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Send us a textMoney talks – but are you listening to what yours is saying? That's the essential question addressed in this thought-provoking conversation between Monique Simmons and Tax Associate Breonna Dear.Breonna, with her extensive background at financial giants like JPMorgan Chase and Deloitte, breaks down the intimidating world of personal finance into digestible, actionable wisdom. Her journey from a young saver to a tax professional offers a relatable backdrop to the practical advice she shares throughout the episode."A budget is basically just where you're telling your money where to go," Breonna explains with refreshing clarity. This simple yet profound perspective frames the entire discussion as she walks listeners through creating a "financial snapshot" – the crucial first step toward monetary control. From establishing emergency funds to developing consistent saving habits, her guidance feels less like rigid financial advice and more like a supportive friend helping you navigate a challenging but necessary path.The conversation takes a particularly compelling turn when addressing how couples with different money mindsets can find harmony. "Both parties need to be on common ground," Breonna advises, suggesting that while approaches may differ, shared financial goals can bridge those gaps. Her recommendation for "financial date nights" offers a practical solution to what often becomes a relationship stressor.Parents will appreciate the segment on teaching children about finances – starting around ages 9-10 with basic allowance management and guided spending decisions. As Breonna points out, schools rarely provide adequate financial education, making this parental guidance essential for raising financially literate adults.Whether you're struggling with debt, trying to build wealth, or simply hoping to gain control over your financial future, this episode delivers practical strategies without judgment or complexity. Subscribe now and join the conversation that could transform your relationship with money forever.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textHave you ever had your perfectly planned day completely derailed by someone else's schedule change? That's exactly what happened to me this week, and it sparked a powerful revelation about the role of compromise in romantic relationships.When my husband called to say he needed to work late on my sacred self-care Monday, I had a choice: react with frustration or embrace the opportunity to demonstrate true partnership. This unexpected schedule shift became the perfect real-world example of how healthy compromise strengthens relationships rather than diminishes them.Throughout this episode, I explore what compromise really means in relationships—finding solutions that honor both partners' needs rather than one person always getting their way. I share practical strategies for effective compromising: communicating openly, listening actively, practicing flexibility, finding common ground, and exercising patience. These skills don't develop overnight, but with practice, they become the foundation of a thriving partnership.While championing the benefits of compromise, I also address when you shouldn't compromise. Your core values, especially your faith, should remain non-negotiable. Additionally, if your partner uses "compromise" as a manipulation tactic or refuses to meet you halfway, these are serious relationship warning signs that deserve attention.Whether you're dating, engaged, or married, this episode offers practical wisdom for navigating the daily give-and-take that healthy relationships require. The question isn't if you'll need to compromise, but how you'll handle those moments when they inevitably arise. Will you think only of yourself, or will you consider your partner's needs as well? Your approach to compromise might just determine the strength and longevity of your relationship.Share this episode with someone who might benefit from these insights, and follow me on social media @DemoWithMo to continue the conversation about building Christ-centered relationships.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textSometimes the most profound transformations come from receiving exactly what we didn't know we needed. Through the lens of a church revival experience, this episode explores how we often mistakenly believe we're spiritually sufficient while unknowingly craving deeper renewal—a parallel that perfectly illustrates our relationship dynamics.When we build intimacy daily with both God and our partners—checking in, expressing love, investing consistently—we create foundations that withstand challenges. But even in healthy relationships, needs can go unrecognized until they're unexpectedly fulfilled. The key is learning to identify and articulate these needs clearly.Rather than making vague requests like "more time together," specific desires such as "Friday date nights" give partners actionable ways to meet your needs. This specificity comes from self-reflection and understanding what concepts like "effort" and "intimacy" truly mean to you personally. Through journaling and honest assessment, you can uncover hidden desires that, once expressed, transform your connection.The most powerful insight might be this: knowing yourself is the foundation of all healthy relationships. We cannot expect others to understand needs we haven't yet recognized ourselves. As you practice self-care and build self-awareness, you develop the ability to communicate effectively, set appropriate boundaries, and actively seek the connection you desire. Your relationships begin to reflect this inner clarity, creating space for both you and your partner to receive exactly what you didn't know you needed.Follow Demo with Mo on Facebook and share this episode with someone who might benefit from these insights!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textFeeling drained in your relationship? You're not alone. This episode explores the often-overlooked phenomenon of relationship burnout among Christian couples and offers practical wisdom for reconnection.After sharing a vulnerable update about her own journey of self-discovery, Monique dives into what relationship burnout actually looks like. Beyond just feeling tired, burnout manifests as emotional exhaustion and negativity that can slowly erode even the strongest partnerships. Through clear explanations of symptoms like frequent arguments, lack of motivation for couple activities, and growing emotional distance, listeners gain tools to recognize warning signs in their own relationships.The episode unpacks five core causes of relationship burnout: unresolved conflict, poor communication, mismatched expectations, external stressors, and perhaps most critically, lack of self-care. With characteristic authenticity, Monique emphasizes that maintaining personal boundaries and prioritizing self-care isn't selfish—it's essential for showing up as your best self in relationships. "Nobody benefits from you being the worst version of yourself," she reminds listeners, challenging the common narrative that caring for oneself comes at the expense of caring for others.What sets this conversation apart is the balance of compassionate understanding with actionable strategies. From establishing healthy communication patterns to seeking couples therapy and intentionally rekindling intimacy through quality time, each recommendation feels accessible. Monique's personal testimony about the benefits of therapy in her own marriage adds credibility to her guidance.Ready to revitalize your relationship? Join our community on social media and share which self-care practice you and your partner commit to implementing this month!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textCould loving your partner be different from genuinely liking them? In this episode of Demo with Mo, I, Monique Simmons, take you on a journey through the nuances of relationships, where fondness and friendship form the bedrock of lasting connections. You'll discover the telltale signs that signify truly liking your partner—think shared laughs over inside jokes and the warmth of mutual admiration. As we traverse the moments of tender affection and the comfort of shared silences, I promise you'll walk away with a deeper understanding of what makes relationships tick.Relationships ebb and flow between harmony and tension, and it's in these fluctuations that the importance of liking your partner, beyond merely loving them, becomes essential. We'll explore how to gracefully handle relationship hurdles like trust issues, health woes, and financial stress, all while maintaining a strong foundation of friendship and genuine connection.We round off our conversation by reinforcing the values of encouragement and positivity. Learn how mutual respect and the joy of shared interests infuse relationships with a sense of safety and well-being. By celebrating the qualities you admire in your partner and embracing open communication, you pave the way for a relationship where both partners can thrive without fear of judgment. Connect with me on social media and through email, and let's continue this inspiring dialogue about cultivating love and connection in our lives.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textHow often do we truly reflect on the support we provide to our partners, and would they see it the same way? Join me, Monique Simmons, as we explore these compelling questions and more in our latest episode, where we dive into the heart of what it means to be a supportive partner. We share insights on how to evaluate our roles in our relationships honestly and the transformative power of encouragement, practical help, and emotional presence. Together, we'll unravel the complexities of showing up for our partners and challenge ourselves to foster deeper, more meaningful connections.This episode is an invitation to reassess and enhance the support systems within your relationships. By validating your partner's emotions and offering a helping hand when needed, you create a nurturing environment that strengthens your bond. We emphasize the importance of attentively listening and providing encouragement when the world feels overwhelming, ensuring your partner knows they are valued and loved. Let's journey together to cultivate a mutual sense of belonging and capability, with practical steps to ensure your relationship thrives even through challenging times. Tune in to learn how these principles can transform your approach to love and partnership.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textUnlock the secrets to mastering difficult conversations in your romantic relationships with insights from psychologist Helene Brenner. Learn how to tackle sensitive subjects like finances and infidelity, navigate clashes in core values, and overcome poor communication hurdles. Together, we unpack the common fears that lead to avoidance and defensiveness, and why facing these issues head-on can prevent them from spiraling out of control. Our discussion aims to empower you to address unresolved past conflicts and foster a healthier dialogue with your partner that nurtures understanding and growth.Join me, Monique Simmons, as we explore practical strategies for fostering positive and constructive communication in relationships. Discover the power of starting conversations on a positive note, utilizing "I" statements to express feelings without blame, and the impact of empathy in truly understanding your partner's emotions. We delve into the importance of body language and staying focused to avoid unproductive detours. Through these strategies, learn how to work collaboratively towards shared goals, ensuring adaptability and progress in resolving conflicts. Let's equip you with the tools you need to transform challenging conversations into opportunities for deeper connection and unity with your partner.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textWhat if the family you pick becomes more significant than the one you're born into? Join me on a heartfelt journey as I explore the idea of chosen family, sparked by my recent trip to Orlando for the PodFest podcast conference. Battling a cold, I found solace in the vibrant energy of fellow podcasters and reconnected with a dear friend, reigniting the bonds we've nurtured over a decade. This experience was a poignant reminder of the incredible support system that has been my lifeline, highlighting the transformative power of relationships we actively choose and cherish.This episode takes a closer look at the profound connections we form beyond blood ties. Chosen families provide the emotional warmth and affirmation that might be absent in traditional family settings, especially for those who've faced rejection. We discuss the intricate layers of love and support found in these intentional relationships that often surpass biological bonds in depth and significance. Through shared experiences and enduring support, these connections validate our journeys and enrich our lives. Tune in to celebrate the people who stand beside us through thick and thin, reminding us of the beauty in choosing our own family.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a text2025 is here, and I'm back after a rejuvenating break, ready to walk with you through the intricate paths of dating, engagement, and marriage from a young Christian perspective. Have you ever wondered how a simple exercise like a prayer vision board could transform your spiritual journey? This episode is packed with examples of showing how faith and intentionality can lead to profound changes. My word for this year is "abundance," and I invite you to explore with me what it means to expect extraordinary blessings and trust in something greater than ourselves.Reflect on 2024 with me as I share the remarkable experiences of answered prayers and the power of staying connected through faith. Together with my girlfriends, we've been using prayer vision boards to focus our intentions, and the results have been nothing short of amazing. Whether you're just starting your faith journey or have been practicing for years, there's something in this episode for you. We'll talk about setting your intentions, the significance of trust, and how to enter this new year with a heart wide open to abundance. Let's embrace this journey of faith, trust, and great expectations together!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textWhat if the love stories we cherish on screen actually hold deeper lessons about the cycles we see in real life? Join me, Monique Simmons, as I unpack the intricate layers of "It Ends With Us" and confront the harsh realities of domestic violence through the story of Lily. Her journey from a traumatic childhood to a tumultuous relationship with Ryle reveals the subtle signs of abuse and the crucial importance of self-awareness and courage. Together, we'll explore how these narratives reflect our own experiences and the steps we can take to break free from these destructive patterns.Imagine facing the daunting decision to leave an abusive relationship not just for your own safety, but to protect the future of your unborn child. Through a powerful narrative of a woman who bravely chooses a different path, we'll examine the weight of generational cycles. When faced with the question of how he would guide their daughter in a similar situation, her partner's stunned realization underscores the deep impact of his actions. This conversation is an emotional journey through the importance of breaking free, not only for oneself but also for the generations to come, offering hope for a life untethered from past pains.Embracing authenticity can transform not only your life but also the lives of those around you. I'll share my personal path toward living with integrity across all facets of life—from marriage and friendships to parenting and faith. My story of discovering my true lineage and the healing journey it sparked is a testament to the power of faith and therapy in breaking generational cycles. By intentionally aligning actions with values, and with the support of a strong relationship with God, I've set a new standard for my family. Together, let's inspire change and ensure that the struggles of past generations end with us, paving a brighter path for the future.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textCan embracing your individuality actually strengthen your marriage? Discover how mutual support and personal purpose intersect to bring harmony and fulfillment to your relationship in this thought-provoking episode of Demo with Mo. Join me, Monique Simmons, as we delve into the biblical foundation of marriage through the story of Adam and Eve in Genesis. We'll explore how maintaining your unique identity can enhance your partnership, leading to a deeper connection and understanding with your spouse. Listen along as we uncover the transformative power of mutual support in marriage. Learn how marriages thrive when both partners actively pursue their dreams without sacrificing their individuality. We'll discuss the evolving definitions of success and the crucial role of communication in aligning shared goals. If you ever feel like you've lost your sense of self within your marriage or have unfulfilled aspirations, this episode offers practical guidance on redefining your path together. Let's redefine what it means to be a supportive partner, ensuring that each journey is enriching and fulfilling along the way.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textEmbark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation as we explore the art of intentional self-care. What does it take to truly prioritize your well-being in a world that demands so much of you? In this episode of Demo with Mo, I share my personal self-care journey that began in 2020 as a birthday tradition and has since become a way of life. This practice has not only rejuvenated my spirit but has also set a new standard for how I nurture both myself and my relationships. Tune in for heartfelt stories and insights that might just inspire you to start your own self-care challenge.The past year has felt like navigating a battlefield, with the constant push to build healthy relationships and shed unhealthy ones. Through faith, family, and community support, I've found peace amidst chaos. A chance encounter at the Jackson airport during a Houston trip truly illuminated the power of divine intervention through strangers. Meet Nancy and Sissy, kindred spirits who turned a mundane flight into an extraordinary exchange of stories and wisdom. These interactions underscore a profound truth: self-care isn't always about luxury; it's about confronting and embracing our own vulnerabilities.Join me for a weekend filled with unexpected connections and heartening experiences that underscore the power of human kindness. From a delightful trip to a winery to an uplifting Uber ride with Myia, these moments remind us of the beauty in shared human experiences. As I recount these transformative encounters, I invite you to participate in our 30-day self-care challenge. Connect with me on Facebook at Demo with Mo, share your stories, and let's embark on this journey of rest and renewal together. Your self-care routine could be the change you didn't know you needed.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textUnlock the secrets to building meaningful relationships while maintaining privacy as Alexis Thomas and I navigate the delicate balance between confiding and oversharing. Discover why it's crucial to choose the right confidants and how even the most well-intentioned loved ones can sometimes complicate your relationship dynamics. Together, we explore practical strategies to manage emotions, avoid unintended revelations, and seek unbiased advice to ensure the well-being of your relationships.Explore the importance of trustworthy relationships and the power of honest communication. Alexis and I question the notion of self-sufficiency in companionship, challenging the belief that isolation is the answer. Delve into the biblical perspective on the necessity of human connection and learn how to cultivate a supportive network without falling into the trap of oversharing. We discuss the roles of therapists and counselors as impartial advisors, offering insights into the benefits of turning to these professionals for guidance.Join us as we tackle the intricacies of communication within relationships, from setting boundaries to navigating the fine line between venting and seeking advice. We address the impact of heated arguments on children, the importance of apologizing to prevent trauma, and the dynamics of advice-giving across generations. I express my heartfelt gratitude to Alexis for her invaluable contributions and extend an invitation to listeners to connect and share their thoughts. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and we're here to support you every step of the way.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a textCan the hustle and bustle of everyday life blur the lines of love and faith in your relationships? Join me, Monique Simmons, as I unravel this crucial question. Life's chaos can easily make us forget the love and accomplishments we've nurtured. By revisiting shared memories and cherishing the vows we've made, we can anchor ourselves in the present and strengthen our relationships. In this episode, we explore how vital it is to pause and appreciate these moments, allowing them to serve as beautiful reminders of what truly matters.As we embark on an exciting new season, let's also remember the promises and character of God and our partners, which are foundational in maintaining healthy relationships. Life's challenges can sometimes cloud our perception, but recalling the positive deeds and intentions of those we hold dear can shift our mindset and bring clarity. Marital vows, much like God's covenant with us, serve as steadfast anchors during tough times. As we look forward, I hope this discussion offers insights and encouragement for a season filled with love and faith. Don't forget to connect with me on Facebook at Demo with Mo and send your thoughts to Demowithmo@gmail.com. Here's to a great day and an even greater season ahead!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.What if you discovered that one of the most important people in your life wasn't who you thought they were? Join us for a truly unique episode as Monique Simmons passes the microphone to her close friend and therapist, Ashley Jenkins, for a candid and emotional conversation. Monique shares the raw and personal journey of discovering that her father is not her biological father, a revelation that began to come to light during her parents' separation when she was just 19. Together, they discuss the intricate process of addressing this revelation privately within the family and through therapy, emphasizing the importance of bringing authentic and vulnerable experiences to light to help others navigate their challenges.As Monique recounts cherished memories like learning to drive with her dad, she reflects on the complexity of relationships that transcend biological ties. Listen to how she navigated the emotional terrain over 16 years, culminating in a paternity test that confirmed the truth just before Mother's Day. The conversation also touches on themes of grief and the evolution of relationships. Monique's story offers a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the capacity for love and connection.Finally, the episode dives into the emotional landscape of family reconciliation and the journey of self-healing. Monique opens up about forgiving her mother and the emotional conversations she had with her children and husband about the DNA test results. Through therapy, faith, and a commitment to self-care, Monique has embraced personal growth and the possibility of reconciliation. This episode is a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and offers hope and encouragement for anyone grappling with similar revelations.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.What if your partner doesn't feel safe enough to share their deepest thoughts with you? In today's episode of Demo with Mo we explore the essential role that communication plays in building intimacy within relationships. We reflect on our behaviors and consider if we truly provide a safe space for our partners to express their issues and concerns without fear of being dismissed or criticized. This episode is a thought-provoking journey into the dynamics of creating environments where both parties feel heard, validated, and emotionally secure.We discuss the impact of being dismissive, defensive, or harsh, and how such actions can damage the foundation of trust and open dialogue. Self-reflection and allocating dedicated time for meaningful conversations can transform the way we communicate with our loved ones. I emphasize that this journey requires patience, vulnerability, and consistent effort, aiming to cultivate a healthier, more thriving relationship where both partners feel valued and understood. The insights shared in this episode shine a light on the importance of nurturing a space where emotional intimacy can flourish.Finally, we dive into practical strategies that can help you establish more effective communication within your relationship. Learn how to use "I statements" to express your feelings without blame, practice active listening to truly understand your partner's perspective, and recognize the necessity of compromise for mutual satisfaction. Don't miss this enriching discussion on building intimacy through communication on Demo with Mo!Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.“How can you forgive when you can't forget? Join me, Monique Simmons, as I discuss the intricate journey of forgiveness. We explore the complexities of forgiveness, how traumatic events can linger in our bodies, and the impact of recurring memories and triggers. With insights from "The Body Keeps the Score," we discuss the importance of seeking professional help, like therapy, to manage these challenges. This episode is packed with personal anecdotes and practical advice, aiming to provide both encouragement and guidance for those wrestling with letting go of past hurts while maintaining their emotional and spiritual health.Discover the true essence of forgiveness and why it's a conscious choice rather than a fleeting feeling. I share my personal experiences with therapies like EMDR, which have been instrumental in recalling suppressed memories and aiding the forgiveness process. Emphasizing forgiveness as essential for personal well-being and spiritual growth, I highlight how daily choices to forgive can free us from the control of past hurts. Let's embark on this journey together and build a supportive community through shared experiences and conversations. Engage with us and find the strength to embrace forgiveness and reclaim your joy.”Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Recovering from major surgery taught me a lesson that many of us struggle with: accepting help is not a sign of weakness. Join me on the latest episode of D.E.M.O. with Mo, as I share my personal journey of healing and the incredible support I received from my community, friends, family, and church. The touching moments, like a church member bringing homemade chicken noodle soup, highlighted the profound impact of acts of kindness and reinforced my understanding of how essential it is to embrace help during difficult times.Ever found yourself hesitant to ask or accept for help, fearing it might make you appear weak? Let me guide you through my experience of learning to communicate my needs effectively. Therapy played a pivotal role in helping me shift from waiting for my husband to assist after work, to confidently asking friends for help. These small yet significant changes made a world of difference in my recovery process and underscored the importance of community support.Finally, we reflect on the emotional significance of unexpected acts of kindness and the joy of showing up for others. From heartfelt prayers to thoughtful care packages, these gestures not only uplift us but also strengthen the bonds we share with our loved ones. As we redefine accepting help as a sign of strength and courage, let's remember to always express gratitude for the love and support we receive. Tune in, and let's embark on this journey of growth and appreciation together.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.What if the long-term issues you've accepted as part of your life didn't have to define you? In this episode of Demo with Mo, I share my personal journey of breaking free from the chains of health challenges. With the help of doctors, I've discovered that a healthier, more fulfilling life is possible, and I'm taking the steps to achieve it. Through the lens of my experience, I invite you to recognize that God provides us with ways to escape suffering and embrace a new normal. This isn't just about physical health—it's about transforming any area of your life where dysfunction has been the norm.Embracing a new normal also means taking up your cross and following a spiritual path with unwavering commitment. In our discussion, I talk about the sacrifices and challenges that come with choosing God over worldly desires and relationships. We delve into what it truly means to take up one's cross, bearing burdens with faith and humility. Join me as I encourage you to find joy, peace, and a strong spiritual foundation, highlighting that these blessings are available right here, right now. This episode is a powerful reminder of the transformative power of faith and the unwavering support from God and loved ones on our journey.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Can the rollercoaster of emotions be a tool for deeper understanding and empathy? Join me, Monique Simmons, as I recount the heartfelt experience of watching "Inside Out 2" with my daughter, Zoey. This episode promises to unravel the intricate emotional landscape portrayed in the film, introducing new characters like Anxiety, Embarrassment, and Boredom. We'll explore how these emotions shape Riley's journey into her teenage years and reflect on the poignant moments that resonated deeply with us, particularly Joy's struggle to maintain constant optimism. This film serves as a rich conversation starter for families and couples, making it a must-watch to better understand and support our loved ones' emotional growth.We confront the overwhelming dominance of Anxiety in Riley's life and discuss the significant pressures she faces from multiple fronts. As Joy comes to a crucial realization about her controlling nature, akin to Anxiety's, we delve into the pivotal moments that highlight the necessity of embracing all emotions. Through this exploration, we emphasize the importance of a balanced emotional core and how acceptance of both positive and negative experiences helps in building resilience. Join this insightful journey to understand how embracing a full spectrum of emotions can be a transformative experience for anyone.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Can a relationship truly thrive if partners don't support each other during tough times? In this episode of Demo with Mo, we uncover the profound role of leaning on your partner when facing life's challenges. From personal struggles to joint hardships, discover the transformative power of emotional support in romantic relationships and marriages. Learn how to recognize when a partner might be pulling away, and gain invaluable tips on creating a nurturing environment where both partners feel secure enough to rely on each other.We also delve into the art of validating your partner's experiences and feelings, even in moments of disagreement. Through intimate anecdotes and personal insights, we underscore the importance of empathy, vulnerability, and addressing difficult issues head-on. By treating your partner with the same compassion as a close friend, you can build a deeper connection and true intimacy. Tune in for practical advice and heartfelt encouragement to strengthen your bond and weather any storm together.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.What happens when all your perfectly planned dreams for a romantic getaway are suddenly upended? Join us on Demo with Mo as we share our story of an unexpected twist to our 14th wedding anniversary trip. When our babysitter canceled last minute, we had to shift gears and bring our kids along. This experience opened our eyes to the importance of adaptability and how sometimes, life's unexpected turns can lead to even better experiences than we had originally envisioned.Reflecting on the journey, I discuss how learning to let go of rigid expectations has significantly improved my relationships. From establishing healthier boundaries, accepting things as they are has been liberating. By trusting in God and letting go of my need to control outcomes, I've found more peace and maturity in handling my emotions. This episode delves into the nuances of personal growth and the profound impact of releasing unrealistic expectations.We also highlight the invaluable role of support from loved ones during challenging times. Sharing a heartfelt story about reaching out to a friend for prayer, we emphasize the importance of seeking emotional support and encouragement. Acknowledging and processing emotions like anger and disappointment is crucial, especially within a Christian context, to navigate life's pivots effectively. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on embracing change, leaning on your support system, and the strength of faith in overcoming life's hurdles. Happy 14th Wedding Anniversary, Corey!Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever wondered how investing in your relationship with God can transform your life? Join me, Monique Simmons, as I share my personal journey of daily devotional time and how it has profoundly fortified my faith. By prioritizing our bond with God, we can weather life's storms with greater resilience and trust in His plan. This episode is a candid exploration of how making our spiritual relationship a priority, especially during tough times, can lead to a deeper, more fulfilling faith experience.Discover the enduring power of Second Corinthians 12:9-10 as we delve into its impact on my 14-year Christian journey. Reflecting on a recent prayer vision board session, I recount how this scripture, which reassures us that "My grace is sufficient for you," has been a beacon of strength during my most challenging moments. This current season of my life being one of them. Listen as I open up about the exhaustion of constantly being strong, doing what's best for others and managing health issues, and find solace in the sustaining power of divine grace. This episode serves as a heartfelt reminder of the unshakeable support we find in faith and God's word during life's trials.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Is mental health a conversation you avoid openly discussing? Join us for a compelling conversation on Demo with Mo, where we celebrate Mental Health Awareness Month with Emily Cox, a licensed clinical mental health counselor. Emily opens up about her personal journey into the mental health field, sharing how her own experiences and transformative therapy sessions shaped her commitment to helping others. Beyond her professional insights, you'll get a glimpse into Emily's passions for hiking, gardening, and culinary adventures. Listen as Emily shares her expertise in working with tweens, teens, and young adults, offering a nuanced look at the unique challenges they face during crucial life transitions.Breaking down the stigmas that surround mental health and therapy, especially within communities of color, we dive deep into the complex relationship between social media and mental well-being. Emily discusses the dual nature of these platforms, highlighting both the potential harms and the benefits of positive community-building. Learn how to create safe and open therapeutic spaces where clients feel truly seen and heard, regardless of the therapist's background. Through the poignant story of a Black woman finding solace with a white therapist specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we explore the importance of prioritizing therapeutic fit over demographic similarities.Supporting loved ones through their mental health struggles can be challenging, but Emily offers practical advice on recognizing deeper issues and seeking the right help. From understanding codependency in relationships to finding affordable therapy options, we cover essential tips for navigating these complex waters. Emily shares valuable resources like sliding scale fees, Open Path Collective, and therapy provided by graduate student interns, ensuring that financial constraints do not become a barrier to receiving the support you need. Whether you're looking to better understand mental health or seeking actionable advice, this episode is packed with insights and support to guide you. Tune in and take a step towards a healthier mind and stronger relationships.Resources: https://openpathcollective.org/Sliding scale & Reduced feeSupport the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.When I, Monique Simmons, first noticed the subtle warning signs my body was sending, I mistook them for normal changes and pains. It was only after a series of routine check-ups that the truth surfaced, reshaping my entire outlook on health and wellness. This episode peels back the layers of self-awareness and proactive care, as I recount the moment my "normal" was challenged, leading to a critical wake-up call about my health. Journey with me through candid conversations about the necessity of transparent dialogue with healthcare professionals and the profound impact of facing our health realities head-on.This episode offers a raw and emotional window into the process of identifying and altering the toxic patterns we inherit, complacency on our jobs, staying in unhealthy relationships and other things we've considered to be our "normal." I discuss the courage it takes to confront and forgive, the invaluable role therapy can play, the determination required to shift family dynamics towards a healthier, more positive future and other ways we can create and embrace a new normal. Tune in as I reveal how embracing difficult changes has not only set me on a path of emotional healing but has also empowered me to lay down new, healthier foundations for the generations to come.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Have you ever felt weighed down by the chapters of your life that seem too difficult to accept? I have walked through the fire of shame and guilt, emerging with a story of redemption and hope. Today, I invite you to embark on the journey of owning your story, an experience that intertwines the very fabric of our being with the divine tapestry of Christian faith. As we uncover the struggles that make us who we are, we also discover a path to healing. Through personal anecdotes and shared experiences, this dialogue offers a haven for those ready to face their past with courage and find solace in the truth of their narratives.The episode unfolds further, illuminating the power of testimony within Christianity, a force that wields the ability to break chains of isolation and silence. Hear how embracing our stories acts as a beacon of spiritual warfare, challenging the enemy's desire to keep us in the dark. Together, we dissect the potency of our personal victories and trials, using them as instruments to uplift and inspire our brothers and sisters in faith. This heart-to-heart concludes with a rally to spread love and positivity, living in a way that honors the immense love God has for each of us. Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Send us a Text Message.Every Mother's Day, while families celebrate with bouquets and brunches, not all of us are reaching for the confetti. On "Demo with Mo," we peel back the layers of this holiday to explore the pain, love, and complexity that come with maternal relationships. Some of us might be gearing up for joyous festivities, but for others, it's a time that highlights strained or broken bonds. This episode is a tribute to every shade of mother-child connection, offering understanding without judgement and a safe space to navigate the mixed emotions this day can stir up.The issue of obeying versus honoring our parents is a debate that doesn't just ruffle feathers—it can churn up a whole storm. I share my insights from a recent thought-provoking sermon that sparked a fiery discussion around this topic, especially within the Christian community. We'll sift through scriptural teachings, contrasting the call for children's obedience with the adult responsibility to honor, and why these distinctions matter. It's more than just semantics; this conversation is about the intersection where personal growth, mental health, and spirituality meet family expectations.Finally, as Mother's Day looms, we turn our attention to the art of setting boundaries. It's a skill that can transform our relationships with our parents into something respectful and truly honoring—without stifling who we are. We reflect on the importance of including those who've shaped us in our joys and successes, and extend a hand of comfort to those who may be grieving. So join us on this heartfelt journey through the trials and triumphs of parental relationships, and perhaps you'll discover a new perspective on what it means to honor our parents.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Ever felt like you're going at it alone in the maze of relationships? Season 7 of our podcast is here to wrap you in the warmth of collective wisdom, shining a light on the wonders of a robust support system. As I, Monique Simmons, reunite with you for another round of heartfelt conversations, we'll venture through the connections that sustain us. There's an art to building bridges in relationships, and together, we'll uncover the blueprint for a village that can get us through any storm.When a friend's reluctance to ask for help becomes a mirror to our own vulnerabilities, we're reminded of the threads that bind us in times of need. This episode paints a candid picture of the ways in which reaching out and being receptive to support not only fortifies our own lives but also reinforces the foundations of the relationships we cherish. Through personal revelations and community stories, we traverse the landscape of shared hobbies, interests, and the harmonious symphony that specialized groups play in orchestrating a chorus of support around us.In the tapestry of life, the colors of our support systems add vibrancy and depth to our personal narratives. Reflecting on over a decade of marriage and what research says, I share the top five benefits a strong support circle can bring into your life, inviting you to consider the richness long-standing support can offer in your own story. As we explore the profound significance of these bonds, we honor the chosen families that stand by us, unwavering, as we dance through life's symphony together. Join us on this journey, and find the harmony in your own circle of support that brings joy, reduces stress, and inspires your every day with steadfast companionship.Support the Show.Connect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

As we draw the curtain on an incredible sixth season of "Demo with Mo," get ready to step into a space of reflection and empowerment towards a New Year brimming with success. It's more than just setting resolutions; it's about crafting a proactive game plan that intertwines our unwavering faith with decisive action. Whether it's nurturing relationships, managing your finances, climbing your career ladder, or embarking on personal development, this episode is your blueprint for making 2024 the year where your dreams and faith collide to create something truly extraordinary.Feel the synergy of spirituality and strategy as we discuss the importance of tuning into the Holy Spirit's guidance while mapping out a clear path to our goals. This finale isn't just about the celebration of past achievements; it's a workshop for your aspirations, complete with insights on how to consult the Bible, reach out for help, and utilize resources effectively. Together, let's embark on this journey, not as passive bystanders but as active architects of our future, where our actions stand as a testament to our deep trust in God's plan for our lives. Join me, and let's commit to being better than we were yesterday, transforming our resolutions into the successes we desire and hope for.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

As we usher in the year 2024, I've embraced "trust" as my guiding beacon. Each year, selecting a word to steer my path has opened up new avenues of growth, and this time around, it's all about deepening our trust in God's perfect will. On today's episode of Demo with Mo, we're setting sail into a year of living fully anchored in faith. I'll take you through my own experiences of witnessing answered prayers, and together, we'll explore the power of truly surrendering to trust, even when the waters of life are uncharted. We'll look at ways to find your own center, whether it's through prayer, meditation, or journaling, and how this can shape a year lived with purposeful intention.We're not just talking the talk; we're walking the walk of faith and trust. This episode is all about bringing our daily deeds into alignment with the trust we vocalize, a concept underscored by the faith heroes of Hebrews chapter 11.  I'll share stories that reveal the moments of struggle when our beliefs are put to the test, and the raw honesty needed as we navigate through personal and financial challenges. It's all about embodying the confidence and assurance in promises unseen, allowing this trust to guide us through the twists and turns of the coming year. So, join me as we commit to a 2024 where every step we take is a testament to our faith, and every challenge we face is an opportunity to demonstrate our trust in the divine plan.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

As the year draws to a close, I, Monique Simmons, invite you on a heartfelt journey we've traversed together. Embark with me on an intimate voyage through the top 5 episodes of 2023 that have shaped our community. This isn't just a mirror to the past; it's a celebration of growth and a beacon for the future, illuminating the path for what lies ahead.As we set sail toward new horizons, we delve into the transformative power of surrender in matrimony and the exquisite vulnerability required for spiritual growth. Just as the promise of new beginnings beckons us to embrace the exciting guests and collaborations awaiting in the year to come. With a spirit of gratitude and anticipation, we prepare to welcome the dawn of a new year, rich with God's grace and endless possibility.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Here's a promise to you - in our latest episode, you'll uncover the silver lining that often hides behind life's toughest trials. As your host, I'm here to share my own journey, one that's seen its share of tumultuous years, much like the one you've probably experienced in 2023. We've all had our struggles, our heartaches, and our battles. But as we delve deep into life's duality, we also discover the incredible beauty that often emerges from our hardest moments. So, let's walk through this together, drawing strength from personal experiences and the undeniable power of God's word.Life is a blend of challenges and beauty, and sometimes, it's in the midst of our struggles that we find our innermost strength. It's in this episode that I open up about my personal trials and how my faith in God has been a beacon of hope. Radiating the essence of Romans 8:28, we'll remind ourselves that every circumstance we encounter is working for our good. And inspired by David's example in the Bible, we'll learn the art of self-encouragement - a skill that can steer us through the roughest waters. We'll discuss the strength in vulnerability and how essential it is to share encouragement and love with each other. So, join me, and let's explore the beauty, strength and peace that life's challenges can bring.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

What if self-care could transform your life? I'm Monique Simmons, and I'm here to share a tale of my annual self-care birthday 6challenge, a transformative voyage that has taken me places I never imagined. This November, I'm not just sharing my journey, but a holistic approach to self-care that became essential when my life took a backseat.From dancing joyfully to experimenting with a new hair color, from celebrating my 35th birthday in Miami to an adventurous ATV ride and6 setting new physical self-care goals - it's been an exhilarating journey. Of course, there were challenging aspects too: therapy sessions, wrestling with illness, and wrestling with the mental and emotional backlashes. Believe me, this journey isn't just about me, it's about all of us learning to value ourselves and our well-being.As we wrap up this self-care odyssey, I'm eager to share my insights, tips and encouragement for those of you embarking on your own self-care voyage. Remember, self-care is about confronting our fears, setting targets, achieving them and personal growth. Regardless of whether you've been scoffing at my self-care posts or following them eagerly, I invite you to join me on this episode. We could all use a little more self-care in our lives, let's explore together the power of self-care and its profound impact on our overall health and happiness!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Ever thought about how two people meet, fall in love, and navigate life's challenges together? Welcome to our world! Join Corey and I in this intimate conversation, we share our unique love story, beginnings from North Park Mall, high school dating, and the surprising confession Corey had about me from day one.Life has a way of throwing curveballs and our story is no different. We were unexpectedly thrust into marriage and parenthood while still figuring out ourselves. Listen as we recount those early years of juggling multiple roles, the resentments we harbored, and how we grew to accept and thrive in our circumstances. Our faith journey forms a pivotal part of our narrative, shedding light on how we overcame personal issues, found financial stability and even bought our first home.Parenthood is a rollercoaster of emotions and experiences. Together, we unravel our journey of planned and unplanned pregnancies, our decision to welcome our last baby, Zoey Grace, and the inevitable challenges of parenting during a global pandemic. We wrap up with a candid chat on how couples therapy steered us towards a healthier path in our relationship. Ready to embark on this journey of love, growth, and overcoming adversity with us? Let's go!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

What happens when you meet your partner at a youth rally or online, and you're determined to make the relationship last? That's the journey we take with our inspiring guests, Allie and Heather. Together, they share their unique stories of love and marriage, all seen through the lens of their Christian beliefs. From meeting their respective partners to their proposal stories, there's a mighty mix of smiles, laughter, and a few tears too. And trust us, their stories of falling sick right after their wedding could give any romantic movie a run for its money.Now, imagine navigating life with a new partner, where the primary rule is never to consider divorce as an option. Sounds challenging, right? But the secret, as Allie and Heather reveal with a wealth of wisdom from their long-lasting marriages, lies in the steadfast friendship, trust, and open communication with their spouses. They delve into the intricacies of their initial years of marriage, drawing from their experiences and sharing how they learned to understand and respect their differences. But the podcast isn't just about them. It extends to the larger community, exploring how community support can be a lifeline during difficult times. They stress the importance of enduring through tough times together, providing invaluable tips on how to foster a healthy relationship. And as they wrap up the episode, they leave you with an echo of their advice - that a strong marriage is a three-stranded cord between you, your partner, and God. So tune in, savor their lived experiences, and get a dose of inspiration on nurturing a long-lasting, vibrant relationship.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Join us as we voyage into the heartwarming and heart-wrenching love story of Averi Leggett and her late husband, Sean. Uniting two souls that first crossed paths in high school, this tale of love and loss is one that began with youthful innocence, blossomed amidst the chaos of the digital age, and became steadfast with the birth of a beautiful child. Discover how their whirlwind romance led to a beautifully intimate wedding within a year and learn about their decade-long journey together which abruptly ended with Sean's untimely passing.In this profoundly moving narrative, Averi sheds light on various aspects of her relationship with Sean. Uncover the facets of Sean's personality that made Averi realize that he was her life partner - his unwavering support, his calming demeanor, and the safety he offered. The path to marital bliss wasn't without its hurdles, as we delve into the challenges they faced whilst merging households, families, and lives. Averi also shares profound lessons about self-care and the need for personal time, which she learned through their journey together.However, it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Averi's story takes a tragic turn as she recounts her experience of losing Sean to COVID. With touching vulnerability, she opens up about their final moments together, the difficult decisions she had to make, and how she navigated through the crippling pain of grief. Yet, amidst the sadness, there's a beacon of resilience and hope. We wrap up the episode sharing advice for those grieving the loss of a loved one, emphasizing the significance of a supportive community, self-care, and being present for others. As a testament to love, loss, and the power of moving forward, Averi's inspiring journey serves as a beacon of hope for those navigating their own grieving process.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Let's celebrate my birthday month together with a challenge! As another year of my life rolls around, I'm motivated to kick off my annual self-care challenge. This November, I'm committing to daily acts of self-care - a blend of pre-planned and spontaneous activities to treat myself right. I'll be sharing my daily journey on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok, and I'd love for you to join me! Let's hold each other accountable as we prioritize wellbeing. Self-care is not a luxury, but a necessity. Simultaneously, we'll be embarking on a heartfelt adventure with the launch of my new series, the Journey of Love. Each episode will unravel unique stories of love and relationships shared by couples and individuals. It's an intimate look at their paths to love - the heartwarming beginnings, the inevitable bumps along the way, and the joyous milestones. I'm also open to your ideas for our self-care challenge, so don't hesitate to get in touch! So, are you ready to prioritize self-care and celebrate love this November? Let's embark on this dual journey together, nurturing our lives and relationships one day at a time.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Guess what? Only 31% of couples undergo premarital counseling, and merely 19% seek some form of couples therapy. Shocked? So was I. In this episode of Demo with Mo, we unpack the often misunderstood topic of couples therapy - from the surprising statistics around its usage, to the benefits of investing time and effort into improving your relationship. We pull back the curtain on the significance of premarital counseling, the importance of having hard conversations early, and even touch upon the delicate topic of when it might be time to go see a professional.You might think you're alone in struggling to keep your relationship afloat - you're not. The societal pressure, shame game, and denial discourage couples from seeking help. The stigma surrounding therapy often hinders couples from working on their relationship. But hey, let's bust this myth - a relationship requiring effort is not doomed to fail!   Dr. John Gottman has curated a list of 15 telltale signs that could suggest it's time for you and your partner to consider couples counseling. Remember, it's not a sign of weakness, but a step towards a healthier and happier relationship.Lastly, I share my journey of navigating therapy. From the enriching experiences, to the common barriers faced by many. The importance of finding a qualified, impartial therapist cannot be stressed enough - it can make or break your therapy experience. No more stigma, no more shame; it's time to open up the conversation on couples therapy. In the end, I encourage you to invest in your relationship and seek help when needed. Tune in for this heart-to-heart on Demo with Mo. It's more than just a podcast - it's a resource to help navigate the complex world of relationships.Resources:https://www.gottman.com/blog/is-it-time-to-go-to-couples-counseling/#:~:text=There%20are%20telltale%20signs%20that%20signal%20you%20and%20your%20romantic,Emotional%20distance%20and%20loneliness.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Ever wrestled with inner conflict that affect your relationships or everyday decisions? We certainly have. Using our personal stories as a canvas, we unravel the complexity of inner struggles in this compelling episode. We delve deep into how these hidden battles impact our relationships and everyday lives. We share our own experiences, shedding light on how insecurities and the need for control can sometimes lead us astray.Ever wondered what the power of opening up can do? We've found the answer. As the conversation unfolds, we emphasize the importance of open communication about our internal struggles. We share heartwarming stories of unexpected comfort and support, and the surprising strength that comes from sharing our vulnerabilities. We explore the healing power of transparency, and how embracing our struggles can lead to emotional growth and stronger bonds.Tackling internal conflicts is no easy feat, but we've got some strategies that might help. In the final chapters of this episode, we provide practical steps and tools to help overcome personal struggles. We share our own experiences and insights into the importance of self-care, therapy, and surrounding ourselves with a supportive network. We also delve into using spiritual and biblical references to help bring these struggles into the light. Tune in to find solace in shared struggles and learn valuable strategies for overcoming personal battles.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Ever found yourself wondering why family arguments always escalate, or why certain expectations from relatives feel damaging rather than supportive? If so, you're not alone. On our latest episode, I sit down with my step-sister, Kiersten Lewis, to tackle these tough questions and shed light on the often-overlooked topic of toxic family behaviors that are normalized by society. We delve into societal expectations that children are somehow obligated to fulfill their parents' emotional needs, and we explore the harmful impact such expectations can have.Through our conversation, we address a variety of issues from the pressure to always agree with family members, to the deceit of parents keeping secrets from their children. We reference Kirk Franklin's documentary that highlights the damaging ripple effect secrets and lies can have within a family dynamic. Underscoring the need for honest communication, we challenge the notion that family members have an unspoken right to control our decisions and dictate our self-understanding.As the discussion evolves, we touch on the uncomfortable yet crucial task of confronting and resolving conflicts within relationships. Kiersten courageously shares her personal experiences and insights, reinforcing the idea that conflict, when addressed, can be an opportunity for growth. Tune in to this episode for an enlightening exploration of family dynamics and an empowering call for personal autonomy and conflict resolution in our relationships. Unpack the hard truths with us and let's navigate the complexities of family life together.Resources:Mosaic Counseling & Wellnesshttps://www.facebook.com/MosaicCounselingWellnesshttps://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02QoD3J3oTYVa8iKQUApTN4fBnTfZA3B5Xie3KEgftegsDRj8tqNfG9x5PpSNxru93l&id=101282717977212&mibextid=675ZYkSupport the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Ready for a heart-to-heart chat about keeping things exciting in your relationship? We've got you covered on this episode of Demo with Mo. We're opening up about our personal experiences and sharing practical tips to breathe fresh life into your relationship or marriage. From finding delight in the little things—like a random sticky note left on the mirror—our discussion navigates the realities of maintaining excitement in our relationships.Craving a deeper connection with your partner? Let's talk about emotional and physical intimacy! We're tearing down walls and encouraging emotional vulnerability. Why? Because emotional intimacy has the power to fuel a rewarding physical relationship. We're sharing strategies to spark these crucial conversations, where you can express your dreams, fears, and desires. We're also discussing physical affection, from expressing needs to exploring each other's bodies, and how to have open, respectful dialogue about sex in marriage.Finally, we're tackling the often overlooked topic of individual interests and hobbies. We believe these can boost your confidence and self-esteem, which in turn can positively impact your relationship. So whether it's your love for painting or knack for cooking, it's time to embrace it and let it add a new layer to your relationship. We also touch on the importance of humor and shared experiences in keeping the spark alive. So pull up a chair, because this episode of Demo with Mo is sizzling with insights on nurturing excitement and intimacy in your relationship. Enjoy the listen!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Ever wondered about the secret sauce that makes relationships last? This episode of Demo with Mo is an invigorating discussion with our relationship community members, Ash, Jasmine, and Rashad, as we unravel the common patterns couples that "make it" share and its essential role in long-lasting relationships.Friendship, we learn, is the bedrock of a successful relationship. Robust friendships offer the resilience needed to weather the tough times. But it's not just about endurance; it's about appreciation too. Shared adversities and appreciation of quirks bind us together in a unique bond that strengthens the relationship. Listen in as Ash, Jasmine, and Rashad share their personal experiences of how humor can help embrace these quirks, and how allowing each other to be themselves, without imposing change, breeds trust and acceptance.We don't stop there. We take you through the nuances of apologizing, communication, and relationship repair, sharing from personal experiences. We discussed the importance of self-awareness and difficult conversations. Finally, we delve into the often-overlooked aspect of relationships—boundaries. Inspired by Dr. Nicole Lapera's research, we explore the benefits of setting boundaries, even within family relationships. Join us for this enlightening discussion and learn how these patterns can create a positive ripple effect in your relationships.Dr. Nicole Lepera: The 7 Patterns Within Couples Who "Made It."Twitter https://twitter.com/Theholisticpsyc/status/1694391329445511628Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/100069813781908/posts/603188648684923/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6vSupport the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Season six of Demo with Mo is here, and can I tell you something? It's shaping up to be our best season yet, exploring the profound influence our past can have on our current relationships. We are taking a deep dive into the rich storyline of Zach and Fatima from the popular show 'Zatima.' Their journey gives us a window into the complexities of emotional baggage and how it can strain our relationships.Our past has a peculiar way of creeping up on us, doesn't it? Through Zach's character, we get a glaring example of how unresolved emotional trauma can create ripples in our relationships. The suppressed emotions, the denial, the old habits - they all come to play. As we journey together in today's episode, we unmask these hidden barriers that prevent us from forming meaningful connections. I promise you, it's going to be an eye-opening experience that will cause us to introspect deeply about our own past and its implications.But there's hope, beautiful hope in learning and healing from the past. We draw wisdom from scripture references to understand the transformative power of forgiveness and acknowledging our past. We discuss the benefits of "I statements" and the solace we can find in sharing our experiences with those close to us. Let's embark on this journey together, embracing the lessons and healing from our past, and using it as a catalyst to build stronger, healthier relationships. Join me, Monique Simmons, as we navigate these deep waters on this first episode of season six of Demo with Mo.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Join me and guest host Amye Grant, creator of the premium events platform Queen Talks, as we draw the curtains on a transformative season five interview with me in the hot seat. You'll be privy to how this podcast came into existence, its vision, and the benefits it was designed to provide. Whether you're navigating the initial stages of a relationship or are knee-deep in marriage, learn how to source the power of resilience and the belief that even the most challenging times can be temporary. Get a front-row seat to my story of overcoming apprehensions to publicly share my personal journey. You'll learn the fine art of keeping your privacy intact while baring your soul. Discover how I have strategically veiled specific details to protect identities, and the reason behind dedicating my platform to glorify God. We then transition into unveiling my ambitions and future plans for the podcast. Lastly, we dive into the heart of the matter - keeping the spark alive in marriage, acknowledging mistakes made, and overcoming fears. I spill the beans on the best gift I've ever received from my husband – his investment in my podcast dream. The season rounds off with a focus on the power of prayer in relationships. Join us and be part of a meaningful, enriching, and transformative season finale.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Prepare to flip the script as we approach the thrilling finale of our fifth season here on Demo with Mo. I'm Monique, your host, but this time, I'll be the one answering the hard questions. A special guest host, whose identity will remain a surprise, will be directing the spotlight onto me. I can already feel the excitement as I get ready to step into the guest's shoes. In this season, I've laid my heart bare, working on real-life issues in real time, and sharing my journey with you. Your feedback paved the way for more interviews and fresh faces, making this season one of my favorites. As we wind down to the end with the forthcoming finale, I want to express my deep gratitude for your support. I can't wait to reconnect with you next season, as we continue to explore dating, engaged, and married objectives from a young Christian's perspective. Until then, join our community on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook, and stay tuned for a finale that's set to be unforgettable!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

After a heartfelt trip to Atlanta with my husband to celebrate our wedding anniversary and his birthday, I've discovered the real essence of prioritizing relationships amidst the whirlwind of life's routines. With our 13th wedding anniversary as the backdrop, we opened up to each other, sharing feelings, addressing issues, exposing vulnerabilities, and reconnecting on a profound level. This personal journey inspired me to share some insights on nurturing and reviving relationships with you, my dear listeners.Let's explore together how intentional appreciation and daily check-ins can revitalize your relationship. Listen in as I delve deeper into understanding your partner's needs and how showing a willingness to lighten their load can mean a world. And it doesn't stop here - I invite all of you to engage and share your favorite methods of reconnecting with your significant other. Screenshot and tag me on Instagram and Facebook, let's continue this conversation about love, connection, and rekindling relationships. Let's embark on this journey together, because love is always worth the effort.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

When Father's Day rolls around, do you find yourself feeling more sadness than joy? If so, you're not alone. In this heartfelt episode, I open up about my own experiences with the emotional challenges of Father's Day, and provide practical ways to heal and find comfort during this sensitive time.Our discussion begins by honoring the amazing fathers out there, like my husband, who show up and provide for their families despite the challenges they face. But we also acknowledge that Father's Day can be a painful reminder of grief, loss, or complicated relationships. From processing the emotions that come with a changed relationship to our fathers, to setting healthy boundaries with those who may trigger difficult feelings, we explore a range of coping strategies to help you find solace on this complicated day.Lastly, we share a powerful reminder for those struggling with their own fatherhood journey, or those who have never met their fathers: you are not broken, you are worthy of love, and there is nothing wrong with you. Join us as we navigate the complexities of Father's Day, offering support, compassion, and hope for those who may be struggling.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Marriage is a beautiful journey that two people embark on together, promising to love and support each other through thick and thin. It is a commitment that requires dedication, patience, and understanding. For Monique and her husband, their marriage love story has spanned over 13 years as they celebrate their 13th wedding anniversary.To commemorate this milestone, they share their experiences in this episode. As they reflect on their years of togetherness, Monique and her husband can't help but feel an overwhelming sense of joy and gratitude. Celebrating an anniversary is a special occasion for any couple, but for them, it's a reminder of the countless memories they've created and the challenges they've overcome as a team. It is a time to honor the bond they have built and the love that continues to flourish.Together, they open up about their journey, discussing the 13 valuable lessons they have learned along the way. Their aim is to inspire and guide others in their pursuit of a thriving and lasting relationship, offering practical advice that can be implemented to reignite the spark in any marriage. Whether you have been married for a few months or several years, the episode offers valuable insights that you can implement right away to nurture and cherish your own relationship.Tune inKey Highlights from the Episode[00:01] Intro and a quick preview of Monique's first public speaking event as a podcast host[05:41] Thirteen things Monique & her husband have learned in 13 years of marriage[06:37] Love is a choice[08:11] Love your partner the way you want to be loved[10:15] Learn your partner[10:58] Learning your body & how to communicate what you sexually need without shame[13:28] Simmons learned to become an alpha male[14:16] Importance of self-work in your marriage[15:05] The untold power of creating time for your partner[15:36] You cannot change your spouse[16:35] Learning to trust your partner[17:16] How the family dynamics in your growing up affects your present marriage[18:52] Benefits of being self aware and acknowledging your weaknesses[19:31] Different does not mean wrong[21:12] Why marriage is the only relationship that shows you who you really are[22:55] A quick recap and answering questions from the followers[28:36] What Monique and her husband look for in the next year of marriage[29:18] Wrap up and end of the showPlease consider leaving a review and sharing it with your friends and family!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Throughout the month of May, a special time when we celebrate Mother's Day, Monique has been hosting a captivating podcast series focusing on all things motherhood. In each episode, she has been exploring different topics with insightful guests. Today is the season's grand finale, and joining Monique is a truly extraordinary guest – her own mother.In this episode, Monique and her mother share their hearts. They reflect on their relationship, starting from Monique's joyful and carefree childhood. However, as Monique entered her teenage years, things changed. She became rebellious, challenging her mother's expectations. Together, they dive into the reasons behind this behavior, acknowledging that personal struggles within the family affected Monique's actions.With honesty and vulnerability, Monique opens up about her need for attention, explaining that she felt her parents were too absorbed in their own issues. As they have a heartfelt conversation, they offer valuable insights to all mothers seeking to cultivate positive and loving relationships with their children. Join Monique and her mother as they reflect on the incredible journey of motherhood, where love, growth, and understanding intertwine beautifully.Tune inKey Highlights from the Episode[00:01] Intro and what is in for you today[02:29] How Monique's mother describes her life when she first became a mother[03:32] The inspiration to become a mother[08:16] Monique and her mother's relationship as she was growing up[14:17] Age when she noticed things began to change in Monique and why[19:46] Possible reasons why Monique became rebellious at the teenage age[26:55] Things Monique's mom would change about her relationship given an opportunity[33:40] Why her mom will be much more willing to go to therapy with her[42:59] What Monique's mother loves the most about her daughter as a mother [47:34] Ways that Monique reminds her of her mother [50:24] The importance of a good mother-child relationship[53:15] Practical ways to start cultivating a healthy relationship with your children[55:16] What Monique's mom would do differently given a second chance [57:52] Advice to moms on how they can nurture a better relationship with adult children[01:10:35] Wrap up and end of the showNotable Quotes In many instances, when parents face their own challenges, it is the children who bear the silent burden, enduring their struggles in solitude.A mother's love should extend equally and unconditionally to all her children, embracing them wholeheartedly despite the mistakes they may make along the way.Parents should refrain from interfering in their children's personal matters, such as marriage and parenting styles. Respect their autonomy and be available when needed.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

We enter into marriage not only to forge a bond with our spouses but also to embrace the role of being a bonus mom or a son or daughter-in-law. However, expectations and communication with our in-laws or bonus kids can sometimes lead to challenges that affect both our kids and our marriages. To restore and strengthen these connections, it is crucial to initiate open lines of communication and truly get to know one another on a personal level. Although it may be extremely difficult, engaging in difficult conversations paves the way for understanding and growth. Building lasting relationships relies on effective communication and the foundation of respect, which holds the power to bridge gaps and foster harmony in our relationships.Join the conversation with Markisha Williams and Yolanda Agee as they share more about their experiences as a bonus/step mom and with mothers-in-laws. Yolanda is Monique's bonus mother, she's a wife, a mom, and a grandmother who loves her grandbabies. Markisha is Monique's step-sister and has been on the podcast before. She is a wife and mother of four and enjoys spending time with her family and reading books. Markisha is a real estate agent and teacher who loves traveling and meeting new people.Tune in!During this episode, you will learn about;[00:01] Intro and a bit about our guests today, Markisha Williams and Yolanda Agee[02:39] Three words Yolanda and Markisha use to describe themselves as moms[09:36] Markisha's marriage and her relationship with her mother-in-law at the beginning[07:15] How long Yolanda has been a stepmom, and why she prefers the title “bonus mum.” [08:26] Yolanda's expectations before getting into marriage as a bonus mum  [09:13] Yolanda's relationship at the beginning with her mother-in-law[09:56] The biggest challenges in bonus mum and mother-in-law relationships [13:07] What Yolanda knows now that she wishes she had known when she first became a bonus mom [17:05] Roles spouses have in helping build mother-in-law and bonus mom relationships[19:35] What happens when one spouse is passive and the other is trying to take over [25:25] Markisha's advice on how to restore a relationship between a mother-in-law and son or daughter in law[26:50] Yolanda's advice to a bonus mum who is new to her role or has messed up with her bonus kids[31:21] Wrap up Notable Quotes As step moms, we don't go into marriage for our husbands only but for the kids as well. Restoring relationships starts with communication and getting to know each other at a personal level.Sometimes we avoid hard conversations because we don't know which way they will go, but this is the best way to get to know and understand someone.Please consider leaving a review and sharing it with your friends and family!Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/

Being a mom is an amazing journey. It brings so much joy and fulfilment and helps us grow as individuals. It's a role that goes beyond limits, testing our strength, patience, and capacity to love. From the incredible moments of seeing our child take their first steps to the sleepless nights spent comforting them, motherhood is full of deep experiences that help us develop personally. But in the midst of all the emotions and responsibilities, being a successful mom is a delicate balance. We need to take care of ourselves, be adaptable, and have a strong support system.Join this conversation with three of Monique's closest friends, Angela Sartin, Averi Harris-Leggett and Raenica Phillips. In this episode, they dive into the captivating role of motherhood and explore the significance of cultivating a supportive network of friends and a strong village. The guests graciously share their unique experiences and insights gained along their motherhood journey. Each brings their own stories, challenges, and triumphs to the conversation. Tune in to learn the power of connection, the importance of mutual support, and the transformative impact of building a village to thrive in the beautiful chaos of raising children.Tune in!Key Highlights from the Episode;[00:01] Episode intro and what's in for you today[01:21] How Angela, Averi and Raenica describe themselves as mothers[07:51] Number of kids and their diversified ages[08:34] Their dreams of being a mom[13:16] The easiest parts of being a mom[1414] The guests' hardest parts of motherhood[17:02] How to help your children going through challenges you went through[22:35] What they found as the most surprising thing about motherhood[32:26] How the parenting village group impacted them as mothers[46:06] What they would do differently in motherhood if given a blank slate[01:03:00] How younger children have gotten a better version of their mothers' character[01:11:31] The best ways to balance motherhood and self-care[01:23:44] Guest's advice to mom's who feel they are not doing enough[01:32:55] Key golden nuggets from the guests and episode wrap up[01:38:56] Ending show and calls to actionNotable Quotes The people you surround yourself with greatly affect your journey as a mother.Give yourself grace as you navigate the different stages of motherhood, understanding that success may look different in each phase. Remember that you are doing your best.Motherhood teaches us that success is not measured solely by individual achievements but by the meaningful connections we establish and the love we both give and receive.Motherhood is a privilege and a divine ministry ordained by God. Therefore, it's important to align your mothering standards with God's instructions.Support the showConnect with MoBecome a Subscriber for subscriber only content: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1834533/subscribeMerchandise: https://demo-with-mo.myspreadshop.com/ Website: https://www.demowithmo.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/demowithmopodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/demowithmo/Facebook Relationship Community:https://www.facebook.com/groups/548524369897098/?ref=share TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@demowithmo/