Celebrate Kids Podcast with Dr. Kathy

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new research showing how warm, responsive caregiving can shape a child's developing brain and even buffer against some early risks associated with ADHD. They discuss the power of eye contact, conversation, play, and simply responding when kids reach for us, while also considering what parents may lose when screens repeatedly pull their attention away. Parents will be encouraged to remember that it is never too late to become more present and that small, intentional moments of attention can build connection and trust.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore new research suggesting that the impact of screens may depend less on simple time limits and more on how, when, why, and with whom kids use them. They discuss the difference between screens as toys and screens as tools and why parents need to know their individual children when setting boundaries. Parents will be encouraged to move beyond fear based rules and instead teach kids to use technology with wisdom, balance, curiosity, and discernment.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the importance of play in childhood and how it shapes children's self worth and resilience. Highlighting a recent statement by Senator Lincoln Fillmore, Dr. Kathy reflects on the nostalgic view of childhood, emphasizing the shift from unstructured play to a more programmed and supervised environment. Fillmore argues that this change is hindering children's development of crucial life skills such as perseverance and self confidence. The episode dives into the balance between safety and the necessity of allowing children the freedom to explore, learn, and grow independently. Join us for valuable insights on fostering independence in children and the critical role of play in their development.

In this episode of Celebrate Kids, Wayne Stender shares exciting updates from their recent meeting with book publishers before Dr. Kathy explores new data that shows a shift in teen perspectives in technology. She dives into a new trend in identity dysphoria, and gives helpful tips to connect being created on purpose with a purpose for a purpose. Resources in this podcast: Five to Thrive>> Start with the Heart>>

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy shares her journey of personal growth and the importance of allowing young people the space to explore their paths without the pressure to get it right immediately. Drawing on her experiences as a teacher and professor, she emphasizes that change is a natural part of life and growth. The discussion shifts to the future of parenting, highlighting a recent Gallup survey that explored parents' perceptions about their children's readiness to launch into adulthood. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to embrace the journey of raising their children, preparing them to thrive as young adults in an ever-changing world. Join her as she offers insights and reflections on navigating the challenges and uncertainties of parenting.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore how parents can help children develop confidence in the way God created them while navigating a culture filled with competing messages about gender and identity. They discuss the importance of grounding kids in Scripture, security, belonging, and identity in Christ while also teaching them to treat others with respect and compassion. Parents will be encouraged to speak truth clearly and help kids understand that genuine love does not abandon truth, especially when a child is confused or hurting.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore what parents gain and risk losing when AI becomes part of family life. They discuss how technology can be a useful tool for learning, while reminding parents that information can never replace relationships, curiosity, presence, and truly knowing a child. Parents will be encouraged to protect the quiet, ordinary moments when trust grows and to ensure AI supports their parenting rather than replacing the conversations and connections their kids need most.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender and Dr. Kathy discuss the critical issue of loneliness, particularly among young people. Dr. Kathy shares her perspective as a single adult, emphasizing that being alone does not equate to being lonely. Wayne highlights the importance of understanding this distinction and encourages listeners to recognize that solitude can be a fulfilling experience. The episode also touches on alarming statistics indicating that about one in six people globally experience loneliness, with the highest rates found in adolescents aged 13 to 17. Tune in to explore the nuances of loneliness and discover ways to foster connection and understanding among young people.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why screens may affect children differently at key stages of development and what kids need from parents that technology cannot provide. They discuss the importance of love, touch, interaction, working memory, and real world experiences while helping parents think beyond simply limiting screen time. Parents will be encouraged to consider not only how much screen time their children have, but what that screen time may be replacing and whether their kids are getting the attentive, face-to-face relationships they need to grow well.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why sleep is essential for kids as families transition back to school. They discuss why tired brains struggle with attention and self control, and how parents can gradually rebuild healthy sleep rhythms without turning bedtime into a battle. Parents will be encouraged to see rest not simply as a health habit, but as an important part of helping children grow physically, emotionally, academically, and spiritually.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why friendships matter so much as kids head back to school and how parents can help prepare them for the social challenges ahead. They discuss belonging and security while offering practical ways to teach kids how to introduce themselves, ask good questions, respect others, navigate disagreements, and step confidently into new relationships. Parents will be encouraged to see friendship skills not as something kids simply figure out, but as important tools we can intentionally teach and model.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore why rejection can hit kids especially hard and how social media and a sense of belonging can intensify the pain. They discuss the importance of helping children build a broad, secure identity so one failure or painful rejection does not become the whole story. Parents will be encouraged to respond calmly and remind them that their deepest identity and sense of belonging are secure in Christ.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the idea of parenting that goes beyond merely raising well behaved children. She challenges the notion that the primary goal of parenting should be to produce obedient kids who do the right things at the right times. Instead, Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of encouraging children to be comfortable in their own skin and to embrace their true selves. Drawing on insights from Elizabeth Tenty's article in Motherly, the discussion highlights four key practices of parents with well behaved kids: listening to their children, validating emotions, explaining decisions, and maintaining consistent boundaries. Join us as we explore a more holistic approach to parenting that nurtures individuality and self acceptance in children.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender discuss what children may lose when parents prevent friendships between boys and girls. They explore the difference between wise protection and fear based decisions and how healthy friendships can teach empathy, respect, communication, and biblical community. Parents are encouraged to seek wisdom from Scripture and help their children see others not as threats or objects, but as people created in the image of God.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender explore the surprising power of asking others for help. Drawing on modern research and Jesus' conversation with the Samaritan woman, they explain how freely choosing to help someone can strengthen affection and build a sense of belonging. Parents will discover practical ways to invite children to contribute, serve their siblings, and recognize that they are wanted and valuable members of their family and community.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Wayne Stender and Dr. Kathy Koch explain how unstructured time outdoors builds wonder, creativity, emotional regulation, and resilience. They share practical ways to help children enjoy nature through their unique smarts and show how creation can restore perspective by reminding kids that God is bigger than the challenges they face.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids Podcast, Dr. Kathy Koch and Wayne Stender examine what happens when children are viewed primarily in terms of economics and productivity. They discuss the pressure to raise high performing kids and the importance of recognizing each child as uniquely created by God. Parents are encouraged to see children not merely as expenses, but as gifts who bring belonging and joy to family life.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender discusses the vital role of children in today's society, challenging the common notion that they are merely the future of the church. He shares an insightful conversation with his son about the purpose of kids in a family and their role in shaping culture. Wayne emphasizes the importance of recognizing children as active participants in the present rather than just a legacy for the future. The segment features Dr. Kathy, who delves into the perspectives on what purpose kids serve in our culture, helping listeners navigate these complex thoughts. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that encourages a deeper understanding of the significance of children today.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the challenges faced by parents and caregivers, especially those who are navigating the complexities of raising children while also caring for aging relatives, a situation known as being a "sandwich carer." With an estimated 1.3 million people in the UK in this role, the episode explores the emotional toll and feelings of isolation that can arise when juggling these responsibilities. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of acknowledging struggles and the reality that faith does not exempt individuals from challenges. Tune in as she provides insights and encouragement for those feeling overwhelmed, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their journey.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, host Wayne Stender introduces the newly launched book, "Raising Gender Confident Kids." He emphasizes the importance of understanding gender as a God-ordained element of our identity, meant for our good and His glory. The discussion revolves around fostering gender confidence in children amidst a culture facing gender confusion. Dr. Kathy encourages parents to celebrate and accept the unique design God has for each individual. Listeners are invited to support the ministry by purchasing the book at CelebrateKids.com. Join us as we explore how to guide our kids in embracing their gender identity with confidence.

In today's episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy considers a new report that unveils what happens to kids who use AI frequently. Exploring the findings of how trust shifts to technology, Dr. Kathy highlights insights from research she's done on why kids learn and retain knowledge and wisdom better when they're taught by an adult versus a screen. She gives important tips on how we can guide our kids well inside this cultural moment.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy discusses the complexities of grief and honoring loved ones, particularly through the lens of a listener's dilemma about naming her child after a deceased sister. The discussion with Dr. Kathy and host Wayne Stender emphasizes the importance of navigating emotional challenges without sugarcoating experiences. Dr. Kathy highlights the necessity of addressing feelings of confusion, sadness, and doubt, and reassures listeners that it's okay to struggle with these emotions. The episode also delves into the listener's relationship with her mother, who pressures her to honor her late sister by sharing memories and naming her child after her. Dr. Kathy offers insights on balancing personal choices with family expectations while fostering healthy discussions about loss and remembrance. Tune in for a compassionate exploration of dealing with grief and the pressures that come with it.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the impact of smartphone use on children's mental health, particularly those under the age of 13. Citing a significant study published in the Journal for Human Development and Capabilities, she discusses how early smartphone exposure is linked to suicidal thoughts, emotional regulation issues, and lower self-worth, especially in girls. The study, which analyzed data from nearly 2 million individuals across 163 countries, highlights the detrimental effects of social media, sleep disruptions, cyberbullying, and strained family relationships associated with early smartphone use. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of observing children's behaviors and interests to guide their development, advocating for mindful engagement and opportunities for discovery away from screens.

Hope isn't wishful thinking or pretending life is easy. It's a discipline that can be practiced and cultivated in our homes every day. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore fascinating research identifying hope as one of the strongest predictors of success in education, relationships, health, and resilience. Together, they discuss practical ways parents can nurture hopeful children by being present, cultivating gratitude, embracing purposeful challenges, and ultimately helping their children place their hope in the faithfulness of God.

What if one of the best things you could do for your child's emotional health took only twenty minutes a day, and cost absolutely nothing? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore fascinating research showing that just twenty minutes outdoors significantly lowers stress hormones and strengthens resilience. Together they discuss why nature has become one of childhood's forgotten gifts and how parents can reclaim ordinary moments outside as part of raising emotionally healthy, resilient kids.

Some children answer questions immediately. Others need minutes, or even days, to think before they respond. In a fast paced world, those slower processors can easily be mislabeled as indecisive or anxious. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore new research showing that deep verbal thinkers often process life more thoroughly than others realize. Together, they discuss how parents can distinguish between unhealthy rumination and healthy reflection while learning to nurture children according to the unique ways God designed them to think.

Gratitude is often treated like a nice family exercise, but research suggests it's far more powerful than that. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore a large international meta analysis showing that gratitude strengthens resilience, improves relationships, enhances sleep, and shapes character. Together, they discuss why gratitude is one of the foundational virtues parents can cultivate and how every family can practice it in ways that fit the unique ways God designed their children to learn.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the complexities of diagnosing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in children. She discusses the challenges faced by scientists and psychologists in recognizing this condition, particularly due to children's limited communication skills and emotional awareness. Highlighting recent advancements, Dr. Kathy shares insights on an innovative AI system developed by researchers at the University of South Florida. This system analyzes physical data—such as head positioning, gaze, and facial expressions—to better understand and identify PTSD in children. Tune in to learn how these developments could transform the approach to mental health treatment for kids, making it more effective and accessible.

Short form videos may entertain our children, but are they changing the way their brains learn? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy examine new neuroscience showing how fragmented media disrupts memory and deep learning. Together they discuss why each of the Eight Great Smarts requires sustained attention to mature, and how parents can cultivate environments where wisdom, not just information, can grow.

More teenagers are turning to AI chatbots for friendship advice, family conflict, and even romantic conversations. But what happens when artificial relationships begin replacing real ones? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why God designed adolescents to learn conflict, empathy, forgiveness, and resilience through real people, not perfectly agreeable machines. Together, they unpack why AI can never satisfy our deepest relational needs and how parents can prepare children to use technology wisely without sacrificing the relationships that shape character.

Summer brings something many parents dread: bored kids. The familiar cry of "There's nothing to do!" often sends adults scrambling for activities or handing over a screen. But what if boredom isn't a problem to solve? What if it's one of the greatest opportunities for growth? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why unstructured time builds competence, creativity, resilience, and self discovery. Together, they unpack research showing that boredom becomes one of God's most powerful classrooms when parents resist the urge to entertain and instead help children learn to engage with the world around them.

For years, many people assumed mothers were biologically wired for parenting while fathers simply learned on the job. But new research is revealing something remarkable: fatherhood changes men, too. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore how becoming a dad literally reshapes a man's hormones and heart. More importantly, they discuss why Scripture has always pointed to the unique and complementary role of fathers in raising secure and confident children. Whether you're a dad, a mom, a kid, or simply want to encourage the fathers around you, this conversation offers hope and a renewed vision for one of God's greatest callings.

What happens when your child develops a tic or another behavior they can't control? For many parents, the first response is fear. But what if constantly focusing on the struggle actually makes it harder for the child? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss how parents can help children develop an identity rooted in who God says they are rather than in a diagnosis or a physical challenge. Together, they explore the importance of seeing the whole child and helping children discover purpose and hope even in the middle of things they cannot control.

Many parents dream about living close to their adult children and grandchildren, imagining spontaneous visits and a deep family connection. But what happens when moving closer doesn't actually create the relationships we hoped for? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore the deeper need beneath proximity: belonging. Together, they discuss how grandparents, their adult children, and grandchildren can build relationships rooted not in obligation but in purpose and genuine delight. If you've ever wrestled with family expectations or maintaining meaningful multi generational relationships, this conversation offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement.

Australia's social media ban for children under 16 has generated headlines around the world, but perhaps not for the reasons many expected. Three months after the law took effect, most teenagers were still finding ways around it. Did the policy fail? Maybe not. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why true formation is rarely measured in months. Instead, they discuss how parents shape character over the years through consistent habits and patient discipleship. If you've ever wondered whether your parenting is making a difference, this conversation offers a hopeful reminder that God's work in our children is often slow, quiet, and deeply transformative.

Family vacations aren't just about getting away; they're opportunities for formation. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why travel can become one of the most powerful developmental experiences in a child's life. They discuss how new environments awaken curiosity, strengthen relationships, activate learning, and help children discover the unique ways God designed them. Whether your family is taking a cross country vacation or simply spending an afternoon exploring a local park, this conversation will encourage you to see summer adventures as opportunities to disciple your children.

Summer creates a unique opportunity for families. Without the constant rhythm of sports and homework, children suddenly have more freedom and more choices about how they'll spend their time. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore why the parent child relationship remains the strongest protective factor in a world filled with screens, social media, online gaming, and AI chatbots. They discuss how parents can help children discover curiosity, awaken their God given gifts, and build memories that shape a lifetime of faith.

When a child's mental health begins to unravel, our first instinct is often to build better systems. But are systems enough? In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss a California school struggling to care for students amid a growing mental health crisis and ask a deeper question: What do children actually need to flourish? They explore why genuine relationships, not simply more programs, remain one of God's primary ways of bringing healing, hope, and resilience to children.

The Supreme Court has issued one of its most significant rulings yet on transgender participation in school sports, and parents are left wondering how to explain it to their children. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy unpack the decision and move beyond the headlines to explore what it means for identity, compassion, and truth. The Court ruled unanimously that state laws restricting participation in girls' sports based on biological sex do not violate Title IX, and by a 6–3 majority held that these laws also do not violate the Fourteenth Amendment's Equal Protection Clause. The case arose after transgender student-athletes—including Becky Pepper-Jackson in West Virginia and Lindsay Hecox in Idaho—challenged state laws requiring athletes to compete according to their biological sex. Writing for the majority, Justice Brett Kavanaugh argued that states may preserve women's sports for biological females and determine eligibility based on biological sex, while Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson, in dissent, argued that excluding transgender women from women's sports still constitutes discrimination "on the basis of sex." Rather than focusing only on the legal questions, Wayne and Dr. Kathy explore the deeper issue every family faces: How do we help our children develop a secure identity in Christ so they can engage difficult cultural conversations with both conviction and compassion? They discuss why security forms identity, why identity shapes belonging, and how parents can teach their children to hold firmly to biblical truth while treating every person with dignity, kindness, and genuine love.  

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy examine a heartbreaking story that raises an important question for every family: What happens when children lose the ability to find joy in ordinary life? As concerns grow about social media's impact on identity, comparison, and emotional health, they discuss how parents can help their children discover lasting joy through relationships, purpose, and the presence of God.  

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the emotional challenges parents face as they prepare for significant transitions in their children's lives, such as entering the workforce or pursuing higher education. She explores how to guide kids through these pivotal moments, emphasizing the importance of discerning the right path for each child. The episode also highlights the partnership with Summit Ministries, a dynamic organization offering students opportunities to deepen their understanding of the Christian faith through engaging summer programs. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating these critical decisions and supporting your child's future.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we delve into the significant concerns parents have regarding their children's mental health in today's digitally connected world. Host discusses a recent Pew Research Center report revealing that 40% of U.S. parents are extremely worried about their children struggling with anxiety or depression, surpassing fears related to physical dangers such as kidnapping or substance abuse. Dr. Kathy explores the impact of these worries on parental behavior and the importance of focusing on the light amidst the darkness. Join us as we unpack the balance between natural parental fears and the hope found in a supportive, faith-based perspective.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we dive into the important topic of boredom and its impact on children. Dr. Kathy discusses the challenges parents face when their kids experience boredom and how this can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms, including substance use. Recent research highlights the necessity of teaching children to manage boredom effectively, as it is a natural part of life. Dr. Kathy also examines the shift in reasons behind teen vaping, noting that many now turn to it as a means of relaxation amidst rising stress levels. This episode offers valuable insights and strategies for parents to help their children build resilience and navigate feelings of boredom in a healthy way. Join us as we explore these crucial issues and equip ourselves to lead our kids well.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the emotional weight of the sandwich generation, parents raising children while also caring for aging parents. They offer encouragement to humbly ask for help and to trust God with seasons that feel too heavy to carry alone.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy talk about how financial and medical stress, as well as family pressure, affect children. They reflect on how parents can be honest without overwhelming kids, and how security in God helps families mature through hard seasons.

Argentina is taking a strong stand to show dads how they want them to behave. In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the responsibility of fatherhood and why engaged dads matter deeply to children. They reflect on culture and the biblical picture of a father who keeps watching for his children.

In this episode of Facing the Dark, Wayne and Dr. Kathy discuss the growing presence of screens at family meals and why the dinner table matters for belonging. They explain how an undistracted presence helps children feel known and loved.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, we dive into the importance of fostering a love for reading in children, especially during the summer months. Wayne Stender discovers insights from Dr. Kathy, highlighting research that shows reading is crucial for summer learning and can significantly impact children's reading achievement, particularly for those from low-income families. Recent surveys reveal a concerning decline in the number of kids who read for fun, with only 42% of nine-year-olds and just 17% of 13-year-olds engaging in daily reading. Tune in for practical tips on how families can encourage reading habits and create enjoyable reading experiences together.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids daily podcast, "Facing the Dark," we explore the profound joys and fears of parenting, particularly around helping children discover their true identities as created by God. Dr. Kathy discusses insights from a recent Summit Ministries blog that examines the modern identity crisis, linking it to a historical trend of Western individualism and the questioning of truth. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding how choices are presented to children and the significant impact this has on their self-identity. Tune in as we delve into these critical topics and reflect on the balance between guiding our kids and allowing them to become who they are meant to be.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy addresses the concerning trend of negative self-perception among kids today, which is often exacerbated by societal narratives labeling them as an anxious generation. She explores the implications of these self-definitions, questioning their healthiness and how parents and educators can respond effectively. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of speaking truth, positivity, and encouragement into the lives of children to counteract these negative labels. Additionally, she highlights the partnership with Summit Ministries, a program that offers engaging camps where teens can explore significant questions in a supportive community, fostering both personal growth and friendship. Tune in for valuable insights on nurturing resilience and self-esteem in today's youth.

In this episode of the Celebrate Kids podcast, Dr. Kathy delves into the complexities of technology, particularly cell phones, and their impact on children. Reflecting on a poignant conversation about hopes for the next generation, she explores how kids recognize the negative aspects of technology but feel compelled to keep using it due to societal pressures. Dr. Kathy emphasizes the importance of not just banning technology, but also providing meaningful alternatives to fill the void. Additionally, she highlights the support from their ministry partner, Summit Ministries, which offers a two-week worldview camp that helps kids engage with cultural dynamics and personal development. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating technology in today's world.