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We are Tim & Pauline Wheeler. Before we met we were both in ungodly relationships that left us empty and hurt. This led us on individual journeys to learn God's way of dating. When we met we decided to have a relationship that honored God but was still fun and exciting! We eventually started helping other couples through small groups to learn to date God's way. We have been married for 3 years and we just welcomed a baby boy to our family! Our goal is to provide you with perspective to help you build a healthy & godly relationship. New episode of "The W Podcast" drops every Tuesday!

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    7 Things Godly People Actually Do in Dating (That Change Everything)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2025 34:38


    Tired of dating that feels confusing, inconsistent, or halfway holy? Here's what godly people actually do differently — so you can finally date with clarity, confidence, and peace.We've been married for 7 years now, but we didn't start out doing it right. We dated the world's way first — and it left us broken. God had to reteach us how to build love His way.In this episode, we're breaking down 7 things godly people do in dating that changed everything for us — and can change everything for you too.What You'll Learn:- How to pray about your relationship (and hear God, not just talk)- The right way to set boundaries (time, emotions, physical, spiritual, and money)- Why community and accountability protect your heart- What pursuing purity actually means (presence over performance)- How to communicate clearly — no ghosting, gaslighting, or confusion= What it looks like to honor each other in dating- How to date with marriage in mind — without rushing the processThis episode will help you date with confidence, peace, and direction — no more guessing if your relationship honors God.CHAPTERS:0:00 – Stop dating on vibes0:49 – Welcome + why couples copy1:56 – Is there a formula for godly dating?2:25 – The 7 things godly couples do3:38 – It's not perfection, it's intention5:38 – Our story: dating without direction6:32 – Loving God isn't enough6:38 – Pray about the relationship8:13 – How Pauline heard God13:35 – Set boundaries that guide you16:22 – Positive boundaries that build17:06 – Involve community18:37 – Pursue purity22:04 – Communicate clearly24:48 – Honor each other28:13 – Date with marriage in mind33:01 – Recap: 7 markers of godly dating33:57 – What's next + subscribeTjos For You If...You love Jesus but you're tired of guessing what a godly relationship actually looks like.You want to keep it fun and holy, but you also want something real — not just another situationship with Christian language.We're Tim & Pauline Wheeler, helping you build fun & holy relationships that last.New episodes every week on faith, dating, and building godly love that actually works.Tags: christian dating tips, godly dating advice, christian singles, faith-based relationships, dating with intention, christian couple advice, purity culture, godly love, christian relationship goals, christian dating boundaries, biblical dating advice, how to date as a christian

    Christian Dating Rules We Broke Before Marriage (You Should Too)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2025 27:54


    In one year, we went from lusting after each other to hosting God's presence in our dating relationship. Not by accident—by breaking the unspoken dating rules most Christians accept and building on God's Word.If you're tired of “just vibes,” fuzzy boundaries, and lukewarm patterns, this episode shows you exactly how we moved from compromise to clarity and how you can, too.What you'll learn- Why traveling together while dating isn't wise for most couples—and what we did instead- Why we paused kissing (and how self-control in dating becomes self-control in marriage)- How mentors, accountability, and paid premarital counseling saved us time, money, and heartache- How to stop “just vibing” and start dating with purpose (questions to ask, rhythms to build)- What surrendering your singleness actually looks like (freedom from timelines + idols)- Why boundaries aren't bondage—they're training for a guilt-free marriageWho this is for: Single or dating Christians who want a godly relationship, not a performative one. If you've prayed together one minute and crossed a boundary the next, this is your blueprint.Christian dating advice, godly relationship, dating boundaries, purity vs. lust, stop being lukewarm, Christian couple testimony, intentional dating, Christian courtship, premarital counseling, accountability in relationships, how to honor God while dating, hosting God's presence, Christian relationship tips, how far is too far, travel together while dating, kissing while dating, Christian mentors, dating with purpose, building a foundation for marriageCHAPTERS0:00 From lust to hosting God's presence (cold open)0:50 Intro, why this matters, last week's episode tie-in2:51 Rule 1 — Travel together? Our boundary & why9:00 Rule 2 — Kissing is “harmless”? Why we paused12:07 Rule 3 — Mentors, accountability & paid premarital counseling16:19 Rule 4 — No “just vibe”: ask intentional questions, build with vision18:24 Rule 5 — “My relationship, my way” vs. surrendering singleness21:36 Rule 6 — Boundaries ≠ bondage (preparing for a lifetime)24:59 Emotional/pace boundaries: not seeing each other every day26:20 Consequences vs. benefits + next week's preview27:12 Closing

    How to Know If God Actually Approves of Your Dating Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2025 26:19


    Are you asking, “Is this relationship really from God?”Here's how to actually tell.In this episode, we're walking you through 7 signs God approves (or does NOT approve) of your relationship — using real examples from our dating story and the Bible. We'll talk about spiritual fruit, self-control, conviction, peace, purpose, how other people see your relationship, and what it really looks like to keep God at the center while you're dating.This is not “just pray about it” advice. This is practical.By watching this, you'll be able to:• Tell the difference between “I feel good with them” and “God is actually in this”• Stop assuming chemistry or comfort means God is confirming it• Recognize what real spiritual fruit looks like in dating (patience, self-control, humility, actual growth — not just church talk)• Understand why godly relationships will require sacrifice and maturity, not just attraction• Discern the difference between peace that comes from God and peace that just comes from avoiding hard conversations• See why a real godly relationship gives you vision — legacy, purpose, future impact — not just vibes and convenience• Know why people around you (friends, family, mentors) should be able to see and confirm your growth if this is from God• Pray honestly, “God, do You even want me in this?” — and be ready for the answerIf you're in a situationship, talking stage, “we're basically together,” or already dating and you're scared to ask if this is really from God — watch this all the way through.God's approval isn't shown in feelings. It's shown in fruit, in character, and in who gets the glory.Next week's episode: we're breaking down 7 Christian dating “boundaries” we actually broke — and why those decisions helped us get closer to God and closer to each other. We've now been married 7 years.Subscribe so you don't miss it!CHAPTERS:0:00 Why you can't just trust chemistry1:10 “God, is this relationship from You?”2:30 Fruit vs feelings in Christian dating4:10 Sign #1: This relationship makes you more like Christ6:15 Real self-control and stopping physical stuff8:00 Sign #2: It's forcing you to die to self9:20 Dating is a mirror (and why that's not a bad thing)10:35 Sign #3: Peace from God vs comfort and convenience12:40 “He won't touch me — is that rejection or respect?”14:15 Sign #4: Other people can SEE your growth15:30 Sign #5: Your relationship carries vision, not just vibes16:40 Sign #6: Other people are blessed because you're together18:45 Blended family healing / legacy story20:10 Sign #7: Your character is getting stronger, not softer21:50 Conviction vs shame22:40 The prayer you have to be brave enough to pray24:10 Is God actually leading this, or are you driving?25:10 How to invite God into every stage of dating26:00 Final test: Does this relationship point people to Him?Christian dating advice, signs God approves your relationship, is this relationship from God, how to know if God wants you with someone, godly relationship signs, Christian relationship red flags, Christian boundaries in dating, how to date God's way, fruit of the Spirit in dating, Christian couple testimony, waiting until marriage, self control in Christian dating, how to involve God in your relationship, does God want me to break up, Christian dating podcast

    The Dating Questions Christian Singles Are Asking In 2025 (Married Couple Reacts)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 30:41


    Feeling a little crazy in today's Christian dating world? You're not alone. In this rapid-fire Q&A, we're tackling your most-requested questions—friend zone confusion, age gaps, dating in your 30s when options feel scarce, jealousy while “just talking,” and whether marriage in college is wise. Expect Biblical wisdom, practical boundaries, and hopeful encouragement rooted in God's timing.

    Stop Trying To Act Married...You're A FIANCÉ Not A Spouse Yet (They're Not The Same)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2025 46:16


    Engagement isn't just planning a wedding—it's preparing for a godly marriage. In this honest episode, we unpack why engagement feels like building and defending at the same time, how to spot spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict, and the premarital conversations every Christian couple must have (money, roles, sex & purity, spiritual life, vision). If you're Christian, dating or engaged, and want to honor God, protect your purity & peace, and start marriage on a strong foundation, this is for you fam!You'll learn:- Boundaries that keep you holy - How to recognize attacks vs. everyday conflict- The 10 truths about engagement most people won't say out loud- The exact topics to clarify now so you don't carry baggage into marriageCHAPTERS:00:00 – INTRO: Engagement = War (and Workshop)01:05 – Why this season matters more than the wedding03:00 – Build and defend05:10 – Spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict08:30 – Don't build a wedding, build a covenant09:10 – Truth #1: Engagement is warfare with a ring on12:20 – Truth #2: Stop “testing the marriage” while single15:40 – Truth #3: Prepare for decades, not a day18:30 – Truth #4: You don't need perfect—just humility & growth21:10 – Truth #5: It's not too short—it's too busy23:20 – Truth #6: Mentor vs. fan25:30 – Truth #7: Attack ≠ wrong path27:40 – Truth #8: Anxiety vs. discernment30:10 – Truth #9: Clarify money, roles, sex, spiritual life, vision33:30 – Truth #10: The goal isn't marriage—it's holiness36:10 – Mini-challenge + how to start this week37:30 – Closing prayer & CTA

    In Dating We Saw Each Other Fail & That's Why We've Been Married For 7+ Years (What You Need To See)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2025 36:19


    You're not just marrying someone at their strongest—you're marrying their weaknesses too.If you've ever wondered, “How do I know if they can handle hard times?” this episode is for you.We're showing Christian singles and dating couples how to look beyond chemistry, comfort, and church talk to see if the person you're dating can stay faithful, steady, and emotionally safe when life gets heavy.You'll learn how to:- Recognize emotional maturity in dating (self-awareness, accountability, resilience)- Spot red flags under pressure—blame-shifting, defensiveness, or escaping into sin- Ask questions that reveal how they handle weakness, stress, and correction- Discern whether to stay, pause, or release the relationship- Invite God and community into your decision-makingBecause being a Christian doesn't automatically mean someone is ready for godly love.You need someone who's not just fun when things are easy—but faithful when things get hard.Scriptures referenced: Proverbs 17:17, Ecclesiastes 4:9-12, James 5:16, Psalm 34:8CHAPTERS00:00 Marrying strengths and weaknesses00:56 Why this matters beyond “best friend”03:05 When friendship cracks under pressure04:39 Evaluating maturity—not just “they're Christian”06:28 Pressure exposes habits & boundaries09:39 Signs of maturity: triggers, transparency, trust19:05 Red flags: escape, victim mindset, refuses correction27:01 How to discern with God & community28:10 Boundaries in practice + past patterns30:04 Consequences vs. emotional safetyIf you're searching for Christian dating advice, godly relationship red flags, emotional maturity in dating, how to choose a godly spouse, or Christian boundaries in relationships, this episode gives you a biblical, practical lens to evaluate character before marriage—so you can build love that lasts.

    You Fell in Love Too Fast—Now What?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2025 39:12


    You're dating… but you don't feel known. Why?Because attraction ≠ foundation. In this episode we tell the truth about why so many Christian couples rush commitment, feel lonely inside relationships, and what to do instead: build friendship first—the kind that carries you through grief, job loss, postpartum, and pressure.What you'll learn:- How to tell infatuation from real emotional connection- The 3 friendship builders: Talk, Play, Observe (with examples)- Culture & church traps: “we vibe,” community pressure, attraction + prayer = readiness- How to course-correct if you already skipped friendship- What happens if you don't face this—and the benefits when you do- How to trust God at every stage without performingScripture anchors: Proverbs 17:17; Ecclesiastes 4:9–12; Psalm 34:8Who this is for: Single or dating Christians who want a marriage that feels like peace, partnership, and friendship—not pressure and performance.Chapters00:00 – Hook: Attraction without connection = loneliness00:56 – Welcome to The W Podcast (why you should care)02:34 – The cost of skipping friendship (alone in a relationship)04:35 – Culture traps: vibes, butterflies, “we just click”06:58 – Church traps: rushing, pressure, attraction + prayer ≠ readiness09:58 – Why quick engagements can hide unknowns11:50 – Friendship is what holds when life hits (grief, job loss, postpartum)13:35 – Men need friendship too (Tim to the guys)15:00 – Build it #1: Talk like friends (curious, real questions)18:22 – Build it #2: Play like friends (low-pressure, laughter = safety)19:59 – Build it #3: Observe like friends (groups, stress, consistency)21:50 – Date long enough to see (environments vs. fancy dinners)24:46 – Spiritual discernment: do they obey God when no one's watching?27:53 – Already skipped friendship? How to slow down & reorient30:45 – New rhythms, new boundaries, new experiences32:12 – If you don't do this: performance, feeling unsafe, regret33:55 – If you do: you'll enjoy each other, be real, and still feel close36:06 – Romance = cherry on top; friendship = meat & potatoes37:05 – The house analogy: curb appeal vs. inspection (foundation)38:25 – Trust God + invite community into your process38:54 – Final encouragement & share/subscribe CTARelated episode: Don't Say Yes Until You Ask These Questions (how to ask stage-by-stage questions)

    Stop Overlooking These Qualities in Dating (It's Why You're Still Single)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2025 37:59


    Stop letting surface-level assumptions blind you to lasting love.In this episode of The W Podcast, Tim & Pauline unpack the 7 green flags you're ignoring in dating as a Christian. These are the overlooked qualities that don't always feel “exciting” at first—like friendship, loyalty, or peace—but actually hold marriages together for the long run.If you've ever said things like:“We're just too good of friends.”“They're okay, but just not my type.”“Their page is boring.”“They're a dry texter.”“The chemistry wasn't there.”…then this video will challenge how you see attraction, help you date with clarity, and remind you what really matters for a godly relationship.What You'll Learn in This Episode:The difference between sparks vs. substance in Christian dating- Why “your type” might be keeping you single longer than necessary- How emotional safety and peace are overlooked signs of attraction- Why social media doesn't define someone's real life or walk with God- How God's standards of love often look different from cultural dating standardsWhy This Matters for Christian Singles:Dating advice often focuses on red flags. But the truth is, many Christian singles are overlooking people who would make great husbands or wives—because the world has discipled us to chase sparks, chemistry, and surface-level attraction.God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7). When you learn to spot green flags, you'll move from shallow connections to Christ-centered relationships that actually last.

    We Took a Road Trip to a Wedding…And Learned THIS About Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2025 15:21


    We took a road trip to Chicago for our friend's wedding

    10 Hard Truths About Christian Dating We'd Tell You If We Weren't Afraid To Offend You

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2025 37:12


    Some of you want a godly relationship more than you want to be godly. This is the 10% your friends won't say out loud. In today's episode, we share 10 hard truths about Christian dating—the stuff that actually breaks cycles: real boundaries, real wisdom, real community, and real holiness. If you're tired of vague “vibes” and churchy clichés, this will give you clarity and a plan.What you'll learn:- How to stop mistaking disobedience for discernment- Why church attendance ≠ character (look for fruit, not a vibe)- Emotional purity vs. attention-seeking (“flirting for validation”)- How to set godly dating boundaries that protect your future marriage- The difference between habits and fruit (results you can see)- Why holiness might cost you dates—but can save you from divorce- How to prepare in singleness so you don't repeat cycles in marriageIf this convicts you, good. Conviction is a gift, not a punishment. Let's get free and build love God's way.

    Don't Date Anyone Until You Ask THESE Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 2, 2025 31:37


    Are you in the talking stage and wondering what questions you should ask (and when to ask them)?

    BEFORE You Get Engaged Ask These 9 Non-Negotiable Questions

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2025 48:09


    Are you ready to say yes to forever—or are you stepping into engagement without clarity?

    7 Things Godly People REFUSE to Do While Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2025 20:58


    There are some things that look spiritual on the surface—but they're actually sabotaging your dating life.

    What No One Tells Christian Singles Who Are Still Waiting (you're not crazy)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2025 32:07


    Dating as a Christian can be confusing, exhausting, and honestly—lonely.You're doing it God's way, trying to stay pure, and trusting His timing… but deep down, you've got real fears, unspoken prayers, and questions that won't go away.In this episode, we're getting real about the silent battles and loud fears so many Christian singles face—but rarely say out loud.And we'll share what we believe Jesus might lovingly say back to your honest thoughts.You'll hear:• What to do when you feel unseen, lonely, or behind• How to date with vision and not just vibes• Why purity and obedience still matter (even when no one else seems to care)• What happens when you're not honest with God, yourself, or your community• What singleness can look like when it's on purpose and with purposeWhether you're dating, healing, or just trying to hold onto hope—this one's for you.You are not alone, and your season is not being wasted.

    The 6 People You NEED Before Saying ‘YES' to a Relationship or ‘I DO'

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2025 26:41


    We all need people to help us.

    How to Break Up With Someone the Right Way (Without Ghosting or Using ‘God Told Me')

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2025 26:54


    You know the relationship isn't right.You've prayed, processed, maybe even postponed the conversation…But now it's time to say it out loud—and you want to do it the right way.This episode will walk you step-by-step through how to break up at every stage of Christian dating—with clarity, maturity, and integrity. Whether you've only been texting or you're weeks away from the wedding, this is your guide to ending it without guilt, ghosting, or games.God cares about how you exit just as much as how you enter.And if He's leading you to let go, He'll give you the words to do it with courage and care.

    Don't Marry Them Until You've Been Through These 6 Dating Stages

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2025 28:10


    Most Christian couples don't fall apart because they don't love God.They fall apart because they didn't have a process.In this episode, we're walking you through the 6 core stages of dating that almost every godly relationship passes through—from the first spark to the final stretch before marriage—and how to move through each one with clarity, wisdom, and purpose.Whether you're just catching feelings or talking about rings, this conversation will help you:✅ Recognize what season you're in✅ Avoid common mistakes that cost people peace✅ Adopt mindsets that protect your heart and honor God✅ And discern what God might be showing you—before things go too farWe also share our personal stories, the lessons we learned the hard way, and why dating with vision can change everything for your future marriage and family.

    The Difference Between Someone You Love And Someone You Should Marry

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2025 20:22


    Just because you love someone doesn't mean you're supposed to marry them.In this episode, we break down the real difference between romantic feelings and godly love—and why strong chemistry isn't a good enough reason to say “yes” to forever.Whether you're currently dating, deeply in love, or trying to discern if this is your person, this conversation will help you stop settling, get clarity, and move forward with confidence.

    Every Item You Actually Need to Date God's Way (From Talking Stage to Marriage)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2025 16:29


    Dating as a Christian? Whether you're single, dating, engaged, or married—these are the things you ACTUALLY need to honor God in every stage of your relationship.✅ We're breaking down:- What to grab during the talking stage- Must-haves for dating with purpose- Essentials for the serious/engaged season- Game-changers for married couples

    Does He Really Love You Or Does He Just Like Your Presence?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2025 27:20


    You're always there for him. He says all the right things. But something still feels... off. In this episode, we're helping you discern whether the person you're dating truly loves you—or if they just like having access to you.We break down signs of convenient relationships, what real biblical love actually looks like, and how to avoid wasting time with someone who only loves your presence—not your soul.This one's real, raw, and freeing.

    EP 192: You're Going To Transform Your Dating Life As A Christian, Here's How

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2025 36:58


    You know what wedding day love looks like…But what about the love you need while you're dating?In this episode, we walk through 1 Corinthians 13—not just as poetry—but as a practical blueprint for how godly love should look and feel before marriage.If you're tired of guessing whether your relationship is biblical, healthy, or just emotionally chaotic—this is your guide to stop settling and start seeing clearly.We're talking:-What “patient” love really looks like in dating-Why kindness matters more than chemistry-How to spot love that builds vs. love that drainsThis episode is for singles and dating couples who are done with confusion and ready for real love, God's way.CHAPTERS0:00 – Intro: Why 1 Corinthians 13 isn't just for weddings 1:30 – What makes love godly in dating? 4:00 – “Love is patient” in real life 6:00 – “Love is kind” even during conflict 8:00 – Love that doesn't envy or compete 10:00 – Selfless, honoring, humble love 12:00 – Love that forgives without keeping score 15:00 – Real love protects, trusts, and perseveres 17:00 – How to apply this in your current relationship 21:00 – Are you dating with God's definition of love—or the world's? 24:00 – Encouragement & prayer for real love 29:00 – Outro + next episode preview

    Update! The W Podcast Will Return on June 24!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2025 0:52


    Hey Fam!We're taking a short break from new podcast episodes, but don't worry — we'll be back at the end of June to continue our Real Love series strong!This pause is all about being intentional - taking time to rest, recharge, and come back with even more wisdom, truth, and fun for y'all.In the meantime, it's the perfect time to catch up on any episodes you've missed! There's so much gold in our past convos - whether you're dating, healing, or waiting on God, we've got something for you.Thanks for rocking with us every Tuesday. We love y'all and can't wait to be back in your ears and on your screens real soon

    EP 191: Lust or Love? You Can Pray Together & Still Be Dating 4 The Wrong Reasons - Keys 2 Real Love

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 57:54


    You're attracted to each other… but can you trust them with your soul?In this episode of our Real Love series, we're breaking down the difference between lust, love, and lies in Christian dating. Whether you're confused about your feelings or wondering if the relationship is really from God, we're giving you biblical wisdom and honest signs to help you discern what's real.We've been in relationships that felt right but left us empty—and we've learned that love without God at the center always leads to confusion. Let's talk about the difference between emotional highs and spiritual health, chemistry and covenant, feelings and fruit.

    EP 190: 5 Questions To Ask Your Man If He Hasn't Proposed Yet

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2025 55:54


    How long is too long to wait for a proposal?In today's episode, we're answering a powerful question from a listener who's been dating her boyfriend for 4 years—but still no ring.We're diving into:- Why some men delay commitment (and what's really behind it)- How to spot signs of deflection and avoidance- 5 soft, but direct questions to ask your man- What the Bible says about hope deferredAnd how to protect your future when you're tired of waitingIf you've been dating with no clear timeline, this episode is your wake-up call to stop settling for uncertainty.

    EP 189: You're Not A Bad Christian For Considering Living Together— But Here's What You Need To Know

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2025 57:32


    In today's episode, we're diving deep into a question a lot of Christian dating couples are asking in 2025:“Is living together before marriage a sin?”If you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are thinking about moving in together to save money or get closer, this episode is for you. We're not here to shame — we're here to bring wisdom, truth, and real talk about what it means to honor God in a world of modern dating.We'll unpack:What the Bible says (and doesn't say) about cohabitationWhy so many couples believe it makes sense financiallyThe difference between cultural logic and God's bestHow to reset your relationship if you're already living togetherIf you want biblical wisdom in your relationship, hit play. Whether you're struggling, curious, or just want clarity — this one's for you.

    EP 188: If You're Losing At Love But Committed To Do It God's Way, You're Actually Winning

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2025 48:02


    Are you a Christian who's tired of dating the right way and still ending up single?

    EP 187: Is The Relationship From God Or Are You Only Being Led By Your Feelings

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 50:28


    || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ @wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | / wearejustdating TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 186: How You Can Honor God By Dating The Right Type Of Person

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2025 28:16


    We all think about being equally yoked when it comes to faith but what about “smaller” things like how much you serve, or if they go to church, or who their favorite online pastor is. All of those things add up to make a big impact in marriage so it is best to choose wisely in the dating stage| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | / wearejustdating TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 185: Love & Tariffs | Money, Marriage, & Dating During Uncertain Financial Times

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 25:56


    Uncertain financial times can cause fear in anyone's heart but as Christian's we have to be mindful not to base our decision on our fears but God's love and truth.We know there were people who started this year with plans to ask someone on a date, or propose to their girlfriend, or maybe you are already engaged and now you are thinking about pushing back the date of your weddingBefore you decide NOT to do one of those things strictly because of money and what is happening to the economy we want to challenge some of you and encourage others to lean into God during this time and make sure whatever decision you're making due to finances is Holy Sprit led.| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | / wearejustdating TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 184: Don't date someone “saved”: date someone like this instead…

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 56:53


    || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 183: How To Take Fun Vacations But Keep It Holy As A Dating Christian Couple

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 28:33


    In this video, we explore the concept of vacationing with your significant other while honoring Jesus. From planning the perfect getaway to maintaining boundaries in your relationship, we discuss the key aspects of Christian dating and how to make your vacation experience meaningful and God-centered. Whether you're heading on a trip with your boyfriend or girlfriend, we'll show you how to avoid the temptation of "baecations" and instead, create lasting memories together with a focus on faith and connection.|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 182: Six Emotional MOODS You Need To See Someone In Before You MARRY Them!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 37:25


    Dating as a Christian can feel overwhelming at by Ned because you want to make a good choice that honors God.We want to help you simplify what you are looking for and that is why we are giving you 6 MOODS you need to see someone in to feel good about marrying them.|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 181: Does God Choose Your Spouse?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 27:35


    How much say do you have in who you marry? Is God going to tell you who to marry or do you have any choice in it? It is a complicated question but regardless of where you land on an answer we want you to remember that throughout the whole dating process you should be praying and asking the Lord to lead you to His will.|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 180: Dating Without Drama | 10 Signs You're Doing Well As A Dating Christian

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 34:36


    Dating can be such a fun time but it can also be filled with drama if we don't have healthy behaviors. We know that success in dating is not defined only as physical purity. There are so many other things that make a dating relationship successful and we hope this video encourages you that you and your partner are doing better than you think you are!|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 179: Waiting Makes You Better | 10 Signs You're Doing Well As A Single Christian

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2025 21:54


    Being single can be amazing! But sometimes the older we get the more we can feel like we are doing something wrong. Being single can even make some people feel “less than”. We know that success is not defined by a persons marital status but truly comes from the Lord and pursuing Him. So we hope this video encourages you that you are doing better than you think you are!|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 178: Avoid Emotional Divorces | Guard Your Heart While Dating & Guard Your Hope While Single

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 37:33


    What does it mean to truly guard your heart in dating? We can get so focused on protecting our purity that we drop our guards to low in every other area, spiritually, & emotionally. We get practical in this video to show you some keys to avoid giving to much of yourself away to people who have not earned that right yet.We also share some encouragement to our single friends who aren't dating to help them when the challenges of the single life is weighing them down. || LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice/ wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience.

    EP 177: Seven Habits To Start Your Marriage Strong!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 39:18


    In this video, we explore the habits and practical tips you need to cultivate a healthy marriage that honors God and keeps the connection strong. There's no need to fear being a newlywed! The first year of marriage can be an amazing time if you follow these tips!JOIN thousands of women for the Called To Women Masterclass. FREE ONLINE EVENT Monday 2/17/25. Get Tickets At The Link Below!https://calledwomen.com/masterclass/?fpr=tim29|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating/|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | / wearejustdating TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 176: The Best Habits Of A Christian Dating Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 46:10


    Are you a Christian single between looking for relationship advice on how to build a strong, intentional, and Christ-centered bond with your boyfriend or girlfriend? In this video, we dive deep into the habits and practical tips you need to cultivate a healthy relationship that honors God and keeps the connection strong, even if you're navigating long-distance or meeting each other's families for the first time.CHAPTERS0:00 Coming up0:55 Episode Inspiration & Background5:30 Longevity & Consistency6:30 The Power of Your Voice11:30 Sustainable Date Nights18:15 Daily Rhythms of Laughter22:03 Manage The Mentors You Have26:33 Get The Full History33:48 Friends Determine Direction36:55 Personalize Christ Personally 44:15 Closing Encouragement|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice / wearejustdating || M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subsc...|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | / wearejustdating TikTok| / wearejustdating Facebook | / wearejustdating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | • ADVERSITY Is Good In Dating! | DON'T ... How to have conflict and argue well | • How To Have Conflict & Argue well In ... — T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 175: What We'd Do As Singles If We Were To Date In 2025 As Christians (After Marriage For 6 YRS)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 39:26


    In an era where we pop balloons if someone says one wrong word or is wearing a bad outfit it is hard to find people looking to date who are choosing to go after it in a humble way. That's important to note because we believe humility is the key to find the person you want to be with for the rest of your life with and we explain that in this video.Available NOW! Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 174: Christian Married Couple Gets Honest: The Struggle Of Sex After Waiting & How We Got Better

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2025 53:39


    What happens when a Christian couple waits until marriage for sex? In this raw and real video, we share our personal journey through the challenges and joys of navigating intimacy, purity, and the sacredness of sex in a marriage. From overcoming unhealthy mindsets to learning the art of communication in the bedroom, we dive into the highs and lows of our wedding night and beyond.Join us as we talk about the struggles of selflessness, vulnerability, the freedom we found in embracing grace for each other, and how to find confidence in your marriage bed. We'll share the lessons we've learned through counseling, our adjustment period, and the power of having honest conversations about sex. Whether you're married or single, this video offers insights on how to enjoy sex, embrace the beauty of waiting until marriage, and look forward to a future full of love, passion, and mutual respect.Available NOW! Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 173: Truth About Sex In Christian Marriage: Oral Sex, Biblical Definition Of Undefiled Bed PART 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2025 58:38


    In this video, we explore the truth about sex in Christian marriage, focusing on the biblical perspective of the "undefiled marriage bed." We discuss the importance of intimacy, including oral sex, within a marriage, and how these practices align with God's design for a fulfilling and sacred relationship. Discover what the Bible truly says about sex in marriage and how to build a healthy, respectful, and passionate bond with your spouse based on biblical principles.Available NOW! Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!This video is about Christian dating, dating, christian relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, future spouse, finding the one, singleness, single in my 30s, single in my 20s, God-centered relationships, dating to marry, dating intentionally, mentorship, accountability, purity, faith based relationships

    EP 172: In 2025 Stop The Fake Christian Dating | Dating (Practically) In A Way That Honors God

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 46:57


    In this video, we discuss what is a Christian relationship really? Your relationship should not look like every other worldly relationship but for many Christian's their dating life does. While that may be happening subconsciously it's time to wake up and practically start learning how to build a relationship that truly honors God with our actions and not just our mouths. We discuss that and more on this weeks episode!Available NOW! Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 171: Married Men Share Thoughts On Submission, Bond W/ Your Partner Forever & More | Best Of 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 29:13


    OUR FIRST EVER "BEST OF VIDEOS"! This is part 2 of our best of 2024 video mini series. We are breaking down the top 4 most watched original videos from The W Podcast this year. This week we are focusing on our 1st and 2nd most watched videos this year. “Why Some Men Avoid Independent Women, Why You Must Heal From Your Past As A Man, & More!” AND “Practical Ways To Build A Lasting Connection W/ The Person You're Dating | Watch Before Marriage”Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 170: Avoiding Sex In Dating, Staying Away From "Trash" Men, & More | Best Of 2024

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2024 39:01


    OUR FIRST EVER "BEST OF VIDEOS"! This is part 1 of our best of 2024 video mini series. We are breaking down the top 4 most watched original videos from The W Podcast this year. This week we are focusing on our 3rd and 4th most watch videos this year. “What To Do When Your Tempted Unexpected Sexually I How to Stay Pure As A Christian Single Or Married” AND “How Do You Know If You Are Dating A "Good" Man?”Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 169: Practical Ways To Talk About Marriage Without Being Weird | How Long Is Too Long To Date?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2024 30:27


    In this video, we discuss how long is too long to date and if it is normal or ok to date someone for 4 years without any conversations about marriage. We discuss that and more on this weeks episode!Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 168: How To Respond To A Man Who Doesn't Make His Intentions Clear & Why Some Men Act That Way

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 35:00


    In this video, we answer a listeners question about stopping the cycle of lack of self respect and low self esteem when it comes to consistently talking to men who flirt with you but are never intentional with you. We also share the reason some men are like that. We discuss all that and more on this week's episode!Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA—T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 167: If You Don't See These 4 Things In their Character…Please Avoid Marrying Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 40:56


    In this video, we highlight 4 character traits, often overlooked, that you need to see your partner consistently practice before you decide to marry them. We discuss that and more on this weeks episode!Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I CMusic byMusician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok| https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdatingTwitter | @WeAreJustDating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOWhy adversity is good in dating! | https://youtu.be/ef-FgkqvvzkHow to have conflict and argue well | https://youtu.be/_MhwhqNYXCA— T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 166: Maximizing The Holidays As A Dating Couple & Staying Content When You're Single During This Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 30:19


    In this video, we share wisdom on how to handle and prepare this holiday season whether you are single or dating. We discuss all that and more on this week's episode!Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOOur Dating Story! | https://youtu.be/xMti9zJHU9o?si=kdP4foJVTyFO5q62What does it look like to be pursued by a godly man | https://youtu.be/dyRi6s_XJtA?si=mi5P2KU2S1e1zEh-T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 165: You Are Not Sinful Because You're Horny; What You Do With That Desire Is What Matters

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 27:46


    In this video, we share wisdom on how to set yourself up for your worst day, how to deal w/ temptation as a single man, and why loving God is not enough to keep you from sinning. We discuss all that and more on this week's episode! Follow  @godmademoe  for more from him. Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level! https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM: We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advice https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating || M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B E https://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J... New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe || F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDating Threads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdating *Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOO Our Dating Story! | https://youtu.be/xMti9zJHU9o?si=kdP4foJVTyFO5q62 What does it look like to be pursued by a godly man | https://youtu.be/dyRi6s_XJtA?si=mi5P2KU2S1e1zEh- T I M & P A U L I N E We are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 164: Benefits Of Long Distance Dating, Is A Wedding Mandatory As A Christian, & More!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 33:09


    In this video, we answer various questions from listeners covering everything from how to know if you are married biblically, how to know if he is a good man, and how to successfully date in a long distance relationship. We discuss all that and more on this week's episode!Follow ​⁠​⁠GodMadeMoe for more from him.Learn how to thrive in a long distance relationship!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources/p/8-steps-to-thrive-in-a-long-distance-relationshipCouple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOOur Dating Story! | https://youtu.be/xMti9zJHU9o?si=kdP4foJVTyFO5q62What does it look like to be pursued by a godly man | https://youtu.be/dyRi6s_XJtA?si=mi5P2KU2S1e1zEh-T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

    EP 163: UNDERRATED QUESTION: WOULD YOU WANT YOUR FUTURE KIDS TO BE LIKE YOUR PARTNER?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 22:46


    In this video, we share some questions to ask yourself when you start dating someone to determine if you should continue dating them. We also share signs you will see to let you know that you need to break up with them. We discuss all that and more on this week's episode!Follow @kingofsolomon on IG​⁠ for more from him.Couple Questions to take your date conversations to the NEXT level!https://www.wearejustdating.com/resources|| LET'S CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM:We post updates in real time of dating tips and relationship advicehttps://www.instagram.com/wearejustdating|| M U S I C Music by Musician: Jeff Kaele || S U B S C R I B Ehttps://youtube.com/channel/UCjb3LN4J...New Videos Every Tuesday!Email Updates: https://www.wearejustdating.com/subscribe|| F O L L O W Website | www.wearejustdating.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/wearejustdatingTikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejustdating Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/WeAreJustDatingThreads | https://www.threads.net/@wearejustdating*Disclaimer: Some links are affiliate. By clicking and or purchasing, We may receive monetary reward. It does not alter the price or change your buyer experience. || YOU'LL LOVE THESE VIDEOS TOOOur Dating Story! | https://youtu.be/xMti9zJHU9o?si=kdP4foJVTyFO5q62What does it look like to be pursued by a godly man | https://youtu.be/dyRi6s_XJtA?si=mi5P2KU2S1e1zEh-T I M & P A U L I N EWe are Tim & Pauline and we have been married since 2018. We have an education and coaching business where we teach single Christians how to choose partners that produce godly marriages through courses, coaching, and community. We've worked with people fresh out of college, to recently divorced, helping them get clarity and strategy that attracts their ideal partner. This channel walks you through the journey of being single, dating, and the early stages of marriage, by sharing information on how to attract, maintain, and grow in a godly relationship of your own!

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