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Dr. K and Dr. Micaela dive into the side of ADHD most people don't hear about. The everyday quirks, emotional struggles, and hidden habits that go far beyond “not paying attention.” They explore how ADHD shows up in piles of clutter (“doom piles”), impulse-driven conversations, and difficulty filtering what really matters. The discussion digs into: Why focus often collapses before big deadlines or events The link between ADHD and social anxiety, rejection sensitivity, and “ADHD guilt” How emotional regulation and chronic boredom fuel cycles of shame Why masking drains energy and damages relationships Practical coping strategies from timers and structured breaks to unmasking safely with trusted people This episode reframes ADHD as more than distraction—it's about emotions, identity, and the way your brain interacts with the world. Dr. Micaela's ADHD Adulting Workshop: https://bit.ly/4mI2bGG HG Coaching : ⁠https://bit.ly/46bIkdo⁠ Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: ⁠https://bit.ly/44z3Szt⁠ HG Memberships : ⁠https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf⁠ Products & Services : ⁠https://bit.ly/44kz7x0⁠ HealthyGamer.GG: ⁠https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. K takes a break while Dr. Micaela steps in to dive deep into ADHD, what it really is, how it's misunderstood, and why it shows up in ways you may not expect. She breaks down the brain science behind executive function, emotion regulation, and social anxiety, showing how ADHD overlaps with everyday struggles people chalk up to laziness or personality flaws. Topics include: Why sleep issues often mimic or worsen ADHD symptoms The link between ADHD and social anxiety (fear of negative evaluation) How emotional reactivity and “ADHD guilt” show up after social interactions Practical strategies for self-acceptance, self-regulation, and breaking the spiral of shame This episode blends clinical insight with real talk about living with ADHD and offers encouragement for anyone learning to work with their brain, not against it. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K takes a hard look at anger, violence, and why some men seem to lose control. Using the Raja Jackson situation as a case study, he unpacks how hurt, ego, and value systems can pile up until anger explodes. Dr. K breaks down: How “perceived value systems” shape what we see as respect or disrespect The hidden role of hurt and egocentric thinking before anger even shows up Why some violence is “reactive” rather than psychopathic Red flags that make someone prone to abuse Why men, in particular, are socialized to convert fear or sadness into anger It's a deep dive into the psychology of rage, how it develops, and what it takes to break the cycle whether in yourself or in people you know. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K sits down with Jeremiah Brown who is a model, creator, and Love Island alum. He talks about what it means to live “too online” and how it can wreck your sleep, focus, and mental health. Jeremiah shares his journey from day trading to modeling, how Love Island shaped his perspective, and why building community through his book club has become so meaningful. The conversation dives into insomnia, dopamine cravings, discipline, and the challenge of actually applying self-improvement lessons in real life. Topics include: What being “terminally online” really looks like The link between insomnia, dopamine, and bad routines Jeremiah's path from trading and teaching to full-time modeling Building habits, book clubs, and applying lessons instead of just consuming them Whether you're stuck in late-night scrolling or chasing endless self-improvement content, this episode offers practical takeaways on how to reset your habits and focus on what really matters. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K breaks down the hype around dopamine detoxes and social media breaks—and why they don't actually solve the problem. Drawing on his background in addiction psychiatry, he explains that detoxing only pauses the cycle temporarily; if you go back to the same habits, nothing changes. Instead, Dr. K explores the neuroscience of dopamine, how technology hijacks our survival systems, and why balance is about building real-world rewards, not chasing quick fixes. Topics include: Why “dopamine detoxes” are a myth The neuroscience of withdrawal and tolerance How social media and video games mimic survival rewards like achievement and community Why balance means creating real-world alternatives, not just unplugging for a week Practical tips: protecting your morning dopamine, building sustainable habits, and shifting cravings toward healthier activities This is a thoughtful look at why tech is so addictive and how to reclaim your brain from it. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K explores why so many people feel stuck in dissatisfaction—and how deeper practices like meditation and Vedic psychology can help. Rather than just focusing on surface-level self-improvement, he breaks down the inner journey of facing suffering, understanding the mind, and building resilience. On his iPad, Dr. K walks through Vedic psychological models that explain why we get trapped in cycles of frustration, self-criticism, and comparison. He then shows how meditation, properly understood, is not about escape but about transforming how we relate to our thoughts and emotions. Topics include: Why modern life leaves so many feeling empty The Vedic psychology framework for understanding the mind How meditation actually works as a journey, not a quick fix Breaking free from cycles of dissatisfaction and finding deeper meaning This episode offers both practical insights and a philosophical lens to rethink why you struggle and how meditation can become a tool for real change. Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Puer Aeternus: https://bit.ly/3G8KUGL Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this candid conversation, Dr. K talks with Alexandra and Andrea Botez—sisters, chess streamers, and co-creators of @BotezLive. Which is about growing up competitive, finding their voices online, and supporting each other through the ups and downs of fame. They open up about their family history, early rivalries, and how streaming changed their relationship. Topics include: How sibling rivalry pushed them to excel (and sometimes clash) The challenges of building a career in the public eye Navigating burnout, criticism, and high expectations Balancing independence with family loyalty Why they see each other as “ride-or-die” partners today It's an honest, funny, and heartfelt look at the bond between sisters who've turned competition into connection. Both on and off the chessboard. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K sits down with fitness creator @Scottykfitness to explore what it really takes to grow—physically, emotionally, and mentally. They talk through struggles with identity, confidence, and the internal roadblocks that get in the way of becoming your best self. Topics include: How childhood experiences shape adult insecurities The connection between physical fitness and mental resilience Breaking free from fear, shame, and self-judgment Why the “best self” isn't a destination, but a practice Real stories about growth, setbacks, and showing up authentically It's a grounded, motivating conversation about personal development from two people who've done the work. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to level up in life, not just the gym. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this special episode, Dr. K is joined by Dr. Kirk Honda and Dr. Michaela Thordarson for a head-to-head comparison of how real therapists and AI (ChatGPT) respond to mental health questions. Together, they react to anonymous community submissions and live prompts, discussing whether AI can truly replicate the depth, nuance, and humanity of therapy. Topics covered include: - A mother struggling to reconnect with her adult children - The limits of therapy for people with deep, unmet emotional needs - What happens when someone feels therapy has “failed”The difference between validation and real change - Whether AI-generated empathy can ever match real human insight - You'll hear the doctors critique AI's answers, reflect on their own therapeutic styles, and debate where AI might help or harm in mental health care. A thoughtful, honest look at what therapy is (and isn't) in a world where AI is changing everything. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful episode, Dr. K talks with developer and content creator The Primeagen about burnout, emotional growth, and breaking generational cycles. What begins as a conversation about work stress evolves into a deep, personal discussion about fatherhood, loss, and the struggle to show up when life feels overwhelming. Topics include: Prime's experience with burnout in the tech world and how rediscovering passion helped him recover The emotional impact of losing his father at a young age and discovering pornography as a child Navigating grief, parenting with intention, and trying to be the father he never had A vulnerable exploration of emotional suppression, introspection, and the challenge of expressing feelings Reflections on what it means to be a “good parent” in a world full of imperfect choices This episode is honest, raw, and full of meaningful moments—perfect for anyone thinking about healing, parenting, or how past pain shapes present purpose. HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K explores the deep psychological roots of abandonment trauma and how it can shape a person's personality, perception, and relationships. Through live questions and community voicemails, he shares actionable strategies for healing from early trauma, building healthier relationships, and reconnecting with desire. Key moments include: What “core trauma” really means and how it forms our personality How abandonment can lead to dissociation, helplessness, and survival-based behaviors Tips for supporting siblings raised by narcissistic parents How to break up in a way that minimizes emotional harm A deep dive into the fear of desire and how past disappointments can cause us to suppress our wants Whether you're working through your own trauma or trying to support someone else, this episode offers thoughtful guidance, real stories, and grounded advice for growth. Reserve YOUR seat for Dr. Honda's "Healing from Narcissistic Parents" Workshop on 07/27: https://bit.ly/4486Pa4 HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K dives into the complex world of narcissistic parenting. What it is, how it shapes family dynamics, and what you can do if you've been affected. Through clinical insight and real-world examples, he breaks down the patterns, emotional impact, and healing strategies. You'll hear: Clear definitions and real-life traits of narcissistic parents How these relationships affect self-worth, boundaries, and trust Guidance on setting boundaries and reclaiming your identity Live coaching moments where listeners seek clarity and support This is a thoughtful, compassionate look at a difficult topic. Perfect for anyone healing from toxic family experiences or trying to make sense of their upbringing. Reserve YOUR seat for Dr. Honda's "Healing from Narcissistic Parents" Workshop on 07/27: https://bit.ly/4486Pa4 HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K dives into some truly questionable relationship advice circulating online, reacting in real-time to clips, comments, and memes. He breaks down why some tips are problematic, what makes certain advice toxic, and how to find healthier perspectives. You'll catch: Moments where Dr. K calls out advice that's misleading, harmful, or just plain bad Insight into what makes relationship guidance actually helpful Practical alternatives and real tips for setting boundaries, communicating better, and building trust A mix of sharp critique and empathetic coaching If you've ever rolled your eyes at cringe relationship tips, this one's for you. It's entertaining, insightful, and grounded in what really helps relationships thrive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K sits down with YouTube creator LaurDIY to talk about managing anxiety while chasing big goals. They get into how anxiety shows up, the fears that hold you back, and real ways to push through. You'll hear: LaurDIY's personal experience juggling creativity and mental health What anxiety really feels like and why it stalls progress Dr. K's suggestions for calming your inner critic Practical tools you can start using today, like shifting your focus, structuring your routine, and practicing kindness toward yourself If anxiety has ever slowed you down even when youre being really productive. This chat offers honest stories and useful advice to help you keep moving forward. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K dives into real voicemails sent in by viewers—many deeply personal, sometimes challenging. You'll hear him respond in real-time, offering coaching, empathy, and razor-sharp insight. It's honest, human, and often very powerful. Highlights include: Live coaching on issues listeners brought in anonymously Emotional moments where people shared things they'd never said out loud Dr. K's balance of compassion and practical advice If you've ever avoided talking about something hard, this episode shows why sometimes speaking up and someone listening can be a turning point. This Episode on YouTube: http://bit.ly/4nDHMTW HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Dr. K takes on a question that sparks a lot of debate: can porn ever be healthy? He explores what makes something “healthy,” how porn affects the brain, and whether there's a way to engage with it without harm. This isn't just a yes-or-no conversation. Dr. K breaks down: The psychology behind why people turn to porn How it can impact motivation, relationships, and mental health The difference between mindful use and compulsive habits What a “healthy” relationship with porn might even look like Whether you're curious, skeptical, or just trying to understand your own habits better, this episode offers an honest look at a complicated topic—without shame. Reserve YOUR seat for Dr. Honda's "Healing from Narcissistic Parents" Workshop on 07/27: bit.ly/4nxiOWd⁠ Puer Aeternus Resources: ⁠bit.ly/3G8KUGL This Episode on YouTube: ⁠bit.ly/4lejMW4⁠ HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this livestream podcast, Dr. K sits down with PirateSoftware—the discussions get real and sometimes tense. They explore communication styles, honesty in critiques, and how being straightforward can come off as harsh. Highlights include: How “being an ass” can be part of a creator's brand and how that can backfire The difference between blunt honesty and empathy Behind-the-scenes on how creators process feedback Live coaching moments where Dr. K helps Pirate unpack intent vs. perception This isn't just about conflict. It's a conversation about how we talk to each other and why tone matters, even when you're being “real.” This Episode on YouTube: http://bit.ly/4ld9RQB HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Part 2, Dr. K continues the conversation about the Puer Aeternus and the challenges that come with moving forward once we recognize the problem. This episode covers: Why we stay stuck even when we know what's wrong What it feels like to let go of old fantasies Tools to start making real progress The role of grief, structure, and support in real change If you're ready to stop overthinking and start taking action, this episode is for you. Check out more from Mrwhosetheboss on his YouTube channel: http://bit.ly/4nouudZ HG Coaching : https://bit.ly/46bIkdo Dr. K's Guide to Mental Health: https://bit.ly/44z3Szt HG Memberships : https://bit.ly/3TNoMVf Products & Services : https://bit.ly/44kz7x0 HealthyGamer.GG: https://bit.ly/3ZOopgQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Today's episode is a special one! We asked our members to vote on a topic they felt would be most beneficial to share with everyone for the holidays from our backlog of members content, and they chose this lecture on ego! So, today we will be discussing in detail what ego is, how it forms, and how best to utilise it for our own advantage in life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's epsiode, Dr. K addresses willpower and it's shortcomings when used as a catalyst for change. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Dr. K explores anhedonia, where it comes from, how it is affected by trauma, and what it does to our reward circuitry. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sometimes, it's really easy and often quite appealing to give up on progressing our lives or trying to improve; given the evidence of our lived experiences, this may even be a logical conclusion to come to, but it's not going to solve the problem. In today's video, Dr. K addresses this problem, analyses the impact and formation of cognitive bias, and discusses what we can do about it all. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Have you ever found yourself saddened and depressed at the thought that you aren't where you had planned to be? Perhaps you are anxious about your progress in life and its correlation with the passage of time? In today's episode, Dr K discusses time's effect on the mind, and what we can do to combat it. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Tackling subjects like identity, cognitive restructuring and Alexithymia; in today's episode, Dr. K discusses one of your most asked questions- what does it actually take to get a girlfriend? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The effects of marijuana have long been debated, clearly having both positive and negative effects on its users. Today, Dr K. analyses the research behind the effects of longer term marijuana use on the mind. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Dr K. has a conversation with Adin Ross, a streamer on Kick, about the value of therapy and psychiatry, and where young men find their influences. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sometimes we try to make progress in life, but we can often discount the progress we have made, or find reasons to not start at all. In this video, Dr K. discusses some of the issues that could be holding you back, and how best to tackle them. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you find yourself avoiding conflict in your relationships? Do you perhaps find yourself avoiding relationships altogether? In today's video, Dr. K talks with Dr. Kirk Honda, as they discuss what avoidance is, and how to deal with it in every day life! Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you or a loved one find it difficult to explore and discuss emotions? Do discussions about emotions often lead to fighting or outbursts? In today's video, Dr K. discusses what emotional availability is, how to cultivate it, and how to manifest it in a healthy way. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Dr. K talks with Dantes, a League of Legends creator, about the pressures of streaming and his struggles offline. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Dr K. discusses why people feel the need to lie and manipulate, and how you can prepare yourself emotionally to defend against it. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

I had the pleasure of engaging in a conversation with XQC diving deep into various subjects such as coping mechanisms, attachment styles, and navigating chaos. Join us as we explore these intriguing topics, offering insights and perspectives that delve into the complexities of managing emotions, relationships, and the tumultuous nature of life. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today's episode, Dr K. addresses the concept of habit building, the issues with commonly shared solutions, and how to make drastic and lasting change in your life. Check out more mental health resources here! https://bit.ly/3xsk6fE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices