Eros Rising - Sex Podcast for Men

Most men don't realize what porn is actually costing them… until it's already showing up in their sex life, motivation, or relationships. *(And, you're not alone, I struggled with this too). I highly recommend listening if you've EVER questioned your use of or relationship with porn...

If you've ever felt like you're doing everything “right” but still not getting the sex, connection, or fulfillment you want ⚠️ - this conversation might blow something wide open for you.

So many men get it wrong in the bedroom... Trying to be nice... Unsure of how to take the lead... And even ashamed of their own desire... If you've ever felt these ways, you're not alone (and I have to regularly work on this too). In this episode, Layla Martin and I dive deep into how you can sexually unleash your primal masculine energy - in a way that's bold, conscious, attuned, and deeply sexy.

Ever felt stuck in your sexual self-mastery journey? Have you tried all kinds of techniques but feel like you're still missing something? If so, this episode is for you. You'll learn the #1 reason most men struggle to see real progress in their sexual growth - and how you can overcome it.HINT: techniques alone won't get you there. You've got to dive into the deeper emotional and psychological layers under the techniques - to create a strong foundation for the techniques to rest on top of - and by doing so, you'll unlock the true sexual growth, confidence, pleasure, and connection you desire.

As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too.

If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️‍

Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...

This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode. ⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen).

Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.

How much are your hormones being affected by your relationship problems? How many hormonal imbalances are just stress from struggles in partnership? Today, Dr. Ricky Arenson and I explore the intricate dance between relationships and happiness, particularly within the realm of sexual intimacy. We delve into the importance of meaningful connections for long-term fulfillment, discuss the affect of social media on our happiness, comfort, and keys to sustained happiness. We talk about Dr. Arenson's book "Women are Superior to Men," shedding light on physiological distinctions and their nuanced implications in relationships. Ultimately, we unravel the profound truth that the essence of sex transcends mere physicality, shaping desires within relationships or solitude, as we celebrate the profound magic embedded in human connections.TIMESTAMPS:00:00 - Intro01:29 - Opening02:08 - Ricky's Story02:29 - Is it hormonal issues, or relationship issues?05:10 - Long-term healthy relationships are key to happiness09:58 - How to Prioritize Sex & Intimacy As A Parent17:10 - Our generation's struggles in health & relationships27:00 - Social Media's affect on relationships & people35:45 - Resolving Relationship Issues as a Team38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership's Needs 41:44 - Should You Stay in A Relationship?48:10 - How to be happier54:58 - Consequences of Being Too Comfortable57:59 - Final Words01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky Arenson---------------------

My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.ABOUT NAEMANaema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 - Intro01:45 - Opening06:15 - Theme's Naema has learned about penetration working with women08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience19:20 - What to do before sex23:15 - Technique to help her open24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris34:00 - Waiting for the ask36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way1:01:30 - Outro---------------------

Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices can lead to personal growth and deeper self-understanding.As we peel away societal taboos, our guests share their transformative journeys from mere participants to passionate educators within the kink community. They illuminate the joys of helping others safely unearth their desires, pushing past conventional boundaries to a place of profound erotic expression. We also dissect the critical role of consent and the Wheel of Consent, emphasizing how these frameworks can foster a safe and fulfilling exploration of one's sexual landscape.Join us for this thought-provoking session where we embrace our primal instincts and redefine what it means to engage in role-playing, objectification, and the pursuit of pleasure. With practical advice and shared vulnerabilities, this episode promises a welcoming space for the curious, the seasoned, and everyone in between who seeks to understand the profound impact of kink on personal transformation and sexual empowerment. Ashley and Kyle guide us through this rich tapestry, leaving us with a deeper appreciation for the nuanced world of kink and the liberation that comes with embracing our true desires.The next Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on February 8th, 2024!Support the show

Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.

Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this video. And...

This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too.

Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (with tons of great guest instructors) for people who want to become professional sex coaches that specifically work with men.I've looked through the syllabus, and it looks pretty awesome. I'm going to actually take one part of the training too: the SAR (described in the episode).If you're interested, check out the links below:

If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jensen believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff...

This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro01:28 Opening03:02 Papillon's Professional Background03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries 09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm 14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect 38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs 52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light57:02 Restorative Justice58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look UpGENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION:In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma. Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes. Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing.

What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?  In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions. Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can guide you beyond better sexual experiences and into deeper spiritual growth.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:00:00 Intro & Welcome02:36 Hema's Story05:03 Neo Tantra & Classical Tantra Explained10:21 What is the history of Tantra?19:10 Why Tantra is considered the “left hand path” in India21:46 Tantra as a practice of deconstructing the ego28:47 Sexuality as the primordial force where we get our power33:53 Tantra for Common Householders37:13 How we can be overly attached to sex39:14 Meditation practices for deep states of bliss43:00 How Taylor first found deep presence & bliss45:25 Enlightenment through Tantra50:11 “Spiritual Psychopaths” in Tantra57:48 Practices Hema Recommends1:01:42 Closing

Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejaculation mastery and semen retention from the Tantric perspective, non-ejaculatory orgasms (Kria Vati), how to increase your capacity to hold more sexual pleasure and much more...

Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!

If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.

Is sexual polarity bullshit? Masculine VS Feminine conversations are huge these days, but in the context of sexual polarity, is it actually helpful to use these terms? Is there a better option? That's what we'll talk about today

"There aren't enough good men!" said the woman after ecstatic dance... She couldn't find any at the cacao ceremony or didgeridoo sound healing either... why?What makes a man actually DESIRABLE? That's  the real question here... And in this episode you'll hear some of the steps both Jasper and I took to change our lives from being sensitive, and ultimately undesirable new age guys, to being men who have happy and thriving lives and relationships.  EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:0:00 Intro2:25 "Conscious Men" as F*ckboys6:29 Do Women Like New Age Guys?14:10 Balancing Spirituality with Practical Living23:10 Developing the Inner Feminine as a Man27:40 The Inner Masculine & Feminine...33:12 We Need to Talk About Healthy Masculinity38:48 Victim Mindset Problems...42:28 Restoring Trust & Safety with Women48:41 Understanding Conflict & Communication56:30 Learn How to Deal with our Urges/Addictions-------------

What is the healthy masculine? What is a healthy sexual man? How can men thrive sexually in a way that improves the lives of ALL people?These are the kinds of questions we'll dive into in season 3 of this podcast. Why? Because it's both important AND it will help you become a better lover, partner, friend and overall human.We can't become our best selves just by learning techniques... we also have to look at the systems and contexts we're part of, and how we relate to and interact with those systems. It's rich content, and it can be confronting... but it's work we need to do, and I'm excited to do this work WITH you.In addition to the episodes in season 3, I also recommend checking out the podcast and article below, because they dive into this topic beautifully. You may not agree with everything, but it will certainly inspire some deep & critical thinking, which I believe is necessary for where we are today."Understanding Men & Their Trauma"- with Gabor Mate on the Man Enough Podcast"Men are lost. Here's a map out of the wilderness." - article by Christine Emba------------------------

Is Semen Retention legit or fake? In this episode you'll hear Dr. Jonathan Brajtbord's perspectives on the crossover of western medicine and esoteric wisdom (semen retention from a western medical perspective). In the second half of this interview (around the 30-minute mark), we get into an really inspiring conversation about conscious monogamy too. It's definitely worth your time if you ever want to have a monogamous relationship.

Few men have realized the true power of masturbation, and this episode will help you become one of those men. If you DO want to learn the best masturbation techniques possible, and how to masturbate in a way that will blow your mind, improve your sex life AND improve your entire life, this episode is for you.

Words are powerful, and the right words during SEX can massively improve the experience. In this episode you'll hear how YOU can use the power of words during sex to exponentially increase pleasure and connection for all.We also talk about porn, and whether or not friends should watch each other have sex (instead of watching porn). IF YOU HAVE EVER WATCHED PORN, you should listen to this episode!*The youtube version of this episode will be released this week.---------------

After 3.5 years of NoFap, without porn, masturbation, sex or ejaculation, a man reached out to me last week after he realized NoFap was hurting him. He had been experiencing what is called the NoFap Flatline for years...

Most men limit their sex lives without knowing it... I've done this too... But the good news is that it IS possible to change, and if you change the 5 things mentioned in today's episode, your sex life will improve in massive ways. 

Andre recently taught a BDSM 101 class in Asheville (where I live), and I wanted to attend but couldn't because I was out of town. Some of my friends went though, and their feedback was great, so bringing Andre on the podcast seemed like the next best thing.

In this episode you'll hear Juno's personal story of going from monogamy into polyamory.  We talk about the very real struggles of doing this (jealousy and lack of societal support), AND the benefits of this kind of relationship structure too.This episode is unique because Juno isn't a sex or relationship coach. She's not trying to "sell" you a concept or lifestyle. She just wants to share her authentic experience so others can benefit. THANK YOU Juno! You'll even hear some personal stories from my own life in this episode too.

Sexual trauma happens to men too, and it's important to talk about it. In this episode we're joined by licensed therapist Papillon DeBoer, who specializes in helping men work with and heal sexual trauma.You'll learn how trauma affects men, how women are a common cause of trauma in men, what trauma actually is, how generational trauma works, plus techniques and resources to help heal trauma too. We even talk about circumcision trauma. You can find the topics & times below:

This episode is about the SECOND time I went to a sex party. I actually participated here, and it changed my life in a big way. We all took a micro dose of MDMA, and what happened might surprise you...

This episode is about the first time I went to a sex party. It happened over 10 years ago in Asheville, NC, USA, and it blew my mind - in ways I wasn't prepared for.

This episode is a MUST LISTEN for anyone who wants to have a thriving long-term relationship. Why? Because creating this kind of relationship takes a certain set of skills that 99.7% of people didn't learn growing up. I certainly didn't...I've studied with Steve Torma for years, and practicing what I've learned from him has fundamentally changed EVERYTHING about my romantic and sexual relationships  (and even my business, friendship and family relationships too).Almost all of my close friends have studied with him, and some of my family has too. These tools are invaluable, and I'm excited for you to learn them.IN THIS EPISODE:The 3 important levels of intimacyHow to translate judgements into empathyHow to overcome the negativity biasHow to understand you and your partners needs on a deeper levelHow to compassionately create boundariesPractical tools to create deeper relationshipsAn intro to Non-Violent Communication (NVC)Critiques of NVCSome of the most valuable communication advice out there

I didn't expect this episode to go the direction it did, but it ended up being perfect. Thank you Jeddy for getting real with me, and for having the awareness and intuition to pivot the conversation when something juicy came up.Jeddy is the host of the Rising Man Podcast, and he regularly leads in-person workshops for men too around rights of passage and vision quests in the desert. You can find links to his work below.And on the note of pivoting the conversation, if you're part of the organization I named in this episode, please know that I chose not to edit your name out because part of what your organization talks about is bringing light to shadow... and owning the more challenging aspects that require growth. I see you doing the work, and I'm happy about it.---------------

I just got back from an awesome workshop that changed my perspective on how to practice semen retention as a lifestyle. And in this video I'll first share some important key points about semen retention, and then you'll hear my own personal transformation story from the workshop.*My personal story begins at 13:12 in this episode.The workshop I went to was called Embodied Transformation, and it was put on by the Strozzi Institute - out in Petaluma, California, USA. The workshop itself was not sexual in nature at all. Most people there were business executives and/or professional coaches in some capacity. It was specifically geared towards personal transformation through working with somatic awareness and somatic practices.And yes this relates to sex, because all of our sexual choices impact how we inhabit our bodies, and how we intentionally (or not) inhabit our bodies impacts how we have sex.You can watch the video for this episode here on Youtube.And you can go deeper with the resources below:

Today we're going to hear how semen retention helped Jeremy create a multi-million dollar business, and how this practice helps him get closer to the magic of life too.We explore:Semen retention as an integrative lifestyleThe magic and beauty of intentional ejaculationsCreating other forms of life besides human babiesHow sexual choices impact business successThe practice of building sexual energy, transmuting it and using it as fuel to power our creative projectsHow to tune into the magic of lifeWhy men need to unleash their "Wild Man"The Celtic Mysteries of Beltaine, Lughnasadh, Samhain & ImbolcAnd so much more...You'll find links to the upcoming events mentioned in this episode below... And or a quick overview of the Celtic Wheel of the Year, where these mysteries come from, check out this Wikipedia article. Within the next month I'll have a blog post up specifically about this. For now, the wiki is a good first step!

This episode is for ANYONE who wants a successful relationship (monogamous or polyamorous). I've personally hired Kenya as a coach back when I was experiencing growth pains in a non-monogamous relationship. She's an expert in helping with that, AND she also helps anyone in any relationship style too...Kenya has multiple husbands, and her husbands have multiple partners too. They live together, and they're all staring in a new TV show called "Seeking Brother Husband" that just premiered last night (March 26th, 2023) on TLC.In this interview you'll learn  the main things that create disconnection in long-term relationship, and the key things needed to keep passion, connection and love alive. IN THIS EPISODE:How to deal with fading desire in long term relationshipHow to "divorce-proof" any marriageHow most people put too many needs on one partnerConditional VS unconditional loveWhy polyamory can be a network of loveand much more...

If you've ever looked into Semen Retention, you've probably come across videos from both Johnathan and I. We both teach semen retention as a lifestyle, we both teach sexual mastery for men, and now we both even live in the same city! (Asheville, NC, USA).So when we decided to make this episode, we wanted to make something unique for you. Not just another "how-to" guide... But something fresh. Something personal.And I think you'll really enjoy it.We explore:Non-ejaculatory orgasmsProstate orgasmsThe power of being singleThe alpha male vs beta male thingHow the fear of vulnerability limits usHow competition between men can limit usPersonal stories from our own livesSexual energy transmutationKeeping sexual charge alive in long term relationshipAnd a quick note on our beliefs about aliens.

One of the most important and underrated aspects of sexual mastery is COMMUNICATION. This is something you should focus on IF you want a thriving sex life and relationship.So in today's episode we're going to explore some very practical and powerful communication skills you can start using TODAY, to create the intimate reality you want.We're joined by David Chambers, who's an intimacy, communication and relationship coach for men. Multiple people requested that I interview him for this podcast, and I'm very glad I did because the conversation was awesome. IN THIS EPISODE:How to deal with challenging emotionsHow to be a more SKILLFUL listener (and why this will transform your relationship)How to express authentic desireHow to transmute limiting self-beliefsHow to deal with subconscious fear of feeling emotionsWhy staying committed to your purpose in relationship is important (and how to do it)and much more...

Do you believe it's possible to keep sexual charge alive in long term relationships? Do you believe that sex gets better with age? Turns out both things are possible, and in this episode with Laurie Handlers, you'll learn some great ways to do this.Laurie is an international sex educator, retreat leader, and overall badass woman who helps couples create and sustain thriving romantic & sexual relationships over the long term. She's in her 70s, and she says her sex life keeps getting better with age... which blows my mind (and I think it should blow yours too). In this episode you'll learn some transformational concepts you can applying to your relationship(s) starting today, so you can thrive in the long term too.

ANNOUNCEMENT: The name of this podcast will change next week. It started off as "Eros Rising," and I do like that name because it's representative of my intentions for this podcast... But the problem is most people have no idea what "Eros Rising" actually means. From a marketing perspective, that's no good.The new name will be simple and clear, so whenever anyone sees it in the podcast directory, they'll know exactly what the podcast is about. For the name change I decided to upgrade my wardrobe too, and create a new podcast cover with me in a suit jacket & collared shirt.Why?Because appearances do matter on some level. I found a fascinating article about what makes a good portrait, and decided to try making the "perfect" portrait (according to their metrics).  It also feels like it's time for me to refine things a bit. This year I'm enrolling in two major professional trainings & certification programs, and I want to start embodying layers of that professionalism in a deeper way (while still remaining down to earth and casual). Experimenting with my wardrobe is a fun way to do it.STARTING NEXT WEEK:You can expect regular episodes from again. I hired a production team to take care of all the pieces that held me back from creating regular episodes in the past, and I'm very excited to share the next season with you. SIX interviews have already been recorded, and a bunch more episodes are planned.Please let me know if you have any topic requests for the future!-Taylor-----------------

Today we're going to talk about sex and money! Specifically, how semen retention helped me make more money in my previous business (before I started teaching about sex and retention).In this episode you'll hear how I went from:struggling to start a businessfinancial scarcityporn addictionpremature ejaculationerectile dysfunctionand sexual anxiety...To creating success in my business, and experiencing financial abundance for the first time in my life. Sexual energy transmutation and semen retention were the foundational practices I used to make this happen. That included Qigong, Yoga, breathwork, meditation, journaling and other practical exercises too.And the most important thing?These practices can work for you too!If you want to experience the benefits for yourself, take my FREE 7-DAY SEMEN RETENTION CHALLENGE. Thousands of men have done this and experienced great results.------------------Online Trainings:The Orgasmic Mastery Course (Next round begins January 12th!)The NEW Anal Sex CourseSemen Retention MasterySemen Retention FoundationsEcstatic Lovers CourseFree Resources:FREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control GuideThe Complete Semen Retention GuideThe Best Anal Sex Toys for MenConnect with Taylor:Taylor's InstagramTaylor's Youtube ChannelTaylor's WebsiteConnect with Jon:Conscious Coaching in Asheville, NC-------------------Episode Music:“Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David BrownRemixed by: NumaticThe next Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on January 12, 2023!

My girlfriend and I have successfully prevented pregnancy using the Fertility Awareness Method and Semen Retention for almost three years now. We're both fertile (just confirmed with my own sperm analysis test), and I do occasionally ejaculate inside her.

This is a followup conversation to episode 16, where Banks and I got real about his struggle with premature ejaculation - BEFORE he took my Orgasmic Mastery Course.Today you'll hear what his life is like now, after taking my course and after being in sex therapy too. If you're someone who wants to overcome premature ejaculation, this episode should give you some hope and inspiration.It may feel hopeless for you right now, but I promise you it isn't. I used to feel that way too, and so have many millions of other men.Check out my FREE Ejaculation Control Guide if you want to overcome premature ejaculation and feel free and powerful in bed. It IS possible for you. You just have to put in the effort. -Taylor--------------------------

About 5 years ago, I went to an anal sex party in Asheville. It was a wild experience that broke my brain, left me speechless and opened my eyes to things that I had never seen before.I think you'll like this story. :D After listening, check out my new anal sex course that'll give you everything you need to master the art of anal sex (both giving and receiving), including:anal anatomypain-free penetration techniquesanal energeticsprostate pleasureanal orgasmsrituals to open the rootand more...If you like this episode, please share it with a friend.Cheers to your success & pleasure!-Taylor--------------------------

Millions of women want to receive anal sex from a man, but most men make substantial mistakes with anal that result in pain, disconnection and a complete lack of pleasure. There's good news though. With the help of this episode, you can easily learn how to avoid these mistakes so you can have amazing, orgasmic, pain-free and deeply pleasurable anal sex with your lover.Check out my new anal sex course called Unlocking the Root - IF you want to master the art of anal. It'll give you everything you need to have amazing anal with complete confidence (giving or receiving).*NOTE: The majority of content in this episode will apply to all bodies, but extra focus has been given to heterosexual anal sex where the woman is penetrated by the man. This is intentional, because there are some extra dynamics going on here that are important to talk about. ------------------------Questions answered in this episode:How does anal anatomy impact anal pleasure?Is anal sex in porn real?Is pain normal during anal sex ?Can women orgasm from anal?Can men orgasm from anal?Will anal pleasure turn straight men gay?How long does anal warmup take?What's the deal with anal and poop?What are the best anal sex positions?--------------------------

Millions of men struggle with premature ejaculation, but we RARELY talk about the reality of the struggle, and that's a problem. The impact on our lives and relationships can be massive and debilitating...For example, men who regularly struggle with premature ejaculation might also experience:Low self-worthLow self-confidenceHigh sexual shameHigh sexual anxietyIsolationHopelessnessDepressionPorn addictionOther addictions as coping mechanisms...IN THIS EPISODE...I'm joined by my friend Banks, who is currently struggling with premature ejaculation. We decided to have a raw and vulnerable conversation about this specifically for the podcast - because we thought it could be a great service to men and their partners around the world.It's extremely rare to hear two men talk openly about struggles like this... and you'll hear the vulnerability and tenderness when you listen.Thank you Banks for doing this. I'm grateful, and I can't fully imagine the potential fear and/or discomfort that might be present when choosing to speak openly and publicly about an active challenge like this. THANK YOU!OUR FOLLOW-UP INTERVIEW WILL HAPPEN IN 10-12 WEEKSAs an exchange for having these conversations, I've given Banks enrollment in the current round of my Orgasmic Mastery Course. It's a 10-week journey for men to completely overcome premature ejaculation, master their sexual energy and thrive - so they can create the sex lives (and entire lives) that they want.In 10-12 weeks, after Banks goes through this course, we're going to have an honest follow-up conversation to see how (and if) anything has changed. My belief and hope is that things will massively change for him over these next 10 weeks - IF he does the practices and exercises in the course. It's always up to the man to create the change he wants.Time will tell... :DBanks is one if the Co-Founders of the New Moon Brotherhood: a community of men that gather on the new moon to honor the darkest night of the month, and the darkness within. They provide a brave space for men to open their hearts in the spirit of brotherhood, helping  men turn inward to open to their power rather than enforcing power over others. In our conversation, Banks referenced a TEDx video that talked about the power of self-pleasuring in front of a mirror. The talk was given by Emily Nagoski, and you can check it out here: Confidence and Joy are the Keys to a Great Sex Life. IT IS POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME PREMATURE EJACULATION!Just a quick note of encouragement - it is 100% possible to cure premature ejaculation naturally and have the sex life you want. It just takes consistent effort over time. Reach out if you need help.-Taylor-----------------------RESOURCESORGASMIC MASTERY COURSEInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonYoutube ChannelWebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control Guide---------------------Episode Music: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David Brown Remixed by: Numatic

It takes 66 days to form a habit...  and you'll need strong self-discipline and willpower to do it. The problem is most of us are killing our ability to have strong willpower. How? Willpower is a FINITE resource, and if we don't take good care of our physical, emotional and spiritual health, our willpower reserves disappear.Crappy lifestyle = low willpower.Low willpower = bad habits.Bad habits = low success.Low success in life = you can imagine.*Your life right now is the result of the thousands of tiny decisions and habits you've made up until this point. Your life 1 year from now will be the direct result of all the habits and decisions you make between now and then. CHOOSE WISELY!---------------------THIS EPISODE IS THE END OF SEASON 1!And I want to say thank you to everyone who has tuned in so far. This has been an awesome journey, and to be real, it has taken a lot more time and energy than I thought it would. I've needed to take some time to reflect on the previous episodes - to figure out how I want to move forward.Happy to say that this podcast will continue, but I'm only going to create new episodes when true inspiration hits. I'm not going to share episodes weekly just for the sake of being on a production schedule. And that being said...The next episode is pretty wild (at least I bet you've never heard anything like it before).---------------------THE NEXT EPISODE...The first episode of season 2 will be VERY unique & raw. It's a vulnerable conversation with a friend of mine who's currently struggling with premature ejaculation (and all the shame, pain and identity issues that come with it).Most men feel alone with this... but the truth is millions of men are silently struggling. And when we don't talk about it, when we push things down, we're actually hurting ourselves - and hurting our ability to create and have the sex lives we want.It's incredibly rare to hear two men having a real, down to earth conversation about challenges in the sexual realms... We decided to record our conversation to shine light on the reality of the struggle, and I think we all need to hear this.  Check out the next episode, and let me know what you think.Thank you!-Taylor -----------------------RESOURCESORGASMIC MASTERY COURSEInstagram: @taylorclarkjohnsonYoutube ChannelWebsiteFREE 7-Day Semen Retention ChallengeFREE Ejaculation Control Guide---------------------Episode Music: “Pink Dolphins” (Numatic Remix)Written by: Tony Moss/Sunny Solwind/Shireen Jarrahian/David Brown Remixed by: Numatic