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Part 2 In Part 2 of this powerful Women of Impact conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Judge Lynn Toler turn their attention to the crossroads of staying, leaving, and starting over. Judge Lynn shares her strategies for staying calm in the face of deep disrespect, the art of navigating difficult conversations, and the emotional intelligence tactics that have kept her grounded in and out of court. This half dives into the psychology behind why people don't leave unhappy relationships… from fear of change and financial insecurity to the hope things might get better and the social myths that hold women hostage. Judge Lynn reveals what truly makes or breaks a partnership, why couples should treat their marriage like a business, and her personal journey of loss and resilience following 34 years of marriage.  Here's exactly what we dive into: The power of giving voice to your emotions… at the DMV, and beyond Reading people in court: The dance of emotional intelligence How women lose confidence and identity in relationships The “us against the problem” mindset How to safely exit abusive relationships What happens after Divorce Court: Stories of hope and healing The compatibility test: Questions every couple should ask before marrying Why understanding men (and women) is key for deeper compassion The secret to Judge Lynn's lasting marriage Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/  Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part 1 In this compelling first half of a two-part Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the legendary Judge Lynn Toler, the longest-serving judge on Divorce Court, for a candid, no-nonsense conversation about the truths of relationships. Judge Lynn, renowned for her unfiltered wisdom and emotional intelligence, draws from her 14 years on the bench to reveal the patterns, pitfalls, and powerful dynamics that shape why we choose to love, cheat, stay, or leave. Get ready for an engaging game of "Men vs. Women: Who's More Likely?" as Judge Lynn uncovers surprising truths about cheating, forgiveness, snooping, and lying… from both genders. They break down why women often feel trapped in unhealthy relationships, the difference between emotional and physical affairs, and the impact of social media on modern romance. Here's exactly what we dive into: How men and women rationalize infidelity differently The deeper needs that lead women to seek attention outside a relationship The evolution of cheating in the age of social media Who's more likely to snoop through a partner's phone? Who's more likely to forgive a cheater? Why women secretly plot their exits and why men may not see it coming Using the court system for revenge How friendships and community help women rebuild Why “feeding the marriage” is crucial Daily habits that build long-term intimacy Serial cheaters… from “I make the money, I make the rules” to lack of impulse control Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/  Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today Mel Robbins and I will frikin' CHANGE YOUR LIFE and help you get to your goals in JUST 50 minutes! So if you feel like you're constantly losing it, always overwhelmed, easily distracted, or the worst, ASHAMED at how stupid you seem to others, fear not because our girl Mel is here to help!! Mel Robbins is a best selling author, podcast host, and one of the most sought-after speakers in the world – but while she has had SOOO much success in her life, she can't seem to text anyone back, remember someone's birthday, or put away the milk when she makes coffee. The thing is guys, even Mel frikin' Robbins isn't immune to the anxiety and self-criticism that comes from undiagnosed ADHD. But now, in her 50s, she is FINALLY ditching the self-criticism and owning her diagnosis But women have historically been disproportionately undiagnosed for SOO many reasons, (and yep…. I am part of that stat too!) which is why I wanted Mel to come on the show to talk about the sneaky symptoms of ADHD that you might be suffering with right now, the power that can come from a proper diagnosis, and what you can do to OWN it and make it your superpower! Because once you understand that YOU'RE NOT CRAZY and your brain just works differently, THAT'S when you can actually take control and do something about it!! Follow Mel Robbins: Website: https://www.melrobbins.com/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu SPONSORS: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.comOneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu shares the raw truth behind her journey — from shipping protein bars out of her living room to leading one of the most influential wellness brands in the world. Together with Kwame Christian, she unpacks what it really means to face failure, reprogram your inner critic, and choose your mission over your ego. If you've ever struggled with fear, insecurity, or the pressure to be perfect, this episode will remind you that confidence isn't something you're born with — it's something you build, one uncomfortable step at a time. ⁠Buy the Book Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want by Lisa Bilyeu⁠

Lisa Bilyeu shares the raw truth behind her journey — from shipping protein bars out of her living room to leading one of the most influential wellness brands in the world. Together with Kwame Christian, she unpacks what it really means to face failure, reprogram your inner critic, and choose your mission over your ego. If you've ever struggled with fear, insecurity, or the pressure to be perfect, this episode will remind you that confidence isn't something you're born with — it's something you build, one uncomfortable step at a time. ⁠Buy the Book Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want by Lisa Bilyeu⁠

Ever met someone who felt off… but you jut couldn't explain why? The smile didn't reach their eyes. The story didn't add up. But you second-guessed yourself anyway. That's exactly what this episode is about. I sat down with Chase Hughes, former U.S. Navy Chief and human behavior expert, to break down the science of spotting lies and decoding manipulation, before it destroys your confidence. He reveals the exact cues liars can't hide, how narcissists give themselves away, and the “bait question” that exposes guilt instantly. Here's exactly what you'll learn: The blink-rate trick that reveals stress and deception in real time How narcissists react when you show vulnerability The interrogation-style question that instantly exposes manipulators Chapter Titles: How to Spot a Lie in Seconds (The Zoom Call Breakdown) Blink Rate: The Body's Built-In Lie Detector Fake Openness & Closed Body Language The Language of Liars: Pronouns & Chronology The Punishment Question That Exposes Guilt Follow Chase Hughes: Website: https://www.chasehughes.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chasehughesofficial/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial  Check out our sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeuVital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know that moment when your gut says “something's off”... but you ignore it? When someone's words sound sweet, but their eyes don't match? This episode is your wake-up call. I brought together the most dangerous minds in psychology, persuasion, and human behavior, Robert Greene, Andrew Bustamante, and Dr. Ramani Durvasula, to expose the exact tactics manipulators use to gain control. From subtle “negging” and love-bombing, to psychological warfare used by spies, this mashup will teach you how to stop being played, spot red flags early, and take back your power. Whether it's dating, work, or friendships, these are the tools that will keep you safe, sharp, and unshakable. SHOWNOTES Trust Your Gut: Spotting the Cold Male Seducer (Robert Greene) Why Pain Keeps You Hooked The Spy's Playbook: How to Turn Loyalty Into Control (Andrew Bustamante) Avoidance, Competition, Compliance: How Manipulation Evolves Narcissistic Punishment: Fear, Withdrawal & Humiliation (Dr. Ramani) The Tests Narcissists Use to Find Easy Targets Safety Over Romance: The Real Test of Love Follow Today's Experts: Robert Greene: https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/ Andrew Bustamante:  https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/  Dr. Ramani Durvasula: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/  Check out our sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's time to LOCK IN! Are you ready to make this year your best yet? You can find this speech and other great motivation on the Mindset App here: https://bit.ly/StudyMotivation_PodcastSpecial thanks to:►Gary Vee: https://www.youtube.com/@garyvee►Diary of a CEO: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDiaryOfACEO►TMMP: https://www.youtube.com/@MotiversityShow►Tom Bilyeu: https://bit.ly/TomBilyeuChannel Speaker: Marcus A. TaylorYouTube: https://bit.ly/MarcusATaylorChannelInstagram: http://bit.ly/3aLfu3PFacebook: http://bit.ly/2TB9uoiTwitter: https://bit.ly/3xXlFCPBook Marcus to speak at your organization: https://bit.ly/BookMarcusATaylor Pete CohenWebsite: https://petecohen.com/YouTube: http://bit.ly/3cWdhEoMat Wilsonhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5KIGBVmpvYanoWhHyJwYpghttps://www.facebook.com/matywils/Coach PainBook Coach Pain to speak at your organization: https://bit.ly/BookCoachPain Dr. Jessica HoustonYouTube: https://bit.ly/2PXZqTVInstagram: https://bit.ly/31Y6Uf5Freddy FriYouTube: http://bit.ly/FreddyFriInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddyfrimotivation/Request him to speak at your next event: http://www.freddyfri.com/hire-meEric Thomashttps://www.youtube.com/user/etthehiphoppreacherCole The Wolf DaSilvaWolf Mentality YouTube: https://bit.ly/49ZFgzhCole YouTube: https://bit.ly/30oIKO9Instagram: https://bit.ly/33sdGhLTikTok: https://bit.ly/3IIpUmFBrian BullockYouTube: https://bit.ly/30oejoWNoah Kagan: https://www.youtube.com/@noahkaganJasmine Star:https://www.youtube.com/@officialjasminestarAlex Hormozi:https://www.youtube.com/@AlexHormoziTom Bilyeu:YouTube: https://bit.ly/TomBilyeuChannel Gary Vee:https://www.youtube.com/@garyveeChris Ruden:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/chrisruden/Lisa Bilyeu:https://www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeuLes Brown https://lesbrown.com/Lisa NicholsYouTube: https://bit.ly/36c2nYrVishen Lakhiani:https://www.youtube.com/user/vishenlakhianiMusic:AudiojungleBeautiful Oblivion, Horizons, Stars in Her Skies by Scott Buckley - released under CC-BY 4.0.Website: https://www.scottbuckley.com.au/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UCUuUqWLLsUjheuYkP9AWxTA Really Slow Motion - Birth of a starBuy Really Slow Motion music:Amazon : http://amzn.to/1lTltY5iTunes: http://bit.ly/1ee3l8KSpotify: http://bit.ly/1r3lPvNBandcamp: http://bit.ly/1DqtZSoSoundstripeThe Lost City by Twelve Titans https://www.youtube.com/@UCDhAPVW3Pt4pPAeUNbddgGw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lisa Bilyeu's mindset was once shaped by deep insecurity and an early toxic relationship that left her doubting her worth. This lack of self-belief later kept her “stuck in a box” as a housewife for eight years, afraid to chase her full potential. Realizing she wasn't living the life she wanted, she embarked on a journey of personal development, built radical confidence from within, and co-founded a billion-dollar company. In this episode, Lisa shares self-improvement tips for building self-worth, reframing insecurities, and cultivating unshakable confidence while pursuing your goals. In this episode, Hala and Lisa will discuss: (00:00) Introduction (03:14) Mindset Shift: From Insecurity to Confidence (09:24) Building Impact Through Mission-Driven Work (18:23) Discovering Radical Confidence After Toxic Love (27:19) Turning Insecurities Into Fuel for Your Goals (32:20) Breaking Free from Limiting Identities (38:12) "No Bullshit" Goal-Setting for Self-Improvement (45:55) How Toxic Partners Shatter Your Confidence Lisa Bilyeu is an entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, and podcast host. She is the co-founder of Quest Nutrition and Impact Theory and the host of Women of Impact. Her book, Radical Confidence, is a self-improvement guide for anyone ready to overcome fear, break free from self-doubt, and build the mindset needed to create lasting confidence. Sponsored By: Indeed - Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job's visibility at Indeed.com/PROFITING  Shopify - Start your $1/month trial at Shopify.com/profiting.  Mercury streamlines your banking and finances in one place. Learn more at mercury.com/profiting  Quo - Get 20% off your first 6 months at Quo.com/PROFITING  Revolve - Head to REVOLVE.com/PROFITING and take 15% off your first order with code PROFITING  Framer- Go to Framer.com and use code PROFITING to launch your site for free.  Merit Beauty - Go to meritbeauty.com to get your free signature makeup bag with your first order.  Pipedrive - Get a 30-day free trial at pipedrive.com/profiting  Airbnb - Find yourself a cohost at airbnb.com/host  Resources Mentioned: YAP E213 with Lisa Bilyeu: youngandprofiting.co/Confidence  Lisa's Book, Radical Confidence: bit.ly/RadConfidence  Lisa's Podcast, Women of Impact: bit.ly/WofI-apple  Active Deals - youngandprofiting.com/deals  Key YAP Links Reviews - ratethispodcast.com/yap YouTube - youtube.com/c/YoungandProfiting Newsletter - youngandprofiting.co/newsletter  LinkedIn - linkedin.com/in/htaha/ Instagram - instagram.com/yapwithhala/ Social + Podcast Services: yapmedia.com Transcripts - youngandprofiting.com/episodes-new  Entrepreneurship, Entrepreneurship Podcast, Business, Business Podcast, Self Improvement, Self-Improvement, Personal Development, Starting a Business, Strategy, Investing, Sales, Selling, Psychology, Productivity, Entrepreneurs, AI, Artificial Intelligence, Technology, Marketing, Negotiation, Money, Finance, Side Hustle, Startup, Mental Health, Career, Leadership, Mindset, Health, Growth Mindset, Habits, Positivity, Human Nature, Human Psychology, Critical Thinking, Robert Greene, Chris Voss, Robert Cialdini 

Ever wonder why some people light up a room and others shrink the second the spotlight hits them? Why confidence looks so natural for some but feels impossible to fake? I brought in Charlie Houpert, founder of Charisma on Command (7M+ YouTube subscribers), to decode the psychology of confidence, charisma, and connection… using viral clips, movie moments, and real-world relationships. From Taylor Swift's transformation from shy to self-assured, to the body language cues that reveal insecurity, to the painful truth about why couples tear each other down in public, this episode will change the way you see confidence forever. We break down what it really means to project power without arrogance, build self-worth without validation, and read people's energy so you never get played again. SHOWNOTES The Hidden Cues That Reveal Confidence vs. Insecurity The Aborted Wave: Why We Shrink Instead of Showing Up The Confidence Arc in Pretty Woman: Judgment, Shame & Revenge Taylor Swift: From Insecure to Unshakable Why Women Rush Their Words (and How to Reclaim Space) The Alec Baldwin Red Carpet Breakdown: When Relationships Go Public Why “Clapping Back” Costs You Confidence When Contempt Kills Relationships (and How to Rebuild Respect) Mean Girls & the Science of Fake Niceness Why We Fall for Insincere People (and How to Stop) Follow Charlie Houpert: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CharismaonCommand Website: https://www.charismaoncommand.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliehoupert/  Check out our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Ken sits down with billionaire entrepreneur, author and speaker Lisa Bilyeu. Join in on the conversation to find out how to overcome your limiting beliefs, why confidence isn't just a feeling, and what it takes to start leading the life you really want.  Next Steps: ·      

This is a fan fav episode. What's up, homies! Lisa Bilyeu here, and boy do we have a story for you. Ever wondered what it's like being married to the real 'Wolf of Wall Street'? Yep, the one Leonardo DiCaprio played in that blockbuster hit. Well, buckle up because today we're getting the inside scoop from the ex-wife herself, Nadine Macaluso, now known as Dr. Nae. The thrill of being showered with admiration, only to later realize you've been set up for domination and control has happened to smart women, beautiful women, all kinds of women. Nadine has been there too, and she's come out on the other side with powerful lessons and insights about trauma bonding, power imbalance, and the allure of toxic attractive men. But here's the best part, homies. Nadine didn't just survive; she thrived. She went from being the wife of the real 'Wolf of Wall Street' to becoming an author and therapist. In her book, 'Run Like Hell', she talks about recognizing and escaping from narcissistic abuse. Original air date: 2-7-2024 Chapter Markers:  [00:00] Intro [00:22] The Wolf In Sheep's Clothing [11:16] The Pathological Lover Trap [21:08] The “Pro-Social” People Pleaser  [33:38] Healing After the Wolf  [47:05] Confidence to Get Back Up [1:01:03]  Create Meaning Out Of Pain [1:09:53] Out Smart Him with Rebecca Zung ****Bonus Episode with Superstar Attorney Rebecca Zung**** Dealing with a narcissist is like playing chess with a master manipulator? Rebecca's here to hand us the winning moves. And she's pointing out more than the red flags we often miss. She's teaching us how to understand the game, see through the ploys, and out smart the narcissist. Powerful Thoughts from Nadine Macaluso: “Just by the very fact that you love someone, they have power over you.” “I hate to tell you this, but the nice part is manipulative too.” “As your confidence builds, true deep confidence – their tactics, their manipulations, they don't sting as much.” “He doesn't live in your house anymore, don't let him live in your head.” “Abuse is always the fault of the pathological person.” Follow Nadine Macaluso: Website: ⁠https://drnae.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealDrNadine⁠  Follow Rebecca Zung: Website: ⁠https://www.rebeccazung.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RebeccaZungEsq⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rebeccazung/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For eight years, Lisa Bilyeu lived the life others expected: a traditional Greek wife focused on supporting her husband and running the home. But deep down, she knew she was meant for more. With no business background, zero confidence, and no clear roadmap, she decided to rewrite her story. She co-founded Quest Nutrition with her husband and built a billion-dollar business. In this LEAP Replay, Lisa opens up to Ilana about breaking free from cultural expectations, showing up authentically in the face of criticism, and how you can build radical confidence without needing external validation. Lisa Bilyeu is an entrepreneur, bestselling author, and co-founder of Quest Nutrition, a multi-billion-dollar company. Her mission is to use content creation to empower women to break free from limiting beliefs and build extraordinary lives. In this episode, Ilana and Lisa will discuss: (00:00) Introduction  (02:22) Her Upbringing and the Weight of Expectations (06:44) Velvet Handcuffs: The Trap of People Pleasing (10:55) Transitioning from Housewife to Co-Founder (19:13) Handling Your Emotions in Business  (24:25) How Lisa Tackles Online Hate and Criticism (33:12) The Three Keys to Mission-Driven Content Creation (37:25) Lisa's No-BS Guide to Success  (44:40) Why She Chose Her Mission Over Motherhood  (1:03:06) Building Radical Confidence Through Self-Reliance Lisa Bilyeu is an entrepreneur, author, and co-founder of Quest Nutrition, a multi-billion-dollar company that transformed the health and wellness industry. She is also the founder and host of Women of Impact, co-founder of Impact Theory, and bestselling author of Radical Confidence. Lisa's mission is to use content creation to empower women to break free from limiting beliefs and embrace their full potential.  Connect with Lisa: Lisa's Website: https://lisabilyeu.com/ Lisa's YouTube: www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu  Lisa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu Resources Mentioned: Lisa's Book, Radical Confidence: 11 Lessons on How to Get the Relationship, Career, and Life You Want: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09JPHK9C3 Leap Academy: Ready to make the LEAP in your career? There is a NEW WAY for professionals to fast-track their careers and leap to bigger opportunities. Check out our free training today at https://bit.ly/leap--free-training

Continuing the riveting conversation from Part 1, Dr. Abbie Maroño and Lisa Bilyeu take us deeper into the world of manipulation, persuasion, and psychological self-defense. Dr. Abbie unpacks how master manipulators use the very same body language and behavioral cues of trustworthy people to draw women in… and how our brains often misinterpret these signals.  The episode explores the red flags and patterns that reveal underlying bad intentions or abusive relationships, including shame tactics and psychological manipulation. Dr. Abbie gives concrete advice on decoding consistency of character over time and across different contexts, building healthy boundaries, and regaining agency after manipulation. This segment is essential for anyone determined to avoid the traps of toxic relationships and set themselves up for healthy, empowered love. SHOWNOTES The power of confirmation bias in relationshipsHow to pause, regulate emotions, and avoid snap decisions when pressuredContext-dependent behaviors vs. core character traits; observing consistencyThree tactics of psychological manipulation: suppress critical thoughts, hijack reward systems, and use shameHow to regulate your emotional state before dates and important eventsWhy aggressive questioning backfires—and what to do insteadManipulators and abusers: the slow breakdown of self-esteem and learned helplessnessReal-life examples of abusive and manipulative behaviorThe importance of supportive friends and outside perspective Check out our sponsors: SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Dr. Abbie Maroño, a world-renowned expert in lie detection, body language, and persuasion. As a top 1% performer in her field, Dr. Abbie teaches the FBI, Secret Service, and other elite organizations how to spot deception and catch master manipulators. This conversation is an absolute must for anyone who's ever wondered, “How did I fall for that?” Dr. Abbie breaks down the psychology and subtle science behind deception, explaining why it's so hard to spot a lie… even for the smartest women. Together, Lisa and Dr. Abbie examine the unconscious behaviors and stress responses that can betray a liar, and set up practical tools for anyone to become their own lie detector and take back control in their relationships and lives. SHOWNOTES The importance of lie detection for womenStress cues in body language: self-touch, hair pulling, lip touching, fidgetingRepetitive stress behaviors and their meaningFight, flight, and nonverbal cues: reading feet and body orientation Mimicry and its impact on cooperation How to mentally note “hot spots” in conversation for revisitingUsing reverse order and observation-based questioning to reveal inconsistencies Spotting distancing language and pronoun dropThe danger of master manipulators and projecting trustworthinessThe neuroscience of trust: why we judge trustworthiness in 33 milliseconds The “good” and “bad” signs of body language (and how they can be faked) FOLLOW DR. ABBIE MAROÑO: Website: https://www.abbiemarono.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorabbieofficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-abbie-maro%C3%B1o-phd-35ab2611a/ Check out our sponsors: SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu: Dr. Caroline Fleck on Self-Validation, Escaping Manipulative Dynamics, and the PRACTICE of Confidence - Part 2 In Part 2 of this must-listen “Women of Impact” episode, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Caroline Fleck take their conversation to an even deeper and more practical level. Now that you have the full ACCEPTED roadmap for diffusing difficult personalities, this half is devoted to the all-important act of validating yourself… especially when the world (or your relationships) seem intent on tearing you down. Dr. Fleck shares tools for cultivating radical self-compassion, using nightly self-validation practices, and breaking free from self-judgment that keeps you stuck.. even in relationships that aren't overtly toxic but simply no longer serve you. The conversation turns personal as Lisa shares her struggles with validation and women are empowered to take back their agency regardless of praise, criticism, or manipulation.  SHOWNOTES How invalidation and praise can both be trapsSelf-validation: A nightly practice for emotional self-defenseSteps to building self-worth when no one else gives it to youTools for zooming in on your own feelings and experienceWhy marinating in an “emotion” (not the story) dissolves shameUsing self-compassion to break negative patternsHow making micro-commitments builds trust in yourselfDr. Fleck's breast cancer journey and the demand for radical self-validationDR. FLECK'S self-validation practice (step-by-step) FOLLOW DR. CAROLINE FLECK:Website: https://www.drcarolinefleck.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinefleckphd TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drcarolinefleck Check out our sponsors:  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu: Dr. Caroline Fleck on Validation, Boundaries, and Dealing with Toxic People - Part 1 Get ready for a truly transformative episode of “Women of Impact” as Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Caroline Fleck, Stanford-trained clinical psychologist and author, for an unfiltered conversation about facing the most challenging personalities in our lives. Dr. Fleck, renowned for her expertise working with individuals with severe personality disorders, unpacks her research-based, eight-step method for validation, communication, and boundary-setting. In Part 1, Lisa and Dr. Fleck lay the groundwork for understanding validation as a powerful tool in navigating toxic dynamics. Dr. Fleck reveals the core ingredients of her ACCEPTED framework, discusses the critical skill of “attending” and “copying” during conflict, and shares science-backed tactics for de-escalating the impossible. Learn why setting boundaries is a true act of compassion, how “extinction bursts” show up in arguments, and why even narcissists feel safer when boundaries are clear.  SHOWNOTES The truth about validation—what it means and how it cuts through toxicityStep 1: Attending—active listening with purposeStep 2: Copying—mirroring as a tool to build rapport and calm conflictStep 3: Contextualizing—making sense of behavior through historyStep 4: Equalizing—seeing the situation through the other's eyesStep 5: Proposing—“mind reading” and how Oprah does itStep 6: Taking Action—when and how to intervene to support, not enableStep 7: Emote—using shared emotion to deepen connection, or when to simply witnessStep 8: Disclose—using personal stories to break shame and isolation FOLLOW DR. CAROLINE FLECK:Website: https://www.drcarolinefleck.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinefleckphd TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drcarolinefleck Check out our sponsors:  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey there, ladies! Lisa Bilyeu here, with a power-packed episode of Women of Impact that you don't want to miss. I was lucky enough to sit down with the phenomenal Julia Haart, star of My Unorthodox Life and a true beacon of confidence. From her strict upbringing to becoming a fashion icon, Julia's journey is a testament to self-belief and determination. She's here to share a sexy, fun, and surprisingly simple hack to skyrocket your confidence - and trust me, it's a game-changer! We dive deep into why we often get trapped in judgmental conversations with ourselves, and how this self-criticism holds us back from feeling good about who we are. But fear not! We're exploring a simple trick to shift this mindset and start building unshakeable confidence, now that's what I call sexy! And remember, you can be a part of these empowering conversations too! I go live Thursdays at 9 AM PST on Instagram, and I'd love for you to join us. Bring your questions, your coffee, and your confidence, and let's make some magic together! “Women can't be free if they spend all day feeling insecure.” -Julia Haart My mission is to help you build your confidence one episode at a time. If this podcast has impacted your journey towards living your absolute best we'd love to hear from you! Leave us a rating or review to let us know what you think, and to help other women find us. Original air date: 12-8-2023 Follow Julia Haart: Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/JuliaHaart⁠  Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/juliahaart/⁠  Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Confidence is biology you can hack. In this episode, you'll see how confidence builds inside your brain, rewires through neuroplasticity, and connects directly to mitochondria, metabolism, and human performance. You'll get tools that reprogram fear, regulate your nervous system, and turn stress into fuel so you build radical confidence that lasts. Listen to this classic with host Dave Asprey as he talks with entrepreneur, author, and Women of Impact founder Lisa Bilyeu. Lisa went from a stay-at-home “supporting role” to co-founding Quest Nutrition, scaling it into a billion-dollar company, and running a global media empire. She brings years of lived experience and applied mindset training, making her one of the most authentic voices on confidence, resilience, and leadership in the biohacking world. You'll learn how to: • Hack confidence with the same strategies you use for sleep optimization, fasting, and cold therapy • Spot biological triggers behind fear, self-doubt, and procrastination • Use repetition and mindset tools to upgrade brain optimization and neuroplasticity • Turn stress hormones into growth signals for longevity and functional medicine practices • Reframe trauma and setbacks as power for resilience and high performance • Support courage and focus with nootropics, ketosis, supplements, and Danger Coffee This episode shows you how to treat confidence as a trainable skill, not a personality trait. If you want smarter not harder strategies to master your biology, expand your impact, and live with unshakable resilience, you'll find them here. Dave Asprey is a four-time New York Times bestselling author, founder of Bulletproof Coffee, and the father of biohacking. With over 1,000 interviews and 1 million monthly listeners, The Human Upgrade brings you the knowledge to take control of your biology, extend your longevity, and optimize every system in your body and mind. Each episode delivers cutting-edge insights in health, performance, neuroscience, supplements, nutrition, biohacking, emotional intelligence, and conscious living. New episodes release every Tuesday, Thursday, Friday (audio-only), and Sunday (BONUS). Dave asks the questions no one else will and gives you real tools to become stronger, smarter, and more resilient. Keywords: Lisa Bilyeu, Radical Confidence, Quest Nutrition, Women of Impact, confidence training, resilience biohacking, mindset reprogramming, courage hacking, fear rewiring, entrepreneurial mindset, human performance, brain optimization, neuroplasticity tools, mitochondria and confidence, trauma resilience, emotional regulation, nootropics for confidence, stress as fuel, leadership confidence, Human Upgrade podcast Thank you to our sponsors! EMR-Tek | https://www.emr-tek.com/DAVE and use code DAVE for 40% off. Resources: • Lisa's Website: https://lisabilyeu.com/ • Danger Coffee: https://dangercoffee.com/DAVE15 • Dave Asprey's BEYOND Conference: https://beyondconference.com • Dave Asprey's New Book – Heavily Meditated: https://daveasprey.com/heavily-meditated • Upgrade Collective: https://www.ourupgradecollective.com • Upgrade Labs: https://upgradelabs.com • 40 Years of Zen: https://40yearsofzen.com Timestamps: 0:00 – Trailer 0:38 – Intro 2:38 – From Housewife to Entrepreneur 17:52 – Building Impact Theory 27:56 – Radical Confidence 39:14 – The No BS Game 44:45 – Finding Purpose 55:34 – Inner Critic & Competence 1:01:10 – Becoming Your Own Hero 1:08:32 – Boundaries & Relationships 1:09:52 – Conclusion See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by an incredible lineup of guests: clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, communication strategist Jefferson Fisher, powerhouse entrepreneur and femininity coach April Mason, and legendary executive and author Bozoma Saint John. Together, they dive deep into the complexities of confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and navigating difficult relationships—especially with narcissists and toxic personalities. Dr. Ramani opens up about the difference between charisma and authentic connection, offering tactical strategies for protecting your peace and self-esteem around difficult people. Jefferson Fisher provides actionable insights on reclaiming your power and confidence through the art of the pause—and explains exactly why silence, composure, and thoughtfully measured responses are your secret weapons in heated conversations. April Mason shares a masterclass in self-awareness and boundaries, decoding the subtle “dripping effect” of manipulation in relationships, the importance of tuning into your femininity and wisdom, and how your standards protect you from heartbreak and narcissists alike. Rounding out the episode, Bozoma Saint John takes us on a deeply personal journey—from the loss of her college boyfriend to suicide, to finding resilience in even the darkest moments of her life. She shares life-changing truths about letting go of blame, moving past pain, and honoring your own strength through adversity. If you're ready for real talk about confidence, boundaries, healing, and the courage to stand in your power, this mashup is for you. SHOWNOTES Spotting the difference between real confidence and performative charisma How to “soul distance” and protect your energy from narcissists Tactical tools for handling toxic conversations, including the power of the pause Mastering boundaries, self-respect, and subtle cues in relationships Healing from emotional trauma and the journey from victimhood to survivor Finding your voice and reclaiming your story after heartbreak and loss Why self-blame stands in the way of growth—and how to move past it FOLLOW TODAYS GUESTS: Dr. Ramani: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani  Jefferson Fisher: https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher/  April Mason: https://www.instagram.com/msaprilmason/  Bozoma Saint John: https://www.instagram.com/badassboz/  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Hey ladies! Welcome to Women of Impact, I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and today I have an important question for you. Are you ready to seriously tackle the issue of setting boundaries? Are you ready to tap into your inner power and finally take control? If that's a yes, then you're in the right place because today, we're diving deep into this topic with none other than the Boundary Boss herself, my dear friend, Terri Cole. For those of you who've listened to my previous episodes with Terri, you know that she's like the wise big sister handing out reality checks left and right. Our shared mission is to empower you to set boundaries without feeling guilty and to stop accepting less than you deserve from anyone. In today's special Q&A episode which we recorded live on YouTube, we're addressing those feelings of manipulation, dismissiveness, and belittlement. If these feelings resonate with you, it's a clear sign that you need to establish some solid boundaries. I always find these live Q&A sessions with experts like Terri incredibly energizing. They fuel my commitment to show up for you and help you build your confidence, one episode at a time. To further support you on this journey, I've created a FREE course that will help you build the kind of confidence that says, 'These are my boundaries, respect them or step aside!' You can access this course at⁠ 4stepworkshop.com⁠. Let's build your confidence together! And… Don't forget to check out Terri's latest Boundary Boss Workbook: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Boundary-Boss-Workbook-Strategies-Over-Giving/dp/1649631421⁠  Now, let's dive into the episode. Original air date: 11-2-2023 Follow Terri Cole: Website: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://www.terricole.com/podcast/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/terricole/⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Welcome to the Women of Impact podcast. I'm your host, Lisa Bilyeu, and I do this show because I know what it's like to not believe in yourself and feel like you have to settle and be grateful for whatever life you're living. Bullsh*t homie! Each week I get so excited to share valuable insights and lessons with you that have been the key to building my confidence and shaping my path to success. But let me be clear, this podcast isn't about me, it's about how we all wrestle with self-doubt, fears, and insecurities. But the great news is that you get to choose growth and purpose over everything to create the life you desire. In today's episode, we'll explore: *Strategies for building genuine relationships with other empowered women *Aging with confidence and navigating the dating scene like a total badass *The mindset required to start a business that goes beyond just having a business plan and an Instagram account Original air date: 10-27-2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

According to a 2023 report from McKinsey & Company, women remain significantly underrepresented in senior leadership roles, holding only 28% of C-suite positions. And when they do rise, they're twice as likely to be mistaken for someone more junior, or labeled “aggressive” rather than assertive.The message is clear: lead, but not too boldly. Speak up, but not too loudly. Be strong, but not so strong that you make people uncomfortable.But here's the truth: the world desperately needs women who are willing to lead with power, confidence, and integrity—all at the same time. Women who refuse to shrink, soften, or silence themselves to fit someone else's comfort level.Today's conversation is for every person who's ready to lead without apology. Because power isn't the problem. The problem is when we believe we have to abandon ourselves to achieve it.

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This is a fan fav episode. Hello, homies! Lisa Bilyeu here! Have you ever dreamt of hitting a 100 years old and still remembering why you walked into the room? Or better yet, still be cracking jokes and doing pushups like it's nobody's business? Well, you're not alone! We're diving headfirst into brain health, exploring adult ADHD, and tackling the truth about how marijuana use has affected my brain health. Without a healthy brain, achieving our grandest goals, spotting narcissists, and dodging toxic relationships become a whole lot trickier. So, if you're ready to join me on this journey and start facing your own hard truths, hit that play button. “Genetics are the bullet but your lifestyle is the finger on the trigger” -Dr. Daniel Amen If tearing up the dance floor and not misplacing your car keys at a hundred (or now) sounds like your cup of tea, then this episode is for you! Don't forget to drop us a rating or review, and share your wild plans for your Golden Girl years. Original air date: 12-29-2023 Check out Lisa's Adult ADHD Diagnosis and Candid Conversation with Dr. Amen: ⁠https://youtu.be/DieG5aetBL0?si=eaDSzAet0mZjbj8R⁠ Follow Dr. Daniel Amen: Website: ⁠https://danielamenmd.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@AmenClinic⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/⁠   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing their illuminating conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Andrew Huberman return in Part 2 to unravel even more of the mysteries behind male behavior, relationships, and the neuroscience that underpins it all. Picking up where Part 1 left off, this episode transitions into the hot-button topics of jealousy, male self-worth, and the unique pressures that men face today. Andrew breaks down the pitfalls of toxic jealousy, the motivation behind “more money, more muscle” mindsets, and why so many men struggle with overwhelm and self-destructive coping strategies—including the often-taboo subject of porn. The duo also tackles emotionally charged terrain like shame, vulnerability, and why crying means something so different for men than it does for women. Through honest stories and raw admissions, Andrew shares what helps men build resilience, manage emotional pain, and ultimately open up to healing in partnership. Lisa and Andrew don't shy away from the cultural shifts facing both men and women, unpacking the future of relationships, marriage, and what it takes to foster genuine intimacy. If you want the real story on male mental health, the role of partnership as a catalyst for growth, and practical advice for creating safer, more compassionate connections—this part is a must-listen. SHOWNOTES 26:33 - Jealousy: Growth vs. Destruction in Men 29:52 - Struggling with Overwhelm: Addiction, Porn, and Escapism 33:58 - The Trap of Pornography: Dopamine & Motivation Gone Wrong 38:41 - Why Women (and Lisa) Love True Crime: The Evolutionary Perspective 41:18 - The Ultimate Fears: Men Fear Shame, Women Fear for Safety 44:55 - The Pressure of Perfection on Men & Changing Gender Dynamics 49:39 - Navigating Career, Motherhood, and Social Judgement as Women 53:09 - The Need for Reflection: Mentors, Elders, and Self-Inquiry 56:59 - What Men Really Want in Partnership: Challenge vs. Comfort 59:28 - Emotional Catharsis: Purging Shame and Vulnerability Safely 1:03:00 - Healing the Divide: Compassion, Understanding, and Moving Forward FOLLOW ANDREW HUBERMAN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/hubermanlab YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab Website: https://www.hubermanlab.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if your dream comes true, but your health collapses the same day? In this episode, Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and president of Impact Theory Studios, gets radically honest about how she went from supporting her husband's dream to co-founding a billion-dollar brand, overcoming a devastating health crisis, and learning to set boundaries. We talk about how to break free from the “purgatory of the mundane,” the years you lose by putting your own dreams on hold, the mindset for moving forward before you feel ready, and how to take full ownership of your life without falling into blame. Tune in and discover how to create confidence, protect your health, and finally build a life that feels true to YOU. In This Episode You Will Learn Why mindset + health are THE NON-NEGOTIABLE in business and life. The radical confidence FORMULA to move forward without waiting to “feel ready”. How to BREAK FREE from the sunk cost fallacy keeps you stuck. The daily PRACTICES Lisa used to rebuild after a health collapse. How to REALITY CHECK your goals and tradeoffs to align with your life. How to set BOUNDARIES with clarity, repetition, and grace. Resources + Links Grab your copy of Lisa's book “Radical Confidence” at radicalconfidence.com Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Download the CFO's Guide to AI and Machine Learning at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN. Want to do more and spend less like Uber, 8x8, and Databricks Mosaic? Take a free test drive of OCI at oracle.com/MONAHAN. Get 10% off your first Mitopure order at timeline.com/CONFIDENCE. Get 15% off your first order when you use code CONFIDENCE15 at checkout at jennikayne.com. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Follow Heather on Instagram & LinkedIn Lisa on Instagram & X

Lisa Bilyeu is joined by the renowned neuroscientist, Stanford professor, and podcast host Dr. Andrew Huberman. Known for his expertise in brain science and his unique ability to make complex topics accessible, Andrew brings a much-needed perspective to the question: What are men really thinking? With honesty, a deep respect for nuance, and a bit of humor, Andrew answers Lisa's burning questions about the male brain, uncovering the scientific and social factors that drive men's behavior in relationships, love, and life. Part 1 dives deep into the neuroscience of falling in love, the impact of male genetics and hormones, and the evolving dynamics of masculinity. From the infamous “what would happen if?” drive that propels so many men, to the complexity of competitiveness, hierarchy, and vulnerability, Lisa and Andrew explore what it means to be male today—and why understanding these truths matters for women striving to build better relationships. Whether you're curious about male motivation, the stereotype of emotional unavailability, or just want more compassion across the gender divide, this conversation is packed with revelations and practical wisdom. SHOWNOTES 00:00 - Intro: Meet Dr. Andrew Huberman 00:24 - What's a Man Really Thinking: Falling in Love (Neuroscience Explained) 01:55 - The Love Bubble: Are Men and Women Really That Different? 04:16 - The SRY Gene and Why Men Experiment 07:19 - Why Men Take Risks vs. Why Women Seek Stability 10:16 - Male Brain Development: Why It's Slower Than Females 13:19 - Action at a Distance: Men, Motivation, and Testing Limits 16:12 - Competition, Hierarchy, and the Male Ego 17:56 - The Urge to Win: What “Being Picked” Means for Men and Women 21:06 - The Satellite Male: How Men Assess Themselves for Romantic Partners 24:18 - Jealousy, Competition, and Growth: Navigating Self-Improvement FOLLOW ANDREW HUBERMAN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/hubermanlab YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab Website: https://www.hubermanlab.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Part 2 of Lisa Bilyeu's riveting deep dive with forensic psychologist Dr. Shannon Curry. Having laid the groundwork of identifying personality disorders and their impact in relationships, this half turns up the heat with unfiltered conversation around actual case studies, the realities of abusive dynamics for men and women, healing after toxic love, and how to reclaim your self-worth and power after manipulation. Shannon and Lisa tackle the infamous Amber Heard-Johnny Depp trial, peeling back the legal layers around trauma claims and public judgment. Dr. Curry breaks down the science behind situational versus characterological violence, how abusers trap their partners, and the societal blind spots that keep both men and women bound in shame. The episode closes with empowering advice on how to forgive yourself, rebuild after heartbreak, and find healthy, secure love—plus a viral pop-culture breakdown that will change how you see relationships forever. Introspective, educational, and fiercely honest, Part 2 is your masterclass in spotting red flags, setting boundaries, and awakening to your own strength. SHOWNOTES44:59 Recognizing True Toxicity—From Charm to Chaos (continued)54:29 Borderline Personality in Relationships—Roleplay & Analysis1:04:44 How Healthy Love Can Heal Old Wounds1:12:01 The Cycle of Emotional Abuse in Abusive Relationships1:29:41 Signs You're in a Truly Abusive Relationship1:36:27 Forgiving Yourself for Falling Again—The Path to Healing1:41:54 Practical Tools: What Traits Make Long-Lasting Relationships1:55:35 Can You Compromise on Identity in a Relationship?2:02:08 Social Judgment, Collective Wounds, and the Power of Non-Judgment FOLLOW DR. SHANNON CURRY:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroupWebsite: https://www.currypsychology.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Dr. Shannon Curry, renowned forensic psychologist and the expert behind some of the most high-profile evaluations in recent memory, including her role in the Amber Heard and Johnny Depp trial. Known for her ability to break down even the most complex characters, Dr. Curry joins Lisa to explore the dark, fascinating world of personality disorders, dating red flags, and the subtle ways toxicity seeps into relationships. In Part 1, Shannon opens up about her unique background in forensic psychology and the lessons she's taken from analyzing high-stakes court cases. Lisa and Shannon discuss how to spot dangerous personality traits early, why we often miss red flags, and the signs of narcissism and borderline personality disorder. They dig deep into the power dynamics of relationships, the difference between genuine charm and manipulative behavior, and practical tips for protecting yourself—whether you're dating or already in a relationship. Engaging, raw, and honest, this half of the episode is jam-packed with real-life examples, role-plays, and expert strategies for safeguarding your heart and mind. SHOWNOTES 0 0:00 OCD, Neurodivergence, and Personal Quirks07:01 The Most Dangerous Personality Traits: What to Look Out For13:13 How Personality Disorders Reveal Themselves Over Time22:45 Cluster B Disorders Explained in Dating & Marriage31:02 The FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt): Countertransference & Manipulation Tactics41:19 Borderline Personality: What It Really Feels Like Inside44:59 Recognizing True Toxicity—From Charm to Chaos (Part 1 ends approximately here) FOLLOW DR. SHANNON CURRY:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroupWebsite: https://www.currypsychology.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this electrifying Women of Impact double feature, as Lisa Bilyeu and ex-CIA expert Andrew Bustamante continue to rip the mask off celebrity scandals and dissect the gray space between power, consent, and manipulation. In the second half, Andrew brings his spy-level skills to the accusations against James Franco—exploring the truthfulness of his on-air confessions about relationships with students and whether he crosses the line from “celebrity opportunity” to predatory behavior. Also under the microscope: the recent legal feud between Blake Lively and director/actor Justin Baldini, featuring real behind-the-scenes set footage. Lisa and Andrew invite you to consider—how do we really judge whether someone's behavior is toxic masculinity or weaponized victimhood? What does power look like when the cameras are off? Learn how to protect yourself by reading the non-verbal cues and micro-expressions signal drama in your own life. This is a must-listen masterclass for anyone wanting to level up their people-reading skills and confidence. SHOWNOTES35:12 James Franco: Confessions, sex scene classes, and reading honesty44:48 Eyes left, memories vs. fabrication: Andrew teaches real-time analysis51:27 Women's perspective: Is every teacher-student dynamic manipulation?1:10:47 Blake Lively's press interview: Owning the room or hiding discomfort? FOLLOW ANDREW:Website: https://www.everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspyTwitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpy CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this gripping two-part special of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Andrew Bustamante—a former CIA spy specializing in body language, deception, and manipulation—for an unfiltered breakdown of some of Hollywood's most controversial figures and relationships. Andrew is here to give you real-life spy insight into the signals and cues hidden just beneath the surface, so you never get played—whether by superstar celebrities or by the people standing right beside you. In part 1, Lisa and Andrew start by analyzing Kanye West and Bianca Censori's much-discussed red carpet appearance, exposing the often-misread lines between protection, control, and narcissism. Then, they move into the wild accusations against Armie Hammer—from alleged cannibalistic fantasies to the public fallout and legal responses—unpacking what the camera doesn't lie about, even when the speakers might. Get ready to learn the tools that can help you decode body language in both your relationships and the public eye. SHOWNOTES00:00 Intro: Can you spot a narcissist or manipulator?04:03 Body language tells: Crotch display, dominance, and vulnerability13:50 Scoring Kanye: How much is controlling, how much is narcissism?24:05 The “feeling” question: Catching real emotions vs. rehearsal34:37 Final verdict: Is Armie Hammer a cannibal or just a bad liar? FOLLOW ANDREW:Website: https://www.everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspyTwitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpy CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationship myths, communication pitfalls, and the secret science behind lasting love—today's guest unmasks it all. On this special two-part edition of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Julie Gottman, renowned clinical psychologist, world-leading relationship expert, and co-founder of the Gottman Institute. With 40 years of transformative experience, Dr. Julie reveals what truly makes or breaks a relationship, why men and women cheat, and what most of us get wrong about emotional connection. In Part 1, Lisa and Dr. Julie take you on a myth-busting journey through the psychology of infidelity, the truth about “emotional” versus “physical” cheating, and the surprising evolutionary roots of why men sometimes shut down during arguments. Learn the real drivers behind relationship failure, why loneliness—not infidelity—is the ultimate relationship killer, and actionable scripts to resolve conflict without triggering defensiveness. If you've ever wondered what your partner is really thinking—or why your communication keeps hitting a wall—this episode is your essential guide. 01:13 Myths About Male & Female Cheating10:19 How to Approach Tough Conversations23:21 Why Men Stay, Why Women Leave31:46 Red Flags: Can You Fix a Relationship with a Narcissist? FOLLOW DR. JULIE GOTTMAN:Website: https://www.gottman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstituteTwitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninstFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/gottmaninstitute CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Author of “Strong is the New Skinny,” health and lifestyle consultant Jen Cohen is very used to pursuing unusual opportunities and taking surprising risks. Because, as she is fond of asking, “What's the worst that can happen?” On this episode of Health Theory with Lisa Bilyeu, Jen Cohen explains why it's better to be strong, bold and adventurous than merely skinny, talks at length about how to deal with your weaknesses, and describes exactly how to take small, sustainable steps to build confidence and resilience. Original air date: 10-1-19 SHOW NOTES: Jen explains the slogan, “What's the worst that can happen?” [2:43] Jen advocates being bold and being willing to fail [4:18] Jen explains how to deal with failure and rejection [7:26] Jen claims that training fitness also means training your mindset [10:56] Jen describes the pressures women feel to be skinny [12:37] Jen advocates taking small, sustainable steps to form good habits [14:53] Lisa and Jen discuss why you need non-negotiables [16:58] Jen talks about how sometimes your best quality is your worst quality [20:34] Jen explains how to tell the difference between burnout and just making excuses [21:50] Jen and Lisa discuss being your own worst critic [23:54] Jen describes how to get trustworthy feedback [26:18] Jen shares one of her biggest failures and how she dealt with it [27:10] Jen and Lisa discuss how to deal with weaknesses and form a great team [32:02] Jen affirms the value of self-awareness, resilience and being deliberate [36:20] Jen shares her superpower [37:37] FOLLOW JEN: WEBSITE: jennifercohen.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2o1IeSK TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2nisLO7 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tom and Lisa Bilyeu answer questions from the Impact Theory community. [ORIGINAL AIR DATE: 7-16-17]. Topics include: *Tactical steps on how to develop your interest *Finding a job that aligns with your selfish desires *Building your identity codes *The trap of living paycheck to paycheck *And more... SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://impacttheory.co/AG1pod. Secure your digital life with proactive protection for your assets, identity, family, and tech – Go to https://impacttheory.co/aurapod to start your free two-week trial. ********************************************************************** What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... STARTING a business: Join me inside ZERO TO FOUNDER here SCALING a business: Click here to see if you qualify Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox: sign up here. ********************************************************************** Join me live on my Twitch stream. I'm live daily from 6:30 to 8:30 am PT at www.twitch.tv/tombilyeu ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY & MINDSET PLAYBOOK AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/impacttheory ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/tombilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Success often boils down to one simple question: Are you willing to take the stairs while others look for the escalator? Building a thriving real estate career, growing your personal brand, and achieving true success demands effort most people aren't willing to put in. The average person chooses the easier path, hoping for shortcuts. But successful agents and investors understand that taking the stairs—doing the hard things others avoid—is what sets them apart. In today's crowded real estate market, being "just another agent" or investor won't cut it. Clients don't choose services; they choose you. A strong personal brand makes you their first choice, builds trust, and creates opportunities others never see. Without it, you're leaving deals, relationships, and income on the table. New York Times bestselling author of Take The Stairs, Hall of Fame speaker, and Co-Founder of Brand Builders Group, Rory Vaden joins me to talk about the importance of building a personal brand, why it's crucial to lock in on the one problem you can solve and the one audience you can speak to.  Successful people do things that most people aren't willing to do. -Rory Vaden   Things You'll Learn In This Episode  Stairs vs. escalators Success often requires taking the harder path, like choosing the stairs over the escalator, to build discipline and resilience. What “stairs” could lead to greater growth if you chose them over the easier route? Trust before transaction Building trust and serving your immediate clients is more valuable than chasing popularity. How can focusing on trust over followers improve success especially in real estate? The fastest path to warm leads Referrals and presentations are powerful tools for quickly building trust and generating leads in real estate. What strategies can maximize referrals and make presentations more impactful? Guest Bio Rory Vaden is the New York Times bestselling author of Take the Stairs: 7 Steps to Achieving True Success and Procrastinate on Purpose: 5 Permissions to Multiply Time. He is an 8 Figure Entrepreneur, and a Hall of Fame speaker with a TEDx talk that has more than 5 million views. As one of the world's leading experts on the psychology of influence, his insights have been featured on Good Morning America, Fox and Friends, in the Wall St Journal and almost every other major national media outlet.  Today, He and his wife serve as the Co-Founders of Brand Builders Group (as well as Vaden Enterprises and Mission Driven Press) where they teach mission-driven messengers to become more well known and to build and monetize their personal brand. They specialize in helping clients to create original Intellectual Property, grow their online reach, publish and launch bestselling books, build their speaking careers, and all things related to impacting and inspiring more people! Their clients include people like Lewis Howes from The School of Greatness, Amy Porterfield, Eric Thomas “ET Hip Hop Preacher”, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu from Impact Theory, Luvvie Ajayi Jones and Ed Mylett. Visit  https://roryvaden.com/  Follow Rory on Instagram @roryvaden Find Rory on LinkedIn @Rory Vaden     About Your Host Real Producers Podcast is hosted by Remington Ramsey, creator of the Real Producers brand that reaches more than 120 markets nationwide. He is a real estate investor as well as an avid reader and writer. Remington calls Indianapolis home and enjoys life on the lake surrounded by his wife and their three girls. Follow the show on our website, Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you don't miss a single inspiring episode! Start a Real Producers Magazine in YOUR Market! Learn more about franchise opportunities at realproducersmag.com

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with former FBI hostage negotiator, Chris Voss, a man who's spent decades navigating the minds of some of the most dangerous and manipulative people on the planet—including terrorists, criminals, narcissists, and psychopaths. In this incredibly insightful conversation, Chris unpacks the emotional and psychological tools he's developed to outsmart even the most challenging personalities. Get ready to learn how to identify emotional triggers, use tactical empathy, and take control of high-stakes conversations—whether you're facing a toxic boss, a manipulative partner, or just trying to stand your ground. Chris breaks down practical techniques like the illusion of control, the power of saying "no," and how simple questions can turn negotiations in your favor without raising alarm bells. Plus, Lisa and Chris dive into the emotional side of negotiations: how to stay calm when you're triggered, why compromise often leads to disappointment, and why practicing your own internal “chatter” can prepare you for any confrontation. If you're ready to master difficult dynamics and claim back your power, this episode is packed with actionable tools you can start using today. SHOWNOTES 00:00 "Using Negotiation Skills in Daily Life" 04:30 Using Passive Aggression for Control 06:42 Catching a Kidnapper with Questions 13:24 "Handling and Acknowledging Anger" 15:31 Flat Tone: Annoying Street Encounter 19:38 "Respect Drives Connection" 22:16 The Magic of Saying "You're Right" 24:58 "No Easy Way to Break Up" 27:37 Personal Dilemma and Perspective Shift 33:07 "Voice Tricks for Calm and Impact" 34:40 "Playful Attitude Beats Conflict" 39:36 Compromise: A Guaranteed Bummer? 42:11 Chasing Happiness: An Unpredictable Ride 45:08 "Dealing with the Mind's Chatter" 48:05 Cutting Ties with Toxic People 51:48 Negotiation Tips for Everyday Heroes CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Vanessa Van Edwards—a behavioral investigator, bestselling author, and all-around expert in the science of people—for an unfiltered, practical, and refreshingly relatable conversation. Vanessa dives into why being smart and prepared isn't always enough to make a lasting impression, sharing eye-opening stories from Shark Tank and research-backed tips you can use right away. From decoding body language and mastering the subtle art of digital communication, to navigating awkwardness at networking events and setting healthy boundaries without guilt, Vanessa brings her trademark blend of vulnerability and actionable advice. She opens up about her own struggles with people-pleasing and “fake it till you make it,” revealing how radical transparency and authenticity have transformed her life and career. Plus, get her insider hacks for reading social cues—on Zoom, on dates, in interviews—and creating stronger, warmer connections, even when life (or a pandemic) throws you curveballs. Whether you constantly feel underestimated, want to feel more confident in any room, or just need a pep talk about loving your awkward self, this episode is packed with the science, stories, and strategies to help you own your impact. Get ready to rethink what it really takes to be seen, heard, and respected—no Spanx required! SHOWNOTES 00:00 "Effective Panel Preparation Mindset" 07:29 Hot Button Conversations 11:28 "Priming Gender Skills Early" 18:21 Parenthood: From Ideals to Reality 23:24 Confidence and Personal Space Dynamics 30:10 Decoding Personal Space Signals 32:26 "Predicting Crushes by Toe Direction" 41:11 Contempt: Divorce's Key Indicator 44:29 Finding Purpose at Events 50:20 Priming for Successful Meetings 55:11 Embracing Awkwardness as Strength 59:26 "Hiding Our Truths" 01:06:06 Background Choices for Impression Management 01:10:16 Zoom Backgrounds as Personal Statements 01:15:32 The Other Shoe Effect 01:22:07 Zoom Etiquette: Show More Body 01:30:37 Virtual Culinary Experiences 01:31:47 "Missed Storytelling Opportunity with Props" CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this deeply moving episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes back the extraordinary poet and author Najwa Zebian for a conversation that goes right to the heart of healing and self-worth. If you've ever felt weighed down by emotional scars, struggled with people pleasing, or found yourself aching for validation from the wrong places, this episode is for you. Lisa and Najwa dive into the difficult, yet transformative process of acknowledging your pain, accepting your past without shame, and learning to speak to yourself with radical compassion. Najwa shares her hard-won wisdom on how to stop picking at old wounds and instead become the loving support you needed back when you were hurting most. With vulnerable stories, honest reflections, and actionable advice, Najwa shows us how to break free from cycles of self-blame and emotional debt. Whether you're working on setting boundaries, letting go of past hurts, or learning to prioritize your own needs, this conversation is packed with “aha” moments. Grab your notebook—this is one of those episodes you'll want to come back to again and again. And if it touches you, don't forget to share it and leave a review to keep the impact going. Now, let's dive into this powerful episode with the incomparable Najwa Zebian. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Transforming Scars into Motivation 09:39 Embracing Scars as Lessons 14:28 Overcoming People-Pleasing Tendencies 18:57 Empowering Your Healing Environment 25:01 Breaking Free from Self-Imposed Limits 28:33 Choosing Authenticity Over Approval 35:06 "Be Yourself, Not Their Perception" 41:54 The Cost of Toxic Love 44:41 Self-Validation and Independence 48:22 "This Too Shall Pass" 56:04 Healing Through Compassion and Clarity 01:02:26 Accumulated Unresolved Conflicts 01:08:28 From Reaction to Reflection 01:11:53 Healing Emotional Wounds 01:18:08 Self-Validation and Childhood Pain 01:24:00 Breaking Patterns, Embracing Self-Sufficiency 01:28:40 "Recognizing Unseen Patterns Without Judgment" 01:34:04 Rebuilding Self-Connection and Awareness 01:39:01 "Holistic Psychology's Core Beliefs" 01:43:56 "Practice Mindfulness with Phone Reminders" 01:48:25 "Inherited Suppression of Self-Expression" CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Dr. Emily Morse—renowned sex educator, host of the "Sex with Emily" podcast, and all-around confidence booster—for a candid conversation about building true confidence in and out of the bedroom. Emily shares why confidence isn't a final destination but an ongoing journey rooted in self-awareness, acceptance, and healing from past relationships and limiting beliefs. Together, Lisa and Emily get real about body image, vulnerability, and the myth that someone else needs to "complete" us. They break down practical ways to boost body confidence, from mirror exercises to finding joy in movement and fostering positive self-talk. Get ready for honest strategies on dating, sex, and relationships—from why you should rethink that "body count" conversation, to reclaiming your right to pleasure and authentic communication with your partner. Plus, Emily and Lisa talk about aging, changing bodies, and how we can reprogram our minds for confidence at any stage of life. If you've ever struggled with feeling good in your skin, silencing your inner critic, or showing up authentically, this episode is a must-listen. Emily brings her trademark wisdom, warmth, and straight talk as she helps every woman realize: confidence isn't just sexy—it's your birthright. Original air date: 9-11-2022 SHOWNOTES 00:00 Embrace Being Single 12:51 Confidence in Authenticity 24:06 Overcoming Body Image Shame 35:38 "Exploring Mutual Pleasure in Relationships" 42:09 "Relationship Comfort and Challenges" 44:41 Reprogramming Sex-Negative Beliefs FOLLOW EMILY MORSE:Instagram: @sexwithemilyTwitter: @sexwithemilyYouTube: Sex with EmilyWebsite: sexwithemily.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Entrepreneur, producer, best-selling author, public speaker, and host Lisa Bilyeu is here to tell you that anyone can radiate confidence! In this episode, Lisa shares her personal journey from feeling stuck and unconfident to becoming a downright business powerhouse.Ahead, Lisa opens up about her experiences with personal development, the impact of toxic relationships on one's confidence, and the transformative power of honest conversations. Learn the tools Lisa uses to navigate conflict in both romantic and professional relationships.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

This is a Fan Fav episode. Stepping into radical honesty and self-love, Emily Morse joins me (Lisa Bilyeu) to explore the root causes of our insecurities—both in and out of the bedroom—and how to finally break free from toxic patterns in relationships. Emily's signature empathy, real talk, and hands-on advice will help you create confidence from within, heal after heartbreak, and build connections rooted in true self-acceptance. With permission to be imperfect, practical mirror-work tips, and deep dives into navigating sex, vulnerability, and comparison traps, Emily guides us toward owning our desires and enjoying lasting, authentic intimacy. SHOWNOTES 00:01:08 – Why being single is the best time to get to know yourself and build real confidence 00:02:06 – Debunking the “you complete me” myth: becoming whole before seeking partnership 00:03:37 – Healing toxic relationship patterns: how therapy and reflection help you choose better 00:05:54 – Body acceptance, exposure exercises, and the journey from body shame to neutrality 00:07:59 – Confidence as the sexiest trait, even before you feel it: the “fake it till you make it” effect 00:10:15 – Sensual dance, movement, and embodying your pleasure in the bedroom 00:15:01 – Rewriting the negative self-talk tape: affirmations and the lifelong growth of confidence 00:23:18 – Questioning whose beliefs you carry—rejecting shame and reprogramming your own narrative 00:34:23 – Pleasing yourself first: becoming your own best lover for real relationship satisfaction 00:40:28 – Talking openly about sex: how real conversations fuel pleasure, trust, and long-term connection FOLLOW EMILY MORSE: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Website: https://www.sexwithemily.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/sexwithemily CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu and intimacy expert Shan Boodram continue their deep dive into the art of seduction—moving from the signature personalities like “the Star” and “the Centerfold,” to building enduring wow factor and how to keep attraction alive in long-term relationships. Shan reveals how confidence is built not through massive, overwhelming change, but small “rivers of confidence” that are unique to your culture, personal style, and chosen sexual icon. Lisa and Shan discuss aging, attracting as your most authentic self, avoiding society's ageist traps, and how to ground self-worth outside of fleeting appearance or sex appeal. They close with a frank conversation about the “seven year itch,” explaining why we lose the spark in relationships and exactly what to do about it—drawing from the latest science and real-world intimacy wisdom. Shan leaves listeners with practical, transformational advice on sexual self-ownership, pleasure, and how to reignite connection—both with your partner and yourself. SHOWNOTES35:02 The Centerfold — Gender-Bending, Nonconformity & Seductive Uniqueness45:16 How to Identify Your Unique Seduction Strengths56:00 Shan on Aging, Sexiness, and Sade as Her Next Icon1:06:39 The Work of Relationships: Keeping the Wow Factor Alive1:15:45 Shan's Resources, Masterclass, and Where to Find Her FOLLOW SHAN BOODRAM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboodramTwitter: https://twitter.com/shanboodramWebsite: https://www.shanboodram.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this empowering first half of our two-part episode, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Shan Boodram—a certified intimacy expert, sexologist, author, and host—to unpack the art and science of seduction for women. Shan isn't your average sexologist; she's here to debunk myths around seduction and reveal why true connection goes far deeper than any superficial tricks. Drawing inspiration from Robert Greene's The Art of Seduction and her own clinical research, Shan shares the nine proven ways women can be highly seductive—and why each one works. As Lisa and Shan dive in, they reveal everything from the power of first impressions and the psychology behind the “siren,” to the overlooked potency of genuine interest and playing to your personal strengths. They also shine a light on the darker side of seduction—manipulation—and share actionable tips on building authentic confidence, owning your sexuality, and breaking free from societal norms. Whether you're looking to harness your inner charm or simply show up more powerfully in your relationships, this episode is your blueprint. SHOWNOTES00:00 Introduction: Meet Shan Boodram, Intimacy Expert & Sexologist01:30 First Impressions: Warmth + Competence Formula12:45 Addiction, Inconsistent Reward, and the Sunk-Cost Fallacy21:55 How Your Inner Child Energy Attracts Others30:04 The Croquette — Mystery, Teasing, and Negging32:29 Living Apart Together: Creating Mystery in Relationships FOLLOW SHAN BOODRAM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboodramTwitter: https://twitter.com/shanboodramWebsite: https://www.shanboodram.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: November 16, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, you're in for a mind-blowing episode with the incredible, resilient, and ever-inspiring Lindsey Stirling! If you've ever felt crushed by life's adversities or worried that you're not good enough, then this episode is for you. Lindsey, the sensational dancing violinist, opens up about being told she wasn't good enough on national television, and how she overcame that crushing moment to become the powerhouse she is today. She's also getting real with us about her struggles with anorexia and mental health and shares her journey to self-love and healing. Ladies, we're diving deep into not just picking ourselves back up but totally owning our stories. Lindsey is here with some amazing nuggets on resilience, handling criticism, and finding the strength to be your true self. So grab that notebook and pen because Lindsey Stirling is about to drop some serious wisdom on how to own your life and your impact. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Rising Above: Lindsey Stirling's Triumph 05:31 Journey to Mastery 14:28 Embracing the Impossible 20:51 Silent Struggle with Self-Hate 23:44 Obsessive Thoughts About Eating 27:23 The Illusion of Weight and Happiness 32:54 Rewiring Self-Perception 38:12 "Finding Strength in a North Star" 48:25 The Dual Power of Gratitude 49:18 Balancing Gratitude with Ambition 59:39 Recognizing and Overcoming Abuse 01:03:24 Realization and Breakup After Show 01:07:32 Unique Christmas Album Takes on Classics 01:11:17 "Angels Inspire and Guide Me" FOLLOW LINDSEY STIRLING: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindseystirling/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LindseyStirling Website: https://www.lindseystirling.