU BACK & how to change them - The 2 things to look for that inspire influence and trust - How to flip the script on boundaries so you actually protect your life and soul  It's TIME homie!!!! It's time to set your boundaries and say HELL FRIKIN' YES to yourself so you finally start protecting your peace, and finding your power.  Follow Trent Shelton: Website: https://www.trentshelton.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LikeTrentShelton/ Order “Protect Your Peace”: www.trentshelton.com/book Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What's up, my homies!! It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY FRIKIN' FIREEEEEE!!!  Today I'm joined by my boy Trent Shelton, a former NFL football player who became a motivational speaker after struggling with fear and anxiety and thinking he had nothing to live for. Through picking himself back up, he actually ended up finding his true calling – helping people become their best self! Trent is here to help me dig into this BIG question: Why do SOOOO many women settle in a relationship, even though we KNOW our needs, wants, and desires aren't being met?! Women are actually CHOOSING to suffer instead of leaving, and it's GOT TO STOP homies!!!  That's why I'm picking Trent's brain, digging into topics like:  - WHY you settle, even though you KNOW you deserve more - HOW to get out of the relationship when you feel stuck  - The beliefs that are HOLDING YOU BACK & how to change them - The 2 things to look for that inspire influence and trust - How to flip the script on boundaries so you actually protect your life and soul  It's TIME homie!!!! It's time to set your boundaries and say HELL FRIKIN' YES to yourself so you finally start protecting your peace, and finding your power.  Follow Trent Shelton: Website: https://www.trentshelton.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LikeTrentShelton/ Order “Protect Your Peace”: www.trentshelton.com/book Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world's leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we're diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won't last, AND what you can do before it's too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you're fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you're getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world's leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we're diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won't last, AND what you can do before it's too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you're fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you're getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world's leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we're diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won't last, AND what you can do before it's too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you're fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you're getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world's leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we're diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won't last, AND what you can do before it's too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you're fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you're getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What's up, guys! It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I'm joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we're talking about eeeeevery woman's WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you're NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I'm telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What's up, guys! It's Lisa Bilyeu and this episode of Women of Impact is SO DAMN FIRE and alllllllll about dealing with heartbreak and cheating and coming out better on the other side.  Today I'm joined again by my super close homie Matthew Hussey. You may know him as a world-leading dating and confidence coach who shares authentic, insightful, and practical advice to help women not only find love, but also feel confident and in control of their own happiness! This time, we're talking about eeeeevery woman's WORST nightmare - the crushing event of being cheated on.  We dig into…  - The signs in your relationship that they may betray you, and why you might be ignoring them - How to tell the difference between a bad choice vs. a character flaw - Dealing with the SHAME and BLAME of being betrayed    - Why avoiders are worse than liars, and how YOU might be HELPING them - How to escape the “victim” mentality and protect your self-esteem and self-worth if they ARE unfaithful - The REAL reason you're NOT asking the TOUGH questions  LISTEN CLOSE and get ready to have your mind blown! Because I'm telling you homie, this interview had EVEN ME seeing cheating in a completely different way, and that says A LOTTTT coming from me!! Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: https://matthewhussey.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/ Pre-Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another super powerful episode of Women of Impact, and today get ready to have alllllll your questions about sex (that you're too embarrassed to ask) ANSWERED.  Sex is NOT a taboo subject here!  I'm joined by the unbelievably knowledgeable and compassionate urologist & pelvic surgeon, Dr. Rena Malik. And she is SPILLING THE TEA on soooo many topics, like: - How masterbating effects health & longevity - Does sex actually cure headaches? - The truth about morning sex - Is it normal NOT to orgasm every time?  - How to tell if he's faking an orgasm and what it MEANS - The sock trick that makes you climax faster  - The links between your overall health and sexual health - What to do if your man has ED - How your stress is messing with your pleasure Dr. Rena and I also get into why it's crucial to plan intimacy & communicate sexual preferences in long-term relationships, so you can prioritize pleasure and connect on a deeper level!  This episode is PACKED with VALUABLE information about sex and the sexual health of women AND men, and knowledge is power guys!! So tune in to Women of Impact now! Follow Dr. Rena Malik: Website: https://renamalikmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renamalikmd Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another super powerful episode of Women of Impact, and today get ready to have alllllll your questions about sex (that you're too embarrassed to ask) ANSWERED.  Sex is NOT a taboo subject here!  I'm joined by the unbelievably knowledgeable and compassionate urologist & pelvic surgeon, Dr. Rena Malik. And she is SPILLING THE TEA on soooo many topics, like: - How masterbating effects health & longevity - Does sex actually cure headaches? - The truth about morning sex - Is it normal NOT to orgasm every time?  - How to tell if he's faking an orgasm and what it MEANS - The sock trick that makes you climax faster  - The links between your overall health and sexual health - What to do if your man has ED - How your stress is messing with your pleasure Dr. Rena and I also get into why it's crucial to plan intimacy & communicate sexual preferences in long-term relationships, so you can prioritize pleasure and connect on a deeper level!  This episode is PACKED with VALUABLE information about sex and the sexual health of women AND men, and knowledge is power guys!! So tune in to Women of Impact now! Follow Dr. Rena Malik: Website: https://renamalikmd.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@renamalikmd Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you KNOW you're self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you're “too much” or “not enough”… but you can't figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone. Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE. I'm coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time. No therapy jargon here. We talk: Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy) What to do when YOU'RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie) The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere) The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it's not the same and we break it DOWN) Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step) How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know) If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love. Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com FOLLOW THAIS GIBSON: Website: https://personaldevelopmentschool.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

You know those moments when you KNOW you're self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you're “too much” or “not enough”… but you can't figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone. Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE. I'm coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time. No therapy jargon here. We talk: Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy) What to do when YOU'RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie) The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere) The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it's not the same and we break it DOWN) Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step) How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know) If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love. Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com FOLLOW THAIS GIBSON: Website: https://personaldevelopmentschool.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready for the real talk? In part two, Dr. Spirit and Lisa Bilyeu get even deeper, unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of love, boundaries, and all those “why does he DO that?!” questions you've probably vented about to your girlfriends. They get into everything from why it's so hard to walk away, to how to communicate without losing yourself, and the sneaky ways gaslighting shows up (yep, even Taylor Swift can relate). With juicy listener questions, viral video clips, and laugh-out-loud moments, Spirit dishes on how to spot performative affection vs. the real deal, why relationships fall apart when you stop trying, and why it's totally OK to expect (and get!) more from love.  SHOWNOTES Infidelity, ownership, and why it's NOT your fault The hard convo: when “life stuff” gets in the way of intimacy The MANY forms of infidelity, yes, emotional and financial too The ultimate red flag: when you start to shrink Why the real offense is when you stick around Take your power back, he doesn't need to change for you to leave Why we crave validation from the very people that hurt us Are your “forevers” even aligned? Are you his partner, or his mom? (Breaking down viral “mental load” drama) The relationship falls apart when you stop trying, now what? How to spot real love from fake affection (for the romantics) Spirit's nonprofit: how to get involved and give back   Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ready for the real talk? In part two, Dr. Spirit and Lisa Bilyeu get even deeper, unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of love, boundaries, and all those “why does he DO that?!” questions you've probably vented about to your girlfriends. They get into everything from why it's so hard to walk away, to how to communicate without losing yourself, and the sneaky ways gaslighting shows up (yep, even Taylor Swift can relate). With juicy listener questions, viral video clips, and laugh-out-loud moments, Spirit dishes on how to spot performative affection vs. the real deal, why relationships fall apart when you stop trying, and why it's totally OK to expect (and get!) more from love.  SHOWNOTES Infidelity, ownership, and why it's NOT your fault The hard convo: when “life stuff” gets in the way of intimacy The MANY forms of infidelity, yes, emotional and financial too The ultimate red flag: when you start to shrink Why the real offense is when you stick around Take your power back, he doesn't need to change for you to leave Why we crave validation from the very people that hurt us Are your “forevers” even aligned? Are you his partner, or his mom? (Breaking down viral “mental load” drama) The relationship falls apart when you stop trying, now what? How to spot real love from fake affection (for the romantics) Spirit's nonprofit: how to get involved and give back   Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to a seriously honest and empowering episode of Women of Impact! In this first half, Lisa Bilyeu sits down with superstar relationship expert Spirit, who brings her no-nonsense wisdom and some hard-hitting truth bombs about love, dating, and why so many women end up feeling stuck in relationships that are less than they deserve. If you've ever found yourself over-analyzing “red flags,” settling for someone's “potential,” or just wanting someone to help you finally decode men's confusing behavior, you're in the right place. Spirit breaks down the real difference between care and control, why settling never works out the way you hope, and how to finally stop repeating patterns you hate. Grab a notebook, this is the relationship reality check you didn't know you needed. SHOWNOTES “Marry Him or Move On”—Red flag vs. green flag game!Is he too involved or just thoughtful? Why it's so easy to fall for potential (and why that's dangerous) Chasing the fantasy vs. living in reality Defining true safety and partnership Red flags: when things move too fast Stories we tell ourselves to justify staying The “almost compatible” trap Raising your standards: how to break the cycle When toxic partners echo your worst fears Spirit gets personal: Surviving a narcissist Healing from emotional abuse and reclaiming confidence The official red flag checklist: how to spot if something's wrong Why “I'll change” is usually just a line Why men avoid hard conversations (brains and emotional muscles explained) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a seriously honest and empowering episode of Women of Impact! In this first half, Lisa Bilyeu sits down with superstar relationship expert Spirit, who brings her no-nonsense wisdom and some hard-hitting truth bombs about love, dating, and why so many women end up feeling stuck in relationships that are less than they deserve. If you've ever found yourself over-analyzing “red flags,” settling for someone's “potential,” or just wanting someone to help you finally decode men's confusing behavior, you're in the right place. Spirit breaks down the real difference between care and control, why settling never works out the way you hope, and how to finally stop repeating patterns you hate. Grab a notebook, this is the relationship reality check you didn't know you needed. SHOWNOTES “Marry Him or Move On”—Red flag vs. green flag game!Is he too involved or just thoughtful? Why it's so easy to fall for potential (and why that's dangerous) Chasing the fantasy vs. living in reality Defining true safety and partnership Red flags: when things move too fast Stories we tell ourselves to justify staying The “almost compatible” trap Raising your standards: how to break the cycle When toxic partners echo your worst fears Spirit gets personal: Surviving a narcissist Healing from emotional abuse and reclaiming confidence The official red flag checklist: how to spot if something's wrong Why “I'll change” is usually just a line Why men avoid hard conversations (brains and emotional muscles explained) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever feel like you're doing all the things and STILL about to quit on your big goal halfway through January? Or wake up in a mood (thanks, weird dream), ready to pick a fight with your husband because, well, it FELT real? Or maybe you're just wondering if you'll ever trust another human again after a toxic relationship? Girl, this LIVE episode was basically one big, confidence-boosting therapy session, mixed with messy real talk, community Q&A, some off-the-wall games, and yes, the occasional hard truth. So grab your coffee (or wine, no judgment), get comfy, and jump in with me: SHOWNOTES Why Most New Year's Goals Die Right Now (And How To Be the Exception) When Failing Feels Like the End of the World (My PB&J Disaster)  How To Handle Emotions When Your Client (or Life)  Real Talk Q&A: Dating Again After Trauma, Boundaries, & Rebuilding Self-Esteem  Lisa's Love Lesson: When Your Mood Has Nothing to Do with Reality  When Tough Talks Make Your Partner Run (and What To Do About It)  Viral Hot Take: Dax Shepard, Kristen Bell, and the Anniversary Controversy  Losing Confidence? Here's What to Do When Your Hair (or Life) Starts Falling Out If you made it this far, you're part of my crew now. Spread the word, bring a friend next week, and let's keep building this girl gang of impact. Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're doing all the things and STILL about to quit on your big goal halfway through January? Or wake up in a mood (thanks, weird dream), ready to pick a fight with your husband because, well, it FELT real? Or maybe you're just wondering if you'll ever trust another human again after a toxic relationship? Girl, this LIVE episode was basically one big, confidence-boosting therapy session, mixed with messy real talk, community Q&A, some off-the-wall games, and yes, the occasional hard truth. So grab your coffee (or wine, no judgment), get comfy, and jump in with me: SHOWNOTES Why Most New Year's Goals Die Right Now (And How To Be the Exception) When Failing Feels Like the End of the World (My PB&J Disaster)  How To Handle Emotions When Your Client (or Life)  Real Talk Q&A: Dating Again After Trauma, Boundaries, & Rebuilding Self-Esteem  Lisa's Love Lesson: When Your Mood Has Nothing to Do with Reality  When Tough Talks Make Your Partner Run (and What To Do About It)  Viral Hot Take: Dax Shepard, Kristen Bell, and the Anniversary Controversy  Losing Confidence? Here's What to Do When Your Hair (or Life) Starts Falling Out If you made it this far, you're part of my crew now. Spread the word, bring a friend next week, and let's keep building this girl gang of impact. Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lisa Bilyeu and James Sexton are back to get even deeper into the cheating, the heartbreak, and the real talk about holding a relationship together. This isn't just “divorce horror stories, ”this is real wisdom for keeping love alive and dodging those landmines before things blow up. You'll hear hilarious, hard truths on why people stray, what happens when the spark fades, and how communication can make or break everything. Lisa Bilyeu shares her own stories, they debate forgiveness, boundaries, and when to call it quits. Plus, rapid-fire Q&A and a killer audience question: should you talk about divorce before you even get married?  SHOWNOTES The Five Types of Infidelity (Some Will Surprise You) Is “Soulmate” Just a Hollywood Scam? How Routines & Boredom Sabotage Relationships Why Instagram Makes Cheating Easier Is Cheating Really the Problem, or Just a Symptom? You Don't Owe Your Partner Sex...But Here's What You DO Owe Safety, Boundaries, and Trust Issues To Forgive or Not to Forgive (and What Happens If You Stay) Can You Actually Recover After Betrayal? Audience Q: When Should You Bring Up Divorce? Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com  Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Lisa Bilyeu and James Sexton are back to get even deeper into the cheating, the heartbreak, and the real talk about holding a relationship together. This isn't just “divorce horror stories, ”this is real wisdom for keeping love alive and dodging those landmines before things blow up. You'll hear hilarious, hard truths on why people stray, what happens when the spark fades, and how communication can make or break everything. Lisa Bilyeu shares her own stories, they debate forgiveness, boundaries, and when to call it quits. Plus, rapid-fire Q&A and a killer audience question: should you talk about divorce before you even get married?  SHOWNOTES The Five Types of Infidelity (Some Will Surprise You) Is “Soulmate” Just a Hollywood Scam? How Routines & Boredom Sabotage Relationships Why Instagram Makes Cheating Easier Is Cheating Really the Problem, or Just a Symptom? You Don't Owe Your Partner Sex...But Here's What You DO Owe Safety, Boundaries, and Trust Issues To Forgive or Not to Forgive (and What Happens If You Stay) Can You Actually Recover After Betrayal? Audience Q: When Should You Bring Up Divorce? Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com  Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with New York's top divorce attorney, James Sexton. James Sexton isn't just any lawyer, he's the guy who's been in every kind of messy breakup imaginable, from dealing with narcissists to untangling epic family drama. If you've ever wondered how to spot, handle, or walk away from a toxic relationship (or what really happens behind closed doors in divorce court) this is the conversation you can't miss. In Part 1, James Sexton gets real about narcissists, manipulation, and what you need to do to protect yourself (and your sanity). He shares wild stories from the courtroom, tactical advice on boundary-setting, and why “just trying to be fair” often backfires.  SHOWNOTES Narcissists & Manipulation: What Really Goes Down The “Fairness” Trap in Divorce How to Actually Manage a Narcissist (and Not Lose Your Mind) Tactical Moves for Victims & Covert Communication Courtroom Secrets: Cross-Examining the Master Manipulators Why You Can't “Buy Off” a Bully Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Why Is Everyone Obsessing Over the Nanny? Busting Cheating Stereotypes Women vs Men: Who Really Cheats More (and Who's Smoother About It) How to Not Lose Yourself in Marriage Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com  Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with New York's top divorce attorney, James Sexton. James Sexton isn't just any lawyer, he's the guy who's been in every kind of messy breakup imaginable, from dealing with narcissists to untangling epic family drama. If you've ever wondered how to spot, handle, or walk away from a toxic relationship (or what really happens behind closed doors in divorce court) this is the conversation you can't miss. In Part 1, James Sexton gets real about narcissists, manipulation, and what you need to do to protect yourself (and your sanity). He shares wild stories from the courtroom, tactical advice on boundary-setting, and why “just trying to be fair” often backfires.  SHOWNOTES Narcissists & Manipulation: What Really Goes Down The “Fairness” Trap in Divorce How to Actually Manage a Narcissist (and Not Lose Your Mind) Tactical Moves for Victims & Covert Communication Courtroom Secrets: Cross-Examining the Master Manipulators Why You Can't “Buy Off” a Bully Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Why Is Everyone Obsessing Over the Nanny? Busting Cheating Stereotypes Women vs Men: Who Really Cheats More (and Who's Smoother About It) How to Not Lose Yourself in Marriage Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com  Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Confidence is NOT something you're born with. It's something you build. Take it from Lisa Bilyeu — co-founder of a billion-dollar company (yes billion with a 'b') and author of Radical Confidence — who grew up just trying to avoid the spotlight and fit in.  Listen now and learn how to take control of your mind, beat your insecurities, and tame that negative voice in your head. So you can *finally* achieve the goals you've been too scared to try. Thanks for listening! New episodes drop every Tuesday. Make sure you hit the follow button to get notified.

From the archive: This episode was originally recorded and published in 2022. Our interviews on Entrepreneurs On Fire are meant to be evergreen, and we do our best to confirm that all offers and URL's in these archive episodes are still relevant. Lisa Bilyeu is co-founder of Impact Theory Studios, a digital-first studio whose audience is 7.5 million strong, and author of Radical Confidence, on shelves May 10th. Top 3 Value Bombs 1. You can take ownership of healing yourself, do self-assessments, and listen to red flags from your body. 2. People see you act, move forward, and they think it's confidence. It's radical confidence that keeps you moving forward through a set of tools and a plan, even if you don't have confidence. 3. Failure is potentially the best opportunity to change your mindset on a global scale in everything you do. Order your copy of Radical Confidence today - Radical Confidence Sponsors HighLevel - The ultimate all-in-one platform for entrepreneurs, marketers, coaches, and agencies. Learn more at HighLevelFire.com. Bit IRA - Now might be a great time to convert your IRA or 401(k) to Bitcoin with the help of BitIRA. Go to BitIRA.com/JLD.