The Motherhood & Money Show

There is a lot for moms to manage around the holiday season. It can be magical and exhausting all at the same time! Bethany gives a pep talk this week to all the women out there doing their best to make this the best Holiday season yet!

Welcome back to another week of Motherhood and Money! This week Bethany is talking about ways to save money when shopping this holiday season--but these same tips apply all year!ALWAYS do your research. Check camelcamelcamel.com or Honey for good prices and cash back rewards Use a shopping portal like Southwest to compare prices online (check out this awesome article with a Shopping Portal Guide) Install browser extensions like Honey, Rakuten, or RetailMeNot for Cash Back and/or coupon codes Sign up for the marketing emails then use unroll.me to add them to your rollup Check opened box options on Amazon–examples of baby steamer and rumble seat Always check on facebook marketplace for giggles or join buy sell trade groups on Facebook for good deals on items

Things are really different the second time around--especially with babies! Bethany shares the things she did differently before the arrival of the baby, in the hospital, and nursing.Some of our favorite breastfeeding resources on Instagram are: @the.breastfeedingmama@LALactation@LegenDairyMilk@MilkyMamaResources Mentioned in This Episode: Knowing When to Say NoWater Llama  Breastfeeding the Second Time Around ArticleWhat are Milk Ducts and Alveoli?

She is back! Going Bethany for the second week in a row, Marissa Lyda shares the birth story of her second son, Jack. Before Marissa dives in to the full birth story, Bethany and Marissa catch up. Marissa fills Bethany in on the major events that have happened in the last week including her husband being laid off from his job (and why she is grateful for their emergency fund). They also discuss how much Bethany's recent dental work will cost (and why SHE is grateful for the HSA). 

Bethany is back from maternity leave with real time episodes! Tune in to hear how life is going with Baby Bayless #2 (Ella) and get the details of her birth story. Also as a special treat, Marissa Lyda joins the conversation and hear the full story for the first time! She also catches us up on what life is like for the Lydas as a family of 4!Also, for Bethany's birth gown, check out the Lila birthing gowns (not an affiliate).

What would the body positive conversation be without talking about moms bodies after babies? Amanda Tice is a plus sized model, mom to George, and author of  The New Mom Code: Shatter Expectations and Crush It at Motherhood. this week on The Motherhood and Money Show she chats with Bethany about postpartum bodies. Amanda discusses her journey with body image and becoming a plus sized model. She also shares her journey of becoming a mom and fighting against "bounce back" culture. She talks about pregnancy "gems" and how we can get ahold of the mental component that comes along with body positivity. Find Amanda on Instagram @AmandaTice or her website, https://www.amandatice.com!Come back next week for up to date episodes as Bethany returns from her maternity leave and shares her birth story!

There's a big connection between our relationship with food and money.This week on the show, Bethany is chatting with Jillian Lama, who is a master certified life and health coach and creator of the Body You Crave Method. They dive deep into the connections we have with food and money, as well as where we find our worth. Jillian talks about "Buffering" which avoiding emotions by replacing them with something else like eating. Bethany talks about why she is no longer apart of the clean plate club, and how that came from a scarcity mindset. Jillian talks about how we have similar mindset with money as well. Bethany shares how she believes that we have to fix our relationship with food or money in order to be a good model for our children. And Jillian shares how we can detach our self worth to those numbers on the scale or in our bank account. 

As moms and as women, we have so many thoughts and feelings around our body image. With fads and diets and a beauty industry that makes billions each year off insecurities, it is no wonder we can some times feel as though we aren't measuring up. Join Bethany in the first of a three part series on body image and our relationship with food as she shares her personal journey with weight, her relationship with food, and how she learned to be comfortable in her own skin.

October is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. So many members of our community have walked this journey of miscarriage or infertility. The comment we hear a lot when discussing these issues is that it is not talked about enough. It is very natural and understandable that we shy away from deeply personal and painful subjects such as this one, but today I want to dedicate an episode to talking about this subject that is more common than we realize. Today on the podcast sharing her trying to conceive journey is Natalie Torres-Haddad. Natalie talks about the treatments they have tried and the money that is involved. She also discusses the support she has received along the way. She also touches on things NOT to say to someone on this journey as well as helpful ways we can support them as well. Resources in this Episode: Real Simple Money Confidential Podcast: How Do I Pay for IVF and How Much is Too Much to SpendThe Egg Whisperer: How You Can Be Supportive as a Friend

How can we communicate in relationships to elevate each other and connect with empathy, assertiveness and respect to make the most out of your relationships?Melissa Giller, founder of Life with Soul, comes on to talk about just that. She and Bethany discuss the balance between empathy and assertiveness in relationships, and touch on several aspects of healthy communication. In the second half of the episode, they talk about friendship breakups, which can sometimes be as painful as romantic breakups. Listen as Melissa gives practical advice on how to handle friendships and how to set boundaries post-friendship. You can find Melissa Giller on her website www.melissagiller.com or on Instagram @Melissa_Giller.

