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IF DIVORCE IS IN YOUR NORMAL VOCABULARY - THEN THIS PODCAST IS FOR YOU. SPECIALIZING IN ONE OF THE MOST TABOO SUBJECTS IN NATURAL CONVERSATIONS, THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE!! If you need to make an informed decision about divorce.... then you need some type of direction. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few years, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce.We also will have guests occasionally who have been divorced for quite a while and for others the pain is still fresh. In taking a divorce recovery seminar and eventually becoming a facilitator during his journey, David saw all sorts of people in different stages of healing. Rachel brings her unique Generation X and New Jersey style, swagger and real-world expertise to the podcast.Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!

David M Webb


    • Jun 20, 2026 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 32m AVG DURATION
    • 259 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Divorce Devil Podcast

    The Perils of Social Media In Divorce Recovery || DD261 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2026 30:19


    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2026 21:36


    In this very special episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel celebrate a monumental milestone—Rachel is getting remarried!

    When Divorce Recovery Feels Impossible: Tips to Heal ❤️‍

    Play Episode Listen Later May 1, 2026 23:08


    "Feeling Triggered by Your Ex? Here's How to Take Back Control of Your Life!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2026 27:49


    Divorce can leave deep emotional scars, and triggers—those moments that bring back pain, anger, or frustration—can feel impossible to escape. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel dive into the world of post-divorce triggers.

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2026 25:29


    Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast, where we tackle the real, raw, and often hilarious challenges of recovering from divorce over 40. Hosted by David and Rachel, this episode dives deep into the emotional and logistical battles of splitting assets during a divorce—and how to heal from the process.

    "Purposeful Divorce Recovery: Why It's Not What You Think!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 7, 2026 28:51


    Welcome to episode 252 of the Divorce Devil Podcast!

    Be the Superhero of Your Divorce Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2026 27:04


    Divorce Recovery Blind Spots: Part 2 || DD#250 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 21, 2026 33:59


    Part Two!!! Are you navigating life after divorce and finding yourself blindsided by unexpected challenges?

    Divorce Recovery Blind Spots: What You Didn't See Coming! DD#249 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2026 29:00


    Divorce recovery is a journey filled with emotions, surprises, and challenges you didn't prepare for. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the blind spots that pop up during the healing process after divorce. From emotional triggers to the unexpected realities of co-parenting, dating, or simply moving forward, this episode covers it all.

    Actually Keeping Your Divorce Recovery Resolutions Throughout the Year! || DD#248 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2026 31:15


    Divorce Resolutions Part 2 After 40: Screw Perfection, Try Progress || DD#247 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2026 32:24


    Are you navigating divorce after 40 and ready to make 2026 your year of growth and healing?

    Divorce Resolutions After 40: Screw Perfection, Try Progress!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2026 31:41


    How Did You Survive the Holiday Season and What Did You Learn About Yourself? || Divorce Devil Podcast #245 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2026 30:48


    Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Ep. 245!

    Divorce Festivus: The Ultimate Grievance Party for Over 40s!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2025 38:14


    Tired of Perfect Divorce Christmas Pressure? Divorce Recovery Holiday Survival Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2025 40:21


    The holidays after divorce can feel like a tidal wave of stress, loneliness, and unrealistic expectations—especially if you're over 40 and facing your first Christmas solo. In this episode of Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel get raw and real about the myth of the “perfect” holiday after divorce.

    Real Advice for Divorced Parents: The Kid Talk No One Prepares You For

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2025 41:49


    How to Avoid a Holiday Meltdown After Divorce

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 28:34


    Welcome back to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast!  David and Rachel are diving into a wild, honest, and sometimes hilarious conversation about surviving the holidays after divorce—especially for people over 40. If you're feeling lost, lonely, or just a little bit crazy as Thanksgiving and Christmas approach, you're not alone.

    Divorce Burnout is Real!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 16, 2025 29:34


    How to be the best version of yourself no matter what stage of your divorce you are in! || DD239

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2025 24:33


    Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes to heal, grow, and thrive after divorce—especially for people over 40. I'm David, your host with my cohost Rachel, , and in this episode, we dig deep into what it truly means to become the best version of yourself during and after divorce.

    How Not to Throat Punch Your Kids: Surviving Co-Parenting After 40!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2025 28:25


    Are you a parent over 40 navigating the wild world of co-parenting after divorce? Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Episode 238! This week, David and Rachel get raw and real about the “co-parenting storms” we all face—especially when the holidays hit and emotions run high.

    Horrible Advice Friends and Family Gave Us in Our Divorce / Divorce Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2025 33:28


    Divorce after 40 is wild, weird, and often full of really bad advice. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel spill the tea on the WORST tips they ever received during divorce—and why you should take most “helpful” suggestions with a huge grain of salt!

    What Exactly is Modern Forgiveness in Divorce Recovery Over 40?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2025 28:47


    From Broken to Much Better - Kyle 3.0 (Pegging and Stale Cereal!) || Divorce Devil Podcast #235 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2025 44:26


    Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast! Today, David and Rachel sit down with Kyle for a raw, real, and relatable conversation about divorce recovery after 40.

    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part Two... Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! || Divorce Devil Podcast #234 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2025 26:07


    Are you over 40 and feeling stuck in the messy middle of divorce recovery?

    When Will the Pain Go Away? Part One... Joy and Pain, Sunshine and Rain! || Divorce Devil Podcast #233 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2025 28:51


    Are you a person over 40 wondering when (or if) the pain of divorce ever goes away? You're not alone. On this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel dive deep into the real, raw journey of healing after divorce—from emotional pain and betrayal to rediscovering joy, even when you least expect it.We get honest about:The different types of pain (emotional, financial, social) men feel after divorce

    How to Survive Divorce After 40: Lessons, Regrets, Loneliness & Hope

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2025 34:48


    Are you are over 40 struggling to find your footing after divorce? You're not alone—and this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast is for you. Join hosts David and Rachel as they get brutally honest about the raw, messy, and totally normal emotions people face during and after divorce.Divorce is like a tidal wave, especially when it happens later in life. In this episode, we open up about everything we wish someone had told us when we were in the thick of it: the loneliness, the loss of old friends, the awkwardness of new beginnings, and why it's okay to grieve—even if you were the one who left.We talk about:The early days: Why it feels like your whole world is upside down, and how to survive when you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel.Friendship shake-ups: Losing old friends, finding out who really has your back, and why support sometimes comes from the most unexpected places.The guilt and shame spiral: Feeling like you "failed," dealing with identity shifts, and learning you're more than just someone's ex.Loneliness vs. being alone: How to tell the difference, and ways to start enjoying your own company again.Grief triggers: Birthdays, holidays, and milestones that can hit you out of nowhere—and how to handle them without falling down the rabbit hole.Parenting through pain: The hardest parts of co-parenting, missing your kids, and how to take care of yourself so you can be there for them.Setting new boundaries: Learning who lifts you up and who drags you down, and why it's okay to say no (but also, why you should say yes sometimes!).Finding hope: Yes, it gets better—even if you can't see the rainbow yet. Baby steps, real talk, and reminders that healing is possible.

    The Dos & Don'ts of Dating After Divorce for 40+ Singles

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2025 24:06


    Are you over 40, newly single, and wondering if you're really ready to dive back into the dating world?

    Divorce Recovery Real Talk: What Happens if You Never Heal? || Divorce Devil Podcast #230 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2025 28:40


    Should You Keep Listening? The Real Purpose of the Divorce Devil Podcast! || DD229 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2025 22:55


    Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast – the raw, unfiltered safe space for men over 40 (and anyone else who loves a little real talk during tough times)! Hosted by David, this episode dives into the emotional chaos, hard-won wisdom, and dark humor that comes with divorce recovery in midlife.

    From Bitter to Better: How We Survived Co-Parenting After Divorce Over 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2025 37:02


    Welcome to another unfiltered episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast!

    At Least 10 of Our Unspoken Rules of Co-Parenting:

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2025 25:51


    Divorce Recovery 101: When Old Memories Haunt New Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2025 30:10


    Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast! In this episode, David and Rachel dive deep into one of the most challenging parts of divorce recovery for men over 40: dealing with old memories and learning how to create new ones. Whether your divorce was amicable or a total “shit show,” we're here to help you unpack those emotional suitcases and start living in the present.

    40+ & Divorced?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2025 40:00


    Hey everyone, and welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast!

    Healing After Divorce: How to Stop Feeling Cynical and Start Thriving

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2025 28:16


    Emotional Baggage After Divorce?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2025 33:38


    Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast, where hosts David and Rachel dive deep into the challenges of divorce recovery for those over 40. In this episode, we tackle one of the most common struggles after divorce: emotional baggage. Whether you're fresh out of a marriage or years into your healing journey, this episode is packed with relatable stories, actionable tips, and a sprinkle of humor to help you move forward.

    Letting go of the past, finding peace and creating new traditions in your divorce recovery || DD #222 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2025 28:38


    The Truth About Keeping the House

    Play Episode Listen Later May 31, 2025 25:54


    Don't Let These 7 ‘Deadly' Divorce Sins Destroy Your Divorce Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2025 30:57


    Divorce recovery can feel like navigating a minefield, especially for men over 40. In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, your hosts Rachel and David dive into the 7 Deadly Sins of divorce recovery and how to avoid stalling in them.

    Setting Boundaries: One of the most important steps of Divorce Recovery || DD217 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 25:02


    Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast" with your hosts, David and Rachel!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2025 19:58


    Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast!

    The Limbo of Divorce: Signs It's Time to Move On || Divorce Devil Podcast #214 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2025 19:05


    Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast!

    Imposter Syndrome and Divorce: Why you Sometimes Feel LIke a Fraud After 40 || DD#213 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2025 30:19


    David and Rachel, the hilarious and insightful co-hosts of The Divorce Devil Podcast, tackle the complex issue of Imposter Syndrome in this episode. With their signature mix of humor, raw honesty, and relatable anecdotes, they explore how imposter syndrome manifests during divorce recovery and how to overcome it. Here's a quick breakdown:Key Highlights of Episode 213

    Why Grey Healing and Grey Divorce Are Different Entities? || Divorce Devil Podcast #212 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2025 25:21


    Welcome to "Divorce Devil," a dynamic and candid podcast series hosted by David and Rachel. In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of "Gray Healing" — a phase of emotional recovery that isn't black and white but exists in the gray areas of growth. Together, David and Rachel bring humor, raw honesty, and personal experiences to explore the complexities of post-divorce life, relationships, and self-discovery.In this episode, Rachel and David share their perspectives on navigating the ups and downs of healing, drawing on real-life analogies like fishing tackle boxes and speedbumps in a parking lot. They tackle the challenges of breaking old patterns, maintaining boundaries, and confronting outdated self-perceptions. Through this heartfelt discussion, the cohosts emphasize the importance of being actively present in one's healing journey. They also address the role of faith — whether in oneself, in the unseen, or in the process of life itself — as a pivotal element of recovery.With relatable anecdotes, candid humor, and valuable insights, "Divorce Devil" creates a safe space for listeners to reflect on their own healing journeys and find comfort in knowing they're not alone. Get ready for an engaging conversation that blends laughter, wisdom, and practical advice as David and Rachel remind us that healing is a messy yet beautiful process.Top 10 Important Points from the Episode:Gray Healing Concept: Healing isn't linear; it involves setbacks and progress in a "gray" area of recovery.Old Patterns vs. New Growth: Recognizing and breaking old, unproductive patterns is essential.Faith in Healing: Faith, whether in oneself or the process, is crucial in moving forward.Tools for Healing: Metaphors like tackle boxes highlight the importance of using the right emotional tools for different situations.Parent-Child Dynamics: Evolving parenting approaches while setting boundaries is vital in post-divorce life.Friendships Post-Divorce: Relationships with friends may shift, but they remain important to the healing process.Navigating New Relationships: Handling baggage and avoiding past mistakes in new relationships is a common challenge.Personal Growth: Healing involves self-awareness and embracing new roles and responsibilities.Humor in Healing: Humor can be a powerful tool to cope with tough situations. 10. Emotional Honesty: Open communication, even with oneself, is key to navigating emotional turbulence.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    Navigating the Hoe Phase: Embracing Sexual Freedom After Divorce || DD#211 || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2025 29:32


    Welcome to the "Divorce Devil Podcast," where hosts Rachel and David delve into the complex world of post-divorce recovery for individuals over 40. In this episode, they tackle the often-taboo subject of the "hoe phase," a time when newly single individuals explore their sexual freedom and redefine their identities after a major life change. Rachel and David share personal anecdotes, insights, and advice on navigating this transformative period. They emphasize the importance of communication, self-exploration, and safety in dating. Tune in as they discuss the emotional rollercoaster of dating post-divorce, the challenges of rekindling confidence, and how to embrace this new chapter with humor and honesty. Whether you're contemplating your own hoe phase or just want to understand it better, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and relationships after divorce.Top Ten Interview Points:Definition and significance of the "hoe phase" in post-divorce recovery.Personal experiences and anecdotes related to dating after divorce.The role of communication in establishing expectations with potential partners.The importance of self-exploration and experimenting with new experiences.Strategies for rebuilding confidence after a long-term relationship.Navigating the emotional challenges associated with dating again.The impact of societal perceptions on individuals exploring their sexuality post-divorce.Tips for ensuring safety while dating and meeting new people.The difference in perspectives on sex and relationships between genders.Encouragement for listeners to embrace their journey and let go of judgment.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    Demons, Pirates, and Squirrels: Surviving the Ghosts of Divorce || Divorce Devil Podcast || David and Rachel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2025 24:26


    In Episode 210 of the Divorce Devil Podcast, Rachel and David dive into the concept of the "Ghosts of Divorce"—the lingering emotional baggage, fears, and unresolved issues that often haunt us post-divorce. These "ghosts" can manifest in new relationships, friendships, and even in our self-perception. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with these ghosts, from fears of loneliness to feelings of inadequacy, and explore how these challenges resurface in everyday life.Through humor and honesty, Rachel and David reflect on how these ghosts shape their growth and relationships. They emphasize the importance of communication, setting healthy boundaries, and practicing self-compassion to navigate these emotional hurdles. The episode highlights that while the ghosts of divorce may revisit, they lose their power as we heal, grow, and learn from past experiences.Listeners are encouraged to confront their own ghosts by recognizing patterns, leaning into self-awareness, and prioritizing their well-being. Whether you're dealing with fears of failure, struggles with trust, or navigating difficult friendships, this episode offers relatable insights and practical advice wrapped in laughter and real talk.Top 10 Topics from Episode 210:What are the "Ghosts of Divorce" and how do they manifest?Overcoming the fear of loneliness post-divorce.Setting boundaries in new relationships and friendships.Recognizing red flags in "ships" (relationships, friendships, etc.).How past patterns influence current connections.The impact of unresolved self-worth issues on new relationships.The importance of self-care and prioritizing personal growth.Communicating effectively to heal wounds and build trust.Learning from past mistakes and avoiding repetitive cycles.Finding humor and strength in the healing process.Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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