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In Part 2 of the transformative conversation on Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu and guest Adam Lane Smith move from the science of intimacy into the step-by-step tactics for building indestructible relationships. Adam, a sought-after relationship coach and author, returns to break down the four levels of peace a woman brings to a healthy partnership… and why executive partnership is the secret weapon for thriving marriages. This half tackles tough questions on how to spot manipulators, narcissists, and avoidant partners, dissecting the behavioral clues before you get emotionally invested. Lisa and Adam also face controversial truths around infidelity, parenthood, and why major life changes like having a baby push couples to their breaking point. Expect candid insights, role-playing real scenarios, and practical scripts to use in your own relationship. Adam's methodology empowers women to ask for what they need, set boundaries, and choose partners who offer mutual respect and trust without compromise. SHOWNOTES Why Do Men Cheat After Pregnancy? Building Agreements to Prevent Loneliness & Infidelity Hard Truths About Male Psychology & Intimacy The Need for Touch: Why Men Are Starved for Affection Do Emotional Affairs Hurt Women More? The Real Gender Divide Why Men's Sexual Needs Must Be Understood Communication Styles: Emotional Processing vs. Solutions Scripts for Explaining Emotional Needs to Men “I Respect You”—The Most Powerful Words to Say How Respect Differs from Love & Why Men Need to Hear It The Cost of Withholding Respect Women of Impact listeners get a 10% discount on Adam's programs at bundle.adamlanesmith.com with code: IMPACT10. Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://adamlanesmith.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentadam  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to a powerful edition of Women of Impact with host Lisa Bilyeu, joined by renowned couples therapist and attachment expert, Adam Lane Smith. Adam has spent over fifteen years helping thousands of couples and individuals overcome barriers to deep, meaningful connection… and today, he's here to unravel the hidden truths behind intimacy, sex, and relationship dynamics that most women have never been taught. In this first half, Adam and Lisa cut through popular misconceptions about intimacy, exploring why men and women seem to speak different emotional languages, especially when it comes to sex and bonding. They dive into the science of attachment, hormones, and brain chemistry, revealing practical strategies for triggering true emotional connection with men… both inside and outside of the bedroom. Whether you're single, dating, or committed, this episode will challenge the myths holding you back and give you the tools to build trust, safety, and lasting partnership. Tune in for actionable advice, relatable stories, and an honest look at the pitfalls of modern dating. Show Notes Why Men and Women Don't Speak the Same Language in Sex The Science Behind Sex, Trust, and Emotional Bonding Three Ways to Create Emotional Bonding During Sex The Four Levels of Male Safety Every Woman Needs Four Levels of Peace Women Bring to Relationships How to Spot Manipulative vs. Avoidant Men Narcissism, Contempt, and Behavioral Red Flags Excessive Need for Control: Avoidant vs. Manipulative Dynamics Shifting Blame: Insecurity vs. Deliberate Manipulation Boundaries: Violated Ethics and Core Goals When Men See You as an Object, Not a Partner Women of Impact listeners get a 10% discount on Adam's programs at bundle.adamlanesmith.com with code: IMPACT10. Thank you to our sponsors: OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Adam Lane Smith: Website: https://adamlanesmith.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentadam  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Een op de vijf alleenstaanden ervaart zijn/haar job als zwaarder dan die van mensen in een relatie. Ze moeten naar eigen zeggen harder werken en er wordt meer van hen verwacht. Klopt dat? De Syrische president Ahmed al-Sharaa gaat op bezoek bij VS-president Trump, en dat is nog nooit eerder gebeurd. Waarom halen die twee de banden aan? En in De Panne wordt een Belgische soldaat herbegraven die omkwam tijdens WOI. Hoe uniek is dat?

This is a Fan Fav episode. It's becoming more and more evident there are a host of things women are dealing with that not only destroy our bodies, but they also destroy our confidence and ability to show up and go as hard as we want. Dr. Gabrielle Lyons, a functional medicine physician and muscle-centric advocate for metabolic health and longevity, shares startling data that 73% of people are either overweight or obese. If you're a woman dealing with PCOS, hormonal imbalances, and gut issues, chances are you are absolutely struggling with your weight. This episode is for you today if you've been fixated and obsessing over cutting calories, doing more cardio, and resorting to starving during the day only to binge eat at night. Let's be honest, there's a bunch of crap being marketed to us and deciphering reliable information from BS myths and none-evidence-based beliefs shared from ulterior motives and political agendas is making a lot of people feel hopeless, overwhelmed and confused. Let's end that crap right here. Key areas of re-information we're focusing on in this episode include: Cycles of crash dieting are absolutely destroying your health Move away from the fat phobic model to an empowering muscle centric model  Health at any size is devastating people and is not that same as loving yourself Follow Dr. Gabrielle Lyon: Website: ⁠https://drgabriellelyon.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWPQJeWz4pvccA3lIoZ7j1Q⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/drgabriellelyon⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/drgabriellelyon/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/doctorgabriellelyon/⁠  Podcast: ⁠https://drgabriellelyon.com/podcast/⁠  Original air date: 3-13-23 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. The men you attract and find yourself in relationships with reveal more about you, your wounds, your insecurities and the parts of you that need healing and growth. Looking externally for safety, love, and validation is not only an unhealthy way to move through relationships, it's also a toxic way of living that doesn't serve your higher purpose and it will never create the peace you're looking for. Not every woman has experienced seeing a man completely open, vulnerable, and exposed. Honestly speaking, sadly, not many women are able to deal with the rawness of men's emotions. Yet, there is something comforting from hearing today's guest, Lewis Howes, share about the emotional trigger and pain that men go through. Lewis went from the cheating ladies man, emotionally closed off, and easily triggered insecure jealous partner-type to a man looking forward to marriage in a committed loving relationship that has healed his some serious past traumas and emotional triggers. Lewis Howes is the bestselling author of the book, The Mask of Masculinity, ultra successful entrepreneur, host of the podcast and YouTube channel, The School of Greatness. In this conversation with Lisa, Lewis brings up some challenging questions that are worth sitting with and giving some extra time and attention as you either navigate through your current relationship or spend time alone before your next relationship. Check out Lewis Howes latest book, The Greatness Mindset: https://www.amazon.com/Greatness-Mindset-Unlock-Power-Today-ebook/dp/B0B6ML61NP Follow Lewis Howes: Website: https://lewishowes.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lewishowes Twitter: https://twitter.com/LewisHowes/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lewishowes/ Original air date: 3-8-23 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

PART 2 In part two of this compelling conversation on Women of Impact, Lisa Nichols and Lisa Bilyeu dive even deeper into untangling the complex realities of trust, control, and emotional healing in relationships. The discussion offers a clear lens for identifying manipulation and distinguishing genuine partnership from controlling behaviors… vital insights for anyone navigating confusion and uncertainty in love. With vulnerability and hard-earned wisdom, Lisa Nichols unpacks how to set non-negotiable boundaries, spot when your needs are being ignored, and stay attuned to your own intuition. The episode features a powerful, practical segment—“Stay, Wait or Run Like Hell”—guiding listeners through real-life relationship dilemmas with clear red, yellow, or green light advice. Prepare to walk away with the tools and resolve to create, demand, and receive the healthy, passionate, and expansive love you deserve. SHOWNOTES Healing to break the cycle and avoid repeating lessons Letting go: The power of releasing attachments Loving from a distance and prioritizing self-love Mirror work, body positivity, and redefining self-value Audacious, unapologetic confidence in relationships “Stay, Wait or Run Like Hell”—relationship red/yellow/green light scenarios The danger of being “low-maintenance” and not expressing needs Navigating betrayal and choosing yourself Requiring partners to love your evolution What to do after betrayal: Affirmations, non-negotiables, safe spaces More relationship scenarios and self-fulfillment Cultivating vulnerability, courageous conversations, and radical self-advocacy Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Lisa Nichols: Website: https://motivatingthemasses.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisa2motivate YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LisaNichols  Take Lisa's Boldness Barometer to find out how bold you're playing: https://motivatingthemasses.com/playbolder/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

PART 1 This episode of Women of Impact brings to the forefront the incredible story and wisdom of Lisa Nichols, celebrated motivational speaker, best-selling author, and one of the world's most-requested transformational coaches. Joining Lisa Bilyeu, Lisa opens up about her deeply personal journey from the darkness of toxic love to reclaiming her confidence, voice, and worth. T Through vivid storytelling, Lisa Nichols shares the early warning signs of a toxic relationship, her harrowing experience of abuse, and the pivotal “crawl” back to herself. If you've ever questioned your worth, doubted your instincts, or stayed silent to keep the peace, this conversation promises to shake you awake, offer solace, and supply you with actionable strategies to rebuild your life and self-esteem from the inside out. SHOWNOTES Toxic love vs. healthy love Lisa's personal story: falling for the “representative” Early warning signs and red flags ignored The night that changed everything: trauma and survival Strategizing how to escape an abusive relationship Realizing the loss of self-worth and identity Daily mirror work and the practice of self-forgiveness Rebuilding by small wins and self-commitments Recognizing and rebuilding after gaslighting How to tell if love is compassionate or toxic The demands of toxic love vs. healthy support Lessons from healthy partnership after toxic relationships Passion vs. pain: What real intimacy is The power of knowing your “bar” (standards) Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Lisa Nichols: Website: https://motivatingthemasses.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisa2motivate YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LisaNichols  Take Lisa's Boldness Barometer to find out how bold you're playing: https://motivatingthemasses.com/playbolder/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kelly Sundberg is a writer and Capricorn and teacher and redhead and recent author of The Answer Is in the Wound. In this episode, Kelly and Annmarie talk about trauma, rage, grief, healing, and everything in-between, as they interrogate what it takes for someone to move beyond domestic violence and learn to love again.  Content Warning: Domestic Violence If you or someone you know is in search of assistance to break free from partner abuse, there are people standing by 24-7 to help.  Call 1-800-799-SAFE, that's 1-800-799-7233. Do not suffer in silence.  Episode Sponsors: Prairie Lights Books – Iowa City's premier indie bookstore since 1978. Perhaps the strength of our reputation lies in the reading series of local, national and international writers who have read their works which were broadcast live on stations WSUI and WOI and which was the only regular literary series of its kind. All of this could not have been possible without a loyal customer base and a dedicated staff. Learn more or shop online at prairielights.com. Gramercy Books – A locally-owned, independently-minded neighborhood bookstore located in the heart of Bexley, Ohio. Our philosophy at Gramercy Books is simple: we're about inspiration and discovery, community and adventure. We connect readers and writers with books they love, and host special events and ongoing visits by authors, poets and songwriters who provoke conversation. Stop by or shop online at gramercybooksbexley.com Writing by Kelly Sundberg: It Will Look Like a Sunset Goodbye, Sweet Girl The Answer is in the Wound: Trauma, Rage, and Alchemy Other Titles Mentioned in This Episode: Molly, by Blake Butler Hotshot: A Life on Fire, by River Selby American Bloodlines: Reckoning with Lynch Culture, by Sonya Lea In case you've missed it, here's a trailer for Gilmore Girls. Follow Kelly Sundberg: Instagram: @ksundber kellysundberg.com **Writing Workshops:  If you liked this conversation and are interested in writing together, please consider the opportunities below.  For women interested in an online Saturday morning writing circle, you can sign up here or message Annmarie to learn more.  Photo Credit: Rachel Barehl Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part 2 In Part 2 of this powerful Women of Impact conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Judge Lynn Toler turn their attention to the crossroads of staying, leaving, and starting over. Judge Lynn shares her strategies for staying calm in the face of deep disrespect, the art of navigating difficult conversations, and the emotional intelligence tactics that have kept her grounded in and out of court. This half dives into the psychology behind why people don't leave unhappy relationships… from fear of change and financial insecurity to the hope things might get better and the social myths that hold women hostage. Judge Lynn reveals what truly makes or breaks a partnership, why couples should treat their marriage like a business, and her personal journey of loss and resilience following 34 years of marriage.  Here's exactly what we dive into: The power of giving voice to your emotions… at the DMV, and beyond Reading people in court: The dance of emotional intelligence How women lose confidence and identity in relationships The “us against the problem” mindset How to safely exit abusive relationships What happens after Divorce Court: Stories of hope and healing The compatibility test: Questions every couple should ask before marrying Why understanding men (and women) is key for deeper compassion The secret to Judge Lynn's lasting marriage Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/  Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Part 1 In this compelling first half of a two-part Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the legendary Judge Lynn Toler, the longest-serving judge on Divorce Court, for a candid, no-nonsense conversation about the truths of relationships. Judge Lynn, renowned for her unfiltered wisdom and emotional intelligence, draws from her 14 years on the bench to reveal the patterns, pitfalls, and powerful dynamics that shape why we choose to love, cheat, stay, or leave. Get ready for an engaging game of "Men vs. Women: Who's More Likely?" as Judge Lynn uncovers surprising truths about cheating, forgiveness, snooping, and lying… from both genders. They break down why women often feel trapped in unhealthy relationships, the difference between emotional and physical affairs, and the impact of social media on modern romance. Here's exactly what we dive into: How men and women rationalize infidelity differently The deeper needs that lead women to seek attention outside a relationship The evolution of cheating in the age of social media Who's more likely to snoop through a partner's phone? Who's more likely to forgive a cheater? Why women secretly plot their exits and why men may not see it coming Using the court system for revenge How friendships and community help women rebuild Why “feeding the marriage” is crucial Daily habits that build long-term intimacy Serial cheaters… from “I make the money, I make the rules” to lack of impulse control Peace Over Violence helps women get out of dangerous relationships: https://www.peaceoverviolence.org/  Thank you to our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Found Banking: Sign up for Found for FREE today at https://found.com/lisa   Follow Judge Lynn Toler: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RealJudgeLynn  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realjudgelynnii  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu with another incredible episode of Women of Impact and today Mel Robbins and I will frikin' CHANGE YOUR LIFE and help you get to your goals in JUST 50 minutes! So if you feel like you're constantly losing it, always overwhelmed, easily distracted, or the worst, ASHAMED at how stupid you seem to others, fear not because our girl Mel is here to help!! Mel Robbins is a best selling author, podcast host, and one of the most sought-after speakers in the world – but while she has had SOOO much success in her life, she can't seem to text anyone back, remember someone's birthday, or put away the milk when she makes coffee. The thing is guys, even Mel frikin' Robbins isn't immune to the anxiety and self-criticism that comes from undiagnosed ADHD. But now, in her 50s, she is FINALLY ditching the self-criticism and owning her diagnosis But women have historically been disproportionately undiagnosed for SOO many reasons, (and yep…. I am part of that stat too!) which is why I wanted Mel to come on the show to talk about the sneaky symptoms of ADHD that you might be suffering with right now, the power that can come from a proper diagnosis, and what you can do to OWN it and make it your superpower! Because once you understand that YOU'RE NOT CRAZY and your brain just works differently, THAT'S when you can actually take control and do something about it!! Follow Mel Robbins: Website: https://www.melrobbins.com/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu SPONSORS: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.comOneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What do you do when your worst nightmare comes true? For Emma Heming Willis, wife of Bruce Willis, that moment came when she realized something was deeply wrong. Her once-perfect love story was about to change forever. In this powerful, raw, and emotional episode, Emma opens up about the early signs that something was off, how she learned to trust her gut, and what it really takes to stand by the person you love through illness, grief, and uncertainty. This is not a story about tragedy. It's about love, resilience, and the courage to rise even when life knocks you to your knees. Here's exactly what we dive into: When Everything Changes: The Moment Emma Knew Something Was Wrong Meeting Bruce Willis & Building a Foundation of Love Green Flags That Defined Their Relationship The First Signs of Change: When Bruce Started to Slip Away Acting on Instinct: Getting Answers When No One Listens Choosing Strength Over Despair: The Pivot Point The Hidden Emotions of Caregiving: Anger, Guilt & Resentment Grieving Someone Who's Still Here: The Pain of Ambiguous Loss Redefining “Self-Care” & Making Time Without Guilt Stay Here, Don't Go There: How to Ground Yourself in the Moment Caregiving, Mortality & The Power of Asking for Help Follow Emma Heming Willis: Website: https://emmahemingwillis.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmahemingwillis/  Check out our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co True Classic: Upgrade your wardrobe at https://trueclassic.com/impact FOLLOW LISA:Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever met someone who felt off… but you jut couldn't explain why? The smile didn't reach their eyes. The story didn't add up. But you second-guessed yourself anyway. That's exactly what this episode is about. I sat down with Chase Hughes, former U.S. Navy Chief and human behavior expert, to break down the science of spotting lies and decoding manipulation, before it destroys your confidence. He reveals the exact cues liars can't hide, how narcissists give themselves away, and the “bait question” that exposes guilt instantly. Here's exactly what you'll learn: The blink-rate trick that reveals stress and deception in real time How narcissists react when you show vulnerability The interrogation-style question that instantly exposes manipulators Chapter Titles: How to Spot a Lie in Seconds (The Zoom Call Breakdown) Blink Rate: The Body's Built-In Lie Detector Fake Openness & Closed Body Language The Language of Liars: Pronouns & Chronology The Punishment Question That Exposes Guilt Follow Chase Hughes: Website: https://www.chasehughes.