Mind on Matters

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wondered if your partner's opinion should dictate your wardrobe choices? Join me as I unravel this contentious topic, drawing on personal anecdotes and reflections from my own relationships. From discussing the psychology behind women's revealing clothing to examining popular culture examples like Keke Palmer's memorable concert outfit, this episode promises a thought-provoking exploration of fashion, self-expression, and mutual respect in relationships. Plus, get an insider's look at Kendrick Lamar's electrifying Juneteenth performance and my preparations for a big move to Houston.Get ready for a deep dive into the impact of clothing choices on personal and professional perceptions. We'll explore how attire can send unspoken messages and why it matters in contexts ranging from job interviews to social gatherings. Through relatable stories and cultural references, such as the movie "Soul Food," we'll dissect how wardrobe decisions shape how others see us and influence our interactions. This episode challenges the notion that clothing is trivial, illustrating its profound role in communication and relationship dynamics.As the discussion unfolds, we'll also touch on the concept of karma and the importance of staying smart and grounded amid life's challenges. Drawing inspiration from Minister Farrakhan, we reflect on the lessons learned from others' experiences and emphasize the importance of protecting oneself while enjoying life to the fullest. Whether you're navigating fashion choices in a relationship or looking to stay true to yourself in various settings, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt advice. Grab a drink, relax, and join me for an engaging conversation that spans fashion, relationships, and the essence of self-expression.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Ever hidden an Amazon package from your spouse? You're not alone. Join us for a hilarious and heartfelt discussion on navigating household spending habits .Financial secrets can devastate relationships—so how do you tackle financial infidelity? We dive deep into the emotional and financial strain caused by hidden credit card bills and secret bank accounts. With personal anecdotes and humorous tales, we highlight the importance of transparency, trust, and communication in managing joint finances. Explore the gender dynamics at play, the necessity of mutual support, and the crucial need for setting clear financial arrangements to avoid unnecessary strain. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship through honest financial dialogue Curious about the wild dynamics of modern relationships? You won't want to miss our juicy segment on bizarre relationship revelations, including a jaw-dropping social media post that will leave you questioning everything you thought you knew about love. We also celebrate the 30th anniversary of "Sister Act 2" with some nostalgic memories and a heartwarming reunion with Whoopi Goldberg and the cast. Plus, get the latest scoop on the Drake vs. Kendrick Lamar drama, and enjoy some lighthearted banter about smoothie moments with my wife.Intro beat by FINAVILLE BEATS.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

We Back, Mind on Matters family! Strapped in for a ride through the twisting lanes of life's grand highway, we're hitting everything from fatherhood sniffs to the potential big moves—Houston, you might have us soon. With Coach Keisha Williams catching waves on vacation (Happy birthday, Coach!).Strap in as we punch through the cultural thunderstorm that is Kendrick vs. Drake, where bars aren't just dropped, they're meteorites shaking the scene. I'll share my brush with this epic showdown and pivot to a more grave tune, addressing the Diddy and Cassie Ventura drama with a dose of reality and a personal angle that hits close to home. Navigating the choppy waters of domestic violence, we're calling for transparency and reflection on celeb controversies and their ripples through our own experiences.We aren't just about the beats and the tough talks, though—let's break bread over the sacred union of marriage. I'm laying bare the true grit of relationship communication, spilling tales from Reddit and my own diary that'll make you nod, ponder, or just plain holler at the sheer realness of it all. And before we part ways, I'm sending you off with a soulful note on spirituality's role in sticking to life's script—through the temptations, the trials, and the triumphs. Thanks for tuning in, and may your Memorial Day weekend be filled with remembrance and joy. Stay safe out there, fam.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

When love intertwines with the shadow of depression, the dance can be as intricate as it is unpredictable. Keisha, a beacon of professional wisdom, and J Optiks, who has first hand experience with being the depressed spouse, unravel the complexities of supporting a partner who's weathering the storm of mental health. Our candid exchange weaves through the delicate fibers of empathy, understanding, and the pivotal role of self-awareness, all while I share my personal strides in sobriety and the emotional journey of relocating homes. We're peeling back the layers of romantic partnership dynamics, illuminating the path for those navigating the murky waters of a loved one's depression, and emphasizing the importance of maintaining one's own balance amidst it all.Venturing into the realm of dating safety, the conversation takes a sobering yet necessary turn. With my pre-show jitters dissolved by humor and a dash of Taurus-season charm, we confront the stark realities that cases like Harvey Weinstein's bring to the fore. Championing the cause of vigilance, we dissect the contours of consent and privacy, particularly in the star-studded corridors of fame. The intersection of high-profile relationships and personal security beckons a serious examination, and together, Keisha and Optiks chart a course through the treacherous waters of modern dating, anchoring our listeners with tools for safety and empowerment.As the episode reaches its denouement, we turn our gaze inward, reflecting on the art of supporting someone through mental health challenges without the impulse to repair them. The intricate dance between respecting a partner's space and heeding their silent pleas for help becomes our final act. We invite you into a dialogue about the transformative power of being a steadfast presence in your partner's life, and the balance required to hold space for their healing. As we bid farewell, we leave you with a call to continue the conversation on our social platforms, hoping to foster a community where laughter intertwines with earnest support, guiding each step towards brighter days.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Ever found yourself pondering the essence of leadership in the complex dance of relationships? That's exactly where Coach Kesh J Optiks, lead a thought-provoking journey—peeling back the layers on cooperation and personal dynamics. Our candid exchange unpicks the threads of traditional gender roles, as we weave through the narrative that impactful change doesn't necessarily require a colossal network, but rather the concerted effort of a tight-knit team. Sip on the insights as we toast to mental health during National Minority Health Month and Sports Awareness Month, and explore how self-leadership and service to others set the stage for success in intimate partnerships.It's a vibrant mix of storytelling and robust debate, where we shine a light on the balancing act of leadership within relationships. Kesh champions the notion of shared direction, stirring up the dialogue against the backdrop of culturally ingrained expectations. We tackle the nuanced roles both men and women play, not shying away from the complexities of submission and the challenge of setting a respectful tone in communication. The road to a thriving partnership, we uncover, is paved with emotional intelligence and the courage to both lead and submit, pivoting as life's symphony calls for a different tune.As we wrap up this explorative session, the spotlight turns to the keys of sustaining a dynamic relationship where leadership is a shared responsibility. We underscore the critical importance of self-healing and humility, dismantling the ego's barricades to foster a nurturing, responsive bond. Whether you're navigating the highs and lows of partnership or seeking to refine your own leadership compass, this episode promises a treasure trove of insights. So join us on this expedition of growth and healing, where your stories and feedback are the compass guiding our collective journey.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Fifty episodes deep and there's no sign of slowing down—Jay Optiks here with Coach Kesh, and today's show is a toast to milestones and fresh perspectives. As I hit the record button without the haze of a drink to cloud my thoughts, I'm feeling a crisp sense of clarity that's as refreshing as the lemon water in my hand. We're peeling back layers on everything from the "soft girl era" in gender roles to the heavy allegations facing Diddy, all while basking in the Atlanta sun and relishing family moments that have our mental health meters hitting new highs. We navigate the complex interplay of masculinity and femininity in relationships, sharing personal arcs that have seen tomboy tendencies mature into a balanced embrace of softer sides. We're calling on men and women alike to take a hard look at the communication bridges we're building—or watching crumble—in our partnerships. Our candid conversation weaves through the emotional intelligence needed to foster a nurturing environment where vulnerability isn't just allowed but encouraged. And as we unpack the importance of recognizing non-verbal cues and doling out sincere compliments, I'm taking you on a journey through my own marriage, where accountability and wisdom have been pivotal in supporting a space for growth. We cap off our 50th-episode bash with a mix of reflective nostalgia and forward-looking excitement. Reminiscing about pre-digital days and the lessons from yesteryear sets the tone as we express heartfelt gratitude to you, our listeners, who've been with us through thick and thin. I'm eager to hear your thoughts on the topics we've tackled, from the seismic shifts in societal roles to the everyday acts of kindness that keep the flame of relationships burning bright. Let's raise our glasses—be it lemon water or your favorite brew—to the shared journey ahead and the stories yet to be told.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Have you ever found yourself in a tug-of-war between sharing the sweet moments of your relationship online and craving the quiet sanctity of privacy? Grab your favorite drink and join us—J Optiks and Coach Kesh—as we navigate the complexities of modern love in a world where social media reigns supreme. We're pouring out our thoughts, from the pressures of documenting every date night to the quiet power of keeping some memories just for two. And with Coach Kesh dropping  some seasoned insights, this conversation gets as deep as it does lively.Strap in for a raw look at the repercussions that come with fragile egos and public spats. We're not just sipping sangria and cucumber mint lime juice; we're serving up a discussion that might just hit home harder than you'd expect. From the heart-wrenching consequences of private pain aired in public to the wisdom of LeBron and Savannah's discretion, we cover the gamut of what it means to love in the limelight—and the shadows it can cast. As we wrap up this episode, it's all about finding that sweet spot in your own life. Whether you're single and observing or deep in the throes of partnership, we're here to remind you that the line between private joy and public spectacle is one that each couple must navigate for themselves. Let's raise a glass to the art of balance in love—celebrating without oversharing, and cherishing without hiding away. Here's to love, in all its complicated glory.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Ever found yourself pondering whether it's the heady rush of being in love or the quiet comfort of loving someone that's got your heart skipping a beat? Season 4 of Mind On Matters is here with J Optiks  and Coach Kesh, together with the insightful commentary of our new co-host, unpack these layered emotions that often entangle our hearts and minds. Our candid conversations peel back the curtain on how our relationships are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves, the music we listen to, and the societal expectations we grapple with; all while we share a few laughs and personal tales over a drink.In a world where the line between personal choice and responsibility seems ever-blurring, we turn our attention to the legal complexities of the Unborn Child Support Act. This legislation has us fired up, dissecting the ramifications for fatherhood and the balance of fairness in child support laws. We go beyond the headlines as we reflect on the nuances of sexual partner selection and the societal shift this controversial act could signify. And in true Mind On Matters fashion, we don't shy away from sharing our personal connections to the topic, adding depth to the debate.Wrapping up, we're not just here to talk; we're here to engage with you, our cherished listeners. Consider this your open invitation to join our community conversation, whether through a glowing review, a heartfelt email, or a suggestion for future episodes. Your thoughts and feedback are the lifeblood of our show, and together we're crafting a space that's as inclusive as it is illuminating. So, let's keep the dialogue going and continue to connect, sharing in the madness and the wonder of this thing we call life.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Ok so we got people out here who ae too good for certain restaurants for a first date it seems. So we discuss entitlement, going "all out" on dates and does a woman's attractiveness dictate where you take her.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

This pregame we politic about where to go and NOT to go for a first date.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Is Jada dragging Will for respect or she just really got the whole promo run thing F'd up!?PLUS do you feel like taking "breaks" are truly beneficial toward reconciliation?Our guest:  Keshia Williams (author/ podcaster/life coach)LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Get right before the get right! This jawn we gearing up for the main show with our whiskey selection of the week and why o why do yall negroes think fast food chains should offer yall a fine dining experience.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

We heavy on the new Drake album "For All The Dogs". We review its musical content, all its messiness and whether or not this should be has last official album.Plus are petty n**gaz in style now?LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Ayo there was a lot of freaky shit going on this last week! Grab a cup we finna pregame before All The Dogs get here.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Influencer Brittany Renner recently disclosed on a podcast she let 35 men frolic in her wet garden. Are we at a point where we care way to much about a women's body count?Does the number change your approach and intentions?Is there a such thing as too many partners?What matters more....how many they slept with vs who they've slept with?ALSOTaylor Swift and Travis Kelce are reportedly linked romantically. Which got the boys thinking..."Would you be able to handle a relationship if your woman was wayyyy more popping than you"?LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Welcome to our first pregame episode! This is where we will get right before the  official episodes. We chat it up about randomness, get our drinks together and give you the listener some time to get situated before the show.In this pregame we pour up the drink of the week Bulliet Bourbon and talk about the new slang words officially added to the Merriam Webster dictionaryLIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

SEASON 3! The boys are back and mannn we was running that new Drake ft SZA record "Slime You Out" upward! Lot of gems and interesting scenarios to breakdown in the lyrics for this song. PLUS Hot Girl/Boy Summer is officially over, make sure you get yourself tested and clean out your phone with your nasty a**.LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Let's stroll down the road of the practice Ethical Non Monogamy. Gaining popularity by younger generations, it is the practice of being committed but having consent to explore sexual and/or emotional options outside of your main relationship. What's the pros and cons in the long term?Plus We have found a new Jussie Smollett Would you let somebody Lena The Plug ya wife?LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

The movie is "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" and the topic for the day is: "Is it worth it to expand your dating reach to include overseas candidates?" We have to also talk about the sandals in this movie being offensive.PLUSKeke Palmer baby daddy tripping or nah?LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

We check out the Netflix movie "The Perfect Find" and find out that what we already knew....aint no such thing as perfect. (Audio isn't perfect this episode bear with us sorry lol)LIKE OUR CONTENT? FOLLOW OR IG PAGE @MINDONMATTERS!!! ALSO Consider rating our show on whatever platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......MINDONMATTERSPODCAST@GMAIL.COM

Rest in Peace to the Queen of Rock Tina Turner! This episode we analyze the movie "What's Love Got To Do With It" to discuss how sometimes for we men can be emotional abusive to our women without even knowing it.Plus Zion out here dunking in between pornstars legs. Booomshakalaka!LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

Today we debate the concept of your significant other also playing the role of being your "best friend". Are there pros and cons to this set up?PLUSRest in Peace to THE LEGEND Jim BrownThe legend of Ja Morant continuesWe review the legendary Uncle Nearest Whiskey LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

What happens when seduction overflows and leads to a desire for more than just sex?This week we watch the rom com classic "Boomerang" starring Eddie Murphy and discuss that very topic. Plus we give you some keys to how to navigate those emotions.LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

The boys debate whether or not marriage life is a prison and if outside temptation is too much for a man to ignore.LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

Ayo! This show we watching the classic "Soul Food" and discussing the impact of finances on failed relationships. Was Bird in the wrong for having her ex man Simuel (lol) help Lem with getting a job??What does it look like being financially abused in a relationship?LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

"Jody my Jody". Before Chad's and Tyrone's there was Jody from the movie "Baby Boy"! There was soooo much toxicity in his relationship with Yvette that we use it as a opportunity to discuss toxicity in relationships and why the hell are they so damn attractive to some people.ALSO:  Critiquing women in bed, how herpes is more common than you think, and we review a whiskey from Crown Royal's Noble Collection (Winter Wheat).LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

The movie Love and Basketball will be the focus this week as a jumping off point to the larger conversation to be had around chemistry, "The One" and  how your upbringing effects how you show up in relationships. PLUSIs you is or is you aint finna cop that new R Kelly????LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

We back and we got "Unfinished Business", no pun intended....well maybe a little. This week marks our first week of rebranding the show!!! We will be breaking down the 1999 black romance comedy "The Best Man". This movie is messy af so that leaves many things to discuss in regards to love and relationships today! We also debate whether or not some things are better off left unsaid to your partner. Would you take certain things to the grave to preserve your relationship??All that plus, Kanye/CP3, Good Morning America and whether or not you applying for the new hot job in NYC.LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

Payroll booty, colleague conjugation, office hanky panky.....mannnnn look we have all had our share of getting intimate with people at our jobs. Though considered taboo by most employers the numbers say workplace romance is at an all time high EVEN AFTER THE PANDEMI"! What are some of the pros, cons and rules of the game if you're going to do it? PLUS we share some of our most memorable situations of linking up with the "friend at work".LIKE OUR CONTENT? Consider rating our show on whatver platform you listen on! It really helps our exposure and gives others who might want to listen easier access to our showWE'RE ON YOUTUBE!!! Just search "Mind on Matters Podcast" for video versions of our episodes. And while you're there why not subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay up to date on all our uploads!WANT TO BE ON THE SHOW OR COLLAB? Shoot us an inbox on IG, Facebook or our email address......mindonmatterspodcast@gmai.com

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DPG and  NOV take dive in relationships topic such as heart break from early age and women being in masculine energy. Shout out to J.OPs, he wasn't able to be in attendance but tune in to his reaction. Recorded live at 4city brewing in Orange, NJ. 

Is cheating so common that it should be accepted as a part of the relationship to some degree? We chop it up about that plus  forgiveness, smashing co workers and morehttps://linktr.ee/mindonmattersSHIRTS: @mypinsandneedles (IG)

What's the 3 most important lessons you wished you learned in your late teens/twenties? Would you pay to get that time back with all the knowledge you know now? "Swipe the card!"LINKS: https://linktr.ee/mindonmattersGUEST APPERANCES/FEEDBACK/QUESTIONS: mindonmatterspodcast@gmail.comCHECK OUT THE HOMIES CLOTHING LINE: RF84.COM USE DISCOUNT CODE "MINDONMATTERS"PLEASE RATE OUR SHOW ON WHATEVER PLATFORM YOU LISTEN ON, HIT THE LIKE BUTTON IF YOU FEELIN US!

Having all the attributes associated with being a masculine man (strength, courage, leadership) can be a beautiful thing....until you start over doing it! Suppressing emotions or using violence as a indicator of power is toxic. All that plus a story on how somebody almost died over a snowball lol.YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG9UVbVphpPpHj1vlayKwlg/featuredEMAIL: mindonmatterspodcast@gmail.comMerchandise-  RF84.COM (USE PROMO CODE MINDONMATTERS)

"All good things must come to an end." This week  we talmbout breakup etiquette, how long you should wait before you get a new bae and also the 5 stages of grieving someone. Michael B Jordan HOLD YA HEAD SON!

How did porn from the late 90s/early 2000's effect the sex game? Also, the younger generations lack of sexual education and which pornstars deserve to be on MT. Rushmore...SOCIALS: linktr.ee/mindonmattersWE HAVE A YOUTUBE CHANNEL!!!  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG9UVbVphpPpHj1vlayKwlgBE SURE TO L IKE AND SUBSCRIBE IT ONLY TAKES 3,9 SECONDSVisit RF84.com and get you some fresh threads for the summer. Use discount code MINDONMATTERS

From the weighing of the pros and cons , love,  family court, and "playing house" the boys chop it up about why would a man today want to get married.

The gang is back to chop it up about what exactly does "bringing something to table" means in dating.  Also, what should every man and female bring to this mysterious table....besides an appetite.Follow us:IG: @mindonmattersYoutube: Mind On MattersFacebook: Mind On MattersAll questions, comments, suggestions or to be a guest email us mindonmatterspodcast@gmail.com

Season 2 is finally here with TWO brand new host! This episode we talk about the dating scene in 2022 and why you might wanna get yourself a lifejacket.

Well that escalated quickly! People been at my head saying,  1. "Great episode! Casual sex talk was needed and refreshing" and 2. "How the hell you ain't have a woman on the show to discuss! That's BS!" Be easy on me damn, you're covered! I invited on respected romance coach Te'amo Blakley to discuss casual sex, stigmas women face, how to communicate your needs and doing it while hanging off a chandelier......wait.......what?! 

Things get more....."interesting" when the strings aren't attached huh? We've been told to keep sex conservative and wait till your married or BLAH BLAH BLAH! Sex is simply more interesting when your able to use and discard as you see fit. But does your freaky, kinky, promiscuous side have its consequences  in regards to your mental and emotional well being?  Probably, but who doesn't like orgasms right?! Bring a bottle of wine and keep your sneaky link on standby  WE GOING IN ( and out) ON CASUAL SEX!Show ideas or to guest appear email mindonmatterspodcast@gmail.com

Ahhhhh "The Devils Lettuce"! Such a polarizing plant, maybe the most debated drug in the world. The list of ailments that it treats is growing by the year and there's still so much we don't know about it. How does it effect kids? What are the medicinal benefits? In what ways does it alter our mental state? In the interest of science and having firsthand knowledge of the subject....your boy has decided to record this episode HIGH! I'm smoking that MIND ON MATTERS PACKKKKK...…I'm dizzy.Show ideas or want to come on the show? Email me @ mindonmatterspodcast@gmail.com

We all have got our poison of choice don't we? Those things that help take the edge off, help mask our insecurities and traumas, or simply bring ourselves pleasure in a world where we're constantly  getting beat over the head with bad news and past due bills. Well ease of access to our vices is getting well.....easier. What happens  to us when the poison is on demand? This episodes lets tackle how we can take steps to have less vices and add more virtues. Leave the wine, you won't need it this time.mindonmatters@gmail.com for show ideas or to guest on the show

1 out of 4 people deal with a mental health disorder, many of whom have the same romantic desires as the rest of the world. So that makes the odds of being in a relationship with someone who suffers from "something" very high. But what's the best way to be good partner in a relationship with someone with a disorder? I try to break it down.Also a guest interview with authors Christina and Eddie Sledge  to discuss their new book "Christina and I". Also, we delve in to topic of dealing with your partners trauma as a team and what has allowed their marriage to work after a bevy of twist and turns.  Bring wine.......and bae!To give show feedback, submit question or topics or to be guest on the podcast email me......mindonmatters@gmail.com

We're human, we wired with blindspots. Certain ideas and values we have are based on nothing other than bias. Not facts, not experience, or reliable historical reference....just plain ol' "this is how I feel and I'm not changing my mind". It is important to recognize the biases we all have as a way to continue our growth as people. Lets dig into some popular ones, and some ones you've never heard up. To give show ideas or come on as a guest email mindonmatters@gmail.com

You've made the decision to seek therapy!? YEAAA! That's a major life level up right there and I like it, no I love it,  but...you looking for a black therapist? Good luck! Finding a same race doctor for minorities can be wild ride but no worries, your boy J Optiks and Dr. Latoya Gaines has your back. We discuss the importance of same race therapy and also what questions you should be asking if you are embarking on cross race therapy. "Lock in cause the Docs in". Throw your chicken in the air fryer and lets get it!Please rate and subscribe. If you really like it share on social media and tag @mindonmatters or #mindonmatters. I'll love you forever I promise.As always send show ideas, feedback or inquiries to be a guest on the show to mindonmatters@gmail.com

Ever experience a  daydream so daydream-y that you become completely transfixed in one spot for minutes? Or maybe you was speaking once but the words in your sentence temporarily got jumbled up. Glitches in the brain matrix is real out here. Join me on a quick journey into some crazy ass brain phenomena's. Think fast!Hey got feedback, suggestions, or would like to be a guest? Email me @ mindonmatterspodcast@gmail.com and lets build!

Don't you love that feeling when you have "that" song playing in your headphones at the perfect time and place? Or how about when you that euphoric feeling that comes over you right before the concert starts? Well music is many things but it does wonders on the human brain and I'd like to share some of it with you. PLUS I have a truly dear friend Hip Hop ambassador and host of The Rhythm and The Rebel Show, Jaz Wonder stops by to chop it up about Hip Hop, how its change over the years and how lyrical content may be more harmful than we think. Bring wine.....and weed! 

Wait....a "relationship guru" caught up in cheating scandal?! Wait, he apologized in third person?!  Well with every tragedy of the heart there's opportunity to learn from it. This week I use the Derrick "Fraud Boy" Jaxn situation as teaching/learning moment about infidelity. Hey Siri, play "Creep" by TLC.

Dirty politics, racism, virus outbreaks, and gun violence are scary enough. But the true crisis in America is the absence of fathers in the household. We have reached a level of crisis and need to discuss. Special surprise interview with a special guest!!!!

Stigmas, prejudice and discrimination still persist around mental illness and those burdened by it. How can we continue to open conversations, debunk myths and make all cultures open and accepting to something that affects 1 out of 4 people in the world? Well......you start by listening to Mind on Matters......duh. I'm just by special guest Natasha Pierre as she shares her story and what we can do to all be better advocates.