Podcasts about sexual brokenness

Learn More About Arise for Women: https://cvnteyes.co/3ZvW65UIn this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter is joined by Heidi Cooper, Covenant Eyes' recovery specialist, and Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries. Together, they dive deep into the struggles women face in dealing with sexual brokenness, including addiction, shame, and the devastating impact of pornography. They explore the difficult conversations around healing from sexual trauma, the challenges of discussing these topics in the church, and the vital role of community and support groups in recovery.Ashley shares insights from her own experience, discussing the growing issue of pornography use among Christian women and how resources like Pure Desire's groups are helping to provide healing and recovery. They also explore the importance of addressing these issues openly in our churches and families, encouraging women to break free from the shame and find freedom in their identity as new creations in Christ.Topics covered include:• Sexual addiction recovery and healing• The stigma and shame surrounding women's struggles with pornography• Pure Desire's resources for individuals and families• Supporting children in a "pornified" culture• How to lead and protect our communities and families from sexual brokennessIf you or someone you know is struggling with sexual brokenness, betrayal, or addiction, this episode offers valuable resources, support, and encouragement. Listen to real-life stories and gain tools for walking out your healing journey.Resources mentioned in the episode:Pure Desire Ministries: https://puredesire.org/Covenant Eyes: https://cvnteyes.co/3ZvW65UCHAPTERS:0:00 - Introduction to the Episode3:30 - Ashley Jameson's Background and Role at Pure Desire7:00 - The Church's Struggle to Address Sexual Addiction10:15 - The Impact of Pornography on Women14:00 - The Role of Women in Supporting Each Other18:30 - Sexual Brokenness: A Personal and Collective Issue22:00 - Navigating Trauma and Healing Through Groups26:30 - Parenting and Technology: Protecting Children in a "Pornified" Culture31:00 - Pure Desire's Resources for Healing34:00 - How to Get Involved and Find Help36:30 - The Power of Community in Addiction Recovery39:00 - Closing Thoughts and EncouragementSubscribe to the Covenant Eyes Podcast for more insights on healing, addiction recovery, and faith.#SexualBrokenness #overcomingpornography #christianwomenpornaddiction #covenanteyespodcast Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Today's podcast is part III of a series of episodes of a real story of a couple who shares authentically about their journey of sexual brokenness, addiction, betrayal, and ultimately healing. To do justice work well, we have to wrestle together through the hard things. And if we want to fight s*x trafficking, we have to talk about the demand for it. Our stance is that porn is a huge precursor towards perpetuating trafficking and an addiction that is often brushed under the rug, leading to deep shame for those in addiction, or in other cases defensive minimization. We also believe in the worth, value, and dignity of each individual and so we offer this story to give you as the listener a new perspective and perhaps a reminder that even for the most seemingly broken of circumstances, there is above all hope that healing is possible and that quite possibly, the light can shine beautifully through our cracks. If you or a spouse are struggling with betrayal trauma, p*rn or s*xual addiction, there's help for you. Check out one of our highlighted podcast guests like Justin with Beyond the Line Ministries, or Ashley with Pure Desire Ministries - both are compassionate individuals who are here to help you. You are not alone.

Today's podcast is part II of a series of episodes of a real story of a couple who shares authentically about their journey of sexual brokenness, addiction, betrayal, and ultimately healing. To do justice work well, we have to wrestle together through the hard things. And if we want to fight s*x trafficking, we have to talk about the demand for it. Our stance is that porn is a huge precursor towards perpetuating trafficking and an addiction that is often brushed under the rug, leading to deep shame for those in addiction, or in other cases defensive minimization. We also believe in the worth, value, and dignity of each individual and so we offer this story to give you as the listener a new perspective and perhaps a reminder that even for the most seemingly broken of circumstances, there is above all hope that healing is possible and that quite possibly, the light can shine beautifully through our cracks. If you or a spouse are struggling with betrayal trauma, p*rn or s*xual addiction, there's help for you. Check out one of our highlighted podcast guests like Justin with Beyond the Line Ministries, or Ashley with Pure Desire Ministries - both are compassionate individuals who are here to help you. You are not alone.

Today's podcast is part I of a series of episodes of a real story of a couple who shares authentically about their journey of sexual brokenness, addiction, betrayal, and ultimately healing. To do justice work well, we have to wrestle together through the hard things. And if we want to fight s*x trafficking, we have to talk about the demand for it. Our stance is that porn is a huge precursor towards perpetuating trafficking and an addiction that is often brushed under the rug, leading to deep shame for those in addiction, or in other cases defensive minimization. We also believe in the worth, value, and dignity of each individual and so we offer this story to give you as the listener a new perspective and perhaps a reminder that even for the most seemingly broken of circumstances, there is above all hope that healing is possible and that quite possibly, the light can shine beautifully through our cracks. If you or a spouse are struggling with betrayal trauma, p*rn or s*xual addiction, there's help for you. Check out one of our highlighted podcast guests like Justin with Beyond the Line Ministries, or Ashley with Pure Desire Ministries - both are compassionate individuals who are here to help you. You are not alone.

Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We're talking with Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries. According to a Barna study, 75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women view pornography at least occasionally, with 67% of pastors having a personal history of porn use. How can churches effectively address pervasive issues […]

Today's guest Jay Stringer (known by some as "the porn whisperer") shares how your sexual struggles could be predicted by your untreated past trauma. You don't want to miss this incredible episode! Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to get your first 30 days free! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Arise Unwanted by Jay Stringer Unwanted Workbook The Journey Course @jay_stringer_ Jay-stringer.com  ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Young Adults Red Talks presents: Stories of Sexual Brokenness hosted by Dale Meredith with Summah Hughes and Caleb Gomez at The Red Door Community Church - apologies for the audio quality.

This episode delves into the critical issue of online sexual exploitation and human trafficking, exploring innovative approaches to combat these pervasive problems. Dr. Lisa Strohman, a clinical psychologist with FBI experience, and Wes Lyons, a venture capitalist, offer their expertise and insights into this complex challenge.The discussion begins with Dr. Strohman shedding light on the alarming tactics used by the pornography industry to target children through seemingly innocuous platforms like educational apps and online games. She emphasizes the urgent need for better education and awareness to protect young minds from early exposure and potential addiction.Wes Lyons then introduces a unique perspective on fighting human trafficking by treating it as an economic problem. He explains how his fund, Eagle Venture Fund, invests in technologies designed to disrupt the business model of trafficking networks. The conversation explores various innovative solutions, from AI-powered tools that detect suspicious activities to platforms that help businesses avoid inadvertently supporting trafficking operations.The episode also addresses emerging challenges posed by artificial intelligence and deepfakes, highlighting real-world cases that demonstrate the evolving nature of online exploitation. Throughout the discussion, both guests stress the importance of collaboration between technology developers, businesses, and advocacy groups in creating effective solutions.Despite the gravity of the subject matter, the conversation concludes on a note of cautious optimism. Our guests share encouraging developments in the fight against exploitation, including the power of educating youth and the potential for technology and business strategies to make a significant impact.This episode offers listeners a comprehensive look at the intersection of technology, business, and social responsibility in addressing one of the most pressing issues of our time. It challenges us to consider how we can all play a part in protecting the vulnerable and creating a safer digital world.

Did you know that by adulthood, most people have experienced some form of sexual wounding? Today's conversation with Sam Jolman, therapist and author of the new book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got," is one of my absolute all-time favorites. Why? It truly surprised me. It's so rare to find a nuanced conversation about sex—especially in a world where we're constantly tugged between a reductive view of “purity” and an equally reductive sense of “permissiveness.” This conversation is packed with absolute gems—there's depth, wisdom, and healing in every moment that's relevant to all of us, no matter our stories. Here's what we dive into: - How to establish safety, consent, and trust in intimate relationships - An eye-opening statistic from Harvard about what kids long for from their parents on the topic of sex - How to have a truly meaningful “sex talk” with your kids - What God actually desires from us when it comes to sex - Sam's advice for those who've experienced sexual wounding or brokenness and want to begin the healing process Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here. Want to receive free bonus content? ⁠⁠Sign up for my free weekly email here. If you enjoyed this episode, you'll love: Episode 125: Recovering From Purity Culture: Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith with Dr. Camden Morgante Thanks to our sponsors: Go to www.organifi.com/bestofyou today and use code BESTOFYOU for 20% off your order today. Get an additional 15% off Fatty 15's 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/BESTOFYOU and using code BESTOFYOU at checkout. Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to SundaysForDogs.com/BESTOFYOU or use code BESTOFYOU at checkout. Go to thrivemarket.com/bestofyou for 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! Visit cozyearth.com and unlock an exclusive 35% off with code BESTOFYOU. Music by Andy Luiten Sound editing by Kelly Kramarik While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode delves into the critical issue of online sexual exploitation and human trafficking, exploring innovative approaches to combat these pervasive problems. Dr. Lisa Strohman, a clinical psychologist with FBI experience, and Wes Lyons, a venture capitalist, offer their expertise and insights into this complex challenge.The discussion begins with Dr. Strohman shedding light on the alarming tactics used by the pornography industry to target children through seemingly innocuous platforms like educational apps and online games. She emphasizes the urgent need for better education and awareness to protect young minds from early exposure and potential addiction.Wes Lyons then introduces a unique perspective on fighting human trafficking by treating it as an economic problem. He explains how his fund, Eagle Venture Fund, invests in technologies designed to disrupt the business model of trafficking networks. The conversation explores various innovative solutions, from AI-powered tools that detect suspicious activities to platforms that help businesses avoid inadvertently supporting trafficking operations.The episode also addresses emerging challenges posed by artificial intelligence and deepfakes, highlighting real-world cases that demonstrate the evolving nature of online exploitation. Throughout the discussion, both guests stress the importance of collaboration between technology developers, businesses, and advocacy groups in creating effective solutions.Despite the gravity of the subject matter, the conversation concludes on a note of cautious optimism. Our guests share encouraging developments in the fight against exploitation, including the power of educating youth and the potential for technology and business strategies to make a significant impact.This episode offers listeners a comprehensive look at the intersection of technology, business, and social responsibility in addressing one of the most pressing issues of our time. It challenges us to consider how we can all play a part in protecting the vulnerable and creating a safer digital world.

After spending several chapters on the issues of divisions within the church, in 1 Corinthians 5, the apostle Paul moves on to the topic of sexual brokenness within the church. His correction of the young church in Corinth can help us to think about how we deal with sexual ethics within our community. Do we actively encourage each other toward sexual health? Do we judge outsiders instead of focusing on ourselves? Do we have blind spots that have gone unnoticed?

Send us a textImagine rebuilding your life from the ground up after hitting rock bottom. Our guest, Josh Drago, takes us on a remarkable journey from his conservative Christian roots, military successes, and musical achievements to confronting life-altering personal challenges. Josh bravely shares how his unfulfilled need for validation led him down a destructive path with addictions and infidelity, and how a pivotal moment in 2021 was the catalyst for his transformative journey back to healing through faith.Navigating the tumultuous waters of rebuilding a marriage shattered by infidelity, Josh discusses the critical role of accountability and the power of support groups tailored for those battling unwanted sexual behaviors. We shed light on brain science in addiction and explore practical strategies like eliminating triggers to maintain sobriety. Importantly, Josh's story extends beyond personal recovery—highlighting how helping others facing similar battles becomes an empowering and integral part of his journey, illustrated through the practical resource, the "Field Guide to Freedom."Throughout this episode, we draw inspiration from biblical stories, emphasizing the importance of community and authentic connections in one's healing journey. We explore how desperation can drive transparency and accountability, and serve as a stepping stone towards genuine change. The episode culminates in a heartfelt prayer for hope and healing, inviting you to embrace discomfort and authenticity while engaging with our podcast as you embark on your own path to freedom and transformation.Check out Josh's field guide here.Support the showWe have BIG plans at Foxhole Symphony and sure could use your financial support. Would you prayerfully consider a small monthly contribution to support us in our mission to catalyze transformation in the hearts of men? Support Our MissionFind us at:https://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw

Devon Lind opens up about his journey of healing from sexual brokenness and addiction, and how it impacted his role as a dad and husband. He talks about how important it is to face personal wounds, bringing them into the light, and the freedom that comes with honesty and vulnerability. Devon also discusses the power of building rhythms in the home, creating deeper connections with family, and how healing can lead to stronger relationships. His story offers hope for men who are struggling and encourages them to take the first steps toward real change.Links and ResourcesDevon on LinkedInPure Desire MinistriesBlender---------Transform Your Body with Ned & RUK Fitness: RUK FitnessThis episode is sponsored by The Adventure of FatherhoodOrder The Adventure of Fatherhood children's book hereCheck out the TEDx----------Want to learn more about The Adventure of Fatherhood?https://www.adventureoffatherhood.com/https://www.rebelandcreate.com/Each week Ned sits down with a dad and asks him to open up his field notes and share with other men who find themselves on the Adventure of Fatherhood. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! 37:11.5Follow us:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fatherhoodfieldnotesYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@FatherhoodfieldnotesFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/rebelandcreateMentioned in this episode:RUK Fitness

In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the story of an ex-adult film star, Joshua Broome, who faced the pressure of conforming to the world and the crushing weight of depression and made a decision to take his own life. Despite fame and money, he struggled with emptiness, pain, and conviction—But his journey didn't end there. Join us as we talk about how Josh found true freedom, healing, and a renewed sense of purpose. This raw and inspiring conversation will leave you thinking about the power of redemption and the hope that can be found even in the darkest of places.#faithjourney #hope

Pastor Bart and Co-Director of Student Ministries Matt give some additional thoughts on the sermon, "Voting and Sexual Brokenness" given at WCPC on Sunday, September 22, 2024. Watch the sermon Listen to the sermon Intersections: Christianity, Sexuality, and Voting

Message from Bart Garrett on September 22, 2024

How do I sit in the dirt with someone who is experiencing sexual brokenness? What if I don't know what to say? What if I find myself dysregulated or sexually aroused by the other person? Jeremy Williamson offers invaluable wisdom and counterintuitive clarity about how "be with" others in such a way that they experience the presence of God.Jeremy Williamson is a storywork coach and counselor with ReStory. He is also the Director of Restorative Experiences at Restoration Project. As a former pastor and missionary with 20+ years of experience, Jeremy serves as a kind and passionate guide for men and women who long to know God and live in wholeness. Email Jeremy at jeremy@restory.life.If you loved this interview...Take the Sitting In The Dirt Course by Chris Bruno and Jeremy Williamson (highly recommended!)Join Sitting In The Dirt Cohort (for 5 weeks with Jeremy)Use the discount code HUSBANDMATERIAL for $10 off!Come to our free online workshop:HMA In A Day on Saturday, July 13!Sign up now at husbandmaterial.com/workshopTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Garry Ingraham with the "Love and Truth Network" will be hosting a series of summits in July in Binghamton on how to "heal from" and "deal with" sexual brokenness.  Here's some of his recent conversation with Family Life News.  

