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Food and philosophy with Bryan and Nick. Every episode offers some food for thought with levity and banter on the side. Episodes are released on the 1st and 3rd Thursday every month with special bonus episodes 5th Thursdays.

Bryan De Cuir and Nick Sager


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    Finding Wisdom in Fast Food Adventures

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 15, 2024 60:52 Transcription Available


    Ever found yourself craving a Chick-fil-A chicken sandwich only to realize you arrived during breakfast hours? That's precisely what happened to me, leading to a surprisingly delightful discovery of chicken minis and the magic of Polynesian sauce. This episode kicks off with a philosophical reflection on the fleeting nature of time, seamlessly transitioning into a humorous recount of my fast-food adventure. We explore the emotional rollercoaster of food cravings and the unexpected joys that can emerge from unmet expectations.Shifting gears, we dive into the mechanics of fast-food drive-thru efficiency, contrasting Chick-fil-A's sophisticated multi-threaded system with In-N-Out's streamlined simplicity. Along the way, we touch on the sentimental journey of replacing an old flask with a new, trendy hydration drink from Ghost, highlighting the playful quirks of modern beverage marketing. From homemade iced coffee mishaps to the intricacies of trademarked ingredients, this chapter offers a light-hearted yet insightful look at contemporary consumer experiences.On a more profound note, we delve into strategies for navigating life's inevitable transitions, from job loss to retirement. Drawing from Tim Ferris's fear setting and Jeff Goins' introspective framework, we discuss practical tools for managing change and fostering personal growth. With anecdotes ranging from bone broth substitutes to a Vietnam veteran finding joy in Call of Duty, this episode blends humor with heartfelt advice, underscoring the importance of preparation, mindset, and self-reflection in the face of life's ebb and flow.

    Savoring Food and Navigating New Paths

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2024 57:25 Transcription Available


    Ever gone back for seconds at a restaurant because the food was just that good? Bryan did, with a carnitas burrito that left him craving more. Hear about his mouth-watering experience with sweet pico de gallo and homemade tortillas, and why he takes a shot of salsa with every bite. This episode kicks off with this flavor-packed anecdote and flows into a lively chat about the quirky ways people enjoy food.From favorite indulgences like Starburst-flavored sparkling ice drinks to the art of homemade iced coffee, we journey through various food trends and preferences. Discover the peculiar love for slightly soggy tortillas and the unforgettable flavor of the custom-made "loco nut" coffee. Our discussion takes an insightful turn, reflecting on how our perspectives shape the way we view endings, whether it's the end of a day or the excitement of pre-vacation nights.We then dive into the complexities of attachment, sparked by a viral story about a woman's overreaction at McDonald's. Explore how minor events can carry significant emotional weight and what they reveal about our broader life transitions. With a focus on career changes and organizational restructuring, we discuss how people cling to the familiar and the importance of agency in embracing new beginnings. Come laugh, reflect, and gain new insights as we navigate the intersections of food, philosophy, and life's intricate moments.

    From Spicy Almonds to Personal Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2024 56:32 Transcription Available


    Ever wondered why Dwayne Johnson might be the perfect snack mascot? Join us for a playful feast of conversation as Bryan and Nick kick things off with some lighthearted banter before diving into their latest snacking escapades. From Bryan's surprising encounter with Trader Joe's spicy Thai lime and chili almonds to Nick's delicious meal featuring Monterey-spiced chicken and Kerrygold butter potatoes, this episode of "Food, Philosophy, and Snacking_tacular" is packed with tasty tidbits and health insights. Plus, don't miss Brian's nostalgic trip down memory lane with a Shamrock Farms strawberry protein shake that will take you back to your childhood.Ready to be inspired? "The Man in the Arena Continuity" takes a deep dive into Theodore Roosevelt's iconic speech, reminding us all of the importance of striving and taking action despite inevitable setbacks. We explore how every effort counts, even when things don't go perfectly. A touch of humor is added as we discuss the quirky impact of everyday sounds on our listeners, like the noise of pouring water. This segment is your motivational booster shot to keep pushing forward and engaging in life's meaningful endeavors.In our final chapters, "Dealing With Inner Criticism and Feedback" and "Understanding the Inner Critic," we tackle the ever-present challenge of managing criticism—from both external voices and our own inner critics. Learn how to turn that nagging internal voice into a supportive inner coach and discover strategies to combat negative self-talk. We also ponder the resilience of public figures who seem immune to widespread criticism and discuss the intriguing condition of aphantasia. By the end, you'll have practical tools to reframe your mindset, boost your self-compassion, and encourage personal growth. Tune in for a perfect blend of humor, philosophy, and actionable advice!

    Crafting Joyful Mornings and Balanced Brews

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 6, 2024 55:59 Transcription Available


    Can a consistent breakfast routine really simplify your life and help you manage your calories effortlessly? Join us on this flavorful journey as we explore the art of crafting the perfect breakfast sandwich, balance taste with health, and navigate the tricky world of indulgent condiments. We also step into Bryan's Beverage Corner to uncover the joys of a cheater nitro cold brew and the guilt-free pleasures of Coke Zero, all while stressing the importance of moderation. This is a tale of routine and culinary passion that might just change your mornings forever.Ever wondered why a single Nitro cold brew can keep some people awake until the wee hours? Listen as we share hilarious coffee shop escapades, including a caffeine-induced sleepless night and the endearing frustration of an infrequent Starbucks visitor. Discover the unique charm of the Fainting Goat coffee shop with its Star Wars-themed drinks and learn why a decaf latte topped with chocolate cold foam could be your new favorite treat. These stories weave humor and insight, revealing the quirks of coffee culture and the simple joys of a well-chosen breakfast.What does Theodore Roosevelt's wisdom have to do with modern stress and personal growth? Reflect on the timeless relevance of his words as we delve into the battle between the inner critic and the man in the arena. We'll examine the value of failure, the stress of contemporary life, and how recalibrating our reactions can lead to better outcomes. Drawing inspiration from Brene Brown's "Daring Greatly," we emphasize the importance of enthusiasm and purpose in work, and the often difficult task of accepting praise. This episode promises a rich blend of humor, practical advice, and deep reflections designed to inspire and entertain.

    Wholesome Eats and Sage Treats

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2024 58:53 Transcription Available


    Embark with us, Brian and Nick, on a journey that satisfies both palate and mind, where the art of creating a high-protein pizza meets the timeless wisdom of stoicism. We're not just tossing dough here; we're tossing ideas around that will nourish your body and enrich your soul. As I divulge the secrets to crafting a guilt-free slice that's big on taste and light on calories, we'll also sip on some Coke Zero musings, reflecting on how something as simple as our beverage choices can teach us about temperance.Our conversation takes us deeper than the crust of our homemade pizza, into the heart of stoicism and the virtues that can guide a balanced life. Imagine finding tranquility in the midst of a consumer-driven world that's constantly pushing you towards excess. We'll share insights from philosophers like Epictetus and Seneca, and discuss how applying ancient wisdom can help us navigate our modern maze of desires. From the savory layers of self-restraint to the sweet aftertaste of wisdom, we invite you to feast on thoughts that could truly transform your approach to life's indulgences and challenges.We wrap up with a toast to wisdom, the kind that bubbles up in the face of adversity, as serene as a well-risen loaf. Recalling a cherished member of our Toastmasters club, we ponder how life experiences and reflection shape our understanding and response to the world. And as we close this session, we leave you with a parting thought: managing our expectations, much like kneading dough, can lead to a more palatable daily existence, where surprises are the delightful toppings on the pizza of life. Join us and chew on these delectable morsels of knowledge that could very well be the recipe for a more serene, virtuous existence.

    Whetting Your Appetite for Ancient Virtues

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2024 52:32 Transcription Available


    Ever wondered how a kebab could lead to an epiphany about ancient philosophy? Join Brian, Nick, and me as we embark on a gastronomic adventure that pairs delectably with the enduring wisdom of Stoicism. You're in for a savory treat of tales and musings that connect lukewarm chicken skewers and the irresistible charm of cheese curds to the stoic virtues that can anchor us in the tumult of today's world.Peeling back the layers of our daily grind, we draw parallels between the pursuit of a meaningful life and the art of savoring a meal crafted from humble leftovers. From the quenching sips of tropical beverages to candid anecdotes spanning self-help literature to the silver screen, our exchange is peppered with humor and insights. We touch on the Stoic heavyweights—Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius—and the pillars of courage, resistance, and justice that they championed. Whether you're a seasoned philosopher or simply curious about the stoic way, there's a seat at our table for you.As we round off the conversation, we tackle the delicate tension between personal desires and the broader public good. With a nod to modern distractions like social media and video games, we explore the virtues of temperance and wisdom, offering a perspective that's as nourishing for the soul as the eclectic flavors discussed throughout the show. So, whether you're dishing out a late-night snack or contemplating life's bigger questions, we invite you to feast on this episode that's guaranteed to satisfy both your hunger and your intellect.

    Savoring the Paradoxes of Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 21, 2024 64:36 Transcription Available


    Have you ever found yourself in the heat of a pizza topping debate, staunchly defending the honor of pineapple and jalapeños? Well, you're not alone. Our latest episode is a smorgasbord of culinary conundrums and philosophical ponderings, starting with my own guilty pleasure pizza and a taste test that could save your palate from an unfortunate citrus coffee soda mishap. We chew over the joys of local dining and how our personal tastes can elevate a meal from mundane munching to a full-flavored feast of conversation.As we move from sizzling burgers at school games to the celebrity-induced frenzy of Logan Paul's hydration drink, we touch on the ripples created by food trends and influencers. We're not just tossing around opinions on charred Brussels sprouts here; we're diving into the shared experiences and cultural shifts that dining out brings. Plus, we discuss the unexpected delight of air-fried veggies with a side of salsa verde, and the communal joy of a pizookie at BJ's Restaurant. But we don't stop at the dinner table. The episode takes a twist into the paradoxical nature of our world, from the analysis paralysis brought on by too many choices to the elusive nature of originality in an era of AI-assisted creation. We debate whether a Civil War author's work is a tapestry of influences or a beacon of original thought, and we examine the tightrope between inspiration and imitation. Join us for a feast of ideas that will leave you savoring the flavors of thought long after the plates are cleared.Infographic used in Episode

    Humorous Takes on Life's Perplexing Paradoxes

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2024 56:33 Transcription Available


    Have you ever pondered the puzzles life throws at you, or how a simple dish like 'egg rice' could spark a philosophical debate? Well, buckle up, because our latest episode traverses the culinary landscape of leftovers, touches on the sweet allure of Starbucks treats, and dives headfirst into the paradoxes that keep our minds spinning. From my kitchen to yours, I reveal the secret spices that transform yesterday's rice into today's breakfast champion, and we explore whether this comfort food has the chops to become a restaurant's crowning glory.With a sprinkle of humor and a dash of self-reflection, we unwrap the enigmas of everyday life that often wear the mask of common sense. As we dissect modern paradoxes, from the impact of reading on personal identity to the intricacies of skill and luck in our endeavors, the conversation is peppered with real-world anecdotes that'll have you nodding along or scratching your head in wonder. Even our podcast transitions, a source of comedic pain, get a moment in the spotlight, as we acknowledge the beauty in the struggle to find the perfect ending to our rambling beginnings.As we reach the apex of our chat, decision-making takes center stage—will it be the egg bites or the shaken espresso? Just kidding. It's about tackling the real-life conundrum of overthinking and the strategies to overcome it. Wrapping up, we tease your appetite for intellectual debate with a hint at the paradox of originality, ensuring the conversation continues beyond today. So, join us as we laugh, ponder, and maybe even change the way you see the world with each episode. No cliffhangers here—just the promise of more enthralling talks to come.Infographic Used in Episode

    Where Mexican Fast Food Meets Time Travel Theories

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 29, 2024 52:40 Transcription Available


    Have you ever wondered if the Crunchwrap Supreme could hold the secrets to time travel? Feast your ears on our latest episode where we embark on a journey from the inventive culinary twists of Taco Bell to the enigmatic corridors of time itself. Our adventure begins with a lighthearted debate over the Grilled Cheese Steak Burrito's rightful place in the pantheon of Mexican cuisine, leading us into a nostalgic reflection on fast food's evolving landscape. But don't let the playful banter fool you; we're serving up a hearty discussion that will leave you hungering for more than just a value meal.Prepare for a thought-provoking ride as we ponder whether time travelers could be subtly influencing our present or if UFOs are just tourists from our own future. We weave through the fabric of time, pulling at threads from art, fiction, and the very nature of existence. Our conversation takes flight with wild theories and the humorous musings of comedian Nate Bargatze, before posing the tantalizing question: where would you go if you could traverse the epochs at will? Join us for this metaphysical feast, and you might just find yourself craving a side of enlightenment with your nachos.In the final stretch of our temporal odyssey, we turn introspective, examining how the daily rituals we practice are the true vessels that carry us forward. We share personal stories and insights on the profound impact of habits, inspiring you to craft a future filled with intentionality rather than regret. By the end of this episode, we aim to leave you motivated to scrutinize your daily actions with a fresh perspective. So, buckle up, snack in hand, as we explore the intersection of fast food, fleeting moments, and the enduring journey through time.

    Nostalgic Bites and the Fabric of Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2024 61:35 Transcription Available


    Savor a PB and J-Witch with me, Bryan, as we embark on an auditory adventure through the essence of time, tinged with the flavors of nostalgia and anticipation. This episode is a tapestry of tastes and thoughts, where I, alongside my friend Nick, venture from a childhood classic snack into the realm of time travel and sentiment. I even take my first sip of Cheerwine, a fizzy reminder that our simplest delights can serve as anchors to the present and portals to the past.Our dialogue meanders through the subjectivity of time, examining how emotions and physical experiences mold its perception. Imagine watching a live event unfold, yet it feels different depending on your time zone—the relativity of time at play. We share stories; I tell you about approaching the age my father was when he passed and how it shapes my daily countdown. Our conversation unearths the profound impact of psychological constructs on the way we navigate life's routines and the distortion of time during heightened states like driving.As our cup overflows with curiosity, we probe the connection between fear and the stretching of time, inspired by scientific studies and the philosophies of authors like Eckhart Tolle. We dissect how the pursuit of new experiences can synchronize our subjective time with the vibrancy of life, making the case for embracing change and self-improvement. And, as a parting gift, we tease the brain-tickling topic of our next bonus episode on time travel. Prepare to have your thoughts on PB and J—and time itself—forever altered.

    Food for Thought and Time's Twists and Turns

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2024 55:03 Transcription Available


    Ever wondered if the juiciness of a chicken thigh trumps the classic breast in a spicy sandwich? Join us as we embark on a culinary expedition, tasting our way through the spicy chicken sandwich landscape, with a side of light-hearted banter about our own quirky food rules and preferences. Bryan even reveals his unexpected take on the age-old tater tots versus french fries debate, firing up a discussion on how personal tastes can lead to surprising conversations and revelations.But it's not all about the chicken—we're sipping on "hustler juice" and diving headfirst into the indulgent world of Taco Bell's larger-than-life offerings. As we reminisce about Glenn Bell's legacy and the evolution of our fast-food favorites, we also find ourselves reflecting on our dietary convictions. From Starbucks customization to the pull of default choices, we uncover the philosophy buried in our everyday fast food experiences, sharing laughs and insights along the way.Time to switch gears and talk time—how we perceive it, how it shapes us, and how, sometimes, it downright confuses us. From the linear progression of events to the cyclical patterns in life and the universe, we navigate through the philosophical and psychological mazes of time. We touch on COVID-19 as our new temporal milestone and even dip our toes into the effects of relativity on time, ensuring our listeners leave with their minds buzzing and perhaps, just maybe, a new way to view their next chicken sandwich.

    Stirring the Pot of Creativity and Courage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2024 75:55 Transcription Available


    Discover the art of culinary reinvention and personal growth as we take a whimsical journey from kitchen to character development. This episode is a veritable feast for the soul, steeped in the rich broth of history and spiced with the zest of self-improvement. Gather 'round as I recount transforming holiday leftovers into a delightful ham and corn chowder, a tradition rooted in the pragmatic gastronomy of the Great Depression. Then, we'll meander through the curious alleys of perpetual stews and nursery rhymes, finding resourcefulness in the most unexpected places.Taking a break from the simmering pot, our conversation shifts to the exploration of life's flavors and fears. I'll share my offbeat encounter with buffalo wing soda and a chili that's a symphony of chocolate, cinnamon, and beans, challenging the palate with the unexpected. We'll also dive into the essence of motivation, arming ourselves with strategies like 'fear setting' to confront our trepidations head-on. Listen as I detail a Toastmasters Club experience that proves with a plan in hand, the once-daunting task of facing our fears becomes a well-chartered journey.As we near the end of our time together, we don't shy away from the weightier ingredients of life's stew. We tackle the overarching struggle with burnout, perfectionism, and aligning work with values, stirring in anecdotes and insights to motivate and ground you. The episode is ladled with pearls of wisdom on managing overwhelm, the fortitude of support systems, and the significance of gratitude. There's no recipe too complex, no ambition too grand, as we serve up a blend of nourishing thoughts and energizing encouragement to inspire your next steps, both in the kitchen and beyond.

