Podcasts about vertical marriage

In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson reflect on the journey of their book "Vertical Marriage," sharing both the highs and lows of public feedback. The episode takes a playful and light-hearted approach to discuss the one-star reviews they received on the book, focusing on those that are negative or critical in nature. The hosts make fun of some outlandish reviews, like one that claims reading the book was less satisfying than slamming a body part in a car door, while also acknowledging reviews that stem from real pain and misunderstanding.One review they address highlights concerns about the book's portrayal of gender roles in marriage, with the reviewer claiming it promotes "sexist propaganda." The hosts discuss this critique openly, clarifying their intent and emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and love in marriage. They touch on the sensitive issue of how their message may have been misinterpreted, especially by women who feel disrespected by their husbands or burdened by unrealistic expectations.Throughout the episode, they dive deeper into the motivations behind their book, explaining that it's not a self-help guide but rather a tool to help couples apply the gospel to their marriage. They discuss how the teachings in the book are based on biblical principles of love, respect, and mutual submission, particularly focusing on the idea that only through Christ can a marriage truly thrive. They also reflect on the importance of repentance in a marriage and the role it plays in healing and growth.One particularly emotional moment occurs when they discuss the personal impact of marriage struggles. They recount a past moment where Dave, in the midst of a marital challenge, humbled himself by kneeling and repenting before his wife, Ann, which allowed their relationship to heal. This is presented as a poignant example of the power of humility and surrender in marriage.The episode closes with a prayer for couples who are struggling, offering hope for those who may feel exhausted or hopeless in their marriages. The hosts encourage listeners to get the book and reflect on their own relationships, reminding them that true change comes through a relationship with God, not through relying on self-help advice alone. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson reflect on the journey of their book "Vertical Marriage," sharing both the highs and lows of public feedback. The episode takes a playful and light-hearted approach to discuss the one-star reviews they received on the book, focusing on those that are negative or critical in nature. The hosts make fun of some outlandish reviews, like one that claims reading the book was less satisfying than slamming a body part in a car door, while also acknowledging reviews that stem from real pain and misunderstanding.One review they address highlights concerns about the book's portrayal of gender roles in marriage, with the reviewer claiming it promotes "sexist propaganda." The hosts discuss this critique openly, clarifying their intent and emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and love in marriage. They touch on the sensitive issue of how their message may have been misinterpreted, especially by women who feel disrespected by their husbands or burdened by unrealistic expectations.Throughout the episode, they dive deeper into the motivations behind their book, explaining that it's not a self-help guide but rather a tool to help couples apply the gospel to their marriage. They discuss how the teachings in the book are based on biblical principles of love, respect, and mutual submission, particularly focusing on the idea that only through Christ can a marriage truly thrive. They also reflect on the importance of repentance in a marriage and the role it plays in healing and growth.One particularly emotional moment occurs when they discuss the personal impact of marriage struggles. They recount a past moment where Dave, in the midst of a marital challenge, humbled himself by kneeling and repenting before his wife, Ann, which allowed their relationship to heal. This is presented as a poignant example of the power of humility and surrender in marriage.The episode closes with a prayer for couples who are struggling, offering hope for those who may feel exhausted or hopeless in their marriages. The hosts encourage listeners to get the book and reflect on their own relationships, reminding them that true change comes through a relationship with God, not through relying on self-help advice alone. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29

Marriage has a way of exposing the wounds we thought we had buried. The unresolved pain, the unspoken insecurities, the habits we hoped would disappear—they all surface in the crucible of intimacy. In this final installment of our LOVE LIKE THIS series, Dave & Ann Wilson—hosts of FamilyLife Today® and authors of Vertical Marriage—join us to discuss: Why your unhealed wounds inevitably show up in your marriage The devastating impact of words and how they can either crush or cultivate your spouse How intimacy, when misused, turns into manipulation Practical steps to break free from destructive cycles and foster genuine connection   With over four decades of marriage and ministry experience, Dave & Ann offer raw, relatable insights that challenge and inspire. Whether you're newly married or decades in, this conversation will equip you to confront the hidden dynamics that hinder true intimacy. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my NEW BOOK "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.

Send us a textOriginally recorded at Centerpointe Community Church during the "Vertical Marriage" series: We live in a culture that craves intimacy, yet it also holds a distorted view of what fosters that intimacy. Pastor Mike sits down with Pastors Joe Giebel and Jeff Hackett as all three respond to questions submitted by the congregation about intimacy.Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCaffeinatedChristianSupport the show

Pittsburgh FamilyLife Affiliate staff member, Tim Tucker, interviews Scott and Catherine Mercer, part of our Pittsburgh FamilyLife Team, and Tom and Pam Jones.  Tom is a licensed Christian counselor and associate pastor, and Pam is a real estate agent in the Pittsburgh area.  The bad and good ways of handling conflicts are discussed with the help of Dave and Ann Wilson's new book and video series entitled "Vertical Marriage", which helps us see God's way in how we should resolve inevitable conflicts in our marriage relationship.  This fall's "Weekend To Remember" marriage getaway would be a great way for couples to navigate through the struggles they may be facing!FamilyLife has a lot of great ways to help marriages that are struggling, or just want their good marriages to become even better!  One of the resources is this fall's FamilyLIfe "Weekend To Remember" marriage getaway here in the Pittsburgh area.  The dates are November 7-9, 2025 at the Marriott North in Cranberry Township.  God can use it to bring couples to a oneness with Himself and with each other!  Please go to WeekendToRemember.com for more information, and use the group name 'weekendtogether' to receive a $100 discount on the registration fee.  To listen to other HHFF podcasts, please type in "Help and Hope for Families Radio" in the search bar of your smart phone or computer.  For added helpful information and resources, please go to FamilyLife.com and also download the FamilyLife app!  During the summer months, you can also listen to "Help and Hope for Families" on Pittsburgh's radio station WORD FM 101.5 or WORDFM.com each Sunday evening at 9:30 PM (Eastern).

Dave and Ann Wilson talk candidly about how they navigated intense conflict, anger, a critical spirit, and a porn problem, and discovered that focusing on their individual relationships with God healed them and gave them a God-honoring, joyful marriage. (Part 2 of 2)   Receive Dave and Ann Wilson's book Vertical Marriage and an audio download of "Never Stop Looking Up in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount!    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

Dave and Ann Wilson talk candidly about how they navigated intense conflict, anger, a critical spirit, and a porn problem, and discovered that focusing on their individual relationships with God healed them and gave them a God-honoring, joyful marriage. (Part 1 of 2)   Receive Dave and Ann Wilson's book Vertical Marriage and an audio download of "Never Stop Looking Up in Your Marriage" for your donation of any amount!    Get More Episode Resources    If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. 

Funny and candid, Dave and Ann Wilson, the new hosts of FamilyLife replacing Dennis and Barbara Rainey, tell The Marriage Secret that saved their marriage. They discuss: I've lost my feelings for you; All I hear is Boo!; What do you do when you think there is no hope for your teenagers?; How do we bring God in?; Seeing kids through God's eyes - the greatness He made in them; How to speak life into our kids and spouse; FamilyLife Weekend to Remember, its effect on their marriage and other miracle stories. For shows and more subscribe at parentcompass.tv/subscribe or download the Parent Compass App. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1493/29

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Funny and candid, Dave and Ann Wilson, the new hosts of FamilyLife replacing Dennis and Barbara Rainey, tell The Marriage Secret that saved their marriage. They discuss: I've lost my feelings for you; All I hear is Boo!; What do you do when you think there is no hope for your teenagers?; How do we bring God in?; Seeing kids through God's eyes - the greatness He made in them; How to speak life into our kids and spouse; FamilyLife Weekend to Remember, its effect on their marriage and other miracle stories. For shows and more subscribe at parentcompass.tv/subscribe or download the Parent Compass App. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1493/29

Dave and Ann Wilson have been married for 44 years. But they almost didn't make it past 10. Teresa Whiting gets the deets of their miraculous marriage story. Show Notes and Resources You can connect with Teresa Whiting and listen to her podcast, Find Hope Here, at teresawhiting.com Get your copy of Dave and Ann Wilson's book, " Vertical Marriage " in our shop. Want to write a better story for your marriage? Attend a Weekend to Remember conference! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Did you know that marriage has power? Join Dave and Ann Wilson as they discuss concepts from Tim Keller on marriage and the powerful ways it can lead to mutual growth and Christlikeness! Show Notes and Resources Get your copy of "The Meaning of Marriage" by Tim and Kathy Keller wherever books are sold Grab Dave and Ann Wilson's book, Vertical Marriage, at our shop. Don't miss out on our biggest sale of the season! Weekend to Remember registrations are half price until September 16th Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Ever wondered how the unpredictable moments in a family could mirror the foundations of a strong marriage? That's just one of the laugh-out-loud stories Dave and Ann Wilson share with us as we explore the transformative journey of marital success. With the Wilsons' guidance, this episode peels back the layers of the art of nurturing a relationship through faith and intentional actions. From the potty emergencies of parenting to the deep, steadfast love that can triumph over infidelity and the specter of divorce, our conversation is a heartfelt blend of personal anecdotes and a marriage masterclass.Navigating the ebbs and flows of marriage can feel like a daunting task, but with the Wilsons' insights from their "Art of Marriage" series, it's comparable to having a roadmap to relational bliss. We discuss the importance of community, counseling, and the crucial role of shared faith. Whether you're saying "I do" for the first time or adjusting to an empty nest, this episode is a treasure trove of advice for reinforcing your marital foundation. Plus, we don't shy away from the complex topics like Biblical intimacy and the art of forgiveness – these are the conversations that can redefine and strengthen the bonds of love.Our guests, armed with years of wisdom and a passion for family, unveil their keys to a fruitful partnership. Through tales of personal growth and the communal spirit of their marriage resources, including the "Vertical Marriage," we invite you on a journey to deepen your marital connection. So, join us in celebrating the shared commitment to love, learn, and laugh together through every challenge marriage may bring.Website: familylife.comBible: NLT - The One Year BibleFavorite App/Website: Logos Bible SoftwareAlabaster Beautiful individual Books of the Bible Support the showCheck out our website for more ways to fully connect to God's Word. There you'll find: Coffee and Bible Time Prayer Journals Coffee and Bible Time Courses Coffee and Bible Time Membership (weekly devotionals sent right to your inbox!) Find more great content on our YouTube channel: Coffee and Bible Time Our most popular video is “How I Study My Bible + In-Depth Bible Study!” with over 2M views! Follow us on InstagramVisit our Amazon ShopLearn more about the host Ellen KrauseEmail us at podcast@coffeeandbibletime.comThanks for listening to Coffee and Bible Time, where our goal is to help people delight in God's Word and thrive in Christian living!

How can you have a marriage with God at the center? Dave and Ann Wilson join Greg and Erin to share their story of how they found happiness in marriage. Plus, we'll hear from newlyweds Kennedy and Olivia Unthank about how they have formed a Christ centered marriage!   Get a copy of the book Vertical Marriage for a gift of any amount!   Learn more about your strengths and weaknesses as a couple by taking our free Marriage Assessment!   Need some help with your marriage? Contact our counseling team today!    We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

"Boo!" Is that all I hear? What about the cheer? Find out The Marriage Secret "Vertical Marriage" from Dave and Ann Wilson, hosts of FamilyLife.To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.lightsource.com/donate/1494/29 To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1493/29

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I've Lost My Feelings for You? Funny and candid Dave and Ann Wilson, hosts of FamilyLife, tell what saved their marriage.To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.lightsource.com/donate/1494/29 To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1493/29

Watch Real Christian Families from Parent Compass TV To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.lightsource.com/donate/1494/29

Tim Tucker interviews Scott and Catherine Mercer, Pittsburgh area FamilyLife directors, and Tom and Pam Jones.  Tom is a licensed Christian counselor and associate pastor, and Pam is a real estate agent in the Pittsburgh area.  How do two very different individuals handle conflict in their marriage?  The bad and the good ways of handling conflicts are discussed with the help of Dave and Ann Wilson's new book and video series entitled "Vertical Marriage", which helps us see God's way in how we should resolve inevitable conflicts in our marriage relationship.  Also mentioned is the importance of this fall's FamilyLIfe "Weekend To Remember" marriage getaway here in the Pittsburgh area, and how God can us it to bring couples to a oneness with God and with each other!  Please go to WeekendToRemember.com for more information and use the group name 'weekendtogether' to receive a great discount on the registration fee.  For added helpful information and resources, please go to FamilyLife.com.

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How you handle conflict can make or break any relationship, especially a marriage. Family coaches Dave and Ann Wilson offer a clear, biblical plan to help you engage in constructive conflict, to prevent resentment from damaging your marriage.     Receive the book Vertical Marriage and a free audio download of “Improve Your Marriage through Healthy Conflict” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.   If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

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Vertical Marriage One of the keys to success for just about any endeavor in life is setting proper priorities. Proper priorities are important for having a healthy marriage, bringing up healthy kids, and for managing a healthy family. Dave and Ann Wilson will be talking with us about proper priorities for keeping families upright amidst the chaos of a world that has gone sideways. It is what they call vertical marriage. Find the book here. Discussing Priorities with Dave and Ann Wilson Dave and Ann Wilson are speakers, authors, and co-founders of Kensington Church which is a national multicampus church based in the Detroit area. They are also hosts of the radio program Family Life Today. Dave and Ann have been married for more than 42 years and have spent the last 37 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They are featured speakers at Family Life's Weekend To Remember, and they also host their own marriage conferences across the county. Dave and Ann have three grown sons and a growing number of grandchildren. Episode Highlights: Why is a child-centric parenting paradigm not good for children? What is Vertical Marriage about? Where do our eyes go when they are not on Jesus? What is the first step to re-prioritizing your family dynamic? How can the unprioritized spouse confront the "offending" spouse on their priorities? Image from Canva

Vertical Marriage One of the keys to success for just about any endeavor in life is setting proper priorities. Proper priorities are important for having a healthy marriage, bringing up healthy kids, and for managing a healthy family. Dave and Ann Wilson will be talking with us about proper priorities for keeping families upright amidst the chaos of a world that has gone sideways. It is what they call vertical marriage. Find the book here. Discussing Priorities with Dave and Ann Wilson Dave and Ann Wilson are speakers, authors, and co-founders of Kensington Church which is a national multicampus church based in the Detroit area. They are also hosts of the radio program Family Life Today. Dave and Ann have been married for more than 42 years and have spent the last 37 teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. They are featured speakers at Family Life's Weekend To Remember, and they also host their own marriage conferences across the county. Dave and Ann have three grown sons and a growing number of grandchildren. Episode Highlights: Why is a child-centric parenting paradigm not good for children? What is Vertical Marriage about? Where do our eyes go when they are not on Jesus? What is the first step to re-prioritizing your family dynamic? How can the unprioritized spouse confront the "offending" spouse on their priorities? Image from Canva

Is resentment killing your marriage? Today on FamilyLife Today, hosts Dave and Ann Wilson discuss the corrosive cycle of bitterness and paybacks and how to deal. Show Notes and Resources Help your small group connect deeper with God and one another with Vertical Marriage with all new content from Dave and Ann Wilson and FamilyLife. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resou rces on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

Is your marriage moving towards oneness or isolation? On FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson discuss habits for a great marriage, and what to do when you're holding a grudge. Show Notes and Resources Help your small group connect deeper with God and one another with Vertical Marriage with all new content from Dave and Ann Wilson and FamilyLife. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. Find more content and resou rces on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network

The Perfect Parent As a parent, you are thrown a lot of scenarios and there is no way to prepare for every single one of them. You may know deep down that you're not the perfect parent. As much as you'd like to be and as much as you try. Your children's friends' parents seem to have it all together, but I want to share a little secret with you. There are no perfect parents. In this world, anyway. Discussing Parenting with Dave and Ann Wilson Dave and Ann Wilson are the hosts of the radio program Family Life Today. They are authors of Vertical Marriage and No Perfect Parents. Dave was chaplain for the Detroit Lions and together they have co-founded a large church in the Detroit area called Kensington Community Church. They've raised three sons and now are reaping the benefits and are now playing with their grandbabies. Episode Highlights: Who is the secret to successful parenting? What is the second part of the secret to successful parenting? What is your goal for your children? What is the danger of having “happiness” be your goal for your children? What is the difference between joy and happiness? What family “hierarchy” is expressed and shown to be good? Image from Canva

The Perfect Parent As a parent, you are thrown a lot of scenarios and there is no way to prepare for every single one of them. You may know deep down that you're not the perfect parent. As much as you'd like to be and as much as you try. Your children's friends' parents seem to have it all together, but I want to share a little secret with you. There are no perfect parents. In this world, anyway. Discussing Parenting with Dave and Ann Wilson Dave and Ann Wilson are the hosts of the radio program Family Life Today. They are authors of Vertical Marriage and No Perfect Parents. Dave was chaplain for the Detroit Lions and together they have co-founded a large church in the Detroit area called Kensington Community Church. They've raised three sons and now are reaping the benefits and are now playing with their grandbabies. Episode Highlights: Who is the secret to successful parenting? What is the second part of the secret to successful parenting? What is your goal for your children? What is the danger of having “happiness” be your goal for your children? What is the difference between joy and happiness? What family “hierarchy” is expressed and shown to be good? Image from Canva

Jason and Melina Tabor are the unofficial marriage counselors at Foothill Vineyard Church in San Dimas, California. They have been married for over 20 years and have four amazing children, and they share their wisdom in maintaining a healthy marriage while enduring the challenges of raising children, working, and life.Resources mentioned in this podcast includes:1. Vertical Marriage from Family Life2. The Marriage Course https://themarriagecourse.org/3. Art of Marriage from Family Life4. The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile5. Five Love Languages by Gary ChapmanE-mail: thechiangs4@gmail.com

Tim Tucker interviews Scott and Catherine Mercer, Pittsburgh area directors of FamilyLife, and Tom and Pam Jones.  Tom is an associate pastor and a licensed Christian counselor, and Pam is a real estate agent in the Pittsburgh area.  How do two very different individuals handle conflict in their marriage?  The bad and the good ways of handling conflicts are discussed with the help of Dave and Ann Wilson's new book and video series entitled "Vertical Marriage", which helps us see God's way in how we should resolve inevitable conflicts in our marriage relationship.  This fall' s "Weekend to Remember" marriage getaways would be a great way for couples to navigate through the struggles they may be facing!

One of the best pieces of advice I've ever been given, that I want to give to you, is to ask people for feedback about y our own blind spots. And this plays into every domain of life, from finances to personal growth, and especially to relationships. And that's exactly the target we're going to hit today: the top relationship mistakes we make that we don't know we're making. Dave and Ann Wilson join us today. In addition to being my pastors and leaders, they're the bestselling authors of Vertical Marriage and the hosts of the nationally syndicated radio program, Family Life Today. This is their space, and to be honest, I don't think anyone talks about it like they do. If you enjoyed this episode with Dave and Ann, I'm sure you'll also enjoy: 222: Lysa TerKeurst on Forgiving What You Can't Forget 230: Rejection in Relationships, Sexual Shame, and Why You Shouldn't Kiss Dating Goodbye (feat. Kait Warman) Episode Links: Dave and Ann's Website | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Buy a copy of the book on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

He never saw it coming. It was the night of Dave and Ann's tenth wedding anniversary and if asked how their marriage was doing, Dave would have given them a 9.8 /10. But instead of a celebratory kiss, Ann whispered, "I don't have any feelings left for you.” In this episode, Juli talks with Dave and Ann Wilson about how Ann's efforts to "help" her husband only served to undermine the very connection she was trying to create. Guests: Dave & Ann Wilson, Hannah Nitz Show notes: "Vertical Marriage" by Dave & Ann Wilson* "Finding the Hero in Your Husband, Revisited" Juli's new book* Love Like You Mean It Cruise 2022 Leave us a rating & review on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify or in your podcast app. Follow Authentic Intimacy on: Instagram: @authenticintimacy Facebook: @authenticintimacy Follow Juli on Twitter @DrJuliSlattery   *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fees from qualifying purchases.

Is there a right way to fight? In this episode, we discuss four different ways that couples tend to handle conflict from the book Vertical Marriage by Dave & Ann Wilson. "Win. A winner is usually good at conflict. Winners actually like conflict and are skilled at winning the argument. They bring eyewitness accounts and evidence, complete with full-color pictures, proving they are right." "Yield. A yielder will "give in" to bring harmony to the relationship. Yielders believe that the marriage is more important than this one, isolated conflict, so they yield to bring peace back to the marriage." "Withdraw. A withdrawer hates conflict. Withdrawers will do whatever it takes to stay away from conflict. If they can leave the room, consider them gone. But if leaving is not possible, they will shut down emotionally instead. It is very difficult to even engage in conflict. "Resolve. A resolver will do whatever it takes to arrive at a resolution. Resolvers can't stand to live life without their conflicts being resolved. It takes a lot of work, but they will roll up their sleeves and get it done in whatever way possible." Which one do you think you are? Now, what about your spouse? Is your natural tendency in handling conflict helping or hurting your relationship? We challenge you to evaluate this and write down healthy ways you can handle your next conflict. Then DO those things. Now that you are armed with the information, you are not accountable for the information. Who you naturally are is not an excuse for behavior, but an opportunity to grow. We would love for you to follow our Podcast and our social media. Click Below... https://linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit -Social Media unrelentingpursuitofmarriage@gmail.com - Email Us --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unrelentingpursuit/message

We create habits for almost everything we do in life, including how we speak to people. On today's program, Dave and Ann Wilson encourage us to create a habit of speaking life within our homes and realizing the impact it can have on those we love. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Vertical Marriage small group study https://www.familylife.com/verticalmarriagestudy Get Vertical Marriage, the book: https://shop.familylife.com/p-5493-vertical-marriage.aspx Send us your prayer requests https://www.familylife.com/prayer-requests/ Download FamilyLife's new app! https://www.familylife.com/app/ Find resources from this podcast at https://shop.familylife.com/Products.aspx?categoryid=130. Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

Our tongues have so much power to build up or tear down. Dave and Ann Wilson remind us that one of the most important things in a marriage is choosing to speak life to our spouses. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about the Vertical Marriage small group study https://www.familylife.com/verticalmarriagestudy Get Vertical Marriage, the book: https://shop.familylife.com/p-5493-vertical-marriage.aspx Download FamilyLife's new app! https://www.familylife.com/app/ Find resources from this podcast at https://shop.familylife.com/Products.aspx?categoryid=130. Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

One of the best pieces of advice I've ever been given, that I want to give to you, is to ask people for feedback about y our own blind spots. And this plays into every domain of life, from finances to personal growth, and especially to relationships. And that's exactly the target we're going to hit today: the top relationship mistakes we make that we don't know we're making. Dave and Ann Wilson join us today. In addition to being my pastors and leaders, they're the bestselling authors of Vertical Marriage and the hosts of the nationally syndicated radio program, Family Life Today. This is their space, and to be honest, I don't think anyone talks about it like they do. If you enjoyed this episode with Dave and Ann, I'm sure you'll also enjoy: 222: Lysa TerKeurst on Forgiving What You Can’t Forget 230: Rejection in Relationships, Sexual Shame, and Why You Shouldn’t Kiss Dating Goodbye (feat. Kait Warman) Episode Links: Dave and Ann's Website | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Buy a copy of the book on Amazon! Subscribe to #WinTodayShow on YouTube. Join the conversation wherever hashtags are welcome using #WinTodayShow.

Dave Wilson was the Detroit Lions team chaplain for 33 seasons. He and his wife Ann co-founded Kensington Community Church and now co-host the nationally syndicated radio show FamilyLife Today.  Their first book "Vertical Marriage" released in 2019. Today on the podcast, we talk to them about their latest release, "No Perfect Parents" as they share fun and relevant stories on football, faith, pastoring, marriage and parenting.  --- If you enjoyed this podcast with Dave and Ann, we know you'll love these conversations as well: - Dave and Ann Wilson on marriage from 2019 - Dan Orlovsky, ESPN NFL Analyst  For more stories on sports and faith, check out our website SportsSpectrum.com   

Tim Tucker interviews Scott and Catherine Mercer, Pittsburgh area directors of FamilyLife, and Tom and Pam Jones.  Tom is an associate pastor and licensed Christian counselor, and Pam is real estate agent in the Pittsburgh area.  How do two very different individuals handle conflict in their marriage?  The bad and the good ways of handling conflicts are discussed with the help of Dave and Ann Wilson's new book and video series entitled "Vertical Marriage", which helps us see God's way in how we should resolve inevitable conflicts in our marriage relationship.   This fall's "Weekend to Remember" getaways would be a great way for couples to navigate through the struggles they may be facing.

“The pandemic has shown people where they are in their marriages.”  This month on we focus on leadership, and Keith Tully of FamilyLife is here to talk about how The Noble Man Leads His Wife. After years of struggle in his own marriage, it was at a Weekend to Remember Conference that “God came down and raised us from the dead . . . (He) gave us a love we didn't know was possible.”  Keith and his wife Trish now serve as missionaries for FamilyLife where they help train and empower others to walk out their faith in the context of marriage and family.   “You are an image-bearer of God – a holy calling as you lead and love well. Together you can bear the fullness of his image. It's in that oneness that we can share who He is.”  Keith walks us through some answers to questions like:  What does it look like for a man to lead his wife?   What changed in your life and marriage when you better understood how to lead your wife?   What does leading your wife look like in different seasons of life?  “Love your wife, pursue Jesus, entrust her to him, keep praying for her. God will bring the breakthrough.”  Resources:  The Noble Man Conference Workshop – The Lazarus Marriage by Keith Tully  Virginia November 2020 Art of Marriage Events – Register in advance for in-person and live-streaming events.  Love Like You Mean It by Bob Lepine  Leading in Prayer:  Oneness Prayer Challenge – A tool for leading couples through 30 days of praying with your spouse   Vertical Marriage – 30 days of short simple prayers to help focus your marriage on Christ   Online Course/Studies: Art of Marriage – Resolving Conflict in Your Marriage -  Mini-Course  Art of Parenting  Free online devotionals and resources from Family Life  And I looked and arose and said to the nobles and to the officials and to the rest of the people, “Do not be afraid of them. Remember the Lord, who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and your homes.” Nehemiah 4:14  Tune in next week for Episode 35, The Noble Man Leads His Family.   View Show Notes: NobleWarriors.org/Episode34 Leave a Review: If you like what you've been hearing, we invite you to leave us a review. Tell us what you love about this episode!  More Resources and Encouragement: NobleWarriors.org  © Copyright 2020 All rights reserved  

Jeff and Terra get the honor of interviewing long-time pastors and leaders, Dave & Ann Wilson. After 40 years of marriage and ministry, raising three boys, Dave & Ann are the Family Life Today radio hosts and founders of Kensington Church, a national, multicampus church that hosts more than 14,000 visitor. The authors of Vertical Marriage, they are the creative force behind the DVD teaching series Rock Your Marriage and The Survival Guide to Parenting. We had a powerful conversation in part 1, as Dave & Ann share the realities of marriage, ministry, and raising boys. Having a healthy marriage as a leader is not easy. Listen to this candid and refreshing conversation that only seasoned leaders can offer. Tune into Family Life Today radio or podcast to hear more from Dave & Ann Wilson. Go to familylife.com to find the station and times near you. You can also follow the Wilsons at @daveannwilson on IG and Vertical marriage anywhere you buy books. Make sure you share this episode and subscribe to the LW podcast. Join us in the movement to become wholehearted leaders in our homes, work and communities. Pre-order your copy of the Mattson’s new book, Shrinking the Integrity Gap: Between What Leaders Preach & Live and get the AUDIOBOOK FOR FREE! Find more details at www.livingwholeharted.com.

Tim Tucker interviews Scott and Catherine Mercer, Pittsburgh area directors of FamilyLife, and Tom and Pam Jones. Tom is an associate pastor and licensed Christian counselor, and Pam is a real estate agent in the Pittsburgh area. How do two very different individuals handle conflict in their marriage? The bad and the good ways of handling conflicts are discussed along with the help of Dave and Ann Wilson's new book and video series entitled "Vertical Marriage", which helps us see God's way in how we should resolve inevitable conflicts in our marriage relationship. This fall's "Weekend to Remember" getaways would be a great way for couples to navigate through the struggles they may be facing.

Tim Tucker interviews Scott and Catherine Mercer, Pittsburgh area directors of FamilyLife, and Tom and Pam Jones. Tom is an associate pastor and licensed Christian counselor, and Pam is a real estate agent in the Pittsburgh area. How do two very different individuals handle conflict in their marriage? The bad and the good ways of handling conflicts is discussed with the help of Dave and Ann Wilson's new book and video series entitled "Vertical Marriage", which helps us see God's way in how we should resolve inevitable conflicts in our marriage relationship. This fall's "Weekend to Remember" getaways would be a great way for couples to navigate through the struggles they may be facing.

After dating only five months, and finding out they were expecting, Tim and Kathy Bush got married. They admit they had more lows than highs over the first 27 years of marriage. When Tim's brother was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer, and his nephew committed suicide, Tim's life began to spiral downward. It wasn't until a friend encouraged him to read the Bible each night with Kathy, and to abstain from alcohol, that their marriage started to take an upward turn. Hear them tell how they went from being self-focused to experiencing a Christ-focused marriage. Show Notes and Resources Join the Vertical Marriage Facebook group with Dave and Ann Wilson at https://www.familylife.com/vertical-marriage-fb-group/ Art of Marriage, Stepping Up and Vertical Marriage studies are online at https://www.familylife.com/study. Find resources from this podcast at https://shop.familylife.com/Products.aspx?categoryid=95. Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/ Have the FamilyLife Today® podcast and resources helped you?  Consider becoming a Legacy Partner, a monthly supporter of FamilyLife. https://www.familylife.com/legacy

Dave and Ann Wilson, parents of three grown children, want couples to know that when they draw closer to God, they will become closer to their spouses emotionally and sexually. Ann, who has led a bible study for the wives of the Detroit Lions for 30+ years, remembers one time when she encouraged a wife to surprise her husband on their anniversary by treating herself to some new lingerie. The wife later revealed that it was the best night of their relationship. The Wilsons tell how past sexual experiences can affect a husband's or wife's current sex life. Show Notes and Resources Join the Vertical Marriage Facebook group. https://www.familylife.com/vertical-marriage-fb-group/ Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/ Have the FamilyLife Today® podcast and resources helped you?  Consider becoming a Legacy Partner, a monthly supporter of FamilyLife. https://www.familylife.com/legacy

Pastor Dave Wilson and his wife, Ann, talk with Dennis and Barbara Rainey about marital conflict. The Wilsons admit that they had a lot to learn about conflict when they got married. Ann's family background included loud fights, which was a far contrast from Dave's, who learned at an early age not to rock the boat. Together they share what they've learned over the years about the finer points of conflict. Show Notes and Resources Join the Vertical Marriage Facebook group. https://www.familylife.com/vertical-marriage-fb-group/ Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/ Have the FamilyLife Today® podcast and resources helped you?  Consider becoming a Legacy Partner, a monthly supporter of FamilyLife. https://www.familylife.com/legacy

Dave and Ann Wilson, authors of the book "Vertical Marriage," look back on a turning point in their marriage. At the time, they had two children, Dave was starting a church, and he served as a chaplain for the Detroit Lions. Ministry demands occupied much of his time, and Ann was feeling the strain of his absence. Dave takes us back to his big wake up call, and together they share what they did to get their marriage back on track. Show Notes and Resources Join the Vertical Marriage Facebook group. https://www.familylife.com/vertical-marriage-fb-group/ Check out all that's available on the FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/ Have the FamilyLife Today® podcast and resources helped you?  Consider becoming a Legacy Partner, a monthly supporter of FamilyLife. https://www.familylife.com/legacy

​If you asked your spouse to rate your marriage from 1-10, what would he or she say? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Dave asked his wife Ann that question. Her response was, "I've lost my feelings for you." Hear what happened to them and the secret they learned that might turn your marriage around. Don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Vertical Marriage

Brett Ray interviews, Dave Wilson, host of the popular national radio show, Family Life Today, Pastor and Founder of Kensington Community Church, Chaplain of the Detriot Lions for 33 seasons, and Beatles Fan Extrodinaire. Brett knows Dave and Ann Wilson's ministry has impacted millions of lives over the years. So, he asks Dave this intriguing question, "What is the number one thing we can do today to have a healthier marriage? Dave's life-changing, solid answer is... Well, tune in and check it out. Dave and Ann Wilson's new book "Vertical Marriage" has got Christian marriage experts buzzing. Grab your copy today at VerticalMarriage.com Find more Tips at BrettRay.com Support the show (https://brettray.com/impact/)

In this episode, Adam has the chance to talk about the connection between marriage and outreach with Dave and Ann Wilson. Dave and Ann are co-founders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend, and authors of Vertical Marriage. For the past twenty-five years, they have been featured speakers at Family Life's Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.

Understanding the long-term effects of divorce and remarriage on kids is difficult. A good way to start is to ask an adult who experienced life in a blended family. Ron talks with "FamilyLife Today" host Dave Wilson about his childhood blended family experience. Show Notes and Resources To learn more about Dave and Ann Wilson, their ministry, and their new book Vertical Marriage check out their website. Learn more and register for Blended & Blessed®, the only livestream event for couples in stepfamilies. Feeling caught in the blender's swirl? Life in a Blender will help you learn how to handle the “Big Five” challenges—loss, sadness, fear, guilt, and confusion—and dilemmas kids in blended families often experience.

Parenting expert Dr. Jim Burns, along with husband-and-wife ministry team Dave and Ann Wilson teach us about caring for our loved ones through all seasons of life. As a father to three grown daughters, Jim has been through every stage of parenting. But when his daughters reached their adult years, Jim and his wife Cathy realized their parenting style needed to evolve with their changing relationship with their children. Jim took what he learned through the experience and shared it through his latest book, Doing Life with Your Adult Children. In 1990, Dave Wilson was traveling with the Detroit Lions as their chaplain. And when he was home, he and his wife Ann were building their young family and a new church, Though Dave and Ann seemed to be living the life of their dreams, on their 10th anniversary, Ann made a revelation that put their marriage into a spin and would forever change their relationship.   Links, Products and Resources Mentioned: HomeWord Jim Burns’ Doing Life with Your Adult Children book  Dave and Ann Wilson:  daveandannwilson.com Kensington Church Dave and Ann Willson’s Vertical Marriage book   Interview Quotes: “I heal broken hearts . . . and broken relationships.” –Jesus Calling “The book is called Doing Life With Your Adult Children. We say ‘Keep your mouth shut, keep the welcome mat out.’” - Dr. Jim Burns “The bottom line in parenting—they could be a five-year-old or an adult—is not that you raise obedient children, but that you raise responsible adults.” - Dr. Jim Burns “When kids stray, whether it be lifestyle choice or whether it be faith issues, I think what we do is we still stand by them, and we have to understand where they're coming from.” - Dr. Jim Burns “I think Jesus had some disagreements with people. No doubt He said it. He was verbal about it, but then He still showed love to people that within His generation—you know, tax collectors—shouldn't have been at the party. The prostitutes shouldn't have been wiping her tears on His feet because that was not happening with the rabbis. But 2hat Jesus did was He didn't tend to agree with how they lived their life, but He did show love and acceptance.” - Dr. Jim Burns “Tough love says that you surround [your children] with love, and while you surround them with love, you don't bail them out. And you don't dump your anger and frustration on them.” - Dr. Jim Burns “You're overwhelmed by the evidence that says this really did happen and Jesus died for me, forgave me, rose from the dead to give me a new life and power.” - Dave Wilson “I want to use what God's done in our lives to reach other people.” - Dave Wilson “Dave was fulfilling this dream and this call—I felt like we were both called, but as a mom, I kind of felt left in the dust.” - Ann Wilson "God, I have made my marriage and my husband an idol, and I put you back on the throne of my life...I confess that I haven't put you first. And I put you first now and make our marriage and our family what you want it to be." Ann Wilson “We kind of put some things in place that could help us restore our marriage, my feelings, our relationship.” - Ann Wilson “In time, my feelings for [Dave] came all the way back to a 10, and I feel like that was only because of God's mercy and grace, but also putting it into practice my walk with God [and] really fighting for it and making it a priority.” - Ann Wilson “You didn't marry the wrong person, you're looking in the wrong place. Only God can give you what you’re really looking for.” - Dave Wilson  Connect with Jesus Calling Instagram Facebook Twitter Pinterest Jesus Calling Website

"Sharing the secrets to a happy marriage!" Dave and Ann Wilson join us on our show today and we talk about the nitty-gritty of marriage! We're going to go THERE. Let's have a real conversation about how we fight for a godly marriage, the way God intended it to be! Dave and Ann Wilson are co-founders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend, and authors of Vertical Marriage. For the past twenty-five years, they have been featured speakers at Family Life's Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.

This week we are looking at the topic of physical intimacy through the lens of what scripture has to say about it in the Bible (Yes Physical intimacy is talked about in the Bible. Who knew? Did you?). It shouldn’t be a secret at all, or taboo, to acknowledge that physical intimacy is an integral part of any marriage. web: www.daveandannwilson.com facebook: www.facebook.com/daveannwilson amazon: amzn.to/2MXKK4V

At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We believe it is possible to have a thriving marriage which is why we are launching our five-week study, Vertical Marriage, on February 10th. Join us as we hear practical advice from from Ann and Dave Wilson who inspire listeners with their insights, honesty, and humor.

This week we are looking at the topic of physical intimacy through the lens of what scripture has to say about it in the Bible (Yes Physical intimacy is talked about in the Bible. Who knew? Did you?). It shouldn’t be a secret at all, or taboo, to acknowledge that physical intimacy is an integral part of any marriage. web: www.daveandannwilson.com facebook: www.facebook.com/daveannwilson amazon: https://amzn.to/2MXKK4V

At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We believe it is possible to have a thriving marriage which is why we are launching our five-week study, Vertical Marriage, on February 10th. Join us as we hear practical advice from from Ann and Dave Wilson who inspire listeners with their insights, honesty, and humor.

Discussion Guide: kensingtonchurch.page.link/VerticalStudy If you're married, at some point, you've probably had some troubling questions about your relationship: Can I really do this? Did we make a terrible mistake? Why are my feelings changing? If you’re currently single, you've probably considered the relationships around you in preparation for your own future -- some you want to emulate and others you definitely don't... At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We want you to have a thriving marriage and we believe it is possible. Join us for our five-week series, Vertical Marriage, as we hear practical advice from Dave and Ann Wilson. web: www.daveandannwilson.com facebook: www.facebook.com/daveannwilson amazon: amzn.to/2MXKK4V ---- Join Kensington church here: kensingtonchurch.org Follow us on Facebook at: www.facebook.com/kensingtonchurch Catch us on Twitter: www.twitter.kensingtoncc

At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We believe it is possible to have a thriving marriage which is why we are launching our five-week study, Vertical Marriage, on February 10th. Join us as we hear practical advice from from Ann and Dave Wilson who inspire listeners with their insights, honesty, and humor.

Discussion Guide: kensingtonchurch.page.link/VerticalStudy If you're married, at some point, you've probably had some troubling questions about your relationship: Can I really do this? Did we make a terrible mistake? Why are my feelings changing? If you’re currently single, you've probably considered the relationships around you in preparation for your own future -- some you want to emulate and others you definitely don't... At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We want you to have a thriving marriage and we believe it is possible. Join us for our five-week series, Vertical Marriage, as we hear practical advice from Dave and Ann Wilson. web: www.daveandannwilson.com facebook: www.facebook.com/daveannwilson amazon: amzn.to/2MXKK4V ---- Join Kensington church here: kensingtonchurch.org Follow us on Facebook at: www.facebook.com/kensingtonchurch Catch us on Twitter: www.twitter.kensingtoncc

Discussion Guide: https://kensingtonchurch.page.link/VerticalStudy If you're married, at some point, you've probably had some troubling questions about your relationship: Can I really do this? Did we make a terrible mistake? Why are my feelings changing? If you’re currently single, you've probably considered the relationships around you in preparation for your own future -- some you want to emulate and others you definitely don't... At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We want you to have a thriving marriage and we believe it is possible. Join us for our five-week series, Vertical Marriage, as we hear practical advice from Dave and Ann Wilson. web: www.daveandannwilson.com facebook: www.facebook.com/daveannwilson amazon: https://amzn.to/2MXKK4V ---- Join Kensington church here: http://kensingtonchurch.org Follow us on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/kensingtonchurch Catch us on Twitter: http://www.twitter.kensingtoncc

At Kensington, we believe in marriage. After all, it was designed by God Himself. We believe it is possible to have a thriving marriage which is why we are launching our five-week study, Vertical Marriage, on February 10th. Join us as we hear practical advice from from Ann and Dave Wilson who inspire listeners with their insights, honesty, and humor.

Last week, authors of the best-selling book, “Vertical Marriage,” Dave and Ann Wilson joined me for part one of this two-part series all about how to build a marriage that lasts—how to build a vertical marriage. Their mission is to share a secret with people that will completely revolutionize both their personal life and their marriage. In fact, one of the takeaway statements they made last week was this: "The issue isn’t that you married the wrong person. The issue is that you’re looking in the wrong place for fulfillment.” And conflict is exactly where we’re picking-up the conversation today. Dave and Ann didn’t always handle conflict effectively, especially early-on in their marriage. But as they matured as a couple, things began to change in a great way. That’s why, today, you’re going to hear their strategies for healthy conflict through the lens of their own life experience. We’re also going to dive into why a woman must be pursued, even after “I do” and men…how to do just that. We’ll also discuss why too many couples love each other but miss actually knowing each other. And then…we’re talking all about how to pour rocket fuel on your romance and how to plan a hot date night. Buckle-up, friends. Buy the Book He never saw it coming. It was the night of Dave and Ann’s tenth wedding anniversary and if asked how their marriage was doing, Dave would have said a 9.8 out of 10 and he even guaranteed Ann would say the same. But instead of giving a celebratory kiss, Ann whispered, “I’ve lost my feelings for you.” Divorce seemed inevitable. But starting that night, God began to reveal to Dave and Ann the most overlooked secret of getting the marriage we are looking for: the horizontal marriage relationship just doesn’t work until the vertical relationship with Christ is first. As founders of a multi-campus church and marriage coaches with 30 years of experience, Dave and Ann share the hard-earned but easy-to-apply biblical principles that ensure a strong marriage. Written in a funny and highly relatable dialogue between both husband and wife, Vertical Marriage will guide you toward building a vibrant relationship at every level including communication, conflict, intimacy, and romance—though Dave is still figuring that last one out. Through their unique perspectives, they share an intimate, sometimes hilarious and at times deeply poignant narrative of one couple’s journey to reconnecting with God and discovering the joy and power of a vertical marriage. For anyone who is married, preparing for marriage, or desperate to save a relationship teetering on the edge of disaster, Dave and Ann offer hope and strategies that really work. Vertical Marriage will give you the insight, applications, and inspiration to reconnect with God together and to transform your marriage to everything you hoped it would be. Buy Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That Will Change Your Marriage now. Review “Win Today” Click here to read the ratings, or even better, please leave me a rating and review on iTunes. Your rating will help the podcast get noticed and positioned on iTunes. What Listeners Are Saying… “So great to find a podcast that is both encouraging and challenging! It is professionally produced, yet still has an informal feel like I’m hanging out with Chris… And frankly, I’d love to hang out with him! I really appreciate his heart and have been able to apply many of his topics in my life to help me grow professionally, physically, and relationally. A+!"

Many of you listening right now may be thinking, my relationship needs hope, my marriage needs hope; real, lasting hope. Well that’s what today is all about. You see, you can read every relationship book on the shelf, attend every marriage conference in the country, and even do all the right things, but you might get the wrong result and find your relationship on the brink of collapse. That was the case for our guests today. Dave and Ann Wilson are co-founders of Kensington Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every single weekend. For the past twenty-five years, they have been featured speakers at Family Life’s Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. Their mission is to share a secret with people that will completely revolutionize both their personal life and their marriage in a way no amount of human wit or wisdom can even begin to offer. Currently, they live in the Detroit area, where Dave served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. But their present-day story of a successful marriage was birthed on one night that was anything but successful: the night of their 10th wedding anniversary. With one short statement from Ann, the tables seemed to have turned. Divorce seemed inevitable. But starting that night, God began to reveal to Dave and Ann the most overlooked secret of experiencing the quality of marriage we all are looking for. And that’s exactly what you’re going to learn right now. Buy the Book He never saw it coming. It was the night of Dave and Ann’s tenth wedding anniversary and if asked how their marriage was doing, Dave would have said a 9.8 out of 10 and he even guaranteed Ann would say the same. But instead of giving a celebratory kiss, Ann whispered, “I’ve lost my feelings for you.” Divorce seemed inevitable. But starting that night, God began to reveal to Dave and Ann the most overlooked secret of getting the marriage we are looking for: the horizontal marriage relationship just doesn’t work until the vertical relationship with Christ is first. As founders of a multi-campus church and marriage coaches with 30 years of experience, Dave and Ann share the hard-earned but easy-to-apply biblical principles that ensure a strong marriage. Written in a funny and highly relatable dialogue between both husband and wife, Vertical Marriage will guide you toward building a vibrant relationship at every level including communication, conflict, intimacy, and romance—though Dave is still figuring that last one out. Through their unique perspectives, they share an intimate, sometimes hilarious and at times deeply poignant narrative of one couple’s journey to reconnecting with God and discovering the joy and power of a vertical marriage. For anyone who is married, preparing for marriage, or desperate to save a relationship teetering on the edge of disaster, Dave and Ann offer hope and strategies that really work. Vertical Marriage will give you the insight, applications, and inspiration to reconnect with God together and to transform your marriage to everything you hoped it would be. Buy Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That Will Change Your Marriage now. Review “Win Today” Click here to read the ratings, or even better, please leave me a rating and review on iTunes. Your rating will help the podcast get noticed and positioned on iTunes. What Listeners Are Saying… “So great to find a podcast that is both encouraging and challenging! It is professionally produced, yet still has an informal feel like I’m hanging out with Chris… And frankly, I’d love to hang out with him! I really appreciate his heart and have been able to apply many of his topics in my life to help me grow professionally, physically, and relationally. A+!"

Episode 234 Dave and Ann Wilson are the author of the new book "Vertical Marriage." They are also the co-founders and teaching pastors at Kensington Community Church, a national, multi-campus church that hosts more than 14,000 attendees every weekend. For the past twenty-five years, they have been featured speakers at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country. They live in the Detroit area, where Dave served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. On this episode of the podcast, we talk with Dave and Ann about becoming the chaplain of an NFL team in their late 20's, ministering to professional football players and their wives, and then we dive into marriage and their new book "Vertical Marriage" why complacency in marriage is a dangerous place for a couple, conflict resolution and ultimately why it is vital to pursue Christ before you pursue each other. Great stuff here on marriage. For more, log on to http://SportsSpectrum.com