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Women's bodies and brains undergo large changes during puberty, childbirth and menopause. Just like how sexuality hasn't been talked about much in previous generations, at least not in a positive light, menopause also hasn't been a free topic of conversation.  It might be a bit funny that a dude is doing an episode about menopause, but I'm really curious about this amazing natural process that women undergo. And I'm not the only one. We often have questions in our private Facebook group. I admit, with a little bit of humor, that most of the comments are from husbands desperate for answers, wondering where their wives libido went after she experienced menopause symptoms. We'll address this question among many others in this episode as I talk with my friend and fellow marriage and sex coach, Alisa DiLorenzo. She and her husband Tony, are the hosts of the incredible One Extraordinary Marriage Show and the author of several books. Coming up . . .  Our wonderful small group men's and women's coaching programs start May 6th! Spots are limited to just 10 people per group, so sign up now to ensure your spot! Trust us, this program is intimacy changing!   Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.

Have you ever felt more like roommates than husband and wife? Most couples go into marriage with forever in mind, but then life happens. There are times when you may find yourself clashing with your spouse, and instead of growing closer together, you are being driven further apart.In these cases, you have three options: get divorced and co-parent if you have children, wait until the children are grown and then divorce, or get radical about turning your marriage around.Joining us to discuss this important topic is a couple who chose the third option. Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are the hosts of the top marriage podcast, The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, where they speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love, and commitment. They challenge every listener to make their marriage a priority. Their bestselling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has changed countless marriages around the world.In this episode, you'll hear:How self-leadership impacts your relationshipWhat it means to go “volcano” or “iceberg” in your marriageThe importance of prioritizing your marriage relationshipAnd so much more!This conversation was such an encouragement to take a closer look at what we can do today to strengthen and invest in our marriage!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/tony-alisa-dilorenzo-220Check out our other resources: Mark and Jill's Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses Books Marriage Resources: Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources: New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest...

227 Resolving Conflict in Marriage with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo   *DISCLAIMER* This episode is intended for adults   Proverbs 15:1 (NIV) "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."   As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.   One Extraordinary Marriage Website One Extraordinary Marriage Show   Questions We Discuss: For couples who are not in destructive and abusive marriages, what are typical conflict styles and cycles? What conflict have you had recently and how did you process through it? What are common issues couples fight about?   Thank You to Our Sponsor: WinShape Marriage   Other Episode Mentioned from The Savvy Sauce: 146 Biblical Response to Emotionally Destructive Relationships with Leslie Vernick   190 Sex Series: Six Pillars of Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo   205 Power of Movement with Alisa Keeton (Revelation Wellness)   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Eric has a conversation with Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo, hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage Show, and authors of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy.As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best-selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its common sense approach.We chat about:➡️ The 6 Pillars of Intimacy➡️ The difference between physical and sexual intimacy➡️ Why Emotional Intimacy one of the most important pillars➡️ Easy ways to level up your recreational intimacyGuest Links:Grab the book!Check out the WebsiteCLICK HERE FOR THE FULL EPISODE TRANSCRIPTJoin the FREE Evolved Men's Collective Facebook Group Book Your Breakthrough Plan FREE RESOURCE - The Four Skills to Evolve your Marriage

*DISCLAIMER* This episode contains adult content and is not intended for young ears.   #9 From 2022: Six Pillars of Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo   Ecclesiastes 9:9a (ICB) "Enjoy life with the wife you love."   Questions we discuss: What are the six pillars of intimacy? What are some emerging themes for ways couples drift into an unhealthy marriage? What are some of the best rhythms and habits you've witnessed married couples intentionally plugging into their lives?   As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.   One Extraordinary Marriage Website   Thank You to Our Sponsor: WinShape Marriage   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

“When you are tempted to give up, your breakthrough is probably just around the corner.” — Joyce MeyerBest-selling author Alisa DiLorenzo joined the gr@titude podcast to inspire and motivate those who are married, engaged, and single to create the extraordinary marriage. DiLorenzo is the co-host of one of the most successful relationship podcasts in the world, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show.Her newest book that she co-authored with her husband, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage, is based on their personal experience and from seeing the marriages of countless people they have worked with improve. They have learned some hard knock life lessons and discovered key principles that have kept their marriage alive and flourishingDiLorenzo explains how to spark curiosity in a relationship even after decades of being together, how to combat being on autopilot to stay present, navigating Valentine's Day from all perspectives, and how to be intentional with action.To learn more from DiLorenzo you can listen to her podcast ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, follow her Instagram @alisadilorenzo, or visit her website www.oneextraordinarymarriage.com

Intimacy in your marriage is about so much more than just having sex. It's all about closeness and connection between 2 people. In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau has the privilege of interviewing Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to hear more about their incredible book The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Here's a bit about our guests today: As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best-selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Tony and Alisa are total legends in the area of intimacy! They have been coaching and educating marriages for 13 years now... that's a lot of wisdom! In this episode, you're going to learn all about the 6 pillars of intimacy: Emotional Intimacy: Verbal and Non-Verbal Communication Physical Intimacy: The Non-Sexual Intimacy! Financial Intimacy: Being on the same page Spiritual Intimacy: Going deeper in your faith together Recreational Intimacy: Having Fun! Sexual Intimacy: romance, initiating, foreplay and intercourse BONUS: Learn how each pillar is built up and made strong, and how each pillar begins to crack! Here's a bit about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy Book: The six intimacies (pillars), and how to use them. How to keep the pillars solid and straight so your marriage thrives How your marriage can start to collapse if the pillars become damaged The author's real-life story, experience, and relationship struggles. Here's a bit about the 6 Pillars of Intimacy Workbook: Get clarity on each of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy. Develop an understanding of how you each show up in the marriage. Build action steps that you can really implement. Understand how you can take action today. To learn more about Tony and Alisa and what they're doing with The One Extraordinary Marriage, go to: oneextraordinarymarriage.com @oneextraordinarymarriage on IG 6pillarsofintimacy.com To learn more about Secret Habits resources and coaching: Get your free copy of our "Creating a Sexual Template" course (Available in our free men's community) Join Shawns' special private group coaching starting Feb 15th! For more info check out secrethabit.ca/group

If you are identical, basically the two of you are the same, one of you would be unnecessary. - Alisa DiLorenzoWhat we can create is better together than what we would do on our own. - Tony DiLorenzo For the first time in The Leadership Project, we are featuring "couplepreneurs" and fellow podcasters Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo.Authors Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo, parents of two children, are passionate about helping couples create their own extraordinary marriage. They do this through books, coaching, and through their #1 marriage podcast, “The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show” where they connect with an audience of over 50,000 listeners around the world. In this episode, we are taken into the trenches of their 26 year milestone as a married couple and how it is hauntingly familiar to leadership challenges.  Along with Mick, we will learn from Alisa and Tony about what co-creation looks and sounds like. If we want to build a workplace where people feel invested, engaged, and fulfilled. A healthy team and organizational culture is created and supported by leaders, their teams, and the company as a whole through the process of co-creation.Download this to learn more about generating a culture of co-creation and snippets of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy: Tony and Alisa's Social Media: Website: https://www.oneextraordinarymarriage.com/YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ONEExtraordinaryMarriageInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/oneextraordinarymarriageLinkedIn: Tony DiLorenzo | https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrtonydilorenzo/Alisa DiLorenzo | https://www.linkedin.com/in/alisadilorenzo/The Leadership Project is now pleased to partner with the Lighthouse Group. This partnership will help us to maximise our impact as we continue on our mission to empower leaders with the knowledge skills they need to create amazing teams and amazing workspaces.Join us in our mission at The Leadership Project and learn more about our organization here. https://linktr.ee/mickspiers You can purchase a copy of the Mick Spiers bestselling book "You're a Leader, Now What?" as an eBook or paperback at Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09ZBKK8XV

Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo host the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, a weekly podcast that launched in 2010 and is dedicated to strengthening communication, trust, and intimacy within a marriage. Dennis and Lisa welcomed Tony and Alisa onto the podcast this week to discuss expectations, overwhelm, and some of the secrets to a successful marriage. This is an episode not to miss for married couples of all ages or stages of life. The Leadership Development Group is a consulting firm led by Dennis and Lisa McIntee that exists to help you create a better work culture through drama free strategies, leadership coaching, and training. Since 2005, they have helped over 2,000 companies become drama free and significantly increase their productivity as a result. Discover the freedom of a better work culture today at leadershipdevgroup.com. Resources Mentioned on the Episode: The Six Pillars Black Box

*DISCLAIMER* This episode contains adult content and is not intended for young ears.   Sex Series: Six Pillars of Intimacy with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo   Ecclesiastes 9:9a (ICB) "Enjoy life with the wife you love."   Questions we discuss: What are the six pillars of intimacy? What are some emerging themes for ways couples drift into an unhealthy marriage? What are some of the best rhythms and habits you've witnessed married couples intentionally plugging into their lives?   As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.   One Extraordinary Marriage Website   Thank You to Our Sponsor:  Justin Maust, EOS Implementer and Speaker   Connect with The Savvy Sauce on Facebook or Instagram or Our Website   Please help us out by sharing this episode with a friend, leaving a 5-star rating and review, and subscribing to this podcast!   Also, check out our Patreon Page to find out how to gain access to additional podcasts and goodies!   Gospel Scripture: (all NIV)   Romans 3:23 “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,”   Romans 3:24 “and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”   Romans 3:25 (a) “God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood.”    Hebrews 9:22 (b) “without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”    Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”    Romans 5:11 “Not only is this so, but we also rejoice in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.”    John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”   Romans 10:9 “That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”    Luke 15:10 says “In the same way, I tell you, there is rejoicing in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.”   Romans 8:1 “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus”   Ephesians 1:13–14 “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession- to the praise of his glory.”   Ephesians 1:15–23 “For this reason, ever since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all the saints, I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers. I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every title that can be given, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”   Ephesians 2:8–10 “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God‘s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.“   Ephesians 2:13 “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.“   Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”    

Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo co-host one of the top marriage podcasts on Apple called, The One Extraordinary Marriage Show.  From their own experience and years of helping others, they know a thing or two about what it takes to make any relationship last.  It starts by understanding the six pillars of Intimacy.  Tony and Alisa have written a best selling book, “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy” to guide anyone who wants a stronger, healthier relationship.  If you have gone through a divorce or are going through a divorce, their advice will give you the tools you need to create a better you and learn how to love and be loved to the fullest.   

Eric has a conversation with Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo, hosts of the One Extraordinary Marriage Show, and authors of the 6 Pillars of Intimacy.As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their best-selling book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, has transformed countless marriages around the world. This framework is simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its common sense approach.We chat about:➡️ The 6 Pillars of Intimacy➡️ The difference between physical and sexual intimacy➡️ Why Emotional Intimacy one of the most important pillars➡️ Easy ways to level up your recreational intimacyGuest Links:Grab the book!Check out the WebsiteEvolved Marriage Links:FREE EVOLVED MEN'S COLLECTIVE FB GROUPFree ResourcesApply for the Evolved Men's Collective Mastermind

Purchase your copy of "6 Pillars Of Intimacy" - https://amzn.to/3RFx52j   Tony DiLorenzo is the Amazon bestselling author of 7 Days of Sex Challenge, Connect Like You Did When You First Met, and other books. Tony believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it's the glue that will keep a marriage together. Listen to his weekly podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com, where nothing is off limits when it comes to the many aspects of marriage. Tony has been married to his beautiful wife, Alisa, for 25 years and together they have a son and a daughter. He lives in San Diego, CA.    In this episode, Tony and I discuss: - What is a sex challenge and how one radically transformed his life and marriage   - What is the definition of intimacy and how do most people think about it   - What are the 6 Pillars Of Intimacy and how do they relate to each other as well as differ   - How can understanding these pillars improve the communication and intimacy in all our relationships   - and a powerful & emotional story about Tony's father   Connect with Tony online: IG - https://www.instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage/   Podcast - https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/one-extraordinary-marriage-show/   --   Connect with Frank and The Super Human Life on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/584284948647477/   Website: http://www.thesuperhumanlifepodcast.com/tshlhome   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjB4UrpxtNO2AFtDURMzoKQ  

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Join Jason and Tina Marie with their guest, Alisa DiLorenzo, as they talk about how couples can build more intimacy. Alisa is a marriage coach and the co-host of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show podcast. She shares how she and her husband have positively impacted marriages worldwide for the past 12 years. Stay tuned!Here's a breakdown of what to expect in this episode:1.     A radical solution: the 60-day sex challenge2.     Prioritize the marriage3.     The sexual intimacy lifestyle4.     Alisa's book, The Six Pillars of Intimacy5.     Discoveries in their marriage from writing the book6.     And so much more!~About Alisa DiLorenzo:As co-host of the #1 marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Alisa DiLorenzo speaks to a worldwide audience about sex, love and commitment, and challenges every coaching client to make their relationship a priority.As a wife whose marriage has dealt with the issues of pornography, financial crisis, and child loss, she understands the issues that impact relationships. She works with couples around the world, equipping them with the tools and strategies they need to create an extraordinary marriage.Alisa doesn't just jump into a conversation and try to figure out what's going on. From the beginning, she asks questions, gets to know you better, and truly wants to understand your unique challenges and your goals. Alisa knows that no two clients are the same, and that's why no two strategy sessions are the same either!~You can find Alisa DiLorenzo on . . .Website: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/~Connect with Jason and Tina Marie!Loving Beyond the I Do Website: www.lovingbeyondtheido.comLegendary Relationship Website: www.legendaryrelationship.comInstagram & Facebook: @legendaryrelationship

On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I'm speaking with Alisa DiLorenzo about marriage, intimacy, and the effect of pornography on a marriage. Alisa and her husband, Tony, co-host the #1 rated ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast. They have been married for 25 years and have recently released their latest book, The Six Pillars of Intimacy. Today, we discuss the six forms of intimacy: emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational, and sexual, and how each one is vital to create a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship. Alisa also shares how she and her husband navigated a pornography addiction together and how they now help coach other couples through similar situations.   IN THIS EPISODE:   [00:50] Introduction to Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo [05:01] Pornography and marriage [11:35] How secrets affect marriage [16:08] The Six Pillars of Intimacy [19:00] Emotional intimacy [20:29] Physical intimacy   [24:01] Recreational intimacy [29:03] What Alisa has learned through being married to Tony   KEY TAKEAWAYS:   Marriages need role models of other healthy and fulfilling marriages. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are role models for many couples as they encourage others, coaching them with wisdom gained from their mistakes, experiences, and depth of marital knowledge. When a married person is engaging in pornography,  it impacts both people. If something is kept a secret within a marriage, it will still impact the entire dynamic in the marriage. The longer a secret is kept, the more damage that will be done. The six pillars of intimacy help create a strong and beautiful marriage that can carry the weight of challenges, because life does still happen to all of us. The pillars create an internal strength that fosters working together as a team.   Links Mentioned:   oneextraordinarymarriage.com   The Six Pillars of Intimacy: https://www.amazon.com/Pillars-Intimacy-Secret-Extraordinary-Marriage/dp/0578991454 ( https://www.amazon.com/Pillars-Intimacy-Secret-Extraordinary-Marriage/dp/0578991454)   instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage   https://www.facebook.com/groups/oneextraordinarymarriage   Read Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl (https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl)   Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage   Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/   FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7   FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/   BIO:   As co-host of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Alisa DiLorenzo speaks to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenges every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their 6 Pillars of Intimacy have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by how common sense it is.

