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Today Kait is joined by Carrie Loyd and Kat Harris to talk about their dating lives, specifically, non-exclusive dating.  Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . .  A quick thank you to one of our friends! Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kat discusses being a single woman in her 30s, online dating, dating apps, and debunking myths of christians using dating platforms. She shares online dating tips, myths, and her favorite online dating story. Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdating Subscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest  Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library  Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB! https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast  Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness https://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en . . . . .  A quick thank you to one of our friends! Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Season 3: Episode 25 What does sex look like as we step outside of purity culture in the evangelical system? This week, Mike visits with Kat Harris, Coach and Author of the book Sexless in the City as they explore what sex looks like in and after the deconstruction process. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Everything Numa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Kat Harris: Instagram; Patreon

Kat's episode on her new book "Sexless in the City" discusses toxic culture, modesty, masturbation, and sexuality and sexual desire Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Want to WATCH the podcast? We're now on YouTube!  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGw Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends! Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://faithfulcounseling.com/heartofdating Compassion International: Do you have a burning desire to be a parent but feel stuck in singleness? Do you want to make a lasting, powerful impact in your life as a single? We are a proud partner of Compassion International. Our community of singles has sponsored hundreds of kids all around the world, and we'd love to invite you to join us on this compelling mission. http://compassion.com/heartofdating

In this episode, Kat talks about: what led her to question the sexual script she'd learned in purity culturehow she moved from shame and fear into freedomthe difference between the desire for sex and sexual desireand what to do with our sexual desire as people who are singleKat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, author of Sexless in the City, and Founder of the online platform The Refined Woman. She has also been a full-time photographer for over a decade with her work featured in: The New York Times, WWD, Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK and more.We recorded this episode back in 2021, but the content is truly evergreen.You can follow Kat on Instagram @therefinedwoman and @therefinedcollective. Check out her podcast, The Refined Collective, wherever you listen. Sexless in the City is available wherever you buy books. And you can check out her many resources on her website, therefinedwoman.com. Weddings can bring up all sorts of feelings for us single folks. If you have a friend getting married soon, head to marybsafrit.com and get your free copy of "My Friend's Wedding: A pre-wedding guided reflection for single Christians.Buzzsprout - Let's launch your podcast! Get started for FREE!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

What is "hook-up culture" and why is it so controversial? We chat with beloved author and podcast host Kat Harris about the good, the bad, and the ugly of casual sex in relationships.   References in episode: https://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/02/ce-corner https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-partners-and-marital-happiness/573493/?utm_campaign=the-atlantic&utm_content=true-anthem&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook&fbclid=IwAR3OlM7br8k2CKPpKDEdceYPmAHBqf221a5szkkFcl66MfeEWjuVwrFLgMw  

We are kicking off episode 2 of our mini-series on paradigm shifts in church culture by having a conversation with Kat Harris. Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, author of Sexless in the City, and Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. She has also been a full-time photographer for over a decade with her work featured in: The New York Times, WWD, Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK and more. In everything she does, her goal is to create a safe space to have honest and layered conversations around faith, sexuality, relationships, culture, identity, and everything in-between. Kat doesn't pretend to be an expert, or to have all the answers. Far from it. And though it may feel more convenient to have easy black-and-white answers, she invites you to discover God in the grey and unexpected spaces. Her hope is to look doubt in the face, be curious, seek God, and ask meaningful questions to address any ‘elephant in the room' with openness, nuance and grace. To learn more about Kat and her work, you can visit www.therefinedwoman.com and research her book at sexlessinthecitybook.com Have an idea for a future episode, or a story you want to share? I'd love to hear from you! Please write to us at darlingthepodcast@gmail.com. Music by Hymns of the People can be found here at Spotify or Apple Music Hosted by Anchor: It's everything you need to make a podcast all in one place for free! Download the free Anchor app or go to Anchor.fm to get started. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

We are kicking off episode 2 of our mini-series on paradigm shifts in church culture by having a conversation with Kat Harris. Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, author of Sexless in the City, and Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. She has also been a full-time photographer for over a decade with her work featured in: The New York Times, WWD, Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK and more. In everything she does, her goal is to create a safe space to have honest and layered conversations around faith, sexuality, relationships, culture, identity, and everything in-between. Kat doesn't pretend to be an expert, or to have all the answers. Far from it. And though it may feel more convenient to have easy black-and-white answers, she invites you to discover God in the grey and unexpected spaces. Her hope is to look doubt in the face, be curious, seek God, and ask meaningful questions to address any ‘elephant in the room' with openness, nuance and grace. To learn more about Kat and her work, you can visit www.therefinedwoman.com and research her book at sexlessinthecitybook.com Have an idea for a future episode, or a story you want to share? I'd love to hear from you! Please write to us at darlingthepodcast@gmail.com. Music by Hymns of the People can be found here at Spotify or Apple Music Hosted by Anchor: It's everything you need to make a podcast all in one place for free! Download the free Anchor app or go to Anchor.fm to get started. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

In this episode, we're talking about sex! There's a lot of talk about sex in our culture today—in fact, nearly every part of our day-to-day experience is saturated with it. But are there biblical guidelines for sex? How can Christians, or women of faith, view or take part in sex, especially as it pertains to our relationships and dating? Author and blogger Kat Harris specializes in this conversation. She joins Darlene and Julie this week to address the long-held notion that sexuality is sinful. She shares what the Bible has to say about sex, intimacy, love and pleasure outside of just procreation. Kat will tell you that sex isn't bad; it's actually part of God's careful attention to detail and His desire for us to live abundantly. If your understanding of sex includes purity culture and the idea that our bodies are inherently bad for craving physical connection, we encourage you to take a listen to this different, insightful perspective. Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and co-founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book, Sexless in the City, came out last year. In addition to being a full-time photographer, she coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace. Kat loves God, personal development, a good Beyoncé dance party, and is a ranch dressing connoisseur. You can find Kat on Instagram @therefinedwoman and on her website therefinedwoman.com. Quote of the episode: “What I think is so beautiful about sex is it has the capacity to be this physical manifestation of this mind-body-soul-spirit commitment, connection, and relationship." —Kat Harris Resources —Grab a copy of Kat's book, Sexless in the City Kat's recommended reads: —The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire —Girls & Sex by Peggy Orenstein —Boys & Sex by Peggy Orenstein —Redeeming Sex by Debra Hirsch Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

In this episode, we're talking about sex! There's a lot of talk about sex in our culture today—in fact, nearly every part of our day-to-day experience is saturated with it. But are there biblical guidelines for sex? How can Christians, or women of faith, view or take part in sex, especially as it pertains to our relationships and dating? Author and blogger Kat Harris specializes in this conversation. She joins Darlene and Julie this week to address the long-held notion that sexuality is sinful. She shares what the Bible has to say about sex, intimacy, love and pleasure outside of just procreation. Kat will tell you that sex isn't bad; it's actually part of God's careful attention to detail and His desire for us to live abundantly. If your understanding of sex includes purity culture and the idea that our bodies are inherently bad for craving physical connection, we encourage you to take a listen to this different, insightful perspective. Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and co-founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book, Sexless in the City, came out last year. In addition to being a full-time photographer, she coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace. Kat loves God, personal development, a good Beyoncé dance party, and is a ranch dressing connoisseur. You can find Kat on Instagram @therefinedwoman and on her website therefinedwoman.com. Quote of the episode: “What I think is so beautiful about sex is it has the capacity to be this physical manifestation of this mind-body-soul-spirit commitment, connection, and relationship." —Kat Harris Resources —Grab a copy of Kat's book, Sexless in the City Kat's recommended reads: —The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire —Girls & Sex by Peggy Orenstein —Boys & Sex by Peggy Orenstein —Redeeming Sex by Debra Hirsch Be sure to follow us on social media! Facebook Instagram Twitter Pinterest #gritandgracelife

Every one of us grew up somewhere on the spectrum in regards to how we think about our sexuality. Did you feel shame about it? Did you feel like it was always in the driver's seat of your life? It is not God's will for you to live in shame in ANY area of your life. You were made to steward your sexuality, not fear or be controlled by it. In this solo episode, I talk about the pattern of fear in Christian women's lives & what God thinks about sexuality. We also debunk common misconceptions: Is sex really a “man's need”? Are lust & sexual desire related? How do you steward your sexual desire well? Become a subscriber: https://anchor.fm/jenny-marcum/subscribe Resources: 1. Come As You Are by Emily Nagaski https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090 2. Sexless in the City by Kat Harris https://therefinedwoman.com/sexless-in-the-city 3. The Gift of Sex by Clifford & Joyce Penner https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Sex-Guide-Sexual-Fulfillment/dp/0849944155 4. Studies of Sexual Education https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3194801/ https://www.publichealth.columbia.edu/public-health-now/news/abstinence-only-education-failure https://www.advocatesforyouth.org/wp-content/uploads/storage/advfy/documents/fsabstinenceonly.pdf --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Hey friends! Welcome to Girls Night! I'm so excited about today's episode. Today we're talking about online dating and how to do it well! So, here's the thing, I think we fall into a few different camps when it comes to the topic of online dating. A lot of us want to try online dating, but we are totally nervous about it. We don't know if it's the right fit, the right next step, and we're not sure how to do it successfully. On the other hand, I know there are a lot of us who have really given online dating a try and we have come out the other side totally exhausted, discouraged, and burned out. It's just not working. Friend, I promise, whatever group you find yourself in, you're not alone there. Today's conversation is going to dig deep into the fears and frustrations we have about online dating, while also giving us lots of encouragement – the kind of encouragement that might even have you reconsider your outlook on online dating altogether! And the woman who's going to walk us through this is a Girls Night favorite and my dear friend, Kat Harris. Kat is the Co-Founder of the online publication, The Refined Woman, and host of The Refined Collective Podcast. She's also the author of an amazing book called, Sexless in the City. Kat is the go-to expert when it comes to online dating. I had the honor of helping out with a workshop she did about online dating a few months ago, and as I was listening to her teach, her knowledge, wisdom, and insight seriously blew me away. In this episode, Kat's going to teach us how to shift our mindsets and attitudes around online dating, how to set up our dating profiles so that we stand out, how to make our online dating experience better, and so much more! I can't wait to share this with you!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's face it. Being single in today's culture as a woman of faith can be a struggle. Kat Harris shares how to navigate today's dating culture with vision, clarity, and freedom. Kat Harris is a woman who's never shied away from doing things her way. From Bible major to editorial photographer to educator, and now the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, her vision is to be a voice of truth and hope while equipping women to walk in wholeness, worthiness, and freedom. Kat's latest project is her brand new book, Sexless in the City: A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex.   "I didn't know if God had anything really compelling to say about sex.” ~ Kat Harris   CONNECT with Kat Harris BOOK: Sexless in the City Enjoy the multitude of topics discussed including connection, sexual intimacy, wholistic beings, respect, plus so much more. Nature Connection NYC to Austin Photographer Christian Culture Set of rules Creation story (Genesis) Equality Romans 12:1 Proverbs 31 Women Leadership Sexual Intimacy Abstinence Holistic beings What is sex? Peggy Orenstein Not enough Fear or Freedom Respect   CONNECT with Kat Harris BOOK: Sexless in the City   "The Bible has a very dynamic, robust vision for intimacy and relationships, and even for women." ~ Kat Harris #MyStrengthIsMyStory #CreateYourNow #KatHarris Quotes and statements within the interview: "So I wrote a book in the pandemic." "I like to say that Christianity was sort of the air I breathed." "I really didn't start questioning a lot of those narratives until my mid-to-late twenties when I moved to New York City." "We're gonna ask. We're gonna doubt. And it was scary." "Most things I had learned from Christian culture felt as though to be a woman in the church was to be a liability." "But in that space, I encountered a more loving, expansive God than I could have ever imagined." "My body isn't bad." "I think what happens in the church is that we flatten sexuality and make sexuality just about sex." "There's a holistic mind, body, spirit invitation from God about who we are." "I think sexuality is so much more than sex."  "If God is not ashamed of sex, we should not be ashamed of sex." "I came to the concluding that sex is more than one physical act." "I just think God is very concerned with our hearts." "We're constantly too much and not enough." "God can handle questions."   What has your story gifted you? Freedom Being a woman "For a long time, it felt like being a woman felt like my greatest liability. And now through my story, I've realized, it's my greatest asset." "God created me woman and what a beautiful thing. That's not holding me back." 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Kat Harris joins us and we talk about her book Sexless in the City. We also talk about the Super Bowl half time show and spend way to much time talking about Ranch dressing. She closes us out with a great devotional on Hagar and the God who sees. 

