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Join Cara as she welcomes Shadeen Francis, a licensed marriage and family therapist and board-certified sex therapist. Shadeen's work focuses on building deeper connections and embracing pleasure as a path to healing.In this episode, they explore emotional resilience, community connection, and personal growth. Shadeen shares insights on meaningful relationships, navigating differences, and practicing self-care as a radical act. Connect with ShadeenWebsiteInstagramAligned Launching:Live on Zoom on March 25th from 10 a.m. - 12 p.m. PST / 1 p.m. - 3 p.m. EST.Work with your Nervous System, not against it, and get the results you have been dreaming of for your course, program or 1:1 containers.Book your place here. Business Witch The Course: This episode is brought to you by⁠⁠ Business Witch The Course⁠⁠Additional Resources:- ⁠⁠Learn about working with me and subscribe for business tips.⁠⁠- ⁠⁠Apply to be a 1:1 client.⁠⁠- ⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram!⁠

Desire is a liberating force Dr. Ann Kelley and Shadeen Francis, LMFT unpack the intricate nature of desire, extending beyond just the sexual realm. They unpack the challenges in identifying true desires, the role of embodiment in self-awareness, and the key distinction between wanting and liking. Together they discuss intimacy, self-discovery and communication - with an emphasis on the need for negotiation and authentic connection in sexual experiences. "The simplest of all luxuries is the freedom to pursue your pleasure." - Shadeen Francis Time Stamps for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desire 05:15 The challenge of identifying desire 17:58 The nuances of wanting vs. liking 25:01 Desire in sexual contexts 35:07 Negotiating wants in relationships 44:41 The impact of technology on desire 56:30 Desire as a tool for liberation About our Guest - Shadeen Francis, LMFT, CST Shadeen Francis is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist and a board-certified sex therapist. Her expertise spans the domains of mental health, emotional intelligence, and the intersection of sexual wellness and social justice. A sought-after voice in her field, Shadeen has been featured on major networks including ABC, NBC, and CBS, and has been the subject matter expert for prominent brands such as Essence, Bumble, Tinder, and Teen Vogue. Shadeen's work extends beyond the therapy room, influencing nationally implemented curricula, global media strategies, and public health policies. Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, Shadeen's work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure. Resources for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desire shadeenfrancis.com - Shadeen's website, resources, and other information hello@shadeenfrancis.com - The best way to contact Shadeen @shadeenfrancis - Shadeen's Instagram handle Get your copy of Secure Relating here!! Interested in joining our exclusive community? Get early access and discounts to things we produce, plus a totally ad-free private feed. In addition, receive exclusive episodes recorded just for you. Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!! Find Upcoming Events here Featured event: Ann and Sue are deep diving into clinical application of their work at the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium - March 20-23, 2025. It's an incredible conference - they'd love to see you there! Rethinking Attachment – Using the Attachment Spectrum in Clinical Practice Please support our sponsors for this episode - they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!  Coffee alternative powered by mushrooms! Right now, you can get 20% off plus a FREE starter kit when you shop exclusively Piquelife.com/tu More goodness for your body and mind - Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/TU Integrative Attachment Therapy Course Information Therapists: THIS is our recommended course experience for the most comprehensive training on attachment out there. Use our link for a discount! Thanks for stopping by & for being on this journey with us! 

Chapter two has come to an end! On the season finale of Rosé + Thorns, P. Ryan sits with s3x + relationship therapist, Shadeen Francis. The two explore facets of pleasure, challenge the notion of earning enjoyment, and explore the utility of emotions. Are you ready to tap into your feelings? xx  Did you enjoy this episode? Don't forget to like, subscribe, and tell your loved ones about the show. You can connect with Shadeen on Instagram.You can follow and keep up with Rosé + Thorns on Instagram and Twitter.You can also follow and connect with P. Ryan on Instagram and Twitter.

Our favorite love, relationship, and sex therapist Shadeen Francis returns to answer your questions with Jameela. They respond to questions about being newly queer, reconciling how one wants to be treated in life vs. the bedroom, joking about sex to avoid rejection, feeling unsexy after having a baby, love in relationships without sex, dating with herpes, managing vaginismus, and more.  Follow Shadeen Francis on Instagram & Twitter @shadeenfrancis  You can find transcripts for this episode on the Earwolf website. I Weigh has amazing merch - check it out at podswag.com Jameela is on Instagram @jameelajamil and Twitter @Jameelajamil And make sure to check out I Weigh's Twitter, Instagram, and Youtube for more! 

