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2 episodes with your inner circle
2 episodes with your inner circle
Are you living a life that feels true to you?When was the last time you stopped to ask yourself what really matters?Are the choices you make every day bringing you closer to the life you want—or taking you further away?In this episode of The Courage To Be™ podcast—a show that explores what it really means to live boldly, make authentic choices, and create a life aligned with your deepest values—we sit down with Nancy Juetten. Nancy is an entrepreneur and visibility expert whose life took an unexpected turn after a breast cancer diagnosis right before the biggest launch of her career. She opens up about how this wake-up call forced her to reevaluate everything: her health, relationships, business, and most importantly, her core values.Nancy shares a powerful anecdote about sitting in a doctor's office, grappling with the reality of her diagnosis, and realizing that the success she'd been chasing didn't align with what truly mattered to her. This moment became the catalyst for her “cake vs. cringe” list, a tool she now uses to identify what lights her up versus what drains her. She also dives into the art of setting boundaries, redefining success beyond external achievements, and the transformative impact of living in alignment with your core values.If you're looking for inspiration on how to realign with what matters most—whether in your personal life, career, or health—this episode will give you both the motivation and practical steps to start today.• Find Nancy Juetten's offerings at www.getknowngetpaid.com/6questions• Download your FREE Think and Grow Rich PDF book, the book that has made millions of millionaires! Click here: https://bit.ly/4fa6iXCAs a special bonus, I want to give you FREE access to my Manifesting Abundance course, (usually $997)! All you have to do is: • Leave a review of this podcast. • Email a screenshot of your review to help.thecouragetobe@gmail.com.Simple as that! If you'd love to watch the video version of our interviews, be sure to subscribe to the podcast's YouTube channel. - https://bit.ly/3FhRW79If you enjoyed this episode. We think you'll enjoy these other episodes:•117: Struggling with Goals? Try This Simple Tool! with Mary Sullivan -https://youtu.be/uYlZBRba6E8• 116: Stop Letting Distractions Control Your Day with Penny Zenker -https://youtu.be/Kw-oemQ3D-sCONNECT WITH TANIA:FACEBOOK - Tania VasalloYOUTUBE - @thecouragetobeINSTAGRAM - @thecouragetobepodcastTIKTOK - @thecouragetobepodcastListen to The Courage To Be - https://apple.co/3Vnk1TOIN THIS EPISODE:00:00 – Free Manifesting Abundance Course
EP 137 - Lean On Your PeopleEveryone goes through hard times. It's just how life works. That's why we need to keep a network of people around us from which we can both offer and receive support when needed. Even if those in our network are also in hard times, we still need to lean on our people.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: About the devastating loss Lori's family is going through and what they are learning from itWhy you need to avoid the “what if/blame game” and why it's not helping youWhy the fact that people are going through harder things shouldn't affect your ability to feel Why there have been so many solo episodes lately and what to expect for the futureFAVORITE QUOTE: “Honor your feelings. Lean on your people. People want to be there to help you, people want to be able to support you.” Lori JewettHOW TO GET INVOLVED: Lori Jewett Unscripted is a podcast that uncovers the transformative power of unearthing your inner superpowers. We're here to explore the incredible benefits that come from digging deep within ourselves. Uncover hidden strengths and untapped abilities that lie within each and every one of us. Whether you're seeking personal growth or looking to make a lasting impact on the world, this podcast is your guide to unleashing your inner superhero. Be sure to catch this and other profound episodes of Lori Jewett Unscripted in Apple Podcasts.
