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JOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting Room (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)**Episode summary:In this episode, therapist Pamela Madsen, MS, LPC, explores the often-overlooked connection between narcissistic abuse and chronic pain conditions. Pamela breaks down the four types of narcissistic parents (grandiose, covert, malignant, and communal) and explains how growing up with narcissistic caregivers creates hypervigilance that extends beyond scanning the environment to scanning the body internally, amplifying pain perception and contributing to conditions like fibromyalgia, IBS, and migraines. She discusses why many high-achieving adults don't recognize their childhood experiences as traumatic, how complex PTSD manifests in successful people who come to therapy for seemingly unrelated issues, and why addressing the underlying trauma through therapy can significantly improve both emotional well-being and physical pain symptoms. Pamela emphasizes that healing begins with repairing the relationship with oneself and recognizing that you deserve care and are worthy of good things, rather than existing solely to benefit others.MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / FacebookPamela is the owner of Sea Change Therapy, where there is a variety of specialties in the office with accessible building and easy parking access. Pamela also provide supervision and clinical consultation to other professionals.SIGN UP FOR DESTINY'S NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Beyond the Behavior: Understanding hair pulling, skin picking, nail biting, or other body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) in Chronic Illnesshttps://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting Room (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
JOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting Room (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)**Episode summary: This episode features Jared Walker, founder of DollarFor, a nonprofit dedicated to eliminating medical debt by making hospital charity care known, easy, and fair. Walker shares how he discovered that most nonprofit hospitals are legally required to provide financial assistance (charity care) to patients who meet certain income qualifications, yet hospitals rarely inform patients about these programs. And you'd be surprised at how high some of the income requirements are!Since launching in 2012, DollarFor has helped eliminate nearly $90 million in medical debt by creating user-friendly tools that help patients determine eligibility and apply for charity care programs that can completely wipe out hospital bills. Walker explains that charity care is far more accessible than most people realize, with many programs covering households earning up to 250-400% of federal poverty guidelines, and offers practical advice for negotiating medical bills when charity care isn't an option.Resources mentioned:→ dollarfor.orgMEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / X / YouTube / TikTok→ SIGN UP FOR DESTINY'S NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting Room (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
JOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting Room (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)**Episode summary:Jackie Williams-Reade, a marriage and family therapist with a PhD in medical family therapy, discusses family systems theory and particularly the concept of differentiation, which involves balancing authenticity with the conforming that's often required in relationships. Jackie explores how childhood family dynamics, especially scapegoating, can affect adult behavior patterns and relationships with medical providers. She explains how people who were scapegoated as children often struggle with trusting themselves and advocating for their needs in healthcare settings. The conversation covers practical strategies for setting boundaries while staying connected, asking for help effectively, and recognizing that healing isn't about perfect responses but rather increased awareness and continued effort. Jackie and Destiny also discuss the challenges of navigating the medical system and how integrated care models can help bridge communication gaps between patients and providers.MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: Website / Jackie's Textbook for Medical Professionals→ SIGN UP FOR DESTINY'S NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting Room (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary:In this vulnerable and insightful episode, licensed professional counselor Danielle McDowell shares her journey of navigating professional ambitions while managing fibromyalgia. After experiencing sudden onset of symptoms following the birth of her son, Danielle recounts how she adapted her therapeutic practice and home life by setting boundaries, extending timelines, and finding community with others who understand chronic illness. She discusses the generational patterns of appearing "superhuman" that she inherited and her commitment to modeling authentic struggle for her children. Danielle's story offers valuable lessons on redefining success, embracing limitations, and finding purpose through personal challenges.MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET DANIELLE: Website / InstagramJOIN DESTINY'S MEMBERSHIP - for folks with chronic pain & illness→ Join Welcome To The Waiting RoomASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Destiny Davis speaks with Kara Cruz, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in women's mental health, particularly perinatal mental health and perimenopause. They discuss the importance of women trusting themselves when advocating for their health needs, as many experience being dismissed or unheard by healthcare providers. Kara shares strategies for self-advocacy, including practical approaches like symptom tracking and preparing questions, as well as emotional regulation techniques to help clients recognize bodily sensations and navigate nervous system responses during difficult healthcare interactions. They explore how past trauma and people-pleasing behaviors can interfere with self-advocacy, emphasizing that learning to trust yourself is foundational to health advocacy. Kara also highlights the importance of community support through her Women's Support Circle and discusses the need for comprehensive screening for the seven distinct perinatal mood and anxiety disorders.MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET KARA: Website / Instagram / FacebookSIGN UP FOR DESTINY'S NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary:In this episode, I talk with Dr. Jenny Tufenkina, a naturopathic physician who shares her framework of five root causes behind chronic fatigue and complex illnesses. Drawing from both her clinical experience and personal journey recovering from fatigue twice in her life, Dr. Jenny walks us through how the hormone triangle, chronic infections, toxic overload, mitochondrial dysfunction, and limbic system dysregulation can contribute to these conditions. As someone currently addressing my own adrenal/hormone challenges, I appreciated her individualized approach that recognizes each person's unique situation. Dr. Jenny offers practical insights on identifying which root causes might be present in your case and potential paths forward, all while maintaining a compassionate perspective. For those interested in learning more, she's hosting a summit on chronic fatigue running April 11-18, 2025 with researchers and practitioners exploring these topics in depth.Resources mentioned:→ Dr. Jenny's Summit April 11-18, 2025→ Why Are You So Tired QuizMEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / FacebookSIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Strength Training w/ Fibromyalgia April 5th 2025 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30pm GMTREAD THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE→ASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary:In this episode, I chat with David McGettigan, an amazing pain and movement specialist who's been helping people for 15 years recover from chronic pain and other symptoms, like chemical sensitivity and insomnia. David works with folks who've been bounced around the healthcare system without finding real answers.I love how he frames pain as an adaptation instead of a "dysfunction" - such a game-changer! We discuss the connection between sleep and pain (mind-blowing stuff about how poor sleep literally opens neural pathways to more pain), and how morning sunlight can reset your whole system.David shares his own journey with chronic pain and gives super practical advice about healing timelines - did you know tissue typically needs 6-8 week cycles to adapt? No wonder quick fixes don't stick!What I appreciate most is how David balances solid science with real compassion - "evidence of safety" for your nervous system and pacing your recovery properly. If you're dealing with chronic pain or know someone who is, this conversation offers both hope and practical steps forward. David truly believes change is possible at any stage, and after talking with him, I do too!Resources mentioned:→ Bigger Than Pain ProgramMEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / YouTube /SIGN UP FOR DESTINY'S NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Strength Training w/ Fibromyalgia
Episode Summary:In this episode, we speak with Rachel Smith, a certified personal trainer with a Master's in Exercise Science who specializes in working with clients with fibromyalgia and chronic pain. Rachel shares her personal journey with fibromyalgia, diagnosed in 2010, and how she discovered that strength training was particularly effective for managing her symptoms. She discusses the importance of individualized approaches to exercise, the challenge of breaking the "boom and bust" cycle many chronic pain sufferers experience, and why a gradual, consistent approach is more effective than pushing to extremes. Rachel also addresses common myths about fibromyalgia treatment, particularly around diet, and explains how her program, FibroFit Warriors, combines evidence-based methods with community support. For those newly diagnosed, she emphasizes the value of finding trusted information sources and avoiding the negativity often found in online support groups.SIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Fibromyalgia 101: What You Wish Your Doctor Told You→ Strength Training w/ FibromyalgiaMEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET RACHEL: Website / InstagramRachel Smith is the founder of Fibro Fit Warriors, a science-based program dedicated to helping people with Fibromyalgia manage their symptoms through movement, nutrition, and lifestyle strategies.→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary:In this episode, we speak with Rachel Smith, a certified personal trainer with a Master's in Exercise Science who specializes in working with clients with fibromyalgia and chronic pain. Rachel shares her personal journey with fibromyalgia, diagnosed in 2010, and how she discovered that strength training was particularly effective for managing her symptoms. She discusses the importance of individualized approaches to exercise, the challenge of breaking the "boom and bust" cycle many chronic pain sufferers experience, and why a gradual, consistent approach is more effective than pushing to extremes. Rachel also addresses common myths about fibromyalgia treatment, particularly around diet, and explains how her program, FibroFit Warriors, combines evidence-based methods with community support. For those newly diagnosed, she emphasizes the value of finding trusted information sources and avoiding the negativity often found in online support groups.SIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Fibromyalgia 101: What You Wish Your Doctor Told You→ Strength Training w/ FibromyalgiaMEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET RACHEL: Website / InstagramRachel Smith is the founder of Fibro Fit Warriors, a science-based program dedicated to helping people with Fibromyalgia manage their symptoms through movement, nutrition, and lifestyle strategies.→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary: Samina Qureshi is a registered dietitian specializing in IBS management from a weight-inclusive perspective. She challenges the common approach of endless food elimination, revealing that the standard low FODMAP diet should only last 2-4 weeks, not months or years as many attempt. Samina explains why food sensitivity tests are largely unreliable and how restriction often worsens gut symptoms by disrupting motility and starving beneficial gut bacteria. Instead, she advocates for focusing on adding variety rather than eliminating foods, and recognizes that simply nourishing your body regularly is powerful nervous system work. For those caught in cycles of restriction and worsening symptoms, Samina offers a refreshing path forward that expands food choices while addressing individual digestive needs, proving that healing your relationship with food and finding relief from IBS symptoms can happen simultaneously.MEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / Facebook / TikTok→ Sign up for Samina's Free Guide: 5 Ways to Avoid IBS Flares!MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokSIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Your Perfect Morning Routine
Episode Summary: Samina Qureshi is a registered dietitian specializing in IBS management from a weight-inclusive perspective. She challenges the common approach of endless food elimination, revealing that the standard low FODMAP diet should only last 2-4 weeks, not months or years as many attempt. Samina explains why food sensitivity tests are largely unreliable and how restriction often worsens gut symptoms by disrupting motility and starving beneficial gut bacteria. Instead, she advocates for focusing on adding variety rather than eliminating foods, and recognizes that simply nourishing your body regularly is powerful nervous system work. For those caught in cycles of restriction and worsening symptoms, Samina offers a refreshing path forward that expands food choices while addressing individual digestive needs, proving that healing your relationship with food and finding relief from IBS symptoms can happen simultaneously.MEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / Facebook / TikTok→ Sign up for Samina's Free Guide: 5 Ways to Avoid IBS Flares!MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokSIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Your Perfect Morning Routine
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Episode Summary:In this episode, therapist Miranda Campbell, LCSW, co-author of "The Attachment Makeover," joins host Destiny Davis LPC CRC to explore how attachment styles impact chronic illness management. Miranda explains that attachment styles aren't fixed and we can develop "earned secure attachment" through intentional work. She breaks down how anxious attachment (fear of disconnection), avoidant attachment (fear of closeness), and disorganized attachment (unpredictable push-pull dynamics) affect both patients and caregivers in illness contexts.Drawing from her own experience with migraines, Miranda offers practical strategies for developing more secure patterns and adjusting expectations about what relationships can look like. The conversation highlights the cultural context of attachment wounds, particularly in BIPOC communities, and emphasizes that understanding these dynamics isn't about blame but creating pathways to more compassionate care relationships.MEET Miranda: Book / Website for therapy clients / Website for services for other therapists / InstagramMiranda brings 15 years of experience in trauma-informed therapy, specializing in attachment wounds, boundaries, and relationship healing.MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokSIGN UP FOR THE MENTALLY WELL WHILE CHRONICALLY ILL MEMBERSHIP→ Sign up here for monthly workshops and a weekly support group on Fridays at noon ESTREAD THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE→ASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary:In this episode, therapist Miranda Campbell, LCSW, co-author of "The Attachment Makeover," joins host Destiny Davis LPC CRC to explore how attachment styles impact chronic illness management. Miranda explains that attachment styles aren't fixed and we can develop "earned secure attachment" through intentional work. She breaks down how anxious attachment (fear of disconnection), avoidant attachment (fear of closeness), and disorganized attachment (unpredictable push-pull dynamics) affect both patients and caregivers in illness contexts.Drawing from her own experience with migraines, Miranda offers practical strategies for developing more secure patterns and adjusting expectations about what relationships can look like. The conversation highlights the cultural context of attachment wounds, particularly in BIPOC communities, and emphasizes that understanding these dynamics isn't about blame but creating pathways to more compassionate care relationships.MEET Miranda: Book / Website for therapy clients / Website for services for other therapists / InstagramMiranda brings 15 years of experience in trauma-informed therapy, specializing in attachment wounds, boundaries, and relationship healing.MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokSIGN UP FOR THE MENTALLY WELL WHILE CHRONICALLY ILL MEMBERSHIP→ Sign up here for monthly workshops and a weekly support group on Fridays at noon ESTREAD THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE→ASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Click here for the WORKSHEET for this episodeCLICK HERE to sign up for our Reclaiming Intimacy: A Workshop for Bodies in Pain this Saturday Feb 22nd 2025 at 10:30am ESTDisclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
In this episode, Dr. Monica Blied and I have a real conversation about creating a healthier relationship with movement when living with chronic illness. Dr. Blied shares her personal journey with lupus, fibromyalgia, and later-diagnosed ADHD and autism, which led her to develop the free Faces of Health app offering mental health skills and somatic exercises. She provides a practical three-step approach to movement: using technology (like the FitOn app) for accessible workouts, embracing slow pacing rather than pushing too hard, and working out with friends for accountability. Throughout the episode, we demonstrate simple chair yoga and range-of-motion exercises, emphasizing that movement shouldn't make your body feel worse. Dr. Blied highlights the importance of self-compassion, reminding listeners that progress isn't linear and that it's okay if your best looks different each day. The episode concludes with a bonus announcement about a new body doubling group in the Mentally Well While Chronically Ill membership, where members can join together for PT exercises, cleaning, meal prep, and other activities that benefit from community support.***Resources mentioned:→ FitOn→ Faces Of Health→ Body Doubling Group (Inside Destiny's Mentally Well While Chronically Ill Membership)MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: WebsiteSIGN UP FOR MY NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Reclaiming Intimacy: A Workshop For Bodies In Pain Feb 22nd 2025 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30pm GMT→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
In this episode, Dr. Monica Blied and I have a real conversation about creating a healthier relationship with movement when living with chronic illness. Dr. Blied shares her personal journey with lupus, fibromyalgia, and later-diagnosed ADHD and autism, which led her to develop the free Faces of Health app offering mental health skills and somatic exercises. She provides a practical three-step approach to movement: using technology (like the FitOn app) for accessible workouts, embracing slow pacing rather than pushing too hard, and working out with friends for accountability. Throughout the episode, we demonstrate simple chair yoga and range-of-motion exercises, emphasizing that movement shouldn't make your body feel worse. Dr. Blied highlights the importance of self-compassion, reminding listeners that progress isn't linear and that it's okay if your best looks different each day. The episode concludes with a bonus announcement about a new body doubling group in the Mentally Well While Chronically Ill membership, where members can join together for PT exercises, cleaning, meal prep, and other activities that benefit from community support.***Resources mentioned:→ FitOn→ Faces Of Health→ Body Doubling Group (Inside Destiny's Mentally Well While Chronically Ill Membership)MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTokMEET GUEST: WebsiteSIGN UP FOR MY NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Reclaiming Intimacy: A Workshop For Bodies In Pain Feb 22nd 2025 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30pm GMT→ READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODEASK DESTINY ANYTHING→ Submit your questions hereFOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERSJoin The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments)FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary: In this episode, LPC Rhonda Thorington shares her dual perspective as a therapist and mother navigating her daughter's chronic illness. From advocating in medical settings to maintaining family bonds, she offers practical strategies for parents facing similar challenges. Learn about crucial resources most families don't know exist, including insurance benefits, financial assistance programs, and educational rights. This conversation goes beyond medical management to explore how families can thrive while facing chronic illness together. Resources mentioned: YouTube - search your specific condition and watch videos from actual medical professionals Insurance nurse case managers: Insurance companies often offer nurse case managers for complex medical cases, and this is a service that is included in your plan, not an extra cost. These nurse case managers can help navigate the system and advocate for treatment. Patient Advocates: Some patient advocates are very helpful in navigating the complexities of medical care, and if you find a good one, stick with them. If not, don't be afraid to ask for someone else. They are also provided through your insurance at no extra cost. Pharmaceutical company programs: Pharmaceutical companies sometimes offer programs that can help offset the cost of expensive medications. Non-profit arms of insurance companies: Some insurance companies have non-profit arms that provide money to families to cover services not covered by insurance. The United Healthcare Children's Foundation is one example of this type of resource. MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTok MEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / Facebook Ronda helps parents facing the overwhelm of their child's medical diagnosis regain control, reduce stress, and reconnect with their family. She helps them rediscover joy, build resilience, and strengthen their connection, even in uncertainty. OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP → Sex + Intimacy With Chronic Pain Feb 22nd 2025 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30pm GMT → READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE ASK DESTINY ANYTHING → Submit your questions here FOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERS Join The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments) FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Episode Summary: In this episode, LPC Rhonda Thorington shares her dual perspective as a therapist and mother navigating her daughter's chronic illness. From advocating in medical settings to maintaining family bonds, she offers practical strategies for parents facing similar challenges. Learn about crucial resources most families don't know exist, including insurance benefits, financial assistance programs, and educational rights. This conversation goes beyond medical management to explore how families can thrive while facing chronic illness together. Resources mentioned: YouTube - search your specific condition and watch videos from actual medical professionals Insurance nurse case managers: Insurance companies often offer nurse case managers for complex medical cases, and this is a service that is included in your plan, not an extra cost. These nurse case managers can help navigate the system and advocate for treatment. Patient Advocates: Some patient advocates are very helpful in navigating the complexities of medical care, and if you find a good one, stick with them. If not, don't be afraid to ask for someone else. They are also provided through your insurance at no extra cost. Pharmaceutical company programs: Pharmaceutical companies sometimes offer programs that can help offset the cost of expensive medications. Non-profit arms of insurance companies: Some insurance companies have non-profit arms that provide money to families to cover services not covered by insurance. The United Healthcare Children's Foundation is one example of this type of resource. MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTok MEET GUEST: Website / Instagram / Facebook Ronda helps parents facing the overwhelm of their child's medical diagnosis regain control, reduce stress, and reconnect with their family. She helps them rediscover joy, build resilience, and strengthen their connection, even in uncertainty. OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP → Sex + Intimacy With Chronic Pain Feb 22nd 2025 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30pm GMT → READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE ASK DESTINY ANYTHING → Submit your questions here FOR YOU, OUR PODCAST LISTENERS Join The Membership (ongoing support for staying regulated while living with chronic illness - This does not replace therapy, but it's a great addition to your regular therapy appointments) FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS
Join Destiny's The Mentally Well While Chronically Ill Membership today! → Our next live workshop will be about Sex Therapy and Chronic Pain on Feb 22nd 2025. https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTok READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE → ** SUMMARY In this episode, we're joined by Samantha Allweiss LCSW and Niki Colon LSW from Room to Breathe Psychotherapy and Yoga in Chicago. We explore the intricate relationship between chronic illness, trauma, and body-based therapeutic approaches. Key Topics Covered: → How body-based practices like Hanna Somatics and mindfulness can support healing → Why cognitive-only approaches often aren't enough when working with chronic illness → The power of group therapy and shared experiences in chronic illness recovery → Understanding medical trauma and the impact of systems of oppression → The importance of naming experiences and validating physical realities → How therapists can create truly inclusive spaces for chronically ill clients Resources Mentioned: → Spoonies Unite support groups (led by Niki Colon at Room to Breathe Chicago) → "The Invisible Kingdom" by Megan O'Rourke → Works by Andrea Gibson → Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice → Room to Breathe Chicago: Room2BreatheChicago.com → Chronic Illness Therapist Directory: chronicillnesstherapist.com/directory Connect with Our Guests: → Room to Breathe Psychotherapy and Yoga → Website: Room2BreatheChicago.com → Email Niki: Niki@Room2BreatheChicago.com → Groups: Spoonies Unite (Wednesdays 5:30-6:45pm and Fridays 4:00-5:15pm CST, virtual, Illinois residents only) Note: This podcast is for educational purposes only. For specific questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed medical professional in your state of residence.*
Join Destiny's The Mentally Well While Chronically Ill Membership today! → Our next live workshop will be about Sex Therapy and Chronic Pain on Feb 22nd 2025. https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTok READ THE BLOG FOR THIS EPISODE → ** SUMMARY In this episode, we're joined by Samantha Allweiss LCSW and Niki Colon LSW from Room to Breathe Psychotherapy and Yoga in Chicago. We explore the intricate relationship between chronic illness, trauma, and body-based therapeutic approaches. Key Topics Covered: → How body-based practices like Hanna Somatics and mindfulness can support healing → Why cognitive-only approaches often aren't enough when working with chronic illness → The power of group therapy and shared experiences in chronic illness recovery → Understanding medical trauma and the impact of systems of oppression → The importance of naming experiences and validating physical realities → How therapists can create truly inclusive spaces for chronically ill clients Resources Mentioned: → Spoonies Unite support groups (led by Niki Colon at Room to Breathe Chicago) → "The Invisible Kingdom" by Megan O'Rourke → Works by Andrea Gibson → Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice → Room to Breathe Chicago: Room2BreatheChicago.com → Chronic Illness Therapist Directory: chronicillnesstherapist.com/directory Connect with Our Guests: → Room to Breathe Psychotherapy and Yoga → Website: Room2BreatheChicago.com → Email Niki: Niki@Room2BreatheChicago.com → Groups: Spoonies Unite (Wednesdays 5:30-6:45pm and Fridays 4:00-5:15pm CST, virtual, Illinois residents only) Note: This podcast is for educational purposes only. For specific questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed medical professional in your state of residence.*
Episode Summary: This is a candid discussion between two therapists, Destiny Davis and Victoria Rodriguez, about their personal experiences with breakfast, disordered eating, and navigating food choices while living with chronic illnesses. They discuss how their relationships with food have evolved from restrictive eating patterns and diet culture influences to more balanced, intuitive approaches. Both share their struggles with food aversions, learning to listen to their bodies, and finding "safe foods" that work for them. They offer practical breakfast suggestions while emphasizing that what works for one person may not work for another. The conversation touches on cultural aspects of food, the complexity of making food choices with chronic illnesses, and the importance of breaking free from rigid food rules. Resources mentioned: →F.E.A.S.T. https://feast-ed.org/ (online support groups) →https://www.allianceforeatingdisorders.com/ →https://anad.org/get-help/eating-disorders-helpline/ →https://www.theprojectheal.org/ MEET VICTORIA: Website / Instagram MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTok SIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP → Your Perfect Morning Routine
Episode Summary:This is a candid discussion between two therapists, Destiny Davis and Victoria Rodriguez, about their personal experiences with breakfast, disordered eating, and navigating food choices while living with chronic illnesses. They discuss how their relationships with food have evolved from restrictive eating patterns and diet culture influences to more balanced, intuitive approaches. Both share their struggles with food aversions, learning to listen to their bodies, and finding "safe foods" that work for them. They offer practical breakfast suggestions while emphasizing that what works for one person may not work for another. The conversation touches on cultural aspects of food, the complexity of making food choices with chronic illnesses, and the importance of breaking free from rigid food rules.Resources mentioned:→F.E.A.S.T. https://feast-ed.org/ (online support groups)→https://www.allianceforeatingdisorders.com/→https://anad.org/get-help/eating-disorders-helpline/→https://www.theprojectheal.org/→https://www.alsana.com/programs/online-support-group/MEET VICTORIA: Website / Instagram MEET DESTINY: Website / Instagram / BlueSky / YouTube / TikTok SIGN UP FOR OUR NEXT LIVE WORKSHOP→ Your Perfect Morning Routine
NEXT WORKSHOP: Your Perfect Morning Routine w/ Grace Quantock Join us on January 25, 2025 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30 pm GMT. Cost $17 USD but NEED A FREE TICKET? We offer a pay-what-you-can honor system pricing. If you have the means to support our work, please do. All profit goes toward The Farmer Fund to help support farmers in the midst of post-disaster recovery. Discount codes: WORKSHOP50 for 50% off | WORKSHOP75 for 75% off | WORKSHOPFREE for free Purchase here: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/checkout/cart __________________________________________________ In this episode, Destiny Davis discusses why January should be viewed as a month of rest rather than intense productivity, exploring the natural cycles of seasons and their impact on our well-being. Key Topics Discussed - January's role as a winter month meant for rest and reflection - Personal examples of documenting both positive and challenging life events - The value of writing down both good and difficult experiences "January is a month of rest. It is not a month of productivity, it is in the winter season, and winter is a time for rest and reflection." Tools & Resources Mentioned - Notion - Free online organization tool Membership Information - Program: "Mentally Well While Chronically Ill" - Details: - Monthly fee: $17 - Includes free access to monthly workshops - Individual workshops: $27 w/o membership - Pay-what-you-can honor pricing available - For: People dealing with conditions such as: - MCAS - Ehlers Danlos Syndrome - Chronic Lyme - Fibromyalgia - Chronic GI issues/Crohn's - Group focus: Balanced approach between support and positivity JOIN HERE: https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about Here I'm talking about the complexities of living with a chronic illness and how it affects our relationships - the constant challenges faced and the emotional toll it takes. I discuss how chronic illness can make individuals feel like a burden and the difficulties in seeking help from those around us. Key Points: - The struggle of managing daily life with a chronic illness while maintaining relationships. - The importance of creating new relationship patterns with oneself and others. - Introduction to the 'Allowed to Ask' membership, designed to help people with chronic illnesses change their attachment patterns and promote personal development. - The significance of asking the right questions and giving the nervous system time to rewire. - Practical tools and resources available through the membership for emotional and physical support. Join us as we uncover ways to transform your approach to relationships and personal development in the face of chronic illness. For more information and to become a part of the 'Allowed to Ask' community, visit https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about .
https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about Here I'm talking about the complexities of living with a chronic illness and how it affects our relationships - the constant challenges faced and the emotional toll it takes. I discuss how chronic illness can make individuals feel like a burden and the difficulties in seeking help from those around us. Key Points: - The struggle of managing daily life with a chronic illness while maintaining relationships. - The importance of creating new relationship patterns with oneself and others. - Introduction to the 'Allowed to Ask' membership, designed to help people with chronic illnesses change their attachment patterns and promote personal development. - The significance of asking the right questions and giving the nervous system time to rewire. - Practical tools and resources available through the membership for emotional and physical support. Join us as we uncover ways to transform your approach to relationships and personal development in the face of chronic illness. For more information and to become a part of the 'Allowed to Ask' community, visit https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about .
Join the membership for monthly live workshops, Q&As, a support group, and coworking groups! https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about Discussing the triggers for chronic illness flare-ups, which can be physical, emotional, or environmental. While identifying and avoiding specific triggers can be helpful, overanalyzing the reasons behind flare-ups can be counterproductive. Instead, the focus should be on implementing a flare-up protocol that includes daily care practices like guilt-free rest, regular meals, comfort measures, and stress reduction techniques. By prioritizing response strategies and maintaining mindful awareness, we can better manage our symptoms and improve cognitive function despite the challenges of brain fog and other distressing symptoms.
Join the membership for monthly live workshops, Q&As, a support group, and coworking groups! https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about Discussing the triggers for chronic illness flare-ups, which can be physical, emotional, or environmental. While identifying and avoiding specific triggers can be helpful, overanalyzing the reasons behind flare-ups can be counterproductive. Instead, the focus should be on implementing a flare-up protocol that includes daily care practices like guilt-free rest, regular meals, comfort measures, and stress reduction techniques. By prioritizing response strategies and maintaining mindful awareness, we can better manage our symptoms and improve cognitive function despite the challenges of brain fog and other distressing symptoms.
Join us on December 6th, 2024 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30 pm GMT. Cost $17 USD but NEED A FREE TICKET? We offer a pay-what-you-can honor system pricing. If you have the means to support our work, please do. All profit goes toward The Farmer Fund to help support farmers in the midst of post-disaster recovery. Discount codes: WORKSHOP50 for 50% off | WORKSHOP75 for 75% off | WORKSHOPFREE for free Purchase here: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/checkout/cart _______________________________________________ In this episode, I sit down with Grace Quantock, an award-winning psychotherapeutic counselor and author of "Living Well with Chronic Illness: Write Your Own Roadmap to Healing in Tough Times." Grace shares her insights on navigating chronic illness while challenging toxic wellness culture and persistent cure mentality. Key Topics Discussed: The pressure of "bootstrap wellness narratives" and compulsive miracle cure culture The concept of the "accordion routine" - creating flexible healing practices that expand and contract with your needs Challenging societal expectations around disability and accommodation The importance of questioning "normal" standards and finding what works for you How to navigate medical appointments and healthcare systems The problem with forced positivity and toxic wellness culture Resources Mentioned: Grace's book: "Living Well with Chronic Illness: Write Your Own Roadmap to Healing in Tough Times" Free resources with book purchase: Waiting room meditations Procedural peace audios for medical appointments Post-appointment support sessions Pre-appointment pep talks Newsletter access Connect with Grace: Website: www.gracequantock.com This episode offers a trauma-informed perspective on chronic illness management, challenging traditional wellness narratives while providing practical tools for creating personalized healing routines that honor your unique needs and circumstances. _______________________________________________ Join us on December 6th, 2024 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30 pm GMT. Cost $17 USD but NEED A FREE TICKET? We offer a pay-what-you-can honor system pricing. If you have the means to support our work, please do. All profit goes toward The Farmer Fund to help support farmers in the midst of post-disaster recovery. Discount codes: WORKSHOP50 for 50% off | WORKSHOP75 for 75% off | WORKSHOPFREE for free Purchase here: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/checkout/cart
Join us on December 6th, 2024 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30 pm GMT. Cost $17 USD but NEED A FREE TICKET? We offer a pay-what-you-can honor system pricing. If you have the means to support our work, please do. All profit goes toward The Farmer Fund to help support farmers in the midst of post-disaster recovery. Discount codes: WORKSHOP50 for 50% off | WORKSHOP75 for 75% off | WORKSHOPFREE for free Purchase here: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/checkout/cart _______________________________________________ In this episode, I sit down with Grace Quantock, an award-winning psychotherapeutic counselor and author of "Living Well with Chronic Illness: Write Your Own Roadmap to Healing in Tough Times." Grace shares her insights on navigating chronic illness while challenging toxic wellness culture and persistent cure mentality. Key Topics Discussed: The pressure of "bootstrap wellness narratives" and compulsive miracle cure culture The concept of the "accordion routine" - creating flexible healing practices that expand and contract with your needs Challenging societal expectations around disability and accommodation The importance of questioning "normal" standards and finding what works for you How to navigate medical appointments and healthcare systems The problem with forced positivity and toxic wellness culture Resources Mentioned: Grace's book: "Living Well with Chronic Illness: Write Your Own Roadmap to Healing in Tough Times" Free resources with book purchase: Waiting room meditations Procedural peace audios for medical appointments Post-appointment support sessions Pre-appointment pep talks Newsletter access Connect with Grace: Website: www.gracequantock.com This episode offers a trauma-informed perspective on chronic illness management, challenging traditional wellness narratives while providing practical tools for creating personalized healing routines that honor your unique needs and circumstances. _______________________________________________ Join us on December 6th, 2024 @ 10:30am EST / 3:30 pm GMT. Cost $17 USD but NEED A FREE TICKET? We offer a pay-what-you-can honor system pricing. If you have the means to support our work, please do. All profit goes toward The Farmer Fund to help support farmers in the midst of post-disaster recovery. Discount codes: WORKSHOP50 for 50% off | WORKSHOP75 for 75% off | WORKSHOPFREE for free Purchase here: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/checkout/cart
I'm starting a new series called Talks with Destiny, and they'll be very short (30seconds-10 minute) episodes with thoughts that I think help people with chronic pain and illness live life with more meaning and intention. If you like this vibe, please rate this podcast! I am working hard to grow the audience here. And if you'd like to join the Allowed To Ask Community, it's 50% off the yearly price right now - here's the link to join! https://www.skool.com/mentally-wellchronically-ill-4863/about
Tiffany Yu is a remarkable disability advocate, author, and community builder who has dedicated her career to creating a more inclusive world. As the founder of DiverseAbility, an organization celebrating its 15th anniversary, and author of the recently published book "The Anti-Ableist Manifesto: Smashing Stereotypes, Forging Change, and Building a Disability-Inclusive World," Yu brings a unique perspective to disability advocacy and inclusion. Join Tiffany's community, DiversAbility, here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/diversabilitycommunity Read the full summary in a blog post here: to be published soon __________________________________________________ CONNECT with Destiny: Destiny offers individual, family, and couples counseling for people who just want to live their life again, despite chronic pain and illness. http://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com https://www.tiktok.com/@talkswithdestiny http://instagram.com/the.chronicillnesstherapist __________________________________________________ SIGN UP for Destiny's next workshop: I host monthly workshops for people with chronic illnesses who are struggling to navigate relationships with themselves, their partners, families, friends, children, and doctors. http://chronicillnesstherapist.myflodesk.com/workshops __________________________________________________ ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: Monthly workshops. https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0 __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS, PHYSICAL THERAPISTS, NATUROPATHIC DOCTORS, NURSE PRACTITIONERS, OCCUPATIONAL THERAPISTS, and other medical professionsal who specialize in working with chronic illness. Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/community-mastermind-consultation Business consult group every 1st Friday from 1-2:30pm EST Clinical consult group every 3rd Friday from 1-2:30pm EST __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
Tiffany Yu is a remarkable disability advocate, author, and community builder who has dedicated her career to creating a more inclusive world. As the founder of DiverseAbility, an organization celebrating its 15th anniversary, and author of the recently published book "The Anti-Ableist Manifesto: Smashing Stereotypes, Forging Change, and Building a Disability-Inclusive World," Yu brings a unique perspective to disability advocacy and inclusion. Join Tiffany's community, DiversAbility, here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/diversabilitycommunity Read the full summary in a blog post here: to be published soon __________________________________________________ CONNECT with Destiny: Destiny offers individual, family, and couples counseling for people who just want to live their life again, despite chronic pain and illness. http://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com https://www.tiktok.com/@talkswithdestiny http://instagram.com/the.chronicillnesstherapist __________________________________________________ SIGN UP for Destiny's next workshop: I host monthly workshops for people with chronic illnesses who are struggling to navigate relationships with themselves, their partners, families, friends, children, and doctors. http://chronicillnesstherapist.myflodesk.com/workshops __________________________________________________ ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: Monthly workshops. https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0%E2%81%A0 __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS, PHYSICAL THERAPISTS, NATUROPATHIC DOCTORS, NURSE PRACTITIONERS, OCCUPATIONAL THERAPISTS, and other medical professionsal who specialize in working with chronic illness. Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/community-mastermind-consultation Business consult group every 1st Friday from 1-2:30pm EST Clinical consult group every 3rd Friday from 1-2:30pm EST __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
Annie Brashem and I explore palliative and hospice care for people with terminal illnesses. We talk about some heavy but important topics. Our main goal with this episode is to highlight the importance of aligning medical care with patients' values and goals, self-compassion, and the need for emotional and logistical support for patients and their families. DISCLAIMER and CONTENT WARNING death, dying, and medical aid in dying (formerly known as physician-assisted suicide) Read the full summary in a blog post here: __________________________________________________ DONATE to help our country recover from natural disasters.
Annie Brashem and I explore palliative and hospice care for people with terminal illnesses. We talk about some heavy but important topics. Our main goal with this episode is to highlight the importance of aligning medical care with patients' values and goals, self-compassion, and the need for emotional and logistical support for patients and their families. DISCLAIMER and CONTENT WARNING death, dying, and medical aid in dying (formerly known as physician-assisted suicide) Read the full summary in a blog post here: __________________________________________________ DONATE to help our country recover from natural disasters.
In today's conversation, Rowan Crawfish and I discusses the importance of community and personal advocacy, particularly for marginalized groups, with a focus on art therapy for people with chronic illnesses. Rowan is a clinical mental health counselor and art therapist in Savannah, Georgia, specializing in working with the neurodivergent, LGBTQ, and fat liberation communities. She highlights the transformative potential of art therapy, specifically phototherapy, in expressing the lived experiences of individuals with chronic illness. The technique allows patients to creatively convey their medical symptoms and advocate for themselves in medical settings. The conversation also moves into the decolonization of therapy, emphasizing an inclusive approach considering systemic influences like patriarchy and capitalism. We explore the idea of community building, offering support groups tailored for different needs, and encourage clients to use art to process emotions and foster community engagements. Read the full blog post summarizing the episode here: Rest, Resistance, and Advocacy: Navigating the Complexities of Chronic Illness Through Art and Community Support https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/blog/rest-resistance-and-advocacy-navigating-the-complexities-of-chronic-illness-through-art-and-community-support __________________________________________________ DONATE to help our country recover from natural disasters.
In today's conversation, Rowan Crawfish and I discusses the importance of community and personal advocacy, particularly for marginalized groups, with a focus on art therapy for people with chronic illnesses. Rowan is a clinical mental health counselor and art therapist in Savannah, Georgia, specializing in working with the neurodivergent, LGBTQ, and fat liberation communities. She highlights the transformative potential of art therapy, specifically phototherapy, in expressing the lived experiences of individuals with chronic illness. The technique allows patients to creatively convey their medical symptoms and advocate for themselves in medical settings. The conversation also moves into the decolonization of therapy, emphasizing an inclusive approach considering systemic influences like patriarchy and capitalism. We explore the idea of community building, offering support groups tailored for different needs, and encourage clients to use art to process emotions and foster community engagements. Read the full blog post summarizing the episode here: Rest, Resistance, and Advocacy: Navigating the Complexities of Chronic Illness Through Art and Community Support https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/blog/rest-resistance-and-advocacy-navigating-the-complexities-of-chronic-illness-through-art-and-community-support __________________________________________________ DONATE to help our country recover from natural disasters.
In this episode, Destiny talks with Dr. Amanda Whitehouse, a licensed psychologist specializing in anxiety and trauma related to severe food allergies. They explore the complexities of living with food allergies, the intertwined nature of anxiety and allergic reactions, and practical strategies for parents and children to manage these challenges.
In this episode of The Chronic Illness Therapist podcast, licensed clinical social worker Bri Crisp shares her journey with endometriosis, from her initial symptoms in middle school to advocating for herself and finding the right medical treatment. Bri discusses the challenges of obtaining a proper diagnosis, the importance of finding knowledgeable medical professionals, and the multifaceted emotional and financial burdens associated with the condition. We get into personal anecdotes, the significance of second opinions, the need for persistance, and emphasize the role of mental health support in managing chronic illnesses. __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: Monthly workshops. https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
In this episode of The Chronic Illness Therapist podcast, licensed clinical social worker Bri Crisp shares her journey with endometriosis, from her initial symptoms in middle school to advocating for herself and finding the right medical treatment. Bri discusses the challenges of obtaining a proper diagnosis, the importance of finding knowledgeable medical professionals, and the multifaceted emotional and financial burdens associated with the condition. We get into personal anecdotes, the significance of second opinions, the need for persistance, and emphasize the role of mental health support in managing chronic illnesses. __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: Monthly workshops. https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
In this episode, psychotherapist Sara Kouten shares her journey as a cancer survivor and a caregiver to a young adult cancer survivor. Her personal battle with cancer led her to specialize in helping patients and caregivers affected by chronic illness. Sara discusses the psychological impacts of cancer, the significance of self-advocacy, and the unique challenges faced by younger patients. She also emphasizes the importance of validating fears, the role of caregivers, coping strategies, and future plans for incorporating walk-and-talk therapy. The conversation covers various aspects of dealing with chronic illness, addressing fears, and finding acceptance. My upcoming workshop on Lyme Disease can be found here! https://destinywinters1.podia.com/how-we-treat-lyme-with-the-whole-person-in-mind __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: Monthly workshops. https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
In this episode, psychotherapist Sara Kouten shares her journey as a cancer survivor and a caregiver to a young adult cancer survivor. Her personal battle with cancer led her to specialize in helping patients and caregivers affected by chronic illness. Sara discusses the psychological impacts of cancer, the significance of self-advocacy, and the unique challenges faced by younger patients. She also emphasizes the importance of validating fears, the role of caregivers, coping strategies, and future plans for incorporating walk-and-talk therapy. The conversation covers various aspects of dealing with chronic illness, addressing fears, and finding acceptance. My upcoming workshop on Lyme Disease can be found here! https://destinywinters1.podia.com/how-we-treat-lyme-with-the-whole-person-in-mind __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: Monthly workshops. https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
Katie Casey, a licensed counselor, discusses her integrative approach to therapy, incorporating modalities like EMDR, CBT, and somatic-based interventions to address chronic pain and illness. She emphasizes the importance of multidisciplinary assessment and treatment, tailored to individual client needs, and encourages both clinicians and clients to seek the most fitting therapeutic approaches. Katie's upcoming trainings for therapists can be found here: Pain, Illness, & Mental Health: A Holistic Approach | 6 CE approved by NBCC, Virtual, 8/23/24 - https://tinyurl.com/yf3y2hk9 Insightful Intakes: Elevating Your Clinical Assessment Skills | IN-person. Stay tuned by checking her website here: https://abundanthopetherapy.com/ce-trainings __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: - Monthly workshops. Next three: How to reach out without feeling like a burden; ADHD + Chronic Pain, Treating Lyme disease https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops - FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS -The New Clinician Expo: $30 with code FBG84AN https://therapist2therapist.squarespace.com/shop/p/new-clinician-expo-saszy -Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
Katie Casey, a licensed counselor, discusses her integrative approach to therapy, incorporating modalities like EMDR, CBT, and somatic-based interventions to address chronic pain and illness. She emphasizes the importance of multidisciplinary assessment and treatment, tailored to individual client needs, and encourages both clinicians and clients to seek the most fitting therapeutic approaches. Katie's upcoming trainings for therapists can be found here: Pain, Illness, & Mental Health: A Holistic Approach | 6 CE approved by NBCC, Virtual, 8/23/24 - https://tinyurl.com/yf3y2hk9 Insightful Intakes: Elevating Your Clinical Assessment Skills | IN-person. Stay tuned by checking her website here: https://abundanthopetherapy.com/ce-trainings __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: - Monthly workshops. Next three: How to reach out without feeling like a burden; ADHD + Chronic Pain, Treating Lyme disease https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops - FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS -The New Clinician Expo: $30 with code FBG84AN https://therapist2therapist.squarespace.com/shop/p/new-clinician-expo-saszy -Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence.
Chronic pain can feel like a raging bear inside you. It's loud, scary, and all-consuming. But what if there was a way to calm the bear and find some peace? In this conversation, Jason Therrien and Destiny Winters explore the concept of pain as a complex experience, influenced by physical, emotional, and psychological factors. Jason is a Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified Therapeutic Pain Specialist and Certified Health and Well-being Coach, and Destiny Winters is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Rehabilitation Counselor. They discuss a different approach to chronic pain management – moving away from the traditional "find-and-fix" mentality and instead, highlight the importance of understanding your pain, rather than just getting rid of it without real awareness first. __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ GUEST Jason Therrien DPT - Website: insightempowers.com - information on services offered plus free educational videos and self-care practices; - Insight PT and Coaching on Facebook and YouTube; - PT services available to anyone in Tennessee; coaching services available to anyone, anywhere and can be totally virtual; - Caring for Pain class meets every Friday online (first class is FREE) __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: - Monthly workshops. Next three: How to reach out without feeling like a burden; ADHD + Chronic Pain, Treating Lyme disease https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops - FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS -The New Clinician Expo: $30 with code FBG84AN https://therapist2therapist.squarespace.com/shop/p/new-clinician-expo-saszy -Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message
Chronic pain can feel like a raging bear inside you. It's loud, scary, and all-consuming. But what if there was a way to calm the bear and find some peace? In this conversation, Jason Therrien and Destiny Winters explore the concept of pain as a complex experience, influenced by physical, emotional, and psychological factors. Jason is a Doctor of Physical Therapy, Certified Therapeutic Pain Specialist and Certified Health and Well-being Coach, and Destiny Winters is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Rehabilitation Counselor. They discuss a different approach to chronic pain management – moving away from the traditional "find-and-fix" mentality and instead, highlight the importance of understanding your pain, rather than just getting rid of it without real awareness first. __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) __________________________________________________ GUEST Amy Toth -Facebook group The Chronic Pain Recovery Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1262218914338160 -Free Guide: 3 Ways to Ease What Hurts Even if It's Too Hard to Get Out of Bed” https://pages.amytoth.com/guide-1 __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: - Monthly workshops. Next three: How to reach out without feeling like a burden; ADHD + Chronic Pain, Treating Lyme disease https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops - FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS -The New Clinician Expo: $30 with code FBG84AN https://therapist2therapist.squarespace.com/shop/p/new-clinician-expo-saszy -Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message
Balancing Exercise With Chronic Pain and Fatigue Working out is a difficult enough task as it is. In this episode, I'm sharing how I get through a workout despite living with chronic physical limitations like dizziness, fatigue, and painful rashes. Take a listen to my personal approach, including the benefits of exercising in a safe and supportive community environment, and how to adapt what you're doing in the moment when symptoms flare up. 00:00 Struggles of Exercising with Chronic Conditions 01:09 Personal Experience and Gym Routine 01:40 Dealing with Physical Limitations During Workouts 02:18 Psychological Aspects of Working Out in Public 04:09 Importance of Community in Physical Therapy 07:34 Finding the Right Environment for Exercise 08:52 Overcoming Insecurities and Setbacks 09:48 Tips for Low-Impact Exercise 10:37 Conclusion and Encouragement --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message
In this episode, Destiny Winters LPC CRC discusses the often overlooked aspect of social needs in chronic pain management. She emphasizes how current pain research tends to focus on individual cognitive and emotional strategies, neglecting the vital role of community and social connections. She also highlights the importance of mindfulness and psychological interventions, but stresses that these should be complemented by strong social support systems. Join my upcoming workshops: https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops How to Reach Out Without Feeling Like a Burden Saturday, June 8, 2024 10:00 AM 11:00 AM https://destinywinters1.podia.com/274b479b-1fe9-4c54-b2ce-6f0319fd8727 Living with ADHD and Chronic Pain/Illness Saturday, July 6, 2024 10:00 AM 11:00 AM https://destinywinters1.podia.com/c2be7898-2fa3-4731-b105-2626a5df7536 Lyme Disease: From Diagnosis to Healing – A Holistic Approach Saturday, August 17, 2024 10:00 AM 12:00 PM https://destinywinters1.podia.com/how-we-treat-lyme-with-the-whole-person-in-mind --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message
Amy Toth is a physical therapist turned chronic pain specialist with over 20 years of experience. She helps individuals recover from chronic pain by regulating and reprogramming their nervous system. In this conversation, Amy discusses the challenges of treating chronic pain, the role of the nervous system in pain perception, and the importance of building trust in your body's signals. She emphasizes the need to understand that pain does not always indicate tissue damage and that the brain can become overprotective. Amy also highlights the importance of mindfulness and self-awareness in managing chronic pain. The conversation explores the concept of persistent pain and its treatment. Amy and Destiny discuss the importance of listening to one's body and the growing interest in interoception. They also get into the use of imagery and visualization in pain reprocessing and retraining the brain. This conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and personalized approaches in treating persistent pain. __________________________________________________ CONNECT: ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) GUEST Amy Toth -Facebook group The Chronic Pain Recovery Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1262218914338160 -Free Guide: 3 Ways to Ease What Hurts Even if It's Too Hard to Get Out of Bed” https://pages.amytoth.com/guide-1 __________________________________________________ DESTINY email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com __________________________________________________ FOR NON-THERAPISTS: FREE DOWNLOADS: - Monthly workshops. Next three: How to reach out without feeling like a burden; ADHD + Chronic Pain, Treating Lyme disease https://www.thechronicillnesstherapist.com/workshops - FREE PDF “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - FREE PDF “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS -The New Clinician Expo: $30 with code FBG84AN https://therapist2therapist.squarespace.com/shop/p/new-clinician-expo-saszy -Join our new community for free for monthly business and clinical consultation groups and other resources: https://destinywinters1.podia.com/chronic-illness-therapists-entrepreneurs __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message
The conversation explores the importance of community and support in navigating challenges and healing. It delves into the role of attachment in personal growth and the fear of re-injuring oneself. The concept of psychological flexibility is discussed, emphasizing the need to observe and understand the patterns of pain and discomfort. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood trauma and the importance of trust in the therapeutic process. The creation of a safe container for healing and the integration of different modalities, such as somatic work and art, are highlighted. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the need for communal support and the challenges of living in a society that values individualism. __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS WHO WANT TO OFFER INTENSIVES TO CLIENTS Join me + 20 other speaks at the Therapy Intensive Summit! https://chronicillnesstherapist--kaleidoscopecounselingstl.thrivecart.com/tis-vip-all-access-pass/ __________________________________________________ Connect with Destiny email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) FREE DOWNLOADS: - “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS - FREE CONSULT GROUP every third Friday of the month from 1-2:30pm EST. Join the email list here for updates: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/633e2980409cbc0f983fcee8 Join me + 20 other speaks at the Therapy Intensive Summit! https://chronicillnesstherapist--kaleidoscopecounselingstl.thrivecart.com/tis-vip-all-access-pass/ __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message
The conversation explores the importance of community and support in navigating challenges and healing. It delves into the role of attachment in personal growth and the fear of re-injuring oneself. The concept of psychological flexibility is discussed, emphasizing the need to observe and understand the patterns of pain and discomfort. The conversation also touches on the impact of childhood trauma and the importance of trust in the therapeutic process. The creation of a safe container for healing and the integration of different modalities, such as somatic work and art, are highlighted. The conversation concludes with a reflection on the need for communal support and the challenges of living in a society that values individualism. __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS WHO WANT TO OFFER INTENSIVES TO CLIENTS Join me + 20 other speaks at the Therapy Intensive Summit! https://chronicillnesstherapist--kaleidoscopecounselingstl.thrivecart.com/tis-vip-all-access-pass/ __________________________________________________ Connect with Destiny email: destiny@destinywinters.com IG: @the.chronicillnesstherapist.com website: thechronicillnesstherapist.com ***If you like any of The Chronic Illness Therapist episodes, please leave a review! Reviews tell the app, “hey, people like this! Show it in the algorithm to more people!” :) FREE DOWNLOADS: - “Mastering Pacing: How Slowing Down Helps you Speed up” https://spring-lion-815.myflodesk.com/eswknvrdsc - “6 Ways To Help Your Partner Understand Your Chronic Illness” - download at this link https://view.flodesk.com/pages/628c0317081c14b7b35ee9de __________________________________________________ FOR THERAPISTS - FREE CONSULT GROUP every third Friday of the month from 1-2:30pm EST. Join the email list here for updates: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/633e2980409cbc0f983fcee8 Join me + 20 other speaks at the Therapy Intensive Summit! https://chronicillnesstherapist--kaleidoscopecounselingstl.thrivecart.com/tis-vip-all-access-pass/ __________________________________________________ Disclaimer: Everything we talk about here is just meant to be general education and information. It's not intended as personal mental health or medical advice. If you have any questions related to your unique circumstances, please contact a licensed therapist or medical professional in your state of residence. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/citherapist/message