Podcasts about pure desire

Trigger warning and PSA: In this episode we discuss a lot of hard topics that may be triggering for some. This conversation is not meant for little ears.  Today on the show, I am joined by Ashley Jameson, Associate Director of Women's Groups for Pure Desire to discuss the new study that revealed 40% of Christian women use pornography. We talk about Ashley's personal experience with addiction and betrayal trauma, God's truth and power through sin and shame, why this conversation matters, resources, the science behind addiction, that you CAN find freedom and how to do that, and encouragement for those impacted by betrayal trauma. Find more resources here: https://puredesire.org/resources/  Find more tools here: https://puredesire.org/tools/ 00:00 Intro and trigger warning 04:00 Ashley's experience 07:00 Why is pornography a struggle? 12:40 Can we conquer addiction? 15:30 “It's not hurting anyone” and “I have it under control” 22:00 Why it's important to talk about 27:00 Find healing, hope, and freedom 39:00 Encouragement for those impacted by betrayal trauma  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As an innocent young boy, Nick was at a sleepover with a friend when he first saw porn. A curiosity became an addiction. With all his heart he wanted freedom, but who do you tell you’re addicted to porn? Where do you go for help? Nick Stumbo found the help he needed at Pure Desire. Today Nick is their executive director. Pure Desire is a ministry helping us find freedom and healing from sexual brokenness. Social media and porn are raising our kids. For our kids to come to us with their curiosity so that we can share God’s great design for their sexuality we must normalize talking about sex with our kids. And that starts with letting them know that they can bring any and all of their questions to us!Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshow/wgnbSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do you do when trust is shattered, but no one around you seems to take your pain seriously? In today's deeply honest and hope-filled episode, Leslie sits down with Nick Stumbo, former pastor and Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, who opens up about his personal battle with pornography—and the profound impact it had on his wife, his marriage, and his ministry. Nick's story isn't just one of addiction—it's about healing, honesty, and hope when everything seems lost. Together, Leslie and Nick dismantle toxic messaging that pressures wives to “just forgive” or “have more sex,” and instead offer a biblical and brain-based path toward real recovery—one that honors both the betrayed and the struggler. If you or someone you love is silently suffering in a marriage affected by pornography, this episode will remind you: You're not alone, and your healing matters.  

In this impactful episode, we sit down with Pastor Andrew Rothrock of Riverbend Church in Bend, Oregon, to explore what it means to create a church culture that actively supports sexual health and healing. Riverbend is setting a powerful example by making recovery from compulsive sexual behavior and betrayal trauma a visible and valued part of their ministry.We talk with Andrew about why their church made sexual wholeness a key discipleship focus, how they've integrated Pure Desire groups into the life of their community, and the incredible transformation they're seeing in both individuals and marriages.From reducing shame to developing future leaders, this episode is full of encouragement for churches and pastors who want to lead with grace and truth in this vital area.Resources:Church ToolkitOrder ‘Beyond The Porn Phenomenon Now!Andrews Church GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

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From an early age, we grow up with stories that spark our desire for boons, or wishes fulfilled. We dream of finding our own version of Aladdin's magic lamp, complete with a genie ready to grant our every wish.While the Vedic worldview doesn't embrace genies in a literal sense, the concept of boons does align with it. In this episode, Thom explores the true nature of boons and how we can cultivate “Cosmic desires” that increase the likelihood of them being realized.Episode Highlights[00:45] Guru Purnima[04:12] A Blessing[07:18] Channeling a Cosmic Desire[10:10] The Qualities of a Pure Desire[12:30] Purifying the Desiring MechanismUseful Linksinfo@thomknoles.com https://thomknoles.com/https://www.instagram.com/thethomknoleshttps://www.facebook.com/thethomknoleshttps://www.youtube.com/c/thomknoleshttps://thomknoles.com/ask-thom-anything/

Learn More About Arise for Women: https://cvnteyes.co/3ZvW65UIn this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter is joined by Heidi Cooper, Covenant Eyes' recovery specialist, and Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries. Together, they dive deep into the struggles women face in dealing with sexual brokenness, including addiction, shame, and the devastating impact of pornography. They explore the difficult conversations around healing from sexual trauma, the challenges of discussing these topics in the church, and the vital role of community and support groups in recovery.Ashley shares insights from her own experience, discussing the growing issue of pornography use among Christian women and how resources like Pure Desire's groups are helping to provide healing and recovery. They also explore the importance of addressing these issues openly in our churches and families, encouraging women to break free from the shame and find freedom in their identity as new creations in Christ.Topics covered include:• Sexual addiction recovery and healing• The stigma and shame surrounding women's struggles with pornography• Pure Desire's resources for individuals and families• Supporting children in a "pornified" culture• How to lead and protect our communities and families from sexual brokennessIf you or someone you know is struggling with sexual brokenness, betrayal, or addiction, this episode offers valuable resources, support, and encouragement. Listen to real-life stories and gain tools for walking out your healing journey.Resources mentioned in the episode:Pure Desire Ministries: https://puredesire.org/Covenant Eyes: https://cvnteyes.co/3ZvW65UCHAPTERS:0:00 - Introduction to the Episode3:30 - Ashley Jameson's Background and Role at Pure Desire7:00 - The Church's Struggle to Address Sexual Addiction10:15 - The Impact of Pornography on Women14:00 - The Role of Women in Supporting Each Other18:30 - Sexual Brokenness: A Personal and Collective Issue22:00 - Navigating Trauma and Healing Through Groups26:30 - Parenting and Technology: Protecting Children in a "Pornified" Culture31:00 - Pure Desire's Resources for Healing34:00 - How to Get Involved and Find Help36:30 - The Power of Community in Addiction Recovery39:00 - Closing Thoughts and EncouragementSubscribe to the Covenant Eyes Podcast for more insights on healing, addiction recovery, and faith.#SexualBrokenness #overcomingpornography #christianwomenpornaddiction #covenanteyespodcast Try Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast © 2024 Covenant Eyes, All Rights Reserved

Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing.  We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among Christians to help them find healing from its destructive impact.     We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What the stats tell us about how many Christians are viewing porn regularly Why talking openly is ESSENTIAL for healing  Exposing the progressive nature of porn addiction  How to make church a place where openness is possible  What to do if your church is not a safe place to confess  How to prepare your kids to handle porn exposure safely  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: The enemy would love for you to stay stuck in secrecy and shame. Jesus wants to bring freedom and healing. Take a step toward freedom today.  Questions to Discuss:  Do you have a safe friend you can be honest with? Are you practicing confession and accountability in your life? What can you do to help cultivate an honest, godly friendship today?  What is God prompting you need to take responsibility for so that you can grow closer to Him and your spouse today?    QUOTES  “Most people won't be surprised to know that the numbers are continuing to grow.” - Nick Stumbo  “To my knowledge, it's the first time in history that the majority of practicing Christians say they are doing pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “84% of people said there is NO ONE helping them avoid pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “If shame and secrecy are the sickness, then openness, community and love are what healing is all about.” - Nick Stumbo  “By the time it blows up a marriage, the help was needed 5-10 years ago.” - Nick Stumbo “You're not alone. There is help and hope for you. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “True accountability is about me learning to be responsible for my own actions and behaviors.” - Nick Stumbo  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Pure Desire offers healing groups and great resources to help you find freedom from porn. Check them out here.  Get the stats: Read the research by Barna and Pure Desire HERE  If porn has impacted your marriage, take Dr. Kim's 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal webinar to kickstart your marriage healing. We recommend the book Good Pictures / Bad Pictures to help equip your kids against porn exposure.

Pornography is no longer just a "worldly issue"—it has deeply impacted Christian marriages (including women) and families. In this powerful episode, we sit down with Ashley Jameson, Associate Director of Women's Groups for Pure Desire, who has not only faced the reality of porn in her own story but has also walked alongside countless women seeking freedom and healing. She shares eye-opening statistics on porn's devastating effects, from intimacy struggles in marriage to the rising number of women battling addiction. But this conversation isn't about fear—it's about redemption. Ashley Jameson offers hope-filled guidance for wives navigating betrayal, women wrestling with their own struggles, and parents seeking wisdom to protect and prepare their children in a hypersexualized world. If you or someone you love has been impacted by pornography, this episode is a must-listen, pointing toward the healing power of God's grace and the steps to lasting transformation. Connect with Ashley Jameson through Pure Desire, or on Facebook. Get all the statistics. Get the full report Beyond the Porn Phenomenon: Equipping The Church For A New Conversation About Pornography, Betrayal Trauma, and Healing Check out our Sexpectations online course. Discover your pathway to sexual wholeness as you explore your sexual story. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can send a confidential message here.

Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing.  We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among Christians to help them find healing from its destructive impact.     We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What the stats tell us about how many Christians are viewing porn regularly Why talking openly is ESSENTIAL for healing  Exposing the progressive nature of porn addiction  How to make church a place where openness is possible  What to do if your church is not a safe place to confess  How to prepare your kids to handle porn exposure safely  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: The enemy would love for you to stay stuck in secrecy and shame. Jesus wants to bring freedom and healing. Take a step toward freedom today.  Questions to Discuss:  Do you have a safe friend you can be honest with? Are you practicing confession and accountability in your life? What can you do to help cultivate an honest, godly friendship today?  What is God prompting you need to take responsibility for so that you can grow closer to Him and your spouse today?    QUOTES  “Most people won't be surprised to know that the numbers are continuing to grow.” - Nick Stumbo  “To my knowledge, it's the first time in history that the majority of practicing Christians say they are doing pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “84% of people said there is NO ONE helping them avoid pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “If shame and secrecy are the sickness, then openness, community and love are what healing is all about.” - Nick Stumbo  “By the time it blows up a marriage, the help was needed 5-10 years ago.” - Nick Stumbo “You're not alone. There is help and hope for you. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “True accountability is about me learning to be responsible for my own actions and behaviors.” - Nick Stumbo  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Pure Desire offers healing groups and great resources to help you find freedom from porn. Check them out here.  Get the stats: Read the research by Barna and Pure Desire HERE  If porn has impacted your marriage, take Dr. Kim's 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal webinar to kickstart your marriage healing. We recommend the book Good Pictures / Bad Pictures to help equip your kids against porn exposure.

Greta Eskridge is a second generation homeschooler, mom of 4, and author of the new book, It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn. In this episode, you'll hear Greta's story of how pornography impacted her family and what she has learned about how we can equip our kids to pursue sexual integrity. Greta offers practical tools, scripts you can use today, and valuable guidance on how we can approach these conversations with grace and compassion.You can grab your copy of Greta's book here for more information and support.If pornography is already affecting your life, please know that you are not alone. There is help available for you.If you are a wife whose husband is struggling with porn use, Greta recommends the book, Fight For Love. You may also want to check out the resources available at Fight For Love Ministries.If you are dealing with porn use in your own life or the life of someone you love and want help with recovery, Greta recommends the organization, Pure Desire.You can find show notes for this episode at homeschoolcompass.com/podcast.We'd love to connect with you outside your podcast player!Follow the Homeschool Compass on Instagram or FacebookSign up for our email newsletterDownload our free printablesBrowse our book listsThank you for leaving The Homeschool Compass Podcast a rating and a review in your podcast player! It helps new homeschool families find these encouraging conversations.

On today's PoM Podcast episode I sat down with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire Ministries. Nick, the executive director of Pure Desire, confronted his own porn addiction 15 years ago. He and his wife found healing through Pure Desire's counseling and group ministries. Nick believes parents should create a safe place to have an ongoing, open-ended conversation with their kids about healthy sexuality rather than focusing on having a one-time conversation about sex. Even though fathers have one of the earliest and most trusted roles in a young person's life, the data shows that they play a much less significant role in the sexual education of their children — this is often because they are also dealing with their own sexual struggles and history. To learn more: https://puredesire.org/Register for our next 90 Days of Discipline: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/90-days-may-julyRegister for our 2025 Fall Men's Retreat: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/2025-mens-retreatRegister for Tribe XVI starting June 1st: https://www.thepursuitofmanliness.com/gear/p/tribe-xviThis podcast is sponsored by Dark Water Woodwork. Dark Water Woodwork is offering a discount code exclusively for the podcast listeners. Use the discount code "PSALM824" to save 15% off of your next beard oil purchase. https://www.darkwaterkc.comSupport the show

On this episode of Ask Christian Counseling Associates, we confront a hidden struggle affecting over half of practicing Christians—pornography. Many suffer in silence, unaware of the deep psychological and spiritual impact. Our guest, Robert Vander Meer, a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional with Pure Desire, shares how true freedom comes through biblical truth, clinical insight, and authentic community. Join us as we uncover the path to healing and renewal in Christ.

Today's guest Ashley Jameson works as a Certified Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional and is passionate about partnering with churches to help individuals break free from addiction and shame, build healthy intimacy, and embrace the life God has for them through her work with Pure Desire Ministries. She shares with listeners about how her personal experiences with teen pregnancy, s*x and love addiction, and betrayal trauma have inspired her work now. Above all, she wants listeners to know that there is hope and healing with this kind of addiction is possible whoever you are and wherever you've been. If you'd like to learn more, Ashley is also a contributing author to Unraveled, Betrayal & Beyond, and Authentically You and co-hosts the podcast UnFiltered: Real Talk About Sex & Love where she and co-host Heather have candid, no-judgment conversations about sex, relationships, and healing. You can also email groups@puredesire.com to get started on your own journey towards healing today.

In this episode, we tackle one of the most pressing concerns for parents today: protecting children from the dangers of pornography. Kristen Jenson, author of Good Pictures, Bad Pictures, shares her inspiration behind writing the book and her mission to help parents guide their young children through the complexities of online content in a way that is age-appropriate and effective.We discuss the concept of "porn-proofing" children, which was explored in Pure Desire's new Parent Training Course, and why it's more crucial than ever for parents to take an active role in safeguarding their kids from harmful material.With many parents feeling overwhelmed by the task of guiding their children through the digital landscape, Nick, Heather, and Kristen provide practical advice on how to approach these tough conversations with confidence, compassion, and love. Whether you're just starting to think about these issues or are already deep in the process of "porn-proofing" your children, this episode offers essential tools and insights for every parent in today's digital age. Resources:Parent Training CourseKristen's OrganizationGet 'Good Pictures Bad Pictures'DYM on FBDYM on LinkedInFREE Counseling Consultation GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

In today's episode, we dive deep into one of the most important—and often most uncomfortable—topics for parents: talking with your kids about sex. We're joined by Rodney and Traci Wright, authors of How to Talk With Your Kids About Sex and the primary speakers in Pure Desire's new Parent Training Course. We tackle key issues like how to address our own sexual health as parents, the challenges of today's media landscape, and how to adjust these conversations as children grow. We also discuss common fears parents have, such as whether talking about sex too early might encourage risky behavior—and why, in fact, it can help prevent it. This conversation goes beyond the biology of sex and emphasizes the emotional, spiritual, and relational aspects that are just as critical to discuss with kids. You'll hear how trust plays a crucial role in keeping the lines of communication open and what parents can do if they've missed early opportunities to talk about sex.Resources:Full Episode on YoutubeParent Training Course Parent Training Course TrailerRodney & Traci's Book GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry that actually helped him and his wife find a way out and healing from his own porn addiction. In this honest, unflinching conversation, Nick joins Zach Clinton to explain the challenges involved in overcoming the shame and brokenness of porn use. They examine the different wounds and the peripheral damage that can occur with a spouse or a mate, and explain why both partners in a relationship matter as a journey of recover begins. Nick offers unique firsthand perspective on how this can be an unspoken problem within the church. Through his own powerful testimony, Nick reminds us that asking for help doesn’t make us weaker believers. Real freedom from behavior driven by secrecy and shame can only be found by bringing it into the light. Listen and be encouraged as you start the new year, with new goals and resolutions, and share it with someone you care about. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

In this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the challenges and impacts of pornography in relationships and personal lives with special guest Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire. They discuss the pervasive issue of pornography in Christian communities, its mental, relational, and spiritual implications, and the path to freedom through grace-filled healing. Offering insights into breaking cycles of shame and addiction, this episode provides practical tips to help listeners pursue healthy, Christ-centered relationships.Whether you're a college student, a married couple, or a leader in the church, this episode offers valuable advice to navigate this challenging topic and find hope, healing, and restoration.Resources Mentioned:Free E-Books from Pure Desire5 Steps to Freedom from Pornography - A guide to overcoming struggles with pornography. Download here7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma - Help for navigating the pain of betrayal. Download hereBooks by Nick StumboSafe - A guide to fostering grace-filled environments that promote healing from sexual struggles and create safe spaces for restoration. Learn moreSetting Us Free - Nick Stumbo shares his journey to freedom from sexual addiction, offering practical tools and spiritual insights for lasting transformation. Learn moreFrom the Center for Marriage and Relationships (CMR)Sex, Pornography, and Relationship Help - Quick tips on addressing pornography's impact on relationships. Download PDFConnect with Us:Website: cmr.biola.eduFacebook: facebook.com/biolacmrInstagram: instagram.com/biolacmrYouTube: youtube.com/@biola-cmrJoin the Conversation:Subscribe to The Art of Relationships Podcast to never miss an episode.Leave a review on [Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Your platform] to help others discover the show.Share this episode with someone who could benefit from these relationship insights.Sign up for weekly updates and resources from the Center for Marriage and Relationships! Sign up hereAbout the Hosts:Chris Grace, Ph.D., and Alisa Grace are passionate about helping people build and sustain healthy relationships. As leaders of the Biola University Center for Marriage and Relationships, they combine the wisdom of Scripture with scholarly research to offer practical advice and insights. Learn more about their work at cmr.biola.edu.

Today, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, a former pastor and the Executive Director of Pure Desire, to dive into a complex subject: pornography addiction. With sexually explicit material more accessible than ever, men and women across the world find themselves impacted by ongoing exposure to it. How does pornography influence our culture as a whole? How can we break free from this cycle of addiction? Join us now to see for yourself…  Nick was a third-generation pastor who began his ministry work at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as head pastor for more than 10 years. During this time, Nick closely observed the sexual brokenness and devastation in the congregation. Instead of meeting this with judgment, he recognized the need for grace in the Church like never before. Nick found hope and healing on his own journey with pornography addiction through the transformative resources provided at Pure Desire. This radical change not only led to his personal healing but also sparked a revival of forgiveness and healing among his loved ones. Later, Nick launched his own Pure Desire groups for men and women – staying connected to Christ's path all along the way. He also authored two books, Setting Us Free and Safe. Click play to discover:  Why male and female porn consumption is so different.  The elements that make pornography so addictive.   How Pure Desire is leading the charge toward healing and sustainable change. The benefits of bringing the subject of pornography addiction out of the shadows.  You can learn more about Nick's work with Pure Desire here! Episode also available on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/38oMlMr

How do you rebuild trust in your marriage after pornography addiction? This week, join Greg & Erin as they sit down with Nick & Michelle Stumbo of Pure Desires Ministries to talk about their journey through Nick's addiction and the healing process that followed. Later, we hear a devotional from Bill Arbuckle. Later, we answer a question from a listener who wants to know if she and her fiance should place boundaries on their wedding night.   Click here to receive Nick's book, "Setting Us Free," for a gift of any amount!   Click here to listen to Greg & Erin's No Porn Marriage podcast   Click here for Pure Desire Ministries to find freedom and support from addiction   Click here for Pure Desire's F.A.S.T.E.R. scale to create healthy guardrails.   Call Focus on the Family at 1(855) 771-4357, or click here, to receive free counseling consultation   Donate Now!   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing! Special shout out to Coventant Eyes for sponsoring this pornography seriers! Use our code KS30 to get your first month FREE! Find healing TODAY!!! Links from today's episode: Covenant Eyes (KS30 for your first 30 days free!!) Pure Desire Parent Resource: use code  PARENTS29 for a discount! Puredesire.org Pure Desire podcast ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

My guest this week is the amazing Ashley Jameson. She is the Associate Director of Pure Desire Ministries- a ministry dedicated to equipping individuals and churches with the tools to heal from the impacts of sexual brokenness, addiction, and betrayal. She and her husband, John, discovered Pure Desire during one of the most challenging seasons of their marriage, battling the devastation caused by a pornography addiction. It's tools and resources provided them with the support necessary to heal their marriage and family. Four years later, Ashley now leads leadership training for Pure Desire's regional group advisors nationwide, helping spread the message of recovery and healing in communities and churches across the country. I truly believe this conversation is one that can bring hope, healing, and freedom to so many. Let's dive in! 3:23 – Ashley 101 •    Discovering her husband's addiction •    How Purse Desire's resources helped her family •    Joining the Pure Desire team 6:22 – The Realities Of Addiction •    The latest stats on Christian pornography use •    The lack of churches addressing this issue •    The unique challenges women face with pornography addiction 12:42 – Breaking The Silence •    The importance of normalizing these conversations  •    Impactful resources you can offer your congregation •    How compulsive sexual behavior rewires the brain •    The need for churches to become educated and equipped to handle these challenges 21:41 – The Neurological Impact Of Pornography  •    Having open conversations as a family •    Early exposure to harmful content  •    How repeated exposure rewires the brain 32:23 – Taking Steps Toward Healing •    The steps churches can take to become supportive environments •    Resources available through Pure Desire •    Getting help for betrayal trauma •    Practical first steps for women struggling with pornography FEATURED QUOTES “The newest numbers are showing that 75% of Christian men are looking at pornography, 40% of Christian women, and it's also saying that 82% of Christians are saying that nobody is helping them avoid pornography.” “We don't have to be afraid to talk about these things in a church or as leaders or as parents, because this stuff is already happening. What we're doing is just bringing it to light so we can start sifting through it and figuring out how to be part of the solution.” “My number one recommendation would be, do not go another day without having a plan of at least sharing it with one safe person who you can say, ‘will you walk with me as I try to figure out what my next step is?'”   Learn more about Ashley: Pure Desire Ministries  https://puredesire.org/ Pure Desire's Resources https://puredesire.org/resources/ Unfiltered: Real Talk About Sex and Love Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unfiltered-real-talk-about-sex-love/id1749351656 Get in touch with Pure Desire (503) 489-0230 groups@puredesire.org  

In today's episode, we discuss the topic of porn addiction with Nick Stumbo, a former pastor and the Executive Director of Pure Desire. Nick, a third-generation pastor, began his ministry work at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington. He served here as head pastor for more than 10 years. During this time, Nick closely observed the sexual brokenness and devastation in the congregation – and recognized like never before the power of grace in the Church… Nick has his own story involving pornography addiction. Through the resources provided at Pure Desire, he and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through counseling and group ministries. This radically changed their lives, leading to a revival of forgiveness and healing. Later, Nick launched his own Pure Desire groups for men and women, staying connected with their ministry all along the way. He also authored two books, Setting Us Free and Safe.  Why is it crucial to have this conversation about pornography addiction? How is Pure Desire leading the charge toward healing and sustainable change? Join the conversation now to learn more about this highly relevant, yet challenging subject! Dive in to discover:  Shocking statistics surrounding pornography consumption in our culture.  The differences between male and female relationships with porn.  Why there is an accelerated use of pornography among women?  What makes pornography so addictive and progressive. To learn more about Nick's work with Pure Desire, click here now! Episode also available on Apple Podcasts: apple.co/30PvU9C

What’s the will of God for my life? “For this is the will of God, your sanctification (1 Thessalonians 4:3)." But wait! There’s more to this verse…."that you should abstain from sexual immorality.” This is NOT a popular message is it? You see, there’s a direct link between our holiness and our sexual purity. There's a direct link between your body which is united to Christ and what you do with your body! https://gentlereformation.com/2024/10/30/sanctification-and-sexual-purity-gods-will-for-your-life/ Pure Desire is a ministry that can help you in your fight against pornography addiction: https://puredesire.org/ Support the show: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshow/wkesSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you understand the Laws of Desire and Intent, you can empower yourself in ways you never thought possible. Today Sandra explores the finer details of these energies in your life. The Law of Pure Desire shows you how you can direct your specific intentions with clarity and belief.  The Law of Paradoxical Intent cautions you to be aware of your motivation so that you can create a more direct path to the outcomes you desire. Get Sandra's new book Unlimited Abundance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nick and Rodney sit down with Pastor Ryan Oletzke of True Hope Church in Spokane, Washington, to discuss how to start Pure Desire groups in your church, break shame, and build a culture of honesty.Ryan shares how his church addressed sexual brokenness by launching Pure Desire groups, starting with over 200 people participating in Sexual Integrity 101. He offers practical insights on building a culture of vulnerability, lowering shame, and leading a church to find healing and freedom.This episode is a must-listen for pastors and church leaders looking to make a real impact in their communities by addressing sexual health and recovery.RESOURCESFull Episode On YoutubeTrueHope WebsiteBarna Report LinkHow to Start Pure Desire Groups brochure.Parent Training CourseSexual Integrity 101 GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Today, we're welcoming Louie Kazemier to the podcast. Louie is a longtime friend of Pure Desire and opens up about confronting childhood trauma, overcoming resistance to group therapy, and finding freedom from compulsive sexual behavior. His story is a testament to the power of vulnerability, community, and God's grace in the healing process.Whether you're on your own recovery journey or supporting someone else, this episode offers hope and encouragement. Tune in to hear Louie's inspiring story of transformation.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Seven Pillars of FreedomThe Compassionate Warrior GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Welcome to another episode of Bedtime Stories with Salty Vixen. Tonight's story is titled “Pure Desire”. Dear Sir, your serious face hides the grin you will not express. “Come to me and stand in front of me,” you ordered I approach you gently, standing in front as you…..Full Story Typed out (With Audio added): https://www.saltyvixenstories.com/pure-desire-bedtime-stories-with-salty-vixen/Salty Vixen Stories & More main site- Bedtime Stories With Salty Vixen: https://www.saltyvixenstories.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Pastor Alan R. Knapp discusses the topic of "The Pure Desire to Know (God Who is a Spirit)" in his series entitled "Doing and Living Theology" This is Course 2 and it focuses on the following verses: John 4:24, Luke 17:20; 1 Corinthians 2:8

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On this episode of BRT, we have a special guest, Pastor Nick Stumbo. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and has an extensive background in pastoral ministry. He began his ministry career at East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as lead pastor for over a decade. Confronted with his own pornography addiction, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through Pure Desire's counseling and group ministries. His public disclosure led to a revival of forgiveness and healing within his church, and he continues to lead the way in helping churches become places of healing. Episode Description: In this episode, Kris, Jenn, and Nick share a powerful message for pastors and clergy on effectively supporting women going through betrayal trauma. Using the analogy of how a paramedic would treat a severe wound, they provide six key steps for clergy and support personnel to follow:Key Highlights:Assess the Severity of the Wound - Listen to Her: Nick emphasizes the importance of actively listening to the betrayed spouse, believing her reality, and displaying genuine sympathy. Show kindness and care to provide solace during her crisis.Stop the Bleeding - Focus on the immediate need, not the marriage. Avoid cause-and-effect thinking and allow her to express her emotions and needs at her own pace. Asking "permission questions" will help the clergy better understand her urgent concerns and priorities.Bandage the Wound & Stabilize the Patient - Educate Her About the Healing Process. Inform her there is a healing process, and she will not be alone. Don't Rush Forgiveness: Understand forgiveness and avoid minimizing the situation. Guide Her in the Present: Help her focus on the "now" and provide comfort and hope. Teach the Keys to Rebuilding Trust: Discuss sincerity, ability, and durability as crucial elements of rebuilding trust.Treat for Shock - Normalize the Experience: Minimize isolation, emotional flooding, and embarrassment by providing community and helping her deal with emotions. Provide Community: Connect her with others who understand her situation and can offer support.Support the Injury - Offer Support: Provide resources, encourage her to grieve, help her establish a circle of trust, and teach the importance of healthy boundaries.If the Wound is Too Severe, Call 911 - Ask for Help: Refer her to trained professionals like CSATs, PSAPs, CCPSs, and C-SASIs for specialized support. "When in doubt, refer out!"Connect with Us:Visit our website: Watermark CoachFollow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoachingPure Desire Ministries: https://puredesire.orgThank you for listening! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes.

Trying It Onbased on a post by Fugman; narrated by Andrew;Welcome To Connected PodcastBy Fugman. Listen to the ► Podcast at Connected.Sophie needed a dress for a formal event coming up for my work, and she encouraged me to come help her pick something appropriate. I would rather watch paint dry then go clothes shopping with a woman, I would soon change my thinking.It was a typical battle, shop after shop, trying to locate the perfect outfit at the right price. Sophie tried dress after dress, nothing seem to be “the one.” She and I were both getting frustrated until we walked into the next shop.She found the perfect black dress, it hugged all of her curves perfectly. I was excited because it meant the day long excursion was coming to an end. I was sad to see her change out of that dress though, she looked incredible in it. I couldn't wait for the event, so I could see her wearing it for longer than a couple of minutes. She will be drawing a lot of attention that night.We paid for the dress, grabbed our package and headed to the car. “Now I just need something to go underneath!”“What?” I gasped, it has been a long day of shopping, we got the dress, but we still weren't done.“Trust me, this will be more fun!” she smiled.She wanted to go to the lingerie store down the street, so we pulled into the half-empty parking lot and strolled inside. The name of the little shop was “Pure Desire” and once I walked in and saw the displays and the garments on sale, I understood completely. They had lingerie made out of every fabric, leather, lace, satin, silk, and everything else you could imagine.Sophie was looking around, pretty much leaving me to walk aimlessly through the store. She settled in an area and was narrowing down her choices when the very attractive, scantily clad clerk asked me if I needed anything while I waited, I politely said that I was fine, she responded “yes, you are” which brought a smile to my face.Sophie grabbed a few items in her size and asked the clerk for passage into the dressing area. The clerk returned to the sales floor and told me that there was a couch in the dressing area if I wanted to sit and wait. I strolled in and sat on the comfortable leather couch, waiting patiently for Sophie to pick something.She was taking her time trying each garment on, looking in the mirror and then trying on the next item. She opened the curtain slightly and caught my looking at her, “will this do?” the curtain opened and I got a glimpse of her in this black lace little number.“Wow!” is all I could muster for words, and she smiled. I scanned her body, black stockings, lace panties and a black lace corset thing. She caught me taking in every inch of her and told me she needed my help. I glanced out into the store and noticed the clerk at the very front of the store doing something, so I grabbed the chance to duck into the changing room with Sophie.I closed the curtain behind me as she pulled me in for a passionate kiss that sent shivers down my spine. She stroked the front of my pants as her tongue explored my mouth, It didn't take long for me to respond and swell to her touch. She sat me down and lowered my pants and underwear as she wrapped her hand around me.Sophie was an incredible woman who was looking sexy as hell, I leaned forward and kissed her neck, and she emitted a little “ah.” Her hand was travelling up and down on my erection as I stood up and slipped my fingers under the straps and lowered them off her soft, sexy shoulders.She released me and spun around, help me un-lace this, I was only happy to help her remove her corset, baring her back, I wrapped my arms around her, pulled her into me as I kissed her neck and grabbed her breasts. She moaned, I thought it was a little loud, but didn't think too much as she reached back and took a hold of my erection once again. She stroked me as I was swirling my fingers around her stiffening nipples and kissing her neck softly.She stopped stroking me as the curtain flew open and the clerk stood there and saw what was happening, “oops, excuse me,” she said as she left. I think she forgot to shut the curtain, but who cares, Sophie continued her assault on my erection as I slid my hands down her bare back until I reached the top of her panties. I slid my fingers inside the sides and slid them down exposing her curvy back side. Her panties dropped to the floor as she stood there in nothing but her black lacey stockings.She was amazing as I noticed something out of the corner of my eye, the clerk was back, but she was sitting on the leather couch, watching everything that was happening in the dressing room.The clerk and I made eye contact, and she said, “don't worry, I locked the door, we're alone, please continue!” I couldn't argue with that, I continued running my hands over Sophie's mostly naked body.I pushed gently on Sophie's back to motion her to bend over, as I slowly entered my woman in front of the woman sitting mere feet away from us. The clerk removed her top and was grabbing at her nipples, pinching them as she watched the scene in front of her. I turned Sophie around so that she was able to lock eyes with the clerk as I entered her over and over again.  Sophie moaned again, this time there was no attempt to be quiet, I think she was enjoying the audience, and the clerk was loving every minute of the live porn in front of her.I pumped into Sophie harder and harder as I noticed our new friend reach down her pants to play with herself, that made me pull Sophie closer to me so I could reach further inside of her. She grunted as I was in as far as I could reach and she bent over further to allow me even deeper inside.The clerk never lost eye contact as she pushed her pants down and exposed her entire body to us. She was very curvy, very attractive with an incredible body, almost like she was meant to work in lingerie.Pounding inside of Sophie, watching this woman pleasure herself was a lot to take in, I knew I was getting close and Sophie knew it too. She slid herself off of me and turned around, “not yet!” She walked away from the little cubicle and approached the clerk who had her fingers buried inside of herself.“Let me help you,” Sophie said as she pushed the clerks hair behind her ears and kissed her neck. I never knew of Sophie doing anything like this, but I was not complaining. I watched Sophie, clad in only stockings, she was kissing this woman's neck  and fondling her breasts in front of my widening eyes. I watched as Sophie slid her hands down this woman's tight stomach and rest her hands on top of the clerks. The woman bent her head back and gave a soft moan of approval. Sophie took control and increased the motion of her fingers, in and out she forced this woman to go faster with her sexy assault on her own wetness. I could her how wet she was intertwined with her breathy moans of satisfaction. I was watching my woman control the pace, the intensity and even the deepness for this woman. This scene was incredible, I was stroking my own erection now as the scream of completion echoed in the little room. The woman threw her head back as every part of her trembled with her release.Sophie withdrew her fingers, helped sit this woman down and gave her a deep passionate kiss on her lips. She then walked her finely shaped frame over to me and stuck her fingers in my mouth. I could taste this woman's excitement and stroked my throbbing erection with more intensity. Sophie put her hand over mine, and gripped tightly and walked over to our new friend.“Here, finish him!” Sophie said as I looked dumbfounded at her. The woman re-positioned herself to plant her lips around my hardness.“Umm! Nice” she slid her mouth up and down on my rod at a frantic pace.“Slow down, he'll finish too quick!” Sophie said as she held this woman's hair once again controlling the pace. She would speed up, leading me to the brink, then slowing down again and again, I was almost there, and getting closer and closer by the second. Sophie could tell as she let go of her hair and grabbed my head and drew me close for a huge passionate kiss. I had to look away and gasp as my excitement flooded out of me and into the clerk.It took a moment to regain the feeling back in my head, I kissed Sophie roughly, and she said “I think we'll take this!”“I hope the demonstration was adequate!” The clerk said with a grin.Oh my, I did not expect that much fun shopping all day for a dress. We all got dressed and went out to the front to pay for our purchase. We had to wait for the clerk to unlock the door before we could go home.“Thanks for coming, let me know if I can help you again!” She gave Sophie a huge kiss and leaned in and gave me a hug, we promised to shop again soon as we said our goodbyes and walked to the car.All I could think of on the way to our car was that I could not wait until I could see Sophie in the dress at the event later that week. I would always remember that incredible scene in the lingerie store, every time I saw her.By Fugman for Tumblr.

Trying It Onbased on a post by Fugman; narrated by Andrew;Welcome To Connected Podcast By Fugman. Listen to the ► Podcast at Connected. Sophie needed a dress for a formal event coming up for my work, and she encouraged me to come help her pick something appropriate. I would rather watch paint dry then go clothes shopping with a woman, I would soon change my thinking. It was a typical battle, shop after shop, trying to locate the perfect outfit at the right price. Sophie tried dress after dress, nothing seem to be “the one.” She and I were both getting frustrated until we walked into the next shop. [[MORE]] She found the perfect black dress, it hugged all of her curves perfectly. I was excited because it meant the day long excursion was coming to an end. I was sad to see her change out of that dress though, she looked incredible in it. I couldn't wait for the event, so I could see her wearing it for longer than a couple of minutes. She will be drawing a lot of attention that night. We paid for the dress, grabbed our package and headed to the car. “Now I just need something to go underneath!” “What?” I gasped, it has been a long day of shopping, we got the dress, but we still weren't done. “Trust me, this will be more fun!” she smiled. She wanted to go to the lingerie store down the street, so we pulled into the half-empty parking lot and strolled inside. The name of the little shop was “Pure Desire” and once I walked in and saw the displays and the garments on sale, I understood completely. They had lingerie made out of every fabric, leather, lace, satin, silk, and everything else you could imagine. Sophie was looking around, pretty much leaving me to walk aimlessly through the store. She settled in an area and was narrowing down her choices when the very attractive, scantily clad clerk asked me if I needed anything while I waited, I politely said that I was fine, she responded “yes, you are” which brought a smile to my face. Sophie grabbed a few items in her size and asked the clerk for passage into the dressing area. The clerk returned to the sales floor and told me that there was a couch in the dressing area if I wanted to sit and wait. I strolled in and sat on the comfortable leather couch, waiting patiently for Sophie to pick something. She was taking her time trying each garment on, looking in the mirror and then trying on the next item. She opened the curtain slightly and caught my looking at her, “will this do?” the curtain opened and I got a glimpse of her in this black lace little number. “Wow!” is all I could muster for words, and she smiled. I scanned her body, black stockings, lace panties and a black lace corset thing. She caught me taking in every inch of her and told me she needed my help. I glanced out into the store and noticed the clerk at the very front of the store doing something, so I grabbed the chance to duck into the changing room with Sophie. I closed the curtain behind me as she pulled me in for a passionate kiss that sent shivers down my spine. She stroked the front of my pants as her tongue explored my mouth, It didn't take long for me to respond and swell to her touch. She sat me down and lowered my pants and underwear as she wrapped her hand around me. Sophie was an incredible woman who was looking sexy as hell, I leaned forward and kissed her neck, and she emitted a little “ah.” Her hand was travelling up and down on my erection as I stood up and slipped my fingers under the straps and lowered them off her soft, sexy shoulders. She released me and spun around, help me un-lace this, I was only happy to help her remove her corset, baring her back, I wrapped my arms around her, pulled her into me as I kissed her neck and grabbed her breasts. She moaned, I thought it was a little loud, but didn't think too much as she reached back and took a hold of my erection once again. She stroked me as I was swirling my fingers around her stiffening nipples and kissing her neck softly. She stopped stroking me as the curtain flew open and the clerk stood there and saw what was happening, “oops, excuse me,” she said as she left. I think she forgot to shut the curtain, but who cares, Sophie continued her assault on my erection as I slid my hands down her bare back until I reached the top of her panties. I slid my fingers inside the sides and slid them down exposing her curvy back side. Her panties dropped to the floor as she stood there in nothing but her black lacey stockings. She was amazing as I noticed something out of the corner of my eye, the clerk was back, but she was sitting on the leather couch, watching everything that was happening in the dressing room. The clerk and I made eye contact, and she said, “don't worry, I locked the door, we're alone, please continue!” I couldn't argue with that, I continued running my hands over Sophie's mostly naked body. I pushed gently on Sophie's back to motion her to bend over, as I slowly entered my woman in front of the woman sitting mere feet away from us. The clerk removed her top and was grabbing at her nipples, pinching them as she watched the scene in front of her. I turned Sophie around so that she was able to lock eyes with the clerk as I entered her over and over again.  Sophie moaned again, this time there was no attempt to be quiet, I think she was enjoying the audience, and the clerk was loving every minute of the live porn in front of her. I pumped into Sophie harder and harder as I noticed our new friend reach down her pants to play with herself, that made me pull Sophie closer to me so I could reach further inside of her. She grunted as I was in as far as I could reach and she bent over further to allow me even deeper inside. The clerk never lost eye contact as she pushed her pants down and exposed her entire body to us. She was very curvy, very attractive with an incredible body, almost like she was meant to work in lingerie. Pounding inside of Sophie, watching this woman pleasure herself was a lot to take in, I knew I was getting close and Sophie knew it too. She slid herself off of me and turned around, “not yet!” She walked away from the little cubicle and approached the clerk who had her fingers buried inside of herself. “Let me help you,” Sophie said as she pushed the clerks hair behind her ears and kissed her neck. I never knew of Sophie doing anything like this, but I was not complaining. I watched Sophie, clad in only stockings, she was kissing this woman's neck  and fondling her breasts in front of my widening eyes. I watched as Sophie slid her hands down this woman's tight stomach and rest her hands on top of the clerks. The woman bent her head back and gave a soft moan of approval. Sophie took control and increased the motion of her fingers, in and out she forced this woman to go faster with her sexy assault on her own wetness. I could her how wet she was intertwined with her breathy moans of satisfaction. I was watching my woman control the pace, the intensity and even the deepness for this woman. This scene was incredible, I was stroking my own erection now as the scream of completion echoed in the little room. The woman threw her head back as every part of her trembled with her release. Sophie withdrew her fingers, helped sit this woman down and gave her a deep passionate kiss on her lips. She then walked her finely shaped frame over to me and stuck her fingers in my mouth. I could taste this woman's excitement and stroked my throbbing erection with more intensity. Sophie put her hand over mine, and gripped tightly and walked over to our new friend. “Here, finish him!” Sophie said as I looked dumbfounded at her. The woman re-positioned herself to plant her lips around my hardness. “Umm! Nice” she slid her mouth up and down on my rod at a frantic pace. “Slow down, he'll finish too quick!” Sophie said as she held this woman's hair once again controlling the pace. She would speed up, leading me to the brink, then slowing down again and again, I was almost there, and getting closer and closer by the second. Sophie could tell as she let go of her hair and grabbed my head and drew me close for a huge passionate kiss. I had to look away and gasp as my excitement flooded out of me and into the clerk. It took a moment to regain the feeling back in my head, I kissed Sophie roughly, and she said “I think we'll take this!” “I hope the demonstration was adequate!” The clerk said with a grin. Oh my, I did not expect that much fun shopping all day for a dress. We all got dressed and went out to the front to pay for our purchase. We had to wait for the clerk to unlock the door before we could go home. “Thanks for coming, let me know if I can help you again!” She gave Sophie a huge kiss and leaned in and gave me a hug, we promised to shop again soon as we said our goodbyes and walked to the car. All I could think of on the way to our car was that I could not wait until I could see Sophie in the dress at the event later that week. I would always remember that incredible scene in the lingerie store, every time I saw her. By Fugman for Tumblr.

Trying It Onbased on a post by Fugman; narrated by Andrew;Welcome To Connected Podcast By Fugman. Listen to the ► Podcast at Connected. Sophie needed a dress for a formal event coming up for my work, and she encouraged me to come help her pick something appropriate. I would rather watch paint dry then go clothes shopping with a woman, I would soon change my thinking. It was a typical battle, shop after shop, trying to locate the perfect outfit at the right price. Sophie tried dress after dress, nothing seem to be “the one.” She and I were both getting frustrated until we walked into the next shop. [[MORE]] She found the perfect black dress, it hugged all of her curves perfectly. I was excited because it meant the day long excursion was coming to an end. I was sad to see her change out of that dress though, she looked incredible in it. I couldn't wait for the event, so I could see her wearing it for longer than a couple of minutes. She will be drawing a lot of attention that night. We paid for the dress, grabbed our package and headed to the car. “Now I just need something to go underneath!” “What?” I gasped, it has been a long day of shopping, we got the dress, but we still weren't done. “Trust me, this will be more fun!” she smiled. She wanted to go to the lingerie store down the street, so we pulled into the half-empty parking lot and strolled inside. The name of the little shop was “Pure Desire” and once I walked in and saw the displays and the garments on sale, I understood completely. They had lingerie made out of every fabric, leather, lace, satin, silk, and everything else you could imagine. Sophie was looking around, pretty much leaving me to walk aimlessly through the store. She settled in an area and was narrowing down her choices when the very attractive, scantily clad clerk asked me if I needed anything while I waited, I politely said that I was fine, she responded “yes, you are” which brought a smile to my face. Sophie grabbed a few items in her size and asked the clerk for passage into the dressing area. The clerk returned to the sales floor and told me that there was a couch in the dressing area if I wanted to sit and wait. I strolled in and sat on the comfortable leather couch, waiting patiently for Sophie to pick something. She was taking her time trying each garment on, looking in the mirror and then trying on the next item. She opened the curtain slightly and caught my looking at her, “will this do?” the curtain opened and I got a glimpse of her in this black lace little number. “Wow!” is all I could muster for words, and she smiled. I scanned her body, black stockings, lace panties and a black lace corset thing. She caught me taking in every inch of her and told me she needed my help. I glanced out into the store and noticed the clerk at the very front of the store doing something, so I grabbed the chance to duck into the changing room with Sophie. I closed the curtain behind me as she pulled me in for a passionate kiss that sent shivers down my spine. She stroked the front of my pants as her tongue explored my mouth, It didn't take long for me to respond and swell to her touch. She sat me down and lowered my pants and underwear as she wrapped her hand around me. Sophie was an incredible woman who was looking sexy as hell, I leaned forward and kissed her neck, and she emitted a little “ah.” Her hand was travelling up and down on my erection as I stood up and slipped my fingers under the straps and lowered them off her soft, sexy shoulders. She released me and spun around, help me un-lace this, I was only happy to help her remove her corset, baring her back, I wrapped my arms around her, pulled her into me as I kissed her neck and grabbed her breasts. She moaned, I thought it was a little loud, but didn't think too much as she reached back and took a hold of my erection once again. She stroked me as I was swirling my fingers around her stiffening nipples and kissing her neck softly. She stopped stroking me as the curtain flew open and the clerk stood there and saw what was happening, “oops, excuse me,” she said as she left. I think she forgot to shut the curtain, but who cares, Sophie continued her assault on my erection as I slid my hands down her bare back until I reached the top of her panties. I slid my fingers inside the sides and slid them down exposing her curvy back side. Her panties dropped to the floor as she stood there in nothing but her black lacey stockings. She was amazing as I noticed something out of the corner of my eye, the clerk was back, but she was sitting on the leather couch, watching everything that was happening in the dressing room. The clerk and I made eye contact, and she said, “don't worry, I locked the door, we're alone, please continue!” I couldn't argue with that, I continued running my hands over Sophie's mostly naked body. I pushed gently on Sophie's back to motion her to bend over, as I slowly entered my woman in front of the woman sitting mere feet away from us. The clerk removed her top and was grabbing at her nipples, pinching them as she watched the scene in front of her. I turned Sophie around so that she was able to lock eyes with the clerk as I entered her over and over again.  Sophie moaned again, this time there was no attempt to be quiet, I think she was enjoying the audience, and the clerk was loving every minute of the live porn in front of her. I pumped into Sophie harder and harder as I noticed our new friend reach down her pants to play with herself, that made me pull Sophie closer to me so I could reach further inside of her. She grunted as I was in as far as I could reach and she bent over further to allow me even deeper inside. The clerk never lost eye contact as she pushed her pants down and exposed her entire body to us. She was very curvy, very attractive with an incredible body, almost like she was meant to work in lingerie. Pounding inside of Sophie, watching this woman pleasure herself was a lot to take in, I knew I was getting close and Sophie knew it too. She slid herself off of me and turned around, “not yet!” She walked away from the little cubicle and approached the clerk who had her fingers buried inside of herself. “Let me help you,” Sophie said as she pushed the clerks hair behind her ears and kissed her neck. I never knew of Sophie doing anything like this, but I was not complaining. I watched Sophie, clad in only stockings, she was kissing this woman's neck  and fondling her breasts in front of my widening eyes. I watched as Sophie slid her hands down this woman's tight stomach and rest her hands on top of the clerks. The woman bent her head back and gave a soft moan of approval. Sophie took control and increased the motion of her fingers, in and out she forced this woman to go faster with her sexy assault on her own wetness. I could her how wet she was intertwined with her breathy moans of satisfaction. I was watching my woman control the pace, the intensity and even the deepness for this woman. This scene was incredible, I was stroking my own erection now as the scream of completion echoed in the little room. The woman threw her head back as every part of her trembled with her release. Sophie withdrew her fingers, helped sit this woman down and gave her a deep passionate kiss on her lips. She then walked her finely shaped frame over to me and stuck her fingers in my mouth. I could taste this woman's excitement and stroked my throbbing erection with more intensity. Sophie put her hand over mine, and gripped tightly and walked over to our new friend. “Here, finish him!” Sophie said as I looked dumbfounded at her. The woman re-positioned herself to plant her lips around my hardness. “Umm! Nice” she slid her mouth up and down on my rod at a frantic pace. “Slow down, he'll finish too quick!” Sophie said as she held this woman's hair once again controlling the pace. She would speed up, leading me to the brink, then slowing down again and again, I was almost there, and getting closer and closer by the second. Sophie could tell as she let go of her hair and grabbed my head and drew me close for a huge passionate kiss. I had to look away and gasp as my excitement flooded out of me and into the clerk. It took a moment to regain the feeling back in my head, I kissed Sophie roughly, and she said “I think we'll take this!” “I hope the demonstration was adequate!” The clerk said with a grin. Oh my, I did not expect that much fun shopping all day for a dress. We all got dressed and went out to the front to pay for our purchase. We had to wait for the clerk to unlock the door before we could go home. “Thanks for coming, let me know if I can help you again!” She gave Sophie a huge kiss and leaned in and gave me a hug, we promised to shop again soon as we said our goodbyes and walked to the car. All I could think of on the way to our car was that I could not wait until I could see Sophie in the dress at the event later that week. I would always remember that incredible scene in the lingerie store, every time I saw her. By Fugman for Tumblr.

Vicki and Johnny Greenfield are legends in the Pure Desire community! Today, we get to hear their story of healing. Starting with how sexuality was discussed in their homes, moving to sexual brokenness and how it entered their lives, and then moving to how God healed them and their marriage—their story is powerful! Not only will you be encouraged by their story of healing, but you will be inspired by how God is using them in their heart to help other hurting couples. Enjoy the Greenfield's story—it's incredible!RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Seven Pillars of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Pure Desire Online GroupsInternational Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP)Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS)Pure Desire Summit GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

We have a very SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT on today's episode! Pure Desire is partnering with one of the most influential research firms in the world to bring forth new statistics on the impact of pornography in the church. We're joined by Heather Kolb and Ashley Jameson (hosts of our newest show, Unfiltered) to discuss the origins of this research project, our hopes for this new data, some of the initial findings of the research, and how to get this information in your hands (including a launch event you won't want to miss)!RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Barna Launch Event (REGISTER NOW)Pure Desire Summit GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Today is part 3, of a  5 part series on daily tools and resources to use to move from discovery, to sobriety, to recovery. Many of these tools are created or inspired by Dr. Ted Roberts who created the Conquer Series which we highly recommend. You can purchase this resources or join a group at PureDesire.org    In this episode we discuss creating the 3 circles of sobriety and recovery to further help you define who you want to be, what you non-negotiables are, and what your personal goals are moving forward.   Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU     For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

Today is part 2, of a  5 part series on daily tools and resources to use to move from discovery, to sobriety, to recovery. Many of these tools are created or inspired by Dr. Ted Roberts who created the Conquer Series which we highly recommend. You can purchase this resources or join a group at PureDesire.org    In this episode we discuss the benefits of writing a 10 year letter from the perspective a future, recovered you, as well as creating an emergency kit which is a tool to use for travel, or any time you are feeling tempted to relapse.   We mentioned our previous episode "Best Version of You meditation" if you need assistance with the 10 year letter and you can listen here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru/id1674653111?i=1000611570008      Are you a betrayed partner interested in working 1:1 with Kylene? Book your free discovery call here:https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU     For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org     Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune   

‎Adam and Michael Young from the Charismatic Cheetah Podcast collaborate to discuss addiction recovery and how the Church can help. If you prefer to watch the YouTube video, the link is here: https://youtu.be/k0GUMLj541U Listen to the Haunted Cosmos Podcast that Adam mentions here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5mjK5zZanXup8yDE4jDbvl?si=s1hgklqxTD-ZooGfeElARQ various rescources to help with addiction recovery here: Dallas Detox Center 210-860-2443 (Richard) dallasdetoxcenter.com Michael Young: https://youtube.com/@CharismaticCheetah AA.org DAAusa.org Also consider reading “Pure Desire” by Ted Roberts (creator of the conquer series that Adam talks about) Pure Desire: How One Man's Triumph Can Help Others Break Free From Sexual Temptation https://a.co/d/fHYqr41 Music:Abstract Style‎ ‎Musician:QubeSounds‎ ‎URL:https://pixabay.com/music/abstract-style-121455/‎

In this episode, we welcome back Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries. She helps us understand trauma, addiction, and women's struggles with sex and relationships, shining a light on the importance of transforming our worldly views on sexuality.Ashley candidly highlights the different ways women grapple with their sexuality. Ranging from matters of toxic relationships to fears of intimacy, her insights and personal journey resonate deeply.Ashley also explores the negative impact of violent sexual acts in fantasies and media content. She emphasizes the urgent need to redefine our perspective of sexuality as a beautiful and valuable gift from God.As a wrap-up, Ashley speaks on the far-reaching positive impacts of breaking free from sexual shame on all aspects of life, notably parenting and personal relationships. This powerful conversation will invite women dealing with love, sex, and relationship issues to boldly embark on their individual healing journeys.To learn more about Ashley and the resources mentioned in this episode, visit PureDesire.org. More Resources:Unraveled KitCounseling HelpFind a GroupRelated Podcasts:God's Grace for Women Struggling with Sexual ShameGoing Deeper for Women: How Your Inner Child Affects Your Love and Sex AddictionFreedom and Healing from Shame, Addiction, and Abuse----------Please rate and review our podcast: Apple PodcastsSubscribe to our YouTube channel.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/pure-sex-radio/donations

Many men who've been through the Pure Desire recovery process have asked, “What's after Seven Pillars of Freedom?” Well, today's episode is all about answering this question. Clinician and speaker, Robert Vander Meer, joins us to talk about our new resource, The Compassionate Warrior (to which Robert contributed). We talk through what this resource is, how it helps men see their life and recovery through the lens of “story,” and how it helps create a lasting legacy of health.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)The Compassionate WarriorSeven Pillars of FreedomHero With A Thousand Faces (Joseph Campbell) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Today, we get to hear from Robert Nelson and Annie Burt (staff members at Faith Chapel in Billings, Montana). Robert and Annie talk us through their journey of implementing Pure Desire groups and resources at Faith Chapel. We talk through initial hurdles, challenges they've faced, the fruit they're seeing from their efforts, and lots in between.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Betrayal & BeyondUnraveledSexual Integrity 101Conquer Series (Soul Refiner)Seven Pillars of FreedomGroup Leader TrainingFearless SeriesImmanuel Garraway (Church Relations Specialist)ConnectedPure Desire CounselingFree ToolsHave PD Come SpeakPure Desire Summit GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

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In this powerful episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, join host Karen Potter and special guest Ashley Jameson from Pure Desire Ministries as they dive deep into the crucial conversation surrounding women's struggles with sexual brokenness. Ashley, an associate director of women's groups at Pure Desire, shares her own journey of overcoming sexual addiction and betrayal, providing invaluable insights and wisdom along the way.Discover how technology, social media, and societal pressures are impacting women's sexual identities and relationships, and learn practical strategies for navigating these challenges. From the importance of transparency and support within the Church to empowering young women to break free from shame and secrecy, Ashley offers actionable advice for both individuals and church communities.Don't miss this enlightening discussion filled with hope, encouragement, and practical guidance for anyone struggling with sexual brokenness or seeking to support others on their journey to healing. Tune in now and join the conversation!https://puredesire.orghttps://covenanteyes.com#sexualbrokenness #covenanteyes #puredesire #sexualaddiction #sexualityTry Covenant Eyes for FREE today!Use Promo Code: FreePodcast

We know sex trafficking exists in our world and is a growing problem. But it's not something that's talked about in many faith communities.On today's episode, we're going to talk about it! We're thrilled to have Matt McCaulley and Kevin Whisman on the show: two guys who have spent the last few years writing, directing, and producing a full-length feature film called unDEFILED. We'll talk about Pure Desire's involvement in creating a follow-up study to the film and how sex trafficking is connected to sexual brokenness.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Light of Life Films (LOLF)UnDefiled MovieLiving UnDEFILED (Follow Up Study)LOLF socialshttps://www.facebook.com/lightoflifefilmshttps://www.facebook.com/undefiledmovieUnDEFILED trailer (YouTube) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

When addiction, brokenness, and betrayal enter a marriage, it can significantly impact a couple's sexual relationship. Unfortunately, sexual brokenness and betrayal are not the only things that can hijack a couple's sex life. On today's episode, we're joined by Brent and Nicole Breining, who are part of the Pure Desire family. Brent, a clinician for Pure Desire, and his wife, Nicole, share how some major life events limited their sexual relationship. They talk through how to stay committed and connected, specifically in the area of sex, in sickness and in health.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Betrayal & BeyondPD CounselingFull Disclosure Process (product)ConnectedGenesis ProcessEight Dates (John Gottman book) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

Relapse is returning to the place we promised God, ourselves, or others we wouldn't go back to. So preventing relapse is a worthy goal. But can relapse be prevented proactively and practically? The answer: yes. On today's episode, Mike Maxwell leverages his many years in recovery and leading Pure Desire groups to help us learn tools and techniques for preventing relapse.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)The Compassionate WarriorThree Circles (Tool)FASTER Scale (Tool) GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter)

We're in week two of our three-week “oldy but goody” series of episodes. We revisit our conversation with Ashley Jameson on making a better Commitment to Change. The Commitment to Change (CTC) is a weekly tool that Pure Desire groups use on the road to recovery. But how do we unlock the vast potential of this tool? What makes a CTC effective? How can it help us develop holistic health? Listen in to find out!RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)

Churches new to Pure Desire and interested in launching groups often face hurdles and feel intimidated. Yet, there are hundreds of churches helping men and women find hope and healing through Pure Desire groups. In this episode, Eastview Church leadership shares the challenges they still face, how many groups they're currently running (Note: it's lower than you'd expect for a large church), and why they've seen the success they've seen. RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)Brain, Heart, World (FTND)Group Leader TrainingSeven Pillars Of Freedom (Men's Recovery Resource)Betrayal & Beyond (Women's Betrayal Resource)Unraveled (Women's Recovery Resource)Living Free (Young Adult Recovery Resource)Hope For Men (Men's Betrayal Resource)Soul Refiner (Formerly Known As Conquer Series)Pure Desire Online GroupsChurch MembershipTeam 58Find a CSAT/PSAP (IITAP Website)How To Talk With Your Kids About SexMarriage, Relationships, & Sex w/ Les Parrott (Pure Desire Podcast)

Are you stuck in a cycle of sexual sin? It's time to break free! In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Nick Stumbo, co-host of the Pure Desire podcast, to discuss his book, "Setting Us Free." They walk you through the seven pillars of sexual freedom and how to break the cycle once and for all. on Amazon