On this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I'm speaking with Alisa DiLorenzo about marriage, intimacy, and the effect of pornography on a marriage. Alisa and her husband, Tony, co-host the #1 rated ONE Extraordinary Marriage Podcast. They have been married for 25 years and have recently released their latest book, The Six Pillars of Intimacy. Today, we discuss the six forms of intimacy: emotional, physical, financial, spiritual, recreational, and sexual, and how each one is vital to create a long-lasting and fulfilling relationship. Alisa also shares how she and her husband navigated a pornography addiction together and how they now help coach other couples through similar situations.   IN THIS EPISODE:   [00:50] Introduction to Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo [05:01] Pornography and marriage [11:35] How secrets affect marriage [16:08] The Six Pillars of Intimacy [19:00] Emotional intimacy [20:29] Physical intimacy   [24:01] Recreational intimacy [29:03] What Alisa has learned through being married to Tony   KEY TAKEAWAYS:   Marriages need role models of other healthy and fulfilling marriages. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo are role models for many couples as they encourage others, coaching them with wisdom gained from their mistakes, experiences, and depth of marital knowledge. When a married person is engaging in pornography, it impacts both people. If something is kept a secret within a marriage, it will still impact the entire dynamic in the marriage. The longer a secret is kept, the more damage that will be done. The six pillars of intimacy help create a strong and beautiful marriage that can carry the weight of challenges, because life does still happen to all of us. The pillars create an internal strength that fosters working together as a team.   Links Mentioned:   oneextraordinarymarriage.com   The Six Pillars of Intimacy: https://www.amazon.com/Pillars-Intimacy-Secret-Extraordinary-Marriage/dp/0578991454   instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage   https://www.facebook.com/groups/oneextraordinarymarriage   Read Alexandra's book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl   Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage   Follow Alexandra: IG: @alexandra.stockwell.intimacy - https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/   FB: https://www.facebook.com/alexandra.stockwell.7   FB business: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/   BIO:   As co-host of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Alisa DiLorenzo speaks to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenges every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their 6 Pillars of Intimacy have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by how common sense it is.

dadAWESOME   We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Tony DiLorenzo Tony DiLorenzo is the Amazon bestselling author of 7 Days of Sex Challenge, Connect Like You Did When You First Met, and other books. Tony believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it's the glue that will keep a marriage together. Listen to his weekly podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com, where nothing is off limits when it comes to the many aspects of marriage. Tony has been married to his beautiful wife, Alisa, for 25 years and together they have a son and a daughter. He lives in San Diego, CA   Show Notes:   https://dadawesome.org/tour/ Episode 201 - PART 1 Book - The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage Emotional Intimacy This Pillar involves a closeness created through sharing each other's feelings, thoughts, and desires. This is both verbal and non-verbal communication. It's more than just, “Can we talk?” Physical Intimacy Think of this Pillar as every type of loving touch. This can be holding hands, a hug, a kiss, or even cuddling. You were designed to be touched. It's answering the question, "How do you like to be touched?" Financial Intimacy This Pillar is the sharing of your financial situation. It's developing a plan for your finances, from how much you spend on date night, to joint accounts, to planning for retirement. This is more than, "We need to talk about the budget..." Spiritual Intimacy Think of this Pillar as religious beliefs and observed religious practices. This can be as simple as praying together, going to church together, or discussing spiritual issues as a couple. This answers the question, "How are we spiritual together?" Recreational Intimacy What you do together at home, or on dates, or just for fun, is what this Pillar is about. It's the plans the two of you make to spend time together, doing things you enjoy. When this is working, you don't sit in the driveway playing the "What do you want to do?" game. Sexual Intimacy This is the Pillar that encompasses everything about your sexual connection with your spouse. This can be romance, initiating, foreplay, and sexual intercourse. There's no two ways about it: Sex is h-e-a-l-t-h-y. But this intimacy goes way beyond, "Hey, wanna have sex?" https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ You Need A Budget: https://www.youneedabudget.com/ 4:10pm - Proverbs 27:23-27 -- Know well the condition of your flocks, and give attention to your herds, for riches do not last forever; and does a crown endure to all generations?    Episode Links: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ Tony's Podcast FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team https://dadawesome.org/tour/   Conversation Transcript   Coming Soon!

dadAWESOME   We're on a mission to add LIFE to the dad life. We're passionate about helping dads live fully alive as they lead their kids to God's awesomeness.  | YouTube |  Instagram | Facebook | Twitter   Tony DiLorenzo   Tony DiLorenzo is the Amazon bestselling author of 7 Days of Sex Challenge, Connect Like You Did When You First Met, and other books. Tony believe that the healthy combination of sex, love, and commitment is more than the foundation of a strong marriage… it's the glue that will keep a marriage together. Listen to his weekly podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com, where nothing is off limits when it comes to the many aspects of marriage. Tony has been married to his beautiful wife, Alisa, for 25 years and together they have a son and a daughter. He lives in San Diego, CA   Show Notes   https://dadawesome.org/tour/ 4:57 - Rainbows and Unicorns - "Twenty fourth anniversary. She made a little post and she she just talked about, Hey, it was not all rainbows and unicorns. And she said, Hey, we didn't know how to be married. This is when you started. We didn't know how to communicate with each other. We didn't know how to make our relationship a priority. We didn't know how to juggle being parents and being spouses. We didn't know to be each other's lover and truly in those moments with one another. Basically, she goes on to say, we still don't know. So as the leaders of one extraordinary marriage, she she's she's goes public with it. We still don't know. We're learning, we're growing" 8:38 - "I truly want men around me who I can call at the drop of a hat and or text and just be like, Man, I need some prayer right now. I need somebody to talk to. Can we just go like once a month, just grab a coffee together? And I remember just praying that prayer in and it didn't happen like overnight." 11:07 - Taking that time and reading to them in bed. 13:55 - Walk and talks 15:37 - We schedule sex and that's been a habit we've been doing for 12 years now. Yeah. And that has kept our sexual intimacy on course from all those years. We came to an agreement 12 years ago that we wanted to have sex twice a week, and doing that has really created an ability for us to engage one another when it happens, which is great." 17:44 - We were never taught? Or does it teach us that we never saw it? So we're looking up to those around us mentors, parents, grandparents, whoever, and they never did it. So why would we? The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage Emotional Intimacy This Pillar involves a closeness created through sharing each other's feelings, thoughts, and desires. This is both verbal and non-verbal communication. It's more than just, “Can we talk?” Physical Intimacy Think of this Pillar as every type of loving touch. This can be holding hands, a hug, a kiss, or even cuddling. You were designed to be touched. It's answering the question, "How do you like to be touched?" Financial Intimacy This Pillar is the sharing of your financial situation. It's developing a plan for your finances, from how much you spend on date night, to joint accounts, to planning for retirement. This is more than, "We need to talk about the budget..." Spiritual Intimacy Think of this Pillar as religious beliefs and observed religious practices. This can be as simple as praying together, going to church together, or discussing spiritual issues as a couple. This answers the question, "How are we spiritual together?" Recreational Intimacy What you do together at home, or on dates, or just for fun, is what this Pillar is about. It's the plans the two of you make to spend time together, doing things you enjoy. When this is working, you don't sit in the driveway playing the "What do you want to do?" game. Sexual Intimacy This is the Pillar that encompasses everything about your sexual connection with your spouse. This can be romance, initiating, foreplay, and sexual intercourse. There's no two ways about it: Sex is h-e-a-l-t-h-y. But this intimacy goes way beyond, "Hey, wanna have sex?" 22:55 - "But as a couple, you look at them together and go, which ones have cracks? Which ones are strong? And how do we continue to strive and go after the extraordinary we desire?" 23:57 - Emotional intimacy, obviously our verbal and nonverbal communication? How are we? How are we engaging our spouse? And so for many, it's just what we get. We get caught up in the day today. As dads, we get caught up in the day to day. Is the provider taking care of the yard? Maybe our toys, maybe wanting to go out to this or do that. But how are we really engaging our spouse? What are we doing on the regular that allows them to know that we're here and not just talk about laundry kid's work? I think that's the big thing, 25:46 - We use the app, the Voxer app, even though we could make a list and wait and talk about. And it's not just punch list of get the groceries or do this is actually lets me hear her tone and hear how is she doing, really? And then I can listen to that when I'm, you know, when I get done with this recording with you or is. So Voxer has been actually a tool that allows us to communicate more and to understand her heart. 26:15 - Walk and talk, but it could be a driving and dive. It could be a coffee chat, whatever that may be. That works for you guys. 27:07 - Physical Intimacy - "All your loving touches. This is not. This is does not mean sexual touch. This is like kisses holding hands. Hand on the knee, cuddling, hugging." 28:45 - (Jeff) These do apply around dads to kids, as well as husband to wife, because I mean, those first things. First of all, we already talked about, like my desire for all four of my daughters, is that I am intentional around putting my arm around and giving them that morning hug when they come down again, the hand on the knee that that emotionally they know that I want to connect and hear their heart and what makes them feel loved. And so. So we really can take this further than just our one extraordinary marriage,   Episode Links:   The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ Tony's Podcast FATHERS FOR THE FATHERLESS Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team https://dadawesome.org/tour/   Conversation Transcript Coming Soon!

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo are an amazing couple. It has been 12 years since that day when Alisa mentioned divorce in their marriage. During this episode, they share some of the lessons they have learned that rescued their marriage and helped them create a healthy thriving relationship.  November 9th is also the launch of their future New York Times #1 best seller book, “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy.   CONNECT WITH Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo The 6 Pillars of Intimacy on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0578991454?&linkcode=sl1&tag=oneextmar-20&linkid=221ad4fef9150a4a45d3a78611a7718a&language=en_us&ref_=as_li_ss_tl Looking for fun new ideas, monthly inspiration and a community of folks excited about marriage? Check out the Position of the Month Club. Is your marriage is in crisis? Check out Rescue My Marriage Today. Need help with communication? Check out He Zigs She Zags: Get Your Communication on the Same Path. Are trust issues becoming a challenge? Pick up Trust Me: Restore, Renew and Rebuild Your Foundation. Do you need coaching for a particular area of your marriage? Click here for more information on Coaching with Alisa. Just want more podcasts? Check out the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show.   CONNECT WITH TMC Podcast Email questions: marriagecoachpodcast@gmail.com Website: www.lead2greatness.com   CONNECT WITH Cedric Francis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cedricbfrancis Twitter: https://twitter.com/cedricbfrancis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cedric_francis/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cedric-francis-a0544037/   CONNECT WITH Shante Francis Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shante.francis.14 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/s_fran/     Disclosure: Links contain affiliates. When you buy through one of our links we will receive a commission. This is at no cost to you. Thank you for supporting Lead to Greatness and allowing us to continue to bring you valuable content.   Promo:    Try Audible Premium Plus and Get up to two free audiobooks:   https://amzn.to/3as87Aw     Recording Equipment    Mic - https://amzn.to/3dHeSAi   Road Castor Pro - https://amzn.to/3aujvvS   Headset - https://amzn.to/2QM2O8a    Mic Cable - https://amzn.to/3dJ9Wec   USB Cable (Mac Book Only) - https://amzn.to/2PbAPy2   USB Cable (Windows Only) - https://amzn.to/3sK5K2h    Cable Compatible with Bose Brands - https://amzn.to/32BpN8j    Camera - https://amzn.to/3ncI7Oz    Mini Switcher - https://amzn.to/3dJGiWy    Micro HDMI Cable - https://amzn.to/3tISvQK    High Speed HDMI to HDMI Cable - https://amzn.to/3v3NfaG  

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Every single couple goes thru highs and loves but if these 6 pillars are strong, you'll be able to get thru anything: Emotional intimacy (including verbal and nonverbal communication) Physical intimacy Financial intimacy Spiritual intimacy Recreational intimacy Sexual intimacy (that one should have been first;) or maybe not..;) Which one of these pillars are you really good at? Which one do you need some help in? Each pillar adds strength and weight. As you get better at strengthening them all and celebrating them, you're marriage will flourish. As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their 6 Pillars of Intimacy has transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Links: 6 Pillars of Intimacy ONE Extraordinary Marriage Instagram Connect with ST at: www.lifpixuniversity.com

On the verge of divorce, at the end-road of an 11 year marriage with a family they built together, Tony decided he wanted to throw a BIG Hail Mary as a desperate final attempt to save their relationship. After years of rejection, dysfunction, addictions, financial issues, and more, they had unknowingly fallen into the traps of everyday complacency. Both of them desperately wondered why they couldn't seem to figure out this thing called marriage.Tony's big idea...A 60 day sex challenge. Alisa, as most would expect, was not on board with this radical idea, as their marriage was in the worst spot it had ever been. But after a day of reflection, standing alone in the laundry room, she had a spiritual intervention that came to her in the form of a question..."If you aren't willing to try this, your marriage is actually over. Are you okay with that?"From that moment, their lives together changed forever. They realized the intentional investments in their marriage and in one another was the only way to reckon with the deep cracks in their relationship's foundations. Foundations that they would soon redefine for themselves, and then share with thousands of others through One Extraordinary Marriage. In this episode, just weeks before their 25th anniversary, we discuss Tony & Alisa's wild personal and connected history, the radical challenge that saved their marriage, conflict cycles, marriage values & visions, how busyness is robbing marriages of joy, the six pillars of intimacy, and how any couple can use simple strategies to begin making their relationship extraordinary. There is so much wisdom and years of experiences packed into this hour episode with these two amazing humans. If your marriage is at a point where something needs to change, I would strongly encourage you to tune in, follow Tony & Alisa at One Extraordinary Marriage, and grab a copy of their new book, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy.Tony & Alisa Bio:As co-hosts of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo speak to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenge every listener to make their relationship a priority. Their 6 Pillars of Intimacy have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.Where you can find Tony & Alisa:ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show on Apple PodcastsONE Extraordinary MarriageOn InstagramGrab a copy of their latest book, 6 Pillars of IntimacyYou can find out more about Owl & Key and the Strategic Planning for Life here:Web:www.owlandkey.cowww.owlandkey.co/courselinktr.ee/owlandkeyInstagram:www.instagram.com/owl_and_key/

Todays guest is Tony DiLorenzo who is a co-host of the top marriage podcast in Apple Podcasts, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, and speaks to a worldwide audience about sex, love & commitment, and challenges every listener to make their relationship a priority.  For the last 11 years he and his wife, Alisa, have equipped couples with the tools and strategies they need to create their own extraordinary marriage.  Tony and Dave discuss the concept of framework and it can be driven from passion and the idea that your mess becomes your message.  https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/ https://www.instagram.com/oneextraordinarymarriage/?hl=en Join our Messenger Tribe! https://m.me/clickfunnels?ref=cfpodcast-join-CF-tribe

I had an extraordinary and entertaining discussion with podcast hosts and authors Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo from the One Extraordinary Marriage Show, where they share how a sex challenge can be a catalyst in revamping your marriage and on the importance of the "6 Pillars of Intimacy", their new book.

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Today is the last day of Daily Steps. We’ve enjoyed partnering with you and having you part of the ONE family. Over the last 9 years we have shared about sex, love and commitment on the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show. Come join us each week for all things marriage and more. Love you guys.

Today we have a very interesting episode of the Healthpreneur Podcast. Why is it interesting? Well, our guest is really not involved in the health and wellness space. He deals with relationships—and he’s really good at it. The reason I wanted to have him on this podcast is because I firmly believe that there is nothing more important than relationships, in every aspect of your life.  Whether it's your marriage, kids, business partners, investors, friends, family—relationships matter. Luckily, Tony Dilorenzo is an expert and he’ll be talking to us about all things relationships. Tony has the number one marriage podcast on iTunes, called the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show. He speaks to a worldwide audience about sex, love, commitments, challenges, and making relationships a priority. If you’re thinking this episode is worthless—you’ve got a lot to learn, let me tell you. I really can’t stress enough how important relationships are in your personal life and in business. I think this episode will help you to take a step back and focus on what is most important in your life. In this episode, Tony and I discuss:  The ups and downs of Tony’s 21 year marriage.  The 60 day sex challenge.  Owning a business with your significant other.  Why Yuri thinks there should be a Rent-a-kid program.  Emotional intimacy  Bringing kids into the mix.  4:00 - 12:00 - Tony’s marriage—the ups and downs, lessons learned.  12:00 - 19:00 - The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show.  19:00 - 24:00 - The massive importance of communication.  24:00 - 30:00 - Kids, and how they change the dynamic. Instantly.  30:00 - 35:00 - Tony and Alisa’s all important coffee breaks.  35:00 - 40:00 - The Rapid-Five Questions. 

On the podcast, today is Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, Vince, Tony and Alisa talk about the challenges both young and old couples have when it comes to intimacy, sex, overcoming adversity,  and building a thriving marriage. "Your pride can't be bigger than the success of your marriage. " Alisa DiLorenzo   Subscribe to iTunes, TuneIn, or Stitcher Radio! Love the podcast? Leave a review on iTunes! What do you want to hear from the Vince Delmonte Podcast Show? Tell us here!   Key Highlights:  ⇾  Where to NEVER have the "sex conversation "plus the easiest way to bring it up to your spouse without getting turned down. ⇾ The 7 days of sex challenge! ⇾ How Tony and Alisa came from almost getting divorced twice, the loss of a child, and $50,000 in debt, to having a successful business, deeply intimate relationship, and thriving marriage.  Time Stamps 2:17 - The 60 days of sex challenge. 6:28 - Why you should be scheduling sex and making it a priority.12:20 - Being open about your sex life. How to talk about it with your spouse about it.15:00 - Should you have music during sex? Should you use a diffuser to set the mood?17:58 - Sexy games and resources for spicing up your sex life.20:00 - The Sex stack. Janga for adults.22:39 - Where to NEVER have the sex conversation and the easiest way to bring it up to your spouse.29:17 - Tips for upgrading your romance life. The top 10 list for date night.39:00 - A wise word of advice for men, that might save your marriage.45:30 - What should you outsource and what should you do yourself around the house?50:04 - 3 daily practices for a better marriage and sex life.1:01:30 - Making your wife feel safe.1:05:25 - Marriage and social media. How to make sure it doesn't ruin your marriage. Resources & Links The 7 Days of Sex Challenge  Scheduling Sex Podcast Episode  Sex Dice  Sex Stack 0 -6 Formula MastermindConnect with Tony and Alisa Facebook Instagram TwitterConnect with VinceFacebook  Instagram Youtube Contact: Personal@vincedelmontefitness.com

Alisa DiLorenzo is a sought-after international marriage coach, speaker, a best-selling author, and the co-host of the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, which is downloaded in 180 countries. The author of The Trust Factor, Connect Like You Did When You First Met, and 7 Days of Sex Challenge are in the hands of couples worldwide. She and her husband, Tony, have two kids and live in San Diego. Learn more at OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com. You can read the full show notes at www.areyoureal.org.

  Get back to basics and shorten those challenging times in your marriage! Meet Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, from OneExtraordinaryMarriage.com -- the podcast they've been running for 6 1/2 years. The three of us discuss a lot of subjects -- not only how they repaired their marriage and others can do the same, but also how they developed this advice into a podcast, a series of books, and a coaching program. Display TranscriptRobert Plank: On today's podcast we have Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo, the founders who are a leading source for couples on sex, love, and commitment on their number 1 marriage podcast where they have a bunch of bestselling authors and hosts, and they are our bestselling authors and hosts about entrepreneurship, marriage, and authorship. Welcome to the show. How are things, guys? Tony DiLorenzo: Excellent, Robert. Thank you. Alisa DiLorenzo: We're doing great today. Glad to be joining you. Robert Plank: Cool. I think we're going to have a lot of fun today. Could you guys tell me, I know I mentioned a little bit, but can you tell me what it is that you guys do and what makes both of you different and special? Alisa DiLorenzo: Oh my gosh. Well Tony and I are tasked. We know our mission is to transform a million marriages around the world. That is something that we've discovered over the last few years and we do that through a variety of ways. We do it through the podcast, the One Extraordinary Marriage Show. We do through it, you mentioned, the books that we've written. We've written books such as the 7 Days of Sex Challenge. We talk about trust, we talk about communication, we talk about all those topics that everybody wants to talk about but nobody is. We peel back all the layers for couples out there to go, you know what? You can have a conversation about this and the world isn't going to fall off its axis. Robert Plank: Interesting. You guys get right to the good stuff. Alisa DiLorenzo: Absolutely. Tony DiLorenzo: Yeah. I mean, our fist show that we ever did was called the 60 Days of Sex Challenge. Robert Plank: Nice. That's a great place to start off, right? Tony DiLorenzo: Let's start big or go home. Robert Plank: Hit the ground running. Kind of along those lines, I mean, what has you guys excited lately in this topic. Tell me something I haven't heard before. Tony DiLorenzo: Wow. What are we excited about lately? Man, we're excited about just impacting people's lives. As One Extraordinary Marriage has grown over the last 6 and a half years, our reach has just taken off. From the early days of the podcast where we would hear from folks here in the United States. I remember and Alisa does too, when we heard from somebody from Alaska and it was like, "Oh my gosh. We have somebody listening in Alaska." Now we have listeners in 160 countries around the world. Right now, what gets me excited and what gets me out of bed are the folks who come, hear us, start to implement, they're intentional about their marriage, and they take action, ad they have these amazing testimonies. They come and they're like, "You guys wouldn't believe what we did. We were listening to you share this. We picked up your book, connect like you did when you first met. We started asking each other questions. We started getting deep. We started being transparent with each other. Guess what? We had the best sex we've ever had in our 10 years of marriage." If that doesn't get me excited to wake up in the morning and impact more lives, I don't know what will. Robert Plank: You guys are teaching what you know, it sounds like. Alisa DiLorenzo: Well we are because our marriage the first 11 years was really nothing to write home about. Tony DiLorenzo: Nope. Alisa DiLorenzo: The fact that we're still together and we actually, as of this recording, are just under 2 months away from our 20th wedding anniversary. We look back at those first 11 years that were rocked with pornography, rocked with crazy financial debt with more zeros t...

Have ever noticed that in movies you never see couples cleaning up after sex? Usually this romantic moment has no clean up afterwards. The couple cuddles together as they basks in the afterglow of an amazing sexual moment together. Seems odd... As long as we have been making love, cleaning up after sex has always been a part of the our sexual intimacy. Throughout your marriage cleaning up after sex can be impacted by your current form of birth control, are you trying to conceive a child, or even where you are making love.  Some factors may be: Are you using condoms? Are you trying to make a baby or not trying to make a baby? Are you in a hotel? One with two beds so that one is for sex and one for sleeping? Are your sheets clean? After you finish making love you want to cuddle and yet, in the back of your mind you're thinking about fluids going all over the place. The romance and intensity of what you have just experienced can be diminished by the time you finish cleaning up after sex. This can change what was such a powerful moment. We've been there ourselves many of times and have a few ways that you can get the most out of your time together after cleaning up. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about maintaining the delicate balance between romance and cleaning up after sex. EPISODE SPONSOR | Rescue My Marriage Today Waitlist You want change in your marriage because everything you have tried hasn’t worked to this point. You listen to the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show and think, I want what they and so many other couples have. Resuce My Marriage Today will turn your marriage around and get you back to feeling wanted, connected and intimate. Sign up for the waitlist now. 313 - Pack The Boxes, It’s Time to Move On 19 Quick Questions That Will Rekindle Your Sex Life ASAP 6 Benefits of Cuddling With Your Spouse Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Lack of action, apathy, laziness are marriage killers.  In this life you have two options, you are either growing or you’re not. When you wish or hope for change without doing what you need to be doing that’s not growth. That’s being outwardly focused. That’s expecting others to do the changing why you sit back and wait. We've both done this in our marriage over the years. At some point in time you've been frustrated with your marriage. Be it emotionally, financially, sexually, and/or spiritually.  When all you do is hope that the situation will change you put all of the responsibility on your spouse.  Marriage is a 100% / 100% commitment. That's 100% effort from each of you. It’s time for you to take your hope, for you to take your wishful thinking and give it some power. Give it some action as you start doing something to create growth and change. In this week's show Tony and Alisa talk about the power of hope when it’s combined with action as you start doing something different in your marriage. EPISODE SPONSOR | Rescue My Marriage Today Waitlist You want change in your marriage because everything you have tried hasn’t worked to this point. You listen to the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show and think, I want what they and so many other couples have. Resuce My Marriage Today will turn your marriage around and get you back to feeling wanted, connected and intimate. Sign up for the waitlist now. 140 - Scheduling Sex QBQ! The Question Behind the Question Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step." —Laozi In your marriage there have been joyous times when you look around and think to yourself, " I never thought I would be here" and tough times when you never thought you would be here. Either way you are here right now. What you choose to do at this time will be instrumental in where you are heading in your marriage journey. What we have enjoyed doing over our 19 years of marriage is to celebrate and remember these times. They are a part of us and our testimony of faith, growth, and love. All in all we never thought we would be here! Six year after starting the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show our marriage journey has ebbed and flow and still continues. In this week's show Tony and Alisa share as their journey continues in their marriage, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show and listener feedback from the ONE Family. EPISODE SPONSOR | I Love You But I Don’t Trust You Webinar Join us for the “I Love You But I Don’t Trust You: 4 Simple Strategies To Build, Maintain, and Regain Trust In Your Relationship” webinar on Wednesday December 2nd. During this free webinar you will learn: A practical step-by-step process for rebuilding trust after porn, infidelity, suspicion and harmful mistakes (even if your partner is not on board). Register today for our I Love You But I Don’t Trust You Webinar. Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tony DiLorenzo is the co-founder of ONE Extraordinary Marriage, co-host of the #1 Marriage Podcast, the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show and authors of the Amazon bestseller, The 7 Days of Sex Challenge.

Wondering how to put the intimacy back in your marriage? Tune in for today’s expert interview with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of the One Extraordinary Marriage Show (podcast) as they describe how they went from a nearly dead marriage to one full of intimacy.  11 years into their marriage, the DiLorenzos decided to do a 60 Days of Sex Challenge not just for the sex but as a vehicle to put their relationship first.  Eight years later, their marriage is completely transformed, full of intimate communication, frequent and satisfying sex, and a business that fulfills their mission to make a difference with people.  If you’d like an easy way to get conversations and connection started in your marriage, grab the DiLorenzo’s free gift: Six Questions to Get the Conversations Started This Week at www.familyco.com/045

Reaching a milestone in your marriage, your 5th, 10th, 25th, etc anniversary, is a time of celebration. A time when you get to look back at all the amazing things you have done with your spouse. It's a time to share stories of how your spouse impacted you and your marriage. The two of you are the stars on this day. This week Tony & Alisa are celebrating. Not because the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show has reached 200 episodes, but the impact the show has had on couples around the world. Don't miss these inspiring stories. Love Always: The Ultimate Marriage Blueprint WEIRD: Because Normal Isn't Working by Craig Groeschel The Married Virgin Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices