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Listener Mailbag - Questions from June 2014!In this episode of Freedomain, I discuss the critical role of early childhood experiences in shaping behavior and emphasize the importance of a nurturing environment during the first five years of life. I share personal insights on recognizing aggression and moral virtue while highlighting the need for self-awareness to navigate life's challenges. We explore technology's potential to identify childhood trauma and the societal hesitance to embrace such advancements. Additionally, I address skepticism around utopia, linking it to personal ethical shortcomings, and advocate for a moral responsibility to protect our families and communities. The episode emphasizes awareness, personal accountability, and the pursuit of truth in fostering a just society.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Stefan Molyneux's Freedomain platform hosts the world's largest online community devoted to philosophical inquiry and personal liberty. He joins Bob to discuss several topics, including Stefan's return (after exile) to Twitter, his advice to young men, and his evolving views on Christianity.Mentioned in the Episode and Other Links of Interest:The YouTube version of this conversation.The freedomain home page.A popular video (reposted after Stefan banned from YT) from Stefan back in the day.Bob's roast of Stefan at Porcfest.Help support the Bob Murphy Show.
Freedomain FLASH Donors Live Chat 29 April 2025In this lecture, Stefan explores the philosophical dimensions of creativity, writing, and human relationships, focusing on sibling dynamics and societal conflicts. He shares insights into his writing process while reflecting on previous novels that delve into themes of war and psychology. The conversation examines familial rivalry and the psychological impact of unresolved parental issues. Stefan opens the floor to callers, discussing how perceptions shape experiences of conflict and victimhood. He contrasts personal and universal truths in psychology and philosophy and advocates for a reinterpretation of self-image against past experiences. The dialogue extends to society's fascination with conflict and its portrayal in media, highlighting the moral frameworks surrounding violence. Stefan concludes by contemplating the complexities of truth and its role in personal and societal relationships, emphasizing the balance between hardship and personal growth.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this conversation, a caller shares his distress over his mother's serious health issues and reflects on their troubled relationship marked by emotional neglect. Growing up in a fatherless home, he discusses how his mother's coldness impacted his self-worth and adult relationships. Guided by Stefan, he confronts his feelings of guilt and the need to grieve the lack of a nurturing bond. The conversation emphasizes the importance of establishing boundaries with his mother and prioritizing his emotional well-being. Ultimately, the caller realizes that accepting his mother's limitations is crucial for his healing and personal growth.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, we explore complex familial relationships through a listener's struggles with anger and resentment towards their mother. I stress the importance of free will in decision-making and the need for personal accountability in addressing difficult emotions. We discuss the role of community in marital issues, using Stephen Crowder's divorce as a lens, and examine how societal values shape relationship choices.Additionally, we touch on the influence of religion and philosophy on moral development and the implications of biohacking and longevity on emotional connections. Finally, we consider the effects of parentlessness and societal structures on fertility rates, encouraging listeners to actively engage with their relationship complexities and submit questions for future exploration.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, I analyze the debate between Michel Foucault and Noam Chomsky on human nature, expressing frustrations about their unclear definitions. I discuss Foucault's controversial life and its irony alongside his philosophical influence, while connecting his ideas on power to contemporary ethical dilemmas and societal scrutiny. Engaging with callers, we explore the effects of upbringing on self-worth and the importance of confronting our pasts. I emphasize self-assertiveness and the need to reflect critically on the narratives that shape our lives, encouraging listeners to align their choices with personal values and societal realities.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, I engage with listeners about the intersection of philosophy and personal challenges, discussing how philosophical principles enhance daily life. I analyze recent high-profile hacking incidents and their implications for cryptocurrency, contrasting these risks with the decline of fiat currency values. When a caller raises parenting concerns, we explore the dynamics of safety and resilience for boys and girls, stressing self-awareness and personal responsibility. We conclude by emphasizing the importance of nurturing life skills in children through empathetic parenting approaches that promote growth and resilience.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Topic Detail: After listening to the show and reading most of the books, and having 1 call over a decade ago, I think I could benefit from a "philosophy audit." I think everything is going quite well, I have a great wife, a 2 year old daughter, a newborn daughter, and live on many, many acres in the US state with my preferred climate (warm). Since I'm starting a new job (C suite at a professional services firm) in a month, I think it would be a great time to go through this audit to see where there are areas I can improve, including on being a better father, husband, business leader etc..GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, I explore philosophical questions and current events, starting with the critical issue of healthcare wait times in Canada and its systemic implications. I discuss the challenges of upholding moral standards amid public hypocrisy and reflect on my creative processes, particularly in "The God of Atheists." Listeners' questions lead to a conversation about artistic integrity, the role of moral characters, and the decline of warning narratives in modern fiction. We conclude with a candid look at the commercialization of thought, emphasizing integrity over wealth. This episode fosters a deeper understanding of our individual and collective responsibilities.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, I engage with a caller reflecting on his tumultuous marriage and recent divorce. He shares struggles with emotional disconnection and feelings of depression. We explore the impact of unresolved conflicts, societal pressures around masculinity, and the dynamics of people-pleasing in relationships. As he begins to process his experiences, he recognizes the importance of authenticity and meaningful connections in his pursuit of healing and personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the challenges of rediscovery and the potential for healthier relationships moving forward.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Dear Stefan,I have been listening to you content for sometime now, and would like to express immense gratitude to you for your insight and work on self knowledge, parenting, and philosophy. All your call-in shows provides unbelievable value and helped me with both the reason and courage to confronted my childhood. Your skills in weigh through all the fog, rationalisation, justification and narratives to stay on laser focus on the topic were a pleasure to witness. Please kindly use these awesome powers to help me see more clearly on how to move forward.I have just hit 30 yrs old last December, as I feel the last of my youth is leaving me, I started to experience a form of mid-life crisis. Like I have not truly lived though admittedly I have spent the first 25 years of it in survival mode, and I have only started to seriously build and take control of my life in the last 5 years. Not quite sure what to let you know, looking forward to speaking with you.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, host Stefan speaks with a caller struggling with estrangement from his oldest daughter amid a complicated family history. The caller recounts emotional turmoil during her wedding when she requested both him and her stepfather to walk her down the aisle, deepening their rift. He reflects on his decision to avoid speaking negatively about his ex-wife, which he hoped would help their relationship but instead led to misunderstandings. Stefan highlights how past dynamics influence current relationships and encourages the caller to maintain open communication with his children. By the end of the discussion, the caller gains valuable insights into his actions and a renewed hope for reconciliation with his daughter.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
How to emerge from 10 years of isolation and cross the desertTopic Detail: Hi Stefan, I'm a 31 year old man who's recently found the show (in October). Philosophy has taken a fire to my heart. I have been ravenously devouring your books and call-in shows and podcasts in the past months.I am emerging from a very long period of isolation, and I need help navigating this life transition. I am starting from a point of zero quality relationships, and need to cross the desert!I've confronted my parents about my childhood. This confrontation not only confirmed their nature as abusers to me, but it engendered a neurological shift in me where I feel more confident, competent, and action-orientated than I've ever felt in my life. I've confronted my parents, moved out of their house, and am taking steps to further my career. Before, I was burning time with hedonism. I had no goal. Subconsciously, I didn't want a marriage like my parents', or for my future children to have my childhood. I avoided dating in my twenties.When I first moved out in my early twenties, I fell into drug addiction and isolation. I returned to live with my parents in a sort of prodigal son way in my late twenties. I've just moved out again and have told my parents I want I hiatus from our relationship. I don't have another decade to waste. I want love and a family.In this most critical period of my life, I need guidance! I appreciate your time reading this.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
First call: https://fdrpodcasts.com/5522/my-girlfriend-summons-me-to-sin-freedomain-call-inIn this episode, I converse with a caller who shares his journey of self-discovery following a breakup. He discusses moving back in with family while pursuing an accreditation and the emotional complexities of caring for his brother with spinal muscular atrophy (SMA). We explore the impact of his past, including a confrontation with his parents about their parenting, and how these dynamics affect his relationships and future aspirations. I emphasize the importance of his independence while navigating familial obligations, ultimately guiding him to find a balance between supporting his brother and pursuing his own fulfillment. The discussion showcases the resilience needed to manage personal growth amidst emotional challenges.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, I speak with a caller navigating feelings of inadequacy and jealousy in her early marriage due to her husband's tumultuous sexual history. We explore the impact of her Catholic upbringing, their rapid relationship progression, and how these factors contribute to emotional turmoil and intimacy issues. I emphasize the importance of open communication and the potential need for couples counseling, despite her husband's resistance. The discussion highlights taking responsibility for one's feelings and creating healthier communication patterns. Ultimately, I guide her toward reclaiming her agency in the relationship, addressing themes of understanding and trust in blending different life experiences.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Hi Stef,I called in ~6 months ago. I was not doing very well, with me losing my first employment and the "business" I was a part of not doing very well. You gave some direction about sticking with my at-the-time mentor to establish a new career, but I can say that when I called you was definitely not only a bad time, but also quite ineffective, given the stress and dissociation I had to maintain daily. I was focused entirely on the "how" in our previous conversation and was not seeking answers to pressing questions. The result was a likely frustrating and forgettable experience as I brought my anxieties into your life. I seek to remedy that but also to have a genuine, honest conversation, which is still very rare for me. I have some questions that time away from the death-spiral of my inner parents has illuminated and I'm seeking your valuable input.Things have changed since July, with the ultimate step (ironically) being to do less. I ditched the gurus and mentors, and pulled back from all of the relationships I had. There was no one I was close to, and all of my social circles were built on lies I made for approval. Upon telling them of my deception, I was invariably removed from them, as expected. I now work happily and have more time for philosophy, and, hopefully soon, joy and progress towards joy.The core principle behind my need to lie to these groups to gain acceptance was acceptance. This never worked. Nobody valued me anywhere, especially not my parents. My parents taught me little. They bought us things, but never examined what we wanted with any level of curiosity. A core theme I've tried to square personally from your work is that children want to be comforted and loved by their parents, but I can't recall a time when I distinctly wanted anything to do with them. Despite my clear memories of events, I can't remember a time in my life fondly or with joy at all. Not a time I'd return to, or a moment with my family I wish I could go back to. The same feeling exists when I think of the company of others, whether it's friends or family. Frankly, I hate them (everyone), and I hate my "experience" of living up to now. You mentioned a distinct distance from my anger and emotion in general on our call. I didn't even feel anything up until the past few months. I find myself unable to muster up the bandwidth for even the most basic curiosity towards anyone anymore. I feel burnt out by the idea before I even do it. This has been quite the preamble, so I'll just dive into my first question:My parents would die if I asked them to. If I de-fooed, ran off, and died of a heroin binge, they would have been tracking me the entire time and would pay for my funeral. They swear up and down that they would do anything for me and that they would weather any storm to ensure my safety and well-being. I can guarantee they would. For all intents and purposes, they "love" me, even though the relationship is built essentially on bribery, i.e. buy me stuff to placate me and keep me in the home. I've conversed with them before about history, and they even know my stance on their "parenting." They won't change, and I can't even imagine what restitution might look like, or whether restitution is even necessary. I'm at a loss, right at the finish line. How can I consolidate that "loyalty," that desire to do what's right by me, with how much ire I feel for them for not teaching me a damn thing about anything? It's a self-answering question just typing it out but I don't have the bandwidth or courage to answer it myself.Should time allow in our conversation, I have a few more questions about women specifically. My parents didn't teach me jack shit, just left me to my own devices and said "do whatever as long as it's not drugs." I have no earthly clue how to engage someone intimately, either as a friend or romantically. It's sometimes even manifested as a direct and scathing hatred of women as a whole. Like real, bona fide hatred Stef. I'm 28, and everyone woman I have tried to get with has called me a funny friend and wants nothing to do with me. I'm dead certain this has to do with my lack of real, genuine emotion over the past 3 decades but I'm stuck still. The hatred I feel is towards my mom, but even still it manifests and shifts the blame from her to women as a concept. I have no idea what I'm doing and have no examples but pick up artist content, self-help gurus, and redpill youtubers.I'm infinitely grateful for the time you gave me last time we spoke, and I'm hoping that the intermittent time has rendered me more able to not only have a genuine conversation, but also to provide you with a provoking, deep, and meaningful one too. I hope we can talk soon, and thanks again for all you do, Stef!GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Dear Stef,I need your help. I've been a long time listener and sought out therapy as soon as I turned 18. Between then and now I have made very limited progress chipping away at my armor and processing my childhood. I'm panicking at how long its taking when I want to cross the desert, meet a virtuous woman and maketh the babies.I think biggest hurdle is that I'm quite split between my emotional and intellectual. I'm really strong on the intellectual side, identifying patterns, reasoning through healthy behavior, and making theoretical connections with my past. I've learned this alone doesn't work. With me, it doesn't touch my beliefs or really change how I feel or even open a door for me to explore or interact with that realm. I feel hopelessly broken.To be more fair, I have occasionally made connections between these two worlds but only briefly a handful of times in therapy. That's not enough. I still have many dysfunctional behaviors from my near death experience called childhood. I had no bond, was not parenting and was constantly in danger of violence from my middle brother and abandonment from my sadistic mother.I'm baffled that I can logically understand how bad I had it but still lag behind so much with my emotions and lack of empathy for myself. Typically in your call-in, once people understand, they connect. I am so fucking frustrated. No matter what I've tried with two therapists and journaling, I'm not touching it.I am not without emotions, I can feel them strongly. I do try to suppress them until their intensity overpowers the suppression.Talking about suppressing, I've been experiencing Chronic Fatigue Syndrome(self diagnosed) for the past 10 years. I've been to alternative, normal and specialist doctors and ruled out all kinds of illnesses, infections and deficiencies. I'm left with a "*shrug*, we don't know what's wrong with you". I have a working hypothesis that it's mental with physiological effects. I both overuse my fight-or-flight and ignore/suppress the feedback of my body. I just keep pushing through and at some point, my body has burnt out and has trouble repairing muscle damage. You are supposed to repair when you are safe!On another note, fair warning, my mom fights with fog. Prior to writing this, I have tried to overthink this conversation you and I'll have. I kept looping in those conversations because my inner mom would lose to inner Stef. She tried fighting tooth and nail to get by with "I don't know" and 'I don't remember". When she couldn't outwit or play dumb/passive or manipulate, I felt unspeakable danger will occur, like I'd die. Contrary, I think this is when SHE dies and I can be free to be vulnerable.In my experience, most of my past is a grand canyon chasm of fog so thick you can cut a slice of it and serve it as meringue. Only a few plateaus (memories) peek out with little sense of depth. On the same note, in a therapy setting, when I try to bring awareness to what I'm feeling, I get nothing, like going to a play with a white curtain in front of the performance the whole time. The cast is doing something behind there and no matter what, the curtains never part.There's quite a trail of blood leading to my mother in the my present day disfunctions: Whipping myself verbally, rounding down my accomplishments, believing I'm worthless and feeling unsafe in social situations to the point where its easier to avoid most interactions, and fear of dating due to risk of abandonment.My ACE score is 6 or 7 of 10. Not sure on the whether the one about parent being assaulted counts. There was no drug use, prison, or sexual abuse (not counting early exposure to pornography through unfettered internet access). My mother is a malignant narcissist, father a workaholic, middle brother is really fucked up, oldest brother seems kinda okay but sides with my mother. I've been torturing myself for the past 3 weeks straight trying to ask for your help. I've been strongly avoiding and fearing it and yet strongly intent to make it happen. Something tells me that I did a good job providing enough info in this email alone to for you to help me get unstuck.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this conversation, Stefan discusses marital challenges with a caller and his wife, Alice, centered around parenting three young children. The couple struggles with disconnection and resentment, particularly concerning physical intimacy since the birth of their twins. Alice shares her anxiety stemming from a difficult upbringing, while the caller reflects on his father's emotional unavailability.Stefan emphasizes the importance of addressing unresolved traumas, mutual respect, and open communication to meet each other's emotional needs. He offers actionable advice on establishing boundaries and highlights the significance of intimacy as a vital element of their relationship. The conversation underscores the complexities of marriage and the necessity of fostering connection amid parenting challenges.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
"I listen to you daily and have been for months now. Previously I had been an on-again, off-again frequent listener since I believe 2013 or so (started with YouTube then navigated to your website.) Your wisdom and insight is invaluable, and I have called in before now twice. I am now a subscriber and have donated before. Thank you so much."The reason I wish to call in this time is because my relationship with the mother of my 3 children has finally come to an end, I hope for good. That is the plan, anyway. The short version just for this synopsis is that we have been slowly drifting apart for the last few months, and finally earlier this week she broke it off with me over text. This came after we were on 'non-speaking terms' following an incident where I called her a bitch for the way she was talking to me. We can speak more about that incident, but essentially, there was a catalyst, and she called it quits after that."I am not against the breakup - in fact, I am happy that one of us finally decided to make it happen. I have been feeling more and more contempt towards her over the years, and I am sure I felt it in her towards me as well. As you have mentioned many a time before, contempt towards one another is the final nail in the coffin in a relationship (forgive me if I am misconstruing that.) But, the major caveat in all of this is that we have 3 children together. So for my part, I had planned to stay together for their sake at least until they were older teenagers (they are currently 8, 6 and 5), but, and this is where the reason for my call really comes in, from my perspective she is incredibly unreasonable, illogical, and narcissistic or close to it. Therefore, instead of staying together for the kids, she believes she is a 'better mom and person' when she is single, and wants to separate, including living and parenting in separate households. I will present my arguments as to why she is not reasonable during our call, should you think it necessary. I am not one of those callers who will be painting the other person as the villain - that is not the case. I have my bad sides as well, and my flaws, and I am not always reasonable either."Stef, I am worried how co-parenting with her will proceed. We are still living together until the New Year. I should have no issue with my income getting a medium-sized place to live in where the kids can stay with me half of the time. There school routines should not change. I have a mother who is able to assist with child care as well as an aunt, and as a last resort we could afford a babysitter. In the logistics sense, therefore, there are no 'issues.' The real problem I need guidance with is how to navigate this co-parenting scenario for the next 10 or so years while the kids do not have their own free will to choose who to live with, because my fear is that if I don't appease her craziness to a certain degree, she will turn the kids against me or try something insane like moving outside of town or wasting money on Family Court to get me less access. There are also other concerns which I will talk to you about, of a different legal nature, causing me to be weary."What is the sweet spot for dealing with people like this - should I stick to my convictions on everything and face what may come from her irrational mind, for the sake of raising my kids the exact way I want, or is it not 'defeat' to make concessions where appropriate to avoid 'rocking the boat' too much?"My previous calls were #3995 from Feb of 2018 and #5113 from February 5, 2023, if you want to refresh your memory of my situation overall. For your listeners, I hope they review all of these calls if they find themselves about to enter a serious relationship at a young age or with any woman, in general, who they have doubts about / have noticed red flags in ESPECIALLY if the prospect of having children with said woman is on the table. This is how your life could turn out if you do not heed the warnings, and heed the teachings of Stefan and philosophy! I hope this is the last call I ever need to make about this topic, and I hope it helps others. Lastly, I plan to come clean on a few things that I was not honest about in the call from a year and a half ago, because I am ready to embrace full honesty and truth. The burden of falsehood is too great, but not for myself, for my children."GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
In this episode, we examine a caller's challenging journey through a tumultuous marriage marked by his wife's declining mental health and the complications of expanding their family. He reflects on red flags and chaotic incidents stemming from her struggles with emotional stability and substance use, leading to police involvement. The discussion highlights themes of accountability, self-awareness, and the importance of navigating relationships with clarity to protect their children from repeating past mistakes.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Topic : Dating crazy women.Topic Detail: Hi Stef. Hope you're well. Stef I keep dating crazy women and feeling intense pain for too long afterwards. I need your help please. Can we do a call in please. We've spoken once before.Number of years as a listener: 10 yearsGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
My friend who listens to your show often recommended me to talk to you. I've seen videos and read your book. I am stuck on the treadmill of life. My wife got pregnant while we were 18 with my son. We got married and life has been hard ever since.Early 30s, 5 ft 10, dark hair/eyes, fit lean build, young lookingTL;DRI feel like a pathetic loser and single father. I know I'll be bitter forever but can't bring myself to finally leave her. None of my family/friends know other than 1 friend. Talked to lawyers. All of her friends/family/client's know. I see them and am ashamed. I have the lowest self respect ever. She has been berating meyears. She won't let me lead in any aspect. I have no frame. Why am I like this? Do I think I had my shot so now I need to take care of my sons? I don't want to see my kid's half as often? Is it because I've never been with another girl? Do I worry about her finding a new man or I won't find a new girl? How can I look my sons in the eye and tell them I wasn't strong enough to do what I recommend for them? She says she loves me. I love her, but this seems really unhealthy. Where is my masculine desire to leave? Am I the problem? Is she? Does she have BPD?Backstory timeline:High school, sophomore year. Ask her to be my gf immediately after she broke up with her boyfriend, she ended it the next day. It was because she was fooling around with her ex.Time goes by, we start dating.Our relationship is constant drama and roller coaster of emotions. We were both jealous of any interaction with the opposite sex.She got pregnant Junior year but she miscarried. We still dated and she gets pregnant my first semester in college when I was thinking of breaking up with her.We got married, lived with family for the first while with my son and then got an apartment. I had been bouncing around between part time jobs while going to school and she started her own company doing aesthetics. Mainly eyelashes.I did poor in school. Hadn't grown up and wasn't being a man.She goes to Aesthetic school and we both work evenings.The cycle repeats of me getting a new job every year only to increase pay slightly and inching towards my degree. She continued with Aesthetics.Have another son.She had been inappropriately chatting with a friend of ours. She moves out and tells me we need some time apart and strings me along.We start going to counseling. I think this can work. She starts seeing change in me. I asked her about any cheating which she lied about and I believed.She tells me about cheating on me.I'm furious but still attend counseling.I'm done. Planning for divorce mentally. Checked out from the relationship.We find out she's pregnant (with my kid) and decide we can make it work. She wants to stop counseling (but not tell the counselor she's pregnant.) I move into her apartment and shortly thereafter she has a stillborn birth at 26 weeks. We buy a house together and fix it up before moving in. She starts giving off hints that she doesn't think our relationship will work.She decides to try and make it work but in order to do so she needs to tell the truth.She tells me that the guy is a friend of mine. She saw him. They kissed. She tells me we only got back together because pregnant.I'm mad, sleep downstairs, cut ties with multiple friends.She says she will do whatever it takes to make it work. Time goes by.I get a full time job and am still in school.She is pregnant with my 3rd son.She finds out I've been looking at porn. Get kicked out of house. Live with parents.I move back in. Get a full time salaried position making more than I've ever made by a decent amount.Graduate with a degree in IS.Last year shortly before summer she tells me she wants to get a divorce. Our relationship is a constant cycle, I don't try to get a better job, We don't make enough money, She thinks she's better off without me.I try to become Superman. I go to counseling&coaching. I try to become a better father/man. Work on my career. Be better in every aspect. I'm checked out from the relationship. At my birthday dinner she says she wants to make it work AGAIN. While thinking/planning I'm just sitting in limbo not making a decision.Things start looking up. Relationship is better than ever. Closer than ever. Spend time together. Help each other. Tells me she loves me more than ever. Cries because our sex is so good.A few months ago she went to a concert with a girlfriend. Got blackout drunk, ended up kissing a random guy in a parking garage.She says I should leave her. At the time I didn't really care. What's one more on the record?I had been consuming red pill content over the past year and a half.We find out our toddler is Autistic. Therapy/school is expensive.We talk, she starts being better. Says she loves me.I contact lawyer.I left out some things due to word restriction.Thank youNumber of years as a listener: Less than a yearGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Stefan speaks with a young caller, age 23, who feels lost and inadequate due to unemployment and family dynamics stemming from neglect. The caller reflects on his upbringing marked by tension and a mother's illness during the 2008 crisis, leading to feelings of incompetence. Stefan reassures him that these experiences are common and encourages him to explore his interests in cryptocurrency as a path forward. He emphasizes the importance of reframing failure as a part of growth. By the end of the conversation, the caller shows a more optimistic outlook, recognizing that pursuing his passions can help him break free from limiting beliefs shaped by his past.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Stefan speaks with a caller who recounts his painful experiences of verbal abuse from his father, influenced by alcohol. The conversation explores the father's trauma and addiction, revealing a pattern of projecting insecurities onto the caller. Stefan emphasizes the need for therapy, honest communication, and boundaries as the caller navigates the challenges of contemplating independence from a toxic home environment. The dialogue highlights the importance of self-care and resilience in fostering healthier relationships, ending on a hopeful note for the caller's journey toward personal growth.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Freedomain Live Call In 1 March 2025In this episode, I examine a recent interaction between Zelensky, Vance, and Trump, focusing on the psychological dynamics and negotiation strategies involved. I question how a leader can prioritize ideology over national welfare, using an analogy of a desperate husband dismissing the doctor who can save his wife. I discuss the importance of pragmatism in political leadership and critique American interventionism's role in exacerbating global conflicts. The episode wraps up with a conversation on personal relationships, exploring themes of unconditional love and emotional manipulation, while emphasizing self-awareness and accountability. I invite listeners to reflect on these intersections of politics, psychology, and personal growth.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
"Hi Stef"I am a struggling mom of 2. My oldest just turned 2 last weekend, and the youngest is now 4 months old. Ever since i gave birth, things have been chaotic. Having 2 kids so young means they both need me all day long (and also all night long, for the little one). I have help (a nanny), but that just shaves the peak of stress. She plays with the older one when i am preoccupied with the younger or cooking or laundry etc.I am on all day, talking or playing with the older, taking care of the household or the baby, and don't get rest at night either.My fiancé (we are getting married Friday, he is the father of the 2 kids) and me are fighting all the time. I don't know how to stop the fighting, since i am just exhausted and desperately need a break."My current state also impacts my parenting. I am much less patient with the kids. And i still need to protect the younger one from the older one. When the older one is frustrated, he hits the younger one, or lies on top of him, or bites him. And i always need to be on guard. If i fail, then the baby cries and i tell the older one off and tell him to apologize. He doesn't comply. And when that's the case, i pick up the crying baby and walk out of the room. And then the toddler follows me, desperately crying out my name. It is a lot. But i really don't know how else to react when he mistreats the young one. I of course try to prevent it all day, but it does happen about once a day or once every other day that the toddler makes the baby cry."Please share your advice with an exhausted momma that is desperately trying to do her best."GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Stefan engages with a caller in his late twenties who feels behind in dating after prioritizing career success. The caller expresses a desire for a meaningful relationship and future family but grapples with a judgmental attitude towards women and a focus on financial stability over emotional connection. As they explore the caller's family background, it becomes evident that a lack of open discussions about relationships has impacted his understanding of romantic dynamics. Stefan challenges the caller's views on self-worth tied to financial success and encourages a focus on character and virtues in potential partners. They discuss the importance of active listening in relationships, identifying patterns of defensiveness that hinder genuine connections. The episode concludes with an emphasis on redefining self-worth and pursuing love based on mutual respect and shared values, leaving the caller with actionable insights to engage more authentically in his romantic pursuits.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
FLASH Freedomain Livestream 12 February 2025In this lecture, Stefan addresses audience questions about personal relationships and commitment, focusing on a woman's concerns about her boyfriend's reluctance to marry. He links this hesitance to societal trends and the risks men perceive in relationships, advocating for a balanced view of risk that emphasizes personal accountability. Stefan discusses a caller's procrastination regarding health issues, framing it as part of a larger commitment challenge. He stresses the importance of active engagement, humility, and transparency in communication to foster trust and connection, ultimately encouraging listeners to confront procrastination and embrace accountability for more fulfilling relationships.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this call in, Stefan engages with a caller who shares his experiences of childhood emotional neglect and the resulting challenges in forming relationships as an adult. The caller reflects on his early education, attending high school at 12, which led to feelings of isolation. He discusses a turbulent family dynamic, marked by a dominant mother and a submissive father, which shaped his approach to conflict and relationships. As they explore his struggles with self-confidence and romantic pursuits, Stefan guides the conversation towards recognizing how these patterns mirror his parents' dysfunctional relationship. The caller confronts the deep-seated feelings of inadequacy stemming from his upbringing, expressing a desire to break free from these toxic dynamics. The discussion highlights the impact of familial relationships on personal development and the importance of acknowledging these influences to foster healthier interactions moving forward.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
"How to emigrate without destroying the family unit"My spouse and I have been married for five years, together for eleven. We have two young sons, aged three and one. We reside in the United Kingdom; I work remotely, and my wife works part-time, primarily from home. I immigrated to the U.K. with my family of origin twenty years ago from Africa. While I have adapted to life here, a strong desire to return to my homeland persists, intensifying annually, despite lacking a secure financial plan for such a relocation. My wife has expressed opposition to this move, leaving me despondent and resentful. The prospect of relocating alone is devastating to my family. Remaining in the U.K. is undesirable; I yearn for the potential autonomy and opportunities of my home country. I am uncertain if I can persuade my wife to relocate, further fueling my desire to leave. I seek guidance on resolving this conflict or achieving a mutually agreeable compromise. before I do something I may live to regret."GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Sunday Morning Live 9 February 2025In this episode, I examine the balance between uniqueness and normalcy in our thinking, particularly in relation to creativity and reality. I reflect on political dynamics, deplatforming, and how these shifts redirected my focus from politics to philosophy. We discuss narcissism, the importance of boundaries, and the question "Do I exist to you?" as a means to evaluate relationships. I highlight emotional responses and the need to recognize one's value in navigating toxic dynamics. Ultimately, I encourage listeners to appreciate their worth and foster relationships built on mutual respect and understanding.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, Stefan engages a caller reflecting on his challenging personal relationships shaped by a turbulent childhood marked by emotional neglect. The caller discusses the impact of his upbringing on his two failed marriages, characterized by loneliness and unresolved trauma. He expresses a desire for healthier connections and is committed to open dialogue in his current relationship. Stefan guides the conversation toward self-awareness and breaking dysfunctional cycles, offering support for navigating difficult discussions about emotions and healing.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
FLASH Freedomain Live Chat 6 February 2025In this episode, Stefan discusses hedonism in parenting with caller Mr. V, who shares personal stories about how parental influences can stifle children's passions. They explore the psychological impact of avoiding discomfort and the suppression of enthusiasm in society. Stefan emphasizes the importance of reclaiming personal passion for individual happiness and societal progress. The dialogue also includes a discussion on Universal Preferable Behavior (UPB), examining morality independent of divine frameworks. The episode advocates for embracing enthusiasm in a world that often discourages it.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
A caller grapples with the emotional fallout from a troubled childhood marked by neglect and emotional abuse. He seeks to confront his parents for the first time in a year, hoping to address lingering issues that have led to feelings of detachment and low self-worth in adulthood. Through a role-play scenario facilitated by Stefan, the caller articulates his grievances and reflects on patterns of manipulation from his father, revealing a desire for authenticity in familial relationships. The discussion delves into themes of self-identity, accountability, and the complexities of reconciling past trauma with present realities. Ultimately, the conversation encourages the caller to navigate family dynamics with informed assertiveness, aiming for healthier connections moving forward.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, Stefan speaks with a 30-year-old caller from Southern Europe about his journey towards self-awareness after feeling like an "NPC" in life. The caller shares his struggles with passive behavior, resentment, and guilt stemming from an authoritarian upbringing. They discuss the impact of his family dynamics on his marriage, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries with abusive relatives. Stefan highlights the need for assertive parenting and prioritizing the caller's family's well-being over past familial ties. The episode concludes with the caller expressing gratitude for the transformative insights gained.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, Stefan speaks with a caller about his tumultuous past influenced by familial addiction and his struggles with vices, including spending on escorts. After a brief period of stability, the caller returned to his family's chaotic environment, leading to conflict and mental health issues. As they explore his motivations and unhealthy coping mechanisms, Stefan emphasizes the need for negotiation skills to foster healthier relationships. The episode culminates in the caller expressing newfound optimism and readiness to confront his challenges, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and effective communication in breaking cycles of dysfunction.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, we examine the challenges of personal relationships, focusing on a caller's troubled seven-year marriage marked by emotional disconnection and his wife's feelings of inadequacy. He shares insights from his upbringing in a seemingly happy but troubled family, revealing unresolved childhood traumas that contribute to their struggles.We discuss the detrimental patterns inherited from their parents' marriages, highlighting the necessity of open communication and self-awareness. The caller recognizes the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing his wife's emotional needs while addressing his own resentments. The conversation ultimately underscores the need for resilience and confronting past issues to foster healthier family dynamics.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
This is a follow up to a previous call, which can be found here: https://fdrpodcasts.com/5590/i-dated-a-sex-addict-freedomain-call-inThis call explores the caller's marital struggles stemming from both partners' traumatic pasts and the wife's emotional distance following her brother's tragic death. Stefan emphasizes the importance of communication and accountability in addressing intimacy issues, urging the caller to confront these challenges directly. He highlights the necessity of individual agency in a relationship and invites the wife to join the conversation for a comprehensive understanding of their dynamics and shared goals.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
THE HUSBAND'S SHOW IS AVAILABLE AT PREMIUM.FREEDOMAIN.COM "PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY RAGE":https://premium.freedomain.com/659840fabac7190c0804511f/please-help-me-with-my-rage-freedomain-call-inDear Stefan,I've been meaning to reach out to you for over a year now. My husband had his first call with you in December 2023, where he discussed the impact of domestic violence on our family. Since then, he's sought help, and we've been without physical violence for over a year. While we still struggle with unhealthy verbal arguments, he is making genuine efforts to improve, and I've realized I need to do the same.Part of me must know that my childhood was less than ideal, but I've come from a long line of conflict avoiders and if you just pretend it didn't happen then it didn't happen. So sometimes I wonder if I'm making out to be more than it is. My husband's reactions to the memories I recall are odd to me, as these things seem so normal it's hard to imagine that not all families have similar dynamics. I think I've been hesitant to reach out because I know you will uncover truths I've been trying to ignore—about my family and about myself. But as I've spent this past year reflecting on my past, writing about my experiences, and attempting to set boundaries, I realize I'm in over my head and need more direction. My husband and I have two little girls and another one on the way; therefore, it is critical I put my fears aside and get my issues sorted.The main issues I'm having are - (1) I struggle with forming consistent emotional bonds with my children—sometimes feeling deeply connected, but other times dissociated. (2) Feeling immense guilt for setting boundaries, (3) Battling severe anxiety and mild depression, as well as social awkwardness and a constant feeling that others are more ‘adult' than I am, (4) I get easily overwhelmed and overstimulated, occasionally leading to outbursts (5) Shame from past behavior- recklessness and disrespecting myselfI used to blame most of my struggles on my father—a drug addict, criminal, and abuser. But after listening to a few of your call-ins and talking with my husband, I've started to see how much of an impact my mom had as well. I think I avoided facing this truth because I was afraid it would make me dislike her, but I realize now that it's something I can't ignore. I need to confront these issues head-on and do what is required to break the cycle and make sure my past doesn't damage my children and my marriage.Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I hope to hear from you soon.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Catch the first part here! https://fdrpodcasts.com/5799In this second part of a two-part call in, Stefan Molyneux engages with a woman navigating significant changes in her life following her divorce from her ex-husband. She shares her emotional journey, reflecting on her past relationship's dynamics, the impact of her traumatic teenage accident, and her struggles with substance abuse as coping mechanisms. The conversation explores the influence of her father's abusive behavior on her partner choices and addresses the cycle of toxicity she seeks to escape. Molyneux encourages her to take personal accountability and confront her upbringing's effects on her relationships. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes her commitment to healing and envisioning a healthier future for herself and potential children, highlighting the complexities of recovery and the importance of moral clarity in overcoming past trauma.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Get ready for a two part call-in, first from the husband, and then the wife!Part 2: https://fdrpodcasts.com/5800"My wife and i are very likely getting divorced and i want to know my obligation to fight when it looks like to me the primary problem is just plain mental illness. "The biggest problem we have is her delusions about me cheating, being on drugs, drugging her, and lying."None of this is real and it doesn't matter what evidence, logic, reason, common sense i use to show her its not true. "She has a history of mental illness and was also in a bad car accident before i met her where her brain was badly injured. She was previously hospitalized for thinking her parents were coke dealers. "She's been to see numerous therapists but never a clear diagnosis."Schizoaffective bipolar disorder was what her first psych said. "Borderline personality disorder,"PTSD,"And / or Paranoid Personality Disorder are what make the most sense to me after 5 years with her and talking to several therapists / professionals."I'm also considering that she may just be a narcissist or some combination of all of the above. "I am conflicted because other than these episodes of whatever this is we have a very amazing relationship. The majority of the time i am very happy with her and she says and acts like shes very happy with me. We can communicate about most issues and are oriented towards solutions. We have similar values, we agree on most things, our sex life is fantastic, we are always laughing and playing and putting each other first. I have never been happier than in my time with my wife and she usually says she feels the same. "When she gets stressed out tho then i suddenly become an absolute monster in her eyes and she says the meanest nastiest things to me and tells me she's never been happy with me etc. She's been caught smoking cigs, which was a huge boundary for me. Hiding her drinking. And i am of course suspicious of her cheating after her constant accusations of me cheating but no tangible proof, just little things that seem fishy. "After dealing with too many of these insane accusations and random fights i have moved out and asked for divorce. But its been a little over a month now and i miss her like crazy. Any attempts to talk with her have been heated, cruel, unproductive but in the past she has always come out of the fog eventually and been apologetic and reasonable so I hang on to a little hope that she will come to her senses again this time and be willing to actually talk. "I do think there's just something wrong with her brain but i cannot get through to her how bad she keeps hurting me because in her mind these delusions about me cheating and hiding things are real. Or she's just a narcissist and playing sick games with me. "I really love this girl but i can't have kids with her treating me like this. How can i get her help or do i just cut my losses and walk away?"Her parents have always been very supportive and understanding in the past because they've been through these things with her themselves but they now seem to have cut me off and aren't replying to my attempts to talk to them anymore. They have always been a huge help in the past but now I'm assuming they're just sick of the drama and instead of facing how they messed their only kid up they are wanting to keep on good terms with her by cutting me out. "I am going crazy with guilt, shame, remorse, anger, confusion, regret, sadness."Everyone in my life is telling me to just cut my losses and be grateful no kids are involved. I rationally know this is toxic but I took marriage very seriously and that means in sickness and in health and she is clearly sick with something. "I need an outside perspective on what my obligation to her really is."GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, we explore the complexities of Clint Eastwood's film "Juror No. 2," delving into its narrative structure and character development. We discuss the rapid progression of the legal drama, noting Eastwood's distinct directing style and the portrayal of the protagonist—a recovering alcoholic navigating a morally ambiguous landscape. Our analysis critiques the film's tendency to evoke sympathy for flawed characters and raises questions about the possibility of genuine change. We highlight the lack of emotional resonance and character evolution, ultimately expressing frustration with the film's conclusion and philosophical shortcomings. Through our conversation, we invite listeners to reflect on the importance of depth and authenticity in cinematic storytelling.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Freedomain FLASH Livestream 6 January 2025In this episode, I engage in a candid exploration of personal experiences shaped by childhood trauma and its impact on relationships. We discuss the complexities of communication within family dynamics and how upbringing influences emotional expression. I share my own journey of navigating familial expectations and the longing for acceptance, juxtaposing childhood play's freedom against the constraints of societal judgment. As we delve deeper, we reflect on the broader societal implications of unresolved childhood trauma, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding in fostering healthy connections. I advocate for personal responsibility in mental well-being while recognizing the burdens of early experiences. The conversation culminates in a call for listeners to embrace their paths of healing and empowerment, validating the struggles and triumphs of self-discovery amidst adversity.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Sunday Morning Live 5 January 2025In this episode, I reflect on the start of 2025, discussing the interplay of technology, social dynamics, and changing gender roles. I share a humorous anecdote about an internet outage, which prompts a deeper examination of the evolving desires of young men and women regarding relationships and the implications of these trends for societal stability. Celebrating 20 years of promoting freedom and inquiry, I highlight the importance of accountability alongside newfound freedoms for women. I explore the challenges they face, including single motherhood and financial strain, and discuss how these factors can disrupt family structures. Additionally, I address the relationship between male ambition and traditional partnerships, emphasizing the need for shared values in fostering enduring relationships. Ultimately, I encourage listeners to consider the responsibilities we share in shaping a balanced social landscape as we move into the new year.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, I explore self-trust in relation to obligation and desire through a conversation with a caller grappling with familial expectations and career choices. Together, we examine the role of personal agency, the interplay of discipline and pleasure, and the impact of upbringing on decision-making. We also discuss the dynamics of respect in relationships, highlighting how self-perception influences interactions. This episode encourages listeners to redefine their connections with desire and obligation, advocating for a more authentic and fulfilling life.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, we critique the film "Homestead" from Angel Studios, addressing its shortcomings in portraying human relationships during a nuclear apocalypse. We examine the use of simplistic characters and clichés, particularly in the depiction of gender dynamics, where male rationality is vilified while female emotionality is idealized. Our discussion highlights the film's reliance on narrative conveniences, lack of character growth, and shallow emotional responses. We advocate for more authentic storytelling that captures the complexities of survival and the human experience.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Stefan Molyneux of Freedomain discusses conformity, aggression, and human duality in classic literature, focusing on Robert Louis Stevenson's "The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde." He critiques the allegorical interpretation of the novella as alcoholism, framing it instead as a conflict between societal norms and personal impulses. Molyneux explores the concept of the "shadow self," noting how societal pressures can mask latent aggression, and critiques virtue signaling in contemporary discourse.He emphasizes individual ethical responsibility in confronting complicity within power structures and advocates for aligning personal relationships with moral values. In exploring aging and legacy, Molyneux underscores the pursuit of moral excellence and the importance of personal accountability, challenging listeners to reflect on their beliefs and the genuine quest for virtue in a complex world.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and over 100 Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
This episode features a heartfelt conversation with a caller who shares her journey through complex family dynamics and societal expectations related to peaceful parenting. She discusses conflicts with roommates over differing parenting philosophies and tensions within her church community following a controversial breastfeeding incident. As she navigates her relationship with her mother, the caller highlights the emotional challenges of high expectations and unresolved issues from her upbringing. Themes of gaslighting, familial disconnect, and the quest for validation emerge, providing insight into the struggles against societal norms. We conclude with her reflections on parenting her daughter, emphasizing the journey of self-discovery and reconciliation within the family.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, the interactive multi-lingual philosophy AI trained on thousands of hours of my material, private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
Freedomain FLASH Livestream 21 December 2024In this holiday episode, I reflect on our absence and invite listeners to support Freedomain. I introduce a song quiz on Roger Miller's "King of the Road," leading to a discussion on the evolution of music and its creativity. I delve into deep conversations about familial challenges and touch on diverse topics, including Canada's household debt and the impact of parenting styles.As literature influences my views, I discuss "The Fountainhead" and its connection to creativity and aging. The conversation explores societal expectations around masculinity and femininity, modern dating, and emotional labor. I address listener inquiries, urging critical examination of personal experiences.I conclude by expressing gratitude for audience support and inviting contributions, offering exclusive content as a holiday incentive. This episode blends music, philosophy, and introspection while celebrating the season's spirit.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022
In this episode, I converse with a caller navigating divorce from his Ukrainian wife amid the war. He reflects on their impulsive marriage after just six months and the lack of guidance from his parents' troubled relationships. We discuss the challenges they faced, including financial stress, and I encourage him to rethink the importance of deeper compatibility beyond physical attraction. I emphasize evaluating the motivations of those around us and the need for nurturing, supportive connections. By the end, he gains insights for approaching future relationships with a focus on shared values and emotional security, viewing his situation as an opportunity for personal growth.GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Also get the Truth About the French Revolution, multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material, as well as targeted AIs for Real-Time Relationships, BitCoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-Ins. Don't miss the private livestreams, premium call in shows, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2022