*Mature content warning*   Joseph Holmes and Nathan Clarkson invite back author and podcast host Kat Harris to discuss whether porn is as bad as people say, and of so, why people are so drawn to it.

LET'S TALK ABOUT DATING IN YOUR 20'S AND 30'S.

Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, author of Sexless in the City, and Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. In everything she does, her goal is to create a safe space to have honest and layered conversations around faith, sexuality, relationships, culture, identity, and everything in-between. Find Kat on Instagram at @therefinedwoman and @therefinedcollective.

Anyone else forget how to flirt in the pandemic? February is the month of love and we dig below the surface with Dating Coach, Author (“Sexless in the City”) and podcaster Kat Harris (“The Refined Woman”). Kat is all about real talk and straight wisdom about singleness, sex and desire. We talk about life, love, online dating, heartache and how being single in today's dating culture as a woman of faith can be a real STRUGGLEFEST. Kat shares, “Valentines Day is coming and that can be very triggering. Some people think it's a marketing scam or Singles Awareness Day, but I've always loved Valentine's Day. I don't think the timing has ever worked out that I've had a boyfriend on Valentine's Day, but I love love! Sure, I want to be in a relationship right now, but so much of life is about how we choose to show up. What better day to look at what's possible? Instead of saying as a single person, ‘I'm 36, another Valentine's Day bites the dust, another year my ovaries are in overdrive,' I can choose to look at all of the love all around me and believe if God can do that for them, He can do that for me." On March 29, 2020, just after the world began to lockdown the popular dating app Tinder broke its record for the most activity in a single day, with more than 3 billion swipes. Online dating is on the rise and Kat talks about her 3 Month Online Dating Challenge, her go-to dating apps and her best advice to be successful with online dating. Kat also shares about her recent break up with complete transparency and vulnerability, and how going through the heartache that her clients experience ultimately made her a better dating coach. Kat reveals, “My biggest breakthrough was realizing that I was honest in my relationship, but I wasn't vulnerable. There's a big difference. My only regret was that I didn't love more fully. This break up cracked my heart open. I'm lonely right now. Sometimes I need other people to believe for me. But like scripture says, hope doesn't put me to shame. Love is always worth the risk.

Sponsored by Faithful Counseling: http://faithfulcounseling.com/tiffanydawn - Today we're talking with Kat Harris about masturbation, sexuality, and how to deconstruct purity culture while keeping a biblical approach to sex! SO EXCITED about this one!! Welcome back to the "Outgrowing the Good Christian Girl" podcast! XOXO, TiffanyHERE ARE OUR QUESTIONS:Q1: When you grew up in the height of purity culture, what was your approach to sexuality? (@3:03)Q2: What was the fruit of that approach, and the shame you felt? (@8:01)Q3: Let's talk about contentment and when we're trying to mask our longing for a relationship with spiritual language... (@15:54)Q4: What aha moment led you to deconstruct your view of sexuality? (@18:43) Q5: What does the Bible say about sexuality as a whole, and about the human body? (@24:31)Q6: How did you come to understand the Bible's message about premarital sex? (@36:56)Q7: What does the Bible say about masturbation? (@45:35)OTHER RESOURCES:⭐️Podcast episodes on masturbation: https://therefinedwoman.com/podcasts-all/part-i-is-masturbation-a-sinhttps://therefinedwoman.com/podcasts-all/part-ii-is-masturbation-a-sin⭐️Kat's Instagram: @therefinedwoman ⭐️Kat's book: https://amzn.to/3zAPSnP(

Join Kat Harris and Kait Warman as they talk all about how to make the most of online dating and how to avoid swiping into an oblivion. Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City hit bookstores April 2021. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture.  Ultimately, Kat's vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status.  Are you always saying that there are no ‘good Christian singles'? We have hundreds of eligible singles in our Drop the Hanky Dating Program!  Women: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-girls  Men: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-guys Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . .  A quick thank you to some of our friends Upward: Our favorite dating app! It's a catered community of faith-focused singles looking for a real meaningful relationship to lead to marriage. Be sure + download their app in the app store: https://dateupward.me/HoDPodcast Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://getfaithful.com/heartofdating

Join Kat Harris and Kait Warman as they talk all about how to make the most of online dating and how to avoid swiping into an oblivion. Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City hit bookstores April 2021. She has also been a full-time photographer for the last decade with her work featured in: The New York Times, WWD, Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK, and more. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. Kat loves God, personal development, a good Beyoncé dance party, + is a Ranch dressing connoisseur. She believes in the power of story, that done is better than perfect, quality triumphs quantity, and that the journey truly is the destination. Ultimately, her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status. Are you always saying that there are no ‘good Christian singles'? We have hundreds of eligible singles in our Drop the Hanky Dating Program! Women: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-girls Men: https://www.heartofdating.com/dth-guys Crushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest: https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library! https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3E59cLQ Want to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram: http://instagram.com/heartofdating http://instagram.com/kaitness . . . . . A quick thank you to some of our friends! Upward: Our favorite dating app! It's a catered community of faith-focused singles looking for a real meaningful relationship to lead to marriage. Be sure + download their app in the app store: https://dateupward.me/HoDPodcast Faithful Counseling: Our #1 resource for affordable, reliable, Christian therapy. You can get 10% off your first month by going to http://getfaithful.com/heartofdating

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Are there pressing questions on your mind about your sexuality as a single Christian woman but you don't know where to have that open and honest conversation? On this episode of the Better Together Podcast, Barb talks with author and podcast host, Kat Harris, who has a passion for coming alongside women and helping them understand God's good design for sex while also saying goodbye to sexual shame.  In this conversation we talk about ALL.THE.THINGS. and don't shy away from questions like, "What is sex?", "Is it okay to masturbate?", and, "Is anyone else still waiting for marriage?" Prepare for a power-packed, vulnerable and grace-filled conversation.   RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE Kat's Website Sexless In The City The Refined Collective Podcast Instagram: @therefinedwoman   ABOUT OUR SPECIAL GUEST Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City will hit bookstores April 2021. She has also been a full-time photographer for the last decade with her work featured in: Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK, and more. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. Kat loves God, personal development, a good Beyoncé dance party, + is a Ranch dressing connoisseur. She believes in the power of story, that done is better than perfect, quality triumphs quantity, and that the journey truly is the destination. Ultimately, her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status.

Thank you Newsstand Studio at 1 Rockefeller Plaza for providing a place for me to record this episode for y'all! No more Brooklyn closet recording!!!   If you have watched Gwyneth Paltrow's Netflix show “S*x, Love & Goop,” then you may recognize today's podcast guests: Jaiya and Ian! Jaiya is an award-winning somatic s*xologist and creator of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™, which was very transformative for me. Ian Ferguson is Jaiya's life and business partner and the co-founder of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™. I am so excited to be talking with them both today about the erotic blueprint, the 5 erotic blueprints, and whether s*xual incompatibility is actually a thing.   “Maybe we're actually going to have an intelligent mature conversation about s*x in our culture. Maybe we're finally ready to have that conversation.” - Jaiya   What is a Somatic S*xologist? Someone who can help you understand who you are as a s*xual being. This knowledge can get rid of the layers of shame. “Soma” means “of the body.” “It's the body telling the truth, not the idea of what we think might be pleasurable or unpleasurable.” - Ian We have intellectualized sex too much— everybody is different as erotic beings.   The Erotic Blueprint  The Erotic Blueprint (it's a free quiz friend) will give you a language to communicate your desires as a s*xual being. Don't worry, even if there are questions in the quiz about s*xual experiences you haven't had, Jaiya teaches us how to connect with and answer them honestly.   “How can I move forward in this s*xual/romantic relationship and stay connected to myself, God, and others? How can I set myself up for success whatever my s*xual ethic may be?” - Kat Harris   The 5 Erotic Blueprints  Energetic— turned on by the anticipation.  Sensual— turned on by all senses being ignited. S*xual— turned on by penetration. Kinky— turned on by anything that's taboo. Shapeshifter— turned on by all of it!   S*xual Compatibility vs Chemistry/Attraction If you're waiting for marriage to have s*x, you don't have to worry about s*xual incompatbility because you can work at it.   “It's not incompatibility— it is... are you willing to do what it takes to learn the skills to honor your partner in what it is that turns them on for both of you in the relationship?” - Jaiya   Chemistry— we are biochemically attracted to other people and this can change based on scents the person is wearing or whether a woman is on birth control.   “S*x is natural, but making love is an art.” - Ian   Rapid Fire Questions What makes good s*x? Presence, listening, willingness, awareness When is it a good time to start talking about s*x with your significant other? Right away. How do you approach the conversation? Vulnerability, create safety, stay in a place of non-judgement. What are some fun foreplay experiences? Brainstorm ideas based on your archetypes! For example, energetics should play with eye gaze and sensuals should do deep penetrating massages or bathe together.  Resources Take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz here. S*xless in the City by Kat Harris Why Him? Why Her? By Helen Fisher Slow S*x by Diane Richardson Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski She Comes First by Ian Kerner Girls & S*x by Peggy Orenstein Boys & S*x by Peggy Orenstein The Great S*x Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire Keep up with Jaiya on IG at @missjaiya. Check out Rockefeller Center on IG at @rockefellercenter and Twitter at @rockcenternyc I am such a fan of dainty, feminine, delicate jewelry. I also am a firm believer that the physical is always an invitation to the spiritual. This is why I am so excited to be partnering with NYC-based, female-founded jewelry company Satya. Satya means “truth” in Sanskrit and all of their pieces are designed to bring joy, peace, and hope. To dive into the beautiful world of Satya jewelry, visit www.satyajewelry.com and use promo code RC15 for 15% off your first order.   This past year, I've been trying to perfect some recipes I can have in my back pocket when I have company. In all of these experiences, I realized how important it is to have good cooking tools. I just got a brand new knife set from Made In Cookware and it has been life-changing. Go to MadeInCookware.com/kat and use promo code KAT for 15% off your first order! We invest large amounts of money into our careers. But with things like love, we think “It'll happen when it happens,” and with things like kids, we think “I'll think about that down the road.” What if we were just as intentional about our reproductive health as we are our careers? Modern Fertility is an easy way to test your fertility with an at-home test at a fraction of the cost. Go to ModernFertility.com/refined for $20 off your fertility test.

Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City hit bookstores April 2021. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. She believes in the power of story, that done is better than perfect, quality triumphs quantity, and that the journey truly is the destination. Ultimately, her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status. @deconstruct.pod @therefinedwoman @laurendeleary @adamfrost.official https://linktr.ee/therefinedwoman

To join our Patreon group, click here To subscribe to the Chatologie newsletter, click here Sign up for the Enjoy God's Word Conference Welcome back to the show. Today, Angie is chatting with Kat Harris. Kat is an author, podcaster, and photographer who lives in New York! Kat isn't afraid to ask the hard questions, and her passions are centered around empowering and equipping single christian women to embrace their singleness into today's culture.    On today's episode with Kat, Angie has a conversation about:  Deconstructing and reconstructing the Church  Getting to the root of faith and values Navigating Christianity in today's culture    Mentioned in this episode: Sexless in the City by Kat Harris  SYSK Selects: The 'Satanic Panic' of the 1980s - Stuff You Should Know Podcast Revelation 2  John 8:1-11  Jesus and John Wayne by Kristin Kobes Du Mez The Making of Biblical Womanhood by Beth Allison Barr A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing by Scott Mcknight Genesis 1 Woke Church: An Urgent Call for Christians in America to Confront Racism and Injustice by Eric Mason Urban Apologetics: Restoring Black Dignity with the Gospel by Eric Mason Connect with Kat: Instagram ~ Pinterest  ~ Website   Connect with Angie: Instagram ~ Facebook ~ Website   Show Credits: Chatologie is a production on Angie Elkins Media Show Notes and production help by Bailey Thomas Music by Robert Elkins Design by Riley Moody 

NEW PODCAST EPISODE! This week I interview Kat Harris on empowering women of faith to walk their worth, embrace their sensuality & find liberation through femininity and shame-free sexuality. Kat is also the podcast host of The Refined Woman Podcast, online educator, speaker, author, and photographer on a mission to equip women with practical tools to navigate their lives grounded in freedom, vision, and wholeness.Mhmmm.Regardless of your personal beliefs or experience with religion, this episode has so much to offer as we cover truly powerful topics such as;- How to re-write your sexual story in a way that is deeply rooted in love & abundance, while still staying true to your unique values.- The difference between sensuality, sexuality, femininity (and how to harness each within you)- Unpacking common misunderstandings about feminism and religion (Christian faith-based).- How to stay connected to intimacy and your body.- What is sexuality, who does it belong to, and what does the Bible have to say about it?- How to embrace your sexuality even when you're not having sex.And so many more gems on how to live a happy, healthy, turned-on life while staying integrity with your beliefs.I'd also like to acknowledge our privilege at this time as females fall into further oppression in parts of the world.What I've come to understand is that no matter how you connect to spirituality, the fundamental laws of sensuality and female empowerment are universal. In essence, it comes down to something much more significant than just sex, it's our right as women to stand up, have a voice and shine within the world.Enjoy this truly powerful episode with the exquisite & impactful, Kat Harris.Check out Kat's offerings here.

If you liked this episode, we think you'll also enjoy:Restoring the Soul Podcast  w/ Sheila  Wray GregoireRedeeming Sex by Debra HirschMingling of Souls by Matt ChandlerSexless in the City by Kat Harris

BEST OF SEASON 6: Whats up fam!!! We talking your favorite topic...SEX!! We welcome author/influencer Kat Harris to the table to talk all things sex, God and relationships. From Bible major to editorial photographer to educator to host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and now author, Kat Harris never shied away from doing things her way. Through her online platform, The Refined Woman, her vision is to be a voice of truth and hope while equipping women to walk in wholeness, worthiness, and freedom. She fiercely loves her big Texas family, and is indebted to her faithful community scattered all over the world. She believes in the power of story, and that every opportunity is an opportunity for growth if we choose it to be. We're super stoked, pull up a chair you're all invited to the table. Find Kat at: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/  Websites: https://therefinedwoman.com/ To support the podcast become a part of the Patreon Family for as low as 2 bucks a month! www.patreon.com/NATRT CHECK OUT MY MUSIC ON SPOTIFY AND PLEASE GIVE ME A FOLLOW! https://open.spotify.com/artist/3HWMxHfbtrP3H39BnsquW8?si=KT-pG4EZSryYqwQp5QjBQA FOLLOW US and click the bell on Instagram and Youtube to get notified when we post! Anjelah Johnson: Youtube-  @Anjelah Johnson Website- https://anjelah.com Instagram/Twitter- @anjelahjohnson Manwell Reyes: Website- Manwellreyes.com Instagram/Twitter- @manwellreyes Brandon Smith: Website- https://www.thesaintslabel.com Instagram- @saintbsmith

The Summer of Sex Ed series continues with Kat Harris. Kat is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman, and author of the newly released book titled Sexless in the City. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. In this episode, Kat explains her process in reevaluating what we believe about something and why we believe what we believe, otherwise known as deconstruction. The deconstruction and reconstruction framework Kat talks about as she explored the questions around masturbation can be helpful for so many other aspects of the sex and sexuality conversation. This conversation is not a prescriptive one, but one that I hope will enlighten you to a new perspective on self-pleasure, and perhaps even release you from any shame you may have around this topic.  Connect with Kat at https://therefinedwoman.com/ and find her book, Sexless in the City, anywhere books are sold. You can send your sex and sexuality questions to sanctuarywomanpod@gmail.com to be answered in a future Sacred Cliturgy episode or in our e-mail newsletter.  Join us for more sexuality conversations in Christian community on Instagram: @sanctuarywoman. Sign up for the newsletter for more sex education content for Christian women who grew up in purity culture. 

When it comes to sexuality, the Church has often stuck to a black-and-white structure that leaves little to no room for honest dialogue. So many Christians believe they need to compartmentalize their spiritual and sexual lives, thinking that God must be embarrassed of their sexuality. While a black and white structure is easy to preach, it is much harder to live. How do we faithfully navigate the sexual scripts we've been given in a way that releases shame and embarrassment, bringing hard questions into the light?Kat Harris, author of “Sexless in the City” and host of The Refined Collective Podcast, is committed to releasing women from judgment and shame and helping them develop a healthy, Biblical view around sexuality. A single woman in her 30s, Kat openly shares about her experiences navigating the dating scene in New York City as a celibate Christian. Kat has received thousands of questions from women who haven't felt permission to be curious about sexuality and desire. She talks to Eddie and Chris about how the Church's narratives about sex and purity shape our expectations of women, God's “very good” vision for human relationships, and how the Church can faithfully honor and celebrate single people. Resources“Sexless in the City” is out now! Order it here.Follow Kat Harris on the web:https://therefinedwoman.com Listen to The Refined Collective Podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.Check out Kat's online courses here:https://therefinedwoman.com/shop Follow Kat Harris on social media:https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/ https://www.facebook.com/TheRefinedWoman https://www.pinterest.com/therefinedwoman/ 

Sex is the physical expression of mind, body, spirit, and commitment to another person. Have you always felt weird when a discussion moves to intimacy and sex? Do other people judge you for even thinking about and being interested in it? Today's guest is Kat Harris, speaker, podcaster, and founder of The Refined Woman. Growing up at the height of the purity movement, Kat knew this much: good Christians don't have sex until marriage. But approaching 30 and thrust into the New York City dating scene, she found a set of rules was not a compelling enough reason to keep her clothes on. We are diving deep into creating an open and safe space for women with no shame in talking about sex and intimacy.Kat Harris' other books:https://therefinedwoman.com/shop Sexless in the city Pre-Order link: https://therefinedwoman.com/sexless-in-the-city Instagram Subscribe on Apple Podcast Get our Newsletter Cheers to a Better You Guide + WorkbookSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-you-and-i-podcast/donations

In our last convo with Kat we talked about her book Sexless In the City and finally her book is out!! We catch up since our last episode and chat about peoples reactions to our episode and thoughts about sex, religion and forgiveness. It was a good one y'all! Pull up a chair, you're all invited to the table. Find Kat: Website for book: https://therefinedwoman.com/sexless-in-the-city Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/  To support the podcast become a part of the Patreon Family for as low as 2 bucks a month! www.patreon.com/NATRT CHECK OUT MY MUSIC ON SPOTIFY AND PLEASE GIVE ME A FOLLOW! https://open.spotify.com/artist/3HWMxHfbtrP3H39BnsquW8?si=KT-pG4EZSryYqwQp5QjBQA Manwell Reyes: Website- Manwellreyes.com Instagram/Twitter- @manwellreyes

Kat Harris is an educator, host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and  now author of "Sexless in the City". Through her online platform, The Refined Woman, her vision is to be a voice of truth and hope while equipping women to walk in wholeness, worthiness, and freedom. Today we talk about how to deconstruct our beliefs and the narratives we receive, so that we can walk confidently in our convictions. We also talk about releasing shame narratives-- particularly sexual shame-- and how to develop a healthy sexual ethic through it all. We also discuss: Fostering a sense of humility & curiosity What is “deconstruction”? How to pursue wholeness pre-relationship What does the Bible really say about sex? Living in freedom Finding the truth between two extremes  Make sure you check out her new book, Sexless in the City, out Tuesday 4/20, and connect with Kat on Instagram at @therefinedwoman!

Hi friend! If you've listened to this podcast before, then you know that I am passionate about healthy relationships. I'm always asking: How can we do relationships better? Today we're gonna be talking about: Getting singleness right Significance without a significant other What dating post-pandemic feels like We're going to have a conversation with New Yorker Kat Harris who is a photographer, writer and a podcaster who has lots to share about dating, love, sex and relationships AND Los Angeles native Kait Warman who is navigating singleness while being single as an entrepreneur, relationship coach, podcaster and writer. Show them some love by tagging them at @therefinedwoman (Kat) and Kait @kaitness! Don't forget to show some love by subscribing to this podcast and leaving a loving review. :) ?? B Resources: Thank You for Rejecting Me: Transform Pain Into Purpose and Learn to Fight for Yourself Sexless in the City: A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Joseph Holmes and Nathan Clarkson discuss with podcast host and author Kat Harris whether waiting for sex till your married is possible or worthwhile--and what the biggest problems are with how Americans discuss sex and abstinence. 

Welcome back to the table!  The place and space to be real with our messy middles.  Today Michaela invites Kat Harris from the Refined Woman (https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/) to the table.Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City will hit bookstores April 2021. She has also been a full-time photographer for the last decade with her work featured in: Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK, and more. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. Follow Kat on Instagram: @therefinedwomanPurchase her NEW book HERE!Follow Michaela Belle on IG ****Are you struggling with finding joy in this season of life?****  Everywhere you look, you're being reminded of everything that you DON'T have and want.If you're feeling "behind" on your desired timeline for your life?  Michaela has a resource for you where she shares her thREe shift framework that will help you find fulfillment in your right now season.  Your whole life can change in a year, let's make it this year!  Click here to watch the workshophttps://michaelabelle.mykajabi.com/ownyournow

On this episode of season 3 we have educator, podcaster, and author Kat Harris. Her first book Sexless in the City will be in print April 20, 2021. She has also been a full-time photographer for the last decade with her work featured in:  Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK, and more. Kat Harris = Powerful Woman.  Kat truly believes in the power of story and in this episode you'll be privileged in hearing her own. She speaks on being a woman in male dominated spaces, entrepreneurship, and diversifying your income, and much more! This episode really has it all and we can't wait for you to get to know Kat.  Click here to read more including this episodes show notes. 

If you've ever struggled with sexual shame, body shame, or feeling the weight of religious and societal constructs when it comes to sexuality, then tune into my conversation with relationship coach & author of Sexless In the City, Kat Harris.  This is a power-packed episode full of practical considerations for how to deconstruct sexual shame and create a life of sexual freedom.  We start our conversation by talking about the difference between social sexuality and genital sexuality, as Kat expands on her growing definition of sexuality + how it intersects with spirituality. She also shares her 3-step approach to creating a sexual ethic that is rooted in freedom (rather than shame), what it means to create “enthusiastic consent,” and many beautiful details of her personal journey as it relates to love, sex & relationships.  This is a vulnerable and powerful conversation that redefines sexuality from all angles!  To connect with Kat: WEBSITE: http://www.therefinedwoman.com/ (www.therefinedwoman.com) PODCAST: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-refined-collective-podcast/id1348034641#episodeGuid=30c48f6a66bb4bfca88b0f6522037407 (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-refined-collective-podcast/id1348034641#episodeGuid=30c48f6a66bb4bfca88b0f6522037407) BOOK: http://sexlessinthecitybook.com/ (sexlessinthecitybook.com) INSTAGRAM: @therefinedwoman @therefinedcollective PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP: https://www.facebook.com/groups/trwsingleladies (https://www.facebook.com/groups/trwsingleladies) To learn more about Lee Noto & her work: Website: https://leenoto.com/ (https://leenoto.com) The High Priestess Collective: http://www.leenoto.com/hpc (www.leenoto.com/hpc) Free Masterclass: https://www.becomethehighpriestessworkshop.com/ (https://www.becomethehighpriestessworkshop.com) Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/LeeNotoCoach/ ( https://www.facebook.com/LeeNotoCoach/) Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/leenoto_/ ( https://www.instagram.com/leenoto_/) LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-884959a/ ( https://www.linkedin.com/in/lee-noto-884959a/) YouTube: https://bit.ly/3bPGFvc (https://bit.ly/3bPGFvc)

Carrie talks to her single girl friends Kat Harris (author of Sexless in the City) and Kait Warman (author of Thank You For Rejecting Me). In this three-part series, each available on their own podcast shows, the women tell all in the world of dating in this day and age. Kat's episode explores whether she should marry a Christian and the challenges around the ratio of single men to women in the church, and Kait's episode discusses dating with an abundance mindset. On this episode, Carrie responds to the challenging question, "Why are they still single?"

How can we become aware of belief systems that aren't serving us? How do we construct more positive ideologies? What would a new understanding of what the Bible and Christianity say about sex and relationships look like? Find out in this week's episode of The Learn to Love Podcast, where your host Zach Beach interviews the relationship coach, podcast host, and author Kat Harris on  Deconstructing Negative Ideologies. Learn more about your guest below: Kat Harris is the host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and Co-Founder of the online publication The Refined Woman. Her first book Sexless in the City will hit bookstores April 2021. She has also been a full-time photographer for the last decade with her work featured in:  Vanity Fair, GQ, Forbes, People, Who What Wear, US Weekly, Glamour UK, and more. She coaches and equips women all over the world in dating, relationships, singleness, sexuality, faith and how to build a renewed and healthy biblical sexual ethic rooted in freedom, truth and grace as opposed to the oh-so-common shame and fear narratives so many experienced growing up in evangelical culture. Kat loves God, personal development, a good Beyoncé dance party, + is a Ranch dressing connoisseur. She believes in the power of story, that done is better than perfect, quality triumphs quantity, and that the journey truly is the destination. Ultimately, her vision is for women to know their beauty, identity, worth and value and to experience untapped freedom and joy in their lives regardless of their relationship status." Learn more at  - https://therefinedwoman.com/ - https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/ - https://www.facebook.com/TheRefinedWoman/ Learn more about your host and the show at: www.zachbeach.com www.the-heart-center.com Support The Show: If you like the show there are many ways you can support it, such as, - Register for Relationship Mastery, a 6-week self-guided course to take your relationship to the next level. https://www.the-heart-center.com/relationship-mastery-landing-page/ - Check out one of our sponsors, Listenable and use the discount code “zachbeach” for the first seven days on the platform for free. There you can find Zach's How To Be a Better Partner Course. https://frstre.com/go/?a=76205-87a7d9&s=1256514-e13191&p_affiliate.referral_code=zachbeach - Purchase The Seven Lessons of Love: Heart Wisdom for Troubling Times on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/Lessons-Love-Heart-Wisdom-Troubling/dp/1983940704/ - Purchase a love shirt and show the world your love of love https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-heart-center/ - Review, Like, and Subscribe to the show on iTunes. - Like us on Facebook facebook.com/learntolovenow - Join the  Facebook Community Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1428012130828678/

In this day and age, dating has been said to be one of the most trying and taxing experiences for both men and women. "Complicated" has been the most prevalent word used when referring to one's dating life. But what if it didn't have to be that way? What if you were blocking yourself from love? What if you were making your love life more complicated than what it was designed to be? I know right?!  Damesha and Kat Harris, of The Refined Collective, discuss how Kat keeps her faith strong as a single woman in her 30s who is choosing to wait to have sex until marriage, problematic aspects of the Christian dating culture, and her advice to a single Christian woman longing for a relationship.  Being single and choosing celibacy in your 30s "Giving myself permission to doubt is what keeps my faith strong"  Choosing honesty about your experience and your feelings create an intimacy between God. This deepens the relationship between the two.  "the Bible is full of really human humans"  Let your cry be "help me in my unbelief"  Things that are plaguing the Christian dating culture  There seems to be a hyper-spiritualization of dating stemming from the church.  "Dating is a CURB, not a CLIFF."  It's time to take the pressure off of the dating culture. Dating is supposed to be a fun experience, not pressure-filled.  There also seems to be this intense desire for women wanting men to lead them. Women have become passive in their own love lives.  What if women say they want to be led because it's easier than putting themselves out there?  "What an honor that I get to hang out with another person that God really loves" Advice to single women longing for partnership  You are seen.  It's totally okay and acceptable for you to be excited about your relationship with God and also experience longing. It's a "both/and" concept.  "If you don't heal your past, it will haunt you and prevent you from your future."  Take ownership in showing up for the process of preparation.  Your purpose doesn't hinge upon your relationship status. You have purpose right now.  Special Resources  Check out Kat's website at therefinedwoman.com and on IG at @therefinedwoman Keep up with The Refined Collective podcast here and on IG at @therefinedcollective Kat's book, Sexless in the City: A Sometimes Sassy, Sometimes Painful, Always Honest Look at Dating, Desire, and Sex, is available for pre-order! Grab your copy here Check out the devotional, My Utmost for His Highest by Oswald Chambers, Kat mentioned here --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Let's talk WOMANHOOD. In honor of International Women's Day, we have a special two-part series this week talking all about the parts of being a woman we rarely ever talk about… periods, sex, desire, and honoring our bodies. Kat Harris of @therefinedwoman joins us to ask the hard questions about desire. As a 35-year-old virgin, she's done the DEEP work questioning what sex means on her journey, especially related to her faith. Over the years, she's researched what the Bible says about this topic and identified what her own truth is when it comes to sexual pleasure. Kat's book Sexless In The City is coming out next month where she sets out to empower a generation set free from sexual shame, giving you the framework and support to ask those hard questions for yourself. In this episode, we talk about… What the Bible says about sex and desire How Kat awakened her sexual desire after years of being shut down and feeling sexually silenced by the church Holding our virginity on a pedestal Sexual integrity + protecting the male gaze Creating a healthy sexual ethic + letting go of sexual shame Find your girl gang at theshefactor.com! RESOURCES: Instagram: @therefinedwoman therefinedwoman.com The Refined Collective Podcast Sexless In The City UPCOMING EVENTS: March 25: Money Magic [Monthly Virtual Event] DailyShe Newsletter | SheMembership | Blog | Rate & Review The SheFactor Podcast | @theshefactor | @toriganahl --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/the-shefactor-podcast/message

Whats up fam!!! We talking your favorite topic...SEX!! We welcome author/influencer Kat Harris to the table to talk all things sex, God and relationships. From Bible major to editorial photographer to educator to host of The Refined Collective Podcast, and now author, Kat Harris never shied away from doing things her way. Through her online platform, The Refined Woman, her vision is to be a voice of truth and hope while equipping women to walk in wholeness, worthiness, and freedom. She fiercely loves her big Texas family, and is indebted to her faithful community scattered all over the world. She believes in the power of story, and that every opportunity is an opportunity for growth if we choose it to be. We're super stoked, pull up a chair you're all invited to the table. Find Kat at: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therefinedwoman/  Websites: https://therefinedwoman.com/ To support the podcast become a part of the Patreon Family for as low as 2 bucks a month! www.patreon.com/NATRT CHECK OUT MY MUSIC ON SPOTIFY AND PLEASE GIVE ME A FOLLOW! https://open.spotify.com/artist/3HWMxHfbtrP3H39BnsquW8?si=KT-pG4EZSryYqwQp5QjBQA FOLLOW US and click the bell on Instagram and Youtube to get notified when we post! Anjelah Johnson: Youtube-  @Anjelah Johnson Website- https://anjelah.com Instagram/Twitter- @anjelahjohnson Manwell Reyes: Website- Manwellreyes.com Instagram/Twitter- @manwellreyes Brandon Smith: Website- https://www.thesaintslabel.com Instagram- @saintbsmith

T/W - sexual trauma, sexual abuse  *cues "Let's Talk About Sex" by Salt-N-Pepa* Yep, if you haven't already guessed, we're talking about sex in this episode. Damesha and guest Taylor McElwain, of the Prayer Wall Podcast, journey through the complex components of our unique sexual experiences being sexual trauma survivors.  Damesha and Taylor discuss:  Testimonies of sexual abuse -  Difference between sexual sin and sexual desire The discussion of sex in the church - Purity Culture Purity culture can be defined as "the compilation of social constructs regarding purity and the actions enforced by the Church to ensure a woman is sexually abstinent prior to marriage" - Damesha Wells  Purity is what we're called to biblically but the culture around the concept can be damaging.   Is masturbation a sin? - For many of us, our first introduction to masturbation could have been when it was used a trauma response. - Our innocence was robbed and we had to fight to feel okay at such a young age. The act of self-soothing, in whatever manner we see fit, becomes our way of coping with the trauma that has occurred to us. Self soothe means to “comfort oneself when unhappy or distressed” - If your trauma response wasn't seen through hyper sexual behavior (Ex: pornography addictions, compulsive masturbation, and excessive lust.) it could have been seen in other areas of your life, completely unrelated to sexual behavior (Ex: aggression, withdrawal, immense sadness).  - “Don't treat the symptoms and neglect the cause of the sickness.” On shows like My 600lb life, for example, all of the people on the show have to start therapy. Engaging in weight loss actions are fine, but until they determine the root of their behavior they are doing themselves a disservice and have greater chance of returning to unhealthy coping habits through food.  Is there a place to embrace your sexuality while living a life pleasing to Jesus and practicing celibacy? - This seems like such a far-fetched and foreign concept because of how sex is discussed and depicted in our Christian culture  Through seeking God, it's vital that you don't base your purity walk off of that of someone else's. Seek the Holy Spirit and allow Him to guide you.  *Scripture References* 1 Corinthians 10:31 1 Corinthians 6:19 Psalm 139:14 *Special Resources* Check out the episode, from Taylor's podcast, that I was featured on here. Check out Part One and Part Two of the series we discussed on masturbation from Kat Harris' podcast The Refined Collective. Keep up with Taylor on instagram here and the Prayer Wall Podcast here. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Kat Harris is a Brooklyn based online educator, digital content creator, writer, speaker, and female empowerment advocate. I'm so excited for you to hear her perspective on singleness, sex, and dating in a way that is God honoring and based on scripture.   We talk about everything today from direct encouragement to single girls who don't want to be single, how to date better, and why the word purity when talking about waiting to have sex until marriage is not helpful.   Kat has her own podcast called “The Refined Collective Podcast” but also an incredible social media presence and website. AND she wrote a book called “Sexless in the City” that will be coming out at in April. I CANNOT wait to read it!! To learn more, I've included all the ways you can connect with Kat's content below.   The FAM is sponsored by Unite Health Share Ministries, a Christ based way to do health care! Check out their website at UHSM.com to learn more.   Follow Kat: The Refined Woman site: https://therefinedwoman.com​ Instagram: @therefinedwoman and @therefinedcollective

Our third episode of the Relationship file is here and it is Part 2 of a 2-part series!Listen to the episode if you're interested in need some advice when it comes to relationships, have no idea what you're doing, or need support, clarity, and love, or need some inspiration and motivation in your life, you won't regret it. Enjoy the episode and we hope you have an amazing and productive week!Check out Kat's ContentFollow Us.InstagramOur WebsiteSubscribe on Apple PodcastGet our NewsletterCheers to a Better You Guide + Workbook  Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-you-and-i-podcast/donations

Our second episode of the Relationship file is here and it is Part 1 of a 2-part series!Listen to the episode if you're interested in need some advice when it comes to relationships, have no idea what you're doing, or need support, clarity and love, or need some inspiration and motivation in your life, you won't regret it. Enjoy the episode and we hope you have an amazing and productive week!Check out Kat's ContentFollow Us.InstagramOur WebsiteSubscribe on Apple PodcastGet our NewsletterCheers to a Better You Guide + Workbook  Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-you-and-i-podcast/donations

Tune in to hear College Hill's very own Kat Harris Coming Out Story as we continue to honor June being Gay Pride Month. Gay. These are raw real life stories and It's important to understand that this isn't a positive experience for everyone. These are their personal stories and I appreciate their honesty and courage with being open and honest. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/milonvparker/support

In this episode of The Brave Enough Show, your host, Dr. Sasha Shillcutt talks with Kat Harris, well-known editorial photographer and Brooklyn-based online educator, digital content creator, and a female empowerment advocate.