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This week I Convince You To Prepare For Black Friday in June! [powerpress]
Most people think personality tests are about labeling people. They're not. AJ sits down with Enneagram expert Ian Morgan Cron to explore how personality develops, why childhood experiences shape our patterns, and how self-awareness can transform relationships, leadership, and decision-making. Rather than focusing on behaviors alone, the Enneagram uncovers the fears, motivations, and stories driving those behaviors beneath the surface. This conversation dives into personality, emotional intelligence, leadership, conflict, relationships, and why real growth begins when you stop collecting information and start applying it. Chapters00:00 – What the Enneagram is and how personality develops06:00 – Self-awareness, strengths, and blind spots12:00 – Core fears, motivations, and Enneagram types18:00 – Childhood patterns, attachment, and personal stories24:00 – Leadership, influence, and self-awareness30:00 – Why information isn't transformation33:00 – Relationship patterns and recurring conflict38:00 – Understanding others without losing curiosity49:00 – The three centers of intelligence53:00 – Using personality insights to make better decisions A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://ianmorgancron.com/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok enneagram, personality types, self awareness, emotional intelligence, leadership, personal growth, relationships, communication skills, psychology, conflict resolution, attachment theory, self improvement, human behavior, leadership development, mindfulness, decision making, social intelligence, personality assessment, relationship skills, self discovery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About The 2026 Mid-Year Business Checkup [powerpress]
ANNOUNCEMENT: If you're a caregiver based in New York State or still have family in New York, join me on Thursday June 18th for my webinar, Caregiving: A Public Health Issue. 8pm est; $15 per person.Sign up here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1991026454723?aff=oddtdtcreatorOn this episode of The Social Work Rants Podcast, I discussed the changes to reimbursement rates for providers using CPT codes 90834 and 90837 on the Alma platform, effective July 15th. The changes involve adjusting the rates for session durations, with code 90837 (53 minutes and up) being reimbursed at the same rate as code 90834 (37-52 minute sessions). Basiliso also mentioned the impact of inflation on these changes, citing a recent 4.2% inflation rate.Inflation and Mental Health ConcernsI discuss the impact of inflation on various aspects of life, including healthcare costs and gas prices, noting that while President Biden reduced the national inflation rate, many expenses continue to rise. I expressed concerns about technology platforms like Headway that visually scan patients during mental health sessions, citing ethical issues around patient privacy and surveillance. I also mentioned challenges with audits and payment reimbursements for agencies.I highlight the work of Justin Gillespie from Blue Cross Blue Shield of Michigan, who is working on legislation to address reimbursement rates at both state and national levels.Payer Regulation Impact on NonprofitsI discussed recent payer regulation changes affecting Medicaid and HMO services, including increased denial rates and higher audit frequencies leading to potential nonprofit closures. They highlighted budget issues in New York City affecting nonprofit organizations' ability to pay staff and bills. Basiliso noted that the full impact of the HR1 legislation may not be fully realized until after the November general election.Medicaid Recertification Changes UpdateI also warned about upcoming changes to Medicaid recertifications and a new work requirement effective in July, which will require individuals to show proof of working up to 80 hours to maintain their benefits. These changes will significantly impact vulnerable populations and make social workers' jobs more challenging. The discussion was presented as educational content to help professionals understand the evolving landscape affecting their work.
The land of Big Tech Therapy has been making headlines. I cover some of them in this episode.*The links shared below are a reference only and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Marie Fang, Private Practice Skills, or its sponsors.If you'd like a great summary of all that I covered, check out ZynnyMe's article:https://www.zynnyme.com/blog/alma-headway-and-the-big-questionIf you feel compelled to do something, this r/therapists post links to several options at the systemic level:https://www.reddit.com/r/therapists/comments/1tvzpov/support_and_advocacy_for_therapists/Build Better Health's Mental Health Insurance Reform Task Force's Petition (if you'd like to sign):https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/we-demand-a-system-that-reflects-the-true-value-of-mental-health-careThank you to Paubox for sponsoring this episode. Paubox makes HIPAA-secure email and forms easy and streamlined. Check them out here:https://hubs.la/Q04k58tL0*Get $250 off your first year with Paubox with coupon code "SKILLS"*Bonus Deal:* If you add the Paubox badge to your website you get an extra $100 off your first year - that means you can get your whole first year free if you apply both deals!Citations:Alma has investments from Cigna and Optum:https://cignaventures.com/alma-raises-130m-in-series-d-funding-led-by-thoma-bravo-to-advance-its-mission-to-simplify-access-to-high-quality-affordable-mental-health-care/Health Care Service Corporation (HCSC), the parent company of several Blue Cross Blue Shield programs, invests in Headway:https://www.hcsc.com/newsroom/news-releases/2023/strategic-investment-headway-behavioral-healthReference: HCSC is parent company of Blue Cross Blue Shield:https://www.hcsc.com/who-we-areRula backed by Blue Venture Fund:https://bhbusiness.com/2024/09/17/digital-mental-health-platform-rula-health-expands-to-50-states/Reference: Blue Venture Fund invests on behalf of Blue Cross Blue Shield:https://blueventurefund.com/Headway and Alma announce 30 percent cut in Optum Rates, January 2025:https://clearhealthcosts.com/blog/2024/11/2-digital-mental-health-platforms-cut-pay-rates-for-therapists-with-unitedhealths-optum-stirring-anger/Aetna cuts rates with Alma-contracted therapists:https://bhbusiness.com/2026/05/21/aetna-cuts-rates-with-alma-contracted-therapists/r/therapists megathread on Aetna's rate cuts through Alma:https://www.reddit.com/r/therapists/comments/1tj1bl1/megathread_aetna_alma_reimbursement_changes_90837/APA urges Aetna to halt rate cuts:https://updates.apaservices.org/apa--american-psychiatric-association-urge-aetna-to-pause-reimbursement-rate-cuts-for-behavioral-health-cliniciansAetna Launches Aetna Mental Health on Demand:https://www.aetna.com/insights/news/aetna-launches-mental-health-on-demand.htmlCVS Announces Aetna Mental Health on Demand:https://www.cvshealth.com/news/condition-management/aetna-launches-aetna-mental-health-on-demand-to-provide-real-time-access-to-care-and-ongoing-support.htmlProof News Article: "Woman's Talkspace Therapy App Sessions Exposed in Court"https://www.proofnews.org/womans-talkspace-therapy-app-sessions-exposed-in-court/FTC Sues Amazon for Monopoly Power:https://www.ftc.gov/news-events/news/press-releases/2023/09/ftc-sues-amazon-illegally-maintaining-monopoly-powerClass Action Lawsuit Against Headway:https://www.classaction.org/news/headway-hit-with-class-action-over-alleged-disclosure-of-patient-info-to-googleClear Health Costs Article: "Therapists have misgivings on the platforms: Alma, Headway etc. and the business of therapy”https://clearhealthcosts.com/blog/2025/11/therapists-have-misgivings-on-the-platforms-alma-headway-etc-and-the-business-of-therapy/Website: www.privatepracticeskills.comThis podcast is not intended as professional or legal advice. Be sure to seek the services of a professional if you are in need of them.
W dzisiejszym odcinku leczymy wyrzuty sumienia… Paweł usiadł bowiem wreszcie do polskiej gry „The Thaumaturge” (studia Fool's Theory) – quasi-noirowego RPG z elementami nadprzyrodzonymi, rozgrywającego się w 1905 roku w Warszawie – i doszedł do wniosku, że to produkcja, w którą powinien zagrać każdy prawdziwy Polak. Dlatego podjął misję powiedzenia o niej wszystkim osobom, które zna i które nie zna – w tym Wam.00:30 Wstęp do odcinka01:23 – Zapowiedź nowego dodatku do „Wiedźmina 3” pod tytułem „Songs of the Past”09:43 – Dyskusja o „The Thaumaturge”
This week I Share How Pivoting Isn't Failing [powerpress]
After late-night votes and a contentious markup, Congress is inching forward on some of its highest-profile priorities, including ICE and CBP funding and the annual defense authorization bill. Regular appropriations for 2027 are also moving through committees. Loren Duggan, Deputy News Director for Bloomberg Government, joins me now to walk through where things stand. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
The Government plans to crack down on run it straight-type events and other combat sports following lobbying from sports and health organisations. Sports Minister Mark Mitchell confirmed that work on a potential law change was progressing. Mitchell sought advice from sports officials and health experts after Palmerston North teen Ryan Satterthwaite died from a serious head injury suffered during an impromptu version of the game last year. CEO of head injury organisation Headway, Stacey Mowbray, told Heather du Plessis-Allan, "I would like to see a mix of legislation, but also education. I don't think, legislation alone is going to be enough." LISTEN ABOVE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Most people think elite performers are born with confidence. They're not. AJ and Johnny sit down with former Marine Force Recon Scout Sniper AJ Pasciuti to explore the hidden side of success: self-doubt, failure, mentorship, and the relationships that shape us before we believe in ourselves. From becoming a sniper despite feeling like an unlikely candidate to one of the most famous sniper-versus-sniper engagements in modern military history, AJ shares why courage comes from action, why failure is part of the process, and why no one succeeds alone. Chapters00:00 – From self-doubt to becoming a Marine sniper08:00 – Why relationships build confidence before self-belief16:00 – Carrying someone's weight until they can carry it themselves24:00 – Separating emotion from decision making30:00 – Leadership, humility, and solving problems as a team39:00 – Adapting when the plan falls apart47:00 – The power of mission, purpose, and flexibility55:00 – Looking in the rearview mirror to build courage01:00:00 – The social contract of leadership and service A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://ajpasciuti.com/ https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400254973/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok leadership, resilience, self confidence, mentorship, military leadership, decision making, teamwork, self doubt, courage, emotional intelligence, personal growth, adaptability, problem solving, accountability, service, leadership development, mental toughness, success mindset Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About The Summer Slow Down Myth [powerpress]
Nasz podcast istnieje od kilkunastu lat i wreszcie doczekaliśmy momentu, w którym papież jest po naszej stronie. W swojej najnowszej encyklice Leon XIV zdradził, że regularnie nas słucha i zgadza się z naszymi argumentami przeciwko nieregulowanemu rozwojowi AI. Z drugiej strony na pewno nie zgadza się z nimi (więc tym samym z papieżem) kierownictwo Google, które postanowiło postawić wszystko na wirtualnego, wygenerowanego algorytmicznie konia, jakim jest sztuczna inteligencja w domu i zagrodzie.
Most people think negotiation is about winning. It's not. AJ and Johnny sit down with Attia and John to unpack why the best negotiators focus less on control and more on curiosity, relationships, and emotional regulation. From fear of rejection and reciprocity to fairness, empathy, and practicing rejection on purpose, this episode breaks down the real skills behind influence and lasting agreements. They also explore why most people fail negotiations before they even begin — because they haven't practiced discomfort, clarified what they actually want, or learned how to regulate emotions under pressure. Chapters00:00 – Why negotiation isn't about defeating people08:00 – FBI negotiation tactics and behavioral training16:00 – Rejection, fear, and building negotiation resilience24:00 – Empathy, reciprocity, and understanding motivations33:00 – Fairness, emotions, and hidden decision making41:00 – Practicing failure and managing stress responses49:00 – Social capital, authenticity, and influence 56:00 – Clarifying what you actually want in negotiation A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://www.neversettlenegotiate.com/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok negotiation, communication skills, influence, emotional intelligence, persuasion, empathy, reciprocity, conflict resolution, rejection, relationship building, decision making, fairness, social skills, confidence, behavioral psychology Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I answer Listener Questions [powerpress]
W dzisiejszym odcinku pochylamy się nad dylematem, który ostatnio zawładnął internetem. Koncepcja jest taka: każda osoba na świecie musi nacisnąć jeden z dwóch przycisków. Naciskając czerwony zapewniasz sobie przetrwanie. Naciskając niebieski zapewniasz sobie przetrwanie, ale tylko jeśli ponad połowa ludzi naciśnie niebieski. Ten prosty z pozoru koncept prowadzi nas do wielu dziwnych rozważań o moralności, matematyce i relacjach międzyludzkich.
After marathon five-hour talks, representatives from the EU Parliament and the EU Council agreed on Wednesday to go ahead and ratify the trade pact found with the US in July 2025. US President Donald Trump had threatened to increase tariffs on EU autos to 25 percent if the deal wasn't implemented by July 4. Also in this edition, talks between Samsung and its workers went down to the wire ahead of a scheduled 18-day strike on Thursday.
This episode explores why modern life is quietly making us less social — and why even tiny moments of connection can dramatically improve happiness, relationships, and confidence. AJ and Johnny sit down with University of Chicago professor Nick Epley to unpack the psychology behind loneliness, introversion myths, social anxiety, communication, and why people consistently underestimate how much others want to connect with them. They also discuss how technology trains us to avoid uncertainty, why your voice matters more than text, and how honesty and asking for help actually strengthen relationships instead of weakening them. Chapters00:00 – Why small social habits matter more than we think07:00 – Technology, isolation, and the loss of human connection14:00 – Social “superpowers” and hidden opportunities around us19:00 – Why your voice matters more than texting24:00 – Social uncertainty, pessimism, and missed connection30:00 – Introversion myths and social energy explained39:00 – Rejection, vulnerability, and negative social experiences44:00 – Deep conversations vs small talk48:00 – Honesty, warmth, and authentic connection51:00 – Why asking for help strengthens relationships A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://www.nicholasepley.com/ A Little More Social Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok social skills, communication, psychology, loneliness, introversion, connection, emotional intelligence, relationships, confidence, social anxiety, conversation skills, human behavior, authenticity, happiness, self improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Private practice has changed a LOT over the last few years… and therapists are still trying to figure out what comes next. In this episode, Gordon talks with Lex E. Santi about the evolution of therapy after telehealth, online platforms, insurance shifts, and changing client expectations. They dive into why more clinicians are entering private practice, why clients still crave in-person connection, and how companies like BetterHelp, Alma, and Headway are reshaping the profession. They also explore the pressure therapists feel to market themselves, build niches, and create an online presence in a rapidly changing industry. Toward the end of the conversation, Lex shares how writing, narrative therapy, mindfulness, and storytelling intersect in his clinical work and creative life. Resources Mentioned In This Episode Subscribe to YouTube Read the show notes here Watch on YouTube Use the promo code "GORDON" to get 2 months of Therapy Notes free Consulting with Gordon The PsychCraft Network Follow us on Instagram Meet Lex E Santí Lex Enrico Santí is a therapist, clinical supervisor, and the founder of A Key Therapy PLLC, where he works at the intersection of evidence-based practice and the deeper human questions that bring people into therapy in the first place. Trained as a licensed clinical social worker and currently completing his doctorate at the University of Kentucky, Lex brings a grounded, integrative approach to his work — drawing on modalities like CBT, ACT, and mindfulness alongside his own framework for healing he calls the AMI model. The son of Cuban immigrants and a former Peace Corps volunteer in Romania, Lex carries a lifelong fluency in crossing cultures — literally and emotionally. He speaks three languages and brings that same attunement to difference, displacement, and belonging into his clinical work. In the therapy room, he holds space for individuals navigating anxiety, identity, and the transitions that quietly reshape a life. He also supervises emerging clinicians, teaches workshops on meditation and understanding anxiety, and is building A Key Therapy into a group practice rooted in presence, curiosity, and care. He believes that good therapy — like good writing — is about learning to tell a truer story about yourself. Beyond the therapy room, Lex is a published author with an MFA in Creative Writing from George Mason University — the author of four books of poetry and a collection of short stories and essays. A meditator and someone who thinks seriously about the spiritual dimensions of mental health, he lives in the Finger Lakes region of New York with his family. He is a proud husband, father, and has another child on the way. Website Facebook LinkedIn The Song of the Midnight Rider
This week I Talk About The Business Around WordPress [powerpress]
Most people think uncertainty is the problem. It's not. AJ sits down with journalist and author Simone Stolzoff to unpack why our obsession with certainty may actually be making us more anxious, avoidant, and stuck. From AI and career anxiety to relationships, decision-making, and control, Simone explains why experts are terrible at predicting the future — and why learning to tolerate uncertainty is one of the most important modern skills. This episode explores the three traps people fall into when facing uncertainty: comfort, control, and hubris — and how taking action, instead of endlessly consuming information, is what actually creates clarity. Chapters00:00 – Why we're addicted to certainty08:00 – Experts predict the future like dart-throwing chimps16:00 – The comfort trap and avoiding uncertainty24:00 – Why overthinking becomes emotional safety32:00 – Control, anxiety, and the illusion of certainty40:00 – Identity, values, and making hard decisions48:00 – Curiosity, future self-trust, and taking action A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://simonestolzoff.com https://www.amazon.com/How-Not-Know-Uncertainty-Demands/dp/1324089458 Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok uncertainty, decision making, anxiety, overthinking, AI anxiety, career uncertainty, self trust, emotional resilience, control, mindset, personal growth, relationships, ambiguity, action taking, uncertainty tolerance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About The Business of Open Source [powerpress]
Most people think crossing the line is a single decision. It's not. AJ sits down with Tom Hardin to unpack how small ethical compromises compound over time — and how pressure, ambition, and environment can quietly push anyone further than they ever expected. From feeling like an outsider at Wharton to navigating Wall Street culture, insider information, and the pull of status, this episode reveals how rationalization, incentives, and relationships shape behavior more than we think. It's a candid look at decision-making under pressure — and how quickly things can spiral when no one is asking hard questions. Chapters00:00 – From outsider to Wall Street ambition10:00 – Pressure, performance, and fitting in20:00 – The first ethical lines start to blur30:00 – Insider information and rationalization40:00 – Status, relationships, and escalation55:00 – The FBI, getting caught, and fallout01:10:00 – Cooperation, identity shift, and consequences01:22:00 – Lessons on environment, incentives, and integrity A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://joshuabandoch.com/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok ethics, decision making, insider trading, workplace culture, pressure, rationalization, leadership, incentives, human behavior, career risk, accountability, social dynamics Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Share My Interview With David Stone [powerpress]
SEO has long been the absolute best way to maintain a consistent therapy client caseload for outpatient therapists. But, for therapists in all settings really, understanding and optimizing your digital real estate is often a secret sauce for career growth.In today's course, we want to help you:Recognize how important your digital real estate is to your practice.Optimize your presence with the right keywords.Understand the technical details needed for effective local SEO.Get the leads or contacts you actually want!This task has gone from important to urgent with the onslaught of vertical integration happening in therapy in 2026. Platforms like GrowTherapy, Amazon, Headway, and Talkspace want to own your digital real estate and make you reliant on them. We want to teach you how to own your own professional identity-and give yourself professional flexibility whether you temporarily use a service like this or not.Joining us is Saroosh Kahn, CTO of Allia. I met Saroosh over a shared sense of helping keep therapists independent, and I can't wait for him to help us navigate this.See full course details here:https://otpotential.com/ceu-podcast-courses/seo-for-therapistsSee our blog post "SEO for Therapists" here:https://otpotential.com/blog/seo-for-therapists-guideSee all OT CEU courses here:https://otpotential.com/ceu-podcast-coursesCheck our our live webinar schedule here:https://otpotential.com/live-ot-ceu-webinarsSupport the show by using the OTPOTENTIAL Medbridge Code:https://otpotential.com/blog/promo-code-for-medbridgeTry 2 free OT Potential courses here:https://otpotential.com/free-ot-ceusSupport the show
Most people think persuasion is about having the best argument. It's not. AJ and Johnny sit down with former speechwriter Josh Bandoch to break down why we feel before we reason — and why logic alone fails to move people. From emotional intelligence and storytelling to identifying hidden barriers and aligning with core values, this episode reveals what actually drives decisions. If you've ever struggled to get buy-in, close a deal, or change someone's mind, this episode gives you a practical framework to persuade without forcing, manipulating, or “winning” at someone else's expense. Chapters00:00 – Why logic alone doesn't persuade04:00 – The “feel first, then reason” principle08:00 – Why persuasion isn't about winning12:00 – Green, yellow, red: reading signals16:00 – Listening for values and hidden barriers20:00 – The power of framing and storytelling A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://joshuabandoch.com/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok persuasion, influence, communication skills, emotional intelligence, decision making, storytelling, negotiation, sales psychology, human behavior, framing, listening skills, values, social intelligence Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About The Upsell [powerpress]
We spend so much time trying to improve ourselves — but ignore the environments shaping us every day. Leidy Klotz joins AJ and Johnny to explain how the spaces we live and work in quietly influence our behavior, relationships, and performance. From agency and attention to connection and memory, small environmental shifts can have outsized effects. This episode breaks down how to design your space for focus, growth, and better conversations — without needing more time, money, or complexity. Chapters 00:00 – Why logic alone doesn't persuade08:00 – Feel first, then reason16:00 – Reading signals: green, yellow, red25:00 – Listening vs. pattern matching35:00 – Loss, framing, and decision making45:00 – Values, trust, and long-term persuasion A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://leidyklotz.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok environment design, behavior change, productivity, focus, agency, attention, workspace design, communication, human behavior, environment psychology, habits, connection, home office, decision making Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About The QA Process On Projects [powerpress]
What actually builds mental strength — and why do so many high performers still struggle with confidence, stress, and self-doubt? Psychotherapist Amy Morin joins AJ and Johnny to break down the real components of mental strength: thoughts, emotions, and behavior. From acting confident before you feel it to managing stress, reframing negative thought loops, and building resilience through action, this episode is a practical playbook for performing at a higher level. If you've been focusing on results but ignoring the internal skills that drive them, this episode shows you how to train your mind like a muscle. Chapters 00:00 – What mental strength actually is (and isn't)08:00 – Why confidence comes from action, not belief16:00 – Breaking negative thought loops and self-doubt25:00 – Stress: when it helps vs. hurts performance35:00 – Why emotions aren't the enemy48:00 – Boundaries, behavior, and better relationships A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://amymorinlcsw.com/ https://www.instagram.com/amymorinauthor/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok mental strength, confidence, stress management, resilience, behavior change, emotional intelligence, self-doubt, mindset, habits, emotional awareness, boundaries, communication skills, performance psychology, personal development Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Share My Process On A Vibe Coded Project [podcast]
Stanford professor Jeffrey Pfeffer joins AJ and Johnny to break down the uncomfortable truth about power: good work alone rarely gets you ahead. From hierarchy and self-promotion to body language, personal branding, weak ties, and political skill, Pfeffer explains why many talented people stay stuck — not because they lack ability, but because they misunderstand how power actually works. If you've ever felt behind despite doing “all the right things,” this episode gives you a more realistic framework for influence, advancement, and visibility. Chapters 00:00 – Why hard work and being “good” isn't enough08:00 – The biggest blind spots people have about power 13:00 – Body language, anger, and powerful communication19:00 – Personal branding and becoming visible29:00 – Weak ties, networking, and career opportunity38:00 – Why power requires tradeoffs A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: https://jeffreypfeffer.com/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok power dynamics, career advancement, influence, personal branding, self promotion, leadership, networking, weak ties, body language, communication skills, workplace politics, visibility, status, career strategy, executive presence Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About The Craziness Of Proposals & RFPs
AI is making us faster — but is it also making us worse? AJ and Johnny sit down with Dr. Ming to unpack what it really means to become “robot proof” in a world where AI can answer almost anything. The danger isn't just automation — it's cognitive offloading. When machines do our thinking for us, we may get better results in the moment while quietly losing the very skills that make humans valuable. This episode explores the traits that matter most in the AI era: curiosity, resilience, perspective-taking, and the ability to think through uncertainty instead of outsourcing it. Chapters 00:00 – What “robot proof” actually means10:00 – Why AI can make you worse while helping you21:00 – GPT is the new GPS31:00 – The difference between users and “cyborgs”42:00 – Why AI should stretch your thinking, not replace it54:00 – The human skills that will matter most A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: Robot Proof Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy
The Private Practice Pivot: How Therapists Are Adapting to Platforms, Agency Work, and the Changing Therapy Economy Are therapists leaving private practice - or simply adapting to a changing mental health economy? Curt Widhalm, LMFT, and Katie Vernoy, LMFT discuss a growing shift across the profession as therapists pivot between private practice, agency jobs, group practices, and therapy platforms. As referral patterns change, venture-backed platforms grow, and the economics of therapy evolve, many clinicians are reconsidering how they structure their careers. Curt and Katie explore why therapists are pivoting their practices, how platforms like Headway, Alma, and Rula are shaping the field, and what therapists can do to build sustainable careers in a rapidly changing environment. Key Takeaways • Why many therapists are pivoting their private practices • How therapy platforms and venture capital are reshaping the profession • The role of agency work, group practices, and hybrid careers • Why isolation can undermine sustainability in solo practice • How therapists can design careers that prioritize stability Full show notes and resources: mtsgpodcast.com Join the Modern Therapist Community Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/mtsgpodcast Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/therapyreimagined Modern Therapist's Survival Guide Creative Credits Voice Over by DW McCannhttps://www.facebook.com/McCannDW/ Music by Crystal Grooms Manganohttps://groomsymusic.com/
This week I Answer Listener Questions [powerpress]
What can you do if you have children from toddlers to teenagers, and you feel like you're not making headway with family discipleship? What are the top issues to focus on, and strategies to follow? The panel talks about going beyond family worship…ways to find one-on-one time with lots of kids…big mistakes…the role of the church…and the best things their own parents did.
AP correspondent Karen Chammas reports on the latest on diplomatic efforts on both sides to end the Iran war.
Why do disagreements spiral into conflict — even when both people think they're being reasonable? AJ and Johnny sit down with psychologist Julia to break down the biggest mistake we make in conflict: assuming we understand the other person. From “naive realism” to the limits of perspective-taking, this episode reveals why most arguments become two people trying to correct each other instead of actually listening. You'll learn a more effective approach: using language to show real understanding, ask better questions, and stay engaged — even when you strongly disagree. Chapters 00:00 – Why we misunderstand disagreement07:00 – The trap of “I'm right, you're wrong”15:00 – Why perspective-taking fails22:00 – Listening with your mouth30:00 – The HERE framework for better conflict42:00 – Why facts don't win arguments A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: DisagreeingBetter.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok disagreement, conflict resolution, communication skills, listening skills, perspective taking, social psychology, emotional intelligence, difficult conversations, receptiveness, argument dynamics, relationship communication, understanding others Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About Partnership Opportunities [powerpress]
Career coach Michelle Schafer joins AJ to break down what most people get wrong during a job search — especially in today's uncertain market. Instead of spraying hundreds of applications, Michelle explains how clarity, relationships, and storytelling drive real opportunities. From defining what energizes you to leveraging weak ties and crafting outcome-focused resumes, she shares practical strategies for navigating layoffs, reinvention, and career transitions with purpose. If you're feeling stuck, anxious about the job market, or thinking about your next move, this conversation shows how to turn uncertainty into momentum. Chapters 00:00 – Why panic applying hurts your job search07:00 – The five questions that clarify your career direction14:00 – Why networking drives 80% of opportunities21:00 – Reinvention and discovering transferable skills30:00 – Building visibility and relationships on LinkedIn41:00 – Turning resume skills into measurable outcomes A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: Cultivating Career Growth MSchaferCoaching.ca Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok career transitions, job search strategy, networking, career reinvention, transferable skills, professional branding, LinkedIn networking, job market strategy, career clarity, resume outcomes, professional relationships, career growth, career coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This week I Talk About When the Workload Quietly Doubles or Triples! [powerpress]
Why do high performers know exactly what to do — yet still fail to take action? AJ and Johnny sit down with Nir Eyal, bestselling author of Hooked and Indistractable, to explore the hidden force behind motivation: belief. Nir explains why information alone doesn't change behavior, how limiting beliefs quietly filter what we see and feel, and why many people stay stuck despite having the right strategy. From separating pain from suffering to building a “portfolio of perspectives,” this episode reveals how changing your beliefs can unlock persistence, better relationships, and the motivation to follow through. Chapters 00:00 – Why knowing what to do isn't enough07:00 – Beliefs: the filter shaping your reality16:00 – Pain vs. suffering and the role of interpretation24:00 – The four-question method to challenge beliefs34:00 – Motivation's missing piece: belief44:00 – Persistence, mindset, and lasting change A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: Beyond Belief Book Free Belief Change Guide http://nirandfar.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok limiting beliefs, motivation psychology, behavior change, mindset, persistence, emotional interpretation, belief systems, decision making, internal locus of control, cognitive reframing, personal growth, relationships, psychological resilience, self awareness Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
We love calling out hypocrisy — especially in leaders, corporations, and politics. But what if our obsession with inconsistency is doing more harm than good? AJ sits down with Michael to unpack why hypocrisy is deeply human, how media and status games amplify outrage, and why demanding total consistency can actually create worse leadership and more dishonesty. From power dynamics and “purity regimes” to induced hypocrisy and personal growth, this episode offers a smarter framework for judging inconsistency — in others and in yourself. Chapters 00:00 – Why hypocrisy feels so good to call out07:30 – The trap of equating consistency with integrity16:00 – Power, status, and hypocrisy in culture25:00 – Transparency and the “purity regime” problem33:30 – A better rubric for judging inconsistency39:00 – Using your own hypocrisy to create change A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: The Hypocrisy Trap Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok hypocrisy, integrity, power dynamics, status games, leadership trust, moral judgment, social psychology, outrage culture, transparency, consistency bias, self development, behavior change, induced hypocrisy, workplace culture, reputation management Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Harvard Business School professor Leslie John joins AJ and Johnny to unpack why we systematically get vulnerability wrong. We obsess over the risks of sharing and ignore the cost of staying silent. From dating profiles and first impressions to leadership, feedback, and negotiation, Leslie explains how to decide what to reveal, when to reveal it, and how to frame it so it builds trust instead of regret. If you've ever worried about TMI — or held back and felt distance grow — this episode gives you a smarter way to think about disclosure. Chapters 00:00 – Why we misjudge vulnerability08:00 – Emotional vocabulary and instant connection18:00 – The cost of silence vs. the risk of sharing28:00 – Dating profiles and the “less is more” trap40:00 – Leadership vulnerability without losing authority52:00 – A simple 2x2 framework for disclosure decisions A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: LeslieKJohn.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok vulnerability, disclosure, emotional intelligence, communication skills, leadership trust, dating psychology, social connection, feedback conversations, negotiation skills, emotional vocabulary, decision making, relationship building, psychological safety, transparency vs vulnerability Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Former Secret Service agent Brad Beeler joins AJ and Johnny to break down what actually gets people to open up — especially when the stakes are high. From reading digital breadcrumbs and mastering first impressions to spotting deception and using tactical empathy, Brad shares the practical tools he used to get confessions and uncover truth under pressure. This episode reveals how preparation, presence, and calm control shape every conversation — whether you're leading a team, navigating conflict, or trying to build real trust. 00:00 – From Secret Service to reading people under pressure08:00 – First impressions, handshakes, and presence18:00 – Curiosity without the “me too” mistake28:00 – Tactical empathy and influencing without manipulation41:00 – The truth about detecting deception49:00 – De-escalation and staying calm under pressure A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: www.BradBeeler.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok tactical empathy, interrogation psychology, communication skills, reading body language, deception detection, first impressions, influence, high-stakes conversations, digital footprint, curiosity, trust building, leadership communication, emotional control, conflict de-escalation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
AJ and Johnny sit down with neuroscientist Emily Falk to explore why our goals so often collapse after January, and what the brain is actually optimizing for when we make decisions. Emily explains how the brain's value system prioritizes the present self over future goals, why environment beats willpower, and how identity, social influence, and habit systems quietly shape what we do every day. From New Year's resolutions to loneliness, leadership, and purpose, this episode reveals how to design choices that stick by working with the brain instead of against it. 00:00 – Why resolutions fail after January05:00 – The brain's value calculator and present bias10:00 – Identity, purpose, and what we think is “fixed”15:00 – How social influence shapes what we value20:00 – Loneliness, power, and perspective loss25:00 – Designing environments that change behavior A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: FalkLab.org Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok decision making, values, behavior change, habits, motivation, identity, purpose, social influence, environment design, loneliness, human connection, neuroscience, choices, meaning, leadership, well-being, resolutions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Episode Description: AJ and Johnny sit down with psychologist Guy Winch, author of Mind Over Grind, to unpack how grind culture quietly erodes our mental health, relationships, and sense of self — often without us realizing it. Guy explains why stress no longer stays at work, how rumination turns unpaid overtime into chronic burnout, and why many high performers confuse exhaustion with productivity. They explore the blurred boundary between work and home, the hidden damage of always-on thinking, and how modern workplaces amplify anxiety, resentment, and emotional withdrawal. This conversation offers practical ways to reclaim control: recognizing harmful rumination, creating transition rituals, recharging instead of just resting, and redesigning workdays to protect focus, relationships, and meaning — without sacrificing ambition. Chapters:00:00 – The hidden cost of grind culture05:00 – When work never actually ends10:00 – Rumination vs. productive thinking15:00 – How stress spills into relationships20:00 – Burnout, resentment, and modern work25:00 – The Goldilocks zone of stress30:00 – Rest vs. recharge: why downtime fails35:00 – Rituals to transition out of work mode40:00 – Managing email, boundaries, and control45:00 – Curating your workday instead of reacting50:00 – Reclaiming meaning without quitting your job A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: GuyWinch.com Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok grind culture, burnout, stress, work life balance, rumination, mental health, emotional exhaustion, productivity, modern work, boundaries, recovery, recharge, relationships, presence, focus, meaning, fulfillment, stress management, workplace stress, psychological well-being Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
AJ and Johnny sit down with Daniel Coyle, bestselling author and culture researcher, to explore what it actually means to flourish — and why flourishing is never a solo pursuit. Drawing from his research into thriving communities around the world, Daniel explains why growth, meaning, and fulfillment emerge from connection, friction, and shared purpose rather than individual achievement. They unpack how modern life fragments attention, why efficiency and isolation undermine belonging, and how small, human-scale practices — from rituals to shared meals to “yellow door” moments — can reawaken connection. This conversation reframes success away from optimization and toward aliveness, showing how community, presence, and intentional messiness create lives and workplaces that truly thrive. Chapters: 00:00 – Why flourishing is mutual, not individual05:00 – The problem with modern efficiency and isolation10:00 – Task attention vs. relational attention15:00 – Friction, annoyance, and the price of community20:00 – Rituals, stillness, and grounding practices25:00 – Why collision creates creativity and growth30:00 – Building communities that flourish at work35:00 – Designing productive mess instead of control40:00 – Yellow doors, fear, and unexpected connection45:00 – Creating community instead of waiting for it A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: DanielCoyle.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok flourishing, human connection, community, belonging, meaning, fulfillment, thriving, shared purpose, modern life, isolation, presence, attention, rituals, shared experience, relationships, creativity, growth, aliveness, togetherness, intentional living, community building Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
AJ and Johnny sit down with Paul Eastwick, relationship scientist and author of Bonded by Evolution, to unpack what modern dating has gotten wrong — and what the science actually says about love, attraction, and connection. They explore how online dating has distorted our view of desirability, why the search for “the perfect person” makes us miserable, and how real connection comes from shared time, not algorithms. Paul breaks down how our brains evolved for small-group bonding — not endless swiping — and reveals the truth about compatibility, attachment, and the misunderstood “friend zone.” From evolutionary psychology to modern dating anxiety, this conversation is a masterclass in how to build real relationships in a world built on comparison. Chapters: 00:00 – Why love advice is so confusing05:00 – How online dating rewired attraction10:00 – The confidence gap and lost social skills15:00 – The danger of treating dating like a marketplace20:00 – Algorithms, ego, and authenticity in the AI era30:00 – How relationships actually form and last 35:00 – Compatibility is built, not found 40:00 – Why men should stop fearing the friend zone45:00 – Redefining masculinity and modern love A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: Bonded by Evolution: The New Science of Love and Connection Love Factually Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok meetings, collaboration, leadership, communication, productivity, visibility, AI at work, remote work, workplace culture, career growth, The Art of Charm AI, automation, purpose, identity, future of work, Zack Kass, The Next Renaissance, technology, leadership, creativity, meaning, human connection, emotional intelligence, optimism, The Art of Charm Paul Eastwick, dating, relationships, love, attraction, compatibility, attachment theory, online dating, Tinder, Bumble, match, masculinity, connection, psychology, The Art of Charm, AJ Harbinger, Johnny Dzubak Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
AJ and Johnny sit down with Zack Kass, AI futurist and author of The Next Renaissance: AI and the Expansion of Human Potential, to explore how artificial intelligence will reshape identity, purpose, and meaning. Zack breaks down why our fear of AI isn't really about machines; it's about identity displacement. They dive deep into how creativity, purpose, and work evolve when technology becomes capable of doing almost everything. From artists confronting AI-generated art to professionals watching automation change their industries, Zack explains why humanity's next great challenge isn't survival, it's spiritual. This episode unpacks how to navigate the coming era with optimism, connection, and mastery — and why the most valuable skill of the future is still deeply, unapologetically human. Chapters: 00:00 – Facing the fear: AI, art, and identity06:00 – The loss of purpose in the age of automation10:00 – Infinite creativity and the watercooler effect15:00 – Why community and shared experience still matter20:00 – The automation boundary: where do we stop?25:00 – Political protection, purpose, and work that stays human30:00 – AI, inequality, and the distribution problem35:00 – The real reason cost of living is broken40:00 – Connection vs. artificial intimacy50:00 – How to stay human: learn, lead, and live with optimism A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Save more than fifty percent on term life insurance at SELECTQUOTE.COM/CHARM TODAY to get started Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: The Next Renaissance: AI and the Expansion of Human Potential ZackKass.com Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok meetings, collaboration, leadership, communication, productivity, visibility, AI at work, remote work, workplace culture, career growth, The Art of Charm AI, automation, purpose, identity, future of work, Zack Kass, The Next Renaissance, technology, leadership, creativity, meaning, human connection, emotional intelligence, optimism, The Art of Charm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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