Join Alana, Paris, and Kyle as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex
The Kingdom Sexuality podcast is an amazing resource for anyone looking to improve their marriage, strengthen intimacy, and build a stronger connection with their spouse. The conversations on this podcast are real and feature both men and women talking about topics that the church has often been afraid to touch upon. What sets this podcast apart is its ability to glorify God while discussing these important aspects of marital life. Even if your spouse isn't a big podcast listener, taking the initiative to seek out and learn from this podcast can benefit both of you.
One of the best aspects of the Kingdom Sexuality podcast is its ability to provide healthy wisdom and conversation about sex as a Christian. As someone who grew up in the church and has heard many conversations about sex, I have often felt confused or guilty after these discussions. However, this podcast brings refreshing clarity, education, and encouragement. After listening to a few episodes, I was even able to reach out to the team with questions and received prompt support and additional resources. This podcast blesses Christian culture with biblical wisdom and truth.
For couples looking for tips on new things to try in their intimacy or conversation starters to enhance communication about this topic, the Kingdom Sexuality podcast is perfect. It provides helpful guidance without compromising Christian values. Whether you've been married for years or are newlyweds like me, this podcast offers valuable insights into navigating sexual intimacy within marriage. It breaks down stigmas surrounding these conversations in the church and provides a safe space for exploration.
While there may be some repeated topics on occasion, it's always good to be reminded of important aspects of intimacy within marriage. The only minor complaint I have is that at times it seems like some speakers may be too quiet or far away from the microphone. However, this does not detract from the overall quality of the content provided.
In conclusion, The Kingdom Sexuality podcast is an invaluable resource for any Christian looking to deepen their understanding of sexual intimacy within marriage. It offers guidance, clarity, and conversation on topics that are often considered taboo or uncomfortable in Christian circles. This podcast has personally helped me break past shame and barriers related to my sexual past and has allowed me to experience healing in my marriage. I am grateful for the biblical perspective shared on this podcast and highly recommend it to anyone seeking to honor God in their marital relationship.
Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends? In this episode, we explore when, why, and how to have honest, God-honoring conversations about intimacy- without crossing boundaries. Learn how vulnerability can bring freedom, connection, and growth in your marriage and friendships!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Are there things Christian couples shouldn't do in the bedroom? In this episode, we unpack what Scripture says about sexual boundaries, explore tricky topics with grace, and offer guidance for keeping intimacy both passionate and God-honoring. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Oral Sex episodes Episode 147: DOs & DON'Ts of Sex Toys Episode 148: The INs & OUTs of Sex Toys gotquestions.org (anal article) Episode 141: Talk Dirty To Me Makin' Sex Tapes: Anatomy Of Us Episode 197: Mutual Masturbation Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Getting rejected when it comes to sex is NOT fun. So how do we handle it well? How do those conversations happen? And how do you get out of the cycle of constantly rejecting your spouse? Tune in as the KS team answers those questions- and more! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: 6 Pillars Of Intimacy Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What if your five senses were the secret to a deeper, more exciting sex life? In this episode, we're sharing simple, creative ways to engage sight, sound, touch, taste, and smell to build connection, spark arousal, and savor intimacy the way God designed! Get ready for practical ideas you'll actually want to try. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: Mentionables: code KINGDOM for 10% off Anatomy Of Us- Makin' Sex Tapes Intimately Us App Evree: use the code KINGDOM for 10% off Passionista #LubeLife Married Dance: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off FREEBIE: spice it up guide Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pornography isn't just a “men's issue”- and it's time we talked about it. In this powerful episode, we sit down with a Crystal Renaud Day who shares her raw and redemptive story of overcoming porn addiction as a Christian woman. We're diving into the stats, the shame, and the silent struggle so many women face- especially in the church. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: SheRecovery website She Recovery Instagram 90 Days to Wholeness Unwanted by Jay Stringer No Stones by Marnie C. Ferree Shame In Your Marriage (episode 231) My Counselor Online use the link for $25 off! Better Help Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
DWELL Bible App: Use the link to get 25% off! Special thanks to our lovely patron pals for coming up with all of the questions in this episode! Become a patron today and support the show! This episode is packed with all the things our patrons have been dying to ask- intimacy routines, sex during pregnancy, navigating hormone changes, BJ awkwardness, and yes… even strawberries in the bedroom. The KS team answers the patrons' real questions with honesty, laughter, and biblical encouragement. 2:50 - Do you and your spouse have any go-to intimacy routines? 4:37 - Ever tried something like “Mouth on Monday” or “Sunday Funday” just to spice things up a bit? 5:32 - How do you balance fun, flirty spontaneity with actually making time for intimacy? 8:08 - What helped you get back on track when connection felt hard? 12:14 - Have you seen God use your struggles to actually bring you closer? 14:55 - Have you or your spouse ever struggled with anxiety? How do you support each other when one of you is feeling overwhelmed or low? 17:34 - Y'all's opinion on adding food to sex such as strawberries, chocolate sauce or whip cream . Just adding things like that to your sex life 19:35 - Another question is sex during pregnancy my wife is currently 4 months pregnant and she has ups and down with sex drives but the further she is along the more difficult the sex what's is somethings to try 24:18 - Here's another one. What is perimenopause and how does it affect sex drive? 29:45 - Can perimenopause affect your ability to orgasm? 32:15 - How do you not make bjs feel so awkward? It's it a confidence thing or do you just embrace the awkwardness and go for it? 34:24 - For Tiera: can you talk a little bit about the impact that hormones during pregnancy/breastfeeding have on libido? 37:30 - For Alana: how did you get into photography? What kind of photography do you do? 38:50 - For Kyle: what's some of your favorite TV shows and why? 41:50 - For all of you: I'd love to hear how you all met your spouses and the proposal stories
Is shame from your past still showing up in your marriage? In this episode, the KS team is talking about how shame, whether from past choices, guilt, or lies from the enemy, can quietly sabotage intimacy and connection. We'll walk through a powerful self-check quiz, explore how God offers true freedom, and share practical ways to step into healing and grace in your marriage. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link! Better Help Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Feeling like the only wife who wants sex more than her husband? You're not broken - and you're not alone. In this episode, the KS team dives deep into the heart of the higher drive wife: the identity struggles, the church silence, and the ache of rejection. We're breaking the silence, offering real tools, and reminding you that your desire is not shameful - it's sacred. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: Figuring Out What I Like Guide Responsive vs Spontaneous (episode 177) Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
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Wanting to take your intimate life to the next level? Or curious as to what else you and your spouse could do to add some extra spice and fun into the bedroom? In this episode, we will break down several things you can do in your sex life whether you find yourself in the beginner, intermediate, or advanced stage of intimacy! Tune in now! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Links from today's episode: Episode 221: Fundamentals Of Healthy Sexuality Awaken Love 31 Nights of Intimacy Dwell app KS Shop Figuring Out What I Like Guide Date Night Bundle Intimacy Without Intercourse Sex Dice Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
We love recording Q&A's and you seem to love listening to them! If you have a question, email it to us at kingdomsexuality@gmail.com and we'll aim to answer it in our next Q&A! Links from today's episode: Betrayal Trauma (Episode 206) “My Husband Was Addicted To Porn” (Episode 96) “The Impact of His Porn Addiction on Me” (Episode 97) Sex Fasting: What Is It & Why Would You Do It? (Episode 218) My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Talk Dirty To Me (Episode 141) Sexual Confidence (Episode 225) Let's Talk About Sexting, Baby! (Episode 142) The Female Cycle & Pleasure (Episode 138) Clinical Psychologist Answers YOUR Questions! With Dr. Josh Kruse (Episode 135) Post Sex Clean Up… How?? (Episode 123) Ultimate Newlywed Guide Pain Free Intimacy: Use the code KS5 to get 5% off! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
You asked, they answer! The KS Team answers questions sent in on Instagram, and they do not hold back! Tune in now! Links from today's episode: My Counselor Online (You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link!) Unite & Ignite membership KS Shop 180: Pregnancy and Postpartum Q&A She Comes First Married Dance use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off! (Oralicious was mentioned in this episode) Covenant Spice Passionista Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
What does being a sexually confident Christian look like? And HOW do you become one?? Tune in now to hear the KS team chat about it! Links from today's episode: Figuring Out What I Like Guide KS Shop Intimately Us app Heated Mattress Pad Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
In a bit of a sexual slump? Not sure how to navigate it? We've all been there. Tune in as the KS team gives some practical tips for getting out of the slump and into the hump! Links from today's episode: 30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook 30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook Better Help My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you use our link!) Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune in to hear the KS team tackle some big questions around selflessness- questions like: What does selflessness actually look like in the bedroom? How do I bring up the need for more selflessness without offending my spouse? and I'm already exhausted—how can I be selfless when I have nothing left to give? Links from today's episode: Subscribe here! Keeping Score Episode Intimacy with Small Kids episode Resetting Your Mindset episode Awaken Love book Intimately Us App The Flirtation Experiment book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Special thanks to the sponsor of this episode, Dwell! Go to dwellbible.com/kingdom to get your 25% off discount.
How do God and sex mesh?! How can incorporating the Lord into EVERY area of our life actually make any difference? Tune in as Tiera and Alana chat about how God didn't design sex on accident and give you practical tips that will change your intimate life! Links from today's episode: That Sounds Fun Network Website Awaken Love 30 Prayers For Your Wife eBook 30 Prayer For Your Husband eBook KS Shop Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Is your sex life moving forward or backwards? Maybe it's time to go back to the basics! Tune in as the KS team shares some VERY exciting news at the beginning of this episode and tackles the fundamentals of a healthy sex life. Shout out to our incredible Patron's for choosing today's episode! Links from today's episode: That Sounds Fun Network Website My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you sign up using our link!) Episode 189 with Josh Spurlock (Founder of My Counselor Online) Episode 192 with Josh Spurlock Figuring Out What I Like Guide KS Shop Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
It's time to get back to the basics as the KS team dives into The Sex Fundamentals! We'll be covering so many great topics- the taboo ones, the curious ones, and the ones no one will talk about. Join us as we cover things like sexual confidence, how the topic of God and sex mesh, getting out of slumps, and more! Welcome to the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
Curious how Kingdom Sexuality began? What about their stories brought the team together? And what does the future hold? Listen to the end to hear some exciting news! Links from today's episode: Blog post about KS boundaries KS Shop Starting Life Together Guide Unite & Ignite Episode 206 with Dr. Dave Currie Kyle's Sextimony My Husband Was Addicted To Porn part 1 The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me part 2 That Sounds Fun Network Website Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Don't miss our first Q&A of the New Year! It started out as a "throwback" Q&A with Kyle and Alana then Tiera joined in part-way through! The team answers questions like "How do I serve my husband when my desire is low?" and "How often should couples be having sex each week?"- you won't want to miss it! Links from today's episode: Interview with Josh Spurlock My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Better Help Counseling Engagement Guide Wedding Night Guide Newlywed Guide Starting Life Together Bundle Awaken Love Book 180: Pregnancy & Postpartum Q&A! Question Time Stamps: 2:20- What are your thoughts on “adult-only” resorts? 3:55- How often should you have sex in marriage? 5:25- How to keep the spark alive when engaged and long distance? 6:18- A good first episode to introduce my spouse to the podcast? 7:50- How to get over my nerves initiating with my spouse? 9:50- What advice would you give newlyweds 6 months into marriage? 13:00- How to serve my husband when my desire is low? 18:00- About to get married and don't know much about sex- any tips? 21:00- Is it okay to want to have sex where the risk of getting caught is very high? (In public) 22:58- How to reignite the intimate life post-baby? 26:12- How much time do you spend on KS each week? Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and his wife Samantha chat about the sex fast they did a few years ago. Was it helpful? Would they do it again? Listen now! Links from today's episode: Kyle's Sextimony (Episode 94) "My Husband Was Addicted To Porn" part 1 (Episode 96) "The Impact Of His Porn Addiction On Me" part 2 (Episode 97) Jay Stringer's Book: Unwanted 6 Pillars of Intimacy Book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
To wrap or not to wrap- that is the question! Tune into this funny, informative, and light-hearted episode where Tiera educates Alana and Kyle on the ins and outs of condom use! Links from today's episode: Tiera's Fertility Page: use the code KSFOLLOWER for a discount! Nixit Condoms: code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off SKYN Condoms Let's Get Checked!: code KINGDOM for 25% off Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
We often create individual goals for ourselves but do we make marriage/intimacy goals as a couple? Tune in to hear some practical goals you can implement this new year! Links from today's episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom Marriage Resolution Guide Intimately Us App Better Help My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Amazon Shop Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune in as we tackle Christmas/intimacy/marriage questions that YOU sent in! Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas, from the KS team! Question Time Stamps: 2:22 I want to have sex in my childhood bedroom while visiting my parents. My husband thinks it'll be weird to have sex in my parents home. Is it really that weird? 5:27 What are some fun intimacy gifts? 8:01 Are lingerie sets good to buy as gifts? 9:58 What is the best place to put mistletoe? 12:20 How to prioritize my husband while trying to please family during the holiday season? 18:27 Any cheaper, sexy overnight stays in the Midwest? 20:38 How to handle all the baby pressure from family when we're not there yet? 22:30 What are some fun, romantic holiday traditions we can start as a couple? Links from today's episode: KS Discount page Mentionables Honouring Intimates: Use code KINGDOM for 20% off Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Adventure Challenge: Use code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Everylove Intimates: Use code KS69 for $30 off each subscription box KS Shop Episode 133: intimacy when you have small kids Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this repeat episode as Kyle and Alana chat about ways to make intimacy more of a priority this Christmas! Spoiler alert: it starts with decreasing the amount of stress in your life!! Merry Christmas, from the KS Team!! Praying this Christmas is filled with love, joy, and Jesus. Links from today's episode: Come As You Are book Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing! Special shout out to Coventant Eyes for sponsoring this pornography seriers! Use our code KS30 to get your first month FREE! Find healing TODAY!!! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Pure Desire Parent Resource: use code PARENTS29 for a discount! Puredesire.org Pure Desire podcast Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
You won't want to miss Joshua Broome's incredibly powerful testimony of going from being a porn star to becoming a pastor! Special thank you to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring our pornography series. Use our code KS30 for your first month free! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) @iamjoshuabroome joshuabroome.me The P51 Project Ignite Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Today's guest Jay Stringer (known by some as "the porn whisperer") shares how your sexual struggles could be predicted by your untreated past trauma. You don't want to miss this incredible episode! Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to get your first 30 days free! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Arise Unwanted by Jay Stringer Unwanted Workbook The Journey Course @jay_stringer_ Jay-stringer.com Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Struggle to know when to go about talking to your kids about porn? Or HOW you're even going to go about having that conversation?? Tune into our latest episode with Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures as she unpacks it all!! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Good Pictures Bad Pictures Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr. Canopy defendyoungminds.com @defendyoungminds Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Have you ever asked yourself, after consuming some form of media, "Does this count as porn?". Tune into this episode to hear the KS team unpack this! Special thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this episode series on pornography! Use the code KS30 to get your first 30 days free. Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes: KS30 for your first 30 days free! Plugged In IMDB VidAngel 197: Masturbation episode Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
The KS team is joined by Dr. Andrew Bauman, a licensed mental health counselor and writer whose work focuses on sexual health, abuse, and wholeness with men. Don't miss this incredible interview! Huge thanks to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this series on pornography! Use our code KS30 to try it out for 30 days free! Links from today's episode: Unwanted Jay Stringer My Counsellor Online :get $25 off when you use our link Covenant Eyes: KS30 For 30 Days Free Stumbling Towards Wholeness Birds & Bees Course KINGDOM20 for 20% off How Not To Be An *ss Christiancc.org Andrewjbauman.com Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Please keep in mind that this episode deals with some raw, honest moments within the porn industry and may not be suitable for everyone to listen to. If in doubt, pray about it and consider listening to the episode together with your spouse. Alana and Tiera had the pleasure of interviewing ex-porn star Brittni De La Mora whose incredible testimony is changing lives! Tune in now! Links from today's episode: Arise by Covenant Eyes Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!) Love Always Ministries Body Count Special thank you to this series sponsor, Covenant Eyes! Protect your devices and find freedom today. Use the code KS30 for your first 30 days free! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Want to safeguard your home's digital spaces? Then it's time to look into Covenant Eyes! Use our code KS30 to get your first 30 days free! Kyle and Tiera had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Dave Currie, a certified Sexual Recovery Therapist and a registered clinician with the American Association of Sexual Addiction Therapy! You won't want to miss it! Links from today's episode: IA test Dr. Currie's website: doingfamilyright.com ReGroup for Men Flair for Women The Ideal "I Do" - Building Strong: Pursuing the Marriage You'll Love Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Huge thank you to Covenant Eyes for sponsoring this upcoming pornography series! Whether porn is in your story or not, this series is going to be beneficial for you to listen to! We're thrilled to partner with Covenant Eyes to offer our listeners 30 days free when you sign up using our promo code KS30! Whether you're looking to protect yourself, your kids, or even your workplace, Covenant Eyes has you covered with its powerful accountability and filtering features. Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Join Unite & Ignite Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this incredible PART TWO episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don't miss it. Links from today's episode: Dwellbible.com/kingdom chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye 7 Primal Questions Question Time Stamps: 1:20 - Is there a place for me to be a pastor if I had sex before marriage? 5:25 - Is it okay to separate or leave my spouse because of porn/erotica usage? 12:17 - How to get my spouse to invest more emotionally in our marriage? I'm tired of doing it all 17:18 - Lots of questions about why churches don't talk about sex in a healthy way but more in a fear mongering/purity culture way. How do you think churches should handle speaking about sex? 33:45 - Why is monogamy the norm when in reality it's a new concept? 39:15 - How to create mentorship/discipleship opportunities for couples? Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Tune into this incredible PART ONE episode of “Ask A Pastor”! The KS team had the pleasure of interviewing Pastor Chris de Monye and asking him all of the questions you sent in on Instagram! Don't miss it. Links from today's episode: Intimacy Through Grief Episode chris@thisisvillagechurch.com @chrisdemonye Time Stamps: 10:40 - How to balance marriage, job, kids, work. We have little desire left at the end of the day for each other 16:27 - Why do I need to have sex if I'm married? 22:06 - Sex seems like yet another item on the list of things that given to men and not women. What are your thoughts on that? 24:50 - How to address my spouse's fantasies that are not biblical (ie. threesome, etc)? 30:58 - How to address my spouse's fantasies that are biblical but I'm hesitant? Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Can being mindful of your body and surroundings lead to a better sex life?? Tune in to hear Dr. Lori Brotto share how you can connect better with your intimate life! Links from today's episode: Better Sex Through Mindfulness Lori's Instagram: @drloribrotto loribrotto.com @ubcshr Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible patrons for choosing this month's Patron's Choice episode! Become a patron today for some amazing perks and support KS! "What was a time in your guys' marriages when sex felt like a chore?" You'll hear the KS team answer that question and MORE when it comes to turning sex from mundane to magical. Links from today's episode: Awaken Love Come As You Are Mindset Reset episode Better Help My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link! Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Today's episode is full of incredible wisdom from Mark and Jill Savage. The testimony they share is so powerful- full of wisdom and insight on what it looks like to wait well in a hard season. Tune in and hear how God moved and turned their tragedy into testimony! Links from today's episode: Mark and Jill Website (markandjill.com) Rebuilding Trust Guide rebuildingtrust.us Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Episode 200 is here! Whether you've been listening to the podcast since the beginning, or if this is the first episode of ours you've listened to- we're so grateful you're here! Tune into this episode where Dan Purcell, from Get Your Marriage On! interviews Alana about what it means to cherish your spouse. Links from today's episode: Ruthless Elimination Of Hurry Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Today's episode is another classic Q&A episode where we take questions you guys have sent us and we discuss our answers. You won't want to miss this spicy episode! 2:00 How do I help my wife be more confident to initiate more? 8:40 How do you maintain intimacy through stressful times? 11:10 How do I help my wife get out of her head during sex? 14:55 How to not be grossed out by bodily fluids in mouth during oral sex? 19:07 How soon can/should sex be re-introduced postpartum? 20:02 We struggle to communicate what we need/want. Any tips? 25:50 How do I talk to my spouse about doing something new? 28:43 Is filming sex with my spouse okay? 31:37 How to keep sex fresh when TTC for 2 years? 35:16 Advice for a husband and wife that want to finish together? 40:16 How do you know if you're orgasming? 42:41 Our “long sex” is great but we don't always have time, how to have good
Tune into this fun Q&A where the Kingdom Sexuality team asks each other some surprise questions they've always wanted to ask each other. Plus, the answer questions followers on Instagram sent in about the future of KS! Links from today's episode: My Counselor Online (get $25 off when you use our link!) 177: Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire His and Hers Sex Challenges “It's Getting Hot In Here” Sex Challenge Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
What role, if any, does masturbation play in marriage? Does the Bible talk about this topic? You won't want to miss this one! Links from today's episode: Dwell app: dwellbible.com/kingdom 106: Opposites: Location with Abe and Elaine Romaro Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Have a second? We'd love your feedback on our podcast! Podcast Feedback Survey
Join the KS team as they answer questions that our female followers sent in over on Instagram! QUESTION TIME STAMPS: 4:12 “How can I switch things up if my spouse doesn't like lingerie/games/toys/etc?” 7:23 “Newly married, we cannot get him inside of me, how to loosen?” 9:47 “Husband has a very low drive and can go weeks without sex and I can't- advice?” 16:00 “I've been married for a month and I haven't had a climax, any advice?” 17:36 “My husband hasn't finished in over a month now, what do I do?” 19:50 “Ways to put more focus on my husband, make him feel desired?” 23:00 “Why don't I like kissing more? My husband likes to make out but its so… wet.” 24:32 “How to restore desire during a season of high stress?” 27:34 “Is it normal to have no libido at all? Ways around this to get turned on.” 29:37 “Best advice for first time wedding night sex, worried I won't be able to relax enough.” 31:32 “Thoughts on writing erotica for my wife to read as foreplay?” 32:48 “How to take the reins more? Not initiating, but to control intimacy more. Feels weird to be in charge and I don't want to just lay there” Links from today's episode: Vaginismus Episode @painfree.intimacy Let's Get Checked: KINGDOM for 25% off Christian Counselling $25 off your first month with our link! Spontaneous Sex vs Scheduling Sex Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire The Penis Book KS Prayer Bundle Better Sex Through Mindfulness Starting Life Together Bundle Ultimate Wedding Night Guide Awaken Love Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Is it time to do a "mindset reset" around sex? Let's make the second half of this year incredible for our marriages and intimate lives as we reflect and introspect on our thought life. Links from today's episode: Awaken Love Christian Counselling Sex Challenge Bundle Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible patrons for choosing today's episode! If you want to learn more about the Patreon perks go to patreon.com/kingdomsexuality! Ever wonder what the top three sex positions are? And some unique techniques to take them to the next level?? Then you're not going to want to miss this one! Links from today's episode: Intimately Us App Married Dance Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
The KS team is joined by Sofia Friesen, Canadian Program Director of Ally Global, and she chats with the KS team about the incredible work that Ally is doing to prevent human trafficking, how it actually happens, and how you can keep your family safe from it. Links from today's episode: Ally.org @allyglobal Thepreventionproject.ca KS donation link Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online, is BACK in another incredible episode with Alana and Tiera where he unpacks sexual disorders and dysfunctions. You don't want to miss it! Vaginismus: 8:45 Sexual Aversion: 10:12 Orgasms: 12:08 Orgasm Disorder: 30:15 Links from today's episode: The previous episode with Josh Spurlock My Counselor Online (use our link to get $25 off your first month!) Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Shout out to our incredible patrons who chose today's episode topic! Head to patron.com/kingdomsexuality to become a patron today! Tune in as the KS team tackles the big question: is sex a need? Kyle, Tiera, and Alana each had their own thoughts and kept their notes to themselves until they hit record! Links from today's episode: Come As You Are Book Awaken Love Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
In a season where intercourse isn't an option? Not sure what to do? Or, do you want to learn how to add other intimacy options to your repertoire? Tune in as the KS team chats about some options! Links from today's episode: His Pleasure Sex Challenge Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
Kyle and Alana had an amazing time interviewing Josh Spurlock, founder of My Counselor Online. Tune in as they ask him some of the "hot topic" questions KS gets regularly! 2:56 How do you gain confidence in the bedroom? “Husband wants me to initiate more but I don't know how/scared” 13:17 How to handle, mostly women, with body insecurities? 22:55 How to increase sex drive for males? “My husband isn't interested in me sexually” 25:40 How to increase sex drive for females? “I used to want sex before we were married, now I have no drive.” 29:04 How do you deal with periods where you're not attracted to your spouse? How to tell your spouse? Should you tell your spouse? What to do if your spouse tells you that? 34:55 My husband wants me to __ but I don't want to OR I am nervous to try that - how to handle these situations? (Wearing lingerie, oral sex, toys, etc) 38:28 How to handle the postpartum period sexually? 42:00 Overcoming pornography in our marriage? How do we go back to a “normal” sex life? 45:35 How to resolve sex drive differences? Links from today's episode: My Counsellor Online My Counsellor Online YouTube Josh Spurlock.com Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website
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