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2 of our deep-dive conversation with Dr. Thema Bryant, Lisa Bilyeu continues to explore the essential steps to healing your heart and elevating your sense of self. This episode addresses the complexities of forgiveness—untangling it from forced reconciliation and explaining why wisdom and boundaries are vital in protecting your peace. Dr. Thema also gives actionable advice on how to navigate toxic family dynamics, overcome self-blame, and practice self-compassion. Shifting gears, the discussion heads into the world of dating after heartbreak, with Dr. Thema outlining not just the “red flags,” but—importantly—the “green lights” that indicate healthy, fulfilling relationships. From emotional safety, vulnerability, and self-awareness to fun, balance, and mutual support, she details the traits to seek in both yourself and others for thriving love. The episode wraps with practical tips from Dr. Thema's book on building authentic connection, loving yourself first, and setting up your life for sustainable joy—no matter where you are in your healing journey. SHOWNOTES 22:05 How society pressures victims, not offenders, about forgiveness 23:55 Why victim-blaming silences survivors 25:19 Navigating fear, guilt, and “forced forgiveness” with parents and partners 28:10 Redefining your role in your family of origin 30:20 How to forgive yourself and practice self-compassion 33:06 Self-sabotage: carrying survival strategies into new seasons 34:59 How awkward and uncomfortable healing can feel 36:11 Venturing into dating: Red flags vs. green lights 36:26 The 15 green light traits for healthy relationships 39:24 Do political and core beliefs matter in compatibility? 41:24 Navigating vulnerability—being open without manipulation 45:06 Physical and emotional safety as the foundation of intimacy 48:26 Time, investment, and sustaining connection 51:27 Balancing independence and togetherness 54:06 Spotting when a partner is undermining your shine 56:57 Negotiating happiness and when "hard work" is the wrong kind 59:12 Tactical steps to "upgrade your love life": Daily self-love, nature, boundaries, creativity, affirmation, routines, and more 1:04:25 Where to find Dr. Thema Bryant and resources for deeper healing FOLLOW DR. THEMA BRYANT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.thema/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.thema Website: https://www.drtaymabryant.com Podcast: The Homecoming Podcast CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the trailblazing psychologist, author, and current President of the American Psychological Association, Dr. Thema Bryant. Renowned for her expertise in trauma recovery and healing, Dr. Thema joins Lisa to dive into the realities of heartbreak, betrayal, and emotional pain—and, most importantly, how to begin rebuilding your sense of self after it all feels shattered. Dr. Thema unpacks why recognizing and accepting our pain is the first step toward genuine healing, dismantling the lies we've been told about ourselves, and stepping out of shame and denial. From discussing the damaging waiting game for an apology, to offering insights from narrative therapy, she guides listeners to reclaim agency in their lives and shift their internal narratives. If you've struggled with toxic hope, anger, or the burden of forgiveness, this episode is packed with essential truths to help you break free. SHOWNOTES 00:00 What to do when your heart is broken 00:32 The importance of admitting you're hurting 01:32 The danger of denial and how it feeds shame 02:32 Healing and the ripple effect on your relationships 03:11 Surrounding yourself with the right people 03:29 Why waiting for an apology keeps you stuck 04:41 Restorying your life through narrative therapy 05:46 Moving from “why” to “what now” 06:17 Dismantling core negative beliefs 07:11 How to detect the lies you've absorbed 08:31 The “hope as handcuffs” trap 09:26 Differentiating between joint and solo hope in relationships 10:45 Recognizing empty words vs. changed behavior 11:47 The double-edged sword of anger and revenge 12:22 Constructive vs. destructive anger 13:49 Breaking the revenge spiral and centering yourself 16:06 Real-world examples of holding on to old wounds 17:05 External messages and body image: it's not all your fault 18:30 Forgiveness redefined: forgetting, speed, and reconciliation FOLLOW DR. THEMA BRYANT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.thema/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.thema Website: https://www.drtaymabryant.com Podcast: The Homecoming Podcast CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, we're diving deep into the twisted world of coercive control with the one and only Dr. Laura Richards – renowned criminal behavioral analyst, podcaster, and global expert on stalking, coercive control, and violent crime. We're also joined by Lisa Bilyeu, host of Women of Impact and queen of calling out BS wherever it lurks. Dr. Laura breaks down how cult leaders, predators, and power-hungry narcissists (looking at you, Sean Combs) use tactics straight out of the coercive control playbook to groom, manipulate, and dominate victims. We're talking about how the “nice guy” veneer slowly erodes, why women like Christina Corom end up as right-hand enforcers, and why media still struggles to call out abusive power structures for what they are. We also get into: Why grooming is always strategic, never accidental The eerie parallels between Keith Raniere, Sean Combs, and other culty figures The hidden dangers of female lieutenants like Nancy Salzman, Ghislaine Maxwell, and Christina Coram How to spot coercive control before it becomes your entire world It's a masterclass in manipulation, and a reminder that cult tactics aren't confined to creepy compounds in Upstate New York. They're happening in boardrooms, bedrooms, and billionaire circles everywhere. Catch more of Dr. Laura Richards on the Crime Analyst Podcast https://www.crime-analyst.com or Crime Analyst Squad www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst Or on Instagram @laurarichards999 and @crimeanalyst For more information and resources, the following sites can be accessed: www.thelaurarichards.com https://www.dashriskchecklist.com/ And don't miss Lisa Bilyeu's Women of Impact for your weekly dose of female empowerment. After this one, you'll never hear “It's All About the Benjamins” the same way. Also… let it be known that: The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything. Nobody's mad at you, just don't be a culty fuckwad. **PRE-ORDER Sarah and Nippy's newest book here Check out our lovely sponsors Join ‘A Little Bit Culty' on Patreon Get poppin' fresh ALBC Swag Support the pod and smash this link Cult awareness and recovery resources Watch Sarah's TEDTalk CREDITS:  Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony Ames Production Partner: Amphibian.Media Co-Creator: Jess Tardy Associate producers: Amanda Zaremba and Matt Stroud of Amphibian.Media   Audio production: Red Caiman Studios Theme Song: “Cultivated” by Jon Bryant co-written with Nygel AsselinSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Laura and co-host Lisa Bilyeu are joined by Sarah Edmondson, NXIVM cult whistleblower, actor and author of Scarred. As the prosecution start to wrap their case, Laura, Lisa and Sarah highlight the important parrels and blueprint of the successful prosecutions of NXIVM boss Keith Raniere and R Kelly and discuss whether the legal standard of the charges against Combs have been met. Sarah shares sharp insight into the mindset of victims and the slow line bending erosion of autonomy, drawing powerful comparisons between her experience in NXIVM and the behavior laid out in the charges against Combs. Laura breaks down the impact of victim blaming including Bill Maher's disgraceful monologue blaming Cassie telling women to ‘just leave,' as well as coercive control tactics used by perpetrators, including recruiting female lieutenants, to dominate not just intimate partners, but also employees, associates, and entire systems. This episode goes beyond headlines — it asks harder questions about accountability, those who choose to look away and those who enable abusers and how people with power maintain control. Listen now and share widely. Understanding coercive control isn't just knowledge- it's protection for you and those you know so you don't get caught in the trap. For more expert insight, in-depth conversations, extra episodes and videos, live monthly events with Laura and to be a part a fast growing, dynamic and empowering community join the Crime Analyst Squad: www.patreon.com/CrimeAnalyst     #DiddyTrial #Diddy #SeanCombs #CassieVentura #KeithRaniere #RKelly #Epstein #PowerAndControl #CoerciveControl #DomesticViolence #BillMaher #VictimBlaming #CrimeAnalyst #TrueCrime #Podcast #WarningSigns #Manipulation FOLLOW Lisa Bilyeu:   https://lisabilyeu.com/   YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeir7Wbzzfg43c1eL7PSa3g   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/?hl=en  FOLLOW Sarah Edmondson: Instagram: PERSONAL IG A Little Bit Culty Instagram: ALBC IG Website and Books: Book info (past and new)   Clip  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-trial-prosecutors-go-for-the-big-fish/id1801972935?i=1000709545236https://www.instagram.com/p/DKTb-pgOCrt/?hl=en Sources    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEXSuztIF2s   www.dashriskchecklist.com    https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/coercivecontrol    https://www.thelaurarichards.com/resources/books   https://www.thelaurarichards.com/my-two-cents/serial-and-high-risk-stalkers-and-domestic-abusers     REGISTER For Laura's 2025 Masterclasses – Profiling Behaviour, Preventing Murder and Suicide in Slow Motion, DASH, DASH Train the Trainer, Coercive Control and Stalking: https://bit.ly/LRMasterclassRegistration    More Training Info: www.dashriskchecklist.com     www.thelaurarichards.com         YouTube, Socials and Website    YouTube @crimeanalyst     Facebook Crime Analyst Podcast    Instagram @crimeanalyst @laurarichards999    Threads @crimeanalyst    X @thecrimeanalyst @laurarichards999     TikTok @crimeanalystpod    Website www.crime-analyst.com     Leave a Review https://www.crime-analyst.com/reviews/new/    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode of the Rachel Hollis podcast, Rachel and her guests explore the nuances of effective leadership. The episode features insights from renowned leaders and authors such as John Maxwell, Lisa Bilyeu, Scott Miller, and Donald Miller. They discuss the development of leadership skills, the importance of intentional personal growth, and the impact of culture in organizations.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!00:23 Welcome to the Show!01:17 Mastermind Episode Introduction02:47 John Maxwell on Growth and Leadership13:36 Lisa Bilyeu on Adapting to Change21:50 Scott Miller's Journey with Franklin Covey23:14 Climbing the Corporate Ladder24:27 The Reality of Leadership26:02 The Importance of Culture27:08 The Role of Leaders in Shaping Culture28:24 The Challenges of Leadership Conversations32:04 Innovative Business Strategies During Crisis34:22 The Power of Storytelling in Business40:07 From Memoir Writer to Business Consultant41:52 Conclusion and ReflectionsSign up for Rachel's weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videosFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollisTo learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices.