IF DIVORCE IS IN YOUR NORMAL VOCABULARY - THEN THIS PODCAST IS FOR YOU. SPECIALIZING IN ONE OF THE MOST TABOO SUBJECTS IN NATURAL CONVERSATIONS, THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE!! If you need to make an informed decision about divorce.... then you need some type of direction. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few years, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce.We also will have guests occasionally who have been divorced for quite a while and for others the pain is still fresh. In taking a divorce recovery seminar and eventually becoming a facilitator during his journey, David saw all sorts of people in different stages of healing. Rachel brings her unique Generation X and New Jersey style, swagger and real-world expertise to the podcast.Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!


In this very special episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel celebrate a monumental milestone—Rachel is getting remarried!

Divorce can leave deep emotional scars, and triggers—those moments that bring back pain, anger, or frustration—can feel impossible to escape. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel dive into the world of post-divorce triggers.

Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast, where we tackle the real, raw, and often hilarious challenges of recovering from divorce over 40. Hosted by David and Rachel, this episode dives deep into the emotional and logistical battles of splitting assets during a divorce—and how to heal from the process.

Welcome to episode 252 of the Divorce Devil Podcast!

Part Two!!! Are you navigating life after divorce and finding yourself blindsided by unexpected challenges?

Divorce recovery is a journey filled with emotions, surprises, and challenges you didn't prepare for. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the blind spots that pop up during the healing process after divorce. From emotional triggers to the unexpected realities of co-parenting, dating, or simply moving forward, this episode covers it all.


Are you navigating divorce after 40 and ready to make 2026 your year of growth and healing?

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Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Ep. 245!

The holidays after divorce can feel like a tidal wave of stress, loneliness, and unrealistic expectations—especially if you're over 40 and facing your first Christmas solo. In this episode of Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel get raw and real about the myth of the “perfect” holiday after divorce.

Welcome back to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast! David and Rachel are diving into a wild, honest, and sometimes hilarious conversation about surviving the holidays after divorce—especially for people over 40. If you're feeling lost, lonely, or just a little bit crazy as Thanksgiving and Christmas approach, you're not alone.

Are you feeling totally burned out from your divorce?

Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes to heal, grow, and thrive after divorce—especially for people over 40. I'm David, your host with my cohost Rachel, , and in this episode, we dig deep into what it truly means to become the best version of yourself during and after divorce.

Are you a parent over 40 navigating the wild world of co-parenting after divorce? Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 238! This week, David and Rachel get raw and real about the “co-parenting storms” we all face—especially when the holidays hit and emotions run high.

Divorce after 40 is wild, weird, and often full of really bad advice. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel spill the tea on the WORST tips they ever received during divorce—and why you should take most “helpful” suggestions with a huge grain of salt!

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Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! Today, David and Rachel sit down with Kyle for a raw, real, and relatable conversation about divorce recovery after 40.

Are you over 40 and feeling stuck in the messy middle of divorce recovery?

Are you a person over 40 wondering when (or if) the pain of divorce ever goes away? You're not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the real, raw journey of healing after divorce—from emotional pain and betrayal to rediscovering joy, even when you least expect it.We get honest about:The different types of pain (emotional, financial, social) men feel after divorce

Are you are over 40 struggling to find your footing after divorce? You're not alone—and this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast is for you. Join hosts David and Rachel as they get brutally honest about the raw, messy, and totally normal emotions people face during and after divorce.Divorce is like a tidal wave, especially when it happens later in life. In this episode, we open up about everything we wish someone had told us when we were in the thick of it: the loneliness, the loss of old friends, the awkwardness of new beginnings, and why it's okay to grieve—even if you were the one who left.We talk about:The early days: Why it feels like your whole world is upside down, and how to survive when you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel.Friendship shake-ups: Losing old friends, finding out who really has your back, and why support sometimes comes from the most unexpected places.The guilt and shame spiral: Feeling like you "failed," dealing with identity shifts, and learning you're more than just someone's ex.Loneliness vs. being alone: How to tell the difference, and ways to start enjoying your own company again.Grief triggers: Birthdays, holidays, and milestones that can hit you out of nowhere—and how to handle them without falling down the rabbit hole.Parenting through pain: The hardest parts of co-parenting, missing your kids, and how to take care of yourself so you can be there for them.Setting new boundaries: Learning who lifts you up and who drags you down, and why it's okay to say no (but also, why you should say yes sometimes!).Finding hope: Yes, it gets better—even if you can't see the rainbow yet. Baby steps, real talk, and reminders that healing is possible.

Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you're really ready to dive back into the dating world?

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Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast – the raw, unfiltered safe space for men over 40 (and anyone else who loves a little real talk during tough times)! Hosted by David, this episode dives into the emotional chaos, hard-won wisdom, and dark humor that comes with divorce recovery in midlife.

Welcome to another unfiltered episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast!

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Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we're here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present.

Hey everyone, and welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast!

Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, where hosts David and Rachel dive deep into the challenges of divorce recovery for those over 40. In this episode, we tackle one of the most common struggles after divorce: emotional baggage. Whether you're fresh out of a marriage or years into your healing journey, this episode is packed with relatable stories, actionable tips, and a sprinkle of humor to help you move forward.


Rachel is on vacation this week. She'll be back on the mic next week.

Divorce recovery can feel like navigating a minefield, especially for men over 40. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts Rachel and David dive into the 7 Deadly Sins of divorce recovery and how to avoid stalling in them.

Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" with your hosts, David and Rachel!

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David and Rachel, the hilarious and insightful co-hosts of The Divorce Devil Podcast, tackle the complex issue of Imposter Syndrome in this episode. With their signature mix of humor, raw honesty, and relatable anecdotes, they explore how imposter syndrome manifests during divorce recovery and how to overcome it. Here's a quick breakdown:Key Highlights of Episode 213

Welcome to "Divorce Devil," a dynamic and candid podcast series hosted by David and Rachel. In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of "Gray Healing" — a phase of emotional recovery that isn't black and white but exists in the gray areas of growth. Together, David and Rachel bring humor, raw honesty, and personal experiences to explore the complexities of post-divorce life, relationships, and self-discovery.In this episode, Rachel and David share their perspectives on navigating the ups and downs of healing, drawing on real-life analogies like fishing tackle boxes and speedbumps in a parking lot. They tackle the challenges of breaking old patterns, maintaining boundaries, and confronting outdated self-perceptions. Through this heartfelt discussion, the cohosts emphasize the importance of being actively present in one's healing journey. They also address the role of faith — whether in oneself, in the unseen, or in the process of life itself — as a pivotal element of recovery.With relatable anecdotes, candid humor, and valuable insights, "Divorce Devil" creates a safe space for listeners to reflect on their own healing journeys and find comfort in knowing they're not alone. Get ready for an engaging conversation that blends laughter, wisdom, and practical advice as David and Rachel remind us that healing is a messy yet beautiful process.Top 10 Important Points from the Episode:Gray Healing Concept: Healing isn't linear; it involves setbacks and progress in a "gray" area of recovery.Old Patterns vs. New Growth: Recognizing and breaking old, unproductive patterns is essential.Faith in Healing: Faith, whether in oneself or the process, is crucial in moving forward.Tools for Healing: Metaphors like tackle boxes highlight the importance of using the right emotional tools for different situations.Parent-Child Dynamics: Evolving parenting approaches while setting boundaries is vital in post-divorce life.Friendships Post-Divorce: Relationships with friends may shift, but they remain important to the healing process.Navigating New Relationships: Handling baggage and avoiding past mistakes in new relationships is a common challenge.Personal Growth: Healing involves self-awareness and embracing new roles and responsibilities.Humor in Healing: Humor can be a powerful tool to cope with tough situations. 10. Emotional Honesty: Open communication, even with oneself, is key to navigating emotional turbulence.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Welcome to the "Divorce Devil Podcast," where hosts Rachel and David delve into the complex world of post-divorce recovery for individuals over 40. In this episode, they tackle the often-taboo subject of the "hoe phase," a time when newly single individuals explore their sexual freedom and redefine their identities after a major life change. Rachel and David share personal anecdotes, insights, and advice on navigating this transformative period. They emphasize the importance of communication, self-exploration, and safety in dating. Tune in as they discuss the emotional rollercoaster of dating post-divorce, the challenges of rekindling confidence, and how to embrace this new chapter with humor and honesty. Whether you're contemplating your own hoe phase or just want to understand it better, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and relationships after divorce.Top Ten Interview Points:Definition and significance of the "hoe phase" in post-divorce recovery.Personal experiences and anecdotes related to dating after divorce.The role of communication in establishing expectations with potential partners.The importance of self-exploration and experimenting with new experiences.Strategies for rebuilding confidence after a long-term relationship.Navigating the emotional challenges associated with dating again.The impact of societal perceptions on individuals exploring their sexuality post-divorce.Tips for ensuring safety while dating and meeting new people.The difference in perspectives on sex and relationships between genders.Encouragement for listeners to embrace their journey and let go of judgment.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In Episode 210 of the Divorce Devil Podcast, Rachel and David dive into the concept of the "Ghosts of Divorce"—the lingering emotional baggage, fears, and unresolved issues that often haunt us post-divorce. These "ghosts" can manifest in new relationships, friendships, and even in our self-perception. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with these ghosts, from fears of loneliness to feelings of inadequacy, and explore how these challenges resurface in everyday life.Through humor and honesty, Rachel and David reflect on how these ghosts shape their growth and relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication, setting healthy boundaries, and practicing self-compassion to navigate these emotional hurdles. The episode highlights that while the ghosts of divorce may revisit, they lose their power as we heal, grow, and learn from past experiences.Listeners are encouraged to confront their own ghosts by recognizing patterns, leaning into self-awareness, and prioritizing their well-being. Whether you're dealing with fears of failure, struggles with trust, or navigating difficult friendships, this episode offers relatable insights and practical advice wrapped in laughter and real talk.Top 10 Topics from Episode 210:What are the "Ghosts of Divorce" and how do they manifest?Overcoming the fear of loneliness post-divorce.Setting boundaries in new relationships and friendships.Recognizing red flags in "ships" (relationships, friendships, etc.).How past patterns influence current connections.The impact of unresolved self-worth issues on new relationships.The importance of self-care and prioritizing personal growth.Communicating effectively to heal wounds and build trust.Learning from past mistakes and avoiding repetitive cycles.Finding humor and strength in the healing process.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.