Hosts Atoya Burleson and Tia Avril are back for another episode of the insideLINES podcast! After a quick catch-up session, they slide right into “Hot Takes” where this week's topic is  NFL quarterback Deshaun Watson. Deshaun was accused of sexual assault and harassment in March of 2021 by 30 women in Texas. After retired judge Sue Robinson issued a 6game suspension, the NFL appealed the decision, and Watson received an 11-game suspension, an $8M fine, and has to undergo professional evaluation and treatment. Tia and Atoya discuss whether the punishment fits the crime or is actually a bit too lenient.  Then ladies then chat with sex and relationship therapist Shadeen Francis! Shadeen, who specializes in sex therapy and emotional intelligence, shares how she got into relationship work, the link between emotional intelligence and sex, and how to be more interned with your own desires. She also shares a few tips on how to spice up your love life and much more!Be sure to follow, rate and review the podcast on the Apple Podcast and Spotify apps. Thanks so much for listening and supporting our show! We really appreciate you.Special Guest: Shadeen Francis - @shadeenfrancishttps://shadeenfrancis.com/ Follow us on Instagram!insideLINES PodcastAtoya BurlesonTia AvrilSubscribe to our YouTube Channel!insideLINES PodcastContact UsWebsite: www.inSIDELINESpodcast.comEmail: insideLINESPodcast@gmail.comVoicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/insideLINES    TeamExecutive Producer: Scott RiggsAudio/Video Editor: Brian Keim

Hosts Atoya Burleson and Tia Avril are back for another episode of the insideLINES podcast! After a quick catch-up session, they slide right into “Hot Takes” where this week's topic is  NFL quarterback Deshaun Watson. Deshaun was accused of sexual assault and harassment in March of 2021 by 30 women in Texas. After retired judge Sue Robinson issued a 6game suspension, the NFL appealed the decision, and Watson received an 11-game suspension, an $8M fine, and has to undergo professional evaluation and treatment. Tia and Atoya discuss whether the punishment fits the crime or is actually a bit too lenient.  Then ladies then chat with sex and relationship therapist Shadeen Francis! Shadeen, who specializes in sex therapy and emotional intelligence, shares how she got into relationship work, the link between emotional intelligence and sex, and how to be more interned with your own desires. She also shares a few tips on how to spice up your love life and much more!Be sure to follow, rate and review the podcast on the Apple Podcast and Spotify apps. Thanks so much for listening and supporting our show! We really appreciate you.Special Guest: Shadeen Francis - @shadeenfrancishttps://shadeenfrancis.com/ Follow us on Instagram!insideLINES PodcastAtoya BurlesonTia AvrilSubscribe to our YouTube Channel!insideLINES PodcastContact UsWebsite: www.inSIDELINESpodcast.comEmail: insideLINESPodcast@gmail.comVoicemail: https://www.speakpipe.com/insideLINES    TeamExecutive Producer: Scott RiggsAudio/Video Editor: Brian Keim

Many relationships begin with a fiery physical connection, but few maintain that sexual chemistry when absolutely everything else has soured. In this episode, Kane and Michele welcome Alex on to share how a typical dating situation devolved into an extremely unhealthy cycle of behavior with his ex relentlessly pursuing him with calls, texts, threats, X-rated videos and more, until he gives in to “the best sex ever.” Clean-up Crew expert Shadeen Francis, a licensed therapist who specializes in sex therapy and emotional intelligence, weighs in to help Alex take accountability for his role in this messy situation and to empower him to change course. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How do you reclaim your sensuality? Ev'Yan and a few special guests answer this and other body-minded questions during a live event that happened a few weeks back called “Reclaim Your Sensual Self”. During this event, Ev'Yan was in conversation with Brianne Patrice, Jimanekia Eborn, and Shadeen Francis, and they each speak about their unique and personal experiences of connecting to themselves, what sensuality means and looks like to them, and some practices you can use to reclaim your sensual self. They also answer a few questions from the audience—one about sensuality in relationships, the other about sensuality and chronic pain.Winners of the giveaway! Contact us and we'll get a copy of Sensual Self out to you soon.For everyone else, you can now find Sensual Self wherever books are sold (or you can click here).For transcripts, show notes, and links to previous episodes, click here. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Therapist Shadeen Francis joins Dr. Solomon to respond to a listener who is interested in opening up her marriage, but is facing resistance from her partner. They use this question as a springboard to explore the topic of disclosed non-monogamy, unmet needs, mental health and communication in a long-term partnership.Shadeen's Website:https://shadeenfrancis.com/Shadeen's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/shadeenfrancis/Terry Real's book, "I Don't Want to Talk About It":https://terryreal.com/product/i-dont-want-to-talk-about-it/Learn more about the topics covered in this episode:The Flexibility of Female Sexuality with Wednesday Martin (The Psychology Podcast)Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy (Jessica Fern)Relationship Bill of Rights (Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux) See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

In episode 31 of The Motif Podcast, sex and relationship therapist, Shadeen Francis empowers women of color to embrace and claim their sexual agency and comfort, as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. A first generation Canadian, Shadeen opens up about her intersectionality along with how race and gender expectations shaped her experiences and identity growing up and her journey to becoming a sex therapist. In conversation with host Shanetta McDonald, the two dive into the impact of trauma on the body, and how through healing, we can discover pleasure and intimacy in sex and all areas of our lives.Connect with Shadeen:https://shadeenfrancis.com/ Instagram: @shadeenfrancisConnect with us:Instagram: @ourmotifTwitter: @ourmotifFacebook: @ourmotifNewsletter sign-up: ourmotif.coFeel free to leave us a rating + review if you've enjoyed this episode. + remember to subscribe to receive alerts on our upcoming episodes.

Sex/Family therapist Shadeen Francis returns this week to answer listener questions regarding how to mourn the loss of a friendship, how to manage a diminished sex drive, open relationships, having hard conversations with your partner, kinks and fetishes, adult virginity, and more.

11 Relationship Conversations with Heather Scott. Playing off a great little article from from Bustle.com, we dive into relationship talk. Please note we are not relationship experts by any means but we been through some things in the past 13 years that might be helpful and relatable to some of you. Original article from Bustle.com and the therapist by the name of Shadeen Francis.

Today, I am so excited to have the perfect expert to tackle the subject of sex. Sex is a really exciting subject, but it's also sensitive and it makes us feel nervous. It definitely makes me feel nervous. And especially when we're trying to broach the subject for the first time to our dates that makes it really, really difficult.  If I'm honest, I was never good at it when I was dating and even now, I've been in a relationship for a few years with my partner, it makes me uncomfortable to talk about sex with my partner. So that is why I am so excited to have Shadeen Francis here with me today to help us learn how we can approach the topic of sex with confidence and comfort.  Shadeen Francis is a licensed psychotherapist, media personality graduate professor, and author whose expertise spans the domain of sex therapy, emotional intelligence, and social justice. She has been featured on many platforms like ABC, CBS, NBC, Fox, and the New York Times to share her unique perspective.

Are you ever scared of ending alone? Do you fight over small things that seem to mean the world? Do you struggle when having different sexual needs that your partner? What if the answers all of these questions, and many more, would have a common denominator. One that is rooted deep in your heart. Our guest on this POV podcast episode is the kind of person that once you’ve heard her speaking you’d wish she’d be your best friend, your sister, or at least the president of the United States. Shadeen Francis is a licensed marriage and family therapist, that specialises in sex therapy, emotional intelligence and social justice. Francis tells us from her perspective and approach to vulnerability, sexual shame, how our inabilities to negotiate consent are linked to global politics, and how you can shift your narrative to centre your feelings, and find compassion. And live happier.

Shadeen Francis (@shadeenfrancis) joins us this week to discuss her work as a sex therapist, how she had a mid-life crisis at 11, and how she truly believed that she grew up a mutant. Topics include: Big purple dildos, the word "clitical", and being seen and sexy for yourself. Today's sponsor is Movement Maker Mentorship: Abbey Gibb is an Emmy- award winning journalist turned business coach mentoring women on how to make the media work for them and their business. Think: top podcasts, TED talks, becoming a best selling author. In just 6 months  her program could help you scale your business to consistent $25,000 months. This is the last month ever she’s enrolling for her  “Movement Maker Mentorship” program. An intimate and hands on 6 month program to help you stop playing small. This is the program your soul craves and your bank account deserves. Visit their website here! Follow us on instagram @waybpodcast Hosts: Jennifer Pastiloff @jenpastiloff Alicia 'ACE' Easter @aceyogala Produced by: Aviv Rubinstien @rambocalrissian Music by: Alexandra Kalinowski @alexandrapaloma Design by: Alyssa Matthews @littlemissak

I'm so excited to bring you this episode with Shadeen Francis.(Sex & Relationship Therapist) We dive into her journey, self love, vulnerability, orgasms and more. Lots of raw diving in this one. Such an incredible powerful woman. Bringing her alluring presence in this world. Where to find her?! https://www.instagram.com/shadeenfrancis/ https://shadeenfrancis.com/ https://apps.apple.com/us/app/mine-d-self-help-motivation/id1493129501 Let's dive into Shadeen! Where to find to find me?! https://www.instagram.com/dylanitsyourtime/ http://dylanitsyourtime.com/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/804414836954155/about

In this ep, the brilliant LMFT Shadeen Francis and I explore sexual communication and intimacy: How to get better at it, like how to bridge sexual incompatibility, how to step into what it is we're actually craving, love in the time of COVID, the difference between fantasy and fetish, and of course, how to discuss all of this with your partner.  Shadeen Francis is a licensed psychotherapist, a media personality, graduate professor, and author whose expertise spans the domains of sex therapy, emotional intelligence, and social justice. She has been featured on platforms like ABC, CBS, NBC, FOX and the New York Times to share her unique perspective, and her insights have been printed by Cosmopolitan, MindBodyGreen, Refinery29, Playboy, Nylon magazine, and Tinder Swipelife, among others. Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, Shadeen is sought internationally to speak on topics like imposter syndrome, sexual self-esteem, the art of negotiation, and the healing power of orgasms. Combining her love of learning with her background in Neuroscience and radio hosting, she transforms difficult subjects into actionable and engaging conversations. From couples to corporations, her collaborative style leads people to the heart of the issue in order to transform challenges into opportunities for growth. Connect with Shadeen -Website: https://shadeenfrancis.com/ -Instagram @shadeenfrancis -Twitter: @shadeenfrancis Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they’re looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter    Editing & Mixing by: Aaron The Tech See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Pleasure is about the experience of feeling good,” say’s today’s guest, licensed psychotherapist, media personality and author, Shadeen Francis. “Pleasure is hardwired into our nervous system!” Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, all of Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure. In this episode, Joe and Shadeen discuss the transformative power of pleasure. And how we can increase assets like pleasure in our lives. Beyond orgasms and sex, Shadeen believes pleasure is a very necessary part of our wellbeing and that we need to make more room for it. “We march for the wage gap,” she says. “but we don’t march for the orgasm gap!”

“Pleasure is about the experience of feeling good,” say’s today’s guest, licensed psychotherapist, media personality and author, Shadeen Francis. “Pleasure is hardwired into our nervous system!” Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, all of Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure. In... The post Smart Sex, Smart Love - Episode 53 Shadeen Francis on The Transformative Power of Pleasure first appeared on PodcastDetroit.com.

This week, we answer listener questions on feeling sexy (or not sexy) during quarantine, how to manage mismatched libidos in a relationship, the first steps to understanding vaginismus, the journey of healing after sexual assault, and finding connection as an asexual person, with marriage and family therapist Shadeen Francis.

There is a common tendency to think about sex as simply a person-to-person interaction. However, this view overlooks the fact that sexual identity, attraction, and behavior are all influenced by broader social and cultural systems—and these systems can have a profound impact on the way sexuality is expressed by creating power imbalances, stigma, and shame. As a result, when we talk about sex, we can't just talk about it as if it exists in a vacuum. We need to acknowledge the systems that shape it and talk about the ways in which justice is and isn't being served. I've been itching to explore this topic on the podcast and I couldn't think of a better guest than sex therapist Shadeen Francis, a licensed psychotherapist, media personality, and author whose work spans the domains of sex therapy, emotional intelligence, and social justice. Shadeen is committed to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure, and her work has been featured extensively in the media. We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including: What does “social justice” mean in the context of sex therapy? Why is it important for us to talk about social justice when we talk about sex? How is our approach to training sex therapists failing us when it comes to pursuing social justice, and what can we do about this? What does the term “normal” really mean when it comes to sex, and why is it important for us to redefine it? What is “race play” and why are some people turned on by the idea of eroticizing power differentials in the first place? What happens when people's personal or moral values are in conflict with their sexual turn-ons? How do we reduce shame and guilt over our sexual fantasies? How do our political backgrounds and leanings shape our sexual fantasies and the way we feel about them? How can putting social justice front and center in sex therapy help us all to lead more pleasurable and fulfilling sex lives? To learn more about Shadeen's work, check out her website here. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast!

There is a common tendency to think about sex as simply a person-to-person interaction. However, this view overlooks the fact that sexual identity, attraction, and behavior are all influenced by broader social and cultural systems—and these systems can have a profound impact on the way sexuality is expressed by creating power imbalances, stigma, and shame. As a result, when we talk about sex, we can’t just talk about it as if it exists in a vacuum. We need to acknowledge the systems that shape it and talk about the ways in which justice is and isn’t being served. I’ve been itching to explore this topic on the podcast and I couldn’t think of a better guest than sex therapist Shadeen Francis, a licensed psychotherapist, media personality, and author whose work spans the domains of sex therapy, emotional intelligence, and social justice. We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including: What does “social justice” mean in the context of sex therapy? How is our approach to training sex therapists failing us when it comes to pursuing social justice, and what can we do about this? What does the term “normal” really mean when it comes to sex, and why is it important for us to redefine it? What is “race play” and why are some people turned on by the idea of eroticizing power differentials in the first place? What happens when people’s personal or moral values are in conflict with their sexual turn-ons? How do we reduce shame and guilt over our sexual fantasies?How do our political backgrounds and leanings shape our sexual fantasies and the way we feel about them? How can putting social justice front and center in sex therapy help us all to lead more pleasurable and fulfilling sex lives?

In part two - (the final episode of Season 1) of The Erotic Philosopher with Shadeen Francis, we take a look at why people struggle with sex around the world. What affects what we believe about sex and exactly how healthy is 'healthy sex'? What happens when Canadian & Aussie sex therapists get to work in the USA? Are American sex problems unique to Americans and how do  cultural differences affect how people thrive in sexual relationships? In turbulent times, our sex lives can take a hit.

Our emotions provide insight into what we want to experience in pleasure. If we are tapped into these emotional clues, we can amplify our connection as well as our erotic experience. On this episode Effy and Jacqueline talk to Shadeen Francis about how our emotional intelligence leads us to our erotic wisdom. And how erotic wisdom guides us into our fully embodied pleasure. Listen in to this exploration of what prompts us to feel awake, charged, sexually alive. To find more about Shadeen Francis and her work visit her website www.shadeenfrancis.com and on Instagram @shareenfrancislmft. If you have a question that you would like to explore on the show, reach out to us and we may answer your question on one of our upcoming episodes. Leave us a voicemail at 201-870-0063 or email us at listening@wearecuriousfoxes.comFollow us on social media for further resources on this topic from Angie Gunn:fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxesinstagram.com/wearecuriousfoxesJoin the conversation: fb.com/groups/CuriousFoxSupport the show (https://www.patreon.com/wearecuriousfoxes)

Today's guest is Shadeen Francis - a licensed psychotherapist, graduate professor, and author that specializes in sex therapy and social justice. In the first of 2 parts with Shadeen, Cyndi jumps right in with a listener quandary for Shadeen about a couple who have lost their erotic traction. One says she doesn't enjoy sex with him anymore and tells the Erotic Philosophers that sex has become a chore! No matter what, they cant seem to get out of this  funk - Shadeen has some great responses and reflections Shadeen has been featured on platforms like ABC, CBS, NBC, and the New York Times to share her unique expertise on sex and relationships. Known for her signature brand of warmth and humour, all of Shadeen's work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure. https://www.shadeenfrancis.com/ https://cyndidarnell.com/podcast-the-erotic-philosopher/

Authenticity and Boundaries are my favorite topics to talk about! My life changed when I truly understood what it means and feels like to live a life purely my own, outside the shadows of beliefs and conditioning's from the outside world. I began to live my highest life when I learned that I am free to build boundaries around my life that allow me to live the life I dreamed of living. Come join me in this incredible conversation with Shadeen, a marriage and family therapist, professor, and author that specializes in sex therapy and social justice.Shadeen Francis is a sought-after speaker, licensed psychotherapist, and media personality whose expertise spans the domains of sex therapy, emotional intelligence, and social justice. She has been featured on platforms like ABC, CBS, NBC, FOX and the New York Times to share her unique perspective. Known for her signature brand of warmth, and humor, Shadeen is invited to speak internationally on topics like sexual self-esteem, overcoming shame, and relationship design. Shadeen is full of fun surprises, and with a background in Neuroscience and radio hosting, she easily transforms difficult subjects into actionable and engaging conversations. Whether in her office, in an academic setting, or at a community event, all of Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure.If you enjoy the podcast, would you please consider leaving a short review on Apple Podcasts/iTunes? It takes less than 60 seconds, and it really makes a difference in helping to convince hard-to-get guests. I also love reading the reviews! Follow Adey:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/i.am.adey/?hl=enTwitter: https://twitter.com/adeychekolFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/i.am.adey/Website: https://adeychekol.com/Love you Beautiful Souls!

Shadeen Francis, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) specializing in sex therapy and social justice, joins the Pro Hoe Podcast to talk about what it means to be safe in your body, finding small amounts of peace, and identifying the systems in place that decide who, and when we deserve pleasure and joy.Follow Shadeen on IG: @shadeenfrancislmft See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Dr. Tammy and Shadeen Francis, LMFT dive in deep to discuss everything from millennials, to pleasure, shame, racism and how the choices we think we are making have most often been chosen for us...IMPORTANT NOTE: This episode was recorded before the murders of George Floyd and Rayshard Brooks. While these horrific events are not directly addressed, Shadeen Francis does help to explain how historical, societal beliefs and the institutions we have created, perpetuate racism, sexism, heteronormativity, fear and shame. If you are struggling with recent events, please contact us. We are here to help.DR. TAMMY WANTS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS about Sex, Love & Relationships and help you with your Trouble with Sex. Send your questions to drtammy@thetroublewithsex.com.PROMO CODES & DEALS!DAME PRODUCTSIT'S TIME FOR PLEASURE! Enjoy solo play or enhance sex with your partner with Toys from DAME. Visit dameproducts.com/troublewithsex and type in promo code DRTAMMY at check out for 15% OFF your order!GUEST BIO:Shadeen Francis, LMFT is a marriage and family therapist, professor, and author that specializes in sex therapy and social justice. She has been featured on numerous platforms like 6abc, CBC, the New York Times, and the Huffington Post to share her unique expertise on relationships and wellness. Because of her ability to tackle difficult subjects with warmth and humor, she is sought internationally to speak on topics such as sexual self-esteem, building intimacy, and boundary negotiation. Whether in her office, on television, or at a community event, all of Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure.THE TROUBLE WITH SEX RESOURCES, REFERENCES & INFO· To read more about how to improve your sex life, check out Dr. Tammy's Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together.· Learn more about love, marriage, monogamy and how to redefine your commitment to each other in Dr. Tammy's TEDX talk - The New Monogamy - or her book by the same name. · Want more Dr. Tammy? Read: The New Monogamy, When You're the One Who Cheats and Getting the Sex You Want.Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thetroublewithsex)

Marriage and family therapist Shadeen Francis joins us to talk about X-Men, therapy, vulnerability and emptying the jug. She helps us to explore the following questions: How can the “emptying the jug” approach lead to more fulfilling relationships? How can we even begin to open up and let our guard down? What language can we use if we're new to opening up and letting others in? How can empathy transform experiences? How is self-esteem tied to vulnerability? What does it mean to be vulnerable — the good and the bad? How can distraction be useful when dealing with difficult experiences? How can we improve communication around challenging topics? How can we open up and be more open to being emotionally impacted? Follow Shadeen on Twitter and Instagram. This podcast has been sponsored by Let'sGetChecked. Use code DRJESS to save at checkout!       If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Empathy Is A Superpower: How to Cultivate Trust, Have More Fulfilling Relationships & Work Through Trauma 00:00:05 - 00:05:02 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sacks and relationship advice. You can use tonight. Welcome to the sex with Dr Jess podcast I'm your co host, Brandon wear here with my lovely partner Dr Jess Hey. Hey, now before we get started, I want to show our sponsor. Let's get checked. Use Code, Dr Justice Save on at home. STI testing hormone testing, other health tests go to let's get checked. Dot Com, and please enter code Dr. Justice Save and let them know that you learned about them here. Now today we are joined by Shea Dean Francis, marriage and family therapists with a specialty in sex therapy and social justice sheer to talk about her work, and how you can learned open up and be more vulnerable, and how this can improve your relationships and change your life welcomed. Thanks so much for being here. Thank you so much for having me now. You Are Toronto. Born like me. You are a transplant and you're. You're in Philly now. So what brought you into the field of sex therapy So the short version of the story was that my original plan was to join the X men, and it. It felt like a reasonable extension. To then get really into the world of sex kind of my. My link was through Sue Johannesen Henson talk, sex with sue and I. Came across her work at a time when I was really realizing that there weren't open dialogue, there weren't places where people could go to have. These conversations and someone had called in to her show I was. This is probably the summer for seventh grade and as a pragmatic and realizing like shit, I might be enormity so my powers were not manifesting and I'm thinking payable. Let me have something working on in the meantime while I wait for my obvious mutant. to become apparent to everyone else. and someone called into her show and said thank you so much for your work. You saved my life. So my great I'll just do that like what whatever whatever it is. She's doing obviously is important. She was like waving around with a big purple, like but plug and I'm like okay well, whatever that is helps people so I should probably do that, so the X. men didn't call not yet, I'm I'm still hopeful and so you know if you're out there. Professor Clavier I'm ready. Superpower shown. Come forward,

Marriage and family therapist Shadeen Francis joins us to talk about X-Men, therapy, vulnerability and emptying the jug. She helps us to explore the following questions: How can the “emptying the jug” approach lead to more fulfilling relationships? How can we even begin to open up and let our guard down? What language can we use if we’re new to opening up and letting others in? How can empathy transform experiences? How is self-esteem tied to vulnerability? What does it mean to be vulnerable — the good and the bad? How can distraction be useful when dealing with difficult experiences? How can we improve communication around challenging topics? How can we open up and be more open to being emotionally impacted? Follow Shadeen on Twitter and Instagram. This podcast is brought to you by Let's Get Checked. Use code DRJESS to save at checkout!

Sex and relationship therapist Shadeen Francis joins me this week for perhaps the most intelligent and fascinating conversation about humping you’re likely to ever hear! What does a sex therapist do? Who needs a sex therapist? What feelings are behind sex? How do you negotiate better sex? What does better sex even mean? Shadeen goes deep on all of these questions, while also shedding light on common misconceptions about arousal, desire and our sexual needs. Shadeen's background in neuroscience and academia inform her beautiful personal philosophy of freedom, liberation and human connection. She serves up some truly delicious insights about sex and connection that make this episode worthy of a replay or three!  Follow Shadeen on Instagram @shadeenfrancislmft And find her work on her website here!

Joined by the Mercurial and brilliant Shadeen Francis, LMFT, this episode muses on astrology, sexuality in the modern world, Shadeen's journey from prospective super hero to acrobat to a marriage and family therapist specializing in sex and relationships. To find Shadeen you can follow her at @shadeenfrancislmft or head to www.shadeenfrancis.com.

Ep.171-On this episode, we talk to Therapist, Speaker, and Author Shadeen Francis about the hierarchy of consent, heteronormativity and consent, pop culture, and awareness of our boundaires and the boundaries of others. About Shadeen: Shadeen Francis, MFT is a marriage and family therapist, professor, and author specializing in sex therapy and social justice. Shadeen trains and collaborates with non-profit organizations, medical schools, homeless shelters, and university counseling centres to help them create safe, justice-oriented policies and practices. She has been featured on platforms like 6-ABC and Huffington Post to share her expertise, and she speaks internationally on topics such as self-esteem, sexual intimacy, and pleasure. Shadeen’s belief is that the world is built on the strengths of communities. This worldview has propelled her to focus on underserved populations: ethnic and cultural minorities, the kinky/poly/queer communities, and victims of economic hardship. Her work allows people of all backgrounds to improve their relationships and live in peace and pleasure.

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In part two of our conversation about sex and mental health, Jaclyn talks with therapist Shadeen Francis about destigmatizing, deshaming, and decolonizing our mental wellness, both in and out of the bedroom. Also there are donuts. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Expectations for relationships are changing faster than ever. What was considered "normal" for our grandparent's generation is being challenged and evolving all the time.  In this interview with Shadeen Francis, we talk about the ever changing realities of relationship expectations for Millennials and Gen Zs. Much of what we discuss is helpful and important for any relationship.  Shadeen Francis, MFT, is a marriage and family therapist, professor, and author. She has over 7 years of experience training, supporting, and collaborating with non-profit organizations, medical schools, homeless shelters, and university counseling centres. Her work allows people of all backgrounds to improve their relationships and live the lives they desire. The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. The host, Shane Birkel, interviews an expert in the field of couples therapy each week. There is an episode released every Tuesday about the practice of couples therapy. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes! If you enjoyed the episode please leave a rating and review on iTunes. Click here to join the Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group Check out Shadeen's website at shadeenfrancis.com

Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Well, Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is releasing soon. Grab your spot today.  What if honesty isn't the best policy for rebuilding trust? Shadeen Francis recently spoke at Explore More Summit, and her talk was one of the fan favorites for the entire conference. Her formula for trust challenged many and offered new language and feelings of YES! That's it! So, in this episode, Shadeen shares all about how she became a therapist, why sex is crucial for our well-being, how Shadeen's relationship with self feeds her erotic experiences and how it ties to the work she does, and then we dive into relationships. We talk about trust, the difference between honesty and transparency, negotiating boundaries, tolerating uncomfortable feelings, and then we field a listener question from Lost Lonnie who is worried that their obsession with cheating is more about a fear of commitment. Patreon supporters - If you support the show at the $3 level and above, you can listen to this week's bonus which includes Shadeen and I talk about toxic relationship behaviors, control, and how to shift your relationship scorekeeping into something playful and productive. patreon.com/sgrpodcast Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Shadeen Francis: Shadeen Francis, MFT is a marriage and family therapist, professor, and author specializing in sex therapy and social justice. Shadeen has been featured on platforms like 6-ABC, the New York Times, and the Huffington Post to share her expertise, and she also speaks internationally on topics such as sexual self-esteem, intimacy, and inclusivity. Shadeen’s belief is that the world is built on the strengths of communities. This worldview has propelled her to focus on underserved populations: ethnic and cultural minorities, the kinky/poly/queer communities, and victims of economic hardship. Her work allows people of all backgrounds to improve their relationships and live in peace and pleasure. Stay in touch with Shadeen at shadeenfrancis.com and on Twitter @shadeenfrancis. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Eager to sign-up for this year’s Explore More Summit? It kicks off April 23rd, 2018 and you can enroll for free at exploremoresummit.com. It's your questions this week, folks, and there are so many amazing ones to get to. KiltmanFL wrote in about AC's question in episode 203 wanting kink classes in Florida. Kiltman has some great resources for all you Florida listeners. Bee wrote in with a long thank you note, but basically Bee was inspired to have some really scary conversations with her partner and now some much-needed changes are happening in her relationship. Yay for courageous conversations. A listener wrote in with a subject line of Virgin. You know I love these. This listener doesn't want to have sex until marriage but her girlfriend wants to have sex before marriage to make sure it's a good fit. How can she talk about sex when she's had zero experience? Among other suggestions, I also recommend Allison Moon's, "Girl Sex 101", Barbara Carrellas' "Ecstasy is Necessary" and "Urban Tantra." Jon & Mandi just discovered the joys of anal fisting, but is there a such thing as stylish, above the elbow, silicone safe gloves? They need something practical and pretty. I asked a bunch of experts and offer some input. Unihorn is having lots of sex via dating apps. Unihorn has never been in a relationship and is worried that all the sex means they aren't developing the skills needed for a healthy relationship later. Should they be worried? I have thoughts about sex, relationships, and what Unihorn should do. Betrayed wrote in with a very vulnerable share about an abusive ex-husband, vulvodynia, sexual pain, and dissociating during pleasure. Betrayed asks: How can people still explore sexual things without having the goal be orgasm? How do you know when to stop if you're not using climax as the finish line? How can I find different ways to enjoy sex in general? I have so many thoughts and I really hope you savor this because it's helpful for so many of us. Patreon supporters - this week's bonus is a really  juicy clip from my talk with therapist Shadeen Francis for the Explore More Summit. It's all about honesty versus transparency, especially after betrayal. Her analogies are spot on and she gave me language for feelings I'd held for so long and didn't know how to articulate. GOOD GOOD stuff.  Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Dawn Serra What if everything you've been taught about relationships, about your body, about sex is wrong? My name is Dawn Serra and I dare to ask scary questions that might lead us all towards a deeper, more connected experience of our lives. In addition to being the host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, the creator of the online conference Explore More, and of the new weekly stream Pop Culture Undressed, I also work one-on-one with clients who are feeling stuck, confused, or disappointed with the ways they experience desire, love, and confidence. It's not all work, though. In my spare time, you can find me adventuring with my husband, cuddling my cats as I read a YA novel, or obsessing over MasterChef Australia. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

EPISODE 69: Interview with Shadeen Francis (Part Two). Shadeen Francis, MFT is a marriage and family therapist, educator and author specializing in sex therapy and social justice. Her areas of expertise include couple’s communication, self-esteem development, sexual intimacy, and community building. Shadeen helps people of all backgrounds improve their relationships and live the lives they desire. Follow Shadeen’s work (including her trainings and workshops) at her website at shadeenfrancis.com and also on Twitter @ShadeenFrancis.

EPISODE 68: Interview with Shadeen Francis (Part One). Shadeen Francis, MFT is a marriage and family therapist, educator and author specializing in sex therapy and social justice. Her areas of expertise include couple’s communication, self-esteem development, sexual intimacy, and community building. Shadeen helps people of all backgrounds improve their relationships and live the lives they desire. Follow Shadeen’s work (including her trainings and workshops) at her website at shadeenfrancis.com and also on Twitter @ShadeenFrancis.

If you struggle to experience orgasm or wonder how you can repair your relationship after a betrayal, you're not alone. Shadeen Francis, MFT joins August to discuss common sexual and relationship challenges and ways to address them. Megan Fleming, PhD weighs in for a listener who's about to start couples therapy, but her husband is far from enthusiastic. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for monthly email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace, visit talkspace.com/boner.