Podcasts about Triangulation

If you've been in a narcissistic, emotionally abusive, or coercively controlling relationship, you may think you're alone in your confusion and trauma. After working with thousands of women, however, I can assure you that abusers are all operating out of the same playbook. The gaslighting, the love bombing, the silent treatment? The patterns are actually completely predictable. It's called the Abuser's Playbook. And if there's a playbook for them, there's a playbook for you, too. In this solo episode, I walk you through ten of the most common tactics abusers use and more importantly, how to counter each one. This isn't about changing them. This is about keeping yourself safe, reclaiming your sanity, and taking your power back. The 10 common tactics narcissistic abusers use (and what you'll hear about in this episode): Love bombing and future faking that keeps you hooked and how to track the cycle Gaslighting that erodes your sense of reality and how to ground yourself in the truth Projection that flips the blame onto you and how to recognize what's actually theirs Triangulation that isolates you and how to stay rooted in your own perspective Hoovering that pulls you back in and how to hold your boundary when it feels impossible Smear campaigns that twist your story and how to stay steady when your reputation is under attack Threats and intimidation that instill fear and how to protect yourself and plan ahead Stonewalling and silent treatment that punish you and how to stop chasing their approval Baiting and rage that push you to the edge and how to respond without losing yourself Financial abuse that traps you and how to begin reclaiming control ➡ Download The Survivor's Playbook at KateAnthony.com/playbook Resources & Links: Focused Strategy Sessions with Kate The Divorce Survival Guide Resource BundlePhoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment CollectiveHow He'll Likely React Bingo card Kate on Instagram @kateanthony_divorcecoachKate on FacebookThe D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage =================== DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. Episode link: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-333-if-theres-a-playbook-for-them-theres-a-playbook-for-you/  

Measurement and attribution beyond last click is still in its infancy, and it remains one of the most persistent challenges marketers face at every stage of growth. But we're also at an exciting moment. Leaders like the one on today's episode are connecting the dots in measurement and helping solve for real attribution.In this conversation, Chris Marine sits down with Madan Bharadwaj of M² to explore why there's no single source of truth in marketing performance and how triangulation attribution offers a more honest, practical way forward.They break down how triangulation pulls from platform data, incrementality modeling, and first-party signals, and why attribution should be treated as a strategic specialty—not just a line in a dashboard.Note: Campfire Consulting's Founder Chris Marine will be speaking at Programmatic I/O New York this September. The Campfire team will be there, and we'd love to see you and continue the conversation in person. If you're attending, drop us a line so we can be in touch! Enjoying this content? Text us your thoughts! (if you want a response please include an email address in your text)Learn more about Campfire Consulting Visit the Responsibly Different™ Shop where 50% of all profits go back to nonprofit organizations. Wear your spark on your sleeve.

Some people will resist your boundaries. That doesn't mean you're doing it wrong.   In this replay episode, I sit down with psychotherapist and Boundary Boss author Terri Cole for a conversation that so many of you have been asking for: how to set boundaries with a narcissistic parent. Terri doesn't sugarcoat it. She names what's hard, calls out the behaviors you might be normalizing, and gives you language and frameworks that actually work, even when you're dealing with someone who refuses to respect your limits.   We talk about her “three boundary offenders” framework (first-timers, repeat offenders, and destroyers), how to enforce boundaries without being rigid or resentful, and why narcissists in particular see your limits as a threat to their control. If you've ever had someone use guilt, emotional blackmail, or even faux-concern (“are you okay? you seem unstable…”) to manipulate you into staying small, this conversation is for you.   We also talk about the long-term impact of growing up with a narcissistic parent—including codependency, emotional triggers that don't match the moment, and why so many adult children end up feeling deeply unknown in their closest relationships.   If you're ready to shift the dynamic and protect your peace without losing yourself in the process, this episode is a powerful place to start. There's nothing wrong with you, and it's not too late to make a change.   Episode Breakdown 00:00 Introduction 02:08 What Healthy Boundaries Actually Are 05:03 Why Boundaries Fail Without Enforcement 08:24 The Three Types of Boundary Offenders 19:02 Why Narcissists React Differently to Boundaries 21:22 Common Manipulation Tactics Narcissists Use 33:15 How Narcissistic Parents Impact Adult Relationships 41:02 Signs You Were Raised by a Narcissistic Parent 47:12 Gaslighting, Triangulation, and Emotional Violations   Links Connect with Terri Cole: terricole.com/workshop terricole.com/fatherwound  https://boundarybossbook.com/ https://www.instagram.com/terricole/   Connect with Dr. Jaime Zuckerman: https://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/ https://www.zgrouptherapy.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.z_psychologist/ https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.z_psychologist https://www.youtube.com/@DrJaimeZuckerman   Get my FREE breathing exercise here: http://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/newsletter Register for my on demand virtual courses here: http://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/workshops Order my workbooks! *Find Your Calm / Find Good Habits* http://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/books Shop my new Mindfully Messy hoodie here: http://www.drjaimezuckerman.com/apparel Podcast production and show notes provided by HiveCast.fm

This episode delves into the toxic pattern of triangulation in relationships, particularly within family dynamics. The hosts discuss how triangulation manifests, its impact on emotional health, and the importance of direct communication. They provide strategies for recognizing and breaking free from this pattern, emphasizing the need for awareness, setting boundaries, and doing personal work to foster healthier relationships.TakeawaysTriangulation involves pulling a third person into a conflict instead of addressing it directly.This pattern can create significant emotional distress and dysfunction in relationships.Children often become unwitting participants in triangulation, which can harm their emotional development.Enmeshment and triangulation are closely related, often leading to blurred personal boundaries.Recognizing triangulation is crucial for breaking the cycle and fostering healthier communication.Setting clear boundaries is essential to avoid being drawn into triangulation.Direct communication is a key strategy for resolving conflicts without triangulation.Personal growth and self-awareness are necessary to break free from unhealthy patterns.Triangulation can perpetuate generational dysfunction within families.Healthy relationships thrive on clear, direct communication and emotional honesty.Connect with UsEmail: masteryourmarriage@gmail.com – Reach out for coaching, share wins, or pitch episode ideas.Instagram: @masteryourmarriage – Daily tips, behind-the-scenes reels, and a healthy dose of Snow-family humor.Reviews Matter! If this episode sparked an aha moment, drop a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and send it to a friend who could use a vision upgrade.Feedback Corner: Thought of a topic we haven't covered? Hit reply—your ideas shape future shows.

Zach sits down with Dr. Shannon Curry—clinical psychologist, couples therapist, and founder of the Curry Psychology Group—for a nuanced discussion about what happens when couples “team up” against their therapist in session. Drawing on her forensic background and deep clinical insight, Shannon explores the subtle dynamics of triangulation, conflict avoidance, and the emotional strategies people learn early in life to stay safe in relationships. Together, Zach and Shannon talk about how the therapeutic space can trigger old wounds, what it takes to speak hard truths in love, and why being emotionally honest is often the most generous thing a partner can do. With warmth, curiosity, and real-life anecdotes, this episode speaks directly to the complexity of partnership—and the courage it takes to grow within one. Key Takeaways When Couples Turn on the TherapistShannon shares how one partner will sometimes rush to “protect” the other during difficult feedback, forming an unconscious alliance that derails growth—and puts the therapist in the role of the enemy. Emotional Manipulation as a Survival StrategyMany clients learn passive or controlling behaviors in childhood because direct expression wasn't safe. These aren't character flaws—they're adaptive tools that once worked. Conflict as a MirrorThe messiest moments in therapy often reflect old attachment wounds. Shannon emphasizes that when conflict emerges in session, it's not a sign of failure—it's a signal of something important beneath the surface. The Generosity of TruthZach proposes a compelling reframe: that emotional honesty—even when it's uncomfortable—is a gift of generosity in relationships. Shannon agrees, calling truth-telling a spiritual value in her work. The Truth Will Set You Free... EventuallySometimes growth hurts. Shannon shares a quote from her boarding school that sticks with her: “The truth will set you free—but first it will make you miserable.” Guest Info Dr. Shannon Curry Clinical and forensic psychologist Founder of Curry Psychology Group Certified in the Gottman Method High-profile expert witness and advocate for healthy relationships @currypsychgroup on Instagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Disclaimer: Meta participated as a guest on this podcast episode, However, Meta does not endorse or sponsor this podcast, its content, or any of its commercial partners or sponsors. Any views expressed are those of the individual participants and do not represent the views of Meta. The Marketing Operators hosts have a live discussion about marketing at the Meta Summit. They discuss the concept of incrementality in marketing, exploring its significance, measurement techniques, and the evolving landscape of marketing tools. They discuss the importance of understanding which conversions are truly incremental and how to effectively measure them using various tools and strategies. They emphasize the need for a culture of experimentation and the role of data triangulation in optimizing marketing efforts. The discussion also touches on the challenges faced by marketers in adapting to changing consumer behaviors and the future of incrementality in the marketing industry. They explore the role of AI in creative development, emphasizing the need for diverse and culturally resonant content. 00:00 Introduction to Incrementality in Marketing02:45 Understanding Incrementality: Definitions and Examples06:04 The Role of Measurement in Incrementality09:08 Tools and Strategies for Measuring Incrementality12:01 Operationalizing Incrementality in Marketing18:03 Triangulation of Data for Better Insights20:48 The Future of Incrementality in Marketing29:23 Driving Brand Outcomes through Incrementality33:30 Revisiting Past Ads for New Opportunities35:43 The Future of Creative Testing with AI39:30 Cultural Resonance vs. AI-Generated Content43:54 The Balance of AI and Human Creativity47:32 Exploring Creative AI Platforms51:08 Actionable Insights for Future CampaignsSubscribe to the 9 Operators Podcast here:https://www.youtube.com/@Operators9Subscribe to the Finance Operators Podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/@FinanceOperatorsFOPSSign up to the 9 Operators newsletter here: https://9operators.com/

SummaryIn this episode of the Victorious Living Christian Counseling Podcast, Crystal Ridlon LPC discusses the concept of projection in relationships, particularly within a Christian context. She explains how projection can manifest in various forms, such as triangulation and emotional venting, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these behaviors to maintain healthy relationships. Crystal offers practical strategies for setting boundaries, self-soothing, and finding peace in Christ, encouraging listeners to cultivate awareness and implement healthy communication practices.TakeawaysProjection is a psychological defense mechanism.Triangulation is a damaging relationship dynamic.Healthy relationships require mutual communication.Self-soothing is essential before reaching out to others.Setting boundaries is crucial for emotional well-being.Projection can lead to feelings of guilt and confusion.Recognizing projection helps in managing relationships.Healthy conversations should be meaningful and reciprocal.Jesus modeled healthy boundaries in relationships.Peace in relationships starts with individual self-awareness.Key Concepts"Projection is the thief of joy.""Projection is draining and overwhelming.""We must learn to self-soothe.""Healthy conversations are meaningful.""Healthy relationships are filled with joy.""We need to guard our heart.""Peace starts in you."

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Three Buddy Problem - Episode 48: We unpack a Dutch intelligence agencies report on ‘Laundry Bear' and Microsoft's parallel ‘Void Blizzard' write-up, finding major gaps and bemoaning the absence of IOCs. Plus, discussion on why threat-intel naming is so messy, how initial-access brokers are powering even nation-state break-ins, and whether customers (or vendors) are to blame for the confusion. Plus, thoughts on an academic paper on the vanishing art of Western companies exposing Western (friendly) APT operations, debate whether stealth or self-censorship is to blame, and the long-tail effects on cyber paleontology. We also dig into Sean Heelan's proof that OpenAI's new reasoning model can spot a Linux kernel 0-day and the implications for humans in the bug-hunting chain. Cast: Juan Andres Guerrero-Saade (https://twitter.com/juanandres_gs), Ryan Naraine (https://twitter.com/ryanaraine) and Costin Raiu (https://twitter.com/craiu).

“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone."~ Matthew 18:15Why do I get caught in the middle of arguments in my family?Why is it so tempting to bring someone else into a tense situation?How do I break the cycle of being brought into triangles among my family & friends?In Episode 74 of This Whole Life, Kenna Millea welcomes Ben Baker, LMFT and Addy Diaz for a lively Relationship Roundtable all about “triangulation”—that sneaky dynamic that can pop up in families, friendships, and work relationships alike. The team breaks down what triangulation actually is (spoiler: it's more common—and human—than you think), how to spot it in real life, and why we're all tempted to avoid tension by pulling in a third person, habit, or even technology. With honest stories, practical metaphors (think wobbly tables and silent dinners), and plenty of humor, they explore how triangles can sometimes stabilize a relationship—but also block the deeper connection we're really seeking. Tune in for relatable insights, gentle challenges, and actionable tips on how to recognize, understand, and break out of unhealthy triangles for healthier, more authentic relationships.Episode 74 Show NotesChapters:0:00: Introduction and becoming a therapist8:32: What is triangulation?19:48: Triangles are stabilizing - even harmful ones26:23: How do we recognize triangulation?33:21: What causes triangles?44:47: How do I get out of a triangle?52:55: Challenge By ChoiceReflection Questions:What is one specific thing that stuck with you from this conversation?When have you been brought into a triangle? When have you triangulated someone or something else?How does it feel when you've been dragged into a triangle? Why does it feel that way?Why are triangles so stabilizing? When are they healthy and unhealthy?When are you most tempted to triangulate others? How can you get out of triangles when they happen?Send us a text. We're excited to hear what's on your mind!Join the community of supporters of This Whole Life! ❤️

Alex Andreou and Naomi Smith discuss Labour's obsession with voters to the right, while haemorrhaging voters to the left, with guest Labour MP Marsha de Cordova. Also, a deep dive into Labour's reform of support for people with disabilities and the worry and hurt it is causing. Plus 'Wokey Dokey' and 'Grin And Share It'. ***SPONSOR US AT ⁠⁠⁠⁠KO-FI.COM/QUIETRIOTPOD⁠⁠⁠⁠*** GRIN AND SHARE IT Read more about the International Museum of Migration. Our bookshop including many of the books we have featured can be found at ⁠⁠⁠⁠uk.bookshop.org/shop/quietriot⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***SPONSOR US AT ⁠⁠⁠⁠KO-FI.COM/QUIETRIOTPOD⁠⁠⁠⁠*** With Naomi Smith, Alex Andreou and Kenny Campbell. A Cooler Heads production, in cahoots with Sandstone Global. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠quietriotpod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. Or visit our website ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.quietriotpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Step into a drama-free life with the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! In Episode 151, you will be challenged to cut the chaos and reclaim your power in how to stay out of the drama. Discover the hidden ways drama sneaks into your daily life—from subtle gossip at work to family triangulation—and learn Adam's three powerful keys to breaking free.Unlock insight into how drama holds you back from your goals, drains your energy, and distracts you from real growth. Adam shares actionable strategies that empower you to lead with confidence, set healthy boundaries, and build relationships rooted in self-respect. Whether you're tired of office drama, family conflicts, or internal turmoil, this episode offers practical tools to help you rise above the noise.Timestamps00:00 Overcoming Personal Drama04:35 Family Triangulation Dynamics09:14 Handling Unwarranted Accusations Calmly12:20 Embracing Criticism with Dignity15:13 Choose Your Battles Wisely17:12 Intuitive Decisions Over Cancel Culture20:43 Avoiding Drama in RelationshipsResourcesShatterproof Yourself Course3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader7 Benefits of Being Courageous4 Ways You're Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation TendencyHow to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life ChoicesReady to stop taking the bait and start living boldly? Listen now and transform how you handle conflict, protect your peace, and step into your best self. Make your legacy one of dignity, strength, and purpose—starting today!Subscribe to the DYL Podcast and join a community eager to leave drama behind and move toward lasting mental health and fulfillment.Get free content to start your legacy journeyDecide Your Legacy Corporate & Group WorkshopsThanks for listening, be sure to subscribe and leave us a review!Be sure to follow me on Instagram @adamgragg Connect with Decide Your Legacy! Adam Gragg is a Legacy Coach, Blogger, Podcaster, Speaker, & Mental Health Professional for nearly 25 years. Adam's life purpose is helping people & organizations find transformational clarity that propels them forward to face their biggest fears to LIVE & leave their chosen legacy. He's ultra-practical in his approach, convinced that engaging in self-reflective ACTION & practical tools, practiced consistently, WILL transform your life. He specializes in life transitions, career issues, and helping clients overcome anxiety, depression & trauma. Contact Adam HERE. If you're interested in getting started on deciding YOUR legacy.This show contains content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal or other advice.  Decide Your Legacy LLC as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents, and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

In this episode of 'Porn and the Gospel,' we look at John 15:9-10 and explore how the principles of Robert Sternberg's Triangulation of Love theory can illuminate a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with God. I want to challenge you to evaluate your own relationships with God. Is willpower enough? Or does it require something more? Does it require deep emotional intimacy and passionate desire? This episode encourages reflection on how best to cultivate a rich, holistic love for God to combat temptations and grow in faith.

#narcissisticparent #narcissisticmanipulation #maternalnarcissism Have you been told by your mother you are the one who needs help? Have you been told you are the one who needs to go and see a professional? Did she manage to almost convince you she is truly worried about you? In this episode I share what is truly going to when your narcissistic mother tries to convince you that you are the one with problems.

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Send us a text! (add your email to get a response)Have you ever noticed a never-ending cycle of drama amongst your family or friend group? In this episode, we talk about how the Drama Triangle might be the hidden pattern keeping your relationships stuck in painful cycles. Whether you're supporting a loved one with mental illness or navigating difficult family dynamics, this pattern will keep you trapped in the pain instead of solving it.Stephen Karpman's Drama Triangle describes three roles that create and sustain relationship dysfunction: the Victim (feeling helpless and powerless), the Persecutor (critical and blaming), and the Rescuer (rushing to fix problems). What makes this pattern so challenging is how people shift between these roles, maintaining the pain while never actually resolving underlying issues.We identify places where we can spot the drama triangle in our own lives—from childhood experiences with divorced parents to adult relationships—showing how these patterns created confusion and heartache. These triangles often form because we're desperately trying to maintain stability, even when that stability is painful.The good news is that understanding these patterns gives you the power to break free. We explore practical ways to step outside your habitual role and ultimately break down the triangle entirely. Rather than seeing these behaviors as character flaws, we frame them as adaptations that once served a purpose but may now be limiting your growth and happiness.This conversation highlights how recognizing these patterns can help you create more authentic connections with loved ones struggling with mental health challenges. Check out KulaMind.com to learn more about our online platform designed to help you break toxic patterns and find peace while supporting someone with mental illness.Resources:https://karpmandramatriangle.com/dt_article_only.htmlSupport the showIf you have a loved one with mental or emotional problems, join KulaMind, our community and support platform. In KulaMind, work one on one with Dr. Kibby on learning how to set healthy boundaries, advocate for yourself, and support your loved one. *We only have a few spots left, so apply here if you're interested. Follow @kulamind on Instagram for science-backed insights on staying sane while loving someone emotionally explosive. For more info about this podcast, check out: www.alittlehelpforourfriends.com Follow us on Instagram: @ALittleHelpForOurFriends

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)When children become pawns in their parents' divorce battles, the emotional damage can last a lifetime. Triangulation—the process where children are drawn into parental conflict—affects over 80% of high-conflict divorces and significantly increases children's risk for anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties well into adulthood.In this compelling deep dive, Debra and Tracy unpack the three distinct forms of triangulation that plague divorcing families. They explore how children become direct participants in conflict when used as messengers or interrogated about the other parent's home. They reveal the subtle yet equally harmful pattern where children feel caught in the middle even when parents believe they're shielding them from tension. And they examine the most damaging form—when parents deliberately draw children into coalitions against the other parent through criticism, loyalty tests, and false narratives.What makes this conversation particularly valuable is the practical coaching framework offered for helping parents recognize and break these destructive patterns. Through awareness-building questions, perspective-shifting exercises, and concrete strategies—from establishing direct adult communication to creating emotional safety zones—listeners gain tools to guide families toward healthier dynamics. The powerful question at the heart of this work resonates throughout: "Do you want to give your children a child-centered divorce or a divorce-centered childhood?"Whether you're a divorce professional working with high-conflict families or a parent navigating co-parenting challenges, this episode provides insight into transforming harmful patterns into opportunities for healing. Because when parents take accountability and keep children out of adult conflicts, they're not just breaking a cycle—they're building resilience that will serve their children for years to come. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

Welcome to the first episode of Capability Corner, the podcast where we explore building workforce capability in healthcare! Hosted by Zoe Youl, Dr. Karen Patterson and Michelle Wicky.Discover the latest trends in healthcare education, the real meaning of triangulation during audits, and how building capability can transform workforce performance and patient care outcomes. Whether you're in workforce development, education, or clinical leadership, this episode offers insights, practical tips and a touch of fun.Follow Ausmed Socials: https://instagram.com/ausmededu/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ever felt like you were suddenly competing for someone's love, attention, or approval—without knowing why? You might have been caught in the toxic game of covert narcissistic triangulation.In this eye-opening episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I dive deep into one of the most painful and manipulative tactics narcissists use: triangulation. Whether it's with an ex, a friend, a sibling, or even your own child, covert narcissists thrive on creating emotional chaos by pulling in third parties to control, confuse, and hurt you.I'll break down what triangulation really looks like, why narcissists do it, how it affects your mental health and self-esteem, and—most importantly—how to recognise it and shut it down. From silent treatment and comparisons to backhanded praise and fake alliances, this episode exposes how narcissists use others to punish you, keep you off balance, and maintain power.You'll hear real-life examples from my counselling practice and learn practical tools to detach from the drama, protect your peace, and heal from the emotional damage this cruel tactic leaves behind.This episode is for you if:You've been compared to others constantlyYou feel like someone's always being used against youThe narcissist in your life brings up their ex way too oftenYou've been turned against someone you once trustedYou're stuck in a toxic triangle that leaves you drained and confused"The narcissist doesn't want peace, they want power—and triangulation gives them both."Support the Show on Apple PodcastsIf Fake Love has helped you, using this Apple Podcasts link is a simple way to support the show!

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Notes to the talkHere is a brief that summarizes the main themes and important ideas discussed in the provided sources: an audio recording ("Data Analysis_042025.mp3") of a thesis seminar session and excerpts from a document titled "Making Sense of Stories: Analyzing Qualitative Data in ELT Teacher Training." The primary focus is on data analysis techniques, particularly qualitative coding, triangulation, and the potential for incorporating quantitative elements.I. Key Themes and Important Ideas:A. Importance of Completing Data Collection Before Analysis:* The seminar leader emphasizes that data analysis should only begin after all data collection is complete. "Today's discussion is about data analysis. All of you have collected or very close to having completed uh collecting all of your data and this is an important requirement to continue the process of data analysis... If you are still trying to collect some information, know that what we talk about today uh you need to wait."* Starting analysis prematurely, before all data is gathered, is considered a "mistake."B. Understanding the Purpose of Data Analysis:* Data analysis is crucial for understanding the collected data and determining what is relevant and significant to report in the results and discussion sections of the thesis.* It helps researchers move from a large amount of raw data to focused and insightful findings. "Think of it like this. All of you are at this point, you've collected, if not all, most of your data. So you have all this data that you've collected... Ahora con todo esta información which data is not relevant... So you're going to then include this circle represents now only the information that relates to your research questions... Now from your data analysis... you're going to then figure out ok of all this information that now is relevant to my study, what is worth What is including in mys discussion?"* Not all relevant data needs to be reported; the analysis helps identify the most "important, surprising, insightful, interesting" findings.C. The Concept and Importance of Triangulation:* Triangulation involves bringing together different data sources (e.g., interviews, observations, documents) to gain a more comprehensive understanding of the research topic.* It allows for comparison between what participants say they do/believe, what they actually do (observed), and their planning/reflection processes. "Think of this if it helps to look at it like this. Your um your information here is allowing you to compare different things. For example, what people say they do or believe... What do they actually do? Well, to know that, what do we have to do? Have to observe."* The seminar leader stresses the importance of having sufficient data to triangulate and encourages participants to address any concerns about this. "If anybody today right now has concerns about whether or not you have the types of data to allow you to triangulate, we need to have a discussion today."* The "Making Sense of Stories" document provides specific examples of triangulation in ELT teacher training research, such as comparing planned instructions in lesson plans with delivered instructions observed in the classroom. "Compare the planned instructions (document) with the delivered instructions (observation). Were planned ICQs actually used?"D. Introduction to Qualitative Coding:* Qualitative coding is defined as a systematic process of labeling and organizing segments of text data (transcriptions, observation notes, documents) to identify patterns, themes, and concepts relevant to the research questions. "The process of coding is the process of labeling text. Coding is a systematic way to make sense of rich, complex, and often messy reality of language."* All audio and video data must be transcribed into text before coding. Microsoft Word Online's transcription feature is suggested as a tool.* The coding process involves identifying text segments (words, phrases, sentences, paragraphs) that relate to the research questions and assigning specific labels or "codes" to them. "You're coding things that relate to your research questions... Porque estamos en este proceso distinguendo, tenemos que distinguir qué sirve para nuestro estudio, qué no sirve, vamos a dejarlo fuera."E. Levels of Qualitative Coding:* The seminar introduces a three-level inductive coding approach:* Level One (Initial Codes): Creating very specific labels directly from the text, the literature review, or using in vivo codes (participant's exact words). "The first you create... the code, the label comes from your literature review... Using a label a code directly. If anx dijo eso... Tú puedes seleccionar esta frase. ¿Qué lebo puedes poner? Anxious, anxiety."* Level Two (Categories): Grouping the initial, specific codes into broader, more conceptual categories. "When we finish, you should have a long list of codes. And so I would do it in something like Excel... Les Segundo nivel es ordenar. Este grupo de códigos initial codes va aquí y voy a crear otra código. Puede ser como en category que representen todos sus códigos que son más específicos."* Level Three (Themes): Grouping the categories into overarching themes that provide a higher level of understanding and relate directly to the research questions. "Level three, yo voy a poner este themes. Ya vamos a tener categorías, ¿verdad? Cada categoría va a tener sus initial codes. ¿Qué hicimos? ¿Qué hacemos para este nivel level? Categoriz group these categories into these yes."* The "Making Sense of Stories" document also describes a similar iterative coding process, including immersion, initial/open coding, developing a codebook, focused/axial coding, and identifying themes/selective coding.F. The Codebook:* The outcome of the coding process is a codebook, which is a crucial part of the methodology section of the thesis.* The codebook will list all the codes used, potentially organized by categories and themes, and may include definitions and examples. "Cuando terminen, you're going to have a codebook... you're going to include your codebook that's going to include all of the codes that you used and it's going to be an outline como esema in word. categories initial codes."* The methodology section will describe the coding process and reference the codebook in the appendix.G. Incorporating Frequencies and Duration (Quantitative Elements):* The seminar leader emphasizes that qualitative data can be converted into quantitative data (frequencies, duration) for analysis. "How many of you think you'll need to analyze because we can convert qualitative information into quantitative information..."* This involves counting the occurrences of specific codes or measuring the length of certain events (e.g., teacher-student exchanges, use of relaxation techniques).* Examples discussed include tracking the frequency of positive/negative reinforcement, scaffolding, relaxation techniques, and the duration of collaborative work or interactions with specific students.* The "Making Sense of Stories" document provides detailed examples of how to quantify qualitative data by defining observable behaviors, developing coding rules, and using presence/absence or frequency counts in spreadsheets.H. Relationship Between Analysis and Reporting:* The analysis process directly informs what will be reported in the results and discussion sections. "We don't know what to write in the results and discussion until we understand the data. To understand the data, we need to analyze the data."* The evidence presented in the results section will often consist of direct quotes from the data that have been coded.* The analysis (coding, identifying themes, considering frequencies) helps determine the structure and content of the results and discussion.I. Openness to Modifying Research Questions:* Based on the initial findings during data analysis, it may be necessary to slightly modify the research questions to better align with the emerging answers. "It's very common at this point as you are analyzing your data and when you come back on May 5th that in some cases we may need to modify slightly your research question."* However, any modifications should remain within the scope of the literature review.J. Timeline and Expectations:* Participants are expected to begin the data analysis process (coding, considering frequencies) during the break before the next group session on May 5th.* This analysis is considered a crucial step that will significantly impact the quality of the thesis.* The final thesis paper is due on May 22nd, followed by mock presentations starting on May 26th and oral defenses.K. Utilizing Large Language Models (LLMs) as Research Assistants:* The "Making Sense of Stories" document introduces the potential of using LLMs to assist with qualitative data analysis.* LLMs can help with generating initial coding ideas, applying preliminary coding schemes, calculating frequencies of codes, and analyzing Likert scale questionnaires.* However, it is strongly emphasized that researchers must critically assess, validate, and cross-reference the output from LLMs to avoid bias and inaccuracies. LLMs should be seen as tools for augmentation, not replacements for rigorous methodological practices.II. Notable Quotes:* "Today's discussion is about data analysis. All of you have collected or very close to having completed uh collecting all of your data and this is an important requirement to continue the process of data analysis..."* "Please don't make that mistake. Okay. Today what we're going to be talking about is a process of analyzing qualitative information, but it's also a way to for you to start thinking about what you're going to report."* "This concept of triangulation is going to be very important in today's discussion for data analysis. Think of this if it helps to look at it like this. Your um your information here is allowing you to compare different things."* "Qualitative coding is the process of systematically identifying, labeling, and organizing segments of your data to discover patterns, themes, concepts, and relationships relevant to your research questions."* "Coding is simply labeling. It's giving a name to the text that you have."* "Repito, los códigos tien que ser super específico. Si comenzamos demasiado general, we don't have any place to go if we start to general."* "All qualitative can be converted to quantitative data and vice versa. When conducting qualitative data, you might find it useful to convert data to quantitative data and then analyze it."* "Correlation does NOT imply causation!"III. Implications for Thesis Work:* Participants need to prioritize transcribing their audio/video data and engaging in the initial levels of qualitative coding.* They should actively think about how triangulation will be achieved in their studies using their collected data sources.* Considering potential quantitative analysis (frequencies, duration) can add another layer of insight to their findings.* Developing a detailed and well-defined codebook is essential for a rigorous and transparent analysis process.* Researchers should remain flexible and open to refining their research questions based on the initial insights from the data analysis.* While LLMs can be helpful tools, they should be used judiciously and with critical evaluation.This briefing document provides a comprehensive overview of the key aspects of data analysis discussed in the provided sources, highlighting the importance of systematic qualitative methods and the potential for integrating quantitative elements in ELT teacher training research. Participants are encouraged to begin their analysis promptly and seek clarification on any doubts.ReviewQuiz* According to the speaker, what is the primary focus of today's session? Why is it being addressed at this particular point in the semester?* Explain the significance of triangulation in qualitative data analysis as described in the audio. Provide an example of how triangulation could be applied using different data sources mentioned.* Summarize the three levels of coding for qualitative data analysis discussed in the audio. What is the purpose of moving through these levels?* Describe what a codebook is and when it should be developed in the data analysis process. What key information does it contain?* Explain the difference between creating codes and using in vivo codes. Provide an example of each based on the provided material.* Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of transcribing all audio and video data to text before beginning the coding process?* What is the speaker's advice regarding modifying research questions at this stage of the thesis process? What important caveat does they mention?* Describe at least three examples from the audio of how qualitative data can be converted and analyzed using frequencies or duration.* According to the speaker, what constitutes the "results and discussion" section of the thesis paper in relation to the analyzed data? How does this differ from the literature review?* What reminders were given regarding the assessment components and attendance policy for the thesis seminar?Quiz Answer Key* The primary focus of today's session is data analysis, specifically for qualitative information. This is being addressed now because students have either completed or are very close to completing their data collection, which is a necessary prerequisite for starting the analysis process.* Triangulation is the process of bringing together and comparing information from different data sources (e.g., interviews, observations, documents) to gain a more nuanced and credible understanding of the research topic. For example, a researcher might compare a teacher's stated beliefs about differentiated instruction in an interview with their observed teaching practices and relevant lesson plans to see if these different sources of information align.* The three levels of coding are: (1) Initial/Level One Coding, which involves assigning specific labels or codes to segments of text; (2) Level Two Coding, where initial codes are grouped into broader categories; and (3) Level Three Coding, where categories are further grouped into overarching themes. The purpose of moving through these levels is to move from specific data points to more general analytical insights and patterns.* A codebook is a central document that is developed as the researcher codes their data. It lists all the codes being used, provides a clear definition for each code, outlines inclusion and exclusion criteria for applying the code, and often includes example snippets from the data that illustrate the code. It ensures consistency in the coding process.* Creating codes involves the researcher developing labels for segments of text based on their understanding of the data and research questions, potentially drawing from the literature review. Using in vivo codes involves using the exact words or phrases spoken by the participants as the codes themselves. For example, in the teacher interview snippet, "grammar mistake" is an in vivo code, while "delayed correction" is a created code.* The speaker emphasizes transcribing all audio and video data to text because the process of coding, which involves identifying and labeling segments of data, is primarily applied to text. Therefore, to analyze non-textual data in this way, it must first be converted into a textual format.* The speaker advises students to be open to slightly modifying their research questions based on the initial findings from the data analysis. However, they caution that any modifications should still align with the original literature review and the overall purpose of the research.* Examples of converting qualitative data to quantitative for analysis include: tracking the frequency of positive and negative reinforcement used by a teacher during a lesson; measuring the duration of student-teacher interactions; and counting the number of times a specific vocabulary strategy is implemented in a classroom.* The "results and discussion" section of the thesis paper primarily consists of the analyzed data, presented as evidence (results), and the researcher's interpretation and explanation of these findings in relation to the research questions and existing literature (discussion). This differs from the literature review, which presents findings from previous studies to provide context for the current research.* The speaker reminded students that their tutoring grade only makes up 40% of their final thesis seminar grade, with the oral defense and written thesis evaluation contributing the remaining 60%. They also reiterated the attendance policy, where missing a tutoring session equates to five absences, and exceeding three missed sessions may require taking an extraordinary exam.Essay Format Questions* Discuss the role of data analysis as a crucial bridge between data collection and the reporting of findings in qualitative research. Using examples from the provided audio, explain why skipping the data analysis stage can lead to significant challenges in the thesis writing process.* Critically evaluate the concept of triangulation in qualitative research, drawing on the examples and explanations provided in the sources. Discuss the strengths and potential limitations of using multiple data sources to enhance the credibility and depth of research findings in ELT teacher training.* Explain the three-level coding process for qualitative data analysis presented in the audio, emphasizing the importance of specificity in initial coding and the subsequent development of categories and themes. How does this systematic approach contribute to making sense of complex qualitative data?* Considering the information provided on analyzing frequencies and duration in qualitative data, discuss the value of incorporating quantitative elements into a primarily qualitative study. Provide specific examples from the audio of how this mixed-methods approach can enrich the analysis and provide additional insights in ELT research.* Reflect on the advice given regarding the iterative nature of qualitative research, including the potential need to modify research questions after initial data analysis. Discuss the importance of maintaining an open mind and flexibility throughout the research process while ensuring alignment with the existing literature review and overall research focus.Glossary of Key Terms* Coding (Qualitative): The process of systematically identifying, labeling, and organizing segments of qualitative data (text, audio transcripts, observation notes) to discover patterns, themes, concepts, and relationships relevant to the research questions.* Triangulation: The use of multiple data sources, methods, investigators, or theories to provide a more comprehensive and nuanced understanding of a research phenomenon, enhancing the credibility and validity of the findings.* Codebook: A central document that lists all the codes used in a qualitative study, along with their definitions, inclusion and exclusion criteria, and sometimes example data excerpts. It serves as a guide for consistent coding.* In Vivo Code: A type of code that uses the exact words or phrases spoken by the participants as the label for a segment of data.* Initial Coding (Open Coding/Level One Coding): The first stage of qualitative data analysis where researchers go through the data and assign preliminary, descriptive codes to segments of text, often staying close to the data itself.* Focused Coding (Axial Coding/Level Two Coding): A later stage of qualitative data analysis where initial codes are reviewed, refined, combined, and grouped into broader categories based on their relationships and patterns.* Thematic Analysis (Selective Coding/Level Three Coding): The process of identifying overarching themes or central ideas that emerge from the categories developed during focused coding, which help to answer the research questions.* Frequency Analysis: A method of quantitative data analysis that involves counting how often specific codes, behaviors, or events occur within the data.* Duration Analysis: A method of quantitative data analysis that involves measuring the length of time that specific events or interactions last within the data.* Transcription: The process of converting audio or video recordings into written text.* Likert Scale: A psychometric scale commonly involved in research that employs questionnaires. It is the most widely used approach to scaling responses in survey research, such that the term (or equivalently likert-type scale) is often used interchangeably with rating scale, although there are other types of rating scales.* Inductive Approach: A research approach that starts with specific observations and data, then moves towards identifying broader patterns, themes, and theories. The coding process described is largely inductive.* Deductive Approach: A research approach that starts with a general theory or hypothesis and then gathers data to test or confirm it.* Research Question: A specific inquiry that the research aims to answer. It guides the data collection and analysis processes.* Literature Review: A comprehensive summary and analysis of existing scholarly literature relevant to the research topic, providing context and identifying gaps in knowledge.* Methodology: The section of a research paper that describes the methods used to collect and analyze data. The coding process and codebook would be described in this section.* Results and Discussion: The section of a research paper where the findings of the data analysis are presented (results) and interpreted in relation to the research questions and existing literature (discussion).* Assessment (Thesis Seminar): The evaluation of a student's work in the thesis seminar, which includes the tutor's grading (40%), the oral defense (20%), and the evaluation of the written thesis (40%).* Oral Defense: A formal presentation of the completed thesis to a panel of examiners, who then ask questions about the research. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit benjaminlstewart.substack.com

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In Episode #152 of the Art of Raising Humans, Kyle and Sara tackle one of the biggest sources of division and tension in families—triangulation. They break down what it is, why it fuels constant conflict, and how it can quietly damage family relationships. But more importantly, they share practical, intentional steps parents can take to coach their kids in healthy conflict resolution. Learning to navigate disagreements effectively is a life skill that sets kids up for stronger relationships now and well into adulthood. Don't miss this crucial conversation!Get our video courses at https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com.View the full podcast transcript at: https://www.artofraisinghumans.com/breaking-the-cycle-how-to-stop-triangulation-and-teach-healthy-conflict-resolution Visit our website and social media channels for more valuable content for your parenting journey.Resource Website: https://www.artofraisinghumans.comVideo Courses: https://art-of-raising-humans.newzenler.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/artofraisinghumansInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/artofraisinghumansPodcast Website: https://www.theartofraisinghumans.comThe Art of Raising Humans podcast should not be considered or used as counseling but for educational purposes only.

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Triangulation or stepping into a relationship conflict between two people is one of many dysfunctional dynamics. Find out what the Karpman Triangle is and how it sheds light on the pros and cons of triangulating. #karpmantriangle #complexrelationships #relationshipconflict    Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/o6WEcGg22Yc    

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#triangulationseries #narcissisticmanipulation #narcissisticparent Is your mother placing herself between you and your father? Does she speak ill of your father to you? Does she tell lies to your father about you to ruin your relationship? There are 2 directions in which a narcissistic mother can triangulate between you and your father. In this episode we cover both and also what to do in each case.

"In the process of fact finding and conversing, you'll often develop new insights, valuable nuggets and start to build relationships that can all serve you in different ways well into the future." - Scott Ingram in today's Tip 1856 Learn more at DailySales.Tips/1856 [Top Tips of 2024 - Number 5] Have feedback? Want to share a sales tip? Email: scott@top1.fm

Stand-up comedien, ex-maths teacher and author Matt Parker chats about his bestselling book on three-sided figures called Love Triangle. Dr Karl explores what fascinates us about trigonometry. drkarl.com matt parker

“I am trying constantly to look for any indication that something is working.” Brittany Clevenger, (Senior Director of Growth Marketing, BetterHelp) The Media Roundtable is back! This week we're bringing you another favorite CAO Summit session, all about Measurement. Giles Martin (EVP of Strategy & Insights, Oxford Road) takes the stage with: Margaux Natiello, (Senior Manager, Partnerships, AG1) Brittany Clevenger, (Senior Director of Growth Marketing, BetterHelp) Rion Swartz, (VP, Brand Marketing, formerly with Constant Contact, Shutterstock, LegalZoom), and Sidney Stephens, (Senior Marketing Manager, Offline, Tommy John) to share their best practices on measurement. The team is talking: Your Best Option, Triangulation, Constant Improvement, and more. Let's jump in.

How do Narcissists use Triangulation to Pit People against each other?Have you ever found yourself caught in the middle of someone else's drama, unsure how you ended up there? That's triangulation at play. Narcissists thrive on turning people against each other to maintain power, sow confusion, and deflect attention from their behaviour. Whether it's in families, friendships, workplaces, or romantic relationships, this tactic can leave victims feeling isolated, confused, and doubting their own perceptions.In this episode I unpack exactly how narcissists use triangulation to manipulate, breaking down:The subtle ways they pit people against each other.How they create competition, jealousy, and mistrust.The emotional toll triangulation takes on victims and their relationships.Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic parent, partner, or colleague, this episode is packed with insights and tools to help you break free from their manipulation.For Zoom counselling support in your narcissistic abuse recovery available worldwide, please visit my website below.  Nova

Exposing Media Internal Manipulation: Whistleblowers, Lies, and Triangulation Tactics What happens when the media becomes the weapon against those trying to reveal the truth? In this raw and unfiltered conversation, we unpack the manipulative tactics used by powerful media figures to silence whistleblowers—diving deep into how triangulation, emotional manipulation, and narrative control create a web of lies to protect the status quo. Packed with jaw-dropping insights and a no-holds-barred look at the power dynamics shaping public perception, this episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to understand the darker side of media influence. Buckle up, because we're not pulling any punches. www.MeshNews.org // https://tv.meshnews.org //. www.cointelpro2zero.com

In this episode, we dive deep into terms related to narcissism, sharing personal experiences and definitions such as bread crumbing, love bombing, hovering, and triangulation. We also discuss the challenges of launching a new podcast studio and the importance of failing forward. Additionally, we touch on the impact of childhood experiences on adult behaviors and the journey towards health and wellness.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction 00:46 New Studio Vibes04:11 Studio B: A Versatile Space06:30 HRT and Peptide Journey10:32 Community and Support15:32 Comment Corner20:43 Exclusive One Up Nutrition Deals21:40 Understanding Breadcrumbing23:14 The Hovering Tactic26:39 Love Bombing Explained27:39 Triangulation in Relationships36:42 Silent Treatment and Childhood Memories40:56 Parenting Styles 42:59 Concluding Thoughts and Future EpisodesJoin this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_8nonbBsA-mTli1KLlHlrA/joinWork with Jeaninehttps://www.jeanineescobar.comMike's YouTube Channel:  @escoelitemindsetMike's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/@escoelitemindsetSupport our Sponsors1UP Nutrition Code: JEANINEhttps://www.1upnutrition.com /discount/jeanineTranscendhttps://www.transcendcompany.com/escoeliteMegaFit Meals - Code Jeanine https://megafitmeals.rfrl.co/p75q7Built Bar Code: MRSCEOJhttps://builtbar.com?baapp=MRSCEOJSupport us by following on Social MediaAmazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/mrsceo_jLTK Fashion Links: https://www.shopLTK.com/explore/MrsCEO_JInstagram: https://instagram.com/mrsceo_jInstagram: https://instagram.com/candidly_withcoffeeWeight Loss IG: https://instagram.com/@jsbodybootcampTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mrsceo_j

#triangulation #narcissisticmanipulation #narcissisticparent #preparingforholidayseason Have you come to dread the approaching holidays season because of your narcissistic mother? Does you her toxic behaviour reach new levels every year at this time? What we can expect with a narcissistic mother and with narcissistic families in general is an intensifying of all toxic behaviours and manipulation tactics at key moments such as the upcoming holiday season. And triangulation is not exception! In this episode I'm going through all the main ways you can expect your narcissistic mother to triangulate during holiday season and 5 things you can do to protect yourself from this toxic behaviour.

As consumers, we may realize the need to be vigilant by using two-factor authentication and password managers, but there are so many scams out there that can impersonate legitimate organizations, websites, and people. We really can't let our guard down. Today's guest is Soups Ranjan. Soups has over 18 years of experience in software engineering, data science, and risk management. He is the co-founder and CEO of Sardine. This behavior-infused platform offers fraud prevention, compliance, and payment solutions for various industries including banking, online marketplaces, FinTech, crypto, online gaming, and gift card exchanges. Previously, Soups led the Risk and Data Science teams at CoinBase, where he scaled the platform and enabled millions of users to buy, sell, and store cryptocurrency securely and efficiently. Show Notes: [1:15] - Soups shares his background and information about his company, Sardine. [4:30] - He has not been a victim of a scam online but did experience an in-person scam. [6:57] - Sardine works with a diverse set of clients. Trends differ based on the industry. One major trend is an increase in triangulation fraud. [9:07] - Once they have card details, they can pretty much do whatever they want with it. [11:40] - Even on a contactless card, using tap-to-pay, be careful. Don't hand over your device. [12:43] - It is becoming increasingly difficult to verify the identities of merchants. [15:21] - There is a big rise in scams as a result of the demand for real-time money transfers and exchanges. [17:45] - Some scammers are instructing victims to install screen viewers and recording tools. [19:50] - Machine learning is used to help protect clients. [21:41] - There are intrinsic behaviors that Sardine monitors to watch for unusual activity. [24:41] - Soups describes some of the other types of data that is observed in addition to behavior. [27:08] - Soups explains 3D Secure and what the benefits of this system are. [30:41] - Dollars lost to scams have far surpassed the dollars lost to fraud. [33:37] - The United States is behind in regulatory measures. [35:59] - It is best to work with banks that take fraud and scams very seriously. [37:15] - Soups lists some of the red flags and be on the lookout for. [39:44] - It is extremely important to protect your email address in the same way you protect your bank account. Thanks for joining us on Easy Prey. Be sure to subscribe to our podcast on iTunes and leave a nice review.  Links and Resources: Podcast Web Page Facebook Page whatismyipaddress.com Easy Prey on Instagram Easy Prey on Twitter Easy Prey on LinkedIn Easy Prey on YouTube Easy Prey on Pinterest Soups Ranjan on LinkedIn

We're diving into triangulation—when your mother pulls you into conflicts and pits you against your father, siblings, or even extended family. If you've ever felt like you were caught in the middle, unsure of who to trust or what's real, listen in. We're talking about how narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers use triangulation to control and manipulate family dynamics, and more importantly, how you can start recognizing these toxic patterns and reclaim your truth.  In this episode, we cover: What triangulation is and how it shows up in family dynamics How to honor your truth and set healthy boundaries with your mother Practical examples of boundary-setting and self-validation Steps you can take today to start healing from these painful patterns If this resonates with you, and you're ready for more support, I'd love for you to join Tuesday Group, where Mayhem daughters come together to work through these exact challenges. You don't have to go through this alone—let's navigate it together. You can find more details and sign up through the link in the show notes. And here you go: Affirmations that Honor Your Truth Also mentioned: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

#triangulation #narcissisticparents #narcissisticmanipulation #triangulationseries Have you ever found yourself having to choose between your mother and your partner? Does your mother criticises or gossips about your partner when with you? One way a narcissistic mother can triangulate is between you and your partner/husband. This can happen with a new partner you are introducing for the first time or with your husband for years. And it is a toxic dynamic that can prove very damaging to your relationship. In this episode I share some of the main ways a narcissistic mother can triangulate between you and your partner, so you can recognise it, and how you can put an end to it.

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Triangulation occurs when a parent requires a child to function as an emotional adult by meeting the parent's adult needs and wants. Were you required to give, give, give to your parent, or was your parent continually giving, giving, giving emotionally to you? In a healthy parent-child relationship, there is plenty of connection—but the parent never imposes their emotional needs on the child. Triangulation results in two deadly dynamics. First, your goodness is consumed by one parent. Second, as a result of being consumed by one parent, you are setup to be envied by the other parent. When triangulation is present in a family, it is common (though not inevitable) for the triangulated relationship to become sexualized. By sexualized, I mean that there is erotic energy between Mom and the chosen son or Dad and the chosen daughter.

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Have a question you want answered? Submit it here!Ever wondered why some relationships thrive in emotional closeness while others struggle to maintain even a semblance of connection? Discover the intricate dynamics of the "Triangulation of Love," where intimacy, passion, and commitment play pivotal roles. Through personal stories, we'll unravel the complexities of intimacy and how disparities between partners can lead to misunderstandings and long-term impacts, especially when one feels criticized or rejected early on. We tackle how these differences manifest across various relationships—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—and explore the underlying reasons for these gaps.Join us for practical advice and heartfelt anecdotes aimed at nurturing intimacy and ensuring it's a reciprocal journey. We highlight the significance of recognizing when your partner might be holding back and how to gently open lines of communication. By sharing relatable scenarios, from sports rivalries to drink preferences, we encourage listeners to reflect on their own relationships and embrace open dialogue. Tune in to gain fresh perspectives on fostering deeper connections and cultivating a safe environment for emotional vulnerability.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.

Have a question you want answered? Submit it here!Have you ever felt superior to your partner or viewed them through a critical lens because of their struggles? This episode could reshape your perspective. Today, I'm joined by my wonderful husband, Rob! We begin by unpacking the profound importance of true acceptance in marriages, sharing a poignant story of a friend's failing marriage to illustrate the corrosive effects of seeing a partner as "sick" or lesser. Through this narrative, we emphasize the necessity of meeting your spouse where they are and fostering a relationship built on equality and mutual respect.Next, we delve into the insidious nature of contempt and how it can dismantle the foundation of any relationship. We'll walk you through real-life scenarios where partners viewed each other as fundamentally flawed, leading to the erosion of respect and emotional distancing. By discussing the impacts of perceived intelligence and educational disparities, we reveal how overcoming these superiority complexes can pave the way for personal growth and healthier future relationships.Finally, we explore the bridge to full acceptance, drawing on insights from experts like Dr. Joe Beam and Dr. John Gottman. From navigating high-stress environments to rebuilding trust after deceit, we share our personal journey and highlight the gradual yet essential process of achieving mutual acceptance. We'll also touch on the critical role of intimacy in relationships, using the Triangulation of Love model to dissect how intimacy, commitment, and passion interconnect. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, we offer a roadmap to fostering a strong, enduring marriage. Join us as we share our experiences and insights to help you navigate the complexities of acceptance in your relationships.Your Host: Kimberly Beam Holmes, Expert in Self-Improvement and RelationshipsKimberly Beam Holmes has applied her master's degree in psychology for over ten years, acting as the CEO of Marriage Helper & CEO and Creator of PIES University, being a wife and mother herself, and researching how attraction affects relationships. Her videos, podcasts, and following reach over 500,000 people a month who are making changes and becoming the best they can be.

In this episode of the Human Capital Lab podcast, host Rich Douglas is joined by Dr. Alaina Szlachta, owner and operator of By Design Development Solutions. The discussion delves deep into the vital importance of measurement and evaluation in talent development, especially amidst the challenges posed by COVID-19. Dr. Alaina Szlachta shares her professional journey, human behavior expertise, and research passion. The conversation highlights the integration of data enablement in businesses; the common barriers professionals face regarding data, and the essential role of pre-planning in the effectiveness of training programs. Practical insights include leveraging AI for needs analysis, the significance of triangulation, and actionable strategies featured in Dr. Alaina Szlachta's upcoming book, 'Measurement and Evaluation on a Shoestring,' slated for release in November. The episode encourages talent development professionals to develop business acumen and integrate data into their practices for better decision-making and impactful results. 00:31 Meet Dr. Alaina Szlachta: From Teaching to Consulting 00:39 The Importance of Measurement in Business 02:28 Navigating COVID as a Consultant 03:40 Data Enablement for Small Businesses 04:48 Overcoming the Fear of Data 07:46 Understanding Data and Artifacts 10:28 The Role of ROI and Triangulation in Evaluation 15:18 Planning and Hypothesis in Training Programs 18:28 Consulting and Engaging with Business Leaders 22:46 Client Stories and Data Enablement 24:53 Creating Data-Driven Programs for Startups 25:31 Scaling Small Businesses with Data Enablement 27:01 The Role of Knowledge in Behavior Change 28:32 Introducing the Book: Measurement and Evaluation on a Shoestring Connect with the Guests: Dr. Alaina Szlachta;LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drszlachta/ Website: https://dralainaszlachta.com/Connect with Human Capital Lab; Host: Rich Douglas LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rich-douglas-92b71b52/ Human Captial Lab Links Website: https://humancapitallab.org/ Interested in Being a Guest? https://humancapitallab.org/podcast/ This is a Growth Network Podcasts production.

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In “Hebrews 13” by Jericho Brown, a narrator says: “my lover and my brother both knocked at my door.” The heat is turned on, scalding coffee is offered and hastily swallowed, and silence is the soundtrack. What an exquisitely awkward triangle it is, and what a human, beautiful, and loving shape that can be.Jericho Brown is the Charles Howard Candler Professor of English and Creative Writing at Emory University, where he also directs the university's creative writing program. His books of poetry are The New Testament, Please, and The Tradition, for which he won the Pulitzer Prize in 2020.Find the transcript for this show at onbeing.org.This is the fifth episode of "Poems as Teachers," a special seven-part miniseries on conflict and the human condition.We're pleased to offer Jericho Brown's poem, and invite you to read Pádraig's weekly Poetry Unbound Substack, read the Poetry Unbound book, or listen back to all our episodes.