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Part 2: Why Community Matters More in The Ai Age The Dog Baron Show Podcast: Unleash the Power of Connection, Trust, and Belonging! Ever imagined hosting a Dinner Party Game where anyone you invite has to show up? Sounds fun, right? But for Jon Levy, it became a life-changing experience. Struggling after a failed start-up and hit by the 2008 financial crash, Jon sought a way to make a difference. He decided to host a dinner party, inviting 12 complete strangers to cook for him. Little did he know that this humble gathering would spark a global movement known as the "Influencers Dinner." From Nobel laureates to Olympic champions and award-winning musicians, the Influencers Dinner network now boasts thousands of extraordinary individuals. Jon Levy's TED presentation, "What makes us influential," catapulted him onto the world stage as a renowned behavioral scientist. His first book, "The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure," took the world by storm in 2016. And now, his latest masterpiece, "You're Invited: The Art and Science of Connection, Trust, and Belonging," has become a sensational New York Times & WSJ Bestseller. Join us today in our post-pandemic world, where loneliness has reached epidemic levels. Part 2: Why Community Matters More in The Ai Age Connection, Trust, and Belonging in a Post-Pandemic World Navigating The Great Resignation and The Great Re-evaluation The Massive Importance of community in the workplace The Greatest Predictor of Engagement and Loyalty What is Psychological Safety, and Why Does It Matter Building Connections at a Distance Why Bring Your People Back to The Office Isn't Enough Henry Ford and Orthodox Jews and the 5 Day Work Week Lie Dinner and a Bribe The Ikea Effect Opening and Closing Vulnerability Loops Intimacy Games - The Power of Reciprocal Vulnerability Why Human Skills are NOT Soft What Your Initials Tell Us About Who You'll Date Community, Stock Value, and Profitability Finding or Creating Common Ground Lessons From Disney on Overcoming Buyer's Remorse Who Are You Inviting, and To What Dov Baron's brand new course has just been released on coursifyx.com/belonging ------------- Titled: "CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING." The course is separated into eight sections that will take you by the hand and walk you through exactly how to create a culture of belonging. Because: CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING MAXIMIZES PERSONAL AND CORPORATE SUCCESS. Get Ready to strap on the tanks and Dive Deep into, What it Takes to Create a Culture of Belonging in your organization! Curious to know more, coursifyx.com/belonging "Those Who Control Meaning for The Tribe, Also Control The Movement of That Tribe" #videopodcast #leadership #leadershipdevelopment #emotionsourcecode #neuroscience #emotional #meaning #emotional #logic #culture #curiosity #humanbehavior #purpose
Have you ever played the Dinner Party Game? It's a game where you create a guest list and invite anyone to dinner, and they must come. For most of us, that's just a fun idea. However, by the time he'd reached his late twenties, Jon Levy was struggling. His start-up had failed, and he was grappling with the financial crash of 2008. Jon knew he wanted to make a difference in the world but didn't know how. So, he hosted a dinner party and invited 12 strangers to cook for him. From those humble beginnings, the "Influencers Dinner" was born – a network now comprising thousands of people, including Nobel laureates, Olympic champions, and award-winning musicians. Jon Levy's first book, The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure, was released in 2016. However, in 2018, Jon Levy did a TED presentation titled: What makes us influential? That presentation birthed behavioral scientist Jon Levy onto the world stage. His Second book, "You're Invited:" The Art and Science of Connection, Trust, and Belonging, has become a New York Times & WSJ Bestseller. Today, we all live in a post-pandemic world where most people work from home at least part of the time. Yet, as we have more time to be with who we love, we're also dealing with a global epidemic of loneliness. So, what can we do to bring Connection, Trust, and Belonging back? Website https://www.jonlevy.com Social Media https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonlevytlb https://www.instagram.com/jonlevytlb/?hl=en https://twitter.com/JonLevyTLB Part 1. Misery, Really Does Love Company Popularity Verses Likability, Why the Difference Matters Resilience or Adaptability, Why They're Not the Same The Dyslexic Advantage What is The Negative and Positive Lifestyle Ripple The Longevity Predictor What The Most Influential People Want Why People Who Don't Ski Drop Everything to Go to a Small Ski Resort Why We Fail Miserably to Influence Those We Most Want to Influence The 4 Keys to Profound Influence (they're not what you think) ___________________ Dov Baron's brand new course has just been released on coursifyx.com/belonging Titled: "CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING." The course is separated into eight sections that will take you by the hand and walk you through exactly how to create a culture of belonging. Because: CREATING A CULTURE OF BELONGING MAXIMIZES PERSONAL AND CORPORATE SUCCESS. Get Ready to strap on the tanks and Dive Deep into, What it Takes to Create a Culture of Belonging in your organization! Curious to know more, coursifyx.com/belonging "Those Who Control Meaning for The Tribe, Also Control The Movement of That Tribe" #videopodcast #leadership #leadershipdevelopment #emotionsourcecode #neuroscience #emotional #meaning #emotional #logic #culture #curiosity #humanbehavior #purpose
On this episode, Derek sits with Jon Levy. Jon is a Behavioral Scientist, Speaker, the Founder of The Influencers Dinner and New York Times Bestselling Author. Jon will be discussing his research, his incredibly popular TED Talk, his first book, “The 2am Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure”, and founding the famous Influencers Dinner. Jon will also be discussing best selling latest book, "You're Invited - The Art and Science of Connection, Trust and Belonging".Website: https://www.jonlevy.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonlevytlb/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonlevytlb/Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/JonLevyTLBFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JonLevyTLB/TEDX: https://www.ted.com/talks/jon_levy_what_makes_us_influentialSPONSOR - Go to https://betterhelp.com/derekduvallshow for 10% off your first month of therapy with @betterhelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help #sponsored
On this week's podcast, I'm interviewing Jon Levy, who is a behavioural scientist and New York Times best selling author known for his work in trust, human connection, belonging and influence. Jon specialises in applying the latest research on how humans behave and make decisions to transform the ways companies approach building brands, culture and overall strategy. But more than a decade ago, Jon founded the Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience that brought together industry leaders and actually encouraged them to make their own DNA so they would arrive, be given the food and they'd all have to work together to actually make the experience. It has had a phenomenal impact. For the last two years, Jon has hosted thousands of the most brilliant brains in the world and brought them together to talk about how they can solve world problems. John's second book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Connection, Trust and Belonging was released in 2021, and it shared his secrets and observations of all the things that he's learned. Unsurprisingly, it became an instant New York Times best seller. I met Jon recently in Sweden at a work conference and became fascinated by him, his work and just a general perspective on the world and I'm thrilled he's joined me on the podcast today. Find Jon Levy:Website: https://www.jonlevy.com/Book: https://www.jonlevy.com/you-re-invitedInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonlevytlb/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Is our behavior truly our own? Or do our choices grow out of our environment? There are influences all around each of us, and often the walking talking version of influencers ends up shaping the behavior of the people around them in ways that are not always visible.Jon Levy is a behavior scientist and the founder of the Influencers Dinner. He is also an author. His latest book is called You're Invited: The Art and Science of Connection, Trust, and Belonging, and his previous work is titled The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure. Through the use of models, Jon has studied the science of influence and in what ways to both change what influences are affecting you, and how to use influences to affect a change in your behaviors.Jon and Greg discuss Jon's work, how to level yourself up by surrounding yourself with the right people, how people become friends, and the surprising camaraderie that happens when you ask strangers to work and make food together. Jon also examines how behavior can become contagious, and the surprising reasons why you might not want your child to grow up to be an Olympian.*unSILOed Podcast is produced by University FM.*Episode Quotes:Adventure is a way to build a muscle for social skills09:38: Adventure is a fantastic process to live an interesting, exciting, potentially creative life. It's a fantastic way to bond with people that you adventure with, and more importantly, it is an incredible way to build the muscle of social skills and tolerance for discomfort, and social discomfort. These are skills that are essential in just about anything you'd want to do in life.03:08: If we can understand the mechanics of how relationship works, just like how an adventure works, suddenly things become possible that otherwise would be impossible.How do you establish meaningful interactions?41:33: Regardless of how introverted, extroverted, or shy you might be, just start gathering people or go and participate in other people's gatherings.On cultivating community39:39: If you want to be more active in cultivating community around you, you need consistent opportunities for people to engage with each other. So it's not just about me knowing you, me knowing your friend, and me knowing 20 other people. It's how do I get them to know each other.Show Links:Recommended Resources:Jonah Berger Nicholas ChristakisJames H. FowlerBored Ape Yacht ClubGuest Profile:Jon Levy's WebsiteJon Levy on LinkedInJon Levy on TwitterJon Levy on InstagramJon Levy on TED Salon: Brightline InitiativeJon Levy on Talks at GoogleHis Work:Influencers DinnerArticles on ForbesArticles on Inc.You're Invited: The Art and Science of Connection, Trust, and BelongingThe 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure
“I don't want fans, I want friends.” This is one of many approaches to relationship-building that I admire in this week's guest, super-connector Jon Levy. I learned that when Jon texts with “free for dinner tonight?” you cancel all plans and say YES. Both times I did, I ended up at one of his influencer dinners with famous actors, public figures, pro athletes, and C-suite executives. Jon's secret? Designing experiences to facilitate a shared sense of awe, connection, and accomplishment—with job titles revealed only at the end of the evening. Today we're talking about these principles and more behind his bestselling book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did! This episode originally aired on July 24, 2022. More about Jon: Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist and New York Times bestselling author known for his work in trust, human connection, belonging, and influence. More than a decade ago, Jon founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, and executives, to artists and musicians. Guests cook dinner together, but can't discuss their career or give their last name, and once seated to eat, they reveal who they are. Over time, these dinners developed into a community. With thousands of members, Influencers is the largest community of its type worldwide.
How influential is your personal network?You know I love a multi-layered question and this one comes in two parts.Firstly, how well does your current network, the current galaxy of people you orbit around (and who orbit around you) reflect the habits, influence, achievements you want to create?Secondly – and here's where it gets interesting – how much of an impact does your current network have on you and those around you. Including people who will never meet?If there's one thing that most researchers agree upon it's this: your level of influence is in direct correlation to who you are connected to.Which is fine as a base line, however dig under the surface and it raises more questions than it answers. How big does that network need to be? Who needs to be in it and – in a day and age where we all collect more connections than we know what to do with – what does connection even mean?When I started diving into these questions, they all pointed me in one direction.Today's Guest Jon Levy is a social researcher, best selling author, TED talker and (probably best known) founder of the Influencers Dinner—an exclusive dining experience created in 2009, which brings industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates to Olympians, Emmy award winners, musician, politician and even members of the royal family - to celebrities together to cook and share a meal. In his words…Levy shares his approach to making connections in his new best selling book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. The book breaks down his “Influence Equation”—how to build belonging and trust to create a high impact community. Instagram and Twitter: @JonLevyTLBYou'll LearnWhy influence and behavior is contagious – including the influence our network has on everything from our results to our longevity..How the rituals within our communities and families become the cornerstones we orbit around - and the importance of consciously creating them..Finally, why everyone, especially those at the top of their game, feel like they don't fit in – and how to create spaces for deep and powerful connections.References and links mentionedJon's NY Times bestseller You're Invited: The Art & Science of Connection, Trust, and BelongingJon's TED TalkThanks for tuning into this week's episode of the Inside Influence Podcast! Please head over to iTunes, subscribe to the show and leave a review. Also, don't forget to hop on my website juliemasters.com and download my new ebook The Influencer Code or become an insider by signing up to my newsletter. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It's been a year since Jon Levy was on the show, and a lot has happened in the world as well as in Jon's life since. I'm so happy to have him back because we authentically connect and have fun doing it.Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influence, human connection, and decision making. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. His clients range from Fortune 500 brands, like Microsoft, Google, AB-InBev, and Samsung, to startups.More than a decade ago, Jon founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, and executives, to artists, musicians, and even the Grammy winning voice of the bark from “Who Let the Dogs Out.” Guests cook dinner together, but can't discuss their career or give their last name, and once seated to eat, they reveal who they are. Over time, these dinners developed into a community. With thousands of members, Influencers is the largest community of its type worldwide. This project became the basis of his NYT best-selling book “You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence”.Join us as we explore:What Jon learnt about connection from his recently deceased father, a true influencer and connector himself. The critical role of anti-fragility in the human social species, and how that skill has atrophied decade by decade since the 1950s.Why America lost a third of its social ties in less than 10 years!How to upskill socially the young generations and help them create deeper bonds.If Jon can alleviate my concern that people are not valuing their communities and kindness as a value. The Friendship Formula, the Fudge Factor and why wealth is not compatible with social bonds!The tradeoff between being part of larger society and the sense of belonging in true community.How a book about an alpha wolf got it all wrong about leadership and being the boss.Mentions:Study – Why It's Good To Have A BFF At Work, https://www.businessnewsdaily.com/6759-friends-at-work.html Website – MeetUp, https://www.meetup.comStudy – How a tiny Pennsylvania town held the secrets to long life, https://www.lehighvalleylive.com/slate-belt/2016/01/roseto_effect_carmen_ruggiero.html Theory – The Friendship Formula, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/let-their-words-do-the-talking/201911/the-friendship-formulaTheory – Fudge Factor, https://www.thinkadvisor.com/2016/02/10/beware-the-personal-fudge-factor/ Study – Why do people avoid talking to strangers?, https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/15298868.2020.1816568Schedule a FREE 15 min discovery call with Steve and let's get started on your journey to thriving: https://bit.ly/3BcTsFwSUPPORT THE SHOW ON PATREON:As much as we love doing it, there are costs involved and any contribution will allow us to keep going and keep finding the best guests in the world to share their health expertise with you. I'd be grateful and feel so blessed by your support: https://www.patreon.com/MadeToThriveShow
Learn more about Jeffrey Pfeffer and where you can buy or listen to his books: https://JeffreyPfeffer.com/ SHOW NOTES: Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist specializing in human connection, trust, and influence. He is the author of the New York Times Best Seller “You're Invited”, and Founder of Influencers, the secret dining experience and private community. Jeffrey speaks to Jon about how he started his Influencer Dinners and shares some of the amazing content from his book. How Levy started hosting Influencer Dinners Why relationships, connections, and trust lead to an extraordinary life The model Levy developed after researching the behavior of highly influential people What has been learned after hosting 2500 people at 266 dinners in 11 cities in four countries What highly influential people need instead of another rubber chicken dinner What reading about scientific concepts does for Levy's life How the IKEA effect accelerates the rate at which people bond Why vulnerability creates trust (and how it's the opposite of what corporate America tries to do) The unseen loneliness of some influential and important people The five concerns of billionaires when meeting people Elements that create a memorable event The three things not sharing dinner guest's professions until after dinner does toward building connection The most significant factor in Levy's success What draws crowds and creates a committed group of people JON'S BIO: Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist and NY Times Best Selling author known for his work in human connection, trust, and influence. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. His clients range from Fortune 500 brands, like Microsoft, Google, AB-InBev, and Samsung, to startups. More than a decade ago, Levy founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, and executives, to artists, musicians, and even the Grammy winning voice of the bark from “Who Let the Dogs Out.” Guests cook dinner together but can't discuss their careers or give their last names. Once seated to eat, they reveal who they are. Over time, these dinners developed into a community. With thousands of members, Influencers is the largest community of its type worldwide. Jon's second book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Connection, Trust and Belonging, was released to critical acclaim quickly rising as an international best seller. In it Levy demonstrates the importance of trust, and community to accomplishing what is most important to us. In his free time, Jon works on outrageous projects. Among them spending a year traveling to all 7 continents, or to the world's greatest events (Grand Prix, Art Basel, Burning Man, Running of the Bulls, etc.) and barely surviving to tell the tale. These Adventures were chronicled in his first book: The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure Produced by the MunnAvenuePress.com
“I don't want fans, I want friends.” This is one of many approaches to relationship-building that I admire in this week's guest, super-connector Jon Levy. I learned that when Jon texts with “free for dinner tonight?” you cancel all plans and say YES. Both times I did, I ended up at one of his influencer dinners with famous actors, public figures, pro athletes, and C-suite executives. Jon's secret? Designing experiences to facilitate a shared sense of awe, connection, and accomplishment—with job titles revealed only at the end of the evening. Today we're talking about these principles and more behind his bestselling book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did! More about Jon: Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist and New York Times bestselling author known for his work in trust, human connection, belonging, and influence. More than a decade ago, Jon founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, and executives, to artists and musicians. Guests cook dinner together, but can't discuss their career or give their last name, and once seated to eat, they reveal who they are. Over time, these dinners developed into a community. With thousands of members, Influencers is the largest community of its type worldwide.
Thirty percent of Millennials report feeling lonely all or most of the time. These figures get even worse when looking at Gen Z. And when the greatest predictor of longevity is social integration, trends like these are no small concern.Joining us today is Jon Levy, a behavior scientist, founder of The Influencers Dinner, and author of “You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence.” In this conversation, Jon discusses how to build trust, why traditional networking feels so unnatural, and what type of social interactions actually leave a lasting impression. Plus, he shares some of the latest research in behavioral science and explains why creating meaningful connections are critical for both living a long, happy life and finding meaning and success at work.If you enjoyed today's episode, find more B-Well Together goodness at salesforce.com/plus.
Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who uses science to meaningfully connect brands and people. He works with Fortune 500 companies and startups to help them apply the latest research to their marketing and sales efforts, engagement, and culture. His book You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence debuted at #2 on the Wall Street Journal's best-seller list. The book guides readers through the art and science of developing meaningful connections, and demonstrates how to gain trust, develop influence, and build community. In his conversation with Katie, Jon dives into building community and human connection, and what it means to have influence. He describes a phenomenon he calls “the IKEA Effect” and how that impacts our relationships. He shares the origin of his Influencer Dinner series, and what he's learned from hosting those events for over a decade. Through all of this, Jon says the biggest thing we can offer people these days is a sense of belonging. If you've read and enjoyed You're Invited, check out Jon's first book The 2AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure. In-flight topics: Why networking stinks Creating community and human connection Origin of the Influencer Dinner What it means to have influence Fostering community as a brand A peek into Jon's latest book ...and more! Relevant Links: Jon Twitter: https://twitter.com/JonLevyTLB You're Invited book: https://www.jonlevytlb.com/you-re-invited Jon Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonlevytlb/?hl=en TED Talk: https://www.jonlevytlb.com/ted
Jon and I start by talking about his book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. Some of the celebrities he's met and researched come up.Then we started talking about this podcast and how I could apply his work to cultivate influence among my podcast guests, building community. You get to hear him coaching me on his expertise. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Jon Levy is a Behavioral Scientist applying the latest research to transform the ways businesses approach sales, marketing, culture, and consumer engagement. His clients include Google, Microsoft, and Samsung. Jon is also the founder of Influencers Dinner and the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence, which explores human connection, community, and trust. Jon joins me today to discuss the future of work and the theory of hybridization, which involves varying degrees of remote work. He explores the physical, emotional, and social barriers that make a hybrid work pattern unfavorable for most people and roles. Jon reveals the importance of trust and its underlying influencers: competency, honesty, and benevolence. He shares why there is a broad decline of trust in the workplace and the factors that influence finding a balance between entering the workplace and working remotely. Jon also explores the quitting epidemic, the benefits of commute time, loss aversion, and creating an experience of trust and belonging. “People are burning out. There is quite literally a problem that we are overworking ourselves with a lack of feeling of purpose.” - Jon Levy This week on Insert:Human Predicting the future of the workplace by considering what is good for us and what happens when people interact The impact of strong social ties, family, and social integration (community) on life expectancy The link between trust levels and company stock value, employee sick days, and profitability How trust is built through vulnerability loops and why showing vulnerability is harder at a distance Why COVID caused a quitting epidemic and the issues of overworking ourselves to the point of burnout Examples of vulnerability loops and how to create an environment of belonging and trust Why leaders should express and explain the complexities within the decision-making process Resources Mentioned: Podcast: 060| Underneath Influence with Jon Levy Boston Globe: The Hybrid workplace Probably Won't Last Book: Why We Work by Barry Schwartz Connect with Jon Levy: Jon Levy's website Book: 2AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure Book: You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence Jon Levy on Instagram Jon Levy on Facebook Jon Levy on Twitter Insert:Human - For a Better Life & Better World Thanks for tuning into this week's episode of Insert:Human. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more seekers and problem-solvers, like you. Join me on Twitter, Instagram, and Linkedin. For more exclusive content and to claim your free copy of the first chapter of my upcoming book, Technology is Dead, visit my website.
Today, we sit down with the incredibly insightful Jon Levy! Jon is a behavioral scientist and social engineer best known for his work on human connection and decision making. Jon is the founder of the Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience started in New York in 2009. Twelve thought leaders, tastemakers, and influencers from various industries attend, but do not discuss their professional career, or share their last name - in order to guess, at the end of the dinner, what the other attendees do professionally. What started as an experiment has turned into a world class experience that brings guests from a broad spectrum of fields together to share insights, camaraderie, and a great meal. In addition to being a TED speaker, Jon also has a new book: You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. We start today's conversation with a discussion about the way humans, as a whole, possess a desire to experience something different and unique. Jon explains a bit about the SN/VTA part of the brain, which governs reward cognition, associative learning, and positively-valenced emotions. The SN/VTA engages during unusual experiences, and that response can be used to inspire curiosity and get an audience to authentically engage with your ideas. Behavioral science for the win! The traditional methods for networking have become stagnant and overblown. People "turn off" when they're bored, so how can we create a stronger connection? Jon shares tips about bringing people together for a mutual, unique experience, and how that can create relationships that are stronger than plain ol' humdrum networking. John talks about the enigmas of connection, and helps thought leaders understand why people do the things we do. This is a great lesson on how to tap into those responses by using a little bit of social engineering! Don't miss it! Three Key Takeaways: Thought Leaders can create more interest in their products and ideas by adding a little uniqueness and novelty; raising people's curiosity makes them engage more fully. When designing Thought Leadership courses, think about the frequency of communication, not just the depth of ideas. Trust is a must-have in Thought Leadership, but to gain trust you must be willing to show a level of vulnerability.
Today it's great to chat with Jon Levy on the podcast. Jon is a behavioral scientist best known for his work on influence, human connection, and decision making. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the way companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. His clients range from Fortune 500 brands like Microsoft, Google, AB InBev, and Samsung to startups. His latest book is called You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. Topics: · Jon's interest in influence and social networks · The Influencers Dinner · The influence of meaningful connections · What is trust and how does it work? · Giving a platform to the voiceless · How being generous can help you succeed · "Relationship hack: Use the vulnerability loop" · Connecting is not the same as networking · Stories from the Influencers Dinner · Jon's personal metric of success --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-psychology-podcast/support
Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in human connection, trust and influence. He's the Author of the newly released NYT Best seller, You're Invited: The Art & Science of Cultivating Influence, in it Levy explores how our ability to impact anything from longevity, and business, to social causes are a byproduct of our relationships, trust and a sense of belonging. More than a decade ago, Jon founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders.
Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influence, human connection, and decision making. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. His clients range from Fortune 500 brands, like Microsoft, Google, AB-InBev, and Samsung, to startups. He is also a Springbok fan. :)More than a decade ago, Jon founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, and executives, to artists, musicians, and even the Grammy winning voice of the bark from “Who Let the Dogs Out.” Guests cook dinner together, but can't discuss their career or give their last name, and once seated to eat, they reveal who they are. Over time, these dinners developed into a community. With thousands of members, Influencers is the largest community of its type worldwide. Jon's second book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence, has made a big splash since being released in May. In it, he demonstrates the importance of human connection, trust and community to accomplishing what is most important to us. In his free time, Jon works on outrageous projects. Among them spending a year traveling to all 7 continents, or to the world's greatest events (Grand Prix, Art Basel, Burning Man, Running of the Bulls, etc.) and barely surviving to tell the tale. These Adventures were chronicled in his first book: The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure.Join us as we explore:What made Jon a Springbok fan and why they won the South African rugby team won the 2007 World Cup. The concept of psychological safety, something more relevant than ever before.The two best predictors of longevity. Spoiler - it's not diet.How community is the number one thing correlated to success.Why you are the people you surround yourself with.Sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me – wrong!Why the grass isn't always greenerRedefining the word influencerWhat is it that truly fosters connectionWhat creates trustThe rabbit and IKEA effectsSupport the show on Patreon: As much we I love doing it, there are costs involved and any contribution will allow us to keep going and keep finding the best guests in the world to share their health expertise with you. I'd be grateful and feel so blessed by your support: https://www.patreon.com/MadeToThriveShowContactWebsite: https://www.jonlevytlb.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JonLevyTLBTwitter: @JonLevyTLBInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonlevytlb/Mentions “You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence"https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/54870199-you-re-invited?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=3h2RPnGeuM&rank=4“A social contagious model of the obesity epidemic”, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5124998/Matthew D. Lieberman b, Bruce D. Naliboff et al, “Rejection Really Hurts, UCLA Psychologists Find”, https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2003/10/031010074045.htm“Everything You Know About Addiction is Wrong”, Rat Park TED Talk, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY9DcIMGxMsThe Framingham Heart Study and the Epidemiology of Cardiovascular Diseases: A Historical Perspective, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4159698/Malcolm Gladwell, “Outliers”, https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3228917-outliers?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=I9IUY
Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist, influencer, adventurer, and author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. Jon works with a multitude of clients—from startups to Fortune 500 brands—who want to transform their approach to consumer engagement, sales, culture, and marketing. Jon is the Founder of The Influencers Dinner, which has developed into the world's largest community of influencers and industry leaders. He has a Bachelor of Science from New York University and an International Baccalaureate from The Dwight School. Jon joins me today to explore what is underneath his influence. He shares why human beings are wired for trust, connection, and community and how they are at the core of meaningful relationships. Jon reveals why people do not like business networking and its correlation to feeling dirty. He explores the ‘IKEA effect' and how we care more about the things we put effort into. He reveals how vulnerability loops work and how to get better results and buy-ins by stacking them from small to large. Jon also describes methods for changing your habits and the human associations that need to be made and broken. “Anything that really matters to us—the ability to connect, the ability to be trusted, and the necessity of belonging—are at the core of all of it.” - Jon Levy This week on Insert:Human How to connect with anyone, regardless of their level of influence, and do so in a meaningful How the fundamental dependency of human beings on each other influences behaviors The parallels between social pain and physical pain and how these affect longevity Why human connection has no cost Why companies should understand problems rather than throw money at them How vulnerability loops work to build high-level trust and where they are appropriate in the workplace The relationship between discomfort and opportunity, and why you should stack vulnerability loops from small to large How to improve your ability to interact with people by making connections over shared interests, activities, and cultures Resources Mentioned: Book: The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure by Jon Levy Book: You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence by Jon Levy Book: Tribe: On Homecoming and Belonging by Sebastian Junger Book: The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg TED Talk: What Makes Us Influential Connect with Jon Levy: Website: Jon Levy Jon Levy on Facebook John Levy on Twitter Jon Levy on Instagram Insert:Human - For a Better Life & Better World Thanks for tuning into this week's episode of Insert:Human. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more seekers and problem-solvers, like you. Join me on Twitter, Instagram, and Linkedin. For more exclusive content and to claim your free copy of the first chapter of my upcoming book, Technology is Dead, visit my website.
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The pandemic has changed so much for so many of us. Our children are growing up facing unforeseen challenges, and many of us feel uncertain and fearful about what lies ahead. Human beings were never meant to be alone. Yet today, people are suffering from social isolation, a lack of contact, and not touching or connecting physically with anyone. I am happy to have Jon Levy joining me as my guest for today! Jon is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influencing, human connection, and decision making. More than a decade ago, Jon founded The Influencers Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders ranging from Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, and executives, to artists, musicians, and even the occasional princess. With thousands of members, Influencers is the largest community of its type worldwide. In Levy's latest book, You're Invited, readers are guided through the art and science of creating deep and meaningful connections with anyone, regardless of their stature or celebrity. The book demonstrates how we develop influence, gain trust, and build community so that we can impact our communities and achieve that which is important to us. In this episode, Jon talks about the impact that the pandemic has had on our society, and discusses the effect it has had on people's wellbeing, happiness, and longevity. Be sure to stay tuned today to find out what you can do to improve your current situation, create more connectedness in your life, adapt to this ever-changing world, and help your children to thrive going forward into the future. IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN Jon discusses the impact of the loneliness and lack of physical connection that so many of us are experiencing now due to the pandemic. Jon shares some of the foremost predictors of human longevity. Anti-fragility is a critical characteristic of humans. Jon explains why building and retaining a social muscle is vital. What happens to people when they spend several hours per day on social media. Jon discusses the trade-offs that we have to make to live long and happy lives. Experience post-traumatic growth rather than post-traumatic stress. Jon explains how to foster a sense of connection with others as things start to open up again after fifteen months of isolation. Jon explains what bonds us as humans. Vulnerability builds trust and strengthens relationships. Knowing where to draw the line when giving to others is vital. Jon discusses the big issue with behavioral change. Creating more connectedness in your life. Connect with Cynthia Thurlow Follow on Twitter, Instagram & LinkedIn Check out Cynthia's website Connect with Jon Levy On his website On Facebook, Instagram, Twitter Additional Social Handles: @JonLevyTLB on Clubhouse Jon's new book: You're Invited: The Art & Science of Cultivating Influence Book mentioned: The Rabbit Effect by Kelli Harding
Behavioral scientist Jon Levy has built a reputation as a great unifier of people. His social experiment dinner parties show how to start meaningful friendships with new people, while providing vital data about human interaction in collaborative environments. Analyzing data behind human behavior is crucial in helping people overcome negativity. Ultimately, Jon's research over the years has revealed that people from all walks of life have an innate ability to form meaningful relationships with others. On this week's episode, Jon shares how he helps people overcome social fears and biases, allowing for genuine human connection. YOU'LL LEARN: What is behavioral science The importance of humility and understanding people What is the ‘Ikea Effect' LEARN MORE: >>> To learn more about Jon Levy, visit his website {https://www.jonlevytlb.com/you-re-invited} >>> Be sure to buy a copy of Jon's new book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence {https://amzn.to/3kA4SNo} NSLS MEMBERS ONLY: Listen to the bonus episode to learn why we are the average of our five closest friends and how to manage the changes within our personal relationships. {https://thens.ls/36FtOuN}
Jon Levy is the Founder and Host of Influencers, a private community made up of over 2,000 industry leaders including Nobel laureates, Olympians, celebrities, executives, royalty, and so much more. He is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influence, networking, and adventure. He specializes in applying the latest scientific research on human behavior to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, product design, and influencer program development. Jon spent years researching the science of adventure, which led him to publish his first book, The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure. In his second book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence, Jon demonstrates the importance of human connection, trust, and community to accomplish what is most important. In this episode of the Smart Business Revolution Podcast, John Corcoran is joined by Jon Levy, an author and the Founder and Host of Influencers, to talk about the power of influence and Jon's latest book, You're Invited. They also talk about creating connections, building trust, and the value of developing a sense of belonging. Stay tuned.
Ross Patterson and Dan Hollaway are joined by author and behavioral scientist Jon Levy to talk about insane but true behavioral science facts like why people go back to their exes, the number one determiner of prisoners getting parole, and a surprising predictor of obesity — plus Jon discusses his new book ‘You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence', his Influencers Dinners, and his outrageous stories about getting drunk with Kiefer Sutherland. Go to ghostbed.com/drinkinbros and use code DRINKINBROS for 30% off EVERYTHING (Mattresses, Adjustable Base, and more) -- plus a 101 Night Sleep Trial and Mattresses Made in the USA! Go to CardoMax.com and use promo code DB, and you get Buy One Get One FREE on your first order.
Ross Patterson and Dan Hollaway are joined by author and behavioral scientist Jon Levy to talk about insane but true behavioral science facts like why people go back to their exes, the number one determiner of prisoners getting parole, and a surprising predictor of obesity — plus Jon discusses his new book ‘You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence', his Influencers Dinners, and his outrageous stories about getting drunk with Kiefer Sutherland. Go to ghostbed.com/drinkinbros and use code DRINKINBROS for 30% off EVERYTHING (Mattresses, Adjustable Base, and more) -- plus a 101 Night Sleep Trial and Mattresses Made in the USA! Go to CardoMax.com and use promo code DB, and you get Buy One Get One FREE on your first order.
Jon Levy is a behavioural scientist best known for his work in influence, human connection, and decision making. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. His clients range from Fortune 500 brands, like Microsoft, Google, AB-InBev, and Samsung, to startups. Jon also just released his second book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence, released on the 11th of May of 2021. In it, he demonstrates the importance of human connection, trust and community to accomplishing what is most important to us. This podcast will teach you about Jon's findings from years of research, and how you can lead a happy and holistic lifestyle that will benefit you and your relationships in the long run. In this podcast you will learn: 00:00 Introduction 04:00 How Jon's research has changed his behaviour 06:00 The truth about how we relate to others 09:00 The common misconception that trust precedes vulnerability 11:00 How Jon got into behavioural science 16:00 What creates shared behavioural traits? 19:00 The ‘London Cab Driver' Study 22:00 Networking Word Association 23:00 In groups/out groups and its effects on our lifespan 27:00 Effects on Jon's life from his studies 32:00 Principles behind Jon's first book ‘The 2AM Project' 34:00 The 4 characteristics of living an exciting life 40:00 Is there a framework for connecting to successful people 43:00 The influence equation 46:00 Givers, takers & matchers 49:00 The power/value of a highly-curated environment 53:00 How to put a meaningful connection together
Episode 147 of the Business Bookshelf podcast - Jon Levy - Author of "You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence". Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influence, networking, and adventure. He does research in collaboration with C-Lab, affiliated with Kellogg School of Management. Levy specializes in applying the latest scientific research on human behavior, ranging from neuroscience and psychology to economics and biology, to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, product design, and influencer program development. Jon is the author of the book “You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence”. Regardless of what you want to accomplish, from growing your business, creating a great company culture, championing a social cause, or affecting your habits, you can't do it alone. The people around you define your success (whatever that means for you) and they have the potential to change the course of your life. That's what You're Invited is about: The most universal strategy for success is creating meaningful connections with those who can impact you, your life, and the things you care about. But how do you make those connections and build trust quickly? What do you do if you're introverted or hate networking? In You're Invited, Jon guides readers through the art and science of creating deep and meaningful connections with anyone, regardless of their stature or celebrity, and demonstrates how we develop influence, gain trust, and build community so that we can impact our communities and achieve what's important to us. The book can be purchased here - https://amzn.to/3iiNawr. You can find Jon's website here - www.jonlevytlb.com. An excellent article to read that Jon wrote titled "The hybrid workplace probably won't last" can be found here - www.bostonglobe.com/2021/05/09/opinion/hybrid-workplace-probably-wont-last. The email address of Lance Peppler, the host, is lance@ideastorm.co.za and the website is www.businessbookshelfpodcast.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/businessbookshelf/support
Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist, author, and the creator of The Influencers Dinner. The guests of this dinner have ranged from entertainment stars, athletes, scientists, business leaders, artists, and royalty In this conversation, we spoke about how Jon prepares for podcasts, where his sense of adventure comes from, what he learned from his first job, and much more. His new book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence, is about creating influence with the people you want to be around.
You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence by Jon Levy Regardless of what you want to accomplish, from growing your business, creating a great company culture, championing a social cause, or affecting your habits, you can’t do it alone. The people around you define your success (whatever that means for you) and they have the potential to change the course of your life. That’s what You’re Invited is about: The most universal strategy for success is creating meaningful connections with those who can impact you, your life, and the things you care about. But how do you make those connections and build trust quickly? What do you do if you’re introverted or hate networking? Behavioral scientist Jon Levy had no money, reputation or status, but was able to convince groups of Nobel Laureates, Olympians, celebrities, Fortune 500 executives, and even an occasional princess to not only give him advice, but cook him dinner, wash his dishes, sweep his floors, and then thank him for the experience. The goal of his gatherings, much like this book, was not networking, but building meaningful and lasting relationships. This private community based around the dinner experience became known as “The Influencers,” named for the member’s success and industry influence. Since its inception more than a decade ago, The Influencers has grown into the largest private group of its kind worldwide, with a thriving community both in person and through digital experiences. In You’re Invited, Levy guides readers through the art and science of creating deep and meaningful connections with anyone, regardless of their stature or celebrity, and demonstrates how we develop influence, gain trust, and build community so that we can impact our communities and achieve what’s important to us. Click here for this episode's website page with the links mentioned during the interview... https://www.salesartillery.com/marketing-book-podcast/youre-invited-jon-levy
Jon Levy provides foundational principles for connecting better and building your influence. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) Why relationships are the #1 predictor of your success 2) How to make networking feel more natural 3) How to build trust quickly with vulnerability loops Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep667 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT JON — Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influence, human connection, and decision making. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. His clients range from Fortune 500 brands, like Microsoft, Google, AB-InBev, and Samsung, to startups. • Jon's book: You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence • Jon's website: jonlevytlb.com • Jon's Clubhouse: @jonlevytlb • Jon's Facebook: JonLevyTLB • Jon's Instagram: jonlevytlb • Jon's Twitter: @JonLevyTLB — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Study: “Decisions and Revisions: The Affective Forecasting of Changeable Outcomes” by Daniel T. Gilbert and Jane E. J. Ebert • Study: Pratfall Effect • Book: Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die by Chip Heath • Book: The Creative Curve: How to Develop the Right Idea, at the Right Time by Allen Gannett — THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Canva. Look more professional with Canva Pro. Free 45-day extended trial at canva.me/awesomeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Jon is famous for bringing people together and creating community, see the New York Times article on him below. He invited me to a few of his events before the pandemic and they lived up to the reputation.His latest book, You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence comes out the day I'm posting this conversation, May 11. We talk about how the book came to be. We're both geeky and prone to talking theory, but neither of us would stop there. He shares how he put theory into practice. At first he makes it sound simple, but he also talks about the challenges and struggles he went through and how far back he had to start from.For our common interests in creating community, I've wanted to bring him here for years. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist best known for his work in influence, human connection, and decision making. Jon specializes in applying the latest research to transform the ways companies approach marketing, sales, consumer engagement, and culture. He is also an author; his latest book is You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence. Full show notes: https://maxlugavere.com/podcast/169-jon-levy
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I remember a couple of years ago, one day when I was asleep, my friend woke me up in the middle of the night and "invite" me to a dinner party. IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT! I have nothing better to do, so I went along. It turns out, it was the best dinner party that I ever have been, and was organized by the great organizer and influencer, Jon Levy! In this episode, I have him on again to talk about his new book, You're Invited: The Art & Science of Cultivating Influence. We talked about what's the real meaning of being an Influencer? It's not about having a million followers on TikTok, Instagram, or whatever social media platform. Also, why does he set out to organize all this amazing dinner party that features famous people, and why does he like connect people? Listen and find out! You might get the Invitation to his next dinner party! My new book Skip The Line is out! Make sure you get a copy wherever you get your new book! Join You Should Run For President 2.0 Facebook Group, and we discuss why should run for president. I write about all my podcasts! Check out the full post and learn what I learned at jamesaltucher.com/podcast. Thanks so much for listening! If you like this episode, please subscribe to “The James Altucher Show” and rate and review wherever you get your podcasts: Apple Podcasts Stitcher iHeart Radio Spotify Follow me on Social Media: YouTube Twitter Facebook See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today I talked to Jon Levy about his new book You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence (Harper Business, 2021). Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who over a decade ago founded The Influencer Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders. He's the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and has also served as a consultant on influence, connectivity and decision making for companies looking to transform how they do business. This episode starts with discussing Jon's idea of launching dinners where famous people would come together to cook a meal, talk, and clean up afterwards. It grew from there to covering why connectivity is so important, and what can make an event compelling: generosity, novelty, (good) curation, and the ability to create a sense of awe. Without pushing oneself, in other words, the event can't by definition be remarkable. Another insight is what Jon calls the IKEA Effect; just as putting your own furniture together makes you commit more to it, so likewise does an event benefit by having people come together in an activity or activities where they feel engaged and hence have a greater sense of belonging. Dan Hill, PhD, is the author of eight books and leads Sensory Logic, Inc. (https://www.sensorylogic.com). To check out his related “Dan Hill's EQ Spotlight” blog, visit https://emotionswizard.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today I talked to Jon Levy about his new book You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence (Harper Business, 2021). Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who over a decade ago founded The Influencer Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders. He's the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and has also served as a consultant on influence, connectivity and decision making for companies looking to transform how they do business. This episode starts with discussing Jon's idea of launching dinners where famous people would come together to cook a meal, talk, and clean up afterwards. It grew from there to covering why connectivity is so important, and what can make an event compelling: generosity, novelty, (good) curation, and the ability to create a sense of awe. Without pushing oneself, in other words, the event can't by definition be remarkable. Another insight is what Jon calls the IKEA Effect; just as putting your own furniture together makes you commit more to it, so likewise does an event benefit by having people come together in an activity or activities where they feel engaged and hence have a greater sense of belonging. Dan Hill, PhD, is the author of eight books and leads Sensory Logic, Inc. (https://www.sensorylogic.com). To check out his related “Dan Hill's EQ Spotlight” blog, visit https://emotionswizard.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/psychology
Today I talked to Jon Levy about his new book You’re Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence (Harper Business, 2021). Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who over a decade ago founded The Influencer Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders. He’s the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and has also served as a consultant on influence, connectivity and decision making for companies looking to transform how they do business. This episode starts with discussing Jon’s idea of launching dinners where famous people would come together to cook a meal, talk, and clean up afterwards. It grew from there to covering why connectivity is so important, and what can make an event compelling: generosity, novelty, (good) curation, and the ability to create a sense of awe. Without pushing oneself, in other words, the event can’t by definition be remarkable. Another insight is what Jon calls the IKEA Effect; just as putting your own furniture together makes you commit more to it, so likewise does an event benefit by having people come together in an activity or activities where they feel engaged and hence have a greater sense of belonging. Dan Hill, PhD, is the author of eight books and leads Sensory Logic, Inc. (https://www.sensorylogic.com). To check out his related “Dan Hill’s EQ Spotlight” blog, visit https://emotionswizard.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/communications
Today I talked to Jon Levy about his new book You’re Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence (Harper Business, 2021). Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who over a decade ago founded The Influencer Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders. He’s the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and has also served as a consultant on influence, connectivity and decision making for companies looking to transform how they do business. This episode starts with discussing Jon’s idea of launching dinners where famous people would come together to cook a meal, talk, and clean up afterwards. It grew from there to covering why connectivity is so important, and what can make an event compelling: generosity, novelty, (good) curation, and the ability to create a sense of awe. Without pushing oneself, in other words, the event can’t by definition be remarkable. Another insight is what Jon calls the IKEA Effect; just as putting your own furniture together makes you commit more to it, so likewise does an event benefit by having people come together in an activity or activities where they feel engaged and hence have a greater sense of belonging. Dan Hill, PhD, is the author of eight books and leads Sensory Logic, Inc. (https://www.sensorylogic.com). To check out his related “Dan Hill’s EQ Spotlight” blog, visit https://emotionswizard.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/sociology
Today I talked to Jon Levy about his new book You’re Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence (Harper Business, 2021). Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who over a decade ago founded The Influencer Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders. He’s the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and has also served as a consultant on influence, connectivity and decision making for companies looking to transform how they do business. This episode starts with discussing Jon’s idea of launching dinners where famous people would come together to cook a meal, talk, and clean up afterwards. It grew from there to covering why connectivity is so important, and what can make an event compelling: generosity, novelty, (good) curation, and the ability to create a sense of awe. Without pushing oneself, in other words, the event can’t by definition be remarkable. Another insight is what Jon calls the IKEA Effect; just as putting your own furniture together makes you commit more to it, so likewise does an event benefit by having people come together in an activity or activities where they feel engaged and hence have a greater sense of belonging. Dan Hill, PhD, is the author of eight books and leads Sensory Logic, Inc. (https://www.sensorylogic.com). To check out his related “Dan Hill’s EQ Spotlight” blog, visit https://emotionswizard.com. Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/dan-hills-eq-spotlight
Today I talked to Jon Levy about his new book You’re Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence (Harper Business, 2021). Jon Levy is a behavioral scientist who over a decade ago founded The Influencer Dinner, a secret dining experience for industry leaders. He’s the author of The 2 AM Principle: Discover the Science of Adventure and has also served as a consultant on influence, connectivity and decision making for companies looking to transform how they do business. This episode starts with discussing Jon’s idea of launching dinners where famous people would come together to cook a meal, talk, and clean up afterwards. It grew from there to covering why connectivity is so important, and what can make an event compelling: generosity, novelty, (good) curation, and the ability to create a sense of awe. Without pushing oneself, in other words, the event can’t by definition be remarkable. Another insight is what Jon calls the IKEA Effect; just as putting your own furniture together makes you commit more to it, so likewise does an event benefit by having people come together in an activity or activities where they feel engaged and hence have a greater sense of belonging. Dan Hill, PhD, is the author of eight books and leads Sensory Logic, Inc. (https://www.sensorylogic.com). To check out his related “Dan Hill’s EQ Spotlight” blog, visit https://emotionswizard.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://newbooksnetwork.supportingcast.fm/new-books-network
Today we sit down with the one and only, Jon Levy, behavioral scientist and author of “You're Invited: The Art and Science of Cultivating Influence”. In this episode, we discuss the SOAR Model, how to engage influential people and the three different types of networker. Jon shares the results of years of research from his various different studies of human behaviour… he touches upon the results of a study of 431 matches from the dating app Hinge, why you are 45% more likely to be obese if you have an obese friend and why the shortcut to changing your behaviour is to simply get around those with the behaviour your strive for. Check out the full episode to learn more about how you… can have more influence over influential people. Who is this episode for? People that want more influence 3 key takeaways: 1. Model for creating a sense of belonging and community: Generosity - give without expectation of return Novelty - unique & make sure you enjoy the activity Curation - diverse, unique backgrounds with zero competition - humbling - sense of accomplishment “Aha” moment - breakthrough moment to change opinion or experience 2. Steps to transitioning from novelty to belonging Discovery - people hear about you (Novelty gets people in the door) Engagement - people show up and interact Membership - gives feeling of belonging and creates true community 3. What makes for an effective invitation and experience: The Ikea Effect - People want to assemble it, earn it themselves, or feel like they're adding value. Information Gap - this gap between your knowledge and what you're being presented with sparks curiosity and intrigue into attending the event/experience. Provide connection and a sense of influence Notable Quotes: “So initially it wasn't even about becoming more influential. That was kind of an end result. For me, it was just about like, how do I get out of debt? How do I lose weight? How do I like meet somebody? I really like, and hold on to that relationship rather than break up after a few weeks. And I figured that the answer was with people... not with just another self-help book title, or I don't know, another personal development course.” “Let's look at Davos, right? Davos is that event where world leaders come together, there is nothing novel about that experience. It is the same old same design, same old experiences, but when you're standing in the snow with Bill Gates and Angela Merkel, that curation is good enough, right?” Rapid fire question answers: 1. What's your favorite book to recommend to others? The Little Prince 2. Who's an up and coming community builder you think is going to do big things? Tina Roth Eisenberg 3. What's your wildest community story? Guessing what people do and she asked if she was a lifesaver - that ended up being the women who saved her life when she was dying of cancer - her song came in the radio and brought her back 4. What's your go-to community engagement starter? A catalyst question. Ex: ‘If you could break any Guinness book of world record, which would it be?' OR ‘When was the last time you acknowledged yourself for being proud of yourself, like you actually said, or thought, ‘I'm really proud of myself' and what was it for?' 5. Who is someone or a few people that you'd like to invite to one of your dinners that you haven't reached yet? Peter Cullen, the voice of optimus prime from transformers; Michelle Obama; Oprah; or Richard Branson. 6. What's a community building technology or app that more people should be using? recommendations are one use a news feature - set follow-ups with people that you like for three months later to send them a note that you're thinking of them and you're a big fan. 7. Weirdest community you've been a part of? Cutco Cutlery - schedule appointments with people to sell them knives. 8. If you're on your death bed and you could only leave one piece of life advice behind for all the future generations, what would that advice be? The greatest predictor of anything we care about is who we're connected to, how much they trust us, and the sense of belonging that we share.