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chasehughesofficial/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChaseHughesOfficial  Check out our sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeuVital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaOneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You know that moment when your gut says “something's off”... but you ignore it? When someone's words sound sweet, but their eyes don't match? This episode is your wake-up call. I brought together the most dangerous minds in psychology, persuasion, and human behavior, Robert Greene, Andrew Bustamante, and Dr. Ramani Durvasula, to expose the exact tactics manipulators use to gain control. From subtle “negging” and love-bombing, to psychological warfare used by spies, this mashup will teach you how to stop being played, spot red flags early, and take back your power. Whether it's dating, work, or friendships, these are the tools that will keep you safe, sharp, and unshakable. SHOWNOTES Trust Your Gut: Spotting the Cold Male Seducer (Robert Greene) Why Pain Keeps You Hooked The Spy's Playbook: How to Turn Loyalty Into Control (Andrew Bustamante) Avoidance, Competition, Compliance: How Manipulation Evolves Narcissistic Punishment: Fear, Withdrawal & Humiliation (Dr. Ramani) The Tests Narcissists Use to Find Easy Targets Safety Over Romance: The Real Test of Love Follow Today's Experts: Robert Greene: https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/ Andrew Bustamante:  https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/  Dr. Ramani Durvasula: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/  Check out our sponsors: Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: 15% off code LISA at https://oneskin.co FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Ever wonder why some people light up a room and others shrink the second the spotlight hits them? Why confidence looks so natural for some but feels impossible to fake? I brought in Charlie Houpert, founder of Charisma on Command (7M+ YouTube subscribers), to decode the psychology of confidence, charisma, and connection… using viral clips, movie moments, and real-world relationships. From Taylor Swift's transformation from shy to self-assured, to the body language cues that reveal insecurity, to the painful truth about why couples tear each other down in public, this episode will change the way you see confidence forever. We break down what it really means to project power without arrogance, build self-worth without validation, and read people's energy so you never get played again. SHOWNOTES The Hidden Cues That Reveal Confidence vs. Insecurity The Aborted Wave: Why We Shrink Instead of Showing Up The Confidence Arc in Pretty Woman: Judgment, Shame & Revenge Taylor Swift: From Insecure to Unshakable Why Women Rush Their Words (and How to Reclaim Space) The Alec Baldwin Red Carpet Breakdown: When Relationships Go Public Why “Clapping Back” Costs You Confidence When Contempt Kills Relationships (and How to Rebuild Respect) Mean Girls & the Science of Fake Niceness Why We Fall for Insincere People (and How to Stop) Follow Charlie Houpert: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CharismaonCommand Website: https://www.charismaoncommand.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charliehoupert/  Check out our sponsors: Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Magic Spoon: code LISABILYEU $5 off https://magicspoon.com/lisabilyeu FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing the riveting conversation from Part 1, Dr. Abbie Maroño and Lisa Bilyeu take us deeper into the world of manipulation, persuasion, and psychological self-defense. Dr. Abbie unpacks how master manipulators use the very same body language and behavioral cues of trustworthy people to draw women in… and how our brains often misinterpret these signals.  The episode explores the red flags and patterns that reveal underlying bad intentions or abusive relationships, including shame tactics and psychological manipulation. Dr. Abbie gives concrete advice on decoding consistency of character over time and across different contexts, building healthy boundaries, and regaining agency after manipulation. This segment is essential for anyone determined to avoid the traps of toxic relationships and set themselves up for healthy, empowered love. SHOWNOTES The power of confirmation bias in relationshipsHow to pause, regulate emotions, and avoid snap decisions when pressuredContext-dependent behaviors vs. core character traits; observing consistencyThree tactics of psychological manipulation: suppress critical thoughts, hijack reward systems, and use shameHow to regulate your emotional state before dates and important eventsWhy aggressive questioning backfires—and what to do insteadManipulators and abusers: the slow breakdown of self-esteem and learned helplessnessReal-life examples of abusive and manipulative behaviorThe importance of supportive friends and outside perspective Check out our sponsors: SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Från 2021. När skylten från koncentrationslägret Auschwitz försvinner blir det en världsnyhet. Spåren pekar mot en svensk känd ex-nazist. Nya avsnitt från P3 Dokumentär hittar du först i Sveriges Radio Play. Det är en kall decembermorgon 2009 när vakterna på minnesmuseet i Auschwitz upptäcker att skylten med texten Arbeit macht frei stulits. Skylten hängdes upp av nazisterna när det var ett koncentrationsläger där.Pawel Sawicki som jobbar som pressansvarig på minnesmuseet intervjuas av media från hela världen. Och Livia Fränkel som överlevt Förintelsen blir påmind om tiden när hon hölls som fånge i Auschwitz.Spaningen pekar mot svensk nynazist Samtidigt påbörjas jakten på gärningsmännen. Polsk polis sätter in antiterrorstyrkor för att lösa mysteriet. Säkerhetsbevakningen av Polens gränser förstärks och polisen Bartlomiej Morek och hans kollegor får höra att de inte får sluta jobba förrän skylten och gärningsmännen hittats.Ett intensivt spaningsarbete leder till Sverige och en känd före detta nynazist. Hans roll i stölden blir en gåta i drygt tio år.Medverkande:Bartlomiej Morek – polsk polis.Pawel Sawicki – pressansvarig på Auschwitz minnesmuseum.Livia Fränkel – överlevande från Förintelsen.Bosse Gustafsson – journalist, författare.Anders Högström – gärningsman, föreläsare.Martin Hult Ogenblad – journalist.Björn Sandin – advokat.Agnetha Hilding Qvarnström – chefsåklagare.Jan Helin – programdirektör SVT, fd chefredaktör på Aftonbladet.Niclas Sennerteg – journalist, författare.Citat från förundersökningen är inlästa av Łukasz Woiński och Arvid Adrell.Research i Polen och översättning – Morris Wikström.En dokumentär av: Anna Maria Höglund.Producent: Rosa Fernandez.Programmet publicerades första gången 2021.

In this eye-opening episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Dr. Abbie Maroño, a world-renowned expert in lie detection, body language, and persuasion. As a top 1% performer in her field, Dr. Abbie teaches the FBI, Secret Service, and other elite organizations how to spot deception and catch master manipulators. This conversation is an absolute must for anyone who's ever wondered, “How did I fall for that?” Dr. Abbie breaks down the psychology and subtle science behind deception, explaining why it's so hard to spot a lie… even for the smartest women. Together, Lisa and Dr. Abbie examine the unconscious behaviors and stress responses that can betray a liar, and set up practical tools for anyone to become their own lie detector and take back control in their relationships and lives. SHOWNOTES The importance of lie detection for womenStress cues in body language: self-touch, hair pulling, lip touching, fidgetingRepetitive stress behaviors and their meaningFight, flight, and nonverbal cues: reading feet and body orientation Mimicry and its impact on cooperation How to mentally note “hot spots” in conversation for revisitingUsing reverse order and observation-based questioning to reveal inconsistencies Spotting distancing language and pronoun dropThe danger of master manipulators and projecting trustworthinessThe neuroscience of trust: why we judge trustworthiness in 33 milliseconds The “good” and “bad” signs of body language (and how they can be faked) FOLLOW DR. ABBIE MAROÑO: Website: https://www.abbiemarono.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorabbieofficial/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-abbie-maro%C3%B1o-phd-35ab2611a/ Check out our sponsors: SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=enFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu: Dr. Caroline Fleck on Self-Validation, Escaping Manipulative Dynamics, and the PRACTICE of Confidence - Part 2 In Part 2 of this must-listen “Women of Impact” episode, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Caroline Fleck take their conversation to an even deeper and more practical level. Now that you have the full ACCEPTED roadmap for diffusing difficult personalities, this half is devoted to the all-important act of validating yourself… especially when the world (or your relationships) seem intent on tearing you down. Dr. Fleck shares tools for cultivating radical self-compassion, using nightly self-validation practices, and breaking free from self-judgment that keeps you stuck.. even in relationships that aren't overtly toxic but simply no longer serve you. The conversation turns personal as Lisa shares her struggles with validation and women are empowered to take back their agency regardless of praise, criticism, or manipulation.  SHOWNOTES How invalidation and praise can both be trapsSelf-validation: A nightly practice for emotional self-defenseSteps to building self-worth when no one else gives it to youTools for zooming in on your own feelings and experienceWhy marinating in an “emotion” (not the story) dissolves shameUsing self-compassion to break negative patternsHow making micro-commitments builds trust in yourselfDr. Fleck's breast cancer journey and the demand for radical self-validationDR. FLECK'S self-validation practice (step-by-step) FOLLOW DR. CAROLINE FLECK:Website: https://www.drcarolinefleck.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinefleckphd TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drcarolinefleck Check out our sponsors:  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu: Dr. Caroline Fleck on Validation, Boundaries, and Dealing with Toxic People - Part 1 Get ready for a truly transformative episode of “Women of Impact” as Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Caroline Fleck, Stanford-trained clinical psychologist and author, for an unfiltered conversation about facing the most challenging personalities in our lives. Dr. Fleck, renowned for her expertise working with individuals with severe personality disorders, unpacks her research-based, eight-step method for validation, communication, and boundary-setting. In Part 1, Lisa and Dr. Fleck lay the groundwork for understanding validation as a powerful tool in navigating toxic dynamics. Dr. Fleck reveals the core ingredients of her ACCEPTED framework, discusses the critical skill of “attending” and “copying” during conflict, and shares science-backed tactics for de-escalating the impossible. Learn why setting boundaries is a true act of compassion, how “extinction bursts” show up in arguments, and why even narcissists feel safer when boundaries are clear.  SHOWNOTES The truth about validation—what it means and how it cuts through toxicityStep 1: Attending—active listening with purposeStep 2: Copying—mirroring as a tool to build rapport and calm conflictStep 3: Contextualizing—making sense of behavior through historyStep 4: Equalizing—seeing the situation through the other's eyesStep 5: Proposing—“mind reading” and how Oprah does itStep 6: Taking Action—when and how to intervene to support, not enableStep 7: Emote—using shared emotion to deepen connection, or when to simply witnessStep 8: Disclose—using personal stories to break shame and isolation FOLLOW DR. CAROLINE FLECK:Website: https://www.drcarolinefleck.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/carolinefleckphd TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drcarolinefleck Check out our sponsors:  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are dozens of reasons why dating nowadays is so hard for men and women. While lack of communication seems to be a significant factor, being able to read the people you date is also part of the equation. Is he asking you out just because he's interested in sex? He booked reservations at a high-end restaurant you've been wanting to go to, does this mean he's serious about you? You're having a great time together, what will he think if you decide to sleep with him on the first date? Being able to spot red flags is great, but it helps very little without you being brave enough to address it, ask questions and assess his behavior also. Stephan Speaks, one of YouTube's favorite relationship experts has a straightforward approach and way of helping women (and men) understand and see the challenges everyone is facing. Dating is complicated and there's a lot of unhelpful advice being shared with both sexes. This episode is going to help you spot the red flags if he's only in it for the sex, learn how to better interpret his actions, determine if he's toxic or just not the guy for you, and figure out how to solve the dating problems keeping you single. Follow Stephan Speaks: Website: ⁠https://www.stephanspeaks.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPBO9gLGy8ujsJ7xjARI7ow⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/StephanSpeaks⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/StephanSpeaksRelationships/⁠  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu is joined by an incredible lineup of guests: clinical psychologist Dr. Ramani Durvasula, communication strategist Jefferson Fisher, powerhouse entrepreneur and femininity coach April Mason, and legendary executive and author Bozoma Saint John. Together, they dive deep into the complexities of confidence, self-worth, emotional resilience, and navigating difficult relationships—especially with narcissists and toxic personalities. Dr. Ramani opens up about the difference between charisma and authentic connection, offering tactical strategies for protecting your peace and self-esteem around difficult people. Jefferson Fisher provides actionable insights on reclaiming your power and confidence through the art of the pause—and explains exactly why silence, composure, and thoughtfully measured responses are your secret weapons in heated conversations. April Mason shares a masterclass in self-awareness and boundaries, decoding the subtle “dripping effect” of manipulation in relationships, the importance of tuning into your femininity and wisdom, and how your standards protect you from heartbreak and narcissists alike. Rounding out the episode, Bozoma Saint John takes us on a deeply personal journey—from the loss of her college boyfriend to suicide, to finding resilience in even the darkest moments of her life. She shares life-changing truths about letting go of blame, moving past pain, and honoring your own strength through adversity. If you're ready for real talk about confidence, boundaries, healing, and the courage to stand in your power, this mashup is for you. SHOWNOTES Spotting the difference between real confidence and performative charisma How to “soul distance” and protect your energy from narcissists Tactical tools for handling toxic conversations, including the power of the pause Mastering boundaries, self-respect, and subtle cues in relationships Healing from emotional trauma and the journey from victimhood to survivor Finding your voice and reclaiming your story after heartbreak and loss Why self-blame stands in the way of growth—and how to move past it FOLLOW TODAYS GUESTS: Dr. Ramani: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani  Jefferson Fisher: https://www.instagram.com/jefferson_fisher/  April Mason: https://www.instagram.com/msaprilmason/  Bozoma Saint John: https://www.instagram.com/badassboz/  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Craving love can connect us—or leave us vulnerable to harm we never saw coming. In this episode, I (Lisa Bilyeu) sit down with evolutionary anthropologist Dr. Anna Machin to peel back the science behind why we're drawn to love, why it can blind us to red flags, and how manipulators like narcissists and psychopaths use our own biology against us. With fascinating research, actionable advice, and hard-earned empathy, Anna breaks down not only how we get trapped but also the precise path out—so you can reclaim your confidence, trust your instincts, and invite in the healthy love you deserve. SHOWNOTES How love can biologically blind you to manipulation—and what to do about it The “dark triad”: What makes narcissists, psychopaths, and Machiavellians so dangerous in relationships Why our brains shut down red flag detection at the euphoric start of falling in love The addictive chemistry of love: Oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin, and beta-endorphin explained How emotional abusers isolate you and make you question your reality The real science behind jealousy, what it signals, and when it turns toxic Understanding attachment styles and why anxious-preoccupied types are more vulnerable What makes leaving so hard (hint: withdrawal and isolation) and how to rebuild your life afterward The crucial role of friends, support networks, and self-trust after an abusive relationship Hope after heartbreak: Why real, healthy love is still out there for you FOLLOW DR. ANNA MACHIN:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_annamachinWebsite: https://www.annamachin.comBook: “Why We Love: The Definitive Guide to the Most Fundamental Need” (available at major retailers) CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Relationships can be really fun and exciting, and they can also get a bit messy, awkward and questionable. Even after investing years of your life. Pop quiz for the ladies still searching for the right relationship and for the ones questioning the relationship they're in now, and you have to be totally honest. Have you chosen the wrong relationship because it beat the idea of being alone? At least you weren't the single friend, or the one that walked away first. Can you think of someone you dated that clearly only happened because you lowered your standards enough? Has the thought of starting over and walking away from a relationship that obviously had no future kept you in an unhealthy, unhappy, and unfulfilling relationship way past the expiration date? If you answered yes to any of these questions and smirked thinking about your friend, sister, or cousin that would be a HELL YEAH to one or more of these questions, then you're in for a treat. Today's guest, Case Kenny, is one of the most influential voices of reason for millennials, an internet entrepreneur and the host of the podcast, New Mindset, Who Dis? Case is talking with Lisa and shares why being alone isn't just 1000% better than settling for the wrong person, it's freaking dangerous! Irrational fear of being alone and the stigma that comes with it jeopardizes you being your happiest most vibrant self. Original air date: 4-1-23 Check out Case Kenny'sBook: That's Bold of You: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Thats-Bold-You-Thrive-Vibrant-ebook/dp/B0BRHYQTZK?ref_=ast_author_dp⁠  Follow Case Kenny: Website: ⁠https://newmindsetwhodis.com/⁠   Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/thecasekenny⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/thecasekenny/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/case.kenny/⁠  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Continuing their illuminating conversation, Lisa Bilyeu and Dr. Andrew Huberman return in Part 2 to unravel even more of the mysteries behind male behavior, relationships, and the neuroscience that underpins it all. Picking up where Part 1 left off, this episode transitions into the hot-button topics of jealousy, male self-worth, and the unique pressures that men face today. Andrew breaks down the pitfalls of toxic jealousy, the motivation behind “more money, more muscle” mindsets, and why so many men struggle with overwhelm and self-destructive coping strategies—including the often-taboo subject of porn. The duo also tackles emotionally charged terrain like shame, vulnerability, and why crying means something so different for men than it does for women. Through honest stories and raw admissions, Andrew shares what helps men build resilience, manage emotional pain, and ultimately open up to healing in partnership. Lisa and Andrew don't shy away from the cultural shifts facing both men and women, unpacking the future of relationships, marriage, and what it takes to foster genuine intimacy. If you want the real story on male mental health, the role of partnership as a catalyst for growth, and practical advice for creating safer, more compassionate connections—this part is a must-listen. SHOWNOTES 26:33 - Jealousy: Growth vs. Destruction in Men 29:52 - Struggling with Overwhelm: Addiction, Porn, and Escapism 33:58 - The Trap of Pornography: Dopamine & Motivation Gone Wrong 38:41 - Why Women (and Lisa) Love True Crime: The Evolutionary Perspective 41:18 - The Ultimate Fears: Men Fear Shame, Women Fear for Safety 44:55 - The Pressure of Perfection on Men & Changing Gender Dynamics 49:39 - Navigating Career, Motherhood, and Social Judgement as Women 53:09 - The Need for Reflection: Mentors, Elders, and Self-Inquiry 56:59 - What Men Really Want in Partnership: Challenge vs. Comfort 59:28 - Emotional Catharsis: Purging Shame and Vulnerability Safely 1:03:00 - Healing the Divide: Compassion, Understanding, and Moving Forward FOLLOW ANDREW HUBERMAN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/hubermanlab YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab Website: https://www.hubermanlab.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Duty to one's family and to one's heart is on the line as final declarations of intent and love are made. A letter slipped covertly into a palm features a renewed declaration of constant, undying love. Air is cleared and the pride that kept lovers apart is thrown away; both parties feel that in finding their way to each other, they are happier than they deserve. Lady Russell comes to terms with Anne choosing for herself whilst Elizabeth's remains on the marriage market. Mrs Clay's designs on Sir Walter are foiled, yet both she and Mr Elliot may still get all they desire, just not at the expense of another's happiness. Captain Wentworth seeks to assist Mrs Smith in regaining much of what her husband had been tricked out of, and she and Anne remain fast friends. Our narrator concludes how love and honour will always win the day, remarking on the virtues of the Naval profession.  This episode covers Chapters 23 and 24 of Jane Austen's Persuasion.We hope you enjoyed this episode of Ballarat National Theatre's adaptation of Jane Austen's Persuasion and will join us each week until all the episodes have been released. This production is directed and narrated by Liana Emmerson, with Sarah Barlow as assistant director for sound design and composition.This episode features the voices of:Alix Roberts as Anne ElliotJack Emond as Captain Frederick WentworthShannon Nicholls as Captain HarvilleClare Hamer as Mrs MusgroveEmil Freund as Charles MusgroveJoanna Lippold as Mrs CroftThis podcast features original compositions within the chapters by Sarah Barlow, Liana Emmerson and Helen Gibson.This podcast was produced by Ballarat National Theatre on the lands of our traditional custodians the Wadawurrung people. Further sound production and cast recordings were made in the lands of the Wotherong, Wurundjeri, Woi-wurrung, and Boon Wurrung peoples of the Kulin Nation and the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. Ballarat National Theatre acknowledges and pays respect to the traditional custodians and to their leaders, past and present. This podcast was made possible because of the financial contributions of the following patrons: Aparajita Raychaudhury, Josh Illichmann, Elaine Tso, Tessa Braun, Sean Rundell, Brianna Cook, Shelley Barnes, Xuan-Trang Nguyen, Sue Skewes, Sarah Macgregor, Lynne Gibbs and Rod Skewes. Thank you from the director for supporting access to technology that allowed this podcast to be made.This podcast was possible because of collaborative support for recording and music performance from Ballarat Grammar Academy: Sound and Performance. It is also supported by grant funding from the City of Ballarat.Let us know you're listening with a message!Find us on social media to stay in touch with us!Visit our website www.bnt.org.auFind us on Instagram @balnattheatreFollow us on Facebook: Ballarat National Theatre IncShop merch on Threadless https://ballaratnationaltheatre.threadless.com/

Lisa Bilyeu is joined by the renowned neuroscientist, Stanford professor, and podcast host Dr. Andrew Huberman. Known for his expertise in brain science and his unique ability to make complex topics accessible, Andrew brings a much-needed perspective to the question: What are men really thinking? With honesty, a deep respect for nuance, and a bit of humor, Andrew answers Lisa's burning questions about the male brain, uncovering the scientific and social factors that drive men's behavior in relationships, love, and life. Part 1 dives deep into the neuroscience of falling in love, the impact of male genetics and hormones, and the evolving dynamics of masculinity. From the infamous “what would happen if?” drive that propels so many men, to the complexity of competitiveness, hierarchy, and vulnerability, Lisa and Andrew explore what it means to be male today—and why understanding these truths matters for women striving to build better relationships. Whether you're curious about male motivation, the stereotype of emotional unavailability, or just want more compassion across the gender divide, this conversation is packed with revelations and practical wisdom. SHOWNOTES 00:00 - Intro: Meet Dr. Andrew Huberman 00:24 - What's a Man Really Thinking: Falling in Love (Neuroscience Explained) 01:55 - The Love Bubble: Are Men and Women Really That Different? 04:16 - The SRY Gene and Why Men Experiment 07:19 - Why Men Take Risks vs. Why Women Seek Stability 10:16 - Male Brain Development: Why It's Slower Than Females 13:19 - Action at a Distance: Men, Motivation, and Testing Limits 16:12 - Competition, Hierarchy, and the Male Ego 17:56 - The Urge to Win: What “Being Picked” Means for Men and Women 21:06 - The Satellite Male: How Men Assess Themselves for Romantic Partners 24:18 - Jealousy, Competition, and Growth: Navigating Self-Improvement FOLLOW ANDREW HUBERMAN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hubermanlab/ Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/hubermanlab YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@hubermanlab Website: https://www.hubermanlab.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Through the power of music, Milck has given a voice to millions of women around the world with her songs like Quiet, the 2017 anthem of the Women's March. She has stood beside powerful women like Oprah and Michelle Obama speaking up for women to be empowered, be uplifted and be resilient. In the first part of this interview we're reclaiming our voice and choosing to heal. Milck opens up to share the journey of a girl that's struggled through abuse, self-doubt, and insecurities. She lays out the tactical steps she's taken as a woman and as an artist to come into her own to find her voice and become the voice for millions of women around the world. Milk exposes the greatest lie we tell ourselves keeping us broken in toxic relationships, how to break away from feeling trapped in patterns of abuse, and the power of personal responsibility  Original air date: 6-29-23 Milck Quotable Moments: “After I got sexually assaulted, I became a floating head.” “My life has taught me to leap frog over anger.” Follow Milck: Website: ⁠https://www.milckmusic.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/MILCKmusic⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/MILCKMUSIC⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@milckmusic⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/milckmusic/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/MILCKMUSIC/⁠  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. Through the power of music, Milck has given a voice to millions of women around the world with her songs like Quiet, the 2017 anthem of the Women's March. She has stood beside powerful women like Oprah and Michelle Obama speaking up for women to be empowered, be uplifted and be resilient. In the first part of this interview we're reclaiming our voice and choosing to heal. Milck opens up to share the journey of a girl that's struggled through abuse, self-doubt, and insecurities. She lays out the tactical steps she's taken as a woman and as an artist to come into her own to find her voice and become the voice for millions of women around the world. Milk exposes the greatest lie we tell ourselves keeping us broken in toxic relationships, how to break away from feeling trapped in patterns of abuse, and the power of personal responsibility  Original air date: 6-28-23 Milck Quotable Moments: “After I got sexually assaulted, I became a floating head.” “My life has taught me to leap frog over anger.” Follow Milck: Website: ⁠https://www.milckmusic.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/MILCKmusic⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/MILCKMUSIC⁠  TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@milckmusic⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/milckmusic/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/MILCKMUSIC/⁠  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. One of the worst experiences in a woman's love life is the moment she wakes up to the reality of a verbally abusive, toxic, or unhealthy relationship. It's so easy to get swept away in a relationship where love turns into a loss of confidence, strength, and a general sense of self.  You know this channel is about empowering you to be the hero of your own life. We want you to have the confidence you need to keep fighting for your dream. This episode in particular is a reminder that you have to know your worth to go after the dream you want and deserve. Marina Worre turned her life around from lost and broken to ultra successful and badass. Marina is CEO of Network Marketing Pro and serial entrepreneur that started her first business at 18 years old. In spite of being brilliant enough to start a business at 18, love can really throw us all off course in life. She lost herself and came back to build a stronger, wiser, even more capable Marina 2.0 that now inspires millions of women around the world. This conversation scores high on relatability and total badassery. Marina and Lisa discuss what it took for Marina to arrive at the “I'm done” point of an abusive situation, the power of the thoughts you're repeating to yourself, right now, and how to start building your own empire of confidence. Original air date: 5-10-23 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off https://bioptimizers.com/impact Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Follow Marina Worre: Website: ⁠https://www.networkmarketingpro.com/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marinaworre/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/marina.worre⁠  FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a fan fav episode. For the highly motivated driven woman reading this, we've got one question for you. What are you chasing after? When you show up in your career or your business, are you getting the respect you want or is everyday the battle for your boundaries and peace of mind? Angie Martinez, Radio Hall of Famer, The Voice of New York, Radio Hip Hop Legend, has earned the respect of some of the biggest names in hip hop like Jay-Z and TuPac. Angie went from a young girl with zero experience interning at Hot 97 in New York to being synonymous with hip hop culture and generating value beyond anything she ever imagined. She's definitely of the Hustle Hard mentality and like many of us she's had to learn how to speak up and hold her ground in a culture that can be totally intimidating. Angie's path to becoming the legend that she is was rough, not clearly defined and something we all can relate to. How do you crawl through a mile of crap and become resilient as heck on the other side of it all? You pick yourself up, decide the story you're going to tell yourself, and learn that there needs to be harmony between what you're chasing and being content where you are right now. Angie's 2 Life Changing Boundaries  Be around people who don't want what's best for youDon't be around someone who resents your drive Check out Angie's memoir, My Voice: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/My-Voice-Memoir-Angie-Martinez/dp/1101990341⁠ Follow Angie Martinez: Podcast: ⁠https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-angie-martinez-irl-99106442/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/AngieMartinez⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/angiemartinez⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/angiemartinez/⁠   Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/officialangiemartinez/⁠  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to Part 2 of Lisa Bilyeu's riveting deep dive with forensic psychologist Dr. Shannon Curry. Having laid the groundwork of identifying personality disorders and their impact in relationships, this half turns up the heat with unfiltered conversation around actual case studies, the realities of abusive dynamics for men and women, healing after toxic love, and how to reclaim your self-worth and power after manipulation. Shannon and Lisa tackle the infamous Amber Heard-Johnny Depp trial, peeling back the legal layers around trauma claims and public judgment. Dr. Curry breaks down the science behind situational versus characterological violence, how abusers trap their partners, and the societal blind spots that keep both men and women bound in shame. The episode closes with empowering advice on how to forgive yourself, rebuild after heartbreak, and find healthy, secure love—plus a viral pop-culture breakdown that will change how you see relationships forever. Introspective, educational, and fiercely honest, Part 2 is your masterclass in spotting red flags, setting boundaries, and awakening to your own strength. SHOWNOTES44:59 Recognizing True Toxicity—From Charm to Chaos (continued)54:29 Borderline Personality in Relationships—Roleplay & Analysis1:04:44 How Healthy Love Can Heal Old Wounds1:12:01 The Cycle of Emotional Abuse in Abusive Relationships1:29:41 Signs You're in a Truly Abusive Relationship1:36:27 Forgiving Yourself for Falling Again—The Path to Healing1:41:54 Practical Tools: What Traits Make Long-Lasting Relationships1:55:35 Can You Compromise on Identity in a Relationship?2:02:08 Social Judgment, Collective Wounds, and the Power of Non-Judgment FOLLOW DR. SHANNON CURRY:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroupWebsite: https://www.currypsychology.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lisa Bilyeu is joined by Dr. Shannon Curry, renowned forensic psychologist and the expert behind some of the most high-profile evaluations in recent memory, including her role in the Amber Heard and Johnny Depp trial. Known for her ability to break down even the most complex characters, Dr. Curry joins Lisa to explore the dark, fascinating world of personality disorders, dating red flags, and the subtle ways toxicity seeps into relationships. In Part 1, Shannon opens up about her unique background in forensic psychology and the lessons she's taken from analyzing high-stakes court cases. Lisa and Shannon discuss how to spot dangerous personality traits early, why we often miss red flags, and the signs of narcissism and borderline personality disorder. They dig deep into the power dynamics of relationships, the difference between genuine charm and manipulative behavior, and practical tips for protecting yourself—whether you're dating or already in a relationship. Engaging, raw, and honest, this half of the episode is jam-packed with real-life examples, role-plays, and expert strategies for safeguarding your heart and mind. SHOWNOTES 0 0:00 OCD, Neurodivergence, and Personal Quirks07:01 The Most Dangerous Personality Traits: What to Look Out For13:13 How Personality Disorders Reveal Themselves Over Time22:45 Cluster B Disorders Explained in Dating & Marriage31:02 The FOG (Fear, Obligation, Guilt): Countertransference & Manipulation Tactics41:19 Borderline Personality: What It Really Feels Like Inside44:59 Recognizing True Toxicity—From Charm to Chaos (Part 1 ends approximately here) FOLLOW DR. SHANNON CURRY:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/currypsychgroupWebsite: https://www.currypsychology.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Good news ladies! If you haven't figured it out yet, there's sex of all kinds for us to enjoy, and it's not all about His parts. There's much more to sex than penetration, his pleasure, and the nonsensical pressure to perform like a porn star in the bedroom every night. This episode is dedicated to a happier, healthier sex life for the empowered badass woman that's prioritizing her health and well-being. Depending on your background, religious beliefs, and parental tolerance for the conversation of sex, you may not realize the sex-pectations society has pushed on you or the reason your sex drive is non-existent some days. Dr. Jolene Brighton is the sex-ed doc we all wish our younger selves had (but you've got her now, so pay attention!) She's the author of the book we all need to check out, Is This Normal? Judgment Free Straight Talk About Your Body. She's a clinical sexologist helping women, a.k.a. “vulva owners” get answers to the questions they dare not say allowed or in mixed company. In this episode Lisa's putting aside all the shame and embarrassment to get the takeaways every woman needs to hear today: Why sex drive is the top complaint women have, and all the things we do to ruin it If you didn't have a big enough reason to practice mindfulness, having orgasm may be the best reason yet The unnecessary shame for women around pleasing their partner and having to make their own lubrication or else What Arousal Non-Concordance is and the fight between your brain and genitals Why size does actually matter (a lot) Male centric messages about sex have been screwing up our sex lives, our pleasure and our health.We've got a lot of messages wrong about porn, about orgasms, and about intimacy. You can start here and now with an upgraded sex-ed class that prioritizes your sexual pleasure not his! Follow Jolene Brighton: Website: ⁠https://drbrighten.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@DrJoleneBrighten⁠   Pinterest: ⁠https://www.pinterest.com/drjolenebrighten/⁠  Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/drjolenebrighten/⁠  Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/drbrighten/ Original air date: 4-5-23 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off ⁠https://bioptimizers.com/impact⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Regardless of where you are located, your educational background, or your financial situation, we tend to have similar emotional and personal struggles, yet feel so isolated and alone dealing with them. Everyday stress and avoidant behaviors and habits leave you fearful, disappointed, and lacking enough significance in your own life to even prioritize YOU! Marissa Peer's mission is to help people realize there are simple, rapid and effective techniques that can change life for the better. She is sharing these tactics here with Lisa and with you to understand the power that your words and thoughts have over your life. Put an end to your self-destructive behaviors and habits, get to the root of the feelings sabotaging you, and start telling yourself a better lie. “Thoughts dictate feelings, your feelings dictate your actions, and your actions dictate your events.” Marisa Peer Check out Marisa Peer's latest book, Tell Yourself a Better Lie: ⁠https://amzn.to/39U2M7w⁠ SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Marissa Peer 0:25 | Control Your Thoughts, Not Your Feelings 23:29 | Start Practicing This! 42:49 | Find What Lies Beneath 59:23 | Bonus: Stop Feeling Trapped Follow Marisa Peer: Website: ⁠https://marisapeer.com/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/MarisaPeer⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/marisa.peer.therapy/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marisapeertherapy/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGb0bBp7bTQBHLlyAfNV-Fg⁠ Original air date: 6-26-22 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com BIOptimizers: Code IMPACTNOW for 15% off https://bioptimizers.com/impact ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. If you ever needed a louder, clearer, better reason to start taking care of your brain this is it! Women are more likely to get Alzheimer's than men, and the shocking truth is that it starts in your brain decades before the first symptom! Sound the alarm and grab a seat, you're going to need all the time and determination you have to start changing the habits that have been doing more harm than good on your brain health. Dr. Daniel Amen, founder of Amen Clinics has scanned brains from all over the world and has one of the largest databases of brain imaging anywhere. He's scanned brains of A-list celebrities and thought leaders such as Justin Beiber, Jay Shetty, his wife Radhi, and even Lisa's homie Mel Robbins. In the next hour you're going to walk away better than ever armed with the knowledge you need to start examining which habits you have that are destroying your brain health: Why you're at greater risk for anxiety and depression thanks to the emotional side of your brain Using your woman super power to be all over the place doing everything may actually be undiagnosed A.D.H.D. that is killing your orgasms. What you can do with 5 minutes a day to start falling in love with your brain. Dr. Amen is a psychiatrist that has been helping people recover from traumatic brain injury, emotional trauma, childhood trauma, addiction and more. The female brain has developments and experiences unique to women that men do not. Understanding that difference alone is life changing. Check out Dr. Amen's New Book: Change Your Brain Every Day: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Brain-Every-Relationships/dp/149645457X⁠  Follow Dr. Daniel Amen: Website: ⁠https://danielamenmd.com/⁠  YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdHz-vi0JIugmscU_CkUxUQ⁠  Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/DocAmen⁠   Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/⁠   Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/drdanielamen⁠    Original air date: 3-22-23 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back to part 2 of this electrifying Women of Impact double feature, as Lisa Bilyeu and ex-CIA expert Andrew Bustamante continue to rip the mask off celebrity scandals and dissect the gray space between power, consent, and manipulation. In the second half, Andrew brings his spy-level skills to the accusations against James Franco—exploring the truthfulness of his on-air confessions about relationships with students and whether he crosses the line from “celebrity opportunity” to predatory behavior. Also under the microscope: the recent legal feud between Blake Lively and director/actor Justin Baldini, featuring real behind-the-scenes set footage. Lisa and Andrew invite you to consider—how do we really judge whether someone's behavior is toxic masculinity or weaponized victimhood? What does power look like when the cameras are off? Learn how to protect yourself by reading the non-verbal cues and micro-expressions signal drama in your own life. This is a must-listen masterclass for anyone wanting to level up their people-reading skills and confidence. SHOWNOTES35:12 James Franco: Confessions, sex scene classes, and reading honesty44:48 Eyes left, memories vs. fabrication: Andrew teaches real-time analysis51:27 Women's perspective: Is every teacher-student dynamic manipulation?1:10:47 Blake Lively's press interview: Owning the room or hiding discomfort? FOLLOW ANDREW:Website: https://www.everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspyTwitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpy CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this gripping two-part special of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Andrew Bustamante—a former CIA spy specializing in body language, deception, and manipulation—for an unfiltered breakdown of some of Hollywood's most controversial figures and relationships. Andrew is here to give you real-life spy insight into the signals and cues hidden just beneath the surface, so you never get played—whether by superstar celebrities or by the people standing right beside you. In part 1, Lisa and Andrew start by analyzing Kanye West and Bianca Censori's much-discussed red carpet appearance, exposing the often-misread lines between protection, control, and narcissism. Then, they move into the wild accusations against Armie Hammer—from alleged cannibalistic fantasies to the public fallout and legal responses—unpacking what the camera doesn't lie about, even when the speakers might. Get ready to learn the tools that can help you decode body language in both your relationships and the public eye. SHOWNOTES00:00 Intro: Can you spot a narcissist or manipulator?04:03 Body language tells: Crotch display, dominance, and vulnerability13:50 Scoring Kanye: How much is controlling, how much is narcissism?24:05 The “feeling” question: Catching real emotions vs. rehearsal34:37 Final verdict: Is Armie Hammer a cannibal or just a bad liar? FOLLOW ANDREW:Website: https://www.everydayspy.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspyTwitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspyYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpy CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠⁠https://macys.com⁠⁠ ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Becoming your own boss is exciting and empowering when you dream about it and see it romanticized on social media, but the reality of doing what it actually takes to be your boss is freaking scary. When you want to go out on your own, become your own boss, have the freedom to work where you want and when you want but you're scared sh*tless don't you dare quit! You are 100% capable of leading yourself, being your own boss, and being a successful entrepreneur. It's not going to happen without fear, anxiety, nerves, and all the negative chatter in your head working overtime to convince you otherwise, and we've got the online marketing expert and multi million dollar entrepreneur and author of Two Weeks Notice, Amy Porterfield, here to break it down for you step by step. Amy went from corporate girl to million dollar success story that still struggled with doubts and belief that she was enough. In this episode Amy and Lisa are coming for all of your excuses. Behind your fear is a thought many of us have, ‘what will people think?' The powerhouse question Amy is asking you to ask yourself here is this, ‘what are you willing to burn down and build back to create the life you absolutely want?' It may be relationships, toxic dependencies, lack of boundaries, or a miserable nine to five you feel stuck at. How much is your happiness worth? What are you willing to do to build the life you dream of? Permission from others is not needed. Check out Amy's book, Two Weeks Notice: https://amzn.to/3Z6aO1y Follow Amy : Website: https://www.amyporterfield.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AmyPorterfield Twitter: https://twitter.com/amyporterfield Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyporterfield/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AmyPorterfield/ Podcast: https://www.amyporterfield.com/amy-porterfield-podcast/ Original air date: 2-22-23 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. There's no doubt that you've faced some heavy challenges in this lifetime. You've experienced loss and just out of the nature of being a woman you've definitely faced adversity on multiple levels. Yet, you're here at this moment and that's worth celebrating! Being resilient takes courage. It requires you to face down your fears and still be willing to go again even though you've made all the mistakes, even though you're heart is hurting, and in spite of all the trauma you've experienced. In this episode, Rachel Hollis, who is no stranger to adversity, is sharing her heavy challenges and losses to share how she's been able to overcome it all and become more resilient. Rachel is a bestselling author, lifestyle blogger, podcast host, and entrepreneur. Today we're digging into the pain of showing up when you don't want to, knowing yourself at a level that makes unstoppable, and how you can cultivate resilience to keep goin The bonus part of this conversation is thinking through how you feel about your hormones, your cycle and how you feel about the food you eat. It's not about being skinny or looking a certain way, but rather having the best relationship you can with yourself as all of these things impact your mood, how you show up, and how you feel and think about yourself. Original air date: 9-4-22 SHOW NOTES: 0:00 | Introduction to Rachel Hollis 0:34 | Secrets to Being More Resilient 8:38 | Keep Showing Up Even When… 15:00 | Positive Change Doesn't Feel Great 22:39 | Trust You Know What's Best 40:17 | How The Younger You Shows Up 48:14 | Stop Your Emotional Eating 1:14:38 | Overcome Fear, Failure &, Mistakes 1:22:26 | Brain Fog, Low Energy, & Hormones 1:43:47 | Embracing Your Cycle & Hormones 1:51:38 | Know Yourself At This Level CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. When you are feeling overly emotional and trapped in your thoughts about stress, frustration and doubts you are having about everything happening around you, anything can set you off. Yet, so often you try to hold those emotions in, try to put on your brave and confident face for everyone else and feel like you're falling apart inside. Radhi Devlukia Shetty joins me in this episode and opens up to all the vulnerabilities and insecurities we experience as women. We explore being emotional, and how healthy and freeing it is to have emotional release so you are not storing those emotions in your body.  Original air date: 7-14-21 SHOW NOTES: Estrogen | Radhi on the symptoms and way she's dealing with high estrogen levels [0:38] Support | Recognizing when you're emotional or just need a little more support [3:17] Being Emotional | Why crying isn't a weakness and permission to sit with your sadness [5:34] Emotional Release | Radhi on value of allowing emotions to move through and out of you [8:06] Trapped Emotions | Advice on how to release trapped emotions as a routine practice [11:49] Meltdowns | Radhi on feeling overwhelmed and not knowing what to do out of frustration [16:11] Pressure | Feeling pressure like you “should” be good at everything and processing that [21:17] Comparison | Radhi breaks down how detrimental it can be to your person growth [23:26] Weakness | Radhi shares how powerful it can be to use your weaknesses to grow [27:19] Self Doubt | Radhi's evolution, not allowing it to turn into self destructive behavior [34:12] Future Stuck | Radhi & Lisa discuss being stuck by future expectation & fear of unknown [38:18] Conflict & Pain | Radhi on the healing we block when we hurt and try hurting others [42:17] Self Control | Radhi explains why self control is a daily practice and having freedom in it [48:16] Being Proud | Radhi & Lisa discuss the angles of feeling pride and celebrating yourself [50:00]  CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We're back for Part 2 of our powerful conversation with world-renowned relationship expert Dr. Julie Gottman. If you've ever felt stuck in repetitive conflict, uncertain if your partner will ever change, or wondered what science actually says about lasting love—this episode is your essential roadmap. Lisa and Dr. Julie dig deep into the anatomy of relational disaster versus mastery—naming the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, sharing the six breakthrough questions couples need to ask in gridlock, and breaking down how the first three minutes of a fight can predict your relationship's future six years out. Plus, Dr. Julie shares practical rituals that power her own 38-year marriage, the biggest mistakes even therapists make, and how to reconnect from even the deepest moments of distance. This episode is packed with science, lived wisdom, and hope for every relationship stage. SHOWNOTES38:20 The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, Stonewalling47:09 The Power of Compassion in Conflict54:45 The Importance of Daily Gratitude & Small Gestures61:45 High-Risk Moments for Cheating & How to Protect Your Marriage71:05 How to Heal After Regrettable Incidents FOLLOW DR. JULIE GOTTMAN:Website: https://www.gottman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstituteTwitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninstFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/gottmaninstitute CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationship myths, communication pitfalls, and the secret science behind lasting love—today's guest unmasks it all. On this special two-part edition of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Dr. Julie Gottman, renowned clinical psychologist, world-leading relationship expert, and co-founder of the Gottman Institute. With 40 years of transformative experience, Dr. Julie reveals what truly makes or breaks a relationship, why men and women cheat, and what most of us get wrong about emotional connection. In Part 1, Lisa and Dr. Julie take you on a myth-busting journey through the psychology of infidelity, the truth about “emotional” versus “physical” cheating, and the surprising evolutionary roots of why men sometimes shut down during arguments. Learn the real drivers behind relationship failure, why loneliness—not infidelity—is the ultimate relationship killer, and actionable scripts to resolve conflict without triggering defensiveness. If you've ever wondered what your partner is really thinking—or why your communication keeps hitting a wall—this episode is your essential guide. 01:13 Myths About Male & Female Cheating10:19 How to Approach Tough Conversations23:21 Why Men Stay, Why Women Leave31:46 Red Flags: Can You Fix a Relationship with a Narcissist? FOLLOW DR. JULIE GOTTMAN:Website: https://www.gottman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstituteTwitter: https://twitter.com/gottmaninstFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/gottmaninstitute CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. As much as you hate to admit it, relationships are vital to our happiness and success in life. The relationship you have with yourself , your romantic partner, your family, friends and co-workers dictate more than you can imagine. Dr. Molly Maloof, author of The Spark Factor, believes in relationships and connections so much she's created a lecture for Stanford University called Live Better Longer. She touches on the value of social connection and its impact on long-term health and disease. Molly talks with Lisa in this episode and runs down the power of love, what intense romantic love feels like, and an entire masterclass on sexual desire and arousal. The fact that Molly ranks love in the same category of needs as thirst and hunger says a lot. In addition to unpacking the power of love, Molly also covers the power a loss of love has on your physical and mental health. So much of her explanation fills the voids we have in understanding why a bad break can make us feel crazy and do things out of character. Original air date: 1-30-23 Check out Dr. Molly Maloof's book, The Spark Factor: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0063207206/keywords=clean%20eating?tag=imprintweb-20 Download Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d FREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5 Follow Molly Maloof: Website: https://drmolly.co/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mollymaloofmd Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmolly.co/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MollyMaloofMD/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. This week's guest on Women Of Impact is Monica Berg. Monica Berg is the author of Fear Is Not An Option and serves as Chief Communications Officer for Kabbalah Centre International. In this episode she talks about how she overcame a debilitating eating disorder at a young age and how she built her self worth. SHOW NOTES: Monica talks about how to deal with fear [3:21] Why women have a harder time with listening to their intuition [6:32] Monica Berg talks about how to deal with shame [8:48] How Monica thinks about “regret” and why discipline is how to get around it [12:30] Why you need to get to know yourself [16:20] How to overcome your most debilitating fears [18:57] Why Monica believes “words have power” and how you can use them to overcome fear of failure [20:01] How successful people get that way (without luck) [21:07] How Monica responded to having a child with Down syndrome [23:12] How to retrain your brain to respond to any challenge positively [29:30] Why you should adopt the phrase “Fear Is Not An Option” [32:30] How Monica is able to live without expectation [39:42] How to control your emotional responses[43:32] Why it's important to name your fears [44:40] Original air date: 5-18-19 FOLLOW MONICA: WEBSITE: https://rethinklife.today INSTAGRAM: https://instagram.com/monicaberg74 TWITTER: https://twitter.com/monicaberg74 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ ⁠ ⁠apple.co/womenofimpact⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Author of “Strong is the New Skinny,” health and lifestyle consultant Jen Cohen is very used to pursuing unusual opportunities and taking surprising risks. Because, as she is fond of asking, “What's the worst that can happen?” On this episode of Health Theory with Lisa Bilyeu, Jen Cohen explains why it's better to be strong, bold and adventurous than merely skinny, talks at length about how to deal with your weaknesses, and describes exactly how to take small, sustainable steps to build confidence and resilience. Original air date: 10-1-19 SHOW NOTES: Jen explains the slogan, “What's the worst that can happen?” [2:43] Jen advocates being bold and being willing to fail [4:18] Jen explains how to deal with failure and rejection [7:26] Jen claims that training fitness also means training your mindset [10:56] Jen describes the pressures women feel to be skinny [12:37] Jen advocates taking small, sustainable steps to form good habits [14:53] Lisa and Jen discuss why you need non-negotiables [16:58] Jen talks about how sometimes your best quality is your worst quality [20:34] Jen explains how to tell the difference between burnout and just making excuses [21:50] Jen and Lisa discuss being your own worst critic [23:54] Jen describes how to get trustworthy feedback [26:18] Jen shares one of her biggest failures and how she dealt with it [27:10] Jen and Lisa discuss how to deal with weaknesses and form a great team [32:02] Jen affirms the value of self-awareness, resilience and being deliberate [36:20] Jen shares her superpower [37:37] FOLLOW JEN: WEBSITE: jennifercohen.com INSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2o1IeSK TWITTER: https://bit.ly/2nisLO7 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co  Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Macy's: Upgrade your glam at https://macys.com ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:  apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. Choosing the right person to date can be a high-stress situation for most of us. The choice is even more difficult when you begin to think about all of your previous choices and wonder if you can even trust your judgment anymore. Have you ever wondered how is it that you seem to attract not one, not two, but every wrong person possible? Does the madness ever end? This episode is dedicated to a few basic strategies and ideas worth learning about and practicing so that you can stop attracting the wrong person to your life and start picking the right partner for you. Spirit, the relationship therapist, and Matthew Hussey are united in wisdom for a masterclass on not just how to date better, but also how to make better choices and get out of the wrong situations even faster. Original air date: 2-22-22 SHOW NOTES: Are you compatible | Spirit reveals truth about aligning with your partner [0:25] Dating Rules | Tips for dating potential life partners [5:18] Solving Relationship Problems | The healthy way to solve relationship problems [11:44] Ask Hard Questions | Knowing the truth is better than wondering [19:25] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. We spend years struggling through relationships. Relationships with family, friends, co-workers are all so challenging. When it comes to romantic relationships we often live by a different set of rules and expectations that can leave us in a whirlwind of frustration wondering why something that started so amazing eventually isn't so amazing. Instead of giving up and checking out of your relationship mentally and emotionally, Jay Shetty has joined Lisa to discuss his latest book, 8 Rules of Love which includes so much more than just 8 rules. Jay Shetty shares the lessons and experiences he's picked up from his marriage and time coaching others on how to have deeper and more meaningful relationships. This episode is packed with strategies and tactics that will reframe your approach to dating and finding the love of your life, or maintaining the relationship you've already started. Some fire takeaways you don't want to miss today include: What dating to impress and “attract” the right person means for your relationship Jay's 3 date rule to go from knowing someone casually to being long term 3 relationship roles we all play and how it affects our partner Why you relationship fighting style is as important as your love language Jay's 4 E's for growing deeper intimacy with your partner Original air date: 2-1-23 Check out Jay Shetty's latest book, 8 Rules of Love: https://www.amazon.com/Rules-Love-How-Find-Keep/dp/1982183063 Follow Jay Shetty: Website: https://jayshetty.me/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbV60AGIHKz2xIGvbk0LLvg Twitter: https://twitter.com/jayshettyiw Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JayShettyIW/ Podcast: https://on-purpose-with-jay-shetty.simplecast.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This is a Fan Fav episode. To have children or not to have children is a choice that you as an empowered woman gets to decide for herself. The problem is that it's hard to distinguish between where you stand on the topic apart from your family and social pressures. Dr. Shefali is the bestselling author of the book, The Conscious Parent, the book that Oprah herself sends to anyone she knows even considering being a parent. Dr. Shefali's no holds barred approach to parenting is the thing you need whether you're leaning towards having kids or trying to steer clear from the conversation for another several years. This is the episode where Dr. Shefali is debunking myths of motherhood and exposing unrealistic expectations of stepping into or away from your maternal instincts. Your bandwidth and capacity to become a mother, an entrepreneur, a career woman, or stay at home wife doesn't fall into a group decision, it's a decision for you alone first, and a conversation with your partner second. Dr. Shefali reveals what a powerful teacher parenting can be for us as individuals, but she also exposes how giving birth can be psychological death for women that's a huge impact and traumatic experience in anyone's relationship. If you're on the fence of having children or not wanting to have them, give yourself grace and time to make an accurate assessment of how you really feel about having a child. If your pressure to decide is coming from cultural beliefs, wanting to fit in with your social circle of friends all having children, or you think a child will bring you and your partner closer together, then stop everything and take heed to Dr. Shefali's fire advice. Check out her latest book, The Parenting Trap: https://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Map-Step-Step-Parent-Child/dp/0063267950 Original air date: 2-2-23 Follow Dr Shefali: Website: https://www.drshefali.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DrShefali TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doctorshefali/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorshefali/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doctorshefali CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

By now, you are most likely aware of narcissistic behavior being grandiose, egotistical and charming. If many of us can describe a narcissistic person, then how do we fall into unhealthy relationships with people that have zero concern for our happiness or well being? If you've experienced a relationship with a narcissistic person or happen to be currently living through narcissistic abuse then you are familiar with the frustration, the gaslighting, and feeling totally lost on how to end it or get out of the relationship. There are very clear traps narcissists use to keep hold of the people they want to control. Dr. Ramani Durvasula is an expert in narcissism and clinical psychologist. She is also a repeat guest on the show, joining Lisa for the third time. She's breaking down all the ways narcissists are trying to trap you, how to heal from narcissistic abuse to move on, and how to create better boundaries and a plan for revenge. Original air date: 1-5-22 SHOW NOTES: Feeling Lost | What does moving on from a narcissistic relationship look like [1:02] 5 Traps to Avoid | Dr. Ramani breaks down 5 traps in narcissistic relationships [5:39] Hoovering Trap | A powerplay tactic narcissist use to suck you in after you've left [9:38] Avoid Enablers | Dr. Ramani explains how enablers make it harder to walk away [11:44] The Hope Trap | Dr. Ramani reveals how narcissist trigger hope to keep you baited [13:44] Trapped by Guilt | When vulnerable narcissists trap with the belief you can save them [15:24] Responsibility | Dr. Ramani on why responsibility of being treated poorly is not on you [17:27] Trauma Bonding | Why people hold onto the good things in bad relationships explained [21:47] Breaking Triggers | Dr. Ramani explains why being alone for a whole year is necessary [25:35] Danger of Control | Why controlling what someone wears is a dangerous dynamic [35:53] Be Cherished | Dr. Ramani reveals why being cherished over desired is important [38:37] Rebuilding Trust | Why it's hard to rebuild trust for with yourself and tips for progress [42:00] Boundaries | Dr. Ramani's tips for setting boundaries when you don't feel safe [55:21] Revenge | Dr. Ramani explains the best form of revenge against a narcissist [57:25] Self Efficacy | Dr. Ramani reveals how to heal from narcissistic abuse with indifference [1:04:38] CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  SleepMe: Visit ⁠https://sleep.me/woi⁠ to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Macy's: Upgrade your glam at ⁠https://macys.com⁠ FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices