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Welcome to Find the Joy with Jenn, the podcast where we explore stories of resilience, growth, and faith to help you FIND the joy in your journey. I'm your host, Jenn Zingmark, and today, I am thrilled to welcome a special guest, Hope Ray! Hope is a therapist and the creator of Complex Partner Trauma Magazine, a publication for women betrayed by intimate deception. She hosts Women Who Discover, a private podcast about infidelity and betrayal available on her website, along with Getting D.I.R.E. Straight, her signature program for men who are resolute in recovery and desire to build trust and safety in their marriages. Today, we'll explore what defines betrayal, how it affects both partners, and what true healing looks like—whether that's rebuilding trust in a relationship or finding personal peace. This conversation is for you no matter where you are on this journey. • Learn more about my guest Hope Ray HERE: https://www.hoperay.com/ • Join me for a FREE WORKSHOP: 5 Things I Wish I Knew Before My LDS Divorce.

Sponsored by Harford County Health Department In this powerful episode of Conversations with Rich Bennett, drug prevention expert Ray Lozano shares his deeply personal journey growing up in a family affected by addiction. From witnessing the devastating effects of drugs on his loved ones to dedicating his life to educating youth and parents, Ray delivers eye-opening insights on how to effectively talk to kids about substance abuse. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand addiction, prevention strategies, and the emotional impact of substance use on families. Guest: Ray Lozano Ray Lozano is a nationally recognized drug prevention expert, speaker, and educator with over 30 years of experience. Known for his engaging and humorous approach, Ray has delivered thousands of presentations across the U.S., helping students, parents, and educators understand the science of addiction and how to prevent substance abuse. As the founder of Prevention Plus, he specializes in breaking down complex drug and alcohol topics into relatable, impactful lessons that inspire change. Main TSend us a textBig Timing Comedy Presents Ryan Lina The Silliest Goose Comedy Special - Big Timing ComedyJoin us for a night of hilarity as Harford County's own Ryan Lina, films his first comedy special! After 8 years of delighting audiences in clubs and colleges, Ryan is bringing his unique brand of humor to the stage for an unforgettable night.Tickets are for access to the comedy show.&n Emily Adolph and Ona Crow are the co-creators of Nourish & Connect, an event designed to foster meaningful connections in a supportive and empowering environment. NOURISH & CONNECT – The Soul LiftHarford County Health DepartmentTo protect, promote, and improve the health, safety, and environment of Harford County residents.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showRate & Review on Apple Podcasts Follow the Conversations with Rich Bennett podcast on Social Media:Facebook – Conversations with Rich Bennett Facebook Group (Join the conversation) – Conversations with Rich Bennett podcast group | FacebookTwitter – Conversations with Rich Bennett Instagram – @conversationswithrichbennettTikTok – CWRB (@conversationsrichbennett) | TikTok Sponsors, Affiliates, and ways we pay the bills:Hosted on BuzzsproutRocketbookSquadCast Contests & Giveaways Subscribe by Email

In this episode, we welcome Hope Ray, a Licensed Professional Counselor who coined Betrayal Violence. Hope is a leader in the field of betrayal trauma, offering deep insights into the effects of secrecy, deception, and relational power imbalances. She is also the creator of Complex Partner Trauma magazine, available on Amazon, which provides resources and support for betrayed partners.Throughout our conversation, we dive into Reality Collapse, the disorientation that betrayed partners experience, and explore how betrayal violence impacts healing and recovery. Hope shares her expertise on recognizing and navigating these complex emotional experiences, helping listeners regain clarity and reclaim their sense of reality.Key Takeaways from the Episode:

In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie talks with her friend, colleague and author of the Complex Partner Trauma magazine, Hope Ray, about integrity abuse and betrayal violence. With compassion, Marnie and Hope have a brutally honest conversation about the power and control dynamics present in relationships where betrayal has occurred.  Recognizing and acknowledging abusive behaviors, especially those tied to deceptive sexuality, is a challenging but crucial step toward healing. It requires a deep level of self-awareness and honesty, as well as a willingness to confront difficult truths about one's actions and their impact on others. This process can be painful but is essential for personal growth and the restoration of trust and relationships.

Welcome to Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships with Dan Drake and guests Wendy Conquest, Jeannie Vittone, and Tim Stein. Today, they delve into the challenging topic of betrayal violence with therapist and magazine creator Hope Ray. Hope introduces the concept, defining betrayal violence as a complex dynamic involving secrecy, repeated fidelity violations, and abusive behavior.

In this insightful conversation, Hope Ray discusses her work with men in a support group called Getting Dire Straight, where they delve into sensitive topics like male entitlement and misogyny.

In this episode, we speak with special guest Hope Ray on the dynamics of power and control in relationships affected by addiction and betrayal. We discuss how withholding essential information creates a power imbalance and restricts a partner's agency, ultimately leading to exploitation and harm. The conversation emphasizes the importance of transparency and informed consent in rebuilding trust and fostering healthy relationships post-recovery.

There was this popular video from the Daily Show where Desi talks about how she's trying to understand the male experience better by acting like a man: getting paid more for no reason, interrupting people more, mansplaining, and gaslighting via invalidating the other person's feelings and telling them to calm down & don't act crazy. And while it is funny, it's taking on a serious topic – misogyny. In today's episode, I have a special guest who is doing ground-breaking work on the topic of a VERY specific type of domestic abuse. She has named this Betrayal Violence. And we're going to dig into not only what misogyny is, but unapologetically talk about internalized misogyny. If you're new here, I wanted to encourage you to go to my website and sign up for my newsletter – that way you can be in the know about any conferences I'm speaking at, specials I'm running, or new programs I'm releasing. And whether you're new here or been with me since the beginning, I'm so glad you're here. Bio: My guest today is Hope Ray, of the Betrayal Violence Institute (website)Story Time: Sarah and Hope discuss the difference between misogyny, chauvinism and sexism, and get curious about how misogyny and internalize misogyny show up - and, most importantly, how we can unknowingly perpetuate it. Chauvinism: the unreasonable belief in the superiority or dominance of one's own group or people, who are seen as strong and virtuous, while others are considered weak, unworthy, or inferior. Sexism: the belief that the members of one sex are less intelligent, able, skilful, etc. than the members of the other sex, especially that women are less able than men Internalized misogyny is a subconscious way of degrading yourself and other women based on sexist ideas of how women should act, dress or speak.

Trust is essential in healthy relationships, yet it is shattered by betrayal. Rebuilding that broken trust can feel impossible. In this episode, Alana tackles head-on the messy complexities around trust after betrayal. She offers insight into power imbalances, avoiding the dangerous “floating saint” trap, boundary setting, embracing imperfection, and more. With patience, help, and healing, you can learn to trust again. Listen to learn: How power differentials play into trust How an understanding of betrayal violence can give you a framework for thinking about trust What a “floating saint” is and how this can unintentionally create more mistrust  The role of authenticity when working to cultivate trust Referenced in this episode: Past episodes on trust: Trusting Yourself First and Building Trust in the Relationship What is Betrayal Violence? - Past episode with Hope Ray from the Betrayal Violence Institute “Are You On the Coaster?” - YouTube video from Dr. Jake Porter Past episodes on boundaries: Beginning Boundaries Starting With Me, Boundaries and Why I Must Own My Reality, and Boundaries and Non-Negotiables Coming Up! Help.Her.Heal - This course helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain the skills needed to begin healing a broken relationship. Two sessions will be beginning soon. Learn more about the course and register HERE. More from Choose Recovery Services Choose Healing - Betrayal Trauma Support for Women - This weekly support group is for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help to cope with the symptoms of trauma, and is free for the first 6 weeks. Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn key principles, tools, and concepts that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again. Healing Hearts - This 15-week couples course is a comprehensive program designed for early-recovery and healing couples to learn and experience valuable insights together. It focuses on partner betrayal trauma and sexual integrity issues or addiction. ⁠Empowerment After Betrayal for Men⁠ - Hali Roderick leads a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community. Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity and/or betrayal. Participants will gain tools and an understanding to better manage emotions and assess behaviors. Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Choose 360 for Men - Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and camaraderie. Road to Recovery - Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery. Choosing to Stay Webinar - Hali Roderick teaches this free monthly webinar for couples choosing to stay together after infidelity.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with us on Social Media: Alana Gordon - MFTIntern, CCPS-C Amie Woolsey - Life Coach CPC, ICF, ELI-MP, CLDS, APSATS Trainee Choose Recovery Services

Imani and Dr. Kate talk about a new area of research that explores the Impact of a Child's sexual victimization on the lives and sex lives of the parents of the child. This traumatic event for the child can take it's toll on the parents as well. Feelings of guilt, concern for their child's mental health, shock, can all lead to a breakdown of communication and little interest in sexual activity with their partner. Imani Reynolds is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the state of California and a board-certified sexologist. Imani is currently a doctoral student in Human Sexuality with research focused on sexual desire, sexual intimacy, and sexual trauma. Email your questions to: question@getnakedpodcast.com The Get Naked Podcast listeners can download a free printable booklet from Hope Ray about betrayal violence here: www.hoperay.com/getnaked  Stay Connected with Dr. Kate: IG: https://www.instagram.com/themodernintimacy/ https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieri/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/drkatebalestrieri/ https://www.tiktok.com/modernintimacy/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Hope Ray, LPC CSAT CHFP CCPS is a therapist, theoretician and the pioneer of Complex Partner Trauma (CPT), a complete framework that pinpoints the endangerment betrayed partners face when their significant others use abusive deception to hide fidelity violating behavior. In 2023, Hope established the Betrayal Violence Institute (BVI) an interdisciplinary network that provides definitions and education for mental health clinicians + coaches, medical + legal professionals, faith-based + community organizations, and general society to better understand the conduct and impact of secret infidelity in intimate relationships. Hope is the creator of Complex Partner Trauma Magazine, a publication for betrayed women and the host of Women Who Discover, a private podcast about infidelity betrayal available on her website along with other programs and resources. Today we are talking about Hope's new model for understanding chronic infidelity that positions it as violence. Dr. Kate and Hope talk about the definition of betrayal violence, which is not usually physical violence, but emotional violence. It is about keeping secrets from your partner on an on-going basis, and always denying any allegations. They also talk about the emotional fallout of partners putting a wall up and withdrawing into their lies, and leaving the partner cheated on in a state of mental confusion. Hope describes DIRE, the traits that exist in this personality profile of a cheater, betrayer: Detachment, Incongruence, Regression, Entitlement They also talk about Victims going through CPT (Complex Partner Trauma) which includes being left in the dark, when you start to see evidence, when you can see the totality of what is going on and when you can begin to heal and set boundaries. It is an important discussion and listeners may relate to some of the signs happening in their relationship.  Website: www.modernintimacy.com Email your questions to: question@getnakedpodcast.com The Get Naked Podcast listeners can download a free printable booklet from Hope Ray about betrayal violence here: www.hoperay.com/getnaked  Stay Connected with Dr. Kate: IG: https://www.instagram.com/themodernintimacy/ https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieri/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/drkatebalestrieri/ https://www.tiktok.com/modernintimacy/ SPONSORS: Hello Fresh: Go to www.HelloFresh.com/50getnaked and use code 50getnaked for 50% off plus free shipping. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back, friends! Please give a shout out to my new friend, Hope Ray. Hope is a therapist who specializes in Betrayal Violence. There is so much in this episode that will be helpful to pastors and lay people. We discuss betrayal in the context of marriage, but you will see the easy correlation to the church. You will want to listen more than once.  Follow Hope on all the SM channels: www.HopeRay.com TikTok @HopeRayTherapy IG @HopeRay Hope Ray LPC CSAT CHFP CCPS Follow me: www.thisisherstory.life www.joanncbastien.com 

Hope Ray is a CSAT and an APSATS trained therapist. In this episode, she explains the "stay shaming" that many partners experience when they choose to stay with their spouse after betrayal. Hope also describes the layers of Complex Partner Trauma & the impact of not only infidelity but the deceptive conditions that have been used to hide It. Download a free phone background featuring an excerpt from one of Hope's poems here: www.hoperay.com/livingtruth. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. 

“It is time to define betrayal violence.” That is the message that our guest, Hope Ray, wants to offer today. Hope is a Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, and a Certified Hope and Freedom Practitioner. Listen to hear how Hope uses the term “betrayal violence” and how she feels those powerful words give a more thorough definition of the experience of betrayed partners. In this episode you will learn: How Hope defines the word “violence” and applies that term to relational betrayal. What the partner adaptive bonding cycle is and the role it plays in relationships. The importance of intention when thinking about betrayal violence. The difference between betrayal violence and betrayal trauma and how both terms are useful. Why this framework and vocabulary can be so helpful during the process of rehabilitation. Referenced in this episode: Betrayal Violence Institute Complex Partner Trauma Magazine⁠  Hope's Instagram   The Relationship Dynamic Assessment⁠⁠⁠- This groundbreaking assessment created by Kimberly Day, LMHC, CCPS offers a very clear picture of the different domains where destructive behaviors exist in your relational experience. Amie is trained and qualified to give the assessment and help you process the results. For more information on how you can receive this incredible resource to help you gain more awareness to your lived experience and reality, click ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠. More from Choose Recovery Services ⁠Choose Healing⁠- Betrayal Trauma Support for Women - This weekly support group is for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help to cope with symptoms of trauma such as depression, hypervigilance, anxiety, and lack of trust. Ask questions from our team of coaches at Choose Recovery Services who have been there with this accessible group that is free for the first 6 weeks. ⁠Help Her Heal ⁠for Men - Hali Roderick helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain skills to begin healing a broken relationship. ⁠Empowerment After Betrayal for Men⁠- Hali Roderick is starting a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community. ⁠Choose 90 for Men⁠- Support group for men who are ready to take the first step toward recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity and/or betrayal. Participants will gain tools and an understanding to better manage emotions and assess behaviors.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Choose 180 for Men⁠- This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Choose 360 for Men⁠- Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and camaraderie.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Road to Recovery⁠- Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Choosing to Stay Webinar- Hali Roderick teaches this free monthly webinar for couples choosing to stay together after infidelity.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Should I Stay or Should I Go?⁠- Amie Woolsey hosts this free monthly coaching call for those stuck trying to decide whether to stay in their marriage.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠- Amie Woolsey offers a free monthly coaching call to answer questions for women navigating divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with us on Social Media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amie Woolsey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Life Coach CPC, ICF, ELI-MP, CLDS, APSATS Trainee ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Alana Gordon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - MFTIntern, CCPS-C ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choose Recovery Services⁠⁠⁠

Today, Carol the Coach is talking to Hope Ray, the founder of the Betrayal Violence Institute. Hope has created new terminology and conceptionalization for professionals and couples when complex partner trauma and betrayal violence has been identified. She has created hope  for society to better understand betrayal violence starting with the experieences of women in relationship with men who betray and lie about the addiction. In this interview you will hear Hope discuss why she feels that a better understanding of betrayal violence will help protect and manage the relationship in a more clearly defined way. She hopes that it will develop an awareness of how to create more safety, boundaries and assertiveness.

Porn Free Radio is full of Matt's porn and recovery stories. But for 292 episodes, one voice has been conspicuously absent; Matt's wife, Janice Dobschuetz. In this episode, Janice tells her side of the story. Together with Hope Ray, Janice recounts her memories of discovering Matt's porn use in marriage and the early days of recovery. She also shares her advice and hope for partners in the same situation now. https://recoveredman.com/293

Join us for a Sunday Self Care Special with the renowned author, award winning professor and leadership expert, Cynthia Ruiz as we discuss the true meaning of self love and self care and the changing landscapes women are dealing with in today's American society. Cynthia is an Award wining Professor, Best selling Author, Commissioner, Leadership expert, an Executive Coach and Personal Development Speaker. Receiving over 78 accolades and awards for her leadership and service to the community. She currently serves as the President of the LA City multibillion-dollar pension fund. She was named a Latina Influencer by Hispanic Lifestyle Magazine. In 2021 She received the esteemed 7 Feathers Award from the Cherokee Phoenix and in 2019 she received the Cherokee National Community Leadership Award. Cynthia has also received the prestigious Hollywood Chamber “Women of Distinction Award, the HOPE “Ray of Hope” award and the Weingart, “Women Building LA Award. She was awarded the “President's Award for Outstanding Professor in the Business School at UWLA in 2017. Twice the California Apparel News has listed her on their renowned List of Influential People and LA Weekly showcased her in their people edition. Cynthia holds a Masters of Science Degree in Counseling and has completed a Leadership Course at Harvard University, John F Kennedy School of Government. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/skincareanarchy/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/skincareanarchy/support

Hope Ray returns to Porn Free Radio today and asks Matt the questions partners want to know.  Questions like: What do you teach men about accountability?  When should guys make out reach calls? What kind of attitude should guys have about being honest and vulnerable? What's the power of men connecting in a group? Will groups always be necessary? Does recovery for men ever getting easier? And more.   Get the full show notes here: https://recoveredman.com/286   PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:   Porn Free This Year (Free video course) http://recoveredman.com/thisyear   Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz http://pornfreebook.com   Join a REV Group http://recoveredman.com/rev   1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz https://recoveredman.com/coaching

Hope Ray returns to Porn Free Radio today and asks Matt the questions partners want to know.  Questions like: What do you teach men about accountability?  When should guys make out reach calls? What kind of attitude should guys have about being honest and vulnerable? What's the power of men connecting in a group? Will groups always be necessary? Does recovery for men ever getting easier? And more. https://recoveredman.com/286

Hope Ray, is sitting in on Porn Free Radio today and answering questions porn free men ask about their partners. Questions like: How can I build the skill of ongoing honesty if any confession is interpreted as betrayal? What can I do if my partner is uncomfortable with me being involved or leading a recovery group? And more. https://recovereredman.com/284

Welcome to the Conscious Millionaire Show for entrepreneurs,  who want to create an abundant future for themselves and humanity. Heard by millions in 190 countries.  Do you want to put more money in the bank, create a powerful impact, and enjoy a purposeful life? This is the podcast for you! Join host, JV Crum III, as he goes inside the minds of Millionaire Entrepreneurs and World-Class Business Experts. Today's featured episode... Cynthia Ruiz: 5 Tips to Becoming a Better Leader Cynthia Ruiz is an Author, Professor, Inspirational Speaker and Leadership expert. Receiving over 50 accolades and awards for her leadership and service to Los Angeles. She currently serves as a Los Angeles City Commissioner overseeing a multi-billion dollar pension portfolio for City employees. She has received the prestigious Hollywood Chamber “Women of Distinction Award, the HOPE “Ray of Hope” award and the Weingart, “Women Building LA Award. Twice the California Apparel News has listed her on their renowned List of Influential People and LA Weekly showcased her in their people addition. Like this Podcast? Get every episode delivered to you free!  Subscribe in iTunes Download Your Free Money-Making Gift Now... "Born to Make Millions" Hypnotic Audio - Click Here Now! Please help spread the word. Subscribing and leaving a review helps others find our podcast. Thanks so much! Inc Magazine "Top 13 Business Podcasts." Conscious Millionaire Network has over 3,000 episodes and millions of listeners in 190 countries. Join us as a regular listener to get money-making secrets on how you can grow your business and profits faster! 

Welcome to the Conscious Millionaire Show for entrepreneurs,  who want to create an abundant future for themselves and humanity. Heard by millions in 190 countries.  Do you want to put more money in the bank, create a powerful impact, and enjoy a purposeful life? This is the podcast for you! Join host, JV Crum III, as he goes inside the minds of Millionaire Entrepreneurs and World-Class Business Experts. Today's featured episode... Cynthia Ruiz: 5 Tips to Becoming a Better Leader Cynthia Ruiz is an Author, Professor, Inspirational Speaker and Leadership expert. Receiving over 50 accolades and awards for her leadership and service to Los Angeles. She currently serves as a Los Angeles City Commissioner overseeing a multi-billion dollar pension portfolio for City employees. She has received the prestigious Hollywood Chamber “Women of Distinction Award, the HOPE “Ray of Hope” award and the Weingart, “Women Building LA Award. Twice the California Apparel News has listed her on their renowned List of Influential People and LA Weekly showcased her in their people addition. Like this Podcast? Get every episode delivered to you free!  Subscribe in iTunes Download Your Free Money-Making Gift Now... "Born to Make Millions" Hypnotic Audio - Click Here Now! Please help spread the word. Subscribing and leaving a review helps others find our podcast. Thanks so much! Inc Magazine "Top 13 Business Podcasts." Conscious Millionaire Network has over 3,000 episodes and millions of listeners in 190 countries. Join us as a regular listener to get money-making secrets on how you can grow your business and profits faster! 

Join ARISE Church Wellington City Campus Pastor, Ray Moore, with a message called “Hope” ARISE Church is one church in multiple locations across New Zealand, led by John and Gillian Cameron. Thanks... Pastor John Cameron is the Lead Pastor of ARISE Church, a vibrant, life-giving, multi-campus church in New Zealand. You can find out more about ARISE at www.arisechurch.com

"If you're betrayed, release disappointment at once. By that way, the bitterness has no time to take root." -Toba Beta   In this episode, Hope and I talk about: How to realign in the midst of betrayal How to dive into healing work How to be willing to confront your own behaviors to heal   Hope is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in in helping women who've experienced betrayal of infidelity and Complex Partner Trauma. For the past decade Hope has helped women identify their needs, re-center in the midst of broken trust and elevate themselves to a healing trajectory after the devastation of their partner's secret sex life. Hope focuses on helping those who've had the rug pulled out from under them find what they need to have a radiant life after all they've been through. Learn more about Hope on her website at: https://www.hoperaytherapy.com/   Continue the conversation on Instagram @heatherchauvin_

Eve has felt heartache after the loss of her son Abel. But from that comes the hope of another child, Seth. And with Seth, comes the hope for mankind. Listen as Ray open ups Genesis 4, where we will how people began to turn back to God as the only true hope.

Therapist Hope Ray, from Hope Ray Therapy, joins Porn Free Radio for part 2 of 2 partner-focused episodes. https://recoveredman.com/257

In the middle of the pandemic, many of us have felt pushed and swayed by the changes around us. But as Ray opens up the Bible, he reminds us of the hope that we have that acts as anchor for our souls. Listen to what the writer of Hebrews has to say and see how Jesus Christ is our sure and steady anchor. *Recorded during the COVID-19 pandemic in April 2020*

Heal for real after betrayal

Renewing Hope | Ray Allen | 12.27.20 by Strong Tower Church

Hope Ray, therapist and partner specialist, returns to discuss recovery, relationships, and more. https://recoveredman.com/188 The post 188 – More Hope appeared first on Recovered Man.

Hope and I chat about a few of the unique and critical needs for male partners of female sex and love addicts. She offers insights, suggestions for the beginning stages of recovery, and talks about her intensive couple's program. Introduction to the 5-part series, "Male Partner Support" released December 22, 2018.

Disclosure is a process that helps bring a culture of honesty to a relationship.  It's also a place where many are tempted to take shortcuts.  Jackie and Jon talk with Hope Ray, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in Michigan.  Hope is a specialist in Therapeutic Disclosure with couples in recovery.   You can learn more about our guest, Hope Ray, on her website www.hoperaytherapy.com.                    

Disclosure is a process that helps bring a culture of honesty to a relationship.  It's also a place where many are tempted to take shortcuts.  Jackie and Jon talk with Hope Ray, a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in Michigan.  Hope is a specialist in Therapeutic Disclosure with couples in recovery.   You can learn more about our guest, Hope Ray, on her website www.hoperaytherapy.com.                    

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Hope Ray does amazing work in helping couples and individuals cope in the throes of a betrayal, and helps give them the opportunity to possibly even develop a higher quality of intimacy if they do decide to continue the relationship. She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and a Certified Hope and Freedom Practitioner. Her experience has shown there is hope for healing even after the devastation of sexual secrets and infidelity. She and Rob talk about empathy for the partner, developing an intimacy radar and her intensive specialized programs to provide help in a great time of need.   TAKEAWAYS: [0:54] Hope’s work is focused on working with couples one at a time in an intensive, specialized environment. [2:27] Hope seeks to take away some of the stigma of addiction, and help both the addict and their partner know that help is out there. [5:39] For the partner experiencing the betrayal and learning to what extent they have been misled, they are often caught between the desire to run away from the situation and their own hurt, and having empathy for their emotionally ill spouse who may need their support to get better. [10:08] Sex addicts typically develop characteristics of entitlement, narcissism, and dishonesty to cover up the guilt of acting out. [13:58] Addicts may be able to balance home and family life with their secret for a while, but will show up in a way that is disconnected and not fully present. [20:14] Rob and Hope support partners in their work by acknowledging their pain and not trivializing the trauma they are experiencing. Partners usually feel shame and guilt that they didn’t know what was happening, even if others around them were aware. [22:14] Hope encourages her clients to be able to detect low levels of intimacy, to express it to their partner and become aware of their own needs that constitute a healthy relationship. [32:14] Partners should be careful who they choose to talk to, individuals who can’t worsen the situation later by knowing the deep dark secrets of the situation. Both Hope and Rob suggest finding a professional in the field that specializes in sex and relationship healing.   RESOURCES Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101 Hope Ray Therapy Hope and Freedom Intensive Dr. Patrick Carnes Dr. Ken Adams Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency   QUOTES: “When we are living two separate lives, we develop a lot of poor character traits in order to keep these secrets.”   “They may show up, but half the time they aren’t emotionally present.” ---(Rob said “they”, but in case you want to change it to addicts)   “Partners are so misunderstood. It’s really important they don’t experience blame for their partner's sexual behavior in any way.”   “I believe one of the greatest powers we can give partners is the ability to detect intimacy.” - Hope  

Hope Ray is back! In this episode, we discuss the top 3 lies that partners believe when their husbands or boyfriend's struggle with porn. Hope first joined us in episodes 70 and 74 of Pornfree Radio. She specializes in working with partners and couples who are healing from the effects of porn and sex addiction. Free Download from Hope Partner's Guide to Writing An Impact Letter by Hope Ray http://recoveredman.com/hope REV Group Coaching Application http://recoveredman.com/rev 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Contribute to Pornfree Radio http://recoveredman.com/contribute Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/111 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ Thanks for all your ratings and reviews in iTunes. If you haven’t had a chance yet please subscribe in iTunes and leave a rating or review because that helps get the word out. The post 111 – The Top 3 Lies Partners Believe with Hope Ray appeared first on Recovered Man.

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Cynthia is an Author, Professor, Inspirational Speaker and Leadership expert. Receiving over 50 accolades and awards for her leadership and service to Los Angeles. She currently serves as a Los Angeles City Commissioner overseeing a multibillion-dollar pension portfolio for City employees. She has received the prestigious Hollywood Chamber “Women of Distinction Award, the HOPE “Ray of Hope” award and the Weingart, “Women Building LA Award. Twice the California Apparel News has listed her on their renowned List of Influential People and LA Weekly showcased her in their people addition. Get the 5 proven steps to rapidly grow your business, make a bigger impact, and achieve your First Million. Attend the next LIVE First Million Webinar  with international business coach JV Crum III.  Like this Podcast? Then get every episode delivered to YOU!  Subscribe in iTunes Please help spread the word. Subscribing and leaving a review helps other business owners and entrepreneurs find our podcast…and make their big difference. They will thank you for it.   Conscious Millionaire Podcast: With over 500 episodes and 10 Million Listeners in 176 countries, this is the podcast for business owners and coaches who want to grow their businesses, make a bigger impact, and ultimately achieve their First Million! JV interviews the top entrepreneurs, experts, authors, and coaches on how to get the right mindset, develop your business systems, and execute to achieve bigger results, faster!  

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Leadership expert Cynthia M. Ruiz explores how we can listen to our ancestors to create lives of simplicity, harmony and balance and enable our true capacities as leaders to emerge. Cynthia is the author of the new book Cherokee Wisdom: 12 Lessons for becoming a Powerful Leader. Cynthia has received over 50 accolades and awards for her leadership and service to Los Angeles. She currently serves as an LA City Commissioner overseeing the multibillion-dollar pension portfolio for City employees. She was the recipient of the prestigious Hollywood Chamber Women of Distinction Award, the HOPE Ray of Hope award and the WeingartWomen Building LA Award. She has been featured in multiple publications and the movie/book Discover the Gift. Also a Professor, Cynthia holds a Masters of Science Degree in Counseling and has completed a Leadership Course at Harvard University, John F Kennedy School of Government. She has held several leadership positions, including President of the L.A. Board of Public Works, and she has successfully run her own business. Cynthia's previous book is Finding Sane Relationships in a Crazy World, and she has over 20 years experience teaching and public speaking. Coming from blended cultures (Latina and Native American), she enjoys a passion for life and an appreciation of the gifts of Mother Nature. She knows the importance of giving back, always striving to be humble. She especially enjoys sharing empowering lessons for women. Cynthia's web site: CynthiaMRuiz.com Program music copyrighted by Grammy award winner Larry Seyer (LarrySeyer.com), included in this podcast with his permission. Visit FrontierBeyondFear.com to learn about the inspirational outreach of this program, now in its 7th year.

In episode 70, Hope Ray joined us from HopeRayTherapy.com to discuss the Partners' experience. Hope returns to answer questions from partners, wives, and girlfriends. In this episode, we answer: - How do I begin a conversation with my significant other about his porn use? - Do ultimatums work? - What if my husband is a brick wall? - What if he says he's sorry, but doesn't change? - What if my husband looks at teen porn? 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/74 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 074 Hope Ray Returns: Partners’ Q&A appeared first on Recovered Man.

Can I be a recovering porn addict and an artist at the same time? What about drawing nudes? Or what about art that is erotic? In the art world, the line between porn and art can be thin. In some cases, one person's "art" is another person's porn! How can one balance being an artist, viewing art, drawing from life and avoid being triggered? Hope Ray (from Episode 70) returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/72 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 072 Can A Recovering Porn Addict Be An Artist? appeared first on Recovered Man.

The nagging question after any relapse is 'Why?" Why did I look at porn when I was committed not to? Why did I look at porn even though it's harmful to my relationship? Why did I look at porn and put my job at risk? There are two reasons that drive us to porn and they have little to do with brain science or our capacity for lust. Hope Ray (from Episode 70) returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/71 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 071 Why Men Look at Porn appeared first on Recovered Man.

It's been 2 years of Pornfree Radio and this is a show unlike any other. On this episode we focus on partners. We discuss disclosures, coming clean, check-ins, and the partners' experience. Counselor Hope Ray sits joins Matt for an informative discussion that will help both motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn and the partners who love them. In this episode: What and when to tell your wife The disclosure process What staggered disclosure is and why it's damaging F.A.S.T.T. Check-ins Hope Ray returns Monday, June 6th to answer your questions about recovery and relationships. Email matt@pornfreeradio.com to ask a question. 1-on-1 Coaching With Matt http://recoveredman.com/coaching Show Notes Links and show notes at http://recoveredman.com/70 Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dobberco Twitter http://twitter.com/MattDobschuetz Google+ https://plus.google.com/+MattDobschuetz FEEDBACK http://recoveredman.com/contact-matt/ The post 070 Hope for Partners, Wives, and Girlfriends with Hope Ray appeared first on Recovered Man.

Carol the Coach knows that the trauma of betrayal that occurs when loving a sex addict is huge. How do you heal and live with the person who has betrayed you? Listen as Carol the Coach interviews Hope Ray who is an expert in treating partners. She has studied a model called Complex Partner Trauma that helps partners work through the pain of betrayal. This is an opportunity to feel encourageed about living with a Sex Addict and finding the hope to stay true to yourself and deal with the pain of loving a sex addict.