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Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-03-16-26&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidant friends can be incredibly confusing. They may: • Disappear emotionally • Avoid deep conversations • Show care through actions instead of words • Keep things light, social, or intellectual • Feel uncomfortable with emotional intensity Yet, they often do care, just in ways that don't always translate clearly. In this episode, Thais explains how Dismissive Avoidants bond in friendships, why they prioritize independence, and how to stop misinterpreting their behavior as rejection. What You'll Learn in This Video Why Dismissive Avoidants bond more through intellectual or social connection What independent Dismissive Avoidants truly value in friendships How Dismissive Avoidants show love through actions (not emotional processing) Why they don't do things they don't want to do — and what that tells you How to ask what someone is actually available for How to protect your needs without pushing or over-investing TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – The Dismissive Avoidant Friend 00:43 – 1. They Are More Comfortable Bonding in Social or Intellectual Ways 02:28 – What Independent Dismissive Avoidants Value in Friendships 04:24 – 2. They Show Their Love More Through Actions 05:45 – 3. They Don't Do Things They Don't Want to 06:42 – Somatic Course Promo 07:01 – Ask The Person What They're Available For 09:21 – Subscribe for More Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
Is your attachment style running the relationship?This week on Daddy Issues, Violet sits down with relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down why you chase, why he pulls away, and how subconscious wiring shapes the way you date.Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, counselor, and founder of the Personal Development School, known for her work on attachment styles and subconscious relationship patterns.They discuss the four attachment styles, the anxious-avoidant cycle, emotional triggers, and how childhood conditioning shapes the way you give and receive love.If the same dating patterns keep repeating in your life, this episode helps you understand why and how to start changing them.Connect with Thais Gibson: university.personaldevelopmentschool.comThanks to our sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at Shopify.com/adulting See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Andrea revisits one of her most impactful conversations in this re-released episode on self-sabotage with Tais Gibson, counselor, bestselling author, co-founder of The Personal Development School, and a leading expert in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. Together, they unpack why self-sabotage happens, how limiting beliefs and subconscious patterns can quietly shape behavior, relationships, and personal growth, and share practical ways to begin changing those patterns with more awareness, self-compassion, and clarity.Links for Dr. Thias GibsonWebsite https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Instagram @thepersonaldevelopmentschoolYoutube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ/videosMake Fit Simple Podcast is sponsored by KION. Go to Getkion.com/simple for 20% off. Make Fit Simple is sponsored by Cozy EarthCozyEarth.com You use the code fit FIT at checkout for 20% off Join my newsletter! https://www.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.com/emls Follow the Make Fit Simple Podcast@MakeFitSimplePodcastHave a suggestion for a topic click HEREHave a suggestion for a guest click HERENEW! Leave a question for Andrea HERE on SpeakPipe! Follow Andrea on Instagram@deliciouslyfitnhealthy@dfh.training.picsTraining & Coachinghttps://www.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.com/linksVisit Andrea's Websitewww.deliciouslyfitnhealthy.comProduced by Light On Creative Productions
No início do século XVII, um pintor revolucionáriotransforma a arte europeia com imagens dramáticas, realistas e carregadas deemoção. Mas fora do ateliê, sua vida era marcada por brigas, processos econflitos constantes nas ruas de Roma.Neste episódio do Art Talks, acompanhamos a trajetóriaintensa de Caravaggio — do sucesso meteórico na capital italiana às confusõesque acabaram mudando completamente o rumo da sua vida. Entre tavernas, duelos efugas por diferentes cidades da Itália, ele continuou produzindo algumas daspinturas mais impactantes da história da arte.‘História da Arte sem tédio' é uma série do Art Talks queconta bastidores, conflitos e histórias reais por trás de grandes nomes daarte. É a História da Arte contada de forma acessível, envolvente e semlinguagem acadêmica — para ouvir no dia a dia, mesmo sem ser especialista.Roteiro, produção e locução: Thais de Albuquerque@thais.de.albuquerque
In this episode of Over 50 and Flourishing, I sit down with attachment theory expert Thais Gibson for a powerful conversation about love, trauma, and the patterns that shape our relationships.Thais Gibson, PhD, is a relationship expert and the creator of Integrated Attachment Theory, a framework designed to help people understand and heal attachment patterns at their root. We break down the four attachment styles and how they influence everything from marriage to friendships to the way we see ourselves. We also talk about the connection between attachment and rising divorce rates, how modern parenting may be shifting attachment styles, and how conditioning is not just from childhood. Thais explains how you can rewire 40, 50, even 60 years of trauma through simple daily practices that regulate your nervous system and heal core wounds. Resources:Visit university.personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off the Personal Development School's 90-Day Attachment Healing membership.Take the FREE Attachment Style Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/For more on Thais, follow her on:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibsonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/461389461257253/?ref=bookmarks Keep in Touch:Website: https://dominiquesachse.tv/Book: https://dominiquesachse.tv/book/Insta: https://www.instagram.com/dominiquesachse/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DominiqueSachse/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dominiquesachse?lang=enYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dominiquesachsetvHave a question for Dominique? Submit it here for a chance to have it answered on the show! https://forms.gle/MpTeWN1oKN8t18pm6 Interested in being featured as a guest? Please email courtney@dominiquesachse.tv We want to make the podcast even better. Help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Neste episódio do VDCast, você vai conhecer a história de Thais Greco, mentora e consultora de profissionais da indústria farmacêutica. Ela conta como saiu de um período difícil da vida para construir um negócio de mentoria que já ultrapassou R$ 1 milhão em vendas. Ao longo da conversa, você vai entender como o marketing digital, o posicionamento no LinkedIn e uma esteira de produtos bem estruturada podem transformar carreira, reputação profissional e resultados no mercado.
Bestselling author, speaker, and co-founder of The Personal Development School Thais Gibson joins Adam and Dr. Drew in studio to break down love languages and what they reveal in relationships. Adam shares what he wants most from a partner as Thais helps decode his love language, and they dig into how younger generations live on their phones, lose the connection between hard work and money, and get tripped up by “invisible money.” They also explore how societal expectations land differently on men and women, why roles in relationships need to adapt to modern life, and Thais' spiritual perspective on love.https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com - Use Code PDS2026 for 20% off of the Personal Development School 90 day attachment healing membershipSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Part 2 of our conversation with Thai Gibson is here, and this time, we're focused on healing. After breaking down attachment theory and the four attachment styles in Part 1, today's episode is all about what comes next: how to actually shift your patterns and move toward secure attachment. Thai walks us through the five pillars of healing and what it truly takes to rewire old beliefs, build emotional resilience, and create healthier relationship dynamics.Together, we explore how to regulate your nervous system, expand your self-awareness, and show up differently in love. If Part 1 helped you understand your patterns, this episode will help you transform them.Transform Instagram - click here!Sami Spalter Instagram - click here!Sami Clarke Instagram - click here!FORM Shop - click here!FORM Website - click here!Code TRANSFORM for 20% off an annual membership.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.This episode is brought to you by:Ollie: Go to ollie.com/transform and use code transform to get 60% off your first box!RW Knudsen: With RW Knudsen, krush 100% of your day - morning, afternoon, evening and all the moments in between - with 100% juice and no added sugar. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store todayIQBAR: To get 20% off all IQBAR products plus FREE shipping, text TRANSFORM to 64000. Message and data rates may applyNutrafol: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you visit Nutrafol.com and enter promo code TRANSFORMThe Real Real: Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to TheRealReal.com/transformProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Em 1964, uma artista publica um livro de memórias contando como foi viver ao lado de Pablo Picasso — o pintor mais famoso do século XX. O que parecia apenas um relato íntimo rapidamente se transforma em escândalo internacional, processos judiciais e uma nova forma de enxergar o artista por trás do mito.Neste episódio do Art Talks, acompanhamos a relação entre Picasso e Françoise Gilot e a sucessão de relacionamentos que atravessaram sua vida, conectando sua biografia às fases mais conhecidas de sua obra e levantando uma pergunta inevitável: é possível separar o gênio artístico da pessoa?‘História da Arte sem tédio' é uma série do Art Talks que conta bastidores, conflitos e histórias reais por trás de grandes nomes da arte. É a História da Arte contada de forma acessível, envolvente e sem linguagem acadêmica — para ouvir no dia a dia, mesmo sem ser especialista.Roteiro, produção e locução: Thais de Albuquerque @thais.de.albuquerque
Start healing your Attachment Style with personalized courses taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days [enough time to complete a full course]. Limited-time offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-03-02-26el=podcast Are You Becoming More Secure? 5 Pillars to Track Your Progress Have you ever wondered how Securely Attached you're actually showing up in your relationships? Healing your Attachment Style isn't just about “feeling better.” It's about measurable shifts in how you think, react, communicate, and relate to others. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson walks you through the 5 Major Pillars of Becoming Securely Attached and how to track whether you're truly progressing in your healing journey. If you've been doing the work, this video will help you see exactly where you stand. In this breakdown, you'll learn the five foundational ingredients required to move from insecure to Secure Attachment: ✔️ Rewiring your core wounds ✔️ Understanding your subconscious needs ✔️ Regulating your nervous system ✔️ Setting honest, healthy boundaries ✔️ Communicating clearly and consistently Thais also shares insights from her own journey as a former Fearful Avoidant, explaining how frequency and intensity of triggers begin to diminish and what secure functioning actually feels like in daily life. Secure Attachment isn't perfection. It's regulation, self-awareness, authenticity, and the ability to repair. Key Takeaways • How to tell if your triggers are decreasing in frequency and intensity • Why rewiring core wounds is the foundation of lasting change • The role subconscious needs play in fulfillment and alignment • How nervous system regulation creates emotional stability • Why boundaries increase authenticity and connection • How proper communication empties your “resentment tank” • What Secure Attachment actually looks like in real relationships Timestamps 00:00 – Are You Becoming More Secure? 01:14 – Pillar 1: Rewiring Your Core Wounds 04:04 – Thais' Rewiring Experience 05:28 – Pillar 2: Learning About Your Own Needs 07:55 – Pillar 3: Learning How to Regulate Your Nervous System 08:57 – Pillar 4: Setting Your Honest Boundaries With People 11:02 – 7-Day Trial Promo 11:51 – Pillar 5: Learning to Communicate Properly Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
This week on Chrisley Confessions 2.0 with Todd & Julie Chrisley, we're doing something a little different, and it might just be the the episode that changes everything.Todd and Julie sit down with Thais Gibson, bestselling author and founder of The Personal Development School, to unpack attachment theory in a way that feels less clinical and a whole lot more personal. And let's just say… things get real.Todd starts recognizing himself in the anxious attachment style. Julie may or may not see a little dismissive avoidant in herself. And somewhere along the way, what starts as a conversation about childhood wiring turns into a raw, honest discussion about marriage, resentment, boundaries, peace, and what it actually means to heal instead of blame.They talk about how your subconscious runs the show, why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, how to communicate without criticizing, and why loving someone the way you want to be loved doesn't always work.This episode isn't about pointing fingers at your parents. It's about taking radical responsibility for who you are now. And if you've ever said, “That's just the way I am,” you might want to listen closely.Because maybe it's not etched in stone after all.FOLLOW US ON SOCIALS:Follow Thais Gibson:Insta: (https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool)TikTok: (https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson)YouTube: (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ)Website: (https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/)Todd Chrisley:Insta: (https://www.instagram.com/toddchrisley)Facebook: (https://www.facebook.com/toddchrisley)Julie Chrisley:Instagram: (https://www.instagram.com/juliechrisley)Facebook: (https://www.facebook.com/JulieChrisley)Chrisley Confessions 2.0:Instagram: (https://www.instagram.com/chrisleyconfessions2.0)TikTok: (https://www.tiktok.com/@chrisleyconfessions2.0)YouTube: (https://www.youtube.com/@ChrisleyConfessions)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
I sit down with Thais Gibson to break down what attachment really is and how it shapes our relationships. We dive into anxious, avoidant, and fearful attachment styles, how social media is impacting connection, and why so many couples get stuck in the same patterns. Thais shares a practical framework for rewiring core wounds and building secure attachment. If you've ever felt trapped in push-pull dynamics or struggled to communicate your needs, this conversation will give you clarity and direction.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Introduction00:48 Attachment at a Cultural Level02:05 Social Media and Short-Term Gratification05:16 Conflict as Crisis and Opportunity07:23 Is Attachment Programmable?09:24 How Attachment Styles Form18:14 The “Bear in the Woods” Conversation38:04 Core Wounds of Each Attachment Style44:01 Rewiring Subconscious Beliefs47:20 Can Two Insecure Partners Build Security?50:25 Freeze and Shutdown Responses56:19 Communication and Positive Framing01:00:36 Why Anxious and Avoidant Attract01:04:01 Where to Learn More from Thais***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
We're so excited to welcome Thais Gibson, best-selling author, counselor, and founder of The Personal Development School, to the podcast. In Part 1 of this two-part series, Sami Spalter and Thais dive deep into attachment theory: what it is, how it's formed, and why it shapes the way you experience love, conflict, and connection.They break down the four attachment styles and explore how these patterns often stem from childhood experiences. Throughout the conversation, Sami shares her own personal journey and how understanding her attachment style helped her gain clarity around triggers, patterns, and relationship dynamics.If you've ever wondered why you react the way you do in relationships, this episode is your starting point.Visit university.personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off the Personal Development School's 90-Day Attachment Healing membership.Transform Instagram - click here!Sami Spalter Instagram - click here!Sami Clarke Instagram - click here!FORM Shop - click here!FORM Website - click here!Code TRANSFORM for 20% off an annual membership.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
#923. Why do you love the way that you love… and why do you keep repeating the same patterns?This week, Kaitlyn sits down with attachment theory expert and best-selling author Thais Gibson to break down the 4 attachment styles — secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized — and how they shape every relationship in your life.Thais shares her own powerful story of trauma and addiction at just 15 years old, and the moment she discovered that your subconscious mind — not your conscious mind — is driving who you're attracted to, why you get triggered, and why certain relationships feel impossible to walk away from.They also talk about how attachment styles are formed, how they can change, and the first step to becoming more secure.If you've ever wondered “Why am I like this in relationships?” — this episode is for you.If you're LOVING this podcast, please follow and leave a rating and review below! PLUS, FOLLOW OUR PODCAST INSTAGRAM HERE!Thank you to our Sponsors! Check out these AMAZING deals!Better Help: If you're ready to take some pressure off this month, therapy is a great place to start. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/VINE.Bombas: Head over to Bombas.com/VINE and use code VINE for 20% off your first purchase.Ka'chava: Stick with your wellness goals. Go to kachava.com and use code VINE for 15% off.Merit Beauty: Right now, Merit Beauty is offering our listeners their Signature Makeup Bag with your first order at MERITbeauty.com.Pura: Pura's Well-Being Collection is thoughtfully crafted to support energy, focus, relaxation, and sleep through scent. Discover what your space needs at pura.com/moods.EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS: (4:38) — Thais shares her traumatic upbringing and addiction at just 15 years old. (12:21) — The 4 attachment styles explained (and how to identify yours) Secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant — and how each one affects your relationships.(32:29) — How to rewire your core wounds and change subconscious patterns.(58:00) — The first step to healing your attachment style.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This week on Unlocked, I'm sitting down with Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School and an expert on attachment styles, trauma, and subconscious reprogramming… and let's just say, I was not prepared for how seen I was about to feel.We talk about why we are the way we are, how childhood conditioning quietly follows us into adulthood, and the patterns we keep repeating in relationships without even realizing it. Thais breaks down attachment styles in a way that makes so much sense, from anxious to avoidant to fearful avoidant, and how those patterns show up in love, conflict, communication, and even the way we handle success.We get into radical accountability, core wounds, nervous system regulation, and why healing isn't about blaming your parents… but it is about taking responsibility for your own growth. I share personal stories about love, overperforming, shutting down, and what it's like to finally feel safe in a healthy relationship.If you've ever wondered why you push people away, cling too tightly, overreact to small things, or feel like you're waiting for the other shoe to drop… this conversation will open your eyes.Healing is possible. But you have to be willing to do the work.LET'S BE SOCIAL:Follow Savannah Chrisley:Insta: (https://www.instagram.com/SavannahChrisley)TikTok: (https://www.tiktok.com/@SavannahChrisley)X: (https://www.x.com/_itssavannah_)Follow Thais Gibson:Insta: (https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool)TikTok: (https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson)YouTube: (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ)Website: (https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/)Follow The Unlocked Podcast:Insta: (https://www.instagram.com/UnlockedWithSavannah)TikTok: (https://www.tiktok.com/@UnlockedWithSav)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Thais Araujo aprendeu cedo a desconfiar de si. Dentro da igreja, tudo que ela sentia parecia ter nome de pecado, e o amor, quando apontava para outra mulher, virava motivo de medo. Ela tentou por anos caber no que esperavam dela, seguia padrões, orava mais e jejuava.Foi nessa mesma época que Mayara entrou na vida da Thais. As duas se conheceram na igreja, no grupo musical. Thais com o trombone, Mayara com o violino. Um olhar bastou para nascer aquela vontade de conversar todo dia, como se o mundo ficasse mais leve na presença da outra. Por anos, elas juraram que seriam só amigas. Até o beijo acontecer. E, com o beijo, veio a culpa, a sensação de erro, o impulso de se esconder.Elas ficavam em segredo, até Thais não aguentar mais. Na cabeça dela, Mayara virou um “bloqueio” espiritual, algo a ser cortado para que a vida voltasse ao rumo que lhe prometeram. Thais mudou de igreja tentando fugir da própria verdade. Mas o problema não era Mayara.Quando ofereceram a ela a ideia da “cura gay”, Thais embarcou na falácia. Aos poucos, ela foi perdendo o gosto pelas coisas, a vontade de existir. O gatilho era o fato dela não poder ser quem era.Após algumas crises seríssimas, Thais conseguiu ajuda psicológica e começou a se escolher. Acabou saindo da igreja porque não se sentia acolhida quando mais precisou. Ela melhorou aos poucos, aprendeu que podia viver sem se esconder e amar quem quer que fosse.Com o tempo, até dentro de casa as coisas mudaram. Um dia, a mãe mandou uma mensagem convidando-a para um churrasco e pedindo que levasse a pessoa que amava. Thais quase não acreditou, a mãe era muito religiosa e tinha o mesmo pensamento das pessoas da igreja. Com essa atitude da mãe, ela guardou essa atitude como quem guarda um milagre concreto: pessoas podem mudar. 10 anos depois do rompimento com Mayara, Thais, que nunca a esqueceu, decidiu entrar em contato com aquele amor do passado. As duas se reencontraram mais maduras, prontas para um amor inteiro. Thais não quis deixar a vida passar de novo e perguntou se podiam namorar. Mayara disse sim e, dessa vez, ninguém precisou se esconder.
Uma jovem artista apresenta pinturas modernas em São Paulo em 1917. Dias depois, um dos escritores mais influentes do país publica uma crítica devastadora em jornal — e desencadeia uma das maiores polêmicas da história da arte brasileira.Neste episódio do Art Talks, você vai entender como o confronto entre Anita Malfatti e Monteiro Lobato ultrapassou o campo artístico, influenciou a opinião pública e ajudou a impulsionar o nascimento do modernismo no Brasil e, anos depois, da Semana de Arte Moderna de 1922.‘História da Arte sem tédio' é uma série do Art Talks que conta bastidores, conflitos e histórias reais por trás de grandes nomes da arte. É a História da Arte contada de forma acessível, envolvente e sem linguagem acadêmica — para ouvir no dia a dia, mesmo sem ser especialista.Roteiro, produção e locução: Thais de Albuquerque @thais.de.albuquerqueTrilha sonora: “Sofres porque queres” — Pixinguinha (1919)
Legendary Life | Transform Your Body, Upgrade Your Health & Live Your Best Life
Most people focus only on diet, training, and supplements when it comes to health—but often overlook one of the biggest drivers of stress and burnout: relationships. Chronic emotional stress can quietly dysregulate your nervous system and undermine your health, no matter how disciplined you are with fitness and nutrition. In this episode, Ted sits down with Thais Gibson to explore how attachment styles shape your relationships, stress response, and overall well-being. Thais explains how early attachment patterns influence adult behavior, why unresolved attachment wounds keep high achievers stuck in reactive cycles, and what it takes to create real nervous system regulation and lasting change beyond surface-level stress management. Today's Guest Thais Gibson: Thais Gibson is an attachment theory expert, author, and founder of the Personal Development School. With a background in psychology and neuroscience-based modalities, she specializes in helping people rewire subconscious attachment patterns, regulate their nervous systems, and build healthier relationships. Connect to Thais Gibson Website: University.PersonalDevelopmentSchool.com Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool Podcast: The Thais Gibson Podcast YouTube: @ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool You'll learn: Why attachment style is a subconscious "rulebook" that shapes adult relationships How unresolved attachment wounds dysregulate the nervous system How relationship stress can sabotage health, recovery, and emotional regulation Practical strategies for rewiring attachment wounds and improving regulation What Ted and Thais discuss: (00:00) Introduction (02:00) Relationships as the Missing Piece in Health & Fitness (08:36) The 4 Attachment Styles Explained (25:33) Thais Gibson's Story: Addiction, the Subconscious Mind & Why She Teaches This (31:14) From Self-Healing to Relationship Skills: Boundaries, Needs & Vulnerability (35:04) Moving Toward Secure Attachment: Wounds Drive Nervous System Dysregulation (39:18) Why Affirmations Fail: Rewiring the Subconscious with Emotions & Imagery (41:58) The 3-Step Rewiring Tool (49:29) Nervous System 101: Ventral vs Dorsal Vagal + Regulation Practices (54:07) Real-World Application: Stress, Meditation, and a New Baseline of Peace (58:32) Final Thoughts
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Thais Gibson, attachment style expert, creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory, and founder of The Personal Development School. Thais breaks down the four attachment styles that explain why we show up the way we do in relationships (romantic, friendships, family, etc.).We chat about:The four attachment styles & how they developWhat traditional attachment theory is missingWhy we chase familiar-feeling loveEach attachment style's core wounds and needsHow to become more secureAt the end of the episode, Thais shares an actionable three-step reprogramming exercise to reframe your limiting beliefs and become a more secure dater. Find Thais on Instagram @thepersonaldevelopmentschool or head to her website to learn more about working with her.Read my most recent Substack: Apps Aren't The Problem — Here's What's Killing Modern DatingAs always, find me on Instagram @mostlydating. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, submit it here or email carleigh@mostly-dating.com. Learn more about my Mostly Dating Blueprint.
Talento virou commodity. O que realmente define o sucesso no mercado de arte hoje? Thais e Paulo Varella exploram o abismo entre o gênio romântico e a realidade brutal do mercado. Falamos sobre a barreira do habitus, o uso de tecnologias para democratizar o acesso e o passo a passo para transformar sua prática em um ecossistema sustentável. Pare de esperar ser "descoberto" e torne-se o arquiteto do seu próprio mercado.
Thais Gibson is an attachment style expert who founded The Personal Development School, an online coaching platform that helps people heal their subconscious states to achieve a more meaningful, happier life. She is also the author of, "Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment Theory," and hosts The Thais Gibson Podcast. Learn more at https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com
The Bangkok Podcast | Conversations on Life in Thailand's Buzzing Capital
Tech Fail Alert! The last 5 minutes of our discussion was cut off by dastardly internet Gremlins, but we said most of what we wanted to say anyway. In a follow-up to the recent Thai election, Greg and Ed do their best to make sense of the unexpected outcome. Greg defers to Ed's poli sci knowledge, and Ed struggles through it despite his expertise being American politics. Before the election, polls indicate it was a three-horse race between the progressive faction, the Thaksin clan, and the conservative faction led by the current Prime Minister. Although the progressive faction was expected to grab a plurality, none of the three were expected to have the majority necessary to form a government - so the main question was going to be: Which two factions would team up? Alas, the conservative faction ended up with a decisive victory, upending many of the gains that the progressive faction made in the last election, especially in rural areas. The margin of victory was such that the issue of coalition-building was almost moot due to the plethora of small parties to build the majority. So what led to the conservative victory? Ed notes that the current Prime Minister capitalized on his incumbency to ride a nationalist wave driven by the recent conflict with Cambodia. This was somewhat expected, but not to the extent that came to pass. Other factors, such as the lack of a charismatic leader among the progressive faction could also have been a factor. Greg chalks it up to people just being tired of the constant back-and-forth where nothing ever really changes, so they just chose to stay home and not vote for anyone - basically, they prefer stability to fighting for change. Last, the guys discuss the myriad claims of mistakes in the vote count and hope the Election Commission orders some recounts in at least some districts.
Explore Your Attachment Style With Thais Gibson. Access All Courses, Live Webinars & Q&As Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Access: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-02-13-26&el=podcast If you have an Anxious Attachment style, the urge to get closure from someone who pulled away, ghosted you, or shut down can feel overwhelming. But chasing closure from the wrong person often keeps you stuck, emotionally drained, and unable to move on. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains why seeking closure isn't actually the need and what to do instead to regain emotional stability, certainty, and peace.
The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
When communication in a relationship starts to feel harder than it used to, it's easy to wonder whether something is wrong, with your partner, or with the relationship itself. Many couples reach this point during the power struggle stage in relationships, when differences feel sharper, conflict escalates more quickly, and emotional safety can start to feel shaky. In today's conversation, I'm joined by Thais Gibson, and we're talking about why relationship power struggles are not a sign of failure, but a normal part of the stages of love. We explore what's really happening beneath the surface when couples feel stuck in recurring conflict, including how the anxious avoidant relationship cycle can quietly take over communication and leave both partners feeling misunderstood or disconnected. Together, we unpack the myth that “good relationships should feel easy,” and talk honestly about normal relationship conflict, what's expected, what's workable, and what actually helps couples move forward. Thais shares practical frameworks for repairing after conflict, communicating needs more clearly, and rebuilding emotional safety in relationships, especially when old triggers and attachment patterns are getting activated. As you listen, I invite you to notice where you and your partner might be caught in the cycle, and what could shift if conflict became a doorway to understanding, growth, and repair instead of something to fear or avoid. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why the Myth That “Good Relationships Should Be Easy” Creates Conflict 03:12 The Stages of Love and How Relationships Change Over Time 05:33 The Power Struggle Stage in Relationships Explained 10:06 Why Triggers and Polarity Drive Relationship Power Struggles 16:21 The Anxious–Avoidant Relationship Cycle 17:40 Conflict and Repair Skills That Build Trust 29:36 Building Emotional Safety During Relationship Conflict 35:22 Communication Habits That Help Couples Move Forward If this conversation helped you recognize patterns in your relationship, especially around conflict, emotional safety, or feeling stuck in the power struggle stage, I want you to know you don't have to navigate this alone. As a gift to you, you're warmly invited to schedule a free consultation with me or a trusted member of my team at Growing Self. This is a private, secure conversation where you can share what's really been happening in your relationship and what you're hoping could feel different. You'll answer three quick questions so we can thoughtfully match you with the right counselor or coach, someone who understands the kinds of dynamics Thais and I talked about today and can help you move toward clarity, connection, and repair. It only takes a couple of minutes, and it's simply an opportunity to explore what support might look like for you. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast: Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.com
Welcome to a brand-new three-part series on The Ops Authority Podcast, where we go behind the scenes with operators from industries that look completely different on the surface but share the same heartbeat: strong operations. In this first episode, I'm sitting down with Thais Saenz, Founder of Saenz Global, to explore the world of roofing contractors. From managing chaotic job sites to leveraging AI for world-class delivery, Thais is proving that operations isn't just about keeping things running. It's about building businesses that scale, teams that thrive, and clients who trust you. Whether you're supporting trades, running your own business, or simply curious about what makes companies work, this conversation will show you how strong operations create stability and success in any industry. For full show notes, check out www.TheOpsAuthority.com/podcast/297 Stay Connected: Join the Ops Insiders FREE Facebook community! Other Ways to Connect with Me: Facebook Page Instagram
Ela saiu da CLT sem saber nada de digital e construiu um negócio que já faturou mais de R$ 3 milhões só com tráfego orgânico. A Thais Monteiro, @afiliadadeouro , é a prova de que dá para começar do zero absoluto e criar uma operação forte apenas com conteúdo bem feito e estratégia. No Kiwicast, ela abriu o jogo sobre:Como escolher um nicho que realmente paga no orgânicoComo destravar na hora de gravar, segurar atenção e gerar conexão de verdadeComo funciona um funil simples de WhatsApp que converte todos os diasOs hábitos que as afiliadas de alta performance têm, e os comportamentos que travam qualquer operaçãoAprenda com quem vive o mercado digital na prática.Dá o play e deixe nos comentários qual foi o melhor insight que você tirou do episódio.Nosso Instagram é @Kiwify
In this episode, I’m joined by relationship expert Thais Gibson to break down the six stages every relationship goes through and the critical stage where most couples either grow closer or quietly fall apart. We explore why relationship frustration isn’t a sign you chose the wrong person, but often a sign you’ve entered the power struggle stage. The make-or-break phase can feel like a crisis, but is actually an opportunity for deep connection and long-term stability.This conversation is for you if you’ve ever wondered: why the same relationship patterns keep repeating why qualities you once loved now feel triggering whether conflict means something is wrong or whether it’s part of healthy growth In this episode, we cover: The 6 stages every relationship moves through (and where most get stuck) Why the power struggle stage feels so intense and why it’s unavoidable How attachment styles shape who we’re drawn to and why Why your subconscious, not your conscious mind, drives most relationship choices The difference between toxic cycles and productive conflict How couples move from conditional love to something deeper and more secure Thais also shares practical frameworks for navigating conflict, communicating needs without defensiveness, and understanding when a relationship is actually progressing - even when it feels uncomfortable.If you’re dating, partnered, married, separated, or simply trying to understand your relationship patterns, this episode will give you language, clarity, and a new lens to view what’s really happening. Thais Gibson is a best-selling author, relationship expert, and founder of The Personal Development School. She is the creator of Integrated Attachment Theory and has helped tens of thousands of people worldwide transform their relationships. Visit The Personal Development School here Follow Thais Follow Thais on Instagram here Follow Kylie Here See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Get the Somatic Attachment Healing Course FREE for Life When You Start your 7-Day Free Trial of the All-Access Pass and receive the Somatic Attachment Healing Course free for life when you join today. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/somatic-attachment-healing?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=somatic-attachment-healing&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-02-07-26&el=podcast When Grief Feels Overwhelming, You Don't Have to Go Through It Alone. Grief can feel heavy, confusing, and isolating especially when you lose a beloved pet or someone who mattered deeply to you. In this deeply personal and compassionate masterclass, Thais Gibson shares her real time experience of grief after losing her dog Simba, while walking you through a grounded, somatic framework to help you process loss in a healthy, supportive way. Episode Summary This episode isn't about “getting over” grief; it's about learning how to be with it, understanding what's really happening in your mind and body, and gently moving through the healing process with self-attunement, compassion, and clarity. In this video, Thais explores what grief truly is not just the loss of physical presence, but the loss of the needs, identities, and parts of ourselves that were expressed in relationship to those we loved. Drawing from neuroscience, attachment theory, and somatic processing, she introduces five powerful pillars to help you move through grief without suppressing emotions or getting stuck in painful stories. Whether you're grieving a pet, a loved one, or another meaningful loss, this episode offers tools you can return to again and again especially during moments when grief resurfaces unexpectedly. Key Takeaways • Why grief is love with nowhere to go and how to give it a new place • How to practice self-attunement when emotions feel intense or overwhelming • The role attachment wounds and subconscious stories play in prolonging grief • How to identify the needs your relationship met and meet them in new ways • Why grief isn't just about who you lost, but who you got to be with them • How to stay connected to memories in a healthy, grounding way without getting stuck in the past Timestamps 00:00 – Processing Grief 00:57 – Losing a Pet 04:27 – The Backstory: Simba 10:37 – Grief Is the Void Left by Non-Physical Loss 12:39 – Grief as the Mind & Body's Response to Loss 14:22 – 1. Practice Self-Attunement 21:29 – 2. Examine the Stories You Tell Yourself 28:04 – Could There Be Another Truth? 30:22 – Somatic Course Promo 30:42 – We Attach to the Needs They Met 36:46 – 3. Identify Needs & Meet Them in New Ways 37:53 – 4. Express the Most Sacred Parts of Yourself 44:23 – 5A. Healthy Connection Without Living in the Past 47:23 – 5B. Healthy, Sustained Connection 50:02 – Summary Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
Keltie gets deep. Like heal-your-relationships-and-your-inner-child deep. She sits down with attachment theory expert Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, to break down how your subconscious mind has been quietly running the show in your relationships. They unpack how identify your attachment style and why the way you loved (or didn't) as a kid still shows up in your relationships. Thais explains between core wounds vs core needs, the childhood patterns that turn us into people-pleasers, what secure love is actually supposed to feel like, how fear of abandonment sneaks into relationships, and the one question you should ask yourself before starting an argument with your partner.
Do you know how much your subconscious patterns are quietly shaping your relationships, reactions, and everyday life? Victoria sits down with Thais Gibson, PhD, renowned attachment theory expert, researcher, and founder of the Personal Development School, for a grounded, eye-opening masterclass on attachment, emotional healing, and the subconscious mind. Thais breaks down the four attachment styles and her six practical paths to healing, while Victoria experiences a vulnerable, real-time emotional unlock that brings the science into lived experience. Tune in if you want to understand your triggers, shift long-standing relationship patterns, and learn actionable tools to build more secure attachment in your relationships and daily life.Want to go deeper? Check out the Personal Development School at personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off her 90-day Attachment Healing Membership.Follow Thais on Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschoolPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
On today's episode, I'm joined by Thais Gibson for a clear, compassionate conversation about attachment theory and how it shapes the way you love, communicate, and relate in every area of life. We break down what attachment really is — the subconscious “rules” you learned about love and safety — and how it shows up in friendships, romantic relationships, and even family dynamics. Thais explains the four main attachment styles (secure, anxious, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant), what drives each pattern, and how childhood experiences and repeated emotional conditioning shape your nervous system. We also explore how attachment can shift in adulthood, and why your conscious mind alone can't out-will old subconscious habits. Thais shares practical tools for healing, including nervous system regulation, boundary building, and rewiring your beliefs through consistent emotional practice. Whether you relate to anxious attachment, avoidant patterns, or you're seeking a more secure way of relating, this episode offers insightful, actionable guidance for building healthier relationships and deeper self-awareness. Enjoy!To connect with Siff on Instagram, click HERE.To connect with Siff on Tiktok, click HERE.To learn more about Arrae, click HERE. To check out Siff's LTK, click HERE.To check out Siff's Amazon StoreFront, click HERE. To connect with Thais on Instagram, click HERE.To check out The Personal Development School, click HERE.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.PDS2026 for 20% off of the Personal Development School 90 day attachment healing membership.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Life Coach Business Building Podcast, The Business Building Boutique
The 2026 Design Live Thrive Summit brings together 25+ expert coaches for three days of live transformation, February 12-14. This free virtual event is designed for women ready to step into their purpose with clarity and confidence. In this pre-summit episode, Debbie Shadid and Thais Glenn introduce you to seven more incredible speakers who will guide you through real strategies that create lasting change. These coaches bring both professional expertise and lived experience. They've walked the path themselves.Here's what you'll discover at the summit:Breaking free from food addiction when you know what to do but can't follow through with Glenna Lashley, faith-based weight loss coach and family nurse practitioner who lost 255 pounds and kept it off for 8 yearsNavigating the financial and emotional complexities of widowhood with clarity and confidence with Kathleen Stapleton, CFP®, Registered Investment Advisor, insurance and tax advisorUnderstanding what's really happening with your hormones and metabolism after 50 when doctors say "everything looks normal" with Norma Rivera, functional health practitionerHealing and returning to work after pregnancy loss when the workplace offers minimal support with Lisa Kelly, grief coach specializing in workplace griefReclaiming your health, energy, and identity when chronic health challenges have left you feeling lost with Sharon Hoyland, female health identity coach and registered nurseResetting your life in midlife by organizing your time, space, and mindset with Monique Horb, professional organizer and life coachFinding life balance and giving yourself grace through major life transitions with Nicole Williams, life coach and mindset transformation coachShifting to a future self mindset and aligning your present with the life you want to create with Thais Glenn, mindset coach and summit co-hostBuilding a profitable boutique coaching business and discovering what it takes to become a coach with Debbie Shadid, business coach and summit hostEach coach has developed proven frameworks to help you create the transformation you're seeking.Saturday features an exclusive two-hour event for coaches only, where Debbie and Thais will teach you how to build a boutique-style coaching business that attracts ideal clients and creates sustainable income.Register free at designlivethrive.com. Upgrade to VIP for just $27 to schedule 30-minute coaching sessions with any speaker and access replays for a full year.Save your seat now: designlivethrive.comConnect with DebbieWebsite: https://www.debbieshadid.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/debbieshadid/Listen to the podcast Life Coach Business Building School: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/life-coach-business-building-school-with-debbie-shadid/id1502118085Don't forget to subscribe for weekly episodes on coaching business strategy for women over 50, tech tools for coaches, and simple businessTired of spinning in indecision about what to post, how to sell your coaching, or explain what you do? This is your moment!Join me for a live edition of Fast Track + VIP coaching experiences where you'll get real-time feedback on your niche, offers, and marketing, plus the clarity and support you've been looking for.Spots are limited and enrollment closes soon.Let's connect → DebbieShadid.com/schedule
In this conversation, Jon Fogel and Thais Gibson delve into the complexities of attachment styles and their impact on relationships and parenting. Thais shares her personal journey from experiencing a fearful avoidant attachment style to understanding and teaching about attachment theory. They discuss the dynamics of different attachment styles, how they manifest in relationships, and the importance of self-awareness and emotional regulation. Thais provides practical tools for rewiring attachment wounds and emphasizes the significance of treating oneself well to foster healthier relationships. The conversation concludes with resources for further exploration and personal development.Send us a textSupport the showLinks to help you and me: To support the Podcast, Subscribe on Substack Get Jon's Top Five Emotional Regulation Games Get Jon's Book Punishment-Free Parenting Preorder Jon's Children's Book Set My Feelings Free Follow Whole Parent on Instagram, Tiktok, Facebook, Youtube
Get the Somatic Attachment Healing Course FREE for life when you start your 7-Day Trial of the All-Access Pass. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/somatic-attachment-healing?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=somatic-attachment-healing&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-01-31-26&el=podcast If Your Daughter Has Stopped Talking to You… It's easy to believe that silence means rejection, but in most cases, it means hurt, confusion, and protective walls, not a lack of love. Drawing from her personal story and over a decade of clinical experience, Thais explains why children disconnect, what not to do when trying to reconnect, and how small, consistent actions can begin rebuilding emotional safety. What You'll Learn in This Video: Why silence doesn't mean your relationship is doomed How learned helplessness keeps reconnection stuck The hidden danger of over explaining your side How to reconnect through your child's emotional needs Why processing your own hurt is essential How accountability rebuilds trust over time TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – If Your Daughter Has Stopped Talking to You 01:01 – Your Relationship Isn't Doomed Forever 01:42 – Thais' Story 10:06 – 1. You Have to Get Out of Learned Helplessness 13:10 – 2. Explaining Your Point of View Can Take the Focus Away From Your Child 16:51 – Somatic Course Promo 17:11 – 3. Learn to Connect to Your Child's Needs 19:26 – 4. Process Your Own Hurt Around the Situation 24:39 – 5. Honor and Be Accountable for Your Past Mistakes Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
“Everything that's difficult that happens in our lives, especially in relationships, is showing us to ourselves. It's showing us where we have some healing to do or something to work out or fear to overcome.” – Thais GibsonToday's featured bestselling bookcaster is a researcher, relationship expert, keynote speaker, creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory™, and the founder of The Personal Development School, Thais Gibson. Thais and I had a fun on a bun chat about her books, her journey from overcoming addiction to creating the Integrated Attachment Theory, embracing continuous learning, and tons more!!Key Things You'll Learn:How Thais turned her intense beginnings into a source of growth for herself and othersHow challenges can be powerful catalysts for transformationWhat the Integrated Attachment Theory is The four attachment styles and how they shape our relationshipsThree major lessons learned from starting, growing, and running her podcastThais' Site: https://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com/Thais' Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B084T619HN/allbooksThais' Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-thais-gibson-podcast/id1478580185The opening track is titled, “Unknown From M.E. | Sonic Adventure 2 ~ City Pop Remix” by Iridium Beats. To listen to and download the full track, click the following link. https://www.patreon.com/posts/sonic-adventure-136084016 Please support today's podcast to keep this content coming! CashApp: $DomBrightmonDonate on PayPal: @DBrightmonBuy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/dombrightmonGet Going North T-Shirts, Stickers, and More: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/dom-brightmonThe Going North Advancement Compass: https://a.co/d/bA9awotYou May Also Like…785 – The Enjoyment Gap with Mandy Barbee Lanier: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-785-the-enjoyment-gap-with-mandy-barbee-lanier-mandyblanier/983 – How Neuroscience Can Fuel Your Book & Life Success with Sara Connell (@saracconnell): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/saracconnell/972 – How Embracing Discomfort Transforms Your Relationship with Yourself with Anna Shilina: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-972-how-embracing-discomfort-transforms-your-relationship-with-yourself-with-anna-shilina-an/455.5 – From Triggered to Tranquil with Dr. Susan Campbell: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-4555-from-triggered-to-tranquil-with-dr-susan-campbell-drsusan99/411 – Name That Mouse with David Wood: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-411-name-that-mouse-with-david-wood-_focusceo/1011 – Hardwired to Rise with Amy Koford: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1011-hardwired-to-rise-with-amy-koford-amykoford/777 – Attract & Manifest Good Luck with Victoria Marie Gallagher: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-777-attract-manifest-good-luck-with-victoria-marie-gallagher-loahypnotist/1031 – How Leaning Into Conflict Unlocks Growth and Legacy-Level Influence with Dana Lynn Bernstein: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-1031-how-leaning-into-conflict-unlocks-growth-and-legacy-level-influence-with-dana-lynn-bernst/899 – How to Turn Disputes into Growth Opportunities with Kat Newport: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-899-how-to-turn-disputes-into-growth-opportunities-with-kat-newport/691 – How to Spark Your Heart and Ignite Your Life with Hilary DeCesare: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-691-how-to-spark-your-heart-and-ignite-your-life-with-hilary-decesare-hilarydecesare/#M2M Bonus – From Disco Queen to Divine Angel with Sister Dr. Jenna (@americameditate): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/m2m-bonus-from-disco-queen-to-divine-angel-with-sister-dr-jenna-americameditate/769 – No More Faking It with Magda Kay: https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/ep-769-no-more-faking-it-with-magda-kay/170 - Live & Love Beyond Your Dreams with Riana Milne (@RianaMilne): https://www.goingnorthpodcast.com/170-live-love-beyond-your-dreams-with-riana-milne-rianamilne/
Attachment styles are everywhere — but what do they actually mean, and how much do they shape the way we love? This week, Scheana is joined by leading attachment theory expert Thais Gibson (founder of The Personal Development School) to break down the four attachment styles, why our adult relationships mirror our earliest bonds, and how insecurity shows up in communication, conflict, and connection. Scheana opens up about learning she's securely attached, while her husband Brock discovered he has a fearful avoidant attachment style — sparking an honest conversation about what it really takes to make different styles work together. Thais explains why attachment styles aren't fixed, how patterns like people-pleasing, self-sabotage, and emotional withdrawal form, and what actually helps move toward secure attachment. This episode isn't about labels or blame — it's about awareness, responsibility, and doing the work. If you've ever wondered why certain relationship patterns keep repeating, this conversation might explain everything.Visit university.personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off of the Personal Development School's 90-Day Attachment Healing membership.Follow us: @scheana @scheananigans Guest: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool Purchase your very own copy of the NYT Best-selling book and audiobook MY GOOD SIDE at www.mygoodsidebook.com!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This conversation felt like therapy, but better, and I'm so excited to share it! I'm joined by Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, for a deep, emotional conversation about attachment theory and how it affects all aspects of our lives, far beyond just romantic relationships. Thais breaks down the four attachment styles, digs into how they're formed, and how they can shift over time - especially after major life events and loss. She explains why so many of us feel like we could be "all of them", how to identify our core patterns through wounds, needs, boundaries, and nervous system regulation, and why the relationships we choose often mirror the relationship we have with ourselves. Once we identify which style we fall into, she dives into the part that matters most: How to actually change your attachment style and the steps we all can take to rewire our brains to heal.This episode is filled with tools for building real self-trust and meeting your own needs, so you can stop living from a place of fear, hyper vigilance, or feeling "not good enough". Thank you so much, Thais. I loved this talk so much!Take the free attachment style quiz at PersonalDevelopmentSchool.com and receive an in-depth attachment style report and discover the exact steps you can take to heal your attachment style. Use code PDS25 for 20% off The Personal Development School's All Access Pass This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Why do we want the people who give us the least clarity? Why do situationships feel addictive, and emotionally unavailable partners feel magnetic?In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, breaks down attachment styles and how they shape attraction, chemistry, boundaries, and relationship patterns. We discuss anxious attachment, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, and secure attachment, when attachment styles begin, and why they can change throughout life.We also explore the difference between chemistry and trauma bonding, why we're drawn to our repressed traits, the six stages of relationships, and why nervous system work alone isn't enough to create secure relationships. Thais shares the five pillars to change your attachment style, common triggers and boundary patterns for each style, and the practical steps to becoming securely attached.If you're stuck in mixed signals, repeating relationship patterns, or craving clarity in love, this episode will help you understand why, and what to do differently.Visit university.personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off of the Personal Development School's 90-Day Attachment Healing membership.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Embrace Breakthroughs With The “Heal From a Breakup” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-breakup-course?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=dream-life-breakup-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=2-8b2uZBfe8&utm_content=yt-01-24-26&el=youtube In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode, Thais Gibson shares her long and complex physical health journey from chronic illness in childhood to discovering root causes as an adult through functional and integrative approaches. This conversation is not about giving medical advice. It's about sharing lived experience, connecting the dots between nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and physical well-being, and helping others feel less alone if they've been struggling with unexplained or chronic symptoms. Thais opens up about her childhood health challenges, early adulthood, and the physical symptoms that persisted even after deep emotional and psychological healing. She shares what led her to explore functional medicine, advanced testing, and lifestyle changes and how understanding her body transformed her quality of life. This episode explores: Growing up with chronic illness and allergies How early life experiences shaped resilience and self-awareness The role of functional medicine and root-cause testing Discoveries around mold exposure, inflammation, and nervous system health What ultimately supported her healing journey This is a story about listening to your body, advocating for yourself, and integrating mind–body healing. Key Takeaways Chronic symptoms can become “normal” when they start early in life Emotional healing and physical healing often need to happen together Functional and root-cause approaches helped uncover missing pieces Regulation, awareness, and self-support play a role in overall well-being You're not broken, sometimes your body is asking to be understood Timestamps 00:00 – Intro 00:55 – Thais' Physical Health Journey 03:46 – Thais' Childhood and Youth 09:00 – Thais' Early Adult Life 17:22 – Getting Into Functional Medicine 21:15 – Heal From a Breakup Course Promo 21:51 – Mycotoxin and Organic Acids Test Results 31:39 – Mast Cell Activation Syndrome 34:41 – What Helped Thais Heal 43:38 – Final Takeaways Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
You know those moments when you KNOW you're self-sabotaging, you feel the same triggers come up in every relationship, or you second-guess if you're “too much” or “not enough”… but you can't figure out WHY? Girl, you are not alone. Today we are diving into the juicy, sometimes messy, but always REAL world of attachment styles… with none other than the legend herself, Thais Gibson, queen of making neuroscience and relationships make SENSE. I'm coming for every anxious thought, every “do I text him back or run for the hills?” crisis, and all things Girl Gang growth. Plus, Thais is giving you the science and practical quiz to decode your attachment style, as we do it together, live and in real time. No therapy jargon here. We talk: Real-life family drama (We get deep on the Brooklyn Beckham controversy) What to do when YOU'RE the one with the avoidant, anxious, or even fearful avoidant traits (spoiler: you can change, homie) The messy process of setting boundaries (and accidentally overreacting, then feeling guilty #beenthere) The difference between a dismissive avoidant and a narcissist (it's not the same and we break it DOWN) Why you keep attracting the same toxic relationships (and what to actually do about it, step by step) How to rewire your attachment style… even if it feels impossible after years of baggage and bear-in-the-woods-level triggers (if you know, you know) If you want to finally understand yourself, your partners, and stop the self-sabotage spiral, this episode is your roadmap. Say goodbye to drama and hello to high-value relationships and self-love. Thank you to our sponsors: Found: Open a Found account for FREE at http://found.com Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Daily Look: 50% code WOI https://dailylook.com FOLLOW THAIS GIBSON: Website: https://personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool FOLLOW ME FOR UPDATES & FUTURE LIVES: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Ed interviews Thanita 'Ninar' Wongprasert, an old student of his and former guest on the show in 2018. On the earlier show she came on to talk about gay rights and same sex marriage in Thailand, and the two begin the interview with a high five to celebrate the eventual passage of gay marriage laws in Thailand. Ninar then discusses her work with various international NGOs and agencies of the UN. She was able to work on multiple issues, from the ozone layer to cyber security among others, and focused mostly on public information campaigns. Ed asks her about the transition from their international program to a prestigious organization such as the UN, and Ninar notes that building out her resume was a big project, but once she did that, she sailed right in. Ed then asks about Ninar's new project, which is a type of consulting project that helps people find their purpose in life. To some extent, there is a focus on young people and helping them find a job that is truly meaningful to them, AND that will still be needed in the age of AI. But Ninar makes clear that they will advise clients of all ages, even if it's a retiree looking for a new hobby. This segues into a discussion of Gen Z and the Thai education system and how Ed does his best to teach Thai students to think for themselves. Ed ends by pointing out that of all of his students in 17 years, Ninar is the ONLY student ever to get a perfect 100 on an essay exam. Yay Ninar!
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You keep trying to change... but keep slipping back into old patterns. Why? In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson breaks down why limiting beliefs run your life — and how to finally rewire them using her 3-step subconscious reprogramming method. Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and bestselling author known for her revolutionary work around attachment theory, subconscious healing, and reprogramming beliefs. This conversation is a must-listen if you've ever struggled with procrastination, repeating unhealthy patterns, or wondering why you feel stuck when you know better.
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The Bangkok Podcast | Conversations on Life in Thailand's Buzzing Capital
Greg and Ed discuss Ed's new class at his Thai university: "Contemporary Thai Society in the Modern World." The guys have a laugh at the thought of a white guy from Ohio teaching young Thais about their own country, but Ed notes that he has been living in Thailand as an adult for 25 years, whereas his students are only 18-20 years old. One point for Ed! Further, there's considerable value to getting an 'outsider' view of one's own country. Greg admits that his knowledge of his own birth country is scant in many ways. Ed and Greg banter about different topics that should be covered. Ed notes that there are a few gimmes: the upcoming election is perfect fodder for the class, and the 'Middle Income Trap' is a much discussed problem in the development of the Thai economy. The guys weigh the pros and cons of discussing the darker side to Thai society, such gambling and prostitution, with Ed admitting he hasn't made up his mind yet. Greg talks about his brave attempt at a 'Facts About Thailand' quiz that Ed gave his students on the first day of class, and Ed scores his quiz. Greg got 36 questions out of 50 correct (apparently spot on with Greg's actual academic performance!). If you are interested in taking the quiz yourself, follow the link here. If you beat Greg's score, he'll personally send you a gift card for Central Department Store worth 10,000 baht!* *this is not even remotely true.
Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingOrder Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from AmazonJoin Our Patreon CommunityTake the Emotional Safety Assessment QuizWhy do couples swear they'll “do better next time” — and then fall into the exact same fights again?In this episode, we're joined by Thais Gibson, leading attachment theory expert and founder of The Personal Development School, to unpack why relationship change often doesn't stick — and what actually works at the subconscious and nervous system level.We talk about how attachment styles, core wounds, and nervous system responses quietly drive conflict, shutdown, and disconnection — even when both partners deeply care. Thais shares practical tools for rewiring attachment patterns so couples and individuals can move toward secure attachment, emotional safety, and real connection.If you've ever felt stuck, triggered, or discouraged because insight alone hasn't changed your relationship, this conversation will give you hope and concrete next steps.In This Episode, We Cover:Why insight and “trying harder” don't change relationship patternsHow attachment wounds form — and why they repeat in adult relationshipsThe difference between subconscious vs. unconscious patternsWhy couples fight about surface issues (like laundry or tone) when the real pain runs deeperHow anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachment styles experience conflict differentlyThe role of the nervous system in emotional shutdown, defensiveness, and reactivityA step-by-step tool for rewiring core attachment wounds using memory, imagery, and emotionWhy affirmations often fail — and what works insteadHow partners unknowingly validate each other's deepest fearsWhat secure attachment actually looks like in real relationships (not perfection)Key Takeaways:You're not broken — your nervous system learned patterns to surviveMost relationship conflict is driven by subconscious meaning, not the present momentAttachment styles can be rewired, not just managedEmotional safety changes behavior faster than logicSecure attachment is a skill, not a personality traitAbout Our GuestThais Gibson is a globally recognized expert in attachment theory and the founder of The Personal Development School, where she has helped millions of people understand and rewire their relationship patterns. Her work integrates neuroscience, attachment theory, and practical tools for lasting emotional change.Resources Mentioned:Free Attachment Style Quiz: https://www.personaldevelopmentschool.comYouTube: Thais Gibson – Personal Development SchoolInstagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschoolWho This Episode Is ForCouples who feel disconnected but still careIndividuals stuck in repeating relationship patternsAnyone curious about attachment theory beyond surface-level explanationsPartners who want real tools — not just insightSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Start 2026 With Secure Love & True Emotional Wholeness. Get a Free 7-day Trial and keep our Key Pillars for a Secure Relationship Course ($250 Value) FREE for Life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/new-year-new-you?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-01-07-26&el=podcast If you have an Anxious Attachment style, the urge to get closure from someone who pulled away, ghosted you, or shut down can feel overwhelming. But chasing closure from the wrong person often keeps you stuck, emotionally drained, and unable to move on. In this video, Thais Gibson explains why seeking closure isn't actually the need and what to do instead to regain emotional stability, certainty, and peace.
Start 2026 With Secure Love & True Emotional Wholeness. Get a Free 7-day Trial and keep our Key Pillars for a Secure Relationship Course ($250 Value) FREE for Life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/new-year-new-you?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=new-year-new-you&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-01-05-26&el=podcast If you have a Fearful Avoidant attachment style, the people you feel drawn to are not random. They are often deeply connected to your subconscious comfort zone, nervous system conditioning, and unhealed emotional wounds. In this video, Thais Gibson explains the four most common archetypes Fearful Avoidants are attracted to and exactly what each attraction reveals about where you are in your healing journey and what needs to shift to move toward secure attachment.
Unlock Clarity, Healing, and Emotional Freedom This Boxing Week With Thais Gibson. Start your FREE 7-day trial to the Personal Development School and get the Healing Family Dynamics Course ($250 Value) FREE for Life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/healing-family-dynamics-flashsale?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=healing-family-dynamics-flashsale&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-29-25&el=podcast Do you feel yourself pulling away when someone gets close — only to panic when they create distance? This hot and cold cycle is one of the most painful and confusing patterns of the Fearful Avoidant attachment style. In this video, Thais Gibson explains exactly why this cycle happens, what's really being triggered beneath the surface, and how to finally break free from it in a healthy, secure way. If you've ever felt stuck in make-up and break-up dynamics, struggled to settle into relationships, or felt overwhelmed by closeness and distance at the same time — this episode is for you. Fearful Avoidants often experience intense emotional polarities — craving closeness while simultaneously fearing it. In this episode, Thais breaks down: • Why Fearful Avoidants feel overwhelmed when partners pursue them • Why distance can suddenly trigger anxiety and chasing behaviors • How unresolved childhood core wounds fuel hot-and-cold relationship cycles • Why pushing someone away feels like “relief” — but leads to regret later • How emotional literacy, boundaries, and subconscious healing change everything You'll learn how these patterns form, why they repeat, and what it actually takes to feel safe, settled, and secure in relationships — without losing yourself. ✨ Key Takeaways • Why Fearful Avoidants struggle to trust and settle into relationships • How core wounds like abandonment, entrapment, and unworthiness get activated • The real reason behind make-up and break-up cycles • Why pushing someone away is a trauma response — not a true desire • How to identify needs instead of reacting from fear • The role of subconscious reprogramming in lasting healing • What healthy bonding actually looks like for Fearful Avoidants ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – Hot and Cold Patterns 00:49 – The Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style 01:40 – Fearful Avoidants Struggle to Settle Into Relationships 03:49 – When Core Wounds Get Triggered 05:57 – Boxing Week: Sex Course Promo 06:42 – The Make Up and Breakup Cycle 09:22 – Healing Your Core Wounds Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
If you've ever struggled with challenges in your relationships, emotional triggers, or just feeling stuck in old patterns, you're not alone. Those cycles are hard to break, and it often feels like no matter how hard you try, you end up repeating the same behaviors, sabotaging your goals with limiting beliefs. But as today's guest reveals, you're not broken; this is your subconscious telling you that you're ready to heal. Thais Gibson, PhD, is an author, researcher, and founder of The Personal Development School, whose groundbreaking work has helped millions of people unravel emotional blocks, heal core wounds, and defeat the limiting beliefs that quietly sabotage our lives. Thais is certified in more than a dozen therapeutic modalities and has an extraordinary ability to take complex neuroscience and translate it into simple, actionable tools that anyone can use to change their life from the inside out. In our conversation, Thais explains the science behind why we get stuck, how childhood conditioning shapes our adult identity, and why willpower alone will never prevail when your subconscious beliefs are working against you. Thais also shares a powerful 21-day reprogramming method and her step-by-step process for creating lasting emotional and behavioral changes. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, frustrated, or stuck in your personal growth, this episode will show you how to reclaim your confidence and inner strength, and you can get started today. KEY TAKEAWAYS Thais' Podcast Experience with Mel Robbins You're Not Broken, You're Ready to Heal How Your Subconscious Mind Shapes Your Life A More Effective Method for Daily Affirmations Why Core Wounds Become Self-Fulfilling The Real Reason We Self-Sabotage How Repetition and Emotions Rewire Our Brains Reprogramming Tools To Heal Emotions Faster How to Identify Your Limiting Beliefs Why Vocalizing Positive Thoughts Rewires Your Mind Accepting Reality vs. Resisting Reality How Our Brain Gives Meaning To Emotional Trauma A Step-By-Step Framework to Rewire Your Brain Incremental Repetition Makes A Huge Difference How to Learn More From Thais Gibson Get The Full Show Notes To get full access to today's show notes, including audio, transcript, and links to all the resources mentioned, visit MiracleMorning.com/617 Subscribe, Rate & Review I would love if you could subscribe to the podcast and leave an honest rating & review. This will encourage other people to listen and allow us to grow as a community. The bigger we get as a community, the bigger the impact we can have on the world. To subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on iTunes, visit HalElrod.com/iTunes. Connect with Hal Elrod Facebook Twitter Instagram YouTube Copyright © 2025 Miracle Morning, LP and International Literary Properties LLC
Relationships aren't just about chemistry or communication — they're shaped by the attachment style running the show behind-the-scenes. This week, JVN sits down with author, educator, and founder of The Personal Development School, Thais Gibson, to break down the four core attachment styles and how they shape the way we love, communicate, and connect. If you're trying to make sense of the way you are in any relationship, this episode gives you the roadmap to understand yourself more deeply and build the connections you actually want. From early childhood patterns to the subconscious programs we carry into adulthood, Thais explains how our nervous system learns to stay safe — and how we can recondition it to build healthier, more secure bonds. They're digging into the traits of secure, anxious, dismissive, and fearful-avoidant attachment, how to identify your style, and how each one impacts intimacy, conflict, boundaries, and communication. Thais also shares the five pillars for transforming your relationships, practical tools for rewiring old habits, and why positive framing at work can shift your entire dynamic. Full Getting Better Video Episodes now available on YouTube. Follow Thais Gibson on Instagram @thepersonaldevelopmentschool Follow Getting Better on Instagram @gettingbetterwithjvn Follow Jonathan on Instagram @jvn Check out the JVN Patreon for exclusive BTS content, extra interviews, and much much more - check it out here: www.patreon.com/jvn Senior Producer, Chris McClure Producer, Editor & Engineer is Nathanael McClure Production support: Chad Hall Our theme music is also composed by Nathanael McClure. Curious about bringing your brand to life on the show? Email podcastadsales@sonymusic.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices