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Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2024 182:17

Back from a week off... got started with an Olympic athlete in Kenya getting burnt to death by boyfriend, and a Swiss model was dismembered and "pureed" by her boyfriend. Plus an Israeli ground raid in Syria, Ohio Haitian controversy, Ukraine seeks to launch missiles into Russia, Alabama women kills boyfriend with chainsaw, and a guy in DC was caught on camera rectally pleasuring himself with a cucumber. Music: Bloodhound Gang/"Boom"

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Redux: Dark Fantasies, Part 1

Dear Sugars

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2024 32:32

This episode was originally released on January 13, 2018. Orgies. Sex in public. Incest. These are the things that some of us think about in the dark. Taboo fantasies can be exciting, but they can also be the source of our deepest shame. In this two-part series on sexual fantasies, the Sugars read letters from people who want to turn off the thoughts that turn them on. Dr. Ian Kerner, a psychotherapist and sexuality counselor, helps the Sugars answer a letter from a woman who calls herself “Fed Up With Fantasy.” She writes, “Ever since I started being a sexual being I've had terrible fantasies. Incest of every kind. Teachers having sex with their underage students. Gangbangs in public bathrooms. I cannot get turned on without thinking of these story lines. Did something bad happen to me that I have repressed so much I don't even have a hint of it?” she asks. “And how do I make it stop?” Dr. Kerner and the Sugars explore where dark fantasies come from and offer “Fed Up With Fantasy” ways she can share them with her boyfriend. Dr. Kerner specializes in sex therapy and couples therapy. He's also The New York Times best-selling author of “She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.”

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70. I asked an almost stranger to witness me self-pleasuring: these are the top 4 takeaways

Soul Nectar

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2024 41:24

I recently had to ask a (just about) stranger to watch my self-pleasure practice for a professional Somatic Sexology certification that I'm currently enrolled in. The experience was vulnerable, raw, intimate, beautiful, empowering, edgy, un-shaming, and healing on levels I didn't know I needed. I experienced a deep sense of sisterhood, solidarity, reclamation, and normalization. It was an opportunity to be witnessed in one of the most exposed, "private," and vulnerable states that humans can be in, and to experience what it's like to be lovingly witnessed with zero performance, goals, destinations, or expectations. I felt the remnants of childhood shame physically leaving my body. I felt my nervous system expand its capacity for pleasure and safety. I felt the divinity and normalcy of human sexuality on even deeper levels. In this potent and vulnerable solo episode, I share about the experience, my top 4 lessons and takeaways, and my personal suggestions and recommendations for reigniting your own connection with your pleasure, body, and eroticism. CONNECT WITH NADINE: 1. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the upcoming live class of Inner Sanctum to awaken internal pleasure, come home to your body, and gently release sexual blockages⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ❤️‍

The Virgin Couple's Wedding Night: Part 1

SteamyStory

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024

The Virgin Couple's Wedding Night: Part 1 A chaste couple's epiphany of pleasures. From the Awakening, By Estcher Listen to thePodcast at Steamy Stories.My name was Emma Mary Fiore Amato. Now I proudly carry my husband's name: Emma May Fiore Williams. My brand new, gorgeous, and sexy husband is Daniel Christopher Williams. He's African American and I am Italian American. We met in the University of California San Diego (UCSD) as freshmen. We dated despite my reservations of dating a black man. I was not a fan of unwanted attention and being seen with him at school and downtown caused eyes to stare. The United States is rampant with racism. It's everywhere and palatable and real in every sense. It vibrates across social norms and in the media and sometimes openly on the street. But I was attracted to Daniel right away. We shared a class together and the first time I walked into the classroom, and I saw him, my heart had skipped a beat. He had felt the same way. It wasn't until a month later that he summoned the nerve to ask me out. We went to a dinner down at Liberty Station and then walked the boardwalk past where the San Salvador replica galleon was being made and along the inner harbour. It was a lovely first date. Afterward, he kissed me outside my dormitory, and I kissed him back and told him I would like to go out again. He was so pleased. Daniel is gorgeous. He's my height but very slim. He keeps his hair short and has a short-cropped beard. He wears black rimmed glasses. He does a little gym and a little cardio. Not a lot, but just enough to keep him fit. He's strong. His ass is golden. I was first attracted to his eyes. His glasses have a way of making them larger than life and they pulled me in. His dark skin enhancing the white of his eyes and his lovely teeth past his full lips. That first kiss outside my dorm had melted me. On our second date I admitted I was a devout Catholic, being a proper Italian American girl. Sex was not allowed outside the marital chamber. I could tell he was devastated. We could both feel the attraction to one another. A look from him would get me all tingly. I was a regular at the confessional at my church, admitting my sin and lust. I would accept my penance and say my prayers kneeling at a pew, gazing with adoration to the figure of Christ above the altar, counting my prayers on my rosary. Throughout our years at UCSD we were never apart. Our love life was constrained to kissing throughout our freshman year, to a little petting during our sophomore and junior years, and as seniors we had performed oral sex on each other a couple of times. My penance for that consisted of working at various soup kitchens in the Gaslamp District of San Diego. Daniel joined me and I think I truly fell in love with him when he did. He shared my penance and I rejoiced. My parents were shocked when I had introduced Danial to them. They aren't racist, but they had hoped I would meet someone "more like me", my mother had said. But it was too late for me. I adored Daniel and together we were wonderful. In time, they accepted our relationship. It helped that Daniel was so well spoken and so intelligent. They could see the good in him and although he was Baptist by his christening, he believed in God and that was enough for my parents to accept him. It was so hard not to cave into our sexual desires. We wanted each other so terribly badly. But I was a good Catholic girl and took my faith very seriously. Daniel understood and somehow, he stayed with me throughout college. Our friends always tried to pressure us. My girlfriends thought I was archaic; disillusioned about values they said no longer applied in the modern world. His friends were no better, urging him to leave me for "someone better". By the end of college, we had few friends, but by that point in our relationship, I only needed Daniel and he only needed me. We decided to wait until our careers started before we took things any further with our relationship. He started work at an architectural firm in San Diego, and I accepted an accounting position out in Coronado. One year later he proposed to me. My heart soared on that day, and I will never forget it. It had been magical and perfect, and I accepted right away, and he spun me around. My parents had known. Daniel has asked them for my hand in marriage and they had happily agreed. We set a date for end summer, and I dove into planning and preparations. My only remaining girlfriend, a friend from church, became my bridesmaid and helped with everything. The wedding was beautiful. Standing before my future husband in front of God and my family and friends and making my vows was the most beautiful thing I had ever done. He looked so gorgeous in his tuxedo. I never loved him more. We said our vows, exchanged rings, and then he kissed me in front of everybody. Claiming me as his bride and wife. I felt liberated. He was now my husband. Everything we had always wanted to do for the past five years were now open to us. We could consummate our marriage and love. Over and over again. I walked back down the aisle, a woman and a wife, and my pussy couldn't have been wetter. Lust ran over me in waves and I gripped Daniel's hand so tightly. The rest of the day and evening went by in a blur. I had to watch the video later to see just how much of a good time we had. But mostly I watched how Daniel and I looked at each other. Everyone said we looked with such love at each other. In truth, we were looking at each other with unbridled lust. Then, thankfully, we exited the reception to cheering family and friends and entered the limo my father had provided, and we were whisked away to our hotel. In the morning, we were heading to Hawai'i for our honeymoon. But tonight. Tonight, I would become my man's woman. He would take me and complete me. I don't recall checking in, or the elevator ride to our suite, or Daniel carrying me in his arms across the threshold to our suite. What I remember is tearing off our clothes and collapsing on the large California King bed. Later, I would peel rose petals off my flesh and Daniel's. I was a good Catholic girl. I had followed my faith, confessed my sins, and did my penance. But now? Now I was married and in the eyes of God, I would and could pleasure my husband. I knew the scripture. My chains were removed. "Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Saviour. As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands." (Eph. 5:22--24). My mother had given me advice the day before the wedding. She said it was a long tradition and I would do the same for my daughter one day. She had held my hands and spoke to me as one wife to her daughter bride. She passed on to me the secrets of a happy marriage that the priest had never mentioned during our marriage preparation classes at the church. She spoke openly of things I would need to learn to do. And often, she had said. And willingly. Her attention to detail was unnerving to me but I listened to everything. Some things she said were frightening, sounding foul, but my mother laughed and told me to wait and see. "Your father loves me just as much as the day we married, Emma," she said, holding my hands and looking into my eyes. "Every day I let him know I need him and want him. To be intimate with him and he does the same for me. Marriages fail when that stops. There will be times you don't feel the need or desire. You must fight that. Embrace him. Kiss him. Fondle him. Whisper in his ear that he is your everything and his will is yours to fulfil. Do you understand?" I nodded, biting my lip. I think I understood. My mother laughed at my expression. "Wake him with your mouth in the morning. Not every day. But some days or it will become routine. Pleasure him. Take his seed inside you. Swallow his love. It can be daunting. You'll get used to it. He is your man, and his seed will be yours. Claim it. Only you can receive it through your marriage. Don't make him regret choosing you over all others. "And seek your own pleasure. You should never regret choosing him. He should willingly pleasure you with his mouth. Accept it and bask in it. It is your husband claiming what is his by marriage. Your womanhood will pleasure him. So trim down there, okay? Did your bridesmaid take you to the salon?" I nodded, feeling heat rush to my face. I had been waxed. It had hurt so badly, but I had found pleasure in it in a small way which frightened me. I nodded at my mother. "Good. And all the way between your legs?" I nodded again, feeling more heat. "Do you know what sodomy is?" I nodded feeling horror. "My priest told me before I was married that sodomy is a sin between men," said my mother, looking hard at me. "Yes, mamma." "And he added it does not concern marital relations between man and wife." "Mamma!" I said in shock. I thought of her and dad. "Did you and poppa...?" "Oh, yes, Emma. Otherwise, you would have a lot more siblings rather than just you." "What?" "You'll need to watch your cycle. Avoid pregnancies. Anal sex is the best way to do that when you are ovulating." I stared at my mother. Questions raced through my thoughts faster than I could fully formulate and finish them. "I enjoy it, Emma. Pleasuring your father gives me pleasure. Be patient. Try it for yourself. Push past the initial pain and I think you will be surprised. Do this for your husband. For you." I couldn't speak. "Throughout your marriage your husband should want to take you all the time, correct?" "Y-yes." "Invite him to take you. Place yourself at his mercy. Let him claim that which is his by marriage." "Mamma!" "And take him when you want, Emma. You are equals in this, despite what the scriptures say. This is a partnership. If you lust after him, take him. If he lusts after you, give yourself to him. Do this, this simple thing, and your marriage will be full of such love and last for eternity. You will join yourselves in heaven and find such blessings. I'm so happy for you, Emma. Daniel is a beautiful man. Your children will be beautiful." "Thank you, mamma." "One more thing. Are you still intact?" I knew what she meant. My hymen had been lost as a teenager doing simple girlish things. Mine opened riding my bike. I shook my head at my mother. "No, mamma." "And I know you are a virgin. I am so proud of you, Emma. I saw how hard it was for you throughout college. Tomorrow night, you give him your everything. What you do with your husband in your bed, will please God. Everything your heart desires. Put your soul into it, Emma. Seize your pleasure and his, okay?" "Mamma? Did nonna give you this same advice?" "No. I had to learn the hard way. I promised myself I would not let my own daughter go into her marriage bed unprepared. We have more to discuss. Are you okay with all this?" "Yes, momma. I'm uncomfortable, but thankful." "Okay, we still have a lot to cover. Like how to truly pleasure your husband with your mouth. Places on his body you need to explore..." "Explore? Like what?" Mother chuckled. "I'm warming up to this now. Your father has always had the best sex with me. It's okay Emma! You came from our love! Now, the penis is a strange thing at first. Daniel is likely very large. But a man's pleasure also comes from his nipples, and his scrotum and testicles. Play with them. Lightly! So very lightly! And below them. Pay attention there. And below that, too. Do you understand where I am talking about?" She meant his asshole. I was horrified. "Make sure he is clean. You, too. Take the time to keep yourself fresh down there. Inside a man is a place. You'll need to find it. Put a finger inside, find it, rub it." "Momma!" "Hush, you have much the same place inside you. Teach him to find it. Your bodies will be one, once married. There is no shame. It is the beauty of sex between a married couple. Seek your pleasure and give your pleasure. There is so much on the Internet. Watch with him. Learn together." "Yes, momma. Do you do all these things with poppa?" "Oh, God, yes. We're older now and we have slowed down. But yes. We still do. I adore your father and his body. Have you ever seen us fight? Not speak to one another?" "No, momma." And it was true. The love between my parents was there for all to see. They constantly hugged and kissed. I've seen them mildly grope each other. I've heard them through the bedroom walls. I only could pray my marriage would be as close to the beauty of theirs. With my mother's advice I think I now knew how. If I could be brave enough. "And now the more mundane things. You and Daniel will be equal in all things. You are not some toy or trophy the bible would have you believe. The bible was written by some seriously misogynistic men..." My memory of that first night with Daniel is seared into my soul. I subjected myself to my husband. My heart soared. My soul sang. I praised God. I stood fully naked before my husband, and he stood naked before me. I am a beautiful woman. Many men have lusted after me. But I was only for my husband, and I stood proudly before him, exposed so willingly for the first time to his gaze. I watched his eyes devour me. He stared into my brown eyes first and I'm sure he saw the same lust as I saw in his. His gaze slowly drifted down and lingered on my breasts. My nipples were tight and painful, lifting to the sky. I saw him lick his lips and delight filled me. So far, he did not look disappointed. His eyes roamed over my flat stomach and then lower. He stared long and hard at my perfectly waxed pussy. I had left a small, heart-shaped, tuft of my fur on my mound. My wetness trickled down my thigh and it tickled. I saw him lick his lips with his hunger and it thrilled me. I felt exposed. Wanton. But I was married, and this was my husband. A smile crossed my lips. I was awakening to my lust and hunger, and it thrilled me. I stared equally back at my husband. We had done some things together. Fully clothed. I had let him taste me a few times. My penance for that had been the soup kitchens. And I had put him in my mouth a few times. I had never swallowed, though. I had spat it out, shame filling me, knowing I disappointed him. But I could not take his sperm inside me until we were married. But now I stared at his slim figure. His brown skin glistened in the dim light of the room. His chest was lightly sprinkled with dark hair, and I couldn't wait to feel my exposed breasts and nipples rubbing against it. He lacked a defined six pack, but his stomach was toned and flat. My eyes traced that delicious area below his stomach that lowered to his penis. The smooth skin demanded my mouth. And I stared at his penis. I had stroked it before. Sucked it before. Did penance for it before. But now I could see it in all its glory. Black men are endowed and so was my husband. It was long and thick and stood hard and standing straight out from his body. The tip glistened with moisture. Veins ran along its length. Below it hung his heavy testicles. His manhood was displayed for me, and I knew tonight he would put it inside me and fill me. It was darker than the rest of him. The head was large and round and was even darker. My ebony husband was panting for me. He wanted the pleasure only I could bring to him. And I wanted his in return. After my talk with my mother, I did a little research. Watched pornography that showed how to pleasure a man fully. Another trickle of my wetness ran down my thigh and I shivered at the tickle. My husband watched it and his eyes widened. "My husband," I purred. "I am so wet for you. You are so hard for me." "Emma, you are gorgeous. Seeing you walking down the aisle in that dress? Oh my God, the angels were jealous, baby. All eyes were on you, but you only had eyes for me." I had stared at him the whole way down the aisle. My papa handed me over and when I had stood before Daniel, my legs threatened to fail me. My love for him in that moment had risen above everything I thought I could reach. And I could see the same reflected back at me. "And you, my Daniel, you looked so handsome. The perfect man. My man. My husband." Daniel was losing himself in his lust for me. He was shaking, and so was I. "Tonight, we will make love, Daniel. I've wanted this for years. I give my everything to you. Do you understand?" He shook his head. "We are married now. My body--all of it--is yours to pleasure yourself with. And I will pleasure myself with you. Over and over, again and again." "My God, Emma. You are so beautiful. Look at you! A gorgeous Italian beauty! I love you so much. I am the luckiest man in the world that you could love me as I love you." "And you are my ebony stud. You are so beautiful to me, Daniel. I have lusted after you since the first day we met. Do you remember?" "How could I forget? Freshman year. Sitting in class, and in walks the woman of my dreams! A vision. So elegant and poised. I knew then I wanted to marry you." "You did?" "Oh, yes. It was love at first sight. I would have waited my entire life to be with you." "Wait no longer, my love. I am yours. Take me. Take all of me. Whatever you desire. Anything." "Anything? What do you mean?" "All my body is yours now, Daniel. And all your body is mine. I mean to take it. I want you to take me, in any way you imagine. But first, I want you to make love to me. To enter me. To cum inside me and seal our marriage in our pleasure and love. I want to lie back and feel you enter me." "Okay," replied Daniel, simply. His eyes looked wild. I moved to him, crossing the distance in two steps, and pressed myself to him. My mouth found his with hunger and I groaned at the feel of his hard cock pressing between us, reaching up past my belly button. We kissed, our tongues dancing, our hands caressing and exploring. His fingers found my wet slit and slid down along my clit and into my depths. I groaned into his mouth and reached down and took his hard, hot penis into my gentle hand. I stroked him, savouring the glorious hardness and maleness of him. We shuffled to the bed and flopped down hard on our sides. We squirmed our way further up the bed until we found the pillows. Rose petals clung to us. All that existed was his body and mine and the pleasures we would pull from one another. I found myself on my back, my legs spread in a delicious wanton way I was now free to enjoy. Daniel crawled up between my legs until he lay on me, his cock pressed against my wet labia, spreading them apart and rubbing deliciously on my clit. We necked hard. My tongue driving into his mouth with desire. His tongue rammed into my mouth, and we sucked on each other's tongues, swallowing our spit, and sinking into each other's souls. My mind was purely on my vagina. An ache I hadn't felt before burned down there. My pussy felt more alive than ever before. I was intimately aware of every little feeling. Wetness poured from me. I could feel the rivulets escaping me. My pussy felt like it was opening on its own. Spreading for my husband. My man. My lover. My best friend in the whole wide world. The righteousness of it overwhelmed my emotions. I sobbed happy tears. I held Daniel's beautiful face in my hands and pressed my lips against his plump, full, sexual lips. Lips I wanted all over my body, tracing his tongue into places I had only dreamed of. And thanks to my mother's words--and a little bit of research--I knew what I wanted to do and taste. Daniel shifted his hips. I felt his enormous cock head press against my opening. "Wait!" I said, pushing on his shoulders. "I want to watch you enter me for the first time! Please!" To be continued, By Estcher for Literotica

The Virgin Couple's Wedding Night: Part 1

Steamy Stories Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 18, 2024

The Virgin Couple's Wedding Night: Part 1 A chaste couple's epiphany of pleasures. From the Awakening, By Estcher Listen to thePodcast at Steamy Stories.My name was Emma Mary Fiore Amato. Now I proudly carry my husband's name: Emma May Fiore Williams. My brand new, gorgeous, and sexy husband is Daniel Christopher Williams. He's African American and I am Italian American. We met in the University of California San Diego (UCSD) as freshmen. We dated despite my reservations of dating a black man. I was not a fan of unwanted attention and being seen with him at school and downtown caused eyes to stare. The United States is rampant with racism. It's everywhere and palatable and real in every sense. It vibrates across social norms and in the media and sometimes openly on the street. But I was attracted to Daniel right away. We shared a class together and the first time I walked into the classroom, and I saw him, my heart had skipped a beat. He had felt the same way. It wasn't until a month later that he summoned the nerve to ask me out. We went to a dinner down at Liberty Station and then walked the boardwalk past where the San Salvador replica galleon was being made and along the inner harbour. It was a lovely first date. Afterward, he kissed me outside my dormitory, and I kissed him back and told him I would like to go out again. He was so pleased. Daniel is gorgeous. He's my height but very slim. He keeps his hair short and has a short-cropped beard. He wears black rimmed glasses. He does a little gym and a little cardio. Not a lot, but just enough to keep him fit. He's strong. His ass is golden. I was first attracted to his eyes. His glasses have a way of making them larger than life and they pulled me in. His dark skin enhancing the white of his eyes and his lovely teeth past his full lips. That first kiss outside my dorm had melted me. On our second date I admitted I was a devout Catholic, being a proper Italian American girl. Sex was not allowed outside the marital chamber. I could tell he was devastated. We could both feel the attraction to one another. A look from him would get me all tingly. I was a regular at the confessional at my church, admitting my sin and lust. I would accept my penance and say my prayers kneeling at a pew, gazing with adoration to the figure of Christ above the altar, counting my prayers on my rosary. Throughout our years at UCSD we were never apart. Our love life was constrained to kissing throughout our freshman year, to a little petting during our sophomore and junior years, and as seniors we had performed oral sex on each other a couple of times. My penance for that consisted of working at various soup kitchens in the Gaslamp District of San Diego. Daniel joined me and I think I truly fell in love with him when he did. He shared my penance and I rejoiced. My parents were shocked when I had introduced Danial to them. They aren't racist, but they had hoped I would meet someone "more like me", my mother had said. But it was too late for me. I adored Daniel and together we were wonderful. In time, they accepted our relationship. It helped that Daniel was so well spoken and so intelligent. They could see the good in him and although he was Baptist by his christening, he believed in God and that was enough for my parents to accept him. It was so hard not to cave into our sexual desires. We wanted each other so terribly badly. But I was a good Catholic girl and took my faith very seriously. Daniel understood and somehow, he stayed with me throughout college. Our friends always tried to pressure us. My girlfriends thought I was archaic; disillusioned about values they said no longer applied in the modern world. His friends were no better, urging him to leave me for "someone better". By the end of college, we had few friends, but by that point in our relationship, I only needed Daniel and he only needed me. We decided to wait until our careers started before we took things any further with our relationship. He started work at an architectural firm in San Diego, and I accepted an accounting position out in Coronado. One year later he proposed to me. My heart soared on that day, and I will never forget it. It had been magical and perfect, and I accepted right away, and he spun me around. My parents had known. Daniel has asked them for my hand in marriage and they had happily agreed. We set a date for end summer, and I dove into planning and preparations. My only remaining girlfriend, a friend from church, became my bridesmaid and helped with everything. The wedding was beautiful. Standing before my future husband in front of God and my family and friends and making my vows was the most beautiful thing I had ever done. He looked so gorgeous in his tuxedo. I never loved him more. We said our vows, exchanged rings, and then he kissed me in front of everybody. Claiming me as his bride and wife. I felt liberated. He was now my husband. Everything we had always wanted to do for the past five years were now open to us. We could consummate our marriage and love. Over and over again. I walked back down the aisle, a woman and a wife, and my pussy couldn't have been wetter. Lust ran over me in waves and I gripped Daniel's hand so tightly. The rest of the day and evening went by in a blur. I had to watch the video later to see just how much of a good time we had. But mostly I watched how Daniel and I looked at each other. Everyone said we looked with such love at each other. In truth, we were looking at each other with unbridled lust. Then, thankfully, we exited the reception to cheering family and friends and entered the limo my father had provided, and we were whisked away to our hotel. In the morning, we were heading to Hawai'i for our honeymoon. But tonight. Tonight, I would become my man's woman. He would take me and complete me. I don't recall checking in, or the elevator ride to our suite, or Daniel carrying me in his arms across the threshold to our suite. What I remember is tearing off our clothes and collapsing on the large California King bed. Later, I would peel rose petals off my flesh and Daniel's. I was a good Catholic girl. I had followed my faith, confessed my sins, and did my penance. But now? Now I was married and in the eyes of God, I would and could pleasure my husband. I knew the scripture. My chains were removed. "Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Saviour. As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands." (Eph. 5:22--24). My mother had given me advice the day before the wedding. She said it was a long tradition and I would do the same for my daughter one day. She had held my hands and spoke to me as one wife to her daughter bride. She passed on to me the secrets of a happy marriage that the priest had never mentioned during our marriage preparation classes at the church. She spoke openly of things I would need to learn to do. And often, she had said. And willingly. Her attention to detail was unnerving to me but I listened to everything. Some things she said were frightening, sounding foul, but my mother laughed and told me to wait and see. "Your father loves me just as much as the day we married, Emma," she said, holding my hands and looking into my eyes. "Every day I let him know I need him and want him. To be intimate with him and he does the same for me. Marriages fail when that stops. There will be times you don't feel the need or desire. You must fight that. Embrace him. Kiss him. Fondle him. Whisper in his ear that he is your everything and his will is yours to fulfil. Do you understand?" I nodded, biting my lip. I think I understood. My mother laughed at my expression. "Wake him with your mouth in the morning. Not every day. But some days or it will become routine. Pleasure him. Take his seed inside you. Swallow his love. It can be daunting. You'll get used to it. He is your man, and his seed will be yours. Claim it. Only you can receive it through your marriage. Don't make him regret choosing you over all others. "And seek your own pleasure. You should never regret choosing him. He should willingly pleasure you with his mouth. Accept it and bask in it. It is your husband claiming what is his by marriage. Your womanhood will pleasure him. So trim down there, okay? Did your bridesmaid take you to the salon?" I nodded, feeling heat rush to my face. I had been waxed. It had hurt so badly, but I had found pleasure in it in a small way which frightened me. I nodded at my mother. "Good. And all the way between your legs?" I nodded again, feeling more heat. "Do you know what sodomy is?" I nodded feeling horror. "My priest told me before I was married that sodomy is a sin between men," said my mother, looking hard at me. "Yes, mamma." "And he added it does not concern marital relations between man and wife." "Mamma!" I said in shock. I thought of her and dad. "Did you and poppa...?" "Oh, yes, Emma. Otherwise, you would have a lot more siblings rather than just you." "What?" "You'll need to watch your cycle. Avoid pregnancies. Anal sex is the best way to do that when you are ovulating." I stared at my mother. Questions raced through my thoughts faster than I could fully formulate and finish them. "I enjoy it, Emma. Pleasuring your father gives me pleasure. Be patient. Try it for yourself. Push past the initial pain and I think you will be surprised. Do this for your husband. For you." I couldn't speak. "Throughout your marriage your husband should want to take you all the time, correct?" "Y-yes." "Invite him to take you. Place yourself at his mercy. Let him claim that which is his by marriage." "Mamma!" "And take him when you want, Emma. You are equals in this, despite what the scriptures say. This is a partnership. If you lust after him, take him. If he lusts after you, give yourself to him. Do this, this simple thing, and your marriage will be full of such love and last for eternity. You will join yourselves in heaven and find such blessings. I'm so happy for you, Emma. Daniel is a beautiful man. Your children will be beautiful." "Thank you, mamma." "One more thing. Are you still intact?" I knew what she meant. My hymen had been lost as a teenager doing simple girlish things. Mine opened riding my bike. I shook my head at my mother. "No, mamma." "And I know you are a virgin. I am so proud of you, Emma. I saw how hard it was for you throughout college. Tomorrow night, you give him your everything. What you do with your husband in your bed, will please God. Everything your heart desires. Put your soul into it, Emma. Seize your pleasure and his, okay?" "Mamma? Did nonna give you this same advice?" "No. I had to learn the hard way. I promised myself I would not let my own daughter go into her marriage bed unprepared. We have more to discuss. Are you okay with all this?" "Yes, momma. I'm uncomfortable, but thankful." "Okay, we still have a lot to cover. Like how to truly pleasure your husband with your mouth. Places on his body you need to explore..." "Explore? Like what?" Mother chuckled. "I'm warming up to this now. Your father has always had the best sex with me. It's okay Emma! You came from our love! Now, the penis is a strange thing at first. Daniel is likely very large. But a man's pleasure also comes from his nipples, and his scrotum and testicles. Play with them. Lightly! So very lightly! And below them. Pay attention there. And below that, too. Do you understand where I am talking about?" She meant his asshole. I was horrified. "Make sure he is clean. You, too. Take the time to keep yourself fresh down there. Inside a man is a place. You'll need to find it. Put a finger inside, find it, rub it." "Momma!" "Hush, you have much the same place inside you. Teach him to find it. Your bodies will be one, once married. There is no shame. It is the beauty of sex between a married couple. Seek your pleasure and give your pleasure. There is so much on the Internet. Watch with him. Learn together." "Yes, momma. Do you do all these things with poppa?" "Oh, God, yes. We're older now and we have slowed down. But yes. We still do. I adore your father and his body. Have you ever seen us fight? Not speak to one another?" "No, momma." And it was true. The love between my parents was there for all to see. They constantly hugged and kissed. I've seen them mildly grope each other. I've heard them through the bedroom walls. I only could pray my marriage would be as close to the beauty of theirs. With my mother's advice I think I now knew how. If I could be brave enough. "And now the more mundane things. You and Daniel will be equal in all things. You are not some toy or trophy the bible would have you believe. The bible was written by some seriously misogynistic men..." My memory of that first night with Daniel is seared into my soul. I subjected myself to my husband. My heart soared. My soul sang. I praised God. I stood fully naked before my husband, and he stood naked before me. I am a beautiful woman. Many men have lusted after me. But I was only for my husband, and I stood proudly before him, exposed so willingly for the first time to his gaze. I watched his eyes devour me. He stared into my brown eyes first and I'm sure he saw the same lust as I saw in his. His gaze slowly drifted down and lingered on my breasts. My nipples were tight and painful, lifting to the sky. I saw him lick his lips and delight filled me. So far, he did not look disappointed. His eyes roamed over my flat stomach and then lower. He stared long and hard at my perfectly waxed pussy. I had left a small, heart-shaped, tuft of my fur on my mound. My wetness trickled down my thigh and it tickled. I saw him lick his lips with his hunger and it thrilled me. I felt exposed. Wanton. But I was married, and this was my husband. A smile crossed my lips. I was awakening to my lust and hunger, and it thrilled me. I stared equally back at my husband. We had done some things together. Fully clothed. I had let him taste me a few times. My penance for that had been the soup kitchens. And I had put him in my mouth a few times. I had never swallowed, though. I had spat it out, shame filling me, knowing I disappointed him. But I could not take his sperm inside me until we were married. But now I stared at his slim figure. His brown skin glistened in the dim light of the room. His chest was lightly sprinkled with dark hair, and I couldn't wait to feel my exposed breasts and nipples rubbing against it. He lacked a defined six pack, but his stomach was toned and flat. My eyes traced that delicious area below his stomach that lowered to his penis. The smooth skin demanded my mouth. And I stared at his penis. I had stroked it before. Sucked it before. Did penance for it before. But now I could see it in all its glory. Black men are endowed and so was my husband. It was long and thick and stood hard and standing straight out from his body. The tip glistened with moisture. Veins ran along its length. Below it hung his heavy testicles. His manhood was displayed for me, and I knew tonight he would put it inside me and fill me. It was darker than the rest of him. The head was large and round and was even darker. My ebony husband was panting for me. He wanted the pleasure only I could bring to him. And I wanted his in return. After my talk with my mother, I did a little research. Watched pornography that showed how to pleasure a man fully. Another trickle of my wetness ran down my thigh and I shivered at the tickle. My husband watched it and his eyes widened. "My husband," I purred. "I am so wet for you. You are so hard for me." "Emma, you are gorgeous. Seeing you walking down the aisle in that dress? Oh my God, the angels were jealous, baby. All eyes were on you, but you only had eyes for me." I had stared at him the whole way down the aisle. My papa handed me over and when I had stood before Daniel, my legs threatened to fail me. My love for him in that moment had risen above everything I thought I could reach. And I could see the same reflected back at me. "And you, my Daniel, you looked so handsome. The perfect man. My man. My husband." Daniel was losing himself in his lust for me. He was shaking, and so was I. "Tonight, we will make love, Daniel. I've wanted this for years. I give my everything to you. Do you understand?" He shook his head. "We are married now. My body--all of it--is yours to pleasure yourself with. And I will pleasure myself with you. Over and over, again and again." "My God, Emma. You are so beautiful. Look at you! A gorgeous Italian beauty! I love you so much. I am the luckiest man in the world that you could love me as I love you." "And you are my ebony stud. You are so beautiful to me, Daniel. I have lusted after you since the first day we met. Do you remember?" "How could I forget? Freshman year. Sitting in class, and in walks the woman of my dreams! A vision. So elegant and poised. I knew then I wanted to marry you." "You did?" "Oh, yes. It was love at first sight. I would have waited my entire life to be with you." "Wait no longer, my love. I am yours. Take me. Take all of me. Whatever you desire. Anything." "Anything? What do you mean?" "All my body is yours now, Daniel. And all your body is mine. I mean to take it. I want you to take me, in any way you imagine. But first, I want you to make love to me. To enter me. To cum inside me and seal our marriage in our pleasure and love. I want to lie back and feel you enter me." "Okay," replied Daniel, simply. His eyes looked wild. I moved to him, crossing the distance in two steps, and pressed myself to him. My mouth found his with hunger and I groaned at the feel of his hard cock pressing between us, reaching up past my belly button. We kissed, our tongues dancing, our hands caressing and exploring. His fingers found my wet slit and slid down along my clit and into my depths. I groaned into his mouth and reached down and took his hard, hot penis into my gentle hand. I stroked him, savouring the glorious hardness and maleness of him. We shuffled to the bed and flopped down hard on our sides. We squirmed our way further up the bed until we found the pillows. Rose petals clung to us. All that existed was his body and mine and the pleasures we would pull from one another. I found myself on my back, my legs spread in a delicious wanton way I was now free to enjoy. Daniel crawled up between my legs until he lay on me, his cock pressed against my wet labia, spreading them apart and rubbing deliciously on my clit. We necked hard. My tongue driving into his mouth with desire. His tongue rammed into my mouth, and we sucked on each other's tongues, swallowing our spit, and sinking into each other's souls. My mind was purely on my vagina. An ache I hadn't felt before burned down there. My pussy felt more alive than ever before. I was intimately aware of every little feeling. Wetness poured from me. I could feel the rivulets escaping me. My pussy felt like it was opening on its own. Spreading for my husband. My man. My lover. My best friend in the whole wide world. The righteousness of it overwhelmed my emotions. I sobbed happy tears. I held Daniel's beautiful face in my hands and pressed my lips against his plump, full, sexual lips. Lips I wanted all over my body, tracing his tongue into places I had only dreamed of. And thanks to my mother's words--and a little bit of research--I knew what I wanted to do and taste. Daniel shifted his hips. I felt his enormous cock head press against my opening. "Wait!" I said, pushing on his shoulders. "I want to watch you enter me for the first time! Please!" To be continued, By Estcher for Literotica

07.16.24 RAD 02 Treble Trouble & Dr. Rob - Self Pleasuring On Camera Recap

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2024 19:51

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07.12.24 RAD 09 Dr. Rob Update - Self Pleasuring Co Worker Part 2

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 14:33

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07.12.24 RAD 07 Dr. Rob Follow up - Co Worker Self Pleasuring

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2024 15:53

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07.11.24 RAD 07 Dr. Rob Follow Up - Co Worker Caught Self Pleasuring

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 13:10

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07.11.24 RAD 05 Name that Comedian & Dr. Rob - Co-Worker Caught Self Pleasuring

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 11, 2024 25:48

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EP#150: Champ Quality Pu$$y Pleasure with Dr. Alison Ash

The Open Bedroom Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2024 42:46

Exploring Vulva Diversity (00:00:01) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the importance of exploring and understanding the wide diversity of vulvas. Introduction to Open Bedroom Podcast (00:00:51) Host Jennifer Kaylo introduces the Open Bedroom Podcast and its focus on open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Coaching Topics (00:01:08) Jennifer Kaylo highlights the coaching topics she specializes in, including open relationships, online dating, and conscious uncoupling. Setting the Stage for the Discussion (00:02:17) Dr. Alison Ash and Jennifer Kaylo introduce the topic of champ quality pussy pleasure and provide a brief background on their previous conversation about shame. Prioritizing Pussy Pleasure (00:03:23) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of prioritizing pussy pleasure and challenges the shame and biases surrounding it. Personal Experiences and Sexual Awakening (00:04:31) Jennifer Kaylo shares her personal experiences with receiving and giving pussy pleasure, including her sexual awakening and exploration of diverse vulvas. Importance of Communication (00:11:22) Dr. Alison Ash discusses the significance of enthusiastic communication and authentic enjoyment in giving and receiving pleasure. Expressing Pleasure (00:12:56) Jennifer Kaylo and Dr. Alison Ash discuss the significance of vocal expression and authentic pleasure in enhancing the overall experience. Feedback and Communication (00:14:40) Dr. Alison Ash provides tips for both givers and receivers to give and ask for feedback in a comfortable and effective manner. Setting Expectations and Preferences (00:19:35) Dr. Alison Ash emphasizes the importance of setting expectations and preferences in advance, as well as providing feedback and guidance during sexual encounters. The bossy game (00:22:31) Discussion about using the "bossy game" to navigate new experiences with women and the use of audio porn for masturbation. Pleasuring the pussy (00:24:06) Tips and techniques for pleasuring the female genitalia, including the importance of relaxation and using toys for extended pleasure. Sex education and positions (00:25:13) Discussion about sex education, positions, and techniques for prolonged sexual encounters, including the use of tools and devices. Toys and tools for prolonged sessions (00:27:44) Detailed list of toys and tools recommended for extended sexual encounters, including g-spot stimulators, vibrators, and anal toys. Importance of longer sexual encounters (00:36:35) Emphasizing the importance of longer sexual encounters, exploring foreplay, mental stimulation, and the impact on emotional connection. Madlib for pussy pleasure (00:39:58) Introduction of a handout called "The Guide to My Pussy" for receivers and givers to enhance communication and understanding of preferences. Conclusion and future plans (00:41:49) Expressing excitement for future learning, acknowledging the impact of the conversation, and expressing interest in future collaborations. Follow Jen Sponsored by Coaching with Jen Follow Dr. Alison Ash: Instagram @turnon.love Coaching - TurnON.love/coaching Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills Mastercourse - TurnON.love/intimacy On-demand workshops (including How to Eat Pussy like a Champ) - TurnON.love/workshops Live events - www.TurnON.love/events Previous Moving Through Shame Episode: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/episodes/EP113-Moving-Through-Shame-with-Dr--Alison-Ash-e2cvaum --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theopenbedroompodcast/support

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E23 - Shaft Uddin : Tantric Sex Guru Answers the Big Questions

The Spiritual Psychiatrist Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2024 54:03

In this episode, Samuel B. Lee interviews Shaft Uddin, a Tantra Master, about the world of Tantra and sacred sexuality. They discuss the meaning of Tantra and its goal of self-realization through breath, sound, and movement. Shaft explains the importance of releasing trauma from the body, particularly in the yoni (vulva) and lingam (penis), and how it can lead to deep intimacy and authentic connection. They also explore the concept of boundaries and the significance of creating a safe and intentional space for tantric experiences. In this conversation, Shaft discusses various topics related to sacred sexuality and tantra. He shares his personal experiences and insights on topics such as the Amrita, the benefits of pleasuring a partner, the Holy Grail of orgasms, the Anubis technique, cosmic orgasms, and the vision for the future of sacred energy exchange. Shaft also provides practical advice on topics like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and semen retention. He emphasizes the importance of conscious touch, exploring one's desires, and creating a safe and sacred space for intimate connections.Story Notes:Exploring Tantra and Its PurposeTantra and Self-RealizationAuthentic Connection and Playful Present ConnectionUnderstanding the Yoni and Yoni DearmoringExploring Pleasure Pathways in the YoniIntroduction to Sacred Sexuality and TantraThe Benefits of Pleasuring a PartnerUnlocking the Holy Grail of OrgasmsThe Anubis Technique: A Path to Cosmic OrgasmsExploring the Subtle Energies of SexualityAddressing Erectile Dysfunction and Premature EjaculationCreating a Safe and Sacred Space for IntimacyThe Vision for the Future of Sacred Energy ExchangeTo learn more about Uddin, visit:WOMEN / MEN / COUPLES Coaching + Healing with Shaft: ‪www.sacredsexualawakening.com ‬Online courses:www.tantrawithshaft.comDM me and my life on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shaftuddin/ ‬Viral Content, Podcasts, Meditations, Tutorials & Vlogs and so much more YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/shaftuddinOnline course & educational content on OnlyFans:https://onlyfans.com/theshaftshowThe best 1 day GI/Parasite/Liver cleanz -it fucking works. https://zencleanz.com/?ref=SAMUELLEE (https://zencleanz.com/?ref=SAMUELLEE)5% discount code: DRLEEACTIVATE YOUR INNER CHRIST/12 STRAND DNA ACTIVATION PROGRAM(Utilize the original celestial human language Anuhazi to rapidly activate your inner Christos)https://www.transcendencementalhealth.com/course75% discount code: INJOYTo find out more visit:www.transcendencementalhealth.comand click begin your journey.Want to lose weight, get shredded, or repair your body in a natural way that works with your body? Check out the magic of peptides atwww.practicalpeptides.comuse code: DRLEE - for 10% off all orders! You can order them from the comfort of your own home and have pure quality peptides delivered directly to you. We strive to be the most affordable, accessible, quality peptide company we are aware of.#Tantra #SacredSexuality #TantricSex #TantraMaster #Intimacy #SelfRealization #ConsciousTouch #SacredSpace #ErectileDysfunction #PrematureEjaculation #SemenRetention #YoniDearmoring #CosmicOrgasms #Amrita #HolyGrailOfOrgasms #SexualHealing #TantraEducation

Dan Powers 3.0: From Virgin to Vixen - One 70 Year Old Woman's Bold Journey of Sexual Self-Discovery | #92

The Sex Reimagined Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2024 60:35 Transcription Available

Send us a Text Message.Join us as we chat with three incredible guests: Faythe Huston, a brave woman who embarked on a journey of sexual awakening in her 70s; Dan Powers, a returning SxR sexpret & compassionate surrogate partner; & Deb Azorsky, a wise sex therapist. Together, they paint a vivid picture of how surrogate partner therapy works & the powerful impact it can have. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS:Discover the triadic model of surrogate partner therapy & how it creates a safe, supportive space for explorationLearn how to overcome common challenges & fears when seeking sexual healingGain insights into building trust & navigating emotions in the therapeutic relationshipUnderstand the role of societal norms, religion, & past experiences in shaping sexual well-beingBe inspired by Faythe's story of embracing pleasure & confidently claiming her sexuality in her 70sEPISODE LINKS *some links below may also be affiliate links SxR #35 | Tune in to Dan's 1st Appearance on the ShowSxR #91 | Tune in to Dan's 2nd Appearance on the ShowDan's Website | Pleasureengineer.com Deb's Website | CouplesTherapistBoulder.com Free Gift | Dan's 5 Tips to Pleasuring a WomenInternational Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA)LAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone. Master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. For 20% off use code PODCAST20. Register here. THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. Buy Here. THE VAGINAL ORGASM MASTERCLASS. Discover how to activate the female gspot, clitoris, & cervical orgasms. Save 20% Code: PODCAST 20 - Buy Here KING & QUEEN OF HEARTS. Leah & Willow's King & Queen of Hearts Intimacy Toolkit is on sale. Use Coupon Code KINGANDQUEEN10 for 10% off. Support the Show.SxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website

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Dan & Elizabeth: Painful Sex? You're Not Alone > Redefining Pleasure with Sensory Exploration | #91

The Sex Reimagined Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 81:09 Transcription Available

Send us a Text Message.In this episode, we're excited to introduce you to Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers, a couple dedicated to helping others overcome sexual pain, shame, and disconnection. With Elizabeth's focus on vulva and vaginal pain and Dan's expertise as a surrogate partner therapist, they bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to the conversation. YOU'LL LEARN: How to overcome religious trauma and sexual shame that block pleasureThe mind-body connection between pelvic floor pain, trauma, and negative anticipationUsing surrogate partner therapy to help clients navigate emotions and maintain healthy boundariesRewiring neural pathways through sensory experiences to enhance pleasure and heal painEPISODE LINKSWebsite | BeyondtheBedroomEvents.com Website | Pleasureengineer.com Website | BedEvents.com SxR #35 | Surrogate partner Therapy with Dan PowersBook | The Pleasure Prescription by Elizabeth Wood & Dee HartmanFree Gift | Dan's 5 Tips to Pleasuring a WomenFree Gift | Elizabeth & Dee's 5 Exercises to Decrease PainLAST 10x LONGER. If you suffer from premature ejaculation, you are not alone. Master 5 techniques to cure this stressful & embarrassing issue once and for all. For 20% off use code PODCAST20. Register here. THE MALE GSPOT & PROSTATE MASTERCLASS. This is for you if… You've heard of epic anal orgasms, & you wonder if it's possible for you too. Save 20% Coupon PODCAST20. Buy Here. THE VAGINAL ORGASM MASTERCLASS. Discover how to activate the female gspot, clitoris, & cervical orgasms. Save 20% Code: PODCAST 20 - Buy Here KING & QUEEN OF HEARTS. Leah & Willow's King & Queen of Hearts Intimacy Toolkit is on sale. Use Coupon Code KINGANDQUEEN10 for 10% off. Support the Show.SxR Hotline | SxR Website | YouTube | TikTok | Pinterest | Instagram | Dr. Willow's Website | Leah's Website

What's on Craigslist? 6-3-2024 ...Missed Connection: ‘I only looked like I was pleasuring mysel

Rumble in the Morning

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 8:56

What's on Craigslist? 6-3-2024…For Sale: Magic Cowboy Hat …Missed Connection: Looking for the man in the Wheelchair who attacked me …Missed Connection: ‘I only looked like I was pleasuring myself …Spice up your table with Nicolas Cage Salt and Pepper Shakers

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#981 Am I The Only One Not Interested in Intimacy?

Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2024 17:09

If you are struggling to "keep the spark alive" with your loved one, you're not alone. Exhaustion, screen addiction, lack of time, resentment - all these issues (and more!) can lead to zero interest in nurturing intimacy. Today we share some surprising secrets to sustaining a strong sexual connection! In this episode: Reasons for having zero interest in intimacy Connection and friendship Prioritising sex Slowing things down Female pleasure Book recommendations Links: Nurturing Intimacy: Secrets to Sustaining Strong Sexual Connection – Happy Families Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski | The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life She Comes First by Ian Kerner | The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Find us on Facebook or TikTok Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to podcasts@happyfamilies.com.au Find out more about joining THE QUEST at our websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Pleasuring the 2%

GOSPILLED

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 2:50

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801: IT'S TAKING TOO LONG TO ORGASM

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 29:40

Learn about the concerns that a lot of women have when it comes to taking too long for them to experience an orgasm. | Sometimes the best things in life take time. Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: 6-Day Intimacy Breakthrough Course The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina The Penis Book: A Doctor's Complete Guide to the Penis She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Self-Pleasuring As A Spiritual Practice

The Limitless Love with Soni Pelty

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2024 36:30

In this episode, Soni delves into the depths of feminine sexuality and the sacred act of self-pleasuring. She shares her personal journey of discovery, transformation, and the healing power of embracing self-pleasure not just as a physical act but as a meaningful, spiritual practice.Content Warning: This episode contains adult content. Listeners' discretion is advised.Topics Covered:Breaking the Silence: Bringing the often whispered topic of self-pleasuring into the light.A Spiritual Connection: How self-pleasuring has evolved for Soni into a deeply spiritual practice.The Power of Reclamation: Reconnecting with the feminine essence and the profound significance of self-pleasuring on personal relationships with the body.The Journey of Discovery: Soni's transformation from using vibrators for quick arousal to cultivating an intimate relationship with her own pleasure.Extended Massive Orgasm (EMO): Understanding this phenomenon and how it signifies the deep connection one can have with self-pleasuring.Honoring Your Temple: Embracing self-pleasuring as a sacred, meditative experience and a pathway to bliss and ecstasy.Steps to Deepening Your Self-Pleasure Practice: Insights into making self-pleasuring a more meaningful part of your life.Resources Mentioned: Pussy: A Reclamation” by Regina ThomashauerWork of Drs. Steve and Vera Bodansky on Extended Massive OrgasmsOther Books and Resources:Come As You Are BookWomen's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried PleasureSpecial Offer: Say "I Do" To You Experience: Starting April 22nd, join Soni for a three-month semi-private journey to deepen intimacy in your life and relationships. Includes monthly one-on-one sessions, bi-weekly group transformation sessions, and more. For those looking to dive deeper into cultivating intimacy in their relationships, Soni's door is always open. This episode is a call to honor your journey, connect with your life force, and embrace the divine within. If Soni's message resonates with you, consider joining the "Say I Do To You" experience to explore these practices further. Remember, you are your own greatest healer, teacher, and lover. Until next time, keep shining, exploring, and embracing your journey.Want more?Connect with Soni:- Instagram: @limitlesslovewithsoni- Email: soni@limitlesslovewithsoni.com-Website: https://limitlesslovewithsoni.com/

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It's Not Just A Hole (w/ Allison Goldberg)

Birds and Bees Don't Fck

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2024 60:06

Allison Goldberg is a comedian and creator known for her dating show, Love Isn't Blind originally from Baltimore where they scribbled some stuff on an overhead projector and called it a day! In this episode we talk about: 01:25 Allison actually knows about the birds and bees! 02:07 Love Isn't Blind - The Dating Show where men aren't allowed to talk! 04:47 Pole Dancing and Rock Climbing 06:29 Intimacy Coordination and Other Jobs 09:41 Creating a Community 13:21 Being Organized and Having Tools 16:47 Lack of Sexual Education 21:04 Consent and Desexualization 24:44 New Zealand sex clubs 31:57 Time to figure out the Clitoris 34:32 Dating and Activities 37:10 Understanding the Clitoris and Vulva 41:09 Exploring the Labia and Outer Lips 42:30 Stimulating the Entire Vulva 45:08 Pleasuring the Penis and Balls 52:54 Orbiting and Communication 55:00 Allison's got a podcast launching TODAY! HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!! You can find Allison on all social media at @alli_goldi and on her website https://www.allisongoldberg.com/ WE'VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube! Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok If you're pickin' up what we're putting down please like, Subscribe, leave a 5 star review and tell your friends so other people know this exists! K love you byeeeee

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Helping Your Wife Achieve Better Orgasm | 14 Days of Sex | Day 12

The Naked Marriage Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2024 10:22

Hey, welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! Today, we are talking about what culture deems as a very hard goal... but we think with a little communication it is super achievable -- the female orgasm. We're tackling common questions, emphasizing patience and selflessness for husbands, and sharing practical tips. Our challenge for you: prioritize your wife's pleasure for deeper intimacy. Ready to dive! -------------------- FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6y The Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/ For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage -------------------- Takeaways The female orgasm is characterized by a clenching of the muscles and a feeling of pleasure. The female orgasm often takes longer to achieve than the male orgasm. Husbands should be patient and prioritize their wives' pleasure, focusing on foreplay and taking the time to understand their preferences. Communication and kindness are key in creating a fulfilling sexual relationship. -------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Series Overview 00:32 Understanding the Female Orgasm03:21 The Female Orgasm Takes Longer 04:19 Patience and Selflessness in Pleasuring the Wife 05:17 Exploring Different Stimulation Techniques 06:43 The Importance of Time and Kindness 08:10 Prioritizing the Wife's Pleasure Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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788: WHEN SEX BRINGS YOU CLOSER EMOTIONALLY

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2024 32:50 Very Popular

When you unpack the idea that sexual intimacy is more than just intercourse you will strengthen the connection you have with your spouse. | "Building relationships is not about transactions—it's about connections." —Michelle Tillis Lederman Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: Upcoming Speaking Events ONE Family Private Facebook Group She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman BOLD Wives Club 30 Day Sex Challenge Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Passionista - Book Summary

20 Minute Books

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2023 12:30

"The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man" Transcript and written book summary available here for free

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Ramble Radio 377: Just How Many People Are Pleasuring Themselves Listening to Transformers Season Three Talk?

The Ramble

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2023 26:38

In this one, Eddie and Jerry talk more of Mr. Football's jaw dropping predictions, Transformers Season Three, we give a massive overdue apologuy to Ultra Magnus and so much more... enjoy!

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He Comes Next - Book Summary

20 Minute Books

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2023 27:34

"The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man"

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DONKEY: Man Arrested For Pleasuring Himself In Kum & Go Convenience Store

The Breakfast Club

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2023 8:41 Transcription Available

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A bigger penis ≠ more pleasure (unpopular opinion) ft. Dr. Laurie Mintz

Rena Malik, MD Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 24:55

In this episode Dr. Rena Malik, a urologist and pelvic surgeon, is joined by Dr. Laurie Mintz, a sexual psychologist and author, to discuss the important topic of why penile size shouldn't matter for sexual pleasure. Dr. Mintz recently wrote a book called "Becoming Cliterate," which explores female pleasure and includes a chapter dedicated to men. The conversation covers the orgasm gap between men and women, the role of female anatomy in achieving orgasm, and the need for clitoral stimulation. They also address the use of toys and accessories in the bedroom and the importance of open communication with partners. Join us as we delve into these fascinating and important insights, challenging societal misconceptions and promoting sexual satisfaction for everyone. (affiliate links)Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get Itby Laurie Mintz: https://amzn.to/3G80En9She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner:https://amzn.to/3g2np1nQuit Porn Without 12-StepCan't quit porn? Get new tools to address the root cause so you can find freedomListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySchedule an appointment: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments Buy your very own Take Care of Yourself water bottle or coffee mug: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD/storeLet's Connect!:WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.comYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMDINSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMDTWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMDFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalikPINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD------------------------------------------------------DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this video including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death.

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Soul Mate Seeking, Pegging Agreements, Small Packages, Female Self-Pleasuring During The Act

Your Mileage May Vary

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2023 64:34 Transcription Available

Straight back from a Covid-induced hiatus, Keith explains that fickle-ish women on dating apps aren't willing to wait out his illness for a chance to meet him. Except one, who may or may not have prepared him a steaming bowl of soup, which he may or may not have accepted. Speaking more globally, why is it that women are messaged that they shouldn't care about the things in men that they likely do care about: intelligence, ambition, ability. Instead, romantic notions seem to suggest that some random guy out there might be a "soul mate". Let's say you've made an agreement with your partner to accept pegging, and in return, your "fetish" of analizing her will be realized. She pegs you, and then she reneges. How upset should you be about this state of affairs? And, is it fair for her to peg you with an instrument that's exactly the same size as yours, or should it be a bit bigger given her likely smaller stature. We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week: https://ymmv.me/142/anal https://ymmv.me/142/awful https://ymmv.me/142/masturbating https://ymmv.me/142/awful Twitter: @ymmvpod Facebook: ymmvpod Email: ymmvpod@gmail.com

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S3E31: Are You Really in the Game or Just Pretending?

Limitless Athlete Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2023 8:22

Why do you fail to commit to your goals? With my clients, I'm looking for four signs they're actually committed to their goals. Not just engaging in mental masturbation… …a lot of people are doing the latter Here's another way to put it (crass language upcoming): A client once said to me, “you know what's different about your coaching compared to the rest of what's available, Tom? It's the difference between having a wank and the real thing.” And you can translate that analogy to committing/pretending that you're committed too. Actually being committed to your growth has 4 distinct characteristics that I'll show you today. Pleasuring yourself by pretending to be committed just won't cut it. Are you truly committed? Or just bullshitting yourself? Let's find out…

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Daily Talks With Angel

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 12, 2023 9:08

Let's talk about it --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/angel-white21/support

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Podcast#352: Canada road disaster, Nigeria drownings, Penn Prof caught on camera pleasuring self/dog

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2023 153:50

Started with that terrible highway accident in Canada that killed 15 people, and also talked about the Nigeria drownings that killed over 100 people. Plus Delta Force operators hurt in Syria, UK guy completely nude in park with a tree, Greece migrant disaster, and a Penn State professor caught in area park trying to film self masturbating while having his dog lick his anus. Music: Third Eye Blind/"Losing A Whole Year"

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Getting Real About Pleasure: Reclaiming Desire with Dr Laurie Mintz

Reimagining Love

Play Episode Listen Later May 23, 2023 51:46

Dr. Laurie Mintz joins Dr. Solomon for a conversation about all things pleasure, from the orgasm gap to sexual myths to vibrators, offering inspiration and encouragement to both individuals and couples as they seek to reignite and reconnect with their desire and sexual identity.Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It by Dr. Laurie Mintz:https://bookshop.org/p/books/becoming-cliterate-why-orgasm-equality-matters-and-how-to-get-it-laurie-mintz/6438079?ean=9780062664556A Tired Woman's Guide to Passionate Sex: Reclaim Your Desire and Reignite Your Relationship by Dr. Laurie Mintz:https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-tired-woman-s-guide-to-passionate-sex-reclaim-your-desire-and-reignite-your-relationship-laurie-b-mintz/19853981?ean=9781605501079She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Dr. Ian Kerner:https://bookshop.org/p/books/she-comes-first-the-thinking-man-s-guide-to-pleasuring-a-woman-ian-kerner/7910727?ean=9780060538262Get the brand new REIMAGINING LOVE WORKBOOK:https://courses.dralexandrasolomon.com/reimagining-love-workbook-0c34cba5-a457-4253-b7d7-9ca051dc0326Subscribe to Dr. Solomon's Newsletter:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Submit a Listener Question:https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Take Dr. Solomon's "Relationship Superpower" Quiz:https://dralexandrasolomon.com/rsa-quiz/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Podcast#347: Pakistan riots, Colombia drug sub, Czech guy dies while pleasuring self

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Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2023 151:45

Started this week with the arrest, then release, of former Pakistan PM Imran Khan that caused riots all over the country. Then that crazy policeman who killed his colleague and then others at the Tunisia mosque. Plus yet another India air compressor rectal death, Brazil doctor rips baby's head off during birth, Chaos at US border, Nursing home allows naked vagrant to wander around, and a guy in the Czech Republic dies of electrocution while pleasuring himself with homemade anal toy; massager. Music: Good Riddance/"Dry Season"

Podcast#344: Yemen stampede, China fire, Florida Walmart self-pleasuring vagrant actually Professor

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2023 151:34

Started with that crazy stampede in Yemen, then the outrage over the New Zealand feral cat-killing contest. Plus the India population boom, CIA director he admits he put together anti-Biden laptop because he wanted a job, India claims the made US sub come to surface, Alabama and other shootings, Florida suspected vagrant pleasuring self in Walmart turns out to be local professor. Music: Blink-182/"Pathetic"

746: FOREPLAY IS NOT AN AFTERTHOUGHT

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2023 32:00 Very Popular

Learn about the importance of making foreplay more than an afterthought when it comes to your sexual intimacy. | "We make time for what's important to us. If you haven't made time for it, it's because you haven't convinced yourself that it's important." —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: The Position Post Magazine ONE Family Private Facebook Group 19 Questions to Amazing Sex She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Episode 89: She Comes First

Review That Review with Chelsey Donn & Trey Gerrald

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 54:47 Transcription Available

The Queens rate and review a 5 Star Amazon Review for the book, She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. The Universe conspires and Trey lets Chelsey complain first while Chelsey also lets Trey complain first. Queendom Question: What's worse: being late or being rude? Everybody say come!(02:37) Lodge a Complaint!(9:46) Review(40:02) Exclusive Offer(45:16) The Moral Of Our Story(45:51) My Royal Highness(51:41) DONATE! (52:56) On This Week's After Show PodReview The Pod at lovethepodcast.com/thereviewqueensDONATE to the Production of Review That Review by visiting ReviewThatReview.com/Donate Click Here to Join our Patreon for Bonus content and Member's Only After-Show Companion Podcast featuring additional reviews, deeper dives, salacious stories, and more.***** PROMO CODES *****REVIEWQUEEN at clean.emailREVIEW40 at vitable.com.auREVIEWQUEEN at shesbirdie.comREVIEWQUEEN40 at NatalieWeissVoice.comQUEEN15 at SmartPatches.comQUEEN at superchewer.com***Click Here to Join the Queendom Mailing List!Leave us a voicemail at 1-850-REVIEW-0WATCH CLIPS on YouTube!Visit our website for more: www.ReviewThatReview.com@TheReviewQueens | @ChelseyBD | @TreyGerrald ---Review That Review is an independent podcast. Executive Produced by Trey Gerrald and Chelsey Donn with editing and sound design by Trey Gerrald. Cover art designed by LogoVora, voiceover talents by Eva Kaminsky,...

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736: EDGING FOR INCREASED SEXUAL AROUSAL

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2023 33:50 Very Popular

Learn about using a technique called edging to increase sexual arousal and to strengthen your sexual intimacy pillar. | "I've always wanted to be able to let myself go over the edge." —Robin Wright Penn Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: The Vagina Bible: The Vulva and the Vagina She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Bedroom Adventure Bundle Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Podcast#319: UK leader quits, Iran drones in Ukraine, AZ politician caught pleasuring self in car