    Navigating the Tides of Motivation and Personal Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2024 62:46 Transcription Available


    Ever found yourself meticulously perfecting a breakfast biscuit, only to have it spark dreams of your own eatery? That's exactly where our conversation starts in our latest episode, as we whisk you away on a gastronomic and philosophical quest, revealing the simple joys and aspirations that can arise from the kitchen. Join us as we sip on the curiosity of a root beer-flavored ancient mushroom elixir and muse over the significance of hydration in our daily lives—because every dreamer needs to stay quenched.Struggling with motivation can feel like an endless battle, but we're here to navigate these choppy waters together. Our chat meanders from eco-conscious choices like going straw-free to the siren call of French fries, sharing laughs and confessions along the way. We lay bare the challenges of staying driven, whether it's the year-end blues or the daunting leap to decaf. Through stories and insights, we aim to offer comfort and strategies for those feeling stuck in the same rut.As our episode unfolds, we explore the transformative powers of habit formation and the subtle art of patience in personal growth. Our journey isn't just about reaching the destination—it's also about embracing the small, daily actions that culminate in triumphs over time. So tune in, as we extend an invitation to continue this exploration in future episodes, with the promise of uncovering more strategies to fuel your drive and keep you moving forward.

    The Soul of Cajun Cuisine Interwoven with the Essence of Giving

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2023 61:33 Transcription Available


    Ready to spice up your food palette? We kick off the episode by teleporting your taste buds to the vibrant flavors of Cajun and Creole cuisine, courtesy of a Zatarain's frozen meal. As I (the host) savor this satisfying delight, we journey through the rich history of these culinary styles and share why hydration plays a crucial role in your daily life.As we glide into the holiday spirit, we unravel the psychology behind gift-giving during celebratory occasions such as Christmas, Diwali, and Hanukkah. What's the story behind your generosity? We shine a spotlight on the interplay between gratitude and giving, nudging you to acknowledge the smallest acts of kindness that often go unnoticed. For the volunteers among us, we delve into recognizing and thanking you for your contributions, whether big or small.We round off the episode by expressing our gratitude to you, our listeners. Your engagement and feedback are what keep us going, so don't hesitate to drop us an email with your suggestions for future topics. As we look forward to 2024, we promise an hour of captivating content per episode, designed to inspire and arouse your curiosity. So, join us as we continue to explore various facets of life, culture, and more in our upcoming episodes!

    Sizzling Conversations: From Scarcity to Abundance Mindset

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2023 67:53 Transcription Available


    Ever wondered how breakfast creations could lead us to enlightened conversations on our mindsets, generosity, and the pure joy of giving? Picture this - a deliciously decadent sausage avocado toast sprinkled with charisma, a dash of humor, and a heaping spoonful of philosophy. As our breakfast sizzles and the aroma fills the room, we're spinning the conversation to the virtues of giving and thankfulness. As the holiday season approaches, we share our thoughts on "shrinkflation" and hoarding, and we unravel how generosity can shift our mindset to a happier, healthier space.Our morning meal takes us on a journey through the intriguing territories of scarcity and abundance mindsets. Get ready to challenge your perceptions as we spotlight Carol Dweck's growth mindset and its alignment with an abundance mindset. We also lay bare the signs of a scarcity mindset and its impact on our giving. Our discussion underlines the significance of not being focused on outcomes, but giving freely and generously from a place of abundance and gratitude. We round off our breakfast discourse by exploring the broader impact of generosity on the world. With a strong cup of Nespresso coffee in hand, we probe into the concept of unconditional giving, asking if it truly results in the positive outcomes we assume. We also tease you with a sneak peek into our upcoming episode, "The Spectrum of Generosity." So, pull up a chair, grab your toast and coffee, and tune in as we cook up some food for thought on generosity, abundance, and the art of giving without expecting anything in return.

    Navigating Relationships and Road Trip Revelations

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 33:22 Transcription Available


    What if a simple road trip could reveal the hidden complexities of trust and relationships? Settle into our mobile studio as we hit the road, gulping down Starbucks' decadent offerings and crunching on our favorite junk food while unraveling the intricacies of trust. We'll be your guides, leading you on a journey through the mouthwatering delights of pizza joints and our own surprising encounter with Lester Fixins ranch dressing soda. It's not all about the food though, we promise, your heart will be full too.On the more serious side of things, we'll be treading the delicate path of trust, expectations, and how these intertwine in our relationships. You'll gain insight into the emotional bank account theory, and how it recommends making regular trust deposits to maintain a healthy relationship. We'll also shed light on renowned psychologist John Gottman's theory on "turning towards, turning against, and turning away" as a tool for strengthening bonds. So gear up for a ride that's not just about feeding your stomach, but nurturing your soul and relationships too. Let's hit the road together!

    Czech Pastries at Buc-ee's and the Art of Building Trust

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2023 47:21 Transcription Available


    Have you ever thought about the role trust plays in every facet of our lives, or the pivotal role of a road trip destination in shaping your journey? This episode unravels the intriguing concept of trust, from personal relationships to professional environments. We also take you on a virtual sojourn to Bucky's, a gas station that promises more than just fuel - scrumptious full restaurant offerings, spotless restrooms, and the irresistible aroma of fresh baked goodies, including the Texas-modified Czech pastry, coloches. The journey doesn't end here. We pull back the curtain on the essentials of building trust in work relationships and share insights on giving and receiving constructive criticism, drawing from our experiences in the Toastmasters environment. Ever tried an enchilada soda or a jalapeno beer? We bring you a taste test from Bucky's exotic beverage menu and much more. As we wrap up, we delve into the essence of transparency, trust, and effective communication in the professional world. Harness the power of micromanaging to get to know your new team members and build trust. Discover the art of active listening and why it's a game-changer in professional settings. If you're curious about the quirkiest soda flavors or eager to navigate the complexities of trust in relationships, you're in for a treat. Join us for this enlightening episode!

    From Crab Boil to Complexities of Trust: A Philosophical Journey

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2023 59:32 Transcription Available


    Ever wondered how a crab boil dinner could bring to light the intricate layers of trust in our lives? We did too, and that's why in this week's episode, we've peeled back the layers of trust, just like those crustaceans, to bring you an in-depth exploration of a concept we often take for granted. We've all had those instances where we've placed our faith in someone or something only to be let down – it's the price we pay for being human, but it's also a catalyst for growth and self-discovery.As we journey through the complexities of trust, we consider its many forms – from the casual trust we place on a barista to get our order right, to the more profound trust we place in our relationships and in ourselves. We take a philosophical approach, connecting trust, truth, and faith and sharing our thoughts on how our tendencies to either trust too much or not enough can be a reflection of our strengths.In this episode, we also share a rather humorous memory of a crab boil experience during a recent vacation. The process of eating crab, the unique restaurant atmosphere, and the unforgettable beverages from a candy store all weave into our discussion on trust in unexpected ways. We cannot promise that you will master the art of eating crab by the end of this episode, but we guarantee a thought-provoking conversation about trust that might just change the way you approach relationships and life itself. Tune in!

    The Harmonious Intersection of Pleasure and Necessity

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2023 56:23 Transcription Available


    Remember those long road trips packed with a variety of butterscotch flavored snacks, or the unforgettable thrill of a Red Hot Chili Peppers concert? We do. And we're taking you along for a trip down memory lane as we discuss the subtle philosophy inherent in these experiences. In our latest podcast, we journey through the complexities of Stoicism and Hedonism, drawing surprising connections with Eddie Murphy's standup, and addressing a listener's poignant question about love versus apathy.Pleasure-seeking often gets a bad rap, but it doesn't have to be that way. We argue for finding a harmonious balance, where the pursuit of joy intertwines with life's other necessities. We also tackle the concept of finding playfulness in the seriousness of work, something that has often helped us maintain a balanced perspective during stressful times. Whether it's embracing the 'free spirit' mentality or challenging the norms of homeowners associations, we probe the spectrum of life and the quest for equilibrium. Lastly, we delve into the transformative power of play and gamification, a subject close to our hearts. We believe play can boost creativity, stimulate the mind, and even heal emotional wounds. Explore how the famous Mary Poppins adage, “A spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down,” applies to life's challenges and the pursuit of happiness. And, of course, we couldn't end the episode without discussing the importance of sleep - the ultimate pleasure! Join us as we blend humor, philosophy, and the pursuit of a well-balanced life.

    Feasting on Hedonism: A Tale of Pleasure, Ethics and Breakfast

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2023 55:01 Transcription Available


    Ever wonder about the philosophy behind your breakfast choices? Bryan and Nick take you through a culinary journey in this episode of "Help Yourself". Bryan and Nick start off with a simple yet innovative breakfast sandwich recipe inspired by Bryan's wife and McDonald's' circular egg trick. Picture this: a dozen eggs, baked to perfection and paired with turkey sausage and thin slices of cheddar cheese on an English muffin. Oh, and did Bryan and Nick mention Moon Cheese? It's our latest crunchy obsession that Bryan and Nick can't get enough of!  But Bryan and Nick don't stop at just food. They navigate the concept of hedonism, its definitions and its implications, especially in terms of food choices. Also the thrills of instant gratification but also the lasting impact of long-term pleasure. Bryan and Nick examine hedonism through an ethical lens and challenge the idea that pleasure can only be sought through selfish means.   And of course, what's a discussion about hedonism without looking at the hedonistic treadmill, the never-ending pursuit of pleasure? Bryan and Nick discuss the potential dangers and benefits of this treadmill in our lives. Is constant pleasure-seeking a path to happiness or just a ticket for an endless ride? They wonder if pain, pleasure and the choice some people make to live a life of sacrifice are all interlinked. As Bryan and Nick wrap things up, they emphasize the role of good habits in maintaining an upward spiral and achieving our goals. So, sit back, enjoy your breakfast sandwich, and let's embark on this hedonistic journey together.

    Breakfast Burritos, Beef Jerky and Balancing Life's Bedlam

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2023 50:19 Transcription Available


    Have you ever wondered how a breakfast quesadilla could kick start your day? Join us as we reveal the secret recipe to our morning delight — a quesadilla packed with snack-sized tortillas, egg white patties, turkey sausage, thin slice cheese, and a dash of hot sauce. But the culinary journey doesn't stop there. We also delve into the world of breakfast burritos, comparing homemade, fast-food, and hipster versions, while highlighting some shocking facts about their sodium content. And for that midday hunger pang, we've got you covered with beef jerky and a king-size Payday bar. Is your life a whirlwind of chaos and you can't seem to find order? We've got insights on how to harness the seemingly overwhelming chaos and create a sense of order. We share personal strategies like decluttering for 32 days straight and the screens-off-at-10pm rule. If you're a control freak, you'll love our conversation about using chaos to your advantage. But we also stress the importance of creating order for children without stifling their creativity and independence. Life is all about balance, isn't it? In our final segment, we discuss the delicate equilibrium of homeostasis. Learn how simple table topics can help us navigate chaos and ensure mental clarity. Listen as we dissect the role of stress and how it serves its purpose in maintaining the balance between chaos and order. Some might even say that our physical environment mirrors our mental state. So, join us on this enlightening episode as we explore the symbiosis between our surroundings and our state of mind. Let's find that balance together.

    A Philosophical Banquet - Campus Food and the Whirlwind of Chaos

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2023 60:48 Transcription Available


    Ever been tempted by the delectable allure of a college dining hall, or wondered if chaos is actually the secret to an unexpected order in life? We sure have! On this riveting episode of "Food and Philosophy with Bryan and Nick," we turn our culinary and philosophical lens onto the often-overlooked world of campus dining and grapple with the strange dance between order and chaos in our lives. Starting off with our own experiences - Bryan's encounter with a sour cherry sparkling drink and Nick's four-meal binge at Jet's Pizza - we get candid about college food, the infamous 'Freshman 15,' and the unexpected adventures that come with dorm dining. But it's not all about food! We also delve into the tumultuous yet intriguing relationship between chaos and order, drawing references from the movie "Stranger Than Fiction," and even exploring how the pillars of self-esteem can shape our response to unpredictability. Finally, we strip back the layers of subjectivity around chaos and order. We unpack how the pursuit of order can sometimes spiral into chaos, and how the unpredictability of chaos can, paradoxically, give us a sense of control. Using the lens of technology, we look at how platforms like TikTok can be a catalyst for chaos. We end the episode by embracing the chaos that life throws at us, contemplating over an enlightening article that provides 12 reasons to do so, and mull over the importance of taking action and creating healthy self-narratives. Embark on this ponderous journey with us as we navigate the chaotic yet delicious world of food and philosophy!

    Feasting on Spiced Vegan Wonders and the Intricacies of Unconditional Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2023 62:04 Transcription Available


    Ever craved a tasty vegan meal that needed a little extra zing? Allow us to take you on a culinary adventure as we spice things up and navigate the food terrain from Brian's taste buds to your ears. We'll share a foodie's review of a Forks Over Knives meal, the need for a hot sauce rescue mission, and a sip into the world of Nitro Pepsi. So, pull up a chair at our podcast table and get ready for some flavorful insights, seasoned with a sprinkle of philosophy.Now, have you ever considered unconditional love? Is it a human possibility or a beautifully doomed concept? We take a dive into the human mind, discussing the scientific basis for unconditional love and the role religion and spirituality may play in shaping our capacity for it. From exploring the distinct nature of love in various relationships to the concept of emotional bank accounts, our chat is more than a feast for thought. As we wrap up our conversation, we serve up some relationship wisdom, discussing the importance of good intentions in those we love and the impact of minor disturbances on our relationship health. We end on a note that challenges us all, to separate behavior from love in relationships. So, join us in a stimulating mix of food, philosophy, and a deeper understanding of unconditional love. Grab your headphones and your favorite snack, you're in for an enlightening treat.

    Exploring the Tastebud-Tingling World of Food and AI's Creative Disruption

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2023 65:41 Transcription Available


    What happens when the worlds of flavorful cuisine and artificial intelligence collide? Join us on this unique and compelling adventure as we explore the implications of AI on human creativity, meaningful work, and even humor. We'll share our recent culinary discoveries, from mouthwatering wraps made with canned chicken, pimento cheese, and cilantro green creamy sauce to a probiotics and prebiotics-rich Mango Gold drink that will leave your taste buds tingling.As the conversation shifts towards the future of AI, we'll ponder its potential effects on our career choices, our quest for purposeful work, and whether human creativity can withstand the test of time. Discover how AI can raise questions about intellectual property and plagiarism, and the challenges that patent and trademark attorneys might face in the not-so-distant future. Plus, we'll tackle the complexities of verifying information in the digital age and the role AI could play in detecting fake news.Finally, we'll have some fun contemplating the possibilities of AI in the world of stand-up comedy. Can machines ever truly replicate the same level of humor as a human? So, grab your favorite snack, a refreshing drink, and join us for an episode that's equal parts appetizing and thought-provoking!

    Exploring Tasty Dishes and AI's Societal Impact

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2023 71:51 Transcription Available


    What if going back to basics could make your meals more satisfying? Join Nick and me as we share our culinary adventures, from a simple yet scrumptious dish of chicken, avocado, and pimento cheese to the secret behind crafting the perfect grilled cheese sandwich using mayo instead of butter. Plus, we'll discuss Bryan's go-to beverage, Costa Coffee, the intriguing company that claims to have been born in Italy and raised in London.In this fascinating episode, we also tackle the world of AI regulation, TikTok, and solipsism. Delve into the motivations of influential figures calling for AI regulation and the recent US-China clash over TikTok, as well as the implications of these events. We'll also touch on the controversy surrounding AI detection in academic settings, and the future of AI in video games, content creation, and even the darker side of AI-generated experiences.As we explore the impact of AI on society, we'll consider the possibilities of combining narrow AIs for various tasks and the potential consequences of AI-generated pornography on population decline and human connection. We'll also discuss AI-generated companions and their possible effects on society, particularly in the US. Don't miss this thought-provoking and entertaining episode that will leave you pondering the future of our world, all while making you hungry for some delicious grub!

    Fake Smarts (AKA Artificial Intelligence)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2023 61:14


    Bryan and Nick talk about AI, sooooo we had AI write the description to this episode:Episode Description:In this captivating episode of our podcast, we delve deep into the intricate relationship between artificial intelligence (AI) and the human experience. Join us as we explore the ethical dilemmas that arise from the ever-advancing field of AI and its impact on society.We begin by addressing the fundamental question: What exactly is artificial intelligence? Through insightful conversations with experts in the field, we unravel the complexities and varying definitions of AI, shedding light on its potential to revolutionize numerous industries, from healthcare to finance and beyond.Moving forward, we navigate the ethical challenges that accompany the rapid growth of AI. Our discussions touch upon topics such as privacy concerns, algorithmic biases, and the impact of AI on employment. We examine real-world examples that highlight the potential consequences of relying heavily on AI systems, raising critical questions about accountability and transparency.Throughout the episode, we feature interviews with prominent AI researchers, ethicists, and thought leaders who provide invaluable perspectives on the ethical implications of AI. They offer their insights into the responsibilities of AI developers and the importance of considering human values when designing and implementing AI technologies.Furthermore, we explore the delicate balance between innovation and regulation. How can we foster innovation in AI while ensuring that it aligns with societal values? We delve into the role of governments, policymakers, and industry leaders in shaping the ethical framework surrounding AI.As we conclude the episode, we reflect on the future of AI and its potential to augment human capabilities. We consider the prospects of human-machine collaboration, exploring the possibilities of AI as a force for positive change. We emphasize the need for ongoing dialogue and interdisciplinary collaboration to navigate the ethical challenges that lie ahead.Join us for this thought-provoking episode as we examine the profound impact of AI on our lives and grapple with the ethical considerations that demand our attention. Gain valuable insights into the responsible development and deployment of AI technologies, ultimately envisioning a future where AI and humanity thrive in harmony.

    Life is but... Another dream?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2023 62:13


    Bryan and Nick continue their conversation about Solipsism and other stuff. This description could be better, but does it really matter? I mean, we're all in a matrix anyway, right? LOL.Send them an email!! helpyourself@brynic.com

    Life is But a Dream...

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2023 57:09


    Nick and Bryan are feeling alone in their discussion about Solipsism. It seems like they shouldn't feel that way as they record their voices and send them out to the void. Have you ever thought that our whole universe could be on the head of a pin? Well, it really could be...Email Nick and Bryan here... helpyourself@brynic.com

    Save The Hostages - Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 7, 2023 75:15


    Bryan and Nick finish talking about "Never Split The Difference" and they start by giving you the email trick to make sure you get a response when you aren't getting one with traditional means.Email them your thoughts... helpyourself@brynic.com

    Authenticity with Isaiah Marshall

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2023 66:06


    In this episode Bryan and Nick welcome long time friend and fellow Toastmaster, Isaiah Marshall. They decided to tackle the concept of authenticity (I know, pretty big, right?). Isaiah brings his own perspective on the subject.Also, if you would like to take a listen to Isaiah's podcast called "Frontrunner", you can hear it HERE. You may find a couple of episodes that have a familiar voice if you are a regular listener to the Help Yourself! podcast!Want to reach out to Bryan and Nick? Here you go... helpyourself@brynic.com

    Save the Hostages!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2023 48:38


    In this episode, Bryan and Nick discuss never splitting the difference. What is the common skills with hostage negotiations and getting what you want in every day life? Well the book Never Split the Difference by ex-FBI hostage negotiator does a great job trying to connect the two. Seems like there shouldn't be as many connections as there are, but Chris Voss certainly makes a good case for those connections being there. Email them!!! helpyourself@brynic.com

    Change is Fun!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 2, 2023 59:09


    In the second part of the discussion about change, Bryan and Nick discuss some ways to deal with change. Whether the change is thrust upon you or you decide to make a change, there are definitely things that can be done to make the change easier to cope with. Email them!! helpyourself@brynic.com

    Change Isn't from the Cash Register

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2023 62:24


    Bryan and Nick embark on a discussion about change. We all have to deal with it and we all hate it to some extent, but how do you deal with it? This may be a 2, 3, or 4 parter, but rest assured that Bryan and Nick won't change their format to allow you to have maximum comfort level.Email them!!! helpyourself@brynic.com

    Don't Argue With Us!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 60:50


    Nick and Bryan are very argumentative in this episode. They both wanted to explore the difference between having an argument and a discussion or a debate. Are there differences? Which is more effective? Is there a way to get through life without arguing? What is some of the ways to diffuse a situation that seems to be going towards an argument? Of course, Bryan had to make reference to Stephen Covey.Email them to argue... helpyourself@brynic.comLinks:Chef Bombay - Butter ChickenSwoon - Peach Iced TeaPrime Hydration DrinkMonster Ultra Violet

    Risky Business

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2023 62:58


    Life is risky! I mean, you're taking a risk to listen to this podcast. In this episode, we have Marshall Couch back (our first 4 time guest). We talk about taking risks and how that plays out in life. When should you take risks? Why should you take risks? What even are risks? As usual, there is a lot of mildly funny banter that happens.Send Bryan and Nick email -- helpyourself@brynic.comLinks:Seven Teas - Uptown Half & HalfMings Bings - Plant-Based CheeseburgerFrank's Red Hot Gallon Size (For Marshall!)

    Speaking Somewhat From Ignorance

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2023 58:47


    In this episode, Bryan and Nick talk about the See, Do, Get Cycle (Bryan is absolutely ecstatic because of his love for Stephen Covey). How do you perceive the world? (See) What actions do you take based on that paradigm (Stephen Covey's word that means your view of the world)? (Do) What results do you get from those actions, based upon that view of the world or situation? (Get) Listen to hear them fumble through and "speak somewhat from ignorance" as they usually do!! LOL.Send them email to tell them how ignorant they are helpyourself@brynic.comReferences:"See - Do - Get - Reflect" by Dennis Hooper

    What's Your Theme?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2022 64:39


    For the last episode of 2022, Bryan and Nick decided to see how some people tweak their new year's resolutions. Nick found a short, but great, video talking about making your resolutions broader and into themes that you could work on for a part of the year. In the vein of self-improvement, Bryan and Nick wanted to talk about it and share it with you guys. On that note, thank you for all of the love and support you all have given us. We love doing this podcast and love it when it is of some value to you out there (even if it's just to pass the time a little).CGP Grey - "Your Theme"Food Links:Mountain Dew Spark - Zero SugarAlani Fit Shake - Fruity Cereal

    Friends in Low Places (Part 3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2022 63:13


    Bryan and Nick are completing there exploration of the classic "How to Win Friends and Influence People". They also have some fun doing it along the way. We certainly don't want to influence you (except maybe to listen to our ramblings).  Email them... helpyourself@brynic.com

    Friends in Low Place (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2022 85:47


    Bryan and Nick talked about winning friends in the last episode. Now they are talking about influencing people. Hmmmmm. Well, they seem to have fun with it and they hope you have fun listening.Email them... helpyourself@brynic.com

    Unless They're in Low Places

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2022 87:46


    In this first episode of the "Help Yourself Book Club", Bryan and Nick tackle one of the most well known books out there... "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. There's so much in this book that it had to be split into two episodes. Email Bryan and Nick!!! helpyourself@brynic.comShow Links:Bryan's Weight Loss FundraiserTattooed Chef - Cauliflower Pizza BowlAura Bora Seltzer WaterRoar

    Which Princess Are You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2022 64:47


    In this episode, Bryan and Nick have some fun by taking some quizzes to see 'what they are'! Which princess are they? Which princess are you?Links:Which Disney Princess are You?What Harry Potter House are You?

    We're All Technically Biased

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2022 65:30


    Bryan and Nick have an awesome friend of the pod on for a 4th time... Marshall Couch. They actually had a chance to get together in person because Marshall was in their neck of the woods. They all got a chance to talk about cognitive biases once again. This time it's tech biases (The Google Effect, Automation Bias, and Authority Bias). They also talk A LOT about buffalo sauce!! Enjoy, but email if you do or don't (helpyourself@brynic.com)Show Links:Waldo's Chicken and BeerChlorophyll WaterCoke Dreamworld EditionDeath Wish Coffee Company

    Objectively Subjective

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2022 58:28


    Bryan and Nick talk about some more of the cognitive biases (are you getting sick of these yet?).  The main two for this episode are naive realism and naive cynicism, but there are a couple others thrown in there for good measure... you're just going to have to listen to hear which ones...They also eat some great jumbalaya made by the famous Dorey!!Email Bryan and Nick! Do it now!! helpyourself@brynic.com Links:Mill Creek BrewingFlying Cauldron Butterscotch Beer

    Shhhh... It's a Secret

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2022 58:37 Transcription Available


    Law of Attraction? Vision Boards? Bryan and Nick visualize you guys not being bored (see what I did there?) while you listen to this episode. Can you attract your desires? If you say your mantras and meditate on what you want, is it guaranteed that you will get it? The Law of Attraction says you can and will. But, many are skeptical about it. Is that skepticism what makes you not get what you want. (Wow... that is really circular). Bryan and Nick discuss it. They are visualizing you right now sending them an email... helpyourself@brynic.comShow notes and links:Sweet Earth Pad ThaiHalf Day Iced Tea LemonStarbucks Nitro Cold Brew

    Self Serve Yourself

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2022 71:52 Transcription Available


    In this episode, Bryan and Nick talk about more cognitive biases!! (Please contain your excitement...) Self-Serving Bias and fundamental attribution error sort of go hand in hand. Stop making excuses for yourself and holding others accountable! It is just the way the brain works, but knowing there's an issue is the first part in combating it, right? Happy listening!Show Links:Tokyo TreatBryan's RamenScreaming Man GumNatural Bliss - Oatmilk Brown Sugar CreamerChameleon Cold Brew Concentrate - Cinnamon VanillaVibi+

    My Inclination is to Decline

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2022 71:07


    In another installment of the cognitive biases series, Bryan and Nick explore declinism. Is it true that the world is getting worse and worse? Are people just thinking that because they themselves are in physical decline? Also, how does this connect to confirmation bias? Ed Zinkiewicz joins us again to have a great discussion. Email us!!!! helpyourself@brynic.comShow Links:Saffron RoadFit SodaLiquid DeathArizona Arnold Palmer Stick PacksRetirement KickstartHonor Thy Mother and Father as They Age

    Doing the Illogical is Logical

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2022 66:43


    Slow down to speed up... Eat more to lose weight... these are counterintuitive truths. Bryan and Nick attempt to break their brains by exploring this topic. They get into Zen Buddhism and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. In other words, just another rambling conversation over lunch.Email the boys -- helpyourself@brynic.comShow links:Ted LassoTed Lasso Energy DrinkTattooed ChefStarbucks Nitro Cold Brew

    Need Some Confirmation?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2022 42:06


    In this episode, Bryan and Nick tackle the confirmation bias that we all have. Have you ever "done your research" and all of the articles you like supported the position that you came to before your started your research? Well, it may be that you fell victim to confirmation bias. Hopefully this podcast confirms to you that Bryan and Nick are doing well as podcasters.Confirm that you listen by emailing... helpyourself@brynic.comShow Links:Koios Fit SodasStarlite Cuisine

    Oh My Goodness

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2022 68:00 Transcription Available


    In another installment to the "what is" series, Bryan and Nick take on a really good topic... What is Good? Is it how you act? Is it what societies do? What is good for some people may be bad for others, right? Bryan and Nick become as confused as these questions are!! (LOL) As usual, they talk a lot and come up with no answers!Drop them a line - helpyourself@brynic.comShow Links:Mananalu WaterUnited Sodas of AmericaWicked Kitchen Seriously Sriracha Tofu & Rice

    Fitness? Fit'ness Taco In My Mouth

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2022 60:00


    Bryan and Nick got a guest to come on once again. Austin Dubberly, from IronTribe Fitness in Franklin, Tennessee, is a fitness pro and he tries to get Bryan to get into shape. (Bryan tries to be coachable, but he's not great...) In another episode of the "what is" series, they talk about fitness. What comes first, physical fitness or mental fitness? Why find your why? Either way, just do it.Email the boys -- HelpYourself@brynic.comShow Links:IronTribe FitnessGhost Energy DrinksSriracha MayoTattooed Chef Plant Based Burrito BowlTribucha Super B - Dragonfruit LemonadeMountain Dew Flamin' HotCan't Hurt Me - David GogginsThe Dorito Effect - Mark SchatzkerThe Six Pillars of Self Esteem - Nathaniel Branden

    Watch Your Language

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2022 67:48


    Bryan and Nick have another great guest on to talk about language stuff. Devora Manier is a professor of linguistics and knows lots and lots about language. (She comes from a long line of linguists!!) She helps Bryan and Nick explore some cool things about language. Sort of a meta topic since Bryan and Nick try to use language at all times... Drop Bryan and Nick a line... HelpYourself@brynic.comShow Notes and Links:Only a Ginger - Tim MinchinThesaurus.com CedarLane - Vegan LasagnaBryan's Beverage Corner:BioSteel - Rainbow TwistChameleon Cold Brew Concentrate - VanillaChobani Sweet Cream Creamer

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