The Labia Lounge

This week on The Labia Lounge I chat with the world record holder for volume squiring, Lola Jean. Lola is also a fetish wrestler, pro domme and sex educator, with an incredible ability to squirt on cue and fill up literal jugs of the stuff!We discuss the myths and misconceptions about squirting, the pros and cons to being a squirter, helpful tips and techniques for teaching yourself how to squirt, and loads more about this highly fetishized bodily function. Lola shares some hilarious and unbelievable stories about how she came to set the world record for squirting large volumes in a short space of time, plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Lola's work here: courses.lolajean.com. and 7daysofdomination.comAnd use the code LABIAPOD to get 20% off all her courses.*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Madison Griffiths about the nuances surrounding the topic of abortion. We discuss some of the aspects of this experience that aren't often spoken about or acknowledged, and the factors that impact a person's decision making and experiences with abortion that are commonly misunderstood.We cover a whole host elements that Madison has written about in her incredible and acclaimed book, Tissue, including gender, language, inequality, queerness, sexuality, and the racial, political and environmental implications of abortion.It's a meaty one, folks, and the TMI story at the end is worth sticking around for, let me tell ya!!!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Madison's work and buy her book here: https://ultimopress.com.au/collections/madison-griffithsMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Jody Day, the founder of Gateway Women and an advocate for childless women. She's an accomplished and incredibly poetic writer and I was lucky enough to get the scoop on the topic of her latest book, 'Living The Life Unexpected - How to find hope, meaning, and a fulfilling future without children.'Jody takes us on a profound journey through her life, sharing her experiences of navigating abortion, fertility challenges, marriage, and societal pressures as a childless woman. We delve into the societal implications of declining birth rates, pronatalism, and the value of individuals without children in our communities. Jody's insight and passion for creating support networks for aging without children will undoubtedly resonate with many of you and plant some thoughtful seeds in the rest. We also touch on the impact of technology on social and dating landscapes and the changing dynamics of relationships. With a focus on empowering women and fostering meaningful conversations, this episode offers valuable perspectives that challenge societal norms and celebrate the unique contributions of every individual. So let's lean in, listen closely, and explore the multi-dimensional journey of involuntary childlessness and aging with Jody.Link to the free download for the introduction and first chapter of Jody's book: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/64469df1e916153dc771f013Check out her work and order Jody's book here: https://gateway-women.com/bookPlus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge we've got Eleanor Hadley back for Part 2 of our episode on The Art of Seduction. This week we've done a quickie for you about dirty talking, the different types of this and how to find your authentic style of bedroom talk, sexting, and how to take an artful nude.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Eleanor's stuff here: https://www.eleanorhadley.com *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of The Labia Lounge I chat with Eleanor Hadley about her body of work The Art of Seduction, and how to give an incredible and embodied lap dance. This is part 1 of a two part series where Eleanor schools us on how to use sensual and erotic movement, embodiment, and her five pillar framework to connect more deeply with yourself and lovers.We discuss how to overcome self consciousness and insecurities, build confidence, and be more authentically embodied and able to express ourselves in this way. We chat about how we can ensure our sensual embodiment isn't devolving into catering to the male gaze, and Eleanor gives heps of super practical, tangible tips and tricks for you to try when experimenting with sensual movement and giving a partner a segzy dancey experience!Next week in part 2 we'll dive into dirty talk, sexting, and how to take an artful nude!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Follow Eleanor's work here: https://www.eleanorhadley.comMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I had a faaaabulous and enlightening chat with Justine Ange Fonte, the writer and "thanks-but-no-thanks"-text-artist behind the community service account _good.byes_ where Justine writes the difficult texts you're stuck on and helps you navigate the sort of crunchy conversations that we all want to avoid to escape conflict or friction.Justine and I yarn about how to have healthy and kind boundaries, how to construct the perfect goodbye text when you're just not feeling it after a date, and how and why it's important to communicate your needs, your "no"s, and your boundaries to avoid people pleasing, self betrayal, bypassing, and resentment, whether that's with a boss, family member, friend or particularly persistent guy you met on a dating app!We chat about why pleasure education is essential in sex education, and why both are crucial to having healthy boundaries. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Justine's work here: justinefonte.com Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I invited Joanna Macmeikan back on to do a deep dive into UTIs and how t kick the super persistent, chronic or recurrent ones that are ruining your life!Joanna is a women's health and hormones specialist, registered TCM practitioner and all-round massive nerd, so she GREAT to talk to about this sort of thing because she leaves no stone unturned in her researching and is generally a wealth of knowledge. So I'm pretty lucky to get to pick her brains - as are you to listen to it!We touch on differential testing, common causes, lesser known causes, treatment options - from medical to alternative and holistic - and loads of other useful and fascinating stuff that you didn't know you didn't know about this topic!Enjoy this episode of helpful and surprising tips and tools to finally overcome recurrent UTIs - it's jam packed and you'll learn a lot!Follow Joanne's work here: https://www.joannamac.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/joanna_macmeikan/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I chatted with intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton.We discuss some practical tips and strategies to make sure you have epic sex for the rest of your life and continue improving and building on your sensual practices way into old age.Susan is an expert sexual bio-hacker, and fearless and unapologetic sexplorer who doesn't believe you should ever give up on having great sex regardless of age.Check out her work and all her freebies mentioned in the episode here: http://susanbratton.com/, https://www.facebook.com/trustedhotsexadvisortomillions/, https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/, https://twitter.com/susanbratton, https://www.youtube.com/c/BetterLover, https://www.linkedin.com/in/susanbratton/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Kate who runs Virtue and Vice, an events company that've splashed onto the scene in recent times running play parties with a fresh take on the existing scene here in Melbourne.I went to my first ever play party run by Virtue and Vice recently and released a full episode where I talked about my experience in depth, and then, low and behold, Kate got in touch from the V & V and offered to come on for a yarn with me to give an even more intimate insight into what goes into this sort of event.We discuss the gaps in the market that they identified and why they wanted to start running SOP (segz on premises) parties for the Melbs play party community but do it differently with an emphasis on consent culture, inclusivity and hygiene practices.We chat about the trials and errors they've faced being a new company on the block and trying to create a new culture and experience within the play party landscape, the risks that're involved and some considerations that are important for those who put on or attend events like these.We talk hygiene, the ins and outs of actually running a sxx party, their goals and dreams for this fringe scene, and what you can generally expect if you give one of these parties a try! Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Virtue and Vice's next event at https://www.virtueandvice.com.au/*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This special bonus eppy of The Labia Lounge is a really vulnerable, insightful and fascinating glimpse into the world of furries and the furry lifestyle from the perspective of a friend of mine who has decided to courageously "come out" as a furry and let me pick their brains about what that means for them.We cover all the predictable stuff you'd want to ask a furry about what goes on in the bedroom, what the appeal is and what about it turns them on. Plus you'll discover so many unexpected nuances and misunderstood facets of this sub-culture in our discussion as Liam generously shares about some little-known elements to the practice of being a furry in their personal experience. Things like the struggles, the spiritual connection, and the immersive and liberating aspects of primal expression, play, kink and toys that can enhance sxxual exploration.It's a really epic chat, that we have casually while lolling about on my bed (nice to get to do a podcast in person for once), and I wish for everyone to hear this sort of content for the purposes of educating themselves and better understanding a realm that the mainstream makes fun of and most misunderstand. It's the resource that Liam wishes they'd had when they were first exploring this kinky side of themselves in secret and with a lot of shame and misconceptions weighing down the process. Plus it's a resource that will make those of you who AREN'T kinky or into this sort of thing be more aware, understanding and compassionate allies that will create more safety in the world and the bedroom for those who ARE into this stuff.Either way, listen to it!!!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I interviewed Jessa Zimmerman, a specialist in helping couples who have different levels of desire in long term relationships.Jessa and I talk about desire discrepancy and how to overcome the challenges this can pose for a couple, the things that both partners often do that make it worse, and what to do when you're desire levels inevitably change to be different from one another. We tackle this most common of questions that couples counsellors and sex therapists get a LOT: "What do I do when my partner has a higher/lower libido than me?"Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This extra special bit of juicy bonus content is a little bit different to our usual Lab Lounge eppies...As a special treat Hannah thought it'd be fun to interview me about my recent adventure attending my first ever sxx party so that we could get the full run down on this very novel and very interesting new experience!Hannah grills me on every little detail of the night from start to finish and it's a hilarious and fascinating insight into a secret world that most never get to witness.This particular play party, Virtue and Vice, had a BDSM/kink dungeon within the larger party, run by friends at Sehnsucht.I went on an professional development/R&D excursion there to suss out whether it'd be suitable to set up The Labia Lounge LIVE and interview party goers as part of a special Sxx Party Edition episode.So watch this space for that in future...but for now, give this one a listen if you've ever been curious about the erotic play party space and what goes on in this unique, saucy underground scene!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with Jill from Sex Ed Princess about all sorts of juicy and not-so-juicy thangs!We cover boundaries, abusive relationships, how men can be better allies, the lack of societal support in addressing harmful behaviour from men, period cakes and unsolicited d pics! There's loads of great stuff in here as we share stories about our experiences being sxx educators and navigating the world of dating and sxx.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Check out Jill's amazing content here: @sexedprincesss on all platforms and website: https://jill-lissner.com/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lab Lounge I chat with Sarah Hester Ross, a musical comedian and hilarious singer songwriter about making it in a male-centric industry. We discuss the "boys club" culture of the comedy world, head pushing, Sarah's career journey using humour to tackle taboo and feminist topics, her religious upbringing and how this impacted her sex life, and we even make tentative plans to have a belated hoe phase in her sixties! I'd highly recommend checking out one of my faves of her anthems, 'Stop Giving Men Microphones' and her new comedy special 'Don't Mess With A Redhead'!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Follow her work here: sarahhesterross.com @sarahhesterrossMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the C*NT COUCH I sat with April Davis from Haus of Vagina for some real talk about the things that're getting sand in our clams as sxx educators and feminist advocates. We discuss everything from faking O's and the menstrual cycle, to late stage abortion and maternal mortality rates. We also get pretty honest about the not-so-glamorous realities of trying to carve out a livelihood as a sxx educator in a suppressed, patriarchal society. Fun times!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Check out April's work at Haus of Vagina here: https://haus-of-vagina.ck.page/69fbb47ca3 and follow her on IG https://www.instagram.com/hausofvagina/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge podcast I invited Ruby Warrington (the author of Women Without Kids - The Revolutionary Rise of an Unsung Sisterhood) on to take a deep dive into the complexities of women's decisions surrounding motherhood. We explore the societal pressures, judgment, and stigma faced by women who choose not to become mothers, where they're either seen as sadly childless (insert: barren, infertile, unable to have children, lonely and purposeless) OR selfishly child-free (insert more assumptions and judgements: heartless, narcissistic, abnormal, lacking basic maternal, nurturing instincts...)Throughout the episode, we discuss the personal and nuanced decision-making process behind not having children, the societal expectations placed on women, and the impact of intergenerational trauma. We also touch on the societal benefits of not everyone having children and the broader implications of declining birth rates worldwide.From the societal impact of the 0rgasm gap and men's 0rgasmic entitlement, to "child-free by climate change" and other existential reflections around bringing kids into the world we now live in, this episode tackles thought-provoking topics and encourages listeners to question traditional narratives around motherhood and female fulfillment. Join us as we delve into meaningful conversations about womanhood, conditioning and external pressures to blindly follow along with the default expectation that all women should automatically become mothers, instead of carefully considering this as one of, if not THE, biggest and most impactful decision of one's life!Check out Ruby's work here: https://www.rubywarrington.com/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The lounge I brought back on Dr. Jae West to chat about the erotic blueprints framework, created by Miss Jaiya (as seen on Sex, Love and Goop).We cover:the superpowers and shadows of each of the five blueprints why it's important to understand your unique and specific pathways to arousalwhat to do and how to navigate it when you and a partner have very different erotic blueprints and things that turn you onand how to enhance you intimacy and experiences between the sheets with this framework as a guide/inspiration to help you explore with curiosity and creativity so that you can be having better segz!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Check out Jae's work here: @dr.jae_west on Insta and hit her up for a 10% discount to work privately with her by mentioning this podcast!Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge I brought in a darling friend of mine who frequents a gay sauna here in Melbs. We chat about his experiences there and with the common lack of consent in that environment, yarn about some hilarious stories, and some not so hilarious ones, and discuss what can be done in these situations when consent awareness isn't the standard and we have to fend for ourselves and do the educating on the fly.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I host a darling guest, Tara Galeano, a certified sex therapist and author, to delve into the complex and often overlooked topic of sex and intimacy after a cancer diagnosis. Tara shares profound insights into the challenges that women face in rediscovering their bodies and pleasure after going through the physical and emotional trauma of cancer. From the impact of medical objectification to the importance of self-love and belief in deserving pleasure, we explore the multifaceted layers of this subject with sensitivity and thought-provoking perspectives. Join us as we unpack the need to redefine sex beyond traditional norms, cultivate deeper intimacy, and embrace new perspectives on pleasure and connection.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Tara has generously offered 25% off her private coaching for listeners if you drop my name when you contact her! Check out her work here: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/taragaleano/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/BoulderSexThera IG: https://www.instagram.com/tara.galeano/ FB: https://www.facebook.com/TaraGaleano https://www.facebook.com/RediscoveringMyBody YT: https://youtube.com/user/BoulderSexTherapyMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I've got more chats from the legends at Esoteric music festival.We cover some meaty stuff in here so buckle up!This is the third and final installment of the Eso series, where you can look forward to hearing from a broad range of people about their unique experiences when it comes to everything from dick hygiene and sexy dressups, to power-sex moves and reformed F-boys.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I'm interviewing more festival goers who were brave enough to come and perch on the velvet p*ssy couch with me where we set up at Esoteric music festival.And wow, these conversations are ace!This eppy is the second installment of the Eso series, where you can look forward to hearing from a diverse range of people about their unique experiences when it comes to everything from faking 0rgasms and the fascinating realities of sxx work, to eating jizz and filming yourself having sxx.There's SO much in here, and the other Esoteric episodes I'll be releasing are just chockers with the good-good!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After taking a few weeks off to collect some of the juiciest content I could find for you, I've finally put together the 100th episode of The Labia Lounge!In this episode I'm interviewing festival goers who were brave enough to come and perch on the velvet p*ssy couch with me where we set up at Esoteric music festival.And wow, these conversations are epic! This week's eppy is just the first installment of the Eso series, where you can look forward to hearing from a diverse range of people about their unique experiences when it comes to everything from faking 0rgasms and the fascinating realities of sxx work, to eating jizz and filming yourself having sxx.There's SO much in here, and the next few episodes I'll be releasing are even more chockers with the good-good!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Jessi Kneeland back to pull up a clit cushion and get cosy with me on the Lounge. Our first episode together a couple of years ago is still one of my faves, so if you haven't check that out go have a listen! It's about Body Image and Body Neutrality and it's a ripper!This time we delved even deeper into an area that relates to that as we discussed how to be embrace ugliness and become intentionally repellant to the sort of people who are out to objectify, disrespect, abuse or disempower you.We talk all things beauty privilege, the true cost of beauty labour, the impact of societal beauty standards on women, femmes and AFAB folk in particular, and how this ties into our self-worth, and empowerment. From dismantling beauty norms to setting boundaries in dating, this raw and thought-provoking chat touches on the emotional, psychological, and practical costs of conforming to beauty standards and being a slave to patriarchal expectations and pressures. Join us as we teach you how to navigate through uncomfortable situations, challenge societal norms, and empower ourselves and others in the dating world. This conversation challenges the status quo and encourages resilience and confidence in breaking beauty norms and reclaiming our bodies and sexuality for ourselves.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Jessi's work at https://www.jessikneeland.com/ and their IG at: https://www.instagram.com/jessikneeland/?hl=enMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I interviewed sexologist and men's sex coach Taylor Jonson about all things sexuality, self pleasure, erectile function, porn, communication and semen retention.We cover a lot of ground in this conversation and there's loads of value in here for anyone who wants to level up their sex lives and their ability to be a present and masterful lover in the bedroom!We discuss some common reasons why men come to work with Taylor and how he helps them to transform their relationship to sex, their penis's, pleasure and intimacy using non-violent communication, self pleasure, conscious ejaculation and semen retention practices.This episode is for everyone though so don't be deterred by the "men's coach" part of the title because there's loads for all to learn in this one!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Taylor's work here: www.taylorjonson.life and his IG: https://www.youtube.com/@taylorclarkjohnsonGet his free 7-day semen retention challenge or ejaculation control guides:https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challengehttps://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-TrainingMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a Pussy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge we got talkin' about mushrooms! I had an incredible guest on - Mikaela AKA Mama de le Myco - who's conducting an open source study on mushrooms throughout the motherhood journey including pre-conception, pre-natal and post-natal.We talked about how magic mushrooms (psilocybin) and other entheogens can be used in families and motherhood, for healing and deep self work, and the personal experiences of Mikaela and all the mother's who've contributed their stories to her study so far.It's a big one, with loads of educational discussions and wild story telling that I know you'll enjoy if you can keep your mind open!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Follow Mikaela's work and contribute to the study here: https://www.mushwomb.love/mothersofthemushroom IG: https://www.instagram.com/mamadelamyco*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

To wrap up the LIVE recordings from The Summer of Love festival the other week, today I'm releasing the biggest question I ask punters yet!"What do you think is missing from the average sexual encounter?"People had some cool stuff to say and I'm sure you'll get some insights into how to be a better lover yourself just through listening to this!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on The Labia Lounge LIVE I asked festival goers "What is the most debaucherous thing you've ever done?" AND "What was your first segzual experience like?"Tune in to hear a whole array of answers and stories, plus some TMIs and even a Sandy Clam thrown in as a bonus!The sound isn't amazing in this one as the music was loud at the festival and I forgot a crucial piece of the recording tech as I'm still new at this live thang! So bear with me!Still a great listen though so give it a spin!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on the poddy we go LIVE again at a little day festival called Summer of Love, run by Culture Jam.It was a bit of a rainy old day but we made our Lounge space extra cosy and encouraged punters to take off their disposable ponchos and shake out their brollies and come on in to join us on the IRL vulva couch to have some real chats about all things segzzzz!In this installment of the live recordings I'm serving you up all the most embarrassing stories that my guests told me about. Specifically, embarrassing SEGZ stories!It was a blast getting to chat with so many diverse people from different backgrounds and life experiences, and I hope you enjoy all the juicy content!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in the Lounge I invited Manuele Paradiso onto the couch with me to chat about his area of expertise - men's intimacy. We discuss the barriers and blockages to conscious intimacy, the difference between true intimacy and segz, how these can overlap and how they often don't, how to bring more intimacy into your life and relationships, and ways to encourage and create deeper intimacy from your partner, especially if he's a man. In this conversation we redefine intimacy and delve into some interesting stuff around the myths about men and intimacy. We shed light on the societal conditioning, beliefs, and cultural influences that often hinder individuals from experiencing authentic intimacy, communication, and conscious connection.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafJoin The Labia Lounge FB group to get the 25% discount on Manu's upcoming re-launch of his online course for men "The Attractive Hero".And check out his work here: manueleparadiso.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I had the pleasure of discussing vaginismus with Katrin from Vaginismus Sisters.We get stuck into some epic chats about why the body can start contracting against penetration and get stuck in pain patterns and protective, defense strategies such as occur in painful sex and vaginismus.We cover Katrin's pillars to overcoming vaginismus, how to talk to a partner about it and how partner's can best support someone with vaginismus. Among loads of other super valuable deep dives into the min-body connection and the role of the nervous system in all this.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Katrin's work here: www.katrinwithlove.comTry her free course, Putting Vaginismus In The Past: https://www.katrinwithlove.com/vaginismusAnd her free 3 day Safety In Love Masterclass at the top of this page:https://www.katrinwithlove.com/love-recipesMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I had Charna Cassell on to talk about all things sexual trauma and shame. Charna is an LMFT, and a Trauma-Trained Psychotherapist and Sexuality Coach who helps people heal, connect, and find pleasure in their bodiesWe discuss what constitutes sexual trauma, how it presents in our lives and bodies, the nuances behind the actual word 'trauma' and how it can be over-used, how sexual shame comes to effect us and live inside of us, how to overcome the crippling effects of these in our sex lives, the mind-body connection and how we can release shame and trauma from our tissues, and so much more!Charna is deeply knowledgeable and articulate so there's loads of value in this one, folks!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Charna's work here: https://passionatelife.org, https://charnacassell.com, https://www.instagram.com/laidopenpodcast/ , https://www.facebook.com/laidopenpodcast, On TikTik @chachee2020The books that Charna recommended throughout this episode: Who is Wellness For ? An Examination of Wellness Culture and Who it Leaves Behind by Fariha RoisinPeter Levine- Waking the TigerGabor Mate When the Body Says NoDr Joe Dispenza You are the PlaceboDr. Keesha Ewers Solving the Autoimmune PuzzleMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Holy labias! For The Labia Lounge's season 2 finale, this week's eppy is chock full of very entertaining and very relatable discussions live from Comfort Creek festival! PLUS we finally get to the bottom of the Bumble Guy Mystery! (Well, sort of...you lot can be the judge of that!)I loved having chats with a couple of really open and vulnerable men about things like romance, arousaI and being a SFB - Spiritual F*ck-Boy.You'll also get to hear the final instalment of the Bumble Guy saga and Hannah and my hilarious commentary on it as I share my latest intel blow-by-blow!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is Part 2 of this extra special series of episodes featuring a bunch of interviews with festival goers of Comfort Creek festival where I set up a LIVE interactive version of The Labia Lounge for the first time ever!To celebrate 2 years of the podcast, I'm releasing this series in parts because I got so much ripper content from all the courageous guests who stopped by to join me on the Lounge and have a yarn during the festival.I ask some curly questions, get some hilarious stories, and we even get embroiled in a dating app mystery that is as yet unsolved!!! (Bumble guy, you know who you are and if you hear this episode, get in touch so we can give everyone the answers that they want and complete the story arc in the next episode!)My dear friend Hannah, who built the actual Lounge before the festival, was by my side the whole weekend being my right hand non-binary-babe and helping copilot the operation, so you'll hear them featured throughout this episode, along with various passers by that came to check out what this big velvet p*ssy couch was all about.Enjoy some real chats, with real people, about real shit, my loves! It's a fun one! (And more to come too!)Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This extra special episode features a bunch of interviews with festival goers of Comfort Creek festival where I set up a LIVE interactive version of The Labia Lounge for the first time ever!To celebrate 2 years of the podcast, I'm releasing this series in parts because I got so much ripper content from all the courageous guests who stopped by to join me on the Lounge and have a yarn during the festival.I ask some curly questions, get some hilarious stories, and we even get embroiled in a dating app mystery that is as yet unsolved!!! (Bumble guy, you know who you are and if you hear this episode, get in touch so we can give everyone the answers that they want and complete the story arc in the next episode!)My dear friend Hannah, who built the actual Lounge before the festival, was by my side the whole weekend being my right hand non-binary-babe and helping copilot the operation, so you'll hear them featured throughout this episode, along with various passers by that came to check out what this big velvet p*ssy couch was all about.Enjoy some real chats, with real people, about real shit, my loves! It's a fun one! (And more to come too!)Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I'm re-releasing an epic chat with the incredible Elena Rossi about female libido and all sorts of other unexpected and chunky topics! We tackle things like the factors that influence and impact desire, arousal patterns in female bods, differences in libido within a couple, fading libido in long term relationships, how society views low vs high libido and glorifies one kind of desire pattern, how we often mistake our unmet needs and trauma patterns as high or low libido, and what to do about it if you're not happy with where your libido is at.We also meander into some seriously controversial and important conversations that are worth hearing and reflecting on, so this was one of my fav episodes yet! Super meaty and jam packed - no filler!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!About my gorg guest: Elena Rossi is a female libido specialist, author of two books, pelvic trauma-release therapist and a sex toy designer. She holds degrees in Business, Psychology, Entrepreneurship and Leadership and has created a number of successful wellness concepts, including slow-pleasure brand Onna Lifestyle, holistic clinic and cafe AlchemyBali and her personal coaching brand The Yoni Empire.Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** 'QUEEN OUT' ONLINE COURSE DISCOUNT CODE FOR LISTENERS: LABIALLEGENDS *** - Join here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/queen-the-fuck-out/learn-more/*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I invited the creator of the Naked Conversations card deck and photographer, Jessie McCall, to have a chat with me about something she's really great at - building connection and community. This topic is something I'm also really passionate about as I feel the greatest threat to our health and happiness is loneliness and a lack of connection or community in our lives. In America, for instance, the average number of close friends people reported having was 0... ZERO close friends on ave!? That's a bit messed up and makes me so sad. Cultivating close friendships, enjoying deep connections and engaging in nourishing community vibes is so essential to our wellbeing and mental health, so Jessie and I talk about how to create more of this in our lives and build a community wherever you go. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Jessie's gorg photography/art stuff here: www.Jessiemccall.com and order your deck of Naked Conversations cards here: https://nakedconvo.com/ (If you sign up to Jessi'e mailing list you'll get 20% off your order too by the way!)*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I invited my long-time friend and queerotic baddie, Han Marko - AKA Quinn Kush - on to chat about her latest endeavours into erotic massage for women. Quinn is normalising sex work for women and queer folk and providing a medicinal, sensual massage experience for the queer community since discovering a gap in the market. We discuss what happens in one of these deluxe, sexy sessions with her, how this practice can be healing and deeply nourishing on many levels, why clients come for massages of this nature and the common benefits Quinn sees from the work, and what she's learned through working in this capacity for women in the queer community.We chat about the importance of safety, boundaries, a nurturing but strong approach to holding space for sexual healing (she calls it Dom-Mummy energy), and we also give some great tips on how to pleasure a woman's body.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I chatted with Dr Nathan Riley, who supports midwives as a collaborative physician and upholds the traditional practice of midwifery as his main focus after becoming disillusioned with the conventional maternity care model in the medical industrial complex.Nathan has experience in the mainstream medical system as an OB-GYN as well as in the home birth world, boasting an extremely low C-section rate of under 5%, which is one of the best in the US. He has a deep reverence for pregnancy and birth, and has developed a nuanced understanding of the birthing person's needs and how to facilitate the most empowering experience during birth.We discuss things like the historical context of obstetrics and midwifery, the importance of women caring for women in childbirth, and challenge the narrative that birth belongs solely in the hands of men and medical professionals.We also explore the critical topics of birth interventions and their risks, consent in medical contexts, personal accountability, how to advocate for yourself and reclaim your power in various aspects of life, including sex, pregnancy and birth.And soooo much more! This was a huge conversation and we covered a lot of really important ground, so give it a listen, gang!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Nathan's work here: BornfreeMethod.com belovedholistics.com and follow him on the Gram here: https://www.instagram.com/nathanrileyobgyn/?hl=en*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I had the pleasure of chatting with the brilliant Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers, a licensed sex and gender feminist psychotherapist, best-selling author, researcher, emeriti professor, and media personality whose expertise spans sex therapy, spiritual intimacy, parenting, medicine, and social justice. Tina shares invaluable insights on raising shame-free, confident children and how to be your child's best relationship resource, sex educator, and ally.Throughout this episode, we dive into the importance of having frequent, short conversations about sexual health, consent, body autonomy, and online safety with your children. Tina emphasizes the need to be a safe person for your child to confide in, creating an environment where open dialogue is encouraged, despite the fact that you may not have had this same environment provided for you as a child. We chat about how to approach this, even if you still have your own layers of shame and don't feel particularly knowledgeable or qualified, and we learn about the different stages of development you can expect your children to go through and what's "normal" and appropriate at what stage.We'll also delve into the impact of sexual shame on our society, examining its roots in conservative religious communities and the role of capitalism and materialism. This eppy is jam-packed and a topic that I find never-endingly fascinating and valuable, so get stuck in with us!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Dr Tina's work here: www.TinaSchermerSellers.com www.nwioi.com www.InannaRising.org and get Sex/Relationship/child development handouts for each age that can be used by any kind of provider in schools, clinics, community centers, clinical practices, churches, etc. Tina has given us a 25% discount: use code REFERRALDISCOUNT at https://store.tinaschermersellers.com/ Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge, to celebrate #menopauseawarenessmonth , I invited Joanna McMeikan back to chat about peri-menopause and menopause from her Chinese med and women's health expert perspective.In previous episodes on menopause we've covered a great foundation of knowledge and perspectives around this topic, but this time we focused on the physiological and lifestyle factors involved in whether you have a super challenging time, or coast through menopause.We also give some practical strategies and tips to help you navigate this transition and new phase of life, and Joanna shares her wealth of knowledge with us so generously you're head will be buzzing with new info and ideas about how to traverse menopause.My previous episodes about menopause are highly recommended as "required reading" before you dive into this one, as we mention on the podcast, so you can find them by scrolling back to these episode titles on whatever podcast platform you listen on!'Menopause – A Misunderstood Mystery' with Jane Hardwicke Collings'Your Sex Life Isn't Over Once You Hit Menopause' with Heidi TrueIn this eppy we also mention a faaaaab episode that's highly relevant when it comes to libido, in or out of menopause, and that one is called:'Let's Talk Libido with Female Libido Specialist Elena Rossi'Check out Joanna's work and sign up to her mailing list to get her freebie and lots of helpful regular content here: https://www.joannamac.com/and follow her on IG here: https://www.instagram.com/joanna_macmeikanPlus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Cam Fraser back to chat about the over-pathologisation and over-medicalisation of men's sexuality and sexual health, how this came about, who it actually benefits, and how it impacts men (and indeed all of us) in the bedroom!We delve into a wide range of topics surrounding male sexuality, from the impact of over-using medication or interventions like Viagra to the cultural attitudes and stigmas that surround issues like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.Throughout the episode, Cam challenges the notion that medication should be the first solution for sexual challenges and questions the influence of pharmaceutical companies in shaping our understanding of male sexual health. We explore the psychological factors that can play a significant role in sexual function and talk about the concerning overdiagnosis and inflated prevalence rates of erectile challenges. Aaaaand we talk about the fear of soft cocks that's so widespread!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Follow Cam's work here: https://cam-fraser.com/Join the Facey group to get the link to the video Cam talked about at the end there for further info!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge Hannah Demerise joins me again to bring up a sandy clam moment they had recently and discuss how a random prank call created a sense of being unsafe in their nervous system. We talk about the common and glossed-over micro aggressions that people in female bodies face regularly that contribute to an environment of stress, unease and a lack of safety and confidence in the world and in their bods. In these informal mini-episodes we get stuck into things that get sand in our clams, so if you have any fodder for an episode or want to jump on and join me for a discussion, please feel free to get in touch, send in a voicie or email and tell me about what's getting sand in your clam!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious and vulnerable n' relatable personal stories that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge we have a kickass guest with a unique and inspiring vision for the world. Nicole Gibson, founder of Love Out Loud and InTruth Tech, is a modern-day philosopher, visionary and entrepreneur on a mission to facilitate a tipping point in human consciousness, ultimately creating a civilization of love by 2030. Nic battled with an eating disorder when she was younger and has since been passionate about solving the mental health crisis we face in society today. This drive has led her to become the youngest Commonwealth Commissioner in history, get listed as Australia's top 100 most Influential Women, finalist for Young Australian of the Year and Pride of Australia Medalist. Not to mention founding several successful startups and facilitate millions of people at events around the world. And honestly, at the ripe age of 30, Nicole's only just getting started!Nic's latest thang is with her new company InTruth Tech where she's found a new way to use technology to transform emotional awareness on a global scale. By harnessing the power of love and combining visionary technology, transformative arts, and complex systems thinking, Nicole aims to leverage love's power to transform and scale it to 350 million people globally.Pretty massive stuff, hey!We chat about mental health, personal growth and her own journey with disordered eating and getting comfortable with being gay, the pressures and realities of being a visionary and entrepreneur, navigating and facing the existential dread and fearmongering, how technology can be used to solve emotional problems at scale, challenges in understanding and measuring emotions objectively and gathering data for her new app, how Nic's new app works and her vision for what it will look like when she's used this tech to actualise a civilisation of love and sooo much more.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!You can find Nicole at https://www.nicolegibson.com/ and https://www.instagram.com/loveoutloud.movement/?hl=enAnd get on the waitlist for the app here: https://intruth.io/Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafJoin us as we explore Nicole's unique perspective, learn from her experiences, and gain valuable insights into creating a more compassionate and conscious world. Get ready for an episode that will leave you inspired, reflective, and eager to embrace the power of love in your own life. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Re-releasing this juicy eppy of The Labia Lounge because it's still bloody great!In this episode I have the mysterious Miss K, a pro Domme, in The Labia Lounge where she lets me ask her ALL the juicy questions that we're dying to know!I delve into the world of kink, BDSM, pro domme work, the ins and outs of having a live-in house slave, and all the wild and fascinating aspects of living this lifestyle. Miss K divulges some seriously nitty gritty details that I know you'll be beside yourself over, and is ever so generous with her knowledge, experience and personal stories in this eppy. We chat about how she balances this lifestyle with her personal life and marriage, s*x and kink parties, the s*x-olympics, f*ck-fest, the importance of aftercare and ground-rules, ethical Domme practices, her arrangement with her house pet/slave, how to get into this sort of thing if you're newly wanting to explore, and all sorts of other elements of the kink world! It's a bloody ripper!!!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf And if you're interested in exploring Domme work and BDSM yourself, the resources Miss K shared are here for you too:- Coaching by Kali- The Kink Academy- MZ Kim - Kink- Wicked Alliance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I'm re-releasing a favourite episode from the archives with Bonnie Bliss, my teacher, mentor, dear friend, and THE creator of Yoni Mapping Therapy - The Bliss Method! She's kinda a big deal, yo!We didn't talk about the expected Yoni-related shiz though, oh nooo, we got stuck into some pretty polarising and controversial topics. Namely, the peer pressure, judgement, shaming, and utter wankiness that can be found in the "conscious community" and some of our personal experiences being part of the sacred sexuality/tantra scene in spiritual communities over the years.We shed light on some of the irresponsible and downright traumatising stuff that can go on in those spaces, tell some hilarious and fascinating stories from our own journeys, and discuss how after all of that, we've reclaimed our inner VANILLA!This isn't a spiritual-bashing episode at all, simply a quirky, honest, and thought-provoking conversation about some of the benefits, as well as some of the pitfalls, that one can encounter on a spiritual path and in neo-tantric, westernized pseudo-spiritual circles. Cos both of us have gone pretty deep in those at times throughout our lives!Enjoy this one - it's JUICY!!! Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafMore on Bonnie:Passionate about using embodied practices to support our nervous systems, let go of stress, release shame and feel more deliciously alive in all areas of life, Bonnie Bliss is a Somatic Sexologist, pleasure educator & women's pelvic wellness coach. She has spent the last decade supporting thousands of women all over the world to discover the incredible world within their bodies.Find her work at www.bonniebliss.cowww.instagram.com/bonniebliss.co Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge I invited Ange from The A Life on to chat about how to use movement to prepare the body for pregnancy and labour. Ange is the founder of The A Life and an experienced Osteopath and movement coach who has recently created a new online program called Movin' Mamas, to help mums specifically train their bodies for childbirth.We get stuck into some great chats about how to prepare for birth, move your body throughout pregnancy and labour, and protect and heal your pelvic floor.Ange is super knowledgeable and passionate about this work and offers loads of practical tips and suggestions to help you move in a sustainable and safe way throughout your pregnancy and beyond.Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out her work here: https://www.thealife.com.au/ and snag their 7 day free trial for The A Life Express movement membership and IG here: https://www.instagram.com/the_a_life/You can also use the code LABIALOUNGE to get 10% off the Movin' Mamas course that we referred to on the pod here: https://thealife.teachable.com/courses/movin-mama?affcode=570533_sj7pki_iMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/5LZhYmHvXkwOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this Sandy Clam eppy of The Labia Lounge with Lexy from Alive To Enjoy we delved into some things that get sand in our clams. Lexy shares vulnerably about her first time sexual experiences, how she felt pressured to just "get it out of the way" so she wasn't a "virgin" anymore, and how a lack of safety and self worth influenced her sex life to the point where her vag started literally clamping shut!We chat about all sorts of important concepts that, if you grew up with a yoni, you'll probably find relatable and equally infuriating.Topics covered in this episode:- The attraction to "bad boys" and the value of safety- The importance of safety for pleasure, vulnerability, intimacy, and deeper connections- Lack of safety leading to issues like vaginismus and painful sex- Growing up with a single dad and lack of femininity in their life- Shame, confusion, and pressure around sexuality, body, and period- Importance of setting boundaries and standards in relationships- Holding men to higher standards and expressing needs and desires- Men lacking self-development communities and the importance of teaching and learning from each other- Challenges of pursuing an extraordinary love and loneliness- Saying no to those who don't align and not settling in relationshipsPlus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out Lexy's work here: https://www.alivetoenjoy.com/about-lexy and follow her on the 'Gram here: https://www.instagram.com/alivetoenjoy/?hl=en*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/LtyN8BQg-zkOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Lounge I interviewed Joe Feminella, the founder of a new dating app on the block, First Round's On Me.I'm not shy about expressing on this poddy how I feel dating apps have changed the culture of dating - often for the worse - and Joe and I discuss these factors in this fun convo!We cover some of the things Joe's learned about dating with apps and dating culture through his research as he creates a dating app with a difference, and talk about the pitfalls and dangers of regular dating apps. We discuss our own experiences using apps, cover some of the different lingo and slang being used in dating app culture now and what it means, and I ask Joe for his best dating tips and red flags. Joe tells us about how he has created his new app to eliminate one of the biggest problems with using dating apps and how we can survive the dehumanising nature of the app dating landscape that's become rife with ghosting, game playing, and dopamine-driven swipe addictions.This is a fascinating insight into how our brains work when given a tool like this, and I found it heartening to chat with Joe and discover that there's at least some people out there in the corporate world trying to bring humanity, connection and intimacy back into our interactions with strangers. Joe is led by love and human connection, and though FROME is only available in the States at the moment, if I was single I'd be lining up to get on this app when it hits Australian shores (hint hint, nudge nudge!)You can check out the app here: https://firstroundsonme.co, https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonme/ and suss Joe's IG at https://www.instagram.com/firstroundsonjoe/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc***JOIN QUEEN OUT ONLINE COURSE NOW WITH YOUR LABIA LOUNGE DISCOUNT CODE!***Sign up here using the code LABIALLEGENDS - https://www.freyagraf.com/online-courseAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/5LZhYmHvXkwOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

For the first time ever I managed to convince my main squeeze, Lach, to sit down with me on our couch one evening and have a yarn in an attempt to record an episode for the poddy.He was nervous, out of his comfort zone, and a bit tongue tied at points - as you can imagine in his position - but I think he smashed it and we had some great convos and heaps of laughs!Lach - understandably - wasn't comfortable with me releasing it to the wider public in the end though and as a compromise he consented to me publishing the full episode on my Buy Me A Coffee page for the extra special labial legends that subscribed to financially support the poddy and earn exclusive membership perks. (membership is as little as $3 a month btw!)So this is the edited, short version of the recording available to all, but if you want access to the full conversation and all the juicy stories and topics we covered, head over to my Buy Me A Coffee page and become a member - https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf/exclusive-chats-with-lachie-the-labia-loungeRunning this show actually costs me quite a lot each month and I don't earn anything from it, so the Buy Me A Coffee page is where it's at if you'd like to make an actual difference and help make it more sustainable for me to keep doing!PS. If you're keen to take advantage of the special Labia Lounge discount on my online course Queen Out, you can use the code LABIALLEGENDS at checkout to get $200 off right now! Learn more and sign up here: https://www.freyagraf.com/online-courseMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/5LZhYmHvXkw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week in The Labia Lounge to celebrate Yoni Art Fest I interviewed the creator Laura Hollick! Laura is an award-winning artist, a qualified tantric practitioner and visionary guide who has created the Yoni Art Certification and the Soul Art Certification and runs epic online art festivals every year!We chatted about her relationship with creativity and s*xuality, the link between the two, how her yoni personality types quiz works and went deep into some surprising discussions and TMI stories that I know you'll love!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Laura's work and get around Yoni Art Fest which is happening the week this episode airs! https://www.laurahollick.com/ Yoni Art Fest: https://yoniartfest.com/ Yoni Personality quiz: https://www.laurahollick.com/what-is-your-yoni-personality-type/Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/And on my YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/5LZhYmHvXkwOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In the lounge this week I dug into some really cool topics with the incredible Dr. Saida Désilets, a TEDx speaker, researcher, counter-culture creatrix, body-philosopher, and author. This woman is seriously inspiring and we discussed her medically-endorsed jade egg practices and teachings, and things like her views on sexuaI sovereignty, erot!c individuation and solo cultivation. We called out why the new trend of vaginaI weight lifting and the way most practitioners are teaching jade egg practices are super problematic and misguided. And we delved into loads of really interesting chats about how we can get in touch with our bodies, our intuition, and our erot!c natures on a level that's safe, authentic and based in true connection and resonance. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Check out Saida's work and get her free resource 'The 3 Keys To Living A Daring Life' here: www.DareYourDesire.com and IG: @drsaidadesiletsGrab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.