Girl on Girl

Alyy Patel is back! This time to grace us with a live poetry reading from their new book, "Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths". Alyy is a trailblazing LGBTQ+ scholar, activist, and creative and founder of the Queer South Asian Women's Network (QSAW). With the release of their first book of poems, you can add author to the list."Don't Tell My Parents" is an unflinchingly honest collection of poetry that follows the author's journey to self-love and self-acceptance as a queer South Asian daughter of Canadian immigrants who reject her sexuality. On this episode, Alyy reads a few of their favourite poems from the book, exploring the key themes of family rejection, lesbian relationships, emotional abuse, and discovering self-love.Get your copy of Alyy's book here.Follow Alyy on Instagram and TikTok.Learn more about Alyy's work here.

We're kicking off a new season with SO. MANY. UPDATES! Sar is back from her trek through South Asia and Pers got herself a cat—and a girlfriend. Join us for this ultimate catch-up, where we explore P's first serious relationship with a woman, how they met, what she learned from her single life, and what she's looking forward to in the future. For anyone who has been listening to the show for a while, you know how big of a deal this is. Let's gossip, Girl on Girlies.

On today's episode, P sits down with her best friend of 21 years (WILD) Cailin Campbell to have the most vulnerable conversation. The two best friends talk about their childhood, growing up in a small town, and how they both navigated their sexuality as teens. Cailin openly identifies as pansexual and has been in a straight passing relationship with her boyfriend for nearly a decade. She dives into how she has struggled to fit in with the LGBTQIA+ community over the years since she got into a relationship at such a young age. However, Cailin has been able to grow and overcome those internal thoughts and is so grateful that she can be open with her partner about her pansexuality. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who identifies as queer but is in a happy and committed heterosexual relationship. Cailin says it many times throughout this episode but she wants everyone to know that your partner does not define your sexuality. If you want to send Cailin a message or keep up with her, you can follow this lil gemini babe below @cailincamps on Instagram.

YA'LL this episode is a special one. P talks to the one and only Lauren Abedini aka @iamkittens. KITTENS is a Persian lesbian DJ based out of Los Angeles. She sits down with P to talk about her experience coming out as a first-generation Iranian American, the first moment she realized she was into women, and how she kickstarted her career as a DJ in a male dominated industry. Her unique DJ sets and eclectic music taste had gained the interest of iconic artists like Kid Cudi, Usher, Skrillex, and A-Trak. Throughout her journey, she's had the opportunity to DJ at some of the world's largest stages like Coachella, EDC, and residencies in Vegas. Lastly, KITTENS talks about how important queer representation is in the media and how a queer playlist she started is what lead to the creation of SHE/HER/THEY, a podcast highlighting queer guests and their stories. Check out the links below to follow KITTENS and keep up with the latest podcast episodes for SHE/HER/THEY. InstagramTikTokTwitterWebsiteAlison Brie and Dave Franco ICYMI

Today, P brings on her sister and other half Marshneill to talk about allll the things. In this episode, you'll get to hear M's perspective on what it was like growing up in an Indian household while P was navigating her sexuality, their 8 year age gap and its impact on their relationship, how M had ZERO clue P was gay growing up and if she would have been able to pick up on more signs if there was more queer media representation, and her advice for new parents on how they can educate their children on the LGBTQ+ community.*Spoiler* M is a new parent to baby Celle and a wants to ensure he grows up in a very open and progressive environment. Also, this lil babe has the key to Italy but we will save that story for another pod episode.We really hope you enjoy this vulnerable conversation between M & P and have the chance to learn more about their relationship as sisters and their family dynamic.

While S is living it up in Thailand, P is riding solo to answer some listener Qs and maybe gush about Hello Fresh a lil (we promise this is not sponsored). In this episode, P gets real about not being fully over someone from her past and how she handles the unresolved feelings, how she felt growing up as a teenager with very minimal queer representation, what this generation of teens can do to find support, and why representation matters. Having LGBTQIA+ representation in books, tv shows, movies and any type of media you can consume is CRUCIAL. Let's never stop speaking out about this. Enjoy this candid episode!PS: Miss you S.

On this week's episode, we had the most inspiring conversation with Alexa Rose Vitale. Alexa is a queer actor/director/total boss. She started her career as a model and actor in Punjabi music videos. Soon she was writing and directing her own work, including a queer TV pilot about two girls navigating their sexuality in Vancouver.Alexa tells us about the complex and frustrating process of shopping a pilot about queer characters—as a queer, feminine creator in a cis-male dominated industry. She navigated through so much pushback, ultimately reclaiming control of her work and standing up for her creative vision.We're SO grateful to Alexa for this eye-opening conversation. Keep up with Alexa HERE and check out her not-for-profit clothing line Rosebud Apparel. With a firm belief in equitable access to the arts, Rosebud's mission is to provide funds for youth in the arts across Canada. Don't forget to subscribe so you can find out when the first collection drops!

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It's our last episode of 2022 and your girls are in their feels. Let's talk about cuffing season: what it is, the pressure you might feel during it, and how to find your cuff (if you're looking for one). Plus, our thoughts on 2022 and a special announcement that will cause a *slight* change to the format of the podcast. But don't worry—it's only until next summer. Happy holidays and an even happier new year to our amazing, beautiful, brilliant, passionate, soul-searching listeners. Here's to another year of conversation, allyship, and queer joy. Love, S & P.

All your questions about asexuality: answered. We sat down with Yasmin Benoit, British model and award-winning ace activist, to talk about her experience identifying as asexual and aromantic. She tells us all about the very real challenges asexual people face and how starting UK's first asexual rights initiative is her way of creating change—in legislation and in how asexuality is perceived by the world. We absolutely loved this conversation with Yasmin and we're so grateful for her honesty and perspective.Follow Yasmin here.Find links to all her work here.

Queer events are crucial for the community—now more than ever. So what does it take to cultivate strong, supportive, and safe queer spaces? We asked Jessica Figueroa, aka Fig, from QueerGxrl.QueerGxrl is a premier events company for the next generation of queer womxn. Based in San Diego with plans to expand, QueerGxrl has amassed over 100K followers online and hosts regular parties for hundreds of people.We sat down with Fig to ask how they did it. From filling a major gap for queer women to building a community where everyone feels included, Fig explains why the work that QueerGxrl does is so important. She also shares her personal story, from being a closeted college athlete to becoming the face of a successful queer events company.Follow QueerGxrl on IG and TikTokFollow Jess FigRead QueerGxrl's feature in ForbesRead more about QueerGxrl on SDVoyager

Beauty is a complex thing. It has a million definitions and means something different to everyone. But one thing's for sure: our society is obsessed with it. On this episode we explore why.What even IS beauty? Is it subjective or objective (or both)? Do stereotypically "attractive" people succeed more? Why does beauty take up so much mental space, especially for women? How can we put less emphasis on how we look, while still celebrating our own inherent beauty?While we can't definitively answer these Qs, talking about them feels vulnerable and cathartic. We hope you feel the same listening. And in case anyone hasn't told you today—you're really, really beautiful.Links from this episode:Forbes: The Role Beauty Plays in Success At WorkNew York Times: Why Is Beauty Important to Us?

On this VERY special episode, we sit down with one of Sarah's best friends to talk about her experience dating a woman for the first time at 27. Anne had always dated men until she met Katie, her now partner (and roomie). In this vulnerable convo, Anne explains her relationship with sexuality, how Katie completely surprised her, and how she feels about labelling herself. Then Katie joins in to tell us about meeting Anne for the first time, making her move (aka MOVES plural lol), and her experience as a gay woman being someone's first girlfriend.We truly can't thank Anne and Katie enough for having this conversation with us. This is a story about what happens when you stay open to love and follow your intuition. As Anne says in the episode: Love can never be wrong.Links from this episode's ICYMI:Keara Graves x Yasmin Benoit interview on asexualityGayTimes article by Monty Benning

WTF is the lesbian breakup curse? How did it start? WHO allegedly started it? And why are lesbian breakups notoriously heart-wrenching? On this episode, P teaches S all about this new conspiracy. We explore why lesbian couples on social media have such a loyal, dedicated following. Plus, why the curse—although upsetting—is also relatable, realistic, and relevant.Link to The Cut article we reference, written by Emma Turetsky.Resources to support the women of Iran right now:How to Help Protesters in Iran (TIME Magazine)How to Help Iran Protests (including Iranian activists to follow for more resources)

It's a Girl On Girl FIRST. While Pers is off on a well-deserved European adventure, Sarah takes the mic solo. Apologies in advance, friends. In this episode, she talks about the top 4 questions she gets as a straight girl co-hosting a gay podcast. What she's learned, what she's had to UNlearn, and the age old question: is she SURE she's not gay? Plus, her top tips for how to start your own podcast! Featuring an *INSANE* deal from our friends at CoHost: our un-freaking-believable podcast hosting platform. CoHost has everything your podcast needs in one spot, including analytics, SEO boosters, and one-click marketing tools. Guys—they aren't paying us a cent to say this. We just love them lol. And they've graciously agreed to offer all Girl On Girl listeners access to the entire CoHost platform for only $20/month for their first year! The regular price per month is $59 soooo...ya lol. Go to cohostpodcasting.com and use code GIRLONGIRL to set up your account and get started. Can't wait to listen to your podcasts someday soon.

Friends with benefits: What are the pros and cons? Why can it be common in the queer community? What makes a successful FWB situation? And the real question — is it *actually* possible? We attempt to answer all of the above with the help of some insights from both queer and straight friends.

WE'RE BACK! After an end-of-summer break, we've returned with a very special guest: lesbian somatic coach and restorative justice activist, Marlee Liss!TW: Sexual assault, trauma.In this honest and open conversation, Marlee describes how her own experience with sexual assault led her down a path she didn't expect. After years of taking her case through the punitive system, she discovered a groundbreaking alternative: restorative justice. Fast forward to today, and Marlee's case is the first EVER restorative justice case for sexual assault through the North American court system. We learn all about what that means and how restorative justice impacted Marlee's healing journey.Speaking of healing, we dive into all things somatics and trauma-informed pleasure. Marlee explains how trauma shows up in your body, not only in your sex life but in your everyday. Plus, her top tips for self-pleasure or pleasure with a partner after trauma.This episode gets heavy, but it is such a necessary and important conversation. We're beyond grateful to Marlee for having it with us!Want to keep learning from Marlee, work with her directly, or have her speak at your next event?Follow her on IG.Check out her website for resources on trauma-informed pleasure and restorative justice.Follow her and her girlfriend Britt on TikTok, because they're cute AF.

Why did Bend It Like Beckham become a queer cult classic? On this episode, we break down all the reasons why the 2002 soccer hit was *supposed* to be the lesbian romance of our generation. Plus, other movies that we think should have (or could have) been gay. What movies did we miss? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast or shoot us an email at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com!

Meet your LGBTQ+ travel guide: Chloe Beth! As a content creator and travel enthusiast, Chloe has created a community online for queer people to feel seen and supported. We ask Chloe about all the things: coming out in her mid-20s, falling in love with her girlfriend Jodie, being candid about her sexuality online, and of course all her tips for safe and enjoyable LGBTQ+ travel. You guys have been asking for this topic and we're SO honoured that Chloe is here to share her expertise! Take a listen, plan your next trip, and then invite us along pretty pls.Follow Chloe: @thechloebethChloe's favourite queer travel creators: @27travels@raviroundtheworld@lezseetheworld@wearewanderingtravel@onceuponajourneyChloe is in the process of launching her new blog and brand: www.anythingchlo.com. Stay tuned!

It's our very first LIVE episode! Recorded at Toronto's Adelaide Hall on June 23, this very special podcast event featured an unforgettable panel discussion with queer icons Humberly Gonzalez, Shannon Burns, Keara Graves, James Baley, and Alyy Patel. Plus a live performance by singer songwriter Brianna Musco and tons of other shinanigans in between with your hosts S & P. Hosting this event was a pod HIGHLIGHT for us, and we're beyond grateful to our incredible guests and the teams at MRG Live and Adelaide Hall who helped us put it all together. To everyone who joined us for this Pride celebration — the energy you brought to the room was next-level. And for everyone who couldn't make it to Toronto — this one's for you.

What does it mean to look/sound/act gay? On this episode we're deconstructing the stereotypes with Travis Nelson: the dreamy queer love interest on Amazon Prime Video's newest series "The Lake"! Travis tells us about growing up in a small town and how moving to bigger cities was the start of his coming out journey. As a cis gay man, Travis explains how the assumptions people make about his sexuality have been both a privilege and a challenge. We ask him about constantly being cast in straight roles and how it feels to be playing a proudly out gay character on such a prominant streaming platform. Plus, what was it like working with THE Julia Stiles?! This conversation with Travis is so honest, vulnerable, and introspective. We're so grateful for him and we can't wait for all of you to watch The Lake: now streaming on Prime Video!Watch The Lake HERE.Follow Travis HERE.Psst. Our LIVE Pride event is THIS THURSDAY, June 23! Want to come party with us as we chat live with some of our favourite Toronto queers? Grab your tickets HERE — proceeds from every sale support LGBT Youthline.

What's happening in your brain when you fall in love? On this ep, we find out. With the help of some half-assed internet research, we learn the neuroscience behind falling in love. We talk about the physical and emotional signs that you might be feeling the L-word. We also explore how understanding the science of love can help us better understand the queer experience. If love is a chemical reaction in your body (which it is), then loving ANYONE, no matter their gender or identity, is a no-brainer. Pun intended.WANNA PARTY WITH US on Pride weekend in Toronto? We're hosting a LIVE podcast event featuring some incredible queer guests on June 23 at Adelaide Hall. Proceeds from all ticket sales will support LGBT Youthline! Grab your tickets here: https://admitone.com/events/girl-on-girl-toronto-8165932

Welcome to Sexual Health 101 with Girl x Girl. On this episode, we explore sexual health for people with vaginas and people with penises — whether your queer, straight, or somewhere in between. Does eating more pineapple actually work? Can kegels help with erectile function? We dive into it all and *much* more. We also learn about trans sexual health, how the body changes during hormone therapy, and why it can be so difficult for trans people to get the healthcare they need. Disclaimer: ALWAYS talk to your doctor about your sexual health before trusting two random girls on a podcast. PS. Got your tickets to our LIVE event in Toronto on June 23 yet? Grab them here: https://admitone.com/events/girl-on-girl-toronto-8165932

Bisexuality and pansexuality: two identities that often get confused for each other. So what's the difference and why does that difference matter? What has P's relationship been with both identities? And what does attraction have to do with it all? We're diving into it on today's episode. Plus, all the details for our upcoming LIVE event: June 23rd at Adelaide Hall in Toronto! This Pride party will be a live podcast recording featuring very special guests James Baley, Keara Graves, Shannon Burns, and Alyy Patel. A portion of all proceeds will go back to the queer community. Grab your tickets here: https://admitone.com/events/girl-on-girl-toronto-8165932

Why are we attracted to certain people and not others? On this episode we explore what it means to have a type and how attraction factors into it all. P explains her type, S explains hers, and we finally discover the truth: is Sar Pers's type? Then we learn more about the many different types of attraction, asexuality, demisexuality, and more. Plus, mailbags from two INCREDIBLE queer listeners from Dallas and Costa Rica!

Today we're joined by the one and only Keara Graves! Keara is the definition of a multi-hyphenate: actor, musician, YouTuber, content creator, and Toronto-based queer icon. We ask Keara about their entire queer journey — from discovering their sexuality to navigating their gender. Keara tells us about being a successful actor at such a young age and how their YouTube channel evolved into what it is now: a queer haven with a sex positive message. We explore Keara's decision to cut their hair short, and how many no's they had to push through to finally make the choice for themselves (and nobody else). Plus, Keara and Persis gossip about going to the same high school in Whitby, Ontario! We're so grateful to Keara for having this convo with us and for creating a space online for queer people to see themselves. Here's how to keep up with them:Follow Keara on InstagramFollow Keara on TikTokSubscribe to Keara's YouTube Channel

Okay, class. It's time for some (queer) sex ed. Today we're joined by sunshine in human form, AKA Eva Bloom (MSc)! Eva is a queer sex educator, content creator, and self-proclaimed research nerd. We dive into all our queer sex Qs, from toys to LDRs to self-pleasure. Eva gives some expert guidance for navigating sex as a baby gay, releasing sexual shame, and healing from compulsory heterosexuality. As a non-binary lesbian, Eva explains their relationship with labels and gender identity. Plus, a peek inside their super successful YouTube channel, What's My Body Doing!Resources we talked about on this episode:Eva's InstagramLinks to Eva's Live Event @ Glad Day, Comphet Support Group & MoreEva's YouTube ChannelEva's Program Wait ListBex Talks Sex (Trans Sex Educator)Tuck Malloy (Queer Non-Binary Sex Educator)Sexplanations: 120 Sex Acts (Video)The Best Lesbian Erotica AnthologyQueer Sex Ed Podcast Archive (Speaks to Trans Femme Experience)Honey Play Box Sex Toys (Use Code EVABLOOM For Discount)Gender Outlaw by Kate Bornstein

Ever wondered what it's like to be on Big Brother? On this episode, we're joined by the lovely Melina Mansing: artist, content creator, and recent contestant on the 10th season of Big Brother Canada! We ask her about all the things. Being on reality TV, her past life as a tattoo artist, and how fashion helps her express her own self-love and body positivity. Melina tells us about her queer experience, and how liking both women and men was never really a question in her mind. Plus, why BIPOC representation is so important. Biiiig thanks to Melina for hanging with us!Want to keep up with Melina?Follow her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justmelines/ Follow her on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justmelines?lang=en

Coming out is a big deal. That's why it's so important to take care of yourself — before, during, and after. Like most queer people, you'll probably have multiple coming out experiences. You might even feel like you come out every single day. The common thread throughout all of this is YOU and your mental and physical health. On this episode, we give our top self-care tips for your coming out journey. Pers tells us which self-care strategies she did while she was coming out — and which ones she wished she did. Our top tip: take it slow and give yourself grace. Coming out is a process and you deserve to soak in every beautiful, scary, and magical moment.What self-care tips helped you most when you were coming out? DM us: https://www.instagram.com/girlxgirlpodcast/

How do kids and teens feel about queerness in 2022? Is it different from when we were growing up? On this ep, we find out. We share stories from two queer 15-year-old listeners: Yara from Belgium and Tess from Netherlands. They tell us about their experiences discovering their sexuality, being queer at school, and the disconnects between their peers and their family. We learn how 8th graders in Vancouver are talking about queerness and the questions they have. Plus, a *very* special interview with Sar's 8-year-old nephew, Knox! We still have so much progress to make, but let's just say: this generation knows what's up. Are you a queer youth with a story to share? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast or shoot us an email at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com!

Trigger warning: trauma, sexual assault, depression. This is a very special episode with our very good friend, Cayla Meredith! Cayla is a pansexual trauma and sexual assault survivor who now coaches other survivors on their path to healing. In this conversation, Cayla shares her very personal experience with trauma, starting in her early childhood. She gets candid about what happened to her and how it impacted her as an adult — from rock bottom moments to revelations. We explore how Cayla's sexual trauma factored into her discovering her queerness and coming into her sexuality. Plus, what inspired her to launch the Move to Heal Project and how we can all move through trauma by connecting to our bodies. Cayla is unbelievably brave, resilient, and optimistic and we were SO honoured that she shared her story with us. If you're a trauma survivor or simply someone who wants to heal through movement, follow Cayla @caylameredith and connect with her by DM to find out how you can work with her. And remember friends: you're not alone. We're always here to talk. Love you guys.

Why does being queer feel so *spiritual*? We find out on this episode, thanks to Jane Lyon — energy healer, coach, and your new spiritual bestie. As a gay girl who spent most of her life closeted, Jane tells us how Buddhism and spirituality helped her come into her sexuality and come OUT to the world. She explains the basics of spirituality (from Reiki to chakras) and how it is deeply connected to the queer experience. We learn how spiritual practice, like yoga and meditation, can help you regulate your emotions and lean into freedom. Plus, why spirituality sometimes gets an *eye roll* in today's culture. If you're intimidated by spirituality, don't worry — Jane is all about making it approachable, accessible, and easy to understand. That's why we took SO MUCH away from this conversation, and we know you will too. Want to work with Jane or listen to her podcast? Find her on IG @janeof801 and search Lyoness Podcast wherever you get your pods!

Trigger Warning: depression, suicide, anxiety, trauma, abuse. Today, we're joined by a true powerhouse and inspiration: Alyy Patel. A trailblazing LGBTQ+ scholar, activist, writer, and influencer, Alyy has pioneered Canadian research on queer South Asian women's issues. Alyy is gay, gender-fluid, and Indo-African Gujarati. Throughout their career, Alyy has accomplished so many firsts for South Asian women, including being the first South Asian speaker at Toronto's Dyke March. Oh, and did we mention they're only 25? We sit down with Alyy to pull back the curtain and find out what goes into being a true trailblazer. Alyy gets candid with us about their struggles with mental health and abuse, and how it led them to dive deeper into activism. We learn all about Alyy's thriving non-profit organization — the Queer South Asian Women's Network — and how it's creating a safe space for queer Indian women around the world. Most of all, we talk about the complex relationship between South Asian culture and queerness. And how all of us (with the help of leaders like Alyy) can continue to foster openness and inclusion. Want to join the Queer South Asian Network? Follow @QSAWnetwork and learn more at www.qsawnetwork.com. Keep up with Alyy @alyypatel or www.alyypatel.com.

Compulsory heterosexuality, who's she? On this episode, we learn about the Lesbian Google Doc: a 30-page guide called "Am I a Lesbian?". Originally posted by an anonymous Tumblr user, the doc earned a cult following for its comprehensive and relatable descriptions of compulsory heterosexuality. AKA: the societal pressure to be straight. Pers tells us about how it all applies to her journey and how her feelings toward men have always been (and continue to be) complex. She even gets real about a recent attraction she felt for a man — and how that doesn't change her identity as a gay woman. Plus, our very first MERCH collection is finally here! 100% of the proceeds from every sale will go to 2 organizations making an impact in the Canadian LGBTQIA+ community: Pflag Canada and Casey House. Shop the collection here: https://tinyurl.com/2p83fepr Access the "Am I a Lesbian?" doc here: https://www.docdroid.net/N46Ea3o/copy-of-am-i-a-lesbian-masterdoc-pdf#page=19

Ya girls went from Fefe one week to Keke the next. On this episode, we sit down with the ultra-lovable Keauno Perez from Netflix's Twentysomethings: Austin! Moving into a house with 8 strangers for a reality TV show, Keke had to come out to not only his roommates — but the entire world. Up until that point, only a handful of people knew Keke was gay. We ask him about that process and how it felt to embrace his queerness for the very first time. His first kiss, his first gay bar, his first heartbreak — and how it felt to have all of that FILMED for Netflix. Keke tells us about how he got the show, what it took for him to get there, and where he plans to go next. Plus, his favourite moments with his roomies, his friendship with Natalie, and how it feels to represent the Mexican queer community. Keke is a full blown ray of sunshine, y'all. You're going to love this conversation. Keep up with Keke on IG @keaunoperez and stay tuned for him and Nat's new podcast: Hopeful and Horny!

It's Fefe Fckn Dobson. On this episode, we sit down with the pop punk icon herself. From her unforgettable 2003 debut to her epic Joy era in 2010, Fefe has been a generational staple in pop rock music. Along the way, her and her music have been embraced by the queer community — especially in drag. We ask her about all of it! Her experience as a Black woman in a majority white male genre, how it felt to be a guest judge on Canada's Drag Race, and who she wrote Take Me Away about (spoiler: he brought sexy back). Plus, she tells us about releasing new music for the first time in 8 years, starting with the single Fckn In Love: coming February 25! We were beyond honoured to chat with a true icon, a badass trailblazer, and a champion for the queer community. Guys, it's FEFE FCKN DOBSON!!! Enjoy this fun, open, and fangirl-friendly conversation.

Why is it so hard for us to admit when someone just *isn't* that into us? On this ep, your girls gossip about that strange, fun, but wildly confusing time when you first start seeing someone. It can be so hard to know if someone is into you — and so EASY to make excuses for why they're being distant. We dive into all our theories for why that is. Plus, the added layers of confusion for queer people as they navigate new relationships (especially with people who aren't completely confident in their sexuality yet). And if you're wondering how to know if P or S are into you, we cover that too. Are you struggling with something like this right now? Shoot us a DM @girlxgirlpodcast and we'll remind you how f*cking date-worthy you are.

Friends, this might be our most vulnerable episode yet. We sit down with Dawna Noble, an LGTBQIA+ relationship expert and coach, to dive DEEP into dating. P talks about the patterns that keep coming up in her love life and asks Dawna how she can break them. S gets real about everything she has been learning and unlearning from past relationships. Dawna explains the differences between queer and straight relationships, and the challenges that can come up for queer couples (no matter their gender). Plus, how the trauma from her ex-wife's infidelity inspired her to build a career around helping other couples in crisis. This was such a lovely, emotional, and open conversation. We hope everyone can take something away from Dawna's expertise — whether you're queer, straight, or somewhere in between. Want to work with Dawna? Connect with her through Instagram DM @dawnanoble! Oh, and don't forget to congratulate her on her recent engagement to her partner!

On this very special episode, we're joined by Queer Eye's Angel Flores! As a powerhouse trans woman, athlete, and activist, Angel stole the spotlight in Season 6 of everyone's favourite Netflix show. We gossip with Angel about her experience on the show, including her favourite behind-the-scenes moments with the Fab 5. We talk about the moment Angel realized she was a woman and how she felt empowered to start her transition journey. Then, we dive deep into trans athletics and why every single trans person — kids included (!!!) — should be able to play sports in an environment where they feel safe, empowered, and included. We were so honoured that Angel took the time to teach us about the experience of being a trans athlete and what we can all do as allies and peers to support the trans community. Want to keep up with Angel? Follow her on IG @_.arkangel_!

Below Her Mouth is a controversial movie in the queer community. Some hate it, some love it, and some hate to love it. On this episode, we watch the film together LIVE and then talk about it. We dive into the INTENSE sex scenes (they don't hold *anything* back in this movie) and the chemistry between the lead actors, Erika Linder and Natalie Krill. Pers explains why she thinks the lesbian sex in this movie is an accurate depiction, unlike other queer movies in the past (a la Blue is the Warmest Colour). We explore why this movie is such a hot topic in the lesbian community and how we desperately need more queer relationships represented on film. Plus, how Sar and Pers felt watching what is essentially soft core porn together (lol). What did you think of Below Her Mouth? More importantly, what queer stories do YOU want to see on film? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast or email us at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com!

Are you the ghosted, ghoster, or a little bit of both? This episode is for you. We did a lil research to find out why ghosting hurts so god damn much. Turns out there are legitimate neurological reasons. Plus a whole bunch of reasons we just made up. Either way, ya girls explore the impact of ghosting, why people ghost in the first place, and how to deal with getting ghosted. Time to get vulnerable, friends. You game? Let's go. (Pssst. Got a ghosting story for us? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast or shoot us an email at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com).

New year, same gay sh*t. We're kicking off 2022 with a topic we've been wanting to slice into for a while now (pun intended): scissoring. For far too long, scissoring has been the punch line of a million not-funny jokes. So, is it even a thing? Do all lesbians scissor? Do lesbians *only* scissor? We break it all down, plus other gay sex myths that need to be debunked, like yesterday. Come along for the ride as we say the word "penetration" about 100 times. Sorry, mom's! Got a topic you want us to cover this year? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast on IG + TikTok or shoot us an email at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com.

Last episode of the year? Pardon me??? We cap off a whirlwind year with a little reflection + prediction, and a lot of love. Since launching the podcast this year, we've been so grateful to build a small community of pals from around the world. We talk about what this pod and that community has taught us. Plus, what we're most proud of this year both personally and professionally. Then, we read letters we wrote to our future selves — only to be revisited one year from now. Come join us for an end of 2021 party! Catch ya in 2022, friends.

On this ep, we hang out with Brianna Musco — indie pop artist, songwriter, and proud queer femme — to talk about making music that speaks to all the gay girl sh*t she didn't see growing up. Even better? We're also joined by the hilarious Amanda Lance, a queer content creator and all-around lesbian icon, who plays Brianna's love interest in the new video for her song "Paradise"! We gossip with both pals about discovering their sexuality, coming out, being boldly authentic on the internet, and — of course — why it's so important for Brianna to represent WLW relationships in her music.FOLLOW BRIANNA: @_briannamusco on TikTok + @briannamusco on IGFOLLOW AMANDA: @amanda.jasmin12 on TikTok + @amanda_lance12 on IGFind Brianna's music on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you stream! And make sure to watch the new "Paradise" video with Amanda on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hel9A8T4kRQ

Whether you're straight, queer, or somewhere in between, you can be an ally for the queer community. How? We're breaking it all down on this episode! S talks about her role as a straight ally and what she does to try and be better every day. P explains what she, as a gay woman, thinks an ally should look like — plus, what she does to be an ally for her community. We discuss how exposure, representation, and a basic respect for human rights can bring out the ally in all of us. We also tackle performative allyship, and how straight people especially can be more genuine and authentic about their support for the queer community. Then, we spotlight some of pop culture's most notable queer allies and what they do to help make an impact and create change! Got Qs about allyship? DM us @girlxgirlpodcast or shoot us an email at girlxgirlpodcast@gmail.com!

Girl crush? Bromance? What does it all mean? And why can't people who identify as the same gender just be affectionate with each other...because they want to be? On this episode, we break down the age-old adage "all girls are a little gay." We talk about the differences between how women and men show each other love, and how female relationships (friendships or romantic) are rarely taken seriously by society. Plus, how can we teach boys and girls (but especially boys) that they can be affectionate with each other in whatever way feels most authentic to them? Please enjoy us trying to move elegantly through this topic and DM us @girlxgirlpodcast with your thoughts on it all!

The gals were in the mood for a good old fashioned heart-to-heart. On this ep, we sit down with some wine (of course) and play We're Not Really Strangers — a card game designed to skip the BS and cut right to learning who we really are. S talks about a dream she let go of. P explains how she feels different internally than how others perceive her. We both get real about our friendship and being partners in life. S talks about how she's learning to be whole without another person. And P has to call the person she admires most (live on the air) and tell them why she appreciates them. Grab a glass of vino and get cozy with us for this vulnerable (and tipsy) conversation between best friends and sisters-by-choice.

Today, we're joined by the incredibly inspiring and beautifully spoken Owen Unruh! Owen is a Two-Spirit, Nêhiyaw man who is currently recovering from a 10-year addiction. About 6 months ago, Owen started showing up as his most authentic, vulnerable self on social media. Safe to say, people took notice and his following skyrocketed. We chat with Owen about growing up as an adopted queer kid in a white, religious family. He tells us about when his addiction started and how he found the strength to move forward from homelessness and avoidance into sobriety and healing. Owen explains how re-connecting with his Indigenous roots has helped him discover his purpose and his identity as Two-Spirit. It was SUCH an honour to sit down with Owen for this conversation. We learned a hell of a lot, and we hope you do too. If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, please know that you're loved and you're not alone. As Owen says, you have the power to make every choice in your life, from the moment you wake up to the moment you go to sleep. Stories like Owen's are proof of that. Follow him @owen.unruh on IG or @owenunruh2 on TikTok!

Fun fact: over half of all queer people in the US identify as bisexual. So why is the B in LGBTQIA+ still such a hard thing for people to grasp — for straight and queer people? On this episode, we were inspired by an AMAZING mailbag from a bi listener in Indonesia! After years of exploring her sexuality and proudly identifying as a bisexual woman, she's now in the process of navigating her relationship with her lovely fiancé, who identifies as male. We share her story and try to answer big Q's like: how can a straight person best support their bisexual partner? What can bi people do to stay true to their identity — no matter which gender they're currently dating? And what can queer people do to support and empower their bisexual pals? As someone who identified as bisexual for years, P describes her experience (the highs and the lows) and gives sage advice for anyone who is being told "this is just a phase". Spoiler: it's not.

Queer mental health is something we talk about on almost every episode, but this time we're diving in deep. First, we read a mailbag from a brave listener who shares their struggle with mental health and how it directly related to their sexuality. We explore some upsetting (but important) stats about the state of mental health across the LGBTQIA+ community. Then, Pers gets real about the most difficult time in her life — and how she overcame it to arrive here as a proud AF gay woman. Our biggest takeaway: it's crucial that every person who identifies as queer knows that they aren't alone in how they're feeling. That's why this convo gets super vulnerable and candid (trigger warning: suicide + physical/sexual assault). How are ya'll feeling? Our DMs are always open @girlxgirlpodcast.

FINALLY! The episode we've been wanting to do since day one. Today, we invite Persis' hot cousin Jacob Joseph to dive into the reality (and beauty) of being queer and Indian! Jacob tells us his entire story — from acknowledging his uniqueness as a kid to coming out as a teen. He gets candid about the disapproval of his parents, even going so far as to send him away to a religious camp that preached homophobia. Jacob talks about getting bullied at school, fighting with his parents, and overcoming the stigma of sex and queerness in Indian culture. He shares how things are today with his parents (and how his mom is still trying to arrange his marriage to a woman). Plus, Persis and Jacob discuss the differences in how they were raised, even though both their parents immigrated from India. How has being a queer minority impact you? Shoot us a DM to share your story @girlxgirlpodcast!