What causes a man or woman to become addicted to pornography or deviant sexual behavior? Steve Dulaney, Executive Director of Prodigals International, and Fausto Estrada join us to share insights on the root causes and the good news of recovery, healing, and hope. Prodigals helps men worldwide through groups and mentoring with powerful results. Fausto shares his story to help bring to light the incredible dangers of pornography and the redemption that can happen. A new Spanish-language group is in the results!

Join Pastor Chessor and Pastor Rhinehart in a profound discussion with Dr. Daniel Sirstad about the Apostolic Moral Purity Group (A.M.P). This special episode delves into the vital mission of A.M.P, dedicated to helping Apostolics overcome pornography and sexual brokenness, empowering them to live lives of moral purity. Whether you're seeking guidance, support, or hope, this episode offers invaluable wisdom for navigating the challenges of maintaining moral integrity in today's world.

In part one of last week's conversation, Dr. Carol described why information alone is not effective in bringing sexual wholeness, and why experiences and true connection is necessary. In part two, you'll hear what Dr. Carol Ministries has already been doing to help people grow into sexual wholeness, and some of the results. And you'll hear about the new kind of experience we are offering to help people bring Jesus into the places they need Him most, and how you - or a friend - can be a part of this. Check out Dr. Carol's new book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships And look around at all the supplementary resources at YourSexpectations.com. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message here.

There's an abundance of information available in regards to sexuality and relationships. But that information has not resulted in any lessening of sexual brokenness - in the culture at large or within the Christian church. Something is missing. In this first of a two-part conversation, Dr. Carol addresses that missing piece by discussing neurobiology, the way God created human beings with the need for intimacy (different from sex), and the process God uses to bring us to integration and wholeness. You'll understand what leads to true change, and why more information doesn't work. Check out Dr. Carol's new book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships And look around at all the supplementary resources at YourSexpectations.com. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message here.  

This week on the Exodus Cry Podcast, we welcome Jay Stringer, a therapist, author, and researcher focused on sexual health. Jay dives into the widespread issue of porn addiction, offering practical insights for those seeking freedom. Tune in for valuable perspectives on overcoming sexual brokenness and fostering healthier relationships. LINKS: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7h6K1rU... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Watch our films: www.exoduscry.com/watch Give & fuel the fight: www.exoduscry.com/donate Get involved: www.exoduscry.com/getinvolved Website: www.exoduscry.com Podcast: www.exoduscry.com/podcast Articles: www.exoduscry.com/articles SOCIALS: Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/exoduscry Instagram: www.instagram.com/exoduscry TikTok: www.tiktok.com/exoduscry Twitter: www.twitter.com/exoduscry Facebook: www.facebook.com/exoduscry Exodus Cry is a leading global anti-trafficking nonprofit organization focused on ending widespread sex trafficking and commercial sexual exploitation, exposing this injustice for millions worldwide, and helping its victims to rebuild their lives.

In this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, join host Karen Potter and special guest Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries as they dive deep into the crucial conversation surrounding women's struggles with sexual brokenness. Ashley, an associate director of women's groups at Pure Desire, shares her own journey of overcoming sexual addiction and betrayal, providing invaluable insights and wisdom along the way.Discover how technology, social media, and societal pressures are impacting women's sexual identities and relationships, and learn practical strategies for navigating these challenges. From the importance of transparency and support within the Church to empowering young women to break free from shame and secrecy, Ashley offers actionable advice for both individuals and church communities.Don't miss this enlightening discussion filled with hope, encouragement, and practical guidance for anyone struggling with sexual brokenness or seeking to support others on their journey to healing. Tune in now and join the conversation!https://puredesire.orghttps://covenanteyes.com#sexualbrokenness #covenanteyes #puredesire #sexualaddiction #sexualityTry Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast

In this episode of Becoming Whole Audio, host Josh Glaser discusses the importance of holding onto hope in the journey toward sexual integrity. He explores the questions of whether our hopes will be realized and if the journey will be worth it. By anchoring our hope in Christ and his kingdom, we can navigate the challenges with sobriety and trust in God's faithfulness. Join us in placing our hope in the secure promise of the kingdom to come, as we are cheered on by a great cloud of witnesses. Remember, it is worth it, and He is faithful. Want us to talk about a specific topic? Change up the format, or just tell us the podcast rocks! We want your feedback on Becoming Whole. You can leave your feedback hereIf you are in the Baltimore Area, Regeneration is happy to invite you to our 2024 Dessert Fundraiser, Spark: One Small Thing Leads to So Much More. This annual gathering is a highlight for so many as we gather for tasty desserts, heartfelt worship, vulnerable and powerful stories, and an opportunity to partner with what Jesus is doing through Regeneration. Click Here for more info or to register.

Imagine the transformative power of understanding God's standard for sexuality. This episode features an enlightening conversation with Matt Cline, founder and director of Restored Ministries, who is passionate about leading people out of sexual brokenness into a life of freedom and impact. We explore the far-reaching effects of sexual brokenness on all aspects of life and delve into how grace and mercy can reshape us into witnesses of hope. How does the church play a role in addressing sexual sin? Matt shares his insights on this crucial matter. We discuss the importance of pastors taking a lead in talking about sensitive topics like sex, the significance of gender-specific coaching, and the necessity of creating a church culture that believes in reconciliation and restoration. This episode emphasizes the real power that comes from understanding how to control our bodies and sexuality.As we navigate the complexities of biblical sexuality, we also touch on the unique struggles of those dealing with same-sex attraction. We discuss the need for churches to create secure environments for open conversations and the extra shame often felt by those with same-sex attraction. Matt shares his knowledge on serving this group effectively and motivating them to manage their sexuality in a Godly manner. This conversation aims to bring light into the often dark corners of our lives, and provide hope for restoration.To connect with Matt and Restored Ministries, check out these resources:Website: https://www.restoredministries.caPure Freedom Journey: https://www.restoredministries.ca/pfjPodcast: https://www.restoredministries.ca/purevictoryFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/restoredminInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/restoredsexuality/?fbclid=IwAR3Cxzzlme8thUlB71K4r-VYRDdh7hUiNd8Abc8YzllmobCAcFiDMIuke-cYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@restoredministries8634Join us weekly as we strive help people embrace God's standard for sexuality! Other ways to listen:https://linktr.ee/calibrateconversations

Jeremy Waldridge of Pure Life Alliance helps us understand the struggles of sexual brokenness and the hope for healing. ABOUT JEREMY WALDRIDGE: Jeremy Waldridge is the executive director of Pure Life Alliance and has over a decade of experience leading men out of the crippling effects of shame and addiction. ADDITIONAL RESOURCE: Books: Rethinking Sexuality: God's Design and Why It Matters by Dr. Juli Slatterly Honest Talk: A New Perspective on Talking to Your Kids About Sex by John W Ford Ministries: Pure Life Alliance Pure Desire Be Broken Filters: Vid Angel - Movies Covenant Eyes Plucky Accountable to You

When you're struggling with unwanted sexual behavior, asking for help is terrifying. The struggle feels so shameful and admitting your weakness feels humiliating. As a result, most men stay stuck for years and years. Thankfully, there's a way out. Asking for help from the right people is the key to overcoming shame, humiliation, and unwanted behavior. Today, a coach specializing in helping men break free from unwanted sexual behavior joins the show to discuss: Is freedom even possible? Why do men deserve that freedom?A valuable for you or men you know strugglingStories of transformation in the lives of the men he's coachedAdvice and encouragement for any man struggling right nowApply for Freedom CoachingGet FREE Mini-Course: Why You Feel BrokenShownotes

If you're a woman that struggles with unwanted sexual behavior, you are not alone. The myth of porn, or even lust, being a male problem is just that - a myth. More importantly, healing and freedom are within reach for you. In this episode, brave author and speaker Rachael Killackey shares her struggles with unwanted sexual behavior and a valuable resource for women struggling, plus:The emotions that sexual struggles brought into her lifeHow she found freedom and helps other women now, tooHow you should respond if you have a relapseBuy Rachael's Book: Love in Recovery: One Woman's Story of Breaking Free from Shame and Healing from Pornography AddictionJoin a Magdala groupListen to the Magdala PodcastGet FREE Mini-Course: Why You Feel BrokenShownotes

Although church is a place for imperfect people to go to become better, sometimes we find it hard to be accepted there through our own trials and imperfections, especially in the case of sexual brokenness. Today Daniel Weiss joins us to discuss how clergy and members of congregations can better approach this struggle and come together to help foster healing and acceptance. In this episode we cover: What do you see as God's design for healthy sexuality? How is this being distorted culturally? What do you mean when you say we're all sexually broken? How do you see us responding to this in unhealthy ways? What are the healthiest ways to respond to our own and other's sexual brokenness? How can we talk about sexual brokenness without inducing unhealthy levels of shame? How are you helping clergy teach and minister around these sensitive topics?  The Power of Community in Pornography Recovery: Download Relay and try it out for free, or learn more at Relay's website. Use code GEOFF1 for 15% off!  Broken trust? Download my FREE video series “The First Steps to Rebuilding Trust”  Join my 12-week program, The Trust Building Bootcamp, to heal your broken relationship. Join our new Connection Plus Community Sign up for our FREE weekly newsletter to stay up-to-date on exciting new announcements!  Download my FREE guide to help you quickly end arguments with your spouse:  Connect with me on social media: INSTAGRAM FACEBOOK Visit http://www.geoffsteurer.com for online courses and other supportive resources. About Geoff Steurer: I am a licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship educator, and coach with over 20 years of experience. I am the co-author of, "Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity", the host of the weekly podcast, "From Crisis to Connection", and have produced workbooks, audio programs, and online courses helping couples and individuals heal from the impact of sexual betrayal, unwanted pornography use, partner betrayal trauma, and rebuilding broken trust. As a leader in the field, I am a frequent contributor on these subjects at national conferences, documentaries, blogs, magazines, and podcasts. I also write a weekly relationship advice column available on my blog. I founded and ran an outpatient sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery group program for over 14 years, co-founded and chaired a local conference to educate community members about harmful media, and founded and administered a specialized group therapy practice for over 10 years. I currently maintain a private counseling and coaching practice in beautiful Southern Utah where I live with my wife and children. About Daniel Weiss: Daniel Weiss is the executive director of the Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit, which equips, supports, and collaborates with Christian leaders to promote Gospel-centered sexuality in the Church. Daniel has a passion for the sexually broken and the need for pastors, parents, and Christian leaders to respond with courage, compassion, and truth to the sexual challenges of our age. He is also a coauthor of Treading Boldly Through a Pornographic World: A Field Guide for Parents. In addition to his professional work, Daniel and his wife work daily to create a home of faith, forgiveness, laughter, and love in the Wisconsin countryside where they live with their five children.  Www.SexualIntegrityLeaders.com Www.BrushfiresFoundation.org Coauthor of Treading Boldly through a Pornographic World: A Field Guide for Parents

Our world is very sexually broken. The examples are endless: Pornography use, sexual compulsions, addictions, hookup culture, paying for sex, infidelity, sex trafficking, and much more.But how did our world become so sexually broken? That's the topic we tackle today with famous author and speaker Christopher West. If you've wrestled with sexual brokenness or noticed an ache inside that you that nothing seems to fill, this episode is for you.Image 1: Three ChoicesImage 2: Wall Unity CrucifixBuy Christopher West's BooksListen to the Ask Christopher West podcastGet FREE Mini-Course: Why You Feel BrokenShownotes

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Sex is meant to be a gift from God', but how can you see it as a blessing when you've made many mistakes? Jim Daly and Dr. Juli Slattery share how the gospel can redeem you from sexual brokenness. You'll also hear a powerful story from Dr. Greg Smalley, as he chats with his wife Erin and John Fuller.   Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY   Receive the "God, Sex, and Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount!   The Focus on the Family Marriage Assessment is designed to evaluate the strength of 12 essential traits of your marriage. Do you know your marriage's strengths and weaknesses?   Contact our Counseling Department   An Interview With A Post-Abortive Father   Listen Anytime   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

When we confess our sexual struggles, we are given grace, hope and most, love and a release from the binding shame that comes with this brokenness. Matt Cline of Restored Ministries reaches out to spouses here in this E + M mini!   He talks about community, God's grace, and his own story of recovery as well with us right here!   Listen as Matt walks you through what he continues to teach thousands across campuses and groups about sexual brokenness and pornography recovery and restoration. Matt shares practical steps for walking in healing and the fullness of God's love here as well. Find Matt's ministry right here!   Love this episode? Share with others and at Apple Podcast here, too!   Join the E + M Membership right here!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!  

Have you ever believed this about yourself? We know that this bad, false belief is pervasive and often reinforced by feelings of self-loathing and self-condemnation. That's why the With You in the Weeds team decided to tackle it head on. Lynn, John, and Austin address what might be one of the most heavy, messy, and complex FALSE beliefs in the entire series "Beliefs That Keep You Stuck". They define “sexual brokenness” and unpack the progression of intimate bonding and the powerful impact it has on your body and soul. This episode highlights 3 crucial principles you need to be aware of when it comes to the process of sexual bonding and relational attachment that may shed light on why this struggle feels so hard. Our hope is that as we tackle this false belief, the burdens you may carry related to this topic would be a bit lighter and that you have a better understanding of how this false belief is impacting you.  If you find the WYITW podcast helpful, tell your friends, leave the team a podcast review, follow us on Instagram @withyouintheweeds or email us at withyou@thecrossingchurch.com with any topics you'd like discussed on future episodes.

What if I told you that your sexual struggles could be predicted by your untreated trauma?Today, we're joined by author Jay Stringer who studied ~4,000 men and women who struggle with sexual compulsion or addiction, such porn, masturbation, affairs, buying sex, and much more. In this episode, we breakdown his NEW study and more:How the sexual fantasies and porn searches of the study participants could be predicted by their untreated traumaWhy we often repeat behavior that harmed us, such as sexual abuse or affairs, and how to avoid thatHow anger actually drives unwanted sexual behaviorWhy people from rigid or disengaged families are much more likely to struggle with sexual compulsion or addictionHow in order to break free, you have to listen to your lust and understand why you struggle in the particular ways that you doWhy typical lust management strategies like accountability software are not enoughWhether you struggle with sexual brokenness or know someone who does, this episode will help anyone find healing and lasting freedom from sexual brokenness.Buy Jay's Book: Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to HealingGet FREE Unwanted ChaptersGet FREE Mini-Course: Why You Feel BrokenShownotes

Seasoned Christians know that while our perfection is in process, we still live in the tension of the weakness of our flesh and the hope of becoming fully like our Savior. What does that look and feel like when you have lengthy and ongoing struggles with your flesh? This is Julia's story, and it's the story she shares in this honest, insightful and hope-filled podcast episode. Julia is a part of the Authentic Intimacy team, and joins Juli to discuss sexual sin, God's love and kindness, and the cultural challenges of singleness in the American Church.     Guest: Julia Mitchell   Java with Juli: #450 Breaking the Marriage Idol Java with Juli: #464 Why We Need to Remember the Dignity of Singleness Blog: A Road Map to Sexual Integrity in the Midst of Sexual Brokenness by Julia Mitchell Blog: 3 Reasons I Can Run To God With My Sexual Brokenness by Julia Mitchell Sign up for our OBS interest list!

This weekend we'll explore the often sensitive topic of sexual brokenness, the transformative power of Jesus' teachings, and the good news of hope and healing no matter your past or difficulties.Join us next weekend at The Branch Church and invite your friends and family for this important conversation!Find out what's going on at The Branch here: https://thebranch.org/events

This weekend we'll explore the often sensitive topic of sexual brokenness, the transformative power of Jesus' teachings, and the good news of hope and healing no matter your past or difficulties.Join us next weekend at The Branch Church and invite your friends and family for this important conversation!Find out what's going on at The Branch here: https://thebranch.org/events

When it comes to pornography, there are basically two types of people:Those who believe that porn is wrong and harmful. And those who do not.But beyond the arguments, millions of people struggle with a pornography compulsion or addiction. They want to break free, but they feel stuck and hopeless. No matter what they try, it doesn't work.In this episode, popular speakers and authors Matt Fradd and Jason Evert join me to answer these tough questions: Is porn harmful and wrong? If so, why? What does it do your brain and your relationships?How do you actually break free from porn?What resources are out there to help you or someone you care about?Buy the Book: Forged: 33 Days Toward Freedom by Jason Evert and Matt FraddBuy the Book: The Porn Myth: Exposing the Reality Behind the Fantasy of Pornography by Matt FraddGet the FREE Mini-Course: Why You Feel BrokenShownotes

Millions of people right now are struggling with sexual compulsion and addiction. It's a massive problem that doesn't get the attention or resources it deserves.Thankfully, in this episode, psychologist Dr. Bob Schuchts offers steps and a resource to heal your sexual brokenness. We also discuss:A story of profound healing and transformationDr. Bob's own past struggles in this areaHow sexual brokenness is often passed down in families through generationsBuy Dr. Bob's Book: Be RestoredGet the FREE Mini-Course: Why You Feel BrokenShownotes

If you're a woman that struggles with unwanted sexual behavior, have you felt like you're the only female that struggles? If so, that's an absolute lie. In fact, one study found that ~75% of women 18-30 reported viewing porn at least once a month. With more and more women struggling with porn and masturbation, speaker and author Kelsey Skoch joins the show to share steps you can take as a woman to find freedom. We also discuss:Kelsey's past struggles, what helped her find freedom, and what her life is like nowHow unhealed trauma can contribute to unwanted sexual behavior, including the trauma of your parents' divorce or broken familyHow some people claim these behaviors are good for women, but Kelsey shares how she's only seen it damage womenBuy Kelsey's book, Uncompromising Purity (Buy on Amazon)Take the My Broken Family AssessmentShownotes

Do you need to look at your past? If you want freedom from unwanted sexual behavior? Do you need to go back there?Do you need to think about mom and dad and kids at school and wounds you experienced if you want to be free?We're going to talk about that in today's podcast.Now, when we talk about looking at our pasts, we are not talking about blaming wounds we've experienced on our sin, we are responsible for our behaviors.Nonetheless, at Regeneration, we do spend time helping people unpack their stories, and by stories we mean their lives in the past, up to the present, and looking forward into the future.And we do that because we believe it's incredibly beneficial, and illuminating and powerful, as we want to draw nearer to Jesus, and heal from those things that have hurt us.So we can walk in greater sexual integrity.Show Notes and More at https://www.regenerationministries.org/do-i-need-to-look-at-my-past/

The more we seek to understand the factors that impact sexual brokenness, the more we recognize how racism can be a contributing factor. But how does racism impact sexual brokenness? On today's episode, we're joined by Immanuel and Michelle Garraway, who share their experiences with racism and the role it played in their recovery and healing journey. We talk through how family of origin and harmful intergenerational messages can become a catalyst for sexual brokenness, and how owning your story and the group experience can become a safe place for people of color. RESOURCES Full Episode Video (YouTube) Pure Desire Online Groups

When you find yourself lacking desire for your spouse, I would invite you to look somewhere else.I want to invite you to look at how you feel about yourself.  How good I feel about yourself is usually more of the underlying reason why you lack desire for your spouse, then your spouse's. It really has to do with you.So let me unpack that a little bit.When you look in the mirror, are you free from shame? Or maybe when you stand in front of a group of people? Do you feel free from shame with your clothes on for example?Do you feel free from shame, when you buy that great new outfit, and you get that great new haircut, and you've been working out and you feel like you look great?The fact that we spend so much time in front of the mirror, or so much time at the gym are often indicators that we actually feel a great amount of shame.We're trying to do things to cover up our shame, but if we live long enough, you find you're not really covering shame by working on how you look on the outside.If you find yourself pursuing sexual integrity, and you're lacking sexual desire for your spouse, stop focusing on them, criticizing them thinking If only they would look better.  If only they would treat me better, if only they would…Take your focus off of that.Start focusing on having Jesus restore your own sense of dignity and your own sense of goodness.That your shame was put on the body of Jesus, so that he could restore to you your sense of worth, as one who is made in the image of God, and who is in fact, designed by God to be and become more and more of a good gift for your spouse.As you embody that and carry that in the interior of who you are more and more,  you will find that your desire for your spouse grows.Highlights: When you find yourself lacking desire for your spouse. 0:04Lack of sexual desire for a spouse.Two reasons why a spouse might lack desire.Shame and the interior of you. 1:49Adam and Eve and feeling free from shame.The importance of self-improvement.How they felt good. 3:49They felt interiorly that they were a good gift to each other.Adam sees her as a help.The interior sense of goodness in ourselves. 5:20Freedom from shame comes from an interior sense of goodness.Husband's attraction to porn.The illusion of attraction is the illusion of goodness. 6:37Attraction is the illusion of goodness.Being a good gift in the world.Stop focusing on your spouse's appearance. 8:27Lack of sexual desire for your spouse.Focus on yourself, not them.Start focusing on restoring your own sense of dignity. 8:52Restore dignity and sense of goodness.Bring yourself as a good gift to your spouse.Help the show:Support the show.Give us your feedback.Leave a review.Watch us on YouTube.

In this podcast, we are talking about your imagination.We who are seeking sexual integrity know the problem of how our mind can get us into trouble with sexual thoughts, sexual fantasies, and sexual imaginings that lead us down a path. It can start with just a small thought that seems to kind of drift into our brain.Then something inside grabs a hold of it. And we muse on it. And it grows and grows, until we're doing things that we promised ourselves and others that we wouldn't do.So the imagination has been taken captive, and we're doing it again.What we want to remember in this podcast is that the imagination initially was not Satan's idea. It's something that he seeks to use to draw us away from God, but it wasn't his invention.The imagination is God's invention.But what did he design it for, and how can we utilize the way that God intended our imagination to be: to help us grow into the kind of people who are people of sexual integrity, sexual wholeness, and sexual maturity?Can you think about ways to engage your imagination to fill your life with the good of your imagination as opposed to allowing it to continue to move towards vices. I'm gonna give you four or five different ideas to help you answer these questions.Where are you using your imagination and creativity?Where can you use your imagination towards moving towards that brighter future?Where are you using your imagination for relationships?Where are you using your imagination to help you grow in faith?Help the show:Support the show.Help us improve the show.Leave a review.Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts.Follow us on YouTube for behind the scenes and more.

"Nothing affects the human heart more than our sexuality.” - Dan AllenderHow do we begin the process of healing from past sexual abuse? How do we deal with the pain, the hurt, and the emotional brokenness that has taken hold of our lives? How are we able to move on?Dan Allender says in his book, The Wounded Heart, “The journey involves bringing our wounded heart before God…”We're pleased to feature Michael's conversation with our good friend, Dr. Dan Allender. Dr. Allender pioneered a unique and innovative approach to trauma and abuse therapy. For over 30 years, the Allender Theory has brought healing and transformation to hundreds of thousands of lives by bridging the story of the gospel and the stories of trauma and abuse that mark so many.On this edition, Michael and Dan Allender talk about topics such as: Why every one of us is sexually broken, whether or not we have experienced sexual abuse or specific sexual harm. The major difference between man and woman, male and female, as we are made in God's image. The category of lust as “desire gone mad” and why it's crucial to understand lust in terms of relief and revenge.Dan also co-hosts The Allender Center's weekly podcast with Rachael Clinton Chen, which has had over 2 million downloads. *Today's conversation was originally recorded in November 2020*Discover how the barrier built by porn addiction can become a bridge to abundant life.What if lust for porn is really a search for true passion?In a world where there are 68 million searches for pornography every day and where over 70 percent of Christian men report viewing porn in the last year, it's no surprise that more and more men struggle with an addiction to this false fantasy. Common wisdom says if they just had more willpower or more faith, their fight would be over. Contact Restoring the Soul:- Tweet us at @michaeljcusick and @PodcastRTS- Like us on Facebook- Email us at info@restoringthesoul.comThanks for listening!

We've all read the stories of prominent Christian leaders succumbing to some sort of sexual brokenness. No one ever suspects the story will be about them.But do we take active steps to ensure it won't be?With all the stress, anxiety, and external pressures entrepreneurs face, we're often especially tempted to turn to outlets like pornography or infidelity. Most people don't like to talk about this, but the reality is that so many leaders struggle with this issue. We just keep it secret because of shame or embarrassment. At best, we try to fight against our temptations and end up at the same place we started.Jay Stringer offers us a different path forward on today's podcast. The psychotherapist and author helps guide people to healing by helping them deal directly with their unwanted desires.Jay has joined the show way back in episode 77, and this will be a standalone extension and continuation of that earlier conversation. Still, we'd highly encourage you to go back and check out that discussion to get the whole picture.If you like this content, don't forget to follow the show so you never miss an episode.