We're diving deep into one of the most powerful assets you've got—your inner circle! Ever heard that you're the average of the five people you hang out with the most? Well, we're breaking down exactly why that matters and how to level up the relationships that surround you. We're talking about building intentional relationships for success, and I'm here to tell you, the right people can supercharge your journey to greatness. With the science of social influence on our side, we'll look at how your closest connections can shape your mindset, actions, and, ultimately, your results. But it's not just about who's around; it's about knowing the roles they play! Think of it as your personal dream team—some friends are the cheerleaders, pumping you up, while others are like quarterbacks, calling the plays that push you forward. And let's be real; you need those fun friends too—the ones who help you relax, laugh, and bring out the best in you when life gets intense. Not everyone in your circle has to be a hustler, but every single one should add something valuable to the mix. Of course, we're also diving into the tough stuff—how to spot toxic people before they drain your energy and steer you off course. Evaluating your circle might just be the shake-up you need to break old habits and refocus on relationships that actually support your goals. So, if you're ready to level up your connections and make sure your inner circle is greatness-approved, this episode is your playbook! What you'll hear in this episode: [1:05] The Power of Your Inner Circle [3:05] Intentional Relationships for Success [8:00] The Science Behind Social Influence [12:55] Evaluating Your Inner Circle [14:35] The Cheerleader and the Quarterback [23:50] Identifying Fun Friends [28:40] Dealing with Toxic People Related Episodes: Crafting Your Dream Team Finding Your Work-Life Rhythm Are your daily choices holding you back? Connect with Paige on Instagram @paigelawrencecoaching
EP 120 - Dave Comley, Never Give Up On Love It can be easy to give up on all kinds of relationships, be they romantic or otherwise. It's easy to become jaded, and the world will undoubtedly give you many reasons to turn your back. But is that really the road that's going to get you where you are looking to go? Perhaps not.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: Three ways that Dave knows God is a real figure in his lifeHow Dave's father's persistence eventually won out and Dave and him were able to reconnect and form a relationshipHow Dave used Facebook dating to connect with someone he is really excited aboutHow Dave attracted Kaitlyn into his life a year and half before they met by writing down his ideal partnerWhy Dave was nervous about his daughter meeting his new partner's daughterHow The G Code has helped Dave in his day to day life FAVORITE QUOTE: “Just listening to her goals and the way she wanted to be I was like, ‘I wrote you down a year and a half before I met you. This is great.'” Dave ComleyCONNECT WITH DAVEFacebookCONNECT with Lori: Lori Jewett Unscripted is a podcast that uncovers the transformative power of unearthing your inner superpowers. We're here to explore the incredible benefits that come from digging deep within ourselves. Uncover hidden strengths and untapped abilities that lie within each and every one of us. Whether you're seeking personal growth or looking to make a lasting impact on the world, this podcast is your guide to unleashing your inner superhero. Be sure to catch this and other profound episodes of Lori Jewett Unscripted in Apple Podcasts.
EP 118 - Maintaining Friendships as an AdultThe more we age, the busier we get, and the harder it is to maintain healthy friendships. These friendships play a crucial role in our mental health and overall well-being, but like anything else positive, we can stress ourselves out about the whole thing, which is pretty much the opposite of what we are trying to achieve. Here are some tips for maintaining those relationships while not driving yourself insane. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: What happened to prompt Lori to create this solo episode of the podcastWhy it's important to reach out to our friends from time to time to check-inWhy it's important to extend the same grace to others that we would like when we are slow to respondHow to determine which friendships to keep around and which to avoidInstances where Lori often finds herself being hypocritical in maintaining friendshipsHow leaving messages unread helps Lori remind herself to not leave her friends hangingFAVORITE QUOTE: “Just because they're not responding right now doesn't mean they don't love you and they're not thinking of you, you never know what people have going on in their lives .” Lori JewettHOW TO GET INVOLVED: Lori Jewett Unscripted is a podcast that uncovers the transformative power of unearthing your inner superpowers. We're here to explore the incredible benefits that come from digging deep within ourselves. Uncover hidden strengths and untapped abilities that lie within each and every one of us. Whether you're seeking personal growth or looking to make a lasting impact on the world, this podcast is your guide to unleashing your inner superhero. Be sure to catch this and other profound episodes of Lori Jewett Unscripted in Apple Podcasts.
Brought to You by PerformBetter.com. Click here for the current sale. Highlights of Special Episode 384.5 Vince Gabriele, owner of Gabriele Fitness and founder of Fitness Business University and Kiss Marketing "Life Lessons at 45" We spoke about the newsletter he sent out to his mailing list: 50 Nuggets of Advice on my 45th Birthday. This Month on June 18th I turned 45 years old. When I multiply 45x2…I get 90. If I'm lucky, I'm half way. One of the proudest accomplishments of my life was presenting my kids a book that held 365 pieces of life advice. It was 50,000 words that took me a full year to create. I've decided to do a mini version for you here about life, business, success, family, marriage, health, marketing and any other random stuff that comes to my mind as I write this. Some of these I've mastered, others a work in progress… Are You Successful? That's totally dependent on YOUR definition of success. Only your definition of counts. Not your parents, not yours, not anyone on social media. Only Yours. If you don't feel successful it could that you really are, you just haven't created your version. On Reality. Reality is not the way you wish it was, it's the way it actually is. The farther away from this we get the less power we have to make our lives better. Show me someone out of touch with reality and I'll show you someone struggling with life. So What? Most problems are very small if we put things in perspective. This is a habit that deserves practice and please borrow my favorite mantra for the perspective habit of SO WHAT? Health and Money. There's no sense in ruining your health to make more money. The people that do spend all their money trying to get their health back. Many times, it's not enough. On Happiness. Happiness is not a destination, it's a state of mind that can be achieved right now. Don't be on a journey to be happy. Look around and recognize the love, beauty and great people in your life and it's right there. You can have a great life and not be happy every minute too. Your Inner Circle. Who you spend time with most will become major influences in your life. It works in both directions. Free Money For Disciplined People. Save money… every month. Because compound interest is very powerful Teach this to your children early. Stretch. If your PR in the deadlift goes down by 4 pounds became if stretching that's a trade to make. As I get older, I need to stretch more…if I don't I feel like garbage. Leave Thy Mother and Father. The most important person in the world to me is Vanessa (My Wife) My actions didn't always back this up. Today they do. What matters most for retention. The secret to great retention is a great staff…It's not your programming, your equipment or your member BBQ's. The secret for bad retention is lots of staff turnover. Marriages Over Time: Mine started rough, has gotten better every year. I can only point to personal growth from both us. The focus on becoming the best version of ourselves has done the trick. Life Insurance: Get Life Insurance. Double KB Deadlift>Trap Bar Deadlifts…for guys that write lots of books and have tight hips. My Favorite Snack. Cinnamon roll protein powder (from my man Jason Derose and GymSupps.org) Greek yogurt with blueberries. Read This: The Road Less Stupid By Keith Cunningham,…as many times as you can. Making Money and Keeping Money. These are different. Making a lot of money doesn't mean you'll have a lot. On Resentment: Resentment is like injecting poison into yourself and expecting the other person to die. My personal definition of success has 4 components: Good Physical and Mental Health Great Marriage Great Relationships with my kids and small handful of friends Work I love that makes a difference in the world and pays me in abundance What's yours? Write everyday…it will likely make you rich. Nostalgia is very powerful. Watching old school WWE documentaries makes me really happy. Go find what brings you nostalgia and consume it…intelligently, guilt free. Focus on yourself LESS. The more you focus on you and every negative thought or feeling you have, the more miserable you'll be. Shift the focus to other and be grateful. Pay Attention. The moment in front of us is most important, learned that from my wonderful wife. Productivity. The most important part of productivity is knowing the most important things you do…and doing them as much as possible Time Block. You are insane if you want to be more successful and you don't time block. Here's how it works. Decide to do something important (see 23) than, set a timer, then work on ONLY that important thing till the timer goes off. Very Simple, impossible for most. On Decision: Your life is just the sum of all the decisions you've made up to this point. This is a skill, you can better at this. It's a wise decision. If you want to make more money… make more offers raise your prices learn things that bring more value to your market The secret to successful public speaking comes down to these 3 things: Focus on bringing value to the audience and how you can impact their life, not how you're going to do Great storytelling: tell lots of stories about yourself that will have meaning for your audience Talking about something you know inside and out Let it Go. The calmest I've been in my life is when I've let go. The most tense I've ever been is when I'm holding tight. Fixing Anxiety. You cannot truly fix anxiety if you do not address breathing. Going to God. Don't just go to God when you need him, go every day. If you have kids, write them letters. Letters that they will keep. Letters that will be there when you're gone. This means write something good, something worth keeping. People. If you own a gym, you will never have freedom without learning how to recruit, lead and manage good people Money Matters. The people that say it does not… don't have any. Become smart about money and by all means make loads of it. But know that money beyond a certain level won't bring more happiness. There's LOTS of miserable rich people. On Visualization. If you want something, start to visualize it. Make it a daily habit and there's a very good chance you'll get whatever you visualize. 10 minutes a is the ticket to getting what you want. Wake up and do it. On Walking. When you need ideas, mental clarity or just to dump some stress…WALK. Just start walking and don't stop until you need to. No headphones. Because silence wages war on the negative thoughts in your mind. Let Them Do It. Let your kids carry their own bag, make their own lunch, turn off their own light and by all means of they struggle, as hard as it is, let them figure it out., They will. Kids and BJJ. Start your kids in BJJ at a young age. It's been the best thing I've ever done for my 3 kids. Stand on the Shoulders of Great People. Read biographies of successful people or listen to the founder's podcast Date Night. Every Week. non-negotiable. You can't afford to say you can't afford it or don't have the time. You can be jacked and not be healthy…Your blood tells the story of your health on the inside. Get it drawn a few times a year. Be a Producer. Create and build things that bring value to the world. Write the book, start the business, film the video. Go do stuff. Proudest Moments= Toughest Times. When I look back the proudest moments were during the shittiest times. Try to remember that in the moment of the shit time, it's hard but is a skill that can be developed. Workout. Every Damn Day. No exceptions. No Negotiations. No Whining. It will be done. Find this out. If you don't know what you want, no one can help you. If you don't know…This becomes job number 1. Environment. Where you work matters a lot. I get much more quality work done at the library than I do at Starbucks. Steel Trap Retention. In your quest to grow your business never forget that keeping your clients is much easier and cheaper than getting new ones. Build a business where people would never even consider leaving for a competitor. Run hills. It's good for the heart and makes your calves look jacked. More importantly, everything worthwhile in life is uphill, might as well get some reps. Be curious. Put serious thinking into why things work, why they don't, why some people are winning, why others are losing, why you have certain thoughts, why you feel certain emotions, options. Meet it all with curiosity and it'll show up very differently. Fasting. It just makes sense if you want more energy and better health. It's amazing how much better I feel when I fast. The panda man knows his stuff. Paycheck People. Look for team members that will fall in love with your vision, culture and values. I've never had any success with “paycheck people." Get a free digital copy! The Ultimate Guide to Small Group Personal Training: Thanks for Listening!
00:41 Upcoming Events and Excitement 01:59 Defining Personal Success 03:45 Importance of Relationships 05:05 Work and Financial Success 06:39 Embracing Reality and Challenges 08:09 The Power of Your Inner Circle 10:11 The Importance of Stretching 12:35 Retention and Staff Quality 16:50 Productivity Tips 20:46 Public Speaking Secrets 23:07 Parenting Advice and Personal Stories 27:40 Final Thoughts and Encouragement If you're a gym owner seeking answers on how you can grow your gym, make more money, and have more freedom to do what you love, visit www.vincegabriele.com.
Hi Journalers! Shut down the noise and be intentional about what you let come close. Your Inner Circle is sacred, so protect your peace and energy. Here's how and why. Download the FREE Journaling & Manifestation Guide here.
Hey there, amazing souls! I'm thrilled to share this captivating podcast episode with you. In this episode, I had the privilege of chatting with the incredible Bree Johnson, CEO of "Executive UnSchool."
