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Any Way You Want It is an exploration into new and uncharted territories in sex, relationships, and life. Through conversations with everyday people, teachers, experts, and self-proclaimed weirdos, Cailin opens new doors to intimacy and love. It’s like having a cozy intimate dinner party where you get to consider different relationship models, perspectives, and paradigms so that you can have your own personal buffet of options to choose from. So pull up a chair, pour yourself a glass of wine, and prepare to get in touch with your desire.

Cailin McDuff


    • Apr 27, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 55m AVG DURATION
    • 97 EPISODES


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    Ep. 96: The Alchemy in Sisterhood with Sydney Campos

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2023 60:56


    Sydney Campos is a Visionary, Psychic Energy Healer, Embodiment Facilitator and Best-Selling Author of The Empath Experience: What To Do When You Feel Everything. She is the Founder of the Embodied Ascension Academy, Co-Founder and Chief Strategy Officer of ASCEND and host of the Visionary Souls Podcast. Join in as we discuss: Alchemizing where we are triggered Our hot connection and how we let ourselves have it! Owning our gifts The impact of creating from our wounds Tracking back where you hear the voice of Truth Desire in the present moment  Letting go, and letting God – what does that mean? Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Sydney's IG: @SydneyCampos   Sydney's Website: Sydneycampos.com   Sydney's LinkedIn: Sydney Campos Sidney's Freebie: Dream Awake: Embody your Genius - Use code ANYWAY for free ❤️❤️

    EP 95: Being with What Is with Sasha Kerkman Hood

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 4, 2023 50:29


    Sasha is a Mother, Midwife, and Relationship & Sexuality coach, and teacher of intuition, and desire. She owns a business alongside her husband, Moritz, working with couples on creating partnerships that foster relationship to personal power, respect and care, deepening connection and intimacy. Sasha believes in living life guided by desire and fueled by connection purpose. In her 14 years of experience as a coach and practitioner, she sees a thread of supporting women and couples who claim their power and autonomy, in relationship to themselves, their partners, families and communities. Join in as we discuss: The art of being with what is Desire vs. Fantasy vs. Wanting What it takes the hold the weight of our desire  Perfectionism and how it keeps us from what we want Creating business inside of partnership - it's messy! How to do deep excavation with ourselves  The vulnerability of staying open in partnership  Allowing little deaths in relationship to move you towards Desire  Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Sasha's IG: @awakened_intimacy   Sasha's TikTok: @awakened_intimacy

    EP 94: Being in Awe of Your Heart with Kevin Hermann

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2023 43:13


    Today, I'm thrilled to be joined by Kevin Hermann, a premier business, leadership, and life coach with over 7 years of experience and more than 1,000 hours of coaching under his belt. Kevin's unique approach to coaching has been recognized by some of the biggest names in media, with features in The New York Times and GQ for his groundbreaking men's work group program. He's also facilitated over 25 intensive retreats, helping countless individuals and teams achieve their goals and unlock their full potential. But Kevin's expertise extends far beyond the world of coaching - he's also a former co-founder and CEO of Exponential, where he ran accountability teams for entrepreneurs. And if that wasn't enough, Kevin is also an NBA fashion nerd and budding tea sommelier, bringing his unique personality and passion to everything he does. Join in as we discuss: Listening to the voice of Truth Preferences vs. the Truth Asking yourself, “Can I get better at listening?” Being in awe of your own heart Commitment and love Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire    Kevin's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinhermann/   Kevin's Instagram:  @Kev_hermann Kevin's Website:  https://www.kevinhermann.com/

    EP 93: Unexpected Sisterhood with Samantha Blossom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2023 56:34


    Today's Guest is Samantha Blossom. With more than 15 years of experience in Chinese Medicine and Quantum. She is also a Certified Body Talk Practitioner, ISBT Bowen Therapy Certified, Emotional Freedom Techniques Facilitator, and Kundalini Yoga Teacher. Her mission is to teach entrepreneurs how to access their own superpowers and how to reach their full potential.  Join in as we discuss: Our story of unexpected sisterhood - she's my partner's former partner!  Allowing and trusting the ebb and flow of relationships Allowing gems + gold to come into your life  The birth and death process  The way that we back each other as sisters (and why this is so unconventional)  How we navigated stickier parts of our sisterhood  The way we trust we are meant to be in each other's lives   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Samantha's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SamanthaLoveBlossom/   Samantha's Website: https://www.samanthablossom.com/   Samantha's Instagram: @samanthaloveblossom

    EP 92: Holding the Desire to Find a Dom with Rinsha Ballani

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2023 61:14


    My friend Rinsha has a desire to find a dominant man. This just happens to be a topic that I love talking about, and so we decided to record a conversation where I tell her everything I know and feel in relation to the dominant/submissive space. She is holding her desire so beautifully!  And, she asks all of the questions that you have probably wanted to know if this is something that you desire to explore.  Mainly - “How do I find a dom!?!:   Join in as we discuss: Holding the desire to find a dominant man What I have gotten from my path practicing submission and what Rinsha sees for herself Getting specific around the qualities you are looking for and the kind of partnership. Platforms for seeking this kind of a connection  Questions to ask to vet potential partners  Red flags to watch out for  How to bring fun, play, and be in the energy of your desire   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Rinsha's Facebook: Rinsha Ballani    Rinsha's Instagram: @rinshaballani

    EP 91: My New Podcast Lewk

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2023 28:43


    Come check out the new LEWK of my podcast, y'all. In this episode, I am letting my old show die and the new one come through. Help me celebrate all that this show used to be and usher in my next desires! (also can we just comment on how hot the new cover is?!?) Join in as we discuss: Feeling the energy of when things need to die Celebrating all that this was - meeting new friends, digestion, practicing using my voice, and radical honesty  Bringing in my new desires - more solo episodes, more spontaneous episodes, more episodes with Angel, and maybe some live coaching/teaching with people!  How to know when to let go of something or reinvent it    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire  

    Ep. 90: Creative Exchange with Talia Shipman-Englander

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2023 63:39


    In Today's EP we have the amazing Talia Shipman- Englander, She's  a visual artist, designer, photographer, and creative innovator, she's also the founder of The Social Hummus. Join in as we discuss: Trades: Why I think they don't usually work How to setup an exchange that is truly based in service, not scarcity Creating a win-win relationship Setting up boundaries in an exchange relationship Allowing and supporting growth inside of partnership Checking in to see the next true thing Celebrating each other's growth and expansion!   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire    Talia's Website: www.eatsocialhummus.com   Talia's Instagram: @taliashipman and @social_hummus

    Ep 89: Owning your Journey with Owen Renert

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 49:23


    Today's Guest is Owen Renert, They are a Non-Binary Therapist Trainee, Alternative Intimacy Educator and Leader, Local Game Show Host, and Blues Dancer with a very interesting International upbringing!  Join us as we discuss:  Exploring “alternative intimacy” that feels good for both partners  Surrounding yourself with people who are willing to go deep and try new things  The nonbinary trans-masculine journey and experience  Stop hiding your shit!  Creating limit lists to capture your kink desires and boundaries  Feeling the mix of anxiety and excitement as a sign to do the thing    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Owen's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/758476680899688   Owens's Instagram: @Owen_Renert

    Ep 88: The Evolution of Our Tantric Relationship with Angel De La Paz

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 66:04


    For this Episode I have a very special guest: My partner Angel! We've decided to go all out with all the nitty gritty details and give you a peek at our relationship and how we've grown together as a couple.  Join us as we discuss: The unique healing that happens inside of relationship The way our souls orchestrate experiences for us Learning to set boundaries that serve our nervous systems as well as our growth path Alchemizing emotions for our healing Moving energy inside of relationship towards your shared desire The juicy details of an experience we had this summer with another woman and what we learned! Holding ourselves inside of triggered spots   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

    Ep 87: Finding the Beauty in Breakup with Tal Yardeni

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2022 49:04


    Today's guest is Tal Yardeni, a certified Breakup Recovery Coach and creator of The Breakup To Badass Formula who is Helping women heal from a breakup with my group coaching program.  Join us as we discuss:  Fully accepting where we are in life  The experience of chasing the next thing and the next thing  Getting curious about the patterns of accepting less than you're worth  Allowing your inner voice to quiet  Forgiving yourself for choosing to not see reality  Learning how to self-regulate    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Tal's Freebie: https://talyardeni.click/guide-1   Tal's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/breakuprecoverysupportgroup    Tal's Instagram:  @thetalyardeni

    Ep 86: Sexting, Porn, and The Magic of Curiosity with Nolan Elsbecker

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 66:04


    Today's guest is Nolan Elsbecker! They are a Queer New York Artist, Certified Yoga Instructor, Professional Dancer, Self Taught Fashion Designer, and a Porn Star! They make art through video, photo, and dance. Join us as we discuss: Taking the first steps to exploring sexual curiosity  Healing deep religious trauma  Exploring sexuality through texting  Creating safety, expressing desires, and setting boundaries  Becoming a better communicator  Opening up sexuality through movement and lots of lovers  Creating inspiration and freedom through porn   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Nolas's Website: Onlyfans.com/Theworstnoel   Nolas's Instagram:  @nolanelsbecker

    Ep 85: Keeping It Hot In Marriage with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2022 61:17


    Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over 20 years she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life-- from the daily grind of running a household to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom. A wife of 26 years and a mother of 4, Dr. Alexandra believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy and success, isn't compromise--it's being unwilling to compromise. Because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship becomes juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying. Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, thriveglobal, mindbodygreen, FOX NEWS NYC, and Disruptors Magazine recently named her one of “30 Inspiring Women to Watch in 2022.” Join us as we discuss: Making the decision to do things because you feel like it  Using every interaction as a way to create intimacy and erotic energy  Creating games and research in relationship  Curiosity as an access point to deeper intimacy  Starting with the question of, “What do I need?” Honoring your own experience, and re-organizing life around that     Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Alexandras's Freebie: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/   Alexandra's Website: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/   Alexandra's Instagram: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy

    Ep 84: Pup Play, Polyamory, and Pleasure

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 61:04


    For this episode we'll have an anonymous guest: He's a very good friend of mine who'd rather keep his privacy so he can dig in all the juicy details of his relationship, polyamory and pup play!  Join us as we discuss: There's nothing wrong with you  What to do with mismatched sexual appetites  The fun of being in a pup pack!  Creating a deep level of trust and foundation in relationship  Working with your shadow  Your energy is what you make it  Creating boundaries to support each partner in a relationship Opening your heart fully to others   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

    Ep 83: Fully Choosing Yourself with Brittany Silva

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2022 53:52


    In today's episode we'll be joined by the incredible Brittany Silva, she's a Crystal bowl & sacred sound alchemist, Energetic embodiment guide/ space holder, Mentor, Clairvoyant channeler, and also, a Health Coach. Join us as we discuss: Being with the feeling of, “Is this it?” Allowing it all to flow   Bringing your energy out to express what it wants to say Learning to fully hold ourselves through healing How we create healing space together Setting energetic boundaries  Full permission to be you    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Brittany's Website: www.sacreddivinealchemy.com   Brittany's Instagram: @sacreddivinealchemy

    Ep 82: Don't Go for the Promotion with Kimberly Rubin

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2022 51:33


    Today's guest is a very special one, her name is Kimberly Rubin and she has been a client of mine for about a year and a half in which I've seen her grow so much! She has such amazing energy and brings magic to every room she is in, and I'm sure you'll be able to sense that too. In this episode she's going to talk about her feminine journey, accepting she is a witch and, becoming - as I like to call her - a lady of leisure. Join us as we discuss: Making the choice to not go for a promotion and to step back from working Allowing in your partner in more intimate ways Following your own felt sense and desire Slowing down to fully feel Realizing the need for more space in the body Setting boundaries for yourself Letting go of independence to create interdependence   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire    Kimberly's Instagram:@kimberly.Eden.Rubin

    EP 81: Whole Human Leadership with Oren Shai

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 52:51


    For today episode, our guest will be Oren Shai: He is the Founder of HOHU (Whole-Human Leadership Development) created for courageous business leaders and teams who refuse to compartmentalize themselves. HOHU is an embodied leadership development company that offers a proven way to meet the needs of the moment with awareness, alignment, and aliveness. Oren is also a Somatic (body-based) leadership coach to Founders/CXOs of fast-growing startups and leaders within large tech companies who are committed to modeling authentic, aware, and empowering leadership. He has Over a decade of experience developing people within hyper-growth companies, and a Master's in Organizational Psychology. And he has Applied team performance and done collaboration research with top universities. Join us as we discuss: Being in relationship from true love (and the difference between that and a trauma bond)  Working with our own control patterns  Creating space in our body to say the truth  Cultivating our ability to be with reality  What it means to Oren and me to live an embodied life  Creating magic and presence in every moment    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Oren's Freebie: https://hohu.co/wantit   Oren's Website: hohu.co   Oren's Instagram: @embody.change Oren's LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/oshai

    Ep. 80: Creative Business as a Portal for the Feminine with Allie Monday “Ladygroove”

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 55:33


    For today's episode, our guest will be Allie Monday: She is a Fine art nude & somatic photographer, creator of Ladygroove: a movement of liberation, author of Her Body: A Riotous Celebration Of The Female Form, and co-founder of Body Poetry. Join us as we discuss: Creative business as a portal for the feminine Going from an abstinence educator to an erotic photographer  Full self honesty as a core value The dishonesty of boudoir photography  Learning to tell the difference between trauma response and intuition  Following the energy of grief in a primal way  Getting in touch with what you want to give and what you need in business    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Allie's Website: https://www.iamladygroove.com/   Allie's Instagram:  @ladygroove

    Ep. 79: Creating a New Relationship to Motherhood with Caitlin Lili

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 5, 2022 47:29


    Today's guest is Caitlin Lili, a single mom who has left the victim's energy behind her. After ten years of working in pediatrics plus four years in customer relations and social media management, she decided to take a career shift and became a Women's coach who focuses on helping mothers move out of martyrdom and into embodying their deepest most delicious desires. She is also a Trained Reiki Practitioner and has significant training in Somatic Breathwork. Join us as we discuss: Shedding the energy of what it means to be a “single mom” Taking inventory of our beliefs as moms  Where are we not expressed as women?  Working with your desire AND childcare Societal conditioning around caring for yourself  Life does not stop when you have kids! Keeping your heart open with your children  Sexuality as separate from motherhood    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   The Art of Receiving Retreat - August 18th-21st https://cailinmcduff.thrivecart.com/the-art-of-receiving/ Caitlin's group program, Moving out of Martyrdom: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/6hln8k0vnjc7   Caitlin's Instagram: @iamcatlinlili   Caitlin's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iamcaitlinlili

    Ep 78: Sisterhood Series: Our Relationships with Ghosts, Spirits and Ancestors

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2022 74:20


    Welcome to the Sisterhood Series!  This series is all about letting you into the sisterhood that I have created over the last five years on the feminine path. I want to let you into the juice of the regular, everyday transformational conversations that I am having with my sisters! We are going to get real with you about what's actually going on with our intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and more. We'll share how we are moving through it all, where we feel challenged, and what we are learning along the way. Join us as we discuss: Our roots in working with spirits and ancestors The way the world conflates magic with disfunction Seeing spiritual gifts within each of us Sensitivity as our spiritual superpower Anita's encounter and learnings with a ghost Setting boundaries with energetic entities Allowing yourself to be skeptical and be open at the same time Trusting we are meant to develop relationship with the unseen The voice of the divine is still and quiet   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire The Art of Receiving Retreat - August 18th-21st https://cailinmcduff.thrivecart.com/the-art-of-receiving/ Vicky's Instagram: @Vickylizette   Lizzie;s Instagram: @Lizzievance  

    EP 77: Sisterhood Series: How Magic is Showing Up Right Now with Paige Wilhide

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 69:52


    Welcome to the Sisterhood Series!  This series is all about letting you into the sisterhood that I have created over the last five years on the feminine path. I want to let you into the juice of the regular, everyday transformational conversations that I am having with my sisters! We are going to get real with you about what's actually going on with our intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and more. We'll share how we are moving through it all, where we feel challenged, and what we are learning along the way. This week's episode is all about the magic that is moving through our lives right now.  I'm so thrilled to be sitting down with my friend Paige Wilhide. Join us as we discuss: Being honest with what wants to come through now  Choosing community in our lives My blossoming sisterhood relationship with Samantha, Angel's former partner Creating gratitude for our partner's former partners  Paige's recovery journey with Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous  Her realization of, “Men are my drug!”   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 months fully embodied feminine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire      Paige's Website: https://www.breakupbreakthrough.com/   Paiges's Instagram: @breakupbreakthrough/

    EP 76: Sisterhood Series: Initiating Desire in Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2022 62:32


    Welcome to the Sisterhood Series! This series is all about letting you into the sisterhood that I have created over the last five years on the feminine path. I want to let you into the juice of the regular, everyday transformational conversations that I am having with my sisters! We are going to get real with you about what's actually going on with our intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and more. We'll share how we are moving through it all, where we feel challenged, and what we are learning along the way. This week's episode is all about initiating desire in your relationship. I'm so thrilled to be sitting down with my friend Ana Del Castillo. Join us as we discuss: Our views on “polarity” (what does that mean, is it useful in relationship) Being connected in relationship and not losing ourselves  How to love your partner even when you don't like something  Being unwilling to hold contempt or disdain for your partner Moving past preferences in relationship  Telling the truth in a way that feels good  The simplicity of desire  Protecting the thing that is most valuable in relationship   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 months fully embodied feminine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire     Ana's Website: https://www.adlifedesign.com/   Ana's Instagram: @ana_del_castillo

    Ep. 75: The Bravery of Three Love Adventures

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 62:32


    This week, we are releasing a special, urgent episode! Because I say so.

    Ep 74: Sisterhood Series: Healing the Father/Daughter Dynamic with Agnes Michalek

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2022 67:36


    Welcome to the Sisterhood Series!  This series is all about letting you into the sisterhood that I have created over the last five years on the feminine path. I want to let you into the juice of the regular, everyday transformational conversations that I am having with my sisters! We are going to get real with you about what's actually going on with our intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and more. We'll share how we are moving through it all, where we feel challenged, and what we are learning along the way. This week's episode is all about healing the father/daughter dynamic.  I'm joined by my good friend, Agnes Michalek. Join us as we discuss: Laying the foundation for healing your relationship with your Father Fully choosing approval of the masculine Apologizing for the places where we have pushed our Fathers away  The place where you can express without attachment is Truth Choosing to be fathered in your 30's  Fully letting go of abandonment wounds  Understanding soul level dynamics    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 months fully embodied feminine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire   Agnes Email: agnes.michalek@gmail.com

    Ep 73: My Mom is Waking up Her Sex! With Alice Taylor

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2022 79:43


    This is the most special episode I've ever recorded. Today we are sitting down with my almost 70-year-old mom to hear about how her feminine path has been slowly opening and revealing itself. Over the last few years, she has been brave enough to be in regular conversations with me about her desire, sexuality, healing, and being in relationship. This is after about seventeen years of shutting all of that down! And now, she's baring it all on this show in hopes that she can touch even one woman to speak up for her desire. We are both clear that together, we are doing the healing work for generations and generations of women in our family. In this episode, she shares about what it was like to attend her first sacred sexuality retreat (wow wow wow is all I have to say.) But perhaps even more importantly, we talk about the journey to saying YES to herself and all of the work she did with her desire and her healing leading up to that. We can all learn something from my mom. Listen in to hear about: Getting in touch with childhood trauma and following the thread of those patterns to heal The healing process starts when you say yes to yourself Sharing vulnerably with your partner and what that opens up The process of forgiving yourself Getting in touch with all of the sensations of your body Shin orgasms – what is that?! Letting yourself fully feel it to heal it Following and honoring your own energy   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

    EP 72: Sisterhood Series: Slumber Party

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2022 74:53


    Welcome to the Sisterhood Series! This series is all about letting you into the sisterhood that I have created over the last five years on the feminine path. I want to let you into the juice of the regular, everyday transformational conversations that I am having with my sisters! We are going to get real with you about what's actually going on with our intimacy, relationships, sexuality, and more. We'll share how we are moving through it all, where we feel challenged, and what we are learning along the way. This week's episode is a Sisterhood Slumber Party - nothing is off limits! Come on in… Join us as we discuss: All of the hilarious and obvious (and maybe not so obvious things I am learning living with Angel)  My juicy engagement story!  Existential Exhaustion and straight up burn out Giving yourself permission to be tired  Surrendering in the face of not knowing  Allowing natural cycles and the flow of life  Asking for space in relationship and allowing things to die so that something new can come through    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 months fully embodied feminine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire Vic's Instagram: @mamavic Ilanit's Instagram: @msilanit

    Ep 71: How to Make a Plan based in Desire: A Solo Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2022 40:45


    I'm doing another solo episode, y'all! Coming off of a gorgeous weekend where I co-hosted a gorgeous baby blessing for one of my dearest sisters, Ellie, I realized I needed to share some of the magic with you. Part of my genius in the world is staying rooted in desire AND making things happen at the same time. And I want to share that with you today in an episode all about making plans and creating projects from desire.  I am giving you ALL that I have learned over the past five or so years in this area.  This is a really juicy one.  I hope you enjoy! Join us as we discuss: Starting with getting clear on the desire  Creating the container that will hold the desire Calling in resources from your network and community to support the desire Regularly checking in on and rooting yourself in the desire Making decisions based in how they FEEL Deciding how the holding of the event should be  Bringing in ritual and ceremony    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Join Cocoon, my 6 month fully embodied femenine experience:  https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Sign up for a Desire Call with me to get in touch with what you want: https://calendly.com/cailin/desire

    Ep 70: The Magic of Frequency Therapy with Melinda Loo

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2022 49:57


    Today's guest is Melinda Loo, with over 20 years of experience as a massage therapist, health coach, and wellness practitioner. And as frequency therapies are now becoming mainstream, she has added them to her current practice, along with the AO Scan by Solex - which is the most robust technology available for everyday people - she helps restore them to a state of balance and harmony. Join us as we discuss: What opens up through surrendered parenting  Following your joy and passion no matter what Working with energy, resonance, and vibration  Building chi and moving chi to create your life Removing things that take drain energy from your life  Frequency therapy as a modality to scan and heal your energy field   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Melinda's Facebook Group: Frequency Wellness Group   Melinda's Website: https://www.melindaloo.com/   Melinda's Instagram: @frequency_wellness

    Ep 69: Playing with Surrender: A Solo Episode with Cailin McDuff

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2022 42:04


    I'm going to start doing some solo episodes, y'all. I want to just speak to whatever is on my heart, whatever is coming through me. Whatever Spirit wants to reveal through me. As I was feeling into today's episode, surrender is the topic that came through. I get so many women coming to me wondering, “HOW do I surrender?” There is no how. And, to be clear – surrender also doesn't mean, “Do nothing.” Listen in as I share eight lessons we can all learn about surrender: 1 – Start with belief in a higher power. 2- See beauty in every stroke from the Universe 3- Trust in the bigger picture that you cannot fully see. 4- Trust that you are always taken care of in a divine way. 5 – Slow down to see the gifts along the way. 6 – Let go of the form and timing of your desires 7- Accept where you are. 8- Trust that you are an energetic match for all that you have in your life. Link to book a desire call: www.talkwithcailin.com Link to Cocoon: https://www.cailinmcduff.com/cocoon Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com     Cailin's Instagram: @cailinmcduff

    Ep 68: A Feminine Soul in an Alpha Body with Jonny Reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2022 59:38


    On today's EP our guest is Jonny Reason, he is an alpha male embodied in feminine energy, who is on a mission of modeling an alternative male archetype beyond androgynous. He is also a Business Coach, Tantric embodiment Coach, and Flow state activator. Join us as we discuss: The experience of being a feminine soul in an alpha body Working with the voices in your head Surrendering to what wants to come through spirit Taking care of yourself before anyone else The tantric philosophy of perfection Looking at the world in a magical way Honoring our own truths without imposing on another Attuning your energy with the Universe Opening up to endless feminine energy Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com     Jon's Website: https://thestudiox.com   Jon's Instagram: @Jonny.beyond.sins Jon's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/livebeyondreason Jon's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jon-reason-aa016339

    Ep 67: Healing through Tantra Massage with Angel De La Paz

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2022 58:16


    Angel and I want to let you in more and more into what we are up to in our new life here in Santa Barbara! We have been learning and growing so deeply together every single day, and we want to share that gold with you. Listen in as we discuss: Tantra as a Healing Modality Practice as the foundation of spirituality and relationship What is happening on my MS healing journey and how Angel and I are approaching my healing Disease as energetic blockage Opening up energy channels through Tantra Massage The way we move energy to move our life   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com    Angel's Website: https://www.angeldelapaz.com/   Angel's Email: angel@angeldelapaz.com 

    Ep 66: The Divinity of an Unexpected Sisterhood with Ilanit Maghen

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2022 74:17


    When it comes to relationships with women, we are not taught out in the world how to create true sisterhood. We see examples of gossip, bringing other women down, not telling the full truth, caretaking each other, and focusing on comparing appearances. Just to name a few things.  As many of you know, I am out to transform that through creating conscious sisterhood relationships. In today's episode, I want to share one of the most powerful sisterhood journeys I have ever had. It's the sisterhood I have with my dear friend Ilanit Maghen. It was not predictable that Ilanit and I would become sisters. I originally had a brief healing sexual connection with her partner, Segev. And as much as Segev told both Ilanit and me that he thought the two of us would connect, neither of us could really imagine that actually happening. Until…a series of very serendipitous events brought Ilanit and I together! That is when the game started. We got to meet all of our demons, our fears, and our tenderness. In the face of all of that, we decided to lean in, meet each other, and really see each other. That is where the magic unfolded… Listen as we share: The wild way that Ilanit and I began our sisterhood (hint: I had a brief sexual connection with her man before I met her!) What it took to fully open our hearts to each other What we both learned about fully being seen by another woman The healing that is available the you lean into places where you are triggered How it's possible to create a win/win/win where everyone gets nourished and fed Trusting the divine to guide us through experiences that are for us and our healing How Segev and Ilanit supported me to fully open and manifest my partner, Angel Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com    Ilianit's Website: http://ilanitmaghen.com   Ilanit's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msilanit/ Ilianit's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ilanit.maghen/

    Ep 65: Fully Receiving in Sisterhood with Vicky Aldana

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 73:11


    Vicky Aldana is one of my very close sisters, and we could not be more different! She's a former festival-goer, I'm a former corporate wanna-be perfectionist. Her natural state is a little more dark, while mine tends to be a little more light. There's so much talk out there about polarity in romantic relationships, and we want to show you the polarity of our sisterhood! Vicky and I have been on a real ride in our sisterhood over the last three years, and we want to give you a peak into what we have learned along the way. AND, we have a very exciting announcement at the end! (HINT – we are hosting a retreat this summer!) Join in as we discuss: The very sweet beginnings of our relationship All of the ways that we admire each other in our differences The impact we have allowed each other to have in our lives How we've fully opened to receive sisterhood with each other What happened when things got hard during the pandemic How we are getting WORKED by receiving How we slow down to take responsibility in our connection and value the energetics of our relationship over anything else Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Vicky's Podcast:  The Voices of Wisdom Project podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/3TLDbF1YNavS8l3ggjVRYy?si=QkpscOaUST6EgLWShOzMvw https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-voices-of-wisdom-project/id1589835856   Vicky's Website: www.vickyaldana.com   Vicky's Instagram: @vickylizette 

    Ep 64: Fully Expanding into Unconditional Love with Alisa Deen and Hannah McCartney

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2022 61:24


    In today's episode, we'll have two amazing women: Alisa Deen aka Teeni Yogini who is a Certified Yoga Teacher, Adult Content Creator, Model, Artist, Tantric Embodiment Guide, Entrepreneur, and Hannah McCartney aka Starlitt a Tantrika and Sacred Intimacy & Relationship coach. They both are badass businesswomen that share a creative and polyamorous relationship. Join us as we discuss: The journey to creating a three-way spiritual partnership Practices to get in touch with your body Aligning to your desires in integrity Taking responsibility for emotions and expressing unconditional love Expanding self-compassion How to incorporate truth, love, and compassion as the fundamental building blocks of relationships Holding the weight of your desire Sisterhood as a collaboration Service to the feminine as service to the world Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Email: alisamariedeen@gmail.com   Guest's Website: www.TheStudioX.com   Guest's Instagram: @starlitt_x                                 @yourteeniyogini

    Ep 63: The Journey Between Wanting and Having with Ellie Shepley Montgomerie and Aimee Batuski

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2022 63:09


    Recently, I have had a desire to let you all in on the conversations I have with my sisters about desires, sex, power, responsibility, and many other topics. One of the things that my friends and I talk about a lot is what it really takes to hold your desire. It's not all puppies and rainbows. It can look glamorous from the outside, but it really requires you to be honest with yourself, follow the desire as it shifts, and take full responsibility for it along the way. Join me with my sisters, Aimee Batuski and Ellie Shepley Montgomerie as we share some real examples from our own lives and let you in on how desire works us over and over again! Fully listening to the voice of desire Following what has the most sensation in your body Masculine vs. feminine integrity Tools and perspectives around fully holding desire Real stories about what the winding path of desire can look like Finding resonance in your desire Desire as the ultimate surrender practice   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com    Guest's Website: http://desireonfire.com/ Desire on Fire Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/   Aimee's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/ Ellie's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie/

    Ep. 62: The Path of No Path with Lawrence Lanoff

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2022 52:51


    Today's guest is Lawrence Lanoff, an award-winning Tantric Master, Clarity Coach, and best-selling author. He offers body-positive, street-wise wisdom, that helps people move ahead in clarity. Lawrence questions cultural myths about sex, spirituality, and money. He deprograms students from the prisons of societal beliefs, norms, and superstitions.  He is also the co-creator of The Yorgasmic Method, the basis of his new book, The Future of Sex. His other books include, A Course In Freedom, Ejaculation Secrets of a Tantra Master, and The Prophets Training Manual. His programs have supported thousands of people on their path to CLARITY and freedom. Creating safety and foundation through meditation Is it training/programming or my true self? Cultural interest in divorcing us from sexuality What is the thing closest to setting you on fire? Getting in touch with your energy Emotional pain comes from two ideas in conflict “I couldn't” or “I shouldn't” as an access point to working with energy Getting to know your own energy so you know what's not you Shame is a program like anything else    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Instagram: @lawrencetheenergymaster Guest's Twitter: @soullight

    Ep. 61: The Voice Knows Beyond What Your Mind Can See with Janira Martinez

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2022 86:05


    Janira Martinez is a Desire-based life coach, teacher, and master of diving into the depths. Dedicated to truth, love & personal power, Janira's mission is to guide powerful women back home to the magic of their bodies and the wisdom of their souls. Join us as we discuss: Allowing truth in sisterhood to come through over time  What is the voice of your deepest truth? Being in “the down” as a result of not listening to the voice  The difference between the voice of truth and the voice of fear or sabotage  Healing the wounds that come up through relationship  Learning to hold yourself fully in your healing journey  The voice knows beyond what your mind can see. The voice wants the best for you. It loves you.   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Website: www.janiramartinez.com   Guest's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janira_martinez/ Guest;s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/janira.martinez

    Ep. 60: Listening to the Feminine Wisdom of the Earth with Elyna Anderson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2022 58:40


    With 10 years in business organization and a degree in earth sciences from UC Berkeley, Elyna Anderson is a business strategist and the founder of Bloom Lucid where she specializes in helping women to tap into the earth energy and grow businesses that operate from their individual natures.   Join us as we discuss: Trash - it doesn't make sense! Feeling the Earth in your Body Looking to Earth to get back to the knowledge of who we are Looking DOWN for wisdom Spirit as a part of us Clearing the way for the creative vision of your business Creating the resources inside of you for a sustainable business   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Website: https://bloomlucid.com/   Guest's Instagram: @bloomlucid Guest's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elynaanderson Guest's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elyna-anderson-a52a3331/

    Ep 59: Letting You In: My 2021 Year-End Reflection

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2021 70:10


    It's the end of the year, and I decided this year I'd love to let you peak in as I digest and reflect on my year. I asked my good friend Paige Wilhide to hold me through this conversation to explore all of the lessons I learned, the portals I went through, and the relationships I created. This year has been one of my proudest years – not because I “accomplished” a bunch of things – but because of the deep level of spiritual relationship I have created with myself. Listen in to hear: How I grew spiritually this year in listening to the voice inside of me and trusting All the places I have learned to surrender – especially in love and my work What it took to fully open to love this year – and the vulnerability of that How I created deep levels of support from my community around my desire for love this year My relationship with desire – and how my willingness to be humiliated is such a big part of that What I learned about my leadership through the Slutty Soiree.   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com

    Ep 58: Giving Yourself Over to Desire with Molly Godfrey

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2021 57:32


    Our guest today is Molly Godfrey, a luxury dating coach that through the use of ontological coaching, EFT tapping, and a forward focused, directive approach helps high-achieving women in tech + finance to find meaningful, committed, aligned relationships, acceptance, and full self expression. Molly is also a viral content creator and internationally recognized blogger + writer. Join us as we discuss: Acknowledging the disconnect with your body Realizing and feeling the dissonance of how life looks and how you feel Giving yourself over to the feminine The universe whispers then it gets louder What happens when we try to manipulate all of the external things to feel better True desire will always reveal itself Fully opening to receive desire Letting go and trusting   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com    Guest's Website: www.mollygodfrey.com   Guest's Instagram:@askformolly Guest's Twitter: @askformolly Guest's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/molly-godfrey/

    Ep. 57: An Asshole in Recovery Finds Love! with Evin Rose and Alex Terranova

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2021 81:25


    In this episode, our guests are Evin Rose, a Self Worth & Dating coach, she empowers women to create thriving relationships with themselves and others through her courses and intimate group programs, and Alex Terranova, a Performance Coach, best-selling author and podcast host who works with high-achievers to create more fulfillment and connection in their lives  Join us as we discuss: Coming to terms with our relationship patterns in order to create something new The power of intention in dating Setting aside preferences in the face of desire Slowing down to be present in relationship Honoring the resonance of connection in relationship Savoring the experience of dating and allowing sexual connection to unfold Generating what you desire in relationship The practice of being with emotions within ourselves and in relationship Sharing from vulnerability and authenticity All relationships could go differently if they were intentionally created!     Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Freebie: Evin's free 3-day Worthiness Video series  Alex's book: Fictional Authenticity + teaser: keep an eye on their IG's for something they're creating together in the New Year!   Guest's Website: https://wwwevinrosecoaching.com                        https://www.thedreammason.com/   Guest's Instagram: @evinrose                                  @inspirationalalex

    Ep. 56: Holding the Sacred Thread with Life with Alexandra Roxo

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2021 54:01


    Alexandra Roxo is an artist, transformational coach, teacher, and bestselling author of the book “F*ck Like A Goddess, Heal Yourself, Reclaim Your Voice, Stand In Your Power.” She also has been featured on Netflix's Too Hot to Handle and is the host of HOLY F*CK Podcast. Join us as we discuss: The art of being a human on this path  Letting go of the expectations around us  Life as a series of soul classrooms  The split between the spiritual self and the sexual self  Doing transformation work with family members  Stopping the triggered feedback loop  Bringing your best practice to relationship  Embodied ways to work through resentment  The sacred rituals of a culture Rituals as acts that involve consciousness and devotion  Finding the thing that activates your heart Yearning as an energy that pulls us towards our desires   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Book: F*ck Like a Goddess: Heal Yourself. Reclaim Your Voice. Stand in Your Power. Guest's podcast: Holy F*ck Podcas   Guest's Website: https://www.alexandraroxo.com/   Guest's Instagram: @AlexandraRoxo

    Ep 55: Polarity: Shifting Energy at Will with Carol Briskin

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2021 54:03


    Carol Briskin is a Board Certified Polarity Practitioner, a Certified Trauma Professional, and a Somatic Therapist with over 35 years of experience. In this episode, she talks about her years practicing polarity, a powerful holistic form of therapy that restores health and vitality by unwinding patterns that block the free flow of energy. Join us as we discuss: Storing pockets of energy in our bodies that are waiting to be released  Working with trauma from young consciousness  Choosing transformation from a place of desperation   Polarity as a world view and a philosophy of how energy works  Creating more charge in relationship  Failure to navigate challenges and how that creates constriction in the body  Truth has energetic charge  The longest journey you will take is from your head to your heart  Playing all the notes of life    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   If you are interested in one-on-one coaching or classes with Carol: CarolBriskin@gmail.com

    Ep 54: Surrendering into the Creation of a Million Dollar Desire with Sharon Lee Thony

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2021 71:51


    When I first started coaching 6 years ago, I was a “Life and Business Success Coach.” And while that title is far from the desire-based work that I am committed to now, I love reflecting on the woman that I was at that time and the powerful relationships that I had with my clients. One of those clients was Sharon Lee Thony. We worked together for close to 3 years, and she saw me and felt me as I went deep on the feminine path. And in that time, Sharon created a completely new reality for herself and her family, including fulfilling a desire to have a million dollar + year. Sharon Lee Thony is a brand and marketing executive, with nearly two decades of experience creating award-winning marketing campaigns for travel, beauty and luxury lifestyle brands. She is founder and currently CEO of SLT Consulting, a boutique digital marketing collective. She is also a co-host on Podcast Modern Minorities and a Distinguished Faculty member at General Assembly, having led the creation of their Digital Marketing course curriculum and has taught over 100+ classes and workshops in digital marketing. Join us as we discuss: Making the choice to invest in yourself  The crystallization of your desires Working through the fear of money scarcity   Our hidden superpowers  Creation as a surrender practice  Challenging gender roles in marriage and creating a new paradigm   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.co   Guest's Website: modmypod.com   Guest's Instagram: @sharon_thony

    Ep. 53: Creating Body Sovereignty with Dr. Rachel Allyn

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2021 55:19


    Dr. Rachel Allyn is a holistic psychologist that integrates mind-body medicine with relationship therapy. TEDx Speaker. Pleasure expert and the author of the book “The pleasure is all yours” where through her method of Bodyfullness she remind us that pleasure is ours to claim. Join us as we discuss: Normalizing conversions about sexuality with children  Inhabiting your body vs. using your body Pleasure parties as an access point for women to connect  Creating body sovereignty  The power of the erotic as an energetic element  Bodyfullness as access to connection with your body Receiving pleasure of all kinds Discharging stuck energy in the body   Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Guest's Freebie: www.thepleasureisallyoursbook.com   Guest's Website: www.DrRachelAllyn.com   Guest's Instagram: @drrachelallyn Guest's Facebook: Facebook

    Ep 52: The Energetics of Creating a Relationship Foundation with Angel De La Paz

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2021 83:02


    Ok, everyone! The cat is out of the bag, and I am ready to share about my gorgeous, ever-evolving relationship with my new partner, Angel. I am so honored to call him my man. We have been learning so much about ourselves through the beginnings of setting the foundation for our relationship and we thought it would be fun to share some of the gold with you all.  Join us as we discuss: Following the feeling inside of relationship Coming to relationship whole and complete  Telling the truth in relationship  The practice of receiving inside of relationship  The way people lose themselves inside of the “form” and “identity” of their relationship and what we are doing instead  Deep commitment to being a practitioner  Self love as the foundation of relationship    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Angel's Website: www.angeldelapaz.com

    Ep 51: The Line Between Magic and Madness with Lauren Wallett

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2021 54:25


    Lauren Wallett is a serial South African Entrepreneur, NBC coach, and the author of Business Reimagined that defines herself as a creatrix. Lauren has worked with hundreds of people and through creative strategies, she has helped them reach their highest potential. Join us as we discuss: Following the truth  Reinventing our own narrative to move past patriarchal ideas Being a wife OR a whore  Magic that is not channeled is chaos  Grounded magic - when things happen How “manifestation” so often turns to controlling the Universe  Listening to the voice, getting curious, and following it  If you feel something, there's something there  Choosing Fear or Love  Rituals as access to self love    Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com   Lauren's Freebie: https://createbusinessacademy.com/freebies   Lauren's Website: www.createbusinessacademy.com   Lauren's Instagram: @laurenwallet @i_create_business

    Ep 50: Making Decisions from the Body with Holistic Doctor Renee Wellenstein

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2021 48:31


    Dr. Renee Wellenstein is a double board-certified physician, OB/GYN, and Functional Medicine Doctor, AKA The Libidoologist. What I love so much about Renee is that she's looking at the whole picture of women's health, environment, relationships, and communication when she talks to women about sexuality. Join us as we discuss: The limitations of Western medicine  Making decisions from the body Conditioning and its impact on our sexuality  What is “normal?” Working with a desire  Better communication and stress management as access to sexual desire   Letting go of the need to prove something  Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/   Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/   Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Renee's Website: https://www.drreneewellenstein.com  Renee's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-the-leap-with-dr-renee/id1465483819   Renee's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drreneewellenstein/ Renee's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/renee.wellenstein 

    Ep 49: A Cosmic Woman that Eats the Shadow with Hannah Marie Muse

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 49:55


    Hannah Marie Muse is a graduate of Ecstatic Dakini Training and Tribal Tantra's Practitioner training. She is a Global Cacao Priestess, a Hive Summit Facilitator of Authentic Relating Connection and Cacao Ceremony, a Modern Muse and an Elemental Priestess. Hannah Marie is also a Reiki Master, Teacher, Intuitive Bodyworker and Literal Temple Priestess. Join us as we discuss: Growing facility in the darkness  The privilege of being in this body  Freedom of expression  Hitting a bottom as access to possibility  Fully owning all the parts of us and our experience  Creating community through magic  Holding a space of truth Expanding pleasure and enjoying annihilation  Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/ Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/ Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Hannah's Website: https://www.hannahmariemuse.com/  Visit the website and sign up for my Muse Letter and you get a free ceremonial cacao pdf   Hannah's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahmariethemuse/  Hannah's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hannahmarie.vonbear

    Ep 48: Calling God Into the Bedroom with Jonathan David and Aila Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 69:29


    Aila Rose and Jonathan David, better known as The Love Gurus, are a real-life couple empowering others to love themselves, create conscious relationships, and live a joyful life. They believe self-love is the foundation of all healing. The essence of their philosophy is if you don't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. They help their clients uncover emotional blocks and trauma in the body, they developed their unique healing method, Bridging™, a blend of traditional Eastern and Western philosophies and practices. This powerful method helps the individual tap into their own innate power, reminding them that they hold the key to their own happiness. They already have all of the answers and they just need to learn how to unlock them. Join us as we discuss: Sexual energy is creative energy  People are exceptional once they know the rules of the game Being seen fully in relationship  Loving yourself more through fully receiving love  Healing through yoni massage  What opens up through full access to unconditional love  Sex as a moving form of meditation  Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/ Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/ Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com The Love Gurus' Freebie: https://www.facebook.com/groups/245655289827565/ The Love Gurus' Healing Sessions: https://www.thelovegurusla.com/private-healing-sessions-bridging The Love Gurus' Website: https://www.thelovegurusla.com/ The Love Gurus' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelovegurusla/ The Love Gurus' Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thelovegurusla The Love Gurus' Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/thelovegurusla/ The Love Gurus' LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelovegurus/

    Ep 47: “I actually wanted to be a nun!” with Jess Demiel

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2021 52:44


    Jess Demiel is a sex educator, Somatica trained intimacy coach, and artist with a background in environmental justice community organizing, and massage therapy. She is also a luxury pleasure product professional who is a former Senior Account Manager at LELO and winner of XBIZ 2019 Luxury Brand of the Year Award. Join us as we discuss: Disconnection from sexuality in puberty Relationship with the divine through practices and devotion  Recovering from religious trauma Following and owning your own pleasure  Embracing celibacy and abstinence as a way to deepen pleasure  Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/ Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/ Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Jess' Website: https://www.jessicaparrafitch.com/demiel Jess' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess.demiel/ Jess' Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessdmiel/ Jess' LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicapf/

    Ep 46: Following your Feminine Rhythm with Whitney Tucker

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2021 56:14


    Whitney Tucker is a former public school teacher. This former fitness center founder turned coach is also an entrepreneur and birthworker who is now landing back into women's wellness with her Sync To Thrive® course and mastermind. Whitney decided that she wanted to up level her life and left the US mid-pandemic to fall in love, get married and start a family in Mexico. Join us as we discuss: Hitting button and allowing surrender  The endocrine system as the motherboard of your wellness  Getting curious about your menstrual cycle - where to start The connection between our menstrual cycles and climate change The cleaning out that happens during your menstrual cycle The four phases of your menstrual cycle and what distinguishes each one Download my Guide: 'Stop Overanalyzing: 5 Hot Secrets to Get Out of Your Head and Get What You Want': https://cailin.online/ Check out my Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/ Learn more about what "the feminine" is here at my website: www.cailinmcduff.com Whitney's Freebie: https://linktr.ee/embodiedpotential Whitney's Website: https://www.embodiedpotential.com/ Whitney's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whitneytucker_ Whitney's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealwhitneytucker

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