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Most coaches spend their careers shaping athletes. Rustin Dodd and Elise Devlin spend theirs learning from them — and what they've found might change how you coach.Rustin and Elise write NY Times feature, The Peak for The Athletic, a section devoted to the mental side of elite sports. In this episode with JP Nerbun, they unpack what a year of "I Tried" journalism has taught them: Kobe's silence practice, Michael Phelps' freestyle journaling, Buzz Williams writing four to five letters a day, an Olympian who approaches every failure with childlike curiosity, and a reminder from David Ortiz about what it actually means to bounce back. The thread running through all of it: curiosity.For coaches who want to understand what's going on inside their athletes — and maybe inside themselves — before it becomes a problem.Chapters(00:00) Intro: JP on The Athletic's Peak(02:39) Ted Lasso's Real-Life Inspiration(07:41) Elise: D1 Swimmer to Peak Journalist(11:48) The Performance Info Gap(13:01) How The Peak Section Was Born(16:18) What The Peak Is Not(19:20) I Tried: Living Athletes' Habits(21:31) Silence, Emotions, and Journaling(23:13) How Athletes Find Their Rituals(25:41) Curiosity: The #1 Athlete Trait(26:41) Buzz Williams Letter-Writing(28:38) Gratitude and Failure With Curiosity(30:53) The Power of Saying Yes(35:59) The Pat Riley Conditioning Test(36:31) 17s Story: Hardship as ConfidenceTOC 3-2-13 Quotes | 2 Questions | 1 ResourceYour fast-track to the episode's most actionable ideas."That feeling of somebody saying yes to me is so powerful. And I oftentimes try to think about: how do I do a version of that? How do I say yes to people?"— Rustin Dodd"I thought about it and I was like — I guess I don't have silence."— Elise Devlin"I view all my failures with childlike curiosity."— Olympian Olivia Smoliga, cited by Elise Devlin2 Questions for Your TeamQ1: When something goes wrong in practice or a game, is your first instinct to fix it, blame it, or get curious about it? Which of those responses is actually coachable?Q2: What is one mental tool or daily habit your athletes don't know about — and when did you last share it with them?1 Resource to Go DeeperThe Peak by Rustin Dodd and Elise Devlin | The AthleticThe Athletic's section devoted to the mental side of elite sports. The "I Tried" series is essential reading for any coach curious about what elite performance looks like from the inside.Visit The Athletic hereKey TakeawaysThe Best Athletes Are Obsessively CuriousReflection Teaches More Than Experience AloneSilence Is a Performance ToolTreat Failure Like a ScientistGratitude Does Real WorkSay Yes More Than You Think You ShouldGet the notes and tools:tocculture.comJoin TOC Coach — community, courses, and live coaching:tocculture.comBetter Coaches. Better Leaders. Better Culture.
You know what you need to do, but something keeps stopping you from taking action. In this episode, I share two client stories that reminded me how powerful it is when women finally trust their own inner knowing. One client described her experience as moving from black and white to Technicolor. Another came to coaching believing she couldn't lose weight and wasn't sure she could change her drinking habits. What changed wasn't a diet plan. What changed was how they saw themselves. You'll hear about self-worth, awareness, and learning to ask "What do I want?" created immediate shifts for these women and why saying yes to yourself may be the first step toward creating the results you've wanted for years. Enjoy the show! Free Guide: Download the Jumpstart Your Weight Loss in Menopause Guide at drdebbutler.com/podcast-companion-guide Mini Session: Ready to master your mind? Book a free mini session at drdebbutler.com/workwithme Thinner Peace Quiz: Take the quiz at drdebbutler.com/quiz to identify your obstacles to eating when hungry and stopping when full Peace with Food 30-Day Course - Available at www.drdebbutler.com/joy Now, go listen to the podcast. Click here to listen to the 1st episode. It's the best place to start! If you've been loving my podcast, please subscribe and review the show. The only way it will pop up to others is when people review it, so if you're loving it – pass on the good word! What You'll Learn From This Episode Why knowing what you need and acting on it are two different things How one client described coaching as going from "black and white to Technicolor" Why self-worth often matters more than food plans and weight loss strategies The hidden reason many women keep overeating or overdrinking How learning to ask "What do I want?" changes everything
Every yes you give has a cost. And for people pleasers that cost is almost always paid from the same account — their own time, energy, peace, and sense of self. In today's episode, Celeste makes the hidden math of people pleasing visible — and helps you see that every yes you say to someone else is simultaneously a no to something inside yourself. Today's shift: Look at your last three yeses — and identify what you said no to yourself in order to say yes to them. Events Store Follow Celeste podcast page on tick tock , facebook and instagram Follow STWYT Wellness center on tick tock , facebook and instagram
There's a moment that happens every day that most people never really notice. Someone asks you something — a favor, a plan, a request — and before you've even checked in with yourself, you've already said yes. Not because it feels aligned. Not because you've chosen it. But because it's faster, easier, and keeps everything moving smoothly. And over time, these small moments start to add up in ways you don't immediately see. You can end up feeling tired, stretched, or slightly disconnected from yourself — without being able to point to one clear reason why. What's really happening isn't about overcommitment. It's about a pattern of not pausing long enough to include yourself in your own decisions. In this episode, we slow that moment down and bring awareness to what changes when you begin to stay with yourself before you respond. Cheers, Marie
In this episode of "The Mom Next Door: Stories of Faith," guest Rhonda Stoppe reflects on the lessons she's learned from studying the mothers of the Bible. She challenges the myth that a mother's success is determined by her children's choices, and shares practical insight on handling mom guilt, comparison, and prodigal children. Highlighting fearless, flawed, and faithful biblical moms—including Rahab, Esther, Rebecca, Naomi, and unnamed women—Rhonda encourages listeners to focus on daily faithfulness, embrace mentorship, and trust God's work beyond what they can see. Her stories and biblical wisdom offer hope that ordinary, imperfect mothers can make an extraordinary impact.
Choosing to live a life submitted to God's authority, aligning our will with His, gives us the ability to resist temptation. Saying "Yes" to Jesus, leads to a life of spiritual fulfillment and victory over our enemy. By Dave Bartlett
Cam and Christa Moore didn't have a launch team, a big budget, or a perfect plan. What they had was a clear call from God—and the courage to say yes.In this episode, they share their journey from the Bible Belt to Nanaimo, British Columbia—one of the most irreligious cities in Canada—and what it looks like to plant a church from scratch through simple faithfulness.From prayer walking neighborhoods to starting conversations with strangers and opening their home to anyone who walks through the door, the Moores are discovering that obedience isn't glamorous—but it's powerful.If you've ever wondered what it looks like to follow God into the unknown, this conversation will both challenge and inspire you.
In this episode of The Forgotten Podcast, Jami sits down with Candace Smouse, a TFI advocate from Spokane, Washington, who is a foster, adoptive, and birth mom to six kids. Fostering as a family for five years, Candace shares her journey of opening her home to children with special needs and navigating the unique joys and demands of raising her now-adopted son who has autism. She explores the common fears foster parents face when considering a special needs placement and offers insight on moving forward through the unknown with faith and expectation. Candace candidly details the realities of bringing her son home just before his fourth birthday as his fourth placement in a short span of time. She describes the initial challenges of caring for a child who was completely nonverbal, not potty trained, and struggling with behavior and severe dietary restrictions. Through her family's story, she highlights the exhausting early months, the complex dynamics and feelings of parental guilt that can surface with biological siblings, and the turning point of finding the right in-home therapeutic support. The conversation also breaks down the different levels of autism to help listeners better understand the wide spectrum of care children may require. Candace shares practical advice on how to become a "squeaky wheel" and fiercely advocate within the school system, utilizing resources like Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and special education accommodations. Ultimately, this episode provides deep encouragement for any caregiver feeling isolated or overwhelmed in the thick of special needs parenting. Candace points listeners toward a profound hope rooted in the Lord, reminding foster and adoptive families that they are never truly alone and that stepping into the hard places can expand a family's world with unexpected blessings, deeper empathy, and unconditional love. About the Guest Candace Smouse is a TFI advocate based in Spokane, Washington. She has been married for 18 years and is a mother to six children through birth, foster care, and adoption. With five years of active fostering experience, Candace is deeply passionate about serving the foster care community, supporting families, and sharing the lessons she has learned through years of dedicated care for her adopted son with autism. In This Episode An introduction to Candace's background and how a recurring dream prepped her heart to accept a special needs placement. The realities of navigating the foster care licensing system and handling the emotional weight of saying no to difficult placements. A look into the early days with her son Anthony, including the challenge of being his fourth placement in less than six months. Understanding the three levels of autism, ranging from high-functioning traits to intense, around-the-clock physical care needs. Navigating the hidden challenges of special needs parenting, such as public outbursts, sibling jealousy, and the pressure of public judgment. Learning to advocate in the school system by utilizing therapeutic partners, tracking data, and calling IEP meetings. How special needs parenting expands a family's perspective, fostering deep empathy, awareness, and immediate acceptance within biological children. A message of hope and perseverance for caregivers enduring seasons of parenting exhaustion and spiritual despair. Resources + Links Learn more about The Forgotten Initiative - https://theforgotteninitiative.org/ Follow TFI on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theforgotteninitiative/ Full Spectrum Parent by Christian Parenting (podcast) - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/full-spectrum-parent-christian-autism-support-special/id1589016732 The Warner Boys by Ana and Curt Warner (book) - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40552513-the-warner-boys Ten Things Every Child With Autism Wishes You Knew by Ellen Notbohm (book) - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/163659.Ten_Things_Every_Child_with_Autism_Wishes_You_Knew
Some shop owners are born into machining. Others stumble into it through YouTube, side jobs, and a little bit of "sure, I think we can fit that D11 dozer cylinder on the mill." Leighton Hill's story has a little bit of all of it. In this episode of MakingChips, we continue our Gen CNC series with Leighton Hill of Hillco, a young shop owner from the Kansas City area who grew up around manual machines, learned CNC through hands-on experimentation, and is now building a real business from nights, weekends, Facebook groups, local relationships, and whatever work comes through the door. Leighton shares how his dad's hobby shop sparked his interest in machining, why he originally had no interest in CNC, and how a used Hurco mill changed the direction of his life. From a cramped two-car garage to a 40x60 shop, he's been slowly turning a family passion into a serious business opportunity. We dig into the realities of starting small: pricing jobs without overcomplicating it, finding work through word of mouth, learning from YouTube, quoting overflow work, considering job boards, and deciding when it makes sense to invest in new equipment. Leighton also talks about his goal of going full-time, possibly moving into a larger shared shop, and eventually building a small team around production and aerospace work. Because if you're not learning, quoting, building relationships, and making chips, you're not making money. Segments (0:00) How a Facebook machinist group unexpectedly led to a real customer (0:35) Introducing Leighton Hill of Hillco and the Gen CNC series (2:16) Leighton's journey from manual machining to learning CNC (7:02) Starting Hillco as a side business and building momentum (8:55) Expanding into job shop work and growing into a 40x60 shop (10:20) Why we love the quality of SMW Autoblok's workholding (11:06) Hillco's current machine lineup and capabilities (13:10) Learning machining through YouTube, mentors, and hands-on experience (16:40) Finding early work through word of mouth, neighbors, and Facebook groups (18:19) Considering job boards and overflow work as a learning opportunity (21:13) How Leighton approaches pricing, quoting, and simple job estimating (23:46) Exploring AI-assisted quoting and CAM tools like Toolpath (29:02) Why we created Hire MFG Leaders (and why you should use it) (30:34) Starting the LLC with low overhead and support from family (32:12) Thinking through ROI before investing in a CNC lathe (33:26) Leighton's goal to take Hillco full-time within the next year (36:35) Taking on any work early, then learning what to specialize in (37:27) Why walk-in repair work can lead to long-term production customers (41:54) Get a free report of sales opportunities in your area from FacturMFG.com/chips (43:00) Advice for young machinists who want to get started (44:55) Leighton's five-to-ten-year vision for Hillco (47:19) Building credibility with a website, Google profile, and customer reviews Resources mentioned on this episode Why we love the quality of SMW Autoblok's workholding Why we created Hire MFG Leaders (and why you should use it) Get a free report of sales opportunities in your area from FacturMFG.com/chips TITANS of CNC Toolpath CloudNC Connect With MakingChips www.MakingChips.com On Facebook On LinkedIn On Instagram On Twitter On YouTube
A conversation with keynote speaker, leadership trainer, and singer-songwriter, Rachel Druckenmiller. Essential listening for anyone ready to stop holding the best parts of themselves back. Some people find their way to a courageous pivot through careful planning. Others get there because life makes the decision for them. And then there's the kind of wisdom that only comes from having done both, and arriving somewhere you never could have mapped. Rachel Druckenmiller is the kind of guest who says things you'll be repeating to yourself for weeks. About what it means to say yes before you feel ready. About the difference between a life that looks successful and one that actually feels alive. About speaking your desires out loud, even the ones that seem too big, too unlikely, too far away. About how the things that fall apart are often quietly clearing the path to what's next. There is a particular kind of courage in letting yourself be seen doing the thing you love most. Rachel has had to find that courage more than once, in more than one arena. What she's discovered on the other side is nothing short of a blueprint for coming home to yourself. Links + Resources Full show notes Shop: 30% off Rise + Shine: Guided Path to Heart-Led Living and Leadership
In Psalm 139, David celebrates a God who knows us completely and surrounds us with His presence. Join us as Helene Rosenberg explores what it means to trust the One who goes before us and behind us, and how saying yes to the Holy Spirit opens our hearts to His guidance, comfort, and direction.Watch “Saying Yes” on The Restoration App, Facebook, & YouTube or here: https://tinyurl.com/mv46p9dr#thehappyrabbi #restorationseattle #JewishinSeattle
As we celebrate 12 years of Adventure Rider Radio motorcycle podcast, we're bringing back a story that still resonates today. Drawn together by motorcycles and a shared curiosity about the world, Maryna Matthew and Paul Knibbs left behind the security of established careers to pursue a life of adventure. Their journey is a powerful reminder that some of life's greatest opportunities begin with a single decision: to stop waiting and simply say yes.Links & ResourcesPhotos, links, and resources for this episodeMore episodes: Adventure Rider Radio and RAWSupport the show: Support ARRFollow Adventure Rider RadioInstagramFacebookAbout the PodcastSince 2014, Adventure Rider Radio has shared adventure motorcycle travel stories, Rider Skills, Deep Trouble episodes, tech and gear features, and conversations with riders from around the world. New episodes of ARR are released every Thursday, with new episodes of RAW released monthly on the 21st. ★ Support this podcast on Patreon ★
Questions? Comments? Episode suggestions? Send us a text message!#226: Jillian Reilly is a founder, author and keynote speaker. She explains why so many of us live without intentionality, how to reclaim the power to make your own choices, and what it really means to give yourself permission to live differently.What you'll learn[02:19] Why permission and choice are not the same thing.[03:47] Why we limit our own sense of what's possible.[06:01] Why we give away our power to make decisions.[09:28] How external influences shape the choices we make.[12:08] The power of giving yourself the permission to say no. [14:54] How the work contract has shifted in the twenty-first century.[19:35] Why the pressure to be constantly productive is doing us harm. [22:40] How people fall into unhealthy work patterns. [25:02] Why your job shouldn't define who you are.[29:30] Why sometimes the right choice is to not make change. [33:22] The power of intentional self-activated choices. [37:43] Why everyone should be intentional and wilful in their actions. [41:18] Why focusing on the present is so challenging. [44:05] How to balance planning for the future with accepting uncertainty.Resources mentioned in this episodePlease note that some of these are affiliate links and we may get a commission in the event that you make a purchase. This helps us to cover our expenses and is at no additional cost to you.The Ten Permissions, Jillian ReillyThe Big Leap, Gay HendricksFor the show notes for this episode, including a full transcript and links to all the resources mentioned, visit:https://changeworklife.com/saying-yes-and-saying-no-the-power-of-permission/Re-assessing your career? Know you need a change but don't really know where to start? Check out these two exercises to start the journey of working out what career is right for you!
This week on Sol Meets Heart, Hugs reconnects with his former Philadelphia neighbor JG (Justin Geller) — sound designer, light architect, music producer, and one of those rare people who just makes the world feel more alive. JG's career is built on saying yes before he knows how, learning fast, and translating the invisible into something you can walk through and feel. They cover his journey from electronic music obsession to designing immersive installations for places like Longwood Gardens and the Philadelphia Museum of Art, what it means to be creatively fulfilled by helping others realize their visions, and the 15-minute habit that reignited his own music after five years of silence. JG also previews his first new Remote Places track in nearly seven years. If you've ever wondered how to plant small seeds that grow into the life you actually want — this one's for you.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/sol-meets-heart--3691166/support.
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Send us Fan MailMost of us think we're asking for what we need. We're not. We're hinting, complaining, dropping signals, getting quiet, hoping our partner figures it out. And when they don't, we add another tally to the list of reasons we feel alone in our own relationship.This episode started with a question Brooke saw go viral on TikTok: are you an asker or an assumer? Staci, Tom, and Brooke do a gut check around the table, then unpack why so many of us stopped asking, what it's quietly costing us, and the three sentences that make asking feel possible again.If you've ever swallowed a need because asking for it felt like too much, this one's for you.In This EpisodeWhy anticipating someone's needs sometimes backfires (and creates more anxiety than help).The fear underneath assuming: too much, too needy, too selfish, too weak.How you stop knowing yourself when you stop voicing what you need.The power of saying no and why honest no's protect honest yes's.How complaining, blaming, and hinting feel like asking from the inside but never land that way.Staci's three-sentence framework for asking without the dread.Take the Better Love QuizWondering where your own relationship actually stands right now? The Better Love Quiz is a free, few-minute assessment that walks you through the real skills that keep love steady: knowing yourself, staying grounded when triggered, holding boundaries, communicating clearly, and repairing after conflict. When you finish, it shows you where you're already strong, where the strain is coming from, and what kind of support would help you most.Take the quiz: betterlovequiz.comTimestamps:02:47 Hinting Isn't Asking03:18 The Trap of Anticipating08:15 Emotional Safety Basics09:32 Recovering Assumers11:33 Teach Me How to Love You14:40 Saying Yes, Meaning No15:28 TikTok and the Lost Village19:00 Neighbor Saints and Community23:41 Fear Behind Assuming26:17 Fear Of Needing26:57 Losing Your Voice28:48 Talking To Understand30:09 Optimizing Joy Away32:34 Performance Trap35:06 Complaints And Guilt36:00 Power Of No39:15 Rebuilding The Village40:34 Simple Asking Script43:10 Specificity Builds Love45:10 Practice And Play48:21 Quiz And Farewell
Trending with Timmerie - Catholic Principals applied to today's experiences.
Harvard educated economist and mother of 8, Dr. Catherine Pakaluk joins Trending with Timmerie: Episode Guide Birth dearth — Why did women stop having babies and how do economic policies perpetuate the decreased birth rate? (2:55) What is different about the 5% of women who are choosing to have more children? (22:06) Having it all? Seasons of life (32:49) The Blood of Christ (40:44) The Holy Spirit & Pope Leo’s AI encyclical (41:54) Resources mentioned: Hannah's Children: The Women Quietly Defying the Birth Dearth https://www.amazon.com/Hannahs-Children-Quietly-Defying-Dearth/dp/1684514576 https://pakaluk.com/ Catechism: The Name, Titles, and Symbols of the Holy Spirit https://www.vatican.va/content/catechism/en/part_one/section_two/chapter_three/article_8/ii_the_name,_titles,_and_symbols_of_the_holy_spirit.html
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Do you ever feel like your life is too full, too noisy, or stretched in too many directions?In this episode of Faith Fueled Living, Kristin talks about the power of pruning your commitments and why so many women feel overwhelmed, scattered, and spiritually disconnected.We explore what it looks like to do a honest “life audit” and ask a simple but powerful question: is this actually aligned with what God is asking of me, or have I just slowly added more and more without stopping to evaluate it?This conversation is about more than time management. It's about clarity, obedience, and making space for what actually matters.Kristin shares why cluttered schedules often lead to cluttered minds and disconnected hearts, and how intentionally releasing unnecessary commitments can bring more peace, focus, and alignment with God's direction for your life.If you've been feeling stretched thin, constantly busy, or unsure what to say no to, this episode will help you step back, breathe, and re-center your life around what truly matters.TakeawaysWhy feeling overwhelmed often comes from overcommitting, not lack of timeHow to recognize when your schedule no longer reflects your prioritiesThe difference between good opportunities and God-aligned assignmentsWhy regular life audits bring clarity and peaceHow saying yes to too much can dilute your purpose and energyWhat it looks like to “prune” your commitments intentionallyWhy mental clutter often mirrors schedule clutterHow to start simplifying without guilt or fear of missing outQuestions to ask before committing to anything newHow creating space can help you hear God more clearlyGet the Create a Life You Love Journaling Wokrbook to start being more intentional with your life and schedule here.Grab the Rewire Your Mind: From Negativity to Joy- download here.Grab the Joy Rising- Daily Gratitude & Joy Journal here.Download My Free Joyful Living Devotional: https://kristinfitch.com/devotionalReady to take your first step towards a more joyful, faith-filled life? Download our Reignite Your Passion Workbook and start living with purpose today!Christian podcast for women, overcommitted and overwhelmed, simplifying life, intentional living for Christians, pruning commitments, faith based time management, Christian life audit, decluttering your schedule, finding balance in life, spiritual clarity, hearing God more clearly, saying no as a Christian, boundaries and faith, emotional and mental clutter, purpose driven life, Christian women burnout, simplifying your life with God, aligning with God's will, Christian productivity, spiritual growth habits, life organization for women, peace and clarity, living intentionally with God, faith fueled living, Christian mindset shift
Have you ever felt like there's more for your life, but you're afraid to take the first step? In this episode, I'm joined by entrepreneur and business mentor Cristal Jacobo for a powerful conversation about burnout, motherhood, confidence, and building a business that actually fits the season of life you're in. We talk about what it looks like to pivot your business without guilt, create aligned offers, and stop waiting until you feel fully "ready." Cristal shares her journey from school teacher to building a global women's community and the mindset shifts that helped her grow without losing herself in the process. If you're an ambitious mompreneur trying to balance business growth, family life, and personal fulfillment, this episode will encourage you to trust the "more" that's been calling you all along. Connect with Cristal Website: https://www.cristaljacobo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cristal.jacobo/
What happens when the life you built no longer feels like your life? In this deeply honest conversation, Agnes talks with Kim Peek about divorce after 30 years of marriage, empty nest loneliness, toxic relationships, breast cancer survival, and the surprising power of small “yes” decisions that slowly rebuild a life. This episode of The Boomer Woman's Podcast explores health, reinvention, and personal growth for women navigating life after 60. Why “plot twists” can become turning points The emotional reality of an empty nest after decades of motherhood What Kim learned from a toxic post-divorce relationship The idea of “micro yeses” and reclaiming small moments for yourself The Six Ps of the YES Life Why movement, community, and curiosity matter more as we age Sometimes the next chapter doesn't begin with a grand reinvention — sometimes it begins with one small yes. Learn more about Kim Peek and find all her links at The Boomer Woman's Podcast: Kim Peek
This week on the pod I'm talking about the financial and emotional cost of constantly saying yes during the chaos of event season. May can feel like a nonstop cycle of graduations, weddings, school events, birthday parties, fundraisers, travel, gifts, and social obligations — and while these moments are often joyful, they can also leave us feeling financially stretched, emotionally overwhelmed, and quietly resentful. In this episode, I talk about: The hidden emotional and financial pressure of “event season” The difference between joyful spending and resentment spending Why so many women struggle with boundaries around money, time, and obligations How people-pleasing and guilt influence our spending decisions The connection between overcommitting and nervous system burnout Why saying no doesn't make you selfish or uncaring Learning to honor your financial, emotional, and energetic capacity without guilt If you've ever felt overwhelmed by invitations, pressured to participate in everything, or resentful after spending money you didn't really want to spend — you are not alone! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you loved this episode, please take a moment to follow, rate, or review Money Isn't Scary — it helps more women find these much-needed conversations. You can also find me here:
Send Katie a Text Message!! What if the project draining your energy, your time, your profit, and your team was never actually the problem? What if the bigger issue is that you said yes to it in the first place?In this episode of Success by Design, I'm talking about the subtle “wrong projects” interior designers take on all the time — the ones that seem fine at first. The budget looks decent, the client seems nice enough, and the space has potential. But somewhere along the way, the project starts pulling your business in a direction you never intended.I'm unpacking why these projects create so much stress, how they quietly weaken your boundaries and positioning, and why saying yes to the wrong fit can completely reshape your business over time. We're also talking about the hidden costs designers don't always recognize — from scope creep and emotional labor to team confusion, burnout, and opportunity cost.Inside this episode, I'm sharing:Why wrong projects are usually a positioning problem, not just a client problemThe hidden cost of saying yes to misaligned workHow weak filters lead to exhausting projectsThe difference between high-touch service and unlimited accessWhy pricing, boundaries, and process all act as client filtersThe 7-question framework I use to evaluate whether a project is truly the right fitHow to stop building a business around fear-based yesesIf you've ever found yourself stuck in a project that looked good on paper but felt heavy in real life, this episode is going to hit home. Because the goal is not just to stay booked and busy. The goal is to build a design business that actually supports your life, your leadership, and your long-term vision.Connect with KatieLinkedInBusiness Strategy Sessions for Interior Designers Free Resources for scaling your interior design firmWebsite
In this episode, we dive into the story of Mary and unpack what it really looked like for her to say a wholehearted “yes” to God. We talk about how Mary responded with trust instead of fear when the angel Gabriel told her she would carry Jesus, and how her curiosity and surrender opened the door for God to move in miraculous ways. From the stable in Bethlehem to the foot of the cross, Mary's life reminds us what it means to faithfully follow Jesus through the beautiful, confusing, ordinary, and heartbreaking moments. We also get super honest about the tension of trusting God when life feels unclear. From navigating relationships and fear to letting go of control and choosing faith over anxiety, we reflect on how Mary continually brought her heart to God instead of running from Him. If you're in a season where you're asking God for clarity, courage, or deeper trust, we hope this conversation leaves you feeling encouraged to lean in closer and say yes to wherever He's leading you. In This Episode [01:46] Mary's Calling + The Angel Gabriel Appears [03:00] “Let It Be To Me” [04:00] Mary Through the Life of Jesus [05:45] Asking God Questions Instead of Running Away [08:30] A Personal Story About Trusting God in Dating [11:45] Mary's Fearlessness + Trusting God Daily [13:30] Treasuring Things in Her Heart [15:00] “Do Whatever He Says” [16:15] Wholehearted Faithfulness to Jesus [18:00] Surrendering Every Part of Your Life to God [20:00] Living Fully Available to God ORDER OUR NEW STUDY! This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Delight Ministries Looking for a Delight Chapter near you? Check out Delightministries.com to find one. If there's not one near you, and you want to help start one, let us know! We would love to talk. Get on the list for updates on Kenz's new venture Plenty Nutrition! Thanks to Our Sponsors Winshape: Learn more or submit your application today! If you'd like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our Advertise With Us form! Follow us!
This episode is brought to you by WHOOP, Timeline and Audible. Poet, speaker, and transformational coach Adam Roa breaks down the modern crisis of masculinity, emotional safety, conscious relationships, and the hidden ways people abandon themselves in pursuit of comfort, validation, and love. This conversation explores why so many men feel lost, angry, disconnected, and emotionally shut down, how unresolved wounds show up in relationships, and why healing doesn't happen in isolation — it happens through safe connection. Adam shares powerful insights on balancing masculine and feminine energy, the difference between fireworks and mature love, why creativity is a wellness practice, and how saying "yes" to small intuitive nudges ultimately transformed his life and career. From conscious communication to emotional resilience, purpose, relationships, creativity, and modern masculinity, this episode is a deep exploration into what it actually means to become fully embodied and move Ever Forward. Follow Adam @adam.roa Follow Chase @chase_chewning ----- 00:00 – Why So Many Men Feel Lost, Angry & Emotionally Shut Down 01:36 – Adam Roa on Self-Love, Triggers & Conscious Relationships 04:20 – What a Truly Conscious Relationship Actually Looks Like 06:00 – Why You Don't Need to Be "Fully Healed" Before Love 09:10 – Emotional Safety & Learning to Communicate Honestly 13:05 – Masculinity, Modern Dating & Mixed Signals for Men 16:03 – Why Relationships Can't Make You Happy 18:21 – The Dangerous Fantasy of "Movie Love" 23:45 – The Hidden Expectations We Bring Into Relationships 24:25 – Personal Development & Rewriting Your Internal Stories 27:06 – Why Creativity Is a Wellness Practice 28:18 – Adam's Journey from Suppression to Spoken Word Poetry 32:06 – The Viral Poem That Changed Adam Roa's Life 33:23 – The Power of Saying "Yes" to Your Calling 34:03 – Why People Abandon Themselves Instead of Taking the Next Step 38:30 – Growth, Discomfort & Emotional Resilience 40:19 – The Biggest Lie Men Have Been Told About Strength 43:43 – Emotional Safety in Relationships & Masculine Leadership 47:24 – Communication Frameworks That Actually Work 50:10 – Masculinity Retreats, Men's Work & Emotional Capacity 52:03 – Why Warriors Historically Had to Be Poets 54:04 – The Yin & Yang of Masculinity and Emotional Balance 57:01 – King, Warrior, Magician, Lover & Male Archetypes 01:00:10 – Adam on Identity Shifts, Creativity & Reinvention 01:05:30 – Rapid Fire: Truth, Expression, Safety & Aliveness 01:08:19 – Why Simplicity Matters More Than Ever Today 01:11:00 – What "Ever Forward" Means to Adam Roa ----- Episode resources: Watch and subscribe on YouTube Learn more about Adam WHOOP: Track sleep, recovery, stress, HRV, training performance, and daily readiness with the wearable Chase has trusted for years Timeline Nutrition Mitopure: Support mitochondrial health, recovery, strength, endurance, and healthy aging with Mitopure Audible Free 30-Day Trial: Free 30-day Audible trial and start listening to audiobooks on the go
You built your CPA firm from the ground up. So why does it feel like it is running you instead of the other way around? Geraldine Carter, Founder and Business Coach at Geraldine Carter LLC, talks about what it really takes for CPA and accounting firm owners to stop overworking, start charging what they are worth, and design a firm that fits the life they want. Geraldine has spent a decade coaching accountants out of the burnout trap and she brings the no-nonsense, practical framework to prove it.What she saw when she looked under the hood of accounting practices was a familiar pattern: massive AR balances, too many low-paying clients, long nights, and a business that was technically successful but genuinely exhausting to run. Stop saying yes to everything and start building the firm you deserve. Tune in the full episode of Stop Saying Yes: How CPAs Can Build the Firm They Deserve with Geraldine Carter.Episode resources:● Website: https://anderscpa.com/ ● If you have questions or would like to be a guest on the show, email us at mcpasuccessshow@anderscpa.com ● Check out the Virtual CFO Playbook Course: https://anderscpa.com/virtual-cfo-services/vcfo-playbook/ QuotesGeraldine Carter: "The better we get at defining what is in bounds and what is out, the easier it becomes to police your own packages."Tom Wadelton: "Clearly defining what is included and not included in your engagement makes it easier to hold boundaries when clients ask for more."Adam Hale: "The real challenge is learning how to qualify clients better so you're not constantly put in a position to say yes to the wrong things."Geraldine Carter is the Founder of Geraldine Carter LLC and a business coach who has spent a decade helping overworked accountants, CPAs, and EAs redesign their firms so they can work fewer hours at higher prices — with clients they actually enjoy. With a background in engineering and entrepreneurship, Geraldine brings a systems-oriented, problem-solving approach to the very specific challenges that accounting firm owners face: scope creep, underpricing, over-servicing, burnout, and the struggle to say no. Website: https://geraldine-carter.com/ LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/geraldine-carter/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/geraldinecartercpacoach/ The Modern CPA Success Show is the go-to podcast for accounting firm owners eager to enhance profitability and master Virtual CFO services. This podcast leverages combined expertise in delivering top-tier Virtual CFO services across North America.Website: https://anderscpa.com/learn/podcasts/the-modern-cpa-success-show/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AndersCPA LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/anders-cpa/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anderscpa/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@andersvcfo Tom Wadelton is a Partner and Virtual CFO at Anders, bringing over 20 years of financial expertise from his tenure at a Fortune 500 company. He has extensive experience spanning financial management, accounting operations, and information technology integration. Tom specializes in delivering strategic Virtual CFO services, helping businesses optimize their financial performance through advanced accounting solutions.Website: https://anderscpa.com/about/your-anders-team/#thomas-d-wadelton LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tomwadelton/ Adam Hale, CPA, is a Partner and Virtual CFO Practice Leader at Anders, dedicated to transforming traditional accounting practices through innovative Virtual CFO services. With over 20 years in public accounting, Adam has been instrumental in the ideation and development of CPA training courses. Website: https://anderscpa.com/about/your-anders-team/#adam-hale LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamhalecpa/
Njegos Ilic: Why Saying Yes to Every Stakeholder Request Is the Fastest Way to Fail as a Product Owner Read the full Show Notes and search through the world's largest audio library on Agile and Scrum directly on the Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast website: http://bit.ly/SMTP_ShowNotes. "The game is rigged because they are strong personalities, they want to get things done, but you don't have a magic stick — it's really hard to deliver results if you cannot say no." - Njegos Ilic Njegos shares a failure from early in his career as a product owner in startup environments, where he found himself saying yes to every stakeholder request. Working with strong-willed founders who expected things done their way, Njegos fell into the trap of trying to please everyone — building everything that was asked without pushing back. The result was predictable: scattered priorities, no room to pivot, and a product backlog driven by the loudest voice in the room rather than real user needs. But Njegos frames this failure with a perspective that product owners at any stage can learn from. He compares the learning process to watching children learn to walk — stumbling and falling is not a sign of weakness, it's a necessary step in the process of growing. His advice to product owners currently stuck in this pattern: don't try to avoid failures too hard, because you might prevent yourself from learning the most important lessons. Instead, treat failure as a feedback loop — something happened, you can measure it, and you can change your approach. The key is doing the actual work of reflection: What did I do? What should have been different? What wasn't possible to change, and why? Self-reflection Question: When was the last time you said yes to a stakeholder request even though your gut told you it wasn't the right call — and what would it take for you to say no next time? [The Scrum Master Toolbox Podcast Recommends]
Praveena Raman, the head of Motorola in Australia and New Zealand, is a self-described yes person. At the start of her career as an engineer, the “say yes to everything” mindset opened doors to pivotal opportunities that would set her on the path to becoming an executive. But a crucial piece of advice also made the smartphone boss realise the importance of saying no. On this week’s episode, BOSS editor Sally Patten sits down with the country head of the eighth-largest smartphone manufacturer globally to find out why she decided to shift her mindset.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ever feel like you are constantly on call for everyone else but losing time for yourself? In this episode of the Makes Sense podcast, Dr. JC Doornick breaks down the life-changing power of choosing when to be unreachable. Discover why protecting your time isn't selfish—it's the ultimate secret to gaining respect, reducing daily burnout, and taking back control of your life. We live in a world that demands instant replies, leaving us feeling drained and overwhelmed. Learn the simple mindset shift that turns setting boundaries into your greatest strength. Stop letting notifications run your day and start building a life that truly makes sense. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this video with someone who needs to hear this today! #SayingNo #SettingBoundaries #TimeManagement #SelfCareTips #MakesSense Follow Dr. JC Doornick and the Makes Sense Academy:► Makes Sense Substack - https://drjcdoornick.substack.com ► Instagram: / drjcdoornick ► Substack: / drjcdoornick ►Facebook: / makessensepodcast ►YouTube: / drjcdoornick MAKES SENSE PODCAST Welcome to the Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick Podcast. This podcast explores topics that expand human consciousness and enhance performance. On the Makes Sense Podcast, we acknowledge that it's who you are that determines how well what you do works, and that perception is subjective and an acquired taste. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at begin to change. Welcome to the uprising of the sleepwalking masses. Welcome to the Makes Sense with Dr. JC Doornick Podcast. SUBSCRIBE/RATE/REVIEW & SHARE our new podcast. FOLLOW Podcast: You will find a "Follow" button in the top right. This will enable the podcast software to alert you when a new episode launches each week. Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/makes-sense-with-dr-jc-doornick/id1730954168 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1WHfKWDDReMtrGFz4kkZs9?si=003780ca147c4aec Podcast Affiliates: Kwik Learning: Many people ask me where I get all these topics, which I've been covering for almost 15 years. I have learned to read nearly four times faster and retain information 10 times better with Kwik Learning. Learn how to learn and earn with Jim Kwik. Get his program at a special discount here: https://jimkwik.com/dragon OUR SPONSORS: Makes Sense Academy: A private mastermind and psychologically safe environment full of the Mindset and Action steps that will help you begin to thrive. The Makes Sense Academy. https://www.skool.com/makes-sense-academy/about The Sati Experience: A retreat designed for the married couple that truly loves one another, yet wants to take their love to that higher magical level. Relax, reestablish, and renew your love at the Sati Experience. https://www.satiexperience.com 0:00 Intro 1:19 - The Super Power of Unavailability 2:26 - Why Successful People Don't Answer Every Text 9:25 - Help yourself by helping others 11:39 - Modern Burnout is an Access problem 14:56 - Exhaustion due to emotional overstimulation 17:10 - Saying Yes to everybody becomes saying no to yourself 20:23 - Most people aren't addicted to helping others; they're addicted to avoiding discomfort. 27:06 - The Bouncer at the door of access 29:43 - The IRS (Modern Culture is skipping the pause) 33:52 - Silence is a competitive edge in the modern world 36:43 - Choosing yourself without guilt Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
I sit down with author and advocate Natalie Davis https://nataliedavisadventures.com/ for a conversation about the polyamorous life, laws and changes. It is a frank conversation about ENM and living life loudly. Her book https://www.amazon.com/dp/1510784497?&tag=skyhorsepub-20 is available now and it a great read for finding your way through complicated relationship choices made easier with honesty.
Jon Hansen is joined by James Rodriguez, Senior Real Estate Reporter at Business Insider, to discuss why renters have more power in today's market and how landlords are cutting deals to keep tenants from moving out. James explains how a glut of new apartments, softening rents, and added concessions like free months or flat renewals […]
Being an international supermodel, as Kim Alexis was in the 70's, 80's, and 90's, inspired a quiet rebellion within her against the cultural expectations that tell people, especially women, who they are supposed to be and when they are supposed to fade. In her new podcast, Unexpired (debuting on Apple, iHeart radio, Spotify, and YouTube on May 6), she explores why some people continue to thrive- physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, long after our culture tells them that they're past their prime.It's an important topic that she explores with people who have lived interesting, full, and often highly visible lives, asking the question: what drives them forward when career or life changes?The podcast challenges one of the most damaging cultural myths: that your best years are behind you. You are not past your prime. Prime is not a number! It's how you steward your body, mind, relationships, and purpose.Upcoming guests include Jay Leno, Esai Morales, Justine Bateman, Super Bowl great Jim McMahon, Mariel Hemingway, Larry the Cable Guy, Carol Alt, Joe Theisman, Patrick Warburton, Joan Severence, NFL superstar Bret Saberhagen, Jay DeMarcus (Rascal Flatts), and many more.People Mag: https://people.com/model-kim-alexis-chops-off-12-inches-of-her-hair-to-donate-to-children-with-hair-loss-exclusive-8413533 Sizzle Reel: https://next.frame.io/share/17d4f595-1cce-4665-969b-b50ba063d2a4/view/323983e6-c350-456d-a0dc-b8611ce7b53a Podcast episodes available here:https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-unexpired-332781591/ Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/arroe-collins-like-it-s-live--4113802/support.
This episode tackles one of the biggest struggles solopreneurs face: the guilt that comes with saying no. Carly and Joe dig into why so many solopreneurs feel overwhelmed, not because they lack time, but because they keep saying yes to things that don't serve the life they've designed. They introduce a simple but powerful filter for every opportunity that comes your way: Does this serve the life I designed? Not "is this a good opportunity?" or "can I handle this?"They walk through three common scenarios where solopreneurs are tempted to say yes when they shouldn't: the exciting exposure opportunity that eats your time and energy, the high-paying client who drains you with every interaction, and the favor for a friend or peer that chips away at your boundaries. Joe shares a real example of turning down a speaking invitation in Boston, and offers a practical alternative for difficult client situations, adjusting the relationship until the client self-selects out. Carly shares a communication tactic she's learned for declining without inviting negotiation: simply say "I can't right now" and stop there.The episode wraps with a weekly challenge: the next time something lands on your desk that you'd normally say yes to out of habit, pause and run it through the filter first.
In this episode of Start With a Win, join Adam Contos, host, as he steps into a powerful, no-fluff conversation with Shaun Rawls - a leader who has built empires, walked away from them, and redefined what success truly means. Shaun pulls back the curtain on the invisible forces shaping how we spend our time, energy, and attention - challenging the habits, relationships, and decisions we often accept without question. Through candid stories, sharp insights, and a few unexpected twists, this episode invites you to rethink what's driving your life and leadership… and what might be quietly holding you back.Shaun Rawls is the Founder and CEO of Rawls Consulting, a national speaker, and author of F-it-less: Living Without What Holds You Back. Over 25 years, he built Atlanta's #1 residential real estate firm — The Rawls Group of Keller Williams — growing it to 2,000 agents and $4 billion in annual sales, earning him a spot on Real Trends' Top 40 Brokers in America.A Georgia Tech grad, Shaun lives in Atlanta with his wife Jeri and their five kids. When he's not building businesses, he's at the beach, on a motorcycle, or on the tennis court.00:00 Intro02:15 Sometimes you have to get out to start new…04:35 Wanted to write it to be this not reactive!06:40 Skills are to make part of your toolbox not this… 08:35 Key skill – listen up!14:10 Biggest aha on writing a book or not writing…15:40 Four Energy Quadrants 19:35 Willing VS Want.22:30 Where leaders get in trouble a lot!24:40 Make them feel the pain to understand.30:05 Gratitude didn't resonate with me! https://shaunrawls.com/https://www.facebook.com/theshaunrawls/ https://x.com/rawlsshaun https://www.instagram.com/theshaunrawls/===========================Subscribe and Listen to the Start With a Win Podcast HERE:
Join Reverend Willis Greene as we delve into her sermon "Saying YES."
In this sermon Pastor Chris Lodriguss teaches on what it means to say 'Yes' to God. God found a way to reach you in your life once already and you had to say yes to him but continuing to say yes is not always easy. Thankfully God is a gentleman and doesn't force us. Saying Yes isn't always easy, and the next step God calls us to isn't always going to show its value immediately, but God always comes through and we just need to walk in faith. See some of the ways this happens in this sermon and more.
God isn’t asking you to have everything figured out. He’s asking you to trust Him with what you already have.
Strategy, at its core, is the act of making a small number of defining choices that render a large number of subsequent choices unnecessary. One clear commitment at the top eliminates hundreds of ambiguous decisions further down.
Strategy, at its core, is the act of making a small number of defining choices that render a large number of subsequent choices unnecessary. One clear commitment at the top eliminates hundreds of ambiguous decisions further down.
What does it look like to build an entire pet care business around cats? Maria Estes, founder of All About Cats Pet Sitting in Tallahassee, Florida, shares how a side gig started for income and joy grew into a thriving cat-specific business with over 900 clients. She explains why specialization matters, how feline behavior and medical needs have shaped her services, and why trust and communication are central to client peace of mind. Maria also talks about learning to let go, building a team, and finding the right people through rescue work, clients, and community relationships. Her story is a reminder that going deep into one niche can create stronger care, clearer boundaries, and a more meaningful business. Main topics: Building cat-specific services Trust through client communication Medical and behavioral care Growing beyond solo sitting Finding joy through specialization Main takeaway: "It's okay to be specialized in one area." Maria Estes built All About Cats Pet Sitting around a clear focus: cats. Not every pet care business has to serve every pet, every client, or every possible need. Sometimes the strength of a business comes from knowing exactly who you serve and committing to serving them well. Specialization allows us to deepen our education, improve our communication, and provide care that truly fits the animal in front of us. For Maria, that means cat-specific care rooted in trust, behavior knowledge, and peace of mind for the people who love them. About out guest: Maria Estes is the founder of All About Cats Pet Sitting in Tallahassee, Florida. She launched the business in 2010 with an exclusive focus on cat care after a 20-year career as an ultrasonographer specializing in high-risk pregnancies. Maria is a Certified Professional Pet Sitter and is also certified in cat training and bereavement support. Through her work, she focuses on specialized feline care, client trust, medical needs, behavior awareness, and helping cat guardians feel confident while they are away. Links: Her website: allaboutcatspetsitting.com Find her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allaboutcatspetsitting/ Pet Nanny Coach: https://petnannycoach.com/ Check out our Starter Packs See all of our discounts!
In this episode of Behold, Craig and Beth sit down with Vivi Ho to hear her story of coming to faith, returning home, and following Jesus in a place where it isn't easy.SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEW CHANNELhttps://www.youtube.com/@behold.podcast @behold.podcast Last Episode: https://youtu.be/Etnelxo3LF0Watch more episodes: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLK6oXv2ImzCII7jOHIUsPv4k9oSPmbnB0Send your questions to behold@arcadechurch.comVisit us at arcadechurch.comFollow us on social mediaInstagram: @arcadechurchYouTube: @behold.podcast Facebook: Arcade Church#beholdpodcast #bible #christian #podcast #christianpodcast #parenting #parents #Theology #church #unionwithchrist #jesus #gospel #hopeinjesus #religion #christianity #worship #conflict #leader #socialmedia #mentalhealth #baptism #obedience #holyspirit #salvation #churchlife #ministry #missionary #vietnam
In this episode I share my inspiring journey of discovering ballroom dance during the pandemic and how it transformed my life. Moyra who was not a dancer growing up, found herself intrigued by a friend's Facebook posts about ballroom dancing. Encouraged to try it out, she took her first lesson at a Fred Astaire studio and quickly became hooked. In this episode Moyra discusses how dancing became more than just a hobby; it became a form of life coaching and personal growth. She shared four key lessons she learned through dance: I hope you find it empowering and motivating to say YES to yourself, whatever age you are !! Find more about the Joyful M Circle here. More about Moyra and all she offers to you -------------------------------- 00:00:00 - Introduction and Welcome 00:00:14 - Origin of the Story Sharing Idea 00:00:34 - Moyra's Dance Journey Begins 00:01:00 - Discovering Dance During the Pandemic 00:01:31 - Initial Curiosity and First Dance Lesson 00:02:24 - Moyra's Background and Love for Classical Music 00:03:07 - Professional Dance Instructors and Early Lessons 00:03:38 - Realizing the Deeper Impact of Dance 00:04:01 - Four Key Lessons from Dance 00:05:06 - Saying Yes to Yourself 00:07:05 - Following a Lead 00:09:00 - Trust and Letting Go of Control 00:11:05 - Trust and Being Held 00:14:24 - Dance as a Metaphor for Life 00:16:05 - Physical Demands of Dance and Nutrition 00:18:09 - Essential Oils and Stress Relief 00:20:33 - Nutrition and Competitions 00:22:11 - Impact of Dance on Coaching and Supporting Women 00:23:04 - Confidence, Presence, and Joy 00:25:05 - Encouraging Women to Start Something New 00:27:02 - Finding Joy and Healing Through Dance 00:29:54 - Final Message: You Are Worth It 00:32:02 - Choosing to Live for Yourself 00:34:00 - Confidence and Posture 00:35:09 - Vulnerability and Mirror Work 00:37:05 - Asking for Support 00:39:01 - Investing in Yourself 00:41:09 - Living for Today 00:41:52 - Conclusion and Gratitude
Are you saying yes to everything and wondering why you have no joy left? Dr. Santina Wheat, family physician, program director, and wellness coach, has lived that story and found her way through it. She shares what she has learned about alignment, boundaries, and how to build a sustainable career in medicine without leaving it behind. Timestamps: 2:00: The reality of family medicine: double bookings, no lunch, and being told you are not bringing in enough money 4:00: How she protects her team from unsustainable scheduling and why saying no for them matters 7:00: The pause: why reacting too quickly is one of the biggest drivers of burnout 13:00: Losing her mom, surviving COVID as a first year program director, and finally finding coaching 17:00: The one misconception that sent her into burnout: thinking availability meant immediate response 22:00: How coaching changed the way she has difficult conversations with residents 3 Key Takeaways: Saying Yes to Everything Is Not How You Get Ahead. Earlier in her career Dr. Wheat thought taking every opportunity was the path forward. What it actually did was fill her calendar with things she didn't enjoy and drain the joy from her career. Alignment, not busyness, is what creates sustainability. The question to ask yourself: what did the younger version of you actually want to do with this career? Availability Does Not Mean Immediate Response. One of the biggest lessons Dr. Wheat learned from coaching was that she didn't have to answer every message the moment it arrived. Sometimes waiting two minutes meant someone else handled it. Sometimes the person figured it out themselves. Being responsive and being reactive are two very different things. The Pause Is Everything. Whether it is a difficult conversation with a resident, a request to take on a new role, or a message that arrives at 10pm, the pause is the single most powerful tool available to any clinician. When you stop and ask how you actually want to respond rather than just reacting, the joy becomes so much easier to find. About Dr. Santina Wheat Dr. Santina Wheat is a family physician, program director, and wellness coach helping driven healthcare professionals find purpose, set boundaries, and build sustainable careers in medicine. Connect with Dr. Santina Wheat:
Is your schedule secretly sabotaging your marriage? Every time you say YES to something, you're saying NO to your family. In this Marriage Minute, Joshua Broome unpacks how unchecked priorities create disorder — and how disorder leads to dysfunction and eventually destruction. YES is not neutral. If your relationships feel off, it might be time to check the hierarchy of your life.
Hey guys, welcome back to another episode of The Anchored by the Sword Podcast. I am so excited about today's conversation—because this one truly felt like a God-ordained connection.Today, I'm sitting down with Kim Oswalt, and you guys… her story is such a beautiful reminder that when God calls you into something, He doesn't leave you to figure it out alone.We talk about what it looks like to:Say “yes” to God—even when you feel unqualifiedWalk through fear (especially the fear of failure)Step into obedience before you feel readyAnd discover that you were actually made for more all alongKim shares her journey of coming to faith as a teenager, walking through years of growth, and then—years later—feeling God nudge her to write a book… even though she had never written anything before.And I love this part—because I know so many of us can relate:
If you've ever felt like you've lost yourself in military life, you're not alone. In this episode, I sit down with Shari Biery, a national board-certified health and wellness coach, author of It's Your Turn, and longtime military spouse, to talk about something so many of us experience but rarely say out loud:
In this episode, Linda and Dana unpack major leadership lessons from Keller Williams' Leadership Academy, top real estate masterminds, and personal growth experiences. They explore why many high-performing agents master leads and listings but stall when they fail to recruit true leadership-level talent, emphasizing that real growth requires building a bench of exceptional "whos" who can solve problems without constant oversight. They break down passive income, opportunity mapping, saying yes before you feel ready, and letting go of identity tied to one role or income stream, and why your own success can sometimes become the very thing holding you back from your next level.
https://www.BackTheRide.comMy Personal Channelhttps://www.youtube.com/@mattkingatx Today I talk about the one moment that actually matters—the moment you say something out loud and it becomes real. I break down why the hardest part isn't doing the work, it's living in the loop of “should I or shouldn't I.” I also get honest about what commitment really costs—your time, your identity, and the low days nobody prepares you for. If you've been circling something, this is your push to stop thinking and finally decide.Listen On Spotify & Apple https://tr.ee/ta0ZzUejCIConnect With MattWebsite: http://themattking.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattking.atx TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mattking.atx LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kingmatthewr/ #gobundance #podcast The Tribe of High-Performing Men: http://gobundance.com/tribe
In this Tough Girl Podcast EXTRA episode, we catch up with Paula "Must Try Harder" McGuire — author, speaker, triathlete, wing-walker, double TEDx speaker, mental health ambassador… and proudly, a trier. Based just outside Glasgow, Paula has been adventuring since 2015 and has built a reputation for trying something new every day — including completing 366 new experiences in 2020. But the years since we last spoke have brought extraordinary challenges. Paula shares openly about being diagnosed as autistic at 44, having a stroke at the end of 2021 and developing epilepsy, going through a divorce after 15 years of marriage, losing her home to a flood, and navigating post-stroke fatigue — all while spending six months in enforced van life. We talk about how adventure supported her through the hardest moments, how her neurodivergent brain fuels her love of planning and trying, and why you don't need to be the best at something to enjoy giving it a go. Paula also reflects on writing her book Adventures for Bored Adults (commissioned by Penguin), rediscovering her love of swimming, and learning acceptance in the face of uncertainty. Honest, funny and deeply human, this conversation is about resilience, identity, and continuing to say yes — even when life doesn't go to plan. *** New episodes of the Tough Girl Podcast drop every Tuesday at 7 AM (UK time)! Make sure to subscribe so you never miss the inspiring journeys and incredible stories of tough women pushing boundaries. Do you want to support the Tough Girl Mission to increase the amount of female role models in the media in the world of adventure and physical challenges? Support via Patreon! Join me in making a difference by signing up here: www.patreon.com/toughgirlpodcast. Your support makes a difference. Thank you x *** Show notes Who is Paula Being based just outside of Glasgow Being adventuring since 2015 TGP Episode Working as an electronic note taker and captioner for deaf people TGP Extra Episode 6 years since we last spoke How things have changed over the past few years in quite negative ways before eventually turning to a positive thing In 2020 trying something new every day 366 new things (leap year!) Starting off the year really positively How it became an adventure in creativity Feeling exhausted after the year was over What that the last few years have taught her Figuring out her place in the world of adventure Being ready to relax Social media not coming naturally to her Struggling with the negativity of social media Paula has tried hard enough - Paula is done. Being diagnosed with Autism at 44 6 months of enforced van life (November 24 - May 25) At the end of 2021 having a stroke and developing epilepsy Her husband leaving her after 15 years and going through a divorce Losing her house after a flood One thing after another Feeling that the universe had turned against her Feeling very lucky Brain tumour?? Start to prepare for Paula last Christmas Moving on with a stroke and the potential for more strokes in the future How the adventures from before really supported her Reminding herself of things she achieved, things that she'd failed at and survived Adventure and acceptance Continuing to do fun things A to Z of Adventure Post stroke fatigue Not sticking to things - buying all the gear Getting the most mental stimulation in the trying Wanting to be the person who tries it all Her love for swimming and going back to it again and again Her neurodivergent brain - the planning, the execution, the reflecting Being butterfly minded Why you don't need to be the best at everything to enjoy having ago Coping with how your brain works How her entire life has become clear after her diagnosis Advent(ure) Writing a book commissioned by Penguin Book: Adventures for Bored Adults: Games. Challenges. Activities. Treats. How to connect with Paula on social media Supporting people with mental health Advice for women going through lots of challenges Social Media Website: www.paulamusttryharder.co.uk Instagram: @pmusttryharder Facebook: @pmusttryharder
In this episode of Tea with GaryVee, I talk about the biggest opportunity you have in 2026: Live Shopping. I encourage you to do your 20 hours of homework on how to get started selling on platforms like TikTok Live, Whatnot, and more. I also discuss how to be more efficient by saying no and why there's no such thing as work-life balance.You'll learn about: The Power of “No” Career Advice for a Young EntrepreneurHow to Start Selling on Live Shopping How to Overcome Imposter SyndromeHow to Deal with Judgement or Disapproval
Today's episode is one I personally needed.As I've stepped into offering higher-ticket services, I found myself bumping up against some mindset blocks—questions like: Am I worth this? Will people actually pay this? Do I need to give more to justify the price?So I brought on someone I trust deeply in this space—Nikki Rausch, also known as The Sales Maven—to walk us through it.Inside this conversation, Nikki breaks down one of the most powerful concepts around pricing and value:You will often be paid the most for what is easiest for you.We dig into her framework around the four levels of competency, and why your zone of genius—the thing that feels second nature to you—is actually where your highest value lies.We also talk about something so many business owners get wrong when they start charging more: Over-delivering.Nikki shares why giving more isn't always better—and how overwhelming your client can actually take away from their experience. Instead, we shift the focus to what really matters: a clear, confident, and supportive client experience.And finally, we dive into one of Nikki's superpowers:Asking better questions.Because the right questions don't just lead to better sales—they lead to better relationships, better results, and clients who feel truly seen and understood.Nikki also shares a free resource with you—her Easy Follow-Up Guide—to help you confidently stay connected with potential clients without feeling awkward or pushy. You'll find that linked in the show notes.If you've ever felt stuck around pricing, selling, or stepping into your next level of business—this episode will meet you right where you are and help you move forward with clarity and confidence.And if you're ready to be seen as the go-to in your industry, don't forget to grab my free Google Business Profile workshop at msmelissarose.com/deals.All things Nikki Rausch - The Sales Maven Website: https://yoursalesmaven.comIG https://www.instagram.com/your_sales_maven/LI www.linkedin.com/in/nikkirauschYouTube http://www.youtube.com/c/SalesMavenFB https://www.facebook.com/yoursalesmaven/Blog: https://yoursalesmaven.com/sales-maven-blog/Her Gift to Us!Your GO-TO LINK for all things Visibility-: Google Business Profile Optimization, The Website + Social Media Audit, The Visibility Blueprint, Newsletter, & Referral Partners.Love today's podcast?