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Are you a single man who feels lonely and frustrated with dating? Do you want to understand why women have higher standards and how you can meet them? Do you want to improve your communication skills, emotional availability, and self-esteem? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then this podcast is for you.Join Princella as she speaks about the most recent popular article, "The Rise of Single Lonely Men, by Greg Matos.New episodes every Monday and Wednesday at 10:00 am. #riseofsinglelonelymen #podcast #dating
Join Dr. Greg Matos and a live TikTok audience to talk about the rituals of emotional connection he recommends for couples at the end of the year.In this episode:1. Introduction to the 7th principle of Gottman's theory: Creating Shared Meaning.2. Short quiz about whether you have the same meaning regarding dinner, holidays, etc.3. One question I have all my couples ask themselves before the new year.As always, you can find us @abetterloveproject everywhere. Want to buy someone you love a comfy hoodie that says "Love Each Other Fiercely"? https://www.bonfire.com/store/a-better-love-projectSupport the show
Join Dr. Greg Matos and a live TikTok audience @abetterloveproject as we talk about the 4 core relationship skills everyone needs to know.In this episode:1. Introduction to the 4 Biggest Relationship Toxins: Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling2. Introduction to Gentle Startup3. Taking Responsibility4. The Antidote to Contempt5. Self-soothing and Flooding Strategies6. Q&A with Live Audience: dating, co-parenting, and much more!As always, you can find us @abetterloveproject everywhere. Support the show
Dr. Matos shares the core skill guys lack that are necessary in having a successful date after matching on an app. These skills also create a strong foundation for a long-term relationship and having passionate sex for many years to come. Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified couple and family psychologist in Los Angeles, California. He is the founder of the charity abetterloveproject that helps people start healthier relationships from the beginning. Dr. Greg is a former Marine Corps Sergeant and recipient of the Bronze Star with Combat Valor. We cover topics like: - 1:52 Why younger men are lonelier than younger women - 4:20 It's hard to hear this advice - 6:00 Dating app tips for guys - 6:33 Core relationship skills that guys usually struggle with - 8:40 3 practical scripts to easily connect with your partner - 13:30 Tips for your dating app profile - 18:56 Dating with chronic illness, sexual pain, or sexual dysfunction - 23:55 Relationship goals - 27:40 Discussing something difficult with your partner Dr. Matos shares 3 scripts for healthy communication habits: 1) How to create a deep bond with your partner: - Ask your partner “what was the most stressful part of your day today?” - Listen and follow-up with a clarifying question “tell me more about (that part)” - Sharing what you think you understood from listening - Validate their experience by saying “that makes sense to me” 2) How to peek into your partner's inner world: Asking: “what are you most grateful for today,” and: “what are you looking forward to tomorrow?” - Being curious about their inner world, validating their experiences, and being able to provide support 3) How to start a challenging conversation: “I feel _____ about _____, I need/want/prefer _____” - When you start a conversation with “I feel,” you're firing up your partner's mirror neurons - “about” allows you to share a specific event, action, or experience - “I need/want/prefer” allows you to communicate what your needs are that your partner can fulfill Finally, here's Dr. Matos' #1 dating app tip: put time and effort into nailing the first impression when you match or like someone's profile. Hinge is the best dating app for a serious relationship: you can ❤️ a prompt and add a comment, instantly improving your chances of creating a lasting first impression. RESOURCES: Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program 2021 study that looked at loneliness around the world https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886920302555 Greg Matos on Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-men CONNECT WITH DR. GREG MATOS: Website: https://www.abetterloveproject.org/ Instagram, TikTok, YouTube: @abetterloveproject CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE): Website: https://drsusieg.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ _______________________________________________________________________ Disclaimer: This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.
Join Dr. Greg, a couple's psychologist, to explore the three questions you need to ask before moving into the same place together:1. Creating a Home & Cleanliness2. Finances3. Rituals of ConnectionSurprised about commitment questions in your relationship? Watch until the end to learn the #1 reason I find prompts these questions sooner than you may expect : )To support my love project, visit: https://patreon.com/abetterloveprojectTo learn more about Dr. Greg Matos and the charity, visit: abetterloveproject.orgSupport the show
You've probably read the viral article that circulated a few months ago, but we're here today to unpack what's really behind the rise of lonely, single men with Dr. Greg Matos, the author of the article. We discuss how relationship standards have changed, why there's a skills deficit for men AND women when it comes to having a relationship, and how we can ignite change so we can understand our partners and love better.Follow Greg @gregmatos and follow @abetterloveproject. Read the full article here: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/whats-behind-the-rise-lonely-single-menFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLEHigher Dose: Save 15% on the higherdose infrared sauna blanket with the code DATEABLE at checkout or use the link higherdose.com/dateableCover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Join Dr. Greg Matos and Jacqueline Hurst for a conversation about dating fatigue:1. Is it worst for men than women? In Los Angeles versus London?2. How to have fun and stay hopeful in a confusing dating landscape.3. Dating communication fumbles that you don't want to commit.Learn more about Jacqueline and her work in the UK: https://www.jacquelinehurst.com/my-storyFollow her on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_hurst_If you loved this episode, share it with someone that you care about today.❤️ Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ABetterLoveProject❤️ This episode was brought to you by our sponsors. Make a one-time tax-deductible contribution: https://donorbox.org/spring-2023-tiktok-creator-internship OR become a sponsor of the show today: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg and returning special guest Ginger Dean for a conversation about men's emotional health and relationships. In this episode:1. How to talk about vulnerability.2. Defensiveness and Change.3. Setting new norms for masculinity and mental health.For more from Ginger, visit her on Instagram @lovingmeafterwe.❤️ Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ABetterLoveProject❤️ This episode was brought to you by our sponsors. Make a one-time tax-deductible contribution: https://donorbox.org/spring-2023-tiktok-creator-internship OR become a sponsor of the show today: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg to talk about infatuation, love, and romance. In this episode:1. What is infatuation and is there a healthy dose in love?2. Can you be captivated?3. Reading of Psychology Today Article: "America's Crisis of Distrust"Ask Dr. Greg: https://www.abetterloveproject.org/ask❤️ Subscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ABetterLoveProject❤️ This episode was brought to you by our sponsors. Make a one-time tax-deductible contribution: https://donorbox.org/spring-2023-tiktok-creator-internship OR become a sponsor of the show today: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg Matos and Bruna Nessif to talk about our ‘shadow', the parts of ourselves that we dislike or that carry some shame. What is the Shadow?What are the benefits of exploring that part of ourselves?How to recognize some examples of shadow in relationships.Follow Bruna @brunanessif on IG and the show @abetterloveproject.❤️ Subscribe to the show's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/ABetterLoveProject❤️ This episode was brought to you by our sponsors. Become a sponsor of the show today: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified couple and family psychologist, to talk about how to navigate long-distance relationships. In this episode:What percentage of relationships last the distance?3 strategies to maintain emotional intimacy.2 ways to maintain sexual intimacy.For a certified sex therapist in LA, visit Dr. Nazanin @sexologypodcast. ❤️ Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-love-with-dr-greg-matos/id1575098404❤️ Listen to the full episode on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4fstCQXml5AKAaczpiXDYo❤️ This episode was brought to you by our sponsors. Become a sponsor of the show today: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg and Bruna to talk about how to take the stress out of dating. In this episode:How to be yourself for you and your potential partner.Asking, “are you my husband?” every first date and what to do about it.Spiritual values and when they come up in dating.And more…To connect with Bruna, follow her on Instagram @brunanessif or on TikTok @itsbrunababy.❤️ Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-love-with-dr-greg-matos/id1575098404❤️ Listen to the full episode on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4fstCQXml5AKAaczpiXDYo❤️ This episode was brought to you by our Patreon Advocates. ❤️ Become a sponsor of the show: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Qualche settimana fa, l'articolo dello psicologo Greg Matos, intitolato “The Rise of Lonely Men” è andato virale su tutti i social. L'articolo si divide in 3 punti principali: le opportunità per gli uomini etero di avere una relazione romantica stanno diminuendo con l'aumento degli standard di relazione; gli uomini rappresentano circa il 62% degli utenti delle app per incontri, abbassando le chances di fare match; gli uomini dovrebbero affrontare i loro deficit relazionali per soddisfare le aspettative di una relazione sana. Mmm, I conti tornano. Ecco l'ennesimo sintomo di quanto il patriarcato faccia male anche agli uomini. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/opinionated-monday/message
Join Dr. Greg Matos and Ginger Dean to discuss 'over-functioning' in relationships and what every 'people pleaser' needs to know when dating.In this episode:1. What is over-functioning and how to stop doing it?2. Setting healthy standards with self-worth and assurance.3. How do they react to disappointment? One signal about how they value you.Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified couple psychologist in Los Angeles and Ginger Dean is a licensed psychotherapist in the DC area. You can follow Ginger on Instagram @lovingmeafterwe. ❤️ This episode was brought to you by our advocates on https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified couple psychologist to discuss the first 1-6 months of dating. When do we get or give titles? How does that conversation start? How easy should it be?Also in this episode:1. All the reality shows we're watching for you at @abetterloveproject, including one show you might not expect.2. Healthy loves start with clear signals and clear communication.3. The first 12 months of a relationship set the tone for long-term loves.❤️ Listen to the full episode on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-better-love-with-dr-greg-matos/id1575098404❤️ Listen to the full episode on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4fstCQXml5AKAaczpiXDYo❤️ This episode was brought to you by Anna in Iceland and MJ in Rhode Island. ❤️ Become a sponsor of the show: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg Matos and Guest Co-Host Mariana Moreno to discuss Gary Chapman's 5-love languages. In this episode:1. What are the languages?2. Things to avoid with each love language.3. How to be responsive to each other's bids and ways of emotionally connecting.❤️ Join our weekly live show on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abetterloveproject❤️ This episode was brought to you by Suzanne McMillan from Nashville, Tennessee. ❤️ Become a sponsor of the show: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg for episode 8 of A Better Love to talk about FOMO and why we're becoming distracted in long-term relationships. Also in the episode:1. The Bachelorette and Dating Multiple People2. Focus and Immersion3. Fidelity#dating #datingapps #hinge #relationshipexpert #datingexpert #psychologist #fyp❤️ Join our weekly live show on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abetterloveproject❤️ This episode is brought to you by Halcyon Therapy Group, Concierge Therapy For Busy Professionals And Couples in San Antonio, Texas. ❤️ Become a sponsor of the show: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
If you're a college radio station producer with an audience who would benefit from dating and relationship advice, let us know. We'll have Dr. Greg on your show for a 5-10 minute live Q&A answering your audience members' questions.Dr. Greg Matos is a psychologist and monthly contributor to the blog, "The State of our Unions" on Psychology Today. Greg covers trends in dating, relationships, marriage, and divorce. Reach out to Dr. Greg by emailing greg@abetterloveproject.org or DM our producer Kareena on IG: @kareenadeol7 to schedule an interview.#relationships #health #mentalhealth #marriage #divorce #separation #trendsSupport the show
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Join couple's psychologist, Dr. Greg, to compare what's “toxic” relationship behavior versus normal conflict. Also in this episode:Toxic = abusive and other insights from Kaitlyn Tiffany's article in The Atlantic. Reaction: Netflix's Indian Matchmaker + honoring cultural differences.Skill of the Week: Micro-repairs and how to stay more emotionally attuned.❤️ Join our weekly live show on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abetterloveproject❤️ This episode is brought to you by Halcyon Therapy Group, Concierge Therapy For Busy Professionals And Couples in San Antonio, Texas. ❤️ Become a sponsor of the show: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified couple psychologist, to talk about concrete ways you can improve open and honest communication in your romantic relationship. In this episode:1. TLC's Doubling Down With The Derricos and Welcome to Plathville, comparing openness in communication.2. Creating new standards for healthy romance and emotional connection.3. Gottman-Method Stress-Reducing Conversation, a ritual for daily, open communication.❤️ Join our weekly live show on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abetterloveproject❤️ Become a sponsor of this 501c3 public media company, visit: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject
Ripped Directly from the headlines. Greg Matos PsyD wrote a brilliant article called The Rise of Lonely, Single Men. Britt and Lexi discuss what it means and maybe... just maybe the men folk with listen... https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-menHave a suggestion for an episode?Email Us✉️:Britt: britt@smsspodcast.comLexi: lexi@smsspodcast.comSend us stuff
El episodio de hoy está inspirado en un artículo El auge de los hombres solteros y solitarios del psicólogo Greg Matos publicado en Psychology Today que ha causado mucha polémica en las redes sociales. Dos Cabras Locas se cuestiona ¿será verdad que los hombres se están quedando solos?
On this episode of the podcast, Mona is joined by one of her best friends, Michelle. They both share some of the experiences they have had with men they met on various dating apps who may have been neurodivergent. A recent article in Psychology Today titled "The Rise of Lonely, Single Men. Men Need to Address Their Deficits to Meet Healthier Relationship Expectations", by Greg Matos, PsyD, addressed how women are expecting more emotional intelligence from men. During this episode, Mona and Michelle discuss how some of the issues addressed in the article may be related to "undiagnosed adult autism". Meeting lots of men in their 40's, 50's and 60's, who have never been married, or are recently divorced and have been in 1 or more marriages with a lot of social and emotional challenges, made us wonder if dating apps make it easier for men "on the spectrum" to date. However, does this also create more challenges for non-autistic/neurotypical women? More specifically, when you both have lots of social and emotional differences, how can you go from misunderstanding and judgment--to curiosity, awareness and acceptance? The conversation takes us down many paths including: Learning how to "not take things personally" Communication differences including: slow responses, long well-written texts and temporary ghosting Black and white thinking Passion about special interests Rules and requirements in sexual and physical intimacy Sensory sensitivities Mind-blindness Social quotas Broken promises Not engaging in personal or emotional discussions Why are so many men seeking "no drama"? Compassion needed by both people _____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ If you liked this episode, please subscribe to the podcast so that you don't miss an episode. If you would like to learn more about neurodiverse relationships, please check out: www.neurodiverselove.com or follow Mona on Instagram @neurodiverse_love If you are interested in joining the free on-line peer support groups being offered for the non-autistic/neurotypical partners, please send Mona a DM on Instagram or send an email to: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com Mona is also offering support groups for Neurodiverse Couples. If you and your partner are interested in joining a group, please send an e-mail with the heading "Neurodiverse Couples Group" to: neurodiverselove4u@gmail.com. You will receive information about the cost and the dates for the next group. Thanks for being a part of the Neurodiverse Love community! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/neurodiverse-love/message
Welcome back to the Love Is Black Podcast! Join us this week as we dive into the dating scene for men. On this episode, we talk about this article: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men Karese and Harvey have very different opinions about this subject. Shocking right? Are men lonely or alone? Are men emotionally available and good communicators? Have women's standards changed? How should heterosexual men feel reading this article? and more We got into it here, enjoy a spirited conversation. The article is written by Greg Matos, a board-certified couple and family psychologist. You can follow him here: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/greg.matos/ Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/greg.matos.965 Twitter : @gregmatos Please follow, like, and give us 5-star ratings! Subscribe to the podcast anywhere you get your podcasts. Every little bit helps. You can find us here: https://www.instagram.com/loveisblackpodcast/ https://twitter.com/Loveisblackpc https://www.facebook.com/loveisblackpodcast You can also support us here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/loveisblackpod --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/loveisblack/message
A societal failure to teach young boys the importance of communication has resulted in growing numbers of lonely, single men, a new study has found. The number of these men is rising, American psychologist Greg Matos has written, as they struggle to meet the higher dating standards of women. The psychologist claims he has discovered that modern men's biggest problem is communication. Fearghal Harrington is the founder and CEO of Intro MatchMaking and joined Ali to discuss.
Join Dr. Greg, a board-certified couple psychologist, for a quick episode on:1. Secure attachment and fear as a target for intervention.2. Defensiveness and narcissism.3. Your influence in relationships by setting boundaries..❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok for live chats @abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg and his live TikTok audience for a conversation about the power of "positive perspective" in long-term relationships and marriage. In this episode:1. What is the positive perspective?2. Can it be directly improved?3. Why is it so important to sustain effort in marriage?.❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok for live chats @abetterloveproject.
Live TikTok Event with Dr. Greg Matos discussing alcohol misuse and its toll on relationships, self-love, and the challenge of individual responsibility when it comes to doing the work of love..❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok for live chats @abetterloveproject.
Welcome to episode 288 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Greg Matos to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss erotic love maps, how challenges outside the bedroom can affect your sex life and how you can re-connect with your partner if there's a disconnect. Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified Couple and Family Psychologist who served over a decade in the U.S. Marine Corps and Navy, becoming a Lieutenant Commander. Greg was awarded the Bronze Star with Combat Valor and the Department of State's Award for Heroism. He's the author of Shattered Glass: The Story of a Marine Embassy Guard. After the military, Dr. Greg began specializing in systems work and Gottman-Method Couples Therapy. He founded a charity on TikTok @abetterloveproject to share science-based advice on love and life with his 40,000 audience members. You can join him for a casual chat and mindful breathing every day on TikTok. In this episode, you will hear: How Dr Greg became interested in this line of work The ways in which trauma affects relationships Why it's so important to be able to connect emotionally Looking at erotic love maps and how they work How you can keep improving communication with your partner Analyzing the success of great sex in long term relationships How challenges outside the bedroom can affect your sex life Ways in which you can devise rituals for initiating sex The importance of sexual attunement How you can re-connect with your partner if there's a disconnect The importance of curiosity and staying open to new experiences Thank you to our Sponsor: Cozy Earth! Use code ‘Sexology' for 40% off. https://cozyearth.com Find Dr. Greg Matos on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@abetterloveproject Sex Quiz for Women https://oasis2care.com/sexquiz Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio
Join Dr. Greg Matos to chat with Melissa Dumaz, host of the Hatz Podcast, about core beliefs and their impact on long-term relationships. In this episode: 1) communicating beliefs about your worldview early, 2) creating shared meaning in times of crisis, and 3) leaving relationships with a “soulmate” or “twin-flame” when it's not healthy anymore.Connect with Melissa:IG: @melissadumazPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-hats-podcast/id1499898198.❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok for live chats @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg and Dr. Nazanin Moali to talk about love and sex in our Season 2 Premiere! Greg and Nazanin dive into loveless marriages, masturbation, porn addiction, and more. Make sure you share this with everyone you love..❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified psychologist, for our season finale to talk about the antidote to self-absorption and answer live TikTok relationship questions. In this episode, we chat with Tamara in Wyoming about her husband's spending habits and what to do next. Join us for our Season 2 Premiere on Father's Day, June 19, 2022! .❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified psychologist in LA, to answer live TikTok audience member questions about dating, love, and sex. In this episode: 1) learning to love in unfamiliar ways with a partner who is neurodivergent, 2) the legacy of love we can leave our kids, and 3) asking to be touched more in a 20+ year marriage.We'll dive deeper into topics like the autism spectrum in future episodes, stay tuned..❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified psychologist in LA, for this live morning show on TikTok @abetterloveproject. In this episode, you'll learn how to set boundaries, strengthen your emotional connection, and the importance of being admired as well as having self-love..❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a board-certified psychologist, for this live TikTok Morning Show that was recorded Sunday @ 10 AM (Azorean Time).In the episode:1. How to support your partner when they're exhausted. 2. Grief, Loss, and Gentleness3. Emotional Connection in Marriage, Never Stop Dating Your Spouse.❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg to answer a TikTok audience member's question about "breaking things in the home" and how we define violence in relationships. In this episode:1. Defining Intimate Partner Violence2. Deficiencies in communication and behavioral skills3. Free resources: The National Domestic Violence Hotline+.❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject
Join Dr. Greg to answer a TikTok audience member's question about sexual guilt, the idea of purity, and how to begin shifting toward a positive stance on sexual health. In the episode:1. Religious/Cultural Values + Family Conversations about Sex2. Normalizing sexual development and positive sexual experiences.3. Redefining "purity" to include loving, positive, sexual pleasure..❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Join Dr. Greg to discuss a few key questions to consider if you're getting back together with someone you've been separated from for a while. In this case, our listener is re-connecting with a co-parent with who she's still married and wants to make it work.In this episode:1. What was co-parenting like during the separation?2. What is it you both want to actually commit to? 3. What is going to be different this time?.❤️ Follow Dr. Greg Matos on Tiktok + YouTube: @abetterloveproject.
Tonight we're talking about compromise and I'll teach you a specific strategy. Get your spouse on TikTok right now, the person you love the most, whoever that is… join me together every Sunday to talk about getting through hard stuff and fostering a healthier relationship.You're listening to episode 77 with a live TikTok audience. Tonight's episode is made possible by Mona, our third official sponsor who honors her late father Mohammed Sanjakdar. She hopes you will join her in supporting this show as a way to honor those who helped you learn about love. —-//notes//I want to take a moment to celebrate. I started this show almost a year ago and after tonight, I will have shared all of the core relationship skills I think you need. You can watch and listen to 76+ episodes on YouTube and wherever you get your podcasts.Shout out to our moderators for fostering a supportive environment. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments and I'll get to them later.Let's dive into how to love more fiercely. Let's start with when we need compromise the most: during gridlocked perpetual issues.What is that?Example: gridlock around their dinner-time routine: one person wants to sit down at the table each night to share a meal while the other person prefers to eat on the go, especially if they're getting home late, which is a common occurrence.Defining your core needs, values, and dreams, areas of inflexibility.Defining your areas of flexibility.Experiment with a temporary compromise that recognizes both your core needs and dreams.We need to feel safe in order for a compromise to work, for this dialogue and process to be maximally effective.RIFF:To remember:Compromise never feels perfect.Everyone gains something and everyone loses something in a compromise.The important this is feeling understood, respected, and honored in your dream.-----Ladies and gentlemen, that's all for our show tonight! Sponsor this public media project, don't wait, do it right now to get exclusive member benefits at: patreon.com/abetterloveproject. As always, ask for what you need in your relationship and start couple's therapy sooner rather than later.I'm Dr. Greg Matos, from Hollywood, California, until next time, love each other fiercely.Support the show
Join Dr. Greg Matos, a licensed couple and family psychologist in Los Angeles to address relationships on the brink and what you need to consider:1. Why do you want to save this relationship? (Motivation/Importance)2. What have you already done to save it? (Readiness for Change/Effort)3. What are you willing to commit to? (New Rituals of Emotional Connection)I've worked with many couples through very hard things and believe in Gottman-Method Couples Therapy and evidence-based couples therapy broadly. Reach out to a qualified, licensed professional in your local community for support.Come to a free 30-minute workshop on healthy relationship fundamentals: https://subscribe.abetterloveproject.orgDonate to this veteran-led 501c3 mission: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveprojectSupport the show
It is normal to experience heightened levels of emotion in conflict with a family member, whether they're your child or your spouse. The key is leveling up your capacity to regulate and self-soothe. The masters are great self-soothers. The good news is that this is a skill that can be learned.In this episode:Nervous System + FloodingRituals of Emotional Connection in your family: Support a healthy mind and body (cardio, walking, yoga, tai chi, meditation, painting)Share this episode as a free mental health resource! Become a member to support our 501c3 mission: https://www.patreon.com/abetterloveproject and get exclusive benefits.Greg Matos, Psy.D., ABPPEducator/Hostabetterloveproject.orgSupport the show
How to Love BetterRelationships can be tricky, but they don't have to be that way. The template we learn for relationships when we are kids often can have effects on the relationships we hold as adults. If everyone had their own professional relationship coach, life would be much easier to navigate.That's where our guest comes in. Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified couples therapist, who is also the director of a nonprofit organization called “A Better Love Project.”Key Takeaways from Liz's 1-on-1 with Dr. Greg:• Learn more about Dr. Greg and his background• Hear four of the biggest barriers to having healthy relationships• Find out what “stonewalling” is, and how it's detrimental to relationships • Learn the antidote to stonewalling• Hear about “time outs”, and how they relate to adult couplesAll of this and more, on this episode of Calm, Cool and Connected.Follow Dr. Greg for daily relationship tips and advice on IG and TikTok: @abetterloveprojectFor more information on Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, visit her website https:// www.evolvecounselingaz.com/dr-elizabeth-fedrick.Connect with Dr, Fedrick on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drelizabethfedrick/For more great Calm, Cool and Connected content, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on all major podcasting platforms. https://3cstvshow.buzzsprout.com/Already subscribed? Please take a moment to rate and review the podcast so that we can reach as many people that need the help as we can: https://3cstvshow.buzzsprout.comHave a question you'd like answered on the show? Leave us a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/CalmCoolConnectedFor more great Calm, Cool and Connected content, don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Overcast, Spotify, and all the popular podcasting platforms. (RSS) https://3cstvshow.buzzsprout.comAlready subscribed? Please take a moment to rate and review the podcast so that we can reach as many people that need the help as we can: https://3cstvshow.buzzsprout.com DISCLAIMER: THE CONSULTATIONS OR INTERACTIONS OFFERED ARE NOT MENTAL HEALTH THERAPY. THE CONSULTATION IS FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT STRUCTURED IN A WAY TO PROVIDE MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELING/PSYCHOTHERAPY/THERAPY/ DIAGNOSING OF ANY KIND. YOU UNDERSTAND THAT CALM COOL AND CONNECTED IS NOT PROVIDING INFORMATION AS YOUR TREATING MENTAL HEALTH COUNSELOR, PHYSICIAN, ATTORNEY, LEGAL COUNSEL, EMPLOYER, MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. We offer no guarantees or promise of results from event nor assume liability for any information provided.
This week we have an excellent episode for you guys! We have Greg Matos and Josiah Deandrea AKA VileShrew who is a content creator and steamer on Twitch and YouTube, they will be joining alongside Keith Whelan. We all know why we are here, which is to discuss the very divisive game that is Cyberpunk 2077. We wrap up the episode neatly with an interesting discussion with VileShrew about your burning questions on the topic of content creation and streaming. Make sure to check him out on Twitch and YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/c/VileShrew/featured twitch.tv/vileshrew --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/digital-denizen5/support
Welcome to episode 332 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome back Dr. Greg Matos. In this episode, we discuss monogamy in the 21st century, ways in which you can manage temptation and the impact platforms like OnlyFans are having on relationships. Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified Couple and Family Psychologist who served over a decade in the U.S. Marine Corps and Navy, becoming a Lieutenant Commander. Greg was awarded the Bronze Star with Combat Valor and the Department of State's Award for Heroism. He's the author of Shattered Glass: The Story of a Marine Embassy Guard. After the military, Dr. Greg began specializing in systems work and Gottman-Method Couples Therapy. He founded a charity on TikTok @abetterloveproject to share science-based advice on love and life with his 40,000 audience members. You can join him for a casual chat and mindful breathing every day on TikTok. In this episode, you will hear: A look into the Better Love Project and why Dr. Greg started it Analyzing monogamy in the 21st century The way in which social media has affected relationships Looking at the impacts of opening your relationship Understanding how micro-cheating works Balancing your desire whilst in a monogamous relationship Ways in which you can manage temptation The importance of knowing your core values Keeping communication open with your partner for the long haul The impact platforms like OnlyFans are having on relationships Building trust and commitment for a healthy relationship Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexologypodcast Job Posting https://www.indeed.com/job/licensed-mental-health-therapist-private-practice-025459e5bb2c89fe Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy