The Grand Gesture

"My friend, your luck is about to change." Steven Spielberg's classic film on dinosaurs allows us to explore the differences in white and black families facing attack from dinosaurs AS WELL as the sexual appeal of Jeff Goldblum as he moved from THE BIG CHILL to THE FLY to here. Stalking Laura Dern. All while Sam Neill gets stuck with two annoying kids. This film may have had the greatest impact on one host's life decisions. As in don't EVER put yourself in a situation to be around annoying kids. Dinosaurs are okay though. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes and an early access feed! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"The truth is most men are deaf. They prefer to guess what you need but they don't guess worth shit." In a film that opens with Whitney Houston of all people lamenting the dating scene and ends with Wesley Snipes being a sad cad at the bar our two hosts are left with a lot of material in WAITING TO EXHALE that ends with an amusing anecdote on the Beyonce and Idris Elba starring OBSESSED... which neither one of us have seen. But we did watch this movie! Professional podcasters after all. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes and an early access feed! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

Trust is hard to come by in Gotham... ... and in movie podcast guests. This cold hard fact was reiterated to us when we invited on Jairo of SOBER CINEMA to talk about his favorite human in Mr. Kevin Costner. Our guest has absolute trust in the decency (and indecency) of Mr. Costner which is why he entertains any number of swapping notions with him. Madonna in THE BODYGUARD instead of BODY OF EVIDENCE? Not after she calls Kev a dork in TRUTH OR DARE. Willem Dafoe? Not good looking enough for DANCES WITH WOLVES. No one is. And one is safe around this man. Except for Whitney Houston in THE BODYGUARD. Mostly. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes and an early access feed! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"Young lovers seek perfection. Old lovers learn the art of sewing shreds together and of seeing beauty in a multiplicity of patches." If one grew up in the 90s those defeated souls could not escape the pop culture wisdom that came out of Winona Ryder's dumb mouth. Thankfully a better cast of Maya Angelou, Anne Bancroft, Ellen Bustyn, Lois Smith and Alfre Woodard make up for the slow death march that is Wino Forever. Also Dermot Mulroney is in this. That seems oddly fitting. Kind of like having Winona superfan Dave Giannini of OFF SCREEN DEATH on to ruin a perfectly good podcast. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"I like bats." Kim Basinger finally enters this dorkfest that is Tim Burton's BATMAN and even though we didn't understand why as young men... we knew things were improving. Unfortunately we still have to survive another Bat-minute with HBO's Arliss as he proves himself an inadequate sidekick to the future love interest in the man in a bat suit... JUST LIKE OUR GUEST Dave Giannini who returns to promote his podcast OFF SCREEN DEATH and all of the crimes he would commit if he had the powers presented in BRAM STOKER'S DRACULA. Spoiler alert: watch out redheads. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes and an early access feed! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"What do you say now, jackass? That's known as... trouble with the curve." While one might not call this throwaway romcom late in Clint Eastwood's career as the ultimate title drop movie... it still manages to annoy one co-host enough to negate any charms Justin Timberlake brings to the table in his pursuit of Amy Adams. Those charms include: Roleplaying as her brother who makes out with her in a bar fight. Denied a kiss so he gets naked. Feels betrayed, throws a tantrum and then plays baseball trivia. Classic cinema. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"People might be scared." We return for Batman Day! And since this is sometimes a minute by minute analysis of the defining film of our youth BATMAN (1989) we should know what Batman Day is. But we don't. In fact we are confused by when it is supposed to happen while getting that it ABSOLUTELY SHOULD. In celebration we present an episode with returning guest Tangible Teddy to discuss the parade of fear that Gene Hackman and Clint Eastwood bring to a town of sex workers in the Best Picture winner UNFORGIVEN. Enjoy! Support what we do on Patreon with bonus episodes and an early access feed! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"Men like you have made me the woman I am." "All the women I know like you have made me think all women are like you." Michelle Pfeiffer and George Clooney sure do a lot of complaining about romantic partners that look like George Clooney and Michelle Pfeiffer. Meanwhile both hosts, noted child hater Mike and even previously proud father Derek watch this 1996 romcom and come to the conclusion that the kids are to blame. Not just for Pfeiffer and Clooney not getting down to business quicker. Not just for all of ONE FINE DAY. For everything. Children... are awful. Enjoy! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"You ain't got no future, Jack!" Eckhardt makes a bold bet against Jack Nicholson having a promising career in Gotham and we lament the response to BATMAN RETURNS and what that meant for over a decade for the character in film. Don't worry... it was all worth it to get to Batfleck. But along the way we discuss the MAGA base for The Penguin's mayoral campaign and YET AGAIN... is Michael Keaton too short. Yes. Yes he is. Enjoy! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"Typical. I can't tell you how many times I've heard pregnant women complain: 'I just wish a man could go through this.' You finally do it, and what do you get? Attitude and insults." Tangible Teddy returns to praise his hero, Danny DeVito, who spoke those wise words after he impregnated Arnold Schwarzenegger in Ivan Reitman's JUNIOR. We attempt similar wise words but mainly spend the better part of this podcast giggling at Arnold's nipples and the demands of one host to see the former Mr. Universe have sex with Emma Thompson while pregnant. A reasonable request from the author of these show notes... who also happens to be that same host. Enjoy! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"Don't be writing this stuff in your newspaper, Knox. It'll ruin your already useless reputation." A minute-by-minute recap of the greatest blockbuster of all time would not be complete without mentioning... HBO's original series ARLISS. However as we will discover in this episode, the true fate of Robert Wuhl's journalist character would be a DC Animated Feature reprising this character that we were annoyed by even as kids. This leads us into another annoying child played by Edward Furlong and the theme of fate as seen in James Cameron's impressive challenger to Tim Burton's classic. Regular guest Tangible Teddy brings his insight to the voices of puberty in TERMINATOR 2: JUDGMENT DAY! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"Who should I sleep with, Terry? Women like you? Your age? My age? I don't. You know why? 'Cause younger women are nice." In a strange twist, or perhaps the power of Mike Binder's writing (which you can see in the quote above from THE UPSIDE OF ANGER) that we welcome Kevin Costner super-fan Jairo of MARK AS PLAYED only to see him turn on his hero and agree with the loathsome supporting character played by the writer/director Mr. Binder. Maybe it's his hatred of Joan Allen. Maybe he is no longer the fan of America's great pastime of day drinking. Whatever it is... it's greatly disappointing. Enjoy! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Google Podcasts/Amazon Music Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"Decent people shouldn't live here." Jack Nicholson's Joker was an exclusionary sort and in this episode he forces Kevin Costner and friends to the woods as they plot against perhaps an even more insane villain as played by Alan Rickman. Though he remains far more likable than Costner. Of course. And that's saying quite a bit as a certified Kevin Costner expert joins the show with Jairo of MARK AS PLAYED coming on to defend this "classic" (his word) version of Robin Hood and by that he means that he owns an old copy of this on DVD. Basically the same as The Criterion Collection. Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" Find out more at https://thegrandgesture.pinecast.co This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"We need not a new gadget, but, a revised staff plan, sir." In which we learn that Anthony Hopkins doesn't believe in toasters... or love before duty, even when he meets Emma Thompson in THE REMAINS OF THE DAY. Our guest is Dave Giannini of OFF SCREEN DEATH who differs from the butler Stevens character by very much believing in gadgets but NOT love. We mention something along the lines of him being divorced. Anyway everyone expresses much surprise for the group enthusiasm for such a passionless love story and much gloating is done by dumb Americans giggling at the nobility of Englishmen and one host proves this very point by promising to make love to his wife while listening to this very podcast. Think about that while you undoubtedly unsubscribe. Enjoy! Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

"I'm Batman." Those iconic words are still being used by Michael Keaton (and why wouldn't they be) even at college graduations. If you aren't lucky enough to have Batman send you off into adulthood then thankfully you have this podcast as we cruise into the sixth minute of BATMAN '89 and our first horror film in Jonathan Demme's THE SILENCE OF THE LAMBS. This Academy Award winning film features two equally iconic characters in Clarice Starling and Hannibal Lector and for such a prestigious film we bring on the equivalent podcast icon in Jared Dotson of SOBER CINEMA to talk about ways to grab the attention of a lady. Yep. Listen on Apple Podcasts/Spotify Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me" This podcast is powered by Pinecast.

In BATMAN 1989 we see how the criminal underworld does most of the heavy lifting for our caped crusader (and the actor Michael Keaton) by treating him with the reverence we would later see in regards to Patrick Swayze as the GHOST.Though we aren't totally convinced by the rules of this box-office smash from 1990... nor do we want to see girl on girl action between Demi Moore and Whoopi Goldberg... we do like the villain of the film.Clearly the only way we will learn is if Super-Ghost Swayze throws pennies at us. But you can avoid that fate with our latest episode!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on Apple Podcasts/Podbean/SpotifyFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

As Batman watches and waits for trauma to inflict a new generation during the alley mugging in BATMAN 1989 we discuss exactly which generation Warren Beatty's DICK TRACY is for.Spoiler: not us.So listen in if you have a hatred of moles, the career of Al Pacino, and the disgusting overeating habits of street urchins.Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on Apple Podcasts/Podbean/SpotifyFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"

As we are introduced to Gotham City in The Greatest Film of All Time BATMAN, less than a year later we are introduced to another silly comic book based premise that makes an attempt to be taking seriously... and then a human-sized rat weeps in chains and loses your hosts of THE GRAND GESTURE. Thankfully superfan Tangible Teddy is here to weep with Splinter the rat mentor of the TEENAGE MUTANT NINJA TURTLES.Thankfully...Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on Apple Podcasts/Podbean/SpotifyFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

In which we send one previous host to the depths of the ocean in guest Dave Giannini of A PODCAST DIRECTED BY to come discuss the tragedy (maybe too strong of a word here) that is James Cameron's THE ABYSS not being available in a restored physical format.Speaking of restored, new co-host Derek Stewart will spend the next 89 episodes (!) being unimpressed with 89 blockbusters that attempted to fill the shoes of Tim Burton's BATMAN from, you guessed it, 1989. Enjoy our opening credits of the new format for this podcast!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on Apple Podcasts/Podbean/SpotifyFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Two married guys reminisce about the single life in the only way that it would be seen as even remotely romantic... by watching a romcom with their respective partners. Our partner for this podcast is guest Tangible Teddy who as one of the world's foremost experts on the long-running sitcom HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER is the perfect(ish) guest for our Father's Day episode on the Ryan Reynold starring DEFINITELY, MAYBE. To all the fathers out there... probably should have stayed single and childless. Enjoy!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Derek @daystew Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

As if the stories we compare ourselves to in romcoms weren't stress inducing enough... how about the real origin of filmmaker Sarah Polley? STORIES WE TELL is a documentary about her mother, her father, her place in the family and the correctness of all of their conflicting versions of their family. Thankfully we have a therapist as a host of this show and the other host has been deemed a "sociopath who podcasts" by said therapist. Good times! Enjoy.Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

To wrap up our month on mothers at the movies we have to do a bit of homewrecking. And there is no better person to do it than Clint Eastwood as he shows up at Meryl Streep's door with a camera in hand and many notches on his belt. And while so far these show notes have leaned into comfortable sarcasm, prepare yourself dear listener for discomfort as two middle-aged men share their love over this film that they would never admit to seeing before.Thankfully no one listens to this podcast. Enjoy!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Now we are getting somewhere with our mommy porn month. Not only do we put Angela Bassett in The Meryl Category of acting... but also as an object of desire for short former Broadway musical stars with questionable Jamaican accents. And that's as close as we'll come to saying ANYTHING bad about the great Taye Diggs. Instead we will defend both of these characters from the attacks they face from friends and family over their vacation love affair in the transition to something more sustainable. But do we want a sequel? No... in fact our transition may be to something with that Meryl lady on next week's episode. For now, enjoy us objectifying Ms. Bassett and Mr. Diggs!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

We take a momentary break from our series on mommy porn (though our guest Jairo of MARK AS PLAYED and THE TRUE BROMANCE FILM PODCAST opens with a titillating anecdote on Kevin Costner's real life contribution to this art) to move on to the reason for Instagram: food porn. And since we occasionally talk about movies on this show, our feature film on the subject is JULIE & JULIA where Meryl Streep inspires Amy Adams on a quest to cause pleasurable distraction and agonizing despair. Which is also the goal of THE GRAND GESTURE. Enjoy! Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on Patreon Listen on iTunes/Podbean Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/Letterboxd Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

After last week's episode on BOOK CLUB we are contractually obligated to continue exploring the kinks of FIFTY SHADES OF GREY and your hosts find Dakota Johnson pretty, pretty, pretty charming.And that's about it.However we attempt to work through a polite approach to questioning a partner's particular kinks and also find the post-honeymoon phase of sharing a pint of vanilla ice cream to be highly erotic. Enjoy!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

As two well-read men of a certain age we figured we'd take a break from any part of that to watch some well-read women of a certain age get back to the basics of boning.We really didn't need anything else but BOOK CLUB sweetens the pot by starring Diane Keaton, Jane Fonda, Mary Steenburgen and Candice Bergen.As mentioned above... all of them are READY TO BONE.And now so are you.Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

On the second part of our expose of love in 90s cinema we "welcome" back Jessi to settle once and all if Rex Manning Day is worth celebrating. Along the way Dave of A PODCAST DIRECTED BY continues to dig his co-host's early grave by basking in his shameful love of EMPIRE RECORDS while Mike would rather be watching RENT. But not for the right reasons. Enjoy! Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on Patreon Listen on iTunes/Podbean Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: Mike @warmachinehorse Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

With everyone hopefully laying on the couch at home we thought this was the perfect time to check in with our Gen X heroes of REALITY BITES. Jessi joins Dave and Mike to share her thanks that her glory days of dating the likes of Troys (defined here in iconic fashion by Ethan Hawke) are over while one host is insistent upon tough love from Janeane Garofalo being just what Winona Ryder needs (the right host, of course). Then we finish with a list of people one host would like to have sex with (again... the right host). Enjoy! Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on Patreon Listen on iTunes/Podbean Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorse Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

On this episode one host establishes some boundaries with another host (though supporting sex workers is deemed mostly acceptable) while our guest Amanda ‘HardCandiMandi' Kosowiec of the CINEMA GEEKS podcast joins the show to explain her strategy for social distancing while still getting free cable from THE CABLE GUY. And yet somehow she still ended up on this podcast. Poor choices made by all! Including you, dear listener. Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on Patreon Listen on iTunes/Podbean Facebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepod Hosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorse Email us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.com Theme music by Soft and Furious Intro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

On this episode celebrating the perhaps underrated COPYCAT from 1995 the topics range from the hatred of experts in the age of Trump, teaching your kid that not only will he not be the next Lebron James but he won't even be John Stockton, and the nostalgia for mid 90s screensavers. All of this with our new therapist on the show, Derek Stewart, who was bamboozled into thinking that he'd ever get to talk about an actual romcom. Ha!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: @daystew Twitter/Letterboxd @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

This episode was delayed for just the right season for one to take up Robert Redford's grand gesture to Jane Fonda found in the title. Unfortunately like most things in our world at the moment BAREFOOT IN THE PARK would not be looked upon kindly but your favorite podcast producer isn't really in the mood to watch/talk OUTBREAK or CONTAGION. Instead we welcome back the show's new therapist, Derek Stewart, to discuss the pleasures of older women, wife swapping, and taking naps when company comes over. The life lessons one really needs in the time of a worldwide health scare; enjoy!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Derek @daystew Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

On this episode we welcome back old friend Derek Stewart to talk about old-ass friends in GRETA. In particular the handbag wielding character played by Isabelle Huppert who crosses many boundaries with Chloe Grace Moretz in this Neil Jordan film. Although your host still sees nothing wrong with having an extensive handbag collection, we still discuss the societal norms of today in the strange courtship that is making new friends at a time when the grave appears to be your next best chance at a lasting connection. Phone calls? Absolutely not. Chewing gum as a weapon, not cool either. But those handbags... now that's a nice gift. Give us the gift of clicking on these links:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Web Bist returns for a little pre-AVENGERS: ENDGAME fawning over Brie Larson and Chris Evans in an earlier comic book adaptation... one with Michael Cera playing the overbearing collector as he fights seven evil exes in SCOTT PILGRIM VS. THE WORLD. Being the gentlemen that we are we don't pick on our exes, just iTunes engineers when they mess up our digital libraries. Based on that previous sentence you can probably gather that we have more in common with the Michael Cera character than Chris Evans. Well that makes you not a very nice person. Click on this episode, you ass:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHost: Mike @projectingfilm Twitter/LetterboxdEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"

On this episode two grown men share their apparently exclusive love for the late 90s version of CRAZY STUPID LOVE in the Angelina Jolie starring PLAYING BY HEART. Since that might not be sexy enough for somewhat discerning but also very much degenerate podcast listeners we also touch on life after divorce, how the Meg Ryan movie FRENCH KISS is a safe movie for married couples to consume, and Jon Stewart not managing to pass Walter Cronkite in producing arousal. There's a solid half hour of self-loathing from all parties involved in this podcast so enjoy it:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Not watching the 2019 HELLBOY? GOOD. That gives us a bigger demo to woo with our latest episode on the first film adaptation of the Mike Mignola comic book in the 2004 version by Guillermo del Toro. To do so we welcome our monster movie expert (in that he appeared on our KING KONG episode) Web Bist to discuss the physical appeal of devil horns and top knots. Along the way bald men are both mocked and mourned and we talk a little bit of fisting with Ron Perlman and a little bit of smooching with Selma Blair.We keep it consistent with it all being mostly terrible. Enjoy!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

This episode, like all the others, does NOT have a sponsor... but it might as well for as often as our guest Derek Stewart brings up shopping at Kohl's in our discussion on the 2018 remake of SUSPIRIA. That's probably better than two dudes debating on the merits on this film's feminism as well as its dance choreography. But since this isn't our first rodeo as movie podcasters we ignore all those problem areas and talk about Tilda Swinton's fake testicles. Stick with what you know-WAIT... just click on these links please:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Everyone knows that January is the time when people make a list of their sexual goals for the upcoming year. And as much as our listeners would like to think otherwise (in fact they probably don't want to think about this AT ALL when it comes to the hosts of this podcast) we're no different. The problem with us is that we take our cues from watching way too many movies and for this week's episode that could be trouble as this may be the origin of sad Ben Affleck. CHASING AMY has plenty of bad decisions made by not so bright dudes so we avoid that mistake by inviting on a very bright movie lover and an actual fan of us (okay maybe not so bright) in Sheila. And she's here to promote THE GRAND GESTURE. Like the good egg that she is. You can do the same at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

To kick off the new year we are making plans to better our position as one of the top three romcom podcasts in the world by bringing back returning guest Jess of THE GRAND GESTURE! The selected film involves the best laid plans of Greta Gerwig as she seeks to reunite her husband played by Ethan Hawkewith his ex-wife... The Great Julianne Moore. This is a tricky episode but thankfully we have plenty of pickle juice and blame to throw around as we look ahead to becoming the top romcom film podcast with our episode on MAGGIE'S PLAN.And you can help us reach these lofty goals by clicking on any of the links below, which shouldn't be too hard of a New Year's resolution you ass:Listen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love" Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

You are probably sick of Christmas (and also sick of THE GRAND GESTURE) but how about just one more? Or in our case it's FOUR CHRISTMASES as returning guest Web Bist from our KING KONG episode is in the full holiday spirit for this film from the auteur who previously brought you THE KING OF KONG: A FISTFUL OF QUARTERS. Reese Witherspoon and Vince Vaughn were rumored to not much care for each other during the making of this family holiday comedy and the hosts of this show take it as a challenge to match that bickering. Come for the hate of this particular romcom from Dave, but stay for Mike's continued love of Dwight Yoakam.Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

For part one of our soon to be podcast Christmas classics, WEB BIST of... well many appearances on host Mike's podcasts is back on THE GRAND GESTURE to give his insight into the island living of Hugh Grant's character in ABOUT A BOY. This being a holiday episode and all we get into the the appropriate time to be honest about declaring yourself a happily lecherous man (presumably not at the time you are declining the title of a child's godfather), make up and break ups feeling more honest with a twelve year old boy than Rachel Weisz and... well based on the previous two points maybe it's just best to not be honest? The wrong lessons are learned but we do talk about toys we want for Christmas. Happy holidays!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @DaveAGiannini Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

The reigning guest champion for most THE GRAND GESTURE appearances, Natasha of THE RAD ASS BITCHES returns to be trapped with us, much as Reese Witherspoon finds herself in an extended and unrequited (at this host Mike rages) one night stand with a younger man in HOME AGAIN. This leads to a discussion about the awkward transition to fun an exciting to platonic and awkward which may very well be the same transition our listeners make as they listen to the real life SINGLE WHITE FEMALE version of this from one host AND baseball as an ill-advised aphrodisiac from the other! Learn more (perhaps less) at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

For what is possibly THE GREATEST FILM OF ALL TIME we present our longest episode of THE GRAND GESTURE for Diablo Cody and Jason Reitman's YOUNG ADULT. To discuss how Charlize Theron's character of Mavis is actually the heroic monster returning to her hometown to demolish boring lives is Allison of NOT YOUR LITTLE LADY. Among the many charms of this particular film we discuss our own experiences living in small towns, strange accusations made at the theater when seeing this film on Christmas Day, and just how damn insulting an email or a song can be in regards to an old high school flame. Also Patrick Wilson's dumb face. All this and more at the links below!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

We recorded a special Election Night episode where we decided (for the nation) to see other people. And if we can't manage the state of affairs for our country, your unloveable hosts Dave and Mike can at least change the movies we are watching. This episode features a can't miss film starring Rebecca Hall and Dan Stevens as a couple looking to expand their sexual experiences while maintaining their relationship and boy why did we think PERMISSION would be a fun pick-me-up?? Mistakes were made and maybe kink-shaming is just good common sense for some people... but why does it have to be this way for Dan Stevens??Times are tough in 2018. Follow our joy at the links below where I promise you we are of absolutely no help:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

On this episode we tackle the somewhat indelicate math of romantic partners with guest Natasha of THE RAD ASS BITCHES podcast. Considering that hosts Mike and Dave hate each other, that third voice is very important as one host hates the selected film WHAT'S YOUR NUMBER? and Mike hates Dave's hate. Listeners can only hope that this heated debate about a film that received a generally unfavorable response upon release can rival the sexual tension of initially antagonistic neighbors Anna Faris and Chris Evans... but in the end the only thing we all can count on is disappointment. Oh and shameless links to follow!Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Annnnnnnddddd we're back with a trainwreck of an episode on the Amy Schumer/Bill Hader romcom TRAINWRECK. We're not that creative, however our guest Jess, formerly of JOY SANDWICH and now cursed to forever promote our podcast, finds new ways to derail the best laid plans of our host Dave as he tries to navigate the tricky waters of criticizing anything THE GREAT Bill Hader was ever involved with. Co-host Mike joins in on the criticism, but only of Dave, and as usual demands more sex scenes in his sex comedies.Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

AVENGERS: INFINITY WAR is currently being seen by every set of eyes on the planet, but maybe your ears will give our episode a chance on one of the first big spectacle films, KING KONG. Guest WEB BIST of TRILOGY TALK joins the show to discuss approaching this 1933 classic with 2018 sensibilities, the grabby hands of Mr. Kong, and how it feels to be The Other (Hairer) Man. All of this and and presumably more things that would produce great Fay Wray-like scream from our listeners at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"

On this episode we discuss awkward family moments as seen in the strange love(ish) triangle seen in YOUR SISTER'S SISTER. And to do so our guest Amanda from AMANDA'S PICTURE SHOW A-GO-GO and CULTURE POP A-GO-GO shares her side of family disputes, as they sometimes happen on her very own podcasts. No such family allegiance from your hosts Dave and Mike, though both share one to the great Emily Blunt, while extreme love and hate are reserved for Rosemarie DeWitt and Mark Duplass. We'll let you hit that play button to figure out which host is doing the loving and which one is his usual hateful Dave-self at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

Unlike Stanley Tucci in THE TERMINAL we have open arms to our guests, and in particular returning guest JASON MICHAEL of ATLANTIC SCREEN CONNECTION (and the upcoming TRILOGY TALK) to talk about a Steven Spielberg film that everyone hates. No, no READY PLAYER ONE (although that should provide a hashtag for this episode's social media promotion @grandgesturepod) but the 2004 Tom Hanks starring romcom. Jason dismisses Catherine Zeta-Jones from this screen romance and focuses on Tucci and Hanks bantering back and forth as the latter takes up residence in the former's airport as a man with no country but who makes friends easily. Hopefully we can convince you to join this lonely TERMINAL fan club at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

On this episode we celebrate/lament (so we have all of our Film Twitter bases covered) the release of Alex Garland's latest film ANNIHILATION as well as Alicia Vikander's latest film TOMB RAIDER by looking back to their collaboration in EX MACHINA. This very romantic film tells the story of a young ginger man who one day wins the nerd lottery to go drink, dance, and have speed date challenges under the tutelage of The Great Oscar Isaac. To help us retell this story in podcast form we bring on first time guest EMILY of the DEAD RINGERS podcast. No dancing allowed on this episode but an awful lot of ogling for The Great Oscar Isaac. Feel free to ogle with us at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

As promised (threatened?) we get around to SWEET HOME ALABAMA with the only reason to listen to this episode, returning guest ALLISON of the NOT YOUR LITTLE LADY podcast. In this wide-ranging conversation we discuss watching this 2002 romcom hit with outsiders, Hollywood's obsession with portraying the South as a time capsule, and sacred dog burial grounds. But it's not all serious business as eventually we get into a game of Hot or Not with Southern leading men by doing some on-air research with our personal assistant Google. We buy into Josh Lucas in that respect, but do we buy Reese Witherspoon as a woman who would procrastinate getting divorce papers signed for YEARS? No, but we hope you buy into this episode by clicking on one of the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"

For RED SPARROW we go with an obvious tie-in film in the first of our once a month romance with classic cinema: Michael Powell and Emeric Pressburger's 1948 film THE RED SHOES. Ballet and the color red, but no spycraft to be found as your hosts Dave and Mike talk about the difference between professional and romantic passion and how podcasts provide more of the latter (episode 100 is just around the corner where your hosts finally answer "will they or won't they?") than the former. Join us as we continue to dance THE GRAND GESTURE format to its inevitable death at the links below:Support what we do with bonus content and early episodes on PatreonListen on iTunes/PodbeanFacebook/Instagram/Twitter: @grandgesturepodHosts: Dave @pccasestudy Mike @warmachinehorseEmail us your favorite romantic grand gestures in film at grandgesturepod@gmail.comTheme music by Soft and FuriousIntro: "Am I Drunk or in Love"Outro: "I Like the Way You Are Talking to Me"