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Ready for the real talk? In part two, Dr. Spirit and Lisa Bilyeu get even deeper, unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of love, boundaries, and all those “why does he DO that?!” questions you've probably vented about to your girlfriends. They get into everything from why it's so hard to walk away, to how to communicate without losing yourself, and the sneaky ways gaslighting shows up (yep, even Taylor Swift can relate). With juicy listener questions, viral video clips, and laugh-out-loud moments, Spirit dishes on how to spot performative affection vs. the real deal, why relationships fall apart when you stop trying, and why it's totally OK to expect (and get!) more from love.  SHOWNOTES Infidelity, ownership, and why it's NOT your fault The hard convo: when “life stuff” gets in the way of intimacy The MANY forms of infidelity, yes, emotional and financial too The ultimate red flag: when you start to shrink Why the real offense is when you stick around Take your power back, he doesn't need to change for you to leave Why we crave validation from the very people that hurt us Are your “forevers” even aligned? Are you his partner, or his mom? (Breaking down viral “mental load” drama) The relationship falls apart when you stop trying, now what? How to spot real love from fake affection (for the romantics) Spirit's nonprofit: how to get involved and give back   Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a seriously honest and empowering episode of Women of Impact! In this first half, Lisa Bilyeu sits down with superstar relationship expert Spirit, who brings her no-nonsense wisdom and some hard-hitting truth bombs about love, dating, and why so many women end up feeling stuck in relationships that are less than they deserve. If you've ever found yourself over-analyzing “red flags,” settling for someone's “potential,” or just wanting someone to help you finally decode men's confusing behavior, you're in the right place. Spirit breaks down the real difference between care and control, why settling never works out the way you hope, and how to finally stop repeating patterns you hate. Grab a notebook, this is the relationship reality check you didn't know you needed. SHOWNOTES “Marry Him or Move On”—Red flag vs. green flag game!Is he too involved or just thoughtful? Why it's so easy to fall for potential (and why that's dangerous) Chasing the fantasy vs. living in reality Defining true safety and partnership Red flags: when things move too fast Stories we tell ourselves to justify staying The “almost compatible” trap Raising your standards: how to break the cycle When toxic partners echo your worst fears Spirit gets personal: Surviving a narcissist Healing from emotional abuse and reclaiming confidence The official red flag checklist: how to spot if something's wrong Why “I'll change” is usually just a line Why men avoid hard conversations (brains and emotional muscles explained) Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com Follow Dr. Spirit: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@talk2spirit   Nonprofit (T2S C.A.R.E.S.): https://www.t2scares.org    FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever feel like you're doing all the things and STILL about to quit on your big goal halfway through January? Or wake up in a mood (thanks, weird dream), ready to pick a fight with your husband because, well, it FELT real? Or maybe you're just wondering if you'll ever trust another human again after a toxic relationship? Girl, this LIVE episode was basically one big, confidence-boosting therapy session, mixed with messy real talk, community Q&A, some off-the-wall games, and yes, the occasional hard truth. So grab your coffee (or wine, no judgment), get comfy, and jump in with me: SHOWNOTES Why Most New Year's Goals Die Right Now (And How To Be the Exception) When Failing Feels Like the End of the World (My PB&J Disaster)  How To Handle Emotions When Your Client (or Life)  Real Talk Q&A: Dating Again After Trauma, Boundaries, & Rebuilding Self-Esteem  Lisa's Love Lesson: When Your Mood Has Nothing to Do with Reality  When Tough Talks Make Your Partner Run (and What To Do About It)  Viral Hot Take: Dax Shepard, Kristen Bell, and the Anniversary Controversy  Losing Confidence? Here's What to Do When Your Hair (or Life) Starts Falling Out If you made it this far, you're part of my crew now. Spread the word, bring a friend next week, and let's keep building this girl gang of impact. Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES:  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu and James Sexton are back to get even deeper into the cheating, the heartbreak, and the real talk about holding a relationship together. This isn't just “divorce horror stories, ”this is real wisdom for keeping love alive and dodging those landmines before things blow up. You'll hear hilarious, hard truths on why people stray, what happens when the spark fades, and how communication can make or break everything. Lisa Bilyeu shares her own stories, they debate forgiveness, boundaries, and when to call it quits. Plus, rapid-fire Q&A and a killer audience question: should you talk about divorce before you even get married?  SHOWNOTES The Five Types of Infidelity (Some Will Surprise You) Is “Soulmate” Just a Hollywood Scam? How Routines & Boredom Sabotage Relationships Why Instagram Makes Cheating Easier Is Cheating Really the Problem, or Just a Symptom? You Don't Owe Your Partner Sex...But Here's What You DO Owe Safety, Boundaries, and Trust Issues To Forgive or Not to Forgive (and What Happens If You Stay) Can You Actually Recover After Betrayal? Audience Q: When Should You Bring Up Divorce? Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com  Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with New York's top divorce attorney, James Sexton. James Sexton isn't just any lawyer, he's the guy who's been in every kind of messy breakup imaginable, from dealing with narcissists to untangling epic family drama. If you've ever wondered how to spot, handle, or walk away from a toxic relationship (or what really happens behind closed doors in divorce court) this is the conversation you can't miss. In Part 1, James Sexton gets real about narcissists, manipulation, and what you need to do to protect yourself (and your sanity). He shares wild stories from the courtroom, tactical advice on boundary-setting, and why “just trying to be fair” often backfires.  SHOWNOTES Narcissists & Manipulation: What Really Goes Down The “Fairness” Trap in Divorce How to Actually Manage a Narcissist (and Not Lose Your Mind) Tactical Moves for Victims & Covert Communication Courtroom Secrets: Cross-Examining the Master Manipulators Why You Can't “Buy Off” a Bully Co-Parenting with a Narcissist Why Is Everyone Obsessing Over the Nanny? Busting Cheating Stereotypes Women vs Men: Who Really Cheats More (and Who's Smoother About It) How to Not Lose Yourself in Marriage Thank you to our sponsors:  Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow James Sexton: Website: https://www.nycdivorces.com  Instagram: https://instagram.com/nycdivorcelawyer  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sextonshow  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nycdivorce  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Confidence is NOT something you're born with. It's something you build. Take it from Lisa Bilyeu — co-founder of a billion-dollar company (yes billion with a 'b') and author of Radical Confidence — who grew up just trying to avoid the spotlight and fit in.  Listen now and learn how to take control of your mind, beat your insecurities, and tame that negative voice in your head. So you can *finally* achieve the goals you've been too scared to try. Thanks for listening! New episodes drop every Tuesday. Make sure you hit the follow button to get notified.

In this compelling first part of a two-part Women of Impact interview, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes powerhouse entrepreneur and confidence expert Leila Hormozi. Known for her candor and unfiltered wisdom, Leila Hormozi joins the show to share her personal journey from self-doubt to self-mastery and break down the real tactics that helped her become “unfuckwithable.” From exposing “bull narratives” to actionable steps for raising your tolerance to discomfort, you'll learn the science-backed (and painfully honest) fundamentals of taking action, mastering self-talk, and separating truth from the stories you tell yourself. If you've ever struggled with fear, imposter syndrome, or toxic self-criticism, this is a must-listen masterclass. SHOWNOTES Why Women Underestimate Themselves The “Four Cs” Framework to Grow Confidence Viewing Failure As Data, Not Criticism Fake It Til You Make It: Skill or Trap? Simple Confidence Challenges Anyone Can Try Tracking Truth, Not Mood (Alien & Screenplay Technique) Start Small and Sit in the “Swamp” of Change Focusing on the Next Task in Uncomfortable Growth How to Make Change Stick and Avoid Burnout Tolerate Discomfort vs. Suffering Willingness to Feel Insecure, Fearful, or Anxious Don't Just Sit In Your Feelings — Take ActionChoosing Narratives That Move You Closer to Goals Thank you to our sponsors:  True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Leila Hormozi: Website: https://www.acquisition.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leilahormozi/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LeilaHormozi  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you've ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today's powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you're taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb.  “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.'” -Terri Cole If you're dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri's podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/⁠  And… Don't forget to check out Terri's latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠  Original air date: 11-16-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here. If you've ever wondered if his romantic gestures were just a ploy to trap you, this conversation with Terri Cole is just what you need. In today's powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact with the insightful Terri Cole, we expose the love bombers and boundary manipulators for what they are. Their tactics of 'unearned intimacy' have not earned your time, your attention or love. As we dive into how they manipulate emotions, paint B.S. visions of a future together you really want to hear just to gain control, I hope you're taking notes. It's time to have your own back and demand truth in action. Remember, manipulation isn't about love, it's about power. Let's arm ourselves with knowledge and kick these red flags to the curb.  “Our job is to have our own back. Our job is to go, ‘I can count on me to not people-please myself out of my own integrity.'” -Terri Cole If you're dealing with any kind of abuse and feel unsafe in your relationship, please check out Terri's podcast episode, How to Safely Leave An Abusive Relationship: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/safely-leave-abusive-relationship/⁠  And… Don't forget to check out Terri's latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠  Original air date: 11-15-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back for the second half of Lisa's conversation with Dr. Mindy Pelz… and it's nothing but pure gold for anyone who wants more confidence, stronger friendships, and a real shot at loving yourself and your life. Dr. Mindy reveals her full playbook for finding your voice (and keeping it!), plus hilarious stories and simple neuroscience-backed ways to break the “shoulds” that keep you stuck. From embracing movement you actually love (goodbye “I have to go to the gym!”) to finding friends who lift you higher and learning to spot toxic relationship traps, this episode is overflowing with the practical advice you'll wish you learned years ago. And don't miss the metaphorical “lime tree”—the ultimate sisterhood, where rooted, authentic women support each other and show up 100% real. SHOWNOTES What Butterflies (Role Models) Do Differently How Potentialists See Your True Self Finding Out Which Friends Are Lifting You Up The Magic of Anchors — Friends Who Will Just Listen Oxytocin Moments — Finding the Right “Wells” Narcissists & the Oxytocin Trap (Why It Feels So Good) Why Authenticity Beats Performing in Relationships Outsourcing Validation — Moving Back to Self-Love “Do Nothing” Sessions — Giving Space for Inspiration Fill Your Schedule With More Joy How to Break Free From Golden Handcuffs Is It Filling You Up, or Keeping You Chained? Lime Tree Sisterhood — Rooting Into Your Authentic Self Aging Is Freedom — Stop Fighting It, Start Living Thank you to our sponsors: Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Mindy Pelz: Website: https://drmindypelz.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrMindyPelz  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz   FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Lisa Bilyeu is joined by health expert, author, and all-around empowering badass Dr. Mindy Pelz. Together, they dig deep into why so many women feel pressured to live up to exhausting expectations set by society… from how we look, to how we show up as moms, wives, and at work. Dr. Mindy shares her own stories and insights from groundbreaking research, showing how these childhood messages quietly shape our boundaries, self-confidence, and relationships (and why so many of us feel “not okay” trying to keep up). You'll hear a refreshingly honest take on body image struggles, people-pleasing, and the relentless chase for outside approval. Plus, Dr. Mindy offers a glimpse at her game-changing toolkit for helping women find their voice and finally start living for themselves. SHOWNOTES How Girls Lose Their Voice (and Why It Matters) Living for Outside Approval — Why It's So Exhausting The “Bag of Burden”: Beauty, Kids, Cooking, and More Trying to “Do It All ”— Rosie the Riveter Myth Why We Feel Not Okay (and How to Change That) How Chasing Validation Hurts Us 8 Steps to Get Your Voice Back: The Mini Rebellion How Solo Moments of Peace Reset Your Intuition What to Ask Yourself During Alone Time Unpacking the Father Wound When Your Marriage Is Built on Pleasing Others Movement Should Be Fun—Ditching the Gym “Shoulds” Soul-Fueling Conversations vs. Friend Drama Why Your Inner Circle Shapes Your Self-Esteem Butterfly, Potentialist & Anchor Friends Explained Overcoming Self-Doubt & Body Image Issues Thank you to our sponsors: Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Mindy Pelz: Website: https://drmindypelz.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrMindyPelz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.mindypelz FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and this one is CHOCK FULL of nuggets to empower you to break the toxic cycles and find the courage to live your life YOUR WAY!! Today my girl Najwa Zebian is back and she's on a frikin' mission to empower women like you and me to heal from past traumas, express yourself fearlessly, and create a life you love!  Najwa is an activist, author, poet, educator, and speaker whose words have pierced the hearts of millions of women around the world. Her latest book, “The Only Constant” is a guide to embracing the changes you must make (or endure) on the journey to living the life you want! Order your copy of “The Only Constant” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Change is scary, and it can be really tempting to stay with the devil you know rather than face the pain, set the boundaries, and make the hard decisions. But it's NECESSARY if you want to live the life you want and make the little girl inside you feel SOOO safe and proud. So if you're ready to not only change for a moment, but ACTUALLY be in the driver's seat of your life, this one's for you my homie! Original air date: 3-6-2024 Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Order “The Only Constant”: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and this one is CHOCK FULL of nuggets to empower you to break the toxic cycles and find the courage to live your life YOUR WAY!! Today my girl Najwa Zebian is back and she's on a frikin' mission to empower women like you and me to heal from past traumas, express yourself fearlessly, and create a life you love!  Najwa is an activist, author, poet, educator, and speaker whose words have pierced the hearts of millions of women around the world. Her latest book, “The Only Constant” is a guide to embracing the changes you must make (or endure) on the journey to living the life you want! Order your copy of “The Only Constant” here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Change is scary, and it can be really tempting to stay with the devil you know rather than face the pain, set the boundaries, and make the hard decisions. But it's NECESSARY if you want to live the life you want and make the little girl inside you feel SOOO safe and proud. So if you're ready to not only change for a moment, but ACTUALLY be in the driver's seat of your life, this one's for you my homie! Original air date: 3-6-2024 Follow Najwa Zebian: Website: https://najwazebian.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/najwazebian/ Order “The Only Constant”: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593580567 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to Part 2 of this unfiltered, in-depth conversation with Dr. Orion Taraban. After laying the psychological groundwork in Part 1, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Taraban dive even deeper, breaking down gendered attraction strategies, healthy relationship “marketing,” and why understanding the captain vs. passenger analogy could forever change the way you approach dating and love. In this segment, Dr. Taraban unpacks the mechanics of authentic vs. performative displays of competence, the profound importance of relationship “mission statements,” and why both partners should rigorously inspect what they're signing up for before setting sail. The conversation doesn't shy away from sticky subjects: sex, exclusivity, money, “testing” your partner, and how so many women mistake potential for reality. If you're ready for raw, research-backed advice on navigating modern romance from a place of strength, you won't want to miss this. In this episode: Dating Traps: Opposites, Attractions & Emotional Hangovers The Captain & Passenger Analogy: Building Versus Boarding the Relationship The Power of Mission Statements (and Why Every Couple Needs One) Women, Safety, and “Testing” in Early Relationships Sex, Boundaries, and the Dance of Intimacy Love-Bombing, Female Strategies, and the Reality of Transactional Dynamics Appearances, Authenticity, and Relationship “Marketing” Why You Must Inspect the Itinerary Before Committing Accepting People for Who They Are Versus “Changing” Them How to Tell If Their Promised “Destination” Is Real Reclaiming Power and Responsibility in Your Love Life Thank you to our sponsors:  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of "Women of Impact," Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Orion Taraban, psychologist, YouTube creator, and author of the bestselling book "The Value of Others." Dr. Taraban brings a refreshingly candid — and sometimes controversial — perspective to the complex world of romantic relationships, power dynamics, and emotional safety. Together, they pull back the curtain on common traps women fall into, how to recognize manipulation (especially from narcissists or cluster B personalities), and the essential mindsets needed to reclaim your relationship power once and for all. Dr. Taraban and Lisa set the groundwork by tackling why no one can technically manipulate your emotions — unless you allow them to. This is essential listening for anyone looking to understand how to protect themselves while dating—or simply elevate their personal relationships to a new level of autonomy. In this episode: The Nature of Manipulation & Emotional Vulnerability Why “Poker Face” Tactics Matter for Safety Real-World Examples: DARVO & the Anatomy of Gaslighting The 10 Principles of Power: Who Really Holds the Cards? Women, Power, and the Unspoken Rules of Pursuit The Role of Optionality in Relationships Double Standards, Gendered Power, and Inequality Attraction, Fantasy, and the Dangers of Projecting Red Flags, Rationalizations & Why We Stay Cluster B Personalities and the Hallmarks of Narcissistic Abuse Thank you to our sponsors:  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Dr. Orion Taraban: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@psychacks Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/ FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From the archive: This episode was originally recorded and published in 2022. Our interviews on Entrepreneurs On Fire are meant to be evergreen, and we do our best to confirm that all offers and URL's in these archive episodes are still relevant. Lisa Bilyeu is co-founder of Impact Theory Studios, a digital-first studio whose audience is 7.5 million strong, and author of Radical Confidence, on shelves May 10th. Top 3 Value Bombs 1. You can take ownership of healing yourself, do self-assessments, and listen to red flags from your body. 2. People see you act, move forward, and they think it's confidence. It's radical confidence that keeps you moving forward through a set of tools and a plan, even if you don't have confidence. 3. Failure is potentially the best opportunity to change your mindset on a global scale in everything you do. Order your copy of Radical Confidence today - Radical Confidence Sponsors HighLevel - The ultimate all-in-one platform for entrepreneurs, marketers, coaches, and agencies. Learn more at HighLevelFire.com. Bit IRA - Now might be a great time to convert your IRA or 401(k) to Bitcoin with the help of BitIRA. Go to BitIRA.com/JLD.

They look normal. Charming, even. Narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths, these are the people who smile at you, love-bomb you, and study you… all while hiding the truth underneath. So I pulled together some of the most dangerous minds in profiling, psychology, and criminal behavioral analysis to expose the red flags women miss, the manipulation tactics predators rely on, and the gut instincts that can literally save your life. Homie, this is your crash course in spotting the people who do harm… before they do it to you. Here's exactly what we dive into: How psychopaths hide in plain sight (and why smart women still get trapped) The subtle behaviors predators use to test your boundaries Why your intuition is faster (and more accurate) than you think How charm, charisma, and “perfect partners” mask dark intentions The psychological patterns that reveal coercive control and danger Show Notes: Laura Richards: How Psychopaths Hide Behind Charm and Coercive Control Scott Rouse: The Stare, the Startle, and the Silent Cues That Expose Psychopaths Dr. Ramani: The Dark Triad, Dark Tetrad, and Why Malignant Personalities Love Control Jim Clemente: Your Intuition Is a Survival Tool, Here's How to Trust It Thank you to our sponsors:  OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Discounts at https://trueclassic.com/WOI Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Microperfumes: 60% Off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Follow Today's Guests: Laura Richards Website: https://laurarichards.co.uk  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurarichards999  Scott Rouse Website: https://scottrouse.com  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ScottRouse  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottrouse3  Dr. Ramani YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani  Jim Clemente Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjimclemente  Twitter/X: https://x.com/JimClemente  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you've ever found yourself obsessing over someone who barely knows you exist, or clinging to a connection that's all spark but no substance, this video with Lisa Bilyeu is going to hit home. In it, I break down the four levels of attraction . . . and reveal which ones matter most.You'll learn how to stop overinvesting in situations that aren't going anywhere, how to recognize when you're confusing impact with character, and how to stop grieving someone who was never your person to begin with. If you're done wasting time and ready to build something real, don't miss this.---►► Find the Beautiful & LASTING Relationship You Want. Watch My Masterclass, From Casual to Committed for FREE at GetCommitment.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is a fan fav episode. Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she's lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. Original air date: 11-6-2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey everyone, it's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to another heart-shaking, soul-quaking episode of "Women of Impact." Today, I have the absolute pleasure of bringing back one of my all-time favorite guests, a woman who has not only impacted my life but countless others with her raw, unfiltered honesty and boundless wisdom—the incredible Lisa Nichols. In this episode, Lisa Nichols is bringing the heat and the heart as she takes us on a deeply personal journey through her emotional struggles and the path to rediscovering herself. Imagine battling through toxic relationships, facing the depths of clinical depression, and constantly wrestling with societal pressures that try to tell you who you should be—Lisa has been there, and she's lived to tell the tale in the most empowering way. She opens up about the courageous steps she took to reclaim her life, including relocating to escape a toxic situation and creating practices to rebuild her self-worth. We dive into the transformative power of self-reflection and forgiveness, and Lisa shares the incredible methods she used, from affirmations and mentorship to visual reminders that kept her grounded and focused on her true potential. But that's not all—Lisa and I explore the tough, gritty topics like the internal conflict of intuition versus desire, and the necessity of self-acceptance in a world that often tries to dim our light. She even introduces us to her innovative "boldness quiz," designed to help us all push past our fears and embrace our true, fearless selves. And for those of you who crave a little entertainment mixed with empowerment, Lisa gives us a sneak peek into her latest endeavor—a one-woman Broadway show that's set to inspire and transform lives. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Aging affects metabolism; hormones necessitate dietary changes. 16:06 Realizations about self-reliance in relationships. 29:27 Fear of inadequacy and underrepresentation in media. 35:04 Struggling with self-esteem and room dynamics. 52:51 Exploring pivotal life choices and decision moments. 57:49 Desire to help women in challenging times. 01:08:55 Journey to body acceptance after shaming experience. Original air date: 11-6-2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu here with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and if you're dealing with a narcissist, this episode is PACKED with truthbombs that you NEED to hear so you can change the way you interact with a narcissist FOREVER.  Today my girl Dr. Ramani is pulling the curtain back and exposing the mind games that narcissists play ON THE DAILY to make you doubt yourself and even question your own frikin' sanity. Dr. Ramani is no stranger to Women of Impact. As a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic relationships, Dr. Ramani digs deep into the BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS that narcissists use every single day to manipulate the hell out of you and keep you sucked into the relationship. PRE-ORDER Dr. Ramani's new book here: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Original air date: 2-5-24 In this episode, we're diving into: Why narcissists will NEVER CHANGE, EVEN IF you leave them! What narcissists will do to look good in the world, so that NO ONE ELSE sees how they play on your fears and steal your sense of self. Why it's SOOO easy to be in denial and accept domination, gaslighting, and indoctrination as your “new normal”. And why ANYONE is vulnerable to a narcissist's mind games because you can't always see them coming… So whether you're in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, or maybe you suspect a family member or friend is, this episode is here to help you spot the toxic behavior patterns so you can heal from the abuse and put the pieces back together.  Follow Dr. Ramani: Website: https://doctor-ramani.com/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Pre-Order “It's Not You”: ⁠https://a.co/d/7qYmF0f⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. On this very personal episode of Heath Theory, Tom Bilyeu interviews the co-founder of Impact Theory (and his wife), Lisa Bilyeu. For years Lisa has suffered from catastrophic dysbiosis, and her battle with illness is actually the inspiration for Health Theory. Now that her health is manageable, she is sharing the most important lessons she has learned. In this episode, she explains why she needed to take total ownership of her health, how she dealt with shame and fear, why she has learned to use controlled experiments, and why it is so important to challenge accepted beliefs on health. Original air date: 4-17-2023 Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter:https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Sponsors: Women of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network:⁠ https://growthday.com/podcasts⁠ LinkedIn Jobs helps you find the qualified candidates you want to talk to, faster. Post your job for free at ⁠https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI⁠. Get FREE GROUND BEEF FOR LIFE plus $20 off your first box at ⁠https://bit.ly/ButcherBoxWOI⁠. Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact? Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the ⁠Get Confident⁠ playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with ⁠Love Lab. ⁠ Curious about your health? We've got you covered in ⁠Health Hub.⁠  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the ⁠Badass Boosts⁠ playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: ⁠https://apple.co/457ebrP⁠ Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : ⁠https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

[Original air date: 11-18-17]. Today, we're discussing how to keep your relationship strong through the holiday season! FOLLOW LISA: Lisa's Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Women of Impact Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/womenofimpact/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ FOLLOW TOM: Tom's Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/⁠ Impact Theory Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/impacttheory/⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en⁠ Tom's Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/tombilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know those moments when you feel something's off… but you can't explain why? Or when you keep choosing the same type of guy, even though your heart (and the receipts) tell you he's a walking red flag? Homie, THIS is the episode you've been waiting for. Macken Murphy, behavioral scientist and researcher from Oxford, breaks down the real science behind infidelity, attraction, jealousy, and why women keep choosing the same men who hurt them. Uncover the brutal, empowering truth that helps you finally understand how men think, why they cheat, and how to protect your heart without losing your power. SHOWNOTES The Traits That Make Someone More Likely to Cheat Narcissism, Dark Triad Traits & Affairs Is Cheating Genetic? The Controversial Data Why Men Desire Sexual Variety (and What Women Want Too) The Real Reasons Women Cheat vs. Why Men Cheat Hunger & Attraction: Why Men Prefer Bigger Bodies When Resources Drop Tattoos, Promiscuity & Approachability Why Attention from Others Feels Good Even in Healthy Relationships Settling, Timing & Why Divorce Rates Shift with Age Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Macken Murphy: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@murphymacken   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mackenmurphy  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mackenmurphy  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey ladies, Lisa Bilyeu here and I've got a juicy secret to share. Even after 20+ years of marriage, I'm still exploring the world of sex and intimacy! And I want you to join me on this journey with award-winning sexologist, Miss Jaiya. Prepare to discover bedroom tips that will ignite your sexual appetite and deepen your bond with your partner. This two-part episode is a no-holds-barred conversation about awakening your own erotic pleasure beyond the traditional penis-centric narrative. We're removing the sexual masks, unearthing our erotic blueprints, and boosting our confidence to red-hot levels! Jaiya shares how to transform bedroom shame into sizzle, rejection into ravishment. We're ditching outdated do's and don'ts for a sensational sex life makeover. Think erotic compatibility is key? Jaiya presents a fresh perspective that might just spark fireworks in your bedroom! “Sex is a tool for our own realization.” -Miss Jaiya So, ready to redefine your sex life? I'm Lisa Bilyeu, empowering women is my game. Don't miss out on part two with Jaiya tomorrow right here on Women of Impact. Together, let's build bridges of passion and create pleasurable nights you truly deserve! Catch us for part two where we continue to unpack all the erotic, kinky, and taboo topics around sex. Let's get ready to create your best sex life ever! Take the Erotic Quiz Today: ⁠https://theblueprintbreakthrough.com/⁠  Check out Jaiya's book, Your Blueprint for Pleasure: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Your-Blueprint-Pleasure-Awaken_and-Fulfill_Your/dp/145495003X⁠  Original air date: 12-7-2023 Follow Miss Jaiya: Website: ⁠https://missjaiya.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@Missjaiya⁠   Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/missjai Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey ladies, Lisa Bilyeu here and I've got a juicy secret to share. Even after 20+ years of marriage, I'm still exploring the world of sex and intimacy! And I want you to join me on this journey with award-winning sexologist, Miss Jaiya. Prepare to discover bedroom tips that will ignite your sexual appetite and deepen your bond with your partner. This two-part episode is a no-holds-barred conversation about awakening your own erotic pleasure beyond the traditional penis-centric narrative. We're removing the sexual masks, unearthing our erotic blueprints, and boosting our confidence to red-hot levels! Jaiya shares how to transform bedroom shame into sizzle, rejection into ravishment. We're ditching outdated do's and don'ts for a sensational sex life makeover. Think erotic compatibility is key? Jaiya presents a fresh perspective that might just spark fireworks in your bedroom! “Sex is a tool for our own realization.” -Miss Jaiya So, ready to redefine your sex life? I'm Lisa Bilyeu, empowering women is my game. Don't miss out on part two with Jaiya tomorrow right here on Women of Impact. Together, let's build bridges of passion and create pleasurable nights you truly deserve! Catch us for part two where we continue to unpack all the erotic, kinky, and taboo topics around sex. Let's get ready to create your best sex life ever! Take the Erotic Quiz Today: ⁠https://theblueprintbreakthrough.com/⁠  Check out Jaiya's book, Your Blueprint for Pleasure: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Your-Blueprint-Pleasure-Awaken_and-Fulfill_Your/dp/145495003X⁠  Original air date: 12-6-2023 Follow Miss Jaiya: Website: ⁠https://missjaiya.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@Missjaiya⁠   Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/missjaiya/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies! Are you ready to turn your crippling exhaustion and overwhelming stress into the very thing that builds your confidence? Well, I'm right there with you! I'm sharing a very candid Instagram Live I recorded recently, and I'm giving you the all-access pass to what the real journey to success and confidence looks like (for me anyway). It's not all luxury and glitz; it's genuine, raw, and at times, extremely uncomfortable. It means the world to me to be able to share these not-so-glamourous moments with you, so you know what it takes to keep moving forward. Your confidence is going to take a nose-dive, and the decisions you make will feel questionable at times.  Why this honesty? Because it's real. And in real life, these tough times are universal. In this episode, I'm serving up some serious food for thought on how to stay present, manage your energy, and tackle those inevitable roadblocks like a true champion. Also, let me tell you the most peculiar date I've ever been on. I'm spilling the tea on how my hubby and I went from causal fling to the unexpected love of a lifetime. I hope our 22-year long journey inspires someone and reveals what's possible.. So, if you're all set to change your perspective on overwhelm, say farewell to burnout, and step up your game, hit that play button and let's go.  Original air date: 2-9-2024 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back for Part 2 of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu and special guest Mark Manson. In this continuation, Mark delivers even deeper insights on navigating love, relationships, and the psychology behind attraction. Discover why women so often fall for narcissists, the hidden codependency dynamic, and the harsh truths most dating experts won't say out loud. Lisa and Mark delve into the difference between being needed and being needy, how to identify green flags, and why trust and respect matter more than love alone. With honest conversation about scorecards, emotional ownership, and the Venn diagram between attraction and compatibility, this episode is packed with empowering tools and ways for women to break free from toxic cycles. Find out exactly what makes a healthy relationship, why controlling partners fail the "no" test, and how to build a romance that amplifies the best in both partners. SHOWNOTES Evolutionary Roots Of Attraction Mark's "Three Fundamentals": Honest Living, Actions, Communication Types of Women: Receptive, Neutral, Unreceptive: What Mark Teaches Men  The Keys To Healthy Relationships: Responsibility & The "Scorecard" Trap  Nonviolent Communication & Emotional Ownership  The Willingness To Say No, Respecting Partner's Agency  Harsh Truths: Why Love Doesn't Mean Compatibility  Why Love Doesn't Solve Relationship Problems The Flip Between Victim & Player Trust And Respect: The Ultimate Relationship Amplifiers Thank you to our sponsors: True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Microperfumes: 60% Off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Follow Mark Manson: Website: https://markmanson.net  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markmanson  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join host Lisa Bilyeu as she sits down with New York Times bestselling author Mark Manson, whose book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" has empowered millions globally. Mark is here to dismantle the most manipulative dating advice women face, decode pickup artist tactics, and reveal the difference between toxic manipulation and genuine interest from men. Whether you're dating, building self-worth, or trying to avoid emotional traps, this episode delivers the raw truth—Mark's signature blend of irreverent honesty and practical insight. In part 1, Lisa and Mark unpack why manipulative dating tactics "work," what it means to be truly honest in relationships, how to spot negging, faux-confidence, and red flags behind power dynamics. They break down everyday dating scenarios and teach you how to reclaim your agency, build resilience, and recognize when your boundaries are being crossed. Buckle up for practical strategies and uncomfortable truths, designed to protect and empower you. SHOWNOTES Dishonest vs. Honest Dating, Why Manipulation Works  "Negging" Explained: Spotting Backhanded Compliments  How To Tell If He's Honest Or Manipulative Intention vs. Words: What Healthy Communication Looks Like  The "Fuck Yes or No" Principle for Modern Dating The Ambiguity Trap, Where Good Relationships Go Bad  How Pickup Artistry Preys on Vulnerable Women  Why These Manipulative Tactics Only Work On Insecure People Do You Attract What You Are? The People Pleaser/Narcissist Link  Why Women Are Attracted To Narcissists The "Deadbeat" Dynamic: Vulnerable Narcissists Explained Why Neediness Is A Turn-Off For Women But Not Men Thank you to our sponsors: True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Microperfumes: 60% Off at https://microperfumes.com/woi Follow Mark Manson: Website: https://markmanson.net  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markmanson  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. This is a fan fav episode. What up homies, I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu and today I invited my girl, Faith Jenkins back for another episode to guide you on this journey of empowerment and it's dedicated to all of the single ladies that are fed up with B.S. dating advice and trying to keep everyone else happy. We're about to share a secret with you - it's the secret of embracing and living your best life, no matter what stage of single you're at (actually it's more like 6 secrets that are no longer secret, but they are life changing). No one talks about how exciting and meaningful the single life can be. Being single can be an exciting, fulfilling phase of your life that's so much more than a waiting room for marriage or failed relationships. In fact, it's a time of self-exploration, a time to unchain yourself from past hurts, and a time to understand what you truly want from love and life. This two-part episode is a pot of priceless lessons on mastering the art of being single and happy. We cover everything - from enjoying the single phase, becoming an intentional dater, to understanding the importance of marriage for you (in your own words,not your momma's words). We're not just talking about the good bits, but also the challenges - like family pressure, loneliness, and the fear of settling. Welcome to Women of Impact - where being single is celebrated, not single-shamed, and check out the 6 Steps to Master Your Single Soulmate Journey with Faith Jenkins: ⁠https://sisdontsettle.thinkific.com/courses/sis-dont-settle-six-steps-to-master-the-single-to-soulmate-journey⁠  Original air date: 11-9-2023 Follow Faith Jenkins: Website: ⁠https://judgefaithjenkins.com/⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/JudgeFaith⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/judgefaithjenkins/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/judgefaithtv⁠   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What up homies, I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu and today I invited my girl, Faith Jenkins back for another episode to guide you on this journey of empowerment and it's dedicated to all of the single ladies that are fed up with B.S. dating advice and trying to keep everyone else happy. We're about to share a secret with you - it's the secret of embracing and living your best life, no matter what stage of single you're at (actually it's more like 6 secrets that are no longer secret, but they are life changing). No one talks about how exciting and meaningful the single life can be. Being single can be an exciting, fulfilling phase of your life that's so much more than a waiting room for marriage or failed relationships. In fact, it's a time of self-exploration, a time to unchain yourself from past hurts, and a time to understand what you truly want from love and life. This two-part episode is a pot of priceless lessons on mastering the art of being single and happy. We cover everything - from enjoying the single phase, becoming an intentional dater, to understanding the importance of marriage for you (in your own words,not your momma's words). We're not just talking about the good bits, but also the challenges - like family pressure, loneliness, and the fear of settling. Welcome to Women of Impact - where being single is celebrated, not single-shamed, and check out the 6 Steps to Master Your Single Soulmate Journey with Faith Jenkins: ⁠https://sisdontsettle.thinkific.com/courses/sis-dont-settle-six-steps-to-master-the-single-to-soulmate-journey⁠  Original air date: 11-8-2023 Follow Faith Jenkins: Website: ⁠https://judgefaithjenkins.com/⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/JudgeFaith⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/judgefaithjenkins/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/judgefaithtv⁠   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. What's up homies! Lisa Bilyeu here, and boy, do I have a treat for you today with this uplifting Instagram Live conversation with my girl, Kimberly Shannon Murphy. In this special episode, we're diving into an incredibly inspiring and powerful journey of resilience and transformation.  Now, if you don't know who Kimberly is, let me just say, she's a woman who wears many hats - she's a survivor, an author, and an award-winning Hollywood stuntwoman! Yes, she's jumped out of buildings and hung from helicopters, but what truly sets her apart is her unyielding spirit to turn the most heartbreaking adversity into frikin' hardcore strength.  “I had the moment of, ‘f*ck you, you're not going to win.” -Kimberly Shannon Murphy So, whether you're tuning in while sipping your morning coffee or during your evening wind-down, get ready for a candid, heart-to-heart chat that will leave you inspired and empowered to make the change you've been longing for in your own life. Original air date: 7-21-2023 Follow Kim Murphy: YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@StuntwomanKimberlyShannon⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@kimberlyshannonmurphy⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/kimberlyshannonmurphystunts/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Welcome to another empowering episode of Women of Impact! I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today we're diving into a topic that's been chipping away at too many women's identity and confidence - dealing with narcissists. If you've been feeling stuck in an unhealthy relationship with a narcissist, this episode is sure to hit home. Joining me in this special Instagram Live is the one and only Rebecca Zung, a top attorney renowned for her expertise in slaying narcissists. Together, we're bringing you quick tips and effective strategies to help you Slay the Bully in your life! In this episode, we get super tactical,which I love the most! We dive deep into how you can outsmart the manipulator without compromising your integrity. Rebecca generously shares vital tips for those co-parenting with a narcissist who is trying to turn your kid against you. And, we'll unravel "easy" strategies to help you dodge the bully by shedding light on how they conditioned you in the first place. As Rebecca wisely said, “Their triggers are not your responsibility.” Let's reclaim your power! We also have some amazing resources for you today also: *Disarm the Narc, a free resource courtesy of Rebecca:⁠ https://disarmthenarc.com/⁠ Follow Rebecca Zung for more tips to Slay the Bully: Website: ⁠https://www.rebeccazung.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of the transformative conversation on Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu and guest Adam Lane Smith move from the science of intimacy into the step-by-step tactics for building indestructible relationships. Adam, a sought-after relationship coach and author, returns to break down the four levels of peace a woman brings to a healthy partnership… and why executive partnership is the secret weapon for thriving marriages. This half tackles tough questions on how to spot manipulators, narcissists, and avoidant partners, dissecting the behavioral clues before you get emotionally invested. Lisa and Adam also face controversial truths around infidelity, parenthood, and why major life changes like having a baby push couples to their breaking point. Expect candid insights, role-playing real scenarios, and practical scripts to use in your own relationship. Adam's methodology empowers women to ask for what they need, set boundaries, and choose partners who offer mutual respect and trust without compromise. SHOWNOTES Why Do Men Cheat After Pregnancy? Building Agreements to Prevent Loneliness & Infidelity Hard Truths About Male Psychology & Intimacy The Need for Touch: Why Men Are Starved for Affection Do Emotional Affairs Hurt Women More? The Real Gender Divide Why Men's Sexual Needs Must Be Understood Communication Styles: Emotional Processing vs. Solutions Scripts for Explaining Emotional Needs to Men “I Respect You”—The Most Powerful Words to Say How Respect Differs from Love & Why Men Need to Hear It The Cost of Withholding Respect Women of Impact listeners get a 10% discount on Adam's programs at bundle.adamlanesmith.com with code: IMPACT10. Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://adamlanesmith.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentadam  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a powerful edition of Women of Impact with host Lisa Bilyeu, joined by renowned couples therapist and attachment expert, Adam Lane Smith. Adam has spent over fifteen years helping thousands of couples and individuals overcome barriers to deep, meaningful connection… and today, he's here to unravel the hidden truths behind intimacy, sex, and relationship dynamics that most women have never been taught. In this first half, Adam and Lisa cut through popular misconceptions about intimacy, exploring why men and women seem to speak different emotional languages, especially when it comes to sex and bonding. They dive into the science of attachment, hormones, and brain chemistry, revealing practical strategies for triggering true emotional connection with men… both inside and outside of the bedroom. Whether you're single, dating, or committed, this episode will challenge the myths holding you back and give you the tools to build trust, safety, and lasting partnership. Tune in for actionable advice, relatable stories, and an honest look at the pitfalls of modern dating. Show Notes Why Men and Women Don't Speak the Same Language in Sex The Science Behind Sex, Trust, and Emotional Bonding Three Ways to Create Emotional Bonding During Sex The Four Levels of Male Safety Every Woman Needs Four Levels of Peace Women Bring to Relationships How to Spot Manipulative vs. Avoidant Men Narcissism, Contempt, and Behavioral Red Flags Excessive Need for Control: Avoidant vs. Manipulative Dynamics Shifting Blame: Insecurity vs. Deliberate Manipulation Boundaries: Violated Ethics and Core Goals When Men See You as an Object, Not a Partner Women of Impact listeners get a 10% discount on Adam's programs at bundle.adamlanesmith.com with code: IMPACT10. Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://adamlanesmith.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentadam  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

PART 2 In part two of this compelling conversation on Women of Impact, Lisa Nichols and Lisa Bilyeu dive even deeper into untangling the complex realities of trust, control, and emotional healing in relationships. The discussion offers a clear lens for identifying manipulation and distinguishing genuine partnership from controlling behaviors… vital insights for anyone navigating confusion and uncertainty in love. With vulnerability and hard-earned wisdom, Lisa Nichols unpacks how to set non-negotiable boundaries, spot when your needs are being ignored, and stay attuned to your own intuition. The episode features a powerful, practical segment—“Stay, Wait or Run Like Hell”—guiding listeners through real-life relationship dilemmas with clear red, yellow, or green light advice. Prepare to walk away with the tools and resolve to create, demand, and receive the healthy, passionate, and expansive love you deserve. SHOWNOTES Healing to break the cycle and avoid repeating lessons Letting go: The power of releasing attachments Loving from a distance and prioritizing self-love Mirror work, body positivity, and redefining self-value Audacious, unapologetic confidence in relationships “Stay, Wait or Run Like Hell”—relationship red/yellow/green light scenarios The danger of being “low-maintenance” and not expressing needs Navigating betrayal and choosing yourself Requiring partners to love your evolution What to do after betrayal: Affirmations, non-negotiables, safe spaces More relationship scenarios and self-fulfillment Cultivating vulnerability, courageous conversations, and radical self-advocacy Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Lisa Nichols: Website: https://motivatingthemasses.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisa2motivate YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LisaNichols  Take Lisa's Boldness Barometer to find out how bold you're playing: https://motivatingthemasses.com/playbolder/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, we explore the importance of setting boundaries to avoid feeling worthless and being pushed around in any relationship, and why speaking up and pissing people off is essential to have your own back and maintain your self-respect. Lisa also delves into how cultural or societal pressures can impact decision-making and why prioritizing oneself is crucial in the long term. Original air date: 4-10-2023 Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter:https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part 2 In Part 2 of this powerful Women of Impact conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Judge Lynn Toler turn their attention to the crossroads of staying, leaving, and starting over. Judge Lynn shares her strategies for staying calm in the face of deep disrespect, the art of navigating difficult conversations, and the emotional intelligence tactics that have kept her grounded in and out of court. This half dives into the psychology behind why people don't leave unhappy relationships… from fear of change and financial insecurity to the hope things might get better and the social myths that hold women hostage. Judge Lynn reveals what truly makes or breaks a partnership, why couples should treat their marriage like a business, and her personal journey of loss and resilience following 34 years of marriage.  Here's exactly what we dive into: The power of giving voice to your emotions… at the DMV, and beyond Reading people in court: The dance of emotional intelligence How women lose confidence and identity in relationships The “us against the problem” mindset How to safely exit abusive relationships What happens after Divorce Court: Stories of hope and healing The compatibility test: Questions every couple should ask before marrying Why understanding men (and women) is key for deeper compassion The secret to Judge Lynn's lasting marriage Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/  Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part 1 In this compelling first half of a two-part Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the legendary Judge Lynn Toler, the longest-serving judge on Divorce Court, for a candid, no-nonsense conversation about the truths of relationships. Judge Lynn, renowned for her unfiltered wisdom and emotional intelligence, draws from her 14 years on the bench to reveal the patterns, pitfalls, and powerful dynamics that shape why we choose to love, cheat, stay, or leave. Get ready for an engaging game of "Men vs. Women: Who's More Likely?" as Judge Lynn uncovers surprising truths about cheating, forgiveness, snooping, and lying… from both genders. They break down why women often feel trapped in unhealthy relationships, the difference between emotional and physical affairs, and the impact of social media on modern romance. Here's exactly what we dive into: How men and women rationalize infidelity differently The deeper needs that lead women to seek attention outside a relationship The evolution of cheating in the age of social media Who's more likely to snoop through a partner's phone? Who's more likely to forgive a cheater? Why women secretly plot their exits and why men may not see it coming Using the court system for revenge How friendships and community help women rebuild Why “feeding the marriage” is crucial Daily habits that build long-term intimacy Serial cheaters… from “I make the money, I make the rules” to lack of impulse control Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/  Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today Mel Robbins and I will frikin' CHANGE YOUR LIFE and help you get to your goals in JUST 50 minutes! So if you feel like you're constantly losing it, always overwhelmed, easily distracted, or the worst, ASHAMED at how stupid you seem to others, fear not because our girl Mel is here to help!! Mel Robbins is a best selling author, podcast host, and one of the most sought-after speakers in the world – but while she has had SOOO much success in her life, she can't seem to text anyone back, remember someone's birthday, or put away the milk when she makes coffee. The thing is guys, even Mel frikin' Robbins isn't immune to the anxiety and self-criticism that comes from undiagnosed ADHD. But now, in her 50s, she is FINALLY ditching the self-criticism and owning her diagnosis But women have historically been disproportionately undiagnosed for SOO many reasons, (and yep…. I am part of that stat too!) which is why I wanted Mel to come on the show to talk about the sneaky symptoms of ADHD that you might be suffering with right now, the power that can come from a proper diagnosis, and what you can do to OWN it and make it your superpower! Because once you understand that YOU'RE NOT CRAZY and your brain just works differently, THAT'S when you can actually take control and do something about it!! Follow Mel Robbins: Website: https://www.melrobbins.com/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu SPONSORS: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.comOneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu shares the raw truth behind her journey — from shipping protein bars out of her living room to leading one of the most influential wellness brands in the world. Together with Kwame Christian, she unpacks what it really means to face failure, reprogram your inner critic, and choose your mission over your ego. If you've ever struggled with fear, insecurity, or the pressure to be perfect, this episode will remind you that confidence isn't something you're born with — it's something you build, one uncomfortable step at a time. ⁠Buy the Book Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want by Lisa Bilyeu⁠

Ever met someone who felt off… but you jut couldn't explain why? The smile didn't reach their eyes. The story didn't add up. But you second-guessed yourself anyway. That's exactly what this episode is about. I sat down with Chase Hughes, former U.S. Navy Chief and human behavior expert, to break down the science of spotting lies and decoding manipulation, before it destroys your confidence. He reveals the exact cues liars can't hide, how narcissists give themselves away, and the “bait question” that exposes guilt instantly. Here's exactly what you'll learn: The blink-rate trick that reveals stress and deception in real time How narcissists react when you show vulnerability The interrogation-style question that instantly exposes manipulators Chapter Titles: How to Spot a Lie in Seconds (The Zoom Call Breakdown) Blink Rate: The Body's Built-In Lie Detector Fake Openness & Closed Body Language The Language of Liars: Pronouns & Chronology The Punishment Question That Exposes Guilt Follow Chase Hughes: Website: https://www.chasehughes.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chasehughesofficial/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial  Check out our sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeuVital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know that moment when your gut says “something's off”... but you ignore it? When someone's words sound sweet, but their eyes don't match? This episode is your wake-up call. I brought together the most dangerous minds in psychology, persuasion, and human behavior, Robert Greene, Andrew Bustamante, and Dr. Ramani Durvasula, to expose the exact tactics manipulators use to gain control. From subtle “negging” and love-bombing, to psychological warfare used by spies, this mashup will teach you how to stop being played, spot red flags early, and take back your power. Whether it's dating, work, or friendships, these are the tools that will keep you safe, sharp, and unshakable. SHOWNOTES Trust Your Gut: Spotting the Cold Male Seducer (Robert Greene) Why Pain Keeps You Hooked The Spy's Playbook: How to Turn Loyalty Into Control (Andrew Bustamante) Avoidance, Competition, Compliance: How Manipulation Evolves Narcissistic Punishment: Fear, Withdrawal & Humiliation (Dr. Ramani) The Tests Narcissists Use to Find Easy Targets Safety Over Romance: The Real Test of Love Follow Today's Experts: Robert Greene: https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/ Andrew Bustamante:  https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/  Dr. Ramani Durvasula: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/  Check out our sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu's mindset was once shaped by deep insecurity and an early toxic relationship that left her doubting her worth. This lack of self-belief later kept her “stuck in a box” as a housewife for eight years, afraid to chase her full potential. Realizing she wasn't living the life she wanted, she embarked on a journey of personal development, built radical confidence from within, and co-founded a billion-dollar company. In this episode, Lisa shares self-improvement tips for building self-worth, reframing insecurities, and cultivating unshakable confidence while pursuing your goals. In this episode, Hala and Lisa will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (03:14) Mindset Shift: From Insecurity to Confidence (09:24) Building Impact Through Mission-Driven Work (18:23) Discovering Radical Confidence After Toxic Love (27:19) Turning Insecurities Into Fuel for Your Goals (32:20) Breaking Free from Limiting Identities (38:12) "No Bullshit" Goal-Setting for Self-Improvement (45:55) How Toxic Partners Shatter Your Confidence Lisa Bilyeu is an entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, and podcast host. She is the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and Impact Theory and the host of Women of Impact. Her book, Radical Confidence, is a self-improvement guide for anyone ready to overcome fear, break free from self-doubt, and build the mindset needed to create lasting confidence. Sponsored By: Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/PROFITING  Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting.  Mercury streamlines your banking and finances in one place. Learn more at mercury.com/profiting  Quo - Get 20% off your first 6 months at Quo.com/PROFITING  Revolve - Head to REVOLVE.com/PROFITING and take 15% off your first order with code PROFITING  Framer- Go to Framer.com and use code PROFITING to launch your site for free.  Merit Beauty - Go to meritbeauty.com to get your free signature makeup bag with your first order.  Pipedrive - Get a 30-day free trial at pipedrive.com/profiting  Airbnb - Find yourself a cohost at airbnb.com/host  Resources Mentioned: YAP E213 with Lisa Bilyeu: youngandprofiting.co/Confidence  Lisa's Book, Radical Confidence: bit.ly/RadConfidence  Lisa's Podcast, Women of Impact: bit.ly/WofI-apple  Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals  Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Newsletter - youngandprofiting.co/newsletter  LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new  Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Habits, Positivity, Human Nature, Human Psychology, Critical Thinking, Robert Greene, Chris Voss, Robert Cialdini 

Ever wonder why some people light up a room and others shrink the second the spotlight hits them? Why confidence looks so natural for some but feels impossible to fake? I brought in Charlie Houpert, founder of Charisma on Command (7M+ YouTube subscribers), to decode the psychology of confidence, charisma, and connection… using viral clips, movie moments, and real-world relationships. From Taylor Swift's transformation from shy to self-assured, to the body language cues that reveal insecurity, to the painful truth about why couples tear each other down in public, this episode will change the way you see confidence forever. We break down what it really means to project power without arrogance, build self-worth without validation, and read people's energy so you never get played again. SHOWNOTES The Hidden Cues That Reveal Confidence vs. Insecurity The Aborted Wave: Why We Shrink Instead of Showing Up The Confidence Arc in Pretty Woman: Judgment, Shame & Revenge Taylor Swift: From Insecure to Unshakable Why Women Rush Their Words (and How to Reclaim Space) The Alec Baldwin Red Carpet Breakdown: When Relationships Go Public Why “Clapping Back” Costs You Confidence When Contempt Kills Relationships (and How to Rebuild Respect) Mean Girls & the Science of Fake Niceness Why We Fall for Insincere People (and How to Stop) Follow Charlie Houpert: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CharismaonCommand Website: https://www.charismaoncommand.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliehoupert/  Check out our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Ken sits down with billionaire entrepreneur, author and speaker Lisa Bilyeu. Join in on the conversation to find out how to overcome your limiting beliefs, why confidence isn't just a feeling, and what it takes to start leading the life you really want.  Next Steps: ·      

This is a fan fav episode. What's up, homies! Lisa Bilyeu here, and boy do we have a story for you. Ever wondered what it's like being married to the real 'Wolf of Wall Street'? Yep, the one Leonardo DiCaprio played in that blockbuster hit. Well, buckle up because today we're getting the inside scoop from the ex-wife herself, Nadine Macaluso, now known as Dr. Nae. The thrill of being showered with admiration, only to later realize you've been set up for domination and control has happened to smart women, beautiful women, all kinds of women. Nadine has been there too, and she's come out on the other side with powerful lessons and insights about trauma bonding, power imbalance, and the allure of toxic attractive men. But here's the best part, homies. Nadine didn't just survive; she thrived. She went from being the wife of the real 'Wolf of Wall Street' to becoming an author and therapist. In her book, 'Run Like Hell', she talks about recognizing and escaping from narcissistic abuse. Original air date: 2-7-2024 Chapter Markers:  [00:00] Intro [00:22] The Wolf In Sheep's Clothing [11:16] The Pathological Lover Trap [21:08] The “Pro-Social” People Pleaser  [33:38] Healing After the Wolf  [47:05] Confidence to Get Back Up [1:01:03]  Create Meaning Out Of Pain [1:09:53] Out Smart Him with Rebecca Zung ****Bonus Episode with Superstar Attorney Rebecca Zung**** Dealing with a narcissist is like playing chess with a master manipulator? Rebecca's here to hand us the winning moves. And she's pointing out more than the red flags we often miss. She's teaching us how to understand the game, see through the ploys, and out smart the narcissist. Powerful Thoughts from Nadine Macaluso: “Just by the very fact that you love someone, they have power over you.” “I hate to tell you this, but the nice part is manipulative too.” “As your confidence builds, true deep confidence – their tactics, their manipulations, they don't sting as much.” “He doesn't live in your house anymore, don't let him live in your head.” “Abuse is always the fault of the pathological person.” Follow Nadine Macaluso: Website: ⁠https://drnae.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealDrNadine⁠  Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: ⁠https://www.rebeccazung.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing the riveting conversation from Part 1, Dr. Abbie Maroño and Lisa Bilyeu take us deeper into the world of manipulation, persuasion, and psychological self-defense. Dr. Abbie unpacks how master manipulators use the very same body language and behavioral cues of trustworthy people to draw women in… and how our brains often misinterpret these signals.  The episode explores the red flags and patterns that reveal underlying bad intentions or abusive relationships, including shame tactics and psychological manipulation. Dr. Abbie gives concrete advice on decoding consistency of character over time and across different contexts, building healthy boundaries, and regaining agency after manipulation. This segment is essential for anyone determined to avoid the traps of toxic relationships and set themselves up for healthy, empowered love. SHOWNOTES The power of confirmation bias in relationshipsHow to pause, regulate emotions, and avoid snap decisions when pressuredContext-dependent behaviors vs. core character traits; observing consistencyThree tactics of psychological manipulation: suppress critical thoughts, hijack reward systems, and use shameHow to regulate your emotional state before dates and important eventsWhy aggressive questioning backfires—and what to do insteadManipulators and abusers: the slow breakdown of self-esteem and learned helplessnessReal-life examples of abusive and manipulative behaviorThe importance of supportive friends and outside perspective Check out our sponsors: SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Confidence is biology you can hack. In this episode, you'll see how confidence builds inside your brain, rewires through neuroplasticity, and connects directly to mitochondria, metabolism, and human performance. You'll get tools that reprogram fear, regulate your nervous system, and turn stress into fuel so you build radical confidence that lasts. Listen to this classic with host Dave Asprey as he talks with entrepreneur, author, and Women of Impact founder Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa went from a stay-at-home “supporting role” to co-founding Quest Nutrition, scaling it into a billion-dollar company, and running a global media empire. She brings years of lived experience and applied mindset training, making her one of the most authentic voices on confidence, resilience, and leadership in the biohacking world. You'll learn how to: • Hack confidence with the same strategies you use for sleep optimization, fasting, and cold therapy • Spot biological triggers behind fear, self-doubt, and procrastination • Use repetition and mindset tools to upgrade brain optimization and neuroplasticity • Turn stress hormones into growth signals for longevity and functional medicine practices • Reframe trauma and setbacks as power for resilience and high performance • Support courage and focus with nootropics, ketosis, supplements, and Danger Coffee This episode shows you how to treat confidence as a trainable skill, not a personality trait. If you want smarter not harder strategies to master your biology, expand your impact, and live with unshakable resilience, you'll find them here. Dave Asprey is a four-time New York Times bestselling author, founder of Bulletproof Coffee, and the father of biohacking. With over 1,000 interviews and 1 million monthly listeners, The Human Upgrade brings you the knowledge to take control of your biology, extend your longevity, and optimize every system in your body and mind. Each episode delivers cutting-edge insights in health, performance, neuroscience, supplements, nutrition, biohacking, emotional intelligence, and conscious living. New episodes release every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday (audio-only), and Sunday (BONUS). Dave asks the questions no one else will and gives you real tools to become stronger, smarter, and more resilient. Keywords: Lisa Bilyeu, Radical Confidence, Quest Nutrition, Women of Impact, confidence training, resilience biohacking, mindset reprogramming, courage hacking, fear rewiring, entrepreneurial mindset, human performance, brain optimization, neuroplasticity tools, mitochondria and confidence, trauma resilience, emotional regulation, nootropics for confidence, stress as fuel, leadership confidence, Human Upgrade podcast Thank you to our sponsors! EMR-Tek | https://www.emr-tek.com/DAVE and use code DAVE for 40% off. Resources: • Lisa's Website: https://lisabilyeu.com/ • Danger Coffee: https://dangercoffee.com/DAVE15 • Dave Asprey's BEYOND Conference: https://beyondconference.com • Dave Asprey's New Book – Heavily Meditated: https://daveasprey.com/heavily-meditated • Upgrade Collective: https://www.ourupgradecollective.com • Upgrade Labs: https://upgradelabs.com • 40 Years of Zen: https://40yearsofzen.com Timestamps: 0:00 – Trailer 0:38 – Intro 2:38 – From Housewife to Entrepreneur 17:52 – Building Impact Theory 27:56 – Radical Confidence 39:14 – The No BS Game 44:45 – Finding Purpose 55:34 – Inner Critic & Competence 1:01:10 – Becoming Your Own Hero 1:08:32 – Boundaries & Relationships 1:09:52 – Conclusion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if your dream comes true, but your health collapses the same day? In this episode, Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and president of Impact Theory Studios, gets radically honest about how she went from supporting her husband's dream to co-founding a billion-dollar brand, overcoming a devastating health crisis, and learning to set boundaries. We talk about how to break free from the “purgatory of the mundane,” the years you lose by putting your own dreams on hold, the mindset for moving forward before you feel ready, and how to take full ownership of your life without falling into blame. Tune in and discover how to create confidence, protect your health, and finally build a life that feels true to YOU. In This Episode You Will Learn Why mindset + health are THE NON-NEGOTIABLE in business and life. The radical confidence FORMULA to move forward without waiting to “feel ready”. How to BREAK FREE from the sunk cost fallacy keeps you stuck. The daily PRACTICES Lisa used to rebuild after a health collapse. How to REALITY CHECK your goals and tradeoffs to align with your life. How to set BOUNDARIES with clarity, repetition, and grace. Resources + Links Grab your copy of Lisa's book “Radical Confidence” at radicalconfidence.com Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Download the CFO's Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN. Want to do more and spend less like Uber, 8x8, and Databricks Mosaic? Take a free test drive of OCI at oracle.com/MONAHAN. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Get 15% off your first order when you use code CONFIDENCE15 at checkout at jennikayne.com. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Lisa on Instagram & X