What do you do when you are trying to be financially responsible and your spouse isn't interested? On today's episode, Bethany talks to Tammy Trenta, the founder and CEO of Family Financial (and former Apprentice contestant), on what it looks like when your spouse's financial values don't align with yours.In this episode, Tammy talks about her personal journey with financial literacy and being married to a finically irresponsible spouse. She also discusses what do you do if you are married to someone who is not financially responsible, how to navigate getting on the same page with your spouse, and how to protect yourself if they are unwilling to change. 

Attorney, mentor, and coach Sabrina Shaheen Cronin joins Bethany on the show discussing a massive topic of navigating the waters of separation, divorce, and co-parenting.Before they get to that though, the first part of the episode is talking about habits to build a strong marriage and getting on the same page financially. Here are some sample questions Sabrina suggests to ask a potential spouse: What are your values? How much debt do you have? Are you a spender or saver? Do you have any medical bills or prior illness to keep in mind? If you are blending families--how are you going to treat your children vs how they treat your children when it comes to gift giving, extracurricular activities, etc. Sometimes people might be forthcoming with values or even their income, so it is important to look for clues during those dating days. Sabrina talks bout how it is important to know where the bank accounts are, how much money is in the accounts, and not take it for granted that your spouse will pay all the bills. It is important for both people in a relationship to be involved, hands on and aware of your finances and business. The second part of the episode, Sabrina discusses prenups, postnups, divorce and co-parenting. Never sign a postnuptial, prenuptial or any legal document without reading it first!You can find Sabrina on Croninlawfirm.com or sabrinashaheen.com. You can also find her on Instagram @sabrinashaheencronin.

As moms we think we can and should be able to do it all in order to make us "good" moms. This week, Bethany is continuing the conversation around this topic with coach and accidental entrepreneur Suzanne Culberg. After discussing Blue and Hamilton, they dive into the big topic about the habits that can help overcoming over-giving and how to say No in a way that feels good. They touch on Mom-cations, daycare, self-care, and the guilt associated with why moms have a hard time being "selfish". Suzanne also talks about modeling good boundaries with our children so they are able to take these habits for themselves in the future. They also discuss gender roles and the part partners play in parenting, household chores, and bringing in income. 

Motherhood is no joke. Between the mom-shaming, mom-guilt, trying to do ALLL the things, and failing to live up to our own (sometimes unrealistic) expectations for ourselves, we are often in danger of total mom burnout. This week on The Motherhood and Money Show, join Bethany as she talks with LaKeisha Entsuah, founder and Chief Wellness Officer behind the Well Beauty Lab podcast and blog, about ways to deal with burnout. The touch on painting the picture of your ideal day and seeing how it differs from your reality, clearing the clutter out of your schedule and knowing your limits. The conversation turns personal as LeKeisha shares her story of what lead her to turning her career in pharmaceutical manufacturing into a plant based beauty brand and how she shifted her focus to wellness. Bethany and LeKeisha both share stories of burnout as moms and what they did to handle those seasons of life. You can find LaKeisha on Instagram at @wellbeautylab.

As Mamas, we all face the wide spectrum of medical incidents with our children. Wether it be a scrape or cut, fever, allergic reaction, or worse, it is hard to know when to call the doctor or if it warrants a trip to the ER. On today's episode, 12 year nurse and mama of twins Kristen O'Brien joins us to talk through several different medical scenarios and how to react. She and Bethany discuss common visits for fevers, recognizing an allergic reaction, common medications given, frequent injuries in kids, as well as what to call the pediatrician/doctor for versus go to urgent care or go to the ER. Kristen also explains the emergency room visit process to provide a better understanding of what to expect when you visit. Bethany and Kristen also touch on the importance of water safety and why every parent should know the basics of CPR!Resources mentioned in this episode: Steve Jo on TikTokTinyHood Infant CPR Online Course Baby 101: The Parenting PrerequisiteYou can find Kristen over at Twin Mama Blogs!

Motherhood requires a lot when it comes to planning for the best should the worst happen. An important conversation to have is who will watch your kids if something was to happen to you or your partner. This week, Rebecca Salgado returns to The Motherhood and Money Show with important questions to ask when picking out a guardian for your child, including: Would the kids be uprooted?How old are your kids? How old are your guardians? Do your values alignAre they financially responsibleWhat's their relationship with the childrenDo they have to be familyAre they willing to be a guardian?These questions are taken from the Huffing Post Article "Who Should Get Your Kids If You Die? There's More To It Than You Think."

Do Self-Employed mamas get "maternity leave"?On the podcast today, Jordis Small, graphic designer and entrepreneur, joins Bethany talking about the pros and cons of being self-employed and preparing for baby. This is a great conversation that touches outsourcing, preparing financially to step away from business, and the tight rope moms take when working and mom-ing full time. Spoiler: we don't have the answers! But Bethany and Jordis have a great conversation about the difficulty balancing it all. Resources mentioned in this Episode:Jenna KutcherBook a one-on-one call with Jordis! 

How can we raise MOSTLY money smart kids?On The Motherhood and Money Show today, Bethany has Robin Taub of The Wisest Investment on talking about three easy-to-implement strategies for time-starved parents who want to raise responsible, independent, money-smart kids. Robin is passionate about helping parents, grandparents and other teachers have money conversations with their children. Beginning at age five, right through to their twenties, she lays out a financial roadmap and shares strategies for teaching them about the Five Pillars of Money: Earn, Save, Spend, Share and Invest. To find out more about Robin visit her website!

Life is all about balance - especially while parenting. On today's episode, Bethany talks to Allie Gabelman of Financial Intentions about how being intentional with your finances is a process of diligently reviewing and being mindful with your money. She reminds us to make sure that you are only spending money on things that are necessary or actually bring you and your family joy. Allie also talks about how intentional spending is NOT extreme frugality. It is instead, ensuring you spend on what you truly need, or what brings you joy, and minimizing or eliminating the rest. The purpose of intentional spending is to be able to maximize how much money you have each month to send to your investments and savings goals. So it is important to know your "WHY" and keep that in mind when aiming to spend intentionally. 

Welcome back for week two of talking about documents needed after having a child! This week Bethany and returning guest (and social media manager for The Motherhood & Money Show!) Rebecca Salgado discuss Estate planning--including setting up your will, trust, guardianship for your children, and power of attorney. Every state is different. For information about your state please see https://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/estate-planning-your-state.These conversations are incredibly important and timely as we plan for the best should the worst happen. If you missed Part One, head back to last week's episode to hear about life insurance.

Today on The Motherhood and Money Show, we have our very own social media manager Rebecca Salgado! Rebecca also happens to be a health advocacy attorney in California. Today Bethany and Rebecca go over documents you need after having a child. This is part one in a two part series where they will be covering Life Insurance. Next week they will cover Estate Planning (will, trust, appointing a guardian to care for your children, advanced healthcare directive, and power of attorney for financial decisions).Rebecca goes over the two main types term and whole. Term is for a specific amount of time like 10 years. Whole life generally lasts your entire life. Beware with whole life insurance policies because if you're late or miss a payment it could invalidate the entire policy, meaning your beneficiaries get nothing.Everyone's personal situation varies, but generally people are better off getting term life and building their investments. Usually 150 a month to an investment account will provide better financial security than the risk that comes with a whole life insurance policy.Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Term vs Whole Life Insurance 

Let's have some fun this summer--and maybe consider some self care in the process!You deserve a break, Mama! Here are a few ideas you can do this summer to give yourself a little pick me up. We talk about healthy budgets having a space for spending money, and here are a few ideas of summer fun that might fit that self-care list. Ranging from free to a tad bit more of a splurge, consider taking time to do something for yourself today. You deserve it!Here are a few ideas we had: A floppy sun hatPretty dress/outfitSome snazzy sunnies (sunglasses)Iced coffee/water cupLibrary card for you or your kidsA light beach read Mani/pediBlowoutLaundry service or housekeeperDay at water parkWhat are some of your favorite self care splurges? Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Little LibrariesLibby AppMother's Day Episode with Bethany's Mom

We have heard it some many times--every pregnancy is different and every baby is different! In this episode, Bethany dives into the experiences and expenses she is discovering with Baby #2!Resources Mentioned in this Episode (may contain affiliate links)Glucose Test ArticlePreparing for Baby #2 Episode with Marissa LydaBabylist Fake RingsHatch sound machine Hatch baby scale Closet dividers 

I listened when you asked for it--we talk all things Investing today! If you haven't yet, please listen to Part 1 of this episode to hear Amanda talk about the basics of investing! This episode centers around your questions on investing, including what are the best funds to invest in, how much of your monthly income should go to investing, and what are the best apps to help with investing? If you want a chance to submit your questions for future episodes, make sure you are following over on Instagram @motherhoodandmoneyshow!Resources Mentioned in this Episode (may contain affiliate links)Amanda's Website Amanda's Course Amanda's InstagramAfford Anything by Paula PantPersonal Finance Club on Instagram Broke Millennial Takes On Investing

I listened when you asked for it--we talk all things Investing today! Amanda Holden compares investing to learning a language. It required a lot of education and practice when it comes to these concepts of invest, so don't beat yourself up if you aren't born knowing about Investing. For many women, finding the right teacher or network. Amanda also discusses the role women have when it comes to investing and who statistically actually invests better over the long run. We discuss where to get started in investing as well as excellent people to follow as you continue your investing journey and education. Resources Mentioned in this Episode (may contain affiliate links)Amanda's Website Amanda's Course Amanda's InstagramAfford Anything by Paula PantPersonal Finance Club on Instagram Broke Millennial Takes On Investing

Have you ever thought that there might be a relationship between clutter and money? Krista Lockwood from Motherhood Simplified joins Bethany on the show to talk about how she and husband moved from Alaska to Florida with one suitcase per person and accidentally discovered the power of living with less, especially as a large family.This is a fun episode talking about the benefits of decluttering, the relationship it has to money, where to get started in your decluttering journey and so much more!And it is so fun listening to this conversation from a finance perspective because there are so many great correlations, not only in how having less stuff obviously costs less money, but making room in your house for the things that truly matter (like making room in your budget to spend on things that matter to you), how to start the long journey of decluttering with one step at a time (just like starting the same journey of becoming debt free or saving for something big)!Remember this is a shame free space so there is zero shame or pressure to go declutter your entire house or that you have failed if you have things in your house! This message might not be for every right now,  but I enjoyed the conversation around it and I think you will too!

This week we have another great episode from our archives which seems especially appropriate during these crazy times! Tune in next week for an all new episode!How much does it cost to have a baby? The have already talked about saving before the baby arrives, but once they are here, they cost money every month!In this episode Marissa and Bethany talk about the monthly expenses they have for their boys like diapers, formula, clothes, toys, 529 plans, and fun. They also go into several ways to save on those monthly costs, like shopping at Costco for Diapers, using rewards programs for formula, and more! Mentioned in this episode are: Zenni to save on glasses Using Fetch Rewards App to use rewards on diapersCVS Care ProgramTarget CircleQube 

Hey friends! Bethany is taking a quick mini-break the next couple of weeks, but we didn't want to leave you without an episode! Here is one of the most downloaded episodes of The Motherhood and Money Show: Preparing Your Finances for Having a Baby. Enjoy!Having a baby can be expensive! Sometimes it is hard to know how much you should have saved up before that little bundle of joy arrives. In this episode of The Motherhood & Money Show, Bethany and Marissa discuss how they each prepared their finances for having children. In this episode we cover: How Bethany and Marissa each prepared financially and set money goals before TTCHow many months of expenses they set aside in their emergency fundsWhat is an HSA and why is it important when having a baby, as well at what items qualify for HSAShould you be debt free before having a baby? How to start a baby budget What are sinking funds and why are they important when planning for a baby?And as a bonus, we also address: Great questions to ask on a first date when you want to make sure they are financially stableWays to save on baby itemsSpending on the items that matter most to you and cutting back on items that are not as importantFor more helpful tips on the items we discuss in this show, visit motherhoodandmoneyshow.com or follow @motherhoodandmoneyshow on Instagram!

For a special belated Mother's Day episode, Bethany welcomes her own mom Ellie Kay on the show. They talk about the behind the scenes of going on The Price is Right together for the recent Mother's Day special, as well as other questions Bethany prepared ahead of time for her mom.We promise you, this episode will make you laugh AND cry and is unique look into the relationship Bethany shares with her mother.  Watch the Price is Right episode here OR stream on Paramount+ after May 13 Season 50 Episode 160 (the Mother's Day episode that aired May 6, 2022). 

As moms juggling schedules and people and home tasks and all the things, life can sometimes get a little overwhelming. Join Bethany this week as she has Alaina Fingal from The Organized Money as she talks about organizing life with pen and paper. As a planning enthusiast, Alaina has developed time saving systems and strategies that help her audience stop running on memory and start running on scheduled time. Bethany and Alaina talk about ways to organize your budget on paper, as well as finding the best way for you to organize your money in each season of life. Alaina talks about her 8 Life Categories she uses each week to help organize her time and encourages listeners to find their Life Categories that work best for them and their life. Bethany also shares her pregnancy nightmare related to organizing, as well as why she keeps all her planners just in case... Resources from this Episode: Make sure to always get your free credit report every year at Annual Credit Report!Alaina's Life Categories:ScheduleBusinessHealthHome and FamilyMoney and SavingsChurchFaith/Reading ScriptureReading and Personal DevelopmentAlaina's Etsy Shop with her plannersYou can find Alaina on Instagram as @TheOrganizedMoney

Paying off debt can be difficult--but there might be some fun parts to it? Join Bethany as she has Devon O'Connell from the Motherhood and Money Show community on the show talking about her journey of paying of $55k of debt. They have a fun conversation of what it is like to find joy in the midst of difficult seasons in life--everything from paying off debt to having a baby in May of 2020 at the peak of a global pandemic. There can be silver linings if you look for them!

It might seem a bit counter-intuitive to spend money if you are trying to save money or pay off debt. But did you know that when you spend money on something, there are actual psychological reasons why it will help you achieve your goal in the long run? In this episode, Bethany dives into the Sunken Cost Effect with special guest, Marissa Lyda. They discuss small investments that help save money in the long run, the psychological reasoning behind why spending money can be a major motivator, and why buying things that bring you more TIME increase your levels of happiness. Resources Mentioned in This Episode:Pricing and the Psychology of Consumption based on Harvard Business Review Sunk Cost Effect and Fallacy A Psychology Expert Says Spending Your Money on this can Boost Your Happiness

Talking about money with your partner can be difficult sometimes! Understanding tools and strategies to take with you into those money conversations can be a major benefit to your relationship--and may even save you money!Rachel Koonse, a licensed marriage and family therapist based in NorCal, dives into the research around disagreement and conflict, ways to model money conversations for our kids, ways to be a reflective listener, and so so much more!Resources MentionedTD Bank Love and Money SurveyJohn Gotman Research and Resources for Marriage CommunicationAffordable Therapy Options and Resources:Going through InsuranceAsk your HR about something called an EAP (Employee Assistance Program). These programs will often cover a certain amount of sessions or help pay for therapy sessions for their employees. Look into non-profits and low fee clinics in your area (Ex Cancer Support Community)Pre-lisenced Mental Health Professional: Local colleges and Universities might offer inexpensive therapy, sometimes even as low as $1. In these cases, it is common to find less expensive therapy because the therapists are still in training. The upside is that these therapists in training also have trained supervisors who are able to offer input, and they often have smaller case loads.Ask your therapist if they have a Sliding Scale fee. This is a system where the therapist might adjust their hourly fee to help make therapy more affordable. Group therapy or support groups are also a great options that can be cheaper than traditional one-on-one therapy. The other benefit to group therapy is that you already have a built-in support system with the other members who attend. Student in college or community college may offer free therapy through on-campus counseling center.Online therapy. With the pandemic came a wealth of online therapy options. BetterHelp, TalkSpace, and Headway are just a few options. Rachel Koonse is a licensed marriage and family therapist who is based in NorCal and supports clients across California via telehealth. She is the Virtual Program Manager of Cancer Support Community Pasadena as well as maintains a caseload of individual therapy clients through Path Mental Health. With experience in group practices, nonprofit settings, and schools, Rachel is passionate about creating space in therapy for clients to be heard, valued, and supported to reach their goals and potential.

Outsmart your grocery list!This week on The Motherhood and Mothershow, Gina Zakaria shares mind-blowing tips about saving money at the grocery store and hacks to avoiding food waste at home! She talks about calculating price per unit, favorite store apps, favorite stores to shop and when to shop sales, utilizing your freezer and pantry, and hacks in the kitchen to save your unused food from ending up in the trash can!And FREE for our listeners, Gina is giving away her  Gina's Freeze List (My top 30 favorite freezer-friendly foods). She also teaches her 5 top strategies in my Grocery Game Changer class (paid product). Follow Gina on her TikTok account and Instagram! Other Resources Mentioned in this Episode may contain affiliate links): The Financial Side of Starting a Business with Gerri Detweiler Honeybook for FreelancersEIN numbers are FREE and INSTANTANEOUS at the IRS.gov websiteCheck out Gina's article on Money Costco vs. Walmart Showdown: Here's Who Has the Cheapest Price on 11 Things You Buy All the Time.Organizing on a Budget EpisodeFlipp AppFetch Rewards Use code WMT63 for 2000 points!Target Circle App

Welcome back to Making Money March! It has been a great week learning about ways to make money from home. But starting a business also has a lot of details to consider when it comes to things like business accounts, taxes for small business, contracts and systems!Bethany has Gerri Detweiler on the show today answering all those questions as they navigate through the best practices to keep in mind when starting a business. They go over basic book keeping, opportunities available to women owned small businesses, basic tax things to keep in mind, the difference between a business and hobby, etc., and more! Resources mentioned in this episode:Starting a Business account: Lili NovoNorthOneCredit Reports and Scores episodeGet free help with your small business from SBA resource partners including Small Business Development Centers, SCORE and Women's Business Centers. Find your local SBA partners here:SCORE SBDCU.S. Small Business AdministrationIRS Small Business and Self Employed Tax CenterCrowdfunding: KivaCrowdfund BetterOther resources from this episode:  GerriDetweiler.comAnnette Stepanian, founder of YourLegalBff.com has contract templates for creatives. Gerri's 15-step Checklist for Making Your Business Legit Get a free copy of Gerri's award-winning book Finance Your Own Business

Welcome back to another episode of The Motherhood and Money show!This week we dive into selling stickers with Chelsea Brenna of Smart Money Mamas and learn about how she launched 2 successful sticker businesses in less than a year. But if you don't care about selling stickers, don't worry! This episode is still for you! Because when it comes to starting a business, there is always an origin story. It always starts somewhere. As we go through Chelseas's story, we touch on so much including:Setting a timeline when quitting your job to go all in with your side hustle, What it means to have a wholistic money mindset so we can set the best financial example for our kidsTesting and scaling products and business ideas We even touch on knowing your worth as a freelancer and what the term "scope-creep" meansBut this episode does eventually dive into how Chelsea launched 2 successful sticker businesses in 6 months. She gives you very specific insights into where she gets her stickers, her packaging, how she prices her products and even selling on Etsy vs her own websites. There is so much good information that it has even inspired me to get out there and start trying some of these things. We will also be talking about the Mamas Talk Money Summit: The Legacy You Leave which is an online LIVE event taking place April 8-10. In fact, our very own Bethany Bayless will be apart of a panel on April 10 at 1:30 pm ET talking about Effective Systems for Building Wealth with other amazing women. We would love it if my motherhood and money community came to root her on! For a special discounted ticket visit motherhoodandmoneyshow.com/MamasTalkMoney and use code MOTHERHOODMONEY for $5 off!Resources mentioned in this episode: Kingdom of ThreadsWildly EnoughSticker Mule Sticker Blitz FaireHello AboundClub FlourishNo Issue for boxesUprinting for printingVista Print

Get creative with making money from home!Today on The Motherhood and Money Show, Bethany chats with Caroline Vencil about the part of her business where she creates and sells templates on Canva for her audience. Also in this episode, they touch on knowing your target audience, key things to know for SEO, and lots more!Resources mentioned in this episode: Namecheap.comShopifyEtsyTeacher Pay TeachersDesign BundlesCreators MarketConvertkitMailerliteFlowdeskKeywords Everywhere Chrome ExtensionErankMarmalead (Keyword tool for Etsy)

After hearing the first series of Making Money March on The Motherhood and Money Show, Alyssa Jenkins started her jewelry company on April 1, 2021. Since then, her business has developed  into a very successful side hustle where she customizes in breastmilk jewelry. But beneath it all, Alyssa is building a community of moms supporting other moms as she helps them turn special memories into tangible keepsakes. Join Bethany as she talks with Alyssa about her journey, her marketing methods, as well as the practical day-to-day of a full time Mama with a full time job and a delightful company. You can follow Alyssa and her breastmilk jewelry company on Instagram at @TheSimpleOlive.Resources Mentioned in this Episode: Breast Feeding Episode10% off Code at The Simple Olive for Motherhood and Money Show listeners with code THANKSYear 1 of Making March:1. How Marissa and Bethany Started our Businesses2. Are MLMs a good business decision?3. 12 Ways to make money using Apps4. 10 Ways to Make Money from Home5. Physical Products vs Digital Downloads vs Service Based Businesses

Welcome to our Second Annual Making Money March! We started this last year for moms who wanted to make money from home while working around there kids nap time schedules. It has expanded into covering a variety of topics with one goal in mind: making money!Today's episode centers around developing a brand and briefly touches on building a website to best house your company or side hustle. Year 1 of Making March:1. How Marissa and Bethany Started our Businesses2. Are MLMs a good business decision?3. 12 Ways to make money using Apps4. 10 Ways to Make Money from Home5. Physical Products vs Digital Downloads vs Service Based Businesses Branding Questions: 1. What is your Why?2.  Who is your Target Audience? (ProBlogger Avatar Worksheet)3. What is your message?4. What are your core values? Resources mentioned:SkillshareLinkedin Learning (Previously known as Lynda)--check with your local library to see if they offer a free subscription!YouTubeTop 10 Places to Buy Your DomainElementorWix, SquarespaceCourse Recommendation: Selling Online: A Guide to E-commerce by Threeologie

Medical bills can be expensive, and sometimes they can even devastate your finances if you weren't ready for them.Justine Nelson from Debt Free Millennials joins Bethany on the show today to talk about how she received a 30% discount on her medical bill from giving birth and practical steps on how you can negotiate any medical bill. Why is it important to try to negotiate? Hospital services are heavily inflated. Hospital costs are not transparent. Insurance companies can negotiate what they'll pay with hospitals, why can't the consumer?Here are a Justine's practical steps you can take to negotiate your bills: Review your bill - Ask for an itemized billQuestion anything that looks inaccurate or doesn't make sense - (two line items for vaginal delivery - one was for the midwife's care and the other was for the actual room)Calculate out the discounted price ahead of time - Start with 40% discount, calculate for 35, 30, 25% so you can quickly negotiate a different costUse a script - "I'm calling about my outstanding balance and would like to take care of that today." - "If I pay $XX today, will my account be considered paid in full?"Ask for a confirmation number - Ask how long it takes for your account balance to be cleared and paid in fullResources mentioned in this episode: Season 2 Episode 1: Mental Health for Mamas Episode and Show NotesChris Voss: The Art of Negotiation and Never Split the DifferenceBethany's Birth Story 

Welcome to another episode of The Motherhood and Money Show!Join Bethany and special Season 2 guest host, Marissa Lyda, on an episode filled with big announcements, laughter, and talking all about preparing for Baby #2!Products mentioned in this episode: SnooVista Rumble SeatHatch Baby ScaleHatch Sound MachineElvie Breast PumpLittles BookTo write a love note or apply to be a guest host, visit our website!

Welcome back to another season of The Motherhood and Money Show! It is so wonderful to be back with Season 2 of The Motherhood and Money Show! On today's episode, I am talking about something that is incredibly important to me and a topic I would like to normalize even more: the importance of mental health as moms and women. As moms, we carry a lot and juggle a lot of hats. Here are a few reasons why that could be: Often the mental and emotional labor of the family falls on mom's shoulders (The holidays is a really great example of this! See the video above).Postpartum depression and anxiety can affect 10-20 percent of new moms (and possibly even more when it goes undetected). Moms suffer burnout and exhaustion as they are often solidified as the default parent role. The pandemic highlighted this. Moms also tend to handle the bulk share of communication and organization in the family unit (scheduling doctors appointments, after school activities, schedules, meal planning, etc.). This is often know as emotional or invisible labor.Becoming a new mom can already be isolating, and over time mom's can feel a lack of identity and question who they are aside from “just Mom.”As moms, we cannot pour from an empty cup, and checking in on our mental health is one of the best self-care practices we can do for ourselves and our family. In this episode, we cover: Benefits of therapy (as outlined in this Healthline article)Bethany shares a brief part of her story and how she came to invest in her mental health through talk therapyDifferent levels of therapy to consider when looking into finding a therapistWays to ensure you are finding the right therapist (including a mini-interview and sample questions to ask them)Affordable therapy optionsFor a complete detailed outline, please visit our website Season 2, Episode 1: The Importance of Mental Health for Moms

As moms, we cannot do it all and the weight of everything can be overwhelming. Sometimes we have to say no.In this episode, Bethany and Marissa talk about the weight of invisible labor moms carry, especially when it comes to the holidays. They also talk about their priorities and big changes coming up for each of them in the future. Stay tuned to two MAJOR announcements with life updates as well as what the future holds for The Motherhood & Money Show. 

In this episode, Bethany and Marissa take a deep dive into some listener letters (AKA Love Notes) and answer questions!This episode covers how to deal with disappointment of not being financially able to have a baby quite yet, wether or not someone should move for less expensive IVF treatments, how to save for a down payment on a house after having a baby, and all the deets on how Marissa bought and sold her cars recently. Do you have a question you would like covered on the show? Send us a Love Note on Instagram (@MotherhoodandMoneyShow), and email at motherhoodandmoneyshow@gmail.com, or fill out our Love Note Form!

The world is opening up again, and that means international travel if you so wish! Bethany recently returned from a trip to Dublin, Edinburgh, Manchester, and London with her 16 month old and is sharing her experience with Marissa on this weeks episode of The Motherhood and Money Show. In this episode, we cover how to save when booking airfare, hotel, and experiences for international travel as well as tips and tricks of traveling with a toddler on long flights!Resources mentioned in this episode: Rent FREE audiobooks through your library with Libby or OverdriveHopper app for finding best time to fly and buy your tickets for air travelSkyscanner Bethany's Airbnb in DublinBooking.comTravelzooViator.comTraveling Must HavesSlumberpodMelissa & Doug Activity BookKids HeadphonesSkip Hop Mini Backpack with tetherSnacks in craft box containerNoJetLagEmergenZDisposable Changing Pad Covers Baby Bjorn travel Crib (But look for one on FB Marketplace or a cheaper option!) 

It is the most wonderful time of the year! And if you have heard it once, you have heard it a million times here on the Motherhood and Money Show--save on what matters to you and cut back on the things that don't! That includes the Holidays!This episode dives into Save Vs. Splurge: Christmas Edition. Bethany and Marissa go into how they save for Christmas each year through sinking funds, using credit card points, or possibly saving cash in a Christmas envelope. Plus, Marissa and Bethany talk about how much they spend on each family member, ways to save on gifts, and special things they are willing to splurge on around this time of year. Resources mentioned in this episode: Credit Reports and Scores EpisodePutting the Fun in Sinking Funds EpisodeOrganizing on a Budget Episode

What are the things that you choose to splurge on, and what are the things you will cut back on? Here at the Motherhood and Money Show, we believe in spending money on the things that matter to you and cutting back on the things that don't. Because Personal finance is personal, that will mean something different for every one. In this episode, we dive into the things Bethany and Marissa like splurging on (while also still saving money), and the things they will relentlessly cut back on.Also in this episode, we touch on some trending news of Dollar Tree raising their prices.

It is time for a Budget Check In!!In episode 17 of the podcast, Bethany and Marissa talked about the basics of budgeting, and Bethany committed to trying Marissa's Budget Template.  After a couple months, Marissa checks in with Bethany to see how it is going as they dive into budgeting once again. Also in this episode, get a glimpse into Bethany's Experience on a popular Game Show, why Marissa has never pumped her own gas, and some dreams Bethany and Marissa each have for their budgeting futures. Resources in this Episode: Episode 17: Budgeting BasicsDownload Marissa's Budget Template for $2 off with MMSBUDGET from now until November 9, 2021 in Marissa's Etsy Shop!Book of the Month

Finding things to do to entertain your toddler can be a full time job,  but there is help and ideas along the way! In this episode of The Motherhood & Money Show, Bethany and Marissa talk about their favorite Instagram accounts to fool for activity ideas, places they like to go with their boys, as well as wether or not they do screen time (and what they watch!).  Resources mentioned in this episode: Healthiest_Baby on InstagramBig Little Feelings on InstagramSensory Activity accounts:MotherCouldSevenDaysofPlayBusyToddlerMini Sink with FaucetScreentime: Super Simple SongsBluey on Disney +Daniel Tiger on PBSMelissa & Doug Activity Book

Disney is the happiest place on earth for the heart, but maybe not so happy for your wallet. This week on The Motherhood & Money Show, Bethany and Marissa dive into ways to save money when doing Disney. From airfare, to hotel, to tickets and food, this episode is packed full of magical moments to help you stretch a dollar and do Disney the best way for you and your family!Resources mentioned in this episode: Episode 34: What I wish Someone Had Told Me About WeaningEpisode 36: Mama's Going Back to School!Tim Tracker Disney VloggerSee Ya Real SoonIs It Packed Crowd Tracker Episode 27: Credit Reports and Scores

It's officially fall, which means back to school season--even for some moms!Tune into this weeks episode to hear Marissa and Bethany talk about Bethany's experience of returning to school for a Graphic Design and Multimedia degree. They talks about why it might be a good time for moms to return to school, the financial aspects of paying for it, as well as what it is like returning to school with a toddler at home!Resources mentioned in this episode: https://collegenews.org/women-outnumber-men-in-us-colleges-nearly-60-of-students-in-2020-21-were-women/https://feed.georgetown.edu/access-affordability/women-increasingly-outnumber-men-at-u-s-colleges-but-why/Apply for the FAFSANet Worth Episode Scholarships Available for MomsWeeCare App