How to Access Up to $3 Million in Your Inner Circle for Real Estate Deals, with Dave Dubeau In today's episode of our podcast, we will help you break down the barriers that hold you back in real estate investing. Today our guest is Dave Dubeau, an expert in raising private capital and real estate investing, who shares invaluable insights on how to overcome the "money block" that many aspiring investors face. Dave not only brings years of experience to the table but also actionable tips that you can implement right away. From understanding the importance of your inner circle to leveraging unique conversation starters, Dave covers it all. He also talks about his podcast, the Property Profits Real Estate Podcast, and how it serves as a platform for everyday people investing in real estate. What you will learn in this episode: The Power of the Inner Circle: Learn why your inner circle could have up to 3 million dollars of available capital and how to tap into it. Elevator Pitch: Dave shares how unique and intriguing conversation starters can lead to meaningful connections and potential investments. Overcoming the Money Block: Dave provides actionable advice on how to overcome the mental barriers related to money and investing. The Importance of Networking: Understand why surrounding yourself with active real estate investors can be a game-changer for your career. Actionable Steps for Beginners: Dave gives specific action items for those who are new to real estate investing and are looking to make their first deal. Get in Touch with Dave: Website: https://www.daveinterviewsyou.com and https://moneypartnerformula.com Business Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/raisecapital101 Book a Free-30 Minute Coaching Session with Brian O'Neill MORE FROM BRIAN: Download the FREE 5 Step Guide to learn Brian's 5 steps to jumpstart your W2 Prison Break! Connect with Brian on TikTok, Instagram, LinkedIn or Facebook Subscribe to W2 Prison Break on YouTube LINKS TO OUR PARTNERS: Grab Brian's Recommended Mic on Amazon Learn How to Get all the Money You Need to Fund Your Business with Fund & Grow Learn What Brian's Favorite Book is on Amazon
Who is in YOUR Inner Circle?What is your Circle on Influence?How do you update navigate circles of Influence?Join us backstage at Orland Park BMW to discuss a recent Zeigler Auto Group leadership session with Jim Craig where we talk about Inner Circles and Circles of Influence led by Zeigler's own, Lindsay Latsko.
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On today's episode of the Dentalpreneur Podcast, Dr. Mark Costes continues his discussion on the importance of creating extraordinary experiences and impact. In this episode, Mark dives into the four spheres of influence which include "You", "Your Inner Circle", "Your Community", and "The World". He discusses how to recreate a new reality for yourself and the four futures of Mind, Meaning, Muscles, and Money. Mark also touches on the concept of Towards Motivation vs. Away Motivation. Join Dr. Mark as he shares his insights on how to build a powerful, impactful life. Tune in and be inspired to take your life to the next level! Make sure to watch this episode and Part 1 to get the full value. EPISODE RESOURCES https://www.truedentalsuccess.com Dental Success Network Subscribe to The Dentalpreneur Podcast
Welcome back!!The end of 2022 had me on major hiatus - I caught the flu and had affairs to attend to back home. Apologies for the rough voice and lower energy, my body is still recovering from probably the sickest it has been.For our first episode of 2023, we are talking about Peer Groups and how the simple decision you make of who to surround yourself with will have serious consequences.Your Inner Circle will heavily affect your WATCH.WordsActionsThoughtsCharacterHabitsChoose incredibly wisely.Share this with a friend, loved one, or anyone who you know needs to reassess their Peer Group moving forward!Make sure to check out my updated website https://zeuswithbruce.com/Connect with me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/bruce-dasilva/Find me on Instagram at @bruce_dasilvaDirectly contact me at coachbrucedasilva@gmail.com
I hope you are excited for a productive and incredible 2023. This starts with a proper planning. And great planning includes evaluating the people in your life. Today's episode takes us back to one of our earliest episodes: "Your Inner Circle." We need to evaluate the people who are healthy to have close to you, because you are going to need them to build a team who can help you reach your goals. We also want to go back a couple of years to the idea of "Building Your Ladders." There is a tried and true strategy for using the calendar year as a 12 step program for building a ladder and reaching a new level. Take full advantage of the January fresh start and prepare for that first rung!Lastly, in this episode, let's get some really great ideas from Simon Sinek. He did an interview recently concerning how to build a great team. There has to be support when you falter. There has to be trust and people who throw you a party when you fail (in a great way). His instruction at the end will be important in setting up the kind of support that will make 2023 fail safe, so long as God allows!
