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Best podcasts about aimee batuski

Latest podcast episodes about aimee batuski

The Heartbeat
Why do some men NOT lead? w/ Amiee Batuski - Dating Advice Women Need To Hear

The Heartbeat

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2024 42:31


How to get your man to lead and fully show up. In this episode Aimee Batuski shares the difference between liberation and devotion, how to change every relationship with men you have, and what it takes to show up in a way that he fully shows up for you. its not what you think! want to rebuild trust? Rebuild-trust.com

Your Love Accomplice with Christina Weber
DWC 102: From Envy to Empowerment with Aimee Batuski & Ellie Montgomerie

Your Love Accomplice with Christina Weber

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 56:43


Dive into this riveting episode of Deepen with Christina as we sit down with the dynamic duo, Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie, co-founders of Desire on Fire. With a community that stretches across the globe, these trailblazing visionaries have transformed the lives of over 15,000 women, guiding them toward deeper intimacy, profound connections, and a rediscovery of pleasure. From navigating the bustling streets of NYC to building multi-million dollar businesses, both Aimee and Ellie seemed to have it all. Yet, beneath the surface, they battled with self-worth, body image, and complex relationships. It was their unyielding spirit and shared vision that brought them together, cementing a partnership rooted in authenticity and aligned desires. Ellie recounts a heartfelt narrative of her journey from envy to empowerment, revealing how vulnerability became the bridge to their strengthened bond. Aimee's candid tale sheds light on her battles in the city that never sleeps, grappling with self-doubt despite her outer successes. As we delve deeper, Ellie opens up about her enchanting love story, offering an inspiring perspective on how those around us can help us create security within our relationship. Beyond their personal stories, we'll explore the magic behind their flagship event, The Desire on Fire Experience. Discover what happens when hundreds of women come together, breaking barriers and forming sisterhood bonds that transcend traditional norms. This episode is a testament to the transformative power of self-awareness, intimacy, and genuine connection. Whether you're looking to reignite the passion in your life, find deeper connections with others, or simply bask in the warmth of sisterhood, Aimee and Ellie offer insights and stories that will leave you inspired and eager to embark on your own journey of self-discovery. Don't miss this electrifying conversation. Tune in now, and discover the fulfillment possible when you embrace your desires and tap deeper into yourself. Follow Aimee & Ellie on IG at @desireonfire and discover more about their program offers at desireonfire.com. Join Christina's journey on Instagram @christinaweber and @wedeepen. Learn more and register for the experiences Christina mentioned, including Desire on Fire: SolarPunk Summit (Oct 12-15) in Kingsbury, TX, The Desire on Fire Live Experience (Oct 13-15) in Austin, TX, Unleash! Transformational Festival (Nov 2-5) in Sacramento, CA, and Wonderland Conference (Nov 9-11) in Miami, FL. Register now at wedeepen.com. Love what you hear? Rate, review, and share 'Deepen with Christina' for more spiritual insights and connections.

Talk Tantra to Me with Leola
Honoring & Respecting the Masculine with Aimee Batuski, episode 139

Talk Tantra to Me with Leola

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2023 72:14


Leola chats with Aimee Batuski, intimacy coach and co-founder of Desire on Fire. Aimee shares the transformation she has experienced in her own love life and relationships from polarity teachings. They discussed the importance of embracing both masculine and feminine energies and the impact it has on creating fulfilling relationships. Aimee also recommends books like "Celebrating Partnership" and "Love and Respect" for understanding how to heal and resolve conflicts in relationships.Ready for a Higher Love? Join our community today.Wanna join Desire on Fire?

Lunacy
25: Sex, Desire, Intimacy, and Vulnerability with Powerhouse Aimee Batuski

Lunacy

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2023 86:48


Welcome to Lunacy; where we discern the sacred from the insane and admit that whether we like it or not, we are all profoundly affected by the cycles of the moon. Today on the podcast, I'm diving deep about love, intimacy, and sex with my good friend Amy Butaski. Amy is a coach specialized in unlocking the power of intimacy and desire. She  helps people explore their sexuality and sensuality as a way to fall in love with themselves life. Find out more about Amy and her upcoming retreats at:https://www.aimeebatuski.com/Join Aimee's virtual 5-day event: The Pleasure Revolution, for FREE! July 10-14, 2023.https://www.pleasurerevolution.live/Instagram.com/AimeebatuskiInstagram.com/desireonfireI welcome your thoughts on this episode! Comment on Youtube or find me on Instagram!I'm Geoff Eido. Join me each week for interviews and insights intended to shine a light on the darkness, like the full moon in the forest. www.geoffeido.cominfo@geoffeido.comhttps://www.facebook.com/GeoffEido Instagram: @geoffeido Support the Show.

The Women's Vibrancy Code
77. Radiant Energy And Feminine Power: A Journey Into Women's Hormones, Relationships, and Personal Growth | feat. Ellie Montgomerie

The Women's Vibrancy Code

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2023 78:04


  In this episode of the Women's Vibrancy Code, Maraya is joined by Ellie Montgomerie to dive deep in on exploring women's energy, hormones, and embracing feminine power.  Elle, the co-founder of Desire On Fire, candidly discusses the challenges faced by exhausted and disconnected mothers,and shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating relationships, intimacy, and sexuality within the context of motherhood. Ellie also opens up about her husband's healing journey from childhood sexual trauma, highlighting the importance of addressing and healing from such trauma. Maraya and Ellie provide expertise in supporting women's desires, both physical and psychological, and reviving their relationship with desire.  Also in this episode: Importance of addressing sexual trauma and its impact on the body Building a strong relationship with oneself as a foundation for fulfilling relationships Understanding the complex differences between men and women in all relationships Embracing vulnerability and expressing needs for better connection and intimacy Surrender is an underrated superpower for women's personal and professional growth Sisterhood provides a depth of connection beyond regular friendships, fostering growth and healing Stay connected with Ellie: Desireonfire.com | Instagram | Facebook  About Ellie Montgomerie Ellie Montgomerie and Aimee Batuski are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. They've worked side by side with some of the top Sexuality + Intimacy teachers in the world. These women are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, programs and international sisterhood community, they've taught thousands of women how to create confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships. Subscribe To The Women's Vibrancy Code: Women's Health And Wellness w/Maraya Brown: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook Page | Linkedin | Website | Tiktok | Facebook Group Make A Connection Call With Maraya Brown: Click here to book   About Maraya Brown: Maraya is a Yale and Functional Medicine Trained Women's Health And Wellness Expert CNM, MSN with her undergraduate degree in marketing. She helps women feel turned on by their life, their lover and themselves.  Her work online brings her 21 years of experience supporting women together in one place to co-create deep transformation, energy and passion. Maraya is the founder of this Podcast and does a great deal of work with women to expand their energy, hormones, libido, confidence and much much more. DISCLAIMER: The podcasts available on this website have been produced for informational, educational and entertainment purposes only. Listeners should take care to avoid program content which may not be suited to them. The contents of this podcast do not constitute medical or professional advice, No person listening to and/or viewing any podcast from this website should act or refrain from acting on the basis of the content of a podcast without first seeking appropriate professional advice and/or counseling, nor shall the information be used as a substitute for professional advice and/or counseling. The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast expressly disclaims any and all liability relating to any actions taken or not taken based on any or all contents of this site. The Women's Vibrancy Code: Women's Health And Wellness w/ Maraya Brown

Shameless Sex
#317 How to Live a Life Led by Desire - With Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie

Shameless Sex

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2023 80:50


What does it mean to live a life led by desire? How does this enhance sex, relationships, and everyday life? What are some of the ways to start living a life led by and full of desire? The hosts of the Desire On Fire podcast share all this and more. About our guests: Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. They've worked side by side with some of the top Sexuality + Intimacy teachers in the world.  These women are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, programs and international sisterhood community, they've taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships. http://www.desireonfire.com http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ Other links: Listen to one of our fav podcasts Sluts and Scholars here: slutsandscholars.com Try our favorite dating app Feeld for free + get a free month of their Majestic Membership here: feeld.co/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

Allow Accept Approve
63. Understanding Your Love Language for Erotism AKA The Erotic Blueprints with Aimee Batuski

Allow Accept Approve

Play Episode Play 50 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 54:17


In today's episode, I have one of my past coaches Aimee Batuski on the podcast! Aimee is a Pleasure and Intimacy Expert, committed to helping women live turned-on, connected, satisfying lives. She is also the co-founder of Desire on Fire who are teaching, training & inspiring a new generation of women to become powerful agents of change, who allow their desires and pleasure to lead the way as they step into a whole new world of freedom, manifestation, and ease!In the episode, we discuss how every single person has a different erotic blueprint and this is often why sexually we might not feel met by our partners. This concept is from Miss Jaiya and you can take the quiz here to discover your own erotic blueprint.Aimee walks you through the 5 different erotic blueprints so you can see which you identify with most and so you can understand what you might like. Then she also shares the shadow (down) side to each blueprint so you can have that awareness too.In this episode, we also share stories and bring approval to your erotic desires and hopefully expand your mind around what can be possible for you.Aimee also gives you advice on how to ask your partner to do the quiz with you so you can create a conversation around this and bring it into your play.The Erotic Blueprint QuizConnect with Aimee:Instagram: @aimeebatuski and @desireonfirePodcast: The Desire on Fire PodcastWebsite: https://www.desireonfire.com/Follow along:@daniellehattonn@allowacceptapproveIf you have any further questions please reach out to me on Instagram, I would love to hear what you took from the episode and am open to a conversation around this topic.Upcoming virtual breathwork class on February 8th: Book Here

Manifestation Babe
(#263) Intimacy, Sex, and Healing Your Relationship to Men with Aimee Batuski And Ellie Montgomerie (@desireonfire)

Manifestation Babe

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2023 64:46


I'm bringing to you intimacy, sensuality, and sexuality experts along with many other amazing things. My two special guests today are Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomery from Desire on Fire. In this episode, we are diving deep into your biggest questions around pleasure, desire, orgasm, healing your relationship to the masculine, no longer hating men, learning to ask for what you want, sex after having a baby and so much more. It is just intoxicating, how incredible, positive, impactful, and passionate they are. You all are going to LOVE this one, so without further ado, let's dive in.    Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected, and satisfying lives. They've worked side by side with some of the top Sexuality + Intimacy teachers in the world. These women are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, programs, and international sisterhood community, they've taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex, and fulfilling relationships.   Speaking of healing, I created a pre-recorded masterclass that is for sale NOW! It's called MELT YOUR MONEY BLOCKS AWAY! During the masterclass, I will dive into the realm of money, finances, anxiety, dread, or other feelings that just aren't useful for you, or serving you when it comes to MONEY. Don't miss out, and get INSTANT ACCESS NOW! DOORS CLOSE JAN 23RD, 2023.    In this episode, we talk about intimacy and sensuality! Please be sure to tag me @manifestationbabe and Desire On Fire @desireonfire on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word If you or someone you know has benefited from this episode! I would like to hear about your experience. Also, leave a review on iTunes to receive a free manifestation hypnosis. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at hello@manifestationbabe.com and I will see you in the next episode. In This Episode You Will Learn:   Desire On Fire's Back Story. (6:00) Ellie's dating story. (9:07) How to heal your relationship with the masculine. (26:53) Dating Vs. Intimacy Coaching. (36:00)   Questions We Answer:    Why do women struggle to ask for what they want? (20:48) How has dating changed for Aimee after doing this healing work? (31:47) What does sex look like after having a baby? (40:37) Why do women struggle to orgasm? (50:10) Can physical attraction be cultivated? (57:20)   Links/Resources   Stay Up To Date w/ All of Our MB Resources   Download The Transcript   Desire On Fire Website   Connect w/ Aimee Batuski   Desire On Fire Instagram   QUOTES:   “The Universe got me on the path that I'm supposed to be on. I was not supposed to be a doctor, I was not supposed to be this scientist, I'm supposed to be this intuitive soul who came here to transform her life and help other people transform their lives too.” [Kathrin, 17:22]    “If something comes up that I don't like, I don't want, or it's a pattern, I'm immediately examining the pattern on the spot. What belief do I have going on that is creating this reality for me?” [Kathrin, 37:53]    “I use the past a lot, not as a way for me to get stuck into something, but as a way for me to reflect on past lessons that could be applied to the future.” [Kathrin, 43:35]    “I learned a long time ago that gratitude is the cosmic fly paper for everything amazing in your life.” [Jen, 46:02]    “I think it's really important that you approach the methodology of how you manifest from a place of curiosity.” [Jen, 61:14]    “If I can be grateful for the problem that's arising, I'm more likely to arrive at the solution.” [Jen, 69:44]    “The world at large is against this stuff. They don't get it, and in order for me to become successful, I need to be tuning into the right frequency, actively.” [Kathrin, 73:55] 

Pussy Priestess
21: Devotion to the Pleasure Path with Aimee Batuski

Pussy Priestess

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 68:45


Today I speak with Aimee Batuski, founder of “Desire on Fire”. She helps you identify your intimacy style so that you can reignite the spark of desire in your life. The pleasure path is not always easy, sometimes, it can be downright humiliating. By surrendering to your deepest wants, you will not just improve your sex life but you will become connected to your higher self. Desire is your life force, and without it our goals, relationships and our pursuits  become burdens instead of gratifying experiences. Aimee will teach you how to speak up and deepen the love you have for yourself so that you can be open to receiving the love you deserve and truly devote yourself to the path of pleasure.   Key Takeaways:  [6:10] Sex positive and Self consious: Internalizing cultural messages  [8:30] The Femenine path [14:00] Forging your own path without fear of judgment [17:20] Creating for yourself in spite of your lower self voices [18:30] Achievement at the detriment of deeper desires [20:10] 5 Intimacy styles: Cool Girl, Party Girl, Independent Woman, The Giver and The Receiving Queen [23:00] Doing it all alone leads leaves women lacking vulnerability and dissociating from the body [25:00] Allowing yourself to ask for help: Don't wait till your body forces you to surrender  [28:10] Life after honeymoon bliss: Why does the spark fade? [30:15]The Erotic Blueprints: Resting, Curiosity, Adventurous and Transformational  [32:30] The Pleasure path is not pleasurable all the time [33:30] Admitting what you want can feel Humiliating [36:00] Being devoted to the path of desire [40:20] Voicing your desires regardless if you receive a “No”  [42:00] The spark goes out when we lose our connection to desire [48:40] Practicing with Men and Processing with Women [50:30] Self penetrating: getting to the root of your desire and bringing it to your partner [58:00] Moving from the head to the full body experience   Resources: http://www.desireonfire.com http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ - Link to our Intimacy Styles Quiz: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/60bfceb6749e3400170c1da5 - Here's your affiliate link: https://josefinabashout.krtra.com/t/6SI5A0Wo3RXc - Desire on Fire Experience promo: Join us (and 300+ women!) in-person/virtually at the Desire on Fire Experience event, Oct 29-30 in Los Angeles, California! www.desireonfirelive.com Code: PRIESTESS for $200 off the regular ticket price!   Connect with Josefina: Instagram: @pusssypriestess Website: josefinabashout.com     Awaken your confidence & feminine fire  https://www.josefinabashout.com/awaken-the-fire-sign-up    Foria Wellness for dripping wet pleasure & arousal https://glnk.io/j703/josefinabashout 20% off JOSEFINABASHOUT20   Onna Lifestyle for pleasure tools  https://www.onnalifestyle.com/?ref=7SQdeda72sK20   Memorable Quotes: “If we believe these lower self voices then our passion, our fire, our  drive, our life force can't come alive to create magic, that  then serves the entire world.”  [17:20] -Josefina Bashout    “I see a lot of women who are very high achieving and it's based on their conditioning or based on what they think they're supposed to achieve but they are capable of that! They have the capacity and the capability to reach the goals or get things done or fulfill their mission or their dream or whatever and sometimes it's at the detriment of these other more tender desires.” [19:00] -Aimee Batuski   “When we are trying to hold it all together and do it all ourselves, of course we're not in our highest pleasure!”  [24:20] -Aimee Batuski    “They are so goal oriented that their sex, their pleasure and their body and their intimacy isn't even on the radar to be prioritized.” [31:11] -Aimee Batuski    “The pleasure path is filled with portals…It is a devotional path. Just like how you would make love and be in devotion, the path requires us to be in that devotion.” [35:35] -Josefina Bashout   “Everytime I have a vulnerable desire, which is often, it feels humiliating to admit, it really does. It feels like I'm throwing myself off a cliff like naked in front of a million people. It's so scary.” [38:22] -Aimee Batuski

Courage to Create with Claudia Whitney
Desire, Sex, Money, and Sisterhood with Aimee Batuski | Episode 22

Courage to Create with Claudia Whitney

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2022 64:07


This week I've done something I've never done before! I interviewed my dear friend and coach, Aimee Batuski from Desire on Fire, and we had 11 gorgeous souls on the call with us, asking their burning questions. So their curiosity pretty much led the interview on the topics of their choice. It was so much fun, and we covered many areas like sex, money, sisterhood, desire, and more! Aimee is a Speaker, Retreat leader, intimacy expert, and co-founder of Desire on Fire. She and her partner Ellie Montgomerie lead virtual group programs and in-person retreats for women that focus on living a pleasure-filled life, loving their bodies, trusting men, and owning their feminine power. At the end of the interview, Aimee invites you to the Desire on Fire experience happening in October - and I have a unique link w/ a coupon code to get a special price! https://claudiawhitney22.krtra.com/t/pLtHmszTaGlF (Use code: COURAGE to receive $500 OFF until 9/30/22) ⠀ We discuss: How Aimee got into the feminine work and how she and her business partner Ellie started their company Desire on Fire. How to create connection through communication exercises that create more intimacy in relationships. How leading with your vulnerability invites more vulnerability from others. The steps to creating a desire-led life, learning to trust your body's innate wisdom, and giving yourself permission to follow the voice. Getting out of your head and into your body and the practice of aligning with your head, heart, gut, and pu$$y! Holding your desire even when it feels like it's taking too long or might not come to fruition. Using the word pu$$y and reclaiming your body and power source. Reframing sex, taking responsibility in the bedroom, and looking at it as a vital nutrient that replenishes rather than depletes. What has supported her in making more money, how she got over her money blocks, the incremental shifts and expansion around money, and what blasted her open to receiving. How sisterhood is different from a close friendship. ⠀ If you've taken anything away from this podcast that has supported you, take the time to leave a review, subscribe, and share with your friends! It might be just the thing someone needs to help them create the change they crave in their life. ⠀ Connect with Claudia: → WAITLIST IS NOW OPEN for my upcoming (and brand new!) Business and Leadership Mastermind - A group coaching experience for multi-passionate coaches, yogis, healers, and teachers starting or reigniting their business! https://www.claudiawhitney.com/courage-to-create → Connect with me on IG, send me a DM, and tell me what you think! www.instagram.com/with.claudiawhitney/ → Join my community! Women. Soul. Empowerment. www.facebook.com/groups/womensoulempowerment/ ⠀ Connect with Aimee: → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ → Website: https://www.desireonfire.com/ → The Desire on Fire Experience: https://claudiawhitney22.krtra.com/t/pLtHmszTaGlF (Use code: COURAGE to receive $500 OFF until 9/30/22)

Chardonnay & Slay Your Business
Healing Sisterhood Wounds w/ Desire on Fire's, Aimee and Ellie

Chardonnay & Slay Your Business

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2022 69:52


Welcome back to the Slay School podcast! Today we're joined by Desire on Fire's, Aimee Batuski, and Ellie Montgomerie! Aimee and Ellie are Pleasure and Intimacy Experts, helping high-achieving women have pleasurable sex and satisfying relationships. Together they run Desire on Fire, a transformational coaching company and international sisterhood community. These two are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, events, and programs, they've taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex, and fulfilling relationships. Connect with Aimee and Ellie here! https://www.desireonfirelive.com/ http://www.desireonfire.com http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

The Soul Digger Podcast
Ep. 106 - Own Your Outrageous Desires With Aimee Batuski

The Soul Digger Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 19, 2022 52:59


This episode is a full on transmission of living a life led by desire. Join myself and one of the biggest expanders in my life Aimee Batuski, as we explore in depth what it means to live outrageously from desire. Get ready to receive permission to expand into your edges. Aimee goes into detail of what it truly takes to follow your desires. From asking for what seems ‘too much' to ask for (and the uncomfortable sensations that come with this!), to staying in the discomfort of actually allowing yourself to receive fully. She shares her own inspiring story of asking the ‘big' ask and inviting a man she only met once to a full week tantra retreat called ‘Soulmate' with only one weeks notice! Tune in to find out what came up for Aimee throughout the process of asking and receiving. You're going to love how Aimee breaks down the different stages of the desire cycle so you can check in what stages may need your loving attention and compassion. There are stages that we may miss completing in the cycle, due to our own self sabotaging thoughts that come up, and Aimee lovingly shares how to move through these stages. Let the whispers of your desire speak for you, and watch your life transform as you expand your capacity to hold more and more of what lights you up in all areas of your life. When we follow our desires, we truly are giving permission for others around us to dare to do the same, and ask for what they want. Tune into this episode and see what gets sparked up inside of you. See you on the other side of the desire portal.Plus join Aimee and the Desire on Fire team for their upcoming 5-day Pleasure Challenge, Aug 8-12. Sign up at thepleasurechallenge.com and use the code SOULDIGGER to sign up for FreeThe Soul Digger - @thesouldigger_Kim Mellor - @kimmellor_Kim Mellor Arbonne - www.Kimmellor.Arbonne.comwww.kimmellor.comInevitable - The Mastermind - www.kimmellor.com/inevitableRetreat waitlist - www.kimmellor.com/retreat-waitlist Divine Union - www.kimmellor.com/divineunionAlign & Shine 5 Day ChallengeKajabi Free 14 Day TrialOther linksAimee Batuski  @aimeebatuskiDesire on Fire @desireonfire www.thepleasurechallenge.com Cultivate the clarity and confidence to turn your wildest dreams into realityTransform fear into faith and become a magnet for miracles.https://www.kimmellor.com/expectmiracles

Touchy Topics with Megan Lambert
Ep. 3 – Intimacy After Baby

Touchy Topics with Megan Lambert

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2022 65:47


In this episode, my husband James Mattingley & I are interviewed by the wonderful Aimee Batuski of Desire on Fire, on how our marriage has changed since becoming parents. Aimee helps us dig into all the shifts we've gone through, and how we've navigated them together as a couple.  We knew our lives would change after we got married, started our businesses, and had a baby, but it was impossible to fully prepare for the ups and downs that would occur through all of these major life events. Here we share how we've adapted to new needs, expectations, and roles as parents.  Today, we're bringing our tools and advice to you so that you can learn from our mistakes and successes and start integrating these practices into your own relationship to start having the intimacy you crave.    If this episode moves you, please let me know by reaching out by email, Instagram DM, or leaving a review to let us know your thoughts!  If you're curious about our offerings, visit us at www.integratedintimacy.co. Time Stamps:(4:13 - 5:52) Our history as a couple so far  (6:16 - 9:25) Reflecting on our marriage and early parenthood. Describing the magnified feelings and emotional bubbles we experienced (9:26 - 12:20) Megan feeling needy after giving birth, and learning to feel worthy of that extra love and care (12:22 - 13:39) James's perspective on being needed more while receiving less, and what has changed for him in becoming a father (13:41 - 19:26) How we've navigated the inevitably uneven roles in new parenthood without becoming resentful of each other (well, not too much!) (19:28 - 22:11) How James has responded to different communications surrounding Megan's needs (22:13 - 27:15) How we've kept the erotic intimacy alive after becoming parents. Hint: intimacy doesn't always involve sex  (27:16 - 32:46) The physical challenges we faced postpartum. Intimacy, sex, and body confidence (32:48 - 42:37) Sharing our juiciest, most stubborn fights - and how we moved through them by choosing love again and again  (42:39 - 55:55) Analyzing the moments where we've failed to disagree in a healthy way, but have always gotten back on track (55:58 - 1:02:59) Tools like “Emptying the Bucket” on how to move through disagreements and regulate yourself in heated moments. We're hosting a couples' retreat in September! Learn more here: https://integratedintimacy.co/epic-intimacy-retreat/ Private 2 on 2 couple's coaching: https://integratedintimacy.co/couples-intensive/ Get in Touch with James, Megan, and Aimee:https://www.instagram.com/megandlambert/ https://www.instagram.com/james.mattingley/ https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Aimee's Desire on Fire Website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Release Your Radiance
Ep 41: Living a Pleasure Filled, Desire Led Life with Aimee Batuski

Release Your Radiance

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2022 59:21


In today's episode I'm joined by Aimee Batuski for a turned on conversation all about sex, pleasure, relationships and living your life led by desire. Aimee Batuski is an intimacy expert who helps high-achieving women have pleasurable sex and satisfying relationships. She and her business partner Ellie Montgomerie run Desire on Fire, a transformational coaching company and international sisterhood community. These two are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their retreats, events and programs, they've taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships. In this episode we explore: What it means to live life led by desire A powerful conversation to have with a new lover before sex for the first time What Aimee's first sexual experience with a woman taught her Lots of tips for more connected intimacy    Join the Release Your Radiance program waitlist here: https://sabi-kerr.ck.page/ryrwaitlist    Connect with Aimee:  Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ Website: www.desireonfirelive.com Desire on Fire Experience: Join us (and 300+ women!) in-person at the Desire on Fire Experience event, Oct 29-30 in Los Angeles, California! Code: SABI for $200 off the regular ticket price!   Connect with Sabi: Instagram: Instagram.com/sabi.kerr  Website: www.sabikerr.com Free worthiness bundle: www.sabikerr.com/worthiness-bundle-freebie 

Born to Rise
Bringing Women Together to Lead Desire-Led Lives with Aimee and Ellie from Desire on Fire

Born to Rise

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2022 52:56


Starting a business partnership with a friend can be a very tricky journey to navigate. That is why I'm so excited to speak with Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie.  The dynamic duo are the founders of Desire on Fire - a company focused on teaching and training women to become powerful agents of change. In today's episode, Aimee and Ellie share how Desire on Fire came to be. They share incredibly valuable insight into setting boundaries when it comes to running a business with a friend. Aimee and Ellie also give you a glimpse into their wildly popular live event, the Desire on Fire Experience, where hundreds of women gather together to learn how to lead a desire-led life. From creating an incredibly safe space that allows many women to get vulnerable, to how to maintain a healthy working partnership with a friend, Aimee and Ellie share their wisdom on business, leadership, and what it means to live a desire-led life. In this episode, we cover: How Aimee and Ellie started Desire on Fire [5:52] How to set business and friendship boundaries when you run a business with a friend [17:03] What does it mean to lead a desire-led life [28:17] How Aimee and Ellie cultivated a safe space for their intimate live events [39:02] Connect with Aimee + Ellie: IG: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/  Listen to the Desire on Fire Podcast    Join Baby Got Backend here    

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Wedded Wellness
Re-Air: How to Live A Pleasure-Focused Life with Intimacy Coach Aimee Batuski

Wedded Wellness

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2022 51:12


With the North Node in Taurus, we're all being called to understand our relationship to pleasure. This episode that originally aired back in October of 2020 is the perfect conversation to highlight our relationship with pleasure. Intimacy Coach and co-founder of Desire on Fire, Aimee Batuski, shares her insights into our true relationship with pleasure and why it can be hard to access. In this episode we discuss…Aimee's pleasure filled life living in BaliThe connection of pleasure to magnetismGetting free with what we actually WANT in the bedroom and in real life.Why we are conditioned to lie about what we actually wantMeeting other people's desires with approval, even when you don't agree.How to you determine your true desiresLearn more:Follow Aimee on Instagram: @aimeebatuskiFollow Desire on Fire on Instagram: @desireonfireLearn more about Desire on Fire: www.desireonfire.comFollow along on Instagram: @yogamagicpodcast and @ashley.sondergaardLearn more about Ashley and Yoga Magic at www.ashleysondergaard.com Sign up for the Yoga Magic email list to learn about upcoming events:https://tremendous-leader-9896.ck.page/0aced5b4f4 Let's Work Together: **Bookings open through June. I'll be on maternity leave July and August.Book a Joint Astrology and Human Design Reading with Ashley & Sarah Leverett | During these 1 hour joint readings, Sarah will cover the basics of your Human Design chart including type, strategy, & authority. Then, Ashley will cover the key components of your natal chart & how you can work with the energy of your chart in your life today.Book a 1:1 Cosmic Self-Care Session with Ashley  | Learn how to use your astrological birth chart to personalize your self-care routines, rituals and practices with this 60 minute session and customized self-care plan. Book a Birth Chart Reading with Ashley | Learn about the key components of your natal chart and how you can work with the energy in y

Look What She Built
EP 33: Becoming Magnetic With Aimee Batuski

Look What She Built

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2022 50:24


Aimee Batuski is a Pleasure and Intimacy Expert, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. She's worked side by side with some of the top sexuality + intimacy teachers in the world. Aimee and her business partner Ellie Montgomerie are the millennial authorities in the global wide movement of the new feminine. Through their company Desire on Fire, they run retreats, virtual programs and an international sisterhood community. They've taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships. https://www.desireonfire.com/ DISCOUNT CODE for Oct 2022 event in LA: JAIME

Wilder Wellness
How to use pleasure as a way to connect to your body and desires, with Ally Barnett, LCSW

Wilder Wellness

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 44:21


Join Kristen and her friend, and fellow therapist Ally Barnett, LCSW as they discuss intimacy, desire, and how pleasure can be a powerful tool to connect with our bodies. In this episode, we discuss how sex and sensuality can actually help you feel more at home in your body and connected to your desires in and out of the bedroom. Ally Barnett is a sex therapist who lives and works in Burlington, Vermont, and Jackson, Wyoming. Ally works with individuals who are looking to work through concerns including things like pain, shame, suppression, and control that they feel are no longer serving them when it comes to areas of intimacy. Ally works with her clients who want to express themselves more, overcome body image issues and increase sensuality, understand their desires and limitations when it comes to pleasure, help feel more connection between body and mind, and create healthy boundaries and desires around sex, sensuality, and intimacy. You can learn more about Ally and her work here. During this episode, Ally references her mentors Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomery who run Desire on Fire. Ally also makes a number of book references linked below: Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski Pussy - Regena Thomashauer The Body Is Not an Apology - Sonia Renee Taylor Pleasure Activism - Adrienne Marie Brown The Heart of Desire - Stella Resnick The Erotic Mind - Jack Morin

How Could This Be Right
Ep. 07: Holding The Desire…Live from Mexico!

How Could This Be Right

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2022 47:46


Hosted by: Paige Wilhide featuring Naomi Cambridge, Aimee Batuski, Ellie Montgomerie, Vicky Aldana, Morgan Northway, Evin Rose, Cailin McDuff, Kelley Bode, Taisha Cortes, and Carli Jo + VIC! Holy $hit you guys it's here! This week's episode, for those of you who missed it, is our podcast launch party from Mexico with me and my dozen best baddie babes! With a live international audience on Zoom, each of the ladies who felt the desire shared in the episode what they were working through, a withhold they wanted to get clear or some part of their own expansion journey that led to all 12 of us being together on that divine trip. It was a literal confessional-truth-booth Real World moment, except fully sober and conscious! Please note: the giveaway mentioned in the recording has since ended and the amazing winner has been selected. WELL CURATED WELLNESS with Victoria C. Lutzhoft Join our Monthly Masterclass Membership for $111 / month. Each masterclass is a 90-minute jam-packed unique experience, the third Tuesday of every month. When you join, you get access to all previous trainings, PLUS two live movement sessions to help you integrate and embody the teachings each month! You can read more about the upcoming topics here and use the code HCTBR for half-off your first month! Let's connect on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/_mamavic_/ Learn about the other ways to work with Victoria here www.wellcuratedwellness.com

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Any Way You Want It
Ep 63: The Journey Between Wanting and Having with Ellie Shepley Montgomerie and Aimee Batuski

Any Way You Want It

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 63:09


Recently, I have had a desire to let you all in on the conversations I have with my sisters about desires, sex, power, responsibility, and many other topics. One of the things that my friends and I talk about a lot is what it really takes to hold your desire. It's not all puppies and rainbows. It can look glamorous from the outside, but it really requires you to be honest with yourself, follow the desire as it shifts, and take full responsibility for it along the way. Join me with my sisters, Aimee Batuski and Ellie Shepley Montgomerie as we share some real examples from our own lives and let you in on how desire works us over and over again! Fully listening to the voice of desire Following what has the most sensation in your body Masculine vs. feminine integrity Tools and perspectives around fully holding desire Real stories about what the winding path of desire can look like Finding resonance in your desire Desire as the ultimate surrender practice   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com    Guest's Website: http://desireonfire.com/ Desire on Fire Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/   Aimee's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Ellie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie/

How Could This Be Right
Ep. 05: Sisterhood, A Look Inside w/ the Desire on Fire Duo with Aimee + Ellie

How Could This Be Right

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2022 47:58


I'm joined today by my two best friends (and we talk about what that actually means for us in our sisterhood) Aimee Batuski and Ellie Montgomerie of Desire on Fire. We get straight to the point sharing a real behind-the-scenes look at the evolution our sisterhood-trio has had over the past five years. On today's episode: We dive into what our sisterhood practices look like and what we are committed to for one another I share about what it's like to be in connection with these two powerful women, and how that has supported me growing my own business + life, as I've stepped out from behind and into my own lane, beside them We talk about what being ‘best friends' actually means in our world, hint hint it's no MySpace Top 8 ranking And literally so so soo much more in these 45 minutes ~ Aimee Batuski & Ellie Montgomerie are Pleasure & Intimacy Experts, committed to women living turned-on, connected and satisfying lives. They are millennial authorities in the global movement of the new feminine. They've worked side by side with some of the top Intimacy & Sexuality teachers in the world, including: Nicole Daedone, Founder of the worldwide movement “Orgasmic Meditation”, Regena Thomashauer (aka Mama Gena), Founder of the School of the Womanly Arts and NY times bestselling author; and Miss Jaiya, who created the “Erotic Blueprints” and has been hand selected by Tony Robbins to work with his platinum members on sexuality and relationships. Their company, Desire on Fire, is teaching, training & inspiring a new generation of women to become powerful agents of change, who allow their desires and pleasure to lead the way as they step into a whole new world of freedom, manifestation and ease. Everyone is raving about their retreats and programs and they've taught thousands of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex and fulfilling relationships. Find your intimacy style here: https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/60bfceb6749e3400170c1da5 Guest's Website: https://www.desireonfire.com/ Guest's Instagram: @aimeebatuski + @elliemontgomerrie WELL CURATED WELLNESS with Victoria C. Lutzhoft FREE GUIDED MEDITATION, to help you move out of anxious worry mode and into easeful, grounded connection with yourself here. I'd love to hear from you! Send me a DM on Instagram here: instagram.com/_mamavic_ Want more? Learn about the programs I offer over on my website: www.wellcuratedwellness.com

The Best You've Ever Had
035: We Got Cancelled with Aimee Batuski

The Best You've Ever Had

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2022 54:20


Afraid of getting canceled? We were too! But the truth is - nobody can actually cancel you. And telling the real truth might be the adventure of your life! In today's episode, Kelley and I share our stories of “getting canceled” this year and the powerful self-discoveries along the way. We discuss the truths that got us canceled, the impact and ripple effects on our lives & businesses, and why we are truly grateful for this expansive experience. Ready to lean into more truth in your life? Let's dive in because we are going to tell you why it is SO worth it.   We dive into: How to lean into more truth in your life - regardless of cancel culture! Discovering what being canceled really means to you & how you can use it to expand A breakdown of the posts that got us canceled (and a look at the comment section - it was pretty brutal!) Personal responsibility, shame & blame, and tribe mentality Political correctness - good or bad? Valuing diversity of thought and conversation over censorship And more! Connect with Aimee: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Her Company, Desire on Fire: https://www.desireonfire.com/ Desire on Fire on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ Connect with Kelley:   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90  Twitter: https://twitter.com/kelleybode

Living Brave
EP 42: Conscious Sexuality & Harnessing the Power of Your Rock Bottom with Aimee Batuski

Living Brave

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 51:30


This week, I pass the mic to my friend and fellow podcaster of the Desire on Fire Podcast, Aimee Batuski. In this counter-interview, Aimee speaks vulnerably about her rock bottom moment, and how acknowledging the work she still had to do within herself led her to the transformational work she does for other women today. We discuss getting edgier online through fearless self-expression, how to consciously communicate with future sex partners, leading with feeling rather than your accomplishments, human design, and much more. If you're lit up about transforming your sex life (no matter your relationship status), through learning how to communicate safely and effectively with your partner(s), tune in to this empowering episode to learn how to harness your desires and connect more authentically with others in your life.Living Brave 2nd Anniversary Partyhttps://www.eventbrite.com/e/living-brave-two-year-birthday-extravaganza-community-party-tickets-184026788077Join Becoming Brave: https://livingbrave.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/1106135Apply for the Leadership MastermindApply/Join the Waitlist for EBA Jan 2022Connect with Shoshanna & the Living Brave Community:instagram.com/shoshanna_ravenhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/livingbravecommunityConnect with Aimee:Desire on Fire PodcastAimee's Instagram

Living Brave
EP 41: Heartbreak, Herpes & Shame Slaying: My Story with Aimee Batuski of Desire on Fire

Living Brave

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2021 71:19


In this special episode, my friend Aimee Batuski interviews me on my journey through shame, HSV, and the rapid growth of Living Brave to a 7 figure business. We dive deep into my heartbreak – the only public interview I've had on the experience. This episode was recorded for Aimee's podcast 4 months after the end of my long-term relationship. I'm confident that you'll find inspiration on your journey of healing and leadership in hard times.Connect with Shoshanna & the Living Brave Communityinstagram.com/shoshanna_ravenhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/livingbravecommunityExplore programs & mentorshipShoshannaraven.comBecoming Brave kicks off on October 11! Sign up here.Connect with Aimee Desire on Fire PodcastAimee's Instagram

PS I Love Me
Episode 16: Set your desire on fire with pleasure expert Aimee Batuski

PS I Love Me

Play Episode Play 29 sec Highlight Listen Later Sep 15, 2021 62:30 Transcription Available


“At the time, it was scary. That's when I knew I needed it.” – Aimee Batuski“Your hunger is beautiful. It is sacred. It's a compass.” – Aimee Batuski“Take whatever perspective empowers you and leave the rest.” – Aimee BatuskiThese are just a few of the maaany mic drop moments that Aimee effortlessly shares in this exhilarating and liberating conversation about all things sex, success and surrender. Explore your desires, tap into the power of manifestation, learn how to graciously receive and expand your capacity for pleasure. Get ready for brain-gasms aplenty! Aimee Batuski is a pleasure and intimacy expert who trained with the world's top sexuality teachers. She is committed to helping women live turned-on, connected, satisfying lives. She is the CEO and co-founder of Desire on Fire, a women's transformation company that runs virtual and in-person programs and retreats teaching thousands of women how to create confident intimacy, hot sex, and fulfilling relationships.www.desireonfirelive.com - use code “sexy” to get a ticket for $145www.desireonfire.comwww.Instagram.com/aimeebatuskiwww.Instagram.com/desireonfire--Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ginaswire/ Email the PS I Love Me Podcast: teamselflove@ginaswire.comExplore my website: www.ginaswire.comExperience a 12 Step Self-Love Transformation:https://ginaswire.com/12-step-self-love-transformation-main-2021/Sign-up for all the latest news on my first book, released on 30th September! www.ginaswire.com/booknews--The next episode of PS I Love Me will be out next Wednesday. For more self-love content sign up to my newsletter at https://www.ginaswire.com/newsletter

Commitment Phobe
Ep. 3: It's Never About Them with Aimee Batuski

Commitment Phobe

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2021 51:18


When you're in a relationship, opening up about your intimate desires can be scary — but it doesn't have to be! If you feel the fear of rejection is interfering with your ability to be emotionally vulnerable with your partner, then it's time to ask yourself “What DO I want? What would turn ME on?” to start the journey to discover self-love and trust your emotions so you can have the fulfilling relationships of your dreams.   On this episode, I have the pleasure of talking with my former life and intimacy coach and host of the podcast With Pleasure, Aimee Batuski. She's dedicated to helping womxn have pleasurable sex and satisfying lives by creating deeply intimate connections. Aimee's POWERFUL advice will give you the freedom to express yourself through your emotions, desires, and truths to develop the confidence to ask for what YOU want in relationships!    We're diving into:   Why getting to the truth of what YOU desire will guide you to have thriving relationships Comparing the masculine versus feminine energy perspective, and why the feminine can be hardest to embrace Aimee gets personal with a relationship story that helped her AWAKEN her sexuality, discover the feminine, and trust her desires These AMAZING tips will help you ask for what you want in your relationships (and get it!) Why Aimee believes the ONE thing is most important to own and express your desires with your partner This KEY thing is impacting why you blame others when you don't think you're getting what you want (and how you can change your mindset to have the relationships you desire!) What you MUST do to free your emotions, embrace pleasure, and allow your partner to see the real YOU! Simple steps to take personal responsibility of your jealousy and turn it into something sexually satisfying Why Aimee thinks ALL relationships should be considered “practice”, and how it can help you build the confidence to express your desires in the future And so much more!   Follow Aimee on Instagram: https://instagram.com/aimeebatuski   Connect with Aimee through her website: https://www.aimeebatuski.com   If you are interested in more of Aimee's relationship tools or upcoming programs and retreats, then follow Desire on Fire on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire   Learn more about what I do as an Intuitive Coach and connect with me at my website: https://www.tanaimilgram.com   Connect with me on Instagram to continue the conversation and get updates about the podcast: https://www.instagram.com/tanaimilgram

The Best You've Ever Had
011: Practice Makes Progress with Aimee Batuski

The Best You've Ever Had

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2021 55:01


We have a special episode for you this week! Tune in for a double dose of pleasure as I am joined by “With Pleasure” podcast host, Aimee Batuski - my Bali roommate, best friend, and fellow intimacy coach. We share all the juicy details of how we integrate our pleasure practices into our daily lives and how you can live a more turned-on and desire-filled life by adopting daily practices of tuning into your own body and getting clear on your deepest desires. We're diving into: Why we have chosen to live life as a practice and the beautiful transformations that have come from it Releasing the ego around being an expert at everything (and the freedom that comes from being an amateur!) My morning self-pleasure practice of “peaking” (you only need 5 minutes!) Why it can be so helpful to set a container for your daily practices Connecting consciously to our pussies EVERY DAY Aimee's daily food practice and how it prepares her nervous system for digestion The importance of personal responsibility as a practice Some edges that Aimee and I discovered around expressing our desires to our lovers (and how they were received by the men!) And so much more!   Connect with Aimee:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/desireonfire   Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelley.bode.90

The Soul Digger Podcast
Ep. 40 - How to Heal your Triggers and Find Freedom with Aimee Batuski

The Soul Digger Podcast

Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Feb 7, 2021 41:16


In this episode Intimacy Coach Aimee Batuski and Kim dive deep into healing triggers, finding freedom and leading a life infused with more turn on, pleasure, permission and truth.From living in the masculine hustle and reacting to triggers, to opening up to your world to pleasure and the divine feminine energy, they share their transition into a life filled with ease, grace and fun. Like most of us, the past can hold many emotional triggers which push us into the human mechanism of protection, and in this episode Aimee and Kim explore how to heal your triggers and find freedom.If you're ready to acknowledge your triggers and go back to clean up the story, then this episode is for you.We often forget that life is practice. Relationships are practice. Business is practice. Imagine what could happen if you let go and opened up your world to pleasure, being in alignment with your desires and being seen for who you truly are. Don't let your triggers hold you back.Our triggers are an indication for our next level of growth, so if you're ready to dive deep, let go and rewrite your story, get listening Soul Diggers.If you notice a few glitchy parts in this episode - bear with us...Mercury is in retrograde!We love hearing your episode takeaways! Screenshot this episode on your device, and tag @thesouldigger_ and @kimmellor_ and @aimeebatuski Instagram. Kim would also LOVE you to SUBSCRIBE and leave a positive 5* review!Useful linksThe Soul Digger - @thesouldigger_Kim Mellor - @kimmellor_Website: www.kimmellor.comKim Mellor Arbonne - www.Kimmellor.Arbonne.comEmail: kim@kimmellor.co.ukAlign & Shine: Align & Shine 5 Day ChallengePodcast Sponsor: Kajabi Free 14 Day Trial Cultivate the clarity and confidence to turn your wildest dreams into realityTransform fear into faith and become a magnet for miracles.https://www.kimmellor.com/expectmiracles

Any Way You Want It
EP 8: Making Life Messier through Desire with Cailin McDuff

Any Way You Want It

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2021 49:52


It's my turn to feature my story! Listen in as my good friend and fellow intimacy coach, Aimee Batuski, interviews me to reveal my journey of opening up my sexuality and tapping into my power as a woman. At the age of 32, I had never had an orgasm. Looking around at my life and realizing I desperately wanted more (and to be able to feel in my body), I set off on a journey to discover my body and my sexuality. Listen in as we discuss: Leaning on sisterhood in sexual transformation work Creating approval for sexuality everywhere - in sisterhood, in coaching, and in relationships How I had built my life around being a "good girl" Coming to work around your sexuality from inspiration or desperation Shifting the mindset of "I'm broken" or "My body is broken." The blocks we experience in our body based on shame Opening the door to your sex and feeling the hunger Starting the journey of following the truth of your desire and how you can take good care of yourself in that Breaking through people pleasing patterns to become a sovereign woman Following a desire to live in community when it "didn't make sense" Trusting a power greater than me in desire Surrendering and bringing reverence to relationship through practicing as a submissive  Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/ Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/ Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Aimee's Website: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Aimee's Instagram: instagram.com/aimeebatuski Desire on Fire on Instagram: instagram.com/desireonfire/ Desire on Fire on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/desireonfire

The Best You've Ever Had
003: Friendship Breakups and Living Your Truth with Aimee Batuski

The Best You've Ever Had

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2020 67:03


Have you ever dated someone who hated your friends? Or vice versa? If you've been caught having to choose between friends and lovers before, you're going to love this episode! Today I'm joined by my amazing friend, Aimee Batuski. Aimee is a pleasure and intimacy expert who works with women on speaking and living their truths, and prioritizing their pleasure (inside and outside of the bedroom!) Join us as we dive into her work, life, and our friendship (from soul sisters to our friendship breakup and back again!)   We're digging into: The relationship that caused our breakup Why friendship breakups can be worse than relationship breakups The BIGGEST lesson Aimee learned from therapy during our friendship breakup and how it changed the way she worked through it How I started to choose myself again The mistake you may be making in your friendship that isn't serving either of you (and how to shift it) What it looked like to step into the feminine energy work The ONE thing that was missing from our personal growth journeys My experience going through Desire on Fire (it changed everything for me!) and the biggest takeaways I had The new way of looking at masculine vs feminine energy that will help you understand it more deeply Aimee's clients most common fear and her BEST piece of advice for them The ONE thing that is required for rapid change And more!   Connect with Aimee: IG: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Join the Desire on Fire community on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/desireonfire  Listen to Aimee's podcast, With Pleasure Get in on the next Pleasure Challenge in January 2021 (and get it for FREE with the code: pleasure) https://www.thepleasurechallenge.com 

The PurposeGirl Podcast: Empowering women to live their purpose with courage, joy, and fierce self-love.

What are you biggest, juiciest intimate desires? If you don't know, you're not alone. As women, we're taught from a young age to prioritize the needs of others at the expense of their own. We are taught that our pleasures and desires aren't nearly as important as those of the other people in our lives – especially the men. It's time for women to take back their pleasure, and insert it into everything they do.   In this episode of The PurposeGirl Podcast, I interview my soul sister and Burning Man roomie, the Pleasure and Intimacy guru, Aimee Batuski - and we have such a fun, delicious conversation about how women can have turned-on, connected, satisfying lives. As the co-founder of Desire on Fire and the host of The Pleasure Revolution Podcast, Aimee shares how we can tap into our deepest and most intimate desires so that we can transform our current reality into a pleasurable and “juicy” way of living – because we deserve it! In this episode, Aimee and I discuss: How to connect with your body and to what really turns you on What to do with jealousy and complaints A simple question to bring aliveness into your life Why Sisterhood matters The Desire Cycle – what the cycle is an how to implement it to get what you want in life The power of vulnerability   Connect with Aimee on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/desireonfire  and Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski or https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire). Also, don't miss Aimee's Pleasure Revolution - 5 Day Challenge! October 26 - 30. All the info at www.thepelasurechallenge.com (Use code: "PLEASURE" to get in for free!) Want more PurposeGirl?? Ready to be your full Goddess on Purpose self? And desire Sisterhood who feels the same? Join the Free PurposeGirls Facebook Group! I post prompts, motivation, and do free live videos and challenges to get you on purpose and loving life!! Click here to join (https://www.facebook.com/groups/PurposeGirlsGroup/). Also make sure you're getting my newsletter – that's the first place I send announcements about events, programs and share purpose and happiness tips. Click here to receive my newsletter for free (https://carinrockind.com/newsletter)! Love this episode and The PurposeGirl Podcast? Then share the love!! Go to Apple Podcasts and leave a 5 star review, subscribe so you never miss an episode, and download ALL the episodes to listen again and again! And share the PurposeGirl Podcast with every woman you know – that's how we change the world one woman at a time!! Follow me here on Facebook and here on Instagram. May you live purposefully, may you love yourself, and may you love life!! XO, Carin   About Aimee Batuski Aimee Batuski is a Pleasure and Intimacy Expert, committed to helping women live turned-on, connected, satisfying lives. She is the co-founder of Desire on Fire, a retreat company based in Southern CaliforniaShe has trained with some of the top Intimacy + Sexuality teachers in the world, including Nicole Daedone, RegenaThomashauer (Mama Gena), and Jaiya Ma. Aimee has led workshops and retreats around the world, including in: New York, California, at Burning Man, in Mexico, Peru and Bali. Through Aimee's virtual and in-person work, she's taught hundreds of women how to create wild, confident intimacy, hot sex, and fulfilling relationships.

Neutrino Seas Human Design
Unleash Your Desire with Aimee Batuski

Neutrino Seas Human Design

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2020 93:06


Are you ready to discover your deeper purpose, fall in love with your body, connect with your own pleasure in sex, set and communicate boundaries powerfully, develop the ability to receive everything you want, and feel permission to want more in life? Aimee Batuski is a coach and speaker absolutely passionate about helping her clients discover and unlock the power of their desire. “I lead retreats and virtual group courses for women that focus on loving our bodies, living a pleasure-focused life, trusting men, and owning our feminine power.” Aimee and Travis discuss: Living a desire led life. Sex and intimacy. Pleasure and orgasm. Having approval for our desires. Conditioning in the bedroom. Following “turn on”. Relationships. Asking for what you want. Setting containers and boundaries. Connecting to your body. Healing shame. Masculine and feminine dynamics. Self love. Seeking approval. Getting support to live your best life. And more! Connect with Aimee Batuski. Website | https://www.aimeebatuski.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/aimee.batuski 5 Day Pleasure Challenge | http://www.thepleasurechallenge.com Connect with Desire on Fire retreats and discover your erotic blueprint. Erotic Blueprint Quiz | https://bit.ly/2usIDAQ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/ Connect with Travis Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/travis.day/ Podcast | https://www.instagram.com/stupidbeautifulpodcast/