Your Inner Circle. These are the people who are very close to you, who understand you, people who you trust to always be there for you when you need them. In this episode, Ohaylia seeks to educate us on the need for an inner circle and the kind of people to have in it. Enjoy listening.
In episode Ten we are talking about building a team that you can trust. Your Inner Circle. These individuals will help you get to that next level. Choose well!
CLASS: How TO GROW YOUR SPHERE OF INFLUENCE - IGNITE CLASS TEACHER: DAVE MARTIROSO Your Sphere of Influence Think of the people closest to you as the Inner Circle of your Sphere of Influence. They are your biggest champions. They already know, trust, and respect you—therefore, they are likely to be willing to help you. Because, after all, people like to do business with those they know, trust, and respect. Your Inner Circle is the group of people you'll look to most often—and reward most often—for help and support in referring business your way. In fact, the majority of your business during your first year in real estate will most likely originate from your Inner Circle. It's only natural that your Sphere is the place where you'll begin to find leads. Class: BY DNA Realty Group Teacher: Dave Martiroso "My Name is Dave! I Sell Real Estate! This Industry Changed my life" #BUY --- https://www.dna-realty.com/buy/ #SELL --- https://www.dna-realty.com/sell/ #dnarealtygroup #massachusetts #massachusettsrealestate #marealestate #nhrealestate #newhampshire #newhampshirerealestate #buy #sell #build #invest #home https://www.dna-realty.com/ QUADRUPLE GOLD PRODUCER DNA REALTY GROUP 617-340-9135 info@dna-realty.com https://www.dna-realty.comOver $120,10,138.81 in REAL ESTATE SOLD #bostonma #bostonrealestate #bostonmarealestate photo David Martiroso Quadruple Gold / Director of Operations DNA Realty Group --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/dnarealtygroup/support
It's time you start approaching your life in a new way if you want to see better results. I'm talking about addressing your beliefs, the words you use, understanding your why, and being aware of who you are surrounding yourself with. All of these things contribute or hinder your results and in today's episode, we are finally going to address them. (0:40) Epic Results (1:51) Changing Thought Patterns (4:10) Story Time (7:25) Asking Yourself Why (13:32) Stop Trying and Start Deciding (20:53) Your Inner Circle (24:34) Buns and Guns Program -------------------- Join my Buns and Guns Bootcamp and Finally Win the Battle against a Flat Butt, Cellulite, and Droopy Shoulders in just 8 Weeks! -------------------- Follow me on Instagram!
Most of the time, people tend to shrug off advice from their inner circle of friends — even if it is a really good tip or idea. These are your closest people; people who love you the most. If you refuse to listen to them, you also refuse the possibility to grow phenomenally. You’ll be surprised how knowledgeable and capable your inner circle of people is. ----- Automated Transcription Below: Dean Soto 0:00 Hey, this is Dean Soto — Founder of FreedomInFiveMinutes.com and ProSulum.com. And we're here again with another Freedom In Five Minutes podcast episode. Today's topic is this: You Don't Know More than Those Who are in Your Inner Circle. That and more coming up. Dean Soto 0:31 Oh, good morning! So the audio in this is going to be a little bit gravelled a little bit garbled. Dean Soto 0:37 Thank you so much! Dean Soto 0:40 So, I live in a community where people are super awesome. They flatten out the roads. We have these dirt roads that have asphalt on them. They're like asphalt grindings and literally, people will just do it. And that is pretty dang amazing. Sometimes they'll get potholes and they'll get little little washboards and things like that. People will just come with their tractor and grader and do it. I always try to spot them like 100 bucks or whatever. And they'll flatten out the road. They'll make it nice, amazing, and easy to drive on out of the kindness of their hearts. Basically, it's a pretty cool little community we have here. Dean Soto 1:26 So all that being said, I was on a call with some of my really close business friends — guy friends — that I have. And it's so it's funny because there are times where I think that I kind of have it all together. I mean, just being honest. I'm gonna be totally honest. But I think I have it all worked out and everything like that. I have the best way of doing stuff and it was cool because this morning — I really just listened this morning more than anything. Dean Soto 2:08 But as they were talking, they were talking about some of the different diets. They've been going on how they vacation. How they have fun, how they work, who they're hiring, who they need to hire, and what's been their troubles. And as I'm listening, I went from the feeling of "I know so much." Dean Soto 2:33 I know all this stuff in business, and I'm living the four-hour work month and all this other stuff. And all the way to — "...they do things way better than I do." Dean Soto 2:44 They're really good at what they do. I really don't even know what the heck I'm doing sometimes. Dean Soto 2:52 Dean Soto 2:56 Maybe I should just sit and listen. It was cool because some people— especially when we are new to certain things. We tend to almost be a little bit intimidated by people who know more than we do — even when they're close, I get it. This actually happens more when you're close to somebody. Dean Soto 3:33 I'm going to roll the window up. So it might sound a little bit different. Dean Soto 3:37 But this actually happens sometimes even when we're closer to people. Dean Soto 3:43 Is that when we are given really good advice — I mean really good advice. Because of who they are, it kind of sometimes flies in the face of our view of, well, I should know better than this person or I'm the guy. And for me, I tend to feel like I'm the guy that knows how to work less. Who knows how to outsource and develop systems. Who knows how to do this and that. And so, when somebody gives me an idea. Like, one of my guys held me accountable to creating a webinar, creating the sales page for a webinar, and the entire copy for the webinar. I kept on saying, "Well, I'm going to do my book. I'm going to edit my book." And he's like, "Okay, that's great. What are you going to do this week? You did that? You said, you're going to do that last week? What are you going to do this week?" I said I'm gonna finish my book. He's like, "Well, that's what you said last week. What are you gonna do this week?" I'm like, "You son of a monkey." He totally, totally called me out. And in a good way, because I did not finish what I said I was gonna finish last week. And I will get to that. Now that becomes secondary. My primary is now making sure that I actually get this webinar up and running. I could bring in some cash and so on and so forth. Dean Soto 5:28 So, my initial reaction is, "Well, it's gonna be more work, you know. I'm the four-hour work month kinda guy. I don't necessarily want to do that." It's so easy to just sit, edit, and use that as an excuse. I could say, you know, "Screw this guy." Dean Soto 5:48 I could literally just say, you know, "Screw him. He works more than me or whatever." But he's right. You got more work and you got more valuable work. So you got more valuable work done than I did last week for sure. Right? And it's funny. A lot of people get hung up or get hit. Dean Soto 6:13 Dean Soto 6:18 I don't know what the word is, but they get enamored with the idea of the four-hour work month. Working a lot less, right. When my wife and I went to our marriage counselor. One of the things that he told me that really stuck and resonated with me — and it should resonate with a lot of guys is that in order to keep our house clean, guys are looking good, guys, we tend to be minimalist. We tend to want to just get rid of everything and make it as easy as possible. Dean Soto 7:01 Not all the guys, you know but a good amount of guys who want to just do that. And that gives us the ability to keep everything neat and clean all the time. Because there's no upkeep. You know, there's nothing to put away because there's really nothing, right? And that's not necessarily the best way to do things. So it's the easy way to do things, but it's not the most beautiful way to do things, I should say. And I know I'm kind of ranting in this particular podcast, but trust me it's going somewhere. Dean Soto 7:47 So my marriage counselor said that in order to make a beautiful house, yes, you need to clean. But if you stop with just cleaning, it wouldn't be beautiful. It will just be an empty house. Right? And so, you actually have to put beautiful things and create beautiful things to put out there. And that's one of the things that yes, it's a selling point in my webinar. I mean, obviously I'm going to use it because a lot of people are workaholics. I was a workaholic as well. And in some ways I am. So am, I enjoy work. I don't have to — I enjoy working. I enjoy working my hands I enjoy just doing things that some people would find mundane, because they're in a cubicle, right? But work in and of itself. Dean Soto 8:43 So sorry, working less in and out and of itself is not something that's fulfilling. You get bored really fast, really fast. When you don't have work to do. It's just the nature of things. It's very By nature, you will get bored fast. And so, part of me is like, “Well, yeah, I work less than some of my really close business friends. But they create beauty. They create new things. And while they might work more, I help them to work less. I help them to create systems. I help them to do things that give them the opportunity and the ability to be part of their family.” Yes, I help all of that. They helped me to keep on track with building, creating, and making energy and building it up. Yeah, developing things that are absolutely beautiful. Dean Soto 9:54 Dean Soto 10:01 Why is this important? Because especially with family members, especially with spouses, they are able to teach you things about yourself and they're able to teach you about things that they know way more easily than you could. If you just listen, they could help you to grow extremely quickly. Dean Soto 10:22 And so, what I challenge you to do this week is to listen. I had a hard time listening to my spouse. I had a hard time with my wife when she would give me her feelings on certain deals that I was doing and certain things that I was doing. Had I listened, I would not have wasted two years, maybe even four years. Because I would have grown at a much faster rate. I would have grown at just a phenomenal rate had I listened to her when the time was right and the time when she had those feelings. And so I've learned to listen. If my wife has a really strong feeling about something, I'd stop. And she says, "No." I stopped. If she says, "Yes." I go because I've learned that it is something that I'm not going to be able to learn. It'll take me two years to learn the hard way. Dean Soto 11:33 Two years to learn the hard way, rather than just listening. Dean Soto 11:38 And following what she went through some of her feelings of herself. All that being said, I challenge you to listen to the people who are telling you something, don't just say "Oh, yeah. Sounds great." And not do it. Dean Soto 11:52 Actually listen. Actually do it. You're gonna see that you're gonna have some phenomenal results when you listen to the people who love you and are able to be outside of the whole situation that you might be all right. This has been Dean Soto go check out FreedomInFiveMinutes.com, go check out ProSulum.com Dean Soto 12:20 Lots of amazing stuff there if you want to automate your business in as little as five minutes a day. But until then, I'm gonna be driving into the city right now. That's what I'm doing. Until then, I will see you in the next Freedom In Five Minutes podcast episode.
Your Inner-Circle should only possess people of influence. Yep...I said that.
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In Episode 404 I discuss: *people in your life you don't want in your life *how every interaction MATTERS *understanding who you are and what makes you tick, and understanding what you truly want Listen to the latest Women Wanting More episode on iTunes here. MORE TIP Take a look at the people in your life, the top ten people, and ask yourself if each person uplifts, inspires, loves, and supports you? Have a conversation with that person and make sure they know that your relationship matters, and discuss how to serve each other to the best your abilities. Or, end the relationship if you need to. RESOURCES Episode 29: Not Everyone’s Opinion Matters Episode 98: The Playground and The Playmates Have to Change Episode 254: Who is in Your Inner Circle? Watch the WWM Live 4.0 Movie +to Apply for The Evolution Feb 2018 (just 6 seats left) Get your FREE Limited Edition WWM Journal HERE Request to be added to the NEW Women Wanting MORE Experience Private FB Group here Join the NEW Women Wanting More Sisterhood (get your 7 Day FREE Trial-limited spots left) Follow me on Instagram here Like the Women Wanting MORE Facebook Page here Visit my Website here
In Episode 256 I discuss: *the amazing insight shared by Tony Robbins at the Funnel Hacking Live Event I recently went to about the ONE way to end all Suffering *the exercise that Tony took us through at the end of his 4 hours of speaking to our group, and my examples of the 3 memories I used *the POWER of appreciation in your Life, and how you can use it to end your Suffering, too Listen to the latest Women Wanting More episode on iTunes here. MORE TIP 1. Do the exercise that Tony Robins taught us that I reference in this episode: think of 3 people in your Life that you appreciate, and spend a minute on each person not just thinking about it, but really FEELING that appreciation. 2. Consider making this a Daily Practice, Sister. RESOURCES Episode 173: Why Gratitude is a Practice Episode 214: I Know Who I AM Episode 254: Who is in YOUR Inner Circle? Join the NEW Women Wanting More Sisterhood Go to my Website to Apply to Coach with Me Like the Women Wanting MORE Facebook Page here
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